why aren't clowns dancing for me and holding me the way I want? Why would they perform for her in the first place? Is she even into LTRs given she's 32 and has been dating this whole time?
2 kids, 2 diff baby daddies, 2 diff racial backgrounds, 1 dead kid, a chipper young 28, hog piercing, titty tats, doesn't work out, doesn't have any functional hobbies. As the youths say today... ...SAY LESS and the dead kid alone, with her then asking WHY DO I NEED TO START THE MESSAGE TEEHEE 😰🤢 ALL semi-jokes aside, RIP to "kid#1" 😬♥️🫂
Someone playing games in easy mode, for years, might not be able to make the mental adjustment when they're suddenly having to play in "medium". This is analogous to how I see her situation. She is experiencing what it's like to grieve her old way of seeing the world. She has a handicap now. It's a thing to go through an internal struggle when one realizes they have a long term, unexpected handicap.
I heard his side of the story, corroborated by witnesses was that he was hounded by a girl a party, made out in some bushes piss drunk, 0 penetration, some people found them and figured the worst, they took her to the hospital, and she figured to pick one of the following options: 1) become a hero for women everywhere by claiming the worst and instantly obtaining a martyr label forever more 2) look like a massive fool for passing out while piss drunk trying to go home and hook up with a dude. Be…
The nerve of compassion! Even though we don't know you or your barge pole, we want to keep all of our rods safe. It is better to live on the side of my brother's barge pole, than in a house with a quarrelsome woman
Love everything spooky and supernatural Reality is so much more terrifying! Like swedish black metal fans before their dreams came true. Now they have mass immigration, previously unheard of domestic grenade attacks, general "enrichment," and a hyper "progressive" culture. (Mai kids) are my top priority. How so? As a high priority to be used as a handicap excuse for being wack at many other things in life? I love going on road trips and adventures. I don't think the cock carousel is a road trip,…
idk why these men don't take me seriously Why can't you stop saying yes to people who don't take you seriously? Are they so amazing and fine? WELCOME TO ADDICTION, BETCH!
Even just the illusion of being hard to get and working for it is enough to keep a man coming back for more. Things that feel “normal” like replying to his messages promptly or saying yes when he invites you to take you out might be too much in this affection-saturated world. 🤣Crabs in a bucket! I couldn't have sabotaged her more if I tried.
FELLERS, SHE'S READY for the perfect guy now. Now now! NOW she's ready for the perfect guy: not earlier. BTW, she's not settling down for another few years, so get ready to have her cookin' another good lookin's baby batter
Meanwhile she likes food and movies and mini vacations. AND SHE WANTS MORE OUTDOOR ACTIVITIES! DAS WAT DA OTHER SINGLE MAMA BEARS HAVE ON INSTAGRAM NOW, so hurry up and maybe she'll make time for you if you are a one man adventure camp. She'll be too tired from work and the kids to help you prepare though. IM SURE YOU'LL UNDERSTAND/S
I doubt that there's ever been a guy who went "Yeah, she's great, but the likeliness of her cheating is higher, so I won't date her". Well doubt no more.
"He's always there for me! I'm scared of what the goddess of hypergamy might say!!" Forbidden, dangerous fruit looks the most enjoyable. Tried and true doesn't make for a good story! I wish I was just mocking her and not talking from experience... ...but it makes a good story!!!
I feel you. I got reprimanded/temp-banned for a rule 4 violation before. To be fair, Reddit overlords are just itching to have a reason to ban this sub if there's even a hint of a remote flavor of brigading behavior.
Think of the marketplace. Chicks can get short term casual shit with fine AF guys. I don't even bother with that shit, it's a waste of energy for me. For LTR, it's best if she deeply respects you. Shoot, I gotta deeply respect myself too, I gotta work on that.
Oh so you're against abortion for most people too? no reason to be having careless sex, right? You can do everything right and have a woman destroy your life and get paid for it. What about the men that leave them? Why do women have sex with bad boys that are prone to leaving them? See how callous I sound? That's how callous it sounds to say "don't have sex if you can't afford it." Say that to the woman as well. Men don't mind women making less then them, and then the woman can decide to just di…
worship the ground I walk on Relationships are best when both parties deeply respect one another. She sure AF won't deeply respect him if he does that. Her ego wants a hit of crack
9 instead of 5? maybe no. 8 instead of 5? for sure. She also leaves out ALL the details for that 9th interaction. What did she tell her boyfriend? Did he say "it was 9" in rage because he thought she was playing him on the last guy too? Dudes 6-8 clearly counted and she denied them. How TF did she define the last interaction? I just bring this up because she seems deceptive and playing games with definitions. Did playing for the other team count? Did not making it all the way to home base count?
Broseph, being short and bald is a lifestyle choice. If I wanted to be taller and have a nice thick head of hair, I could hit the gym! Some of us are just lazy, alright? :/
Her ass sure was backed up towards his waist, if that's what you meant. She is a hooker on the hunt. Sees $$, sleeps with him, then looks at the other traits for a LTR
Drama addicts are always like this. The paradox of choice doesn't help. She loves the social status of him apparently. I could not imagine being with someone and thoroughly getting to know them and screw them without even liking talking to them. I guess maybe prenut fog might affect things. I sure AF don't want to risk getting involved with someone I haven't vetted with respect to my priorities in a LTR partner. It takes time to vett, and gad damn I would not want to even vett someone I didn't l…
PRO: Used to be fat Wat? Still doesn't sound good. PRO: small hands Dafuq I care about that in a LTR? c'mon Cons: picky Oh FUcc no! Also, with her remark at the end of her post, Either she's saying her unborn child is cool, or she is joking about possibly discarding the kid she already birthed.
Making shitty decisions? Who taught them their decision making skills and how to be healthy in body, mind, and spirit so they could be ready to exercise those skills? I was raised to be a servant, instilled with shame and a lack of decision making skills. At the same time I was told I could do whatever I want, and to follow my hedonism to an extent. It was wierd, confusing, and full of bullshit. I very much resent the unstable family member that raised me like that, and that person can kick rock…
A nice pulp fiction to be made. "Regretful Seduction" 'It felt bad to have done the deed, but it was even harder resist. So, so so hard." COMING TO ALL MINOR BOOKSTORES THIS SPRING FEVER
includes being willing to sleep with three guys she doesn’t know in an attempt not to have feelings for another guy who explicitly told her he only wanted to hook up with her It's epic, dude
Damn, I never thought about it like that. I haven't thought about wedding planners in a long time, but oh my god I can't even believe the screeching they must endure. Sounds pretty hellish
Ww-w-well they inseminated her s-s-s-s-so they must b-b-b-be similarly interested in a LTR with her now that she's a powerful single mom, r-r-r-r-right??/s
Don't ask me how tall I am, and don't get mad at me asking for your weight. That shows me you're insecure in more ways than one! Also, she's a single mom nurse? C'mon, I wanted a surprise.
Imagine if the tables were turned and the hidden behavior was a common deal breaker I withheld that I touched kids in the past because I was in a dark place in my life then. I was addicted and so I would do anything for money. Sometimes I even beat the victims on film and distribute these films internationally. I even sold my three young kids to the highest bidder so I could be the highest and no longer be baby sitter. You can't blame me though because I was sick. You wouldn't get mad at a cance…
A theme I see amongst the female posters on that thread is that they give "attractive" guys chances and then "nice" guys chances, and are dismayed by both. How about you don't give anyone a chance until you vett them a bunch and just overall like them as a person? These people jump into romantic relationships projecting all sorts of hope onto them. See if you like them as a neighbor or community member first. Do you even like their presence if it doesn't entail romance? You better, because a LTR…
Absolutely. Slut culture also makes it so young men don't even see the point in being responsible if it means they have no young fun at all and just get leftovers who settled for them.
Let your kid be the reason you delete that app. You should have looked out for your kid's long term best interest. You parents should have looked out for your long term best interest and showed how fucked you and your kid would likely be if you fucked up like this.
She's spoiled with those exciting "toxic" relationships of the past. I imagine doesn't even know how to look for a decent partner. I think she needs to meet more people. Good luck to her as the wall doesn't give a FUUUUUUCK, and she's over 30. She priced herself out of the market with little recourse, and now the guys she wants are looking for better deals. I wonder if the women on that thread understand that if a guy is sexually confident and assertive without really knowing a lot about her val…
Re: forums.red. Those forums still lead me to a dead end "unable to process this request HTTP ERROR 500" when I try and register with my username from Reddit.
She plays political games, like Kamala. U better hope that job for Kam doesn't involve an opportunity to throw the book at nonviolent offenders for political clout. Then things are sure to get EXTRA freaky! I honestly didn't look to much into her when she running for Cali office, but she seemed creepy fake AF, and the nonviolent offender thing was a popular talking point against her. Geez, now that I think about it, she and Joe are a good match in the charm department.
Politics is super huge amongst many female circles. BIG BIG. Drama. In the past few workplaces I've been at, there's always drama and politics amongst the women. Much less amongst the men, but men will get physical faster.
I have not heard of the effects of cannabis with schizo meds. Using street drugs while being unmedicated schizo is more likelihood of violence. I have heard about that.
Include as much of your contact info and tell me about yourself. Read: Let me know exactly where you are and how to find you. Tell me about yourself a bunch so I can mold my fake identity around you. Don't forget you will be spoiling me from day 1!!!
Look guys! Wife material! I talked to her because she said, SWIPE LEFT IF YOU SMELL LIKE SHIT, and she encouraged me to try some chocolate. This is how one goes down that sacred journey we call life. It's the simple things, y'know?/s
Good point. I was typing this out but didn't finish before the comment was deleted. (I tried registering for trp.red but it gave me error pages upon registering. I'll try it again soon) Come on, fair enough. This woman’s account could have been written by a heterosexual male looking for the right woman and be just as legitimate, surely? Let’s not be too harsh just because she happens to be a woman. I think I see what you're saying. It can be unsettling for anyone to feel like there is no more ho…
My gay friend has a hard time finding an LTR and he's in the gayest city in the world. Lots of gay dudes want a straight sorta dude. "The struggle" is equal opportunity! :) That said, I know exactly what you mean!
If George Clooney sat across from her and stayed mute the entire dinner, she'd still bang him. "Well you know, he was just really deep in thought, lost in my eyes, speechless at how amazing I was. Ugh, such a deep thinker. Since I'm such a sapiosexual, I couldn't help but be attracted to that intelligence of his, y'know?"
For real. That 3:18 "everyone I've met on Tindr I've FOCKED," with that psycho smile afterwards. It's all a bit revolting, and that's the only 4 seconds I've watched!
Copied and pasted from the last version of this post, that was deleted: by u/YesYesYesVeryGood 11m ago... She got jokes. Lets play a game shall we? How about... ask her a question. I'll start: "Your boys and your pregnancy, same father?"
Fuck stepping into her frame, because that's exactly what she's wanting great guys to do. Look at her instinctual power play go. Edit: HOL' UP! THOSE ARE THE tats and piercings? OOOOOOH buddy!
Bros, what skonka/hyna is the one, guys??? I can't figure out which shorty is the 4'11" shorty with the 8 yr old babyy foo. That weirdo ass, impossible pussy looking for some cushy tushy who is impossibly pushy with the favors... ...and al of that shittt... ..¿Qué mierda; aiiiii....
