N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

Lemon_gecko · 2026-05-30T08:02:07+00:00

Men: let's not forget that women like sex too!! It's unfair to say that only men want it!!

Also men: women perform sex for men, and I value when they do what they don't like as sacrifice for me.

ThatBitchA · 2026-05-30T01:30:20+00:00

It's Friday night!

Grab your friends, go out, and increase that body count!

Reasonable_Mouse789 · 2026-05-29T19:31:38+00:00

A guy’s n count & women is going to be proportional to the women that his brothers and father slept with. This is one reason dating results feel “inevitable” to Gen Z guys used to online dating.

My brother and father were narcissists. My father abused my mother for 20 years, and my brother was a guy 3” taller than me (6’1”) & more athletic who frequently browsed 4chan, partied a lot, played sports, and bought into red pill beliefs

I have about the same amount of success with women in terms of facial aesthetics. However, the women I get tend to be shorter and less fit, because I don’t take steroids like my abusive/always angry father did, and I’m shorter than my brother. I also have significantly worse “group social skills” than both of them, although I’m “pleasant”

I realized that, when I compared the best looking woman who would kiss me after one date on a dating app at a big college during a high traffic period (Valentines Day) to my mother, that they were relatively similar. “Tall-ish blonde woman”. She was also similar to the woman my brother married.

People heavily overestimate how much their personality, money, background, compatibility, and masculinity matters. Women mostly just want a guy that’s a bit better looking than them to notice she’s gazing at him, hang out with her for a few hours, mention she’s beautiful at some point, and tell her he wants to kiss her. A typical date

Women also seemingly can never beat the allegations of committing to a narcissist for life because of his blue eyes & jawline

I don’t believe women are capable of actually acting differently. It’s all just looks

Ironically, I don’t think women who are that attracted to me can comprehend being attracted to guys more attractive than me. My girlfriends would gaze at me, and consider my father or brother to be obnoxious. “Chad” is mostly just some guy that’s a bit better looking than a woman

mobjack · 2026-05-29T19:07:43+00:00

I hooked up with a woman last night who said her n count was about 200.

But it was also the first time she had sex in a year.

Corbast7 · 2026-05-29T13:56:19+00:00

Why do guys on here keep acting like men can only rack up a high n count if they’re conventionally hot? It’s like they don’t actually know many women who hook up, and so they don’t know what those men are often like. It’s almost like they only pay attention to the hottest men out there who have casual sex, because those are the men they actually idolize. Hot people technically can have the most options, so maybe that’s why they think it makes sense?

But the common denominator I’ve seen is that high n men are just low inhibition and extroverted enough to relentlessly pursue casual with nearly any woman who might say yes, and that’s why they can make it happen. And they can be average looking too. The bad news is that I think most men can’t really fake those traits well enough to get the high n count they’d want anyway, but guys here don’t seem to be jealous of that. They only focus on hot men, because that’s what they’re actually jealous of: not sex with women, but other men’s looks. But they want to make it out to be a problem caused by women, so…

Lemon_gecko · 2026-05-29T08:57:23+00:00

Men are weird. Why does your desire to so something in sex depends on did the woman do it before with someone? It's like you're competing instead of looking for something you like.

grillopie · 2026-05-28T20:00:08+00:00

i dont know why theres such an emphasis on the importance of kinky stuff that the person will or wont do, or has or hasnt done. thats just not going to be as relevant to most people as the vanilla stuff. unless youre just utterly fixated on some kink, chances are, the vast majority of the sex you will have is going to be mostly vanilla. can you have it often? do you have it spontaneously? with minimal, or more likely. 0 planning? can you have sex as a guest somewhere? can you do it quietly? can you do it at any time of day? any convenient place? do you have sex even if youre a little sleepy?

thats all way more important than willingness to do 1 weird sex act.

IgorXY · 2026-05-28T11:48:01+00:00

I am asking the High Council of PPD N-Counts debaters for your divine judgment.

Let's say a man and a woman made out completely naked and a woman wanted to have sex, but for whatever reason it did not happen. Can the man increment his count?

