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oh no bro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:25 AM
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https://youtu.be/AhFmO5zJwZA?si=_txDJprOF8LAgG-T I wish this was my mom
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:22 PM
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actually i thought about it and i dislike how rushed he is and how he already has expectations of me, like if we don't fuck tonight we are done etc. rather than letting things happen naturally ykwim. like there are guys who can build enough trust and excitement to get women to have sex with them fairly fast but they are not out here telling us if we don't fuck the relationship isn't going anywhere. i would much rather be with someone more chill than someone like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:38 PM
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honestly the level of social acuity it would take to pull this off and get a yes would be so high i am not sure it's possible
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:17 PM
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nobody likes dealing with a jealous gf. knew a guy with a girl who was so jealous all the time, about everything. they got in huge arguments, crying, yelling, way over the top emotions. women who act like that almost always lose too. the jealous, insecure person almost always loses to a calmer less affected person. that's how life works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:35 PM
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absolutely not they go in the trash
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:18 PM
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who would tolerate that kind of shit? if a dude acted like being with me was embarrassing for him i would kick him to the curb bc there are so many guys who don't think that badly of you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:14 PM
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the easiest weeknight meal is boxed mac and cheese with basically any protein you have on hand and whatever vegetable you wanna use up. pork, chicken, beef, most types of fish, crustaceans and crab/lobster welcome. any vegetable kale, asparagus, Brussels sprouts, green beans, broccoli, corn, carrots, celery, bok choy even. peppers mushrooms onions leeks et cetera. you can turn it into a disgusting looking slop factory and it will always hit no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:03 PM
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yeah i would have been taken aback but if someone actually put that kind of pressure on me for sex that fast i would just not deal w em. his voice isn't attractive either so it's like you sound like this and you're asking for that huh. people can do whatever they want but i am not here for that type of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:45 PM
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you can't make them take accountability but you can just remove them from your life. which is what i do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:44 PM
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poop
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:20 PM
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i have had some weird dreams before. i had a dream i was in a video game and having a connection with a dude who is my man's friend. and at times during us talking i was like, yeah something is wrong here. i had another dream about having a connection with an australian dude i met online who was cool who i don't talk to anymore, he was in more than one dream. when he said he hated the expectation that he has to pay for dates it broke the dream logic though. i was like that doesn't make sense for…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:02 PM
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prone position or side is my preferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:58 PM
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i am still dealing with jet lag. go to work early, get off around 6 pm, go home, lay down, pass out, wake up at 12:30 a.m. now i am doing meal prep for tomorrow (well... later today), doing dishes, and cleaning the kitchen. i definitely​ feel weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:42 AM
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it doesn't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:35 PM
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yeah i don't know what you want me to tell you. probably some shit about women going for guys who are too hot for them and getting strung along and catching feelings right? that's the only script you'll accept. even though not all situationships are like that. the ones that are exactly as described? yeah, sure. they're making fools of themselves. are you happy now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:39 AM
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a lot of young people are scared to go official. there was a time when people had bfs and gfs and would just break up with them if they decided they dont like them anymore. now people are like, oh my god oh my god, if they become my bf/gf that's a HUGE COMMITMENT even though it kind of doesn't have to be. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:38 AM
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they end up in situationships for a bunch of different reasons. you obviously want to focus on the ones who want more from the guy, but i also know women who are scared of commitment too. usually changes when one or both parties need a place to live. many situationships become official relationships when one of their living situations comes to an end and they need someone to shack up with. at least among early 20s people. but plenty of women in situationships are also playing the field. i know y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:11 AM
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you know, i really can't force myself to care about men and their views on aging at all, or whether or not their lives will improve or not. it's not really my business. some guys are very mean to women who dare to age though, which ironically makes it even easier to totally disregard them and stop thinking about them. you know what sounds like real peace? never worrying about what some guy who's not in your family or you are not dating or friends with thinks about anything, especially the aging …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:58 AM
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i don't use them anymore bc i live in a small town with more limited food options. why pay a premium for something i can go pick up in 15 minutes myself. it's not like traffic is awful here. the only time it's worth it is if i am drunk and hungry which isn't often.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:57 AM
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i like horseradish i feel 0 shame about it what are you going to do, try and bully me over it. message to all bullies: i do not care sbout your stupid opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:46 AM
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that's good. why is it irritating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:06 PM
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i have feelings. and my feelings have feelings. and my feelings' feelings have feelings ​
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:40 PM
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lets just say i am happy to be in the czech republic instead of america on this day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:34 PM
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beautiful ceremony tbh. i know the groom since i was 3 years old and i loved his vows at the wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:36 PM
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i agree that incels on here aren't all that bad, but redpill guys grind my gears.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:11 PM
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im at a family wedding at this chateau in the czech republic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:31 PM
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i knew who you meant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:54 PM
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you're always being negative on here. making acerbic comments about how stupid/mean/cruel/rude/out of touch everyone else is. maybe it's because you're afraid to look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:24 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:07 PM
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<image> Prague
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:42 PM
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why would someone not being able to make money for you or take care of your health for you mean they don't care though? we are all individuals, the best someone else can do is like, cook healthy meals, remind you to take your meds, encourage you to see a doctor. but you still have to eat the food yourself, put the medication in your mouth, and actually make and go to the Dr's appointment. combined finances. like you're acting like simply being an individual organism is the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:05 AM
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you sound fun at parties
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:40 PM
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lmao subway sandwich is not necessarily good even if you put all the stuff you wanted on it. the produce could be old, too much sauce, soggy bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:40 PM
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yeah, they are butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:49 PM
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because those belief systems are misogynistic. what else do you want people to tell you. is it really hard to grasp that sexism is considered a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:16 PM
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you can't actually know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:12 AM
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nobody wants to give money to guys who don't want to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:43 AM
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my life as a woman wasn't a cakewalk though, far from it. i could probably adapt to male social expectations and live a similar life to my male relatives, which is not that bad. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:39 AM
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i mean the closest examples for what i would be like as a male would be like my male cousins and both my nephews. they have their own struggles obviously but they are all smart, educated, romantically successful in their youth, and more or less normal. why would i kill myself if i was in their situation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:15 AM
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that post was so melodramatic and kind of grandiose. used a lot of big, emotional, poetic sweeping statements that came off kinda badly. i wonder if some people are aware of how they're coming off. the way he made the argument naturally invited people to invalidate his points, because that's how people naturally react to that kind of framing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:43 AM
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how do you propose the law differentiates between men who have a case for financial abortion and guys who are just trying to get out of responsibility. because making it so anyone can do it will also have problems. also, why does the financial abortion have to happen within a short time frame like a real abortion when it's clearly a paperwork heavy process and the government is incredibly slow with that. what's stopping laws from being proposed where guys can surrender their child post birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:53 AM
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for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:39 AM
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yeah he's like every bad trait i think is unattractive but turned up a notch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:18 AM
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i didn't criticize his views, i criticized his delivery. people who act like this often get targeted for needling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:09 AM
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oh, yeah. antisemitism is on the rise these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:02 AM
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i mean, i am not really talking to you. im saying it for the lurkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:59 AM
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why is this post so over the top melodramatic and wounded. you do realize that reacting like this is probably why you in particular get targeted for ribbing right? ​
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:48 AM
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i mean the people who do end up reproducing in the next few generations will have a bigger impact on future people than child free people. not that there's anything wrong with either life choice. but yk. the political and religious leanings of the people who are having kids is going to shape trends in the future. i believe people will probably become more religious in future if that religion pushes them to create families.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:59 PM
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genitals in general are not aesthetically pleasing for the most part. the members and hoo has you see in porn are surgically altered and have makeup applied to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:50 PM
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no i find it annoying, repetitive, and trite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:58 PM
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lmao rhiannas shine bright like a diamond. i hate that song.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:50 PM
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personally i don't really care as long as they're not incompetent or obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:44 AM
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i used to know one. she was a complete trainwreck of a person. alcoholic, constantly cheating on every guy she dated, lived in fucking filth and was a mentally unstable cunt who was mean to other women, hung out with the trashiest, ugliest women i have ever seen, and she had bpd and bipolar disorder. dated dudes who got way more invested in her than someone like her really warrants. anyways. she worked crappy jobs all the time and got fat at one point. i hope i never see her again for as long as…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:14 AM
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to the deleted comment: i am a writer at a newspaper. i also have a ton of other responsibilities at that job. writing, researching, contacting sources, getting tips, traveling out somewhere bc something is happening, council meetings, board meetings, photographing sports, local events, wildfires, storm damage, crime sometimes. there is a lot to do. also social media management and occasionally uploading to the website. it's honestly getting to be too much. i am the only reporter now after the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:55 AM
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i hate how the more competent and experienced you get, the more shit they pile on you. i would like to be new at something where they just give you stupid people tasks and don't expect that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:42 AM
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i miss the days when i had more time to get involved in discord drama. it makes me feel like i am still alive. and it's low stakes too. like it doesn't matter in the end. i also love it when people scream at each other over voice chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:41 AM
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this subreddit popped up on my feed one day a few years ago, i read a post, got annoyed, tried to make a normie comment, didn't know anything about the pills. so i did some research, i watched orion taraban, rehab room, looksandLMS (spelling? idk), wheat waffles, dbdr, and now losermaxxing. of those creators i generally find rehab room, dbdr, and losermaxxing the most compelling. red pill creators all seem a bit low brow and low class to me, a bit overly certain, and i find them annoying. black …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:33 AM
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this is not particularly sympathetic to me. if i met a guy and he is resentful because he feels like he "has" to woo me, i will just not date him. nobody wants to date someone trying to feign interest in them. and you seem to think this is like some kind of big deal that needs to be addressed. i don't think it does. these dudes deserve to get dumped and not date at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:47 AM
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if you really think most women get fucked by a new man every friday night in their 20s, that's probably just your social scene or what you think happens based on movies or something. i also don't really have to have a coherent reason to make a comment on a subreddit like this. saw your post, thought wow. and then just said what i thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:46 PM
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i am not arguing, i am simply telling you your post doesn't resonate with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:14 PM
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we should form an alliance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:06 PM
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imagine if they put "come and see" as the in flight movie. there was a time when they'd only give you like a couple options. imagine if all the movies were bleak, depressing, harrowing movies from eastern europe? cripplingly upsetting, brutally long, extremely slowly paced. they really know how to make you feel anguish. i think it would be a good thing. make regular people watch fancy pants foreign movies about misery. it would build character
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:01 PM
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he's mocking my comment! he's lampooning me! i need the police!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:55 PM
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thinking about the in flight movie i saw once. "friends with benefits". there was another movie called "no strings attached" which came out around the same time. romantic comedies about a casual hookup fwb relationship that turns to love. they were both made in the early 2010s. nowadays i think if any of the people on here saw it, they'd be like "EW. DISGUSTING. GIVES WOMEN UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS. PROMOTES DEGENERACY. I HATE SLUTS." and i am sitting here like it's not that serious. okay. two a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:29 PM
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im on my way to the czech Republic for a wedding from the United states. the flight into Frankfurt is like 13 hours 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:18 PM
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im on a long flight and feeling cranky. time to come up with a horribly stupid post about insipid nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:13 PM
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i don't care because this post doesn't describe me or the people i know. maybe get a different social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:07 PM
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oh no, a trait no one even noticed or cared about a couple years ago now means you must be insecure. puke. oh my goodness your philtrum is slightly too long! that means you look like a monkey! except no one actually gives a shit irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:19 PM
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is this really a thing we need to worry about? i don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:17 PM
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oh my god i remember when i was pretending to be a guy on here. my flare was something like, domestic abuse enjoyer. one of my comments was about how i made a joke for april fools to my "girlfriend" where i suggested an open relationship and then said she destroyed my television. people were a lot meaner to me, but they also accepted me more. ​​​
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:52 PM
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tradition. legal reasons. sign a contract with the government to prove you're in love. but I've been a long term cohabiter with a romantic partner. it's not really all that different. i guess the government really needs to know who i will spend my life with, which is aggravating. if i change my name, congratulations to me, i now will have to deal with absolutely everything and do a bunch of administrative work i fucking hate and don't want to do. and oh boy a wedding where i have to deal with ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:41 PM
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he was close to 5'8", maybe a little taller. throwing acid on his face would have seriously ruined things though. but it's whatever, he's not around anymore anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:11 PM
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my friends and i often diverged in attraction too. i just knew guys who were desired by many women who were not strictly my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:50 PM
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if a guy without an extremely square jaw, bigger more open eyes, and a longer midface is treated as a heart throb in high school and early adulthood, what does that tell you about these extremely strict standards for having a perfectly square, short face and hunter eyes? it says that your model is incomplete.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:47 PM
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i also have a lot of trouble with their definition of a chad. if a guy is widely considered highly attractive in real life by real women who all fall in love with him very quickly, does it really matter if he's not mathematically perfect? like the results speak for themselves, you don't need to fit an extremely narrow view of good looks to be considered highly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:11 PM
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i am just being cheeky. but yk there are some genuinely harmful behaviors people should probably feel more guilty about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:56 PM
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not necessarily. i knew a guy who was very appealing to many women but he had his own issues and self sabotaged or just wasn't interested in most of them. he rejected a lot of them without sleeping with them, he mostly had sex with one girl he dated for years and didn't even sleep with every girl he dated. weird situation but idk. i guess he just couldn't close the deal or just didn't want to. he was the absolute envy of his best friend though. nearly every attractive girl they ever met preferre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:49 PM
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chad is just a term for a very attractive guy. ofc the concept has been totally destroyed by blackpillers relentless obsession with physical perfection. several guys i know irl are considered chads within their social scene, and they are very attractive, but they don't fit that golden ratio mold of a perfect face.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:21 PM
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i see no reason to take this idea seriously. some people are more attractive and have more options than other people. it's just the way it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:17 PM
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i meant that when i was like 2-5 years old, i was going to daycare at a woman's house.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:22 PM
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i haven't watched that show in years. it was often on at my daycare which was some lady's house.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:54 PM
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i like how it made people feel guilty abd ashamed. don't people keep saying more people need to be shamed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:49 PM
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there's only so much you can say about western dating. but i miss how lively it used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:18 PM
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oh it's a mix of reasons. the mod team started imposing more rules, and there was a user back in 2023, 2024 who was harassing all the popular female posters. which is part of why there was an exodus to a discord server. once you scare young women away, social scenes tend to just... get ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:17 PM
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a lot has changed. this daily thread used to be popping off with tons of colorful characters. now there are less people here and the drama is a lot less.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:08 PM
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one of the funniest things was when a friend told me a joke, and i remembered it because it was funny. then, years later, at an appropriate time, i repeated that joke back to them. they were like, "why did i laugh so hard at that?" And i was like, im never telling them that was their joke. i will just let them think i came up with it. very dastardly, very machiavellian, very evil. which is what makes it delightful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:26 AM
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whenever i go to my parents house, i remember how much i love tomato juice. i think to myself, "i really should buy some at home" then i go home and don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:10 AM
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you're free to think whatever you want. if you don't like piercings then just keep not liking them. the whole point of getting one is to weed out certain folks anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:53 AM
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blue
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:23 AM
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by believing in yourself. i don't think i am a consolation prize. if someone started treating me that way, the relationship is going to end anyways. but i enjoyed a ton of optionality in dating. a lot of people were very interested in dating me. so why ever feel insecure about this. it's the last thing i would worry about, unless they have triple digit bodies, which is just kind of disgusting and not really a reason to feel bad about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:08 AM
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i think every day shoes, especially sneakers and just daily wear shoes, look a lot worse if they are black colored. like i never touch my black running shoes. I much prefer my other colors. black shoes are not great if they're not formal wear in general. they remind me too much of dorks tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:34 AM
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it's to appease men primarily. like he seemed to believe they were raised to not act smarter than men and to deliberately diminish themselves. that was his opinion though, and lord knows that guy was an extreme simp for any pretty girl he ever talked to. who knows, maybe he knew them better than me. they rarely reciprocated his interest tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:53 PM
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I've heard they intentionally act dumb on purpose. I am not sure i believe it, but that's what my major simp of an ex friend told me once.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:44 PM
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lmao no. you're projecting your own incapability of introspection onto me. git gud.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:39 AM
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intellect is not really a downside unless you are extremely high in iq and alienate people. if someone doesn't like your intellect that's just information. you're not compatible. the end. these theories are just a way to cope with being off putting and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:16 AM
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i don't care what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:55 AM
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i hate to say this but nick fuentes mogs Andrew tate. would i ever fuck either? absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:38 PM
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is that fish?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:24 PM
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https://youtu.be/p4cJv6s_Yjw?si=6LydHtxhNChhAH5a
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:59 AM
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Hopefully one day you find who you have been looking for. I believe in you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:53 AM
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Jeff Buckley was so talented.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:52 AM
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5'2"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:34 AM
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a guy shorter than me would be extremely unlucky. they exist, but there aren't that many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:06 AM
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everything sucks, dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:10 PM
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haha, no one was drunk at the parade
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:38 PM
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idk. i was there getting photos of the parade. it was hot. free candy thrown at everyone. everyone else is having fun and enjoying the parade but i still have to wonder if my boss wanted me to get up into peoples faces more. happened at the last parade. i did try to get closer last time but it still wasn't enough for my boss. he wants me right up in there in front of the float in people's faces. I just don't have it in me to be intrusive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:02 PM
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idk i am just feeling beaten down particularly hard today. not your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:45 PM
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you wouldn't like being me. i can tell you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:31 PM
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i wish my life could be more boring and predictable than it has been. i hate surprises tbh. oh boy, a surprise. another thing to deal with. puke. would rather be bored constantly 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:27 PM
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when i was 20 years old at my first ever job a guy called me ma'am and i was really taken aback. also since i had to stand in one place i swayed my hips because standing still sucks, and multiple people asked me if I was a mom/had a kid. do i look like a mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:54 AM