She needs to reword that second sentence into the following I have had a series of long-term toxic, relationships. In the 7 years since then I have only had casual relationships. Me and everyone around me really likes my boyfriend but I do not have a lot of sexual chemistry with him. Lord, why do you punish me with consequences of my actions as a drama addicted sloot?
She likes working up a little sweat putting on clothes. It opens the pores for a nice coffee, shit, and breakfast sandwich! What's the confusion!? That gym has hot guys for days too, btw; duh! LOVE FITNESS\s
Lady, ur gonna wanna cut the following out. I'M LOOKING OUT FOR YOU, geeeeez! 2 kids that mean the world to me. I'm on here looking for something serious, or just for fun. 2 kids that mean the world to her, but it's o.k. if mommy spends some time just dicking around before looking for a good father figure for her kids/s Brown hair Wtf Favorite colors Ahhh yes, so a guy knows how to spoil the single mom. How thotful/s Interests include shopping, getting nails done, attention, gifts, camping, hors…
These "things" happen too you because you are a slut with poor decision making skills. Now "just happen" to get with her, shut down your critical thinking skills, and pay for everything. Let it just happen!/s
We'll see the thing is that when it comes to modern dating you really have to let the man do work and really show some exertion when it comes to trying to court you when you're a single mom so that means that you got to use the voice to text feature on your phone and then you know like he should really just fill in the punctuation on it his own it's not that hard if he really cares about you he'll do it and I mean what else can I say voice to text is great punctuation is overrated men need to do…
In that case, its impossible for him to “love himself” because he has no reason to. It's not about liking myself in an egotistical sense. It's about loving myself by taking care of my health, holistically: routinely healing and supporting. It's about employing my mind, body, and spirit towards my health. The self love can't help but emanate from there.
Understandable for short term. Long term vetting and interaction reveals long term benefits and risks, which are useful for making decisions impacting the long term. This makes me appreciate what I have, whether what I have is beautiful or a nasty piece of work.
If she wants an identity via motherhood, she shall receive such an identity. God damn, I wish her and her child and her community only the best. The odds are stacked.
Do you know the Quiverfull movement? I knew one who left his fam, but I think he "an hero"-ed. I always imagine he secretly leads a new life somewhere, like my other relatives who have disappeared. Jesus loves you, lady, not your worldly clowncar of children! Don't get it a car accident or it will be like a Reno 911 sketch on clown cars!
It's actually a psychotic tendency What do you mean by psychotic-tendencied? I am currently dealing with such a person, and am hoping you could elucidate more on calling them such. I'm not a psychologist, I'm just curious because your explanation may help with the case I'm filing against a certain lady.
you've gotta suck it up and just change for the better whether you want to or not EVEN IF you are a victim. Heck, especially if you are one Absolutely. Cheers! The most difficult people I deal with have lost so much hope that it propels the viscious cycle downward. They are the ones that need changing the most, of course.
Iconic find, OP. If bill Burr was to pick these photos and write that caricature of a bio to go along with it, he would be called out for working while drunk and not making it appear realistic. "Billy bottle licker!"
That would be deception? But of course, good sir! Unlike her natural, makeup-free appearance, or her naturally lovely personality which all the town's men make sure to return to! /s
I don't care about 6'min! I just want a man 5'10 or taller. 😒 Wat?? I wear heels all the time so I am always 5'7 anyways, and I just want a man taller than me because that's evolution, and I also want a handsome man but so what because men want pretty woman too, and 🎵Hamster-wheel on the earth keeps on turnin'... ...I know exactly where it'll be tooooo-mooorow🎶 I still want a man who I can cook for, as long as he is sweet and shows me he cares. Ya, a man you WANT to cook for, which hypergamy say…
Coasting on that alone leads to many women becoming old, boring, and alone. Bored and insecure? People who don't have perspective and keep themselves challenged and engaged (aka bored people) are more likely to revel in drama. People who are defensive because they're insecure? Also likely to stoke drama. These older bored and insecure ladies? What a combo for continual, unnecessary external drama.
It was a very stupid decision and a moment of being dumb. That is how regretful decisions go. I FEEL YOU, GRRRL! (Now how do you think your husband feels having married your deceitful ass?) We might be hearing similar words from him. Fuckin A, I read the rest of the post and she really does try and turn this around. STFU! She says SHE is angry??? She says SHE is hurt. GTFOOOH!! The damage done to her marriage was by her being deceitful. He TRUSTED YOU AND YOU WERE A CONNIVING INDIVIDUAL, LYING B…
If I were with them I'd probably laugh with her because it is in a humorous context. IME women who joke like this aren't really joking. It's like teens having a laugh at their red flags with their friends because, "like OMG you're soo crazy."
Your attitude, energy, and how you carry yourself. It’s a thin line between timid confidence and arrogance. When you project it. That screams insecurity. I feel all of this, very much. You can already easily read people based on how they carry themselves and their attitude Their sense of control is something that comes to mind. Nothing to do with women. For chicks like OP, IME, they usually associate the term alpha with being domineering, which is not easy for me as that's perpetual king of the …
We get it We all live to travel No. Dark sense of humor Probably sick. There's a time and a place, and the time is not all the time. Blunt, "Rude" but loyal like no other She will be extremely pissed off when she deems you to be unloyal, because she is SO LOYAL. She will be very vindictive because she thinks so highly of herself.
These women can still go and fuck themselves, ignorance doesn't make a good defense. Yes. My sympathies for the ignorant but I'm not buying a car off sympathy, to be sure.
These women can still go and fuck themselves, ignorance doesn't make a good defense. Yes. My sympathies for the ignorant but I'm not buying a car off sympathy, to be sure.
status vampire. Great term. Absorbs status, and takes away the time and energy otherwise needed to maintain said status. When she takes hypergamous flight, one is left all the poorer.
Sorry you went through that, that's spooky. Character Uber Alles. "Game respects game," (or something like that) comes to mind when thinking about partners who know what their partner has.
"Umm... have they not been following along with the #MeToo movement? Turns out we are quite capable of looking after ourselves." Omg what? That's not what I took away from the MeToo movement.
Women aren't asked how many different licensed MILF HUNTER shirts from 2008 they have in their wardrobe, so it's UNACCEPTABLE that they ask ME. What matters is that I'm faithful to my current milf. THAT'S IT./s
women are picky and want apex males. "we just want an equal who are willing to settle down and we don't want to make the same mistakes as in our 20s." How the heck is demanding the cream of the crop just getting her equals? What does a man being tall, dark, and handsome, having a prestigious white collar career, and having lots of disposable income relate to these men being her equal and being ready to settle with her? Men are not asked the number of partners they have slept with, so a woman's s…
This sub is a response to the niceguys sub. A big theme of both is to provide answers to exasperated question of "how could this be happening to me?" A theme of the answers here on this sub is the idea that taking time to pick the right guy is very important. She may be a lady with PPD who happens to be a single mom, but her being a single mom didn't just happen. To my understanding, and to the understanding of many other men, becoming a single mom of a young baby doesn't "just happen" when a ma…
Ah, but those would be desireable traits now... ...coming from the Chads that alpha-widowed her! As long as they keep their stoicism and game playing but ALSO add honesty and vulnerability. Just a little bit of everything all at once, you know, hypergamy style.
She says it's ok for guys to do in their early 20s, but must stop when they are in their late 20's. The guys must resonate with the farce of suddenly changing at that point in time to a "traditional" mindset. If men don't, the lady will be all alone in manically pretending to be traditional and housewifey when the wall heads towards her at full steam. Where are the alpha bucks at? The guys who will tend more towards BB when she wants to start nesting as her looks and youthful charm are fading an…
Guis, she wouldn't have to be BITTER OR ANGRY IF IT WASNT FOR YOU. Be accountable for your actions! She HAD to be bitter and angry. Btw, where the guys that want to talk for hours with her? What are you guys' problem?/s 😳
Hello, stranger. I'm good. I want money. Give me money or YOU DONT CARE ABOUT ME, YOU NASTY MONSTER; SHAME ON YOU. YOU'RE JUST LIKE ALL MEN. YOU DONT CARE ABOUT ANYONE BUT YOURSELF, YOU EVIL PERSON. Give me money because I have two X chromosomes and I am alive. Only talk to me if you have enough money. I don't have time for people that only want to send me a little bit of money. You giving me money is the extent of our relationship, I just want you to know that.
I was so denial as per the RP, but low and behold, as per the scientific method, I tried to prove it wrong but holy fuck every woman in my family demonstrates it to be true.
I don't even watch him because I feel I've learned enough from this sub and Patrice etc., and I anticipate what you experienced. Hype turns me off because I'm a hipster like that too. Maybe one day I will watch.
She didn't use that type of shaming language but she used some implied, passive shame. If you don't mind becoming a father figure, building a strong bond, and having a future.
"I don't believe in hookups anymore" She wants a "matured" guy who would say this. The type of guy who could 'play' all day but chooses not to because he is sophisticated and likes to take single moms to the beach so she can drink and be stationary just like at home stuff. Not surprising but she also has a kid 👀. That's because she's 'laid back' and likes to drink and lie down at the beach! In our state of affairs, a loose woman having a kid is like a free space in ho bingo
When the sexes are young it's a buyer's market for women. This flips later in age. Then, many ladies' MMV is relatively irredemable. Still, the law gives her so much power without responsibility, particularly with regards to reproductive rights. So if ye average lady hasn't snagged a partner early on, men are both disgusted and afraid of her power later on. If she hasn't been building character and skills pertinent to a partner, she will be extra revolting and frightening.
I know someone who talks and writes like this She is so full of shit, it's very lame. Speaks so much pretty rhetoric, but ultimately says so little. It all boils down to, "I want everything to be great, y'know????" I want, I guess, everything No comment. Good luck with your fantasy, lady. I feel sorry for your guy when that honeymoon phase is over. By the way, is it a coincidence that the two ladies I know who talk like this have strong symptoms of BPD?
She wants someone who's different from her in that they are not difficult, and opposites are perfect together like that? Such a perfect pairing because they are great and she isn't? Waaaat
The only way to win is not to play with people who push and test like that. Stay calm, firm, and focused on what you doing. It's basically all an example of neurotic people with a victim complex who are super passive aggressive; if you snap, they say that their initial nastiness against you in the first place was totally justifiable. If your focus was to vett long term relationship potential and they play such mind games: NEXT
If she has compatible values, goals, and conflict resolution style, I think I might be super down even with that financial disparity. The big question is whether she deeply respects me and I deeply respect her. That's a whole conversation there.
I think what she said was true, albeit the emphasis needs to be on the word "A". It's true that many men are not attracted to a successful woman. That woman being her. And what is successful, lady? This consensus seeking woman seems to think that her partners are interested in her because of finding financial and career success at age 38. Lady, is that what guys are looking for? Is that the main criteria?
I agree with the whole sentiment here. My beef is with how some chicks think they can flip a switch on or off. Some don't use communication skills, and put the onus all on the man when he doesn't change his character at a moment's notice. If a guy causally steps over previous boundaries within the personal dynamic, and doesn't communicate at all before hand, she can look forward to him assertively doing whatever he wants in the future without asking her. That's arrogant confidence, which can be …
I love the ability to forecast her face a good 5 to 20 to 30 years, with various degrees of weight gain and terrible attitude. Helps me from thinking with my dick.
