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| 3 | What's our "Elevator Pitch?" How would you distill down everything here and make someone aware of the possibility of a red pill world in 30 seconds or less?Human's are nothing more than animals, with the foremost biological imperative to procreate. Based on the limiting factors of each genders biology, what are the most optimum tactics for procreation for each gender? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 09:37 PM |
| 5 | I don't hate women, I just don't respect them, and unless many changes within their gender come about, I never will.Do you also not respect a dog for being a dog? Squirrel for being a squirrel? Do you not respect a predator/scavenger that steals a chicken from the hen house? Don't expect a woman to be a man, and the issue of respect isn't an issue. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/14 03:37 PM |
| 1 | dating a feministInteresting. Thanks for the article. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/14 04:29 PM |
| 6 | dating a feministI'm thinking college induction has more to do with K-12 schools oriented better toward girls, allowing them to perform better on tests that are also oriented toward girls. Guys aren't getting into college because a) they don't want to and b) they aren't learning/testing well in the current school systems. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/14 03:31 PM |
| 3 | From male-catholic to state funded - A look at the differences in our youths educationWent to a public high school and it was excellent. There was no bias or slant. Went to a private religious college and I wouldn't say it was a major player in daily life, but the feminist culture was much more prevalent. Its not the case with everyone everywhere, but my public high school was much better at education than my private religious college. Its not a public education vs private education thing. It's the period of time that people get a taste of power in their lives and then seek to ac… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/14 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Did you have a trigger that pulled you into TRP? If so, what was it?My trigger was watching my "douchebag" friend rolling in pussy shortly after I had gone through a massive blue-pill fallout with a chick that I had fallen for completely. Looking back on the situation I had inadvertently ran some fairly decent RP game on this chick who had started dating a friend. I completely abandoned bro-code. Slept with her a number of times before her and my buddy got even remotely intimate. And thought I was winning her away from him...slowly working my way back into a bet… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/14 04:20 PM |
| 3 | I need help...Make your intentions and expectations known. You shouldn't be investing money into this chick, but if you must, define what you will and will not pay for. If these are things she's not willing to give you, then "friend-zone" her and tell her she needs to stay somewhere else. If you are worried about the child, state that if she brings the father back into the kids life(regardless of whether she's with you or not) then you'll call child protective services. Do not support someone that is blatantl… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/14 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Porn casting director breaks feminist hamster with a few simple questionsWhy are we assuming that this isn't scripted or edited in a certain fashion to present something to men that would be pleasing to men? We have plenty evidence of hamstering by this particular individual...but it's laughable for us to even consider this as a useful, reliable, and relevant source of anecdotal evidence. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/14 04:29 PM |
| 7 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!Yes, TRP vs RPW. Was curious if there were any big differences. Frequently I'll run across instances where women are essentially considered a small step above a monkey in intellectual capacity and it's not worth the time to educate on trp principles. Just fuck it and move on... While we are all strongly influenced by biology, women still have a brain and can use it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 10:31 PM |
| 10 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!Are there any ideologies that are coming out of this sub that you guys disagree with? What are they and is there any evidence that provides weight to your disagreement? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Does The Manosphere Really Want A Solution?It doesn't really seem like a "solution" is necessary. Following a red pill mentality is showing to open doors many thought closed. It's a swiss army knife that cuts through a lot of bullshit in the current environment. Why would you want that to fall apart when you have keys to the kingdom? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 10:55 PM |
| 0 | Why is a man who rejected me still basically acting like my beta orbiter?Why after this guy? Next him. Hundreds of other guys out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/13 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Can some one explain what the term hamster means?It's not necessarily the greatest metaphor, but mainly it's about a spinning wheel and inventing bullshit justifications to fit your desired outcome. A hamster running its wheel, doing a lot of work but getting nowhere. It's not exclusively a woman thing and it takes rational thought and intellect to combat it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/13 09:04 PM |
