Recently hit it with a HB9 who was in "the friend zone." We have been hanging out for about 7 months now and I finally hooked up with her friday.

She was never on my radar really or anything.. no oneitis. We had a solid platonic relationship. She lives down the street, is best friends with my ex, and hangs out with my friend group a lot. Since we live close by we talk a lot and share a lot of life advice. Spend a lot of off-nights watching movies and bullshitting, she also parties with my group a lot. (in college)

I always act alpha as fuck around her and recently I've taken on a new more assertive attitude. She knows I don't give a fuck and frequently sees me going after other girls. Hell, sometimes she wings for me. I always treat her as a friend first and a lady second. Hell sometimes I straight up ignore her gender and treat her like a dude.

Anyways we've been hanging out a lot recently and after she had a break up about a month ago I felt some weird tension.. So Friday after a drink or so I decided to go in for a kiss. She told me it felt weird, and I just said: "yeah, it might but I know you actually don't care," and we kept going. Amazing hook up.

Anyways it was successful, and the next day I talked to her saying "its only awkward if we make it awkward.. no regrets.." etc etc.. she basically said the same thing, then we made out.

Its looking bright but its a whole new game now. Definitely a complex situation but moral is: Fuck status quo you CAN alter it. Game and self improvement are not always about starting from scratch.

edit: this would be pretty taboo in our friend group.. we aren't telling anyone.