It's always a bad look to specify traits that really shouldn't be top priority. It dismisses and insults those who might otherwise be perfect matches. It's sad.
"But is he big, tall, and sexy???? And ONLY a gentleman to a confident, sexy, independent, chubby, Costa Rican Scorpio single mom? If not, u better GTFOH with that shit!!!"
And she goes for the standard bullshit about diapers too. LOL anyone experienced with child support moochers knows that money sure as fuck isn't going towards the kid's well being.
For real. My psychologists are fantastic. They have helped me grow more than I ever thought, and in such a short time period. I never imagined I could be this empowerd. I treat them as specialists, not like hugbox buddies. It's like talking to a friend about one's problems. Some people talk for solutions, but some people talk for validation. Talking just for validation doesn't solve the problems, and I have had friends get on my nerves when I realized my advice went through one ear and out the o…
Give me a feminist boyfriend that respects me! Ew, he's "thoughtful and considerate, what a pussy, ew!" Trash, next. I'm betting she gets frustrated she can't use his sex drive as a carrot to get him to do things. Harder to manipulate a guy that isn't a dumb brute. Feels bad when a chick feels she is not only physically less capable, but emotionally less considerate than her man. Where's her upper hand? "Ugh, this new guy really IS less considerate! Won't even let me have any upper hands!"/s Onc…
Give them the world and they will demand the universe Skittle game, baby! Once the negotiator gets an in, the bitching begins. Without the power of an abundance mentality, problems arise, as the negotiator takes root.
Cheers. Before the comment was removed, i was ranting the following It is true she isn't the common incredulous harpie-tier screamer we often see posted on this sub. She has been having casual sex for at least 7 years (18 to 25), and then after 10 years of dating she says that she isn't willing to sacrifice her happiness for a LTR. I see it as where she fucked around and found out. I read hypergamy. She wasn't fucking just anybody during her casual years. And "dating" for 10 years usually means …
I feel that. Even more so when you push em back into the fields/barn. Lord help you if you offer some constructive criticism to her when she's out there! Winner chicks are egalitarian and down for work IME
It's very important to experience how a potential partner handles a variety of conflict. I have been so blessed for the trash to open their lids before I more seriously invested in them.
What was shocking to me was how polite he was, and how immediately unregulated and vicious she was. "Old fashioned," LOL. Plus, that "Old fashioned" term, geez, the chicks using that term have their head up their ass. Old fashioned? as in back when men and women both worked all day on the farm?
Hindsight is a MF BITCH. Is she trying to outbitch hindsight? Potentially. She wants to find someone who puts in as much work as she does? As in no foresight during her 20s and 30s? Someone who also came from a background that didn't teach her shit about life? I feel that. She got fucked in one way, and her looksmatch pre-surgery got fucked in another way... ...aka relatively no ways.
Reminds me of my unstable friend. Too much delusion and doesn't seem willing to entertain constructive criticism. It quickly becomes clear that offering genuine advice paints me as a target. Spooky.
For some reason I've found that being taller, more handsome, more muscular, more socially powerful, and having more money really translates into improving my comedy. Still unsure why 🧐/s
I dare say those HVM are making an example of her. On another note, "make me laugh." LOL, if she is attracted to you she'll think any perceived cheekiness is funny because your simple presence will be regarded as amazing.
Woman needs some positive male role models in her life. Losing weight, doing what she loves, and trying to improve herself for a man in every capacity will ensure her the best prospects. I'd like to add that most of the time, improving oneself for a partner generally makes one a better friend/community-member.
Walks are for dogs LOL I bet, just let like vegetables are for rabbits, deep fried food and being a couch potato is for humans, and sweating is for dogs.
TFW dead, drug-overdosed SoundCloud rappers posthumously generate more tingles than a real dreamboat potential partner I hypothesize this to be the case in her situation.
Error, Error , Error: Bad boy not detected. Please insert the thug D for tingles Absolutely! It's my understanding that some chicks get a little spooked when they realize a man can't be controlled by his dick. A 'dumb brute' bad boy looks like he can be controlled through his simple urges. A free-spending gold dispenser looks like he can be controlled through his urges. A man not under control can seem spooky to both men and women. This leads me to think that one of many roots of queer/homo-phob…
For real. It's a benefit to all of society for us men to not reward women with lifelong payment packages before their character has been cut to proper form. I say that from my own standards, not to shame men.
Disney really is out here like the 19th century British fucking the Chinese with that feel-good opium-tier shit. Talk about multiple flairs, OP, you said it.
Maybe this fits as weekend content. The mod in question gives a lot of good, pleasant, supportive advice. Then sometimes it is clear as day why she is single over 40. P.s. if you have advice on how to better link to an imgbb image, please let me know in a reply here. Thank you!
I think it's projection. They made so many s***** decisions when they were younger they think that all the other young girls are going to make it equally s***** decisions as well.
If you want a stable relationship, being gay is your best bet. Hookup culture in the gay community tho. It's like Saturday night Half Life 2 deathmatch 2006, but with fuckin', and like, everynight if you have the energy. That being said, I agree with you. I have a buddy who can get fucks no problem. He still wants a relationship for that lifestyle combo of the FWB + bro time, all the time.
JFC, poor kid. I really do not like when people do not handle their health because it just ain't right to take out the consequences on others. This situation seems ripe for abuse. The kid and her new man get the brunt of her abuse. She and the kid can get abused too because she already seems like she has an unreasonable picker, shown by both her words and her actions. So much looking outside herself for solutions. Like, no, a guy doesn't get you a new start. You start by giving yourself a new st…
Now she's just gotta find someone she "vibes" with. You know, the vibe she just can't put her finger on, but just makes her feel right. She's not asking for too much, just a little fantasy!
Take time to heal and become healthier in body, mind, and spirit so she can make better choices and pick the men better? NO TIME! She's perfect, it was just her bad luck with the bad boys men she so happens to uniquely be attracted to. Fingers crossed, kids! Hope the next cute guy won't pull another crazy surprise on us!
I have many personal problems, and HERE ARE MY DEMANDS. PROVE YOURSELF WORTHY OF THESE DAMAGED GOODIES. You must battle my demons and dragons to get to the princess in the damaged castle within. Sounds like a dang escape room. Girl, escape rooms are fun in part because they are fantasy. If you can't handle the challenge that is me, then go away, I'll just sit here and cry. Really, it's ok. You know, no big deal 🥺. I wanna be happy, not sad 😢 Yup
manipulating girls to get what they want My hypothesis is that, girl, you were trying to lock down the fantasy you projected onto him. He was a fake pair of designer shoes and you were so thirsty to get them that you didn't check to see if they were real. Be real with your intentions and everything Wouldn't the datamining gold digger love to know that! My experience with assholes makes a little piece of my heart want to shut down and never open up again, and that's not fair! How do you think the…
I feel that. I'm glad I did not have the opportunity to jump into meth addiction during my lowest years, because I feel I would have blamed it for the unresolved issues I had in life: those issues I later had to face as something within.
WHY HAVE THE BABY WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE TO? Bbbbut why throw away the opportunity to be a contemporary Madonna!? Just think of the power that comes with a victim narrative children!!
It speaks of such a deep lack of respect Now I understand how key that deep respect is, and how it's not the same as honeymoon infatuation. I used to be so desperate for validation from women, I would try and make it work with the finest/coolest chick that was projecting her fantasy onto me. Deep seated respect is incredibly essential. It ties into trust, loyalty, commitment, good communication, honesty and effort: all very important in a functional relationship. A comparison can also be made, e…
Funny, I was just thinking of a turbo terror of a bitch, and you put her games to words! Thank you for that, my man. Women always trash men as having low standards, "Ew, he's being sweet to me, like wtf. No, boy, I ain't falling for your manipulation! Treating me nice for like no reason? Wierdo; kind of creepy tbh. Better treat him like shit, he's clearly a try hard submissive wierdo trying to manipulate me." when we actually show standards, they play the victim card. "Why doesn't he respect me …
Nurturing, an open ear for venting interpersonal frustrations, validating, pretty, connections to other people as they are quite social and know other macho dudes I wouldn't otherwise talk to, interesting because their life is so different from mine. That's been my experience. I don't expect them to be like my guy friends.
Dan Rather: "She's just... ...well, she just doesn't mind living on the edge. The very definition of a frightfully strong woman. She does her own thing, and you know what; that's okay. She's the Lara Logan of undersea whales' lived truth."
My friend's mom did that mid-40s. Some medical professionals once brought her into a room, told her she was lucky he wasn't retarded, and sent her off onto the rest of her merry day: LOL. We still diagnose him as retarded all the time though, as good friends may.
In no small part is the fact that dudes with large dicks are going to be a lot more confident, experienced and regularly giving that large "experience" to a large number of ladies. The same guys making the rounds set the ladies' new "normal". The outlier makes a large impact, no pun intended.
Hypergamy DGAF! She wants someone "better" than her, but wants the guy to know off top that he will be her partner, not her boss. Basically she wants a beast she can control.
You're on a shitty dating website looking for your "wingman for life" and you're already telling ORDERING me how I need to act for your needs? BE BETTER! oh, and here's your honey-do list, so we start the relationship off on the right foot with the right precedent.
I'm a tall girl so I prefer a taller man. LOL. Sorry, girl, but big data says that isn't why you prefer a taller man!! I'm looking for a man to be my [everything] See, girl, that's why you fucked up picking your guy the first time. Get your priorities in order, because expecting a disney fairy tale, well, good luck with that. I think you're doing yourself a disservice by putting so much pressure on your potential partners to be your "everything" When I love, I love unconditionally. And when you …
I want a traditional family more than anything. I bet your son would have liked that too. In the comments No more traditional family for me, but I want more babies 🤮
Sounds like the type of chick to be Pro-Choice (WOMAN'S CHOICE ONLY, THAT IS; IF THE MAN doesn't want to raise a kid, RAPE his wallet and his life, [FUCK IT./S] I think I might have missed the part where she notes what's in it for him in a 90/10 relationship./s
Mods is there a way for me to automatically post "🤡🌍" when coming across this type of post The title of the sub has your answer. Asking WAATGM is already a clown thing to do! If it wasn't clown world-tier, it wouldn't belong here :)
Hey! Your answer's in the question! It's all RETARDED BULLSHIT I was equally mind-blown. It had a sad level of intellect, appearing like a child sad their disney fantasy romance didn't work out.
we have had many shared experiences that helped build our relationship...one of trust and mutual respect. We share similar values. Lord have mercy so many people I know with relationship problems don't understand the importance of this. Cheers to you and yours.
Oh shit, oh shit, where is the number for suicide hotline!?/s But seriously, I like the way you put things. My meditation and related headspaces have a lot to do with letting things go, and that's always tied to death in some metaphorical fashion. Good luck with all the stressors, dude.
