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DiscordantMonk/r/askTRP06/10/17 06:10 AM
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You might have to dumb this down a little, it's too well written.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 02:36 PM
1

Either you tell your wife you want an open relationship or you get your shit secretly on the side. Either you blow your shit up or you dont. The stay plan is the go plan.
/r/askMRP25/10/19 11:11 PM
2

Woulda been an excellent opportunity to start taking some edgy photos! Snap one, "look at that face." "Smile for this next one" "show daddy some those titties" "take off your shirt".....
/r/askMRP20/10/19 08:59 PM
5

It's a yes or no question. Own your shit or dont.
/r/askMRP11/10/19 02:02 AM
1

Find a hobby, join a sport, go to a coffee shop that regularly have attractive women around. They exist.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:18 PM
3

Meet girl at x, have fun, take her to y, have fun, take her to z, also have fun. Make her pay. Physical outings are the best, something where touch is involved. Always keno, isolate, and escalate. Dont be autistic, learn indicators of interest. Dont be needy.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:16 PM
7

Most times it's just her letting you know other people find her attractive. Use amused mastery. "If I was black I'd be all over that ass too." If it is disrespect then you remove your time an attention, permanently if you have to.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 03:39 PM
0

Theres a super sweet search function you can use on this sub and the main sub. You can find information on boundaries if you search there.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 05:53 AM
2

Plates are for fucking so you should do just that, demote fwb to plate
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:53 PM
15

Establish your mother fucking boundaries. My ltr does not court suitors. Pack your shit baby cuz daddy's gettin some new strange tonight! My ltr would be over at the drop of a hat because of this
/r/askTRP10/05/19 03:31 PM
6

If only we could teach the average dude to set boundaries and maintain them. Boundaries like, my ltr doesn't court suitors. If they break your boundaries you hold firm and tell them to gtfo. The whole time you know that you will be just fine and start the process over of spinning plates.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 11:03 PM
7

On the path to the top of the mountain you will feel many things. Anger, indifference, amusement, and whatever else is all part of the journey. You will look back on everything you've done and felt and adjust your behavior accordingly for the outcomes you desire.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 06:11 PM
2

You're on the path
/r/askTRP09/05/19 06:08 PM
1

What's your mission?
/r/askTRP09/05/19 06:02 PM
2

Speaking personally, I love to drink lots of beer usually on the weekends and I wasn't super cautious about what I ate, over the past year of doing 5x5 I put on about 20lbs of muscle and my bf is around %15. My lifts in 5x5 are BP: 225 ohp: 155 rows: 225 sq: 315 dl: 405. Since the new year I've cut down on alcohol consumption and started tracking what I eat and I'm starting to look much better. I'd say you're not consistently pushing yourself. You need to have a good workout program. Youve also …
/r/askTRP09/05/19 05:20 PM
7

Career mission is working up to being a superintendent in the power industry. Personal mission is to raise a tight knit family and maintain close relationships with extended family. In regards to hobbies/side gigs, working on writing short stories/novels, working on making music/playing live shows, working on starting business next summer. Lift heavy weights, train and run marathons, train for iron man/triathalons for next summer.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 05:06 PM
2

Of course you're gonna hit a wall if you only squat 100lbs. 5x5 program would do those chicken legs some good
/r/askTRP09/05/19 04:56 PM
2

Tell her you'll go but shes buying you drinks. Then tell her just because shes buying you drinks doesn't mean you'll sleep with her. Then go to bar and see if you can get other chicks to buy you drinks too.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 04:52 PM
7

Have a life mission that is more important than a piece of pussy and money.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 04:49 PM
3

You dont need an excuse to talk to her, you could tell her she has toilet paper on her shoe and do the whole made you look thing. You could pretty much say anything if your whole goal is an introduction.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 01:46 AM
3

We need some sort of awalt spectrometer to easily find the women who will give us the best love and devotion.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 11:17 PM
2

Her: I love you, Chad. You: I love when you do my dishes, future alpha widow (jiggle her juicy booty). Her: hahaha you're so funny and I has tingles. Drop mic.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 10:42 PM
2

Steal a car, rob a bank, run through a neighbor's yard that has an angry ass dog that will chase you, throw rocks at squirrels, drown a cat, dress up like a clown and chase hobos, break into a house while the owners are gone and act like it's yours. The world is your fuckin oyster.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 10:38 PM
5

How are you going to get your dick wet if you watch other dudes hit on girls? Fuck what other people do, go do your own approaches and calibrate yourself.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 10:35 PM
8

Jesus fucking christ! Approach her, smile at her, she will most likely smile back if you are somewhat attractive. Ask her what her name is, then tell her yours. Comment on something she did or is wearing, this doesn't have to be a compliment, but that works fine too. Then talk about that/diverge into something else. If you have a five minute flirty conversation with a rando you should easily be able to pull her number.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 10:32 PM
0

You're autistic and suck at leading. It doesn't sound like you understand the difference between active dread and passive dread.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 09:33 PM
2

I think your problem is you dont actually know how to engage and game girls. Game girls outside of work before your uncalibrated ass gets fired for sexual harassment.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 04:03 PM
1

Tell her to pack her shit. Then keep your fucking mouth shut. Your little unicorn wants a real man. Lift heavy weights, go out with friends, take care of/find your lifes mission. Dont get married.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 03:58 PM
2

Her: You dont care! Me: I do too! I care about dat ass! (Grabs handful of dat juicy booty and laughs evily)
/r/askMRP24/04/19 07:20 PM
2

Watch what she does not what she says. I trust my gut. If I felt like I didn't trust my ltr, it wouldn't be an ltr anymore.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 06:32 PM
2

Any woman who just says I have a boyfriend to a dude making advances on her is not shutting that guy down. He's straight up being used for emotional validation/vetting for branch swing.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 06:14 PM
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It's her job to shut that shit down. My boundary is my ltr does not court other suitors. It's a hard boundary.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 06:02 PM
1

Goal is to take on instadates/get numbers
/r/askTRP19/04/19 05:10 PM
0

Put your hand on her leg next time she asks you to sit next to her
/r/askTRP19/04/19 05:09 PM
1

Lying and hiding things are the big two.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:54 PM
1

Sure, why not?
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:39 PM
2

Stay plan is the go plan: if my ltr decided to break/test my boundaries I could walk away and be perfectly healthy. I know I would continue to grow and improve. Another common thing said here is, watch what they do and not what they say. So watch what she does, with minimum energy investment. Your time spent worrying and snooping is time you could spend doing badass shit.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:29 PM
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You're worrying about shit u have no control over, so stop. Focus on what you can control, like improving yourself every day. Know that you can and will walk when you have to. The stay plan is the go plan.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:24 PM
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Your hamster is going nuts! Take a breath. If shes gonna cheat shes gonna cheat, not a damn thing you can do. So dont worry about it. If it happens it happens and you can move on.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:17 PM
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Quit skipping English class. Initiation is part of being the leader.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:12 PM
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Knocking her up is free and her tits will get way bigger! I'd amused mastery the shit out of her wanting new tits.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:04 PM
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Read steel's guide to married redpill. Right now! Follow all the steps. Red pill fixes the man and not the relationship. You've got a lot of work to do faggot
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:58 PM
4

One plate is just a gf. Work towards O.I. game some new girls
/r/askTRP09/04/19 07:44 PM
3

You need to read the rational Male if you haven't, and reread it if you have.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:51 PM
2

Since you didn't list and dont do squats, your fatass wife wont fuck you cuz you've got chicken legs.
/r/askMRP06/04/19 10:39 AM
7

You're hamster is on the loose. If my ltr was exhibiting these behaviors I wouldn't have a shred of mercy. Your unicorn wouldn't even make a reliable horse.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:44 PM
1

Next!
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:14 PM
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Entertaining suitors makes her unworthy of ltr status. She regularly goes on dates with this guy. You're fine with your ltr dating other men? You're cucking yourself. Have some boundaries.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:14 PM
5

Had this old timer at work start talking shit, which he always did, but he was trying to cut me down. I gave a shit eating grin and AM'd him and this was in front of other coworkers. I went to his office alone and he started screaming in my face. I didn't use any facial expressions and calmly asked him why he was feeling that way, he said a lot of mean fucking shit and I calmly got it out of him. I called my boss, who was gone when I could have easily involved higher ups. Later the old guy came …
/r/askTRP02/04/19 08:39 PM
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Frame is used to control your reaction to pull someone into acting within yours.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 08:12 PM
2

Its going to happen... because we dont ltr ugly chicks. Remain O.I. because you dont give a fuck. Amused mastery and agree and amplify are your best friends. Theres a million hilarious things you can say to these kinds of people
/r/askTRP01/04/19 08:05 PM
7

Great
/r/askTRP20/03/19 08:30 PM
14

Soft fuckin next my dude, go off the radar and do cool shit. Let her do the reaching out from now on
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:55 PM
20

Blatant disrespect and boundary crossing
/r/askTRP12/03/19 05:59 PM
2

Dont use your beard trimmer on your balls. You will get cut.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:54 PM
1

You don't, she's not your ltr
/r/askTRP17/02/19 12:10 PM
1

You're over thinking this. Just go for the kiss already.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:20 PM
6

You don't have one plate, you have a girlfriend. Also you don't have to do any of that, most of us here will fuck these women for you.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:20 PM
0

Make a list of pros and cons dude. Or flip a coin.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:18 PM
1

It's an excellent day for a feelz generator. I celebrate because I want to, that's it. I'm just selfish.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:17 PM
15

Ghost this woman and work on self improvement. Goal for future plates: no fucking drama. Quit being a fucking liar and own your shit
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:16 PM
16

Have some boundaries, you want sex from her cuz you don't have any other options.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:14 PM
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I hope this woman brings a lot of value to your table. You're definitely up her ass if you're worried about your response to her. What you said was an incredibly butt hurt response. Where's the AA or amused mastery? Where's the ass slap and wink? "I've gotta drop flowers off to my other gf babe."
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:12 PM
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Dude was being a bitch, you called him on it. You showed you had boundaries. It they don't like it, fuck em, find a new friend group. How much shit are you gonna take just to smash some pussy?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 11:06 PM
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She's codependent and addicted to his feels. She can't get a grip on herself and refuses to acknowledge reality. She's in too deep and is to fucking lazy to change anything. She's post wall and no self-respecting man is going to touch that shit.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:12 PM
1

You come first, always. If you tolerate her shitty behavior and even placate her, youve got shitty boundaries, which means you're not seeing yourself as the prize.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:03 PM
11

Give way less fucks
/r/askTRP07/02/19 05:56 PM
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Keep your fucking mouth shut when she gets home and go and lift heavy fucking weights! If u suspect she's cheating then keep your shit to yourself and investigate until u have definitive proof. The stay plan is the go plan!
/r/askTRP05/02/19 09:10 PM
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She clearly crossed a fucking boundary and you called her ass on it. You followed through, now don't be a pussy and break frame and take her back. She showed you she's not LTR material.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:53 AM
2

Less word vomit, more pursing and attaining what you want in life. Use failure to learn.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:57 PM
5

When you knock them up
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:55 PM
17

Buy a car with the intention to drive reliably from point a to point b, retard.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:54 PM
1

You have children to spread your genes and sow love and happiness upon them, so they can do so with their children and families. Its your goal as a father to ensure your children have everything they need to thrive in the world. You're so short sighted it makes me sick.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 09:11 PM
6

Move out asap
/r/askTRP23/01/19 09:07 PM
2

Everyone will think you're gay and won't trust you if you don't get married...
/r/askTRP23/01/19 06:26 PM
2

This is down right romantic
/r/askTRP17/01/19 08:51 PM
1

It's your job as a man to lead, wether they come along or not is their decision.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:52 PM
2

It's an affirmative
/r/askTRP16/01/19 07:24 PM
6

She straight up asked for a reschedule, there's no reason not to reschedule a date. Your hamster is going crazy on the wheel. Don't spend your life thinking about Chad, you've got bigger fish to fry.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 06:28 PM
1

Boundaries are a tough one. sounds like you fucked up when setting your boundaries and expectations. Look up levels of dread and implement them accordingly.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 05:27 PM
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The stay plan is the go plan. You can't negotiate attraction. You are the one who sets and enforces your boundaries. Look up levels of dread and set the bar accordingly. When she behaves unfavorably, you withdraw your only currency, time and attention. If she breaks a boundary, you withdraw your currency permanently.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 11:49 PM
7

I'm no Dr, but promiscuity because of sexual assault has a lot to do with reclaiming their sexual identity and sexual power, because it was taken from them. Sex is about power.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:54 PM
26

Have her call you Daddy from now on
/r/askTRP11/01/19 09:20 PM
3

If you want her, the decision is yours. After plating girls for a while, I went the LTR route and for me it's just getting better and better. Don't forget, LTR is fucking hardmode.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 09:19 PM
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You're being autistic. Your frame is non-existent, boundaries non-existent, you lack abundance, and have oneitis. Youre clearly fine having a relationship where the power rests firmly in your ldr's hands. You seem like a mess
/r/askTRP09/01/19 05:17 PM
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You have a lot of side bar digesting to do. You shouldn't have overt communications about boundaries. Essentially what you are doing is saying, "here's my boundary, and Im letting you push it backwards. I'm willing to put up with your shitty behavior. But I'm so angry! Loud noises!"
/r/askTRP09/01/19 05:00 PM
3

Found girls with nearly the same level of sex drive
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:34 PM
6

Maintain frame and lead the relationship.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:32 PM
16

Lol, she goes on a date with another man, and you tell her you're disappointed in her! You're being a cuck. Cut ties immediately and establish some good boundaries!
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:31 PM
15

Sounds like you're angry because you can't get your gf to overtly spill the beans on her hypergamy.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:26 PM
6

Thanks for letting us read your vomit. Your last paragraph sums everything up. You don't want anything to change with this girl and youre worried about Chad or Brad or Jake or who the fuck ever. Boundaries much?
/r/askTRP09/01/19 02:16 AM
1

Shit testing is what women do, it's your job to pass them.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:28 AM
1

For prostitutes?
/r/askTRP08/01/19 09:07 PM
2

Dutch ovens
/r/askTRP08/01/19 09:05 PM
8

I know I can go out and find some new strange to smash within 24 hours.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 05:52 PM
5

You need to check out mrp and ask mrp. If you're considering going through life on hard mode you need to start with the mrp side bar. Consume everything and start the weekly OYS.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:41 PM
20

Fuck them, own your shit. You called them on some Bs. You have nothing to hide.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 09:49 PM
5

There are no fucking unicorns
/r/askTRP04/01/19 07:05 PM
2

Lift heavy things
/r/askTRP04/01/19 07:04 PM
3

Why aren't you approaching?
/r/askTRP04/01/19 07:03 PM
1

I fuck daily.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 12:54 AM
3

Perhaps you need to take a break from browsing trp and let the core principles settle in. I understand how you feel completely. I have a life mission and I know that one day I'm going to die. I do what I can to further my mission and I do my best to enjoy life. Sometimes I get stuck in a rut or hit a wall, so I thrash around until I climb out or break down the wall. Could be youre in an anger phase, it too shall pass. Take a minute to smell the roses, find a new hobby, try something new.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 04:37 PM
2

