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SteelToeShitKicker/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 03:13 PM
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Basic QuestionSteelToeShitKicker/r/askMRP01/07/16 02:24 PM
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5x5 DNP: 2000 calories diet plan Ok, I actually logged in, just to call you a dipshit. Do you have any understanding of anything? Let me break it down for you. You are 200lbs. Your TDEE is probably around 2500 calories / day. So, the optimistic estimates of DNP use is 10% of your TDEE per 100mg. So you are looking at around 800mg DNP per day. Spoiler: The estimates are optimistic. Have you ever done DNP before? Because 1) that dose is flirting with death, 2) you aren't going to be doing any powe…
/r/askMRP14/10/20 01:52 AM
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Yeah, there's only so much that can be done. I'm not going to beat myself up over it. After my accutane run, I'll drop some weight and then go all in lifting. I mostly did cardio at the gym and lift at home anyway, but I'm doing what I can and I'll be happy with that. My mantra lately has been "If you are stuck in quicksand, stop thrashing."
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/20 07:31 PM
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Mission: Everything is pretty much on hold during our quarantine, I'm making repairs at the business, but can't do much else. Plans to sell the business are definitely on hold until this quarantine bullshit is resolved. Health and Spirits: This time has been one of adaptation. We are all stuck in the house, and we cut the maid loose after giving her a month's pay. Thankfully, I saw this coming a while back, we have plentiful food stocks, and nearly everything else we need. We are pretty much in …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/20 05:07 PM
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It's pretty obvious you voted for Trump, and the proper answer would have been something along the lines of: "The winner. Now run along before I start wearing a red hat around." But you did none of that. You wouldn't tell her, then you basically apologized for your vote. Judging by your insanely weak actions, I'll go one further and guess that you have changed your political beliefs to please your gf. It doesn't get any weaker than this. I'm afraid to tell you, but your sad weak lifts in the gym…
/r/askMRP06/01/20 01:45 AM
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The hardest part about MRP is taking what applies to you and leaving the rest. Right now, you sound like a fucking idiot. Here's what's happening. You are gone for 7 months. Wife takes over because she has to. You come back. Hail to the chief motherfuckers, I'm back and I'm in charge. You walk into the room and you start flipping tables. Wife is like WTF, you are going to be gone in two months again, why are you fucking with me? You need to settle down and take a support role when you are home. …
/r/askMRP02/01/20 04:30 PM
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LOL, he gave me some 25ga needles. That's what they would use if they stuck me at the office, they are concerned about speed not comfort. I could do that, but I'm patient, it takes 30-60 minutes to draw, not too bad. IIRC I'm using 28 or 29 ga right now. Barely feel a thing, they don't make removable needles that small, do they?
/r/askMRP11/12/19 03:30 PM
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Some guys would tell you just to leave the house, and that’s an option, but you were stuck between a shit test AND a comfort test, so it’s a hard read. I know that's recommended here, but leaving the house has never worked for me. I just haven't had success with it. My problems generally don't get as bad as some others on here, so maybe it seems like a whiny overreaction. Maybe it was a comfort test. Sounds like you handled it pretty good. Yeah, I engaged some, but overall I think I did what nee…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 08:26 PM
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you handled it well. i'd be seriously asking myself why i'm with someone that behaves in this manor; but that's me. Yeah, there's some serious shit going down right now. Even if I told you and didn't dox myself, I doubt you would believe me. I wouldn't believe me. I'm trying to cut her some slack, but I have also told her that I know things suck right now, but there's some things you can't come back from and she needs to watch herself. I try to guide her, sometimes she follows. My main concern i…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 08:18 PM
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Everything is Fucked Up: Without going into detail on all the shit that's wrong, let's just say that everything that could go wrong did go wrong recently. Not due to my action or the wife's action. Mostly her family's health and the culmination of their poor life choices. Most of it, I can't help her directly with, it's her family, hers to grind out. And I don't think my wife has ever had to grind in her life. Certainly not like this. So, she melted down, I became the target. She threatened divo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 03:21 PM
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I'm patient, I doubt I could swap needles much faster than drawing the oil through a small gauge pin. Plus, I'm sure I'd squirt the oil everywhere at least once while swapping.
/r/askMRP10/12/19 03:14 PM
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After clomid failed after a year, I went on the needle, I'm at about 120mg/wk and around 0.5mg arimidex a week. I inject with a 28g insulin pin 2x a week. Takes a while to pull the oil into the syringe, but it's not bad. Shoot it subq, a little pinch, and if you get the right spot, not even that. I usually go donate blood, but I have a family member that might need a donation, so right now it's at the top of the range. There's no way in hell I'd go to the doctor's office for weekly or twice week…
/r/askMRP07/11/19 06:30 PM
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You can't rely on a single test result. Even for life-threatening blood results, it's almost always correct to confirm. You'd be amazed how many results are spurious. I concur, but there was no effort on OP's part to do anything further. No prolactin test, etc. It's not like guys go through the normal medical channels AND try to get their lifestyle in order. The lifestyle imho is a distraction for most of the cases. I see so many times, that lifestyle distracts from a real medical diagnosis. Tha…
/r/askMRP07/11/19 06:00 PM
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He said he was tested in "spring." So we are well beyond 6-12 weeks. The "eat your broccoli camp" is well represented online. It's the easy, feel good choice. It's the blue pill. My real point however, is if you have read the studies, and I have read a sizeable number of them, they don't have the good news that the spammy, clickbait, "eat your broccoli camp" espouses. It's true that lifestyle factors can increase your T, but by how much? Very little in reality. In these medical studies of low T …
/r/askMRP07/11/19 05:23 AM
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It's horseshit like this that keeps men from getting tested for years, thinking if they just lose a little more weight, eat their brocolli, etc. that their T will come back. It's not the case for most.
/r/askMRP07/11/19 12:40 AM
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Frankly, I don't know what's more retarded. You knowing you have low T and not getting treated, or you coming here asking what's wrong with your lifting when you damn well knew you were low T. I think you owe an apology to everyone who responded earnestly to your completely asinine question. Normally, I'd spoonfeed someone whatever they wanted to know about my earlier go with clomid and later TRT. But I don't think you deserve it. I'll leave you a list of keywords for you to search on. Do your o…
/r/askMRP07/11/19 12:37 AM
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You sound low T. When I was low T, I lifted consistently, my diet was on point, and gains, if any, were sparing. When it was time to cut, all gains were lost. I even cut down to 150lbs at 5'10 and **I was still fucking fat.** All the muscle was gone. After almost two years on TRT, I half ass my workouts, lift once a week, get bigger, and when I cut, I don't lose any muscle. If I touch the damn weights, I gain muscle. Right now I'm around 160lbs and I look pretty fucking good. The TRT really kick…
/r/askMRP06/11/19 04:08 PM
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Everything comes down to her not wanting to fuck you. I don't know why you need to have a conversation about TRT or viagra. If my wife brings up TRT as a cause for anything sex related I just say "Nope, I have always wanted sex this much all along. I'm just not a pussy about it now." Funny though how as my muscle increased and fat dropped, this stopped coming up and she started finding time to fuck.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 04:00 PM
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I was almost 350lbs at one point so very obese Fuck. Congratz on losing it. Not sure if that will prevents sides or not but I bought a bottle to try. I figure if I can take a few twice a week and bring my E2 down into the 40s while on 500mg of T that should be pretty good. Yeah, keep us updated, sounds like an interesting experiment.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/19 09:07 PM
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Have you ever used DIM? Nope, haven't looked into it. My last blood test just had my E2 at 51 You can tolerate it better than I can. At e2 of 35 I want to claw my nips off.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/19 01:58 PM
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Yeah, leanness seems to help with e2. And yes, if you crash your e2 on arimidex, it's easier to back off. If you crash your e2 on asin, you have to wait for your body to produce more enzymes, which takes a while longer. Arimidex lends itself better to a daily maintenance dose, asin will drop your e2 much quicker. I'd be very wary taking any kind of scheduled dose with asin. Even if you blast like 250-300 I’d say it’s worth doing once. I’d venture you would gain about 10lbs just doing that in a 1…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/19 05:38 PM
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I did bloods two weeks into my blast and my total T was 1900 and my E2 was still only 35 with no sides whatsoever. Wow, that's no joke. Aromasin is recommended when blasting because it’s a suicidal AI at least as I understand it. Aromasin attaches to the enzyme that converts T into E2 and doesn't let go, taking itself and the enzyme out of circulation. Arimidex blocks the enzyme, but both stay in the system. If you stop taking arimidex you will recover quicker, it's easier to crash your e2 with …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 10:54 PM
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That’s gnarly - but you have no gyno or other issues? How is your lipid profile in general? I had some itchy tingly nips when I was on clomid, but I think that was more related to the clomid than e2. I have been having some brain fog, turns out it's starting to be allergy season down here, took some meds, I'm much more awake today. Lipids have been improving since I have been on TRT. A1c improving too. I’ll have to track it down but it was a study that I saw posted on T nation that showed that f…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 03:17 PM
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Last I tested was at 130mg/week and I was slightly over the top of the range at trough. Do you get any actual E2 sides when you don’t use an AI or just acne? Well, as of late, I have had some brain fog, but I have been cutting like a madman and taking some fat burners, so there's that. The acne is pretty fierce, thank god it's on my shoulders, back and not my face, that would be a deal killer right there. I smell like grease, like frying bacon from all the lipids exuding from my pores. That goes…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/19 09:10 PM
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I dissolve the arimidex pills in water and meter it out with a dropper daily. I end up around 1/7 mg/day. Right now I'm around 120mg/week T in two doses subq. I get bloodwork again soon, if anything, my e2 has been low, but every time I bring it up, I get nasty acne. A few of my last tests have been <17 e2. Hoping to get in the twenties on this test, I have been lowering my T dose so that hopefully I can take less arimidex and get less acne. We'll see. I used to get skeletor thin on cuts before …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/19 05:07 PM
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You got what you wanted that night, but you lost long term. Keep working. And don't think that your wife capitulating one night is cause for celebration and telling everyone how it's done.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 07:27 PM
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The Cut: Down to 159 at last weigh in. Took a week or so off to stabilize. Getting some compliments, people saying I'm in great shape and have been lifting. I haven't, not much anyway, about once a week. I estimate I'm about 16% BF. My goal was 15%, but I'm going to see when I get there an re-assess. I have had a problem with estrogen since I started TRT, if losing a few more pounds helps me with that, I'll do it, maybe 10% is reachable before I bulk again. I'm personally a bit worried about get…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 05:46 PM
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I work in trades (though this is slowly changing due to some new opportunities) so I have never had to put much effort into staying fit I have massive plumber's crack.
/r/askMRP17/10/19 03:38 PM
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She wants to suck my dick and give me a back massage every night. Ahh, I remember those days. For sure they are missed. Just remember that's any new chick that wants you to bite down on the hook.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 10:22 PM
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I find that creepy so I told her it was creepy. Stop being a weirdo and watching incest porn. I laid her clean clothes on a clean floor because she had heaped my clothes on our second, dirty washing machine and some of my clothes had fallen into the dirty spaces between machines and was in the process of moving my clothes Captain, make a fucking system and inform the first officer. I have a corner of our room that we dump clean clothes in if we don't have time to fold them. Anything in a laundry…
/r/askMRP23/09/19 04:08 PM
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The full reality of the stressful task of closing your shop will not hit until Day +1 when that happens. I was unprepared and turned to Xanax. Dont do that. Well, the easy exit would be selling, and I'd be glad to let it go for a song. That would be the easiest. Failing that, it's going to suck, but I can deal with it. Maybe there will be a next hustle, but if so, it's going to be well contained. Like shopping for a new woman. Dont dump the current one until the next is ready and DTF. Heh, that'…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/19 04:28 PM
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All I wanted to do was get you thinking. Your mission was a success. Thanks! I think if I have regret, it will be that I didn't do this all five years sooner.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 12:16 PM
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Gay, weak, pussy, overt covert contract and not practical. I can see how you could think that, but frankly, I'm only keeping the business open to give them time to react. My business and theirs are related. I won't stand there while they make my life suck because I'm doing something to benefit them. They are a cantankerous pair, one of them a felon, and they really only respond when I make something very real (and painful) for them. Truly, they are no fucks given about me and the shit that happe…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 02:01 AM
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They also stress that a mismatch in sexual desire in couples is normal and typical and that couples may want to address these issues with a therapist. LOL.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 01:02 AM
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Good to see you around, hadn't seen you in ages. I have been really busy, making good progress. Also changed up my OPSEC, needed to bring over my reddit accounts. I have been lurking, should be back to participate more soon. No worries, dude. You'll hit it the next time. Or the time after that. I did learn a lot, I'll say that. For sure I will have leveled up in whatever I do next. And, not to all, but some out there would definitely value my experiences. Fuck it, our bodies are all chemistry an…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/19 07:28 PM
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Interesting to see operation scorched earth used in this way. kudos for having resolve brother Yeah, didn't have much of a choice. My in-laws would have been in there, dragging every fucking tire kicker through, trying to get a replacement for my business and in the process fucking up my ability to retain employees. Now they have to qualify people and be very discreet. That's not their MO, but so far, my threats seem to be working. Also, what is the phen you speak of? Phentermine. It's an amphet…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/19 07:13 PM
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Big Changes: I'm closing my business. It's just not going to make it and I finally admit it. No amount of tweaking, no amount of optimization, etc is ever going to make it worthwhile. It will never perform half as well as my going back into programming. I have set a date of end of the year to close. Wife and her family are taking it better than I thought (they run a related business, this will impact them). I have told no one else, and her family are under strict orders to keep their mouth shut.…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/19 02:42 PM
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If your wife can't handle it, it is her problem to overcome. As they say in the classics: It is what it is. I'm sorry, if you make it through all that shit, and finally get to a point where you let things slip a bit, and your wife is ready to buy a plane ticket and bail, fuck her. That's not AWALT. There do exist just plain terrible human beings, OP is married to one. I think here we often excuse any bad behavior as AWALT, denying women any agency at all in their lives. Women have urges, just li…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/19 05:09 PM
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My energy is definitely lower because I dont actually want to be in a bar, so that must show up big time. You need to bring the fun with you wherever you go. It's not easy always being high energy, but who wants to go out with someone who is mopey?
/r/askMRP15/07/19 04:17 PM
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It's why I can't go to TRP anymore. All these dudes whining about shit that can be overcome with some experience and confidence. That, and everyone thinks they deserve a 10/10. Ridiculous. I started out fucking fatties. It was a good experience.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 04:15 PM
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Are you sure it doesn't help? Really, you need to think about what he said. I would pick up at 5'10" and 160lbs, skinnyfat, with an unfortunate face. What's your excuse?
/r/askMRP15/07/19 03:18 AM
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You need to find a reason why you are out there, what gets you going, what can you talk about that you enjoy, how can you involve them? One of my favorites was "Tell me a story." Of course, they would ask ME to tell a story, well, whaddya know, I have a few of them queued right up. How did it end? I got her number as her friend was pulling her away because the friend wanted to go meet up with the lacrosse team or some shit like that. Once you think you can get the number, do so, then have a reas…
/r/askMRP15/07/19 03:01 AM
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I approached her in a bar. A few minutes prior, I got shot down by two other women, individually, on the other side of the bar. So that's three approaches in that bar, and I don't remember, but I don't think that was the first bar I went to. All three I went up cold, without getting as much as a single glance in my direction from them. How many approaches have you done tonight, pussy?
/r/askMRP15/07/19 02:42 AM
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For the most part, yep. I remember being like this. Thinking the perfect of the perfect response, how to handle things, etc. The fact is that if you were chad, you wouldn't be dealing with any of this. If you haven't already, get your T checked. It costs $40 and is worth every penny. I recommend it to everyone when they start lifting, if you T level isn't good, lifting doesn't do jack shit and you will get injured. Very few ever listen though. But hey, don't say I didn't try to save you years of…
/r/askMRP13/07/19 05:34 PM
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This is the bullshit that happens when you aren't in shape. Your wife isn't attracted, she doesn't want to do anything for you, she doesn't want to be on your team. All the STFU in the world won't help you until you get you lift more and pay attention to your diet. Basically I came on here to get advice on how to break the silent treatment without apologizing while maintaining STFU. This is the crap I dealt with before going on TRT.
/r/askMRP13/07/19 01:05 PM
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She's a flight attendant with a beta at home, what do you think. Damn. OP married a flight attendant. Why the hell would anyone do that? They take so much cock, it's unreal. And further, why would you move cities to be with someone who is hardly ever home? And you want to have kids with this person? Exactly what does this future entail? There are better ways to be a single father.
/r/askMRP13/07/19 12:57 PM
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she has tried a lot I bet she makes a big deal about doing something, gets a pat on the head, and then gives up after two weeks. That's the usual, people can keep it together for two weeks, after that, they give up. She is taking synthroid Well, then she doesn't have a "glandular issue" she's just fat because she likes to eat. haven't really thought about self sabotage Self sabotage doesn't exist. People always do what is in their best interest. Always. You might not understand or agree with the…
/r/askMRP11/07/19 06:07 PM
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If she has a diagnosis of hashimotos why isn't she getting treatment? This is a simple thing, the thyroid hormone must be replaced, one pill every day, one hour before eating. It's called synthroid. One 100mcg pill will replace all your body can produce for one day. This is no excuse for being fat. If she is taking synthroid and she's still fat, it's not because of hashimotos, it's because she doesn't care to lose the weight. If she's not taking synthroid, she's the worst kind of person, the kin…
/r/askMRP11/07/19 03:49 AM
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Before TRT, I couldn't grow one, but I'd just say that it comes in patchy, which it did. Being blond didn't help since you couldn't see it until it got really long. Good for not shaving every day though. But I'm anti-beard because I don't want to be associated with millennial faggots with their beards, pipes, skinny jeans and scrawny builds. I go for the rugged but clean-cut look. Yeah, after I shaved my beautiful blond locks, people became scared of me. No one is afraid of the blond guy. When I…
/r/askMRP09/07/19 10:52 PM
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Fuck. Yeah, that's the reason I stay off twitter. Something about that place just sends people off the deep end.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 10:11 PM
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It's a voltaire quote. "Give me a few minutes to talk away my face and I can seduce the Queen of France." I look rugged, certainly masculine, and that's ok, but I do generally require some talking to warm them up. I'm anti-beard, I think it would be too much with my shaved head anyway. I doubt I would fare well on tinder, but you never know...
/r/askMRP09/07/19 10:02 PM
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It really bothered my to write it. Fucking millennials. I'll save everyone the search, it's short for "video game".
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 04:16 PM
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Yeah, TRP always seemed like a bunch of incel whiners who don't want to put in the work and instead bash women and chad. And whine about how short/indian/whatever men don't have a chance. Plus, the constant crush of new users has always made fighting the good fight seem useless. vidya is alpha bro!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 02:59 PM
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LOL, both deleted. Must have been good.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 02:56 PM
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Cold approaching while a nice skill to have is a total waste of time to work and develop as a primary method to get pussy in 2019. Nearly all available women are on Tinder/etc. Says the guy on tren. Some of us will still need to be able to "talk away our face". Tinder doesn't allow for this. Not spending hours at the club cold approaching women who are likely already there with another man, or their GFs on a GNO. Clubs are possibly the worst place to pick up unless you are 6'2" tall or better an…
/r/askMRP09/07/19 04:20 AM
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You mean TRP? I don't go to that scary place of despair and hopelessness. Guess I did miss it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 04:10 AM
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Yep. After getting shut down 100 times, OP will be a different person. This is a good start. I also agree with sidepiecebandit. When you know you can get the number, get it. After that point, all you can do is fuck it up.
/r/askMRP08/07/19 07:57 PM
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Bugging me too. Guys piling-on with vigilante fire-stick marches to chase away those who would dare challenge a Zen-Master teacher, AND/or any number of Charlatans who've roped dopes into paying. Where are these flame wars? Have I completely missed them? Did I participate and not know? Hmm. So much drama, I noticed none of it. Just a slightly higher rate of extra nooby noobs.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/19 02:13 AM
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Some people are not, and will never be, fully ready.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/19 02:11 AM
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any tips would be greatly appreciated. Sidebar is to the right. Stop being pathetic.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/19 01:38 AM
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To those fighting with alcohol, there is a way to un-learn your desire for alcohol. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4ph7ps/my_journey_with_alcohol_and_a_way_out/ You guys looked like you might be interested. /u/HunterDrewTFA /u/itiswr1tten
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/19 01:34 AM
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intermittent fasting 20/4 at least 6 days a week and (2) focusing almost exclusively on getting sufficient protein. If you've got 4 hours to eat and you're pounding protein it's not fucking easy to stay hungry. I may have to try that again. I used to do every other day IM 20 years ago before it was cool. However, my business is always buying shit tons of crap food, so I have had to defensively eat in the morning so I wasn't tempted at work. Maybe I could do my 4 hours in the morning instead. I a…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 03:57 PM
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It took a good 4 months on T before I noticed anything different in the weight room. True about the weight room. I noticed other changes on my first shot though. I felt like a god. It lasted almost two weeks, and even as it was happening, I knew I'd never feel that good again for the rest of my life. It was like that "first high" that crackheads and heroin addicts talk about. I could eat way less than I was and not lose muscle This is exactly my experience. I can diet and not lose muscle, and I …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 02:05 PM
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Everyone thinks gear is magic. You shoot up and you magically turn into a fitness model. Frankly, I'll never approach a 6 plate deadlift, I'd be tickled with a 4 plate dl, and that would probably be enough to reach my goals. AFAIK, redsf isn't a body-builder, he's a powerlifter. He's in pretty good shape for a powerlifter, most of them are really fat. To get ripped, you do have to sacrifice strength, there's no way around it. And those fitness models / insta-celebs you see aren't like that year …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 11:47 AM
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The Binge: Life has been getting to me. I said fuck it. Ate a bunch, didn't lift, no cardio, drank a bunch, drunk-posted a bit, didn't go too crazy though. Gained a few pounds. Not where I wanted to be for summer, but I did enjoy it. I'm not enjoying it much anymore, time to get back on the wagon. Alcohol: I say my goodbyes to alcohol this week. Going to go on TSM, last time I did, I didn't drink for years. Frame: I'm not sure where it has come from, but my frame has been great lately. I just re…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 07:45 PM
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"Could you get X off the top shelf for me?" (Wife is only 5 foot) Bitch, why can't you grow? Eat your fucking vegetables. If you are nearby, get it. If you are across the house, and the stool is right next to her, make her do it. If you don't have a stool, buy one faggot. I keep a stool in the kitchen and one in the bathroom. Mostly for the kids, but wife uses it sometimes too. They have cheap plastic ones at IKEA and they support a grown man's weight.
/r/askMRP01/07/19 04:39 PM
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But when did you desert yourself and your meaning in life? When did you let your wife take it from you a leave a sad shell of a man? Blame it on her all you want, but the root cause is you.
/r/askMRP01/07/19 04:36 PM
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I get tired of repeating stuff. Guess I must do it more. It's funny, I stopped having to repeat myself when I got in better physical shape. I don't know what to tell you guys that are already in good shape (unless you are a fat powerlifter). It's a harder lift because you are already in good shape and she has learned not to give a crap about it.
/r/askMRP01/07/19 03:48 PM
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I’m personally a fit guy. I’ve been fit all my life. I go to the gym 6 or 7 times a week. Just a cold read here, but you sound like a guy in good shape whose vetting process was basically "what does she look like?" OK, big tits, slim waist, marriage material here. I don't think you are going to be able to change her, she just doesn't give a shit, and it she just doesn't give a shit about her own kids, I don't think dread is going to help you much with that. My advice to you is read the sidebar, …
/r/askMRP01/07/19 03:28 AM
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I don't want her to do it just to do it, if she's only doing it for me. The only way to have your own frame is to stop thinking shit like this. You are in your head, making your desire responsive to her desire. I only want it if she wants it. Well, guess what, she only wants it if you want it. See the problem here? Until you can just take what you want, you will be forever in her frame.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 02:19 PM
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they can entertain it or shut it down Entertaining it sounds pretty passive, I'd say there's also a third level. Encouraging it. To help /r/Daddy_ThunderCock, "getting her kicks" IMO starts somewhere between entertaining it and encouraging it. BTW, DTC, how did you get that flair, "the wednesday retard"?
/r/askMRP09/06/19 07:54 PM
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I know the standard line in here is don't care. And you shouldn't care. However, when I was vetting my woman, this was basically one of my criteria. Can I leave you alone and have you act appropriately? Now I don't know what you mean by "gets consistent orbiters" means really. If it's guys coming up to her, so what? If she's obviously playing along and getting her kicks, eh, that's just not something I personally signed up for, but I specifically vetted for someone with a modicum of self-control…
/r/askMRP08/06/19 07:26 PM
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I am 100% secure in my career when it comes to my religious outlook. Nice. Good luck then. Like you said, I'm sure it's pretty rare in utah.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/19 05:30 PM
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I'm sure you have thought of this, but just in case... We have a small mormon population in town, and they tend to be employed at the same places. Just make sure that if you go apostate, the church doesn't have members with influence to fire you or affect you financially. If so, best start looking for a new position.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/19 05:05 PM
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I tell her she should have married a faggot or a soyboy then.
/r/askMRP06/06/19 02:46 PM
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You: Talking about real statistics makes you a white nationalist. You are attempting to sidestep all his arguments by calling him a name. And I'll point that out every time you do it.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 05:42 PM
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LOL. I wanted nothing of the sort, you brought it up. That’s why you lobbed the laziest stat out there. Last I checked, statistics can't be lazy. They can be true or false. You just want to explain everything away as "oppression" don't you? You wanted to draw me into a race discussion I know there's no discussing anything with liberals. I notice you haven't addressed a single point I have made, instead attempting to dismiss or sidestep them. I just want to be a counterpoint to your shit, mr shin…
/r/askMRP05/06/19 05:30 PM
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Nice dodge attempt. If that were true, you wouldn't have opened your mouth in the first place. You don't get to spout shit and be unanswered, faggot. That's not a right you have on here. Call me what you like, white nationalist, nazi, I don't care. I won't shut up and I'm glad heartiste is out there pointing out the harsh reality. I'll go one further this post. If the breathtaking criminality isn't the result of genetics, then it must be culture, right? That puts the lie to all the "multicultura…
/r/askMRP05/06/19 04:47 PM
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The redpill comes in many forms. Like the fact that 13% of the population commits 50% of violent crime. But we aren't allowed to say that because that's white power, right? We are supposed to ignore societies ills because it isn't politically correct. We are all here because we have been lied to.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 03:26 PM
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Weird flex but ok. Inside conversation I wouldn't expect you to know about. my benchs, squats aint that good what they used be (bodyweight bench, 1,5 bodyweight deadlift). If that's what your lifts were after 5 years of lifting and before injury, you should really consider getting your T checked. How is your body fat? Personally, I have noticed that as my BF% goes down, the wife gets more affectionate. The general consensus tends to be that getting ripped is for mires from other guys, but I have…
/r/askMRP17/05/19 06:05 PM
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I was calling the guy in the deadbedrooms post obese. But now that you mention it, OP didn't list any stats and says he has been "going to the gym for a few months". My lifting buddy "has been going to the gym for a few months" and while not obese, he's definitely fat. Me, on the other hand, I'm scrambling to get shit done, so I can be worthless for two weeks while I get in my final cut for the summer before it gets truly hot.
/r/askMRP17/05/19 01:37 PM
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You're needy for sexual validation, which is unattractive and will quickly or slowly make her averse to sex with you, as happened with this guy. He sounds needy and fat. Fat. Very fat. Obese even. I'm glad we call people faggots and request stats immediately here.
/r/askMRP17/05/19 12:16 PM
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Yeah, I can relate to this. Here's a few tips. If you can, break up large part numbers with spaces. If you can insert spaces or underscores every 3-5 numbers, it's a lot easier to see mistakes. The latest version of java allows underscores in numbers (e.g. 123_453_4321) I find that's extremely helpful. Otherwise, you just have to be disciplined. Find a quiet space and go over your work. Double check it, triple check it, have someone else proof your work if you can. Then sleep on it, and check it…
/r/askMRP16/05/19 02:07 PM
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I think I’ve run through what I can / am willing to fuck in my town. That is a small town. Good luck with the court system.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 02:33 PM
2