Men, indoctrinated over generations to pursue younger women, are instinctively reluctant to consider those of a similar age to their own, even ones who look youthful and attractive. 🤣 "Indoctrinated" yet it’s perfectly acceptable for men to go out with Barbies half their age. She straight up calls young women stupid and vapid, LOL Men are opening their eyes and we are in fact amazed, but you and I use the word amazed in wholly different ways. 👌 Unless men change their attitude to dating women of…
I also have problems with intrusive thoughts of envy. Part of it is because of the shame. I don't want to imagine what kind of mental anguish I would have had if I had the crippling shame and female baby-fever hormones all at once! Overcoming unhelpful crippling shame is extremely empowering. I like myself more and other people like me more because I am more in touch with myself. I have less of a complex because I focus more on what actions are within my control, and I am more honest with myself…
I mean it's not that hard to not be a prostitute. Someone offer a you money to suck their dick, you say no. Ez pz. Same way it isn't that hard to not be a drug addict. Someone offers you some H, you say no. "Just say no to crack, bro!" /s. For me and H, that's how it works on the most surface level, but that's given all my drug education, life experience, personality, and lack of access. At the same time it's quite challenging for me to make certain extemely simple choices most people would unde…
Yessir! I particularly like how these articles reveal self-discovery for the euphemism it is. Good for her for feeling mentally okay and such. We'll see how her the reign on her sexuality and her long term contentment play out.
It's like if I told women You're intimidated by my hardcore homeless "nomadic" lifestyle. You feel insecure with how much money I make at my minimum wage job, and you know, there's nothing I can do to help you with that 🤷. You just can't handle me! I would be right... ...in a sense! Now, back to her. These men can't handle my agency over my body That's a real crafty way of saying I don't like what you choose to do with your body!
I thank goodness my mind is on the same page as you. Life is on easy mode with said mindset. If those men are like I was, it's because they feel their dignity is tied up in it, or they have been misled as to the true risks involved.
It's disturbing how that's part of the plan. Hold the child hostage in a barely functioning household with a barely functioning mother. It's so fucked.
My biggest fear was becoming a single mother Yeah, at what point though? Like, chicks will say they want the best for their kids, but at what point did they want that? Battles are won before they are fought, in many senses.
Random things about me: I'm ---(insert absolute non-statement here) ---a mean bitch ---a boring child ---a club sausage addict that's too lazy to move to even move for the sausage ---(did I mention I'm an uncreative turbo-bitch?) ---very unhealthy, so look forward to that.
Something serious? That starts with her, and she's made it clear she's serious (reproducing) about not being serious (being careless regarding her choice of paternity).
"Bbbbut IM A BAAAD BITCH! But not that kind of bad... ...right? And my baby daddy was a bad boy... ...but not a bad bad guy to have kids with... ...right?"
It makes it feel like they are "tired of games" and just want a man they can park at home for the stability while they offer nothing else... like a pet that brings money home That's exactly what this is for many people!
"I used to ask for all kinds of picky things you could only find in an alpha! But now I only ask for things that all men were throwing at me before I had a kid!" The funny thing is she's kind of admitting how low value she see's the next man's time, attention, $$$$$, effort, and on-call status.
Women who have that " I hAve My sHiT ToGEThEr, Why don't you!?!?!" attitude are fucking intolerable to be around. For real. It's like, lady, you're a bitch. I don't think that's having your shit together.
Wait a second. Her whole profile was just saying she is a single mom and wants a BB! That's it! She did put the sentences together much more nicely than we commonly see here.
I've recently adopted a long-term vetting process before physical contact and it has already worked wonders. Oh the disturbing things that were hidden from me for so long.
When did it get like this? Men have been pushed to check themselves more and more, and women have been pushed to check themselves less and less. Whenever that happened, which has been occurring for a long time.
I even have plans for a sperm donor in the next couple of years 🤣 Spoken like a true degenerate. She spews shitty dreams through her lips and acts like it's high and mighty.
She projects what she likes in men, and I've seen many women have a hard time differentiating between arrogance and confidence in a man. This reminds me of a good reason for a level headed dad to approve of a prospective son-in-law.
He learned that he invested so much life force in playing a fool. The anger is part of the stages of grief. It's the red pill rage. There's no more cognitive dissonance that can maintain his old paradigm.
We never lie, no matter how bad the truth sounds. Siri: what is, "Lying by omission?" Perhaps it is important for both parties to interrogate each other if they think the truth is of the upmost importance. In her own words, "it's better it comes out sooner than later," right? He is the catch of a lifetime! She is so into the idea of the truth and the consequences of lies. She cheated to get ahead and is now getting caught up in her own bullshit. She bullshitted her way into the big leagues, and …
no matter all the stupid campaign, noise making and lies and fake feminism, majority of women will still run to masculine men and give them every value they have, fertility, looks, affection, married to them or not. Special thinking (Gynocentrism/feminism) helped manifest the "nice guy®" blue pill problem, and reality manifested red pills.
For real! People I know IRL wonder why this sub exists outside of crackin' jokes. Some commenters also don't get why we have a no man-shaming rule. I'd say a damn good reason is because men are shamed into losing it all for others, then shamed some more if we bring up the topic. As you put it, with your comment. they'll burn you at the stake, rob you off your property and assets, and will still blame you It's nice to have a space that reminds me I don't have to spend my grease on the chronically…
Friends do not abuse and take advantage of one another. Absolutely. If she ain't even cool as a friend, I sure as heck don't want to be with her in the long term.
Oh yeah, that post the other day where the lady can't keep it in her pants for any period of time and wants a LTR. I was also surprised they didn't delete it. That mod seems on the more reasonable side in her posts.
Spend the time. Do it. It's worth it. I vett for a long time and it's dam worth it! At the end of the day it is so much nicer to not stick a dick in crazy.
Seeking a man to worship me after partying. Bbbbut you don't have to pay for her nose candy anymore! Just the crotch candy she has dispensed over the years.
If you're a GOOD WORKER you will attend to my store's needs. I'm a single boss, and you need to understand that daddy needs time to nasally attend to his girls, WHITE CHYNA & BLAC CHYNA in the back office throughout the day, every day. If you're a bad worker who needs support from his boss like a little baby, go crawl back to the unemployment office, or enroll in distance learning preschool this summer. In other words, she wants you to know that you submit to her, and that you can fuck off with …
“We love adventure”. Sure you do. That is why you are a single mother on a hookup app. 😂 good man better be prepared to pay for lots of vacations in exotic places for you and your kid. Shouldn’t that be a job for the kids father? These women fail to understand that FAMILY PLANNING is a thing for a reason. The battle for these kids' well being is won before it is fought.
"Bbbut I deserve power! I demand to be empowered! Oh, ew, what is that called, responsibility? Time to turn this on you now. Shame on you! Incel! You're not a man!"
Poor souls, methinks :/ Also great comment. I felt right in sweet sci-fi fantasy world. Then I realized it was real life and this world is too damn gnar!
🎶Hit the road, Jack, and don't you come back no mo no mo no mo no mo!🎵 Please, Jack, it's for your own good! Listen to us, we want you to thrive, broo!
Very many based comments on this post today, and this is one of them. I feel I have to speak up today after reading so many. I'm only so far down this thread but this one broke the camel's back.
It's like saying ''I don't understand why people say untrue things that result in positive outcomes for them'' Well said. People are surprised when they vett less, but that's why you vett.
There was a university study on that. Woman had in average more empathy but less sympathy. Empathy is knowing where someone is at, whereas sympathy is the compassion. Generally women see this as a man's world, and feel victim status. Feeling victim status is dangerous for others, this applying to men as well. Feeling like a victim makes people more callous.
Oh lord that was funny. Initially I was on board with what she was saying. I relate about not rushing things. Then the post took a wild turn for the worse! She just wants to wait so she can be really turned on! Like just some hyper long powerplay-foreplay. I bet the bros can sniff the slut and sense they're being played for attention.
Damn fine comment, sir. I want to add something to the following note: That being said, it's obvious that most guys would not prefer to date a former sex worker in the context of a serious relationship. This is the kind of no-brainer truth that doesn't need to be reality tested or asked about. Everyone knows this. Most women know this. There's so much of a hyper pro sex worker narrative out there in certain circles. I'm sure a lot of lonely younger guys would say it's no problem, especially when…
When I was younger, I had a couple relationships. They went exactly as the horror stories from this sub go. I used to think I was the problem. I blamed myself, started drinking. Same here! Personally, my self worth and happiness was defined by female validation most of my life (and still is, I'm working on it). To obtain validation, I was told I just had to be a nice guy. When the women around me didn't seem to appreciate the searingly bright personality I'd cultivated since childhood, and inste…
The consumer culture/economy I'm in thrives on female approval and a general lack of discipline, respectively. The more disciplined and content we are, and the stronger our households and communities, the less we depend on the current machine.
Same here! I'm thinking of archiving a lot of stuff from this sub as a primer for information seekers. It's also just nice to have a collection of concentrated information to review. On another note, I like that this sub has been actively moderated as "debate free," which I attribute to keeping political differences from flaring up and distracting from the posts at hand. It feels nice and neighborly to connect with a diverse set of folks.
For anyone reading this always remember that when they censor you that doesn't make what you say or feel wrong. It tells us that you're a threat to the narrative they're trying to push It's nice to hear this, as I had to get professional help to understand this. What other people say and do is their own thing. It's my responsibility to decide what subsequent trains of thought I'll entertain.
If she seriously didn't plan on the best interests for her kids, I doubt she planned on how to be the best partner fo you. Ah, yes, because she is the prize, how could I forget. /a In her mind, her kids and her men are all meant to serve her.
May they see that both genders have a lot of performance. Men too feel they have to do all kinds of things to get the graces of women, putting themselves in the face of all sorts of hazards. Risk/reward doesn't apply to one sex.
Damn, she really did just make that all about her. He might have thought she was a little awkward, but a sweet girl and wanted to make it work if she kept seeing promise in his dates. Then she spills the beans and he's on the same page. Instead of being happy for the time they spent and the peaceful resolution, it's just "man bad, man bad. Why man no take full initiative for both dates and ending relationship. Why don't man read mind. Man bad, man bad. Woman, sweet victim."
She's listing off hella different problems that warrant different solutions. Idk what I'd tell her. She seems to have issues with communication and setting boundaries.
They all loved to claim they were raped the very moment they were caught in the act Like the Brock Turner case where people at the party said they were similarly drunk and she was hounding him all night. But claiming rape got massive attention, fame, adulation, she didn't have to pay the ambulance for her alcohol poisoning, and didn't have to be called a grimy ho by her friends for passing out making out in the bushes. White knights were just waiting to make her a hero. I used to enraged and on …
"😘Yerba? Really? Hall ya. Mmmm, what, are you like from one of those ethnic frats or something? sips bluephoria flavor canned mate" Watch out with your mate straw, bro. She might use it for "purposes of enriching her goddess energy," like a south american cucumber, knawm sayin'? 🤢
A lot of men wanted all of that but could not obtain it when they were younger. I'm taking it slow because I am intensely vetting before getting with a partner. I'm not committing to you because you have more baggage than the Titanic and you don't seem like you bring much more to the table than sex.
Online sj is such manufactured opposition too, it's sad. So much should change, but people are fed bullshit things to look at, and people are satisfied with their clicktivism.
Calling the kids that makes their wellbeing and her negligence seem trivial. Then it eats at the conscience less and makes it seem like no big deal when she gives them the bare minimum and expects them to just learn things on their own without her involvement. Leave them in front of the t.v. until it's time to take em to the mall and take pics for the gram.
