Im 26 years old, work on my attractivnes everyday - I have very good job (own company), I started make music which in my country start goes viral, I work on my style, Im going to gym for years - I have really good body, six pack etc. confidence, self esteem (even was at a psychologist in January and it was additional boost, it really helped me).

It caused a lot positive situations with girls. In last year I had few situations when a girl open me and want my Insta or number. One time when I was at McDonald's, a girl came up to me and wanted my Instagram. It turned out that she was one of the most popular "TikTokers" in my country.

6 years ago I didn't have such success with women. When I got some "IOI" it was once a month. Now, every time I go out, I get IOI, the girls stretch their eye contact, they are willing to talk. It's crazy how it works. I started going to clubs - it's the same here. The girls are open, positive, they smile, they want to talk and dance.

But I think that there is also the other side of the coin. Girls tend to be positive and things go in the right direction, but when they find out that I'm popular, that I'm successful with women, they just run away. All I need to do is give the girl Instagram and I can see what is happening. Lots of followers, likes, comments from other girls - and the woman runs away.

Two days ago it happened again. I was in the club, a beautiful girl was looking at me - I walked over and gave her my hand and we started to dance. Little by little, I was getting bolder, I was touching her hair, and she too was dancing bolder and bolder. I wanted to kiss her but she said that she is not that easy. So we kept on dancing, she was 17 years old (in my country is this is legally of course).

I ask her for Insta, she instantly said yes, she take my phone and write her nickname. She even told me to take a screenshot because there was no internet. Well, the next day I wrote and added her to IG. Then she saw my stories, then her friend who was in the club with her also saw my stories (so she had to send her my profile). And nothing, she didn't add me and didnt wrote back. I think that sometimes my SMV and popularity does not help at all - on the contrary, the girls are intimidated, maybe they think that someone with such choice and attractiveness only wants sex and they do auto rejection. In this case, popularity, great photos, musculature, style - they work to a disadvantage, the girls say that they have no chance or will only be used for sex and run away before anything begins. Escpecially very young girls like 17 or 18.

I thought that instagram will only be the icing on the cake, an additional boost that will wind up the girl, not scare her and make her intimidated. Any advice, should I build more comfort and not be so "confident"? Because it happens a lot times. Maybe I should not give my Instagram, maybe I should try take just number?

Please don't take this post as bragging because it really is a problem for me. I wasn't always that successful, I had to work for it.

Sorry for my english - I try my best.