So where do current events find you? You get that divorce, or you just getting some on the side?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 01:30 PM
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I’ve seen too many jacked guys who are in the 1k club, 9% bf be scared to talk to girls to still believe that’s all it takes. Wow, I can't imagine. Welcome back scurve. You sound pretty well healed up from your brain squirting out your nose episode.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 10:41 AM
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I doubt he's on here, he didn't even participate in his own forum for years. Edit: And he paid a lot to keep that forum running, I remember the meltdown that occurred when he found out there was a group CCing everyone through the private messaging system and costing him a lot of money because of data storage fees.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 03:47 AM
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I wonder how many will turn into 'allies' and soften their approach towards the gynaeocracy, simply to protect revenue streams. It is already happening. A certain Married Man who wrote a Primer already sold out and watered down his message to suit female buyers. Result? You don't hear much about him anymore. I guess the plus side is that he hasn't been banned from amazon yet like some others.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 03:43 AM
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and even lower among the more educated and affluent. It's under 1% where I live Like many other things, it all comes down to demographics.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/19 03:30 PM
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If you are not cheating, you are not trying. Tell me about it. Some p.h.e.n fell in my lap recently. Makes a huge difference, both in hunger and in getting shit done. Haven't heard of the one you mentioned before, I'll have to check it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 02:05 PM
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The Cut: Very successful. Down to 165. I'm not all ripped up, but my belly is small at this point, and my arms are rather vascular. I'm going off today because I need some energy for a project I have coming up. Going to take two weeks at maintainence and reasses. Don't want to end up scary skeleton mode, I think I have enough muscle (is it ever enough?) but I'd rather be fat than a skeleton. Also, I think I'm actually on the edge of losing weight too fast, I think I need to take some time and le…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 02:20 PM
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"well if I have to get a full time job what do I need you for?" Ha. What exactly does she need to tell you for you to admit the truth to yourself?
/r/askMRP29/04/19 12:19 AM
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Part of the problem is she's embracing the body positivity movement LOL. Diet, struggle with hunger and go to the gym OR have more twinkies and hang out with other people who like twinkies. Alas, most people will go for the second option.
/r/askMRP29/04/19 12:14 AM
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and we do not greet each other Who told you to do this? Surely it was not us. We would tell you to greet your wife, even if she doesn't greet you back. Act as if her anger doesn't phase you, though at this point, it clearly does.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/19 01:11 PM
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It's a truly terribly thought that this shit never ends. No matter how strong, ripped, rich, the shit never stops. How Bill Gates gets harassed by his ugly wife to do more chores: "Even Melinda Gates Has Struggled to Get Her Husband Bill to Do His Fair Share" http://fortune.com/2019/04/22/melinda-gates-bill-gates-book/
/r/askMRP24/04/19 04:42 PM
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Yes. I know whose fault this is. Daughter’s hormones are starting to kick in and she’s having outbursts and parroting wife’s negative and defeating self-talk about how she can’t do this, can’t do that. Doesn’t know how to do this, doesn’t know how to do that, etc, etc. It's might be too late for this, but you could start teaching her some stoicism.
/r/askMRP20/04/19 12:18 PM
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I'm bored and felt like trolling MRP today Going to be a long weekend.
/r/askMRP19/04/19 03:34 PM
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Lifts: 3 sets of: Bench 115x10 Squat 125x10 Deadlift 200x10 Curls 90x10 Fuck, you are probably the first person I have ever told this, but I wouldn't be too concerned about lifting heavy right now. If you are actively losing weight, you are going to hurt yourself by lifting too much. I'd focus on trying to gain weight any way you can. If you want to lift, go low weight, high reps, you just want to hold on to any functional strength you can at this point. I assume you have terrible nausea right n…
/r/askMRP13/04/19 04:55 PM
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Post history is a bitch.
/r/askMRP13/04/19 04:47 PM
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Well, it puts things in context. I take no joy in hearing your story of misery. I often find that by writing things out, I often find my own answers. Now that you have written this out, what do you think is the current problem with your situation? What do you think could be a solution?
/r/askMRP13/04/19 03:07 AM
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Funny, I didn't actually call you a faggot. Why is it important to know you are on Kratom? Maybe because it's known to increase prolactin, decrease testosterone and cause sexual dysfunction. So, are you fucking your wife? How often? https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/2324709618765022 That's just one reason. The other thing is that for the life of me, I can't figure out if your wife is fucking with you for fun or because of some long held bitterness. They are very different scenarios. So, h…
/r/askMRP12/04/19 07:56 PM
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This whole scenario sounds really off, like OP isn't telling us something. So I checked his post history. Sounds like he is, or has recently, been addicted to and/or is trying to quit 1) benzos, 2) kratom and 3) colorado industrial strength weed. For all I know, OP is stoned out of his mind and losing his own keys. I can't comment on any of this until OP tells us the full story.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 01:57 PM
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it is still deeply engrained and a source of joy and fulfillment. For whom? You whine like a socialist. Adults can spend their money wherever they damn well please. It's funny. You say I whine and complain. I can't control how you hear my written text in your mind, is there a reason you read my dispassionate words with an inflection? People can be blue pill all they want. I can laugh at them all I want. You can and do project a lot. We;) MRPers will go lift. I don't think I have ever said "we MR…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/19 07:44 PM
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There's a difference between a tribe and a pretend-tribe. Especially a pretend-tribe that exists to fleece you of money. And if a two sentence post agreeing with OP is complaining, I'm guilty as charged. At least I'm not sitting around pretending that some athletes playing sportsball adds any glory to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/19 03:10 AM
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It's been three months now since telling her that we should take a fast from sex. Um, why would you do this?
/r/askMRP07/04/19 12:39 AM
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6'3" 180 lbs. Squat 170. Deadlift 175. Bench 135. OP 120. Barrow 120 Ok, your lifts suck. You also have 5 inches on me and ten pounds. You should have 40-50 pounds on me. You are a scary skeleton who isn't attractive. You should try lifting and eating.
/r/askMRP05/04/19 02:15 PM
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I have never thought of driving as competitive. Didn't ever occur to me. Interesting. I'm just trying to get somewhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 11:57 PM
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I thought frontyer0077's response was sarcastic. Was it sincere?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 05:38 PM
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men who refer to their favorite sports team as “we” Glad someone else sees the stupidity in this. I never understood spectator sports.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 01:42 PM
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But sometimes being a dick is the best solution As a former yank (always a yank?), I have to tone shit down, because your first quote has always been my default mode. You actually sound like some of my first posts here. But yeah, if being a dick can solve it, I got it covered! Heh.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 01:58 AM
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The Cut: Two weeks, down about five pounds. I'm calling this a success. Going to take two weeks off to maintain and do it again. Cancer: Mother has stabilized, don't know which way it will go though. Other Projects: Got a renter in, timing is kind of fucky, been having to make repairs as they move in. Been super busy with this, getting things done, has been a bit of a clusterfuck, but I'm getting things done. Unfortunately, I'm going to have to watch her like a hawk and always document everythin…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 03:08 PM
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Congratz on being the first person to mention that in this sub you fucking turd. Go rope yourself. Before you do so please delete your post.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/19 04:40 PM
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Psychological and physiological, both need to be addressed. My personal experience is that before I went on TRT, I was able to diet down to 150lbs without much of a struggle. Unfortunately, because I was low T, I lost a lot of muscle and was still skinnyfat at 150lbs and 5'10". Then I went on TRT, and I'm able to gain muscle much more easily, but my problem now is that my hunger is seriously increased. I have much more sympathy now for fatties, if they have this level of hunger, I get it now why…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/19 02:39 PM
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count calories to lose weight I don't find this compelling or profound. Everyone says this, like these are the only variables. So why doesn't everyone do it? Unfortunately, your body doesn't want you to do it. Your body likes to have an insurance policy against lean times. The body communicates this desire to you in the form of hunger. Women have the rationalization hamster, many of us also have the food rationalization hamster. Mine was recently acquired when I went on TRT. So how do you combat…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 03:58 PM
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Well, some days I'm better at it than others. The average has improved, yet there are still good days and still bad days. I'm ok with it though.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/19 08:38 PM
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I'm a little different than the average dude who stumbles upon here. I have so, so much belief in my ability to beat anything, and I have proven it, and I have done it time and time again, and I then ran across the ultimate 'anything' and I actually beat that too, and so that's the ultimate fucking craziness, and that's insane…. and then… this... void.... Why am I not happy? What is missing? What is happening? Why don't I feel like I've climbed a mountain? Why don't I feel like I've won a war? O…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/19 06:36 PM
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OP thinks we wouldn't call him a fat, faggot, DYEL in person. LOL.
/r/askMRP23/03/19 01:22 PM
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I do give him points for having irrational confidence. I couldn't pull this post off were I 60lbs overweight.
/r/askMRP21/03/19 02:25 PM
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Are you on HCG? I heard it’s good to do a low dose twice weekly to prevent atrophy but honestly unless I end up in pain I don’t think I’ll mess with it. I did have some pain for the first year. Once every few weeks it would feel like a received a kick to the balls. Haven't had that happen for a while. My push for self injection is basically going to be that this is for life and I need to be self sufficient. Yes. Endos i think are better about that, it's some T clinics that want to clip you 40$ a…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 08:39 PM
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What would you consider old? I’m 35 which is right around the age where shit starts going to hell in a hand basket hormone-wise. At 35, if you aren't planning on having kids, just go straight to the needle. I screwed around with clomid for a year, I should have went to injections. If you plan on having kids and have money to spend, you can do TRT + HCG to keep your fertility. If you plan on having kids and less money, you can try a restart with clomid. I honestly think the SSRIs fucked my body u…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 03:23 PM
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My PCP is actually super smart and ran a ton of tests for me initially to rule out thyroid/metabolic syndrome but she’s a woman and I got the you are in great shape and healthy and don’t need testosterone despite all my numbers being off the bottom of the chart. I’m gonna ask her to run a prolactin test. Definitely. Something just doesn't smell right with your numbers. It could just be that you are super-low, but definitely get the prolactin test. Another problem, but somewhat more rare is "empt…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/19 07:10 PM
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Different class of professionals I suppose. Very much so. I wish I could pay that much.
/r/askMRP14/03/19 03:34 PM
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My doc didn’t test prolactin - is that to check for tumors? Yes, a pituitary tumor can overproduce prolactin, which will tank your T. You need to get that checked. The tumors are easily controlled, but you need cabergoline instead of TRT possibly. Or both. If your prolactin is high you will still feel terrible even on TRT. You might consider going to someone more specialized in men's health issues, testing prolactin is pretty standard. My E2 is low because I have no free T to be aromatized Yes. …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/19 03:34 PM
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You know, it really depends. My employees are lower tier because of the pay I'm able to offer. I haven't had to do it for years, but in the past, it has been helpful to throw something at the wall, just so that they know I can do it. I wish I could just do the old "Win Friends and Influence People" but it only works (if at all) at a certain level. It could have worked when I was in programming, but that's totally different.
/r/askMRP14/03/19 02:50 PM
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Dunno why the anti AI sentiment. Yeah, I know. DYELs are blasting a gram of tren over on /r/steroids, but AI is bad. My E2 at 12 blows right now anyway That's surprising that your E2 is so low. Without seeing your other numbers, you sound like primary hypogonadism or something else. Have you also had all the other bloodwork including prolactin and LH/FSH? I know TRT isnt a miracle but fuck at this point literally can’t get any worse. Sure feels like a miracle to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/19 02:46 PM
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Yeah, my initial test was 190TT and 21 E2. T was outside the range low and E2 was in the range, but close to the bottom of the range. If you aren’t shredding fat on TRT after 8-12 weeks your hormone balance is off some where. Shedding fat? Not at all. But I have had outsized hunger since going on TRT. I want to eat everything. EVERYTHING. If I conquer my hunger, I can lose fat without losing much muscle, which wasn't the case before. But, like I said, my hunger is off the damn charts. 5-htp has …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 06:45 PM
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I checked my bodyfat with a skulpt. It read 19.5%. I was higher after a bulk, but this past year has basically been a huge struggle to get down to 15%. But yeah, that's why I have been obsessed with losing weight. Over the past year I have lost maybe 10lbs and that was a hard won struggle. Prior to TRT, I was able to go down to 150 without this much struggle. (I lost mostly muscle because I was unknowingly low T) Would be nice to lose the AI, but I just want to lose the fat at this point. I wish…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 02:28 PM
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Your extra weight is causing you to aromatize at a higher rate Ok, I just checked using the skulpt and it says 19.5%. So yeah, I need to lose some weight which is why this has been such a focus for me. I'd be perfectly happy at 15%. Maybe it will reduce my need for AI, though I thought that was mostly for obese men, I'm not quite obese.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 03:18 AM
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EC stack? Ephedra and caffeine? Completely worthless, I did that shit 20 years ago and it didn't do jack. If I were to do a fat-burner stack, I'd at least run some yellow crystal death, at least it works if it doesn't kill you. And I'm going from 18-20% to 15%. I have no dreams of going lower than 15%. I'd probably go scary skeleton mode below 15%.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/19 11:54 PM
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Curious about the 5-HTP - why did you start taking it, and what's been your experience, other than increased energy? Since I started TRT, I have been basically unable to lose weight. My hunger has been highly unreasonable, I could not stick to my numbers, I'd cave in the evenings, hard. Prior to TRT, I could adhere and lose weight at a reasonable pace, it wasn't a big deal. So, I had been researching appetite suppressants, and 5-htp came up. I checked the studies and it seemed like a decent cand…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/19 06:47 PM
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Shit hits the fan: Mother has been undergoing chemo, and has been fine with it for a while. Got a fever, landed in the hospital, they don't know what's wrong. Been a bit of a shit-show. Brother went up to be with her in the hospital and keep an eye on things. I was scheduled to go up and take over from my brother, but it looks like she has recovered. I have the next episode, as this probably won't be the last one. Frame: Frame has been pretty good considering all the added stress. I have been fu…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/19 04:30 PM
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I can see how you might want to do this. I also have my own autistic tendencies. However, it's counterproductive. It puts your focus on your wife, when your focus needs to be you. Here's what you need to track: Are you happy with your relationship? If yes, great. If no, you either need to 1) work on yourself more or 2) find a new woman. Or both. That's really the extent of how much you should be thinking about this.
/r/askMRP11/03/19 09:28 PM
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Do you feel like she let herself go? I was pretty much a dick during her pregnancies. People would tell her to have an extra slice of cake - "You are eating for two!" I would say, actually, it's more like eating for 1 point 2 (1.2). People would call me a dick, I'd shrug. My wife didn't get stretch marks, but she didn't gain a hundred pounds like some women do. It's absurd how fat some women get. You can't expect to gain a hundred pounds, lose it after and be normal. And most women don't lose it…
/r/askMRP08/03/19 06:46 PM
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when my son fell asleep, she brought me the baby phone and put it on my desk Missed that part. Before re-reading the OP I thought it was this: http://www.babybottega.com/fisher-price-vintage-chatter-telephone.html Then I reread it, and it's probably just a baby-monitor and a bad translation. I liked it better when I thought it was the toy baby phone.
/r/askMRP07/03/19 12:18 AM
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Warlock-blooded-flying-red-pill-wolf We actually have a tradition of red-wolf names pretty much always going bonkers quickly after arrival here.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/19 06:18 PM
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Do what ya have to but 160mg is pretty high for a "cruise" year long dose IMHO Yeah, I'm surprised at how low some can go. Heck, you probably have 50lbs on me also. I might consider dropping the dose some, need to see how my other bloodwork comes out. If my lipids are fine, no harm no foul.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 11:23 PM
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From my prior bloodwork, I'm between 1000-1200 on the current dose of 160mg/week (two split doses). Why don't I want to take AI year round? If I drop the AI to any less than I'm currently on, I immediately get terrible cystic acne. We'll see how the B5 goes though. I can't live with huge cystic acne. No way. Thankfully that shit is only on my neck right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 07:13 PM
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For example, on bench, on my 5x5's, I'll do 5 x at 275 Damn, 275lbs for 5x5 on bench? Pretty good man. Also, what type of supplements and / or vitamins, and / or protein powders do you guys use? TRT, but you sound like you are doing pretty good. Might be worth it to get tested so you have a baseline as you get older.
/r/askMRP05/03/19 04:56 PM
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Frame and Mood: This past week, I have been feeling great. If I don't wake with energy, I have plenty of energy within an hour of waking. This has been a game changer for me. It has been much easier to ignore shit tests, and respond to them with calmness. Though really, I don't get shit tested much. Wife just blows up small things into large emergencies. I am hoping that people's ominous warnings about 5-htp aren't true, as I'm still improving. Sickness: Lost two days this week, everyone in the …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 03:41 PM
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As a Latin American I know that native South American women went wild for Spanish conquistadores. In some regions it helped that their own myths had a fetish for whiter skin that was fulfilled by the European men. Yes, it sure helps when your god(s) are portrayed as white. A lot of it comes down to the fact that the poor in most cultures (up until the industrial revolution) worked outside and became darker, while those who had money could stay inside, and were whiter. I would also not be surpris…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 02:56 PM
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If he was in earshot, I'd have said "I love you too snookums." If you are the northeast, he could have just been giving you shit.
/r/askMRP04/03/19 10:18 PM
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LOL, sounds like you two need to form an informal union.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 11:05 PM
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I mentioned about getting Bob trained up but there was a complete reluctance and he wouldn't even entertain it. He can do it no problem and I can share or back him up. Well something doesn't add up here, because now Bob is being considered as your replacement. I will need to be able to remote in and triage the issue within 20 minutes of getting a call. That doesn't sound reasonable. It's not like you can (or should) immediately patch the problem and push to production anyway. So you are looking …
/r/askMRP01/03/19 05:13 PM
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What is the likelihood that you would actually get called in the middle of the night? When I was in tech, we were all basically on call 24/7, but I'd get a call maybe twice or three times a year. When you make a certain salary, especially in tech, it's not a 9 to 5 job. No one thought it was such a big deal, if there was a problem, we would solve it. You say you are getting overpaid for your work and your area. Why are you picking this hill to die on? 4 hour day commutes suck, you need to factor…
/r/askMRP01/03/19 04:34 PM
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Lesson learned: To be strong you need a stick in your ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/19 10:32 PM
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Securing a white male of any status is the ideal goal of any female, regardless of race or color. Had a friend years ago, second or third generation american, indian lineage. He would give me endless shit about how many cows I'd fetch in india to marry a local there. PS: I hope you are not asking for my pity for these small Asian and Indian men who cant bench a bar, don’t weight more than 120# wet and with poor clothing choices look like they wanna blow up the plane I am in. I do pity them, slig…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/19 04:53 PM
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That's not really true, at least for white women. Look at OKcupid's research into that. Thirst for genetic diversity is some BS meme pushed by pozzed researchers.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/19 04:40 PM
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I think most people feel good when they buy things, but I feel guilty. All my relatives like buying cheap shit for the kids. I'm curing them of that as I'm buried in kids chochkies. Last time my father was in town, he pulls out a paint your own piggy bank kit for the kids. I then take him on a tour of the 10+ piggy banks the kids already have, including two of the exact type he brought, unpainted, in box on shelf. Other relatives like bringing sticker books (hey, $1 what a great deal!). I make s…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/19 03:43 PM
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Fucking hell. I have a talent. I make everything I do look shady, when I'm not doing anything wrong. Now I have the MDMA-antidote on my shelf. Figures.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/19 11:39 AM
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You lost three jobs recently. Exactly what is keeping you in the current state?
/r/askMRP27/02/19 11:35 AM
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We need exact numbers. You need to commit to running 160mg a week for 12 weeks. Pin 2x a week 80mg. Get bloods at the start, half and end. Then lets see where you are at. At 140mg/week I was at 1010 TT (300-890) and free T 317 (47-244). Doc flipped his shit and lowered my dose. Thankfully, I was sandbagging him and wasn't taking my full dose of 160mg. My E2 has been tested multiple times (and I'm going to test this week if I can get there) and I have been keeping it between 21-28 with arimidex (…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/19 01:15 AM
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Called it, my mom's side is (non-practicing) Jewish. Lol. And I'm a cheap, cheap motherfucker. At a certain point, if you are buying shit because it's cheap, you are being manipulated into giving them your money. Oh damn, how's that for a reframe / bind? but I am worried we have swung too far the other way Yeah, there's a balance. My wife is cheaper than I, but I can be pretty stingy too. Set some goals financial goals, something worthwhile and work towards it, but don't be stingy for it's own s…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 05:43 PM
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that it seems like you are always changing your TRT doses Generally, I am. I'm at 160mg/week right now in split doses and have been for a while, but I do have to lower it some when I know the doc is going to want bloodwork. Also, I had to majorly lower my arimidex, my e2 was too low. I have lowered it to the point I started to get nasty cystic acne and then raised it slightly. I'm still greasy and smelly, but I'm just dealing with it. I'm getting my e2 tested this week, I want to know where it's…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 05:37 PM
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Its all about increasing your baseline. Gear, drugs, etc - they all work by increasing your baseline of whatever. When/if you stop you return to your natural levels This right here is the shitty part of everything. When I went on TRT, fuck, I felt like a god. I knew it was only temporary, but for almost two weeks, I walked around with a constant, nearly uncomfortable, (dopamine?) buzz. I know I will never feel like that again. I can't say I got a buzz from 5-htp, but I do think I was perhaps def…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 05:06 PM
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lifelong New Yorker I am completely incapable of resisting all you can eat. Gotta break out of that scarcity yank mindset. When I left the NE, I realized something pretty major. People I now knew, they weren't scratching to survive like everyone I knew before. Up east, everyone I knew was up to something, everyone had an angle. You don't have to do that in the rest of the country. Also, when you realize that Cicis pizza is made of the cheapest ingredients possible, and you realize that imitation…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 04:47 PM
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When I was abusing speed and molly 5-HTP Tread very carefully here brother Damn, speed and mdma and you are worried about 5-htp? From what I have read, and I have read a bit, 5-HTP is a terrible idea if you are on an SSRI, which I am not. I'm also not dosing terribly high, max 400mg/day. What is your concern? It really seems to be making a pretty major difference in my life. Just fucking accept the perma bulk lifestyle. Shit. I want to see abs once again before I die. Just get down to 15%. Nothi…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 04:35 PM
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Fat logic reared its ugly head on the trip. I didn't log my food while away on Wednesday, Thursday, or Friday, despite the slip up last week with going out to lunch. My wife (easily) convinced me that since we were on vacation that I could live a little and eat whatever I wanted. The low point was Thursday night when we went out to our kids' favorite restaurant - Cici's. There's nothing wrong with taking a break sometimes. There's only so much willpower to go around and vacations are probably th…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 03:48 PM
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It's all Chemicals: I have been struggling for a bit with what I have been calling "unreasonable hunger". It started when I went on TRT, I was fine on clomid. The net was that if I lost any weight, I could lose maybe a pound a month. Mostly I treaded water though. I searched for appetite suppressants, yet again, and this time I stumbled on something different. 5-HTP. It's a precuror of seratonin, and seems like exactly what I needed. My appetite is much more manageable, I have been losing weight…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 03:40 PM
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Heh. He said he was from eastern europe. Looks like he made an attempt to convert metric to American units, but didn't realize we use periods where the non-english world generally uses commas. The conversion took the numbers out to three decimal levels, which one wouldn't use for height or weight. It also used decimal inches which one doesn't really see outside of engineering. Plenty of reasons to call him a faggot, but he was trying to use Freedom Units, cut him a little slack.
/r/askMRP23/02/19 02:54 PM
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Stats: 5' 10" 209 lbs. 22% bf Got a gym membership Ok, let's face facts here. There is no fucking way you are 22% at 5'10" 209lbs and DYEL, unless you have been on a diet of straight tren since you turned 18. I'm 20% at 5'10 and 176lbs and I'm on TRT and I lift. You have an extra 35lbs on me. You are fucking obese. I concur with the others, get a cage for the garage. You don't need a spotter if you have a cage. If you can't give up the garage, get an air conditioned shed for the backyard. Pay a …
/r/askMRP15/02/19 07:29 PM
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It has probably been a year since I have visited PPD/tbp, but I'm going to have to check it out when this thread comes up.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/19 04:37 PM
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take shit At least you do word it as an activity you are doing. Now, you need to ask yourself: "why am I doing this?" Do the opinions of online assholes really matter? Is it worth getting wound up over the opinions of these people? Is any of it inside your control? Truly, I think my 10 year old has a better handle on stoicism than you do, I sent her out today with the Handbook of Epictetus which we will discuss later.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/19 08:44 PM
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A few years later, I found you tube videos of A.K. and was like wtf is this? He wasn’t the same anymore... totally water-downed version of his old self. Pathetic really. I thought that about his second book. Third book isn't even worth a look. Athol's problem is that he thought since women were the buyers of his original book (to give to men) that he needed to appeal to women. The problem with that is that everyone else is already marketing relationship books to women. Women bought his book beca…
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:58 PM
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The self-defeating effect of this does not escape me. You really don't have a choice but to be encouraging. I'd personally not like to be on the receiving end of "but I gave up med school for you."
/r/askMRP07/02/19 03:50 PM
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I am sad inside that a user named TrenGod isn't intimidating enough to have his woman follow his simple commands. I guess Tren isn't the answer to everything. There goes something to look forward to after I get bored of TRT.
/r/askMRP06/02/19 04:42 PM
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She had such an innocent persona about her... even held out with sex when we were dating... said she would wait 3 months, we ended up fucking after 6 weeks... which was an eternity for me Smooth. A 3 month wait, which she tactfully gave up at 6 weeks to make you think she caved.
/r/askMRP05/02/19 03:17 PM
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What she wants is a real man to push her up against a wall and show her what its like to be a girl. At least half of lesbians I have met probably fall into this category. Maybe more. Most gay dudes are really gay and nothing is going to change that.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 06:54 PM
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She said if I got them to bed at a decent time tonight, it was on. Maybe that's how she feels right now. Maybe she will feel like it later, or maybe she won't. You can't take promises of sex at a later time or date seriously.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 06:40 PM
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Peel the top covers off. Peel your side of the bottom sheet off the mattress. Flip rice to her side of the bed. Put bed back together. Only do this if you can do it while laughing.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 03:15 PM
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It also seems that OP isn't familiar with "Briffault’s Law". He's not going to collect on these 5 BJs either. I'd wager he can't collect more than two. So congratz again. BJs are work, and also debts to you can remain unfulfilled.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 07:10 PM
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I overtly negotiated my labor rate of 1 happy ending per hour of labor. Sucking your dick is now work. Congratz.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 04:43 PM
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Yeah seriously. If this happened to me and I was stupid enough to consider not just kicking the bitch out, she wouldn't be able to open her mouth around the house without my dick being in it.
/r/askMRP25/01/19 03:34 PM
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Keep your mouth shut! You just found out. Whatever your next move is needs to be calculated and not in an emotional torrent. If she is a SAHM, she needs to get a job, etc. Talk to an attorney.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 04:31 PM
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Haha, it was a joke guys. Lighten up.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 04:06 PM
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Not necessarily in that order.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 03:44 AM
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She is paying all her own bills and lawyer fees. Wow, nice, that's a major win. I am scorched earthing that woman. ok... Hope it all goes well.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 05:21 PM
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Wife is now on her third lawyer Sounds expensive. I bet she's glad she has you to pay the bills. Man, I really fucked up sticking my dick in crazy Hindsight and all. Lesson learned for the future? Headed to BOS for a minute for work. Never been. Looking forward to that. What should I see? Have three days, two nights. Staying by the airport. Take a cab to cambridge and go to http://www.grendelsden.com/ It's going to be cold, bring a jacket. Plenty of stuff to do in cambridge, all within walking d…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 04:10 PM
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Macy's after the holidays (now) usually has some good stuff on sale. Never buy anything without trying it on first. Sometimes I'll try on 4 shirts to get one good one, sometimes it's more like 10 to 1.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/19 03:02 PM
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That's quite an accusation coming from you, "peggedbyowlette".
/r/askMRP18/01/19 03:53 PM
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I don't have a beard. I won't grow one because the faggiest "men" around are soyboy millenials who all have huge beards. Look at the book soyboy #2 is holding up. Heh. https://duckduckgo.com/?q=soyboy+beard&iax=images&ia=images
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 04:10 PM
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Looks like a girl wandered into the locker room. Don't be surprised if we take off the towel and snap you with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 09:09 PM
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I believe that people always make the best choice, according to their values, that is available. However, I wouldn't rebrand logic to encompass the cravings of a crack whore.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 04:51 PM
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Family Judge vs Criminal re: gear use Yeah. It's a different mindset. It may or may not get brought up It backs up the narrative of you being a scary roid-monster domestic abuser. You better believe it will be brought up. I'd also reduce your stash just in case. Remember, 25 grams is a felony. Good luck. Edit: Ok, this cracks me up. With the issues you described, people are form-checking your on your lifts. People have no perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/19 03:13 PM
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Well, that's nice of the DA then. At least you checked on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/19 03:09 PM
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You sound like my BFF. He echoed many of the same things you say, and I should probably listen to him and you, but. He sounds like a solid bro. Alas, we never take the advice that we need most, because if we did, we wouldn't need it. Nothing I have said isn't plainly obvious... Dropping to TRT, Yep. being a choir-boy, Yep. stop fucking? Nope. I just said stop fucking the married ones, the ones that may develop a grudge. The ones that if their husbands found out may have a reason to fuck you over…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 04:08 PM
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based on how hard it for me to get TRT and the fact that all this stuff is "Tier 3" red-sfpplus is in Texas. A quick google shows that 25 grams or more (including carrier oil) is a felony. That's roughly one 10ml bottle. search and seizure after STBX drops a dime followed by court narrative of "roid-monster" sounds like a solid play for her. Yep.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 04:00 PM
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My grandma is 95, and I want to see her again badly. Go visit. All my great-grandparents and grandparents are dead, but I visited them all before they died. I have no regrets. The financial toll of two top tier lawyers is starting to get felt. My guess is I will be out $50-80K by time this is all said and done, and assuming I win. A lawyer I know had a contested divorce. Just the divorce cost him $100k. The criminal matter will probably set you back $50k alone. Sorry. I need to look into hiring …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 06:34 PM
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My Day Off: I was pretty tired on Sunday. I had an errand to run which took my nearby my business, so I took an hour and fixed a piece of equipment that needed some love. Otherwise, didn't do anything productive. Sleeping left me groggy, and I can't say I felt any better for being slothful. 2/10 wouldn't do again. Health: A few of my recent bloods have come back with my E2 low. I'm cutting my anastrozole dose. My skin looks much younger, but the acne is coming back. I'll just have to deal with i…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 02:56 PM
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So are you saying you don't like Captain Tom's? Sometimes we change it up and go to Pappadeaux. The bike is this stupid all plastic thing that has a friction fit seat which no one else has the hand strength to adjust and have it stay.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/19 05:59 PM
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So now you push through everything...why? Because it's better than boredom, and if I push through, I have no regrets about it. Do I smell some “making up for lost time” in there? It's not possible to make up for it, I try not to think about the lost years as much as I can. But you know what you have to get better to keep in good health. I have been sick for a week, I am finally starting to feel better today. I can't sit out for a week. Lets be real. No one pushes hard 24/7/365. So dont try to sa…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/19 05:55 PM
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Ok, your lifts are light. Normally, I'd say to stay the course with 5x5, but if your boredom is keeping you out of the gym, then change it up. But don't think there's some magic program, they all have pros and cons. Be wary of the machines, it's very easy to hurt yourself on them and get terrible imbalances. In the long run though, all routines get boring. At some point you will have to press through your boredom.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/19 05:45 PM
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Why cant you just be sick? People get sick. I am a big fat baby when I am sick. I eat soup, watch TV and sleep. I leave dirty clothes on the floor and crumpled up Kleenexes on my nightstand. When I was low T, I felt like shit for years. I just learned to push through it. Now I'm really bored if I were to sit there and eat soup, watch TV and sleep. I never once have felt completely worthless. Well, I'm bored, not enjoying myself, might as well knock some shit out so I don't have to worry about it…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 10:04 PM
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A child was injured. Could have been something minor, could have been something more major.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 09:50 PM
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You sound like you are bored. You also don't sound like you have been in the gym a lot lately. What are your current lifts?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 06:22 PM
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Well, I think it might be more that I just didn't have the luxury of panic, so I force myself to deal with the situation. When the shit really hits the fan, I'm always golden. The day-to-day shit crushes me, as weird as that sounds.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 06:19 PM
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I'll have a chat to the gym trainers and see if there's a new program to try. Beware, trainers will tell you exactly what you want to hear.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 05:40 PM
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Yeah, funny though, wife comes to me today with something that's completely panic-worthy, and I'm ice cold today.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 05:39 PM
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I'm looking at stronglifts, but not sure the volume is enough to get ripped Why don't you lift for a bit before worrying if the program you are using is adequate enough for you to get ripped?
/r/askMRP03/01/19 01:21 PM
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Health: I'm sick again, I don't know what my deal is. Winter just started and this is the second time that I'm sick. I'm isolating myself from my family, I suspect we are passing the same respiratory infection back and forth. This shit must end. So, to the couch I go, and I'm stiff arming everyone. Frame: I'm sick, but trying to do some shit around the house so I don't feel completely worthless and the wife keeps jumping down my ass. This is pretty abnormal. So I whisper in the wife's ear "You a…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 02:31 PM
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No kids.So I just found out my (now) ex-wife has been cheating on me for the past 5 months. That is how I met my current wife - I picked her up at a coffee shop and fucked her in her car the day after we met (I was 25 at the time, she was 21). I am now filing for divorce after 1.5 years marriage (together for 5 years total). Your post isn't exactly clear. Did you get divorced and remarried already? Please tell me no. But yeah, I agree with the other posters, picking up a chick and fucking in a c…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 05:04 PM
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Fitness; i go to the gym regular but have not got abs or swole. What the hell am i doing? If your diet is on point, get your T checked. Also - I'm quitting drinking permanently. It simply does not help with energy, fitness, testosterone levels or financially. I can't afford to be dragging that anchor around. If you are really ready to quit for good, look into "the sinclair method". It's a way of unlearning alcohol addiction.
/r/askMRP30/12/18 06:32 PM
1