This was my first read... It helped me find trp. I read the game two days before a tinder date... Used some shit I picked up on, like the time distortion effect, and I fucked her in the back seat of my car at the end of the date. She was my first plate.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 12:10 AM
0

I'm my experience there's always someone younger, hotter, tighter, and more willing to please you out there somewhere. It's all about the vetting process when it comes to an LTR. I'm in a similar situation to you, and the vetting process is what made all the difference for me. Maintaining frame, OI, stay plan is the go plan are important for playing on hardmode.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:54 PM
1

Jeez what if he'd bought her dildo?
/r/askTRP20/12/18 12:00 AM
1

Lol her ex was dumb enough to do long distance
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:58 PM
2

Take her out again soon, maybe bring her to your place and make her cook you dinner.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:57 PM
2

So you banged and then her asd kicked in and you just gave her commitment instantly? I see no sign of the vetting process. All you've told us is you instantly gave commitment to a chick you hooked up with.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:16 PM
2

Absolutely! Dude, you can easily please a girl with what youve got.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:46 PM
4

The sooner you accept that your body is the way it is, you'll be much better off. You can't change it. You really want to spend all day thinking about dicks?
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:36 PM
3

Jesus Christ. Quit feeling sorry for yourself. There's lots of dudes who've got it way worse. Why worry about something you can't change?
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:30 PM
3

Same!
/r/askTRP18/12/18 04:39 PM
8

I'm sure you've logged thousands of hours watching porn. Harness that shit and she'll think you've fucked hundreds of women. Competence, confidence, and dominance.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 11:19 PM
2

Nope, but you can't fucking negotiate attraction.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 11:17 PM
1

If you're fine with that behavior, do whatever the fuck you want man. I told you how I operate using trp principles and wouldn't consider this woman for a ltr.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:22 AM
1

If you have standards, you will not LTR this chick.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 01:23 AM
12

In order for a plate to earn LTR status my requirement is that she hasn't been with any other men once we started fucking. That's how I do it and it has worked well for me. She has to earn your commitment. She cant earn it by fucking other dudes.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 10:47 PM
4

I would disqualify her from ltr if she was giving her pussy away to other dudes while she was fucking me.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 10:23 PM
10

You don't bring up the what are we talk, that's her job. You own your shit and quit being fucking needy.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 09:37 PM
4

Keep letting her suck your dick???
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:04 PM
5

There's nothing wrong with it. The more you can do to increase immersion levels for the both of you, the better. She'll know that at any point you could easily dominate her, no matter what she's doing.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 07:08 PM
5

I second this shit, dunno how many super hot post wall women I've banged that wanted noting but banging. I take all ages thought, as long as it's legal.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:40 AM
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I was like 16, I railed my gf at the time so fucking hard in the back of my Pathfinder before work (I called it my ass finder) and she squirted, hard, all over me and my pants around my ankles. I dropped her ass at home and went to work reeking like piss. I reeked like piss for a solid 8.5 hours. Curb your stupid fucking squirting fettish right meow
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:36 AM
1

You're weak
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:30 AM
2

You're going to fuck up your life you stupid mother fucker. Go ahead, wife the town whore. Play captain save a hoe, see what happens. You need to focus on your own shit, because considering this is fucking suicide with your dumbshit mindset.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:29 AM
0

I just free style role play man. Once you do it enough it gets easier. Just roleplayed a first date last night haha, specially hooking up on the first date while laying in bed. Started out with, "you come here often"
/r/askTRP30/11/18 09:18 PM
1

I'm 29 and she's 26. Stumbled onto trp while I was learning some pickup stuff almost a couple years ago. Trp hit me like a truck. Did my reading and lifting and was spinning three consistent plates. Wound up meeting my LTR and everything just clicked. I let her push for commitment and just led. Askmrp and mrp have been such a fantastic resource. I've got a long fucking way to go, but I'm getting exactly what I want out of life.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:12 AM
25

"i love fucking you" or "I fucking love it when you do the dishes"
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:25 PM
7

Post this on redpillwomen
/r/askTRP29/11/18 09:09 PM
2

I'm not end game by any means, but I've worked hard for what I have in my life. I still feel rage occasionally and I choke it down. I'm no where near as angry as I used to be, and this has allowed me to control a lot more of my life. Reading meditations was a game changer for how I viewed events in life. There's things I can control and things I can't, so I worry much less and focus on what I can control. I am my mental point of origin
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:26 PM
2

I do mean with the same girl every day. The attraction levels that my LTR and I have for each other are on a level that I've never had before. She's not a unicorn by any means, but my relationship is what I'd define as perfect for me now. If sex drops off later, that's fine, but it's just been pure honeymoon stage.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:23 PM
1

I wouldn't say that getting here was easy, it was hell. I took a 180 on my life and started making changes, then I found this place. Digesting the side bar and holding myself accountable lead me to realize that the bar I'd set for myself was to fucking low, so I raised it and I won't compromise for anything less.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 02:50 PM
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I said getting laid is better than (me) not getting laid. It's all about priorities in life. Read the fucking side bar, lift, and follow your mission. If you want pussy to be a priority, that's great. Food, shelter, water, sex.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:21 AM
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I fuck just about every day, more often than not twice a day. It's much better than jacking off and whining about not getting laid.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:14 AM
3

Keeping yourself as your mental point of origin must always be a priority. Focus on what you can control. My main hobby is playing music, my goal is to play some gigs in the near future. My other hobby is writing. Those two things could keep me busy forever. Go out and get lost in a new hobby
/r/askTRP21/11/18 06:24 PM
2

If she's going to fuck someone else you'll never know about it. Are you getting what you want out of the relationship?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:38 PM
27

Jesus Christ! Your hamster is going nuts! You should be too busy to give an ounce of shit about what your LTR is doing on social media! She sounds like a decent girl, she fucks, contributes, and has a job! Quit fucking stalking! Focus on YOUR MISSION, keep lifting, and stay attractive!
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:27 PM
3

Every day is new
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:49 PM
1

Reat, drink lots of fluids....
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:40 AM
1

I get a wicked boner when I come home and my wife is cooking dinner and has the house clean. I mean she's sexy anyway, but God damn!
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:44 PM
1

Send out a last shot, meet me at X at y time, wear something sexy. Keep your shit concise. If she blows off a direct invitation, then you ghost.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:41 PM
21

I mean... If you want to
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:41 PM
14

Post this on redpillwomen
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:24 PM
2

Any...
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:02 PM
17

Just say I'll be over at X time, wear only high heels. Quit being autistic.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:01 PM
1

This is the truth.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 05:59 PM
2

Sounds to me like she was telling you, unless we're something I'm getting some dick.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 05:30 PM
5

Fuck man, you banged dudes too?
/r/askTRP15/11/18 04:44 PM
2

My potential LTR does not spend the weekend with another dude. This is my boundary. I would sever ties immediately. What you do is up to you, but you must have and enforce boundaries.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 04:41 PM
5

The way i go through life is with a stoic and humorous frame of mind. Everyone is or was at some point a slave to their thoughts. Break the chains and slay the hamster. Make decisions decisively. Don't worry about what could have been, focus on the now and plan for the future.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 04:30 PM
1

Second option... If she denies it, smirk and tell her its her loss
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:11 PM
3

Have you read the side bar? After you open and get number: "meet me at X at Y time."
/r/askTRP14/11/18 01:20 AM
10

Fuck am I a freak? I do all of this
/r/askTRP11/11/18 10:08 PM
1

Wait until the human feemales brain is fully developed at 25 and vet thereafter.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 04:31 PM
7

When you go out into public, everything you do becomes a date. When I take my LTR shopping it's a fucking date, go fool around in a clothes fitting stall.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 04:21 PM
2

Not gonna lie taking away exercise equipment is a shitty move as well as taking your books. You're 14, play sports, lots of them. Your parents will probably foot the bill for sports and other school programs. Get out of the house.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 04:21 AM
9

Ask them to take away books next. Do push ups and squats where they can see you.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:38 AM
17

Tell your buddy so he quits waisting his time
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:36 AM
1

You must be banging away and the images of these six cocks banging your girl just make you go limp.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 08:58 PM
3

Your first relationship with redpill knowledge, but not the last. You'd settle for her lying to you? You've got a boundary that was clearly crossed, do something about it.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 08:57 PM
2

I've done this so many times I've lost count... You can practice this alone too.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 04:46 PM
1

Blood makes great lube
/r/askTRP03/11/18 06:29 PM
8

First is money second is happiness, pick something you could go anywhere in the country anytime and do. Pick a degree you'll use or get into the trades
/r/askTRP03/11/18 09:46 AM
1

Man... You come first. Take care of your mission. With hard work and dedication you will make things fall in line. I'm getting everything I want out of my life right now. I have a good job, excellent friends, two kids and an LTR. When you find a woman you'd like to LTR it's Paramount you vet her properly. She treats me for what I am, the king. I fuck everyday, it's rare I take an off day, because this is what I want. Building yourself is a step by step process, that could even include burning ev…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 09:45 AM
2

You're overanalyzing this my dude. Slow your hamster down a little and take this one day at a time. Wether she takes this or something else you'll get to a point where you can easily figure out how to navigate the waters, just takes some time.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 04:00 PM
1

No doubt this is a shit situation. Continue to focus on yourself and your well being. Surround yourself with people who care about you and continue your mission.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 06:13 PM
4

This sub isn't for this bullshit.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 04:38 PM
2

"let's just be friends with benefits" I said with a smirk.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 04:38 PM
101

Fucking run now, you autistic captain save-a-hoe! You have oneitis and fucking severe lack of frame. Ditch this nasty woman. Move out, seriously digest all sidebar material, and lift heavy things every day.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 04:36 PM
3

I second this. Also fuck Facebook.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 08:16 PM
1

You might be blown away by how many people feel like they have a deep connection with their dogs
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:02 PM
2

If you get sex on demand %90 of the time there's no fucking issue.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 01:23 AM
3

Drink lots of water and use cocoa butter lotion. If you can't stand them, get tattoos to cover them up.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 10:21 PM
1

Youre clearly stuck in your own headspace. Get out of your own head and work on immersion during sex. Control your breathing. Is it possible you aren't attracted to this chick?
/r/askTRP16/10/18 04:49 PM
2

Choke her! See the difference?
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:56 PM
-5

The lioness hunt. The king sits back and they bring him meat.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 08:17 PM
1

I walk in the door, she's already smiling at me and checking me out. I drop all my shit on the floor and walk up to her kissing her passionately. I pick her up and take her to the bedroom and rip her clothes off. Some times I speak other times I don't. Weak signs of protest I rebuff with confidence. Only a retard would push hard no's. I don't get turned down for sex
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:11 PM
60

Choke her next time
/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:52 PM
1

Your substance abuse is leading you to having experiences where you can no longer maintain immersion in the sexual experience.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:58 PM
3

As Donald Trump fondly says, "wrong."
/r/askTRP09/10/18 09:47 PM
6

If she's got the qualities that I want, yes.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 07:27 PM
7

After stepping out of anger phase ncount doesn't bother me nearly as much, it's either you're getting what you want or you're not. Always have one foot out the door.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 07:10 PM
2

Had an awesome date with a girl like this. She was a Finnish basketball player, 6ft tall, super athletic and stacked. She comes over to my house and we instantly start making out. We ramp things up and same things happen. She clearly wasn't going to put out this time, we just ended up wrestling with each other giggling and laughing until I told her I had to go to sleep. Was a great date. You just gotta know where the line is. Next time she came over we sealed the deal.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:45 PM
2

So LTR becomes ldr?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:27 PM
4

Cash that check at the bank and get a hj! When you finish tell her you were gonna fuck but she didn't blow
/r/askTRP04/10/18 11:25 PM
-9

Send dick pics
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:38 PM
1

I'd make my woman put the Ointment on
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:02 PM
-8

"Duh, you dumb bitch!"
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:00 PM
2

Or hi I'm discordian, who does your make up? My four year old can do it better. What's your name?
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:59 PM
3

Hi I'm discordian, your shoes are fucking hideous. What's your name?
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:58 PM
2

Keep fucking and stop caring is the route I would take.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:27 PM
1

You got the pussy... If that's your goal you've done well. If you're pushing for a relationship then you've also done well. If you truly didn't give a flying fuck, you would have STFU or AA or AM and still gotten the pussy. Or just tell her to GTFO.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:25 PM
5

All women are biology and fundamentally similar. We're all on the same stage of evolution. AWALT is representative of a fucking spectrum. You're thinking of this as black and white and it's not.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:22 PM
24

You're a busy driven man and don't have time to care about this bullshit. Just STFU and smile. He's not your friend. The girl was not yours it was just your turn. If you feel like being base: You can shove in his face that he's combing through your trash. Tell him about all the nasty things you've done and let him know that you find it hilarious he enjoys your sloppy seconds. Additionally base: Bring over a new hotter girl and do inappropriate things in the living room.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 06:04 PM
1

You beat me to it
/r/askTRP03/10/18 03:13 PM
2

You will usually always get a response
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:32 AM
3

Your time is valuable. Too valuable for this bullshit
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:31 AM
21

Come over and fold my laundry while I play videogames, my all time favorite
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:29 AM
2

My house at X time on Tues, no panties.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:38 PM
0

Decided wether gno is a boundary or not. My LTR doesn't do gno. You'll find a ton of people that have this as a boundary
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:37 PM
2

The key is not asking, "after this delicious meatloaf, I'm going to fuck you in the ass"
/r/askTRP02/10/18 10:54 PM
1

Go for it
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:08 PM
1

Because I said so
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:06 PM
0

Tldr; don't let him rub off on you. Gross
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:03 PM
1

Withdraw of attention. Period.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:02 PM
12

You'll look good cleaning my house
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:01 PM
13

Just know you can move on any time and be just fine
/r/askTRP02/10/18 07:49 PM
2

Knowing yourself and what you want is what's important. Your growth as a person is going to be wrapped in all sorts of challenges. Some are rediculously amazing and others just hurt. I found an article about decision making that I employ in my life. For me, it's either a "Fuck Yes" or it's a no. Just a yes isn't good enough.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 09:38 PM
9

I play videogames. I also do other things, like accomplishing my life mission. Doesn't really matter what you do as long as you don't settle. Keep achieving real milestones in life.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 06:48 PM
2

I cohabitate and I have two children. My relationship is amazing with my LTR. If it ends tomorrow it ends and I can move on. However, with the information you can find here it is possible to have a great relationship and get what you want out of it. She treats me like a king and I get sex on demand. Shes driven, cooks, cleans, and is a wonderful mother. If you're not ready, take your time. If you're in a serious LTR it is expected that she will push for greater commitment on your part. If you de…
/r/askTRP01/10/18 06:45 PM
5

"hit me up when you get back" that's it. Then don't text
/r/askTRP28/09/18 11:39 PM
11

She established kino with you first. She gave you her number and said you were cute. You could have easily first day banged. I would have just taken her around the city then and there. Meet her, take her to a couple of your favorite places. In a secluded and beautiful spot, sit down and make sure she's warm and bubbly. With a smirk grab her and go in for a kiss. If you know what you're doing it's fucking rediculous how fast you can find your dick in her mouth. Women expect guys to just get it. S…
/r/askTRP28/09/18 10:09 PM
5