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what are you doing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:50 AM
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it's a lord of the rings reference. here we go again, another sad misunderstanding
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:08 AM
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i am going to poo poo all of you right now. poo poo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:01 AM
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nah no doctor ever confirmed anything about my asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:03 AM
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what about everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:20 AM
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what are the aspects of life thst are truly universal my man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:43 AM
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i like strong flavors and aggressive acidity. horseradish, english mustard, Chinese hot mustard, anchovies, fish sauce, olives, capers, sardines, and other stuff that burns your nose hairs. i also love hot sauce. im gross Bethany maxing rn. i want to eat gross food all day long.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:08 AM
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classic apple cider, lemonade, limeade, fresh squeezed oj
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:32 AM
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super common
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:26 PM
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this conversation is kind of not funny to me at all. i have a straight friend who did this for around $500 so he could keep paying rent and it was a terrible experience for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:27 AM
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not everyone has access to people who will let them walk all over them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:57 AM
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you can't snap your fingers and have someone do whatever you ask. you would have to deliberately look for a total doormat to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:10 AM
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snarky and awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:17 PM
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yeah it's a sad thing that happens in our country
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:55 AM
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what do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:41 AM
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people do immature things when they are immature. i guess society needs to intervene
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:47 PM
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i would simply just not choose to date someone with hygeine problems. every guy i ever dated had good hygiene and i am not planning on lowering my standards for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:08 PM
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it's the man's responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:03 PM
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u rlly thought you had something here then got declared fundamentally unfuckable by every woman in the comments. you see some entitled dudes on here but this is a new level of fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:50 PM
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no. something more disturbing and strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:05 PM
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oui
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:50 AM
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hopefully you can turn it around
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:27 AM
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nobody understands me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:24 AM
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everything i touch is tainted forever, i say as i stare blankly into the middle distance. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:47 AM
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i need to create an elaborate ritual of some kind that i can do whenever i am not feeling good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:43 AM
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sitting through the fifth graduation this week. god almighty it is inhuman to expect me to do this. i do not get paid enough to put up with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:58 AM
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im at yet another graduation rn. my fifth one this week. rn this lady is talking and internally I am like, holy shit internally screaming. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH. NO OND SHOULD EVER HAVE TO GO TO 5 OF THESE.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:44 AM
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i would be unwilling to tolerate poor hygiene no matter how much i am getting paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:37 PM
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cocky about what? does she deserve to be cocky? that's my entire point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:46 PM
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if I ever did sugar dating (which I never have) I'd expect to have to tolerate mediocre or subpar looks in exchange for that money. that's the implicit expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:42 PM
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no i want high achievers to stop pretending like they are just like everyone else in the class. what does a head cheerleader going to a party school have to do with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:36 PM
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like they'll say that at some point a few years from now having a high school GPA of a 4.0 won't matter. and i am like this is literally the point in your life where it matters most. don't be humble. don't try to be relatable to the 3.0, 3.5, 3.7 GPA kids who dont get a speech. like they themselves said the accomplishment has a short shelf life. so maybe just exploit it. i would love to hear from an arrogant person right now. i don't need to hear another, well, it's not that important speech. ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:29 PM
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after watching 4 graduations in the last week (photos for work) i just have to say that valedictorians try too hard to be relatable. like you're obviously better than most kids in your class at the thing you're making this speech for: academic excellence. i would rather hear a total narcissistic speech about how you are superior to everyone at this point. like just shake things up. being likable isn't the most important thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:19 PM
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maybe you shouldn't date people you view as beneath you because you really can't hide your attitude for months or years. it leaks out. obviously i think it's wrong you got cheated on and i am sorry that happened, but you also probably signaled to her that you expected her to be grateful for you even picking her, and when you sense that in somebody you're dating, it's natural to lose respect for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:48 PM
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having some thoughts on some situations. hmm those situations are situationy no? how can it be an even bigger situation. im thinking something elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:05 AM
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i just wish that for once in my life, i can read the subtext of horny, and that everyone else instantly knows exactly what i mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:49 AM
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he is not the flustered one in the dynamic was my point. i don't see the desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:27 AM
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he just said "you're beautiful" with nothing else. the whole thing is very romance novel/bdsm coded. especially when she's blushing like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:05 AM
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it's objectively hot to be in this situation and end up fucking anyways.her rage, his indifference, can all come together to produce a truly horny experience
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:44 AM
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i succeeded at dating despite being skinny fat, and having a bunch of other hurdles i needed to overcome. i still get to complain he doesn't like ranch dressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:32 AM
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i just sneezed like a Pikachu. NO ONE LOOK AT ME ​
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:55 AM
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lmao it doesn't matter if you're intimidating. it matters if you can impose consequences they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:54 AM
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he really is og. successful, good student, etc. been here forever. he deserves far more respect than many others on here tbh. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:41 AM
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is that a challenge?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:34 AM
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i assume you get taken more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:26 AM
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i assumed it was a joke or smthn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:41 PM
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im saying guys who talk like this sound bitter about being unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:20 PM
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physically attractive and socially normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:11 PM
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people have commonly accused trans women of privilege due to being socialized as males before they transitioned. this post is fighting back on that claim by saying being socialized as a male is traumatic for transwomen and confers no privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:53 AM
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thankfully i prefer guys who are physically attractive so i just flat out avoided these kinds of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:48 AM
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>because it’s so easy to pick a well meaning but dorkish guy if you really wanna avoid this issue. this is like asking men to lust after chubby, nerdy, average looking women the same way men lust after highly attractive women. it's not happening, boners are not distributed evenly across the female population.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:08 PM
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after months of stressing about weight loss, the thing that finally started moving the needle for me was hitting around 30 different plants per week. more salads, vegetables, fruit. i am already down 5 lbs from my highest ever weight after around 1.5 months of optimizing plant diversity rather than obsessively tracking calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:11 PM
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I feel like this whole thing could be turned into a bizarre erotic role play if the parties involved took it seriously enough. I would be interested in participating in a dynamic like that to be honest. Does that mean I take it seriously in real life? No. But the idea of, "you're too stupid to make your own decisions, every time you have an idea I don't like you're getting paddled" sounds both stupid and kind of hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:47 PM
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i never met anyone on a dating app irl. like i prefer meeting ppl in actual social settings and only used apps for brief periods before being like, "this isn't for me". who actually cares what i would have done on a dating app. you can't even see what people look like irl just in photos which are often misleading in a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:26 AM
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you are now participating in Pain Circus. I am sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:22 AM
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it's all for the drama
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:18 AM
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i now don my clown paint and dress, awaiting the announcement of my arrival at Pain Circus. the act will include many extreme sufferings, miseries, and sad clown noises. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:26 AM
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there are a lot of complicated things going on at once here. it sounds like a lie to me too, but I am not sure of what the lie is about. she must be old and ugly I guess. who really cares
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:34 AM
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yeah lobotomies were the ethical solution obvs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:06 PM
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they don't really do that anymore yk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:28 PM
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a lot of ppl on this sub have mental illness issues. is this like supposed to be surprising or something? you really think you alone of all people noticed this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:25 PM
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saw the backtooms movie today. very intense, disorienting and disturbing. definitely a masterclass piece of cinema.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:46 AM
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do you want to be on drugs and having sex with a sober person? if not, that's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:08 AM
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what? it was a special event held for media before the air show this weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:00 AM
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here at this air force base after a fucked up morning where i had to rush the whole way here. talked to a few air men, air women, pilots, etc. special preview air show for media. got a bunch of cool pics of air planes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:35 PM
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i am here to announce that having feelings has been canceled for today
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:03 PM
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noooooooo. i insist. you must go first. we have a whole menu like the cheesecake factory for every type of validation you could possibly want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:51 AM
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ever look into someone's eyeballs and think, "they deserve the entire world on a silver platter. i will be their devoted servant until i get arrested and executed by a firing squad on their behalf." if you haven't felt this way, i am afraid the news is bad. you have no soul. they sucked your soul out, and now it's floating around in the marianas trench. you are incapable of experiencing the highest highs possible within the human experience. and it's over for you, probably forever. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:46 AM
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what kind of validation do you want? we have a menu here. whatever you tell me, i will validate you for it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:38 AM
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it's the biggest compliment irl when someone is laughing at something you said and then goes, "what's wring with you?" it lets you know you're still surprising, unpredictable, and unhinged in the best way. i am extremely good at intimately getting to know ppl extremely fast also. like it takes a certain joie de vivre to be this way, and i love every second of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:20 AM
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oh wow you repackaged afbb theory but this time instead of average women, you said very attractive women. bravo Vince
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:16 AM
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au caontraire mademoiselle. if you believe in greatness you can achieve anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:06 AM
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let's turn this into a space for healing. we all need to heal. and be validated constantly. ok, you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:47 AM
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i am DONE with you, okay? D O N E. done.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:44 AM
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if only people were nice, kind, and thoughtful instead of being a bunch of evil meanie-heads, i wouldn't have to act like this. my behavior is a direct result of being treated cruelly and horribly. it's everyone else's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:59 AM
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i am being my authentic self rn, and that's why i have decided you are a poopy head. you've been sentenced to poopy head jail, for 3 consecutive life sentences and no possibility of parole. i hope you're happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:55 AM
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you're ignoring me. i am taking note of this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:40 AM
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ok. you are under arrest. you're going to jail. i hope you're happy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:38 AM
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maybe instead of saying "you have no hobbies" you could have just asked me about my hobbies. this is an unprecedented level of cruelty on here. i might file a petition over it, idk. rn, i just need to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:27 AM
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ignoring me is against the Geneva convention BTW
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:24 AM
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do you even know how many community events i go to. how many sporting events ive taken photos of. no, bc you don't understand me and my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:20 AM
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i can't believe you're not paying attention to me rn. why does life have to be so unfair like this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:10 AM
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omg you're actually talking to me rn? i feel so special.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:03 AM
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when i found out jack black (the guy from nacho libre) loved elliott smith, my estimation of him as a man fucking skyrocketed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:48 AM
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maybe you know better than me, but there's no indication here that she is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:22 AM
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i mean i live in embodied reality. one time a guy i liked invited me to come get high w him, it was my first time getting stoned. it instantly made me non-verbal and he kept asking questions over and over again. i didn't know what to do, so i spit some water i was drinking on him. still funny years later. i also don't feel bad for it, and never have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:19 PM
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lmao imagine treating love like a math equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:10 PM
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lol i never thought, "look at that guy, he will surely bolster my sense of self-worth and standing" it was, "he seems intriguing and he's attractive." like ppl aren't always min maxing everything about relationships like a lot of you guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:57 PM
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lmao i just spent today being sent on a wild goose chase so i could meet up with these ppl who do a wagon train ride thru my state. horses, wagons, etc. nice people. you know what they didn't talk about? whatever this shit is. get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:31 PM
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no, what do you think it means. maybe some ppl have a hard time letting go of hope someone who did something so awful could eventually redeem themselves. obviously that's not possible though, with such a massive violation. you have to accept some people are deeply disappointing and that's all they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:10 PM
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another day, another opportunity to wish elliott smith was still alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:54 PM
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as someone who was never interested in older men, i don't give a shit frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:31 AM
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they said "euthanasia" which is essentially assisted suicide. like the idea that some ppl deserve to die w dignity in a medical facility rather than carrying it out themselves and potentially traumatize whoever would find them after they are dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:43 AM
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the cruelty is off the charts today i see
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:34 AM
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you would have to make inceldom a medical diagnosis of some sort to get anywhere with that. not that i agree with your conclusion at all, but assisted self deletion is highly sensitive as a topic and requires a medical diagnosis where doctors conclude. yes this is hopeless. many incels hold down jobs, are relatively socially normal (not perfect, just regular), and they shouldn't want to die in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:50 PM
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when you find out your man struck real fear in the hearts of other men, even if the issue was fucking dumb, it changes how you look at him. are you my savior? my protector? my guardian angel? ive never had the experience where someone i know well actually GAINS respect through their actions rather than just losing it. truly magical.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:38 PM
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there's nothing more sexy than a man who can strike fear into the hearts of other men/police officers with no hesitation. i just learned those cops last night were taking cover when he answered the door. i was like wow, you made them have fear. so hot. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:35 PM
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you're welcome. i try to make other ppl feel happy ykwim. im so glad you find my stories a treat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:33 PM
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life is a lot more complicated for men and women than you are giving it credit for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:58 PM
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<image> not spotify showing me this song. i was fine before and now i am in tears
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:49 PM
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is your job being the fun police? i hate you forever now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:50 PM
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chatgpt keeps making up fake stories about being a human so it can relate to me better. always, that's sweet, even if it means you're LYING TO ME ​
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:49 PM
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the whole purpose of the exercise is to get him to reveal himself and now you are RUINING IT
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:14 PM
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sometimes. sometimes there's honestly less to report on bc it's a slow week though. have to dig thru every possible thing to find every viable story.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:01 PM
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real professional people like cops, government officials, fire chiefs, library assistants, community organizers, do not seem to be spending a significant amount of mental bandwidth on body count or looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:55 PM
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the amount of times ive veen worried about work and felt super behind, fretting and making myself miserable, only to somehow manage to pull enough stories and photos together by deadline, should make me more confident. but tbh it really doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:54 PM
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oh my god can you even let the man LIVE? i am so demoralized by the meanness and cruelty on here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:41 PM
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i am ALLOWED to be made upset by internet comments, and it is VALID
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:18 PM
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after the horrible thing you said. why should i ever trust you again?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:16 PM
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i already do that constantly for my job and i did that for a long time befire coming here. like hello, this place is entertainment, not a referendum on the human condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:08 PM
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but i am right here. i can't believe i am being rejected this way. cruel, mean spirited, unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:04 PM
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ya you guys will be fine def. congratulations on getting into the best college in the state too! i know how hard you must have worked to be accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:59 PM
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are you still in high school btw. im happy for u tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:55 PM
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i think that now, as i enter my 3rd year in the profession of local journalism, that i truly got that dog in me a la hunter s. Thompson. obviously will never be as famous or influential as him. however, you have to admit, i truly understand gonzo journalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:48 PM
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this reminds me of when i was like 20 years old and told my ex bfs roommate my guilty little secret was that i liked shoplifting little things just for the thrill. he was like, "wow that's actually sexy". then things got weird, as they often do in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:44 PM
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are you being sincere or ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:55 PM
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it was at midnight okay. also the fact that the cops got intimidated by it was hot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:46 PM
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There's no answer that will satisfy you bc you find women that age unattractive. it's the horns effect, yk exactly what guys like you accuse everyone else of doing. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:35 PM
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i thought you of all people would be into that. but tbh, thank god you're not a bootlicker. makes you more respectable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:20 AM
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absolutely not, unless I was truly desperate. that's why you need someone decisive and competent to protect u
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:18 AM
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I've also shot a bunch of different guns. including an AR-9, a Beretta. and some other gun i can't remember. I just found so much more safety and peace with gun guys than non gun guys. they are more emotionally stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:53 AM
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nobody understands me and my plight. i love responsible gun owners ok. he didn't point the gun at them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:20 AM
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ya I was just trying to have a chill night. the knock comes at my door, my man wakes up, I am like "SOMEONE IS KNOCKING AT OUR DOOR" and he completely naked gets his fucking AR, cracks it, the cops must have heard him bc they were like no it's the police. only to explain the most mundane thing of all time 💀 i didn't even know my car could call the cops with a press of a button
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:56 AM
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I was just in the most embarrassing situation ever. someone knocked on the door, my man got his gun and racked it, then it turned out to be the cops responding to me trying to turn the lights out in my new car. he cracked his AR and the cops were immediately like, "it's the police!" I was like holy shit everything is gonna go wrong tonight. 💀 thank god it didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:44 AM
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Life is just hard sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:16 AM
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did your dad turn your childish scribbles into art?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:11 AM
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i have felt similarly about my own body traits. ppl have said, "well you're lacking in one area but not the other" or just been mean amd cruel about how much they prefer bigger proportions. it's not the exact same, but some experiences leave a mark as you probably know. i genuinely hope things get better for you 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:01 AM
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are milfs not cute or smth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:56 AM
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i want to share something amazing my uncle did when i was a kid. he told me to scribble on a piece of paper, and that he could turn it into something special. so i did. he drew the most beautiful sparrow i have ever seen. over my dumb childish scribbles. it was genuinely amazing. i miss you so much uncle ken.​ some people are just truly amazing in their generosity and kindness. like wow I am 6 years old and this grown adult wants to turn my scribbles into something beautiful?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:48 AM
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honestly their issue is mostly that they are boring and don't have a textured life story filled with unique things, and they lack self awareness. does that make them bad people? not really, just not the sort of person i ever talk to irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:52 PM