Damn. Yeah, I can smell the aggression in your posts lately. A gram is a lot, be careful.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/18 04:45 PM
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I triggered you. Your wife does. Are you a SJW or a man? Oh come now. One guy gets my goat in two years on here and I tongue in cheek mention being "triggered" and I'm an SJW? Methinks you have already "upped the tren". Why does a kid throwing a temper tantrum deserve your time and attention? I have had success bringing them down and having them realize the futility of their actions. It can be delicate, but if I have the wife interfering over my shoulder, it's just not possible. My wife used to …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/18 11:14 PM
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not taking her concerns personally anymore Yep, that's what I need work on. It has really been apparent to me, the difference in how I react to things from my kids and my wife. My kids, I chuckle and don't give it a second thought.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/18 04:08 AM
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Christmas Edition: I have a lot of family in town. It's interesting to see the interactions. My brother thinks my father is getting senile because he repeats himself a lot. I just see that my father won't be direct and ask for what he wants, but keeps asking the same indirect questions, expecting a different answer. There's no point in red-pilling either one, neither one would take it. Am I attractive? Another week, another chick fumbling over herself while trying to keep a conversation with aut…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/18 04:13 PM
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I love keto too gained 40 back How, for the love of god, does one suffer enough to lose 80 lbs and then gain back 40 for bullshit reasons?
/r/askMRP21/12/18 03:08 PM
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Do I really want to put all of my awesomeness on display for some blue-haired landwhale? "Your awesomeness" shouldn't be a mask that you put on and take off. Keep working. Disengage won't always be an option. How long would you chat up a woman belonging to each category? People who don't interest me don't get any time. Why is this so hard to understand? Frankly, most people don't get my time. However, it costs me nothing to smile and keep on trucking. There's no reason to piss people off for no …
/r/askMRP20/12/18 05:34 PM
2

Don't regret falling off. Just start up again.
/r/askMRP20/12/18 03:36 PM
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I agree with you - you know you've made it when you're feeling shitty physically (for whatever) but can still can keep your mental shit together. I didn't say it, but I really like it. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 01:30 PM
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If your goal is more physique than weight then 2/3/4 is not the correct goal for you and I will not use it as a measuring tool moving forward. It was my goal, because I assumed that I needed to get there to have an appropriate level of muscle. I don't think that's the case anymore. Your point on attractiveness....Let me tell you something. If/when you T gets above 1000, you will think you are a fucking god that all women want to fuck and you can fuck any woman It's probably about that level. The…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 04:54 PM
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I could bust your balls about why it took so long (20 years) for you to figure this out. But whatever. It was my ego, and I actually didn't have many common symptoms. I wish my dick stopped working or I had to sleep for 14 hours. Would have saved me some years. But I am glad to have triggered you, glad you got your victim puke out of your system (for the last time right) I sure hope so, victim pukes really aren't my way. now can focus on getting to 2/3/4 or whatever you want Good point. At this …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 04:31 PM
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on the very front end, i think they care about looks more than game I used to love to quote voltaire. "Give me 15 minutes to talk away my face, and I will bed the queen of france." Which actually speaks to your point, the initial attraction has to be based on looks, game takes some demonstrations, the "15 minutes". have excellent bone structure (wide shoulders/narrow waist), Yeah, I have this too. Shoulders are huge compared to waist, and shoulders are only getting bigger. I put on a shirt the o…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 04:27 PM
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You spent a lot of time talking about the value judgments of people who don't fucking matter. Yeah, I know. I can power through it, but I still hear their voices sometimes. I don't know how to eliminate the near constant self-doubt. Part of me thinks that getting some good experiences to counter-weight the bad would be helpful, but then that's still using the judgement of others to form my own opinion. Edit: Upon further thought, thinking about attractiveness in a self-referential matter doesn't…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 04:06 PM
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Since deleting all the online shit I realised I still have a fear of approaching in real life. The cure to this is more approaches. I guarantee if you make 100 approaches, your anxiety will be gone by the last one. When I was working on the street, I used to love getting blown out in new and fanciful ways, they made for good stories. Truly, they are the only ones I really remember.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 03:53 PM
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Faking it and Never Making it: Well, if you witnessed my online meltdown in OYS last week, you know something just doesn't quite smell right. Though I look back an read those words again, I'd like to say that I don't know that guy, that I was sick and overtrained (I was) but that isn't the real me. Except it is, underneath all the faking it till you make it. So I'm going to try to pick apart my issues now. I don't belive I am attractive: Nope, truthfully, I don't and I never have. The positive s…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 03:45 PM
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Don’t get fitness ADD. Just STFU and lift. Generally most healthy men should be able to get to 1.5/2.5/3 plates natty and in about 12-18 months with 3 days a week commitment and be in good enuf shape to outclass 80% of the men out there I have been lifting for 20 years. Never got to that level. Low T sucks. My goal for years has been 1/2/3/4. I can OHP 1, bench 2, can't squat 3 and can't deadlift 3. You de-loaded. Why? I don’t know your lifting stats but this seems autistic to me. I de-loaded be…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/18 06:31 PM
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We did it only 2 times last month, i feel like he thought that was normal Who are these guys? If I was at 2x a month, I'd be dialing up divorce lawyers.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/18 03:51 PM
2

Also, don't underestimate how much getting buff changes people's behavior towards you. It's really night and day, and a whole lot easier to be positive and upbeat when people are just super nice to you.
/r/askMRP13/12/18 04:04 PM
2

You are 100% right. But getting buff is a start, one that most haven't taken. One that most don't want to take either.
/r/askMRP13/12/18 03:45 PM
1

I'm not entirely sure labeling a part of you as "ego" or whatever else is helpful. You aren't fighting yourself or a part, you need to replace bad behaviors with better behaviors. However, as much as I wish it weren't true, a lot of our thoughts, feeling, behaviors are influenced by the physical body and what happens with it. Truly I have learned this week during my descent into depression via bacterial intoxication and overtraining (my madness, documented in my OYS), you need to take care of yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/18 03:43 PM
1

innergame is the most important game OK, something is clearly wrong with me. After not finding what I'm looking for at the store, I really considered sitting on the floor and crying. Is this what it's like to be depressed? I have been sick for five days now and I have been lifting through it and haven't been getting enough sleep. I think I have hit the wall. It's funny, nothing I have said in OYS is untrue per se, but it's all clearly the worst possible interpretation of events. When I return to…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 10:41 PM
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you have to see yourself as the prize I have always been heavily tilted towards the "game" part of red-pill. Sleight of hand tricks to signal value when the reality is otherwise. Today I'm sick as a dog and don't feel particularly like a prize, but I do need to think more about this question.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 05:13 PM
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Not sure why being thought of as gay matters when you're fucking their sister/wife/mother I'd love to say this was the case, but even in my PUA days, I never made a close without some beta bait in there. I would display wealth in subtle ways, and would have to dangle the potential for something long term. I have never been the Chad, I have always thought of myself as using trickery. This is why I'm overly focused on getting in top shape. I can't see having any stories like red-sfplus without bei…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 05:05 PM
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I think you have to be pretty big before you really become a lucrative #metoo target. It's all about the cash for aging actresses who aren't cast much anymore and don't have the acting flexibility to play anything other than the protaganist's love interest.
/r/askMRP12/12/18 03:29 PM
2

This is the only attention that matters because this is what builds your swagger and your reality. My swagger needs work.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 02:39 PM
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i don't do stupid shit like try to pick up the waitress Heh, I have always thought that was a super try-hard move. Waitresses are directly paid to be nice to you. but i'm normally the most fit person in the room, I can be, but not always. almost always the most successful To others, I have a high status job, but I don't consider myself successful. Working on plan B. best dressed I go for rugged now. Coming from the north to the south, I was much better dressed, but was often mistaken for gay. No…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 02:37 PM
1

That could be it. It's certainly an interesting thought.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 01:32 AM
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a woman requires stress or push/pull to be engaged. Yeah, I have been engaging her more and giving her some drama, I'm hoping that chills her the fuck out. I don't often get the approval of other women when she is around, maybe I'm just not ripped enough (I'm not) or maybe I don't run in those kinds of circles. When I'm at my job, I do get attention, but unwitnessed attention doesn't really matter. Talking about it, unless it's truly outrageous, just sounds try-hard. Do you get female attention …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 09:16 PM
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That's how people gain 60 pounds in a year. I can't possibly imagine gaining 20lbs and not noticing it. Given your field of work, I believe you though.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 05:54 PM
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It’s cold AF here in the winter and my shop isn’t usable to work on the cars till March so this would help accelerate things for the summer. Wear a coat and buy a kerosene spot heater. Problem solved.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 03:29 PM
3

So I told her as I left for work that instead of texting me a picture of wine and cookies she should have sent me a picture of her boobs and I would have been home sooner. Eh. You were too afraid to ask what you wanted at the time. Why not just text her back "cookies nice, boobs better, show me." Or "cookies are for santa, show me tits."
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 03:22 PM
4