New-Western-4819 · 2026-05-27T22:03:20+00:00

does anyone else ever get exhausted with how hierarchically oriented a lot of ppl are? every day it's ranking systems this, comparison that, who is better than whom.

and it's like. do you even realize how trapped you are in this unwinnable game? and that it's making you miserable?

ThatBitchA · 2026-05-27T20:05:10+00:00

Why do some men expect to have the exact same sexual experiences as the women they date?

I'm rreferring to the idea that if she's had sex in a car or pool house, that she should be willing to do that again, if he's never had sex in a car or pool house.

It's never occurred to me to ensure that my sexual experiences matches up bar for bar with someone else.

I started dating my husband at 32. I can't imagine going to one of our first dates with a list of sexual escapades to make sure our line up side by side.

Bitch_King-of_Angmar · 2026-05-25T21:57:17+00:00

we all need more positivity, light, and joy in our lives. please describe in gratuitous detail your biggest sexual fantasy pls. 🙏

GoldOne7154 · 2026-05-25T18:53:49+00:00

Is there no woman here who cares about n count of their man ? The surveys show women have more preferences for it.

Axis_Control · 2026-05-25T16:55:51+00:00

I just want nice romantic sex 😺 none of this weird using my body as a toy 🤮

EugeneCezanne · 2026-05-24T21:50:29+00:00

It's stupid to care about n counts. I'm stupid sometimes. Everyone is stupid sometimes about something.

My n count hasn't increased in about a year. It's not even a dry spell: I just keep sleeping with the same three people. Well, tonight I actually have a first date. We had incredibly strong vibes when we met a week ago. My anticipation for tonight has practically ruined the whole day.

Bitch_King-of_Angmar · 2026-05-24T14:54:11+00:00

can we all agree that car sex is overrated. it sucks and there's not enough room.

bathroom sex is only good if the bathroom is big enough. like the pool bathroom at the hotel with railings and shit. gotta make sure you don't slip.

fucking in exciting places is fun sometimes but tbh. i like my bed. at the end of the day.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2026-05-24T03:50:54+00:00

PPD, be honest. Is a 24F virgin a red flag?

saraimarsena · 2026-05-24T00:14:02+00:00

i’m someone that some people would assume has a high n count

i … - dress revealing - hung around popular kids and athletes - partied a LOT in college, enjoyed kissing randoms for funsies - still like to party lol, love clubbing (i wish i went more !) - enjoy a fun night out with the girlies - love to take shots, enjoy drugs

and yet (?) my n count is 2

my fiance never asked my body count, really i asked him first and when i told him mine he was a bit surprised. but his count is also quite a bit higher than mine

ThatBitchA · 2026-05-23T18:16:46+00:00

I once had sex in a pool house bathroom at a party. I don't remember the guys name. Though I'm pretty sure we had sex at another party. 🤣🤣

According to PPD lore, I don't find my husband attractive because we never had sex in a pool house bathroom.

The men in this sub want the exact same treatment as other men without the understanding that scenarios and context change person to person.

winter_lover28 · 2026-05-23T17:47:04+00:00

New thread: I declare my body count has not changed, unfortunately.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2026-05-23T17:04:05+00:00

Back in the day (a la pre-Covid) I used to go to Swinger's Clubs. I never had sex with anyone there though lmao I just liked being naked and people-watching. It's a fun dynamic.

My ex went with me once after months of begging him to go with me and he got grinded on by this actual little person when we were outside on the smoker's patio 😭 and I played along but really I wanted to stab her, cause I'm mentally stable. We went inside and I went to use the bathroom while he was subjected to this alarmingly thin much older woman getting fingered and "squirting" all over the pool table.

The good ol' days, he was mildly traumatized and I was entertained.

Idk if this is n-count related but seriously this thread is always so fucking boring. Where's my fellow club people at?! They do be fuckin at the club but I don't think it should count 🤣

leosandlattes · 2026-05-23T16:27:19+00:00

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Axis_Control · 2026-05-23T16:14:03+00:00

I resent male sexual entitlement 🤢

Excellent_Badger123 · 2026-05-23T16:13:05+00:00

Ok, who will be first to reveal their n count in the new thread?

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