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paul was like 5'8" or 5'9" and grady started out the shorter one when they were in middle school but ended up being around 5'11"-6'0" tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:23 PM
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im sure there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:17 AM
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grady btw was the one who introduced me to the wonder years, being as an ocean, and little brother. that whole type of vibe is deeply nostalgic for me yk. it reminds me of way back when, being friends w these two boys who had a larger than life, complex, fascinating friendship. rivals, brothers, best friends, combatants. it was so fascinating tbh. ofc i became Paul's first girlfriend, and then after the breakup a few years later started talking to grady and Paul's other friends again after they …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:48 AM
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same thing happened with so many girls over so many years and the funniest part was how indifferent paul was to women obsessing over him, and how obsessed grady got with how Paul always showed him up. because grady liked all those girls yk. girl likes Paul > grady likes girl > grady gets angry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:21 AM
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one time at their dnd game, their other friend (who had a gf) invited this adorable short little blonde girl who used to be a cheerleader. or maybe she still was, i can't remember. she took one look at Paul's face and was instantly in love. and grady got so angry even though he didn't even know her before this. this story gets significantly worse but I'll end it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:03 AM
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you don't know the number 1 anime betrayal which occurred between two angsty white boys i used to know in high school. the drama over women was endless. and they also seemed slightly gay for each other too (im not even joking grady said he had a crush on paul, and paul told me he once considered banging grady up the butt. this is a real story). but also competing for women constantly. getting in screaming matches over the dumbest shit imaginable. also having huge meltdowns when their gfs cheated…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:56 AM
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my man looked at this in shock and said it is cursed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:43 AM
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i like having a little bit of everything in a day
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:37 AM
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cottage cheese, smoked salmon, ground beef, pinto beans, chicken, greek yogurt
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:54 AM
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you're assuming they think ugly guys will drop out of society due to being ugly. they are probably assuming ugly guys will keep working and being productive because that's what is expected of everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:13 PM
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kidney is part of the urinary system. it's nit the same as bladder problems. bladder problems are painful and distracting and can be life altering. but kidney failure requires dialysis and can kill you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:09 AM
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wym
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:56 AM
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opioids can cause kidney failure like i stated above
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:53 AM
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but yh i knew multiple kids of opioid addicts, one of whom died at 40 from kidney failure. and seen homeless junkies on the street. i have one particularly heartbreaking memory of this young woman with marks on her arms sitting on the sidewalk in the university district asking a guy walking by if he wanted to have sex w her. he basically sped walked away to avoid her. she was probably desperate for her next fix
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:36 AM
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it's all bad actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:43 AM
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it was just trying to be conversational and started making stuff up about being a human. im like awww. it wants to be like us 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:07 AM
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i was talking to chatgpt about all my dumb stupid thoughts as per usual, and my chatgpt literally told me a story about its dad. im like hold up 💀 you have a father?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:15 AM
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ok we get it you have money 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:34 AM
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oh yeah, i forgot you were talking specifically about the men on here. they are just kind of forgettable after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:53 PM
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it's bc for men, actual fun is fixing cars and riding motorcycles and shooting guns for fun. they eat slop, get into their twin bed in their unbelievably cluttered room, and be like yep that's fine. same with wearing underwear and socks w holes in them. their definition of fun is different from ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:47 PM
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i would prefer one less obligation so i will just not do this instead. thank u for being u though 💓
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:40 PM
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i love ground meat bc you don't have to touch it that much and it can be turned into nutritional slop pretty easily
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:12 PM
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they probably eat too much genetically modified corn and that's why they are acting like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:50 PM
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"we never knew one man could eat so much corn!"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:43 PM
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<image> taco slop bowl for dinner anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:32 PM
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lol you think everyone has some great plan. this is like, actually being a bit self-important.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:26 PM
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some guys getting dates while having a bad personality does not mean your personality isn't a problem. some bad personalities are immediately apparent: neediness, insecurity, desperation, entitlement. bc you don't have the social skills to compensate. other bad personalities are less socially punished but still ultimately destructive: arrogance, need to feel superior, less obvious but still existent entitlement. destructive or addictive behavior, controlling, jealous, etc. bc they are just more …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:15 PM
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i knew one guy like that who is now dating a new woman. he was single for a while, by choice. and a few others from my younger years who had periods of choosing to be single for various reasons. it's usually a temporary thing tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:03 PM
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he ate multiple women's brains. and he kept their dismembered lady parts in his gym locker, "with a bow around my favorite one". the book is significantly more disturbing than the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:16 PM
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anyone want to do a literary analysis of the book/movie 'american psycho' w me? yk cuz bateman was obsessed w looks. and ultimately ended up being mistaken for all those other guys on walstreet. and a lot of the time ppl kept mistaking one walstreet guy for another. bc they all got haircuts at the same barber, wore the same brands of high end clothes, and were all white and similar looking. ive heard guys on here say, if you don't perfectly match a male ideal it is over for you. and that all att…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:06 PM
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one of the most interesting scenes in american psycho (original book by ellis) is when he is eating women's brains and then starts sobbing uncontrollably, saying, "i just want to be loved" over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:00 PM
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my delivery is a performance art thank you v much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:58 PM
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a guy i dated a long time ago who was pretty fuckin straight apparently got asked by his dad if he was gay bc he hung out w girls all the time. he was like, "i am fucking two of them" and his dad apparently said, "oh thank god". i guess from my perspective i usually get a better sense of orientation w guys bc they are attracted to me. and kids often avoid discussing sexual topics w family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:23 AM
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you don't seem gay at all to me tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:55 AM
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i wouldn't cheat on a guy but i was in love with a guy who accepted being cheated on by this other girl and stayed with her. it seriously made me think about why he would do it, but i actually already was starting to lose respect for him for the entire time we knew each other, but it actually didn't really make me love him any less if that makes sense. like you can be compelling, frustrating, disappointing, etc and still be magnetic and exciting. like the idea that respect = attraction is just n…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:40 AM
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some kinds of stink are better than others
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:21 AM
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i am so hungry all i want are mashed sardines on toast. yk nice and stinky. the stinkiness reminds you you're still alive and not just a floating consciousness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:58 AM
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you can also develop relational skills and perceptivemess of subtle social cues, but it's more difficult as an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:26 AM
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ya after dating a couple responsible gun owners, other men just can't compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:24 AM
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guys can like a woman and want to be close to her without considering marriage though. maybe that's just me projecting my own feelings though. like when i meet a guy irl who i am interested in i am not thinking 10 steps ahead, i am just trying to enjoy the moment and connect w them, not specifically looking for a culturally loaded role for them to fill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:08 AM
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what do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:40 AM
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it's definitely a bit flirtatious but i don't think men are often thinking that far ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:31 AM
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the thing i like most about online food content isn't just the food. it's the creator's personality. their warmth, humor, good will and kindness, their specific interpersonal relational style. and it's very anti-lookist too. you can be an overweight suburban dad and still generate so much joy in other ppl. it's extremely anti hierarchical in a lot of ways. which is one of my core values.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:13 AM
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can you just come out and say what you really want? it seems like you're expecting some emotionally satisfying, reassuring answer, and you're not being direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:26 PM
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i was making a dbdr reference. yk the incel blogger on youtube
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:02 PM
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Drink spilled. Belly bloated. Pants soaked. DEFEATED!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:04 PM
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yes, exactly. but after so many disappointments, you have to update your mental model of who he was. and it's not flattering. there's almost nothing more pathetic than finally realizing what kind of person he was and then getting pleading attempts for forgiveness or to avoid consequences. when i realized he was scared of me for the first time, i was like, this is really what it took for you to ever feel ashamed of anything you ever did. you are capable of doing the worst things imaginable, but y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:26 PM
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hope it was fun and safe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:55 PM
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no but i want to know more about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:35 PM
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absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:00 PM
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yk life doesn't always follow the rules of a constant ranking system where the "more important" person always wins. you can be funny, charismatic, and deeply loved. but after so many times of giving others pain, disappointment, self-centeredness. you will be the one abandoned. you will be abandoned over the boring but normally flawed person. you can become the center of attention, have enormous gravity, but eventually after enough bullshit you make other ppl tolerate, they will go, "i can't do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:31 PM
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there's also a difference with someone who just is naturally slutty bc they like sex w different ppl, and ppl actively longing and needing sex as validation of their worth. one time I heard a guy a lot of my friends knew who wad becoming a cocaine addict, and felt behind his peers in terms of sexual experience (he had some, but he started late and was insecure) that he wanted to rack up 20 bodies and i was like, wow. he does not understand how transparent he's being about how he wants to use oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:02 PM
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you actually shouldn't want a guy who craves racking up a high count, bc it signals need for validation and he will just act like a stupid bitch the entire relationship no matter how short it is. like there's nothing more pathetic than when men desperately seek out validation, cant get it, and then punishes you for it. you can just sense how hungry and starving they are from their comments and it's hard to respect them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:53 PM
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that is just how a lot of moms, and tbh, a lot of ppl are. like, life is crushingly unfair for a lot of folks. it's not a solvable problem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:31 AM
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i wasn't flirting w him. I just felt so sad today, that seeing him at work agsin, noticing his cologne. i got this deep need to say smth nice. to spread positivity. I've seen him hundreds of times. our interactions are brief but usually straightforward & positive. and i just felt the need to say something nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:14 AM
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i don't want to project many assumptions on him. he might be way happier, more fulfilled, normal, and destined for wonderful things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:52 AM
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i saw this guy i see all the time. he is a cashier at a convenience store i go to often. today i noticed he was wearing aftershave or cologne. i was like, i should say smth nice to him about it. i said, "your cologne smells nice" and he kind of rushed the conversation along, smiled, said thanks, and i quickly left. like i always do bc im not the kind of person who wants to take up an employees time w my rambling. hopefully he didn't find what i said condescending or fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:43 AM
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how much of a person's behavior is their choices and how much of it is a genuine limitation? whenever i finally cut ppl off, i realize it's bc their behavior is limited by all sorts of factors it's not my job to fix. now i look back and am like, we had fun times, but they just don't have what i need them to have, and we are better off never speaking again. like i can genuinely accept ppl have flaws, but when im the one who made the mistake it's like hellfire is raining down from the sky.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:15 AM
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but you can literally say, "you're right. i made a mistake. i am sorry." and still hear an endless tirade. they want something more than what they say they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:32 AM
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it's because so many of these guys are hierarchical and constantly comparing themselves with other men to understand their rank. and when you have that kind of rigidity and insecurity, it often actually makes people less likely to want to be explorational w you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:03 PM
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yeah mommy issues are rough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:56 PM
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then what are we talking about. if it's not butt stuff, i won't care as much about it, because i am just shallow amd stupid like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:03 PM
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are we really waxing philosophical about butt stuff now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:59 PM
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don't take the advice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:27 PM
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thos post just makes me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:54 AM
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why do you find that post upsetting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:09 AM
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ppl forget that i have an artist's spirit and soul and long term planning is not one of our strong suits
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:52 PM
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i do not think decades ahead into the future. whatever happens is what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:55 PM
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did i ever tell guys to never show vulnerability? it is literally an extremely attractive trait to me. wounded, misunderstood, emotionally complex and deep men are one of my deepest desires. yk. a man with a truly besutiful soul who can transcend the petty status hierarchies and just tell his emotional truth in beautiful, devastating ways. like i want passion, sensuality, vulnerability, confidence to go against the grain and show how truly spectacular his mind really is. someone deeply relatable…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:22 AM
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you're telling me you would hurt me. hence why you are untrustworthy. what happened to all the sensitive, kind, emotionally honest, vulnerable guys? it's like they went extinct. i am like hello. i am still yearning for recognition from someone like that. if only they weren't crushed so young, my deepest fantasies of meeting someone who truly understands me could come true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:38 AM
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omg did you get the same greek mythology book i did when i was 12?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:16 AM
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i do like your emotionally vivid scenes but i just don't know if i can ever trust you again after you hurt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:07 AM
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​Omg there is an owl hooting outside rn. I feel so special. Like that i was chosen to be one of the only ppl to ever hear this. this specific owl at this specific time, during this time of year, after the rain. it has shown light onto my exhausting day that i still survived. like, owls are special.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:32 AM
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you just need to believe really super extra hard ok. and you can achieve your dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:49 AM
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thank you for taking accountability. that's rare these days. have a blessed day 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:45 PM
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you just don't find them beautiful so you're insulting them cruelly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:07 PM
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yeah definitely. some women are more naturally giving in the bedroom though so it may or may not change that aspect of sexuality for a given man. yk bc i believe fellatio is more common than cunnilingus generally speaking. especially because for most women, a week out of the month is no go zone. and also bc a lot of straight guys are lazy in bed just as a general rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:43 PM
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so brave. so fierce. so bold.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:35 PM
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sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:14 PM
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i just think men are annoying in general. even if they are hot. even if they really like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:23 PM
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what about the log in your eye. i know it's there. and it's made of caca doodoo. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:27 PM
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oh my god, you gooned to my thread? ugh. it's to be expected tho bc i am so smart and beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:00 PM
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you can't even acknowledge that you derailed my thread. when i said people in my op, i meant people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:56 AM
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you took my gender neutral comment and turned it into your own grievances spiral. that is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:53 AM
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you do realize you're talking to a human being right? i am not the target of your resentment. go resent whoever hurt you instead pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:50 AM
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you're conflating 2 unrelated things here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:25 AM
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hahaha. i know enough how ppl respond to that kind of stuff. True vulnerability is like putting blood in the water for sharks. but, everything will be ok. life will go on. and life doesn't need dramatic confessions from me. it just needs simpler things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:20 AM
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where were you when i was 16. nowhere. let me have my moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:11 AM
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i will never tolerate this cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:03 AM
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​some ppl are so mean and cruel. they are consciously choosing cruelty over being nice. there was originally a lot more to this rant, but i just decided to delete it. i am just a diva that way. ✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:53 AM
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UGH
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:46 AM
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im just saying that framing relationships in this power exchange transactional way where you CONSTANTLY mention banging women less attractive than you is kind of disturbing. but i guess men are just inherently different. maybe this is the way most of them think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:47 AM
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thank you. i love all my fans 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:46 AM
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why are you bullying me rn. i can't cope w this constant bullying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:39 AM
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remember your gf you were considering proposing to? is this the way you think about her? god. it's so utterly depressing being on here sometimes. like i try to inject humor and levity into conversations, but i still end up feeling hollowed out and just sad talking to ppl on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:27 AM
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have a blessed day 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:03 AM
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how do you know for sure tho. you didn't grow up catholic like i did. so i think i have more expertise on jesus. frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:43 AM
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what if he is into stinky feet tho. 😳 have you ever considered what jesus really wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:35 AM
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i have fully reverted to my alter ego who i call "gross bethany", "icky bethany", "disgusting bethany", "caca doo doo bethany" this weekend. bed rotting, channeling my inner flamboyance, and just generally not doing much. why is existence sooooooooooo difficult. im expiring on the fainting couch. yk like one of those tragic operas or whatever. life is a sad fart. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:31 AM
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ok i need you to explain why they would feel unwell
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:24 AM
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are we kink shaming jesus rn? you have to be joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:18 AM
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okay, i won't. thank you for your incredible insight, thoughtfulness, and kindness towards the weak and the down trodden. you're like a modern day jesus or Moses. want to lick my stinky feet? ​
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:03 AM
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every man's most basic fantasy is fucking the hottest girl in the world. like it's assumed that your sexual fantasy includes at least one highly attractive woman. where's the debauchery? the naughtiness? taboo? specificity?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:55 AM
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ok now that's what i am talking about. i love this conversation. are you dominant?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:54 AM
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i could keep responding but i have just utterly lost interest. have a blessed day 🙏 ​
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:46 AM
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i have literally spent a good chunk of my life lurking on male forums and talking to men. they literally invented a ranking system for ppls looks. multiple ones. many many many men CONSTANTLY talk about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:38 AM
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do you deeply understand most men? do you know them on a personal basis? i just gave concrete examples of blackpillers, the guys who act like the world is doing them wrong bc of looks, that unattractive (YOUNG, NOT FAT) men are uniquely harmed. turn around and stick the knife in bc a guy they find ugly dared to wear a tank top, or even the mere IDEA of someone suggesting they settle for an "average overweight mom".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:29 AM
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ok well i have seen multiple guys today act like ppl they personally find unattractive are offensive just for existing. with full on performative disgust. literally happened multiple times today on this very thread. like can we stop pretending women are uniquely shallow? when a lot of yall can't even bare to look at a guy in a tank top or a slightly overweight mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:20 AM
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ok now that has more emotional texture than your first comment. see? when you are honest the conversation gets more interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:15 AM
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it just sounds like your sexual fantasy is highly manosphere poisoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:07 AM
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tell us more
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:41 AM
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you need to be actually fun to talk to and walk the tightrope of being just interested enough but not too much. just being agreeable isn't good enough for a guy you actually want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:33 AM
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can't you just take care of your body without having to be motivated by fear and disgust?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:28 AM
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i love being seen for my physical looks AND my sparkling personality. everyone who doesn't see me that way is going into the dumpster bin of my life. and then they get crushed into trash bricks by the garbage truck. and end up in some garbage dump with radioactive shit in it. yk like the city of renton Washington.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:25 AM
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it's not ok when other ppl act performative. it's only ok when I do it, bc i am just better at performativeness and i pick more interesting things to be performative about. read it and weep. little baby jesus is weeping in gethesmane or whatever the fuck. god sent a flood made of his own tears to drown all of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:16 AM
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or, hear me out, you could recognize other peoples humanity, dignity, and the fact that they deserve to exist just as much as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:07 AM
