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I hope this is a troll post, otherwise rape would be the only option. Not even paying for sex would be an option for OP
/r/seduction30/09/24 06:40 PM
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Sweet Japanese waifu material 2-4 years younger than me with similar politics and worldview with distinctive different strengths to complement my weaknesses. Normal weight not chubby or fat, average female height, large eyes and warm smile.
/r/seduction19/03/24 09:59 PM
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3 inches
/r/seduction16/09/22 07:33 AM
4

Ask them why they are so loud.
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:37 AM
2

Well, we all know why 😠
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:00 PM
6

Next time make a quicker list. Im not watching a video.
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:08 PM
1

Well the assumption is that you are NOT awesome in your current state. If you are awesome, good for you.
/r/seduction06/01/22 12:52 PM
8

The best version of yourself is not an endpoint, but the rate of improvement on a daily basis.
/r/seduction06/01/22 10:48 AM
1

I think there are three ideas that you need to keep in mind (as someone who is also totally utilitarian and not fashion conscious). Match colors, so it is visually appealing. Including accessories, shoes, belt, etc. Textures matter. Make sure the textures of your clothes are pleasant. Brand matters only to people who care about them, but it can be a consideration. Find your own style slowly or ask fashionable friends for advice. Not a fully comprehensive list, but things that upped my fashion ga…
/r/seduction30/07/21 06:57 AM
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Authentic, not fake. You cant befriend everyone, and the ones you do will all be turned off by inauthenticity. So be the best you so you can be proud to be you, without hiding parts of you that you are ashamed of.
/r/seduction22/07/21 03:49 AM
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The answer to all three questions is the following: Fat, egg and cheese. Fat because fat is a symptom of overeating due to mental issues, egg because of mutations that lead to what we can call a chicken, and cheese because while cheese can be a type of dessert, it can also be served as an appetizer or part of the main.
/r/seduction12/06/21 07:30 AM
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Or, you know, literally Exercise. Nothing better than a fit healthy body, a brain flushed with endorphins and with the confidence that having a fit body brings you.
/r/seduction05/12/20 11:23 PM
56

Sigh... Unzips pants
/r/seduction01/10/20 08:09 PM
2

Thrust deeper
/r/seduction05/09/20 04:18 AM
3

I mean if you are being dominant or submissive in a real life context, I think you have bigger problems than nodding up or down. Who cares whether you nod up or down. The smile is what seals the deal - the eye contact is implied for both scenarios. Eye contact is important because you can see the fear or confidence in one's eyes, and you cannot hide what your eyes show.
/r/seduction15/08/20 03:50 PM
9

Or just flash a smile and a nod downwards when you catch the other dude staring back, and you defuse the situation.
/r/seduction15/08/20 02:12 PM
1

Then get better through practice and failure.
/r/seduction12/08/20 06:32 AM
1

All the miscommunication is just socially awkward people not catching blatantly obvious signals and not taking a hint.
/r/seduction11/08/20 06:29 PM
1

Define a sigma man
/r/seduction11/08/20 02:15 PM
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Just look at yourself in the mirror. Find areas you want to fix, and fix it. Otherwise, you will never overcome that insecurity, and it will be seen by everyone. Not your weakness, but your insecurity, which is what turns girls or just people in general, off.
/r/seduction10/08/20 07:48 PM
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Yes. Usually, I see guys with absolutely no chance (as in doesn't put in as much effort as the 'hot girls' they go for) shooting for the moon, and getting blasted out the water. If a guy is reasonably attractive, simply trying results in a 'maybe next time' as opposed to a 'omg get away from me loser'.
/r/seduction10/08/20 07:15 PM
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Not even shamed if you look like you at least take care of yourself a bit, and are aiming within 4 levels of your perceived physical attractiveness.
/r/seduction10/08/20 07:05 PM
2

At least we can say 'been there, done that', instead of wondering what could've been.
/r/seduction30/07/20 08:35 AM
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I personally really like Polo Black. Excellent crisp, smokey, citrusy scent.
/r/seduction29/07/20 10:54 PM
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That's the best thing though. To have had a 10 once is such a self confidence booster. Now you can not be so insecure about looks and also focus on other aspects that also complete a girl. Had the same thing happen to me, and it was the best thing for me.
/r/seduction28/07/20 11:01 AM
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Some good books to read can be 'principles' by ray dalio, or 'start with why' by simon sinek. How I really got these lessons? Microdosing lsd post breakup with a girl and watching 'the midnight gospel' on netflix. lsd really kills your ego and allows you to see without your ego putting a shadow over what you actually see, because of the insecurities that you want to avoid, as those feelings are unpleasant.
/r/seduction20/07/20 04:11 PM
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Both. But knowledge is in a book, and you must read the book to learn. Experience causes you to learn. Knowledge just gives you additional variables to use towards predicting the future.
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:57 PM
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Every time you transgress your promises to yourself, you know it. Obviously cheat days are allowed, but imagine how much more confident and superior you would feel if you put in that extra effort of no cheat days, and actually feel the effects? That is the source of confidence. You cannot lie to your conscience, and every time you lie to it, you make it less confident. That unconfident ego will show itself in anxieties, twitching, eye wavering, body positioning, facial expressions whether or not…
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:26 PM
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Or just always act in ways that would make yourself proud of yourself- that is, exercising daily, eating right, having good work performance, having good finances, good relationships, and not doing things that lower your self esteem-ego- as you know exactly the worst thing youve done. You cant lie to your ego, so do whats right to feel righteous all the time. That is what true confidence is.
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:02 PM
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You have to make mistakes in the first place to learn. There is knowledge, and there is learning. Don't confuse the two. Just because I have a book with knowledge in it doesn't mean that knowledge is mine. You have to learn through reading it and understanding it to learn.
/r/seduction19/07/20 08:58 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction19/07/20 07:22 AM
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Also it hurts feelings, as getting hotter is not an immediate change. It takes a shitton of work, but the good thing is it gets easier as you work on it. Sometimes, I feel like people not saying this truth is what causes people to get stuck, and not understand what they need to do to improve themselves and their situation, all for the sake of protecting their precious fragile ego that's been fed lies all its life.
/r/seduction19/07/20 07:14 AM
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You are born with a hard cap, but you won't ever reach it unless you work hard as fuck for it.
/r/seduction19/07/20 06:34 AM
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What I did was work and grind to become hotter than average, which leads to girls checking you out, which allows you to have experience sooner or later. If you work on yourself to the point where you look like a juicy snack, there will be chicks that will want a piece, and you will know it despite being shy or unwilling to put yourself out of there (ofcourse, do go outside, otherwise its a bit difficult to meet girls).
/r/seduction19/07/20 06:22 AM
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Actually, asking for help is the very thing you must start doing. Ditch your ego, and do what is necessary to fix your problems. As you fix your problems and act in a manner you yourself would be proud of, your ego grows healthy as you know you are righteous in what you are doing.
/r/seduction19/07/20 06:09 AM
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Instead of looking for 'tricks', or 'right things to say', you put in the work and got exactly what you deserved. How fair is that. Good shit man, love the formatting and advice. All true and well stated.
/r/seduction13/07/20 06:34 AM
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I mean, even a worthless PoS can hold money its drawers.
/r/seduction04/07/20 01:37 PM
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Once you reach that point, you'll see what I mean. I didn't believe that either until it happened and happens all the time.
/r/seduction03/07/20 10:00 AM
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Nah, women can smell success like flies on fruit.
/r/seduction03/07/20 09:56 AM
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Focus on things you CAN influence.
/r/seduction28/06/20 08:57 AM
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Consider learning about /r/mbti to see how different people percieve the world differently, process information based on different frameworks and therefore lead to different actions caused by entirely different reasons (inputs). The art of seduction is to literally be hot, and the way to become hot is to stop lying to your own self, and get started on fixing your flaws. Its not easy, not one bit. You have to act in a manner that your own self is proud of, in order to have true confidence. Anythi…
/r/seduction24/06/20 07:41 PM
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Forget getting girls. Improve your self first. Girls come to guys that have their shit in order. I was fat, didnt have a gf until 26, and failed many times in life. Whenever you feel like shit, figure out why you are feeling that way, create a plan to combat it and execute. Its not a one day or one week plan, but at least an 18 month period of constant discipline to get a new habit. If you want to just get laid, pay a hooker. If you want to become someone you yourself is proud of, you have to pu…
/r/seduction24/06/20 07:26 PM
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Yep, even had a girlfriend
/r/seduction24/06/20 07:11 PM
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You know, call people, make online events with others. I guess it is quite dependent on where exactly you live, as the isolation levels vary.
/r/seduction24/06/20 05:10 PM
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And I'm saying, improve them. What opportunities will you miss, if you never had the skills to take advantage of them in the first place? Develop yourself while others are playing.
/r/seduction24/06/20 05:07 PM
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Then stop pretending and actually do something about your problem. The offer still stands. Send me a list of your weaknesses, and we can talk about steps you can take. Otherwise, you will keep suffering until you die, or until you can't take it anymore, and decide enough is enough, after years of stagnation. Trying is not good enough. Anyone can half-assedly try. Yoda was right. You have to make plans, and make small changes. For example, you won't go to the gym every day and run 10 km daily fro…
/r/seduction24/06/20 05:03 PM
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A major detriment, exactly why? Just because you don't have memories? Do realize that literally EVERYONE in the world is affected by this. You can go to school again. I am on my third school. You are doing fine.
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:52 PM
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No. Refuse to submit to mediocrity. Maybe you need to hit rock bottom, like I have many times, as does basically everyone, but letting fate steer your life is literally the same as living as a stupid livestock animal. You are a human being that can ascertain what your weaknesses are, and the steps you need to take to fix it, so it is no longer a weakness. I was fat, I had no GF until 26, I took drugs to make me feel better. All those things can be fixed. If you'd like help in setting up goals or…
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:39 PM
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Ahh so you give up to mere pain? Pain is the signal of your weaknesses that your ego is currently not willing to admit and therefore take steps to fix. You can let your immediate desires rob you of a future and you can call it fate. Or you can face the pain and kill it by no longer letting it affect your ego through hard work and courage. The choice is yours. Do you want to lead your life or do you want fate to do the steering?
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:20 PM
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Venting is only to relieve your emotional state. I'm giving you good advice. It's up to you to apply it.
/r/seduction24/06/20 09:15 AM
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Nah, your years are only golden if you make something of it. You never had any to start with, you gotta make of it the best you can
/r/seduction24/06/20 07:42 AM
39