This immediately disqualfies her as potential LTR in my book. Spin the plate until it breaks. I don't give a fuck what they do, they are for me to fuck. Keep your tool wrapped.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:17 PM
0

Are you dating this girl? It doesn't sound like it?
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:37 PM
1

Personally I'd just show up and fuck, then leave. That's just me though. My LTR knows I want to fuck everyday and that's how it goes.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:35 PM
3

I had this happen at a liquor store, the chick casheer said that to me as I walked up, big line behind me. After she calls me a baby face I told her I was old enough to be her daddy. Her and everyone in line laughed and I proceeded to game her.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:28 PM
1

These kinds of shit tests are prime for instantly leading to caveman sex! "Oh yeah?" Said with a smirk as I hold her down and rip her clothes off.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 04:10 PM
-1

Search it using trp search bar
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:19 PM
2

Those things would be hard boundaries for me. You should always be on DL 2 or 3. When she acts this way, withdraw attention.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:57 PM
2

Women Fuck. Women love to fuck, just as much, if not more than men. She took a few dicks? Who fucking cares? As a man your mission is your priority. Everything else is secondary.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 04:43 PM
2

Had more ons and str than I can count and a 7 year LTR. Its not too much to expect that a woman would do the same shit if presented good opportunities. I don't put much stock in n count. Have you vetted properly? Are you getting what you want? Does she treat you like a king?
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:29 PM
2

Lol yeah
/r/askTRP24/09/18 12:45 AM
1

A dick will not permanently stretch a pussy
/r/askTRP23/09/18 11:31 PM
1

I go out into the world and find what I want and fucking take it. Quit being a bitch
/r/askTRP23/09/18 02:02 PM
1

Fat chicks are like mopeds, fun to ride until your friends see you on them.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 01:55 PM
1

Next. Fuck ten other women. she has zero interest in your pansy ass shit. If a girl was into you she would move heaven and Earth to blow you behind a dumpster.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 01:52 PM
1

You're a fucking retard. Lift, read the side bar, find your mission.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 01:51 PM
-1

You see really gay. Bet you're one of his 400 likes...
/r/askTRP23/09/18 01:49 PM
1

You see really gay. Bet you're one of his 400 likes...
/r/askTRP23/09/18 01:49 PM
12

If by dates you mean taking them to a couple places and making them pay and then fucking them at my place, all night faggot.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 01:47 PM
7

I've fucked a handful of girls who pulled this bs. You've got a long way to go. Read the side bar and lift.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 01:44 PM
7

Fist fight everyone dipshit
/r/askTRP23/09/18 01:41 PM
2

Dude, I was totally going to say this first!
/r/askTRP22/09/18 11:11 PM
4

You tell her the truth... You say this in warmth and good humor because you're a man and you'll make everything all right. Then you pick her up and fucking ravage her
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:08 PM
17

You said you don't want to move in together... Nut up buttercup
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:03 PM
3

Man up and own your shit!!!! Be honest with yourself and your woman. Drop your pants and go fuck the world
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:02 PM
3

Here's the thing, you're three weeks in and looking at an LTR with this girl. Revisit this after 6 months. Continue the plating/vetting process and go from there.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:47 PM
2

Have some drinks then invite the girl over. Either one leaves, they both leave, or they stay. You've got like a 33% chance of getting a threesome
/r/askTRP19/09/18 08:23 PM
2

Read sex god method if you haven't. Your goal is to get the girl into full immersion. Ive stopped worrying about wether they cum or not. You came, great! I still come either way. Girls have told me they never come or have trouble with it. Next thing they know they've just lost count of them and they are a quivering wet mess on my bed.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 08:03 PM
2

Thanks dude! Its the perfect IDGAF opener
/r/askTRP18/09/18 04:21 PM
1

"k"
/r/askTRP17/09/18 11:13 PM
12

Ditch this fucking cunt. You're being a beta fuck. Lift heavy things and continue to digest the side bar. You've got oneitis. You're clearly in her frame. It's time to kill the puppy. She straight up told you she wants to explore new dick and your sitting here wondering what a blow job feels like...
/r/askTRP17/09/18 11:12 PM
19

Your hamster is going nuts. You posted about this the other day. You have oneitis. Fuck 10 other women.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:34 PM
1

Sexual strategy is amoral. Love bombing is real. Always sunny jokes about it calling it the Dennis system.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 04:48 AM
2

Clean the vomit off your chin kid. It's up to you to vet your plates/LTR for the qualities that you want. If you're not getting what you want out of a relationship it's your fault.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 09:06 PM
7

Your user name is a fucking oxymoron. Clearly you've made a stupid fucking decision. Better push the buttons on your vagina ATM just right and keep that cash flowing
/r/askTRP12/09/18 09:01 PM
1

Always
/r/askTRP12/09/18 06:47 PM
5

Is one slut worth losing your friend?
/r/askTRP12/09/18 06:16 PM
9

Get job. Get money. Get weights.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 06:15 PM
13

I can now throw girls aross the room instead of only halfway
/r/askTRP12/09/18 06:11 PM
1

Great reply
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:44 PM
2

Tie her up, turn on the lights, go to pound town.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:41 PM
1

Exactly
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:37 PM
1

It's wild. The amount of progress I've made in the last two years from implementing this stuff is insane. You've summed up exactly how it went and is going for me!
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:37 PM
2

I'm in the exact same boat as you. My mission comes first. She supports my mission. Ive found that my LTR picks up on things I miss and is incredibly insightful.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:17 PM
1

I'll lend you my eyes and give some advice
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:12 PM
3

Sexual strategy is amoral. Engagement is easy. "Hey woman, Tuesday meet me at X at Y time"
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:10 PM
3

Periodic explanation of boundaries is perfectly healthy. You want the pussy, but you want her to know she crossed a boundary she clearly doesn't grasp mentally? I question your frame and boundary setting ability. I would let her know her actions will result in immediate disqualification from plate status if her behavior doesn't change.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:06 PM
2

The vetting process is where these types of behaviors are weeded out. Boundaries that you have in place need to be respected. If she doesn't respect your boundaries, you know she doesn't respect you. Once you've gone through the process enough it becomes easier. White lies, truth bending, and hiding information are simplistic and easy to recognize and ultimately result in disqualification from LTR/plate. Why do you want to know if she has a bf? Plate her and see what happens. Seriously, sexual s…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:00 PM
3

I have two children and I love them to death. Part of my mission is to have a cohesive family unit. The best times of my life have been spent with family and I want my children to feel the same. Have a mission and own your shit, regardless of having a family or not.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 04:06 PM
18

"come over and do my laundry" treat these princesses as such
/r/askTRP12/09/18 03:41 AM
13

Lol! Settle your fucking hamster! Get checked or don't. Own your shit faggot
/r/askTRP12/09/18 03:41 AM
7

Kill her
/r/askTRP11/09/18 07:56 PM
1

I always joked about killing them... Rape jokes go great too...
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:19 AM
3

There is a spot deep inside them that craves a daddy. You can fill that hole. You can use that to your advantage. Just remember AWALT, daddy.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:17 AM
1

Honestly your only option is to lay it on the table. How you lay it on the table will make or break this. If it breaks you really have no choice but it end the friendship.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 12:19 AM
5

I fucked up my back two months in with this girl whose now my LTR. I still cavemanned her and took care of my mission. If you can continue your mission and hold frame there's nothing wrong here
/r/askTRP10/09/18 04:57 PM
1

You're obviously not her priority. Spend time on something else.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 11:20 PM
1

Fuck no! Do not contact again
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:52 PM
1

Do you get a free legal consult with your job??? I can call and chat with a sexy local lawyer in my area for 30 mins. I've done this a couple times now and that shit set me straight
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:26 PM
1

He's 7. Let him be a kid. Don't shelter him. Feed him lots and make him do martial arts and other sports. Make sure he does well in school.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:23 PM
1

Umm.. dont
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:02 AM
7

With my closest friend there is no battle for frame. It ebs and flows naturally between us. We have "dominance" battles for shits and giggles. Just your everyday trials of wit and strength.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:01 AM
2

Lol, I read the side bar and never made a post asking for help
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:36 AM
5

This post seems like a round about way of hamstering your oneitis. Just the feeling I got. There are loads of 'alphas' with different personalities who make girls feel things differently than you can, thus bringing out certain parts of a girls personality. When I started plating my LTR one of the things she found most attractive in me was my frame. A girl will get down on her knees and beg to suck your cock anywhere anytime if your frame is strong enough.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:58 PM
7

I've gone through this as well and my thought process has changed on this. You will find hardliners that say 'my wife/ltr does not keep orbiters'. That is fine if that's your sexual strategy. I've done the go through the phone thing... An alpha doesn't give a fuck what his woman does, until she crosses a boundary. Set your boundaries. I don't go through my LTRs phone, if she's going to fuck someone else there's nothing I can do. I do know that there is a legion of women out there that can fill h…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 07:03 PM
4

When you are in a relationship you have to have a mix of both alpha and beta qualities. If you're not looking for a relationship then the only thing you should care about is smashing.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:58 PM
2

Dude you did well! Fuck Sarah, sounds like she just wanted you to orbit... You did the opposite and smashed her friend! Use her again if she reaches out. This is just how the game goes sometimes
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:21 PM
1

When you approach a girl, it's your job to pull them into your frame. Men communicate overtly and women do not. So you want to fuck them? You make it known through your actions, by calculated flirting, and smashing their shit tests. Soon enough you'll be getting the fuck me eyes.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 05:31 PM
2

Read up on how to respond to shit tests! AA/AM/pressure flip. Pressure flips are my favorite. Get down on on some mental combat.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:30 PM
1

;)
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:44 PM
6

Go get a doctorate in psychology and write your thesis on this.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:19 PM
-1

Read a dictonary, it's got every book you could ever read.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:18 PM
2

Good idea, fuck your friends ex. Dumbass!
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:18 PM
1

Practice everywhere! You need to hone your game
/r/askTRP25/07/18 08:16 PM
1

Walk over and introduce yourself to both, they will most likely shit test you. Easiest thing to do is just poke fun and see how they respond. Best case is you get a couple two tree numbers or you bomb it. Youre going to bomb it a lot. Then one day you'll see how badly you can game and still pick them up. Be bold
/r/askTRP25/07/18 08:06 PM
4

Fuck hot pussy whenever you get the urge to beat your meat
/r/askTRP25/07/18 07:40 PM
2

Girl gives ioi, walk up to her, say hi and introduce yourself while giving an attractive smirk. Rinse and repeat. Once you're comfortable enough to banter say witty things and see if she'll quailfy herself. If she qualifies, get her digits.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 07:30 PM
7

Should have been networking with social circles this whole time! Enjoy the music and the benefits of playing music? Find a new band
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:51 PM
3

I know when to escalate because I can pick up on key attraction signals. If you've established kino and isolate, there's no way you can fail going in for a kiss. Just pull them in for a kiss and don't over think
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:03 PM
1

Honestly, it's your frame.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 06:24 PM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP22/07/18 07:19 AM
1

I love intercourse!
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:54 AM
1

The guys who've internalized this shit have actualized themselves. The people who actualize themselves don't give a fuck what other people think. We do what the fuck we want. We bend situations to what we want them to be. Your reality is what you make it
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:53 AM
1

Lol. Why do you give a fuck what they think? Quit caring. Make people see what you want them to see
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:47 AM
1

What do you want, holms?
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:25 AM
3

Everyone everywhere is dealing with some shit, make sure your shit is more in control than everyone else.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:24 AM
1

That's what ida told her. My time is important and I'd don't feel like fucking around. That's the suble part of the previous statement. The one she picks up on. If she asks you a stupid fucking question... Then you know
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:23 AM
7

Yeah, hit it six. Also... Figure out what your life mission is and focus on that when you're not sure in the gym
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:10 AM
2

Bring more to the table
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:09 AM
1

Use sex as exorcise
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:09 AM
1

Do it!
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:09 AM
1

Good
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:08 AM
1

Beat off before encounter. Or tell her you ecjaulate easily and you'll fuck her for 6 hours
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:08 AM
1

Will they do something for you when you need help?
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:07 AM
1

Mock them...
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:07 AM
1

Everywhere
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:07 AM
2

Join a coed sport
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:06 AM
3

I'll give you one more question, but it better be good...
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:06 AM
2

Never!
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:05 AM
5

Grab them by the collar of their shirt and laugh in their fucking face!
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:05 AM
2

Why are you sending pictures to people that you aren't fucking!?
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:05 AM
5

Woman wants your attention, you withdraw attention, woman now wants you more...
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:03 AM
9

Waltz into a social setting and watch all women give you iois. I went to get ice cream with my woman and bitches were bending over in front of me and fucking with their hair and eyeing me. Knowing that you could pull any of them is where you need to be.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:02 AM
7

Go to the fucking gym!!! Do 5x5! Goggle it, install the app! That is the foundation of your new frame! Quit pussing out and do it now!!!
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:00 AM
1

Hold frame always. The new you... No body will recognize him. Apologize for the stupid fucking shit you've done. It's hard to burn Bridges when that person cares about you. Done some stupid fucking shit? Welcome to the game! OWN YOUR SHIT PUSSY!
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:59 AM
3

Next
/r/askTRP21/07/18 07:06 AM
18

I feel the same. A lot of friends in my social circle don't use any social media and the ones that do don't use it for validation. I've been tossing around completely getting rid of it. I can get these dopamine hits elsewhere.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 07:06 AM
2

Keep reading and internalizing trp. You will look back on this post and fucking cringe in a couple years. Go lift something heavy until you can't move or think. Do this every day from now on. Get yourself and your life in order.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:56 PM
2

You will come up as a winner by realizing the state of your frame and owning your shit. You'll get better at managing your frame as you continue to internalize rp methodology.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:46 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/908sr9/my_6_year_unicorn_ltr_cheated_on_me_sharing_the/?utm_source=reddit-android
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:44 PM
2

Dude, join a couple coed sports leagues. If your smv is what you said it is, you will slay. The whole team gives each other their contact info, so it's super easy to communicate with them.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:36 PM
5

I personally would never take a "break". There was a good post on trp about a break up today, and his LTR used those to hamster jumping on new dicks. I'm not saying that's the case here, but once you reach this point your frame has been demolished. I subscribe to the "fuck yes" attitude. If it's not reciprocated then it's always a no. If I were you I would just walk away.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:34 PM
1

Dayum son, the imagery you've got going on is fire!!
/r/askTRP20/07/18 03:47 AM
-3

Next time I come over to rail your mom, I'll tell her to stop paying your phone bill. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:33 AM
5

Establish fucking boundaries... Quit being a fucking shoulder to cry on. AA, AM, fog, pressure flip... Show you just don't give a fuck about her whining. There's just so many things you can do, and it all revolves around you withdrawing your attention...
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:31 AM
1

I was still in anger faze... Talked about redpill... On occasion I explained things in a way I thought she might understand... Every time it was, "omfg, you're so right." I've stopped explaining shit and call it now, I just look like a magician.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:24 AM
1

