I’ve learned so much about pickup on internet - only thing that i can’t understand is „try not to be needy” and then „be honest with her” here’s the thing - i like cuddling, i like texing for hours, i like waiting for her answer to see what she thinks, i like being touchy feely with girl, but they take it as being needy and clingy. I dont like the idea that i need to restrain myself to create illusion that „im too cool for that” my gut tells me to do it cause it feels good, and as soon as i do, girls run away (my experience so far)

Should i just act a bit needy and text a girl when i want to (even if its too much and im spamming her ?) and wait for a girl that acts like a human and is not repelled by another human being trying to compensate all those years of loneliness?

Or should i listen to all those ebooks out there and force myself to pretending im cooler than that ? I feel like its not right to do that, i quickly become awkward and too much in my head. Halp reddit.