Like with any huge investment, you gotta know what you want, thoroughly vett what you're looking at, and be searching for potential issues before you make the plunge. The decision also can't be clouded by emotions.
my son comes before anyone Other than her, let alone her before she had a kid. God forbid working to be your best and making sure your spawn has the best start BEFORE you got the dick. /s
Respect is earned, not a given. Preach, brother! 🙌. Men and women can forget that respect is also not entirely transferrable from one situation to another, and power trip. It's so much easier for our mind to think that we have always been correct in our understanding of reality: to think we haven't been living a lie. Doesn't help that humans are prone to taking disagreement personally. May I list the ways this pops up? My friend thinks he can flaunt the laws of the land because he can flaunt the…
I know what you are saying and it makes sense. I think sleapyweasel was trying to join you in addressing the economics of interest. Towards what you are saying, men should expect more of a partner. This necessitates establishing healthy boundaries, expectations, and great communication, starting at the casting/filtering phase of relationship hunting. Sleapyweasel, I believe, was going off of this, trying to say that if a guy is setting himself up for failure if he is willing to do everything and…
Maybe it's chick humor. I don't call a wishlist a joke, especially if it's all something in reality. Edit: Hohooo, now I get it! She can't be demanding none of that shit now!
Criticism? You're cruel! Or if you're not being cruel, well you are just disagreeing with me because you are a bad guy! That means I am right! I am always right! Also, on a more literal quote, I'm getting rid of yous [fuckbois] slowly but surely JJJEEEEBUS, SHE NEEDS TO BE WEANED off the dick, mother of wtf!!!
I'm not dead! I'm not dead! That was a big step Always with the "bravery" and miracles for being a ho. Lord have mercy, no wonder Esther Vilar wasn't having shit from the feminists of her time.
On top of appreciating your comment as a whole, this phrase cracked me up. Believe me I work in a factory with some of the biggest nastiest whores you will find! I’ve see it all! Like describing mystical bayou boars LOL
How much annoying bullshit can anybody put up with before they make a run for it, you know? Unhealthy people are boring like that, oh how it's the source of most of my daily stress!
Tattoos, T.V., fat, full time prostitute. I don't like to make fun of the way people look without context, but I think this profile is such a shit enough offer that it both looks and sounds like she likes the smell of her own bacon omelette bourbon farts.
OP you’re a sorry ass loser. Ad hominem off top! shit happens in life Like being swamped with propaganda normalizing AFBB as something that's conducive to a decent civilization. No where in the post is it implied she’s looking for a sugar daddy to take care of her kid She highlights her financial obligations rather than how she will be financially contributing. That's not a good start. if anything she’s being geniune in the fact that’s she honest with the fact that she does have a kid instead of…
Holy smokes, yes, haha! I have never to heard HR described this way because I didn't have much experience with it until recently, but OH lord you described my experience to a T! I feel so understood! How the HR guy is treated in The Office is a lot more funny knowing how things usually play out in the real world. Maybe the whole big salary thing is part of the grand plan. Give an otherwise insecure person a high salary and they will simultaneously brown nose upper management and look down on all…
That's exactly what Esther Vilar roasted many contemporary feminists about. They would say "Please, let us engage in the various worldly, intellectual, hard working pursuits like men. Oh how we would if only this housework wouldn't take so long!" Then the household inventions are made to allow for this, what you described happened, and Esther Vilar screamed BUUULLSHIT at those earlier feminist laments.
I will keep this in mind, thank you. Well you simply point at the law and the stats and say something along the lines of Women didn't do this. The state made it this way. You want it to change back again? You going to have to change the laws back again to what they were.
Nice comment, the whole thing. Children don’t use logic and reason, instead they’re emotional, fly by the seat of their pants (sound familiar?)....which is fine, they’re kids. But, imagine your spouse being like that (mine was). It just won’t work. The "bad faith" arguing and playing fast and loose with accountability is what really grinds my gears.
That's what I'm talkin' about, man!!!! No shitty contracts, no lackadaisical vetting, and forget getting hot emotions involved when making a serious long term life decision. Being prepared is kind of the basis behind being mindful in general. I FUCKS WIT IT, BABY!! ... I'm glad you put the priority into words: everyone's better off prepared.
was into hookups Well that wasn't conducive to being in a stable household in the long run, establishing the best home for her kids. Kids mean the world to me. So how TF is she being her best self to being them the best life?
When it comes to LTR, it's instinctual to go down the Disney path, but things need to be way more like a one-man background check for a high-security clearance position. That vetting process better be DAMN thorough, and that includes a thorough understanding of one's self, goals, priorities, boundaries, all that shit. It's soooooo easy to just ignore all that relevant shit though and let the "vibes" do all the talkin', thinking things will be more Disney screenplay than "Usual Suspects."
they're shocked that so many men are still resistant to their messages "Why is the world so full of... ...BOYS!? Um, like, helllooooo, did they even SEE my post telling them what a man is? Do men even care about women anymore!? UGH"
I WANT A MAN WITH TRADITIONAL VALUES (Is a slut. Brings a "premade" family) Girl is getting the same relationship that brought her that family: temporary. Look at how she sees her prospects in that right pic. The wallets are just little boys to talk down to with snark and condescension.
POST NUT CLARITY? Also, it has me shook how people think they can judge another person so precisely after only 4 dates. Both people are prone to projecting their fantasies onto the other if there is attraction, leading to unintentional "love bombing." Takes a while and so many ways to really get to know someone, and that definitely necessitates the initial excitement and thrill wearing off.
Different media programming can have different effects. Like with food, people must be mindful with what they consume lest they get caught in an addiction to superficially wonderful trash.
This is a very pertinent point. Anger and frustration in these women is part of the grieving process of having their worldview shattered. It feels bad thinking our past was a lie. Such is "red pill anger": part of the grieving process. Of course, some people never accept it.
They are just removing themselves from the marketplace From the beginning people were wondering if it was a bunch of larping men trolling because there was so much sabotaging advice. Then again, it gets people hooked because like with any good indoctrination they will have nuggets of truth here and there that some women need to hear, like how they need to watch out for thinking through their tingles alone. Of course then that gets perverted into "fuck whoever you want in the name of girl power, …
Lessons I was reminded of: Be wary of femininity as a tool, people who don't show a sense of agency in helping and improving themselves and their community (aka lazy victims), the ways you allow yourself to be controlled by others, and ignoring signs of character.
Some people don't know shit about russian accents, and I am one of them. And yeah, she plays the part well of someone who would label themselves all that shit. Like nursing aids that call themselves nurses like they are registered, or paralegals who call themselves lawyers. She plays the type well. One man's light joke is another man's punch to the gut. I'm sensitive. I've known enough nasty people who would not-so-jokingly joke about destroying people, so it's too real for me. At the end of the…
I laughed, but imma still talk shit about it on face value with its lack of context because i personally know too many degenerates who wouldn't see this as a joke and actually live with this attitude.
What do you mean I can't smoke meth while I take our kid to the park? A man can't let loose once and a while!? Bad faith arguments are always so rediculous they are funny when they're not so frustrating.
I feel you. There are a number of female homies I have that fit the same description. As time goes on I see a pattern, and put the appropriate boundaries up. Different people have their strengths and their weaknesses.
For me it is an insecurity in addition to disgust. Chicks can get dick whenever they want if they are involved in the "quick D" lifestyle. I look to their past to help predict their future.
She thought he was different, so she was vulnerable with the person she thought loved her, and he just REJECTED her 🥺 <----that's the horseshit she cloaked her deceit in.
Humans tend to be rule based. Rules are kind of like spirits that guide our decisions and our lives. Our brain gets upset when it realize we might have been allowing an ignorant spirit to guide our life. It messes with our trust, and messed up trust can shatter our sense of reality. It's so much easier for our ego to exclusively blame others for our trust issues than acknowledge we might be weak in assessing what to trust. I have to have forgiveness in my heart to forgive myself and others, but …
Underrated observation Does put into context when hurt people self sabotage. It's like a self fulfilling prophecy. Perhaps the psyche finds it instinctually easier to think "this is how things always were and always should be," than to forgive oneself and one's weaknesses and vulnerability. In other words, it's easier for the pride to say this is how things are, rather than admit we were weak.
I feel most of what is said here. I've seen how chicks eat it up when I change my behavior. I'm reminded of ugly swagger-infused guys that get the ladies too. There's a lot of nonverbal signals that go into the changes.
"I was talking to this chick and everything was cool and then she started talking about a relationship out of nowhere! The irritating thing was we had so much in common, lived near by, and found each other attractive. Why did she have to be such a bitch!?"
You've seen the skit with John Mccain, satirizing Lifetime movies? It's back to back jabs on how those sort of T.V. movies cater to the narrative of female victimhood. Came for John McCain, stayed for the well done sketch. https://youtu.be/E3z2pLLck_g
just because she knows how to ride a dick like a pro does NOT mean that she will make good wife For real. Sex is a drug. Just because she has excellent cigarettes and liquor doesn't mean anything else beyond that.
She wants a pity relationship just like a wierdo guy wants a pity fuck. NO INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS OUT OF PITY. That's where the buck stops, homeboy! applies directly to men or women, in many contexts. Applies to negotiating with intimidating people, lending too much mental/spiritual energy towards difficult people, fighting the urge to give in to a temptation, all kinds of things.
you: "Have you ever asked a man out?" her: "OMG.. NO! I'm not desperate!" Teehee, it's just my preference to be asked out! I also just have a preference for tall guys, teehee! I am so quirky.
Surrounded by family, my greatest, most endearing memory will be when I got dicked by a random hot guy on vaction Now that's what I call a dengenerate.
Copy that. I am permanently on mobile and am unable to repost with my technical capabilities. If you or anyone else want to post it, please do. Cheers man, and nice new years to ya.
Marilyn couldn't handle her own self at her worst, and failed to realize her best. I'm not going to get the best from someone who can't handle themselves at their worst.
This is the equivalent of women shaming men with small penises or for being uncircumcised. I'm sure some people will treat the joke like that: an excuse to shame people for a condition they were born with. The way I see it, these bad-women's-anatomy posts are caricatures symbolizing men's general instinctual disdain when promiscuous women try to play up the notion that there is no difference between them and a woman with a low n-count. The image symbolizes the promiscuous woman who has had her "…
Oh heck no. It's like dental work. Some people can maintain without a touch up, some people go like to go in every 6 months for a cleaning, some folks only just go in when they have a toothache, and some people use it as extra strength floss and go every 2 weeks. Some dentists don't know what they're doing, and other dentists not only fix all of your problems in one sitting, but give you the tools to avoid problems in the future. Sometimes people with good dental health still visit the ny perfec…
Is this the male equivalent of when a woman walks into a store trying to have a relaxing shopping experience and there's an annoying ass hound dog there just trying to fuck her?
They don't realize that the part must end, Well she likes to listen to the high, and the high says it's all good. . It's like "smokin' tweak in the gutter downtown," so I've heard.
She is ignoring the fact that of the other 80% of men of out there, who are all invisible to her, most of them have not had casual sex The thought process continues with this: "Oh, well those sub-90% of uglier guys have sex with the sub-90%, uglier girls, right? Since I hooked up with this 9, I am a 9, so I'm not one of those ugly sub-90% girls. I know I hooked up with my looksmatch. I wouldn't do anything under my looksmatch!"