Exactly
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:33 PM
1

Quit wearing stilts
/r/askTRP18/07/18 10:32 PM
1

Work your way up to getting complements like ,"you're perfect" "you look like a model" "I can't find anything wrong with you"
/r/askTRP18/07/18 10:31 PM
1

5x5 is 3 days a week. Supplement your lifts with some cardio. I do gym Mon, Wed, Fri. And cardio Tues, Thursday, Saturday.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 10:29 PM
4

Let me simplify this for you, lift heavy weights, cycle between long distance running and HIIT. When you fuck, fuck as hard as you can as long as you can, and have her ride you while you recoup. Rise and repeat
/r/askTRP18/07/18 07:15 PM
5

You tried to pull her and you couldn't do it. She has a bf. Her asd was too strong. Sounds like you did fairly well. At this point she rejected, so don't orbit and recalibrate. Reach out in a week and see if she'll come over.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 04:19 PM
8

Plate her and continue your life mission.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 03:42 PM
1

I keep my place clean and I have candles. When girls come over they just know I fuck.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:44 PM
2

How you remain in control, no matter how hard it is, you withdraw all attention. All of it. If you want her back, you let her come back.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:41 PM
0

Get a dog
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:00 AM
15

Lock yourself in a cage and have your buddies poke you with sticks
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:59 AM
1

Acid breaks my mind
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:58 AM
1

I have done these things occasionally, but my LTR is so sex positive and receptive to me, she's instantly gushing wet when I want to fuck. The concepts presented in sgm are just too powerful to be ignored
/r/askTRP14/07/18 09:13 PM
1

Dunno about you guys, but during missionary you can give girls clitoral orgasms by really grinding your junk against them.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:40 PM
3

Throw her over your shoulder, toss her on the bed, rip her cloths off, stuff her panties into her mouth, tie her up, blind fold her, tease her with vibrator until she begs to cum, deny it and tell her she only cums when you want her to, make her cum, then fuck her brains out. Boom advanced sex God method. Don't forget after comfort ;)
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:38 PM
1

The golden rule is you treat people how you want to be treated... Are you going to treat your woman like a man so she can treat you like a man?
/r/askTRP13/07/18 10:02 PM
1

Man up and make a move yourself, jesus
/r/askTRP13/07/18 06:34 PM
1

Next
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:02 PM
5

My dick is good enough
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:02 PM
2

Dude, I did the same fucking shit with my ex-wife. If your LTR ever pulls shit saying she doesn't trust you, I think it's over. That's just my personal view on it. If I didn't trust my LTR I would nuke that shit so fast. You are now locked in a never ending battle of gaining her trust. You will never have it
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:00 PM
2

What kinda problems broski?
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:14 PM
3

Haha do that stuff too!
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:03 PM
2

Work out in the gym. I do 5x5 strong lifts. When I go out in public decent looking girls and their boyfriend's check me out.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:50 PM
21

Oh God dude, don't go down on tinder pussy! Don't smoke weed and have sex, wait till you've had it a few times b4 smoking. You weren't attracted to her, if you were your dick would be like granite!
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:48 PM
1

Establish boundaries with these people so you can have a solid routine. Find work so you can have money. Don't rely on others to find things for you to do. Game that bitch and make fun of her ass. Bonus points if you make her whole family laugh at her bullshit
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:41 PM
1

I actually didn't use a lawyer :)
/r/askTRP13/07/18 06:57 AM
7

Yep
/r/askTRP13/07/18 01:27 AM
6

My divorce went much much differently, perhaps OP had a shit lawyer.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 11:42 PM
1

Aye mang, you were so bold you whipped your dick out on the spot!!!
/r/askTRP12/07/18 10:32 PM
3

You've got a case of oneitis. Quit digging through your fucking trash
/r/askTRP12/07/18 10:30 PM
1

Yar! Let her ask!
/r/askTRP12/07/18 09:46 PM
14

There's a lot of details missing here. Where is the money paper trail? Why didn't you claim half of all her shit, I mean half of your shit. Congrats on the job tho
/r/askTRP12/07/18 09:45 PM
1

Haha it's funny how it works
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:26 PM
1

I know what you mean and I understand the position that you're coming from. I got fucked with a few times and shut that shit down without altercations, but they never liked me and would slight me any chance they got. As an adult I nip that shit right in the bud. I've had about 3 major instances of this in the past month. Knowing you can fuck someone up is a great feeling. It's an even better feeling knowing that you can change an uncomfortable event with someone into them either being friends wi…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:22 PM
3

As a leader you must build great relationships. If someone had issues with you in the past and look to make amends, you give them time to own their shit. Then you turn it into a healthy relationship. If you find you can only have a toxic relationship with someone, you cut that cancer out. It feels like you are in a place of anger.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:01 PM
1

Own your shit. A couple dates isn't going to fix anything. Find the confidence to be the man you want to be. You can do this by solidifying healthy habbits you build one day at a time.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 07:56 PM
1

Once I hit 25ish I left my home state, got married, and moved across the country. I worked hard at maintaining the relationship with my friends. I would go home to visit and they would drive 364 miles to hang with me for two days. A couple of them flew to me over the years. While I was working across the country, my job became my life. My coworkers were my brothers. I didn't go out and make new friends. I didn't hang out with my coworkers outside of work, until I decided to get divorced and move…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:39 PM
2

Exactly, once you have a plan, you need to execute it. You shouldn't leave it in someone else's hands, unless that's what you want.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:50 PM
1

The more you keep your eyes on social interactions, the better you'll become at recognizing the social dynamics at play. Then you'll be able to make better decisions on how to interact.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:22 PM
1

I think of it like this, you can change your energy around, like switching from outgoing to introverted, open or closed. Use your empathy as your guide. You stated he was going through a rough patch, having your good energy around was probably all he needed. If you have an abundance of good energy, you might as well pick some people up. I just try to avoid toxic interactions.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:08 PM
10

Energy vampires are real. They can only take what you give them
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:47 PM
6

You know nothing, Jon Snow. The ups and downs of maintaining relationships like that speak volumes about your understanding of interpersonal Dynamics. I don't maintain relationships with toxic people. Anyone in my closest circle would, at the drop of a hat come to my aid. And they know I would do the same for them. I fucking built this! Fuck off with your 'hamster faggot' bullshit
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:06 PM
1

This is uncanny
/r/askMRP11/07/18 05:57 PM
1

I understood the mindset, being exactly what you stated, being left out. I'm sure OP brings value to his social interactions. I was in this exact situation and it took me years to really understand what was going on. I'm just not suited to following, which might be ops case, maybe not. Also depending on the strength of his relationships with these friends, he could even delegate that they find something for them to do this weekend. Sending out feeler texts is easy to do if you don't feel like pl…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 05:16 PM
19

Absolutely, do the things that you want to do. Those things are probably what they want to get in on
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:25 PM
33

I struggled with this for years my dude, now I see it for what it is.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:21 PM
2

Just fuck and plate her! Read the sidebar, you've got oneitis
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:20 PM
207

Initiation is leadership. Ever since I was a kid, it was always me initiating. I have a solid group of lifelong friends and I continue to make more. I initiated contact and set plans and they follow. This is a good thing, be a leader.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:18 PM
1

The shit I've heard women say in a judgement free post sex glow atmosphere is fucking ridiculous. You just need to determine what you feel are redflags and deal breakers, especially when deciding to LTR.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 09:51 PM
3

No free rides, unless cash, grass, or ass
/r/askTRP10/07/18 09:24 PM
11

Initiation is leadership
/r/askTRP10/07/18 09:22 PM
0

I generally don't like my LTRs posts. If she wanted me to see a picture of her, she'd send me a nude.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 08:22 PM
2

I have some boardgames that are perfect for two people, cooking together, old-school videogames. Sometimes I'll just be watching Netflix when they come in.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 07:41 PM
2

Absolutely, try it out. have something fun to do, it helps with lmr.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 07:16 PM
7

Just invite them to your place, always works for me.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 06:47 PM
1

This sums it up nicely. If you're getting what you want out of your relationship and you are owning your shit, why should you care?
/r/askTRP10/07/18 06:46 PM
19

By the time you have your 10th pregnancy scare, you won't care anymore because you know you put a condom on and used it correctly.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 07:14 PM
1

13.5
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:31 PM
1

Same situation for me dude. Enjoy her attention. At this point, until you know everyone, don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:01 PM
1

You're putting too much stock in others and arnt investing enough in your self. Fix your frame and work on yourself
/r/askTRP03/07/18 06:31 PM
1

I've played the shit out of codenames, resistance, and werewolves. Those games go over so awesome!
/r/askTRP03/07/18 05:10 PM
5

I usually play dungeons And dungeons... It's a variant of dungeons and dragons... But it's super kinky
/r/askTRP03/07/18 05:04 PM
24

File your own police report and get a restraining order. She's stalking you and making you worried about your personal safety
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:32 PM
3

Look up the d.e.n.n.i.s. system, you fucking retard
/r/askTRP03/07/18 12:14 AM
1

Amused mastery followed by cavemaning her
/r/askTRP02/07/18 03:52 PM
2

If you're not going to give the d, they gonna get it elsewhere. Keep staying up all night and slaying hoes till u in the ground.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 01:04 PM
1

The truth is that rp principles and their actual practice is not black and white. You want to know what the consequences could be? Make a list of everything you think could go right and wrong. Compare your pros and cons and base your decision on sticking your dick in her off that. People on here stick to these things because they work, that's why.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 10:44 PM
1

Trp principles are a general guide line for spergs to not fuck up their life. These aren't laws, you're not going to go to jail for fucking up your life. However, if you've got your shit on lock down you should be able to make solid rational decisions. This doesn't mean you won't fuck up, but every thing you do in life should be based on good judgment.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:02 PM
3

Lol you're going to go on a date with a chick that has a potential drug dealer bf??? You must be asking to get fucked up
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:16 PM
2

You're fat
/r/askTRP29/06/18 01:07 AM
2

I usually open with, "hey wanna come over and fold my laundry while I play videogames?" You will get a response. I typically try to number close by my 6th response. Then set up date and only communicate for logistics. This has worked really well for me. It's simple and you don't have to put forth much energy.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 08:31 PM
1

Had a few girls tell me that they wanted to hear my voice before they would come over to my house, which is where I typically have my first dates. I sexually escalated the convos always. If you want to text for more than just logistics, that's your call. These rules arnt laws. Generally speaking the average dude has no clue how texting more than logistics can stop them getting getting laid. Simple mistakes will kill your game, that's why this is a rule. If you know what your doing great!
/r/askTRP27/06/18 11:25 PM
2

Then full ass it, my dude.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 10:52 PM
2

Dude, texting is for logistics. Keep it simple. You not hitting her up will not dissuade her from meeting with you. If she flakes this next time, you ghost. You're time is fucking valuable. You're the prize.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 10:32 PM
1

You can't do what anymore? Live? Go back to blue pill? You can't go back and you can't change the human condition. The thing that you can change is how you view yourself and your actions thereafter. From the comments below it sounds like you have a mission and are achieving good things in that regard. Maybe you just need a vacation.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 10:28 PM
1

You're completely normal... I work at a power plant and I get dirty as fuck. I shower after work. It's normal to wash your hair every day...
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:13 PM
1

Start with letting her finger you, and then slip your dick in her ass
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:44 PM
4

Sounds to me like she's holding a lot back. I'm getting a strong sense of trickle truth. I wouldn't go so low as to Snoop. You're a high value male and you should be the prize. The thing that I think you should be doing is uping the dread. Why aren't you going out and doing cool stuff with friends? As a high value male you need to be able and happy to walk away at any time. A gut feeling is enough. I'm not saying walk away yet, if you don't want to. Just take this time to reflect and plan an exi…
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:41 PM
1

I had something similar show up just below my belly button that spread around there, couple bumps just below the belt line, turns out it was my laundry detergent. Both of you should get checked out for STDs to be safe.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:50 PM
12

I'm quite impressed with your response!! Good information
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:26 PM
2

Personally, id tell him
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:51 PM
1

Turn off all electronics in your house. Go sit in the middle of the floor. Youre going to want to take deep relaxing breaths. Bonus points if you can put your body to sleep. Close your eyes and take any thought you have and push it away. You can also think about specific things. Or anything that comes to mind. I would usually do this at bed time, I'd control my breathing and let my body relax and before I knew I'd it be lucid dreaming. Gl mate. Google search also goes along way for meditation te…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:07 PM
1

Sometimes it hard to pry your mind off a specific subject. I don't know if you have tried meditation, but the practice of clearing your mind is incredibly beneficial.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:43 PM
1

To stop you from thinking or telling the chick to fuck off?
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:38 PM
2

This depends on how close you guys are. I can go to my boss, close the door, and whatever is said behind the door fucking stays there. If you don't see any downside to letting him know, just tell him.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:37 PM
5

Jesus... The hamster on you is wild. Honestly, why give a fuck? Either you try to fuck her or you don't. I harmlessly flirt with everyone. Doesn't seem like you're orbiting her, so keep that up.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:32 PM
3

The information provided by Neil Strauss can help you pick up woman. What it's not going to teach you is how to maintain relationships. Pua is a facet of male sexual strategy, it's a slice of the rp pie.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 04:54 PM
5

I found this book before I found trp. I read it in two days just before a date I had set up. I used the basic principles of the book and fucked my date the same night. I'd never done anything like that before. Then I found trp and it solidified everything. I thought it was a good read.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 04:33 PM
1

This shit doesn't belong here
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:09 PM
2

By doing what you did in this situation you showed that you were higher value. You were unphased by her admission (of course it phased you). I think you handled it correctly and similar situations can be handled like this as well. For her part, AWALT. All woman seek validation. It's up to you to establish the boundaries you want in your relationship.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:26 PM
8

You have oneitis and are heavily outcome dependant. You're operating in her frame, "I'll wait for the scraps you give me babe!" I don't believe you've read the side bar. Who knows, maybe your reading comprehension sucks, you're not even close to internalizing the side bar material.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 08:11 PM
13

You're a fucking mess. Read all of the side bar material!!!
/r/askTRP12/06/18 07:55 PM
1

Correct, it's the answer to your question.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:27 AM
4

Quit hamstering. Learn how to vet woman for LTR. Be the best version of yourself possible and learn how to be a good captain.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 11:02 PM
1

Man up and tell this desperate woman that you're going to see other woman and if she doesn't agree she can take a hike.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 10:55 PM
3

Ignore and escalate
/r/askTRP05/06/18 09:28 PM
2

This book is the shit. There's nothing like meeting a woman who claims they just don't cum, then you make them cum so many times they lose count. Immersion is the key
/r/askTRP04/06/18 10:24 PM
2

Depends on if they are hippies or not
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:23 PM
1

Lol, I usually fuck once one I get home and then right at bed time. Then I get a full night's rest. Haha it's right where I want to keep it.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:24 PM
1

Lol, you'll hit a natural rhythm and eventually manage to get more sleep. I really only need about 6 hours to be prime. Keep running the marathon
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:15 PM
1

Haha awesome. Thats how my LTR and I roll. Enjoy the sleepless nights
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:59 PM
1