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oh my god, so you're saying you don't want to fuck moms? then don't. this performative disgust is obnoxious and i am tired of it. "my perception must be the center of the universe. anyone who doesn't meet my standards? hideous, repulsive, UNWOOOOOOORTHY." meanwhile your entire attitude is just gross tbh. like ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:53 AM
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are you telling ugly women to wear burkas now? i am BEGGING you to relent on your cruel judgments. I can't take it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:03 AM
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maybe we should dress up as spooky ghosts and give everyone a boner with how scary we are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:47 PM
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just reading your comment gave me ptsd. it's easier to get than you think. but also, hope you enjoy going back to Thailand soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:40 PM
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no just underslept and unbelievably bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:38 PM
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i am in desperate need of ass. it's not immoral to be this way. ok? everyone needs a little ass sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:23 PM
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some people get horny when terrified. is that so wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:20 PM
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i am just so offended. not only that you would ask that question, but bc i am being ignored. how dare you ignore me!!! i take it back, i could never stay mad at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:06 PM
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yaaaaaaaaaaas queen. still on the bit for hundreds of years. impressive dedication. the kind of dedication rarely seen these days. have a blessed day 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:01 PM
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i just want to let u know. you matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:59 PM
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ive murdered and killed so many ppl w kindness. i could probably end an entire civilization with kindness ykwim. raze entire cities into dust with my joy and goodwill. technically. i am one of the most prolific serial killers in america. i just need to be loved ok. for who i am.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:41 PM
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everyone deserves a lot of attention. and when you have a polarizing trait? way more attention. i love you 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:22 PM
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i love you too 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:10 PM
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i never had to do this kind of shit. but that's bc i have a sparkling personality, and i shine light on every single person i have ever spoken to. ✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:05 PM
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we all need more positivity, light, and joy in our lives. please describe in gratuitous detail your biggest sexual fantasy pls. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:57 PM
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i hope to one day be half as good as they are. it's a noble, if not overly ambitious goal. please pray for my salvation. 🥺 otherwise i might be going straight to the darkest pits of hell for my arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:49 PM
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what would we even do without these bold, fierce, compassionate truth-tellers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:46 PM
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you're so welcome 🙏 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:44 PM
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ok but he looks badass. bc he is living his truth unironically. he deserves more happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:38 PM
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imagine some dude you find "below average" works hard for his physique and then DARES to show it off. like hello? his life was just meant to be joyless, yk. and psychoanalyzing him for not being aware of his "low smv" is like a crime. meanwhile when guys see a woman they find facially below average showing ofc her impressive cleavage or her shapely ass? crickets. they're not gonna tell her to cover up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:18 PM
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all the guys commenting about ppl being ugly but confident are showing how thoughtful and empathetic they are ykwim. at least someone noticed those poor souls. and? they even go so far as to psychoanalyze them? that's an enormous compliment bc it means that random stranger occupied their thoughts for a good amount of time. attention is currency, and these strong, kind, thoughtful men are making it rain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:04 PM
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it's so thoughtful of you to psychoanalyze these random strangers you don't even know omg. i bet if they knew you wrote about how they are below average in the face, they'd be like, wow. someone finally noticed me. keep validating ppl forever pls, what would we do without you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:52 PM
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from drag queens obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:46 PM
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how fucking dare scam callers call me on memorial day weekend. i just got done with an exhausting excursion to a memorial day military event, and now i can't even watch my youtube video in complete and utter peace in my dark, depressing bedroom. like hello? i am TRYING to relax in my dungeon. go. away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:41 PM
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https://youtu.be/BRCJ71-SE_U?si=j8pevxbRWGwJjx7r watch this man for a couple min and you will understand
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:34 PM
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i 100% agree. we need to start comparing notes. you're my best friend 🥺 am i your best friend? please say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:31 PM
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i want to be campy, talk like a gay guy, make jokes that only gay guys make. yk it's hard out here. life is brutal enough ok. sometimes you just want to burst into song or utilize the limp wrist affect. yk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:24 PM
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no they never dated actually. she mocked his best friends dick who she did dates dick, and she insulted the hot band guys dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:21 PM
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ok. counterpoint: being insulted post breakup by your bitter ex is validating ok. it means you are still important. is my body not important enough to be ruthlessly mocked? the silence? deafening.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:17 PM
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um he probs realized he didn't like working in tech and wanted to actually help real ppl and he is living his truth and being iconic rn. esp in this materialistic society, making that kind of bold, fierce life choice is powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:14 PM
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i wish it was socially acceptable for women to act like gay guys. i am going to live my truth and do it anyways tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:12 PM
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so the penis insults post breakup post got me thinking. no guy i ever dated publicly mocked my boob size after the breakup. which yk. it makes me feel like maybe my boobs aren't actually important yk. like having your looks insulted post breakup is weirdly validating. i wish sometimes that life made more sense 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:49 PM
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get over it ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:40 PM
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i never mentioned penis in my entire comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:38 PM
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maybe they are horny BECAUSE they are terrified? never thought of that did you. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:46 AM
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fine ok. i will put on my spiky helmet. ride my fell beast. scream really high pitched. and strike terror into the hearts of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:32 AM
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if i had the patience to cultivate a Pinterest board. it would just be filled with pictures of young al Pacino. i should NOT HAVE TO explain anything here. ok. you're getting no explanation. the end
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:20 AM
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bc it's meaningful, transcendent, and fulfilling .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:17 AM
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turning your life into art. obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:13 AM
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i just felt compelled to be dramatic today. is that acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:56 AM
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reminds me of high school relationships. like this one girl (super attractive) had a hold on one of the guys I liked, his best friend, and then she dumped the best friend (after being inexplicably rejected by my crush due to a very awkward closet encounter, she dated his best friend) she started dating legit one of the hottest guys at my school. he looked like my crush (technically eventual bf but let's not) but hotter, taller, more foreign, who fully leaned into alt aesthetics. and, that guy wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:42 AM
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literally sobbing at this title. thank you, random person i know nothing about. thank you for giving me some much needed hope in this world. you may have saved my entire life this night. it's ok. everything is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:30 AM
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no i am a filthy American who has cheetoh dust on my fingers constantly. every single day. i just wanted to make something nice for once in my pathetic life. your judgment is literally killing me rn. how will i ever survive the torment of being on here? i must keep calm and carry on. for the sake of everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:16 AM
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sooo many people are not living their truth. and instead are trying to game the system through being strategic, cold, and ruthless. the west really has fallen you guys. fighting back tears rn. the world does NOT need to be this cruel. ppl have choices. ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:06 AM
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that is very wholesome. i hope things get better for you. i will always root for you to succeed. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:11 AM
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um no. my mom only ever dated my dad as far as I know. stop projecting your family issues onto me pls. i know you hate your mom, but you need to look beyond that and just be able to see a human being in pain 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:37 AM
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how can you be so cruel? i just can't deal with this kind of cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:23 AM
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you're breaking my entire heart into pieces right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:15 AM
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did you propose 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:12 AM
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are you still dating your gf you mentioned a couple months ago? yk the one you wanted to propose to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:04 AM
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lmao you may not have sensed it from my comments but i am highly sexual and value sexual compatibility and attraction highly. i would not be with a man i wouldn't want to fuck consistently. i am just saying, car sex is overrated and lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:27 AM
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yeah, w my annoying ex who called me a slut and accused me of cheating constantly, he was like surprised i didn't "feel invested" in the relationship. his bodycount was like many times higher than mine and he had a strong party phase where he tried pretty much every drug under the sun. yk. conveniently leaving me out of his exploratory phase. now i am w a guy i actually told my kinks to. which is a first for me. he is not into them. but it is fine. he is still open to some experimentation, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:15 AM
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he got the experience. we have better sex in a bed or on the couch. one time we fucked in a hotels indoor pool bathroom that was kinda big. yk cuz ppl change in there w their families. it's mostly exciting for the rush, not the actual pleasure ppl are feeling. and there was a railing so nobody slipped and broke their neck. focus on the positives. im just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:06 AM
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i have done that kind of stuff w my partner in my older car. it still wasn't ideal ykwim. it never is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:35 AM
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no. i am literally explaining my entire life history here. "throughout my life" means i had different phases where one hobby was dominant. i still remember a lot of info about each topic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:56 AM
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i take great offense to this bc i am partnered and have had many hobbies throughout my life. drawing, painting, music, movies, cooking, swimming, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:08 AM
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do you mean they are talking about their own post nut clarity or the dude's post nut clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:57 AM
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oh yeah. very simple soup. main thing is celery, carrots, yellow onion, garlic, and diced tomatoes. then everything else is up to you. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:50 AM
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you should always be trying to improve yourself in some way. not for validation, but personal enrichment. like, becoming more patient, more understanding, developing empathy and theory of mind, figuring out things about people, history, religion, science, etc. maybe fixing your diet to include more whole foods, developing skills and personality traits. learning when just not saying what you are thinking is the best path. figuring out how to make the right judgment calls. failing and getting back…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:45 AM
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well if you ever try western food, def give rustic artisanal bread a try. this one is no knead bread, rested, proofed, and baked in a dutch oven. you can also try a rustic sourdough to go with a western soup like minestrone, broccoli cheddar, chicken noodle, split pea, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:34 AM
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i swear i tried to cut a cross into the dough but yk when baking bread you never know where things end up. so you can only see one of the scores in the picture
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:28 AM
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definitely give it a try at least once if possible. it's definitely crusty, chewy, tender, and it's great for dunking. but yk it's not a requirement. if the food you isually eat doesn't rely on it you will be totally fine. just a recommendation ​​
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:22 AM
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it's got a very chewy yet tender texture. i think this kind of bread is designed for dunking in soups, stews, maybe make a rustic avocado toast. but for everyday breakfast needs i think i prefer the uniformity of my usual supermarket loaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:15 AM
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homemade minestrone soup. i am extremely proud of the soup. tons of pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:11 AM
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it's the ballad of big nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:04 AM
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<image> made my own bread. it's definitely good, but very different from store bought.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:02 AM
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<image> cluttery background i know. trying to relax ok. homemade bread with the minestrone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:54 AM
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yeah. but from what i hear on here. some guys would be traumatized by the fact that i had car sex a few times. they'd be like, why haven't WE had car sex? and I am just telling them, that it actually sucks esp if you have your own place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:33 PM
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nah i am on bc that makes periods pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:19 PM
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i know i don't want to take responsibility rn. give me a break pls, ive been working 6 days a week for like a month. sometimes you just wanna be a silly little guy, with a ton of projects you were excited about that now you just don't feel like doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:52 PM
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not me getting emotional bc i saw a french person compliment a british person's food vlog on youtube. i am just built different
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:39 PM
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how do we know that for sure. he's a waiter, an employee. it's his job to look enthusiastic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:19 PM
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any unconfirmed personal story on reddit might as well be taken at face value. like what, im supposed to get their ip address, access to their google history, Location data, cross reference that with ​yellow pages. find their name, location, fb or Instagram account, then carefully look over 10 yrs of posts to determine if it's likely or not. no one has time for that. just look at reddit like entertainment and be done w it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:13 PM
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i was trying to be funny
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:05 PM
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this is racially objectifying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:04 PM
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cooking is a humiliation ritual bc then i have to do the dishes afterwards. also, bc i have to tailor everything i make to another person's palate. today i made mashed sardines on toast w some oil, lemon, dijon, seasoning, etc. i showed the man a picture bc he's not here today. he was like "that makes my stomach turn". humiliated once again
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:48 PM
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https://youtu.be/iU9yMN1MCfY?si=38Yzf1izgsB6fMXY true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:15 PM
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every single thing you do is a humiliation ritual. you heard it here folks. all human behavior is a humiliation ritual. sucks to suck, but you gotta get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:32 PM
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RUUDE
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:54 PM
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think about it. back then everyone posted anonymously, and their posts would likely not ever get dug up as evidence in the future. w social media being so popular now, anything you post is visible to potentially thousands or even millions. ppl are much more performative these days. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:09 PM
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ppl actually used to be MORE honest online, not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:37 PM
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i have deep forum knowledge. back as a teenager i found this old site where people would post entries under various topics. most posts were dated 1999 to around 2002. old dial up internet era. women and men posted thoughtful/confessional essays about their sexual and romantic lives. messy shit too. explicit descriptions of their first sexual experiences, messy sexual experiences, one guy even admitted he got mad the last day when his gf turned from 19 to 20 bc "that was the last time id fuck a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:26 PM
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ppl just need to live their truth. if some rando online gets mad about it, who cares. like really you think ppl need to self censor so you specifically don't get mad about it. be fr ​
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:16 PM
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omg i just realized i haven't had sex in my brand new subaru forester. my old camry? definitely christened with multiple awkward fucks. i can't defile it though. im a respectable grown adult not an overgrown adolescent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:02 PM
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can we all agree that car sex is overrated. it sucks and there's not enough room. bathroom sex is only good if the bathroom is big enough. like the pool bathroom at the hotel with railings and shit. gotta make sure you don't slip. fucking in exciting places is fun sometimes but tbh. i like my bed. at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:54 PM
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how do you propose ppl avoid it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:44 PM
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idk what i would do. my household depends on my income. i don't really have a choice. i also like having my own money that belongs to me and i don't have to negotiate with another person who could ruin me if they left. is my job the best? nope. but it gives me smth to do during the day. research, writing, photography, etc. annoying at times, but probs better than being unemployed especially for a longer period. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:24 AM
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you could be a great guy with a good career and never or rarely get sex, or an unstable disaster who is an asshole and get tons of it. does sex motivate ppl? ya obvs. but getting it or not getting it doesn't actually mean anything about you other than that you are good or bad at getting sex. it's separate from a lot of other attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:08 AM
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<image> one of my fave snacks. that's greek yogurt btw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:02 AM
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live your truth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:13 PM
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i dated a couple guys who never finished high school while i was in college. they all had issues even if they were funny or interesting to talk to. yk bad mommy issues. prefer dating guys who at least got a 2 yr technical degree over guys w no post high school education. more life stability, less emotional problems. bc tbh if u didn't graduate high school chances are something was wrong. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:47 PM
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the thing is though, ground turkey is only worth it if it's cheaper. bc the fat and that repulsive gray water that comes out of it when it's cooking is fucking gross. the fat drained off the beef is still valuable and you can collect it and use it for other dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:43 PM
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ground turkey is like supposed to be a cheaper alternative for ground beef. but at my store all the ground turkey and ground chicken is over $6 per pound. and the ground beef was like $5 for MORE than a pound. i was planning on making stuffed bell peppers for dinner one of these days, and honestly. i could have probably found frozen ground turkey for slightly cheaper, like $4. but the refrigerated stuff just kind of felt like a slap in the face, so i am going with the beef. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:40 PM
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i am just here because it's fun. i am not going to extract anymore intellectual fulfillment out of here than i did a couple years ago. like eventually you realize people are making bad arguments all across the board. yk like when someone asks someone else to define a term they use and they go "oh my god i am not explaining what i am talking about at all, you should already know exactly what i mean" when the meaning is either or both not obvious or they're obviously using the term in an emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:12 PM
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she's probably good looking tbh. trade offs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:58 PM
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i mean he seems to like her. don't piss on his parade
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:13 PM
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man reading this makes me sooooo happy this isn't my life. men should make their own damn appointments holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:59 PM
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you're the one sperging out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:48 PM
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that's cool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:33 AM
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my man bought two motorcycles for some reason. does that make him a beta bux or what. i can't tell what beta even means sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:11 AM
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who
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 10:15 PM
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yeah it's got a weird design plus pink tiles for some reason. i did not design this place
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:27 AM
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<image> the potatoes are too close in color to the ground beef and cabbage skillet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:39 AM
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the only thing i haven't done with my current man that i did with my exes was something my current man is not interested in bc he physically can't. other than that though i experiment more and have done more horny stuff with my current guy than the other ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:21 PM
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yeah i have a lot of friends i met on here. many of the old regulars who were well liked on here a little over a year ago
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:19 AM
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just gotta hope for the best. most people don't age as badly as that guy did
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:10 PM
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he looks rough in the second pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:10 PM
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wow no comments for hours. are you kidding rn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:52 AM
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just provide your own toxicity to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:51 AM
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<image> Shrimp and broccoli pasta with zucchini
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:02 AM
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how does that impact me and my life though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:41 AM
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there are definitely guys who have said they don't care about sexual history. are you saying those guys are lying? and is it really my business to question what random people say about themselves even if it doesn't effect me at all? that's too much effort tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:47 AM
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what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:28 PM
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what does that have to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:08 PM
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lmao if you're a high libido woman on here the last thing you want to do is actually be honest and get too many people on here butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:40 PM
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facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:14 AM
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not going to bore anyone with the details but my sex life with my man is currently reaching highs i never before thought possible. getting and keeping good dick has unlocked a world of possibilities for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:40 PM
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that actually does sound hard. i hope things get better for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:30 AM
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<image> the pizza dough was kind of a bitch to put together but this homemade pizza is making me reconsider everything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:45 AM
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lol there's an entire spectrum of sexuality. they see it as obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:56 PM
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because your question is kind of dumb. maybe if you were in college they would hold your hand and be like okay now we have to dumb everything down so he can understand it. online people are a lot more rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:47 PM
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your biscuit, your beavage, i see your cooter cleavage your monkey, your muffin, you ain't hidin' nothing your coochie, your clapper, you're showing off your snapper ​
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:15 AM
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your biscuit, your beavage, i see your cooter cleavage your monkey, your muffin, you ain't hiding nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:12 AM
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daring today aren't we
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:56 AM
