How to make conversations more interesting and how to incorporate humour?

OrzhovPalatine · 2021-10-13T16:31:11+00:00

Keep in mind humour can easily go into platonic.

Creating sexual tension is what separates a platonic conversation to a romantic one and the hardest part guys have.

Only thing you should be thinking about in a conversation with a girl you like is did you make her feel anything emotionally. How you get there is irrevalant focus on the endgoal.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-13T16:20:24+00:00

Just keep in mind, it's not what you say, but how you say it.

If you talk to her like everyone else, you'll probably end up in the friendzone.

You still need to show her with eye contact, the way you say things, body language, mannerism, physical touch, that you're a man, she's a woman, you like her and want to have sex with her.

Otherwise, you're just another nice guy who she will feel no chemistry or connection with and you'll end up in the friend zone no fuck zone.

Chicagoj1563 · 2021-10-13T16:21:19+00:00

A big part of this is just becoming present and unfiltered. By present, I mean free flowing, getting out of your head and into a flow state, etc... And also avoid worrying about what people will think so that you become filtered. You don't know if people will always find what you say funny, but who cares. Comics don't know either. You just go all in, have fun, self amuse, etc...

Bottom line is you don't really need advice on this. Just interact with people, and try not to be filtered and get into the moment. The more you interact and try, the easier it will become.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-10-13T18:23:18+00:00

To tease her you actually have to make fun of her in a light hearted way. You need to basically provoke her or trigger her.

Examples:

She: Because you know i am just a woman.

You: A woman? Oh didn’t noticed you were one.

Or you see a girl who clearly works out a lot in the gym because she has a fit toned body, so you approach her and tell her:

“You clearly are new when it comes to doing sports, is this your first time ever at a gym?”

Obviously she is not new at the gym, and you know it damn well because her body is incredibly fit , but you are teasing her to get a reaction.

Basically you just want to get her to react by pulling her leg, or teasing her.

another example:

A girl who looks very young, asks how old do you think i am.

You: “85? oh wait no 90”.

You clearly are teasing her because she most likely looks 18, and you say something completely absurd to provoke her.

There are more ways to include humour but teasing the girl is just one of them.

Title	How to make conversations more interesting and how to incorporate humour?
Author	150420throwaway
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Date	October 13, 2021 4:12 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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