Start after it ends? Motivation is limitless if you are willing
/r/seduction24/06/20 07:31 AM
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If you aren't fucking her in real life, you aren't really 'seeing eachother'.
/r/seduction15/06/20 12:32 PM
0

Please teach us your secret master!
/r/seduction11/06/20 07:53 PM
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TL;DR: Everything is going to be mostly ok
/r/seduction11/06/20 07:38 PM
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Who you are is also how you look. Also, attractive people tend to have better mentality in general, and live more happy lives. I see no reason to not put in the effort to get fit, at the very least for your health and self confidence.
/r/seduction31/05/20 07:57 AM
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Because you are faking who you are, it will NEVER work long term. I don't know if you are a sociopath, but the real you will be known eventually, and if that scares you, make the real you better.
/r/seduction30/05/20 05:17 PM
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Must be exhausting being in a play
/r/seduction30/05/20 04:12 PM
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Appearance, especially fitness is a universally undeniable sign of health, as you can buy nice clothes, but it takes sweat and tears in actually crafting yourself for a hot body. That's why, despite being what some call a shallow way to look at people, it is completely valid to use appearance as a large part of one's initial attraction categories, and can be rather indicative of the hidden unhealthy aspects of their personality, such as coping mechanisms (by eating, not eating, drugs, etc).
/r/seduction17/05/20 07:53 AM
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Too bad I can't legally get a haircut atm :(
/r/seduction07/05/20 01:12 PM
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You can lie to others, but you can't lie to yourself.
/r/seduction30/04/20 04:23 PM
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Ok at least one fuck then ;)
/r/seduction07/03/20 11:19 AM
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At least you are getting fucks from her ;)
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:57 AM
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Don't try to 'keep them interested' Approach them, and see if they are interested in you, and if they are, escalate, and see how they react. If they are not interested, kindly remove yourself from the situation and try again. It's really not that hard. You can't get a girl to like you through magic words.
/r/seduction19/02/20 11:34 AM
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That's so true. Be kind to yourself, Be kind to your parents, be kind to your siblings, be kind to your friends and chicks really do come like flies to a carcass.
/r/seduction16/02/20 10:05 PM
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25 Korean guy in Europe. I was fat, lazy and unattractive with terrible people skills. You must improve yourself daily, incrementally, your body, your work ethic/discipline, empathy and people skills, and become good at what you do. I think that race has little basis on attraction, and if it does have a big impact, they aren't partners you are looking for anyways. Tons of girls go for guys of all races, as long as you aren't limiting yourself due to self-imposed ideas on what you, as an asian CA…
/r/seduction16/02/20 07:06 AM
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/u/IWLoseIt is saying that sex can contribute to a relationship if chemistry is good, especially during cuddling after sex which releases oxytocin, which is literally a chemical for bonding. Afterall, the only difference between a good friend and a love interest is that you fuck them (obviously other than FWB).
/r/seduction12/02/20 12:38 PM
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This may seem racist, but as a korean its 100% true. Eye contact is considered rude for asians especially strangers of unknown class
/r/seduction08/02/20 08:20 AM
1

Eyes don't lie. You can tell what the other is thinking by looking at their eyes, and the muscles around their eyes, which basically most people cannot consciously control all the time.
/r/seduction03/01/20 09:15 AM
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Based indian bro :) Thanks for the great honest advice.
/r/seduction01/01/20 08:02 AM
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How do I keep myself going? I have an internal drum pounding every time I am grinding at a task. I tell myself "Again... Again... Again... Again.." Keep pounding that drum. It's almost impossible to be too tired to do something. It's a matter of pounding that drum and proceeding regardless.
/r/seduction31/12/19 06:48 PM
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Good thing i was not as educated on the subject and got to learn something new! Not everyone is as educated as you are. What are some key takeaways you would say about the article at hand?
/r/seduction27/12/19 01:57 PM
4

Let them brag, respect the work put in, and candidly ask for tips or take inspiration from their efforts
/r/seduction19/12/19 07:31 AM
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The jealous pain you feel is self inflicted. It is the comparison of the self to others that is painful, not necessarily the success of others. Compliment and truly respect the work that was put in for those you are jealous of, and ask for tips for your own improvement. Most improvement people are quite willing to help out someone asking for help in a candid manner. Stop lying to others and most importantly yourself. Lying doesnt change reality, only your conscious view of it (as opposed to the …
/r/seduction19/12/19 07:30 AM
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I think your own looks help be self confident which is what girls want. Id say seduction is a yay or nay binary kind of game, where relative attractiveness is generalized
/r/seduction08/12/19 10:19 AM
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This is the right answer folks. Ignore the downvotes. Just people that lack the discipline to work for something they want feeling personally attacked
/r/seduction06/12/19 01:37 PM
1

Yea to add on, its normal to distance yourself from negative emotions that may come through certain actions or situations. However, a fact of life is, it gets easier as you gain more experience. Key to living life to its fullest is to simply learn from mistakes and improve at least a little every day, if even in the smallest of ways
/r/seduction23/10/19 07:11 AM
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Not if you just point out legitimate good traits.
/r/seduction23/10/19 07:08 AM
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Well, if you can't even talk to a girl on a date, how the hell do you plan on talking to her daily when you become boyfriend girlfriend? The easy thing to do is to figure out who you are, that is, become something that you yourself are proud of. That will naturally translate to confidence and allow you to emotionally mature. Be honest. Why lie when you can tell the truth? It's better to filter out incompatible people by getting rejected, than to hopelessly cling on to anyone that you happen to g…
/r/seduction22/10/19 06:04 PM
1

No, better your stomach. Chest voice is weaker compared to tummy voice.
/r/seduction28/09/19 07:23 AM
2

Get glasses, if you are self conscious about glasses, try contact lenses. Made me able to resd coffee menus, and recognize peoples faces from more than 20 meters away
/r/seduction28/09/19 05:35 AM
1

