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CMVMediumBaseball5339/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:24 PM
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Question For MenMediumBaseball5339/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:45 AM
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Great post
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 02:31 PM
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Regardless of the alpha bit, the rest of what's been said is important to note and understand. Plus think about it this way. Your crush isn't perfect. She's going to have her own issues. You might find out that she's super insecure and will think of you as some cheater and might start checking up on you. No one's perfect. It's all a learning lesson.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 12:55 PM
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The relationship has already failed. Catastrophization and toxic red pill beliefs has won
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:42 PM
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The red pill does teach the dark arts after all. Machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathy, soooo...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:41 PM
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Do you recognize that you're being insecure, and therefore are thinking that you should be overcompensating in other areas such as you've mentioned? Your autism is not the reason why you cannot get a decent job. My colleague is autistic and he's very well paid in his job in IT. Your issue is based on anxiety and lack of self belief, self worth, and confidence. And as for the hypergamy perspective, you have to understand that you've been looking at it wrong. If you've gone deep into the red pill,…
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 12:06 PM
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It's desperation but from a narcissistic angle
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:28 AM
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Oh dear. Never mind. If I read words like cucked, I eject immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:24 AM
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If a person has bags of insecurities, anxiety, depression, and fear, does the data help them in any way? Far too many posts on here are catastrophizations that keeps the above example person in a perpetual state of fear and anger loop. What good is that to the majority here? People here need advice on how to overcome their anxiety and depression and anger rather than sperm count. There comes a moment where the person needs to stop acquiring so much theory and instead step out there and put the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:02 AM
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It's the prime directive for them to find any data that matches their beliefs so they can say: "See?! See?! It's all true!" - and then they hope that their buddies will flood the post to validate his claims. And deeper down the rabbit hole they go. At some point, you'd think even just one of them would stop and think: "Hold on... I've been on this red pill journey for the last 2 years... I'm feeling fucking miserable, I've had no success, I'm actually worse off than where I started... Is this ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:53 AM
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Erm. We're talking about whether you have a partner or not. Not whether you're an idiot or not lol. Nice moving of the goalposts though. Anyway, good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:52 PM
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Not based on your profile comments lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:46 PM
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It's not pretentious if a person is able to think critically to make a decision on what they see. They're not preening if they already have a foothold on their life where they are happy. If however, you mean young people who are vulnerable to manipulation such as the online spheres, then yes. More will join both sides. But equally the same amount will leave. The beautiful thing about humans is wet have capacity for growth and change at all times. The most evil of men can become good, as the sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:42 PM
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Did I answer your question about AWALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:03 PM
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Sorry I replied to the wrong person. Regarding hypergamy: I posted this elsewhere so will copy and paste. Do humans want to feel secure that they've made a good mate choice and generally dislike feeling they could do a lot better in partner selection"....obviously yes. No one is who honestly feels that they are with someone who isn't meeting their needs or really believes that there are people out there who would meet their needs better is going to stay in a relationship. That's, like, common se…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:00 PM
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I backed up my claims here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:51 PM
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I mean they seem to be failing miserably hence being chronically online. You're the first person to accept that AMALT exists. Search for that term on this sub and look at some of the responses by the regulars to see the cognitive dissonance in full effect. But regarding AWALT, to answer this I'd like to quote Mark Manson, a former dating coach, who very elequently says that problems with dating can eventually be traced back to 2 problems: a) You're attracted to the wrong kind of people. For exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:46 PM
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Tell me... Does AMALT exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:37 PM
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in Morgan Freeman's voice And so, the lonely man continues to be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:34 PM
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So say the same about men. AMALT. What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:30 PM
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Shitty people exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:26 PM
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Man: No you! Woman: No you! Basically the kind of men and women who get involved in that shitshow are telling the rest of us what wrung of the ladder they are on. And then we can choose if we want to be better than them or join them. If people then want to dive deeper on why people are misandrist or misogynist, then it opens up a whole load of reasons like learned behaviours, experiences, brainwashing, fear and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:04 PM
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Yea social media has ripped the fabrics of society and what we see here are the casualties of that, and no one cares because money. When I was 15 in 1998 I was an absolute mess. Hated myself. No confidence. No ability to think critically. If the internet was how it is today, I'd be easily recruited in a heartbeat and would become the king of incels in wallowing in self pity and misery while blaming everyone around me for my troubles without a way out. The new generation don't know that there exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:45 PM
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Yup. Algorithms and social media be damned. It fucked this generation up. Most don't even realise that their feeds on their apps is catered and curated. That's how low effort everything is for the social media companies due to the lack of understanding by the users. Parents are none the wiser to tell their kids what to watch out for because they either don't see the dangers, are too busy and not present, or just don't know any of this stuff to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:28 PM
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Damn. The internet really has warped the minds of our youth. I was you some 20 or so years ago at the same age but the internet wasn't this cesspit of despair with all these pills and social media and algorithms nonesense it is today, and as a result, I wasn't turning to the net for help, or falling down rabbit holes, but rather getting my cues from the real world with all its hardships and successes in tow. If I was in my teens now I'd probably be an incel or whatever pill people associate them…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:13 PM
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Prices of everything is ridiculous too. Can't go out if you don't have the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:12 AM
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Chronically online, if I may say so. Looks at self Oh shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:10 AM
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His answer to a simple question was hilarious. These guys are so fucking scorned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:13 AM
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I've rejected girls who were self loathing. No one wants that. You'd pour time and effort into the relationship and them, while they would be in their own heads feeling hate for themselves and bringing down the whole thing a few notches. Never ends well. It means you'd have to wait for them to catch up and that's never a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:24 AM
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the statement is that just because they are all like that, doesn’t mean they all DO that The bit in italics from your earlier response - they aren't all like that to begin with even if the DO bit you mentioned gives them credibility. It's a coping mechanism because all the manosphere words like AWALT, the wall, monkey branching, cuck, soy boy etc are all male supremacist content. A supremacy that is actually a pseudo-initiation of manhood in young men adrift of actually being real men. Hence a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:39 AM
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If we're talking about platonic friends? Sure, physical attractiveness doesn't really matter. We're talking about dating, so it does, it matters a lot, and it matters first. And yet you're the one saying they you are ugly. Women aren't. You're rejecting yourself long before they ever could. And if every woman does that then no woman wants you. You haven't met every woman. Only the ones you've talked to in whatever capacity. I did, and it turns out that none of them want me: what now? How do I ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:24 AM
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Not all women are fat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:53 AM
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More power to you my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:36 AM
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Like hypergamy, AWALT is a coping mechanism brought about from lack of self esteem and the hollowness beyond the exterior. It removes responsibility for the self.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:35 AM
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I guess if you're ok with hopelessness then who am I to judge. So long as you're happy that's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:34 AM
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Give me a reason why they would cheat out of the blue. In your own words. Go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:33 AM
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Why should he listen to other people? Do they make up the story to his one and only life? And besides, once a man had confidence and self esteem, he won't care what anyone says. The two views cannot occupy the same place and time. Confidence wins. This is a story as old as time. He loves himself and is comfortable in his own skin. And at the same time, he could be ugly, and no one wants to be in a relationship with him, much less even have casual sex with him. Again, this is a foreshadowing in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:32 AM
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I understand what you're saying. My disagreement with you is that you're not addressing the questions I posed. No where in your wall of text do you address the goal we agreed we were trying to achieve, get attention in the romantic sense. You've been made to believe that looks (and possibly height) are everything. They're not. If a woman tries to qualify you on those things, she's not the right woman. She's the one you should avoid as she's shallow. Ask yourself if you are shallow. You have self…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:19 AM
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This is your lack of experience, understanding, and your personal insecurity on show here my man. The world is so vast and so different in every corner. You've read into the red pill too deeply and are living in fear and anxiety. If you're young, it would make sense why this is the case. Challenge yourself to see different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:10 PM
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Your questions in this post show a lack of understanding and a belief system that is not beneficial to you. Not everyone is cheating. Where did you pick up the notion that everything ends in cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:03 PM
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AWALT is a kindergarten argument. Not all women are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:00 PM
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Yay for common sense💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:00 PM
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Is there a need to become black pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:29 PM
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Think about it. No, I'm asking: let's make the goal "to be noticed by the opposite sex," so how is someone supposed to go about achieving that goal? If you work on your confidence and self esteem, you'll separate yourself from others who are just surface level detail but no substance underneath. You've been made to believe that women of quality are those that have good looks. Do you ever ask what real quality looks like? It's all those character traits that lie within, which comes from self wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:31 PM
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Shame I can't take you back 20 years to a time before the internet as we know it, where no algorithms and social media existed. You wouldn't be this hopeless individual you've become. You will have operated just fine in society where you would have found your niche and turned out fine. But since the internet is a cesspit of despair now, youngsters are very vulnerable in falling victim to some grift and believing it to be real. And what makes it worse is that without even realising, you are now a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:02 PM
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just in order to be noticed by the opposite sex. What are you supposed to do if that's your goal? ("be noticed by the opposite sex," date, get a relationship, get sex, etc.) Think about it. If you make loads of changes to yourself such as face, body, physique, fashion etc. and then you don't get as much notice as you hoped, it will cause you to flip out and get angry at women for being shallow or whatever. You'll see them as the problem when it's got nothing to do with them. You won't have the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:45 PM
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Love this answer. Your profile is a goldmine of great responses to the young men who need help. You're a saint.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/23 03:04 PM
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There's always another layer and another goalpost isn't there lol. Ah well I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:14 PM
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Ugh. Spend a little time offline my man. Stop digesting online misinformation from the manosphere. In the real world, people are getting along just fine. Are you ready to join them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:38 PM
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I'll explain it for you then. Both men and women can be obsessed with sex. Both men and women can be emotional. If we look around us in this sub, the men are definitely obsessed with sex, whilst being emotional at the same time. And by emotion I mean anger and frustration that leads to negative outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:36 PM
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Yes you did. I retract my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:31 PM
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Feels like everyone here reads from the same hymn sheet. Well I guess they are, considering everyone has swallowed the same pill. So it's the same talking points over and over. Don't tell me you advocate violence? If you mean men having used brute force in the past, yes they did and it influenced women to find ways around it with seduction techniques. The renaissance era showed us how far that went the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:28 PM
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That's called toxic masculinity but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:26 PM
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You couldn't be more wrong. Men and women have different brains for starters. But here you are, claiming that those different brains are working the same and produce similar personalities and traits. Assuming that different brains work exactly the same, is a pretty stupid assumption. Because evolution made male and female brains different exactly because men and women are different and require different thinking machines to deal with those differences. I'm guessing you didn't read the article th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:24 PM
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Wait. The best examples you could come up with were men can't give birth and women can't piss standing up? And you point to a book that was basically written 30 years ago as a form of satire? Makes me think you went on a search engine and found the first link to make your rebuttal on (was it a link by the BBC by any chance? You should read all of it, it's a good read) Men and women have certain biological and physiological differences like giving birth as you've mentioned, but overall they are m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:56 PM
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There's the problem. You think they're different. I don't think they are different. Out of curiosity, what makes women different to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:04 PM
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Doesn't it get tiring having the same talking points over and over again? Because I'm certainly tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:11 AM
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You're both shit flinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:21 AM
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Why are all you guys so damn insecure? Jeezus. And yet you don't even realise that your insecurity is the problem here. Go ahead, tell me you're 'alpha' to top it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:38 AM
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Isn't all of this just shit flinging? One side says x. The other side says y. No one can agree. Everyone is none the wiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:36 AM
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I mean the black pill at this point is literally a psy-op with just how daft and extreme some of the tenets are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:34 AM
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I think they answered it succinctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:33 AM
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All tEh wiMinZ! We're all suffering in society, one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:58 AM
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New take: emotional men are the new women. Men swallow the red pill to become 'alpha' in order to kill off their emotions, yet end up more emotional than women. Weird world we live in eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:41 AM
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Why was she your favourite partner at the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:55 AM
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Men are different to women in that it's a one shot orgasm with a refractory period after. Women can have multiple orgasms as shown in studies - anywhere between 14-43% with the studies available today.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:55 AM
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Is that so? In that case, it's ok for women to also be obsessed with sex, so why all the slutshaming with the n count nonsense when it comes to women? Swings and roundabouts right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:22 PM
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I am saying that men get into relationships with women they do not love and then the bedroom dies in part because he tires of putting on the amorous act. The bedroom is already dead if he lied to himself to begin with in order to get with her. It means he manipulated her to fall in love with him while he used her for sex /companionship. But then again, as I've always said, TRP teaches Machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathy, soooo it all makes sense, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:02 PM
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If touching, kissing, and complimenting a female partner isn't inherently pleasurable to a man, he is settling. She's beta to him. Call me old fashioned, but let's talk about love for a second. Let's talk about how we would put our life on the line for those we love. Some guys here think love is some blue pill trope that makes a man a 'cuck simp beta' or something. Yes, you're right in a way where if a guy gets with a girl and realises she's not doing anything for him emotionally, then sure, no …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:36 PM
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So many young men totally obsessed with sex that they cannot see what exists beyond that, as well as not having lived long enough and to have loved in order to know just how complex life can be. Not having a go at you OP, it's just an observation. The majority of men talking about sex like it's the ultimate high / pot of gold at the end of the universe is actually a major problem. Especially if they haven't had sex. This creates an incredibly toxic cycle for the person. Does anyone here even ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:27 PM
