N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

Axis_Control · 2026-04-04T14:15:41+00:00

Men trying to hide their sexuality is a huge red flag

esp_1123 · 2026-04-04T12:14:31+00:00

My girl decided to tell me a month into dating and being integrated into each other’s lives that her n count was 20+. From the way she presented herself, the way she talked about sex and her “process”, and how long it took us to have sex, I assumed it was much lower. Like 3-7 max. Clever move on her part. Don’t assume fellas.

Axis_Control · 2026-04-04T11:21:17+00:00

Do men just expect women will tell them all the past sexual stuff they have done with other guys?

I don't see how they can expect stuff they don't know about 😺

Grow_peace_in_Bedlam · 2026-04-04T02:23:55+00:00

Is no one going to talk about that Evangelical preacher guy who got dragged for his post about how he was a virgin and his wife was a former promiscuous witchy new age musician who became square by the power of the Lord when they got married?

Bitch_King-of_Angmar · 2026-04-03T16:41:44+00:00

https://youtu.be/h8pX5o1wXkU?si=1hYZ8mHb_cW08E0h

god bless America

autistic_cool_kid · 2026-04-03T11:35:21+00:00

Women are polyandrous but men are not polygamous

Why? Because the female vagina can stick two dicks at the same time

But the male penis can't bifurcate into two vaginas at the same time.

autistic_cool_kid · 2026-04-03T10:51:33+00:00

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Muscletov · 2026-04-02T15:03:53+00:00

Bi-weekly reminder: both genders are equally judged for too high body counts and men are additionally judged for bisexuality and virginity.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27805420/

Thus, contrary to the idea that male promiscuity is tolerated but female promiscuity is not, both sexes expressed equal reluctance to get involved with someone with an overly extensive sexual history.

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15299716.2018.156393

Results indicated that heterosexual women rated bisexual men as less sexually and romantically attractive, less desirable to date and have sex with, and less masculine compared to straight men. No such differences were found for heterosexual and gay men’s ratings of female and male profiles, respectively.

Kinsey Institute researchers find fewer than half of women would date an adult virgin, compared to two-thirds of men who would

So overall women are harsher about men's history than vice versa, yet convinced society they're the ones being unfairly judged.

Turbulent-Serve5777 · 2026-04-02T12:15:33+00:00

Why do so many women in this thread claim that they do not compare men who they sleep with against each other?

Axis_Control · 2026-04-01T13:53:53+00:00

Honestly don't try stuff sexually with men that you don't like because they will likely want to do it again. If they want to try anal, it won't just be a one off and they are "satisfied", they will want it more.

CosmicBioHazard · 2026-04-01T13:29:33+00:00

N count discourse is damage control but that’s not to say I disagree with it. The advantage that being a virgin marrying another virgin has toward developing deep feelings is self evident to some, alien to others, but just follow my logic regarding those of us it is self evident to: if your own circumstance deprives you of the chance to have that advantage, or if your dating options are restricted to people for whom N=0 is false:

she’d hook up before but demands a relationship from me for the same treatment.

Is the complaint a man whose only relationship offers are from those deeper into the desensitization-to-intimacy rabbit hole than him, who’d rather just enjoy himself hooking up than to hold out for that ideal relationship. Pushback from the women because they’ve grown weary of hookups leading nowhere. Bonus points if she likes him for the same gentle demeanour that makes him bad at escalating even with women who are open to hooking up.

3 is fine, but 5 is too high.

“I’m damaged myself, but not damaged enough to feel comfortable settling down with someone 33% more desensitized than I am.”

Alpha widowed

“A woman told me point-blank that I was only worried about N count because I’d be outed as a bad lover due to my inexperience and now I’ve got an additional reason to care and worry.”

any discourse around what’s better between an N that’s from hookups vs relationships

People who can’t have what they want trying to decide where to compromise.

Axis_Control · 2026-04-01T10:05:50+00:00

Men should state a list of stuff they want sexually before dating us so we can decide not to date them after seeing it 😺

Lemon_gecko · 2026-04-01T09:40:02+00:00

I think that men should add their n count only if they get a second sex from a woman. If they didn't that didn't count.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2026-04-01T06:32:34+00:00

Does video game N count, count towards my N count?

fiftypoundpuppy · 2026-04-01T04:43:50+00:00

Q4M: is your dick game worth the n-count hit?