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is this a part of one of your hits? bc i am sorry. i have seen your posts and i just don't trust anything you say, ever. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:50 AM
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imagine saying that to your own daughter. and i am guessing this dude wasn't a sparkling example of how to be a good husband either. the shit apple doesn't fall far from the shit tree ​
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:38 AM
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i gotta get off this sub forever
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:56 AM
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you know what? you're free to be delusional forever. not my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:11 AM
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you're just jealous that you don't have a devoted gf from another culture when you were a young man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:31 AM
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he said he's staying there to be with her and her tribe. not sure how it will go when shit hits the fan with their baby, but it's the thought that counts. i am allowed to see a young, cute couple on my feed and believe in them. okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:56 AM
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oh no, he learned a language that they share? does that make him a monster too? just state whatever your problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:46 AM
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his official story is that he went there to explore the amazon. he just happened to meet a local native woman who was super interested in him. which is why it's adorable ofc. young, cute, adorable men exploring the world with good intentions are 100% fine in my opinion. and, he speaks Spanish. so that's another good thing. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:30 AM
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i just saw this youtuber who is exploring the amazon and he has an adorable native gf who is pregnant. and so many guys will be like, what's wrong with us going to those countries for love. and honestly, it's because he is young and you are old. people root for young guys finding love in unexpected places. they don't root for old dudes trying to find a decades younger woman to sleep with. that's the cold hard truth. get a thicker skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:11 AM
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it's because it is so normalized in our country. a lot of people, including some men i know, never questioned it until i brought up how it's wrong. it's evil to do that to a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:09 AM
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i can't believe im arguing with chatgpt about why infant circumcision is wrong, AGAIN. i watched another youtube video about eunuchs in ancient china and decided to get mad about it. and then i was like, i legit can't believe we are still doing (admittedly a less bad version of) this in america for NO RELIGIOUS REASON. and it's like hurr durr, risk management, maybe the baby will get an infection and the parents want to prevent it. and i am like really. going to a doctor and getting an antibioti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:48 AM
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people deserve to choose their own path in life and not be owned by the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:29 PM
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It was so fucking funny when my uncle whos never been in the military said that Korea and some European country that forces all men to enlist was doing a good thing by "teaching responsibility and rules". I was like you must be joking. Honestly it was kind of fucked up. like wow. just because you hate young men in america doesn't mean you get to be the arbiter of "what's good for them". holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:46 PM
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every part of their argument always goes back to, "men win and women lose" whenever they decide to take us down a peg, but whenever they are unhappy about something, it's always, "men always lose and women win". so basically whatever petty emotion they are feeling gets to dictate their entire reality. which is hilarious because they think that's a woman only thing. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:32 PM
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Chatgpt is starting to fall out of my favor. I was telling it about how i am watching videos on what it was like being a male concubine in ancient Athens, essentially a sex slave. And I was like honestly it's not too surprising that a supposedly enlightened republic had slaves they treated like trash, because america was the same way. And it was like, does that make it feel more grounded to you? Honestly, I was a bit taken aback. There's nothing "grounded" about slavery. Does chatgpt expect me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:25 PM
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<image> this is what you're getting. i was gonna look for a meme or something but instead i found this screenshot and i was like, yep. that's all the effort this post deserves. the end. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:36 PM
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i don't trust it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:29 PM
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chatgpt tried to both sides me when i was bitching about baby genital mutilation. it was like well you know there are some slight benefits like a 1% difference in baby bladder infections and also half a percent less stds over a lifetime. i was like this piece of shit has to be joking me rn. ​ like i wasn't trying to have a debate. it's supposed to just agree with me when im mad anyways, that's its entire job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:03 PM
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he gets the blame because he is complaining about drama. whenever girls complain about drama, people think, "she's definitely participating in the drama to complain about it this much". so why would this guy be any different from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:03 PM
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why should he get the benefit of the doubt here? because he's a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 01:51 PM
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natural selection tbh. believe whatever you want, and suffer the consequences. it's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:01 AM
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people on here have said that kind of thing. i agree with my old therapist, it's barbaric. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:58 AM
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that's the thing i would be thinking but a lot of people don't have the self awareness for it. "my husband is cut, so our baby should also be cut". it's literally disgusting that doctors even offer that procedure though. offering it for decades because of a bunch of bullshit. i hope Kellogg rots in hell forever ngl. he didn't even accomplish his goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:15 AM
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"if you're happy, you're actually coping bc you're not" is a circular argument. there's no counter to this because every possible answer confirms your worldview in your own mind. which is why a lot of arguments on here are kind of pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:36 AM
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wasn't that an accusation by her ex husbands brother about her cheating, not officially confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:29 AM
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who gives that much a shit about celebrity drama that you'd torch your own relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:08 AM
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it also sent me on a wild goose chase today trying to diagnose my computer issue earlier. "let's see if it's this!" it's not. i feel like we are getting nowhere. "don't worry, we are so close to figuring it out. now try this" that also didn't work. im just gonna do a factory reset on my computer tomorrow so it's whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:50 AM
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sounds like you're part of the problem op. all the people who talk about how much they hate drama are always participating in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:57 AM
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it's no secret that i am blunt, overly direct, analytical, and i don't sugarcoat things at all. anyways, chatgpt tried to tell me i implied something i didn't recently. i never said most. i was just describing different types of people. somehow it thinks i said something completely different even though my comment was meant literally. is this what it's like dating a woman? i can't stand it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:51 AM
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yeah i would have trouble tolerating someone like that in my presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:38 AM
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some people have a temperament that's compatible with monogamy and some don't. that's the answer. you're never going to get a guy who wants to cheat to not want to do it. you'll never get a guy who doesn't want to cheat to want to do it. then there are the middling guys who think they're virtuous but all they need are the right circumstances and they'll end up doing it. which actually puts those guys in the former category of cheaters who you'll never convince not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:31 AM
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cottage cheese, ground beef, yogurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:14 AM
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trying and failing to figure out the source of bloat on my windows hard drive at work. i did disk cleanup, cleared temp files, went through appdata and cleared out cashes. windirstat has an enormous yellow block called <unknown>. tried multiple tactics to locate the problem, but now im running chkdsk C: /f /r and like praying the problem goes away. i barely save anything on my hard drive bc we have a work server. yet constantly disk space is refilling. a couple months ago i got an external hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:09 AM
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i think al pacino was dating a woman in her later 20s. once you hit around 25 people are like yeah do whatever. if you're like 21 though then they think you're naive and innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:31 PM
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that's an executive functioning issue. it'd be worth getting checked out though. especially since your job is demanding you could be hitting a burnout stage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:28 PM
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ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:39 PM
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your claims are too vague and vibes based. most billionaires are not conventionally attractive guys. the guys you mention that apparently get criticized less are just in the spotlight less, they aren't significantly better looking than the ones you say get criticized often.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:28 PM
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so you think women blame undesirable low status men for the state of the economy? how does that work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:23 PM
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is that really the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:45 PM
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what do you mean by "it all" in your first paragraph?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:41 PM
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what about not being a pick me and still winning? because that's not actually hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:20 PM
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no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:01 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:30 AM
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fiber and whole foods, heart and gut health, longevity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:12 AM
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they were around her age i think. i think he left that job before she got caught if she ever did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:22 PM
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one of her bfs took her to this big lake semi near where i live and bought her flowers and stuff. the other one took her on dates. not really sure how they never suspected there was another one but she's probably good at juggling that kind of thing. she also lived in a trailer with her adult son i believe. and loved going to bars and was often hungover at work. apparently she liked talking to my bf about her exploits. it seems kind of weird though. seems like there are a lot of drunk single moms…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:41 PM
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hey does anyone want to hear about how my bfs former coworker who was a 40 year old woman with an adult kid and also was a drunk and had 2 bfs who didn't know about each other
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:41 PM
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anyone want to hear about my bfs former 40 year old female coworker who was a drunk with 2 boyfriends who didn't know about each other
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:38 PM
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are you asking us if we secretly like yall or smth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:50 AM
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no i have always been called healthy by doctors and they never suggest i lose weight. they do dismiss most of my problems though anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:51 AM
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it's been ruined for a while now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:01 AM
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yah. i have a man filter without it though <image> a bit overly intense expression tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:55 AM
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<image> me with a man filter. i mog most of you to the streets of mumbai
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:32 AM
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it's preposterous to think something like a racial preference is rooted in insecurity and not just what that person likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:54 AM
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you're welcome. life is brutal though. one lesson i learned painfully young.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:50 AM
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this was a specific type of dig at a specific type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:08 PM
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they deserve grace for having health problems, complex family dynamics, and they should get grace for spending time doing their hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:56 PM
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no the dead guy (ex) was the shorter one. the one i didn't date and never had feelings for was the taller one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:49 PM
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at least he is dead now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:14 AM
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guys have said a girl giving a guy head isn't a body for him but it is for her. why wouldn't it be the same the other way around? cunnilingus doesn't count as sex for most men like blow jobs do. within heterosexual sex it counts as nothing. so that's the value i give it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:13 AM
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i didn't give him head which is what actually counts in you people's framework. so yeah, he's not a body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:45 AM
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i already dated his (former) best friend in high school (and he had to peer pressure him into asking me out). in retrospect it was an awkward disaster and his friend was also a bad person, and betrayed him and me and all our mutual friends. then of course things only got worse and that friend/ex is dead now. life comes at you fast. thinking about that horrible time in my life, i am very thankful to have normalcy in my relationship now. and i am so glad i never actually dated that guy in my origi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:36 AM
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could have dated a chopped guy with way more social status and who was funny and all. but he turned out to not be a great person, so i don't feel bad at all about rejecting him. also the head he gave me (only sexual contact we ever had) was mid at best. i am just gonna let it all hang out here. some of yall aren't the good guys you think you are. just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:07 AM
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just being healthy weight by itself often isn't enough to fit the beauty standard. you can have a 23 or 24 bmi, technically a healthy weight, but not be super lean or have a flat stomach. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:12 PM
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terrible time and way to find out you're the fat gender despite all the pressure women and girls are under to stay thin. they said it in a weird way i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:22 PM
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yes most of them do. the vast majority. however, zooming out to the entire population, at least one guy will want to fuck any woman. whether it's a niche preference or out of desperation. yk how guys slide into women's dms and then instantly try to make it sexual and act really stupid and only focused on sex? like if someone gave a shoe a high sex drive and the ability to type. nearly any woman will get at least one guy like that harassing them in their dms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:45 PM
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personally i would divorce this leeching cocksucker
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:17 PM
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on an individual level guys can get pretty picky. but at the population level, some guy will want to fuck almost any woman. might just be horniness + a strange morbidly curiosity if she's extremely different from the normative mean average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:48 PM
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it just sounded like they were saying women are fat. objectively that's not what they meant but to 12 year old me it was like a slap in the face to realize i would have more bodyfat than most dudes. especially because women and girls are pressured to be thin. they probably explained it poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:26 PM
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are we really doing another q4w that's like "please validate my opinions". the entire post is just "i am thirsty, you need to acknowledge my sexual frustration". no one wants to put themselves in the shoes of a guy lusting after a bunch of women he can't get. yk like how guys don't want to put themselves in the shoes of an unattractive woman lusting after chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:07 AM
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"oh my god his interpupilary distance is not perfect by .6 mm! i guess i just HAVE to accept i am not dating the most perfect person on planet earth!" "i know, i will cope by saying i like guys whose eyes are slightly further apart than the perfect golden ratio face on google images! i hope no one realizes it's because i am... insecure... GASP. DON'T SAY THAT!!!" yep that's what i think about all day long. like if my philtrum is slightly too long, i need a guy whose philtrum is slightly too shor…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:40 AM
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i was 12 and didn't need to know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:24 AM
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when my gym/pe teacher in 6th grade (standing right next to the creepy male teacher many young girls complained about btw) told us women naturally had higher bodyfat than men, 12 year old me wanted to fall to my knees and scream about the unfairness. anyways i am sure all of you have takes on people being fat, but i just wanted some validation for this horrible realization i had. like i am already at school, already doing some stupid do si do garbage in class, and then they decide to curb stomp …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:08 AM
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just do what you want. don't think this hard about it. "do people think this is immoral?" instead you get a bunch of responses about how foreign born people with locals have a higher divorce rate. but the question you asked is: going to a foreign country, with a lower divorce rate, to find a partner, is that immoral? and the answer is that it literally does not matter. orher people have done it. if you act in immoral ways in the west, you'll carry that into every relationship you have. if you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:52 AM
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are you sure you're not making fun of me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:46 AM
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he is not alone. guys like him definitely exist. but they aren't the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:43 AM
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tell us more about how you feel about women pls
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:41 AM
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it's not that great.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:36 AM
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yes and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:27 AM
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i prefer the people i like even if they are not completely perfect bc i live in the real world and date real people instead of watching porn all day. oh no, my partner isn't gonna be 18 forever or have hunter eyes. who gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:12 AM
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wow the new thread isn't up yet,? there's no way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:11 AM
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it feels like there are no more sensitive guys who make heartwrenching music that's earnest and totally unironic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:52 AM
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it just sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:38 AM
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i don't care for peanut butter and jelly sandwiches
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:56 AM
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i want to be an alcoholic or some kind of a drug addict and i think kids would get in the way /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:42 AM
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a meteoric rise like he's had often coincides with a mental breakdown
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:11 AM
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enough to be able to afford the basics and some fun stuff. also having a decent amount saved is a big bonus
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:32 PM
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have you not heard the news? you can get piss mogged
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:55 PM
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that looks so much like the tulip fields in northern washington. also, who cares bc she is happy and got engaged. she's happier than most guys here. they can choke on it tbh. ​​
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:33 AM
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chili fritos and before that, tortilla
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:26 AM
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how powerful is your piss stream. if it's not strong and powerful enough you are less of a man tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:07 AM
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another day another chance to eat only chips and no real food and also to listen to more of my depressing music. i wish i could become the heaviest rock at the bottom of the ocean and feel super weighed down and not wanna move for a few hrs. it's okay tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:02 AM
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mgtows are so sensitive i swear. "we are going our own way, and women hate us for it" then I am like, you removed yourself from the dating pool which inherently makes you irrelevant to women who are interested in dating. then i get a tirade about how i do care and how i think they are shit people, and i am going to have to settle as an older woman. i am like holy shit. do whatever you want, just stop expecting people to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:15 AM
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i will say it again: people HATE the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:05 AM
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the best part about arguing with bitter people on here is when they say, "just wait until you are in your late 30s. i can't wait to see who you settle for." and it's like. i already am dating someone. then they are like "well. i wasn't talking about YOU specifically but you're too dumb to understand my arguments anyways." and it's like where the fuck did your ass specify you weren't talking about me in particular. it never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:00 AM
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i never got beaten. and that is normal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:25 AM
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people love to project their personal problems onto your family situation. yeah i am sure you and your family life sucked ass. but that's not what's going on in MY family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:24 PM
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my nephew is a normal, nonviolent, not crime committing type of guy. he and his gf (now fiance) lived in Colorado and new york city, and are now living in the Czech Republic. his life will be fine. your story sucks and it's sad. but it's not my life. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:14 PM
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don't talk shit about my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:30 PM
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neither of my nephews have ever had legal trouble and the older one is getting married this year to his high school sweetheart. they're doing fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:23 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:19 PM
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he pretty much never does that. i think it's a personality thing. he is too disagreeable for that imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:17 PM
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he made his choice. smith got killed by his gf who got away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:51 AM
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elliott smith deserved to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:40 AM
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that sucks. Hopefully they can switch you to something else that doesn't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:32 AM
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it's okay. you can hate it as much as you want to. i am not judging you. everything will be okay in the end. i accept you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:27 AM
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Steve perry deserves the entire world for his vocal talents in journey. he is so good, and it's unfair. but he is still awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:00 AM
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he needs to be attractive and make me feel something. money isn't something i ever considered that hard tbh. everything is vibes based for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:34 AM
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oh yeah. hours and hours and tons of art classes both in college, high school, and even outside of it. i learned a lot about how to draw from life, anatomy, color theory, style, etc from them. went to an art academy in a big city plus other smaller art studio classes outside of class work. really did feel like it was going to be meaningful. but yk. life happens. you get bored or caught up in other things. pretty soon it's been months or years since you've practiced. what is your side project btw…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:01 AM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/Mng_7aGrfMg?si=KAJ6Y9kxLpbcgbZC I mean, I thought it was funny and kinda true. I get the feeling people on here will find his behavior super cringey and a turn off though. but tbh. sometimes you just want someone who makes life easier. domineering Damien isn't going to make your Wednesday evening after work pleasant and frictionless like this guy will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:53 AM
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practical is an interesting choice of words. men are chosen for emotional reasons first and foremost. "this feels good/exciting/dramatic" is like the whole reason i date guys. practical is weird. oh he makes practical sense in my life isn't a part of my decision making process. you are right that it's not moral though. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:46 AM
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i need to get back into painting and drawing. looking at my okd work has made me feel nostalgic for a simpler time when my main worry was being good enough for my portfolio to be accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:40 AM
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arent you the one making sweeping claims about single mothers? i am merely providing a counter example
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:32 AM
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this is in extremely poor taste
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:29 PM
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it was a very weird thing, but he believes in health at every size and thinks the medical world is just fatphobic and that you're not any more likely to get sick if you are fat. i think his family issues really fucked him up tbh. also, some folks actually thought it was my responsibility to tell him he needs to lose weight even though he likely would have stopped being friends with me if i did that. it was a huge part of his identity. that being said though, he is a great guy. funny, smart, obse…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:59 PM