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Stop dodging. Are you suffering or am I?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:33 PM
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Generalisations in the red pill?! Tell me it ain't so!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:39 PM
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Do you have a psychology degree to think about women the way you do? You don't seem to have any input and are defensive instead
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:28 PM
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I wouldn't take anything these guys say as truths or worthy of rebuttal. They are simply afraid and live in fear due to having taken on shitty beliefs. You'll notice each and every one of them say EXACTLY the same things like robots. "but hypergamy!" "but the wall!" - and to top it off they think they are scholars of female psychology lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:57 PM
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You think BP mindset makes incels? Inceldom comes from a lack of self worth at a young age, after which a person falls down the rabbit hole online and gets brainwashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:03 PM
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It's pretty simple. Narcissism is taught by the red pill and he portrays the signs. There's good levels of narcissism, and bad. Take a look happy to discuss it further.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:02 PM
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I'm very lucky to have her. Hope you are all doing well. Glad to hear all turned out great for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:58 AM
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Glad to see this sort of response as top comment. I've got health issues and my wife does a tremendous job in helping out. She's sacrificed a lot. That's on top of the fact that she earns double what I earn. The pandemic and lockdowns were so hard on her being away from family and friends whilst dealing with my health issues. It was all for love. Something I hardly see discussed here but then again TRP throws away love and replaces it with contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:02 AM
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We've been here before on many occasions. All these pills are online ideologies akin to cults. They all have tenets to abide by. They all create bitter individuals that become worse off than where the person started. That's what we call an indoctrination.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:35 AM
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I was with you until you called ER blue pilled. He was a self labelled black pilled incel with mental health issues that weren't resolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:27 AM
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So long as they don't lose themselves to the dark arts. There's a healthy way of doing it and an unhealthy way. The issue is that many men come into the red pill frustrated and scorned. As a result they use TRP with contempt for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:56 AM
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Yea the red pill can be a pseudo-initiation of manhood for a lot of frustrated men. Meaning some guys learn certain topics go out into the world and apply them, while some get stuck due to the rage they feel from the notion that they have finally 'woken up' to the ways of the world while some take things to the extreme and learn all the theory without any practical work and end up getting stuck with analysis paralysis mixed with the rage. All the while it makes them feel a sense of empowerment a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:54 AM
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If you have to call it divorce rape, you have no business in taking anything further with a woman than just looking at her from afar. Not because a woman is capable of that. Yes, there are bad women with bad intentions out there. That's not the point here. The point is that your belief is set. At all times you are being paranoid of the person you're with. And that's an oxymoron. You wouldn't marry a woman in the first place if you were paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:22 PM
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A narcissist usually doesn't realise he's a narcissist. This is the bit that gives it away. And just a bonus, we mostly do all the work in bed and still consider a women's orgasm Then there's the comments in the profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:09 PM
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Narcissist👆🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:16 PM
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Did... Did you just link to the INCEL WIKI... JEEZUS
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:15 PM
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You're creating a false equivalence here. Hope is a catalyst and the difference between success and failure in every facet of life. If the person is too young they won't understand it. It's why we keep telling guys here to stop going to those forums. They're poison to the mind of young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:52 PM
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The fact that they use words like "looksmaxxing" or "gymmaxxing" tells you there's nothing scientific. It's phrenology through and through, a pseudo science And then they take philosophy and twist it to the extreme. They believe in the extreme form of Nihilism
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:08 PM
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Naw not those black pill or incel communities. Never. They kill hope. The death of hope is what's causing all the major issues among the current generation's youths.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:52 PM
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Ah but of course. Creating their own terminology to be derogatory and misogynistic towards... wait for it... the beings of their very desires 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:43 PM
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And the same boys then get overly emotional at the first sign of rejection, after which they join some daft online community, and wallow in self misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:33 PM
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Almost as if they are... Human🤷🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:25 PM
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One study. About one geographical area. At one point in time. Nice Let's correlate that with all women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:23 PM
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I guess you have aaaaall the studies on that to make such a concrete statement. Cool. Besides, don't you guys want a young woman compared to those over the wall? Sounds like you guys are stuck no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:06 PM
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Most guys here, certainly. Insecure men are like insecure women. They both have so much paranoia. They overcompensate in other areas. Such as getting very jealous and overzealous to the point where they accuse their partners. This all stems from low self esteem and self loathing. Especially very common in young age. Psychology 101 right there. And just as there are cheating women, there are cheating men. I'm sure I read men cheat more than women somewhere so we should always talk about both side…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:54 PM
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They cheat on low value insecure men who are constantly paranoid that she will cheat. Bit of a paradox all at the making of the guys, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:44 PM
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And the men became Adonis at the same time. Good joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:57 AM
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Well I did say I'd get flack didn't I
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:28 AM
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What are these men bringing to the table in terms of value to those different kinds of women I mentioned if all these men do is to be chronically online with their extreme views?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:15 AM
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Well then you better get a move on💪🏼 But no, there is no set date for when a person is supposed to understand things. Everyone is on their own journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:53 PM
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What I'm about to say is going to get a lot of heat. The majority of guys here are neurodivergent. It's why they miss the important nuances and overshoot the mark on all talking points. The same guys want a tradwife / 10/10 young gf, 0 n count, and on and on. And should someone mention that there are women exactly the same as them struggling, they'll say "oh but she has options and has a high n count" - NO. Especially when she's neurodivergent also. PPD, CMV I guess 🤷🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:51 PM
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If you're still where you are now by the time you're 30, it means your adult years haven't started. I do like a good JRPG though lol. Suikoden is my current favourite 💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:46 PM
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Yup. You can't help a guy who isn't ready to change or doesn't want it outright. Though then that makes you wonder why he feels justified in having all the talking points we see here. They're totally irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:44 PM
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Because you learned it online as part of your journey into your brainwashing. But you won't know it. All the while it felt like a rights of passage and an enlightenment to you. How will you know? Because the real world doesn't think the way guys here do. I really really really want you to think about everything you have learned online. How many of them have helped you find happiness? Hmm? At every step, instead it feels like doors are closed to you. You are part of a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:35 PM
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You and I will continue to post here in the hope we can help even just one person I suppose. It's the best we can do for now. Kudos to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:22 PM
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Yisss likewise. I'm off to play Sim City 4 💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:21 PM
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How can one raise awareness online without pointing a finger? Genuinely interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:03 PM
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The other person was raising awareness no? This dude was derogatory. Or am I viewing it wrong. Happy to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:02 PM
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You want your feelings validated right? You want to be heard right? So why did you invalidate them yet want your pain and feelings to be heard? Gotta give to receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:47 PM
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I don't. They DM me. On fresh 0 day profiles wanting to talk. Makes me realise they are the same guys who argue with me in the threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:43 PM
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Well how are you going to approach women if you have no idea how to escalate? You expect them to drop their panties for you just because you approached them? I'm gonna be honest with you my dude. If you were my friend in the real world I'd tell you how you drag down every conversation into the dirt with your negative attitude. It's a total mood killer. What's with such a negative outlook man? Doesn't benefit anyone. That's definitely not the kind of attitude that makes the women's panties wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:39 PM
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Now try talking like that in the real world. Yes, we know you feel validated online amongst your comrades here from behind your anonymous username, but let's see if you're a big man in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:33 PM
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So who or why are you angry at?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:31 PM
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You call yourselves degenerates? How does that help you get anywhere with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:15 PM
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I thought you were red pilled... Surely you know that by having friends groups you could build social proofing. You could make preselection work for you. Now I realise you're not red pilled (not really, knew all along which pill you and most here belong to) Besides, the red pill is about learning how to seduce with tactics. I guess you missed the chapter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:14 PM
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I'm a guy. But nice try turning it around on women. You literally proved my post smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:11 PM
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You need to educate me. Is normie a slur? Like does it make me less of a person than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:10 PM
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Well yea except these guys lack social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:05 PM
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Well, I mean a lot of these red pill guys are not red pill, let's be honest. They're incels pretending to be red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:03 PM
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What on earth are these talking points? What do you mean by normies? That word to me is a symbol of online indoctrination. No one speaks like that unless they have accepted some online ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:02 PM
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I'm all for people choosing to take religious routes if it helps them. The last survey I saw showed 50% of incels were American from well off backgrounds. They're not about to change religious ideology or join one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:59 PM
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Dude. They didn't have any hobbies or passions. That was the problem. Nothing but self esteem issues aplenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:57 PM
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Really? "it's over" "nothing to lose" is what led to Elliot Rodger to go the way he did. It's an indoctrination. Why isn't this being noticed? But sure let's blame the left. The whole of the manosphere online is one huge scam and brainwashing. It's why it only exists online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:40 PM
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How does this comment help? It just shows you hate women. The very beings you desire
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:26 PM
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I've talked to many guys from this sub who have then sent me private messages on 0 day fresh profiles so not to out themselves. And one thing is so blatantly clear. These young men have zero self worth and confidence. No hobbies. No passions. Instead their world view is whatever pill they've swallowed where they then only stay in that far off forum where they believe "it's over" - on top of digesting and regurgitating the same talking points of feminism this, equality that etc. Some of them are …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:12 PM
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It's raising awareness my man. It's not in the negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:57 PM
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You and I seemed to have fared better than those youngsters here who are chronically online, regurgitating red pill/black pill sound bites. Yes the landscape has changed. Yes, it's a different dating scene, but you can still find pockets of goodness offline. I do feel sorry for the youth of today as they are overwhelmed by the level of pressure and constantly changing trends. It's why I try to shine a light on things in a way to make someone think differently so that they don't overshoot the mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:51 PM
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Except red pilled guys are seldom those things and instead pack some horrid negative character traits. That's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:44 PM
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I just hate this red pill, blue pill, suppository pill nonesense that people label themselves with. People don't recognise how they are being influenced to pick sides. It's 'cringe' as the current generation calls it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:43 PM
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You're not seething at the first sight of the word 'woman' like some here are. Yes you're right there are people on different levels. But those starting out chronically online will fare far worse than those with prior real world experience
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:34 PM
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Every single one of the posts on this sub and online in general is pointless because the people giving their opinion from the red pill perspective (actually black pillers) are chronically online and have very limited real world experience. It's actually detrimental to their potential success later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:15 PM
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The replies from the red pill men in this post (obviously not actually red pilled but rather black pilled inc*ls) says all we need to know. So many extreme takes that don't match reality. Not a single person here has been with a woman yet they speak like they are experts smh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:09 PM
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Making 30 sound like 60 lol. Where do you guys pick up such ridiculous notions? No wonder everyone is stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:05 PM
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narcissistic Isn't that every guy here, who seem to be totally unaware of the self?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:04 PM
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At this point, I have to ask: what do you guys even want anymore? I'm totally confused. Are you saying every woman has a secret OF account or lies? Secondly you’re wrong again. Yes, online guys are not real world guys. They don’t exist. Okay. I think they’re used to being called subhuman anyway thanks for saying the quiet part out loud. Nah you guys call yourself that word in your own forums. You guys also call yourself ugly. That's some messed up level of insecurity due to being in that communi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:59 PM
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Likewise, go into the real world and you'll have all your delusions that you have acquired online shattered in a heartbeat. We know full well that you guys will treat a woman like shit if given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:49 PM
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Guys here need to improve their social skills and reasoning abilities above all else. But we're so far off that. We've got incels pretending to be red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:48 PM
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This boy is 43 years old lol. The internet changed things for the better in many less economically developed countries that allowed them to connect to the world wide web. Whereas in the West it fucked things up. Internet 1.0 from 23 years ago was the wonder years. This current cesspit of algorithms and social media is what has led many astray. I know you know all this already so I don't need to explain much. When I was 15 I was incredibly insecure and hated myself. If the internet was around the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:46 PM
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The same can be said about standard women who fit the bill for what guys do want. A woman who isn't promiscuous or extreme. Problem is guys here refuse to accept that such women exist. "Oh they're over the wall" - "oh they have a high n count" - "oh they have mental health issues" - and so on. Guys in the real world don't think this way. Only guys online as part of the manosphere who seem paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:09 PM
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What I'm asking is why not seek out women who don't do that? Or are guys here refusing to accept that the opposite type of women exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:52 PM
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If he's earning hundreds and thousands she won't be cooking or cleaning. That's what cleaners are for. She'll be a trophy wife - that's if she wants to be a soccer mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:24 PM
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The other day a poster here called the following as traditional: (I'm paraphrasing) "She has to cook, clean, and provide sex and I'll be the breadwinner" To me that's not traditional. That's slavery. Or it could be traditional from the 1800's format🤷🏻 So I guess everyone has their own interpretation these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:05 PM
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Men do it too just less frequently. I've already seen women compared to fish in this post alone 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:03 PM
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Oh God 😂🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:42 PM
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👆🏻 This is the answer. Close the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:40 PM
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These online tropes are just that. Tropes that causes the person harm. Real life goes on and on without a care for what's happening online. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:39 PM