| 9 | What do you think of this: Debunking the war on menMy mother called the cops on my father for DV because grabbed her shoulders and moved her out of the way so he could leave. She was upset at his viewing of pornography and was confrontational about it. He said get out of my way and she would not. So he moved her and left the room. She called the cops and got him arrested and charged. Later, this charge was preventing him from securing a job that they desperately needed, so they had to jump through hoops and a number of interviews where she had t… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/13 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Learn How to Playsigh you're just... ugh Not capable of thinking beyond the end of your dick? Best way to impregnate women, sure... Best way to ensure that those children survive? No. You don't even have to imagine the environment this would create because history paints the picture for you. Hunting and gathering. Raping and pillaging. It was less effective than setting up fort and then fucking. Raping as a means for procreation creates the environment of constant brutality. Have to worry about holding on to you… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/13 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Monogamous Relationship Advice?Read the sidebar and explore the links. There is material there for LTR. Mostly its about maintaining a frame. Keeping yourself attractive and respected by your mate. Essentially...don't stop being attractive otherwise they'll stop being attracted to you and the only thing keeping you together is a promise that they often can benefit from breaking. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/13 08:30 PM |
| -2 | Learn How to PlayYou're cute ;) When you come back to reality let me know and we can continue the discussion. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Learn How to PlayNotice I didn't start a new post complaining about it. I remarked on a poorly thought out point, which is what we should be doing. I provided the OP a reason why I was calling it out so he'd know if was less of a personal attack and more of a "don't let poorly thought out points sit without being challenged". | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Learn How to PlayThe fact that we are here typing this is empirical evidence against what you're saying. Is it? When I say rape. I'm not talking about the current rape culture bullshit where a chick is down to fuck and then decides it made her uncomfortable 2 months later. I'm talking about legitimate rape. I'm making a claim that rape isn't as efficient means of distributing genetic material as not raping someone to distribute genes. My claim is based on what's brought our civilization to where it currently is.… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 10:49 PM |
| 0 | Learn How to PlayHm but logically how would refraining from hurting another person mean that I won't get hurt? I suppose in the case of murder, you may wish to not get hurt in jail. Or in the case of punching somebody, you may not wish to get punched back. But in general, there are situations when there would be no consequences to me, yet I refrain from performing those actions because of empathy. This is where the now vs later thing comes in. If we lived in a world that allowed people to run up and jack people … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 10:40 PM |
| 0 | Learn How to PlayI guess maybe we have a different understanding of what empathy and morality is. I don't believe in absolute morality. Things just are. Morality is defined by what best suites myself and the continuation of my genetic line. There are behaviors that allow for more successful distributing of genes and rape is not one of them. In the same way, I don't really know if empathy is anything more than intellect. We can understand that certain things are not pleasurable, thus when someone else experiences… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 10:28 PM |
| -4 | Learn How to PlayRape doesn't mean you have to kill her. What value does this statement have? Of course it doesn't mean you have to kill her. What would the purpose of the post be, except for some retarded means to discredit what I said. It's not female logic... to logically deduce that you were trying to in some way refute what I said...while simultaneously being a fucking retard. lol dude. lol... | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 10:19 PM |
| -4 | Learn How to PlayAre you really trying to question a post that is providing justification against rape? Against legitimate rape? There'd be all kinds of death. Women death. Men death. Rape as a means for procreation is retarded. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 10:09 PM |
| -5 | Learn How to PlayRape doesn't make sense. We've evolved to be the most dominant species on the planet and we don't rape because the practice wasn't the most effective means of distributing genetic material. The society that runs around raping has died off because there was no ability to ensure the survival of their genes. If that wasn't the case...we'd have packs of your alphas running around raping people. From a purely selfish standpoint, there is so much wrong with allowing rape, that I cannot understand how … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 10:03 PM |