I agree with the idea it should be tied to the female orgasm. An O-count. If a man didn't make her orgasm, then it doesn't count. Similarly if a woman doesn't orgasm, then it doesn't count.

Alternatively, we can do some sort of combining of the two, where the N-count can be negatively impacted by this circumstance.... a no-count

Ok-Coat7665 · 2026-04-01T04:17:49+00:00

As a woman, your N-count is only impressive if you’re a virgin or you’ve only slept with your husband. Bragging that you have ‘just a few’ partners at 24 is grasping at straws.

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InnocentInvasion · 2026-03-31T17:51:45+00:00

The way some women be looking with make-up Vs without makeup makes me think Leonardo da Vinci is not that special. These bitches be creating a whole new face with the same face. The English language cannot describe the sorcery these women are doing

I used to think it was silly and cute that some women were insecure to show their face without makeup until I saw a chick turn from Cinderella to Cruella. That insecurity is valid, in fact it's not strong enough

The amount of shit some Women who are 5'3 be saying about a guy who is 5'10 claiming to be 6'1 whilst they're a 6/10 pretending to be a 7.5/10 is a special kind of irony

Jesus turned water into wine. These bitches are turning yikes into I'd fuck her

winter_lover28 · 2026-03-31T17:34:24+00:00

Two completely different n-counts between people mean they cannot be compatible. That kind of relationship will always fail. The majority of men usually have a lower n-count because it’s easier for women to find hookups. Most women have had at least one hookup in their lives. If you haven’t had any, you may feel like you’re much lower than her. Men should try to have at least some experience, including knowing how it feels to be desired, so they don’t feel FOMO or feel inferior.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2026-03-31T11:49:17+00:00

Q4All: Did your parents have “the talk” with you about sex? At what age and what did they say?

Axis_Control · 2026-03-31T03:29:52+00:00

Men on here are either vanilla and say they want kinky sex but have no idea what it is 🤣or want gross stuff I hate lmao

Axis_Control · 2026-03-31T02:50:55+00:00

Men should tell you their dick size before meeting that way if its not big enough I can nope out 😺

ThatBitchA · 2026-03-31T00:57:28+00:00

This discussion has taught me that some men compare sexual partners and rank them.

Because of this they assume that everyone else is doing the same. Which is why they fear they'll never measure up.

Which is just a self fulfilling prophecy. But that's RPs holy grail.

SentinelATL · 2026-03-29T20:45:02+00:00

What do say here?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2026-03-29T12:48:14+00:00

Easter is almost here- anyone have any fun stories or funny “spring fling” n counts to tell?

Lemon_gecko · 2026-03-29T09:36:32+00:00

It's crazy how men think that all they have to do is look good. I've heard that about women my all life and then men report that if she isn't into it then it's a bad sex. Why do you think that if he isn't into it but he is pretty it will be good sex?

InnocentInvasion · 2026-03-28T20:21:55+00:00

If you ever want to defeat Women in a conversation about which gender is worse just bring up the amount of women who drink and/or smoke whilst they know they're pregnant

Logos1789 · 2026-03-28T17:38:22+00:00

Everyone’s preference is for their current partner to be the most satisfying sex partner they’ve ever been with.

If they’ve had better, that is undeniably a suboptimal outcome.

They are tolerating it because they aren’t likely to be capable of finding someone who is more satisfying in bed who also meets or exceeds their current partner’s other attributes.

The more sex partners your current partner had before, the less likely you are to be the most satisfying sex partner they’ve been with.

oppositegeneva · 2026-03-28T16:39:58+00:00

Low body count does not equal prude, low libido

High body count does not equal kinky, high libido

I have a family member who has slept with over 100+ men and a friend who slept with 70+ men, both have personally told me they only did so because of extremely low self esteem and men wanting to have sex with them felt validating

Both ended up in LTRs where they find sex to be a chore, even though their husbands are objectively attractive.

winter_lover28 · 2026-03-28T16:10:48+00:00

I think if men cannot have casual sex and it’s their own fault, they should hate themselves intensely until they are able to. You should be willing to sacrifice everything for it; if you don’t, then don’t complain.

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