Lifting: Went back to SL5x5 and it's working out great. I took some major deloads and am still making great gains. I definitely need the higher frequency now. I started a bulk last week, I'm truly sick of eating already, but the gains are undeniable. Pretty happy with my progress. It's startling how much I struggled not eating on my bad cut, and how quickly I'm sick of eating on my bulk. WISNIFG and Mental Deficiencies: I have never really connected with this book. I haven't had a problem saying…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 03:15 PM
3

Your 5 year cherry got railed by chad at a frat party This guy RTFA. I skimmed it for this, it's true. Sucks to be that 5 year guy.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/18 05:47 PM
1

At a certain point, training kids is needed. Yes, both of my kids could get at them if they wanted to, but neither will. It's more for having them out of sight for friend's kids, etc. A safe does seem a bit like overkill when I have a drawer full of knives within easy reach.
/r/askMRP07/12/18 07:06 PM
1

Each time you inject you need to clean the top of the vial with alcohol and a cotton pad. Then you need to scrub the injection site, also with alcohol. It takes me a little while to find a spot where I'm not going to hit a vein, inject and the clean the site again. I couldn't think of a spot where I could do this without at some point, some coworker weirdness and I have an office with a lock on the door.
/r/askMRP07/12/18 05:33 PM
1

I think you think about my feelz too much. I don't feel any kind of shame It was a cold read. Otherwise, I couldn't think of any reason why you are making this such a big deal. You should be thrilled, you are going to feel great. Just don't be weird about it.
/r/askMRP07/12/18 05:30 PM
3

I think you feel shame over this. The facts are that something is causing low T levels in men and has been for 50+ years. You are taking control of your health and there's nothing to be ashamed of. Keep your needles up high where the kids can't get into them and get yourself a jar for used needle storage (most places you can't just dump needles in the trash). Otherwise, there's really nothing to talk about. Make sure you are aware of high e2 issues, you have a bit of fat on you, so it may become…
/r/askMRP07/12/18 02:47 PM
2

Test U isn't available in the states. Pinning isn't so bad.
/r/askMRP07/12/18 02:43 PM
1

MVP as in Minimum Viable Product, not the sports term. A business term I haven't heard of? Damn. I like the concept, I have generally adhered to that type of philosophy on products, though I didn't have a term for it. It's true that you generally don't know enough to fully flesh out a product before you have users bang on it a bit. Relatively speaking, I guarantee you are. You undersell a lot. I do undersell, but I'm not yet prepared to admit that I'm in good shape yet. If I am in great shape, t…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 04:54 PM
1

2 stackers and bottle of Jack was considered pregaming for a Tuesday night, Damn dude. Yeah, no drugs for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 04:44 PM
1

People are really simple... surprised you haven't figured out in your time here. How many guys have basically the same framework? I wrote up a different response to this originally, but yes, you are right. My wife is no different, I need to let go of my anger and angst and follow the plan. if you're not field testing those tactics, how do you know they don't work? Oh, I have, absolutely. What I have found is that people always act in their own best interests. What confuses me often is that their…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 04:09 PM
2

Good question, I'll find out in about a week. Really, the only answer is TRT. Don't seem too hungry for it and let him come to that conclusion himself. Talk about your symptoms, how shitty you feel. Docs can get twitchy about people asking for drugs.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/18 08:08 PM
1

Becomes a problem when your lats are so big you can't reach your back.... One day...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/18 08:06 PM
2

I assume that someone named "TrenGod37" is actively managing their E2? If not, definitely get it under control, I'm a completely different person when my E2 is high. Whiny, mood swings, worry too much, irritable, etc.
/r/askMRP05/12/18 05:15 PM
1

Influencing people is a much more non-linear problem with random noise thrown in. Agreed. so do you think it's a coincidence that that coupled with direct expectations resulted in greater uptake than previous? Not a coincidence, but don't know what the next step would be. Check out the book by Caldini. I have two copies of Cialdini's book around. Maybe it's time for a re-read. Read it 20 years ago, but it's pretty superficial, there are other books that go more in depth. Also, people aren't near…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/18 04:59 PM
1

Heyyy! Are we ready to move on from the physical remolding to the mental sides? That's pretty exciting. Taken a bit to get here. These guys who parrot "just get more swole" know dick all. Well, getting swole certainly helps. But yes, you are right, the mental side I have been lacking. I have always been a fighter, I have super strong boundaries and no fear of enforcing them. Since marriage, my OI has been total shit. I do have a lack of abundance, I'm pretty sure I fucked up an opportunity for a…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/18 04:25 PM
1

Your own opinion of your work I am very crappy at celebrating my own successes. They happen, and the next day, I forget them. I need to make a list or something. You're enabling her poor work habits and encouraging codependency by not setting and enforcing reasonable expectations and boundaries that she own her shit on the home front. A lot of this is a judgement call. I don't think she is doing a shit job and has poor work habits, I just think that she went from not being in charge to running t…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/18 03:59 PM
1

Damn. I can't possibly imagine how tough that is. I wanted to take off 20 lbs and I gave up after 10 months and 13 pounds. TRT offers many advantages, appetite suppression is not among them. However, at your weight, you could walk in to a weight loss clinic and they will happily prescribe you legal meth. On legal meth, you will not be hungry at all. Definitely consider it. Say you want to lose weight, but you get so hungry...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/18 03:45 PM
1

validate yourself, faggot! Touche! Edit: You know, I don't know how to do that. I need to learn how to give myself a pat on the back. Are you falling short in training and empowering your people, or assigning them responsibilities they aren't suited for? I wish it were so simple. My wife has a lot of responsibility in her family business. I don't give her any of the responsibility, but if things get fucked up I end up having to take on a bigger load in the household to compensate for her time sp…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/18 03:21 AM
1

I try not to put too much stock in certain bodyfat numbers at certain weights. Yeah, it's just easier to set goals based on a number. I don't have any problem adjusting the goals if I reach a point where I'm happy. the looks are going to be the most immediate impact Agreed. I guess I look good enough, a pretty hot cougar just came up to my table and bought me and my daughters dinner. Maybe it was the overwhelming cuteness of my daughters. Hard to say, but I did have a damn good pump from just wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/18 02:38 AM
1

its important to add I have gained about 45lbs since July. Holy crap, you gained 45 lbs of weight on your body? Were you a skeleton? That's like two pounds a week.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/18 02:28 AM
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That's not a bad restart attempt, but your results were terrible. If you peaked at 350-400, you aren't going to see much results from anything except a needle. I took clomid for a year, and it worked ok for me (500-600), but clomid failed after the year. Clomid also has some side effects, some minor and some major rare ones. What is he currently saying? You went on two clomid restarts, which both failed, what's the next step? Suffer? From reading reports online, it seems that docs who are paid b…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/18 02:26 AM
2

Have had two rounds of Clomid, which raised my T temporarily, but with only minimal impact on my symptoms (low libido, low energy). What did you test at on clomid and how long was your "round of clomid" (mg and times per week for how many weeks)? Putting you on clomid first really isn't an unreasonable course of action, assuming he did the basic bloodwork like testing your LH/FSH/prolactin before putting you on clomid. I advise you to get all your bloodwork from the doctor and start reading up o…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/18 08:51 PM
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I have recently discovered that my gains have more to do with frequency than intensity Maybe this is what it's like being normal. I certain have not had this experience, even when I was on clomid and had T in the 500-600 range. I certainly have not experienced a 50lb jump in bench without serious work at top end of what I could do. Maybe you are a noob? Before my break from lifting, I was a little over two plates. My OHP sucked however.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/18 08:46 PM
1

Being bigger and more cut seems to solve most of life's problems Apparently being in the best shape of my life isn't good enough. Where do you set your goals? I'm not going to be Arnold. I was aiming for 15% at 180lbs at 5'10. I'm at 170lbs and about 18%, I'll probably bulk up to 185 and see where I'm at. Delegate for now and take a moment to appreciate her following your direction. It's not quite as easy as it sounds. More like dragging a reluctant horse to water. You would think being right co…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/18 08:44 PM
1

The week of fuck-ups: Well, I have broken many tenets of RP this week. I own it, don't particularly regret it, just need to pick myself up and move on. I did far too much talking, far too much believing that anyone else gives a shit. On the plus side, I was able to incorporate some WISNIFG stuff in, which I have never been really good at. Lifting: Gradually getting back into it, and making myself back off immediately if I think I'm going to hurt myself. I looked into the great suggestions on pla…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/18 05:14 PM
1

everyone here talks about your big name I don't want a name. I want to be anonymous. I don't want fame. I want to walk in places and have no one know me. I certainly don't want a name in the manosphere, I don't need that kind of hardship. I might be known in other fields, just not here, not in the manosphere. How do you know? You see, some people think in these. Have you not met nerds and their words? I am a nerd, but I don't prefer the company of nerds, thus I speak the common man's English. Wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/18 04:55 AM
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If your woman would read the book and implement the changes prescribed it it, you wouldn't be here in the first place. If so, any suggestions for where to start? Start in the weight room and the kitchen. Height / weight / lifts?
/r/askMRP30/11/18 06:00 PM
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I could write like that, except it would take more effort and I would lose much of the audience. B-school drilled writing simply into my head, the point of communicating is to transfer your ideas, not show how smart you are. The more you write with complexity, the more likely you are to be misunderstood. However, I think Rollo has made a niche as the "ivory tower of the manosphere". So maybe because of his prose he gets taken more seriously than otherwise. At least he doesn't ramble like Ironwoo…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/18 03:38 PM
1

Do you think the pellets that are placed under your skin fall into the "half-measure" category? Google them. They exist to pad the doctor's pocket. They have to be surgically inserted and most men don't have great results with them. Of course, they cost a lot too. You also can't adjust them. They are inserted and if you are high or low, too bad. I'd keep looking if the local places will only do pellets. Injections are what, every 2 weeks or so? I do hate needles with a passion. At least once a w…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 05:05 PM
2

In the form of what? Testosterone cypionate 10ml 200mg/ml. I'm talking about injections. Anything else is a half-measure and stupid expensive. If you really had a fear of needles, and your bloodwork indicated that you are "secondary hypogonadism" (google it) you could be a candidate for clomid. I have taken clomid, and the needle is much better. Know what the specialists are called? Look for concierge doctors, or men's health clinics. Anti-aging clinics will prescribe this for you, but tend to b…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 03:45 PM
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Stop trying to get insurance to pay. The meds are cheap, if you go to goodrx, you can get a 3 month supply of T for 50$. Find a specialist, visits shouldn't cost you more than $250 per quarter and are often much cheaper. Don't go to a place that requires you to come in for injections. A place nearby offers 90$ per month all included. It's well worth it to pay, if you can't come up with 1k a year, mow some lawns over the summer. If you want kids later in life, there are some wrinkles, things will…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 04:58 AM
1

There is something to be said for this. Thx for the reminder.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 04:46 AM
1

My ego is large, but in this case, I'd prefer to rely on the pros. I've wasted so many years, I'd rather not spend more time spinning my wheels.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 04:45 AM
1

I may do this, a part of me was thinking to go back to stronglifts5x5 for a while, who knows, I might take it further than last time since I'm on TRT now. HLM seems interesting, thanks for the tip!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 04:43 AM
1

Aren't there apps that let you take control of the camera or microphone over wifi? Absolutely.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/18 06:37 PM
1

Fitness: 10 months and around 15lbs lost, worst cut ever. Now high 160s down from 185. The good news is I look much better now than when I cut down to 150lbs some years back. Seems my body wants to gain some weight, so back to bulking it is. I'm going to cut cardio down to 1-2 days a week and have started lifting again. Taking a massive deload, my legs pretty much spazzed out doing some very light weight squats, going to do light weight high reps for a while until I feel better under the weight.…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/18 06:36 PM
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That stuck out and indicates a total failure to MRP anything. He probably passed through a year ago, read some victim pukes, and figured he knew what this place was all about.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/18 04:04 AM
1

Yep. There's also a 6$ draw fee you will see on checkout. They will email you back a form, print it out and go to your local CPL. Check your spam folder, mine usually end up there. Then a few days later, you get your results.
/r/askMRP26/11/18 04:59 PM
2

23m wife is 31F Eh, maybe...
/r/askMRP24/11/18 04:59 AM
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Don't know why you got downvoted. Sometimes the choice is help solve the problem, or let the situation snowball to the point where it's not fixable anymore.
/r/askMRP24/11/18 04:57 AM
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Never thought of it that way. Not helping as showing displeasure. I am usually more direct with my displeasure, and that hasn't worked as well before. Perhaps it's the old saw that any attention is good attention.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 04:54 AM
2

It's funny. Wife only gets fixed when I give up trying to help her.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 07:06 PM
1

Not sure that this is surprising. Good point. I generally make it a policy to be a straight shooter, not sure why it's surprising when I'm figured out. Preach. But I'm good at solving problems. True, but can't tell if sarcastic.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 03:25 PM
2

It's truly life changing, I don't know how this isn't offered more freely.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 02:09 PM
1

Ok. You may be on to something there. I'm pretty shut down at the moment, between the new kid and the rejections, I have become a bit of a rock.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 02:08 PM
1

Are you taking care of your own health issues too? I care more about that than the sex. My health is pretty on point. Got my heart calcium score, got a zero, though I did learn that isn't exactly uncommon at 40. Losing fat, not as fast as I'd like, but I think my cut is turning into a bit of a recomp. The T really has increased my appetite far beyond what was normal before, it's a struggle. No one would call me fat, I'm probably at 18-19% right now. The cardio is rounding out my physical capabil…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 02:06 PM
1

Well, yes, I read SGM probably three years ago at this point. While I may not be the best out there, I'm decent enough, and my performance was fine before the birth. It's also true that I put less effort in lately, but her vag has deteriorated from the lack of estrogen, she has to put estrogen cream in to be able to fuck at all. If I pound the fuck out of her, she is likely to be in pain for a week - not a great way to get repeat business. So yeah, I don't fucking know.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/18 07:26 PM
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And I let her. I told her, with my dick, there were no consequences for her actions. I haven't ever found that denying my wife sex was an effective punishment for her. Stop thinking that women are men.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/18 04:56 PM
1

Cardio: Have upped my intensity and time doing cardio. Am around a hour on the stepper 4x a week and a day or two of calling it quits around 20-30 minutes. I try not to go over 170BPM, but pretty consistently stay between 150-170. I'm starting to get some wrist problems from death-gripping the stepper, need to loosen up a bit. Achilles tendons are starting to let me know they are there, might not be able to keep this up for much longer. Sex life: Wife is breastfeeding and her estrogen is tanked …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/18 04:46 PM
2

and looked at the Sinclair Method Do it. It works so well, I took a few pills and didn't drink for 4 years. Didn't miss drinking at all. When you start, you MUST only take half a pill for your first two doses. Unless you like going through opiate withdrawal.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/18 04:33 PM
1

If you must measure, get a measuring tape. If you have to have high tech, I have been happy with my "skulpt". Last I checked you can pick one up on amazon around $75. If you have money to burn, I implore you to get your T checked. Go to discounted-labs.com and get a testosterone test. Discard the free T number, the test they use is unreliable (at least for me), it always read supraphisiological levels. If you are lower quartile or officially low, get to a T clinic and get on injections. I can't …
/r/askMRP20/11/18 04:30 PM
1

Hmm. Maybe I'm weird, but gay raping anyone in this sub has never crossed my mind. Or any other sub for that matter. Actually I haven't even gotten angry at anyone on here. I may think they are an idiot, I may not always take the advice, but I can't think of anything more pointless than raging at someone on the internet.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/18 04:55 AM
1

Sounds like there is some backstory here. Do share. Let us feast on the salt.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/18 03:47 PM
8

She just dropped something on her own head, and yelled at me for not catching it. I'd either laugh, and then laugh through the onslaught that brought on or I'd follow her around with my hands over her head. Pretty sure two minutes wouldn't pass before that became intolerable for her. Then I'd laugh some more.
/r/askMRP17/11/18 05:10 PM
1

Today she says she thinks I'm perverted, treat her like a piece of meat, I do like a good piece of steak.
/r/askMRP10/11/18 03:25 AM
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If you decide to leave, you need to record that conversation.
/r/askMRP09/11/18 03:51 PM
5

Don't answer that question at that moment, give her things to do each day. She clearly can't or won't task manage herself, so you need to give her direction.
/r/askMRP07/11/18 05:07 PM
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taking ashwandha pills and hitting weights hard as fuck Oh, shit guys, I got this stuff at GNC and it made me a fucking mass monster! <rrrriip> There go my quads ripping my jeans again! Hulk mode enabled! You are a fucking tool. There's nothing you can buy over the counter that can affect your T enough to give you "roid rage." Nothing. This is merely a lack of discipline and extreme butt hurt. You just want something to blame it on. Man, this asswanker shit is some pretty crazy stuff, it gave me…
/r/askMRP06/11/18 04:32 PM
2

Yep, it's called the real world. You have the books, you should have read them, how much more do you need? In here you can discuss, but that's nothing but a big circle jerk except for the most blue pill of you.
/r/askMRP05/11/18 04:12 PM
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Read "sex god method". You need to get out of your head. Work on your immersion. I don't know if SGM is available anymore, you may need to get creative to find it.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 02:41 PM
1

Heh, time to get some blood drawn, eh? IMHO, most of "roid rage" comes from people injecting crazy amounts of T and neglecting to take something to combat the inevitable E2 conversion. IIRC, you are an "enhanced human." Never did see any of the Rocky movies. I'd much rather be a cold robot any day than a estrogenic puddle of emotional mush.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/18 06:39 PM
1

Watching one of those movies, I'd probably drag my car into the garage and not leave for months. I'd finally emerge with a 600hp civic and immediately bust the axle the first time I took it on the highway.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/18 07:30 PM
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tear at emotional parts of movies Get your T checked and your E2 under control. Then this won't be an issue. Just realized I haven't teared up since starting injections. Feels good. Edit: Apparently I hit some soyboys in their soft underbelly with this one. Ha, fight for your right to cry during movies you faggots.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/18 03:09 PM
8

Yes, anyone who thinks than an actor's on-screen persona is who they really are should watch an unscripted interview of harrison ford. The guy can barely string a sentence together if they aren't feeding him his lines.
/r/askMRP31/10/18 01:43 PM
1

The flip side is the cardio and barbell-focused lifting for a guy with syncope - definitely the hard way in many respects. That influences your life and attitude in many ways. I find that I only have so much will power to go around. I do find that seldom does anyone else have the willpower to do an hour on the stepper, much less at 170bpm for most of the time. Heh, I have learned if my scalp tingles, it's time to get off. Otherwise, the syncope hasn't bothered me much lately. Or maybe I have lea…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/18 08:40 PM
1

You want naloxone to do the work for you because it's easier than willpower and you've done it before You are right, I do. Some people take steroids because it's easier, but I'm not judging them. I can't help it if others do it "the hard way." That's no reason for me to not take a short cut, when I know it works amazingly well. As for her, yes, I worked as an alarm clock before, but I didn't think I was reinforcing shit behavior. I help my wife all the time, sometimes it can be hard to tell the …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/18 08:16 PM
3

The Cut: I'm up to a max of an hour on the step machine, going hard. Can't do that every day yet, though I'm pretty sure if I could, I'd lose weight quicker. Alcohol: I have been drinking more. More is a beer or two a night. It's certainly fighting my cut, I need to go back on Nal for a few days, I need to schedule a few days when I can be worthless, the nal really takes it out of me. Unfortunately, can't do it now, I had some surprise minor surgery and had to take some painkillers. In two weeks…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/18 04:59 PM
2

Brutal. I'll admit, I have gone chubby chasing in the past, but damn, I never acted as sad as those guys. Pathetic.
/r/askMRP24/10/18 03:01 PM
6

I’m burning days of my life now. Ok, if you didn't have a wife, how would you do on the open market? Would you be able to pull new pussy quickly? With a few kids and a SAHM, at the very least, you need to get her to work before you divorce if you want to eat something other than ramen for the next 18 years. You really need to talk to an attorney.
/r/askMRP23/10/18 04:19 PM
9

I wouldn't say we endorse infidelity, however, we don't judge others and moralize. You won't find anyone condemning men who do partake in infidelity, thought you will probably find if you stick around here that the cheating wives outnumber the cheating husbands. We do thoroughly condemn the cheating wives however. Take that as you may.
/r/askMRP22/10/18 02:58 AM
4

Fuck dude. Tell him he can have her if he can take over the payments.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 06:16 PM
3

That's twice she got caught.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 06:02 PM
2

raising another mans kid If he isn't already.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 06:01 PM
6

it meant nothing and his ripped body and cock size didn't do it for her How many times did she have to fuck Mr Horsecock to figure this out? And then she went back for more later "just to check", right? The only reason women are able to get away with such blatant lies is that we want to believe them.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 05:57 PM
2

Yep, it's been my experience that you can't completely change your terms without finding a new job. Everyone around remembers the old you and they won't accept the new you.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 05:02 PM
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TLDR to save everyone from reading the other two posts. OP has 2-3 affairs. Gets oral, but too cowardly to fuck them. Wife finds out, fucks an old crush. OP finds out. Wife does it again, with different (i think) guy. New guy is jacked and hung like a horse. OP makes wife tell him all the details (while probably wanking to it). OP's wife says she will stop, keeps texting nudes, probably still fucking him. OP, it's time to move on, I don't see how you can recover from this. The only people I feel…
/r/askMRP19/10/18 05:00 PM
12

Congratz, you just doxxed yourself. Remove the link to your google drive before the SJWs make an example out of you. If that's a burner google account, don't underestimate how easy it is for google to figure out who you are. And don't think that google isn't full of SJWs who would burn you in an instant.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/18 08:35 PM
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If she wants to pay tribute to the king and say sorry with a BJ, why would you refuse? Sometimes you noobs really just overthink shit.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 08:32 PM
1

Looks interesting, I'll check it out, thanks for the tip.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 02:41 PM
8

Having an app ready to go is key. I'm not doing spreadsheets in the gym.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 12:28 AM
2

Teaching a kid not to light matches and not to touch a hot stove is as hard as getting a child to be a concert pianist. I think I now understand why you are such a shit father.
/r/askMRP17/10/18 08:50 PM
1

Fucking hell man. Are you teaching your kids anything? What 2 year old knows enough to drag a fucking chair across the kitchen, turn on the burners, but not enough to not grab the fucking burners? Have you talked to your kid about matches and how you will all be living on the street if he plays with fire? Don't worry about the wife, worry about you and worry about what a shit father you are. Your wife did make a huge mistake marrying you. ​
/r/askMRP17/10/18 05:26 PM
2