| -4 | Learn How to PlayCertainly doesn't, but there is violence involved with rape. There is now and has been historically, much death caused by rape. A society that would allow rape you see an increase in death due to said rape. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 10:01 PM |
| -3 | Learn How to PlayHerp derp...I don't have a good reason why I don't rape. sigh there's an entirely rational reason for not condoning this. There'd be a lot of dead people(women). There's be a lot of fatherless children. There'd be no ability to ensure the survival of one's genes if we lived in a world that allowed this. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 09:04 PM |
| 1 | In of need advice,I am in DilemnaWhat do you believe will be in your best self-interest? Do it. If what do ended up being a negative experience, learn from it and don't do it again. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 08:44 PM |
| 10 | Why Sex?It seems that over time that trp's focus has shifted a bit. Originally it was a tactic to getting laid. Over time it's shifted to, improve yourself and make yourself the best "you" that you can be. Once you begin this process of improving yourself, certain elements naturally follow. Realizing that you can be confident. You can speak your mind. You don't have to take a back seat to anyone. Women are not something to be put on a pedestal. They have just as many faults as anyone else, and they do N… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Is this "RP burnout"?Some people are suggesting picking up a new hobby. Here's one for suggestion... Start educating these women on what you are doing. Pick them up. And then blow their mind. Doesn't really matter if they go bat shit crazy on you because you don't really care right? Expose them to what you did and how you did it. Believe it or not, they DO have a brain and can use it if they wish...if they are made aware of their spinning hamster they might be able to overcome some natural behaviors. And hey... if t… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Is suicide the only logical solution for a beta unwilling to be alpha?I was talking about the motivations of alphas and how it ultimately submissive and then you shifted to the results it has. I'm still wondering where this submissive idea came from. It's about being selfish. Doing what's in your own self interest. Being the best you can be. Building confidence in yourself. Being healthy. Keeping in shape. And when it comes to interactions with women, not being a sheep. These things are attractive to women. The motivation is to be the best you can be...because it … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/13 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Is suicide the only logical solution for a beta unwilling to be alpha?I mean you basically admit a huge part of what I find wrong with all of this. It's fundamentally appeasing women. In reality, it's a huge sheep movement trying to pass for a wolf. I want to be my own man not a constantly woman appeasing bitch. wat? It's a mutually beneficial trade off. You get what you want. They get what they want. You don't put up with bullshit stipulations that sway the transaction in their favor. I think what they may objectively want in a man serves to make the world a wors… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/13 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Is suicide the only logical solution for a beta unwilling to be alpha?Maybe, but I don't want to think about it and I don't think we should really focus on it. Better to just be, I think.. Wanting to just be, doesn't diminish the fact that you are better at some things than others. It makes sense to utilize those talents to the best of your ability. It is not a better solution to not recognize individual talents and abilities to accomplish tasks. Ideally, you want the best person available for a task to complete a given task. Why is it so necessary? And how is it … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/13 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Is suicide the only logical solution for a beta unwilling to be alpha?in order to present myself in that way I have to assert myself in ways that basically are for the express purpose of asserting a sort of superiority, dominance or leadership. I think that is a bad thing. All things, ideas and people ought to be judge on their objective merits not on some confidence racket. Also. In regards to trp and alpha-ness. The judges are women. Success and failure is based on how you deal with them. They are your barometer for which traits they find attractive. Your object… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/13 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Is suicide the only logical solution for a beta unwilling to be alpha?According to what you say, I am alpha in a sense. Very depressed, but alpha. I may not be the most confident, The entire context of this sub is in relation to sexual strategy and social interactions. Lets not be ridiculous and try to play word games. You are not confident in social interactions. You are not alpha. I think there is a lot wrong with that. No. There is a lot wrong with thinking this is wrong. No two