Throughout everything that i have read in this subreddit, i forgot the most important rule: to have fun! Maybe it's only me, but i got way too caught in Theoryland. I mean in no way to discredit the information here, it's great. I just forgot that when i go to a party, I'm supposed to be having fun and not having to second guess everything i say or do. Has anybody else felt like this?

Edit: This hit me today as i was celebrating new years with the rest of my city. Seduction/Pickup were the last things on my mind but i ended up getting multiple numbers and offers to hang out on a later date. All i did was make sure that i was having fun. Felt great!