Primo WAATGM post/find, my man! If she thinks sexual restraint is hard, just wait until she discovers the trials of a long term relationship. There's a reason people get married 'before the lord'; monogamy ain't some primal monkey shit. "What do you mean I can't have sex at will? That's oppression!" ---rapists & this chick
Perhaps she will be reincarnated as her descendents, enduring the suffering she created, living through the pain of the worst lives sprung from her genetic material. If that happens, her/their soul will be a much bigger loser than a genetic dead end.
I don't like the sound of her, as she seems controlling, insecure, and uninterested in serving the relationship. Either way, it sounds like you were not compatible and I don't think you need to think much further than that. When people are incompatible, the relationship can feel abusive because someone is going to be routinely crossing the other's boundaries.
Oh sweet summer child, your kid is something you still carry with you from the past. That's baggage. It's something from a past relationship you can't let go, right? Baggage. She can't even handle minor criticism about her life choices without wishing death upon you. PASS QUICKLY AND DO NOT LOOK BACK, GENTS!
I'm 100% sure can physically do it, but there's something mentally that puts it below them. Performative femininity. If she can't get a man to do something for her, it's an old instinctual signal that she is in danger. Maintaining some control over the stronger folks is very important to the weak.
Well put. I know someone whose nonverbal communication is the same as here, and that woman was definitely one of those instances where the visual red flags were markers of truth.
Average looks are o.k. if you have the time, money, and energy to be her circus monkey, performing ever more new and exciting things until she gets bored. I ain't got no space for a woman who is looking to burnout her dopamine receptors before she discovers it's really time for a second sexual awakening with other people.
Well it's going to be less than the # of women. Hound dogs get around. As for the rapes, it's usually someone familiar to the victim. Seductive super predators are part of that. You know what would help address this? Properly vetting a man through ones friends and family (especially male family members), and taking things slowly. How about she vet his character by looking to see if the man is a stable man of the community? Seek stability and a healthy, good person.
Instead, she can just fail in baby trapping a career criminal and call her spawn "King" when she posts a facebook photo of him playing peewee football.
I am very blunt. I'm going to say what I want to say whether you like it or not. My intentions are good. "The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the greatest intention."
"Can't make it to Timmy's birthday.. I'm working.. enjoy it.. you know I wouldn't xoxo" LOL. Well, I hope she saved you some leftover demands from the party :)
Now: He's doesn't smother me, and he isn't a bad boy performing peak masculine stereotypes. He doesn't fight everyone over everything, he is polite, and he doesn't fret over things other people would regularly get upset over. Does that mean he's a bitch? L8R: Why don't guys respect my boundaries!? Why are they so caught up being bad boys? Why do they fight everyone over everything and have anger problems!? WAATGM!?
It can feel lonely not feeling free to open up the innocent, vulnerable part. Thus the need for a pressure release valve for all that innocent love held within.
this young woman's preferences puts pressure on all those men to be their worst possible selves, since the fetishized, archetypal... ...bad boy is what so many of these women want. If that's what it takes to get the girl, well... To add, this has been me and my friends' experience too, from 5th grade on up. We are other ethnicities.
"I'm not like the other girls" yet still doesn't say what she offers other than entertainment preferences. CONSUME, BABY, CONSUME. That's all I'm getting from her post.
GUYS, WE JUST WITNESSED THE BEST THING TO HIT CNN IN A WEEK! DID ANY OF YALK RECORD THAT AND THEN CUT OFF THE PART WHERE SHE HIT THE COP IN THE FACE TWICE? IM FINNA BURN, LOOT, AND MURDER, AND IF CNN GETS THIS CLIP, I MIGHT BE ABLE TO DO JUST THAT.
HUMOR EXPLANATION 4 BRIGADERS: we understand that this is badwimminz-anatomy. It's funny for that reason, kind of like how cartoons are funny. It's funny in the same way that someone lowballing you to the extreme in a business deal is funny. It's good for a "GTFOH, LOL." It's an excuse for men to really vent some emotions in a lighthearted yet cathartic manner, have some bonding, and just let loose and be silly. That being said, let's look at the photo and laugh. If a nice young lady brings a lo…
No responsibility at all, huh? Hell no! Shit, she's not even looking inside right now for answers or trying to change herself, she's on the internet looking for relationship cheat codes.
Which sex is mythically better at taking care of kids? We aren't elephants, where the female sex is automatically more nurturing. You know she would have been verbally abusive to the kids.
Ryan's Daughter is quite red pilled. It's a slower moving historical drama, but oh lord it makes a lot of sense through the red pilled lense. Like Mrs. Doubtfire, it shows the unfaltering care of some men, even after crippling humiliation.
A little more meth salt and we're looking at the new Miss Sweet Tooth 2020. She already appears to have a strong likeness to that Twisted Metal video game character.
They won't ever admit it, but they know, deep down, that sluts aren't wife-grade. By making a "forever guy" wait for months... ...they hope to trick the "HVM" into thinking they're not whores. It's all about spinning that long term narrative for the long term guy, setting a precedent for sex as a "prize." It's all very instinctual in the same way Chad can get sum quik fuk because her instincts are screaming "warrior seed, warrior seed, limited edition, must grab now!"
Facts, I'm glad you said it. Not to be Buffalo Bill or anything, but I look like a BAD bitch with makeup and a wig if I do say so myself. What can I say, I am known to let ladies touch my face! I don't trust the effects of makeup, clothes, hair, or public demeanor anymore.
Calling themselves intelligent sounds whack as well, but it's nothing compared to that 20 storey red flag that is calling themselves dramatic. Plus her half ass smile, hot damn.
Looks high mileage. She's out here saying she's one of the few women looking for a relationship. Who TF are her mega ho friends if she thinks being a 45 yo woman looking for a relationship is rare!?!?!?
suckered into "redpill nonsense" Ironic because the less redpilled he is, the easier he is to seduce and manipulate. It's easier to rob a bank that doesn't know its worth. It's easier to make a sucker out of a man that doesn't know the game, the truth, or his worth.
Apps lend to the commodification of people. As for where the non-bitter ones are, well that's a complicated question because I'm guessing she associates being red pilled (cautious) with being bitter. Plus I'm guessing she is looking for the same man (HVM) every other woman is looking for, so is she really looking for non-bitter, non-red-pilled men? Or just non-bitter, non-redpilled (AKA easy to manipulate/seduce) HVM? Rhetorical question! Good luck finding that HVM who isn't red pilled or alread…
Facts! You said it! Focus on being our best selves, have an abundance mentality, and we help ourselves and our community in more ways than one. They can join in a little if they bring something to our respective tables.
Thank you very much for this. The entire thing, and the conclusion to wrap it up are just so great: A+, read multiple times, copied, saved, will read again. This puts many experiences in my life into context, including current trials and festivities. Plus, man oh man does it apply to so many of the profiles we see on this sub! I really could boil down a lot of my comments to: "red flag first impression: starting off jealous." They don't seem commitment minded, and that includes the 4-9ers
Your post is damn fine as well. It directly ties to my recent drive to be more empowered. In my pursuit I've had to tell myself to take more time to really think about what I want. I've noticed it's easier for me to be scammed, played, or cucked when I don't know what I really want or plan on doing: falling into the trap is usually a romantic feeling and solution, like an easy way out. When I have a strong sense of what I want, my gut helps me realize something is amiss. It helps to regularly re…
“I’ve had my fun before you and without you.” When they define that fun by recklessness, hard drugs, and promiscuity, it seems to promise that "settling without it," won't please them. So not self aware, it's such a red flag!
LOL. Multiple sexual friendships before, and now she wants sex to be used as an add-on to a deeper connection. Good luck. I'm wondering if she's saying a commitment minded man has to put in more effort for sex than other men did. If the guy's not one to take offense by that, chances are he's either going to a tad aloof, or putting her on a pedestal she knows she doesn't deserve to be on. I don't think she'd likes this. If she fucks quickly, he may be spooked or think she's a ho, and treat her a …
How do you get yourself to be into healthier people? By being healthier yourself, working on yourself physically, mentally, spiritually, socially etc. Crack, meth, alcohol etc are interesting too; how does one get off those? We can only wonder whether the fellow she dated not have a growth mentality, or was he happy in part because he didn't look at life through the lens of a toxic bitch looking for, and dismissively judging, 'flaws'!?
Well put. I'm saving and studying these bullet points so I can pierce a friend's rose colored lens. People are easily led astray when they don't know the market and what they can ask for.
My experience is the ones that need support more often are the ones least willing to help you when you need it. Yup! It's easy for me to conflate being seen as a resource with being seen as a prize, which makes me susceptible to being taken advantage of like that.
To the individuals wondering why this post is here (like the author of a deleted comment): This profile is being roasted because it is a joke. A 44y.o. single mom of two teenage boys trying to find love isn't a joke, but one that does so by just listing the commonly desired male traits she wants? That's peak "choosing beggars," in the dating world, and it's a sight to behold! Women and media shout WAATGM!? This sub responds with, "hey, look at the choosing beggars we men have to deal with!
Cheers. it’s way better when you’re with someone who knows what you’re worth and you know what they’re worth. Well put. I was trying to explain this to a friend today and this is the wording I was looking for. I'll use this, thank you good sir.
Relationship Break/Separation = "I want the fun of cheating without the stigma of being a cheater." I agree. I find it's very important for a partner to be able to have some time by themself if they feel a little smothered or need some space. Unfortunately this requires a hard ass discussion between partners, because disingenuous people like to play dumb and use a break from the normal routine to justify breaking all the rules of a relationship. I just say this, because I was dumbfounded when I …
Damn, I felt that; it resonates in more ways than one. My case was a little easier to grieve. She was mean leading up to it, influential friends of hers were spiteful individuals, and her family didn't mesh too well with me. Plus, we were both "sex positive feminists," as were her friends, so I was confident she was 🎶'excited and qualm-free about potential new d'🎶. It was like a burrito of a decision: already packaged and ready to process. The way I see it, you can idolize women or you can under…
Do 30 somethings date anymore? She needs to round her age up to 40. That's how it works in my parts. "Do women want to get married in their prime anymore?" The whole point of getting together younger to ensnare a guy when he's young dumb and full of come. Pop culture and chicks seem to miss that feminism ends up freeing men from the chains they didn't know they were wearing.
If it's hard living up to her standards now, I'm not even going to imagine how hard it'll be when she's >21, and >wall. Power trippers like her can GTFO
I used to think my player friend was gay for reading those romance pulp fictions. Turns out he was in fact playing for both teams. You're making me realize now that he was also taking notes! LOL I'll hit him up and ask him!!!!
Oh man, I never thought about that aspect of post war germany, but man oh man you are right. Inspires anti-war slogans. "LADIES: WAR MEANS YOU WILL HAVE TO SETTLE FOR LESS. NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS!!"
It's a great thing to have control of our sexuality. Since we are social animals though, we are born sensitive to signs of disrespect and exclusion, which were mortal threats for our tribal ancestors. It instinctually agitates us when we feel considerably lower than another in social status (though spirituality fights this instinct). If a man has always been lonely, impoverished and in a factory every evening, it would be frustrating to hear that others have experienced hugs, juicy steaks, and s…
It’s sad to say but this girl here has a mental illness that is unchecked. The random rage and projections all stems from a mental illness and if a psychotherapist digs deeper he will find a cause like some abuse or something. Absolutely!
That's a great point! Reminds me of the topic of criminal super predators. Something like how 5% of prisoners were the ones committing 95% of the crimes out on the streets. I also regularly see online, "why is it that every woman I know has been sexually assaulted yet guys say that they do not know any rapists." I think your point touches upon that!