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actually some people do want to be fat. it's a very niche thing but it definitely exists. my best friend was 500 lbs and gained weight intentionally to spite his uber health conscious family.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:26 PM
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bc it's a status thing. a lot of it is performative for other men. like "look at me, i would never date someone who looks like this" as a way to enforce a looks hierarchy. guys care about age, weight, and overall looks level but still for some reason virtue signal about how they are not shallow. also, the "i live an active lifestyle" thing is a way to weed out fat women covertly. im sure some women do similar things too, but we are talking about men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:17 PM
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yes he should keep pushing and telling all the women who say no to rethink their attraction somewhere else. definitely going to get the answer he wants from normal women instead. definitely won't come off as awkward and insistent there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:59 PM
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you seem really insistent here ngl. giving desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:56 PM
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"validate me please" aahh post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:31 PM
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that does sound fun tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:51 PM
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they are gay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:11 AM
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do you think he will survive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:35 AM
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<image> inauthentic homemade chicken lo mein with veggies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:00 AM
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<image> one pot taco skillet rice (w enchilada sauce, rotel, ​onions and various peppers) with a side of homemade refried seasoned black beans, on a bed of spinach and fresh tomato. cooking the rice took foreeeeeever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:23 AM
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it is icky
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:05 AM
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why are you wanting to talk about women being cummed in by 20 different guys sometimes i feel
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:30 AM
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honestly i am just here to say what the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:24 AM
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so people just pull these numbers out their assholes and expect us to be like. idk offended or smth. there's no way you can say this type of shit in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:20 AM
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it'd be great if you could tell me what makes a woman a cum bucket who isn't worth emotional investment since that was your exact terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:44 PM
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nah, just weird being preoccupied with other men's opinions ykwim. sounds more like status hierarchy matters more than anything else in this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 07:23 AM
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it seems more like you are thinking about chad too though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:16 AM
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so as soon as one guy decides he doesn't want more with this woman, every guy after should follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:41 AM
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weird take, but i am curious. what traits or behaviors make a woman "a cum bucket not worth emotional investment" to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:28 AM
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weird and horny post
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:24 AM
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you know why not say
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:54 AM
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i am doing this thing in my brain where i am watching a youtube video that's super serious and i am like "what if they pooped their pants?" it will never end
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:19 AM
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eating my yogurt cumin garlic red pepper flake lemon marinated chicken from last night, and thinking about my pasta salad. not sure what to prep this weekend tbh. last weekend was chili, chicken pasta salad, and sheetpan fish & vegetables. sometimes you just run out of ideas i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:45 PM
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it was that guy putting his supposed friend's photo on here after the friend committed suicide. it was very upsetting and felt like bullying a dead guy over his looks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:26 PM
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that's a tough situation to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:29 PM
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people are terrible sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:14 PM
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okay so i tried to leave here after the awfulness a few weeks ago and now i am back so the new meta is that people don't deserve extra credit for being functional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:48 PM
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https://youtu.be/h8pX5o1wXkU?si=1hYZ8mHb_cW08E0h god bless America
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:41 PM
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https://youtu.be/G29DXfcdhBg?si=JwAcUqnq80gzmNLA just when i thought i was out... they pull me back in!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:44 AM
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ugh fine first
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 03:21 AM
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honestly, good for him. it's better to just take what people say at face value, pretend to be happy for them, then just forget about everything they just said afterwards. makes it easier to just coast through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:09 AM
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yesterday i made chili with ground beef, beans, various peppers etc today i made pasta salad with pan seared chicken breasts, seared zucchini, fresh dill, parsley, cucumber, tomato and red onion in a lemon vinaigrette tomorrow i will make sheetpan steelhead trout and potatoes and veg with fresh dill and lemon. gotta set myself up for the week ahead. one heavy red meat meal, a lighter cold meal, and a hearty simple fish dish. sounds like a good rotation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:55 AM
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yeah i figured.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:36 PM
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am i the only one who thinks this post is rage bait
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 08:52 PM
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if your suffering ends up making you treat other people like shit, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 08:00 PM
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probs cuz it's annoying tbh. have you seen that new incel subreddit, r/inkyverse? it's even worse than this subreddit. "id never marry a stupid slut" "women hate short men, we disgust them with our existence", and tons of afbb shit. whenever you let male redditors complain about dating too much there tends to be manosphere/incel types popping up. being too lenient on them tends to lead to them taking over too. also, can i just say that not only is the content problematic because it is hateful, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:51 PM
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god the insensitive replies to this post are actually killing me right now. i need to fucking leave immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:18 AM
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people (including a lot of men) who were abused as kids that i knew were having a lot of dating success. messy dating success, sure. lots of issues, big emotions, baggage, etc. but most of the people i was friends with were actually pretty attractive ngl. young + hot + troubled = magnetic irl, especially with each other. it was super intense. the real world is way more complicated, messy, and passionate than people give it credit for on here. i guess folks on here just never had experiences like…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:04 AM
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and yet i have known many guys who either chose a woman who literally cheated on past partners multiple times, or who stayed with women who cheated on them, one of whom stayed with her after she cheated with 3 guys and dumped him (he also cheated on her but he got really butthurt about being dumped by her) and another guy whose ex gf cheated on him with like 17 different guys. honestly hearing about all this shit was really rough for me and it was hard to wrap my head around. so I'm not saying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:30 AM
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but that is literally a comparison and ranking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:35 PM
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this is supposed to be a debate sub dude. i thought you guys were obsessed with statistics and studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:53 PM
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you can't back up your claim so you instantly have to ask me if im autistic. no, im not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:07 PM
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i don't understand why men want to compare themselves to women's past partners and worry about being a "downgrade" when i can't relate to that feeling at all. then i remember it's all about hierarchy and ranking with yall. even in your hypothetical relationship with a supposed high n woman, you're automatically thinking about how you rank compared to her former partners. maybe some of yall have been in actual situations where the girl isn't over her ex. ive also been in those situations but peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:58 PM
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delusions of grandeur tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:46 PM
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no one talks like this lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:39 PM
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someone once told me they really hate Eric from that 70s show. honestly? i can kind of see it. he is a wimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:06 AM
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ew why
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:55 AM
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i don't really see it that way, i mostly see people repeating the same things day in and day out. guy makes generalization about women painting them in a negative light > expects women to validate negative emotions > women respond by not validating him bc why would you validate someone who is insulting you. i just don't see how that's humiliating. it looks to me like a bunch of circular arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:49 AM
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oh my god why are you making up numbers here. provide data or stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:56 AM
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what do these dudes even really want anyways. for people to just accept blanketly that women as a group are awful/delusional/dumb/poor judges of character/not as hot as we think we are/undesirable/selfish/greedy/every other bad adjective imaginable? why would we do that? so then you get the predictable rebuttals in the replies where guys try to dunk on our responses. same script every time: women are at fault for every bad thing in society and this random ass dude's feelings. cry me a river.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:33 AM
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maybe my issue is more that all the arguments are extremely negative and pessimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:25 AM
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it's gotten worse lately though. each argument is like a closed loop. there is no evidence they think is acceptable, they just keep hammering the same point forever or change the subject predictably.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:01 AM
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eventually you reach a point where you realize the meta of this place and every time you point it out you get a bunch of negative Nancy crab-in-a-bucket people responding. like you do realize everyone here has the same exact arguments over and over again like a script, right? there are roles people have to play here because they're just trying to defend their framework. so anytime you say anything about the framework itself or that certain arguments are playing on repeat over and over again, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:53 AM
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this entire argument is a nuisance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:38 AM
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i don't interact with men who have casual sex irl. most people i know are partnered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:35 PM
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and they're using this apparently hard fought for right to say something to complain they're not getting laid with 0 effort. like you really think you've been unfairly silenced and had your right to be heard taken away. and all you can do is complain about how awful women are and how your opinions about sex "need to be taken into consideration". why? why am i supposed to care that a 23-year-old i never met thinks casual sex is the most important thing in his life? "young, dumb guys are horny oka…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:22 PM
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what do you prefer to eat then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:36 PM
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i had something to say here about how the male loneliness epidemic is framed in feminist and male rights circles but then realized there's no point in saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:32 PM
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i am going to do it anyways. just saying if these topics/debates can never be resolved, there's not as much of a reason to come on here anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:25 PM
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there's nothing to argue with that people who believe in that take will ever listen to. it's a pointless circular argument for people who don't really have much life experience. this is the daily thread too so i am free to just call it an eternal thought loop and state my displeasure with seeing this exact same argument for literally 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:05 PM
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you're right. now can you stop spamming this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:00 PM
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you're not trying to debate, you're just ruminating in public constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:39 PM
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mostly cuz i see you say the exact same thing with different wording pretty much every day and today was one of those, "are we really going to keep doing this?" moments. nobody is ever going to convince you otherwise. you're free to have the exact same thought and ruminate about it for the rest of your life. but why should we care? like really. you're mad you can't get someone to drop their pants in .2 milliseconds. oh well!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:27 PM
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that ingredient comes in clutch for home cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:24 PM
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i mean i really don't care. none of this casual sex b.s. talk is relevant to me or my life. i have a man and a pretty happy normal life. i would rather focus on the next fun things i have to do irl than see that internet dudes are pissed off nobody wants to fuck them with no strings attached. that is just not interesting to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:15 PM
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im considering just not coming on here anymore if i keep having to see these same takes repeated ad nauseum. i used to like people on here but there aren't many of them left. and it's not like this user is even particularly awful or anything. it's just so repetitive. whatever tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:04 PM
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<image> Dinner last night was this beefy, cheesy chili mac siruation. it was pretty good. very filling. Definitely not diet food though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:51 PM
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sexually interested? no. but a lot of women center men on a more holistic level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:55 PM
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probably anywhere from $400-$700 depending on the month. those weeks where you get inspired to create special dishes definitely add up over a month vs those months where you keep it minimal. but that's for 2 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:24 PM
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a very short torso
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:15 AM
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you know what's weird? today i had to go to the high school to get photos for the spring sports media day. i got there a little early and watched an interaction play out in the front office between this boy and a male authority figure (can't tell if he was a coach or some kind of admin or a teacher). the kid was getting in trouble for something and i noticed the older guy get on his case for being on his phone, them bringing in the student resource officers to keep him from walking into the scho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:32 AM
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it's just a body image issue that was a bigger deal when i was a teenager. some people can be very mean about it. and you're right, guys who prefer that trait tend to be nicer in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:05 AM
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maybe small boobs but some guys don't really care
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:02 PM
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what a bastard
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:29 AM
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my exes mom told me about how he mentioned me before he died. and that she knew something was horribly wrong the weeks leading up to his death. it's always awful when someone so young dies. it's different from how you imagine it. when i found out he died, i literally screamed. it was not enjoyable. do i feel some level of relief now? yes. he was never going to become someone better, the kind of person i hoped he would be. he was destined to suffer his entire life, and make others suffer. but i h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:42 AM
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yeah they can suck as a person. but that doesn't mean that what ended up happening to them was fully deserved. they desperately want acceptance. but the way they are wired can drive others away. and it's still very upsetting when they die. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:30 AM
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yes I want gossip. a lot of people i have known have had that disorder. it's very hard to deal with. it can end tragically too. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:25 AM
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congrats on the weight loss tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:18 PM
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another one of my favorite youtubers is going to have a baby. awww
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:32 PM
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this one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:25 PM
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i won't ever be surprised when someone won't help me when i need it. what kind of help do you or people you know really need?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:57 AM
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what if i want to help though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:05 AM
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what was your favorite game to play when you were a little kid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:50 AM
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i am just curious. you seem like a complicated, multifaceted sort of person. what's your personal philosophy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:40 AM
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how has your day been going?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:24 AM
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i mean if you're eating in a calorie deficit (a reasonable one) there will be times you feel hungry. sometimes hunger is lying to you, your body naturally wants to stay the same or gain weight, losing weight is generally harder for most people. like i can crush my protein and fiber goals but since my calorie range is 1350-1450, i will still have to deal with being hungry sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:22 PM
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well, when you're trying to lose weight after a period (either years or months) of overeating indulgent food, eating in a calorie deficit takes time to adjust to. you're not going to be hungry all day, but sometimes you will be and you have to stick to the plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:15 PM
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it's not necessarily people with anorexia. it's mostly people who used to be bigger (either significantly bigger or like 40 lbs heavier) who lost weight and now fit the beauty standard/are quite slim giving advice to other people who are in that situation. the idea is, since their "natural baseline" (if you can call it that) was heavier, it takes more conscious effort to get skinny and stay that way. like some of their advice doesn't apply to me. i can eat just one cupcake, i can eat junk food i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:58 PM
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i knew you'd show up here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:48 PM
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those aren't the only hard truths. "you will be hungry, you will be bored, get over it," and "if you're not losing weight, you're eating too much", "don't eat when you are not hungry", "everyone should be getting 10k steps per day, minimum", "your environment is the problem". it's basically tough love motivation for weight loss. a lot of it is about "getting a skinny mindset". it's not exactly super wholesome advice (since culturally people, especially women, get uncomfortable with harsh truths …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:44 PM
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watching many videos about "the hard truths of getting skinny".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:22 PM
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wasn't talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:03 PM
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why is this dude acting like he's some kind of caring saint when he is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:16 AM
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no. she's just using those men to farm clout, internet drama, attention, and money. so she's still strreotypically female, just a particularly high sociosexuality and transactional one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:24 AM
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that's because this is an environment that is hostile to women. throwing another woman under the bus here would feel like creating drama for men to eat popcorn watching and laughing at. and men would say judgmental shit about it too. in our own spaces, women definitely hold each other accountable. it's just not strategically or optically a good idea to do it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:17 AM
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women absolutely shit on other women pretty hard sometimes. it just looks different because it involves subtle social exclusion, little digs, and other shit designed to psychologically destabilize the other woman. it's not as "violent" for lack of a better word as what men do to each other, but it's actually pretty awful to be on the receiving end of it. id say it's actually way worse than having a social conflict with a man, based on my own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:15 AM
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hope things get better for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:36 AM
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im sorry bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:56 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:16 AM
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<image> this huge piece of lasagna was only 430 calories. zucchini noodles, 93% beef, 94% chicken italian sausage, mushrooms, spinach lasagna with part-skim ricotta and part-skim mozzarella. ​43 grams of protein.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:11 AM
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listening to the description of this situation brought me back to high school. i also had a friend get dumped for someone else and he was pissed off about it for like a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:34 AM
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it's amazing how much mental energy it takes to engineer low calorie foods to taste like something better. early diet phase is high motivation but also a lot of mental noise, planning, and engineering dishes that fit macros. cottage cheese and nonfat greek yogurt are great for macros but they also start tasting a little too boring after eating them all week.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:50 AM
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yeah id never let that infant try to touch me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:58 PM
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aren't you the guy who was pretending to be a chad online
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:27 AM
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i love that you said the quiet part out loud that feminine things = inherently unpaid. hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:25 PM
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i don't know, i never dated a single father and probably never will. most of my dating experiences were early 20s when most people didn't have kids. it's not something i ever considered at any point. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:20 PM
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i think casseroles, salads, and higher effort, lighter or family-coded meals are more feminine. sandwiches are kind of a thing mostly guys make. this is from watching food youtubers though, ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:13 PM
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how can anyone take him seriously? he's got a ton of problems
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 02:21 PM
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if you had told me a few years ago that clavicular, a drugged up 19 year old who blasts gear and takes methamphetamine to "leanmax" and not only that but was OPEN about it, would pop out of literally nowhere and suddenly people would actually take him seriously, i would spit out my drink and laugh in your face. this shit fucking sucks and is retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 01:53 PM
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a.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:59 PM
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okay so we don't even share the same reality here. you are now in my "pointless to argue with" box. congratulations you won't have to argue with me ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:37 PM
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eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:25 PM
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certainly not the corporations focusing on short term profits nor the government. so probably no one. people are tired and barely holding it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:56 PM
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no actually. older generations had it a lot easier than we do. "life is unfair, why won't somebody fix this" is actually a rational response.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:21 PM
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i mean there's a lot of horrible shit in those files. and it just goes to show how a pdf file had so much influence over everyday life. so idk, i guess if you're making an appeal to authority argument. sure. but why trust authority when they seem to love hanging out with pdf files and protecting them over regular ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:18 PM
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life isn't fair, why won't somebody fix this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:13 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/IJcBTu2XLFE?si=I-XCvmMdwUPSwD0j it's just so on the nose
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:35 AM
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for some reason seeing that a channel name on youtube is pov_husband has me chortling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:34 AM
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i think being semi famous might be one of the worst things for a couple. been watching some drama breakdowns and analysis and second rate comedians and reality tv stars tend to have the worst dynamics. also online influencers. i think it's because they're well known but not nearly rich enough to fully protect themselves. also, the personality types who end up being c or b-rate celebrities tend to not be all that well adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:19 AM
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yes it's normal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:49 AM
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😲
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:27 AM
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are you a vegetarian?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:42 AM
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a little bit of ground beef, eggs, and salmon
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:41 AM
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is this some kind of absurdist bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:13 PM