> I've been thinking lately though about non-participating sport activities - watching football, hockey, soccer, baseball, etc. Which inevitably leads to reading about the games, tracking stats, and so on. I find myself in this bubble where I spent 2-4 hours a day either watching or reading about sports. ​ Completely gay to sit and watch content, especially sportsball. Go lift. Go create something. Fuck, go clean your goddamn room. You aren't creating value consuming entertainment. If it's what …
/r/askMRP16/10/18 04:10 PM
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Yes is a pretty good answer. You just can't apologize for it afterward. I’m in no place to be making that comment. Depending on your situation, you could segue that into "we both need to eat better", "join me at the gym", etc. But she probably won't until you start making real progress.
/r/askMRP13/10/18 05:20 PM
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Got me then. Why is she with you?
/r/askMRP12/10/18 03:13 PM
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I'm surprised no one is saying this. You are being groomed as a plow horse since she is a single mom. She doesn't care about fucking you, she wants your ability to provide. Those "bad weeks" when she is too tired all week? She's out fucking chad. When chad gets bored, she comes back to you. Sorry man, nothing about this is salvageable for you. I'd keep fucking her and trying to talk to other women.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 02:35 PM
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If you are looking for friends, look for friends. If you are looking for lovers, look for those. Looking to find friends to turn into lovers is craven. It's the more safe route, you risk rejection less. Looking for lovers you will find rejection more, you need to be ok with that.
/r/askMRP11/10/18 04:13 PM
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Eat that escargot from that shady dive bar in Miami - realize snails are nasty. Maybe the lesson was eating at a shady dive bar is nasty. Snails in butter are great.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/18 02:42 PM
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You're a "fit" string bean faggot who does hot yoga at the Pink Lotus Studio. Classic.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 01:41 AM
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Need height, weight, lifts. We get too many "Hey, I'm really fit guys, I'm 6'1" and 160lbs soaking wet."
/r/askMRP06/10/18 05:27 PM
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I segwayed into us not having sex for the rest of the year. 3 months so no sex 5 or 6 times. I'd be ok. She said, "we don't have to do that." I told her no sex in October at least. Some of you noobs, I just don't know where your head is at. No sex for the rest of the year? If that were even an option, I'd be visiting some attorneys. I'm back to lifting but need to STFU more. Yes, yes you do. work on things I've been meaning to. Make your list, work on them, don't talk about them.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 04:32 PM
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Confirmed, those numbers are scary skeleton mode, not fit.
/r/askMRP03/10/18 01:58 PM
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Might be interesting to try before facebook.
/r/askMRP03/10/18 02:12 AM
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It's not "low dose naltrexone" (LDN) which is different, like 1-5mg/day, but it's certainly low dose compared to vivitrol. TSM is 50mg 1 hour before drinking. From talking with people who have gone on vivitrol, it's completely different. LDN actually upregulates the receptors in question, which is not what you want. But yeah, TSM worked so well for me, you can be in a bar surrounded by people drinking, and you just don't care.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 08:27 PM
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Vivitrol is different than "the sinclair method" (TSM). When you are on TSM, you are encouraged to drink as you normally would. This is the part that results in the unlearning of addictions. AFAIK, vivitrol is used to suppress cravings, which is entirely different. I took a few nal and drank after taking them, then went nearly four years without craving a drink. My problems weren't still there after.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 06:42 PM
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My personal experience with using Naltrexone to quit alcohol was great. It turns off your brain's reinforcement center so that alcohol doesn't give you the buzz / the reward. It also turns off the reward for sex and validation. I'm not saying it will work, but you sound pretty desperate, might be worth a shot. If you want to learn more about naltrexone, seach for "the sinclair method". Everything there is about alcohol, but there's more to nal than alcohol. Do NOT take nal if you have had opiate…
/r/askMRP02/10/18 05:44 PM
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I stopped reading it because there's so many "face", "height" and "indian" posters who want to dwell on their hardships as an excuse to not better themselves. Face is everything!!! Seems like a bunch of whiny kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 05:18 PM
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Damn, they really stepped in it with there alternative suggestion. Ha. This is the first round, there's more coming. I think alex jones acts crazy for money, but I don't think he should be banned from everywhere. We are next along with the other conservatives.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 05:16 PM
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I'll allow you to disagree. We'll see what happens when the next phase hits.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 12:04 PM
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I think what we believe, or what TRP believes, doesn't really matter to reddit admins. They don't know and they don't care to know. They see "redpill" in both, and thus we are associated.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 02:38 PM
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I met her in a bar. While I wouldn't recommend this course of action, I would recommend getting out and talking to hundreds of women. You need to survey the landscape and see what is on offer. If you only vet 5 candidates and pick the best, you are going to end up in a shitty marriage. Only then can you really have an idea of what you want, and have the ability to get what you want. You can even pick some decent ones out of places not known for having good candidates. It IS time consuming. I tre…
/r/askMRP29/09/18 01:34 PM
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Are there really no private clinics? Can you go cross-border to a more favorable country?
/r/askMRP29/09/18 12:58 PM
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First, you have to shop around, call places. If you just walk into an anti-aging clinic, they are going to gouge you. Let them know you will be paying cash, less hassle for them to deal with insurance. Also make sure they will let you do your own injections. If they make you come in, it's just to scam you for an injection fee. I pay about $150 per visit, 4x a year. Check for men's health clinics, also concierge doctors. I buy my T with a goodrx.com coupon from whatever national chain has the bes…
/r/askMRP29/09/18 12:56 PM
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Unless you are obese, you really can't change your T levels through behavior or diet. I don't care what clickbait bullshit blogs say. Quit being a cheap ass, I pay around $1000 a year for doc visits, testing, T and arimidex. Wouldn't it be worth $80 a month to feel better? All the lifting you do at 300T isn't going to mean shit. Let me repeat that. All the lifting you do at 300T isn't going to mean shit. You will exhaust yourself, injure yourself and not make any progress. I'd pay double what I …
/r/askMRP28/09/18 07:59 PM
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"I don't want to talk about it." You don't need to be a jokester about everything.
/r/askMRP27/09/18 01:32 PM
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Don't forget faggots. Surest sign after a rainbow flag is an apple sticker on your car.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 08:49 PM
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Well, if I hadn't lived my life as a chameleon, stretching myself nearly at all times, I'd agree. But I'm very aware of my former limitations and how the T has destroyed them. Behaviors that took energy and strain come almost effortless now.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/18 02:14 PM
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Over time, I can't say for certain that I wouldn't. I'm learning that a lot of my behaviors are chemically mediated. I can learn new behaviors, but just not giving a shit and being calm in the face of adversity? Is that a learned behavior entirely? I have pushed my limits all my life trying to fake it until I make it, and to a large extent they worked. However, I think now, my real baseline is better, and my fake-it limits are further out than they were. If you consider behavior as a range, I de…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/18 04:26 AM
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Interesting idea! I have been drinking more water, but maybe I can take it up a notch. I'm willing to try anything at this point.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 07:35 PM
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I'd like to say that the anxiety is gone because I have gained mental fortitude from mental training, toughness, studying philosophy or lifting cold iron, but the truth of the matter is that I chilled way the fuck out from the TRT. It's really like night and day. Where before, I'd freak the fuck out about things, now I just step back and assess my options.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 05:22 PM
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The Cut: Well, I'm getting down to 15% if I have to go Auschwitz mode. I'm in high 160s right now. Seem to be retaining muscle far more than during previous cuts. TRT seems to be working. The hunger is insurmountable, so I have been doing 30-40 minutes of hard cardio 5-6 times a week. I'm not sure what my end goal is, but I think 160-165 (5'10") might be good. We'll see. Heart Health: Thanks to those who suggested a heart calcium scan. I went, got tested, got a score of zero. So I'm unlikely to …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 02:58 PM
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The time to leave was over 200lbs ago. I mean, damn, I have fucked some fatties, but I don't ever think they outweighed me.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 02:57 PM
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"Late?" he roared, "The lesson begins now!" I went to a dojo when I was in college. I could completely see the sensei sending the whole class at you if you were late. No one was ever late.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 02:55 PM
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I know my wife's pin. She doesn't know mine. Sometimes she grouses about it, I'll make a joke about it "it's for your own protection." Or some such.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 01:41 PM
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Yeah, I do this with my employees too. Sometimes I'm off my game and I don't want to compound the issue by people acting weird because they think I'm pissed at them. Got enough issues.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 02:28 PM
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I don’t want her to think I’m mad at her. I’m just trying to do the STFU thing. If you aren't mad at her, you can say so. Sometimes I'm irritated by something, nothing I can do about it, and yet, there's no smile on my face. I'll just say "Yes, I'm mad, nothing to do with you and I don't want to talk about it. I'm trying to let it go." If you are angry about something, it's a mistake to think you can hide it fully from a woman. They are plugged into this shit. So acknowledge and diffuse. On the …
/r/askMRP14/09/18 02:08 PM
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Lift, work on your self and your career. You are in an environment where men take multiple wives, leaving many men with no wives. It's a hyper-competitive environment, and as a young man, you have less to show and less to offer. Sorry bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/18 03:08 PM
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In the past two years we’ve had sex a handful of times. Oof, that's not going to help. Read sex god method, learn to immerse yourself and get out of your head. Learn to be present.
/r/askMRP13/09/18 02:05 PM
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If you are very fat, you should ask the doc for some appetite suppressants. I think the cutoff is around 27-30 BMI (there are calculators online, height, weight, get a score) you can get legal meth. On legal meth, you will not be hungry. I have seen people eat a half of a sandwich all day on legal meth and been fine. I can't believe that you could gain weight on 2k calories a day unless you are severely sedentary. You shouldn't weight yourself every day, weight fluctuates greatly. Once a week ma…
/r/askMRP12/09/18 09:11 PM
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Long time lurker, still fat, read sidebar (sigh) Explain yourself OP. My biggest problem Your biggest problem is that you are fat. I note you didn't mention lifting either. with no apparent reason No apparent reason that you want to admit. You are a gross fat fuck. Why would your wife want to fuck you? Occasionally, she breaks down a throws you a pity fuck because she wants some (kind of) human contact. I am confused - how should I interpret this? Be confused no more. Your gut is standing in the…
/r/askMRP11/09/18 02:49 PM
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It doesn't exist any more. Maybe it will after civil war 2.
/r/askMRP10/09/18 04:33 PM
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There's a difference between taking the bait and arguing, and ending an argument. Can you summon no gravitas to end an argument? She persists because she knows you will eventually break. Try it out "I'm not having this argument." And then don't.
/r/askMRP09/09/18 04:45 PM
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I think you are afraid of your wife. I think you have to force yourself to hold frame, it takes energy. When you get tired, you lapse to your normal state. Only you can answer why you are afraid of your wife, why you let her run the show. When I'm tired, I'm even more of a dick than usual. I really can't be bothered with bullshit. But I have never been afraid of my wife.
/r/askMRP09/09/18 04:52 AM
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Also I worry about where I will go. Where I will keep all my shit. What I’m making at the moment is going to be tough to afford a place on my own and my rents live really far away. Afraid to leave your beta bucks gf. This could have been written by any number of wives married to blue pill saps out there. Read the sidebar, start lifing, quit being such a faggot.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 01:30 PM
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You are a drunk, and your gf has finally figured it out. The bad news is your relationship is fucked, stop rooting through the trash. The good news is the rest of your life starts today. You don't have to be an alcoholic, there's a cure. Read this post. Unfuck your life. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4ph7ps/my_journey_with_alcohol_and_a_way_out/
/r/askMRP08/09/18 01:26 PM
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I'd draw a quick sketch on paper, take a pic and send it to her. You ---> Bathroom ---> Razor
/r/askMRP07/09/18 01:46 PM
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Don't most gyms have 2.5 plates? I have a microplate set that goes down to 0.25 IIRC.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 10:19 PM
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You see it in every gym, guys “benching 2 plates” but the bar never comes within 4 inches of their chest. Benefits of having a home gym. I don't see the clowns. I fully believe you though, and that would make a bit more sense. It's funny, I can bench two plates (good form, for reps) and it's not like I'm huge or even big. Best I have ever been called is "fit". No point lying about your strength on an online forum to people you want to help you, but then again, like you said, the ego is strong.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 10:17 PM
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I was so busy trying to put everyone into a box, trying to out-think everyone, that I wasn't getting any joy filling my own box. It's really easy to fall into this trap. I ended up escaping the trap out of mere exhaustion. Trying to figure out others thoughts in the end doesn't matter. The actions matter. Either you are getting what you want or you aren't.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/18 05:10 PM
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That bench is pretty impressive for someone who is a scary skeleton. DOMS will mostly go away if you lift consistently. 10 hour days don't leave much time for a lot else, consider getting a bench and some dumbbells for home. I am a fan of powerblocks.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 04:55 PM
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Fuck, 9 months and this? OP, you are doing something wrong. Get your T checked.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 03:41 PM
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Time to file some papers. I'd be talking to attorneys after 4 months, forget 4 years.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 01:30 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meditations
/r/askMRP05/09/18 02:28 PM
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And indulging in self pity and fear Here is your problem. I think you need to go read the meditations, and come to terms with your immediate situation. Once you accept it, and stop rebelling against it, it's a lot easier to figure out what you want and plot a course. I just feel like im working with the walking dead. It's a gov't job almost. You are surrounded by the walking dead. Now ask yourself why your frame is so weak that this is affecting you? You are surrounded by a bunch of gov't worker…
/r/askMRP04/09/18 05:54 PM
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don’t try to convert you to Mormonism along the way. Ha. This is akin to those people who say they don't want to lift because they don't want to look like arnold. You aren't going to read a book and suddenly become mormon. Pretty sure the local ward wouldn't even accept me.
/r/askMRP02/09/18 07:49 PM
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Haven't ever had to say this before, but OP skips forearm day. I'd much rather have big forearms than biceps/shoulders. If that really is him, that just speaks to how weak his frame is. The guys who are already fit, but not getting fucked always seem like the hardest cases.
/r/askMRP01/09/18 03:38 PM
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Ok, maybe that is you. Why do you skip forearm day? That pic looks so uneven I almost think it's shopped.
/r/askMRP01/09/18 03:35 PM
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If there were answers we wouldn't have clergymen having sex with children. You are young and idealistic. You need to learn to accept your desires and learn to know yourself. You have said you don't want to rent a hotel room, well, own your decision and don't take it out on the gf like a bitch. When I have had dry spells, I put myself 100% into efforts to go out and meet new pussy. That takes the edge off for me. You have made your decision, accept the consequences. BTW, if you had been lifting, …
/r/askMRP01/09/18 01:56 PM
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Parents fuck when their kid is playing in the other room. Shit, get on my level. We fuck when the newborn is in the same bed.
/r/askMRP01/09/18 01:33 PM
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Sometimes the answer really is as simple as "go fuck your gf." After a month, I'm not terribly reasonable either. Otherwise, go become a monk. It's clear that we are telling you the answer, you just don't like the answer. What more do you want? How about "go fuck a hooker?" Maybe "go wank." How about "cut off your testicles"? "Start your transition to female?" Take your pick.
/r/askMRP01/09/18 01:32 PM
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Among other things, supersize hunger was also very noticeable when I started T. Yes, for sure. I'm surprised my sex drive has calmed down some, when I started TRT I was checking out grannies at the grocery store. Hunger has just gotten worse though. Unfortunately, there's a snack room at work, if I don't have breakfast, I'll totally destroy my diet there. I know my limitations. In the past I had great success with IF. Going to fast on Sunday. We are at that age. Shit. I still think of myself as …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/18 01:14 PM
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What's a hundred bucks when you are saving 1800 a month? Stop being so stingy and throw down some money.
/r/askMRP01/09/18 01:06 PM
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Moved from a city that had plenty of jobs for me to a nearby city that had plenty of jobs for her. I commuted back to the old city for a while, but it was too much driving for me, I couldn't deal with it. Left my job, started a business, and everything went downhill. A career is like a house of cards. Once you have it built up, it's easy to knock down, but really hard to rebuild.
/r/askMRP30/08/18 04:36 PM
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Moving for my wife is the biggest mistake I ever made. My fiancee recently got a new job working in the fashion industry This isn't going to work LD, this is a party field, if she isn't getting the dick from you, she will get it elsewhere.
/r/askMRP30/08/18 04:14 PM
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a 24 hour fast once in a while helped me with hunger pangs I'm going to have to try this out. Many years ago, I would intermittent fast EOD, I remember it was socially awkward as hell. Once a week I could probably conceal easier. Really don't like to explain how I fast when people are stuffing their face with food. Seems awfully try-hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 02:52 AM
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Black coffee or sometimes (maybe once a week) a latte in the morning. Going to have to ease back into the water. I really don't eat any shit food. Never fast food, never chips, soda, etc. Granola, rice, ground turkey, yogurt, stuff like that. Dinner I eat whatever the wife cooks, and she usually cooks clean. Rarely anything fried, maybe a few times a year. It's really strange, I went about a year or so having rice, turkey and yogurt for breakfast and lunch every day, with a reasonable dinner, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 02:49 AM
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Have you tried doing them with a hex bar instead? Might be a better option for you, because you're lifting straight up instead. Maybe that's an answer. I have shied away from them because I read that they are easier to have bad form. I think they have one at the gym, I'll try it out. Thanks! How much water do you drink? If you're not drinking at least a gallon of water a day, I would try upping that before doing anything else. A weak thirst mechanism often gets mistaken for hunger. The last time…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 02:13 AM
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Interesting. What kind of weight are we talking about here? I haven't tried deadlifting the day after an injury, but doing more the same week hasn't helped me befoer.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 02:11 AM
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First World Problems: Wife backed out of the house purchase. There were just too many things we were uneasy about. I gave her enough space for her to back out. Yay. That was really stressful. Lifting: Started up lifting again, hurt my back. I'm starting to think that deadlifts are just not for me. Kind of depressing. Health: Yet another aquaintance has had a heart attack. He shows up with a coupon for a calcium heart score test. Time to get it done. Diet: I'm struggling so hard, I'm so fucking h…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 01:34 PM
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drop that person's name, often, in a conversation you are both a salesman and irritating. Yes. I can't stand it when someone I don't know or just met uses my name.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/18 02:54 PM
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The tipping point came when Peter surprised her with a very nice new dually truck and horse trailer for use at their cutting competitions. He bought the truck and trailer to try to appease her because she was so unhappy with his work travel. The problem was that he had gotten an equity loan against the family farm to fund the vehicle purchase, and to pay off other debts they had incurred after his foot injury. When Jan found out about the loan, she concluded that Peter was “not an asset, but a l…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 02:21 PM
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Be her friend works until the point she withholds your kids prescription medicine in a power play move. Sounds like something a judge would be very interested in hearing about.
/r/askMRP17/08/18 05:29 PM
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If my wife said that to the kids, they would chuckle and know it's not true. To the kid, you should have said "I'm the worst." If the kid is 4-5, it's time to start training them to help around the house.
/r/askMRP16/08/18 02:48 PM
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You first need to teach your kids self control and how to delay gratification. Then, good luck trying to get them to think running errands is fun. You sound like a dipshit who tries to get pumped up about going to the dentist. I teach my kids to make a list, get in, get out. Not everything in life is fun, and not fun things often still need doing. Kids know when you are full of shit. So does your wife. Have you ever considered that if you bullshit your kids about the grocery store being fun, you…
/r/askMRP14/08/18 02:51 PM
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You will be downvoted to hell, but the truth is, favoring your own kind while browbeating the rest of society to "play fair" is a very winning strategy. It's game theory 101, and this strategy has worked for millennia. Except in the cases when it doesn't. If you favor only your own kind, others won't stand up to defend you when the shit hits the fan. History bears this out, and further lends truth to stories of "persecution." Which of course are used to their fullest to fight anyone who notices …
/r/askMRP14/08/18 02:25 PM
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Glad to see someone else also saying this. It's quite possibly the biggest myth / misunderstanding in the manosphere.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/18 09:47 PM
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Those qualities you can get elsewhere, mister! <rubs chin> You are right.
/r/askMRP09/08/18 11:44 PM
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These people don't have assets either. Expensive cars (depreciating asset) and the second they get any equity in their houses, they take out a second mortgage. Nearly everything goes to consumption. That said, 5k isn't enough to handle an emergency, I'm not comfortable not having some liquidity.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/18 05:22 PM
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solves that problem i guess. an opportunity with FIL may lie there in his weakened state. Their basic marriage strategy is to find a scapegoat and fight it with all their combined might so they forget about how much they hate each other. I'm not being a scapegoat any more. you may want to make another sustained run at AMOG; and see if results are any different. Nope, it has taken all the discipline I have to just cut them out and minimize interaction. I'm a pretty forgiving person when it comes …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/18 04:08 PM
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As in "not my fucking problem. not going to make it my fucking problem". That's somewhat the way I'm doing it now. But it's going to be my problem because I know a lot more about construction than she does and I won't stand by while she gets soaked. Or did I miss out on some part where you have to go live there because it's closer to family? If that's the case, I'd say fuck that because the family doesn't seem cool. This part seemed wishy washy to me. MIL will not go in our house. Partly because…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/18 02:59 PM
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this picture you paint of your wife/family and their wealth looks an awful like she never needed a beta provider and she chose / continues to choose you for alpha fucks. sweet No, she has never wanted for money. I can't say I have been alpha the whole time, but I started out there, had a bitch crisis in there, but I'm getting back and maybe even better than before. well maybe your FIL is a dark Sith lord, or maybe we could look at the obvious answer that he sees his kid as an extension of himsel…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/18 02:54 PM
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It is speculation and consumption. Agreed. But it could still be an opportunity or pitfall for you depending on how you structure it. Also true. My main concern is the exit plan. Maybe I grow to like the house and the neighborhood, but I suspect it's full of insufferable pricks. If this does pan out and she makes a wad of cash, I'd like it to not be immediately consumed by a move back to the old neighborhood. If the new house ownership would be shared The good thing about my marriage is that I t…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/18 02:39 PM
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Even though she's rich, her money could be hidden in a trust in such a way that in the event of a divorce, she still takes most of your "shared" money and keeps all "her" money. [redacted] Method 1: [redacted] Method 2: That one is harder to eyeball. Maintenance can be dicey and it's hard to price my time. I'm elbow deep in rehabbing the rent house, but it has been years since it was empty for me to do work. That pretty much just leaves short term opportunities, e.g. repair and flip quickly. I d…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/18 01:47 AM
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It sounds like this is a significant amount of money that your wife has. Yes, I don't really know exactly either. I have made it a point to completely ignore it. I'm sure most people would call it significant. Is the money really legally completely hers even if you get divorced? [redacted] This could be a life altering event for you if you plan it right. If 10 million dropped in my lap tomorrow, I'd live the same way I do today. Maybe I'd buy a new car and a new mobile phone. That's it. It would…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 04:18 PM
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focus your concerns on the value of the move, or lack thereof, as opposed to who's initiative it was. I haven't a clue if there is value here. I don't understand the conspicuous consumption lifestyle, and that would be the target market for this house. speaking from experience, if you're going to have a "power wife" Well, she's usually not, that's why I have been so surprised by this. than you need to be comfortable with her sometimes leading. In this situation, I have told her that I don't unde…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 08:50 PM
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Oh, no, I'm a straight shooter. I speak my mind and I'm to the point. However, I think everyone else is trying to bullshit me. I believe in watching the actions and not the words. In regards to me playing poker, if I'm bullshitting, it's that I'm pretending not to know that someone else is bullshitting me. It can get exhausting calling people out all the time, and sometimes it's just not worth it...
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 08:44 PM
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I like your consumption / investment / speculation framework. It's more robust that my current thinking of consumption / speculation. My main deal with all of this is that if this does work out, and we do sell, is it really a win if we go back to our old neighborhood, and have to buy a house that also has appreciated quite a bit. Were it entirely up to me, and we did go ahead with the new house, I'd keep the old house and rent it out until when we are ready to return. She is more leaning towards…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 07:55 PM
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get some additional opinions on this "investment", Can't really do it. Those who know possibly have means to scoop it up too. The FIL is the closest I can get to someone who is familiar enough with the areas, and wouldn't try to fuck his daughter over. water issues I have my suspicions that the house has flooded in the past. At the very least there are some drainage issues that might be causing some moisture issues inside the house signified by black powder here and there. (Can't say what I thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 07:31 PM
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Yes, I have done that. My biggest concern was that she went from "Teehee, I just like cruising the real estate listings" to "We are moving across town" in under a week. To her credit, she has looked at listings for years, I just didn't realize a snap move across town was possible. In regards to number (2) everyone plays poker, I never believe anyone's stated intentions 100%.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 07:24 PM
1

Health: Well, after consulting a hematocrit calculator, I gave a double red donation, and I should be back to my pre-TRT hematocrit level. My blood pressure is back to normal after over a month of heart pain. Funny thing is, my HCT, though higher than usual, was still definitely within the "normal" range. So, I suppose I get to choose between painful high blood pressure and fainting. Guess I'll have to accept the fainting. Lifting: I have been afraid to lift because of my painful heart. It has b…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 02:58 PM
1

search for post-finasteride syndrome. Some people react very badly to finasteride and it causes them life-long problems. Pretty sure my having to be on TRT is the result of a year run of finasteride years ago.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 03:59 PM
10