Based on what you've said I would continue to vet her for potential LTR. She seems cool and you're getting what you want.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:48 PM
6

Doesn't matter if she's not comfortable. Have fun, sexually escalate your conversation and use kino. If youre going to the beach make sure the date is physical instead of just sitting there. Go for a swim or a walk. Don't be outcome dependant.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:45 PM
2

Nice slacks, shoes, and dress shirt with a tie hasn't failed me yet.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:40 PM
1

I find this shit hilarious. Agree and amplify, frame is everything. I'm 30 and when im clean shaven people will think I look way younger than I actually do. I hope people say the same about when I'm 40.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 04:34 PM
1

Man you really need to read up on dread. You dont just go Rambo and jump to lvl 12. You should maintain the first few levels of dread always. Lift, eat properly, dress well, have a social circle, own your shit, and do sports or some sort of similar activity. Once you climb the higher levels of dread then it becomes fuck me or fuck you. Dread is absolutely essential for maintaining a quality relationship.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 04:15 PM
5

You split off twice so far... On your terms??? Dude, it sounds like your hamstering. It's just your turn, enjoy the ride.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 04:04 PM
3

It works. You will get a response. If she digs it, try to close within 6 messages
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:02 PM
3

Not going to lie, that's pretty funny! I usually initiate by telling them to come over and fold my laundry while I play video games.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 03:43 PM
3

Quit trying to please your LTR.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:38 AM
1

This shit is for real! Ever since I was a little kid I was always the one initiating people to do shit. Now those clowns I invited to do stuff with me are my brothers. Opportunity seized. I'm cultivating quite a few relationships just by leading. It's not a burden, it's a blessing
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:22 PM
1

You honestly just wanted her number. Then she didn't give it to you and made you fuck her, sounds a lot like rape. Def not gf material bro
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:19 PM
3

Just send him a message or two with what you have to say. He's probably just been busy with life. Keep busy and he'll reach out
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:55 PM
27

She thinks she's entitled to your money and you wonder about a soft next? Why are you taking plates out in the first place? They are for fucking
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:43 PM
22

Hamster, hamster, hamster. Make a move pussy
/r/askTRP21/05/18 07:38 PM
2

Perhaps there have been comfort tests you've missed. Women expect you to just get it
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:13 PM
2

She passed your compliance test, continue spinning that plate!
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:11 PM
0

It depends man. How many times has she been in love? If you're giving her the best sex of her life and are an emotiomal anchor point she's going to have a much higher chance of emotionally bonding with you.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:44 PM
1

Be upfront and honest. Always! People will respect you more if you've got a proven track record of staying clean and out of trouble! You can do it!
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:53 PM
1

For sure! Men care about the physical and women care about the emotional aspects.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 05:30 AM
1

No it only swallows
/r/askTRP17/05/18 05:06 AM
1

I'm intrigued, care to go more in-depth on the only connecting to people on a physical level after such a high n count?
/r/askTRP17/05/18 05:00 AM
1

Tldr; I don't like women getting trains run on them, not LTR material. P.S. Your reading comprehension sucks
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:50 AM
1

Do what you want man. You'll never be able to "put her in her place". The only thing you can actually do that will have an effect is withdraw attention.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:55 AM
2

You need to focus on yourself first. Get settled. Get a job. Get a place. live an actual life. Go out. Do things. Set a time that you call and talk to your children. Don't play into your ex's bullshit. Dont argue. Save money. Call the school and get social services involved if you're worried about your kids. Consult with a lawyer about things you can do.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:52 PM
3

Whoops ;)
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:11 PM
11

I think when you're looking at an ltr there's certain things that are going to be a red flag for different people. I couldn't care less about ncount. I would care about the context of her sexual encounters. The most important thing to me is the girls ability to pairbond. How many people has she been in love with? There are varying degrees of AWALT and it's up to you to screen for the characteristics you'd like a LTR to possess. But from what this girl has said, I would personally disqualify her.…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:06 PM
1

I expect any woman I ltr to have a libido as voracious as mine. Ncount really doesn't matter to me. Just because she's a virgin or has a low n-count doesn't mean that awalt doesn't apply. Just be the best fuck they've ever had
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:19 PM
3

If you aren't getting the sex you want, you need to let your wife know. Dread dread dread dread dread dread
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:37 PM
3

Cock rings are awesome even if your dick works properly
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:38 PM
3

Exactly! Then get her friends number and invite her to do shit with you guys all the time ;)
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:09 PM
3

Dread the fuck out of your ltr by hitting on her friend.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 03:51 PM
1

Every dude needs to read sgm. You need to be able to get the chicks immersed. Giving girls orgasms when they say they rarely cum makes you feel like a king. Girls base everything on how they feel. Guys focus way more on the visual.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:31 PM
10

This just goes to show you how little a big dick means to this girl. His dick is bigger, but you've got that alpha dick. Don't spend your life thinking about other dudes dicks, unless that's your thing...
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:09 PM
2

Comfort should be done post sex man. Texting should only be logistics. It's difficult to break out of trend of wanting to talk to girls through text. It's much more valuable to communicate in person. Every day a decent looking girl gets hit up and talks to a handful of guys. By withdrawing your attention in most situations where there is a sexual attraction on her part, she will be more engaged where you are not. You initiated the chase and f closed, good work. If you want to plate then only tex…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:55 PM
1

Text for logistics only. If you want to fuck send her a message.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:15 PM
3

Leaders gotta lead bro
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:08 PM
5

You can wish her a happy bday and booty call at the same time
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:28 PM
1

Do not put her as a co-owner. At the very least put her name on some utilities. Don't do it bro.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:32 PM
2

Not even. I dunno how many times that's gotten me laid
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:33 AM
3

Go bowling and then eat dinner. You split the cost with with her
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:22 PM
1

This is fucking solid and the same conclusion I came to!
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:10 PM
1

Get the fuck out of this shit show relationship!
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:02 PM
5

Review 12 levels of dread and determine where you should be on that scale
/r/askTRP30/04/18 04:11 PM
1

Dude you can ltr all you want. The earlier you implement this stuff the better off you are. Read up on the 12 levels of dread. Read the rationale male and other great works listed in the side bar!!!!!!
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:32 AM
14

Your "friend" is a cuck
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:29 AM
2

Yep! I always try to get the girl to give me her number within 6 messages.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:46 PM
3

Radio silence on your part after you communicate you don't care to spend time chatting on the app anymore. If you expressed your meet up invite as, meet me at x at y time and she says she wants to talk more I would stop talking.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:35 PM
3

I'd get her number asap and chat off the app. She needs to know your time is valuable
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:30 PM
32

Always a 6
/r/askTRP26/04/18 10:06 PM
8

Ltr of one month?? You respond with "k".
/r/askTRP26/04/18 06:09 PM
1

Make eye contact, approach with a smile, say, "hi my name is !?!." Then shake their hand. Boom, introduction complete. Then mention something about what they are doing or what they are wearing. Keep it short and sweet.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 06:46 PM
1

I'm in the same position man! Just keep doing what you're doing and enjoy it!!!
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:00 PM
0

Yo dawg, that's an ioi
/r/askTRP18/04/18 08:03 PM
1

My grandparents were a power couple. Granted my grandpa was in his prime decades ago and when he was he ran a power plant for 30 years. My grandma was hungry for the social power dynamic my grandpa provided. They thrived on being better than everyone else. They fucked up their kids badly. Out of 3 kids the only one that did well and could function in life was my aunt.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 04:33 PM
1

Tell her to spit on your prick
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:16 PM
1

Memorizing lines seems retarded. Think more whose line is it any way and quit being outcome dependent.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:13 PM
0

It's not abnormal. Distance yourself and think about what you want to do
/r/askTRP15/04/18 11:16 AM
2

You now man, if you want a relationship, why the fuck would you fuck around while "sperated"? The separations are caused by something else. If you want what you say you want you're being very sloppy.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 11:13 AM
0

Having a relationship is incredibly difficult to maintain without shit loads of experience. The traits you are seeing are more or less to be expected. Seeing as you are leaving, chalk this chick up to a learning experience and move forward. Your mind is so wrapped around this chick. Let her know your intentions and go from there.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 11:05 AM
7

Emotional distance dude
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:50 PM
2

It might or it might not. There's nothing to stop me from escalating everyday.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:46 PM
1

Been with a girl the same amount of time and we fuck 2-3 times a day. In the past 6-7 months there's been maybe 2 or 3 days I didn't fuck. As long as you can continue to maintain frame I don't see why it will change.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:33 PM
1

Some times judges need to be put in their place as well. I spoke over my judge several times while going over the child custody agreement. Probably shouldn't of done it, but she was an attractive female judge and didn't acknowledge it once.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:57 PM
2

If you think for one second you won't have access to some sort of sports team, you're sadly mistaken. There's all kinds of shit like Ultimate Frisbee and broom ball. They have pickup leagues for that shit and it's coed. Join some sort of league for the summer, like softball or soccer. Any retard can play, but practice will make it enjoyable.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:13 PM
2

Join a couple sports now! they force social interaction and team work. Plus after games you can go out and do shit with the guys.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:08 PM
1

This might be a good post for the marriedredpill sub dude.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:58 PM
2

I'm 29 and have grey on the sides. Chicks don't mind it a bit. I'm off and on with coloring shampoo, that shit works great to cover it.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 07:37 PM
2

You said it, she either wants to make you jealous or fuck him. Up the dread and don't let that shit phase you.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:01 PM
1

Read 12 levels of dread man and implement that shit!!!!
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:49 PM
1

Ear plugs and earmuffs on the outside. You shouldn't have a problem keeping tempo with the drums.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:50 PM
2

Why can't you wear earplugs while you play? I work in a power plant and I wear ear plugs all day every day
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:16 PM
2

Withhold commitment to properly vet for LTR. Commitment is your currency, sex is theirs. I've had girls bring up wanting me to be their BF right after I fucked them in the back seat of my car on the first date. Never mention it, if they're into you it will be brought up.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 11:08 PM
1

Too much texting. "K" is great for this shit
/r/askTRP29/03/18 11:16 PM
6

Bowling. Have her blow you behind a dumpster afterwards.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 11:15 PM
1

You have wicked case of info diarrhea. A solid glass of quit hamstering should do the trick. You got a decent horse, take it for a ride. Maintain frame and follow your mission. Enjoy it.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 11:14 PM
1

Up the amount you do both of those things until you find you don't enjoy weed. Save it as a reward for progression of milestones
/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:56 PM
7

I quit smoking weed because it fucked with my libido. Mentally it created a block where I couldn't enjoy sex nearly as much. I fuck daily and I like that more than weed. Find something you like to do that weed fucks with and do that everyday.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:30 PM
6

Fat chicks are like mopeds, fun to ride until your friends see you on it.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 07:46 PM
2

A shitty person would do this. Doesn't make OP gay.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:37 PM
2

Lol what the fuck?
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:29 PM
2

If you take it, make sure to pay it back asap
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:29 PM
1

Sounds like she wanted to fuck you ;)
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:52 PM
1

I know what you mean, my mom is excellent at screening. Ultimately it comes down to you. Lists of red flags are a great way to start the screening process. Utilising the knowledge from TRP has made my life experience much better.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:36 PM
-2

Different feelz
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:21 PM
2

If you haven't been with a decent variety of women how can you expect to screen for the qualities that you want in a LTR?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:20 PM
6

I'm 29. Been with everything from 18 to 35ish. I like'em around 25.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:22 PM
14

I'm a single dad and I crush pussy
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:59 PM
1

I believe the most important thing here is balance. Social media in this day and age is important for social interactions. It's also important that you do you and experience the feelings you want to feel. I love video games damn near as much as I love going out and doing shit. Build your life around people, activities, and things you want in your life.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 04:58 PM
1

I run hot and cold too man. Since I've been with my current girl we've had sex damn near everyday. A few times I have had trouble because of where my head was at, I was missing the immersion factor and other times my dick was too desensitized. I've stopped bj's and sex. Your frame is important when you disengage. I'm at the point where I love sex and I want it everyday, but if I'm not feeling it I'm not feeling it. It doesn't mean I'm any less attracted to the girl.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 04:52 PM
1

Just call her and set the date jackass
/r/askTRP23/03/18 08:29 PM
1

Rp applies my dude. My LTR is pregnant and we've fucked everyday. Since she's already pregnant I don't have to worry about BC!
/r/askTRP21/03/18 05:39 PM
10

Use it to your advantage my dude
/r/askTRP21/03/18 05:35 PM
1

That's quite a lot to think about and it's even heavier to live. I couldn't stay in the same place as my exwife. It would have killed me. My ex willingly gave me primary custody, but I could see her down the road fighting me for it. Just take your time, you're not even close to your prime.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 05:40 PM
1

Are you currently in this situation man?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 05:36 PM
1

My ex-wifes father did that. He was so bluepilled it made me sick and I didn't know what TRP was then. If you're RP and this is the best alternative you can conceive then take this route. Chances are though the mother of your children could up and leave and you're stuck either following her or never seeing your kids.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 05:31 PM
2

I had my daughter at 25, I look back and I think it would have been better to wait. I'd been with her mother for four years and we were a year into marriage. Be aware of Hypergamy. Try to figure out what spectrum of AWALT the woman is on. Avoid mental illness like the plague. Don't be captain save a hoe. If your goal is to have children you need to vet the woman well. It could take years for you to be comfortable enough with a woman to have a child. When the time comes where you want a family, m…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 05:15 PM
2

Spot on
/r/askTRP20/03/18 04:59 PM
1

Im actually doing this. I divorced when my daughter was three, moved back home where I could have a solid emotional environment for her. Got primary custody of her. Worked on myself, hitting the gym and landed my dream job. I spun plates until i found a good horse. I have a baby on the way. Having children is part of my mission. If my relationship fails, I will be sad, but she's an excellent mother regardless of the outcome. DON'T GET MARRIED. Life's too short to not do the things you want to do…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 04:51 PM
2

Dude, don't give any commitment until atleast 6 months... plate until then. Elevate to fwb... baby steps foo
/r/askTRP16/03/18 09:39 PM
2

In my current stage of life, no partying. Social get togethers with a couple drinks is where I'd draw the line.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:14 PM
1

You blaze your own trail with an unwavering frame. Use what you know to succeed and keep learning. If you n33d to, relocate to thrive.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:12 PM
1

Lol three months? Sounds like she's testing your frame my friend
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:09 PM
3

Go out and turn her into your sock puppet
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:09 PM
5

Go to the doctor asap! I thought I had herpes so I showed my LTR. She handled it well. Went to the docs. Turns out I'm allergic to my belt buckle. Nice to find this out at 30. Tell you LTR, get checked out, see how she handles it.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 05:17 PM
6

Wait till your sticking it in her ass for that
/r/askTRP05/03/18 05:24 PM
1

The last part of this is so fucking true.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:22 PM
6

You can choose to spend your life worrying about these things and let it eat you alive. You are the prize. Be confident enough in yourself to walk away at any time. She's not yours, it's just your turn. Enjoy the ride while it lasts.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:44 PM
3

Trp isn't geared towards homosexual strategy.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:28 PM
1