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Of course, but why waste energy and time on something that is self explanatory and self evident? I've asked him what he does truly want in a woman and there's no response. I think that there speaks volumes. And it says a lot about guys here who seem to spend way too much time on things that wind them up rather than concentrating on what they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:54 AM
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Those women who complain are only seeing the world from their perspective. Some of them may even complain about the women on OF for making dating harder for them because they cannot compete with OF women or pornstars or Instagram influencers by being and looking ordinary. Guys here complain because they see the world from their own perspective. Everyone is wearing a particular lense with which to see the world. Whether brought on by experience or learned behaviour or indoctrination or frustratio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:51 AM
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What you're ultimately saying here is that you're self aware of the hypocrisies, and that's all good. No one is contending that. It's when we see a very one sided argument from a person that then becomes a challenge in making them understand that everything is a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:39 AM
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Sure but that's not something for to worry or think about. Like I've said in another reply to you, concentrate on what you do want, not what you don't. Besides, the majority of porn out there is most likely trafficked women essentially getting raped. It's how pornhub got shut down as well as those guys who are on the run where they would drug the girls. So something to think about. Out of curiosity, what do you want in the perfect woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:25 AM
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Hey weren't you complaining in the other thread about how you hate it when women sell their bodies on only fans? Bit of a double standard there don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:12 AM
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You seem pretty angry/frustrated and you don't even know why🤷🏻 "All the females justifying this" means I'm talking about all the females justifying it. If they aren't justifying it then I wouldn't be talking about them Are you saying 4 billion women around the world are? "All the females" are not justifying it. Men and women here are trying to reason with you but you're way too deep in your emotional turmoil to reason with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:57 AM
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You'll go blue in the face every day trying to tell these young men that women are not objects for ownership. Whatever pit of despair these guys congregate in online before crawling out to post here is fueling their hate to then come here with that mentality in tow. The repetition cycle is so destructive but they won't realise this because they're mostly too young and stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:48 AM
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Are you super duper religious? Why are only that subset of women a problem for you? We could talk about abhorrent men who pimp out women. Or child traffickers maybe? Or drug dealers?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:44 AM
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If you're paying for it, you have absolutely no right to complain about OF women. If she's posting pics of her Famous_Anus and getting railed by men, why is that a problem to you? It's what she chose. Does she represent all women? (Nobody here can answer this it seems) Isn't it bigotry on your part to judge the kind of woman who does this things? What's it to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:41 AM
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Why are they living rent free in your mind? Do those women on OF make up all women? You could easily think about women who are the total opposite but seems like you like to pick examples of the kind of subset of women to get riled up about to prove some arbitrary point and feel justified in your stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:38 AM
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There are all type of women. She does not represent all women. Though I know you won't accept this as you've been made to believe the opposite. There's a video on r/therewasanattempt where a woman records herself exercising at the gym and overreacts as soon as some guy walked past her. She throws a fit but gets shut down by the guy and rightly so. Conversely, there's another video where a woman is exercising and is recording herself (because it probably happened too often) where a guy comes up o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:29 AM
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I see what you're saying. What would have caused the disrespect in this scenario to begin with? Like did he become a slob? Or was he doing his part such as also working and partaking in all aspects of family life, and yet she suddenly she started disrespecting him? I have one example of a situation where a friend of mine became an alcoholic due to unresolved issues. His wife became the breadwinner with the promise that he would fix himself. Long story short, he didn't. It was a spiral, as alcoho…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:40 AM
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I don’t think age will resolve the issue since it is normal for women to put men out who are not contributing monetarily to the house hold on a regular basis. One of the worst kept secrets is that women hate loneliness as they age. (For others reading this, let's not bring in tired talking points like the wall and hypergamy please. We're talking from a perspective of emotional and mental well-being) Like it or not us men are viewed by women to be the bread winners even in this era. With the adve…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:37 AM
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They can be if they gained experience and knowledge. I'm older than many here so maybe it comes with time. If you asked me the same question when I was 18 I'd probably have answered with a resounding no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:05 AM
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Don't you feel that speaks more about the man's inability to see the world without his masculinity as his weapon?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:03 AM
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No worries, answered your question in my original post 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:57 PM
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Is this a bot account? Your profile is interesting. Lots of catastrophization articles that could create a fear induced loop. Just an observation. Edit: to answer your question u/Gari_305 - gender roles can be reversed in the modern age without issues but only if the persons involved are happy with the new arrangement/stereotype. On the man's part, it requires a re-evaluation of masculinity. Somewhere around 50 years ago in the 70's this thought process began to take place as women began to take…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:10 PM
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This woman guy gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:47 PM
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Ah I see. Well that's fair I suppose. Some are indeed jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:45 PM
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These guys have never met Italian men🤌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:22 PM
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Yup. These type of women are very flawed. All that jelly and no toast. They are the equivalent of toxic masculinity in men. They have an exterior that is well maintained similar to "gymmaxxing" and "looksmaxxing" but they are hollow beneath that. And it becomes apparent quickly. They are basically strapping a bomb to their chest and wait for the next unsuspecting guy to approach them so they can blow up at them. Where's the value in that? Meanwhile these guys think that they're '10/10' high valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:11 PM
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Very entertaining. Every so often some of them become ever so slightly self aware, but then go straight back to posturing. It's why I'm here. It's a car crash every second.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:29 PM
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Eh? Covert homophobes? Towards male or female homosexuals? A gay man's femininity is different to a man who is in touch with, and understands femininity while being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:26 PM
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You see, this is a good answer. There is no gotcha moment, there is no one pill solves all issues solution. Your answer shows that you understand that a bit of everything is necessary. It's what we try telling others here in not putting all their eggs in one basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:40 PM
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And now you're following me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:26 PM
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femininity is usually a handicap Heh you keep landing yourself in it don't you lol. Who is femininity a handicap for? Guys or girls? Like is it feminine or 'gay' to cry (especially in front of others) if your sister or mother just passed away? Just one scenario out of many. Or are you saying that any vulnerability is a sign of weakness in a man, and hand movements is considered as one such vulnerability to you personally? This is about men being "masculine" enough for women. Who says? The red pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:34 PM
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Ah impeccable choice of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:06 PM
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You're the guy I spoke on behalf of the other day when you talked about eye contact. With all due respect, do you have any business talking about this stuff? Modern urban women with options get icks the most. The same 'modern urban women' that you've never talked to? Come off it man. There's all walks of life out there. Both men and women. And they're all happily living in the moment. Meanwhile you're over here online barricaded in some belief system that is causing you harm. I guess when you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:56 PM
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OP is 13 then. It has been decided.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:54 PM
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They play the victim. It's a character trait, part of narcissism. It's rife in the manosphere. It's why they can't see their own volitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:52 PM
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it's one of those things that makes you look kinda gay This is what caught my eye in the first place. What's wrong with gays? Not masculine enough? Is that what you're saying? Do you have a problem with femininity? If so, that's something you're going to have to look at within yourself. A lot of guys in here will fudge it up for themselves if we put them in a room full of beautiful women. They'd clench up, tight shoulders, they'll start fidgeting with their hands, which is a sign of major anxiet…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:42 PM
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Victim complex all around us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:35 PM
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These men got radicalised because they are too young and too emotional to begin with. It wasn't women who caused their issues. Maybe a small subset are like that, and even then how thin skinned can a person be to instantly fall for some indoctrination?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:33 PM
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Is there supposed to be a /s at the end of this? Confused.com over here🤷🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:22 PM
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Ok sure (even though I did answer) Like what? Are you supposed to go up to a girl and ask? Isn't that what "Chad" is doing? He's not making excuses for himself. He knows what he wants and goes and gets it. Oh but now you're going to say how you're ugly compared to Chad and women don't want short men blah blah. See? It comes back to confidence and self esteem and charisma, and passion and aaaall those traits that make a man a "man"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:08 PM
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Whoa there buddy hold your horses. You're talking to a guy to begin with. Let's play this in a different way ok? You know all those women that you are angry at for rejecting men? Even the hypothetical ones you made up in your mind to feel the rage, yes those ones... They don't know that you exist. So while you continue to seethe and simmer away, constantly reading up on the supposed nature of women and getting irate, they-simply-don't-know-that-you-exist. I need to know if you understand what I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:05 PM
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Well isn't it ironic that the red pill is meant to be a set of tools that men can use to try and seduce women and all that jazz? Except there's no talk of that here. And that's because these guys are incels in disguise, who aren't in it for trying to get with women. They outright hate women due to their indoctrination in those far off forums. So then traits such as confidence, self esteem, social skills are not even discussed. It's hypergamy this, and the wall that, and body count etc. These guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:59 PM
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And again, no one gives a fuck except for those caught up in it. No one thinks critically anymore. That's the new age of the internet and misinformation for ya. We pick our battles and we churn away hoping we're on the side of 'the truth' all the while, life goes on. We get old, times change, things we held on to dearly lose their meaning. I don't know how old you are but I bet you 10 years from now you'll look back at the current you and shake your head at who you were. That's just the way it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:55 PM
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"when his voice breaks" ick I'm only going to pick this one even though the rest are just as ridiculous lol. Who are these women? And again, is it ALL women who are like this? Or just a small subset? It makes me wonder how the guys all go online and get tricked to think of all women as a hive mind, while being in a hive mind themselves. No self awareness whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:49 PM
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Social skills. Something that is very lacking in the online manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:40 PM
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Yup. Nobody gives a fuck about people who get caught up in online scams and shitty movements. The real world exists and goes on without those who get caught up living their lives online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:30 PM
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How about this take: the manosphere only exists online. And there's a reason for that. The men who gravitate towards the manosphere are vulnerable individuals who lack self worth. They then become a very toxic bunch, but only online. If you took any one of these guys offline where they cannot operate from behind their anonymous usernames like online, they'll be the most docile, conforming members of society. Why? Because they know full well that their misogyny and bullshit that they spew online …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:11 PM
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Why aren't these guys concentrating on the women who aren't like that? Hmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:04 PM
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You mean you're past the point of having hope and are dragging down others with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:16 AM
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They're black pilled incels masquerading as red pilled. It's all a massive shitshow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:56 AM
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This is such a weak rebuttal and you know it. But hey, you're in the right place with all your chums to back you up and make you feel validated, so you got that going for you. Except here's the painful part. The real world goes on without you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:53 AM
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Well I'm still waiting for OP to respond. Won't hold my breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:52 AM
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So which one are you? Edit: 6 hours later: Hmm no answer. Whaddyaknow 🤷🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:50 AM
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Nah don't be. These are the minority that fell through the net. Normal men continue in life and make gains while this lot fall farther behind. The majority of these guys are in their teens and early 20's. They have zero self awareness or critical thinking for now. But at some point we all have an epiphany moment. You could sum up these guys as the 'i told you so' generation where they only learn when it's too late. By the time they do, their youth will be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:49 AM
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See I know you're not stupid. But I still feel the need to ask this: do those 2 examples you posted represent ALL women? Obviously not, right? So why did you go out of your way to make such a connection, then came here to post in order to feel vindicated in your mindset, while calling this post a CMV? You're not here to have your mind changed. You're here to feel validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:40 AM
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Of course, we are all repulsed by what we read on this forum and parts of the internet every day. What's sad is that they didn't start off like this. They were truly in pain and suffering and went online seeking answers to their problems and instead of finding the right answer, fell deep down rabbit holes like inceldom and red pill ideology and started labelling themselves as such. It's all shitty learned behaviour. And so some point due to the repetition of the process, they totally lost sight …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:34 AM
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Oh I know, I'm just injecting a different perspective and talking point just in case traits like confidence and self esteem go missed due to being in our blind spot. It answers a lot of questions for many talking points in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:28 AM
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Fair enough. I suppose my take was that the emotions that these men feel such as the anger and misogyny are dangerous since those feelings and ways of thinking lead to violence. They were once sad, fearful, and depressed. Along came the internet algorithms that flung them into the far corners and communities that turned those real emotions into anger and hate. These men were vulnerable and taken advantage of and manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:25 AM
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Then do they have a right in being misogynistic towards women while feeling entitled to getting sex from one like we see here often?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:13 AM
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Don't get too hung up on the statistics otherwise you'll miss the important part of it all, which is your journey through the dating world and knowing yourself better. You'll instead get side tracked by hitting certain markers to achieve arbitrary goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:10 AM
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If you know this, then you realise it's a way of being. It's a way of carrying oneself. They are not deep in their own heads wondering how they look, getting anxious about who's looking at them etc. They simply occupy their space and own it and pull people into their frame instead of the other way round. Where does that come from? A deep sense of self worth. This is the part that many young men here don't get or choose not to understand. Confidence, self esteem, these traits are gold dust. You'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:06 AM
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Peak? Yes. Maintain? Yea, for a very long time if they have discipline. So then, if they've looked after themselves, things will be easy sailing at 40. But if they are out of shape at 20, then 30 will be even tougher, and 40 will feel like a mountain to climb.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:05 PM
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This is silly. 40 should be the age to start preserving
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:12 PM
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💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:15 PM
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Like I've said. Don't do anything for the sake of getting noticed. NEVER. Only do it because you care about yourself. Be your own hype man. It's a slow process. Hang around in positive circles. Ditch any online spaces for positive ones. There's so much a person can do to gain confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:46 PM
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They should do it to gain confidence in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:31 PM
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Bit of advice: Never ever improve yourself for any reason other than truly wanting it for yourself, and only yourself. For example don't go 'looksmaxxing' or 'gymmaxxing' just in order to be noticed by the opposite sex. This will lead to disaster. Why? Because in your mind, this is all part of a transactional system where you believe that since you've changed yourself, you should now be accepted or admired, and when the opposite occurs where you get rejected, you become irate wondering what you …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:10 PM
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Johnny Mnemonic over here needs to understand his own mind first and foremost if he is indeed autistic. I guess I find it sad that the majority of these guys feel anger and don't realise that the anger is actually a feeling that surfaces while the real feeling is masked underneath like sadness, anxiety, and depression etc. So then they never get the help they need in the mental health department and they continue to compound their own issues further.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:52 PM