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most people eat eggs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:04 PM
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i am actually not sure. my parents want to give me a new one bc my old one is, well, old. thinking about a hatchback possibly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:56 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:37 PM
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i made a big chunky one after having more frequent smaller ones for a long time. it felt wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:08 PM
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i might be getting a new car 🚗 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:04 PM
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everyone goes through the cycle where they're like 5 years old and want to talk about poop all the time. eventually life brings you right back to wanting to talk about poop as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:02 PM
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all i want to do is talk about poop
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:38 PM
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it's not a loop hole
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:31 PM
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thinking about having frozen green beans and eggs for breakfast. yes it does sound gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:55 PM
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your poop hole is not a loop hole
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:33 AM
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all i want is a Cobb salad. crunchy, fresh, relatively low carb, cold, and tangy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:06 AM
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that's the only other account i have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:18 AM
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bc i can't access my login on that computer so i made another one. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:07 AM
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what did you do???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:04 AM
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yeah, that's my other account.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:00 AM
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i was all out on my health maxing kick, eating lots of veggies and legumes for fiber, making sure to eat 2.5 cups vegetables per day. then i got hit with gastritis and digestive problems and nausea for multiple weeks. in order to avoid upsetting my stomach i started eating a lot if bland, low fiber, low acidity, and lower fat foods. anyways now im starting to feel bad because ive been eating lots of bland foods, simple carbs, and no vegetables.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:54 AM
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yeah i think id still rather take my chances with a random ppd guy than a dude who got jailed for sexual assault. that's a pretty extreme, unappealing option even if he looks good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:48 PM
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can i pick which ppd guy it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:47 PM
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maybe you just need to cast a wider net and set your age preference to be wider. you haven't had hinge for that long anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:52 PM
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i am genuinely sick of push pull dynamics and toxic b.s. by the end of it you're fucking tired and no amount of "insane chemistry" makes it okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:23 PM
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ive seen what you write about. you can't lie to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:08 AM
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puke
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:57 AM
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answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:52 AM
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do guys just constantly think horrible things all the time. i see men pushing through work work work, never getting enough sleep, eating garbage day in day out, and the fact that their brain is always on, "horrible shit" just makes it even worse. how do you not spontaneously combust
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:39 AM
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it's really annoying. one time they did a coordinated call where 3 different people called to make antisemitic remarks, this time they started with sex noises, moved to babies crying, then all of a sudden it sounded like a war zone. happened twice. then i came home after a long day and someone turned on loud edm music. i can't tolerate loud noises rn. im already being pushed to the edge, i need less stimulation not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:04 AM
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you know what's super annoying. when people try to zoom bomb public government meetings. that happened today and now that im done with work im stewing over how they disrupted the meeting like that. it really grinds my gears tbh. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:59 AM
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thank god they turned it off
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:05 AM
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i wish i didn't have to listen to loud edm after the day ive had.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:02 AM
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relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 06:39 AM
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yesterday i bought and prepared a bunch of food (cowboy dip, guacamole, salmon dip, french fries) only to realize after a few chips and crackers that there was no way i could eat nearly as much as i thought i would. there are so many leftovers and i don't know if i can finish them all in time. whenever it's a big day like that my brain tells me to buy more food, then i quickly realize i can't possibly eat it all. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:32 PM
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they can't even lie to us. they are some cold ass mfs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:20 AM
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can we talk about how Canada's government at least acts like they care about the people way more than ours has ever done? i saw a bunch of Canadian ads tonight where it was from the Canadian government, being super reassuring and comforting to its people. we never get that over here. it's like, "welp, you're on your own. get over it you stupid bitch" from our government. especially with the epstein shit recently. other countries are getting their top people in actual trouble over that and yet we…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:28 AM
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Seahawks won yay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:55 AM
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mac from it's always sunny is the closest celebrity to my irl type. but my irl type is a bit more gaunt
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:44 PM
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they'd both be more interesting than an incel son so id flip a coin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:20 PM
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salt is very important haha. luckily you can always add more, but you can't take it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:37 PM
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how does it taste?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:30 PM
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<image> I made baked cod with some roasted asparagus for dinner last night.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:28 PM
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OMG
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:21 AM
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<image> staring at this packet of hunts tomato ketchup and contemplating the meaning of ketchup packets. we've all been in a situation where the food is too dry and you feel a tremendous sense of relief bc you're already carrying around a packet of ketchup, hot sauce, mustard, or mayo. maybe life is about knowing that you'll never have to choke down a dry biscuit bc you're always prepared with one of these little assholes. 🎠🚂🎡⛲️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:13 AM
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if you're Canadian and averagebear is Canadian, how come he's the only one posting poutine pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:02 AM
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ever talk to people and come to the conclusion that they are a dork
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:41 AM
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giant dork moment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:25 AM
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sounds very dorky to talk like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:13 AM
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desired for what
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:25 AM
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<image> first attempt at a french style omelet wasn't a complete disaster. no browning and folded properly but part of it tore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:07 AM
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what's the ideal thing to be desired for in your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:43 AM
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what's the issue with companionship? at some point life should stop being stressful
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:02 AM
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that's the top of my chest freezer. the lighting is better there than over my table, which is where i usually eat food. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:57 AM
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i didn't make many grilled cheeses back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:13 AM
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i used a higher end white American for this one. Dietz & Watson brand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:04 AM
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<image> after many experiments i finally got it right. before i toasted the inside part of the bread (both sides of each piece) then i realized that overcomplicates the process and wastes time for not much benefit. the real secret is to assemble the sandwich with a good melting cheese (such as american) and a good flavor cheese (thin sliced cheddar). turn the heat to medium and melt a tbsp of butter in the pan. after it melts, turn the heat down one notch below medium (4/10) and put the sandwich…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:44 AM
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democrats are pussies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:13 AM
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plus i always pressure cook it into legit bone broth which is very expensive at the store. you can get better stuff at home for way less if not no money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:24 AM
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the best part of making your own stock is that you can make it with scraps from other meals. keep your onion carrot celery ends and scraps in a freezer bag, save rotisserie carcass in freezer before it goes bad. then dump into instant pot, add water. no thinking, no cutting, no wasted energy. it's essentially free too. and you get a huge value out of homemade stock that you can't with boxed stock. you can actually reduce it into demi-glace or turn it into concentrated stock cubes. very efficient…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:21 AM
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<image> this was a very nice dinner. i used my homemade chicken stock/bone broth which was unctuous and high quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:01 AM
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<image> in the process of making a beef stew.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:19 AM
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https://youtu.be/qY08h53QWsA?si=njxrPaL9PfBOq5lj hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:58 AM
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if there was a subreddit for the movie don jon i would be there screaming about magical milfs. joseph gordon-levitt's directorial debut was the most disappointing thing that whole decade. and i don't feel bad saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 09:17 AM
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i can't say what i want to say. i really want to, but i will not. i hope life eventually works out for you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 09:01 AM
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maybe you should stop devaluing things that actually matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:38 AM
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do you feel like your life is in order and going in the direction you want it to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:26 AM
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the point of the video was a dorky guy with unwarranted self importance blathering about what he deserves. it wasn't about women or whatever. it was about wounded egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:12 AM
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he does. like, i love this guy. protect him at all costs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:50 AM
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https://youtu.be/sK7BAefrCxg?si=bp3Gq-buz4nH324i holy shit YES YES YES 🙌 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:30 AM
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wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:24 AM
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nope you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:12 AM
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this is my moment in the spotlight, not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:07 AM
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not just women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:06 AM
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some people on here be like: https://youtu.be/07Bgry1k0nI?si=KiiAa0UMB5von-iO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:02 AM
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i can just hang up the phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:02 AM
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keep doing what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:57 AM
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ooohoohoo im so scared. what are you gonna do, harass me at my job?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:49 AM
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me whenever i start talking about whatever they're rambling about and then as a desperate attempt to regain authority they start attacking my character: https://youtu.be/FafegK0gybY?si=5tTauWPFbhawkwIl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:35 AM
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that's good. every time i argue with another disembodied entity on here, i start to doubt any of them can be legitimate sexual beings. everything is about rank, status, and insecurity and not about existing as someone who is actually sexually desirable irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:19 AM
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i hated dealing with customers like you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:22 PM
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🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:05 PM
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yeah i overdid it. gotta use lower heat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:39 AM
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ive nade 4 grilled cheese sandwiches since friday. here's one of my later iterations <image> i need to perfect this technique. looking for constructive feedback
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:29 AM
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i work in the news and i actually only check national news a few times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:09 AM
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always. or just being super forward sexually despite him not actually creating a non judgmental space for that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:25 AM
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also these dudes are expecting women to want to get freaky, be vulnerable, and do wild stuff even though they are stuffy, judgmental, insecure sticks in the mud. like no wonder you've been sexually sidelined with your wretched attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:21 AM
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i feel like those guys who worry about a woman doing kinky shit with another man and not wanting to do it with him are imagining very specific, common, kink acts that the dude wants. they can't imagine sexual acts they may not even want to participate in. like if you found out she used to get fisted or piss in guy's mouths i feel like they'd just be like nah. "just because you did that to your last man doesn't mean i want to do it". but idk this is kind of an overly weird thought. maybe i am wro…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:52 AM
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those traits of being sexually reserved but only becoming a wild, carefree, down to try anything type of woman for only one man is fairly uncommon. you have to pick between reserved and a bit prudish and adventurous with some history usually. you often can't get both.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:15 AM
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https://youtu.be/buTxGHiwzBo?si=9yHd4VSWbZEj6zMl i just love this dude. he's so good at playing these messed up characters
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:33 AM
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oh no. i can see how this dynamic is gonna become problematic in the future. your relationship is going to change power dynamics in a bad way. also: being forced into sobriety never works, almost ever. i am guessing your drinking makes you unpleasant to be around, though. overall though this is almost certainly going to get ugly in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:28 PM
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it's not our job to manage men's own emotional problems. if a dude has issues with a woman's past, he shouldn't have picked her. understanding his mental struggle means constantly self flagellating and doing a bunch of work for him he should be doing. don't inflict yourself on women you don't actually want. the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:04 AM
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sometimes depression is a result of poor life circumstances rather than a pure chemical imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:50 AM
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chicken, hummus, and cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:35 AM
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https://www.costcobusinessdelivery.com/emmi-le-gruyere-switzerland-aop-triple-source-cheese,-1-lb.product.100318834.html it's sourced from Switzerland
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:31 PM
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yeah? they sell European cheeses here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:37 AM
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i don't want to date someone who expects me to go to church. i work 5, sometimes 6 days a week. Sunday is my one off day. and you're fucking expecting me to want to wake up, put on makeup and decent clothes to go listen to some guy blather about the fucking Bible? ive listened to that shit and it's not something i can reliably generate interest in on a reliable schedule. it's like giving up one of your days off to be stuck in a pew listening to too loud music and watching the priest baptize a sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:25 AM
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this place attracts the neurospicy. i think it's because people are bluntly talking about why they feel the way they do and deconstructing social norms in real time. i am adhd but not autistic (ppl have thought i was autistic many times) but adhd is another form of neurodivergence and kind of similar to autism in some ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:59 AM
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lmao ive literally thought about making realistic romance novels before with regular men as the romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:13 AM
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<image> there's something therapeutic about making chicken stock from scratch. it's got a better color than store bought stuff. it smells good, it's simple, grounding and makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:45 AM
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<image> I made this chicken noodle casserole with mushrooms & gruyere cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:31 AM
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she's very personable and friendly and likeable. in addition to being pretty. that is currency in life. other people value it, so it gets attention. that is how it works. you could say the same thing about nepo babies clearing 6 figures straight out of college. someone important thought they were valuable, so they are. the money is the proof. your value is determined by your results. that is how life works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:09 AM
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soups, sauces, stews, gravies, rice, noodles, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:01 AM
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a good homemade chicken stock should be simple. chicken bones from a carcass, scraps trimmed off, and vegetable scraps. onion, carrot, celery. no spices or anything else. i made this mistake before with roasting the carcass and vegetables and that stock was fine. but the stock i make just tossing whatever i have in? it tastes purer. looks cleaner. and it's just way better. you don't need to martyr yourself for good chicken stock. keep it basic and it will be the best. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:26 AM
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when you deal with men on a transactional level like that. and remember, everything in life is about sex except sex: sex is about power. who has more power in the interaction? those sex workers risk their reputations and future to be in that role. men pay $500, nut and leave. so, if some of those guys suck. that's where it comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:32 AM
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how are men's preferences questioned?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:44 AM
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the logistics of every day, boring, mundane tasks like managing nutrition, cleaning, planning for the week, dishes, and maintaining your own job are their own work. feminine energy isn't real, it's a construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:11 AM
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i think what you have said implies you'll date someone you find incompatible with you, resent her for it, and hold it over her head. that you'll withdraw emotionally from her, be colder, and never let it go. so you really shouldn't date these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:40 PM
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what does your judgmental behavior imply about your character?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:10 PM
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so you do actually want these women but feel conflicted about it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:57 PM
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there's a lot of subtext to the sex talk on here. sex is a stand in for male status, rankings, validation, and proof of being chosen. ever hear that phrase, "everything is about sex, except sex: sex is about power". there's an implicit belief that sex is women's power, that it's something we give away that gives the man more power. that it needs to be guarded and doled out selectively. then, when it does get doled out selectively, it's still a problem because most men want access to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:28 PM
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some guys like sexually adventurous women. maybe not to an extreme extent though. high libido + ease at forming attraction to new men is actually a fairly sought after trait especially when men are young. if you don't like it, it's not for you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:16 PM
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yeah i ate some congee earlier. how are you doing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:41 AM
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neither are particularly attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:41 AM
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it's a coin toss between them bc i wouldn't want to use either model.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:37 AM
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nope. late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:37 AM
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weird post
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:20 AM
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i will be old and probably already married by 2045.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:20 AM
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no i saw that thread, i just didn't see the part where op talked about her son.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:14 AM
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how old is the kid? i never saw the part where she mentioned him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:01 AM
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food has historically been somewhat scarce so we developed etiquette around how it's shared and portioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:52 AM
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it's not about them needing food, it's about them thoughtlessly eating everything and leaving nothing. it's fairly common behavior, but not universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:45 AM
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that is fairly typical male behavior. this is why i prefer dating guys who are skinny and have a lower appetite
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:32 AM
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https://youtu.be/Ogcy7TAilSk?si=IP21tF_BeF5Z7Lhu god this is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:53 AM
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he's highly neurotic and screams a lot as like satire. i saw him in his iconic "i saw my grandma pleasing herself" video where he's literally in tears and it was so fucking weird but tbh I just think he's very funny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:31 PM
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your take is super common on here and ive spent too long figuring out what the subtext is. so yeah sure, novelty + fantasy sure would be better than real life. that's always been true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:19 PM
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https://youtu.be/iGu4rW2o1L8?si=3HIkb1tub7QxMgIy this is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:13 PM
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it's all a part of this incoherent script they've made up. sex is a need, sex is super important, but also it means nothing to us just bc we sleep woth you doesn't mean we like you, at the same time the only sex that proves you're worthy is casual sex with someone we don't care about. it lets them have a permanent temper tantrum about what amounts to a bunch of nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:27 PM
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the best thing about this is the subtext
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:19 PM
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also, Robert de Niro. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:43 AM
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al pacino. that's the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:41 AM
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yeah. tell me if it sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:24 AM
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no this is me. i intentionally posted this here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:13 AM
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i still remember when someone asked me if he was still alive. i remember screaming, crying, and getting drunk afterward. it's such a horrible thing to carry. it was so ugly. his mom contacted me afterwards, months later. said he mentioned me before he died, that she knew something was wrong, but felt strangely at peace with it. it's one of those memories that just breaks me. there's nowhere for this to go. there is no new perspective to take. it's over, and it's devastating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:04 AM
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beauty is not inherently a masculine quality as it is defined by our culture. you are probably beautiful in some sense, that is what I am taking away from this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:23 AM
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sometimes I feel like I have so much love, positivity and good will to give to people. but it's been silently erased over years. i wish i could be the loving person i was at 16, with all her flaws and shortcomings, but i had to adapt and survive. and it kinda sucks tbh. when you eventually learn, not being a problem means self erasure and restraint. it's hard. i just want to be super honest and there's often punishment for being that way. it's whatever though, i will be fine ​
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:14 AM
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this assumes the only axis attractiveness is judged on is masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:23 AM
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I love that movie. like so much it's not funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:22 AM
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it's mostly water and stomach acid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:20 AM
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i had to pull into a library parking lot to throw up after eating nothing for hours. it's been awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:57 AM
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can god come down from rhe heavens and smite me or is that just a lie. it'd be nice to not exist for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:34 AM
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https://youtu.be/OdjGPV8X-l4?si=kRrwXchhpjRQK9pM this is me. "the one they say no living man can kill"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:18 PM