There's a metaphor I know for that. If one's gf has never had a wholesome beach day, well that can be shown to them and beautiful, wonderfully elated headspaces may ensue. Not so hard to come back to that headspace, even if one is old and low on dopamine: just let loose a little and have an innocent smile. That experience can be shown. However, if one's gf has done meth at otherwise wholesome beach days before, it's likely that those sober days with you will pale in comparison. It's hard to be s…
Cognitive Dissonance is THE defining female trait. Makes me think about how when people man-shame and say "be a man," they often mean "take responsibility and stand up for what you believe in." Quite the self-misogyny when chicks say it ;)
Her friends are single moms, have tattoos, got with douchebags, are on Tindr, and support BLM. When they all decide to divorce rape "secure that bag", I'm sure she will too. "Bbbbbbut Cardi-B can drug and rob men, why can't I!?"
If anyone reading doubts this, remember that she will get hero status, victim status, a great story, and SO much attention from people in power. Extremely enticing.
If a man with crocs is willing to get with her, it's a reminder that the cool kids in the cool kid clothes ain't tryna play with her. She put in so much hard work as a single mom, she ain't looking to settle!
A real son would be fighting for the relationship with his mother, seeking to understand how it is he inspired his mother beat him. How bad must a child be to inspire his father to beat him so? It's so unnatural for a mother to want to beat a child. The smaller the child, the more horrendously that child must have acted out, for it pains a mother more to hit a smaller child. Stay tuned for the next episode of, "Wow, you are so dumb you forgot why I abuse you"
It’s really straight forward but we like to complicate it. Chad/Tyrone is fun and anything else is boring and women are attracted to fun for the most part 🎶Girls Just Wanna Have Fun.🎶 We have some self love and our own fun, and they might wanna join in for a bit.
Having read couple's dynamics I only date guys earning equal or more than me. Ah, it seems her hands are tied. Not her fault she can't get with a guy who makes less. /s
I'm banking on her treating the baby like a small animal. Cute until it's not and then she's tired of taking care of it and is looking for the next fix.
Some good points can be made here. So are men allowed to have a promiscuous past then date a traditional women? Women can decide that when they choose a partner. Or is the problem not really about past sexual partners for both men and women. Is it more that once a women has slept with someone say, on the first date. She must let every man she dates after that fuck her on the first date? She's not beholden to fuck, and I'm not beholden to commit. We can choose not to do so based on any number of …
Exactly. She doesn't see the irony in the fact that shes divorced (at least once) and shes talking about how her ability to pair bond wasn't effected by her promiscuity. The irony is so thick. She either doesn't understand pair bonding, or she's playing dumb and misinterpreting it.
Damn, she got shot TF down. Not only does she now have the baggage of being alpha widowed, but the baggage of being rejected by a man she "settled" for, which, ho lord, must have scorned the shit out of her. I can feel the heat of her anger from here. She'll have to hide ALL the heat when she goes dating again 😬
You can take the habit out of the body, but it's a whole other thing to take the habit out of the mind. Dick, meth, heroin, smoking, porn, coffee, child abuse, you name it.
"Nice guys can't fuck" but they don't even try them. Nice guys usually aren't the type to feel like they can get by on looks alone, so they are less likely to be reckless and aggressive with a stranger. They continue on through life with less experience with, or expectation of, hardcore aggressive primal fucking. To add to this, if they seem stable, the girls they get with will suppress their freak side in order to seem like wife material, so blue pillers don't even know what's out there. The su…
Run for the hills I realize today that I never before truly grasped the wisdom of Iron Maiden. Running to the hills is like based bible knowledge. Better to live in the forest or on the corner of a rooftop than share a house with a quarrelsome woman.
It's to signal to other women. Absolutely. The sisterhood's gossip chamber is above most else. Chicks get neurotic about the judgement of the sisterhood; shit, I don't blame them! Chunkmonster LMAO
This chick is like an Oprah give away where everyone gets a red pill. You get a red pill, you get a red pill! When looking for a life partner, date all of them. Not a bad idea if you might go on non-sexual dates with a lot of folks. That's just great and fun way to get in touch with your community. But c'mon, we know hooker speak, and hooker speak defines 'date' as 'fuck'. You know you goofed up when the hookers are rolling their eyes at you. Then again, maybe she's banking on her readers to not…
Uhh, sweatie, are you telling me that having a guy bust a nut inside me, and having a human child emerge from my lower internal region 9 months later doesn't make me a saint!? I have been going at this all wrong!! It's not bc I'm a dude, is it? Wimminz be the same as men, so it can't be that. Hmph!/s
EVERYONE'S ATTENTION, PLEASE. PUT THE GIBS IN THE BAG OR THE KID GETS IT! ^ ----(pretty much how our government calls it) REMEMBER! Only when donations total over 3k will money go towards the kid. The month has already kicked off, so donate today!! "Remember to donate, or the kid gets it." Teehee! I'm such an angel; basically the virgin Guadalupe, except you know... ...naughty version... ...teehee!
Dang it, I had my breakout Hollywood role in the bag! I have to give it to her, though. She does a damn fine rendition of a loose european grandmother. I really tried for the role, but I just can't compete with this sort of talent.
They have that sweet privilege of not being in the group. Not being sympathetic or much of critical thinkers, they just spout hate because it points negative attention away from them.
As long as you have a big per$onality, show it r€gu£arl¥ though your action$, and have high hopes for continued, future $ucce$$, it's probably never going to come up. Funny enough!?
Looking for a guy that will treat me right Hey! What she's looking for exists! It's real, she wants it, she deserves it, it's an ATM, and she needs it right now.
Anglo-lina Jo-"General"-Lee, bruh there seems to have been a miscommunication. See I was looking for something a little different when I said I wanted a chick who could just siphon the soul right outta me.
Once you throw down lines of coke the size of both her eyebrows combined, you will be pre-approved to see her at her best... ...for a total of 1hr. After 1hr through, you must experience her at her worst, or else you won't deserve her best ever again (pending future financial/medicinal intervention). Her flags merely complain that she's looking to fall in love with a steady man (and a steady line of lines and cash... ...all of the time). That's not too high of a dowry to pay to her nostrils is i…
With the pose, look, and tats, you know she was popping out a kid as soon as her other avenues of self-presentation started pulling in less and less attention and admiration.
Tons of red pills in this piece; what an excellent dispensary. She does what she wants to do, justifies it with her rhetoric (hamster) and is butthurt when every consequence happened like she knew it probably would. Congratulations girl, you can justify anything with rhetoric. Maybe learning from a Nazi is edgy enough to make her take notice, though good luck distracting her from memories of the model handsome player that looked like a fookin TALLER cousin of a celebrity. "It would not be imposs…
Wife material does not wait until the last moment to actually start looking for a man to marry. Oh yeah. If the mothers of these ladies are anything like my own mother, they did not set a good precedent.
yet people get angry at us for paying attention. Its a shame. Yes! When it comes to what's PC, the truth is second to concerns of power by the ruling ideology. That truth better not be inconvenient now!
Edit: Also wanted to ad that luxury brand designers are very aware of this phenomenon. Oh yeah! Dude, Michael Kors has to be the worst offender, hands down. The bags with the patterned, repeated logo look like a promo for South Park's Mr. Mackey, going MK MK MK MK MK MK MK. It's mind blowing but always good for a nice laugh. They don't fully formulate their final opinion of you without input from several other people because they lack a sound theory of mind able to make independent decisions. Br…
That is true. Men in particular, we are really down to pine for the chick that doesn't know she's beautiful and doesn't have all the attention on her. One Direction made sure I remembered that lesson! "You don't know you're beautiful... ...that's what makes you beautiful!" Like I don't need a chick to have experience to be seen as a potential partner. It's nice knowing if something is tolerable, that's for sure. But if she really liked an obscure film, and then decided to not like it because no …
Dude, cheers! Good analysis and solid, relatable, readily applicable insight. Reminds me of how glamour is in part produced and maintained by distance from the object. There have been obvious examples of preselection in my life, but your insights have helped me define why one game of mine kind of worked on some co-workers a while back. My face is nice, but my personality is nice-guy-supreme so I would clam up around chicks in other departments I really liked. At the same time, I would be boister…
black pill is essential for the way to the truth and acceptance. the red pill has become softer and a little blueish, imho. I'm feeling that. There's def going to be miscommunication when the colors mean different things to different people. With myself I know my RP definition today would have felt like a straight black pill if I had been directly exposed to it a few years ago. At this moment I'm seeing the black pill as an intense RP with explicitly dark connotations. It's known as a pill so re…
Did it occur to them that lecturing their boyfriends with unwanted new-agey psychobabble might be part of the reason why they wound up leaving? True. If these guys have communication issues and no problem getting women, they are good looking AF. Why stay when thot starts nagging?
why do they really mean by camping and outdoor activities? What are they signaling by this? They want a man who's rugged and down to do all kinds of dirty work for her: the kind of trad guy who can't wait to step up and white knight. Being outdoors is a great way to be a princess. She can be "not like the other girls" sometimes, and squeal for a savior at other times. Lots of excuses to scream in faux-terror and have an excuse to "reward her savior". A big LARP full of food, alch, drugs, fun spo…
Start with that for sure!! Gotta go full tilt and let her know that "p is obviously 🔥 because she is obviously insane in the brain." Confidence and one's true feelings all in one. Gotta not give a fuck about STDs, jail, Jodi-Arias-tier consequences, dignity, or anything before jumping into that slip and slide. Maybe my skid-row homies will hit her up, but they are street wise and this lady ain't makin' no sense.
I hope it works out for you and that chick because that would be dank. The red pill was illogical to me when I thought men and women thought the same apart from genital difference.
(She's a hero and a victim. Let that sink in.) You tellin' me she's a martyr!? A saint!? I have my horse ready, and shall soon be off to rescue my fair maiden from heaven. Off we go to heaven 2.0, where only the special special princesses gooooo
I read this and wonder if people use “nice” interchangeably with “submissive” Great point. Women often conflate niceness with submissiveness, so it's hard to tell. However, since not challenging a woman is very PC, I can definitely see that being the case here. he’s very submissive and doesn’t challenge me I forget about that desire for a challenge. Thank you for that reminder, it was very welcome.
3 kids. 21 y.o. Oh HELL NAH! imna cool person but get on my bad side and you'll regret it. I disagree with the idea that you are a cool person. Sounds like you're vindictive and bloodthirsty, just "HOPING A MOTHERFUCKER (anybody) WOULD" try and do something you could remotely interpret as a "diss" so you can feel a moral highground and sweet righteousness in being cruel and unusual. That's not what I'd call a cool person. Keep pushing if you white She thinks this is a diss, but it's really a ble…
Somebody please DONT tell her why men are treating women the way that men are treating women. It's too early in the day to see the hamster wheel break off and fly into space at 1000m/s.
It frames the discussion of their role in cute, non-serious terms. It's quite the reflection of how they see themselves and their choice to become a mother. It was a all "lil' whoopsie!" Teeheeeeee
Yessir! Reminds me of how much the following phrase throws a wrench in the hamster. "Men don't have reproductive rights". Also a lot of fun being a smart-ass and telling feminists I'm more feminist than they are because I want them to be able to vote in the U.S. just like a man does: by being required to register for the draft first! Shooting them a sharp, questioning glare immediately afterwards, saying, "I really, really, really love equality. Don't you?"