When you contemplate a plan of action, it's good to start with a goal. You seem to have the procedures down, but you have yet to find an appropriate goal. What do you gain by letting her know you are not a pushover? She doesn't like you, don't deflect your frustration on her. Get the message, and move on.
/r/seduction14/07/19 09:01 AM
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to be frank, what a lot of confident men do is they take their time, at times obviously checking out women. I am not so confident, but that's what I've seen hotel owners and very wealthy salespeople do. Eye contact and a smile and look away a bit later is polite, but no eye contact, and quick lookaway is kinda creepy.
/r/seduction31/01/19 05:20 PM
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Amen. Dont run away from negative emotion. Feel it, experience it, cry, let it crush you. Only then, do you master it. Everything hard, difficult and time consuming is worth it. Work 10% harder than everyone else to be better than 90% of them. 2019, just a passing year in your life, but you can make great things of it, if you are willing
/r/seduction01/01/19 12:29 PM
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Ur just a kid, do the things you must do, despite not wanting to at the moment, listen to your parents (they really do have good things to say, you are just not mature enough to understand- and i say this in the nicest possible way, most people are like that when younger), and take care of yourself. I know how i felt at 16, 18, 21, and now 25. Improve yourself so that you show improved value being yourself. Its not about not giving a fuck. Its about not giving a fuck about things that dont help …
/r/seduction01/01/19 08:58 AM
1

Block her number? Same as if a dude was sending unsolicited nudes
/r/seduction29/12/18 12:42 AM
2

A girl invited me three separate times to her dorm room alone, each time with more revealing clothing, and all I did all three times was smoke and watch netflix. Don't be me. Look at how she is reacting to you. Make tester moves to see if shes ok going to the next step. At a lull in the conversation, (there will be, or make one with silence), especially after you both shared good emotions like laughing, look directly into her eyes and go in for the kiss. Women are scared of walking the streets a…
/r/seduction28/11/18 02:44 PM
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Wow what an amazing response. I really appreciate the effort and knowledge. I always struggled with making moves because it just wasnt what i did, and how that sudden change of behavior can make it seem awkward. I didnt really think of it like that. I guess i got some work to do, and thanks again for your help
/r/seduction28/11/18 08:04 AM
3

Well i knew that and i still was uncomfortable just touching girls like that. Its a point of improvement for me
/r/seduction24/11/18 04:42 PM
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Wow that part about not making a move and thinking touching is inappropriate is literally me. I had a girl invite me to her dorm 3 times and all i did was smoke and watch netflix but nothing. How do you suggest i get more comfortable interacting physically with girls?
/r/seduction24/11/18 09:44 AM
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Dick hole
/r/seduction23/11/18 10:16 AM
1

oof, well rekt my good sir :)
/r/seduction14/11/18 10:06 AM
2

Just fuck her. No girl would rather dry hump than wet hump if she is willing to dry hump with you
/r/seduction26/10/18 10:44 AM
4

Kinky
/r/seduction09/10/18 07:47 AM
11

Ask yourself. If you use a dating app, are you also lower quality? Same difference. Good and bad exists, and its easier to act meaner online than in person
/r/seduction29/08/18 08:16 AM
1

Whenever i wonder and struggle with doing something, i think or speak out loud: "Full Control" And i do it
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:00 PM
12

Better than sitting at home jerkin off
/r/seduction13/08/18 08:49 PM
10

Get older
/r/seduction13/08/18 08:48 PM
1

Talk slower while talking about things you are interested in (that are appropriate). Just be friends with women. Thats the minimum for friendship or fucking. Women dont fuck guys they arent comfortable with
/r/seduction25/07/18 07:48 AM
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Because sex is really risky for women. They prefer long term relationships and with partners that may not be perfect but be able to care for their kid and improve (ambitoon) continuously
/r/seduction24/07/18 07:35 AM
6

Pay for a hooker
/r/seduction15/07/18 01:30 PM
2

Why do you care? Because shes one of the only women you are talking to and you are desperate for attention. She is not interested. Girls live with their phones. They reply back very quickly to people they actually like. You got a long way to go
/r/seduction15/07/18 01:21 PM
4

Its exactly 69.69%. Trust me, I'm a scientist.
/r/seduction15/07/18 01:18 PM
3

Compare, but instead of letting it put you down, use it as a stimulus for development
/r/seduction15/07/18 02:13 AM
2

Then just do yoga and interact with others like normal. Dont have a seduction mode vs normal mode. Just be normal
/r/seduction13/07/18 09:40 AM
1

Ofcourse. I was giving an example of the fear of the unknown within the context of death. Someone who studied for an exam may look forward to it, but someone who has no idea has great fear. The unknown is the greatest fear
/r/seduction12/07/18 07:12 AM
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Why does anyone fear anything? Because they do not know or understand it.
/r/seduction12/07/18 07:11 AM
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Don't be the creepy guy that's only there to hit on girls. Go to the class only if you are actually interested in doing yoga. If you are going there for the possibility of sex, it makes you a creepy guy. It's like going to a ballet lesson to try to pick up girls. Unless you are into ballet, it's just cringe and creepy af.
/r/seduction11/07/18 11:45 PM
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Show interest in everyone, that is, try to be kind and overall a happy nice person that's great to be around. (dont try to 'seduce' everyone you see, that's kinda weird) Just gauge others' interest and see where it takes you.
/r/seduction11/07/18 11:38 PM
1

People that lose 'friendships' lose them because they cannot handle being friends with them or cannot handle being rejected.
/r/seduction11/07/18 11:24 PM
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No. If you knew exactly when and why you would die, you wouldnt be so afraid of death. It is dying when you least expect it while leading fulfilling lives that causes fear. The joker said it best. Police or soldiers dying is expected. One random old man gets brutalized and everyone freaks out.
/r/seduction10/07/18 11:01 PM
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No it is fear of the unknown. That is essence of fear.
/r/seduction10/07/18 01:32 AM
1

Overcome the negative thoughts by solving the problems causing them and create positive change in your life in form of accomplishments and progress
/r/seduction10/07/18 12:25 AM
1

I mean tbf, physical escalation is so important. Good job man. Dancing aint no joke
/r/seduction09/07/18 01:13 AM
0

This is the real shit. To be charismatic and confident comes from being able to recognize, plan and successfully solve your problems in life, whatever it may be, for which blood, sweat and tears is the tribute to be paid.
/r/seduction09/07/18 12:33 AM
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I think you just like criticising people. Op wrote a decent FR. If you choose to learn nothing from it, so be it.
/r/seduction09/07/18 12:02 AM
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Dont be like that. Learn from and applaud what others deemed important enough to write out and post on reddit.
/r/seduction08/07/18 11:59 PM
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Not Indian aparently
/r/seduction23/06/18 06:03 PM
1

They test constantly because its their biological imperative to find the best mate possible that can protect them. The fact that one fails at these tests implies that the man is not confident enough to even talk to a woman or do certain things, hence the rejection. Its worth it because no one can live alone forever and a relationship can really make a good life greater
/r/seduction12/06/18 08:24 PM
0

To be frank, get a mentor, whoever it may be, that has at least been in a relationship with a girl for 1 year. I ask my close friend and roomate all the retarded shit i do, and tell how i feel about the things that happen, and those 'social' guys have so much pearls of advice that it's dumb to ignore them. Also teach them something. I teach my friends how to work and be efficient, they teach me about socializing, and how they do it with others and girls.
/r/seduction02/06/18 02:09 PM
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I ask why you need to pre-rehearse anything to do anything to 'make a girl attracted to you'. It's not what you do during the date/interaction, but what you have done until now and will continue to do that matters. A girl will like you if you are honest to yourself. Not lying to yourself by doing everything full effort, not lying to yourself about your weaknesses and strengths, not lying to others for petty irrelevant reasons. Most people tend to lie all the time to others and most importantly t…
/r/seduction01/06/18 03:27 PM
1

I too would like to know.
/r/seduction01/06/18 02:48 PM
0

Ur weird man
/r/seduction01/06/18 09:10 AM
1

Lots of inexperienced guys are basically trying to ace an exam without doing their homework. No wonder so many women freak out at guys that cannot calibrate to be a normal fucking person.
/r/seduction31/05/18 01:07 PM
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This is the truth. Don't try to ruin someone else's happiness trying to get yours when it wasn't even on the table. There are so many single girls that are dying for a boyfriend, or even just some more guy friends that are chill. Everyone wants to be introduced to new cool people. Be the guy that introduces himself and his friends to others.
/r/seduction30/05/18 07:08 PM
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Then try to.make.more normal friends before u go for girls
/r/seduction29/05/18 04:41 PM
1

U know whats up. No time to worry about bs petty shit like social media
/r/seduction29/05/18 11:10 AM
1