people are equal. You ARE in front of someone or behind someone. Always. It's not b… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/13 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Is suicide the only logical solution for a beta unwilling to be alpha?As other have mentioned, you seem to have a surprisingly ugly opinion of what Alpha is. Based on comments, it seems you think it's an all or nothing kind of deal. Alpha vs Beta is a sliding scale, with a number of different means of expressing this. There are certain Alpha traits that are in no way manipulation, but are advocated here as methods of building attraction. Many of them relating to self-respect and confidence. There's nothing wrong with loving yourself. Being confident in yourself. S… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/13 04:45 PM |
| 2 | A few questions from to your sub...Tell me how often you see a naked chick in a beer commercial vs how often you see a naked chick in a magazine that's targeting women...or some other advertisement that's targeting women. Ad agencies know the human psyche so well that they play off these tendencies to sell us shit. People think it's ads programming us...but it's ads using our own programming to amplify natural reactions to things. Chicks don't want to marry players, but they certainly don't have issues sleeping with them...which … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/13 02:28 AM |
| 3 | A few questions from to your sub...while its a good thing to always consider people on an individual basis, you can't really formula a strategy based on any single person. the red pill strategy, like any, is based on perceived percentages and increasingly on scientific studies. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/13 01:12 AM |
| 2 | A few questions from to your sub...scantily clad women in advertisements is entirely female driven. those ads are targeting females, by females. they know what makes women tick. women compete with women with sex appeal. slut shaming is largely female driven. men love sluts. we just don't want to marry them for their tendencies to sleep around. they are a bad investment. your comment actually provides proof to trp argument. alpha men give women gina tingles. this is based on observation of what seems to actually work with women as… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/13 01:09 AM |
| 3 | A few questions from to your sub...there are very few absolutes in regards to human nature, but there identifiable tendencies. the beta-alpha spectrum is a sliding scale, so I'd complete understand that instances of alpha women...but it'd be exception. the society we live in currently is extremely feminine. it aggressively eliminates masculine traits and paints them as evil and wrong. it strengthens women's position by handicapping men. it gives women an extremely large amount of power in a relationship and "allows" them to be al… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/13 12:37 AM |
| 3 | A few questions from to your sub...I certainly cannot speak for everyone in this sub or everyone across the board, but the philosophies discussed in this sub actually seem to reflect what's going on in my every day life. I was brought up very "blue pill". Kind, submissive, "equal", supportive, providing, selfless, chivalrous. I still do these things all of the time, but it doesn't necessarily always feel right. I know feelings are not a great indicator of reality, but to an extent I think it's influenced by a natural male biology… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/13 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Man catches wife in the act of cheating and records it for the Internet to seehttp://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=c794961b0560870d51b0 http://www.xvideos.com/video253970/wife_gets_caught_cheating fake | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/13 07:20 PM |
| 9 | Man catches wife in the act of cheating and records it for the Internet to seeIf I recall, this is fake. Taken from some porn video. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/13 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Craving the approval of womenThis guy pretty much answers the question. Something that I've noticed recently is that I'm looking for approval less and less and more so looking at whether or not I'm effecting/influencing those around me. I don't care if it's approval or if it's disapproval... As long as it's effecting things in a manner that will create a positive outcome for myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/13 04:58 PM |
| 1 | The "Introduction" on the sidebar needs to be revisited.The introduction could use some work, but if anything I think it needs to be more aggressive. I worry about the message becoming watered down. best version of yourself, physically, professionally, psychologically, and emotionally While this is true, it needs to be aggressive in explaining why. This is a sexual strategy that pulls the power back into our court. It is a power strategy to improve your status on the social ladder. A strategy to assert yourself in a manner that will get you promoted.… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/13 09:44 PM |
