Big problem with my EGO

BrunoFromBrazil · 2021-07-03T12:44:57+00:00

I know exactly what you mean.

Think about it carefully, because it COULD BE a defense mechanism to avoid being rejected (fear).

If you honestly think you're better than those girls, then approaching them should be effortless.

Do you find it hard going to to a homeless person and giving them some money? Nah, it's easy because you know they'll appreciate your gesture and thank you for it.

If you're God's gift to women, then you approach with the same ease. You know you'll make their days better.

Now, most girls really are low level - but good game takes practice and I'd recommend you approach those girls anyway.

Maybe your ego is in the way, maybe it's fear. Who knows.. just don't let that stop you from practicing your skills in the field.

Murfdigidy · 2021-07-03T13:27:40+00:00

I forget the terminology of what youre doing but youre putting false future assumptions on events that never happened. when in reality you don't know any girl and who or what they really are until you start talking to them and get to know them.

As with anything in life you can approach things negatively or you can approach them positively. If you approach things negative you'll remember and weigh more heavily the negative outcomes with girls, if you approach them positively you remember and weigh more heavily the positive outcomes.

Approaching girls is always hit or miss but always remember one thing, the misses on most cases have nothing to do with you and who you are, you have no idea what that girl is going through or why she wasn't interested in you... She may have her heart set on someone else and no guy that approaches her will change that for the time being, her cat may have just died, she just broke up with a long relationship or she's simply not fun and fun to be around.

Every miss I have I never assume it's me, having this attitude will keep you more positive and help you attract the girls that will be interested. You'll have a thousand times better success taking this approach .

yurifca · 2021-07-03T15:41:26+00:00

I'm not trying to attack you, i'll just try to give you my pov.

You think you're above approaching woman cause you're scared to face a person not seeing you as you want to see yourself. If she rejects you, it's cause she can't see how incredible and successful you are and that hurts. Well, if it hurts, it's gotta be that her opinion on your life has actual weight to you, making you doubt yourself and your achievments.

So, you should really be confident in your journey and everything you earned, but you should have a little more humility to understand that your achievements are not pasted on your forehead, you have to talk to people about them, which is a skill per se.

Impulsive666 · 2021-07-03T13:00:12+00:00

Approach the girls you like when you’re in a club. If there is none (or you strike out with all of them), just have fun with your friends. Otherwise why are you even there?

Title	Big problem with my EGO
Author	SnooAvocados193
Upvotes	11
Comments	4
Date	July 3, 2021 12:29 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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