Not very. It does introduce attraction like good clothes or a nice haircut does, but how you are as a person, in your confidence and determination, are the things women look for while actually meeting up with them. Your social media can help get you a date, but until you got your life straight, in work, self and social skills, a woman just sees a liar made up to look impressive through social media.
/r/seduction29/05/18 11:09 AM
1

The answer to "Whats an acceptable place to meet new friends" Is the same as that of your question OP
/r/seduction29/05/18 11:03 AM
1

Yea. Put simply, you do you, just the way others do what they do.
/r/seduction29/05/18 10:54 AM
1

ye the key is the buildup. That's super important. Its sometimes better to moderate the pace, to the point of continuing what you started at a later date.
/r/seduction29/05/18 06:54 AM
5

Just have a good time. If she likes you, this isnt the only 'chance'. But do be ready for anything. Most women dont go to mens houses and sleep over if they dont at least entertain the idea of sexual relations
/r/seduction29/05/18 06:13 AM
1

Ok, then we agree with one another. Its that many people might just think of pretending to be gay to be the cheatcode and not a mere creation of a confident and playful dude
/r/seduction28/05/18 08:21 PM
4

I figured out that you cannot just will yourself into being confident and being a worthy man. Well, you can, but not in the way you think. You must have other things in your life that you are good at and like that makes you a professional. Be that a professional painter, a lawyer, student or athlete, take your life and the things you do in it fucking seriously. The thing that separates a professional is that he takes time and effort to really do, and do well, the things that he needs to do. Don'…
/r/seduction28/05/18 05:01 PM
2

Its not one lie. Its the accumilation of lies.from being a person that lies unnecessarily
/r/seduction28/05/18 01:29 PM
3

The drawback being that you are not honest with yourself. Lies make people anxious and unconfident. Keep your conscious free and live life as you wish, free of anxiety of being found out and with the confidence to tell it like it is because it is that way. Your lies will eventually get you laid some times, but is lying to others and yourself an honorable and bragworthy path? I think not.
/r/seduction28/05/18 09:05 AM
1

Not gay Lies Dont lie. Be honest. This is what people mean by being clear in ur intentions somewhat Being gay is a full 180
/r/seduction28/05/18 05:22 AM
1

Its not what you do or how you look so much as who you are as a person
/r/seduction27/05/18 09:44 AM
7

Attraction is not a competition. It is there or absent. It seems absent
/r/seduction27/05/18 09:40 AM
1

Use sexual humor. It seems crude, and childish at times, but there's nothing that people like talking about more than sex. And I mean don't go full retard. Never go full retard.
/r/seduction27/05/18 05:24 AM
2

I think he means is to try to not systemize the pursuit of women. There is no need to call names when we are all trying to improve. 'Winning' in reddit is like trying to fill the void in your life by having sex.
/r/seduction27/05/18 05:21 AM
1

A young dog chases his tail, and when he gets it, doesn't know what to do with it. An older and more experienced dog still chases his tail but knows the game is about the chase, not catching the tail itself.
/r/seduction27/05/18 05:18 AM
11

He didnt feel like it. Do what you want to do and be honest about the reasons why. Aside from the girl raping him, he did what he wanted to do and will not do what he does not want to do
/r/seduction22/05/18 08:42 AM
4

Stop lying. You can lie to others, but you cannot lie to yourself, and that guilt will stack up and lead to more lies. You cannot be charismatic and confident if you knowingly lie (unless you are a sociopath that does not feel certain emotions. Tell the truth and you will be free of that guilt, and people will respect you more.
/r/seduction09/05/18 08:51 AM
3

i agree, and keep doing the things that interest you, and make money off the things that you are good at. There are no perfect jobs and situations. Also, I feel like #4 is the most important. By living your truth, it means be honest. To others, and most importantly yourself, as you cannot hide from them without adding bits of stress that adds up. Just being free of lies 99% of the times lets you act confidently, and charismatically. If you believe the shit you say, and say the shit you believe, …
/r/seduction05/05/18 07:27 PM
1

The main way is to act honestly. To be ok with others judging you, because who cares what anyone not you thinks of you, especially if its not true? Also, look at peoples intentions, instead of just the results. Most people are rational, and have reasons for a lot of their actions.
/r/seduction28/04/18 05:36 PM
6

Don't go out if you don't want to. It's ok to dominate in the fewer interactions you have as an introvert, and with your body language in public. Don't do shit that makes you unhappy. I figured I didnt really like drinking or going out to clubs, and I just don't, even though my friends do sometimes. I'll smoke up with them when they want to, but fk man, don't do shit you dont want to do. You said 'generally have fun' and then described how you are an introvert and don't know how to mingle with p…
/r/seduction28/04/18 04:59 PM
-5

You just fuck them, but being aware of how they respond to your actions apply a little thing called foreplay
/r/seduction28/04/18 04:19 PM
5

Try phenibut. Its nice with modafinil
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:28 PM
2

Talk about what you are passionate about and enjoy. Ur acting like ur trying too hard cuz u pretend to like things ur not interested in
/r/seduction03/02/18 03:40 PM
1

Yea work on yourself to constantly improve, but by no means change who you are to befriend someone. Everyone is weird in some way. You just gotta find similar people to chill with.
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:05 PM
4

The point is, you cannot be friends with everyone. By being yourself, you weed out people that aren't easy to get along with, and end up with a good group of friends or significant other that you can be yourself with, and have it be totally cool.
/r/seduction15/03/17 07:54 AM
2

The reality of "fake it till you make it" is to fail or win, using your judgement to learn from those experiences until you "make it"
/r/seduction23/02/17 10:19 PM
4

I find point 2 to be more important. Be someone everyone else wants to be, that is, do things that others won't do.
/r/seduction01/11/16 12:56 PM
3

She is saying you don't look like smeagol, not that she wants to fuck you.
/r/seduction15/10/16 12:46 PM
1

Well, Dont you have friends? Talk to them. The just know that achieving your goals is more important than your friendship.
/r/seduction21/08/16 02:54 PM
52

School is first priority, then your personal maintenance, then is getting girls.
/r/seduction20/08/16 01:42 AM
4

I'm Korean and I've lived abroad in many countries, and in the US, pickup can't be any easier than elsewhere, especially in a college setting. Work out Do your schoolwork meticulously Talk slower and with more deliberation, that is, speak with the fewest amounts of words you can See yourself as equals to the other 'foreigners'. I know that as a Korean myself, we tend to divide ourselves up into Koreans and foreigners, but the US isn't that way. Black, white, latino, asian, it's all the same. Don…
/r/seduction14/08/16 12:06 AM
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I'd not go, because being 4th+ wheel isn't what I'd want to do. What I want would be 1-1 time with the girl. It's not worth your time to be 'suffering' just for the sake of politeness or abundance of time. I would just cancel, and tell her, 'you should spend time with your friends' Now if she insists on you joining, then, the ball is in your court.
/r/seduction04/08/16 10:48 PM
3

For a lot of women, yes, for all, no. But you can't do anything about it, so be the best you and you'll be set.
/r/seduction27/06/16 08:37 AM
1

I know those feels man, Had something extremely similar happen. But what helped me was just realizing that that was that girl, and that most others are different.
/r/seduction21/06/16 11:26 PM
1

If you can move on, no need to know what went wrong. It's counterproductive to keep looking at your past for the actions of one girl to find the algorithm that makes girls tick, because of the fact that all girls are different, and even if you do find the algorithm that makes that certain girl tick, you shouldn't apply that to all girls, as if some rulebook on courtship.
/r/seduction21/06/16 10:52 PM
0

First off, don't make qualifiers like 'she said I was handsome', ect to be part of your equation. Women just say stuff in the spur of the moment amidst their emotions. Second, she doesn't seem interested. Ask one more time maybe a few weeks later, and if she isn't reciprocating, then, move on.
/r/seduction21/06/16 10:42 PM
1

Or just go to a motel. If you have a car, you can use that too, if not just use a taxi to get to a motel.
/r/seduction21/06/16 10:37 PM
40

So basically, be attractive.
/r/seduction19/06/16 11:09 PM
0

No, since the person already knows you in my example. If it's just random contact without having ever met them, it's obviously always going to be cringy.
/r/seduction13/06/16 07:56 AM
1

TBF, it's not WHAT you say that matters, just HOW you say it. If the girl knew you to be a cocky dude that gets laid all the time, she takes it as teasing, whilst if the girl knew you as a needy loser, she won't even reply.
/r/seduction13/06/16 05:46 AM
2