Stand your ground. You shouldn't be drugging the 9 month old. I just traveled with a 3 month old. No drugs, no problems.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 01:41 AM
2

I haven't used the "mail order" TRT docs like defy, but some people swear by them. Being rural, it might be your best option.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 04:43 PM
2

As someone who was on clomid for at least a year (maybe two?) clomid isn't even close to TRT in effectiveness. If /u/newthrwy1214 is concerned about fertility, take HCG alongside the TRT.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 04:15 PM
6

Ok, you aren't fat, you are a scary skeleton. You need to be eating in addition to lifting. Realize this: fit > bulky (not obese) > skinny skeleton I have gotten far more mires when I was bulky than when I was skinny. Of course being fit and muscular beats all, but I suspect you think you are winning at 150lbs and 6ft, when in fact you are losing.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:37 PM
12

That shits a bitch and I suspect low T is either a cause or a symptom and it's what's making me not be able to recover, and makes me completely unable to function if I'm sore and tired. Occam's razor. Get your T checked. It's really that easy. discounted-labs.com. $36 to get tested. Buy the test, walk in with paperwork, blood drawn, results in your inbox within a week. I don't get paid by them, but I probably should. Game my wife even more. Fuck your wife even more. Choke her on your dick. She's…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:06 PM
1

Monday comes and she put her ring downstairs on the table where mine usually sits and she went to work. I wasn’t mad, I was amused and thought “she’s so fucking childish”, and I took the ring back. Halfway through work, I realized that this was a major shit test and began to get really angry so I left, put the ring back, saw 2 lawyers, and hit the gym. You think too much and over-analyze. Taking the ring would have been fine. If she asks, say you found it, and she's going to have to earn it back…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:29 PM
3

"Sure, you want to fix the stroller?" Women believe themselves to be the center of the universe. Sometimes they need a reminder that they are not. Nobody should need help changing a diaper unless they basically have an explosion that has covered the baby, the person changing, half the wall and the ceiling.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 10:52 PM
1

Yeah, there's not much that can go wrong in that scenario, it's usually the switch. If you are really worried (I'm not, I trust my non-contact tester and always test it before use), before you grab a wire brush it on the back of your hand. If somehow you misused your tester, the electricity can make your hand clamp down, grabbing the wire. If your electrocute the back of your hand, your hand will contract, but you won't grab the wire. That sucks about your wife's company. Well, make contingency …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/18 02:09 PM
4

There is a light bulb/switch thing out but it shouldn’t cost more than a couple hundred to get fixed. (I don’t mess with electricity). Don't be a pussy, get a contact-less electricity tester (10$) and shut off all the power to your house. A light switch is 5$ and 10 minutes of your time. When you use the contact-less electricity tester, test it on a known good plug each time so you see it works. Screw the contacts on the light switch down hard. Edit: Thinking of a cash-out re-fi which would not …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 02:14 PM
8

Shit, talk about burying the lede. Good catch, I didn't make it to the end myself.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 12:19 AM
1

you would never guess my numbers by looking at me Ugh, I used to be that guy. Get your testosterone checked.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 08:51 PM
3

I feel that I have been improving a lot in the last couple of weeks LOL. I ate a few salads. Guys, why isn't she swallowing my cock like a pornstar? But it seems that she simply doesn't get that I'm not satisfied with the sex. She doesn't care. Hot sex happens because she wants it to. You are negotiating attraction. you're not supposed to do anything that looks like asking for sex. Assume the sale. Take the sex, and if she says no, go do something else. But you shouldn't be asking for it. SQ 305…
/r/askMRP30/07/18 05:29 PM
2

After that talk, they improve for 2 days and then its back to their "normal performance". Ouch, my employees are usually able to hold it together for two weeks.
/r/askMRP25/07/18 03:31 PM
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My wife (37) is an artist. She's been working hard for a few years, getting better and better but without any commercial success yet. This means she has very little feedback on her work. Very few artists ever "make it". I have known one who sells pieces for thousands of dollars fairly routinely. If she hasn't been properly trained, and working in art related fields, she never will. Art is an ego field, anyone can be an "artist" but making it takes far more work than most people are willing to co…
/r/askMRP22/07/18 06:53 PM
3

I expected she would make it all about her before even asking me if I was okay but I just gave comfort and avoid seeking empathy. I don't know guys. Facing this, I'd probably tell my wife how to act in no uncertain terms. A good FO would be asking how she could help with logistics, after asking how I was, and me downplaying it as much as I can. Seems some of you are married to total narcissists. To the unmarried reading along, vetting a woman is key. Some shit you just can't fix.
/r/askMRP22/07/18 04:25 AM
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I also forgot to say, this is not an excuse for her to ride herd on you. If she doesn't like the way you load the washer, you offer her to do it herself, etc. Just don't be a dipshit and wash reds with whites, etc.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 03:00 PM
2

I'm on my third kid. I have made a few things clear to my wife, and she's on board. During the first few weeks, she takes care of the kid. I get everything else. I did the laundry, dishes, etc. In exchange, she and the baby moved to a different room and she takes care of the baby so I can sleep. I have made it clear to her that at least one of us should sleep and have a clear head. She sometimes shit tests me over my good night sleep, and I offer myself to stay up with the baby and she can take …
/r/askMRP21/07/18 02:12 PM
2

I went to an Imago relationships workshop some years back. It was all about how to communicate better and how you should unload all of your feelings and upset childhood on your spouse. It was total horseshit, and I think half the couples in that workshop are divorced already. Towards the end of the course, they brought in a couple who had gone through the course earlier and apparently use the communication methods. The guy looked brow-beaten as fuck and I doubt he ever got much sex, if any at al…
/r/askMRP20/07/18 09:43 PM
12

Holy crap, you were the OP. What has happened to you man? Have you been in so many flop-houses when you were an addict that this seemed like a good call?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 03:08 PM
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Typical father portrayed by media is a clueless fuck. No wonder the common folk react the way they do. Newsflash, you are a clueless fuck. If my 2 year old is tired, I don't leave her behind, she rides on my shoulders. Carrying a two year old is nearly effortless if you have been lifting. Heck, hasn't happened for at least 6 months, but my 4 yr old was tired yesterday, I carried her on my shoulders. No big deal. The rednecks were right, you are a faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 12:51 PM
1

Damn, of course. One plate per side is DYEL territory. IIRC I maxed out around 235, but I haven't maxed out in a while.
/r/askMRP18/07/18 10:23 PM
0

Got 275 up on the bench for 2 full reps (bar comes down to my chest) last night. I wonder why OP is getting pussy so quickly. Really, I just can't figure it out. Now I'm going to go shoot T in my ass and be glad for my two plate bench.
/r/askMRP18/07/18 04:22 PM
8

Get your diet together. Four beers on a weeknight? You sound fat.
/r/askMRP18/07/18 12:21 PM
2

Hey, if you want you sparring partner to identify your techniques as you use them and flip it back on you, be my guest. Maybe you wife couldn't be bothered or is of marginal intelligence so that she couldn't if she wanted to. The "authenticity" argument that you guys always use is total bullshit. Why don't you walk into a car dealership and tell them what you are really willing to pay. That would be "authentic", wouldn't it? Why don't football teams just give the other side the playbook? Very "a…
/r/askMRP18/07/18 02:36 AM
1

It's not worth the risk, your experience notwithstanding.
/r/askMRP17/07/18 11:16 PM
1

I’m going to piss in the middle of the street because I feel like it. It has been done before, you are 2000 years late. Stop being obtuse, pissing in the middle of the street will get you arrested. That's not being effective. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diogenes#Obscenity It seems difficult to me to be assertive without [being] an asshole. If you are assertive, someone is going to think you an asshole. What is your problem? Why do you care so much about what others think? You can be assertive …
/r/askMRP17/07/18 10:15 PM
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How do you handle the nosy wife questions? Sorry, letting you know would endanger you, blow my cover and that of my associates. Then change the subject.
/r/askMRP17/07/18 10:04 PM
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Take that page out of the book and burn it. NMMNG needs a warning in the sidebar.
/r/askMRP17/07/18 12:57 PM
1

I don't have any problem keeping some drip fed pussy around. If it were me, I would have been out looking for new candidates while getting my drip feed (Yes, I have done this). However, marriage wouldn't be on the table.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 09:06 PM
1

After that it looks like I got more assholeish in my approach to things. How do you AA/AM negatively assert/inquire about someone being forgetful or blowing off a meeting? That’s not in the user manual! So I came here to get advice like anyone else (hopefully deeper than just NEXT). If your gf blows you off, there's no direct answer to that. We say on here that you can't negotiate attraction. You also can't talk her into valuing you and your time. You can surmise that she doesn't value what you …
/r/askMRP16/07/18 08:26 PM
1

You also don't get hurt as much because you build muscle which is protective.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 08:15 PM
4

"Baby momma" seems to be more accepted in the black community. If you aren't black, I would think of you as a low class, trailer trash, whatever-you-are. So yeah, it matters. Don't be low class.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 05:25 PM
2

Get your testosterone checked. If you are under the middle of the range, consider TRT. It will make a world of difference. Push through and you will be fucked for months instead of weeks.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 05:21 PM
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Sure, I have made a lot of these same mistakes. My point isn't that I'm better than you. My point is that for anyone giving you advice, that your prior posts must be taken into account. This post read completely different than your prior posts and lacked that needed context. I wanted other posters to have that information in hand when replying to you, as that would change the advice. So, now that I have some time to reply, I'll say this. I have never had success with the walking out bit. To this…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 03:18 PM
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For reference, this is the guy who wants to get married more than his girl, and his girl is the one that keeps skipping out on meetings with him.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 02:32 AM
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There's something I have learned from dealing with people over the years. If someone likes you, you can do no wrong. Something happens, it's cool, they are chill, they give you space to fix things. If someone doesn't like you, nothing you ever do is right. They just plain don't like your face and even when you get things right, you are still wrong. Now, how do you get people to like you? I have noticed the biggest difference from lifting and shaving my head. No one likes a fat beta. Doesn't matt…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 01:13 AM
5

Bad timing with starting my second cycle and discovering TRP, since now she thinks my self-improving and getting what I want is due to steroids, not to some other reasons. This is why you need to keep this a secret if you go the steroid route. Many stories over in r/steroids mirror this. Anything you do, stand up for yourself, etc, will be blamed on roid rage. I had some of this when I went on TRT. I blew it off and told the wife, no I have always been an asshole. Now that I'm on TRT, I'm an ass…
/r/askMRP15/07/18 04:38 PM
1

Frankly, I think you seriously need to decide if it's really worth the effort to stay with this woman. Yes, work on yourself, but you should expect nothing from her, because you won't get it. I don't know why you would consent to record this conversation, it baffles my mind really. Pull the ripcord, fix yourself and find someone that you don't have a history with.
/r/askMRP14/07/18 10:21 PM
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If my wife asked such a bullshit question, I'd rub my chin and say I hope I never have to make that call. Few of us really know what we would do until we were in the situation anyway, and there's so many factors involved, why would you even want to devote your thought to such a negative question?
/r/askMRP13/07/18 02:00 AM
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that turned into a bit of an argument and she was saying that she didn't want to talk, I was pressing the issue because I didn't know why she was even mad, and she told me to "shut the fuck up." I don't know about in your house, but in my house saying you don't want to talk pretty much means you need to back off because if you don't shit is going downhill in a hurry. If you can't give someone space when they are overheating, you get when you deserve. Edit: You are a needy bitch who can't stand t…
/r/askMRP11/07/18 03:58 PM
1

How many employees do you have? I have employed more than 60 people over the last 10 years. And it's not true (nothing is really), it's mostly true like so many things we discuss here.
/r/askMRP11/07/18 12:15 AM
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Why? Because I want to build something, to help people, and to gain the respect and admiration of people - to be a true leader. You are in business to make money. If you want the admiration of the community, go get involved in, and donate to a charity. Do not turn your business into a charity, or an ego stroking endeavor. This way lies bankruptcy. You employees will hate you anyway. You could be the world's greatest boss. To them, you are still the asshole who isn't paying them all they are wort…
/r/askMRP10/07/18 08:56 PM
9

nothing happend more than that my ltr saw my profile on her "friends" phone. Quotes around "friends" implies you don't believe her. That perhaps she saw it because she was on tinder. If that's true, why are you worried?
/r/askMRP09/07/18 09:14 PM
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I lied to clients, I cheated on my wife, I stole things. Please don't mistake this for moralizing, this is about being effective. It has been my experience that when I know people are lying, I rarely tip my hand about it. It gets filed away, and that person is not to be trusted. People who you can trust are highly valued to me and are worth more. Lying sacks of shit are to be used and discarded. It's quite embarrassing when I think back to my younger days and realize when people completely knew …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/18 05:51 PM
2

Sounds like you are doing well. Remember that the difference between an amicable divorce and a hostile divorce is around $100k or more in lawyer's fees.
/r/askMRP08/07/18 02:40 PM
3

I have troubles gaining muscle If your diet is on point, get your T checked.
/r/askMRP02/07/18 12:03 PM
5

You have to play the game. She has to see that you get it. Being stupid doesn't help anyone. Those would be good responses for him, but I just don't think he has the value to back it up. He is the "child with dynamite" right now.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 01:15 PM
2

Question for anyone: OP's wife said "I'll take all your stuff". It's classic amused mastery (on her part) and a pretty good response. I can't think of a better one. I have come to realize that women are pretty fucking good at game and mind fuckery. Much better than men. Some guys come on here and want to take shortcuts. You can, and they work, for a short time, but then the women learn and blast you out completely. I have since evolved in my understanding, and truly, the only way to win is to pr…
/r/askMRP01/07/18 12:01 PM
1

Google "the sinclair method". It works.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 11:15 AM
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Unless you are an attorney reading about law for work, I really can't imagine a situation where reading divorce law in bed isn't a needlessly provocative act. Don't hide behind "being authentic", you are authentically a dumbass. If you want a divorce, hire an attorney. If you really wanted to protect your assets, secrecy is absolutely required to formulate and execute a plan. You wanted to go Rambo but wanted plausible deniability. You thought, hey, I can drop some hints about divorce and maybe …
/r/askMRP01/07/18 11:03 AM
1

I said kiss good or not at all. Then I grabbed her hair by the back of her head, pulled her close to me, and slowly but firmly, ran my other hand from her thigh to her tits, then kissed her. When finished, I let her go, slapped her ass, and firmly guided her out the door. Then I turned around and walked away with purpose. FIFY, you faggot.
/r/askMRP30/06/18 01:48 AM
9

"Welcome to the locker room. Now get out before I snap your ass with a wet towel."
/r/askMRP30/06/18 01:43 AM
3

How old are your other children that they can't see a ladder and not touch it? Your house sounds like madness of your disorganization and unruly children. Both of which are your fault. More directly: 1. Put your ladder away. 2. Time to adjust the crib or take the kid out. It's not safe anymore. 3. Teach your children not to touch your tools.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 05:36 PM
1

She would like to be getting more, but she gets to the gym once or twice a week.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/18 01:57 PM
1

Oh absolutely. Between me and the two kids who beg to hold the baby, wife gets enough time away, though of course, the baby is needy, as babies are.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/18 12:39 PM
1

but it can be commanded Has tended to be my way. when the babe gets off the tit. We aren't hippies, but sometimes we sure seem like it. Wife breastfeeds for a very long time. Years long. Not waiting that long for my good sex life to return. No.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/18 02:26 AM
1

reward good behavior You guys make a good point. Here I have been seeing it as shit behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/18 05:24 PM
1

She needs lots of protein, probably zinc supplements (around 25mg/day), and foods that are high in vitamin E. Cool, I'll try that. Thanks! Pacing and patience have always been some of your biggest problems. You got me.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/18 03:52 PM
1

(I'm guessing the first?) Not our first rodeo, this is number three and final. Overall, we have the process down pretty well, but she is shut down harder this time than the others. I once tried to have more frame than my 1 month old while she was crying. I lost that so badly. and realized I was a retard on top of it. Don't be me. I have great frame with the baby. For the most part, I just ask for some communication, I don't freak out when the baby cries. Baby cries, I ask the same questions ever…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/18 03:51 PM
1

Prolactin + physical trauma. Good point. Without going into detail, this delivery was pretty bad. Glad we didn't want any more kids. She's pushing herself to please you. Mindset and game are there. Keep it up. Reward good behavior. I'm such an ingrate, but you are likely right. I need to be more positive and reward the good behavior. Newborn at home, changes in sleep, diminishing returns with sustained cuts, etc. You know all this. Sometimes you don't see what's in front of your face. Thanks. Ri…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/18 02:53 PM
5

Hey OYShitters, been a while since I have made a post. Been adjusting to life with the newborn and dealing with some health stuff. Sex Life: Pretty shitty at the moment. 2-3x a week, drip feed, no enthusiasm (or completely faked enthusiasm to get me off quicker). Wife is breast-feeding and her hormones are completely tanked. Bloodwork shows her T and Estradiol in non-detectable quantities. Ouch. Don't think there's much I can do about the moment, but I'm not prepared for a year of this. Maybe I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/18 02:27 PM
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I have already told him he needs to work on himself, but he’s also looking for advice specific to this particular issue as he doesn’t know how to handle it. You gave him the advice he needed. He didn't want it. Few ever do. Let it go.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 11:52 AM
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Wind up picking her up outside his apartment complex at 3AM. Fuck dude, did you lick his jizz out of her pussy too? If you can have this much evidence and still believe her, well, we can't help you.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 07:57 PM
2

There are generally two different kinds of plates, Olympic and Standard. Standard has a 1 inch hole, Olympic has a 2 inch hole (approximately). You do NOT want Standard plates. The standard bars max out at fairly low weight. https://www.tworepcave.com/432/olympic-vs-standard-weights/ You sound not from the US, so I may be wrong on this, but I'd drop the 15kg plates and go up to the next size. In freedom units, a 15kg weight is roughly 35 pounds, and I never use my 35lbs plates. My 45lb plates ar…
/r/askMRP25/06/18 04:26 PM
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As a former connoisseur of fatties, I'll tell you this. If she isn't sucking your dick like it's a goddamn ice cream cone in the desert (one S here folks), then it's because she doesn't think you are worth it, not because she is fat. Fat chicks are usually grateful, and it's nearly tautological that they enjoy putting things in their mouth.
/r/askMRP23/06/18 01:53 PM
19

Put a picture of Trump by your bedside. Pray to him at night.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 10:05 PM
3

Do you not understand that we are among the most hated subs on reddit? Do you not understand that if the SJWs from the other subs found out about you (or me) that we would have a very hard time finding employment again? That, or you are a SJW troll trying to doxx some of us. Mods, plz lock thread.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 08:13 PM
2

you need to get a pedicure Cut and clean your nails you omega. DYEL bro? Height, weight, lifts.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 08:10 PM
1

I work for her Dad Find a new job, asap. This will not end well. Then figure out if you really want her in your life.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 03:58 AM
3

Yeah, I don't miss tearing up at the end of my kid's cartoons.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 02:25 AM
3

I'll break with the common line around here. Everything you do is communication. If you reach out tentatively, you are communicating fear. If you grab her, toss her on the bed and fuck her forcefully, you are communicating confidence and strength. If you talk to her to tell her that you need sex, you are communicating weakness. You can't fail to communicate something. I can't just lift and dread and hope my wife touches me the way I want to be touched, right? I feel like I need to lead her and t…
/r/askMRP15/06/18 10:47 PM
3

Your T levels are shit. Go to a men's clinic, pay out of pocket if you need to. If you don't want any more kids, go straight to the needle, don't let them give you clomid/nolva. At your current levels, when you cut, you will lose all your muscle gains. When you bulk you will gain some muscle, but mostly fat. Rinse and repeat for years, wondering why you can't ever reach your goals. 5 months on TRT I have better gains than years with low T.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 09:51 PM
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You need to understand that if he is in true ketosis that his body is not running a calorie deficit. You are entirely full of shit. This is broscience at its worst. I don't care what the hell you eat, you aren't setting PRs at that level of caloric intake. It's not happening. Edit: Be thankful I'm not a mod, if I were you wouldn't just be branded "Gay Unicorn", I'd ban you so you don't fill noobs heads with your bullshit.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 03:46 AM
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Keep doing keto (~1,200 calories per day) It's completely unreasonable to think you are going to progress on your lifts at a 1,200 calorie deficit, even at your noobie weights. Choose the appropriate hill to die on, this isn't it.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 05:47 PM
1

Wait, are there actually people on the mrp IRC? I think I checked in once or twice (long time ago) and there was nobody there.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 03:30 PM
2

So all your beta posturing paid off. You were plating other women and your unicorn saw things you way. Tell me I am wrong here. There's a lot of you equivocating in this statement. Like you pulled petals on a rose. I have a real hard time on this. Are you guys with plates basically rubbing it in their nose? Back when I did this, I was basically doing CSI level cleanups, to keep it under wraps. If I did get found out (and I had) I would immediately come back with "hey, you were wishy washy and co…
/r/askMRP12/06/18 03:22 PM
2

You are beyond having a scarcity mindset, far off into a dry desert of total scarcity. Not all women will fuck an orbiter because of moving into a house and some light stress. Frankly, she sounds really fucking fat. Only a fat chick would have such little self-control. You sound like you are a terrible fedora wearing neckbeard. DYEL bro? What are your lifts? Girls height and weight too.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 07:55 PM
22

How the fuck do you come back from this? You don't. You thank god that this happened before you married the slut. If it were me, I'd bide my time, enjoy the good make-up behavior from her. Do whatever freaky, disguisting shit you want to do, then when she stops being on best behavior (2-4 weeks max) dump her ass. On one hand, I have a rare "good" woman that has been a great partner up until this point. I am unlikely to find her ilk among the modern young girls of today. No, you don't. Sorry bro,…
/r/askMRP10/06/18 03:21 AM
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Hey you found the answer, now be happy. Trying to make e forget about all the hard work that’s ahead of me and cause me to relapse. It would be worth a reprint of that book just to take out the suggestion of telling your wife.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 02:30 PM
3

Get a headblade and don't look back. If you are fit, yes bald looks awesome. But then again, anything looks better when you are fit.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 06:52 PM
11

Have you considered that r/knittingcircle may be the sub for you?
/r/askMRP07/06/18 07:16 PM
1

Ha. Nice. You are more hardcore than I. Can't remember the last time we went 2 weeks without a legit medical reason...
/r/askMRP06/06/18 01:50 PM
1

You're certainly right that I need more practice, and that means opening more women, not just hot ones. Holy crap. Let the record show, on the 5th of June in year 2018, OP actually listened.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 01:48 PM
2

I can't believe I need to tell this to you. Do what all the rock stars would do with their fuck-toys. Give her a tambourine.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 08:42 PM
2