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As I mentioned in another post, if he's at the level where he needs advice about eye contact, which is beginner level stuff, he is out of his depth having supposedly learned all about female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:29 PM
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What you're saying is totally fine. There is a rule and a song and dance around things like eye contact. That wasn't my issue here. My point was that if guys here are struggling with beginner level social concepts like eye contact, do they have any business to be talking about hypergamy and all that jazz? It's totally messed with these guys' heads. It's why they're here every day repeating their life like groundhog day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:28 PM
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I guess what I'm saying here is how the men's beliefs here have been dictated by the red pill and has messed up many.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:23 PM
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And if the common man has fucked a lot? Sounds like some messed up double standard don't you think? And besides, is every woman in the world sleeping around? Obviously not right? So what's stopping guys here getting the girls that they do want?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:07 PM
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It's a tale as old as time. Happens on both sides. You'll find young women who don't allow their boyfriend to have female friends. Massive red flag. It means she has no concept of what's normal in the context and overcompensates. Especially in her reactions towards anything that she deems as cheating by her partner even when he just looks at another girl. The end result always turns out that she was the one cheating all along. Poor guy adhered to all her needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:04 PM
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Different men, different strokes. A neurodivergent man is going to see the world differently to a neurotypical. A narcissist will see the world differently to a common man and so on. Their beliefs dictate what they want. The real question is: where did that belief come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:58 PM
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This sub should be more about posts like this and yet they get deleted because advice posts are against the rules. That's fucked up. These guys need advice more than anything and this post shows the level they're at if they still find something like eye contact an alien concept. Instead what sells is rage infested posts about hypergamy or the wall nonesense that keeps these guys in the pits. This place needs an overhaul. Many men here are neurodivergent and needlessly suffering. Edit: Spellings
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:23 PM
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You get what you put in. A woman who accepts misogyny and being put under the foot is not high value. Which means the guy isn't high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:45 AM
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So which one are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:55 AM
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Yea it's definitely this. Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:56 AM
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The guy you're responding to wants attention. He's a hateful little troll. Don't bother engaging. It's a good post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:23 AM
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My man! 💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:57 PM
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Yea of course, it just seems worst now as similar people can find each other easily and form a hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:34 PM
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Every single one of these guys would have fared so much better without the current state of social media. It's the internet and all these algorithms that have fucked up this current generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:18 PM
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Or falling down online cesspits like the black pill where they're made to believe that they're ugly and short and that "it's over" - I still don't understand the mindset. I guess some guys enjoy self flagellation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:09 PM
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1 - The average woman has options. The average man doesn't. In what context? If the average woman is lacking in confidence and self esteem, does she really have options? Surely she will be just like guys where she realises beggars can't be choosers and would be happy just to get noticed. And no, no Chad is not sleeping with these women "because hypergamy" - if that's happening then she's one hell of a siren who has figured out some next level red pill tactics... Then again r/RedPillWomen exist, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:58 PM
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Unfortunately these guys have extreme neurodivergence and they need to have 100% control. Control of her thoughts, her autonomy, and her body, because they justify it with the idea that by being the breadwinner, they are doing everything and deserve everything One guy a while back said how since he's not going to hit his wife or cheat on her deserves sex from her. Like damn, it's not transactional. And nor is the fact that he's not cheating or hitting her some sort of accolade to admire. That's …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:23 PM
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Said the chronically online miserable person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:06 PM
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they are not arguing in good faith Which is like 90% of leftist "debates", especially in women centric subs. Bit of a stretch don't you think? There are bad actors and bad faith arguments in all communities. Then there are saboteurs and agent provocateurs. Same as here. And then there are trolls. They want validation. That's it. You can't question her "lived experience", no matter how wrong it might be. Same again here. Some guy comes in and makes a post about AWALT or hypergamy and is seeking v…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:54 PM
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If my wife dies, I get the mortgage paid for instantly as well as get a huge lump sum from her workplace. And the same vice versa. Bet that's got you thinking eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:45 PM
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Because they think that by being the breadwinner they deserve everything. It's a messed up logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:43 PM
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Who chose to be a breadwinner in your scenario? Most modern marriages are 50/50. If a guy wants a breadwinner type marriage it's his fault if shit hits the fan. He is basically saying he is the man of the house and in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:42 PM
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No. Those are not valid uses of that term. If someone is using that term, they are not arguing in good faith. Simple as that. You'll see me point out the stupidity of certain groups of women on here. I talk about my own niece who is 18 and her whole life revolves around Instagram and tiktok where she thinks getting views is a sign of her worth. Yet in real life she is the most insecure woman I know with zero self respect or self love. And yet guys here would call her a '10/10' - it's all fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:27 PM
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Couldn't have sex for a while because I couldn't use my peepee. For real though, had to have a testicle taken out due to possible cancer. Didn't want the risk. Am 40 so all sorts of hell breaks loose as we age. Back on the mend now and all is well. Sometimes we don't have sex in a month and that's fine too. It doesn't make us think OMG something is wrong in the relationship, is he/she cheating?! - no instead it's a case of communicating the issue and then coming to an agreement. Though I guess n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:15 PM
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It's self inflicted. There was no such thing 20 years ago since the internet wasn't this shitshow it is now with all the algorithms and stupidity of people falling down rabbit holes and ending up far worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:07 PM
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Cool just don't mistake invincible with invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:54 PM
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They're all grifters. They feed on negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:53 PM
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But aren't you just transmitting your own insecurities here? Like how well do you know yourself? Are you a long or short fuse? Are you romantic or not? Are you masculine or feminine? Are you sensible or a narcissist / psychopath devoid of emotion and love? Suddenly we have a huge plethora of factors that feed into the outcome. If marriage isn't for you then it isn't for you. From an early age I knew I wanted to settle down. I didn't go through any phase of hating women or seeing them as enemies.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:10 PM
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The kind of person who you can have that sort of long lasting love and relationship with does exist. But I need to make it explicitly clear that they will not be found if a person has the red pill as their guide. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:50 PM
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Ever heard of love? It transcends sex For approximately 7 years, the amount of time it takes to raise a helpless infant out of helplessness That's why there's the "7 year itch" Enjoy Really? You believe in this hocus pocus? That was a terrible rebuttal. Even so, mine is now an 8 year running total. I am doomed! Doomed I tell you! Maybe a valid consideration for when marriage was lifelong. No longer. Well what do you think "Till death do us part" means? It's not a weekend fling is it? I think it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:42 PM
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There are all forms of grifters on the internet. We have Anal Taint who targets young men who are vulnerable and very lonely. They're easy targets. Adults won't fall for his trickery as they have enough critical thinking to see through his grift. We have this Charleston guy who targets a different demographic of older adults who are right leaning and fed up with the way of the world and will eat up anything to remain angry. It emboldens them. We have right and left wing news outlets who churn ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:36 PM
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Get married first to have this talking point. You're spreading misinformation as well as creating your own cognitive dissonance and confirmation biases about marriage. I'm married. Have been for 5 years. And knew my wife for 3 years prior. Ever heard of love? It transcends sex. Besides, sex is a by-product of many other factors. Sex is so much better when you match the other person on so many levels. I know you know this. It's why you agree that sex with a prostitute is not the same as sex with …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:19 PM
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Haha classic video.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:11 AM
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Honestly, you have my sympathy for the hardships you have faced due to your neurodivergence. It's evident to me every day seeing my own niece and nephew go through it. But it's not over. It's never over. Think about how there are neurodivergent women in EXACTLY the same boat as you. They are out there. It's just that they probably have a greater network to work with and so their issues don't seem as evident. Men don't have that luxury because by default, we're supposed to have it figured out, we…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:51 AM
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It all takes time. I was diagnosed near on 20 years ago, with Asperger's Syndrome, which has since between called "high-functioning autism", "ASD", and other names, as you point out. But if nobody in those 20 years has thought to say "hey, uh, OK, so we still don't really know what causes this, but we have a fairly good idea of how it impacts people who suffer from it, maybe we should be doing more to protect them and steer them towards a happy and productive life", then they're not trying hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:14 AM
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Sudden flashback to Cosmo telling women that all guys liked hot burning candle wax on their skin while blindfolded. Shudder
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:43 PM
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When I spoke about giving a shit, I meant giving a shit about the individuals. The experiences and emotions of the people who are that vulnerable in the first place. Not about the ways they might end up being spokespeople for eeeeeeevil internet charlatans. If that's what you're giving a shit about, because it might hurt women, you've missed the point entirely. Exactly like I suggested in my comment above. It's only suddenly worth talking about when it's become some kind of violence risk. People…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:32 PM
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There's a very sad post on the front of Reddit right now where a clearly neurodivergent young man is trying to assert his control and authority on the teacher by acting 'alpha' - thank goodness the teacher handled the situation well. If anyone ever gave half a shit instead of laughing at men like this and telling them they don't deserve connection, maybe they wouldn't feel a need to turn to men like Tate in the first place. There are many that give all the shit about this. There are many who shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:54 PM
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All the best to you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:40 PM
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I'll answer. There is no blue pill. There is no red pill. There is no spoon. For you see, life is so fucking complex. Life simply cannot be explained by those pills. Especially not the fucking black pill bullshit that has radicalised so many young minds. There's a very sad post on the front page of Reddit right now where a clearly neurodivergent young man is trying to assert his control and authority on the teacher by acting 'alpha' - thank goodness the teacher handled the situation well. But ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:20 PM
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And yet it still falls on deaf ears. Check out the guy below us ducking and dodging and moving goalposts so not to get caught out by some logic. There's nothing we can do to help guys understand until they are ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:46 PM
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Ok fair enough I can appreciate that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:01 PM
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You're red pilled aren't you? The tenets of the red pill are coursing through your veins. AWALT and the wall are part of your beliefs. I merely question your understanding of 'logic'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:39 PM
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Logic eh? What part of using terminology like AWALT is logical? What part of the wall is logical? Come on man. You're pushing a dead horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:32 PM
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I have to ask. Are you happy right now in this moment of your life? Genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:18 PM
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For me it didn't fuck me up as such. Just that I realized I was leaning on it because I lacked social skills and confidence and self esteem. Plus I was regurgitating someone else's beliefs. It's no different today where youngsters think that Andrew Tate is the shit. It's just horrifically short sighted. Something that all guys here seem to refuse to accept is that confidence and self esteem are the gateway to getting what they want from life. They are very important facets to any person. Instead…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:10 PM
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The notion and precursor here is based on a red pill teaching which is that men and women can't be friends. Wrong. They can be just friends. A guy can be just a friend without seeing himself as the shoulder to cry on. A woman can be just a friend without being given some label. I have friends of the opposite sex from my school days some 30 years ago. And it's just that. We're friends. I'm not some shoulder to cry on for them and they're not my Sunday fuck. They're human beings with their own liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:14 PM
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Good post. Let's put it this way. If everyone here spoke like you just did, there wouldn't be many posts on this sub. Everyone would be out there gaining real world experiences and understanding the intricacies of everything. Instead we have guys here who are stuck in the rage loop anger phase and yet they think they're 'alpha' while putting women below them due to their beliefs brought about by whatever pill they've associated themselves with. This bullshit wasn't around 15 or more years ago. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:57 PM
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And you'll never know what true happiness is. Do you think sex will bring you happiness? Do you believe you'll go through life without a hitch? The moment you have any health ailments, you'll be on that path all alone. End of. Keep having sex. You'll still feel totally empty inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:47 PM
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Ah of course. Up until that point you were so certain about your stance. Now you've taken the conversation off course by saying I'm a know it all. Weren't you a know it all up until this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:30 PM
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I was in it son. For 10 painful years. You're just repeating the mistakes of those that came before you. But you carry on. It's an "I told you so situation" Those men who gave advice were scorned. Now you're the next scorned individual who has fallen in line
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:45 PM
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Doesn't exist; she would need to be at least 30 to finish her doctorates This is your indoctrination in full view of everyone. Women of all types exist. You just choose to concentrate on the ones that justify your rage. Whatever. The point is, the women here give a glimpse into the female thought process, and it's disgusting. Then don't get with women if you hate them that much 🤣 This is so stupid. And nothing of value was lost today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:43 PM
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I too could pick a certain crowd of women whose ideology and traits make me angry. What you're saying is that you are actively seeking out individuals to fulfill your confirmation bias and thereby activate your reticular activation system. That's an easy task for anyone. Does a female doctor who saves lives, has her house in order, is young and beautiful disgust you? If so that's a you problem because you've clumped them all together. Chances are you will feel that you are not on her level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:51 PM
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Way too many generalisations here. By being part of the red pill ideology, over time, you have LEARNED some false ideas about women, how they think, and their intelligence. You have been taught that, as a man, you know better than women because they are XYZ. It’s going to take you time and lots of active practice to UNLEARN. You have to challenge the ideas you have built around why you don’t respect them in the first place. Then, you have to LEARN how to view women in a more realistic light. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:56 AM
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Tell me. Before you swallowed the red pill did you know any of the terminology? The misogyny? The power dynamics? The contempt? Your way of thinking has changed. That's called taking on an ideology. And whether you realise it or not, unfortunately this new ideology is damaging you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:07 AM
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That's hilariously backwards. This sounds like what someone in denial would say
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:12 AM
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Sure, and that's just as sad to see. We're all divided. But notice your own response. There was a chance for you to look within and see if you fitted the bill. Only you were too quick to point the finger in the direction of women. And that's fine, it just means it's going to take longer to have that moment of self reflection to see if whether you are in a happy place and whether you can do anything to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:53 AM
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There's a world full of them. It's just that those who have committed to an ideology like the red pill are taught that 'all women are the same' or a hive mind. This limits only the person who believes this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:46 AM
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Indeed. And there's not much research available showing emotional range and neurodivergence in terms of how a foreign ideology can affect a neurodivergent person. All I know is we're all in pain one way or another. We're all trying to win our battles and wars. It's how we cope (or not) that defines us as well as where we end up in the grand scheme of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:44 AM
