Disclaimer: Typing on my phone could be autocorrect mistakes.

So I got out of a relationship about 1 month ago. Decided to get back out there and had a bunch of people recommend POF and OkCupid. I'm not looking for anything serious but if it happens it happens.

So HB6 messages me. I hadn't been having great success an even though I'm not particularly attracted to her she's kind of cute so I start talking to her. I get her number and we text a bit. I'm in the process of moving and have been busy so I couldn't set up the meet till last night.

So I tell her to meet me at a local Irish pub where i know the bartender (social proof). I show up a few minutes late and she's waiting for me. I just said I hit every red light (really I hit every green and would have been REALLY late had I not got lucky lol).

I get us a few drinks of my choice (Strongbow Cider cuz its delicious). And take her to the back of the pub where they have darts set up. We play a few games and I escalate kino trough high fives and playful pushes etc. right before the last shot I ask what we were playing for. She said she didn't know. She ended up winning and then asked what she got. I instantly went in for the k-close. When I pulled away I said 'how's that for a prize' and she grinned and stuff. We play another where the loser buys lunch on a day 2. I fuckin lost again. I really need to practice my darts lol.

I head up to the bar to grab another drink and two HB9s (twins) stop me and ask for help on the trivia question (trivia night at the pub). Then the invited me to join their team. I go grab my date and we join them. We have a good time joking around and doing terribly at trivia. I tried to engage the HB9s. Because their personalities (and bodies) were way better than HB6. But it was her date so I made sure to keep focus on her.

Question guys. In this situation how do you try and set up a meeting with either of the twins or # close without it being extremely disrespectful to your date? I ended up just hinting multiple times to the twins that I was gunna come back next week for trivia and they should too.

Anyway trivia concludes we say out goodbye's and I go outside with HB6. Time isn't right to try and suggest my/her place so I tell her we're gunna stop at a local late night burger joint. While waiting for our food I start a make out session but pull out when she really gets into it to keep the sexual tension high.

We walk back to my car and as we get up to it I push her up against it and start make out again. I pick her up and set her on the car (she said this was super hot. girls loved being picked up). I start getting handsy with her and am soon over the pants rubbing her. I grab her hand and slowly moved it down from my neck over my chest and stomach and to my junk. I really like the move as by the time they reach the prize they are longing to touch it. They know where you are pushing their hand but you're controlling the speed.

After a bit of play we get in the car and I escalate further. Finger blast. I suggest her place (I'm still unpacking boxes everywhere etc). She says her roommates have company so I concede and take her to mine. No lingering. Straight to my room. Sexy times commence. I woke up really early and initiated session 2. Went back to bed and then woke up and took her to her car.

So here's the thing. I can escalate with girls and k-close and f-close but I have no clue how to makes intentions clear. The girls I've been seeing are falling in love with me. I'm not particularly interested in them and I feel bad that I'm fucking them when we want different things. I know they enjoy themselves and they want it too. But I'm not going to be entering into a LTR with them. How do I make it Clear I don't want something serious, and still seal the deal?