Bro just don't blindly follow any one source, instead actually testing them out before you judge them on 'theory'. Both methods work, test them out, get rejected, change your approach, and get rejected again, until you find what works for you. I bet you haven't even tried approaching yet, and are hesitating on which theory to test. Just pick one, and test it, and see how it works for you.
/r/seduction22/04/16 11:24 PM
1

Difference is that they dont say their feelings but they do show it through their actions
/r/seduction22/04/16 11:09 PM
2

Why think too much of it. Just don't lie, and show who you are. If you're a shitty, or low quality person, improve yourself.
/r/seduction19/04/16 12:28 AM
6

No, the best answer is the truth. If you have to lie about who you are to get THAT girl, then it wasn't going to happen in the first place. Tell her who you are, if it doesn't interest her, move on. If you lie, the relationship will go nowhere anyways, unless you are a psychopath that can change who he is on a whim forever.
/r/seduction18/04/16 11:43 PM
3

I'm saying you should focus on yourself first before doing anything else. Sucks she isn't putting in 110% effort, but it doesn't mean you should slack off just to half-assedly attempt to pick her up. (unless you plan on doing overhead presses with her)
/r/seduction17/04/16 08:08 AM
5

I agree. While at the gym, work out. Work out until it's hard to talk, then, drink a shake, and take a shower and go on home.
/r/seduction17/04/16 01:08 AM
1

Uhh, you invested too much for the slightest sign that she may possibly reciprocate attraction. That's needy af. Don't put too much effort on a date, just go for a coffee or a drink. You don't have to reserve an opera and a dinner at a 3 star michellin restaurant. Also, why do you feel that a girl has to completely say yes or no? Maybe she has other issues, isnt feeling too good, or just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Take a hint, and move on. If she is interested, the very least she will d…
/r/seduction02/04/16 11:39 PM
1

Well, I think I can say with some level of confidence, that most mens' attraction of women comes from sexual origins, at least initially, which is why we value beauty over most other traits for initial attraction.
/r/seduction01/04/16 10:51 PM
149

Bro, women don't approach because approaching is terrifying for most people, and they don't want to experience that because they have no balls, and because they can just get by well enough by not approaching first, because tons of horny dudes are gonna approach first. Everyone has the fear of rejection. Men are conditioned to act in spite of fear, women don't have to be conditioned, because they have never needed to ask first to get their needs met.
/r/seduction01/04/16 09:08 AM
2

Good. Don't take away from what you can do by limiting yourself by putting nametags that limit yourself. That's for others to do to you. You are your own best team.
/r/seduction30/03/16 04:41 AM
2

No. You are a loser. But putting yourself down by telling yourself that this is who you are and will be, and can never change will never lead to change for the better. Others (like me) can call you names and put you down. But you should never put yourself down without even trying. If you fail while trying, try harder. Keep working till you reach your goals. Believe in your own ability to change, because if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will.
/r/seduction30/03/16 04:32 AM
2

You just declared yourself unfit to get women by calling yourself unconfident, a loser, with mental issues. If you don't believe you can get women, who will believe you?
/r/seduction29/03/16 09:29 AM
2

It means you are strong enough to be vulnerable, as the fallout from vulnerability does not damage your sense of worth, because you are so strong.
/r/seduction22/03/16 12:48 AM
0

You... You too... /s
/r/seduction19/03/16 10:40 AM
2

This is why I said that it is perhaps, better to find other avenues of happiness, if the women that like you are those that you are not interested in. It's not happiness that comes with dating someone you don't want to date. I apologise, if I judged harshly, but I believe if some women approach you at all, then, perhaps, you aren't a lost cause, and you should go for the women that YOU desire, no matter what 'league' you believe them to be. It is also a good idea to keep doing other things that …
/r/seduction13/03/16 12:02 AM
1

Getting laid is not the endall goal. Its happiness. Im saying its sometimes better to find other routes of happiness if he finds only dispair from chasing women
/r/seduction12/03/16 06:26 AM
1

He can improve his appearance, but he said it himself, he has issues with depression, and has aspergers. Call me an asshole, but it's very hard to find hot women with good personalities that want to be with someone with those issues. He has aspergers. Socialization itself is usually a chore and does not make him happy. He can socialize, but if by socializing, he loses more happiness than he gains, I don't see it to be a path to happiness. I don't think autistic women are what most men want. They…
/r/seduction12/03/16 06:09 AM
2

I feel like if you can change it, change it, and if you can't change it, then accept it. Do things that make you happy. Don't go trying to go for fat girls or girls with issues just because you think it may make you happier, when in fact, (speaking honestly) your self-perception and confidence would decrease (having associated with low value girls) and the drama that comes with it can be painful. Accept yourself for what you are, and keep improving. If you don't accept yourself, how can anyone e…
/r/seduction12/03/16 01:27 AM
1

I feel like most important of all, judge your intentions, and if they are needy, you are doing something wrong. Following 10 'rules' listed above are what people that are not needy do, but is by no means the complete guide. Judge your intentions in your actions, and live more selfishly.
/r/seduction12/03/16 12:47 AM
2

Happiness is the goal in life. If women aren't likely to be a source of happiness, find other things that give you joy. It does no good to brood over what could've been if situations were different, because the situation likely can't change (at least in your situation imo), and the situation is reality. There is a certain 'stock' in terms of people, and people usually live within their 'league'. A tiger can't enjoy a salad, as much as a rabbit can't enjoy a hog for dinner. The key to a happy lif…
/r/seduction12/03/16 12:33 AM
2

Stop masturbating to porn. Almost everyone has nearly unlimited potential with enough work. Not everyone puts in the work. If you don't (more like won't) put in the work to achive your goals, you'll be the same thing as a loser. Potential is not reality. So the thing is, keep living the way you live, and you'll stay that way. The good thing is, if you put in extraordinary effort (more effort than what is expected from ordinary people), you will definitely achive those goals. It's your life. Eith…
/r/seduction06/03/16 01:04 PM
8

Yes. That would woo anyone.
/r/seduction06/03/16 12:34 AM
90

Yea, this is how Aladdin got dat Jasmine pussy. He showed her the world, and didn't just go the 'ey bb wan fuk' route.
/r/seduction05/03/16 11:38 PM
3

If you won't even put in the word to read what OP posted, then I don't think you have the right mindset for self improvement kid.
/r/seduction21/02/16 12:33 AM
10

Man, this comment was a trip of uncertain emotions.
/r/seduction21/02/16 12:19 AM
1

Instead of complaining about the world, and waiting for it to change, you can change yourself and get after what you want.
/r/seduction21/02/16 12:18 AM
1

Ask him to thrust his spear into your open wound.
/r/seduction16/02/16 07:26 AM
1

Is that really all you want? Because that seems rather shallow. Either case, if that's what you want, take steps to get there instead of complaining and second-guessing yourself about what was, instead of thinking about and taking steps to what can and will be.
/r/seduction16/02/16 07:12 AM
1

Yes. Improve yourself day by day. And yes, someone else can tell you nice things, but it's you, yourself that must do the work. Ask yourself what you want the most in life (lifetime-scale, say, family with 2 kids and stable financial life) Ask yourself what the main goals to achieving that lifetime goal is (meet woman, save up money, get good job (study)). Ask yourself how you achieve those main goals, and start setting smaller goals on individual aspects of said goals (for women, dress better, …
/r/seduction16/02/16 07:01 AM
10

You. You prevent yourself from getting what you want.
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:27 AM
1

Good. If you believe yourself to be inadequate, make yourself adequate, or be forced to live with women that aren't adequate for your standards.
/r/seduction05/02/16 06:07 AM
1

Attractive means looks + inner game. Dildo man obviously had good inner game in the eyes of women, as what unconfident man would carry around a dildo on his head?
/r/seduction04/02/16 09:54 AM
1

Ok let me ask you, what is your goal in pickup? Are you attractive? Body facewise? What are you doing in lift at the moment? Student? Work?
/r/seduction04/02/16 07:04 AM
1

Its creepy if you arent attractive or are out of place or go out withtge sole goal of pickup
/r/seduction04/02/16 06:51 AM
1

Just react as you normally would. Be pissed off, since you wouldn't take that shit from a random dude. Just because they're girls doesn't mean they get to talk shit. Obviously, don't threaten violence or talk shit back, but let them know you won't take that kind of treatment.
/r/seduction04/02/16 01:16 AM
8

