N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

PSXSnack09 · 2026-05-16T11:19:55+00:00

winning and dinning a high n woman sounds unromantic as heck. Honestly not worth it unless she is egalitarian

but if she expects princess treatment? boooooring.

so far no one has given a good reason why a guy shouldnt care, it is all either hypocritical "holier than thou" arguments or shame and covert sexism, cuz even when they try to twist into a "muh equality and freedom" argument, when you point out that based on that then we should also abolish many male gender roles that are still imposed in dating suddenly "dating is inherently amoral, you can be anti gender roles on a collective level but have personal standards for yourself" okay then, t dont give me a moralistic argument appealing to the abolition of gender roles and progressivism if later you gonna make mental gymnastics about how is okay for you to do it on a personal level (only if u re a woman thought)

Goonerlouie · 2026-05-15T20:27:21+00:00

God if I ever got divorced how would I stop reverting to an incel mindset when trying to date and stop being neurotic about bodycount mismatch

ThatBitchA · 2026-05-15T19:45:12+00:00

The biggest thing I've noticed is that there's a huge difference in lifestyles.

For example, people who are more willing to engage in casual sex are likely the same people who are often out and about aka "in the streets".

The people who desire casual sex the most don't seem to be folks who socialize regularly, partake in drugs/alcohol, etc.

So for me, it's always come down to lifestyle differences. I interacted with the kind of men who were out and about. They weren't relying on OLD or something.

winter_lover28 · 2026-05-14T19:08:21+00:00

It’s hypocritical high-count people telling men that if they can’t get casual sex they should just give up.

Muscletov · 2026-05-14T15:24:17+00:00

Bi-weekly reminder: both genders are equally judged for too high body counts and men are additionally judged for bisexuality and virginity.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27805420/

Thus, contrary to the idea that male promiscuity is tolerated but female promiscuity is not, both sexes expressed equal reluctance to get involved with someone with an overly extensive sexual history.

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15299716.2018.1563935

Results indicated that heterosexual women rated bisexual men as less sexually and romantically attractive, less desirable to date and have sex with, and less masculine compared to straight men. No such differences were found for heterosexual and gay men’s ratings of female and male profiles, respectively.

Kinsey Institute researchers find fewer than half of women would date an adult virgin, compared to two-thirds of men who would

So overall women are harsher about men's history than vice versa, yet convinced society they're the ones being unfairly judged.

Just_Alternative3167 · 2026-05-14T14:57:56+00:00

Q4M who care about body count:

Be completely honest, if you were dealing with a bisexual woman, would you care about her female past lovers the same way as male post lovers?

GoldOne7154 · 2026-05-14T09:38:18+00:00

To guys or girls who don't mind sleeping with high n men or women, would you feel different if they were prostitutes in the past ?

(I am assuming they have been checked for no stds)

Axis_Control · 2026-05-14T08:30:32+00:00

Men should say their kinks and what they like sexually before first date so I can nope out if I don't like similar stuff.

Own_Supermarket7467 · 2026-05-14T07:52:32+00:00

Caring about N counts is nr.7 incel trait

gtbreddit1 · 2026-05-14T01:41:30+00:00

I love how people try to defend women being sexually adventurous in the past but prudish in the present with "she tried it and decided she didn't like it", as if that makes it any better.

If you were willing to try something with other men, you definintely it owe to the man you supposedly love to at least try the same thing with him. At a bare minimum.

No_Self_2165 · 2026-05-13T22:25:06+00:00

There was a cake that baked yesterday. People ate the best parts of it and left it in the fridge, now you can take that cake in your plate. The cake is more sluggish, stale and nothing like yesterday when it was fresh and delicious.

Do you really want to eat that cake even if it means extra calories and can even cause food poisoning?

Axis_Control · 2026-05-13T17:03:40+00:00

Are male sex robots even a thing now??

Just_Alternative3167 · 2026-05-13T16:43:58+00:00

Some women here sometimes say things like "huh so you want to have sex with many women and you want them to sleep with you early and easily but wouldn't this make them 'easy' and hoes and the very thing you/men dislike?"

So I want to reiterate: dating is a zero-sum game, there is no silver bullet, and my dating goals are naturally in conflict with those of women and especially those of other men.

Under the assumption that n count matters, if I ("general me" if that makes sense) sleep with many women, then only I win and the women as well as the men who are their future partners lose. I want it even though it's "bad".

Muscletov · 2026-05-12T11:23:30+00:00

If you think about it, all men are slt shamed per default. The main emotion behind "classic" slt shaming is disgust, but male sexuality is largely considered disgusting from the start.

GoldOne7154 · 2026-05-12T11:07:07+00:00

Men who feel disgusted with high body count women and don't have any other options in their dating circle should definitely fuck a few prostitutes so they can be equally disgusted with themselves and get over their partner's history. So that they can feel more "equal".

Grow_peace_in_Bedlam · 2026-05-12T03:51:23+00:00

Guys, which situation would you be more secure with? A woman has had sex with 20 men, but all their dicks were smaller than yours, or two men, but both their dicks were bigger than yours?

SleepyPoemsin2020 · 2026-05-10T03:32:18+00:00

Say sex bots become a thing and a woman has sex with 100 realistic male-looking sex bots but has never even touched a real penis--what is her N count?

AccomplishedDot7092 · 2026-05-09T22:24:32+00:00

Thinking about the dicks a woman had before she met you is gay.

Minute_Criticism_844 · 2026-05-09T22:18:28+00:00

The natural lesson from the n count discussions: sex with woman is always positive. Women are purifying and good. Sex with men is overwhelmingly negative. Men are disgusting and bad.

Rainbowdark96 · 2026-05-09T22:16:31+00:00

Even though I have never had any kind of penetrative sex, but oral in all of my long-term relationships, i simply say I'm not a virgin. Because I think being a virgin means having no sexual experience.

winter_lover28 · 2026-05-09T18:55:25+00:00

It’s really hard to know if you’re desirable if you can’t have casual sex, because if women desire you for casual sex, then you are desirable.

John_Oakman · 2026-05-09T17:39:35+00:00

Counterintuitive, but so long as she doesn't imbued any quantity of social legitimacy on a provider type male she's effectively pure for all intents and purposes.

Happy-Fee-5541 · 2026-05-09T17:07:33+00:00

Weekly reminder for women:

Men are entitled to our preferences.
Cultural shame will never change these preferences.
ALL men care. Yes, every single one. Yes, even the ones that say they don't. Yes, even that one.

Thanks for coming to my TED talk.

Lemon_gecko · 2026-05-09T16:10:20+00:00

Hypothetical question. You have Stacy. She only had sex in serious relationships. You met her when she is 27. What is the maximal number of serious relationship (no casual sex) you'll accept? Like if there was 7? 9? 12? She almost never single because she is Stacy. She didn't cheat. So what's the number?

DeciduousLesbian · 2026-05-09T16:01:51+00:00

Clapped 👏 out 👏 women 👏 aren’t 👏 wife 👏 material 👏

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