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Oh go on then Papa Shango. I mean The Godfather. No I mean Kama Mustafa.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:33 AM
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Yes you're right. I'm only just beginning to learn about the effect neurodivergence has on certain individuals. As you have shown, not all neurodivergent people are the same. So then the question becomes: how is it that you and others like yourself who while autistic; are different to those who say unsavoury things about women. What has caused them to seethe at the level that they are at? Is it environmental? Is it learned behaviour? Is it genetic? Is it personality traits? Is it experience? Doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:23 AM
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It's not just women's words that cause this. It's these men's inability to use logic, critical thinking, and reasoning. They think with emotion rather than logic. And as I've mentioned in my own post, these guys are neurodivergent. That means no matter how intelligent these guys may be, the way these men's minds work causes them to see the world as binary. If we take your post, it fits the bill unfortunately. There's a lack of self awareness where you will be seen as having been programmed over …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:49 AM
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I think it's a net negative but not for the reasons people think. For the longest time I've thought about this. The majority of guys here have extreme neurodivergence. That means they are not like normal individuals (neurotypicals) who have a semblance of common sense and logic. I don't mean that in an insulting way. More that these neurodivergent guys will think we are making fun of them or suppressing them further, which is simply not the case. These guys need to realise that their emotions ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:35 AM
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Haha indeed I bring this up often and these guys start seething. It's quite funny really. Logic beats stupidity every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:25 AM
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No matter how often we tell you guys how important attitude and personality is, you folks won't learn or hear. If you're neurodivergent then that makes sense as confidence and self esteem are alien concepts to neurodivergent people. But if you're not, then there's no reason why you cannot succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:15 PM
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Ok cool. You keep believing that until the cows come home. You're causing yourself untold pain and damage. If you went out right now you'd see men who are less than 5'8 dating just fine. This whole height thing is online propaganda. And then you folks find one study that isn't even peer reviewed as fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:27 PM
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Ha now I know you're trolling and seeking attention. Good day :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:52 PM
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I'm guessing you don't know how to have a discussion? This post is obviously not made by somebody who actually likes Andrew Tate. This means you are on his side. I put forward my argument. If you have anything to say then we can compare notes. Or are you afraid of showing your stance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:40 PM
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So you do believe we're living in the matrix? smh What you cannot see or realise is that if you follow him, it means you're already indoctrinated. But then again indoctrination is invisible to the person who is deep down that rabbit hole. Enjoy the journey I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:38 PM
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You folks won't learn. This whole height and looks bullshit is a self inflicted wound created by the black pill cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:29 PM
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Give me just one reason why he should be liked. The guy is the epitome of what is considered a grifter and someone who has zero worth to society. He preys on the weak and vulnerable young men in society who are lonely, angry, and seething. They are easy picking anyway to any sort of grift. It's why his crap won't work on adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:25 PM
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Was this written by a 14 year old? You said everything apart from the bit where we are supposedly living in the matrix and that the powers that be don't want him speaking the 'truth' You're fighting for the wrong team but you'll never know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:12 PM
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Sure, but that doesn't actually help, because by the time you realise you're in the shit, you're already deep in the shit, making it incredibly difficult to get back out again, for the reasons I mentioned and more. That's correct, it's incredibly difficult to get back out. Only that us humans are so incredibly adept at hardships. We think of our ancestors even from as short back as just 250 years ago. They went through famine, wars, natural disasters, and diseases, yet their imperatives were to …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:08 PM
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This is a great response so thank you for taking the time to articulate it so well. Yes you're absolutely right that confidence begets confidence and the same is true for the opposite. Think about how long it has taken you to realise just that small nugget of information to decipher your position in life. The guy who 'got it' very early on and gained the confidence, he didn't start off as such. Even "Chad" wasn't Chad until he became Chad. In other words, success lies on the far side of failure.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:55 PM
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Oh absolutely TRP is an addictive rage loop. But that's all it is. It empowers the person and makes them feel like they have found some sort of a cheat code. In other words it's a pseudo-initiation of manhood. One of the issues is that guys here who are neurodivergent seems to have a 0 or 1 switching methodology to life when instead life is way too complex. They have a flawed 'if this, then that' hypothesis about their experiences which don't hold water but from their perspective it seems sound.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:54 PM
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So toxic masculinity basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:47 PM
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Can I ask if whether what you believe is actually reality or whether it's just your map of said reality? See there's a saying in psychology - 'the map is not the territory.' Meaning: whatever you think you know, is only your own experience and understanding, and not actual reality. If all you've been taught and shown is one way of thinking, how will you ever know that other realities exist? How do you know that yours is the truth? Plus where do you congregate to try and get a different viewpoint…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:39 PM
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I see the red pill as a side arm that has its many shortcomings. For example like in a computer game, the red pill would be like a weapon where when the player uses it, it depletes his health bar pretty quickly. So it's not the best weapon. Many guys here are not suitable for the red pill. They have neurodivergent issues, mental health issues, and simply too young to understand the intricate levels of details of the dating world. Armed with the red pill, most of them end up in the anger phase wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:24 PM
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If you want to see change in your life you must stop seeing the world the way you've been programmed to based on how you just laid out your thoughts. Change your attitude and beliefs = change our own outcome. Only you'll know when you're ready to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:46 PM
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For what it's worth my comment got downvoted to hell but whatever. It goes to show guys aren't looking within to see if maybe the issue is with their way of thinking. What the red pill does to many young minds is to create a false sense of superiority in terms of status. The guys go on to place woman below them. The same guys who have bags of unresolved issues. Because after all, if a guy has his house in order, and has successes to lean on in life, he won't need to lean on the red pill for supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:28 PM
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Each and every one of us has our own battles and trying to win our wars. It's why I mention often how guys here shame single mothers for supposedly having got pregnant at the hands of a man who then walked away or overweight women. We don't know the reason for their struggles. We don't know the circumstances. Imagine if a woman is struggling with her weight due to ill health that she can't control like ovary disorder or due to trauma such as childhood abuse in terms of getting bullied or sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:23 PM
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Indeed life is a thousand shades of grey. Life is multi-layered, multi-faceted, and multi-dimensional. You simply cannot turn around and point at just one aspect of life as the reason why someone is single. But try telling that to those who believe they're single due to their height or looks smh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:00 PM
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Mental health issues can cause a person, man or woman to see the world differently. We all wear lenses with which we see the world. That lense is our belief. Some women, just like men, have given up and believe they're worthless. Happens on both sides. There's always a root cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:50 PM
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Yup. There's unresolved trauma or issues afoot when guys say they can't find someone. It's almost like a defence mechanism for not wanting to get hurt. Everyone's on a different level.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:48 PM
1

Get out of here with your common sense! (But good post. Unfortunately you'll just rub these people up the wrong way as they don't want to change)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:01 PM
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Every girl I know is on birth control and every other girl I know is on antidepressants. Go! And every guy in here is neurodivergent, has a multitude of anger issues, thinks they're 'alpha' while being chronically online. ...Go!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:49 PM
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I get the gist of this post but what I find interesting is the cognitive dissonance and the lack of self awareness on display from the guys who call themselves red pill responding here. Some are black pilled which is even worse. With all due respect, these guys aren't exactly god's gift to women. These guys have masses of mental health issues afoot. Ironic really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:59 PM
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You haven't answered a single question I put to you. How is having confidence and self esteem a bad thing? Forget positive attitude for a second and answer the above. You won't lose face just to answer that truthfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:21 PM
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Your response was akin to saying "lalalala not listening!" How is it a pointless thing to say that confidence and self esteem are incredibly important to us humans? The only kind of person that won't understand that are people who lack those traits and those who refuse to acknowledge. And possibly neurodivergent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:03 PM
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Ain't that the truth. It's very sad to see. But they're choosing this. Chances are the majority are neurodivergent. That would explain pretty much everything in light of lack of self awareness and admission. Either that or we're dealing with proper narcissists and psychopaths. Though I doubt this is the case. It's most likely the former
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:51 PM
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OP it's a shame your post got deleted. A little word of advice so that you don't get too frustrated at the stupidity of these individuals - they are a minority and won't affect the world. It's sad to say that because it means we are choosing not to care. But consider the fact that they don't care about themselves -not yet anyway. You cannot reason someone out of a position that they never reasoned themselves into. That is the core principle here. You cannot change their mind. Besides, the majori…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:42 PM
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You seem like a reasonable well adjusted person and I'm sure you'll do a great job of raising your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:35 PM
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That's not what I said. Please address what I meant by having confidence and self esteem (a positive attitude comes after having the former) Guys here are in the pits. They have zero self worth. Yet they think that the red pill is their saviour as if they've found a cheat code. They don't realise they are neglecting themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:33 PM
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Precisely, it's all about these new pills like the black pill that has indoctrinated young men to believe that it's over and to give up, which further get compounded by YouTube grifters who make them buy into a belief that further damages these young guys. Makes my blood boil. And to top it off, some young guy comes into this sub right on time saying they've seen the 'truth' and that all women are x, y, z - one more young man lost to the dangerous rabbit holes. But I digress. We cannot help them…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:24 PM
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Let's run with what's been said here. Let's put 2 guys who are exactly the same looks (x/10 etc.), height (short), and other facets of his life in the same room with women. The only difference we go ahead and create between the two are attitude and self worth and confidence levels. We'll give one guy a very negative outlook and attitude and low self esteem, while we give the other the total opposite. Who do you think will succeed in that room? Or even if neither succeeded, who will be unaffected…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:21 PM
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Was it before the time of internet algorithms and all this pill nonsense? Because that would make sense. It's now far too easy to fall for any sort of propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:11 PM
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Personally I think a lot of the guys here are at the extreme end of autism Ding ding ding. We have a winner! 🏅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:01 PM
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Getting indoctrinated without realising and then going deep down rabbit holes is what causes that anger to remain high. Slowly, critical thinking and logic begin to fade. By the time a person recognises what's happened, either their youth is gone or it's far too difficult to climb back out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:57 PM
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Precisely. The woman that RP men think are 'high value' are actually low value. Toxicity breeds toxicity. Toxic people find toxic people. RP men are not high value. The desperation for sex tells us that. The misogyny speaks volumes. The need to put women below them tells us that. Why would a woman who is let's say a doctor, has her wealth in check, is attractive, has many positive character traits want to settle for a toxic individual? She'll want someone on her level. And yet guys here will ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:09 PM
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What part is fantasy? The guy is building his empire while being comfortable in his own skin. He's doing the things he loves. He isn't doing anything he doesn't have to in order to get with some woman. That's a disastrous path. What the red pill does to many men is to instill an idea that you have to be a specific way to get women. In other words telling him to change himself. Yet look around you. So many guys stuck in the anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:12 AM
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Guess who got a one month ban... 🤣 Hoping you're good 💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:39 AM
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You can take scenario B and build on it tenfolds by adding so many other positive habits that enriches the life of the person. Overall not sure that's considered blue pill but whatever, people on one side now give a normal life a silly label to make themselves feel better. Scenario A can work if the person is self aware at all times knowing not to overdo it. Though the question remains. Is he/she self aware... This then raises the question of how men view women and vice versa. For example guys h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:39 AM
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Attitude matters a hell of a lot. Imagine going into a discussion with women with contempt for them like some guys have here. Now reverse the situation. Imagine a woman who has been hurt by her ex, where she then paints all men as assholes. Obviously overshooting the mark right? But imagine you having to talk to her while she has contempt for you and treats you with disrespect. Won't feel good right? Both situations are not truths. They're experience-binded and the persons involved needs to chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:54 AM
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But I thought that by knowing the tenets of the red pill, it meant guys get the upper hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:09 AM
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Long post incoming. Here I'll explain it for you OP. Been reading all your replies and I can see just how frustrating it is when people don't get what you're saying or: deliberately be obtuse and shady. You asked a genuine question but unfortunately it is in the blind spot of every red pill man. Self introspection is not part of the red pill. There is no tenet in the red pill where it teaches men any internal positive values like humility, modesty, grace, self esteem, loyalty and so on. It is in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:00 AM
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Even with all that being said, your assessment doesn’t even hold true - lots of men without this masculine bravado still have success, so i’m not sure where you’re getting your info from. Unfortunately falling down rabbit holes online and getting indoctrinated takes a person beyond the level where they can use logic and reasoning, and instead they end up arming themselves with the anger emotion as the all encompassing go-to response to all issues. Especially regarding women. They simply need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:50 PM
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Please understand the difference between healthy masculinity and toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:41 PM
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Spoiler alert: it's not masculinity, it's toxic masculinity in its purest form.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:22 PM
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When the help is provided here, it is instantly batted away. So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:22 PM
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Your shortcomings
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:24 PM
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Take responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:20 PM
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Take that just world fallacy bullshit someplace else. Your lovely, and open minded magic the gathering playing oneitis will never be deemed a Chad because of his personality. Just how it is. Was this necessary? The majority of your posts are very anger filled and contradictory. Perhaps spend some time in self reflection maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:19 PM
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If you want a high value woman who has all the positive character traits and good looks, you'd need to match it. You can't be in the negative and expect them to accept you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:16 PM
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There are thousands of negative and positive character traits. I find it highly ironic that guys here discuss men and women without knowing about personalities and character traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:23 PM
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So if she is a total idiot and an utter moron in her personality and mindset without any intelligence on show, you're saying you'd be fine with that simply because she is good looking? What does that say about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:21 PM
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you cannot save anyone who doesn't want too be saved Like the majority of men here then. Thread closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:45 PM
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So what are you doing to overcome this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:39 PM
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Attractive just in looks? Or personality traits also?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:22 PM
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Yes the loneliness is crippling as you put it. I was once in that place. As you decide what it is you want to do with your life such as your profession and the kind of people you want to be around to further your goals, you'll subconsciously seek out those exact opportunities. It becomes a positive self fulfilling prophecy. You'll realise the hobbies that you have will drive your happiness and through that alone, you'll find others with similar mindset to you. Many other opportunities open up as…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:19 AM