Visually target female. Use two legs, or other movement apparatus (including wheel chairs, robot legs, ect) to move towards targeted female. ??? Profit
/r/seduction04/02/16 01:09 AM
1

If she's immature, she's under 22, if she's mature, but not 'cool', she's under 26, if she's 'cool', she's probably 26-32. If she is old looking, she old (32+).
/r/seduction31/01/16 12:50 AM
1

Being nice isn't a bad thing. However, not being able to assert yourself, and get what you want for the sake of being nice, makes it a typical cringy 'niceguy' move.
/r/seduction29/01/16 12:51 AM
1

You earn it through getting rid of things that make you lose confidence. That's the only way, since you can't forget your insecurities until they are truly gone.
/r/seduction28/01/16 12:01 AM
11

That's probably a really autistic thing to say bro. "Why are you looking at me like that?" "You" "What?"..
/r/seduction25/01/16 08:06 AM
5

No, you don't need to explain your actions, and don't tell a girl what's up, show her through your actions and expectations.
/r/seduction25/01/16 08:01 AM
1

So you declare yourself to be an introvert, and now it's impossible to be extroverted? That's stupid. Don't make assumptions about yourself that hinder your ability to live life as you wish to.
/r/seduction24/01/16 12:18 AM
5

Hmm, in my opinion, I feel like maybe, instead of being 'hard to get' like girls (which they do, as culture dictates a man approaches), a man should know that they are hot shit, and that because they are hot shit, any woman he talks to should be fawning over him, and acts towards a woman in that manner with confidence and certainty. I think that that is the male version of hard to get.
/r/seduction20/01/16 11:51 PM
1

I think, it implies the same thing? Not 100% sure though.
/r/seduction17/01/16 09:31 PM
40

Try Chanel Blue (Bleu). It's an awesome scent. Use conservatively, as too much is gross.
/r/seduction17/01/16 10:02 AM
1

Smoking weed isn't really a date. Not everyone likes smoking weed, and a movie date isn't that great unless you guys are a couple, because you just sit in a dark room (likely eating popcorn by the handful because munchies) and not talking for 2 hours. Go for a walk in the park, a cafe, do an activity like hiking or bowling, an arcade, ect.
/r/seduction16/01/16 01:43 AM
2

Just tell her what you want to do. Be it, 'go out for drinks', 'go bowling', 'try out that italian place', ect.
/r/seduction14/01/16 09:56 AM
1

Well, it seemed like you were almost stalking her, after she didn't reply, even after multiple messages, which she purposefully did, to indicate a lack of interest.
/r/seduction11/01/16 11:10 AM
1

Lose your weight by exercising, that is, polish up your game by working out. Eventually, you'll overcome your anxieties and gain some knowledge.
/r/seduction11/01/16 01:43 AM
1

So I should stop talking to prevent supposed embarrassment, because I supposedly don't know what arguing semantics means? Ok kid.
/r/seduction10/01/16 11:00 PM
1

If there is a pattern, and it is consistent, it is not sexist, or ignorant of me to say that it is a general trend, what is commonplace, and act based on that preconception prior to meeting women, and possibly change my actions or reaffirm my previous preconceptions through individual interaction. As a scientist, you yourself must believe in compilation of data to look for general trends. Actually, I am in a molecular biotechnology major with an emphasis on environmental tech, and from what I've…
/r/seduction10/01/16 10:59 PM
1

Well, I bet you wear makeup when outside, and only lay in bed watching anime with your hair hideous, with acne all over only at home. Either case, for most women, it's either they have beauty, which allows them to get an attractive man with money and power, or they don't have beauty, in which case they must work to add to their resume, by doing other things like studying, or working extra hard. It's no secret that most 'nerdy' women in science or engineering are not very attractive, whilst stupi…
/r/seduction10/01/16 10:40 AM
1

It's ok man, you won't admit you're wrong, but you know deep down that I am correct, and only only way you can be 'technically' correct is if you choose to go after semantics instead of addressing the discussion reasonably.
/r/seduction10/01/16 08:31 AM
1

I counter that single counter-example, with a google images search with the word 'actresses' and I call checkmate. Stop arguing semantics. I will generalize women as a whole (and not individuals) because there is a general trend that exists more often than not. I keep that generalization in mind, and change them if they need to be changed through individual interaction.
/r/seduction10/01/16 04:09 AM
1

Tell me what part of my argument is fundamentally incorrect? You can list exceptions but those exceptions do not disprove the general trend as a whole.
/r/seduction10/01/16 02:59 AM
1

Instead of refuting my comment, you go straight for saying I know nothing. ok man, it takes balls to admit you're wrong, and I guess you don't have any.
/r/seduction10/01/16 02:33 AM
1

Either way, all you are saying are exceptions to the rule in terms of successful women that are beautiful. Almost all successful women are at the minimum a 5/10. Women have hobbies that just improve their attractiveness physically. Say, yoga, shopping, ect.
/r/seduction10/01/16 02:18 AM
1

Tennis players are attractive because they are attractive looking. Why do you think womens' weightlifting isn't as watched as womens volleyball? Actresses that aren't beautiful or at least charismatic aren't famous. There are ugly male actors, but very few ugly female actors. Women really don't have hobbies in the modern era.
/r/seduction09/01/16 11:17 PM
2

Just wait like 2 more days, and if she doesn't answer, but you still think she's the only one (read: oneitis), just call her, and say what's up, without ever mentioning that she took long to respond/didn't respond, and without sound butthurt.
/r/seduction09/01/16 06:34 AM
1

"Eyy bb, wan sum fuk?" works pretty well in any given situation, given the situation.
/r/seduction09/01/16 06:32 AM
2

Well, think one step more and realize that by not even make a move, you have exactly a 0% chance of succeeding. You probably don't want to 'ruin' your repuation if a girl was to reject you, and you know that. You just want people to tell you to stick to strangers or tell you some magical trick that gets you all the wimminz. You struggle to make a move at all, because you chose not to make a move, due to your own choices stemming from your own reasons. You would know your reasons better than most…
/r/seduction09/01/16 06:22 AM
3

It does happen, but very rarely. This is because the entirety of a woman's worth is her beauty, and this is easily reflected through what women spend their money on: Cosmetics, fashion, plastic surgery, social media, ect. Women don't really have hobbies, especially in the modern era. A man's worth is determined by the entirety of his achievements.
/r/seduction09/01/16 04:20 AM
1

You missed out on a chance with being with her not because you made a move, but because she didn't want you.
/r/seduction09/01/16 12:22 AM
1

Don't let her know you like her by telling her. Let her know through your actions, as in, taking her out somewhere, remembering the little things and being thoughtful, and physically escalate. 'you are hot' is cringy as fuck.
/r/seduction09/01/16 12:19 AM
5

Obviously, college parties are going to be better, but seriously, if you want your mid 20s to light up, focus on school. This is coming from someone who had a 0.62 GPA the first semester from partying too hard. The main goal of college is to get that degree and connections for a job that pays well. Partying/game/social life is secondary.
/r/seduction09/01/16 12:01 AM
2

It's not so much that being a nice guy is bad, it's that the typical 'nice guy''s only positive aspect is that he is nice, without any other type of value. Being nice is the minimum. Some guys think being nice covers a lack of appearance, confidence, success, or passion.
/r/seduction06/01/16 04:43 AM
1

Sorry I couldn't give you an answer that is very satisfactory, but I was in your shoes, and figured out that personal experience and learning trumphs doing exactly what others have succeeded with (with different intangibles) and not knowing the real idea behind it. It's like learning just how to do an integration problem, instead of knowing the theorems that make integration possible. You only learn how to solve that one problem, or similar ones, but not every problem. By learning the theorems t…
/r/seduction05/01/16 04:28 AM
1

Try being cocky, if it backfires, be less cocky, if she's just not into you, move on. Like I said, there just isn't a protocol for dealing with shy girls, so much as just to not be a creep, take care of yourself, and to keep your shit in order.
/r/seduction05/01/16 04:21 AM
2

Every girl is different, only way to know is to try it out, and if you like a girl, doesn't matter if you are 1/10, or 10/10, or if the girl is 1/10, or 10/10, just go for it. Use common sense to the best of your ability, and learn from your mistakes.
/r/seduction05/01/16 01:15 AM
2

Rules are nice, it allows for reward after a certain amount of work. But reality is that there are no real rules.
/r/seduction05/01/16 01:00 AM
1

The good thing is, now you've learned, and gone through some emotional trouble, and you probably won't make that mistake again!
/r/seduction05/01/16 12:59 AM
-5