You must understand, by caring enough to write this up, you have already lost. Random women come and go, you either open them or you don't. You certainly don't pine away after them on an internet forum. Going by the numbers, you were going to strike out, and that's ok. There's no magic opener. You just go and talk, you either get blown out or you don't. In time, you learn what works and what doesn't. You sound like the kind of guy who won't open a girl unless she's super-hot, etc. You must reali…
/r/askMRP05/06/18 02:14 PM
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realizing that we hadn't had sex in 18 months How exactly does this happen? 18 days and I'm plotting a course to dump my wife and get some strange. Drugs? Alcohol? I just don't understand.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 02:09 PM
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My problem is that I'm not really motivated any more. I've got the bills paid and frankly I don't give a fuck about much else. I have a bunch of menial tasks to do associated with the divorce that I just don't give a shit about and can't really bring myself to do. Low T posterboy. Get tested.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 12:41 AM
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> I got a new job (moved to same city) and have been staying in the same house as sis in law with her sister and husband for past 3 weeks (the bf does live in). I'm mentally exhausted and have been crashing at friend's places but I'll be moving out soon. LOL, how many bad decisions must you make before, just by chance, you make a good one? Quit drinking, quit hanging out with (and getting drunk with) gay dudes. They get handsy, it's what they do. > my reputation is on the line. Please keep shout…
/r/askMRP04/06/18 03:10 PM
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I hope you are a troll. I suspect you are not.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 02:27 AM
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Don't do that, you will be booted back here.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 06:49 PM
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It was a joke, lighten up.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 02:26 AM
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You are allowed to disagree. As a corollary, you are also allowed to be wrong.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 01:21 AM
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There is no such thing as an "alpha female". There are only beta men who are total bitches. Stop talking about your wife like she is the problem. You are the problem.
/r/askMRP30/05/18 06:49 PM
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Methinks your wife is not the only one with a personality disorder. Epic post, like a slow motion train crash that doesn't end. You deserve some sort of flair for this. Not a good one, a warning for all to see.
/r/askMRP29/05/18 08:16 PM
3

If you keep it under 10 employees, it's really not that bad. A faggot accused me of firing him because he was a faggot. I fired him because he was a shitty worker. Anyway, come to find out that if you are under 10 employees, you are allowed to fire someone because he's a faggot. Good times. He was very butthurt. May vary by state, IANAL.
/r/askMRP28/05/18 08:03 PM
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To enforce boundaries, you have to have something to take away. If you are a worthless sack of shit, your wife doesn't fear you taking away yourself, etc., so there's no way for you to enforce the boundary. Become a man that she fears losing and everything falls into place.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 03:43 PM
2

I went through this, and it really fucked with my head. I had to re-evaluate my ideas on how I provide value. Men generally don't want to think of themselves as freeloaders, I just had to get my head around there being value in things that aren't money. On the plus side, it really lessens your risk of divorce-rape.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 03:42 PM
2

You need to work on shoulder mobility. Get on youtube, there's plenty of videos on this. Also, both OHP and Bench get very technical at the weights you are at. You need to work on your form, and further, you need to find the form that works for your geometry. For me on bench, I need to focus on keeping my lower back straight and more core tight, which doesn't allow me to get my chest up high, but enables me to do the lift without injuring myself. But, you need to find out what works for you.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 02:21 PM
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Great, you found the RP! Now, you have this shiny new red pill, you want to show it off, you want to convert the masses! Why don't they see the genius, the straight logic of it all? Why can't they see??? Ok, you need to step back, and you need to not preach the red pill. You really need to STFU. The best, and only way to preach the red pill is by living it, and having others admire. You are not there yet. Edit: And when the time comes, you can only say "Hey, want to go lift?" Want to know how ma…
/r/askMRP23/05/18 06:21 PM
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This morning I mentioned it and she got defensive, "you're starting already?". I stopped pressing, made some jokes to ease it, not sure about how effective but she didn't sound pissed. You are a whiny bitch.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 02:07 PM
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You need to move on this NOW. Your wife abandoned her children. The only time I have seen the father "win" is in this type of situation. If you wait, she will re-establish and that won't count for shit. Find the money for an attorney, do what you need to do. I am not a lawyer, but i have seen a lot of divorces go down.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 03:21 AM
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knowing there's a new born in play and the realities that come with that. Yeah, that right there is the crux of the matter. and your expectation that she still tries to add value to your life I tend to lean towards taking what I want than waiting for her to add value. The more I expect others to do something, the more I end up disappointed. So it falls to me to determine how much I take, given the current context.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 10:59 PM
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This is either a cryptic response or I'm being obtuse. Not sure which one.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 09:17 PM
1

Well, last go around, I went all out on what needed to be done, also went all out with my one, daily demand. I'm not having to go all-out around the house this go around, I have helpers, so there's that. Sometimes getting the helpers to effectively help can be a challenge though. Progress is being made. I also think the wife isn't doing as well this time, which is why I have eased up this time. Baby was wedged, additional cuts were made (c-section), it was all around a rough delivery. So perhaps…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 08:13 PM
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Well, last go around, being a dick was intentional. I was more forceful, more like "You are going to do this." And we were around 6x a week. There's something to be said for the help yourself first, then help others philosophy, I'm just not sure where my balance is this go around.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 04:27 PM
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Lifting / Cardio: Have been switching to more BB lifts to fill out some lagging areas. Forearms, biceps, calves, traps, mostly visible stuff that you can see in a t-shirt. Have been making quick progress, got a strange compliment the other day. A guy said I looked like a "famous guy" - a porn star. Ok, well, the pornstar is jacked, I'll take the compliment. It's a first for me though. Can't say I'd ever admit in public to knowing what a porn star looks like, but hey, I guess Europeans are more c…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 04:02 PM
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Yeah, that's pretty good for 41 years old. It's not top quartile, but I'm not sure Id want to commit to the needle for the rest of my life if I had that level.
/r/askMRP22/05/18 01:38 AM
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I haven't been happy in years. And whose fault is that?
/r/askMRP20/05/18 02:59 PM
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LOL, that's likely 90-95% on the low end, while not quite being on the bottom 5%. You ask for copies of the bloodwork, and you find a doctor that will treat you. If you need to, go to a men's clinic, even if you have to pay out of pocket, it's very much worth it. Around 300 TT, I'm miserable, life sucks. Doesn't matter that 95% of men fall within a range. I bet the bottom 25% feel like shit all the time.
/r/askMRP19/05/18 08:16 PM
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M34 W26 Your wife is basically a child. You need to guide her on how to act. Be firm.
/r/askMRP19/05/18 07:28 PM
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Get your testosterone levels checked and write them down - Doctor said they were at normal levels Docs will say you are normal down to 200TT these days. You need to see the report.
/r/askMRP19/05/18 05:39 PM
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STFU doesn't mean give your wife the silent treatment. And you certainly shouldn't be continuing this treatment over days. Reset every morning. Play the nice card. You are doing this wrong. if she recognises her bad behaviours LOL, if you wait for this you might never speak to her again. Stop dwelling on the past, if she fucks up, remove attention, do something else, next day, reset. And anyway when she's in this stage she gets pissed off of little things. Why not try this: "Well, that certainly…
/r/askMRP19/05/18 04:45 PM
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Last I checked, it was 36" but I had a few more pounds then. I could believe a rugby player has those stats, but even starting lifting again, you probably lift a lot more than myself and OP. If I had OP lifts and his weight, I'd easily be pushing 40%.
/r/askMRP19/05/18 01:27 PM
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Unless you have a tremendous frame and huge natural (yet strangely non-functional) muscle, you are probably closer to 35-40%. Keep losing weight. Use the anger to keep yourself on track.
/r/askMRP19/05/18 02:18 AM
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I know you guys are brutal, so let me have it. Wish granted. (33m, 5'10 220, 16% bf BP 225, SQ 275, DL 315, OHP 115,) Hahahahehehohhohohohohooooo <takes breath> hahahehh hoh ohoho ohohoh oheh e heheh e eheheheheheheh. Ok, no. No, you are not 16% BF at 5'10" and 220lbs. Especially not at those lifts. I have roughly equivalent lifts (your DL is better than mine) and I'm probably 20% at 5'10" and 180lbs. Look at yourself in the mirror, and cover one eye. It's important to compare 2D to 2D. Then com…
/r/askMRP18/05/18 11:00 PM
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Back when my wife wasn't all fucked up from the c-section, I'd throw her ass over my shoulder bring her into the bedroom and throw her on the bed. You said you have been lifting. Be careful with the head around door frames and bedposts. You are thinking too much. You are seeking approval too much. Take what you want.
/r/askMRP18/05/18 03:48 AM
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Noobs are so special. You will find out soon.
/r/askMRP17/05/18 03:59 PM
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Ok, so you are getting some sex as the result of your talk. Realize this will be short lived and it's back to the usual soon. Keep working on yourself. When it's back to usual, resist the urge to have the talk again.
/r/askMRP17/05/18 03:01 PM
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can't gain lean weight. BTDT. Not fun. Right now, I'm almost at the point where I touch steel and grow. Programming doesn't matter nearly as much. Throw some weights around, get gains. Had doctor after doctor who didn't get it, was terrified to prescribe it to me and treated me like a criminal. Chased it with lots of time, emotion and dollars trying to get help. Go to a men's clinic if you need to. I pay my doc cash, he treats me, easy. All the prescriptions (unless your doc tries to put you on …
/r/askMRP17/05/18 01:06 PM
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Well, yes, though you have to get a doctor involved to get the prescriptions, he will want to monitor you. But you can take the first step and see if your levels are low. discountedlabs.com will get you bloodwork. If you are low, you do need to educate yourself. Doctors can be weird about low-T.
/r/askMRP17/05/18 12:58 PM
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A doctor would say "wait until you see the symptoms". I say it costs 40$ for peace of mind. Frankly, I didn't get most of the symptoms, I wish I did, I could have taken care of this years ago. Since starting TRT, I'd go even further and say if you merely have below average T levels, you might consider TRT. There's really no comparison between having average T (which I achieved on clomid) and being on TRT. It's so much easier to get in good shape, all my struggles before were wasted.
/r/askMRP16/05/18 10:12 PM
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I don't have a problem stating your case and your expectations, once. That has been done, and it sounds like she heard you. Now you really need to STFU and work on yourself. It’s important to me to have our house be a place the kids feel safe and loved (that might be the only place they feel that at some point in their lives)- not feel constant contention and anxiety over us fighting or whatever it is.” Be careful of this, she's trying to guilt you with the children. Note that as one strategy of…
/r/askMRP16/05/18 06:53 PM
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DISCLAIMER: I am a paramedic only I understand fully, and in no event will someone giving advice to me on the internet ever come back on them. the older you get the more these things can pile up on your body. Young men can handle that stress biologically though I don't even recommend it for them. The day my sugar tanked I didn't work out. My diet is pretty strict and even after I ate I was done for the next 2 hours. Hypoglycemia is not fun to deal with. Avoid making it a permanent condition. Tho…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 03:52 PM
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Look up ectomorph OP.. there's a lot of you out there and a lot of info on how to bulk up when you are an ectomorph. Most of it involves eating a lot... all the time, super high amounts of protein. This is old thinking. Getting on TRT solves these problems. I second the original recommendation of getting OPs T checked.
/r/askMRP16/05/18 02:15 PM
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Thanks for your reply! sound familiar don't they? Last week I did get dizzy on the stepper, I stopped immediately. I didn't think skipping lunch (not intentional, just forgot) was going to be that big of a deal, but apparently so. Thankfully, I haven't experienced the others, except normal sweating and fatigue that you would expect doing cardio. Either way putting your heart at that kind of stress over time can lead to a cardiac event or in this case heart attack. What do you think about the car…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 02:05 PM
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When you get back to lifting I recommend light jogging or walking for 25-30 minutes. Heart rate not to exceed 120bpm. Well, that's really my question, is there much risk going over 120bpm? When I started on the stepper I my heart rate was going over 180 and I could definitely feel some strain afterwards. Now I try to not go over 170 or so. I do this, sustained, for 30 mins, 3-5x a week. At any rate, I have seen pretty good improvement, when I started a few weeks ago, 15 mins was a struggle, now …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 01:27 AM
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STD's don't discriminate. Yes they do. The major groups with high infection rates are: Gay men (or my favorite medical description "men who have sex with men") Whores IV drug users Minorities (sorry bros, it's true) Women who have sex with any of the other 4 groups. This information can be googled. Just because it makes people uncomfortable doesn't make it any less true. For the record, I bagged it up for everyone before I got married.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 09:06 PM
1

Have you tried Accutane? I probably should have gone on when I was a teenager. Now, at my age, I'm finally reaping the benefits of being greasy - no wrinkles. Or PRP Micorneedling? Checked it out, looks interesting. I hope everyone is healthy. Yeah, there's something that we need to follow up on, but nothing major. Thankfully, we have insurance and if that fails, the resources to pay.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 09:01 PM
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Going for bloodwork today Don't bother, it's too early. I did bloodwork 4 weeks in, TT was midrange. Next bloodwork was at 3 months, TT was over the top of the range. she is accusing him have having “non-consensual” intercourse with her at some point. I had kind of hoped this shit was just an internet meme. Good luck, this is going to get ugly. short-term goal of dating blonde/brunette/redhead/white/Hispanic/Asian/black in my post-divorce cornucopia of relationships. Make sure you bag it up. Dis…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 04:11 PM
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She must've picked up that I'm butthurt because I wasn't as flirty as yesterday, gave me a look that I know all too well "You're pissed and I can tell it". Reality is, I'm not just busy and IDGAF about what happened yesterday, today is a new day but I'm busy AF. DEER much? I wrestled with this issue a bit myself. Here's what I figured out. Your state, being butthurt or not, doesn't matter. She has said you are, and that's what she is going to believe. So, from there, what are your options? Deny,…
/r/askMRP15/05/18 03:00 PM
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TRT: Went to the doc, got new bloodwork, I'm apparently over the top of the range. Doc had me back off 10%. Glad I already lowered 10% so that I didn't get a 20% reduction. Feeling pretty decent. Upped my arimidex, that took care of my ravenous hunger. Losing weight and starting to look really good. There's really no comparison to cutting on TRT vs being midrange on clomid. Even at TT of 500-600 my results wouldn't be nearly as good, I'd lose all my gains as I lost weight. Right now it doesn't s…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 02:40 PM
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There's a lot of context that's missing here. Do you think she just might be talking to the kid? Are you being a touch hypersensitive here? I talk to our kid, and it's not coded subcommuniciation for anyone else.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 07:05 PM
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My problem with this particular piece of furniture is that it takes up a lot of space, and she wants it just where my easel usually stands. Heh, classic shit test.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 01:05 PM
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Came here looking for a /u/red-sfpplus story about getting caught fucking the au pair in a broom closet. Got a story about a book.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 01:02 PM
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We talked about our relationship, sex, loyalty etc and I basically told her I need her to fuck me like she wants me to be loyal. If you stick around, you will find out that this is exactly the wrong thing to do. You need to STFU while reading the sidebar.
/r/askMRP08/05/18 02:29 PM
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I'm going to go against the common wisdom here. I think you need to get your needs taken care of. I don't care how bad her pussy is, if she has one hand that is functional, you can get a hand job. Her mouth is likely also functional, you could get a BJ. You should not be walking on eggshells around her. I started MRP work about when she got pregnant and we had sex maybe 4 or 5 times during the 9 months, and it was never really good. Ok, here you need to lower your expectations. You aren't going …
/r/askMRP08/05/18 12:13 AM
2

IIRC, TRP has a rule against posting about fictional characters. Is it time we adopt the same? Hey look guys, this totally made up, but totally alpha dude was in a book!
/r/askMRP07/05/18 03:14 PM
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Your wife smokes? Are you shitting me? I think OP isn't in nearly as good a shape as he tells us. My wife trips over herself to get her ass to the gym to keep up with me, and I'm not in that awesome shape. There's just no room for smoking too.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 10:38 PM
1

Depends. I think of some rules as general guidelines, sometimes you have to just roll with the punches. My wife is more strict about things, but I prefer to realize when things just aren't going to work that day, etc.
/r/askMRP04/05/18 06:24 PM
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I have employees like this. They will flat out lie to me when there wouldn't be any repercussion for telling the truth. In fact, I usually thank people for owning up to a screw up, it saves me time researching what happened. I doubt you would have had a problem with her moving up snack day, you just wouldn't do it yourself on friday... Old habits die hard I guess. The best I can figure is they want to avoid their own embarrassment and shame.
/r/askMRP04/05/18 06:02 PM
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Yeah, these days every doughy soyboy has a beard. I don't want to be associated with these guys. They make it look bad.
/r/askMRP03/05/18 01:49 AM
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If you have to have a scar, I think that's a good a story as any. "It was hot brass from my gun. No I don't want to talk about it."
/r/askMRP02/05/18 06:03 PM
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LOL. How do you get 75% of the assets in the divorce? Sell house. "Split" the proceeds between you and spouse. Spend your half on hookers and blow massages, handbags and Chad. Divorce your spouse and get half of the proceeds that he still has. 75%, bitches! OP, you are so fucking stupid, I have no words for you.
/r/askMRP02/05/18 01:25 AM
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Go for the BJ. Fatties are hungry.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 01:11 AM
2

Sonic boom, bitch!
/r/askMRP29/04/18 01:16 AM
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There's nothing to be gained by dwelling on the past. Nothing. You can't change your past, just like I can't go back and tell myself 20 years ago to get a Testosterone test. All those years of lifting, constant injuries, gaining muscle only to lose it all when I cut, all wasted. If I find myself thinking about it, I just force myself to think of something else. Dwelling on your past is an indulgence. It's an extravagance because it's completely wasteful. Go play a video game or go wank or someth…
/r/askMRP28/04/18 03:10 AM
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Depends on why your T is low (if it is). It also depends on where you are in life, if you want kids, etc. There is a lot to know about TRT, I wouldn't want to read up on it unless I knew I had some unfortunate blood work in hand. Here's a start if you are curious though. https://www.reddit.com/r/steroids/wiki/trt/list
/r/askMRP28/04/18 12:39 AM
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If I had to do it all over, before starting my journey, I'd get my T checked. You can get it done for 35$ (discountedlabs.com) and make sure your T is at least mid-range. If it isn't you are going to have a hard time making gains and losing fat. I have spun my wheels for years, now that I'm injecting, it's a whole different game. Certainly worth the 35$ just to know.
/r/askMRP27/04/18 10:49 PM
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I love how she talks about her struggles as all encompassing, yet apparently it's not enough of a problem to actually just go on a goddamn diet. So many problems in this world would be solved if people would just shut their pie holes.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/18 05:04 PM
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Never thought I would have seen the thread where w&s was the softie.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/18 05:01 PM
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Agree 100% with this. OP, keep in mind that women who are in high-flying fields won't necessarily adapt well to a SAHM lifestyle. My wife would probably go slowly insane all the while feeling guilty about what a shitty house cleaner she is and just wanting to get out for an hour of peace. Also, remember the old timey wisdom that "idle hands are the devil's workshop". TRP is littered with plenty of examples.
/r/askMRP27/04/18 02:20 PM
1

I just wanted more and she said she can’t give doesn't want more Work on yourself. If not your body, your mind, your situation. Then up the dread.
/r/askMRP26/04/18 05:03 PM
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it's who you are that's the problem. Much more concise than my version. +1
/r/askMRP26/04/18 03:51 PM
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All of your lifts are better than mine, and you have lower BF than I do. What is the problem then? Are you overly weak? Bad news is that if you aren't getting any action with these numbers, you have a harder road ahead of you. Don't know exactly why it is, but the guys that lift and yet have sexless marriages tend to have a harder time in general. Start reading the sidebar and learning to behave in an attractive manner.
/r/askMRP26/04/18 03:30 PM
2

You are still engaging like her words have any meaning. The only thing that has meaning here is that you aren't getting sex. Does it make you feel better that she feels bad about not fucking you? It shouldn't because she's still not going to fuck you. So, what are your lifts?
/r/askMRP26/04/18 02:32 PM
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LOL, sometimes, when your dragon shirt goes missing, you just have to let it go. It's too bad, I picked it up in Thailand and it fit perfectly. Vendor knew what he had too, I haggled him on some other stuff I bought from him, but he drove a hard bargain on the dragon shirt. Dragon shirt, I still miss you sometimes.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 04:27 PM
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My MIL disappeared my dragon shirt. Still pissed. Can't prove she did it either, but pretty sure.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 08:30 PM
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you didn’t do anything wrong If you truly believe that, you haven't read the sidebar, you don't belong here. This whole sub is premised on the fact that OP did everything wrong. 1) your wife is lying to you. She just casually looked up divorce? And you bought that?! Watch what they do, not what they say. Use your fucking reasoning. Women will lie to get out of trouble. It’s AWALT. All women will lie in similar circumstances. However, I have to agree with you on this point. After reading the firs…
/r/askMRP18/04/18 02:56 PM
2

The book MS recommended seems to be the go-to these days. All the body-language stuff I read was 20 years ago, and I read all that was available on the topic, which, surprisingly wasn't all that much. After reading about body language, I'd suggest reading "The Structure of Magic" to really understand what people are saying, and really how much you just don't really understand what they are saying and how poorly you also communicate. It's a very dry read, but not as bad as WISNIFG.
/r/askMRP17/04/18 04:48 PM
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Ignore all women who are paid to be nice to you. Waitresses, salespeople, bartenders, retail workers, etc. It completely screws up your calibration. Then go read a book on body language.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 11:11 PM
1

LOL, fridge stocked, no food. 7 kinds of chips. Logistics do count for something though, and he's got it down.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 07:39 PM
1

Um, chubby people sweat more and smell bad quickly. Source: Was chubby chaser.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 04:20 PM
0

You sound thirsty as fuck and not as "in shape" (no lifts mentioned, probably skinny-fat) as you purport to be. Why are you thirsty? Why did any of this sound like a good idea?
/r/askMRP16/04/18 04:17 PM
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I can't give him good advice when I think he is lying (or leaving material stuff out) about his situation. These aren't the actions of a guy who is in shape and in control of his life. Thus my questions to him at the end. The pieces don't fit.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 02:13 AM
1

Was married before. Strike one. Her ex took all their money and left the country. And a bad judge of character. Strike two. She is impulsive. Strike three. Got married right before coming to a new city in which neither of us knew anybody. The first month she got pregnant and everything was great until the baby was born. I'm all about moving to a new place because of a good job, etc, but why the fuck would you add a new kid to the mix in all this uncertainty? You have no support structure. Furthe…
/r/askMRP15/04/18 11:31 PM
2

I don't have a problem with nerds. I have a problem with nerds who lack of self-awareness. If you are going to be a nerd, yet also have a girlfriend, and maybe interact with some people outside of your D&D coven, you must understand that you walk in different worlds, and most of that shit doesn't cross over. I don't talk about my new triangular sights with my liberal friends, and I don't talk about the newest tapas place with my gun buddies. And if I do invite people out to the latest tapas plac…
/r/askMRP14/04/18 04:34 PM
2

I'm usually the last person to call troll around here. I just can't believe this. No.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 02:44 PM
2

Ok, I'm calling troll on this one. This shit just can't be true.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 01:15 PM
1

Applebee's and then go watch the Avengers on the 28th LOL, are you 16? I've done it before and I've been trying my best to now give people the benefit of the doubt. What benefit of the doubt? She doesn't really want to go. I wouldn't want to go either. Does your gf really have to enjoy your nerdy outing? Are you guys going to cosplay too? Maybe hit each other with foam swords afterwards? I honestly cannot find a rational reason as to why she wouldn't be able to make it. Your outing sounds gay as…
/r/askMRP14/04/18 12:35 PM
2

Can man be whole without woman? Hi, welcome to MRP. I'm going to sit over here with my popcorn to watch the ritual beatings. Faggot.
/r/askMRP11/04/18 08:27 PM
1

small chance I picked a low quality woman Well hey, turns out I know something about statistics. How many women did you interview for this position?
/r/askMRP11/04/18 08:23 PM
1

