M31 So this is my first FR. I have been reading seddit material, attempting to make great strides to be a Value giving individual and better myself as a person. I broke up with my on/off again GF a week and a half ago, she moved back to her home state, after the last breakup in August is when I stumbled upon seddit and started to learn and really apply the techniques. I digress.

I took it upon myself to smile and say hello to every person I passed by at work on Thursday, start conversation with anyone just to keep my spirits up due to the breakup and trying to keep moving forward. One guy seemed a little taken aback by it and for some reason this made me giddy as all hell to know I was in such great spirits. I had a trouble ticket to work on (I do IT work) and called the user, and went to her office to fix the issue. As I was in such a good mood I figured WTF, I commented on her flats said "those are cute, where'd you get them?" She seemed really pleased I had noticed her shoes outfit etc, I talked to her about what stores I liked to shop at (thank you male fashion advice) and we chit chatted for a few minutes. I got back to my office and hit her up on the messenger, continuing our convo through IM for a bit. I ended up having another ticket in that same building and again figured WTF and decided that if I was going over there I was going to ask this girl out just because I could. (you miss 100% of the shots you dont take) She agreed with a smile and gave me her #, we texted back n forth a bit for the next day or so and I set up a date for tonight, saturday, for sushi. I keep telling myself, whatever hapens doesnt matter, I am here to talk to her, be myself, be happy and enjoy just being awesome. The sushi place isn't open yet and so I suggest we get a drink.....Turns out this girl is gasp 19!!She asks how old I am, I reply with standard "I'm 98 but I work out to stay young" She asks again so I make her guess, she gets 31 after a few trys (I really do look alot younger I get 25 all the time). I figure this thing is shot to hell due to age difference, apparently not. I pull the tailgate of my truck down and we proceed to talk about, I keep the mood light throw in some jokes, start light kino to emphasise points. Then proceed into sushi joint.

We have a good dinner, I made sure we sat at the suhi bar and not a table so I could be next to her and keep up the kino, our legs touch and I just keep it there. I continue to emphasise my points and touch her lightly on the shoulder, back, arm etc. She tells me abou ther UNI studies, shes a double major in chemistry and spanish. I make a few statements and speak very low seeing if she will comply and lean in to hear what I have to say, and she does so more than willingly. I knew when I started this date that I was going to attempt to location bounce, after dinner is done I ask if she wants to see a couple of houses I was looking to rent. She agrees, we get to the parking lot and asks if she should keep her car at the restaurant, I tell her it's better that she leaves it at my apt, since its on her way home anyway and then we dont have to return to the restaurant, also giving me an easy "hey you want to come inside for a bit" when we are done.

We drop off her car, she gets in my truck and we proceed to the first house. I keep up the convo, even mentioned the whole smileing and saying hello thing just to see how people react, she seems interested even goes so far as to say she really liked how BOLD I was to comment on her outfit and ask her out, she talked about some other guys in her office that got introduced to her as new hires and when left alone with her, they just looked at the floor, all I cant think is MAN that was me not to long ago. Finish at the first house, I wanted to kiss her but for some reason got in my head and didn't make the move. I get the 2nd house we walk around the outside a bit, and when starting at the window I say WTF again, and just go for it, we start kissing for a little bit and I make sure to end it on my terms leaving her wanting more.

I get back to my apt, she comes in, I turn on some music, we chat and I amp up kino like crazy. We start making out like crazy on the couch. I started to hesitate, but then again said WTF, grabbed her by the hand and took her to my bed. Shirts come off, bra comes off and making out continues. I encountered some LMR, due to her being on her period, I personally dont give a crap, she had some resistance to it. She ends up having to go home because "out of respect for her parents she gets home by 12....lol. She asks what I am doing tommorrow, says she will come by around 5-6, we make out a bit more and I send her on her way. Looking forward to seeing her again tommorrow night to pick up where we left off.

Cannot belive I a 31yr old dude hooked up with a 19yr old, just by being honest with myself and my intentions, and going for what I wanted. I don't think its always going to be this easy, but I will be dammed if I dont go for what the hell I want anymore.

Since this is my first FR, please let me know if I need to include, leave out anything.

tl;dr 31M hooks up with 19F, thanks to seddit and just not giving a fuck all around.

EDIT.....I banged her :)