So, I recently started the day game. Today I went out to do the thing. I am a beginner and due to the approach anxiety, it took me like an hour to finally go talk to a girl. I said hello to a cute blonde girl waiting for someone outside of a mall. It turned out she was a tourist and she was staying here with her mom for only a couple of days, but we talked for more than five minutes and she was really friendly, which helped me build confidence. I didn't ask her number for the above reason, but it felt really good.

Then a few minutes later I saw a girl sitting on a bench with a Louis Vuitton bag, which is kinda girl I don't like (no offense to Louis Vuitton lol), but I thought it's just a practice and went to say hi. The response was not that positive (she kept looking at her phone), so I walked away saying have a good day.

After that, I talked to a girl on a bench and turned out she is just staying here for a couple of months, but after we talked a while I asked if she wants to hang out and she said okay and I got her number. I don't have high hope that it leads to an actual date, but it definitely feels like an achievement.

I approached a couple of girls also but it didn't lead to a convo.

[What I learned]

- If I do the first approach of the day, the rest will be easier.

- The "worst" responses I got were like I say "you looked beautiful so I wanted to say hi" brah brah and they say "Thank you but I'm in a hurry" or something like that, but at least they smiled and they shook hands with me, so knowing that even the rejection does not feel that bad was good.

- I found it easier to approach girls who are just sitting or standing there. When I saw an attractive girl walking by, at the time I think I should talk to her, she's already gone. I guess I have to take "don't think" approach.

- I don't know how to increase the number of approaches. After my first approach of the day I approached at a good pace but I didn't see many girls of my age who were alone.

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On a side note, I'm a complete noob, but if anyone in NYC wants to do the day game or night game with me, hit me up.