I mess up at texting

Kenic_In_MD · 2020-02-03T15:09:32+00:00

Using text to set up a date then leave it alone from there works best for me. Texting is a hangup of mine as well. Try calling her instead, it's different, exciting and unexpected.

Plus if she's really into you she will make time for you and your texting skills won't matter.

smoothmax · 2020-02-03T15:39:02+00:00

With practice you can become more witty and entertaining. It helps to check out online "text game guides" because they have examples of banter they use to give a girl an initial spark of humor and sexual interest, and how to re-spark a dialog if it gets dry or dies out. There are some free and paid ebooks and videos explaining techniques with real examples.

A lol technique ... Chen University had this example where he and the girl get into a boring job-interview type dialog. She asks him what he enjoys doing and he replies something like:

"I'm really passionate about travelling for my job .I like working out every day, I enjoy giving oral sex a lot, and I'm very passionate about my friends."

She was like ... long pause ... finally something like ...

"Wow."

"You're very honest."

anto2554 · 2020-02-03T15:10:20+00:00

I found it works the best to treat them like a friend, sprinkled with the occasional compliment. Use emojis if they do. Use abbreviations if they do. That was what seemed to make the difference to me, but I'm in no way an expert

blizzard_youaintme · 2020-02-03T19:54:05+00:00

General rules of thumb. Take 1.5 times as long as her to respond, don't be needy and hurriedly respond to her messages. You want to come across as a person of value who has options. If she takes a day to respond, you take 1.5 days to respond, if this is too long in your mind, find another lead so you have more options.

Make joking assumptions or accusations if you want a conversation, they have to be related to what you know about the person i.e. if its a party girl you know that hits the gym "hey trouble, on the way to the gym or nursing that hangover", thats not great but still better than "hi babe, how u!?!?! 👉👌👅👅👅💦💦💦"

NO EMOJIS. As a general rule, however the occasional winky face can help with being cheeky or heating her up, but saying that, you cant fuck a phone number so get her out.

ZeusThunderBeast · 2020-02-03T18:09:30+00:00

I have reduced my texting to checking for availability and depending on that outcome, setting up to meet and following up on the day. With that said, I’ve learned that texting gets boring fast if the two people aren’t actively going out of their way to invest in the relationship or reply to a text convo. And thats fine, we do have our own things going on and I feel like it maintains some mystery for both of you.

TheHalfMonty · 2020-02-03T15:48:44+00:00

I text like I have a lot of interesting things going on and I reply when I can. I take my time.

blizzard_youaintme · 2020-02-04T08:39:46+00:00

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Ice666White · 2020-02-04T09:32:34+00:00

Everything you need to know is already at https://www.facebook.com/groups/MessageGame/

Title	I mess up at texting
Author	Hamadryaden
Upvotes	9
Comments	15
Date	February 3, 2020 3:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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