This is fucking great. That'll teach her to talk about her boyfriends dick with you. I wouldn't apologize. Bet she saves the pic
/r/askTRP13/02/18 05:14 PM
9

I picked it up yesterday. It's short as fuck. Just read it. If you like it, read it again.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 05:18 PM
5

Embrace it. Your frame is shit
/r/askTRP23/01/18 11:47 PM
5

I'm also a single dad. I mostly used tinder. First time I went on a date after finding trp we went to a brewery, changed venues and took my car. Went to drop her off at her car and we ended up fucking in my backseat. She didn't ask me about my kids carseat until we finished. I then opted to stop going on 'dates' and have them come to my house. Tinder sluts will come to your house and fuck you when your kids asleep. Mention the kid or dont. Just keep looking and working on yourself.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 08:23 PM
3

I don't understand what you're looking for here. You said it yourself, you're not going to marry her. She's not yours it's just your turn. Enjoy your time with her and quit hamstering this shit.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 08:54 PM
1

Came home and gf was watching wedding crashers. Hadn't seen it in years. That movie was RP AF
/r/askTRP19/01/18 05:43 PM
3

Hahahahahahahahaha
/r/askTRP19/01/18 05:38 PM
6

Suck it up man. I had a kid and was married to her. It's going to be hard no matter what. You can't fix broken
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:39 PM
7

I've been down this road. You do not want to be here. There is no future and the relationship will never be healthy.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:32 PM
31

You're fucked dude
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:54 AM
6

She's lied to you about sex and the time frame of it. This would be a big deal to me. I wouldn't overlook this dishonesty and this chick would be on thin ice.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 04:59 PM
5

Be honest and tell her what you want. Quit being a pussy.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 04:46 PM
2

I was a delivery driver for a high end Italian restaurant and ontop of my hourly wage I made $100-$150 a day on tips. Easy money.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 12:00 AM
4

She told you what she wanted. I personally would spin her until she breaks. You got the itis
/r/askTRP09/01/18 10:35 PM
1

I don't necessarily think you should slow down, this could honestly be a sexual incompatibility between you two or maybe you have another area of your relationship that needs a bit of attention.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 05:24 PM
1

Has she been complaining that you just want to fuck all the time?
/r/askTRP04/01/18 05:07 PM
1

I've used variations of this to great effect
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:45 PM
15

It's just the thrill of the chase!
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:39 PM
2

Always push for 69 if she won't slob on your knob
/r/askTRP29/12/17 05:01 PM
1

Were all human beings! I err on the side of treating others how I'd like to be treated.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 04:59 PM
13

Emulate cartman from southpark
/r/askTRP29/12/17 04:57 PM
1

Dude just because you're injured doesn't make you weak infront of your plates. It's about your frame.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 05:00 PM
1

Do you only touch her with your dick occasionally?
/r/askTRP28/12/17 04:57 PM
10

maybe not clean means she has stds
/r/askTRP27/12/17 05:41 PM
2

You set a date for Friday and she didn't give an affirmative answer or an alternative time. I wouldn't say anything and soft next
/r/askTRP19/12/17 08:36 PM
2

The only hang up I see is that you're her moms boss. I can see this as shitting where you eat by proxy. Proceed with much cautions. Maybe secure mommy's blessing
/r/askTRP19/12/17 04:48 PM
1

I wouldn't worry about this too much. You got your dick wet and have to invest nothing in them any more.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 07:57 PM
1

TLDR. You have oneitis. You lack abundance mentality. Game other girls.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 07:56 PM
1

I can trace my shit back for hundreds of years too. Nearly every chick I fuck wants my babies and I'm a selfmade man. Don't be a cunt.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 08:23 PM
0

You need to know if she's willing to follow your lead or do her own thing. If you want to keep the tiny human, you can. If you don't want to keep the tiny human you don't have to. Talk shit out with your gf. Mean while you should get your personal shit squared away and settle in for the long haul, if she wants to keep it. Stay a while and lurk, you've got a lot of research to do my friend.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 08:20 PM
2

I don't know the ins and outs of your relationship. I don't know how strong your ability to lead her is. You are strictly dealing with the feels of a pregnant woman. Come up with a list of things you want to change. Let her know what you want out of your relationship with her and how you want to raise your child. I personally would want my children to have my last name, so I would push hard on this subject.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 06:09 PM
12

Since she's keeping it and you have no say, it's now your responsibility to raise a happy and healthy child. If you arnt happy in the relationship, leave. If you can't bridge the gap with you and her there's no point in faking a relationship. You take care of yourself first and then you can take care of others. You need to be a rock for your future baby.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:52 PM
7

Remake account
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:07 PM
3

I'd tell her to quit being so wishy washy, cuz it's making my dick limp
/r/askTRP13/12/17 06:22 PM
2

Then let her treat you like a boyfriend. Drag that out.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 12:20 AM
1

If it's just to catch up with an old friend and not fuck I think this is a nonissue. You didn't fuck her before either so it's very low dread, especially if your gf knows your history with her. Low levels of dread is a good thing. Would you be cool with your gf meeting a dude like this?
/r/askTRP12/12/17 12:19 AM
2

Are you proposing a LTR? Cuz I'm flattered, seriously.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:50 PM
2

If you really swallowed the pill you would know that sex is lumped in with food, water, and shelter. At this point I would personally play dread game. She needs to know that you arnt getting what you want out of the relationship.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:45 PM
1

Tell her what you want and go from there.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:42 PM
1

You have three options: 1. You do nothing and don't meet this girl. 2. You tell your girlfriend but don't meet the girl. Lower level of dread. 3. You meet the girl with or without your gf. Next level dread. If you don't want to instill dread then option 1. Before you decide I would seriously consider the effects of using dread game in this regard, considering you're monogamous.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:40 PM
1

This is the wrong sub for this dude. You witnessed some small time shady shit at work and write here? Your post is also misleading af
/r/askTRP11/12/17 10:36 PM
1

Worth the risk! Why not step up and take the new job. You can add that to your resume too!
/r/askTRP11/12/17 10:33 PM
0

Dread game
/r/askTRP11/12/17 10:30 PM
2

You can only control yourself. It will only hurt or hinder you to be part of that situation. With this being the second time this is happening and the nature of their relationship being what it is, I think leaving is the healthiest option.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 09:17 PM
3

Third time is the charm bro
/r/askTRP11/12/17 08:49 PM
10

Yes
/r/askTRP11/12/17 06:36 PM
8

You know what's going on. Lay it out! If she brings this degenerate into her life, you're gone. End of story
/r/askTRP11/12/17 06:34 PM
1

It's a fine line sometimes. The more you cross it and realize it, the more you will know where that line is.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 05:15 PM
1

If someone wants to be in your life they will be there. Build yourself and they will come! If they don't have any interest afterwards it's time to move on and game new girls.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 05:06 PM
2

Are the girls giving you solid IOI's? Are they smiling, laughing, and responding to kino? Have you tried instadates? Clearly you're doing something right by getting their numbers! When a girl blows you off do you hit them up atleast one more time? I generally would send at least one flirty text mentioning something about our last encounter, then set it up logistically
/r/askTRP11/12/17 04:56 PM
1

Are you online dating or meeting them in person? Initially, I'd say you arnt building enough rapport.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 04:47 PM
4

Which type is it? What type of treatments are available? Surgery? Frame control is important for sure, but you come first dude. If you need help then you need help. Life is too short to deal with other people's bullshit. It sounds like you've got your life under control, keep it that way. One day at a time brother
/r/askTRP11/12/17 04:44 PM
3

Ignore!
/r/askTRP11/12/17 04:37 PM
1

Go!
/r/askTRP11/12/17 04:37 PM
1

I would have said, "Great! We have something in common now! Let's talk about 3somes."
/r/askTRP09/12/17 12:19 AM
3

Sounds like you need to pursue this guy and make him your girlfriend
/r/askTRP08/12/17 08:34 PM
1

Game new girls fool
/r/askTRP05/12/17 09:58 PM
8

Lol this is glorious! What exactly is the problem??
/r/askTRP05/12/17 09:35 PM
1

His character development is some of the best I've ever read. One of his characters named Kaladin goes through some of the most grueling situations and manages to barely come out of them alive. It's as if you are there with them. Sanderson's writing requires an investment on the readers part. Once you're up to speed the pace quickens and it pays you in dividends. Each character offers a different type of strength. Each one can be looked upto in their own regard.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 09:05 PM
2

Haha what a twist. I didn't see that one coming
/r/askTRP05/12/17 07:41 PM
2

I swallowed the pill and was quite literally blown away at the staggering amount of females that would let me go rawdawg on them. That shit turns me the fuck on, but I still insist on a condom...
/r/askTRP05/12/17 07:22 PM
2

It works with some and doesn't with others. I met this girl and we hit it off. I blew off our date and said I wasn't interested. I hit her up almost 5 months later and she came over and we smashed. Some of the best sex I've ever had. We messaged a little saying that we enjoyed our night and wanted to see each other again. We stopped texting after that. This is just how it goes sometimes.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 07:05 PM
1

I would parody back to her what she said to you initially, by reframing your date going terribly wrong and now you're heart broken too and need some consolation from her. If a meet up happens I would speak about her break up only if she brings it up. I would change the subject by saying something along the lines of wanting to take her mind off of it and just enjoy each others company. Make sure that you have an activity where it's easy to disengage her mind, do something physical.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:45 PM
2

Here's what I would do. I would dm her out of the blue like she did you. I would make up something rediculous about the date you said you went on and essentially repeat back to her what she said to you. She'll feel something and it might reopen the door to a meet up. Her messaging you like that left a small sensitive window of opportunity.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:28 PM
2

The simple answer is you don't do that. The more complex side of that is letting her know you're not going to talk about it but you'll let her enjoy your company
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:24 PM
2

From what you've said it seems to me like she was looking for the d.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:03 PM
1

I think you missed an opportunity here
/r/askTRP05/12/17 05:49 PM
1

Student clubs and organizations. I'm sure you could find a list of great active clubs to join at your school
/r/askTRP05/12/17 05:25 PM
1

Join a club or two. You will easily have interactions with people who share the same interests. You gotta put yourself out there
/r/askTRP05/12/17 05:20 PM
2

I don't text first. If they do text me I will talk though.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 05:14 PM
2

What do you do for hobbies? Do you have a job? I found out this guy at my work likes to run. I ran a half marathon with him and a bunch of shorter runs. He always hits me up to hang out. I've befriended everyone at my work. I smile and make small talk and crack jokes. Acknowledge people in your close proximity. You will find that people will enjoy talking to you if you give them pleasant attention.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 05:10 PM
1

Brandon Sanderson's stormlight archives and mistborn books. They just do something good for my soul
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:55 PM
4

Make friends and approach girls. Life is a grind. Focus on the aspects of your life that you're finding difficult
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:50 PM
17

Tinder is for fucking. Your dick is made for fucking. You have a shitty frame my friend. Sounds like you should be working on yourself
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:45 PM
2

Sounds like she needs the practice
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:32 PM
1

Get a bj then
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:28 PM
1

;)
/r/askTRP05/12/17 03:22 PM
1

People are just nosey. I enjoy making people like that feel awkward. They tend to take the hint and pull back.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 12:00 AM
2

Change the subject, tell them to fuck off, stop talking to them.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 11:56 PM
1

Send her an x and y text for the meet up. If she says yes, good. If she says no but gives alternative, good. If neither of these, then ghost.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:10 PM
1

Yup
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:08 PM
6

Keep taking care of yourself bud. You will find divisions in your relationship with this new mindset of yours. You may even find that this relationship is no longer compatible. Adjust accordingly to your needs
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:06 PM
9

She asked when and where. She made it easy for you. Meet me at x location at y time. It's as simple as that. You're being autistic
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:02 PM
5

Super needy bro. Chicks hate it when you lead.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 08:25 PM
3

Clearly you and Alice arnt fucking any more
/r/askTRP04/12/17 08:23 PM
4

Why the fuck did you not fuck them both!?
/r/askTRP04/12/17 07:57 PM
2

Just do some research on them to optimize better sleep habits. I tend to wake up after every rem cycle. I'm also a fairly light sleeper but I always feel like gold even on very little sleep.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:29 PM
1

As long as you are getting full rem cycles, I wouldn't worry. Stay hydrated my friend.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:13 PM
1

I think you understand the situation quite well and know the steps you should take brother.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:12 PM
3

Jesus christ. Ditch this pathetic oneitis. Move on. Read the side bar. Lift.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 12:00 AM
1

Guess I didn't read your post thoroughly enough, it appears you work with her? If that's the case, don't shit where you eat, next. If she declines your offer and doesn't give a follow up time for a meet up, next.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:47 PM
1

Haha lemme know how it turns out
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:44 PM
1

Just say this, were going bowling on x day at x time.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:22 PM
1

Bowling is great for kino
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:14 PM
3

Solid
/r/askTRP21/11/17 11:29 PM
1

Try it out man. Test the water
/r/askTRP21/11/17 10:08 PM
0

Shit man... you're just talking? Take it a bit further than this and reevaluate.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 09:36 PM
6

Post this on /redpillwoman. They'll set you straight.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 09:34 PM
1

Try your best always. Quit being lazy.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 04:45 PM
2

See multiple girls. That will fix your emotional connection issue.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 04:43 PM
0

It's your table brother, they can fuck off.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 09:13 PM
1

So the fuck what? If you don't have experience navigating through these waters now is you're chance. You will come across more abused girls. My mom was abused as a kid. She's one of the strongest people I know and can read people like no other. It's awesome. She's honestly one of the people I look up to the most.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:50 PM
1

Sounds like you've got you're ducks in a row. I use my friends who are more like brothers, as well as some close family members, as a sounding board and outlet. You cannot do this on the same level with girls, you will lose frame. When it comes to making friends I'm usually the one to initiate anything. Take the reigns and invite them out. If they like you they won't say no. I prefer closer relationships with girls like you do, I have a heavy vetting process for girls I put in this category. You…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:41 PM
3

Just follow the 2/3 rule. Pay attention to her and remember the important things she says about her life.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:33 PM
2

Well maybe he needed air? Lmao
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:31 PM
3

Been down that road. Kick it now
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:27 PM
3

You know... most woman have negative body images too. It sucks that you have to go through with this, but I doubt it will seriously detract from your interactions. If anything it may help girls feel more comfortable with themselves around you once you show them yourself
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:11 PM
-1

I was drowning in pussy at your age. I didn't have TRP/PUA knowledge. Use the info on the side bar.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:08 PM
8

Quit smoking you little fuck
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:06 PM
6

Yes!
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:59 PM
6

I honestly wouldn't over think this too much. Her hamster got the better of her. I don't think you gave her enough plausible deniability, because of what you wrote about her saying you have the same friend circles.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 11:56 PM
1

Actually ask your mom to drive
/r/askTRP16/11/17 11:22 PM
0

Step 1. Chloroform Step 2. Trunk Step 3. Fancy all you can eat steak dinner friend.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 11:21 PM
5

Shit happens. You weren't able to clear her LMR. Take a look at things you could have done differently. What shit/comfort tests did she give you? Chalk this up as a learning experience.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 11:20 PM
1