You gain nothing by having a quarrelsome,challenging woman in the house. And you will really regret it down the road. Proverbs 21:9: "Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife"
They shout "All Cops Are Bastards". Terrorist rhetoric. Same rhetoric that the taliban uses to justify violence against Americans. If you say "wtf, well obviously not all cops are bastards" they say "well not ALL, but one bad apple can ruin the bunch, and they don't properly police themselves, so they are all complicit." That's what I call terrorist logic. Tragically ironic it all is because that phrase itself is very much so a bad apple that can ruin the image of citizens trying to make sensibl…
how can anyone look at this profile and think “attractive and definitely something I want to invest all of my time and money into”. I just don’t understand. For men who have had nothing in the romance department, have been told they deserve nothing lest they work hard like in a hero's journey, and put women on a pedestal like the cultural narrative says, well they might see this as their shot at glory as a white knight. I know that's how I would have approached it. Thank goodness for the red pil…
Well she loved all the free sausage samples at Costco, so now it's just time for her to sit back and wait for the company to send her their most lucrative C-level openings. That's how it works right? :)
If you're texting me between 10:30 to 3:00, you are just trying to get it in. Spoken like an experienced hooker. We don't want to see your penis Male model from a post a few days ago would like to disagree. You need us to look like Rihanna all the time... ...and it takes a lot... ...we have to get our nails done, feet done, hair done, new outfit... What kind of Johns are you looking for, dafuq!? Take care of your hygiene, diet, and physical activity, and you won't "need" to do shit, unless you a…
Well it's on a board where men share their feelings on issues related to OP. It was not essay-tier writing to be sure, bit it seemed to express his inspired spur of the moment thoughts stemming from her complaints on contemporary masculine expression. I found the topic sentences of each paragraph to reveal his main points. (Paragraph 2) I wonder if she ever considers the idea that guys have to keep their masculinity under wraps and play along just to have a nice, grey, invisible existence in the…
Quite the cult-like hustle she has going on there. "Sexual liberation" in her bio. "Connection" wanted in her manifesto. She might have to pick one. Then again, she needs both ideas out there as she's selling the fantasy of making a ho a housewife.
An out of touch celebrity? ;) She is disturbingly out of touch if she supports poundmetoo but thinks it's no big deal if someone whistles, catcalls, or touches a butt. Completely ignorant of how her life would be visciously annihilated if she ever did that as a man these days. Men have been lynched by benevolent sexism and that scares men. Despite the divisive media rhetoric on race would have you believe, men with a degree of empathy, sympathy, and an understanding of the human condition can se…
What the hell did you think was going to happen when #MeToo can instantly tank a man's career, livelihood and his personal wellbeing? You know, that reminds me of a lesson that's been reinforced in my life recently. It's that playing fast and loose with "guilty until proven innocent" commands a ferocious, disgusted response, inspiring people to quickly exit whatever game you were playing. I'm not playing with people who play games of casually throwing others under the bus without consequence. Da…
Nobody wants to entertain me like they used to, now DANCE. I used to be more flexible, but now I come with higher standards and a bigger attitude. Give me attention now, you monkey. Also, here's my height bc I am entitled to the promises of hypergamy and that includes height. Oh yeah, my anthem is by a literal thug of a role model for women. Just in case you thought I wasn't down to drug you with pussy and alcohol in order to obtain cash prizes.
Golum seems like it could also be a harsh put-down of people thirsty for their precious ring. I shall def be using this term amongst my friends and loved ones. Rock on!
That tree is def over 6'5, I'll tell you that much. Mogs me for sure, and is way more of an avid outdoorsman/survivalist than I can ever hope to be. Stoic as shit too. Tree just does yoga holds for years, it's strong and chiseled, man. Mogs me to kingdom come! :)
What you speak about is one of the most damaging beliefs of modern women, the belief that what they want in men is what men want in women. Applies to men too, and especially to me! Projection is huge, and I like my frequent red pill reminders.
To be contrarian, I hope things really holistically work out for her... ...because that would necessitate a radical change in her life approach! It would take a lot of humility and respect , and that would translate into positive effects in the community. Chances of that happening!? Big doubts on my end! I def don't want more succubus hateful folks around.
Man, they hit you with the 14 words (colorized edition), AND victim blamed you!? Fuck, that's a hell of a crowd! Stay healthy my man. Rediculous people out there can be rediculous.
Both you and my therapist are on the same page, on how it is important to define what progress looks like. The right type of person, the right type of therapist really helps me out. I didn't want to go to one because I feared it was going to be some b.s., but was recommended by someone I respect, and it has been remarkable, like I didn't even know this was an option! It's like a wise, professional neighbor who empowers me and helps me understand myself. Definitely have a more of an internal locu…
Fucked another dude? Well she's married to him "in the eyes of the lord" now, so her problems aren't mine. At least until the state enforcers come along and remind me that the government is really tryna get out of paying for this one.
Hardcore into coffee? IMO, coffee is an easy way for people to cover up their craziness and buried opinions for a long time. Too many wierdo-ass bipolar MFs in my life, as you might tell!
Didn't mater if you were married, a iv drug user, homeless, criminal etc, it meant nothing after the 6'3 mark. Shoooot, all except the homeless part sound like panty-droppers to me.
Imagine this is a national show that many "westerners" watch. Blue-pilled hell. Probably top-tier recruiting material for Jihadis, like, "LOOK WHAT THE AMERICANS WANT YOUR WOMEN TO BE!" ,as the harpies SCREEEEEE in the background.
It's all good, dude. For a little clapback to his insult, and also as an expression of my true feelings, I see "narcotic drugs" as a strong, powerful slut of a term, interchangeable with "female hero!" It is time to smack our buddie up, my friend. Smack that buddie up.
Like how can't you get attracted to someone nice and caring? I feel it, but it's just that same reason our dicks don't get hard when our girl brings home a lot of money, or fights another woman in public. Projection runs deep!
I would skip university and learn to be a tattoo artist or professional guitar player, have more fun and pump and dump whenever I want. I believe you! If it makes you feel any better, I have the time and skills and reputation to do such and have found spiritual pursuits to be more fulfilling.
Glamorous as hell, grrrl, just like the target audience of this article looking for a little hivemind dopamine fix. Which is guess is like a lot of "news" media where the narrative allows the programmed to pat themselves on the back for being so great, intelligent, informed, priority-set, and on the right side of history. In other words, you are absolutely correct! I'd like to add that glamour necessitates separation/distance from the source, so I guess she is doomed to be a glamorous option for…
LOL it's like people surprised their trash from dinner stays on this earth and doesn't vaporize, or parents surprised when children absorb their bad behaviors, habits, and parenting.
This reminds me of how drug dealers are natural female attractors. Drugs are like the epitome of the craving for drama. Like with drugs, drama has the potential to be used right, but oh buddy can they get abused and really swamp one's life with extra B.S.
I'll sum it up! You're seeing a woman who wants her princess fantasy, so it's nothing new. You have to be a king. If the king-princess relationship sounds incestuous, well IIRC Esther Vilar agrees. A husband must attend to his wife as a child, which naturally conflicts with a sexual relationship where he sees her as an equal.
Solid post man, holy shit, really solid post! First paragraph reminded me of that security guard in Gary, Indiana who died recently. Some lady's husband shot him after the guard denied her service for refusing to wear a mask. I totally get the impression that whole instinct of 'attacking a dude who remotely disrespects your lady' has been long tied to guys looking to impress their woman. Shit, I feel a lot of guys go extra hard "disciplining" their kids because it turns their wife on. Shit repul…
Bbbbut her friends said it was quirky and cute, with a little sass to let you know she's real! That's what all of her other friends put pretty much, and they feel that their profiles are quirky and cute, showing their authentic 'fun' self. Isn't that what all girls want to put? Isn't that the celebrity zeitgeist these days? Why would she put anything else!?/s :)
And honestly the lower the stress their job the better. For real. Imagine how much guys would pay to lower the tension from their wives and have them be more easy going.
Yeah dude. Sometimes I wonder why people go down certain paths in life, make certain choices, act a certain way and value certain things. Seeing the upbringing does bring can sometimes being a lot of clarity, it's sad AF sometimes, man.
Do my son's hobby. I am not good at feeding my kids so you need to make good money in order to match my lifestyle. Be confident, but don't judge me. Provide me lots of coke all the time but don't be a dealer or an addict. I suck at things, so be good at them. Aaaand yeah, I had a kid from someone, but don't expect that from me! Am I clear!?
She even looks actually widowed, JFC. We fought and argued like anyone else. LOL, like the phrase "I'm not perfect," I'm guessing there's a lot hidden here.
She says they must man up --get their mind out of the gutter and ascend. Her projection can't see that getting in the gutter groove is a bit of a feat for men. The men are getting their satisfaction! Funny thing is she stopped down to their 'gutter' level, and she's mad they won't lift her out of it. Like, it's present year girlfriend, we can't push you out of the gutter if that's where you wanna play.
She's priced herself out such that it seems she will only be satisfied by a dictator that can throw money at her, write her off as a business expense, and has the legal ability to check her attitude. She's like a terrorist who wants someone to fight her so they can feel justified in being a terror. Nobody wants to play her games any more and she's been left alone in drama-lover's hell: living with herself in a box where all the screaming comes from her. She wants to be a victim so bad it hurts.
hit by more pricks than Saint Sebastian. I fuckin' hate when that happens! I go out for some drinks with my buds, and next thing you know I'm driving all over the state just slipping and falling on dicks. I'm not even on drugs, nor gay! It just happens. I think it was on the fine print of course requirements when at college. Like to graduate you gotta intern at dick-filled slip-and-slides, you can't come back from spring break without a few miles on the odometer, and you don't get a diploma or s…
This post is funny, and the story is so over the top I see why you'd wanna share it, and I appreciate that it made me crack up, so don't see things as a total loss even if the post is taken away. Clearly you're not the only one to think that this didn't belong here. What am I missing? A lot of subscribers come here to see people looking for commitment, but I think the post fits well (on the weekend especially) because she was looking for good well rounded, wholesome, mindful sex and surprise sur…
Seems that marriage is a business decision. Gotta seem clean for the John. Remember fellas, when trying to keep your brand exclusive, take your time negotiating with a seller for the most money. At the same time, feel free to give your product away whenever you feel like you need a hit of pleasure.
The moral of the story is this: Learn, while you are young, that there is no woman, no pussy in this universe that can possibly match the value you can bring to your own life through your own effort. 🤝
Looking for r€al man to $poil h€r. What kind of £udicrous £ies are you £eaving around these parts, young £ad!? It's all about the £ove and £ong term compatability!
i talked too much when we met,like yo bitch we spent 2 hours and you said 5 words in total. You're supposed to be her hot chip, dick, drug dealing atm machine. Less talking, more showing off your mandated sports car, sweaty!/s Man, she wanted you to be that dancing monkey.
Seriously. Like the people who say they are blunt and then use that to excuse their condescending passive aggressive nastiness More to your point, I think there was a post the other day where the lady was super rude about some 'mansplaining' and then went right along with the conversation as if being nasty off top was just a casual thing and part of her independent strong humor.
