boys... ALL of this shit comes naturally when you lead a life that you enjoy, is busy, and fulfilling. thats the point of this shit, to share your amazing life with somebody else and for them to share it with you. stop trying to shortcut shit by just ignoring texts or playing little mind games. First, thats lying and manipulative. BUT the reality is, the people that actually works on and notice, aint leading a life you want a part of and if your doing that shit on purpose, you aint leading a life worth sharing. get your ducks in a row, do shit you love, and stay fucking busy. and you wont have to "ignore" her texts, act disinterested, or play games because you don't actually value yourself. you won't fucking notice her texts, you will act the perfect amount of interested naturally, and you will value yourself enough to not play the game. this happens when you get your shit together and fix yo shit and love what you do.