It's just going to take some time man, you'll find something good eventually
/r/askTRP16/11/17 06:47 PM
1

Fully embrace the redpill. Consume everything in the sidebar and moar. You need to reestablish your frame and lift heavy weights. The iron will sort you out my friend.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:53 PM
2

Absolutely!
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:50 PM
4

If you cant bridge the gap with this woman alone, can you speak with a manager in confidence about this situation? If it's seriously degraded your work experience I would consider moving to a different job.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:07 PM
1

I honestly feel that telling myself, 'I am enough' until I stopped thinking about it made all the difference. When I approach a girl or I'm navigating a tough situation I will remind myself that I am enough. Sometimes with work you have to be outcome dependent, but pretty much every other situation doesn't need to be. Take it slow and build your confidence around this.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:05 PM
5

After doing so, deep down inside he wants to know what she wants. It's validation OP. Crush that shit like an ugly spider.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 10:06 PM
26

Don't plate. Don't text. This post screams oneitis.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 09:10 PM
2

What a great read
/r/askTRP15/11/17 06:32 PM
8

Beta AF. Cut contact.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:03 AM
1

Set up a meet, if it goes well then add on social media
/r/askTRP14/11/17 06:39 PM
1

Pull all the monies out of the bank first and start selling other assets for cash
/r/askTRP14/11/17 06:30 PM
1

Only text for logistics bruv!
/r/askTRP14/11/17 06:27 PM
1

This is glorious! I've been there too brother
/r/askTRP14/11/17 06:16 PM
6

This is a good post for /redpillwoman
/r/askTRP14/11/17 03:55 AM
5

The goal is to get laid. Success! You don't have to control everything.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 12:24 AM
7

Plates are for fucking, what's the problem exactly?
/r/askTRP14/11/17 12:00 AM
1

Good luck my friend
/r/askTRP13/11/17 07:02 PM
1

Always have the next step planned out. Tell her, now that we've done x were going to do y. You were talking with her about things you could do next after the walk? You both decided you would go to the roof? In my mind if she even goes to the apartment building she's nonverbally telling you she will come into your apartment.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 07:00 PM
1

You nonverbally asked her a question in the elevator and asked if she wanted to get pizza later.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 06:48 PM
2

With what you've written it feels to me like you didn't lead enough. I don't ask the girls opinions on what to do. I say were going to do X. If she doesn't want to do it she wont. It also feels like you lost frame and she knew it. When you text don't ask, tell. If she declines a meet up without giving another time then you soft next.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 06:30 PM
2

That is great man it sounds like you're staying physically and mentally Healthy. When it comes to escalating with women the best thing I've found is to not be outcome dependent, it's just to have fun. When you go out with a girl changing venues creates a time distortion effect that helps her feel like she's known you longer. Playful push/pull and establish kino. I like using tinder, but this is my run down: 1. Have them come straight to your house. This requires that you have built enough rappor…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 06:22 PM
1

Are you getting enough exercise?
/r/askTRP13/11/17 05:55 PM
1

Sounds like there's a disconnect between your professional and personal life. How much do you smoke?
/r/askTRP13/11/17 05:28 PM
5

You're lacking abundance mentality. If you go hang with them you will just be validation for her.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 05:17 PM
2

Did your conversation with the waitress play out as dread game?
/r/askTRP13/11/17 05:15 PM
3

You're just her validation. Withdraw attention
/r/askTRP13/11/17 05:12 PM
3

Sounds like she's just using you for validation
/r/askTRP13/11/17 05:08 PM
1

Going for a hug in a car is fucking awkward. Find another way to kino
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:40 PM
1

I don't care who you are, if you're in my space I will acknowledge you.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:38 AM
1

You next flaky girls.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:38 AM
1

You're just going to have to embrace it.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:23 AM
1

One of my ladies tells me I'm cute and it always ends with me destroying her. Atleast they don't tell you that you're fuck ugly.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 01:24 AM
3

You honestly hate women? Mosquitoes are certainly a nuisance, but I don't hate them. They fill a niche otherwise they wouldn't exist.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 10:20 PM
1

Mystery, Alaska
/r/askTRP11/11/17 10:15 PM
2

Mike Meyers said it in a movie and it stuck in my mind like glue
/r/askTRP11/11/17 10:12 PM
1

It's up to you man, if you ended on a good note I don't see a huge problem with talking her through some stuff, in b4 being an emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 10:11 PM
7

If this is truly how you feel at your core, this is your problem. Read the rational male. Understanding how men and women operate on a biological and psychological level is not rocket surgery.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 10:08 PM
2

You have no idea
/r/askTRP11/11/17 06:02 PM
2

Roger.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 06:01 PM
3

This is disrespect. Act accordingly.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:55 PM
-2

Honestly, any woman worthy of LTR status will need to be groomed to some degree
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:53 PM
0

28
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:52 PM
2

Introduce with a handshake, build rapport by getting her to laugh, push/pull, tell her you enjoyed talking with her. Get her number and go to town!
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:52 PM
4

Stop drinking now. Moderate your shit. If you're doing this shit while drinking your sober life is out of balance. You should never get to this point
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:50 PM
5

Hard next this girl. You've lost your turn. Focus on yourself, get rid of this oneitis, and spin a couple plates.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:48 PM
-1

Fairly easy. I'm grooming a 26yo.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:46 PM
1

Establish a time and location for a hang out and keep convo to a minimum. Establish kino early on and get her laughing. Then take her some where else like dinner. By this point she should be receptive to whatever else you would like to do
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:44 PM
0

Id say it really depends on the ex
/r/askTRP11/11/17 01:11 AM
1

What do you want out of this relationship? Do you want her to be the mother of your children? You can most certainly hold this new frame and it will alter the dynamics of your relationship.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 11:00 PM
2

Hey man, it sounds like you are taking care of yourself. I wouldn't worry about a thing! Don't be outcome dependent. You are the prize.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 10:57 PM
2

If you feel that hanging with that group is toxic, I would tell him that you're down to hang with him and not the group.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:45 PM
6

You've done well sir! See if she scoffs at paying her share the next time you take her out!
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:43 PM
4

Either plate her or next.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:41 PM
2

This is like wading into a pool of shit. There shouldn't be any 'we' goin on. You lead. Cut contact once date is set. If she doesnt bring it up, send one message on the day of said date, 'I look forward to seeing you later at x time'.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:21 PM
0

Buy her some braces you beta fuck
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:15 PM
2

I would have said some shit like this
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:06 PM
3

Wow, you've gone full retard! Text for logistics only
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:04 PM
3

Cut all contact. You have oneitis. Work on spinning new plates.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 07:47 PM
5

What a twist!
/r/askTRP10/11/17 07:44 PM
1

Give it a whirl
/r/askTRP10/11/17 06:53 PM
2

If you're worried about this you're too invested. This is clearly affecting your frame. You are the prize.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 06:27 PM
13

Fuck them, build your own circle.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 06:16 PM
1

This is how I roll
/r/askTRP10/11/17 05:05 PM
5

Why would you elevate a girl like that to LTR status?
/r/askTRP10/11/17 05:01 PM
1

That's a good video man! Truly you must watch their actions and not project your ideals on them.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:58 PM
1

I trust my friends and family. If you can't trust them, you need to cut that cancer out.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:44 PM
1

Options are good man!
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:32 PM
0

I'd next
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:56 PM
1

You're being a faggot
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:26 PM
8

I could not would not eat green eggs and ham
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:22 PM
1

Join some type of trade and journey out. Go to school while doing said trade. if shit doesnt pan out for what you went to school for you're a journeyman in a trade and can work anywhere in that field.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:21 PM
1

Not swallowing
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:18 PM
2

Happiness isn't the point of life my young friend. I believe purpose is. Find your mission.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:21 PM
22

Hard next and put that shit behind you. Chalk it up as a learning experience.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:20 PM
1

What is the method of communication?
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:18 PM
1

Initially she was going to come to my place. She said she was sick and didn't want to get me sick and asked when we would meet up. I told her to meet me for bowling at 5 on this day and she said okay. We bowled 3 games. Kino was first established with a handshake when I met her outside, I put my hand on her back as we went inside the doors. Each time we would take our turn bowling either of us would sit down next to the other and establish kino. Once we finished our 3 games I asked if she was hu…
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:54 PM
1

The side bar won't do a thing for you unless you can internalize it. Once you internalize these concepts and practice them is when you will realize it's quite easy to live the life you want to live.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 08:47 PM
3

It just depends on what you want to do. Usually I take a girl out, but we go several places. Last week had a girl over to my place and I bought wine and she brought food. Took another girl out this week and we went bowling and had dinner. I paid for the bowling and she paid for dinner.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 08:41 PM
3

Don't worry about what's up with it. Move on. The sooner you internalize this and focus on your needs the better.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 05:49 PM
2

Invite her out, if by the third date your dicks not in her then next.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 05:47 PM
0

I'm not going to lie man, you could make a great living early on by getting into a trade. Get into a trade journey out, get your own place and take night classes for whatever degree you want.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 04:52 PM
3

Yup, just stop jackin it and start fucking.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 04:44 PM
1

You get out if it what you put into it.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 12:18 AM
2

I would not tolerate her behavior in the slightest. If I couldn't resolve this issue one on one I would go up the chain until it was fixed. If it is what you say it is OP then there is nothing wrong with what you've done.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 11:55 PM
1

I honestly enjoy going straight to 11 when I'm out and about. IDGAF
/r/askTRP08/11/17 11:50 PM
2

Spinning a plate is just seeing a girl with no form of commitment. However, to even call her a plate you must be actively fucking her. Abundance mentality is an aspect of your frame. Abundance mentality doesn't just appear. It takes work to build it into your frame. It is knowing that you are enough, you're the prize, you're the prince. Think to yourself all day everyday, through every interaction, "I am enough." There will be a day When you actually feel this instead of forcing yourself to thin…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 10:02 PM
1

Can you clarify your question a little more?
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:44 PM
3

Spinning plates is not a trick. Abundance mentality should be an unwavering part of your frame. Spin a couple plates, drop them, pick up new ones. If you find a girl you like more than the others and you've vetted her, pull her a little closer. The rational male provides insights into how women in general operate. If you're having difficulty understanding why these concepts work to sustain attraction between you and the girls you see, you need to delve a little deeper into these practices. I gua…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:36 PM
1

They keep inviting you... what's the problem? You are enough.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:25 PM
4

Don't be such a pussy. I'm a long distance runner and I lift. It feels good running around looking like the hulk
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:24 PM
0

Sounds like you're trying to lay the fatty too
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:56 AM
3

Just fucking walk away from this chick OP
/r/askTRP08/11/17 03:13 AM
-1

What's wrong with feminism? Jeez. Just red pill your daughter as she grows up. You should be spending more time with her than anyone. Don't worry though, girls are naturally redpill.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:54 AM
1

Just say hello and talk to everyone in your proximity. Remark on obvious things at first. You've got the lifting down it sounds like. Engage with everyone. Once you can banter with people it makes it easier to make friends and talk to attractive girls.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:46 AM
5

Lol! Don't follow any advice besides this! Just bring your mom. The reactions of the people will be much better.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:42 AM
6

I usually agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 11:48 PM
1

Id make her buy beer and food
/r/askTRP06/11/17 10:21 PM
1

Is your mom hot?
/r/askTRP06/11/17 07:52 PM
2

You are playing the game, you will lose frame when you apologize. Her text there is a shit test. You can get another date. I would agree and amplify to a rediculous level. Remind her that she kissed you back.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 06:58 AM
1

Mario probably gave full commitment. If he stated he was going to see other girls, wouldn't of been an issue
/r/askTRP06/11/17 04:10 AM
11

If she comes back you must move her from LTR to fwb/plate. She can never regain her previous status
/r/askTRP06/11/17 04:08 AM
4

Spend time with this girl and learn how to handle LMR. If a girl doesn't put out by the 3rd date I generally will next. You will find more women so don't put this one on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:27 PM
1

Take her to do something after sushi. Something physical. Bowling. Dancing. Go for a walk. Kick her with your feet. It's easy man. Honestly, just go into this with no expectations. If you've done your reading on here you will see Windows of opportunity. Seize them. Be calm and confident. Just think the whole time, 'I am the prize'
/r/askTRP05/11/17 01:00 AM
1

Build rapport by getting her talking and laughing. Establish kino. Put your foot on her foot. If at a bar make sure you're touching her leg with your leg. High fives are a super easy first way to establish touch. Then isolate her and go for the kiss. If she's laughing and you've had good kino she will be receptive to the kiss. Try to change the venue too. Take her to another place, either drive or have her drive. Once she's in the car the kiss and escalation becomes easy. It's funny how this wor…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:48 AM
3

I'd be surprised if you couldn't find someone looking for a roommate
/r/askTRP03/11/17 10:52 PM
7

Toss your goddamn oneitis in the dumpster. Move within walking distance to your school and immerse yourself.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 10:42 PM
1

The solution then would be to build more rapport with these girls. Try to arrange up another meet. If they flake, then ghost. If the girl flakes and doesn't give another date for a meet, then I always next.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 10:38 PM
4

If that's what you're going for, then ask.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:15 PM
1

Me to me: "Fucking bang those bitches throwing themselves at you, you beta fuck!"
/r/askTRP03/11/17 06:15 PM
3

Practice, practice, practice! Use a mirror. Use a voice recording app on your phone. Watch Hitler propaganda videos!
/r/askTRP03/11/17 06:14 PM
1

You work with her?
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:56 PM
2

Yeah man, just hang out and do cool stuff. He will pick up on a lot. You are going to be one of the most positive influences in his life. He will always look up to you.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:41 PM
1

So if it's your house, you tell her to pack her shit and hit the road?
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:57 PM
1

Embrace it! Also, it's only gay if the balls touch!
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:51 PM
1

I'm curious, what would you say to her if this indeed happened?
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:49 PM
4

Sounds like your doing a good job as is. There's really no point in pushing him hard at this point. Let him be a fucking kid for a while.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:48 PM
2

It's your life brother. If you're feeling it, do it. She seems to be carrying her weight.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:07 PM
2

Quit worrying about this and move the fuck on
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:56 PM
8

I wouldn't even worry about it. You're the prize. If they don't reach out to you they don't deserve your attention.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:53 PM
1

You must pull yourself out of bed and exercise! You should be eating healthy. Get a happy light! It's not something that goes away overnight. It can take months or even decades to push through. You just need a mission
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:18 PM
8

I like choice 'A', but I think I'm going to phone a friend...
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:16 PM
1

It might just be one of those things where you have to adjust your reading to his writing style. 25 pages isn't enough to find a groove. He continues to dig deeper to explain all of his tipics. Find an audiobook of it
/r/askTRP03/11/17 06:08 AM
8

Yes
/r/askTRP03/11/17 06:03 AM
5

It's a good place to start man. Honestly, I've found that, even with my best friends, I'm usually the one initiating stuff. I don't mind now. I used to. But now whenever I want to go out i have a handful of people to choose from
/r/askTRP03/11/17 12:18 AM
7

If people arnt inviting you to do shit, then you do the inviting
/r/askTRP02/11/17 11:38 PM
3

Hit her up once more. if she dips then move on.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 11:37 PM
2