| 12 | Where Anger Leads - M3 "If a man .. worked hard and saved, got the rock, .. listened to his father about ‘happy wife, happy life’, listened to his mother to ‘just be yourself’, .. and realizes he’d been lied to.. BY EVERYBODY.. You can understand he’ll be even angrier."I was in a similar place for a long time. What got me out of it was finally accepting that biology is the basis for everything. Women are only acting out what biology pushes them toward. Even when their goals are in conflict with each other...biology pushes them to want both. Men are largely no different. Beta men chase the pussy. It takes a intellectual intervention for betas to start behaving in a manner that will actually make their goals a reality. This includes yourself. You participated an… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/13 05:32 PM |
| 0 | What are TRPs thoughts on false-rape allegationsAttempt to get a text message of some sorts after that indicates that she wanted it to happen. This is about the best you can realistically do. Potentially have some kind of auto recorder for after the fact where you can prompt her for a response. Recording the act seems like it would be dangerous. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/13 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Certain scenario is coming up and I could use some insight.Make other plans and don't go. If you must make an appearance it might be worthwhile to go with the intention of only being there for a half hour or so. Bring something small to contribute. Exchange pleasantries with people you still care to communicate with, then excuse yourself and leave for the other plans. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/13 08:11 PM |
| 0 | We need a purge of a distinctive blue tasting attitude from this sub."I've got a big dick" - MrMan "No, I've got a bigger dick" - IllimitableMan "Nuh-uh, You have to show me examples of bigger dicks. I've got the biggest dick ever" - MrMan Fucking retarded argument you two have going on. Simple problem, with a simple solution. Get mods and endorsed users to more aggressively point out blue pill behavior when and where it happens, right on the spot. The leaders have to lead...and you don't do it by pleading with people. You do it by fucking doing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/13 07:42 PM |
| 5 | It's science bitch. Some battles won all thanks to TRP.What kind of time frame did these events happen in? I'm just trying to get an idea of the size of the "dataset". Often behaviors will change due to small stimuli. In this case, the change in your wife's behavior might be due to confusion around the abrupt change in yours. She might just be fearful that she's losing her security blanket and is doing things in attempt to remedy that, instead of falling into a traditional feminine roll. This in no way refutes TRP, but I think you'd need to examine … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/13 03:33 PM |
| 4 | Why is r/theredpill so loathed?You can take a lot of things out of context and it certainly looks bad. The only thing that is saying is that the creators of this subreddit do not agree with the tactics promoted by /r/seduction and the Men's Rights community within reddit. The introduction doesn't define anything. I sets up the reason for it's existence and it prompts for the discussion that defines TRP. Because of the necessity to have good game, we must define what good game is. A large portion of Red Pill discussion revolve… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/13 08:13 PM |
| 7 | Why is r/theredpill so loathed?There are certainly people that advocate the idea of spinning plates, but I don't think that's the core message. Improve yourself. Be confident in yourself. Push yourself. Strengthen your financial situation. Take care of yourself. Put yourself in the best situations possible for your own happiness. Improving yourself and your personal situation is only going to help your situation with women. You come at the relationship between men and women from a position of strength and self respect. It may… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/13 07:49 PM |
| 10 | Man Finds Sex Video of Sexually Reserved Wife Getting Gang-Banged from her College Days. /r/Sex predictably sides with the wife and tries to shame him for wanting to leave her and for resenting her for giving them the sex he never had.You certainly are in the wrong subreddit... What mr. j_arbuckle2012 said was possibly crude, but not entirely inaccurate. Men will value a woman that exclusively has sex with them. A history of riding the carousel, is an indication of a higher probability that she will not remain exclusive. Exclusivity is important to men, because they invest resources in women and their offspring to ensure their genetic material survives. You want to ensure your resources are going to your children. So "A woman… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/13 03:53 PM |
| 1 | I am somewhat confused about TRP and how it views sex. [Serious replies only, please.]High partner count for a man means he's doing things correctly. He's displaying the traits that women want and require before they'll risk a pregnancy. Higher partner count for a woman means she's doing it wrong. Men want a lower risk that their resources will be spent on another man's children. Sexual strategy is divergent. Women want men to stick around to support them and their offspring. During pregnancy they are at a disadvantage when it comes to resource procurement. Men just wanna fuck. S… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/13 04:14 PM |