Sorry, but this seems slightly autistic.
/r/seduction05/01/16 12:56 AM
1

No, barring physical limitations (illness, disfiguration, ect), you just aren't trying hard enough.
/r/seduction04/01/16 12:28 PM
1

Where do you usually go out? house parties? clubs? bars? What I usually do is bring only a certain amount of cash to be used for drinking money. If a bar has 5 dollar drinks, maybe bring only 30 bucks, 20 for liquor, and 10 for chips or something. Bring a card in case of extra costs, but only go for buying drinks with cash. Other than that, if you can't drink not drink a lot, you'd better take measures to be able to drink a lot and function. Eat greasy full meal before going out, drink lots of w…
/r/seduction02/01/16 08:19 AM
3

Just dont drink as much. It's really easy stuff. If you don't have that much discipline, I feel like you have a long way to go in self improvement.
/r/seduction02/01/16 08:05 AM
3

That's cringy as fuck.
/r/seduction01/01/16 09:24 AM
-8

Get a life. Your lack of a life is what kills your attractiveness. Stop blaming your faults on 'something out of your control'. Even siamese twins get married. You are likely lazy, undisciplined, and nutless. Fix those problems, or just die, because a mediocre life isn't one worth living.
/r/seduction01/01/16 09:12 AM
6

Pay a hooker.
/r/seduction01/01/16 01:45 AM
-5

Yea, just don't be a racetraitor. Stick to your own kind.
/r/seduction01/01/16 01:43 AM
1

My point is that you shouldnt have the breath to engage females if you are working out to the fullest, and not going to the gym in order to pick up dames.
/r/seduction31/12/15 03:50 PM
5

Better to say "I tried, and failed" than to say excuses for inaction.
/r/seduction31/12/15 11:03 AM
1

I don't understand people approaching at the gym. How do you have the energy to talk, nevermind interact with another person when you are pumping iron? Maybe OP's super strong and can bench 2x his body weight with one arm, but usually I run out of breath trying to bench 1.5x my body weight. Not sure what OP's doing at the gym, but unless some broad interrupts my workout asking for some dick, I don't think I have the luxury of talking or interacting with others, because I'd be too into my workout…
/r/seduction31/12/15 05:55 AM
1

You've obviously never actually gotten girls. The point is not to not give a fuck about them. The point is to not obcess over them, to the point where your happiness depends entirely on them. Point is, get a life.
/r/seduction31/12/15 05:08 AM
1

There isn't much I can help you with, other than share a similar experience. I was just like you, a few months ago. The only way is to go out there and make mistakes and learn from them. It sounds cliche, but its really the only way to learn. Reading reddit posts won't do you much good, just as books or films won't help much. Dunno, for me, asking the girl out, was nervewrecking for me, but after going on 1-2 dates, it just became second nature. Seriously. If you don't want to meet girls, keep d…
/r/seduction31/12/15 05:04 AM
1

Probably, but the point isnt that he is happy with himself. It's that others admire him.
/r/seduction29/12/15 09:58 AM
1

That's a good perspective on life. But my point is that imo, TB is someone that has wealth, fame, success in life (superbowls, winning record), physical ability, looks, and women. It seems like kind of a good deal, but obviously, everyone is different.
/r/seduction29/12/15 08:42 AM
1

It doesn't though. It considers all factors. But the idea behind it is, to trive to better yourself daily in order to be closer to that ideal perfect man, instead of complaining about the harshness of life. To me, the 'perfect' man is a guy like Tom Brady. Even though I'm a Broncos fan, part of my hatred for the Patriots come from the jealousy of the perfect life that Tom must have.
/r/seduction29/12/15 07:32 AM
1

The point is that in theory, a perfect man should not be ever cheated on. Like you said, reality is different, because there are so few perfect men, but the theory still holds. Power comes in many forms, and people just don't ditch something better for something worse. Only maybe something more expensive or better for something that fulfills a need that it cannot.
/r/seduction29/12/15 01:21 AM
1

I'm not sure if you have the same definition of achievements as I do, but I see it as not just stats, but more of what a man can do to improve himself, including social, self, and emotional growth. Woman dig power more than anything. Those 'successful men' haven't obviously achieved enough and you probably had something they didn't.
/r/seduction29/12/15 01:05 AM
1

My point is that a man that has achieved a lot can get almost any woman, and a woman that has a man that is valuable isn't going to just go throw that away for a lesser man.
/r/seduction29/12/15 12:38 AM
1

Well, a man with such achievements shouldn't be with a woman that is of low value. And at the very least, such a man wouldn't get cheated on for a lesser man by any sane woman.
/r/seduction29/12/15 12:03 AM
1

A man's worth is the sum totality of his achievements. A woman's worth is based on the man she can get. As a man, you can be the leader of other men, and the prize of all women if you work to get the qualifications that let you take that title from others by being better. So start being better, starting today.
/r/seduction28/12/15 02:47 PM
-7

No, you just wanted pussy and became a race traitor. GG Israel.
/r/seduction27/12/15 01:24 PM
2

She has a child, has problems that caused her to separate from her previous partner. She is looking for some chump to pay for her life. .
/r/seduction22/12/15 05:57 AM
3

I wouldnt mess with that. Heck i wouldnt even fuck her. Shits a trap
/r/seduction22/12/15 05:12 AM
-5

Hey guys, I want to get my dick wet. Cringe as fuck.
/r/seduction21/12/15 02:28 PM
1

I'd get friendly with her, maybe text her asking about school stuff, and then go on a few dates, and see how you like her. Whether or not she liked you before is of no significance. Treat her like any other girl that you are interested in, and if she likes you back, good, if not, move on.
/r/seduction17/12/15 04:53 AM
1

If you have a friend that is either on a similar level to you, or one that is more experienced, have him dare you to just approach. I feel like for most men, losing the respect of fellow man is a much worse fate than being turned down by a woman.
/r/seduction17/12/15 04:51 AM
3

Dont reply anything else until she responds. If she doesnt respond, she's not interested. It's fine to ask people if they want to go out, even if you guys see eachother often, because there is no shame in asking a girl out.
/r/seduction17/12/15 04:49 AM
1

I disagree. The only true way to rid yourself of insecurities is get rid of things that make you feel insecure. That is, work out, be interesting (do things), do well at work, and make that money. The women will follow most definitely. Don't conform and affirm that you are fine where you are, when you have the potential to become so much more. The difference, at the end of the day is who got back up one more time after being knocked down.
/r/seduction11/12/15 10:20 AM
-3

You're so badass bro. I totally got newfound respect for your toughness.
/r/seduction06/12/15 08:40 AM
1

You were Plan B/C, ect. Don't worry about it too much. You'll get yours eventually.
/r/seduction06/12/15 03:16 AM
3

I know you may hear it all the time, but I'm exactly like you. Completely chill with friends, but then turn into nervous hamster when I see a girl that I sorta like/am attracted to. Srsly. I found out, just make the move. Text her, talk to her about random shit. Ask her out to do something together. If she likes you, she will find a way to get together. If she doesn't, it was never to be. Too many people, myself included wait until it's too late, when if you had tried to make a move, the worst t…
/r/seduction05/12/15 10:18 AM
3

That's why, as is normal 'seduction community' dogma, the whole point is really about increasing your value, be it working out for a hot body, working hard at work/school for money/knowledge, or learning to behave more socially acceptable to increase social value. Confidence comes naturally if you are worth a lot, and you know you're worth a lot. It's not easy, or worth faking confidence, because for one night stands, it may work, but as a man, and for your entire life, confidence is equated to …
/r/seduction28/11/15 07:52 AM
2

I feel like 'game' is more a way to accentuate your assets. A blue collar worker with average looks with great game will usually not get more chicks than a average looking guy with a porsche and basically no game. If you have little value, good game won't do much in the way of attraction. Meanwhile, if you have a lot of value, not much game is needed, but if you do have game, you're a 10/10.
/r/seduction28/11/15 04:44 AM
1

Well, I know you want to hear it reassurance, but I won't tell you lies. Obviously, you having asked the question implies that it will affect it, as a person without braces looks better than a person with them. Especially a grown ass 20 year old. This means your looks aren't going to be as good as they are going to be if you didn't have braces. However, you being insecure about it won't help. So, basically, yes, it will slightly lower your success, but being insecure about it will lower it even …
/r/seduction26/11/15 08:16 AM
1