I was doing some reading and a found my favorite response to that question, "I'm looking for a girl who looks good naked covered in tomato sauce." I've said this a couple times now and girls think it's hilarious
/r/askTRP02/11/17 10:11 PM
14

The only thing that makes her a LTR is your commitment brother. I don't think the term default should apply in any way shape or form. It's all a choice.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 04:24 PM
3

The thing you are missing is life experience. What you have access to is dynamite. Don't blow yourself up.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 04:58 AM
2

You sound like a kid. What I gather from this is that you arnt focusing on yourself enough.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 04:56 AM
1

Honestly it doesn't matter
/r/askTRP02/11/17 04:54 AM
3

Just keep jackin it man, someone else will get the tail.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 12:30 AM
1

No, she's riding chads dick this very moment.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:05 PM
1

Listen guy, you have two options: Either you do or you dont. You've already invested yourself too much.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:03 PM
1

My the force be with you
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:41 PM
2

You have zero abundance mentality. You have oneitis. My advise to you at this point: read all of the sidebar! Work on yourself in the mean time. There will always be more chicks. For the short term, if you really want to do this, you will most likely fuck it up, but here goes: isolate and escalate. Lead her off so it's just the both of you. Get her laughing with some kino thrown in. Kiss. Start there. Always be ready to walk away.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:38 PM
1

You read all of that in a day?
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:27 PM
1

Read the side bar! All of it! Then ask questions.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:20 PM
8

Did you read the side bar? I recommended at the very least you read the rational male. TRP isn't about hurting people. It's about you taking care of you, with every advantage possible. Did you go to the gym in this week? What exactly did you do with your time 'unplugged'? For me, when I found this place and read everything, i looked back and wanted to both laugh and cry. I know what I've done, and I know what I would have done then with the information I have now. I have no regrets because it's …
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:14 PM
1

Do you feel beta for going for this chick?
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:57 PM
2

I hope you are lifting.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:29 PM
12

I don't understand your question. Why is there even an issue? She fucks and cooks, what else do you want?
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:27 PM
3

Men tend to get these feelings much sooner than woman. It's good that you recognize these things. I am dealing with this as well and I just take a step back and look at it objectively. I've met a few great girls and I was crushing hard, it's fading now. You just gotta squash that shit, like a giant ugly fucking spider.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:23 PM
2

Get your own fuggin date, you lazy ass.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:43 PM
1

It's only impossible if you don't try
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:38 PM
5

Get a fucking ladder and get you some tall girls!
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:12 PM
2

Tell her she's pretty and.bring her flowers doof
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:28 AM
2

Swallow the pill bro and tell her you arnt looking for exclusively, but would like to continue to see her. I would do so face to face
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:25 AM
4

Plow the 6s until your confidence can land you 8s and 9s
/r/askTRP31/10/17 10:25 PM
5

Now that you got all that chatting with her out of the way, smash. See if you like it. If she's too needy afterwards just ignore, and then fuck when you want to.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 09:21 PM
2

It was strange for me at first too, just be honest and tell them you want to split the bill. You can also tell them to get the first round and you'll get the second.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:30 PM
2

White girls arnt any fucking different than any other colored girls. If you don't have time to do some basic reading, there's really no point in being here.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:11 PM
1

Read the sidebar and the rational male
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:05 PM
1

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6pvg7e/a_list_of_approach_invitations/ Use this to broaden your horizons. Anytime you see a green light, approach. Don't be outcome dependent, just say hello.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:50 PM
3

I enjoy using tinder and it gets me laid. IDGAF is key. You're going to have to jump through a ton of hoops here, so don't limit your experience to tinder. You need to be able to approach in the real world. If you do use tinder, attempt to get her number within 6 messages. Then immideatly tell them when and where your going to do whatever with them. If they accept or decline and reschedule, great. If they decline and don't reschedule, ghost.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:42 PM
5

You should already be ready for them to leave.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 04:37 PM
8

Isolate and escalate. Find a reason to get her alone, start kino, kiss.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 04:15 PM
1

Why would you talk to bitches that don't read books?
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:03 AM
3

Shit I could do that in a week
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:46 AM
0

At this point he's seeing if he's interested in them and not the other way around
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:45 AM
3

Is the plate down for a 3some?
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:43 AM
3

Then ignore what she says. Praise her when she does things you like. If you just can't take it anymore you can always walk away and Jackhammer another woman.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 09:48 PM
3

Everyone has their own life. Once you swallow the red pill, I mean really swallow it, you will look at yourself and your interpersonal relationships differently. If you are enjoying your relationship with this woman and are not seeing serious red flags, why would you dump her? The red flags are what you should watch out for. If your goal is a LTR and a family, good for you. Just remember though, you can't be afraid to walk away at the drop of a hat.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 09:45 PM
3

Are you hitting it? If you are, is it good?
/r/askTRP30/10/17 09:40 PM
1

Man, I think you can still salvage this. The next time you see her, if you can get yourself isolated, just give her a kiss.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:33 PM
9

Just hard next and walk away. That's it.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 04:49 PM
3

Dude if you want to do it just do it. Focus on logistics, you've done well
/r/askTRP30/10/17 04:07 PM
1

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2qfw0e/guide_to_monk_mode/ I like this guide, it's fairly simple to internalize. How long have you been in monk mode? Perhaps you're ready to exit? If and when you are ready to engage, I wouldn't focus on the outcome. This is about you taking care of you.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 04:04 PM
3

Sounds like you got the itis
/r/askTRP29/10/17 11:56 AM
2

Turn what they say around on them. Had girl over last night, we fucked twice and took a shower. Her: You have beautiful eyes Me: How are you just now noticing this? She found it hilarious. Just practice spinning things around whenever you talk to somebody. Just smile/smirk when you do it to help set the tone
/r/askTRP29/10/17 03:00 AM
2

Dude, you should always meet chicks at night. Stand her up and reschedule that shit
/r/askTRP28/10/17 03:05 AM
2

Are you autistic?
/r/askTRP28/10/17 03:01 AM
1

You should only wear flippyfloppies, I don't care if it's winter.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:23 PM
2

Also it's a free pdf so now you can have to books
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:22 PM
1

I wouldn't say anything like this. You shouldn't have to say anything at all really. Actions speak louder than words
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:16 PM
3

You shouldn't leave it up for discussion like that. Just say, "I have to be somewhere, I can't bring you. Just make yourself comfortable and I'll be home later." I wouldn't even bring this up until she's at your place man.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:14 PM
2

Let her stay at your place, but go out anyway. Make excuse not to bring her. Engage new plate, then see what happens.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:10 PM
2

100%
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:12 PM
3

I can easily see the appeal of having 2 LTRs, thoroughly vetted of course for optimum compatibility, but AWALT. There is just never a sure thing in life and he must be able to drop them and walk away at anytime. I see what you mean though, OP will never be able to avoid AWALT. Abundance mentality should always be maintained for a healthy frame.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:57 PM
3

You should re-read the rational male. TRP doesn't tell you to not get into a LTR. LTR/marriage is Hardmode. Rollo clearly states that he is married. You must think someone like him is a cuck?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:40 PM
1

You re bypassing the FWB stage. Plates are for fucking. FWB' s are girls you will actually go out and do things with.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:22 PM
0

Exactly, why's he worrying about a girlfriend and a piece of pussy?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:00 AM
2

Get the fuck out there!
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:43 AM
3

Work on your frame, focus on yourself, lift. You will have people begin to orbit you.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:35 AM
0

Take accountability for your self. You know what you want. Just remember AWALT. If you dump your girl your sexy lab partner might laugh her way onto a new cock.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:33 AM
1

Haha that's pretty slick man! I'll keep this on my mind
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:02 AM
0

She is a personal trainer there.. The IOI's are unmistakable.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 10:42 PM
2

It's RedPill hard mode man, I've been there. I didnt have this community while I was married. Now that im free and educated in TRP, i can see the things i would have done differently. However, I dont regret anything You've done enough reading to understand AWALT. You know the effects of loss of frame in a serious relationship. Whatever you decide I wish you the best.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 10:31 PM
2

What are the chances both of your highly focused careers will take you in different directions? Id say high. Will she take care of the kids when you eventually knock her up? There will be an imbalance.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:34 PM
1

I'm just now discovering this, it's fucking wild. I think it adds a comfort level to the interaction, because they know that you have serious priorities. If the female doesn't have kids of her own it adds a dimension that they are not familiar with. What are some of the things you do with girls when they come over later, pre-sex of course, to set the tone? I have a new girl coming over Friday and were going to play some boardgames and wrestle!
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:14 PM
11

metoo I was at the airport in an elevator with my child in her stroller. An elderly lady with a Batman voice eye raped me and said, "You're a young lookin' daddy." I felt extremely uncomfortable for the next three seconds as the doors opened.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 08:21 PM
1

Read a book 30 minutes before bed
/r/askTRP26/10/17 07:54 PM
1

Yes. I have full custody of my 4 year old daughter. I let her know and told her to come over once she was asleep. My time is fucking valuable, I'm not going to waste it on taking her out and spending money. The perfect place to escalate physically is on my couch. This part is where you will experience LMR. I'm still navigating the LMR waters.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:39 PM
5

Roger that
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:15 PM
5

I'm on the fence about this. if you have a girl showing serious interest at the gym and you follow through, would you consider this shitting where you eat?
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:12 PM
1

Were busy, we don't have time to deal with other people's shit
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:06 PM
6

Dude if you want to smash, hit her up
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:05 PM
5

Ignore it
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:03 PM
1

Adventurous/rediculous is the best approach. I dont take it seriously, but I wont hesitate to pounce if shes receptive like that. I didn't go too much longer on that one before I asked for her number. I immideatly told her to come over, I don't ask. I always get her digits asap
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:18 PM
2

My opener is a screening question. The girls always reply and if they flirt back it will separate them from girls who are easily offended. Then gauge the responses and escalate.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 04:32 PM
1

Ill give you a play-by-play of this girl I talked with. She came over Tuesday night and it went smashingly. She's incredibly attractive and fucking stacked, nearly 6ft tall, with possibility the best ass I've seen. Me: Hey *****, wanna come over and fold my laundry while I play video games? Her: Finally someone knows how I want to spend my Sundays! I'm on my way! Me: Yeah, most people don't get it! Bring those sunglasses with you too Her: Anything else you would like sir? Me: good girl, can you …
/r/askTRP26/10/17 04:30 PM
5

All I put down is my height man. It's effective. Then I tease the shit out of them, by teasing you can get them to reveal things about themselves. You can drop small amounts of info about yourself to them and make their hamster spin to decrease the likelihood of them flaking for a meet up. Just practice disarming their pointed questions, be mysterious.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:50 PM
4

You're going to hurt yourself and others in the process. Recovery from addiction doesn't take just months. You need to sit down and reforge some neural pathways.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:38 AM
5

I've been to the bottom as well. I think you should prioritize self-actualization. Step back from girls for a bit and just do you.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:24 AM
12

Honestly brother, I would highly recommend monk for a while. It would be a good idea to find some outside support so you can work on your overall wellness. You are playing with dynamite
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:04 AM
13

Bark at her and hump her leg
/r/askTRP25/10/17 10:59 PM
8

Let her go and sever contact. Read the entire side bar and the rational male.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 10:57 PM
1

Improvements: Third week in the gym, I got a solid baseline for all my muscle groups now and the intense soreness is gone so I can go full throttle in the gym. Met an attractive woman at the gym who began orbiting me and I reciprocated with attention. Not sure if I should pursue. Is this considered shitting where I eat? I pulled a girl to my place and escalated, but was met with LMR after I moved my hand from the outside of her undies to the inside. Continued the push pull but just couldn't clos…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 05:58 PM
2

I didn't have a true custody battle, but I did manage to convince my ex-wife to give me custody of my daughter. It is an emotionally draining experience and the best thing I can recommend is to surround yourself with the best support system you can. These people that are close to me are what helped me get to the other side. I wish you the best brother! Just take it one day at a time
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 05:39 PM
1

You've got nothing to lose by doing this.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 10:07 PM
3

Fuck all these nay sayers! For you just doing you, get a dog. Learn how to love, your dog will be the most loyal animal to you on the planet.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 06:39 AM
1

Yup
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:55 AM
2

I don't ask to meet up. I tell them to come over and do my laundry. It fucking works.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:44 AM
2

Surely you can think of someone to vouch for you; use your grandma with a different last name ffs or one of grammys old friends
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:40 AM
1

Put on those IDGAF goggles and wear them with pride
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:38 AM
1

Sit him down and have the talk with him
/r/askTRP22/10/17 09:48 PM
5

Trp to me is a path to self-actualization. It provides a way to understand the world around you in a healthy way. It can be used to navagate relationships on any level. What you do with this information is part of your life journey.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 08:53 PM
1

Sounds good
/r/askTRP21/10/17 08:47 PM
1

I would be interested in reading through that
/r/askTRP21/10/17 08:38 PM
9

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5ossjl/tips_from_my_tinder_success_most_can_be/ This is a solid approach
/r/askTRP21/10/17 06:32 AM
1

Only 40 margin notes and 15 reads??
/r/askTRP21/10/17 06:28 AM
1

Try again or just walk away man
/r/askTRP20/10/17 09:34 PM
2

I would highly recommend that you iron out a solid resume and cover letter. I'd keep it short and sweet and not go more than one page for each.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 04:58 PM
1

Honestly, you're over thinking. You're doing just fine. Keep doing what you are doing and don't emotionally invest.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 04:03 PM
2

Find a new job right now, you're stagnating.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 03:59 PM
1

Id vote twice on this if I could
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:53 AM
1

I've been thinking about what you have said here. Unfortunately I have to distance my daughter from her mom so she can develop a strong sense of self. My daughter has a handful of incredible female rolemodles that in the interim are much healthier than her mother right now. I will make sure my daughter is emotionally healthy and when the time comes I will bridge that gap between her and her mother.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 04:31 PM
1

I ran a half marathon and began a program at the gym. Soft nexted a girl I've been seeing for the past few months and started spinning a new plate. Finished the rational male and began reading the art of seduction. I've been using drinking and smoking as a crutch. Got drunk one day and smoked another day this week and really realized for the first time the debilitating effects it truly has on my frame. Working on selfcontrol and maintaining frame.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 04:17 PM
2

Wow this is exactly what I'm looking for!
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 05:29 PM
1

Thanks for the tips, im checking into Pomodoro now
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 05:06 PM
1

Thanks for the advise! My work keeps me active and I would exercise at home, but I went and joined a gym and I'm beginning my lifting program. I can do 3-4 days a week at the gym. Can you recommend a resource to use so I can implement a solid workout routine?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 04:58 PM
1

Swallowing TRP opened my eyes to things I've felt and noticed on a subconscious level. I felt like I was in control of my life, but it's whole new ball game now! How did you guys manage to keep a set schedule for yourself to get you to where you are now? There's a ton of stuff to manage in life and I don't want to bury myself in the process.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 04:09 PM
3

First date, never talked about my kid, banged her in the back seat of my car with a carseat and she didn't ask about my kid until after ;)
/r/askTRP08/10/17 04:55 AM
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