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Not to sound pedantic, but if it was enjoyable and easy we'd all be super rich and super happy in all areas of our life. Plus we would go ahead and try all problematic tropes like trying cocaine or gambling or heroin or drinking, getting addicted and then just as easily dropping them the next day. It's hard for that exact reason because we're climbing uphill out of a rabbit hole that we went down. The payoff is liberating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:00 AM
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Eh, potential for greatness is only really of value if you do something with it. You're wishing to dedicate your life to helping others. The journey of becoming a doctor on its own is immensely powerful to the self in terms of using potential. Also, although I recognize that there are people out there who have much lower standards for others than I do for myself, it is a fact that I will have a far easier time finding respect and adoration when I am objectively successful. Spoiler alert here I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:47 PM
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Yea exactly. As they say, Rome wasn't built in a day. It's one of those all encompassing situations and negative repetition processes. For example if you eat poorly, and you KNOW that you are eating poorly, the outcome over time is a negative slide. You just have to watch out for beliefs that are pushed on to you especially online, that may be detrimental to you rather than helping you grow positively.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:38 PM
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To be a doctor carries immense value in society. Thing is you already have immense value by simply being a human being and the potential that you have for greatness, like the rest of us. You just don't know it due to your current mindset and your current predicament, which is as much an environmental issue as they are mental.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:29 PM
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Possibly negative self fulfilling prophecies and catastrophization and confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:03 PM
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Wow this is a very self defeating comment, don't you think? I bet you can't even link or screenshot just ONE actual example of this. You can blur out the names and shit to hide their identity, I'm not asking you to doxx anyone. You set the gauntlet for the above poster to prove their point. That's a good start. But then... I simply don't believe this actually exists. It would be a form of begging that is too pathetic to be attractive, even if it did exist. This... So you're already deciding ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:48 PM
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I'm going by your own comments. In one of your profile comments you mentioned how you would settle for simply having a pulse. In another post you mention you would only settle for a high value woman. In regards to your second comment, what value do you bring in order to get with a high value woman? Besides, what exactly is 'high value' in context of?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:38 PM
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Yeah, by the time I'm able to attract women, after the absurd amount of effort I'll have put in by that point, after all the suffering, I will never settle. So by your own words, aren't you in fact settling right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:20 PM
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So are you saying if you're not good looking or tall or rich, then what's the point right? If that's the case, why even complain? Isn't it best to settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:18 PM
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That's a decent accolade and experience on your resume, so kudos to you. Would you say you have the same accolades and experience with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:53 PM
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Would you say you have the critical thinking ability to know if you've been brainwashed?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:12 PM
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Do you know what indoctrinated means
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:59 PM
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Btw why do you find it repulsive suggesting a relationship based on traditional norms? Marriage has always been because of convenience for both parties, both getting what they want. If we look around us, you'll find every red pill guy here is angry and seething. What is that, if not an emotion?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:21 AM
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If you look at my profile you'll see that I'm married for 5 years. I love my wife and we have been through thick and thin together. We're equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:39 PM
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A relationship based on love primary benefits women, and gives her the most power. Love is an emotion, and women are emotional creatures that means the terms of the relationship is primary set based on their emotion. women control sex, that is why a lot of relationship becoming a dead bed. Men want sex, we even want sex from women we don’t even like at all or at that particular time. Umm. Have you ever been in love? All that your sentence amounts to is a big no to that question. To believe that …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:36 PM
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Yes. I hire a private investigator to know everything about a potential partner and I give said potential partner all the information about myself. Wow ok. I don't see the problem as long as there is consent. But you hire private investigators to spy on your potential partner. She never gave consent to being spied on. This is all highly immoral. I guess your username makes more sense now...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:35 PM
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That would require a precursor of you and the other party doing a show and tell of who you both are and what values you both bring to the table that would be a match for each other right? You cannot know through negotiations as that would make it a zero sum game scenario where one party gets the upper hand and wins while the other loses. What I gather you saying is that you want someone who is happy with losing who is happy to do so. Am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:24 PM
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So is that a 50/50 transaction of give and take? Or one where one party gets the upper hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:19 PM
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An interesting nihilistic take overall. What do you seek?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:03 PM
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What is your ideal relationship dynamic/partner? Ideal as I don't need to care about reality? I stay at home, I have no life of my own but exist only as a satellite/support for my partner's life and goals. A very negative outlook there don't you think? It plays the victim card masked as passive aggressive towards the woman. I don't think anyone would get with someone who has these dark and negative thoughts about them. But I was born a man and need to care about reality so that remains in the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:43 PM
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From your posts you seem very eloquent and intelligent, which is why I focused on the attitude aspect as an area that could be causing you issues since attitude isn't necessarily linked to intelligence. Attitude comes from experience and observations. I speak for myself when I say that for the longest time I had a negative attitude towards women. What I didn't realise is that I had victim complex that clouded my perspective. Plus I hung around with the wrong crowd. Lots of environmental factors …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:58 PM
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Thank you. Likewise, this community is a better place with people like yourself. The young men here are suffering and I hate seeing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:20 PM
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Treat others how you wish to be treated. It's the best and only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:17 PM
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Thanks friend. All on the mend now and the relationship is even stronger as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:25 PM
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5 years married. Had a freakish health issue crop up out of nowhere that completely sideswiped me. Made me feel like I lost my manhood. Life can truly humble you in any given moment. Wife was by my side at every step. Woke up in a hospital bed with the wife sitting beside me. That level of support speaks for itself. A person can gain modesty and humility as a result of life events that are bestowed upon them because they realise how fragile life is despite showing bravado. But it can go both way…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:39 PM
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Seriously dude. You need to stop visiting those forums where everything revolves around it being "over" - you're hurting your chances of happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:28 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:24 AM
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Is it over though? I've had girlfriends in the past who gave me the silent treatment. I put a stop to that shit from day one after learning how to address that toxic behaviour. And that's all it is. A learned behaviour by her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:13 AM
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I don't understand the need to catastrophize everything in relation to women. It's a self defeating ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:11 AM
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So as it seems like most women are repulsed my most men, and if they truly want a family, after they bask in male attention up until the last minute. What you've said here is a belief that you've instilled within and it's merely speculation. You'll need to go out there and experience many relationships of your own while also seeing others' relationships to make a true picture of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:07 AM
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If you take learning to ride a bike as an example here, was it your fault that you fell off when you first tried to learn how to ride? Obviously not right? You simply had zero prior experience. You didn't go blaming yourself. Nor did anyone blame you. You got back on the bike until you nailed it. If your girlfriend or wife blames you and it's truly your fault, then you'd be right to fix the issue, and even then it would be good to set a boundary. If she blames you because she is playing victim a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:04 AM
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I don't think I'm lucky at all. I'm just awake and unpilled. I'm on a journey like everyone else, learning as I go. I have so much to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:59 AM
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As a married man of 5 years, no. It's not "over" we both sit down and point out issues we have with each other. You're merely showing your lack of experience and knowledge there to say such a thing, and that's totally OK. No one is supposed to know everything before jumping in. That's seriously impossible. Everything is a learning experience. At one time my wife and I would start point scoring and finger pointing and blaming each other and bringing up the past, whilst being emotionally wound up.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:47 AM
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He's crying out for attention but indirectly. Let's see if he figures it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:32 AM
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Oh wow. Just wow...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:32 AM
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You might think your post is justified in how you've worded it. But instead, you've shown the world your insecurities and shortcomings as a man. Ironic then, that you speak about how women are repulsed by men. No they are repulsed by men like you with your ideology and lack of experience and knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:30 AM
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But the very same men here have the very issues you've stated. Yet these men think they're god's gifts to women😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:53 PM
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Now imagine how far these men would get if they concentrated on themselves and understood their own emotions. Instead, they're made to believe that there's nothing wrong with them. That they are manly men. That's a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:50 PM
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And anger, is a surface level response to the deeper anchored emotion. Usually sadness or fear bonded with trauma of some kind. Edit: how incredibly telling and sad that this post got downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:38 PM
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Nicely put checks username... Armpitpics🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:36 PM
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lol I hate those women who say that shit. They're basically telling you that they are toxic and have childish mentality..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:35 PM
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Love it when a well nuanced and logical person with great reasoning ability speaks in this sub. It cuts short any pointless discussion. Look how short this comment trail is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:29 PM
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That's some amazing mental gymnastics on display there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:16 PM
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All the best to you then :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:05 PM
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I criticise my wife's bad behaviours when they are on show. But I have never once gone and used the word "cock carousel" to describe her past. That's a huge difference between criticising and defamation and crucifixion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:04 PM
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That would be amazing and all to share such responsibilities, but sometimes the best of us forget what forum we're in where the only thing that matters to these guys is getting their dicks wet through sex. The dude even mentioned sex outright, essentially stating that he doesn't love his spouse outright (to love and to hold)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:25 AM
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Exercising his inflated ego on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:21 AM
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Facts according to one person's anecdotal evidence doesn't make it a world fact. It's just reticular activation system at work for you and only you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:21 AM
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In a marriage the same can be true so long as the couple are honest with each other and have respect for each other. I'm married for 5 years and the pandemic did a number on myself and the wife where we fell into bad habits with eating and lack of exercise. We decided to join the gym however I went more often than the wife. The difference began to show as I changed while she was still struggling. That difference alone built dread in my wife, not that I was actively trying to create that feeling …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:15 AM
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I'm making guesses. What is your reality that you believe in?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:01 AM
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That you're ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:47 AM
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I'm all for those things you mentioned but we know which community the majority of these guys belong to. There's no self responsibility in here and they go outright at blaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:46 AM
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You just showed the world your negative belief system. Good going dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:44 AM
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Exactly. I mentioned this in another post and got downvoted but basically if a beautiful woman approached any of these guys (who seem to know so much about female psychology)- despite all that knowledge, they'd freeze and reject her advances because they are not ready and they certainly haven't accepted themselves. In fact they rejected themselves from the start due to lack of self value.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:43 AM
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It's not like makeup came about only yesterday. It's been happening for thousands of years. Are men here complaining about the history of makeup? Let's face it, your and my mother used makeup to seduce our fathers, thereby giving birth to us in the long run. What now? It's a self defeating topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:50 AM
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Kinda like everything in this whole forum then isn't it? Shall we talk about hypergamy, or the wall or AWALT? Ooh! How about solipsism? That's a good one isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:47 AM
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Says who? What if the woman has bags of self worth and dignity? Besides, looks are subjective anyway (opening a can of worms here) But then again, knowing what forum I'm in where a woman is assigned an arbitrary number between, 1-10 that defines everything about her, it won't be surprising which way this conversation might go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:33 AM
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Well sure, some women look great bald or with a trim. It's sexy as hell. I think the real issue here is that the level of demonising of makeup by the guys here comes from a place of victim complex. Same as it ever was with this community.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:24 AM
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I am of the belief that every single human being on earth has a moment of epiphany. Not like the rose tinted ones you see in movies. But a darker nuanced and painful realisation that hits you. I had that moment while in the throes of red pill mindset back then and it came due to the questions I was being asked by those around me at the time who lived a normal happy life while I was suffering despite denying it myself. Ever since then I turned it around, and I feel like I should be here asking th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:20 AM
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I wouldn't necessarily class it as that. Hence why my initial OP was asking if we can speak openly about mental health and got instant pushback. The longer we spend talking about all the facets of female psychology without addressing the elephant in the room, which is men's mental health, the longer it takes for things to change around here for the better for the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:13 AM
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I fell for the red pill 1.0 some 17 years ago when I was desperately seeking answers to my issues whilst using faulty logic. I'd like to think that several years later with experience, knowledge, and hindsight under my belt, I'd have the capacity to see a scam upfront. But as you say, you can never know for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:09 AM
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The moment I put a woman beneath me whilst using derogatory and dehumanising terms against them, then I'm being misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:02 AM
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Oh absolutely. Older folks fall for different tropes such as politics of the land or worst, QAnon. It's down to the age and the topic of the day. As you say, it's going to be interesting. Best to keep your wits and critical thinking levels up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:01 AM
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Whether it comes out of your face or not, it CHANGES the way you look. That differentiation is the talking point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:53 AM
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Yea, see we do grow out of these phases, yet in today's modern age with internet cultures and rabbit holes, the length of time a person spends in those mindsets becomes longer and sometimes the person isn't even able to break out of it. Prior to the internet algorithms it was just a phase rather than a major episode or worst, a way of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:50 AM
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Nah. They put you in your place good and proper, and all you had as a response was strawman. Very ironic. To be honest I was expecting a personal attack on them. That's the truest admission of defeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:45 AM
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As cringy PUAs used to say: peacocking lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:41 AM
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Ah to be young and naive again where life revolves only around looks. If a person obsesses over looks to this extent, they are a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:36 AM
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Most vs some vs all...Oh no. The dreaded generalisation scenarios! Sidestepping the issue like a true professional. If you look at the reasons for why makeup or a wig is used, you'll find the reasons to be the same...Insecurity. Besides, how on earth do you know the statistics of men wearing wigs. They probably would never even admit to it in the first place. Hurray for logic! 💪🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:26 AM
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If a guy fixed his mental health, he wouldn't be spouting misogyny to begin with. He would be comfortable in his own skin. That's the precursor to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:24 AM