| 8 | I am somewhat confused about TRP and how it views sex. [Serious replies only, please.]I don't know. Would be an interesting statistic to see. I've not seen anything that analyzes it. I'm sure it's a higher percentage...but not nearly the same story. Men just have too much to lose once married. Prior to marriage, I'd probably accept the idea that more partners would mean they would be more likely to cheat when in a relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/13 05:28 AM |
| 55 | I am somewhat confused about TRP and how it views sex. [Serious replies only, please.]Why is the ideal woman to have as few sexual partners as possible To add to this. Today's society has created a very dangerous environment for married men. Marriage is largely something that is desired by women, and society pushes men in that direction. 70% of marriages fail. 70% of those failures are initiated by women...and typically men lose 50% of their current shit + any other bullshit alimony or child support that goes with it. Marriage is the worst kind of gamble a man can make. As to why… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/13 08:16 PM |
| 15 | I am somewhat confused about TRP and how it views sex. [Serious replies only, please.]Try to keep in mind that this subreddit very much tries to base all of their conclusions on actual real-world observation and scientific studies around human nature. There is value placed in applying the scientific method here(not saying it's always done well tho). From that perspective...you being a female is entirely irrelevant. It's not really rude, but an attitude that sex doesn't really matter from the perspective of who is asking the questions. What matters is evaluating and understanding … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/13 07:48 PM |
| 2 | How many guys here have had a noticeable improvement in women since joining TheRedPill?I can't claim that I knew what TRP was at the time, but I can guarantee that the only times I've gotten laid was when I was applying Red Pill behavior. I am very introverted and beta by nature and it's gotten me nowhere. The two times I really went after what I wanted and displayed a higher SMV it got me what I wanted. Be confident, be aloof, Cocky, funny, tease them, don't give into the shit tests. Unfortunately I returned to my beta ways shortly afterward and they left like clockwork. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/13 07:23 PM |
| 2 | [Mod] New Sub, and a New Rule!I'm not sure what control you have over functionality, but perhaps some kind of filter might work best. Let people filter it out if they do not want to see it. I can see scenarios where /r/askTRP isn't going to get the same quality of responses as they would get here simply because your more experienced resources will not frequent /r/askTRP. I can't imagine asking people to hop over there is actually going to happen with the frequency necessary for proper education. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/13 10:40 PM |
| 0 | Me (18m) and my sister (16f) grew up in a natural red pill household. I have many interesting stories to tell. AMA!Did you have any trouble making friends growing up, with society on this acceptance of everything kick? Do you remember any specific instances where you being alpha as a child caused issues? How was school? Any issues with female teachers and/or classmates? Did you/Do you view women as inferior across the board or have you developed an understanding of what women want from a sexual/mating perspective, but otherwise think of them as capable in other areas. Basically, do you think women have worth… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/13 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Me (18m) and my sister (16f) grew up in a natural red pill household. I have many interesting stories to tell. AMA!Growing up in a redpill home obviously has had its effect on your current behaviours. How has that upbringing clashed with the bluepill society around you? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/13 11:12 PM |
| -1 | First post anywhere... thank you.I believe that one of my father's greatest failings with me was not providing a role model for learning how to be a man. He has aspergers, so in hindsight, his behavior now makes sense to me...but it didn't really help matters. I never had that role model for showing me how to interact with women. My dad was largely distant. Didn't joke and when he did it came across as him just being a complete asshole. He was just there. Cold and not engaged. He never really interacted with my mother in any me… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/13 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Just found out my wife has been hiding 15 thousand in credit card debt.Divorce seems a bit dramatic at this point. Now that her problems are out in the open, make the attempt to help her though them. If she can't force herself to change her habits or if she's not showing satisfactory progress, then maybe at a later date you can pursue a divorce. I'm sure you've done this, but make sure she understands how upset you are, how much the trust has been damaged. Let her know that the money management is a huge problem and hint that you are not going to stay in a situatio… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/11 06:43 PM |
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