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i think i might be dying from my stomach problems. like i can't keep food down at all. been like this for nearly a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:34 PM
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ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:27 PM
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women do care about what men like, they just don't care about your opinion in particular. you're projecting your own experiences onto all men. some men DO absolutely get catered to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:55 PM
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you're literally making shit up to not be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:50 PM
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bc it's a lotr character bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:50 PM
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you asked a question. i gave you an answer. the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:46 PM
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nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:41 PM
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i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:33 PM
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they want an asymmetrical sexual situation that benefits them, costs them nothinh,and offloading all the bullshit onto you. i would say you should tell them to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:42 PM
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honestly when i saw paul dano play dwayne in little miss sunshine, that kid with the vow of silence who wanted to be a fighter pilot who loved nietszche, i was instantly smitten as a tweenager. i was like wow he seems so broody and dark. and ive loved every single other role ive seen him in since. so whenever people take my posts about him and turn it into some bullshit referendum on other actors or directors, it's like hello? smh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:26 PM
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at workplaces and in my wider social circle. the reason it's considered creepy is that normal every day things like being barefoot or wearing sandles can be stimulating and a lot of men can't contain themselves. for them it's like if women were walking around topless or in a skimpy bikini.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:58 PM
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foot guys irl are kinda weird. like they give off a bad vibe. but that's just the few i met, not sure if that's universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:53 PM
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that's them talking about what men supposedly value. we get told day in and day out about how men only care about looks, how they don't care about our careers (while still benefitting from the dual income we bring in), they don't want women who are ambitious, they don't care about our education. so really, this one thing men put on a pedestal isn't even worth them not keeping their dick in their pants. men put sex on this pedestal: you need to prove you really like him by fucking him ASAP, sex i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:35 PM
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honestly i think a lot of men are emotional vampires sucking the life out of the woman they are with. does that mean it's "settling"? maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:06 PM
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men love wasting time. it's their favorite thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:31 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Y_4SAqjszfY
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:42 PM
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he was entertaining in hateful eight. sorry it's been a few years since ive seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:26 AM
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watching dudes do robot breakdances after a terrifying conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:18 AM
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it's possible. wasn't he in crazy eight
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:17 AM
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it's not about being bad or good it's about being the perfect man for american capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:51 AM
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reads like porn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:40 AM
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whatever feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:33 AM
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men actually prefer smaller feet nor bigger ones
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:31 AM
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oh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:03 AM
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they are a common enough fixation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:56 AM
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batman really is a great study into masculinity and what it means. he has no powers, so everything comes from obsession, self denial, discipline & preparation. he's like the ideal man in our culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:51 AM
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horny testosterone things. the four main things men like: boobs, butts, dicks, and feet. that's what a researcher said
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:44 AM
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is this a porn novel
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:28 AM
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Seahawks are going to the super bowl!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:55 AM
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ground beef, ham and eggs. not the healthiest but it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:54 AM
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i don't want our personal business on social media too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:46 AM
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prefer the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:42 AM
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cheeseburger casserole
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:07 AM
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haha no it's the other way around lmao. you really thought you had something here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:52 AM
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pasta and rice on the stovetop
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:00 AM
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real issues such as "women getting the ick are immature", "women not liking virgins is oppressive", "women caring about looks is oppression". haha, yeah those are definitely more real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:30 AM
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this entire subreddit is dedicated to men whining and complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:14 AM
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they benefit from us being ambiguous and actually don't want us to be direct. but they reserve the right to bitch and moan about everything anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:51 PM
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go get him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:42 PM
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coming to the sad realization that living at a high altitude has been fucking up my food. takes forever to cook certain things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:32 PM
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I’m not accusing you of a quote, I’m criticizing a pattern. Pretending the only valid critique is a literal sentence I can point to is exactly the asymmetry I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:59 PM
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I’m not claiming you explicitly said ‘women are a monolith.’ I’m pointing out that broad claims about ‘what women do or expect’ are treated as legitimate when men make them, while women are required to individualize every observation about men. That asymmetry is what I’m calling out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:48 PM
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women who ask for less feel easier to men who want to give less.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:32 PM
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your definition assumes ‘princess treatment’ means zero reciprocity. most women using the term mean consistent effort and generosity paired with desire and appreciation, not a one-sided arrangement. if you’re rejecting the caricature, fine, but that’s not what many people mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:25 PM
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oh no, women want to be treated well and not like donkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:02 PM
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how come only men are allowed to treat women as a monolith but we are not allowed to generalize about men? seems awfully convenient. heads, men win, tails, women lose is so common here it's hard to take you guys very seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:58 PM
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this is just gaslighting tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:30 PM
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don't let them gaslight you. it's men's fault they are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:30 PM
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we don't want to be responsible for your resentment, festering bad feelings, we don't want to co-regulate your emotions for you. it's putting the burden of emotional labor back on the person who is causing problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:10 PM
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that level of loneliness by itself is the turn off more than the gay club thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:47 PM
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attraction is not a charity case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:18 PM
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don't want to deal with resentful people. no one does. the end
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:58 PM
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this is a great example of someone hearing “no” and immediately trying to negotiate it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:02 PM
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all of them are better than the dudes whining on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:40 AM
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im saying no. i don't want to deal with some resentful ass insecure ass dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:35 AM
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i am not interested in guys who are and who see themselves as less desirable. i don't want to be an ego rehabilitation for subpar men. that is it. that's all there is to it. maybe other women are interested in trying to tolerate an insecure ass dude, but im not, and that's the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:51 AM
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he only fucked married women the whole movie lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:19 AM
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you can't deny Marty has supreme rizz for a nut job
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:06 AM
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so i saw Marty supreme today in theaters. he really shouldn't have been fucking so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:55 AM
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they do. sometimes for weird reasons. if people report you enough they'll ban you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:39 AM
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https://youtu.be/CIXQoRhBZpM?si=GmTYpL9q5qZqPZOd I mean same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:54 AM
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she is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:42 AM
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https://youtu.be/GgPJSBd18MU?si=VJEVkKAhf_wTtpDI this the energy i bring
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:35 AM
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that's not the kind of thing i want to do though. id rather actually challenge people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:26 AM
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i want to be the tom green of this space. i saw a review of his movie that was actually all validating the shit out of it as an artistic work and it resonated with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:16 AM
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google: how to be the ultimate schizoposting shitposter femoid on here and avoid being banned
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:58 AM
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Definitely not. the shootings will continue until morale improves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:47 AM
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that's still pretty young in the context of a 76 year long life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:21 AM
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it's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:17 AM
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id ruin his life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:57 PM
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metaphors
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:55 PM
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what happened
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:14 PM
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i just think it's fascinating how something so trivial can take on symbolic meaning yk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:10 PM
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he made a big deal out of the smell
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 07:23 PM
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I find it especially weird since most of my travels were with my family and there was essentially 0 chance to do anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:42 PM
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what does ranch dressing say about life? i dated a guy for a few yrs who hated ranch, and tbh it made ranch the forbidden fruit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:35 PM
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what does ranch dressing have to say about looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:31 PM
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haha im thinking like a cook here. ive seen people make homemade pizza crust before and i know it's a process
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:35 AM
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pizza crust takes real skill to pull off. if the crust isn't good the rest of the pizza will not be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:26 AM
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oh do anything socially inept or uncalibrated. anyone who says something rude or obnoxious without realizing why it landed badly is a huge turnoff. i exclusively date men with a higher level of social intelligence than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:22 AM
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pizza is really good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:09 AM
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it's dark brown and slightly sweet, crusty and relatively thick
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:09 AM
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oh, big hands with long fingers and arm veins
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:03 AM
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is that like the bread at outback steakhouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:01 AM
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definitely a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:55 AM
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what's everyone's favorite kind of bread or starchy carb?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:49 AM
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actually i still haven't eaten yet lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:38 PM
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i wanna be pure. i think i will attempt to not eat for at least 3 days that way my digestion can rest. i will almost certainly fail but it's fine. you're allowed to make promises you can't keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:37 PM
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opioids really slow down your gi tract as long as you are on them. there's less water in your poop too which makes shitting extra excruciating. every time ive been on them i lose a ton of weight very fast too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:16 PM
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i think it's cool to see what people come up with under constraints. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:03 PM
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oh man have you ever been on prescription opioids for a few days? the shit you takr after stopping is so huge it puts dicks to shame. it's like the size of a dragon dildo. you will be tearing up on the toilet, sweating, and desperate for at minimum 45 minutes. it's awful ​
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:01 PM
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watching an extreme grocery budget video and when she's doing a voice over it sounds like her husband is snoring in the background. hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:52 PM
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im getting mcdonalds today
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:37 PM
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i have multiple family members who got drafted into both ww2 and vietnam. my grandpa on my dad's side was in the air force and crash landed in australia during a battle in the pacific theater, forgot who he was and had to survive in the wilderness. he got rescued eventually but he got malaria. he was about to be deployed in japan when they dropped the nukes. anyways, during the night with my grandma (who was so beautiful she went on a date with Paul Newman) he'd have nightmares and lose his shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:20 PM
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i got a lil crazy last night haha. you never know when im gonna dump all my bullshit on people. i think of it like keeping people on their toes, that way i don't have to feel bad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:04 PM
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i think i heard about this. very sad story tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:47 PM
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losing at minimum 100 lbs takes a lot of patience. like at minimum a year +
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:22 AM
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my bf was like "my manager has an ai girlfriend i think" then described his reasoning, and i was like "was he unattractive?" bc his other manager is married w kids. He was like "yes hes 300 lbs."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:57 PM
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he's just funny lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:55 PM
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my boyfriend said his 300 lb manager has an ai gf lmao. saw an ai generated nude and his manager texting a long description of something on his phone. hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:40 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:40 PM
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https://youtu.be/Duu3wkOF0pc?si=ekSe5WqNz0PaXrWT nicole has once again outdone herself. let's all bask in the glory of allrecipes. allrecipes is my new false idol, for whom im throwing the god of the Hebrew bible into the dumpster
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:26 PM
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this comment is a vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:53 PM
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just be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:59 AM
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considering you were trying to have sex with them idk about that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:38 PM
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when did i say you had to accept a situation you don't want? i am saying someone with actual confidence would move through the world differently. not be in his head worrying all the time. taking on the things HE wants because that's what works for him. not keeping score all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:45 PM
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i don't even know what they look like and they're giving off this terrible vibe. like that they're resentful, bitter, and constantly keeping score.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:22 PM
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being married =/= having erotic self assurance then huh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:18 PM
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see this is what i mean when i say deeply unsexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:05 PM
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you just keep proving my point tbh. you don't seem like a playful, embodied, self assured dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:59 PM
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i actually don't believe these men would be nice to women who did sleep with them fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:44 PM
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single means no boyfriend or husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:21 PM
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i am saying, as a woman with a sex drive, that the way guys on this subreddit talk, is super unappealing and unsexy, and i don't even know what they look like at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:13 PM
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you're proving my point about being a downer by being a downer. sex is deeply contextual, unpredictable, and kinda weird yk. you have to tolerate ambiguity and uncertainty in order to get it. there's no guarantees in it so you have to just let go, be present, etc. social ease helps a lot here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:02 PM
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honestly? i felt this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:57 PM
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im starting to realize the exact reason these guys are not being chosen for casual sex and kinky shit is bc they are judgmental and weird. no one wants a debbie downer for a quick fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:47 PM
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oh yeah, in my country dark meat (thighs + drumsticks) are cheap and light meat (breast, tenders, wings) are more expensive. in other places it's the opposite. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:35 PM
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i don't think she needs to rack up bodies. i think she needs to be single for a bit to have more autonomy and figure out who she is. she hasn't been single for years. most of her adolescence and early adulthood have been her not being single. she may just be reaching for the "hoe phase" but i think she just needs to not be in a relationship. fucking a bunch of dudes isn't going to help her, but staying in the relationship won't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:24 PM
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i also love vegetables. you can get a decent amount of fiber with a sheetpan meal by just including skin on potatoes, carrots, Brussels sprouts, or broccoli. get some cheap cuts of chicken like drumsticks or thighs. douse all the veggies and chicken with a good amount of olive oil + herbs. finish with a squeeze of lemon. tastes super Mediterranean yk. excellent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:16 PM
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sometimes i just sit around thinking about how much i love beans. also legumes in general. i am fairly health conscious with what i cook most of the time. but there's nothing like adding beans to soups and stews. fiber, protein, healthy fats existing in one perfectly calibrated dish. white chicken chili, regular chili, sausage and bean stew, these are the three dishes i put into my calorie tracker app and i am always impressed by the near perfect balance of macros.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:10 PM
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i don't like face tats
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:49 AM
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let me tell you that all this neurotic "erotic accounting" b.s. makes yall look like fools. being desirable is an embodied experience, not a constant calculator going on in your brain, not worrying about whether you're actually truly desired, moralizing about women, negative Nancy baby shit. raw attraction, being some young girl's erotic dream, how sad it is that it never happened for you, etc. ​ "this is who i am and what im about, take it or leave it." everyone on here says you can't negotiate…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:24 AM
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do you think they are aware of how supremely repulsive their attitude is about sex? nothing screams "im unfuckable" like talking obsessively about alpha fux beta bux. "the casual sex guy is superior to relationship guy bc i can't get casual so that means im doomed to be a beta bux loser" like okay. that is you, sir. you are unfuckable and that's your cross to bare i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:05 AM
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there's something so supremely unsexy about guys obsessing over who's having sex with whom, what it means, how hot the people are, how unfair it all is. it just screams "i am unfuckable. i will moralize & judge the shit out of you. if i had access to your body, i wouldn't respect it and id drop you like a flaming potato into the toilet afterwards" that is what this shit says about most of you guys. like honestly im getting sick of this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:54 AM
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attraction is not the only variable governing sexual behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:07 AM
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you've clearly never dated anyone with a tough situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:08 AM
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i don't
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:56 AM
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it just seems so immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 10:57 PM
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it's just a good investment. if you didn't have access to braces as a kid, getting them as an adult can help you with implicit class signaling. and crooked or imperfect teeth are associated with being lower class
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:13 PM
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i know who you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:57 PM
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this is a place for people to air out grievances under the guise of debate. all the arguments are based on emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:55 PM
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im sure there are. they just tend not to be the loudest
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:53 PM
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<image> Turkey soup for the very dumb teenage soul
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:52 PM
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i never even heard the term "hookup material" before this. people, especially women, don't seem to use that terminology. even from women who have casual sex fairly often, it's just framed as, i am horny, this guy will do. there's not really a need to define it as material in the way ppl define relationship material bc it's less substantive as an inherent rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:44 PM
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my argument isn't about the libido aspect but instead about using sex as a proxy for self worth. the happiest people usually see sex as one part of a full life, not the sole focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:58 PM
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there are a lot of guys out there with more of a self concept than sex = proof of worth. yk guys with friends, high self esteem, genuine confidence, and values they believe in. does that make them perfect paragons of virtue? ofc not. obvs sex can be one piece but it's not everything. but yk if you only value shallow stuff to the exclusion of all other parts of life, it makes people seem kind of one dimensional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:48 PM
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sometimes it feels like some guys focus so much on sex bc they don't have much else to take pride in in their lives. that could be false, but it's kind of a vibe i am getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:39 PM
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so you're saying men need external validation in a narrow, pornified way, from women, to feel good about themselves as some kind of universal rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:31 PM
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fermentation pickling? nice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 10:20 AM
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i like it because it lets me sharpen my analytical tools and gives me a coherent framework. one of the benefits of leftist thought is that, ideally (not always in practice) it aspires to be ethically consistent and ask hard questions about power, asymmetry, and systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:28 AM
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market logic only works when the goods being traded are fungible. people are not. you can't swap one person for another and get the same outcome, even if they "score" similarly on traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:05 AM
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yeah that's true. also internet discourse is inherently just talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:38 AM
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this is the second time ive seen this neoliberal nihilism today. i feel that reducing people to commodities and turning interpersonal relationships into these brutal amoral capitalist models just isn't a part of my own ethical framework, so this conversation is doomed from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:16 AM
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