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Because if you have 2 eyes, 2 ears, a nose and a mouth, then congratulations, you are a human being. Where things differ is when a person has a mental illness making them believe that they are ugly and that "it's over" Edit: I'm a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:22 AM
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The issue is, even if the dark arts yield results, no one here truly understands or knows how to use any of the traits like narcissism, Machiavellianism or psychopathy. All these guys do is to talk about women as if they are scholars in female psychology from behind their screens. And should anyone truly delve into the dark arts, they'll lose themselves to the dark triad since it's not sustainable for a human being to have control of the Triad. It's a lose lose situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:11 AM
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More power to you! 💪🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:06 AM
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Disagrees but doesn't give a reason why. Dude just showed everyone that he lacks reasoning abilities. I'll try again then. Women wear makeup for several reasons such as feeling more confident, hiding features such as blemishes etc. Is wearing a wig for a man any different where he feels more confident in hiding his bald head that caused him such anguish before? Logic reinstated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:04 AM
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The number one talking point of a sub like this where similar men congregate should be about men's mental health. Forget everything about women. Men's mental health must be front and center. Yet the moment it's brought up, it is dismissed or met with an aggressive tone. Because surely there's nothing wrong in such a dysfunctional sub. Says it all really.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:00 AM
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They all need to take a suppository pill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:58 AM
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Does a beard change a man's overall appearance? If yes, then it's the same as makeup. Logic ftw! Edit: why do guys here feel like every talking point must be a zero sum game???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:54 AM
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Careful. You're going to feel the wrath of a particular online community
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:52 AM
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Can we please talk about the mental health of men? Women this, women that, now we're even talking about women's makeup. How about we talk about how a lot of men here think they're ugly and that "it's over" (you all know which community I speak of where jaw lines and brows matter) when in fact, all guys here look like a normal human being, except their mental health are a total mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:41 AM
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Why would they settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:48 PM
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First girlfriend. Found out she had been cheating 2 of the 4 years we were together. Learned the hard way. I was young and naive. We all are at one point. My father was on his deathbed for a month in a care home dying of cancer. I'd spend nights by his side to comfort him and be there when he passed. She would accuse me of cheating simply because I was not at home. She would justify that as the reason to actually cheat for real. My worldview went through a lot of change. Anger, hate, resentment,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:31 PM
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Totally understood. I was shining a light on those here who use all the regular tropes and derogatory terms. For those that are solely angry, they are a level above those who have become misogynistic. These angry men will at some point turn misogynistic if they hang around these communities through learned behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:23 PM
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But the same guys who are angry are the same guys who are misogynists. I'm a guy by the way. I’m beginning to actually believe that it’s pretty sexist to think that the only reason men are angry about the dating scene is because they’re misogynistic. That's back to front is it not? They have become misogynistic as a result of being frustrated and angry. And my observation was that the anger is a surface level reaction to the real reason underneath.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:10 PM
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Is me being condescending worse than those here who are misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:59 PM
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I just put this to another reply. lol I am Asian. I'm 5'7, average looks. I'm bald with a beard. I even have an average size dick. But I have bags of charisma and confidence in my own abilities and a personality to match. It's contagious. I shoot my shot. I don't make excuses for myself. I am not afraid of rejection. If she rejected me it's her loss. If some girl gave me attitude, I thank her because she let me know in advance that she is toxic and that I dodged a bullet. See how I frame it? Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:01 PM
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lol I am Asian. I'm 5'7, average looks. I'm bald with a beard. I even have an average size dick. But I have bags of charisma and confidence in my own abilities and a personality to match. It's contagious. I shoot my shot. I don't make excuses for myself. I am not afraid of rejection. If she rejected me it's her loss. If some girl gave me attitude, I thank her because she let me know in advance that she is toxic and that I dodged a bullet. See how I frame it? That's a positive belief system at wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:58 PM
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Of course. That's a given. But if a person is constantly angry whilst labelling themselves as part of an online community with no end in sight to their misery, then surely they need to think critically for a moment and realise that the belief they are peddling isn't actually helping them. Anger is a symptom of other feelings underneath. Like sadness or depression or fear. Looking within will allow the person to see what the issue might be. But again, if he is part of a community that has made hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:53 PM
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Well, I mean I tried. And no I'm not any better than you in any way. I just have a different belief system to you. That's all. I wasn't saying people will date or marry unattractive people. Yea that is a recipe for disaster. I'm saying when a person knows their worth, they'll get with their equal. See I don't think Leo Di Caprio is good looking whatsoever. Yet he gets with women way above his status in the looks department. And here we are arguing that looks are all that matters. Yes, Leo has st…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:47 PM
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Yes you're right. I was beside myself. I'll try. u/nihilism--- this is for you. It's one thing to be rejected and felt hurt, and that's a given. But it's a whole other major issue to dive down into a level of despair as to wish rape on women as a whole subset like the community in question does. Furthermore, all the terminology like foids, toilets etc. are a damning indication that the person is a part of a cult. You may not necessarily accept this take and that's fine. Nor am I saying that this…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:38 PM
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I mean... What can I say when your username is Nihilism... Is there any way for me to even put forward any ideas to you that would make you go 'hmmm' Nihilism has a place, but where a particular community online has taken it is just too extreme and meaningless. The beliefs of that community are very self limiting. Maybe give agnosticism a try sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:57 PM
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I don’t understand how you can refute such a basic premise. You’re literally making the cliched statement that personality supersedes any level of physical unattractiveness. Unless you look like Quasimodo, you'll be totally fine in this world. Heck, there are guys who have major burn trauma and they've managed to be just fine in the dating scene because of their attitudes to life and their personalities. You'd think red pill would teach men the importance of attitude and personality... Here, let…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:55 PM
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It was definitely an exaggeration on my part to try and fit my dialogue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:10 PM
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An observation? They essentially live by those words. It's a belief in that community hence why they say "it's over"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:09 PM
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Not sure that was how I intended it to come across. I'm saying if I was a 35 year old guy who was the full package in terms of wealth and status etc, I wouldn't want to get with someone who was 18-25 who was going through their journey just like I had been on. I wouldn't want to get with someone who is below me in the hierarchy. I'd want to get with someone on my own level in all those areas. This is where guys here will say that the woman I speak of is considered as past 'the wall' and has a hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:08 PM
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This is analysis paralysis in effect. You folks know so much without the fieldwork. Of course you'll suffer if you know the theory without the research and actionable side of it. You'll have an answer for any point brought forward hence causing you to feel stuck. Except it's not like that in the real world. There are so many layers of nuance and shades of grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:04 PM
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My looks aren't an issue and neither are yours. It's your attitude that's the issue. Pay attention to that and you'll make great gains. But not if you frequent all the online communities known to make a man lose hope. Plus when you're young, your sense of self is still developing and naturally you'll put yourself down without realising.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:59 PM
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I don't believe in all this pill nonsense. It's just online tropes created as coping mechanisms. The real world exists and will continue to move on with or without you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:43 PM
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If all you want a woman for is her looks, you're in for a very bad time. Like I said in my post, if you've got great experience and knowledge, why the fuck would you want to get with an airhead of a girl who can't put a sentence together. That's torture. I'm a guy. I've seen how the youth of today act. If youth knew and age could. That's the tragedy here. So I'm not really putting the youth down, I'm just stating a fact. They are dumb as fuck. I sure was when I was in my teens and 20's. Nothing …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:42 PM
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If Western women have turned out to be not to the man's liking, what's stopping him from seeking out other cultures, especially if he has the means to travel? Plus as you say, right place, right time. The guys who took that initiative and put themselves out there got the results. Now look at the guys here who continue to live online with the attitude we see on display. Which women would want that kind of person unless the women themselves were toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:38 PM
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Not sure that's what I said, but anyway. What if it's you who has lost hope? Not at the hands of yourself, but the indoctrination placed upon you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:35 PM
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What a lot of guys here don't understand or refuse to accept is that when you truly up your game and make yourself better in every aspect of your life (which most importantly involves mental health above all else) - it elevates him to such heights that even if he was average looking (as the largest majority of humanity is) he will carry himself with such energy that it will be noticed by all. He will be the kind of man that believes in his own hype, he will walk with purpose, he will demand resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:23 PM
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Narcissism is a personality. To understand narcissism, you'll have to look at all the negative character traits it encompasses - the link I provided is the first one I came across but I'm sure you get the idea and can go deeper for yourself if needed. The other personalities that go hand in hand with narcissism are Machiavellianism, and psychopathy, making up the dark arts triad. That's who Mr. Bateman portrayed. In the last 12 years there has been a great rise in right wing rhetoric predominant…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 12:54 PM
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You should know better as a father. Let's see how you answer the following. Imagine you have a 16 year old daughter. Now imagine some kid at her school put her face in a deepfake porn. Your daughter is distraught and has gone into meltdown. Over time, she becomes depressed. She is considering suicide. Do you care now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:06 PM
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Does anyone know how I could prove to these red pill men that they are in a cult, suffering needlessly? I mean think about it. They reduce the ACTUAL high value woman who has a great career, great experience, and great looks simply because she's 'hit the wall' by virtue of being 30+ as well as having 'a high body count' yet they go after the daft young woman between 18-25. These guys put all their eggs in one basket and place high value on looks only. That's asking for trouble. Question to red p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:50 AM
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You have no morality yet want us to listen to your point of view. How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:30 AM
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Did anyone ask you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:27 AM
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Ha I asked that somewhere in this post and the guy I was responding to went quiet and instead some other random showed his rage. He took a bullet for the other guy. These folks are scorned.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:25 AM
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That guy wants to see the world burn because he was hurt. It's too obvious with all these similar guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:22 AM
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So you're ok with your wife getting distraught about the whole situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:57 AM
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The fact that you have zero empathy is scary. And is your flair real? You have children and you act like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:56 AM
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This is self defeating for you isn't it? So you're ok with dying because of a deepfake? And furthermore you're willing to defend deepfakes despite it causing your death? Do you not care enough about yourself to want to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:19 PM
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The consequences of online rabbit holes such as inceldom, right wing rhetoric and the general manosphere movement as well as all the cults like the red pill have been a disaster for young unsuspecting men who fell into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:09 PM
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I'm saying you won't have a chance to call the police he'll kill you outright. I know you're intelligent enough to understand what I said so let's not peddle pointless talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:06 PM
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Indeed they don't even have empathy for their own kind struggling in here. And that's due to lack of self respect and bags of self loathing. What more can be said about how these guys are brainwashed and part of a cult eh? It's sad to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:02 PM
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The same homophobes who are okay with seeing women be the victim of deepfakes. I merely turned the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:41 PM
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Nah I'm far from a homophobe. It was said to create the image in the mind of these red pill men who are all about toxic masculinity. The real homophobes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:36 PM
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lol every one of your responses is very trollish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:24 PM
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If some off-the-rails-nutjob saw a deepfake of you raping a kid, he is in no mindset to see that it was fake and would be hell bent on killing you. What do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:23 PM
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Height, and looks are a black pill belief. Red pill only observes these traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:46 PM
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I had to search the meaning of snowflake... Snowflake: Somebody who is self-obsessed and fragile, easily offended, or unable to deal with opposing opinions. Did you call yourself that? Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:43 PM
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Who? Like honestly, who's simultaneously both in the "uses internet, gets sent viral videos" group and in the "never heard about deepfakes in 2023 and is not even aware of the existence of photoshop-like tech"? How many such people are there? Old people. There are millions of 60+ year olds who are not adept with technology to the level you'd think. Think about how people in high positions in companies who lack simple skills in Microsoft Excel and you'll realise how so many are totally clueless w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:24 PM
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society isn't ready
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:08 PM
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Deepfakes are getting better every month. Now imagine being some 17 year old college girl or even younger and a deepfake of you is released. There will be those who know nothing about deepfakes and will take what they see at face value (pun intended) It will cause incredible grief for that young girl. Anxiety, panic attacks, depression, even suicide. If you cannot understand this, then this is an empathy issue on your part. Now imagine this. As a guy, a video of you is made where you are getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:01 PM
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Not you lol. The OP of the thread. The Russianbot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:50 PM
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Then you don't understand the dangers of deepfakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:27 PM
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Yup. That's what I was alluding to and no surprise the OP of this thread is dead quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:26 PM
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With the advent of technology and how scary it's all becoming, he could have a scorned enemy who does this to him. When it comes to child sex crimes, there are people itching to take action even if they know it's fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:11 PM
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an edgy post... So if there's a deepfake of your face on man's face committing a heinous sexual crime against a child, you're ok with it? Let's see how he answers this, Cotton.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:56 PM
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The mental damage done to the target is severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:55 PM
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I talk a lot about mental health in here because it's the elephant in the room. I'm willing to bet there are a lot of guys with neuroscient issues that have gone undiagnosed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:16 PM
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To be honest I'm looking around in this sub and it seems like it's filled with black pillers disguised as red. But yes, it is mainly directed at black pilled guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:10 PM
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Finally a great nuanced post. These young men here are very far behind the curve and will have a hard time when they finally realise what they need to do in order to reintegrate back into society. I had a 35 year old colleague who seemed very off with his mannerisms and the things he said. This was before I became aware of incels, and alt right movementsb online. He'd make very lewd comments. I'd brush it off as being edgy. That changed when he added me to a private group on WhatsApp. There were…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:02 PM
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If high value women (not just looks, but experience and personality too) had to rate red pill men here based on attitude and personality with the same arbitrary 1 to 10 system that guys here use, women would rate these men in the minus numbers out of 10. There's nothing high value about guys here who play victim or those whose worlds are ruled by anger. Disclaimer: young women are a different story. You'd be hard pressed to find a mature decent young woman today. Like everyone their age, they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:42 PM
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It's all good. Take care of yourself bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:01 PM
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I got banned from that sub for apparently moralising. Indeed I'm aware of Rollo. Not exactly a fan of his since I don't agree with any form of misogyny. It's a weak man's tool. But each to his own I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:47 PM