Well, for starters, because asians and indians, and especially indians aren't considered attractive physically to most European-western people. Part of that is, like you said, cultural mannerisms/how one carries oneself, but partially purely on physical attraction. You can work out, get skin care, get good clothes and have good hygienic practices, but it's hard to change exactly how you look, short of plastic surgery, and god knows my country does a lot of plastic surgery to look better (Korea).…
/r/seduction23/11/15 07:56 AM
6

You're creepy. Stop being like that. Dark at night, when walking home, is not the ideal place to open to a girl walking alone.
/r/seduction22/11/15 12:49 AM
1

Don't make your mental issues an excuse. Find out what you want, and learn how to get it. And keep your discipline until you get it. The only way to be authentic is to act like it. The only way to be self confident is to not have many things to be insecure about. Fix your insecurities, and confidence will come naturally. With that confidence, you shouldn't have much trouble being authentic, as most people are afraid of being authentic, because they are insecure about aspects of themselves being …
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:42 AM
1

Funny, because I do. I have no way to prove it to you, but I have no reason to lie. Maybe I am more disciplined than you or most people, but I'm telling you that it can be done, and I am doing it as I type this. "Lol no you don't" isn't really a credible refutation to something that counteracts your argument.
/r/seduction17/11/15 04:50 AM
1

Bro, I'm currently cutting 1000 calories per day and going to the gym 7 days a week, each week day 1 hr per workout doing a muscle group split, with 2-3 hr sessions doing two-three groups per session in the weekends. I have gained a bit in terms of weight I can lift, and lost a ton of fat. Not to mention, I've been doing this for 9 weeks now, and feel that ambition/motivation is not necessary for going to the gym. I've got my discipline that can take me there when my motivation fails me.
/r/seduction17/11/15 04:00 AM
3

You've misunderstood me. I'm saying you don't have to lose all muscle and cut before you bulk. You can easily work out on a calorie deficit and maintain your bulk, while drastically reducing fat.
/r/seduction17/11/15 01:42 AM
-1

I disagree. You just need to keep a calorie deficit while working out, and you can maintain your muscle somewhat with minimum losses, and lose fat. Obviously, if you are a tub of lard with no muscle, cutting will do you good to start with, but if you are someone that just permabulks, even though they are fat, you can easily cut while maintaining bulk.
/r/seduction16/11/15 10:44 PM
1

Yep, I think of it this way: Your outer image is a reflection of your inner discipline. Obviously, genetic components of outer image is hard to change (height, facial hair, ect) but to not be fat, have muscles, hygene, and dressing well, are things that require discipline to achieve. And, as you get rid of your insecurities by improving your outer image, by improving your inner discipline, you naturally get more confident, as you just don't have things to be insecure about, and instead, things t…
/r/seduction16/11/15 10:42 PM
1

Well, if it feels weird, you're not normal. Become normal.
/r/seduction15/11/15 08:34 AM
2

Like it or not, acknowledging the fact that you, yourself are the most important factor in the direction that you life goes in, is what being redpilled is. The ideas (that I personally do not really care much about) that say that women are bad, or that they control men, are incorrect derivations of the idea of redpilling by frustrated young men.
/r/seduction14/11/15 10:13 AM
1

Ok, keep living in an undisciplined way, unable, heck, unwilling to achieve your life's goals.
/r/seduction14/11/15 09:53 AM
2

Eh, women. Don't bother having debates, as they only turn into fruitless arguments. For real though, people are all born at different levels, and those levels fluctuate through external means, chance, or personal effort. It's ok to view others lowly if they are subordinate to you. Ego is only bad if it's fake. Look at Trump. That man has swagger, despite being a balding, aging man. He can back that shit up with influence and money. Trump is a much greater person (hierarchy-wise) than most people…
/r/seduction14/11/15 09:52 AM
1

ey bb wan sum fuk? then you stick it in her cooch.
/r/seduction14/11/15 09:42 AM
1

Well, do you like playing piano and singing? If you do, then good for you. If you don't, and are doing it to 'woo' the ladies, you've got to rethink your priorities.
/r/seduction14/11/15 09:40 AM
2

I question, as a red pilled person, why you deem people that see the world as it is, and are self-centered to be 'shitty'? I feel like the concept of being red pilled is not so much about any of the PC bullshit, but more about having the discipline to get what you want in life, by putting in the work required, and to do what you want to do, because my needs come first, before that of others (in an overall sense, not in every single situation).
/r/seduction14/11/15 09:39 AM
2

Stranger, bitch, shy, or didn't hear. Pick one.
/r/seduction14/11/15 09:33 AM
18

Don't ask when she is free. Tell her to meet you at a certain time that you choose, that is convenient for you. If she cannot go, tell her another time that is convenient for you, and if that fails, take a hike. The girl's not interested. (if you actually were interested in a girl, and she invited you over for something, and you had work, you won't be preoccupied the next time she calls you, because you'd want to go, and not lose an opportunity, and try to make up excuses for work or w/e, or at …
/r/seduction14/11/15 09:26 AM
4

Well, not if he's playing against Denver. That pass rush/secondary combo will make it hard for any passer to do well.
/r/seduction07/11/15 08:46 AM
1

The sub exists to get women. The easiest way to get more women period. Is to lose weight and take care of yourself.
/r/seduction06/11/15 04:32 AM
-2

Then why ask the question at all?
/r/seduction06/11/15 04:05 AM
0

It does because i too was overweight, and fixing that problem is probably the best way to get more poon
/r/seduction06/11/15 03:58 AM
-1

Good for you, but sometimes the truth is better than false justifications for being unattractive
/r/seduction06/11/15 03:53 AM
1

Obviously bad, so get fit.
/r/seduction06/11/15 03:43 AM
1

For sure man. :D
/r/seduction04/11/15 09:16 PM
2

I'd rather be angry at the things I DON'T have and strive to work towards it to get what I want, than be satisfied of things I (rightfully) take for granted. It's only bad to be cynical if you refuse to work for your goals, and complain. I feel like it's better to be cynical, and get what you want to get, than to be 'ok' with mediocracy and normacy.
/r/seduction04/11/15 12:57 PM
2

NORMIES GET OUT!!!! REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!
/r/seduction04/11/15 12:53 PM
1

I prefer to see myself as the god. A little bit of ego never did anyone bad, just got them what they wanted.
/r/seduction03/11/15 12:48 PM
7

I don't have 105 minutes. TL;DR?
/r/seduction31/10/15 11:52 PM
1

I feel like the concept of 'out of your league' is more just an excuse for not being where you want to be in life, and not putting in the work to get there, because "she'd still be out of your league". Whether it's education, fitness, or money, you must work hard for it. The phrase "Out of your league" seems like a foregone conclusion, instead of a motivational point for self improvement for most people.
/r/seduction31/10/15 11:14 PM
0

Well, too bad, if you cant do it, you'll be the first generation of a long line of sexy ancestors that could get some and got some. Shame on you.
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:36 AM
1

That's just not possible to get to the bedroom without getting touched/touching. If you are more of a verbal flirter, move the conversation that way. Throw shit tests, and make her swoon.
/r/seduction15/10/15 09:35 AM
1

Yea, for sure. This guy knows what's up. Girls love getting their hair stroked.
/r/seduction14/10/15 11:28 AM
1

Truedat. I guess I should be tactful about how I go about this though, as I live in Korea, where it's a bit of a bad thing to be poking around and being a player.
/r/seduction11/10/15 09:17 PM
1

Thanks man. It's weird. Recently, I've been working hard towards my ideal physique, and tbh, I look way better than I had been a year or two ago. But still insecurity issues are still there. (lost weight, decent weight, but still no 6 pack yet. Traps underdeveloped, bench not as good as it could be, ect.) I guess I should just go out and take a chance, and see what goes. Life ain't long enough to wait it out and see what happens. Thank you for your wise words man, got me going.
/r/seduction11/10/15 09:16 PM
1

Well, to be honest, I'm afraid of the fact that the word will spread and I won't get to get with girls from my school throughout my college years because of the preconcieved idea.
/r/seduction11/10/15 10:52 AM
1

You seem to know your shit, so let me ask you a question. My biggest issue is what others will think about me if I fail. That is, say I did something stupid with a girl, and the word spreads. How would I be able to recover that loss of respect? Not to mention, I go to a small, small school with an undergrad number of around 100 (word spreads fast).
/r/seduction11/10/15 08:54 AM
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