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These youngsters don't know the first thing about archetypes. Plus they all veer towards the negative shadow forms of the archetypes by choosing to use the dark arts of psychology, whether they realise it or not, therefore setting themselves further back from their goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:48 PM
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We can't even start on the road to whataboutism because issues of mental health are instantly batted away. Until men look within to fix their own mental well-being, nothing else will matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:33 PM
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There's no assumptions when it comes to knowing that the majority of guys here are black pill masquerading as red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:32 PM
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Edit: wait wtf your response was to blame ME for women saying men aint shit and all that??? Lmao gtfo Nah I said it generally and you don't fit the mould of the guys here which is why you can admit to things compared to others here who can't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:31 PM
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If you fix your own issues and concentrate on everything you can do to address shortcomings within yourself, you won't have to deal with those women who play these games. You'll be above it. But what I see time and again are guys here who don't want to look within to fix their issues because they've been made to believe that they don't have issues. Do you see what I'm trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:56 AM
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I'm questioning everything. In every post whether it's about hypergamy or the wall or solipsism etc, I question it. For example. Why aren't men's anger issues discussed? Or their mental health, or the whole toxicity of putting women below them yet desiring the very people the men put below them. Know what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:54 AM
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So basically a "no you" response.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:52 AM
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Look around you. Sure, there are men on different levels here but the overall arc is that of control. Some of these guys want a young woman who is an 18 year old virgin or some such nonesense. They veil their intent. Youth has no bite or grit. Youth is naivety. Easier to control for a set time. What is the red pill if not the dark arts of psychology? Tools used to control a woman and her emotions. Read the room my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:35 AM
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Something something pot called the kettle black.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:31 AM
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Am I wrong in saying go and experience life? Folks here want to control life. And by extension, women because these men wish to eliminate fear and pain. Spoiler alert: you can never control life. Sure, you can control women but that comes at a cost to you and to her. When I say go and live life, I'm saying go and carve your own path. Everything else falls into place. But if a person lives in fear, they will want to make sure they know everything about life before they embark on their journey. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:28 AM
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The young men here need to realise that life isn't black and white or a zero sum game. Life is made up of 1000 shades of grey. It's multi-layered, multi-faceted, and multi-dimensional. No amount of studies in the opposite sex will be enough to give a well rounded image. These men need to stop seeing the woman as the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:16 AM
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Frankly, the "average joe" is retarded Said the 'alpha' male... Totally unaware of his indoctrination. Are you a wolf? You know where that term comes from right? generally rejects science unless institutions force feed it to them Far from it. As a PhD holder in sports science, studies are pivotal in success or failure of understanding research, and filtering the good from the bad in order to further the field you're in. have no idea what they're talking about on esoteric topics like this. Again,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:03 AM
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I know you're not the OP, but there we have it. Reactionary response with a fragile ego on show. I'm tired of having the same conversation over and over with 'alpha' guys here, where the person shows little to no sign of wanting an open discussion and instead straps a landmine to their chest and explodes at the first sign of feeling cornered by logic and reasoning. Good luck to ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:49 AM
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Why are you assuming that? And what does that have to do with the research presented? Everything in this sub is based on assumptions and generalisations. Just like your paywalled article which takes one study which God knows whether it was peer reviewed, and whether it was fairly derived to its conclusion. But sure, let's call it research. Are you god? Are you omniscient? I'm just your average Joe who's happy with his place in life. I don't subscribe to all these right wing cultish rhetorics and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:36 AM
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Why do men in the manosphere discuss all these topics when they haven't even had a full on relationship with a woman? It seems incredibly self limiting to discuss these topics when the first step of talking to a woman remains illusive for many here. And I say this based on the comments in every post. It's far too easy to spot those who are lacking experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:24 AM
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Why get bogged down in so many areas that lie ahead when the person hasn't made step one? That's just asking for trouble. It's analysis paralysis
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:57 PM
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Why does any of this shit matter if the guy can't even talk to a woman? Hypergamy? Fuck that noise, just talk to a girl to begin with... N count? Fuck that noise, just try to get your word count up when talking to women... The wall? Fuck that noise, just try to get over your own wall of anxiety and lack of social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:47 PM
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Women's issues are women's problems. And men's are men's. That's how it's always been and will continue to be. I've dated women who have been total fucking idiots despite being good looking. I've dated women who have been incredibly wholesome yet "average" looking by standards of men in here. If only the guys in here would stop generalising and putting all women in one box. It's idiotic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:45 PM
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Then let these seriously stupid women find out the hard way. Except it's not about what you just mentioned. We know which community these 'red pill' men belong to...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:43 PM
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The top comment in here by thoughtless_setup is as if this place is an echo chamber of stupidity. There's no help for these guys. They went straight for blaming women whilst refusing to look within to see if they qualify in being called a high value male. So much irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:36 PM
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Oh get a grip. The human race has been enjoying a drink for about as long as it's been walking around on two legs. If the world is going to hell in a hand basket just now it is unlikely to be the fault of alcohol. Yes, alcohol can wreck lives. But it also makes weddings and funerals bearable so I'll drink to that. I made sure to make a quick edit to my post as per the brackets section at the bottom of my post. So I'm not sure your response was necessary, unless you are seeking attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:02 PM
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Addiction is a bottomless pit of despair. Like gambling or cocaine addiction as well as many other addictions, it can only end badly. Nothing good can come of it because the user isn't facing the issue. Instead they are masking the root cause of the issue, which remains until it is faced full on. And that takes immense courage. Courage is true strength. We all have courage. We just don't realise it or are too deep in our vitriol to have a moment of self realization. Except every human throughout…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:38 PM
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It's about self respect. It becomes very apparent and evident when a guy has zero self respect. You'll know this because he disrespects women. A guy who respects himself and has self worth, respects others. He doesn't need to put others down or pull them down to his level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:22 PM
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Pretty much every red pill guy here then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:20 PM
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It's called coping. Except ironically, that coping mechanism has a ceiling. And it's quickly reached. The real answer to issues of the self is usually through psychological therapies and psychiatry. Unfortunately a lot of men worldwide refuse to admit that there's any issue of the self. What that actually means is that the man isn't ready to face his issues. He will face them only when he's ready. That requires courage. Courage is strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:12 PM
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You seem incredibly scorned. Your ancestors were most likely refugees / immigrants. Are you putting yourself down?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:30 PM
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Yes it's equally horrific. Society brushes aside raped men like it's a non issue. It's totally fucked up. That female rapper Cardi B proudly flaunts that she raped and used men, which is just abhorrent. Why is she even famous and not behind bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:07 PM
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There's something called communication and setting boundaries. Though they only comes from self respect and a healthy self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:56 PM
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In this sub, a lot of red pill men are betamaxing without realising.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:55 PM
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Where there's anger and rage, there's no room for logical thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:09 PM
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What's really going to bake your noodles is to know that I'm a guy. I simply choose to use reasoning and logic instead of emotion. Try it sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:48 PM
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I was hoping OP would respond. For some reason you took a bullet for him. Sounds like I rattled your feathers. Why the angry response? Besides, today's women are more than capable to provide that for themselves. Here's the answer. A woman wants love. A man wants respect. Edit: Spellings
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:27 PM
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Because the person who asked this probably has zero experience of either scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:55 PM
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What are you offering these two women? Edit: lol got downvoted for asking a genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:51 PM
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And the suppository pill says all these pills are problematic and should not be taken at face value. They exist only online. Offline, the real world goes on as it ever has with all the nuance and the many grey layers that life presents. You see, these red pillers only congregate online. A platform where these individuals can spout derogatory terms from behind their anonymous usernames with no repercussions. Put these same people in real world situations and they'll act docile and unassuming. Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:08 AM
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Rejection hurts. No doubt about it. It's how we handle rejection that defines us. Humility is a great character trait to acquire. It gives you hindsight and the ability to control your ego. There are moments when it is better to lower your own sense of self-importance. You'll learn that you don’t necessarily believe that you are too good for anything or better than other people. Modesty allows you to remain grounded and seek individuals on your level. It also builds self discipline which allows …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:35 PM
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It goes to show all women are different. Some women have very high motherly desires while others detest the idea of motherhood. Their beliefs could occur from many factors. Learned behaviours, experiences, or socioeconomic factors. My wife and I had to have IVF due to my low sperm count. And she hated every aspect of the IVF process and I can't blame her one bit. It was torture for her. All the injections, the illness, everything was brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:44 PM
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Some examples: It is real, society often forgets men who cheat more than women who cheat, but society also expects more responsibility from men and they have less to choose on issues such as birth control (most birth control is on women), adoption and abortion (paper abortion is taboo). You associated cheating to birth control, pregnancy and abortion? That's some very faulty logic in play don't you think? It is true that men are less available to care for the sick or someone on bed, but also the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:21 PM
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I see a lot of responses saying if she shit tests then it's time to move on, which is fair enough. Should the woman move on too the moment the guy is misogynistic or starts using the dark arts of psychology on her? That would basically cancel out every guy here, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:51 PM
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I don't think you're understanding the deeper nuance of what I'm really trying to say to you here. Here's an example: There are more red apples in the world than green apples. Do you believe me? I want you to challenge me on that. What questions would you ask me about my statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:00 AM
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Well there goes your credibility young man. You see how this works? I can tell you're already riled up. I'm not here for an argument. Despite your instant go-to response of being insulting, it's not my 'magical' world view. It's my logical reasoning in effect. When you decide to show logic and reasoning, we can have a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:47 AM
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I just want to know if whether you can see the error in your judgement. First I asked you if all women do this, to which you said no "most" women do. You'll have to narrow it down further. What percentage of women? And from where? A country? A continent? Or a contingent like the West? And furthermore, HOW do you know this to be true? Once there are answers to these it gives you credibility. Right now what you've written comes across as a veiled attack on women with no basis. I hope you understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:33 AM
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But like I just said, why concentrate on that one subset. Are all women fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:23 AM
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Why are you concentrating on a subset of women that are trash? Or are you saying they're all like that? There are women who wear makeup because they are totally insecure of how they look, whereas with makeup they feel emboldened. You can see these individuals from a mile off. Though it requires intuition Something that men lack a lot of the time. Again, they don't represent the majority. The more I read, the more it seemed like a "let's bash women for reason #7553225 without any constructive dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:14 AM
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It's all bullshit. This sect who spout the 80/20 rule and all other related nonesense are scared to make their moves and totally lack social skills. Everyone else is doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:57 PM
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It's a pretty well documented fact that sexist ideologies attract people who exhibit dark triad traits and encourage those traits in people who would otherwise not exhibit them. It's a main reason that the FBI and Secret Service are studying possible violence from radicalized incels as a genuine domestic terrorist threat. When you dehumanize an entire group of people as the red pill does to women, it leads to violence against that group of people. This is a classic propaganda technique. The red …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:25 PM
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A lot of toxic men don't know that they are toxic. No self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:38 PM
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Well whaddyaknow! An apt haiku! Good bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:34 PM
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Even then, the data isn't peer reviewed. Do people here not understand what that means? It means you cannot rely on one source as 'fact' - it needs to be debated and backed up by further testing to come to the same conclusion. But fuck facts and logic right? It's all about muh feelz!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:31 PM
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Imagine your whole ideology being based on a word from a movie to begin with...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:27 PM
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OP: I'll go find a screenshot and post it as fact. That'll show em!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:25 PM
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The OP was saying it about the woman's response. It's called 'social skills' for a reason. You either suck at it and need to build on it, or you know how to escalate correctly. A lot of guys here are desperately lacking in social skills yet somehow, for some reason they know everything about female psychology, and still don't know how to talk to one. That's quite an irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:36 PM
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They just want sex on a plate without moving a finger. That's their whole shtick. Why should any woman give in to these daft demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:33 PM
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Don't forget the hypergamy. That's a favourite word around these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:31 PM
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His response probably: something something hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:25 PM
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Please elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:23 PM
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Depends who he's approaching. A lot of young women are idiots and incredibly insecure, so they respond in ways that can be hurtful to a guy. Does that help in levelling the playing field for you? Happy to go on about issues with women. But we seem to be scholars in the field of female psychology already so why don't we concentrate on ourselves for a minute?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:21 PM
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Oof. That's a big ask. You're basically asking him to stop being part of a cult and to de-program his brainwashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:16 PM
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Shall we play a game of victim complex? What's your attitude like? Based on what you wrote, are you taking responsibility for your actions and approach? What's your game like? Are you playful? Or are you coming across as needy and desperate as if you need sex? And I'm just assuming here, but judging by your username, are you autistic? If so, has it been addressed properly where you understand the issues of autism? Again, I'm pulling at straws here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:14 PM
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I know right? I don't know whether to laugh or cry. It's deliberately so shallow and immature which makes me feel it's targeting youngsters who have no logic or reasoning abilities, and instead get emotionally wound up to believe this shit. Hence the next woman hating incel is created, well on his way down the rabbit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:54 PM
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Hellooooo victim complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:39 PM
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These guys are known to do this. Take a look at this post as shown on r/NotHowGirlsWork - the guys who post this stuff are most likely pushing propaganda. A psy-op basically. Keeping the kids in a rage loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:23 PM
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In reality, normal men are doing just fine in this world, no matter their height or looks. The people struggling are those who fell for online cults. How hard is that to understand? If a person is lacking the ability to think logically and critically, and falls for all these tropes, whose fault is it? Women's?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:01 PM
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Is this a troll post? Now talk about men's movements that are causing the men irreparable damage. Red pill? Blue pill? Black pill? Suppository pill? Shall we talk about men's shortcomings? Or their mental health maybe? Nah let's concentrate on women. Total lack of self awareness as ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:17 AM
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