Low sperm count? Get your T checked and go on clomid or HCG. Why are you even considering dropping cash on IVF? You sound fat. Donor sperm? Why are you going to be a wage slave for the rest of your life for other people's kids?
/r/askMRP11/04/18 01:27 AM
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LOL, unicornshoe does live in his own little world. I can haz two lez lick my man pole? For free? I promise I bathe. https://www.reddit.com/r/r4r/comments/1crrz3/30_m4ff_torontoanywhere_seeking_lesbian_couple/ Archived because inb4 [deleted] https://archive.fo/l4YmP
/r/askMRP10/04/18 11:52 PM
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Talk to a doctor or physiotherapist. I won't (and we shouldn't) give you possibly life changing (in a bad way) advice about this over the internet. Sometimes you have to pay a specialist.
/r/askMRP07/04/18 06:39 PM
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"healthiest" of alcohol Eh, whatever you need to do to make it through. Heh. I "assume" it is stop drinking beer at night (or beer period), or daily drinking. Well, for me, I think I stopped drinking for 4 years. During that time, I had maybe 4 drinks a year. Prior, 2-3 microbrews a night. I have had more recently, but if I drink any more than I do now, I'll probably go back to zero again.
/r/askMRP05/04/18 10:05 PM
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Lift, adhere to a strict diet (whether bulking or cutting), stop drinking, get your T checked.
/r/askMRP05/04/18 04:26 PM
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When did he delete? I never noticed. Still wonder what happened to Scurvy.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/18 03:07 AM
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And, the truth is, some people just want to be a fat fucks. The sooner you realize this, the better your life will be. Here you are, you want to save the world. You think, damn, this fat fuck just doesn't know how to lose weight. He could make his life so much better. The problem is, everyone knows how to lose weight, it's not a secret. They just value the pleasure they get from stuffing their face more. This fat fuck, he's miserable. His job sucks, his wife and kids are gross and rude, he gets …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/18 04:20 PM
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This toxic musculinity fucking sucks. Don't be a leftist pussy SJW. These guys are doing what they want to do and I don't fault them for it. In all likelihood, they smell your judgement of them, and that's why they give you crap. They never gave me an inordinate amount shit about it, but most of the sales guys were far better looking than me. I'd play the sidekick and also give them shit about the girls. If she was hot: "No pics? Didn't happen!" If she wasn't: "Oh, this one you won't admit to, e…
/r/askMRP04/04/18 03:10 PM
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Look, they want you to fuck around, so you are one of them. If you do, you have entered into the assured mutual destruction pact. One of you rats, you will all be destroyed. Right now, you can cause problems for them because you don't participate. Do not be confused, I am not advocating either for sleeping around nor for ratting out your coworkers. I just like to analyse behavior and strategy. When I was in sales, yeah, the sales guys slept around a lot. And the quality of what they were banging…
/r/askMRP03/04/18 03:37 PM
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Hide your shit better. OPSec is #1. I'd like to think that I'd be able to avoid talking about it if the wife did already know about it (and I didn't know that she knew), but if I were skillfully led there, I might just tip my hand a bit. I can't tell you how fortunate you are. This is usually the beginning of RP on insane mode. I hope it was because you did a good job vetting your wife in the first place, but I suspect you just got lucky. Have a quip ready to go if your wife says something in fr…
/r/askMRP31/03/18 02:46 PM
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She can be bitter all she wants. Why does that mean you are bitter too? Get your head out of her frame. Go read the meditations. Also, sidebar, lift and stop being a pussy.
/r/askMRP28/03/18 05:38 PM
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I have done IF in the past (20 years ago, before it was cool) with great success. Right now, there's no way I could implement IF successfully, for reasons I can't discuss here.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/18 04:14 PM
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I think it's both. I'm definitely seeing more muscle, alas, fat too. I'm also seeing an increased burn, as with what I'm eating I should be even fatter. But I'm going to have to figure something out, because I can't take being much fatter than I am now.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 11:19 PM
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TRT: Ok, does anyone have any experience with this? I have been having ravenous hunger since starting TRT. It's really a struggle just to keep my calories at maintainence, I can't even think about a cut right now. I'm starting to have some sympathy for the fat fucks out there, if this is what they have to deal with, I understand why they are fat. General Musings: Don't have time for a full OYS this week, too much to cover, need to ruminate over it all more.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 07:28 PM
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The "natural route" is a clickbait meme. I have never seen real before and after bloodwork from someone who didn't take drugs for it. I eat clean, lifted, etc, nothing worked except drugs. I took clomid, that worked for a year then failed, now I pin and I feel pretty damn good.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 06:43 PM
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both triggered by the suicide of my dad who shot himself in the head while struggling with clinical depression too. Stress can fuck up your testosterone. I was probably OCD, and somewhat depressed before I got my T fixed. It's worth 30$ to get yourself tested.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 06:02 PM
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LOL, tell her to hold on, you are putting on your Hitler mustache. You are a dumb shit if you follow any of this with your real name. You just can't help stupid. Welcome to MRP on insane level.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 08:27 PM
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Why would anyone care to do that to draw a boundary with a potentially broken woman? If you don't draw a boundary it's equal to inviting her to fuck others on the side.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:03 PM
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My sex life is great I just want it to be that way all the time. About half of your experiences will be below average. Just something to keep in mind.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 09:05 PM
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I have been out of the gym for two weeks now though because of bronchitis. Could be part of why I feel this way. LOL, I have this image of someone wheezing, coughing, leering and asking his wife, well, where did they touch you next? Get treated man. See a doc. You sound terribly unattractive. I have been having this mental discussion with myself to attempt desensitize myself. You are losing the battle by thinking of it at all. Just stop. Wife compliments my body all the time. Don't listen to the…
/r/askMRP21/03/18 08:00 PM
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on my RP journey the past month Slow your roll bro. I see rumbling in your post history about a gym, but have you touched iron yet? I encouraged my wife to share more of her sexual experiences with me and to make a long story short; I am uncomfortable with what I heard. Does no one vet their wife anymore? These are the questions you ask before you put a ring on it, not after. It bothers me that my wife has had more partners than me and I want to not give a fuck. That's a tough place to be in. I'…
/r/askMRP21/03/18 07:26 PM
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/u/Phaxis81/ A post-nup only works when you have the upper hand in the relationship and she values what she could possibly lose. You don't and she doesn't. This is the advice I'd have given if I hadn't thought you were hopeless. If you wife is floating being poly, you don't have the upper hand, you are so far from it you can't even comprehend what it means yet. You should forget any post-nup and start working on yourself. If your hormones are fucked, get on TRT. It is still truly astonishing tha…
/r/askMRP21/03/18 02:49 PM
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28g it is then, thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 10:47 PM
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Right now I'm using 26ga 3/8" needles injecting subq into the love handles. Definitely considering smaller, but I also think there's a trade off between needle diameter and time spent drawing and injecting. Might get 29ga next go around. What is the thinnest you have used successfully?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 09:03 PM
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Oh, you reminded me of the most important thing! Always remember, you don't need to run faster than the bear/zombies, you just need to run faster than your fat wife.
/r/askMRP20/03/18 07:52 PM
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Warm in winter. In famine or war, can be used as a food source to feed the family and provide lamp oil for months.
/r/askMRP20/03/18 06:32 PM
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Anyway to my question, she has finished her degree last May and found full time work but her income does not pay enough for her to cover all the loans and credit card debt she racked up over the last 5 years (graduate degrees are fucking expensive) Why? Did she get a worthless degree? Does she need to look for a different job? Did she go crazy with credit cards? My concern, we have a good relationship, only red flag ever was right after she finished graduation she had a self described mental bre…
/r/askMRP20/03/18 05:27 PM
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My ego really wants to agree with you and to add deadlifts back. Maybe a massive deload is in order.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 02:57 PM
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TRT: Well, I think I have a system that's working better. I mark the target in the mirror with a pen, then inject sitting down. Haven't had any crazy bruising since then. Feels really stupid though - x marks the spot! Appearance: Well, the TRT turned me back into a greasy teenager, so I thought that I better do something about it before my face got really bad. Felt pretty faggy going on over to /r/SkinCareAddiction, but my skin is looking better than it has in years. At least I didn't have to go…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 02:24 PM
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Yeah, exactly. LOL. Women must truly experience rage when they think the omega they are keeping is fucking around with a redhead.
/r/askMRP19/03/18 04:57 PM
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That's the most unintentionally hilarious article I have read in a while. He sounds almost happy his gf hacked him up. Dude, swordz!!!
/r/askMRP19/03/18 12:05 PM
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5"10, 135lbs, scrawny and former distance runner, just started lifting. Began with 100 push ups a day and signed up to the gym three weeks ago. Managed to coerce a guy I met last week into showing me the ropes, so will post numbers once I know what the heck I'm doing. Damn, you are a scary skeleton. You need to lift, but also, you need to eat.
/r/askMRP18/03/18 10:37 PM
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Ok, I'm going to assume you aren't a troll. 3 kids under 3 with a fourth on the way. I can't imagine the insanity that your house is. Then you leave for two weeks. Her father moves in. No fucking shit, she needs some help. You need to remove her from your business facebook. You should be able to block her hormonal ass. The friend is probably a bad influence, it's true. She does need some friends though. OK, you are tall and fit. You are the patriarch now, are you owning your shit, or are you the…
/r/askMRP17/03/18 12:12 PM
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Block her on facebook. Why is that hard?
/r/askMRP17/03/18 12:03 PM
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LOL, I just learn from my mistakes, and I have made quite a few.
/r/askMRP14/03/18 02:42 PM
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So, what's keeping your from leaving? I wouldn't stick around for sex 3-4 times a year.
/r/askMRP13/03/18 09:21 PM
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OK, I have seen this before, thank god not with the wife. This is the play. She goes on some high-suffering diet, that would work IF someone had the willpower to follow. Except the diet is so onerous that no one does. She tells everyone who will listen that she is on 600 400 calories a day, and it's what you asked her to do. Meanwhile, since no one has this kind of will power (without legal meth), she's going to be sneaking cookies on the side, not losing much weight. Then maybe it will be a "gl…
/r/askMRP13/03/18 01:58 PM
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Translation for Americans: 5'10" height 171lbs If your lifts are in kilograms, those are quite respectable numbers. 264lb bench / 374lbs squat / 418lbs deadlift. At your weight, they are pretty amazing. Why are you wasting your time on a girl with major red flags?
/r/askMRP12/03/18 04:24 PM
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You sound fat. Height / weight / lifts.
/r/askMRP12/03/18 02:50 PM
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I told my wife, during the day, that I wanted her to give me a BJ at night. You understand that this move was basically pointless, right? That it actually set you backwards, right? Even if you got her to say yes, at that moment, that it wouldn't mean shit later. If you want something, go for it now. If not, STFU. Promises made now mean nothing later. She says "No. I'm never gonna give you a blowjob". Me: "You are". Her: "No, never.". Me: "I called no backsies." Her: "It's opposite day." WTF am I…
/r/askMRP09/03/18 04:25 AM
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Folks, we, at times, must remember that half of people are below average. Furthermore, 2.2% of people are lower than two standard deviations below the mean. How do these people get on the internet? I don't know, but OP is clearly evidence that they do find a way.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 08:30 PM
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BUT WHY DIDN’T YOU TELL ME THIS IS LIFE CHANGING SHIT? Want to know about something else that is life changing? Paragraphs.
/r/askMRP08/03/18 07:56 PM
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Hehe, not quite delivery room. Day after, but still in hospital. No, I didn't watch, there was a curtain and I stayed on the head side. I never like when people watch over my shoulder, not going to do it to the doctor. Good luck with 3.0. I'm having to really tighten up operations on the ship, we can't be as disorganized with three kids running around.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 06:58 PM
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Yeah, I'm really kinda dreading the 4-6 weeks because this time I'm on T shots, and my libido is through the roof. At least last time around I got an unsolicited BJ in the hospital. No expectations, no expectations, no expectations. Must remember.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 05:27 PM
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Heh. I don't know, was a made up number. To be honest, after 2 weeks, I'm pretty much going insane. I know that after the c-section coming up, we aren't supposed to have piv sex for 6 weeks. We usually break down after around 4 weeks. Pretty sure it has been a very, very long time since we have gone 4 days without. But I'm a very sexual guy, if I'm not getting my needs met (without a really good reason, e.g. major surgery) I'm out.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 05:20 PM
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Who does that? I generally look for the OYS posts with no responses to respond to so maybe I miss these, but is this really happening? 4 months with no sex and I'm meeting with a divorce attorney.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 05:10 PM
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I have found far more success explaining to my kids why it's in their best interest to do something, than either taking ownership of the request or farming it out to a higher power (society or god). The downside to this strategy is that it takes much more time than "because I said so." It also requires a cogent argument. Further, to really implement the strategy successfully, you have to be able to have no-holds-barred conversations with your kids, and be unafraid to share all the beauty and ugl…
/r/askMRP07/03/18 03:30 PM
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and another guy doing it would be kinda gay Yes, yes it would. injections for some of the guys on steroids back in high school This is apparently where I went wrong so long ago. Should have gotten on the needle.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/18 11:45 PM
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I definitely wouldn't want my wife to do it She has slightly shaky hands from asthma meds. No way. And I'm thinking that this is showing weakness to the wife, something we counsel against here. But mostly the shaky hands. You're not new to it anymore, and people almost never pass out from self-injection. I have had a needle phobia. Hehe. Fun times. I have almost passed out from others injecting/drawing blood, more than once. Yeah, I'm a pussy about needles.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/18 10:57 PM
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Subq into the love handles. My doc wanted me to go IM into the glutes, but with the twisting, being new to injecting, and my history of passing out, I thought the better of it. Would you aspirate for a subq injection? Truth be told, I have more than my fair share of large surface veins. I haven't entirely come to peace with having to inject, but I definitely wouldn't want my wife to do it. I think if I had to, I'd rather show my kid how to do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/18 09:38 PM
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TRT: This is still a rollercoaster. Libido is through the roof. Hunger is way up. Haven't been feeling great, I upped my protein intake (1 pound of meat before dinner) and that seems to be doing better for me. Measurements I have taken with the skulpt are really promising, but I'm not convinced yet. I'm still a pussy about injecting myself, need to get past my brain's prohibition on stabbing myself. It's causing far more bruising, etc, than if I were just decisive and jabbed it. Projects: Making…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/18 07:30 PM
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I second this. When making a repair, I generally estimate the cost to have someone repair it for me, and I have no problem spending up to that amount on parts and tools. Now you have the tools for your next project.
/r/askMRP04/03/18 01:37 AM
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I have let her sleep with a good 50 or so guys. Lol. How do you get from erection problems to watching your wife get fucked by 50 guys? If I were you, I'd divorce my wife and start over. You can't put the genie back in the bottle. Start lifting, and take the cock out of your mouth. OP, you really are a faggot. Edit: You both sound fat.
/r/askMRP03/03/18 06:12 PM
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With a basic knowledge of electronics you can fix a lot of things. I'll start you off here. Most appliances in the house heat or turn, or do both. When things that turn fail to do so, check the motor capacitors and relays/contactors that control them. If something fails to heat, it's either a failure in the element or the relay/contactor that controls them. That's not entirely true when electronics are involved. If you can eliminate the basics, often replacing capacitors on the board will fix th…
/r/askMRP03/03/18 04:31 PM
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Absolutely. Eldest kid is genius level now.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 04:50 PM
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Bro, I fear it's worse. When you stand in front of the mirror, cover one eye. Then compare with the pics on your phone. You can't compare a 3d image with a 2d image, because the 3d image always looks thinner because of depth. If you are over 25% (you probably are) you really should cut.
/r/askMRP02/03/18 02:36 AM
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It really helps. Encourage any success any at all. Then hold out for more next time. When my eldest was having reluctance speaking (we taught her sign language young) I'd sit there with M&Ms and make her say something for each piece.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 02:33 AM
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Yeah, and then there's the whole indulging people's psychological problems. Instead of pumping boys full of estrogen, they need a double dose of T. Fix em right up. Don't feel like a man? You will! It's just getting absurd out there.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 02:29 AM
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I'm 5'10" about 175lbs at 20-22% BF and have almost 225 bench. I also have terribly long arms which fucks me on bench. I suspect your caliper measurement is off. That, or you are a T-Rex. I find a better measure is just eyeballing it on one of those pictures like these: https://duckduckgo.com/?q=bodyfat+pictures&ia=images
/r/askMRP01/03/18 08:42 PM
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My wife started going to the gym but only after I had started making serious gains. 1000 foot rope analogy applies here.
/r/askMRP01/03/18 08:09 PM
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And because I see myself as who I am and better yet can be, I do deserve desire from my partner. How did I miss this? No one sees the you that you could be. People only see you as the person you are. Your potential doesn't mean shit. You think that crack whore under the bridge doesn't have potential? You think anyone gives two fucks? No. I don't know how I was so light on you in my earlier response.
/r/askMRP01/03/18 08:08 PM
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I thought I lived in a redneck place, then my 5 year old starts talking to me about how 2 women can get married. Fucking liberal day care.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/18 02:50 PM
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Hmm. Somehow I missed that. Still a gay username, the only difference is it wasn't accidental I suppose. Yeah, I used to be pretty laid back myself, then all of a sudden, gay is being pushed to our kids and bakers are forced to make gay wedding cakes. I'm less laid back now.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/18 02:44 PM
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I was /u/peggedbyowlette not literally. Good, that was a really gay username. Not sad to see it gone. I have allowed My wife to infect my brain with worry about my youngest son, he's almost 3 and not taking yet. I have handled shit, booked appointments with our doctor and filled out the paperwork for a speech pathologist. Medical problems with kids suck. The best thing you can do is put a happy face on and hope for the best. Have you tried doing some sign language? Also, have you started holding…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 09:26 PM
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My concern is if her words are true and it is a physical flaw in her perception of me, am I wasting my time not putting money aside and learning about Co-parenting options, Etc.. So, what if it's true, that she's not attracted to you? Maybe you are a fat fuck. Maybe you are a scary skelly. My problem with all this is you act like you have no agency. The whole MRP philosophy is about being attractive. So be attractive, and someone will be attracted to you. Maybe it will even be your wife.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 04:24 PM
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I was trying, after all the advice I received from this thread that my next post would be the start of my OYS, two months into MRP (in two weeks) instead of this victim puke.. Two months isn't shit. Why are you having these conversations? Why are you expecting results? You are what is wrong with society. You touch iron and want to post to instagram that they did curls with a pair of 10lb weights. Then you hop on tinder with your 10lb curl selfie in the gym bathroom mirror, and wonder why the bit…
/r/askMRP28/02/18 03:18 PM
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The wife knows what I like, I have never been shy about telling her that. If she were to ask, I'd answer as a connoisseur, a perverted connoisseur. Extra points if your response makes her think about the targeted woman performing a sex act upon you. I actually enjoy giving the wife some discomfort, it's funny. I may get pinched or punched, but she always has a twinkle in her eye when she does it.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 01:58 PM
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Hmm. I don't know if she's my type. <pause> You think she can suck dick like a pro? <strokes imaginary beard> Because that's definitely worth another 2 points. That would make her a solid 8. Hehehe. My wife never asks me these questions, because she knows I'd answer them, graphically.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 03:34 AM
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Yeah, I did that about six months ago. Fancy new memory foam mattress, 13 inches thick. I might actually sleep in the kid's bed one night to see how I fare. Thankfully (?), I don't have to worry about T production anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 11:47 PM
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My sleep could be better. It has improved since I have started pinning, but I have back pain at night. If I move much in my sleep, the low back pain can wake me up. Strangely enough, my back doesn't bother me much at all during the day unless I do something really awkward. But turning over in bed, that's instant pain. I do exercises to strengthen my core and low back, hasn't fully cured it yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 10:30 PM
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Also fitted two new ceiling lights and sorted out some LED bulbs as we wasted loads of money on the halogen ones in the past the blow ever few weeks. I did a quick winter check on both cars topped up oil and fluids, checked tires. Damn halogen bulbs, just converted two ceiling fans to use 3 led corncobs instead of one halogen. Got tired of changing them all the damn time and they were 8$ a bulb. Sounds like you are getting shit done around the house, good job. Cutting is a good idea now, you wil…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 10:13 PM
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Assuming 10,000ui in a 10ml vial (pretty common) that's 200iu per dose (0.2ml), which is a fairly normal dose.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 07:39 PM
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20 iu of HCG is a really small dose. Did you leave off a zero or do you really take that small of an amount?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 07:16 PM
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How long have you been pinning? About four weeks. I'm not one to be patient, but I think I should give it at least another month before asking the doc to change things up. It took me almost a year and 3 doctors to find a regimen that worked for me. If shit doesn't feel right and your doctor isn't figuring out, find a new one. Damn. What regimen did you end up at? I think my doc does a good job I just like to have a plan going in.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 06:35 PM
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Yes, timing was a little off, and I'm not making any decisions based on this number, I just wanted a ballpark. Edit: Actually, timing was under 60 hours, but before 5 weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 06:32 PM
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Make sure you have copies of your labs. Original copies, not some shit the T-shop wrote on paper for you. This is essential. I don't necessarily have a problem with getting gouged for a while, as long as you are getting the service you are paying for. No one is paying 85$ for 6 months, that's the price for the T alone, you are going to spend money on the doctor too, even if you are injecting at home. I spend 175 quarterly on a doc visit, and 48 on my T, which comes out to roughly $225 per quarte…
/r/askMRP27/02/18 03:29 PM
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TRT: This is so confusing. For the past three days, I have been dead tired past 2pm. Can't get any energy to do anything. Could be allergies, could be a virus (youngest had a 103 fever), could be something wrong with the TRT. Got my bloodwork back, 600TT day before injection (160mg split 2x week). I'm not terribly impressed. Anyone do bloodwork at peak and nadir? For shits and giggles, I took a clomid today. Also not going to take arimidex today. We'll see if that changes anything. Mission: Ok e…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 03:18 PM
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Get the threesome, even if you dont touch the other girl. According to my official threesome rulebook, it doesn't qualify as a threesome if any bodily fluid from at least two (2) girls doesn't touch your dick.
/r/askMRP27/02/18 03:08 PM
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It's not a lack of abundance though. It's my ego. You don't even know what abundance is. Failure to understand that is your ego.
/r/askMRP27/02/18 03:04 PM
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Fuck, stop wargaming everything. You sound like a total autist. You sound like what I was. Take a deep breath. Are you lifting? You don't sound like you are, because if you were, you would know you could get another girl and you wouldn't be doing 3D chess in your head over every utterance she makes.
/r/askMRP27/02/18 02:45 AM
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From other post: Stats: 5' 4", 157Lbs, Bf 22.1%, 35yo SQ 95, OHP 55, DL 110, BP 77, ROW 77 Dude, slow your roll. You obviously just started lifting yesterday. If you went 3 years without fucking, you need to get your T checked. You also sound like a whiny bitch. The STFU rule was invented for you. Avail yourself of it. Every time you think you want to open your mouth to bitch at your wife, you need to go lift. I nominate you for winner of "Most likely to go Rambo" category.
/r/askMRP24/02/18 04:21 PM
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IIRC the half-life of prozac is 16 days. Don't be fooled by being off a week that you are all clear to dump it completely. I have seen this happen in other people. They take their meds, feel great, decide they don't need it anymore, they are ok for a few weeks, then they go off the fucking rails.
/r/askMRP24/02/18 02:55 PM
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You didn't list your age, or the names of the meds. First, I would handle your hormone issues. If you are low T or have thyroid problems, getting those fixed is a game changer. I do also take small doses of an AA med, vallium. Half a 5mg pill, twice a week. It really helps calm myself down a bit and help with clarity in decision making. Getting your T corrected can seriously impact your libido. Make sure you are lifting so you have a very willing partner.
/r/askMRP24/02/18 02:52 PM
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But not something most here need to be concerning themselves with.
/r/askMRP21/02/18 05:52 PM
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Is there such thing as a beta male of the group? Funny. The beta is a backup plan only, if case the alpha pumps and dumps. No women seek out betas if there's something better around.
/r/askMRP21/02/18 03:57 PM
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This announcement has been brought to you by blackdragon and the letter "S".
/r/askMRP21/02/18 02:42 PM
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I’ve had everyone in my immediate family come at me at some point over the past few months in anger about my (“disrespectful behavior”?); my father included. I had no idea they’ve all been talking about how I’ve changed and it’s bothering them. Their problem, not mine. Your wife is feeding this. You need to address it directly with her. If she has problems with you, she needs to come to you. There's no reason for her to try to get others against you. Either it's you and her as a team, or it's he…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 06:41 PM
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Things are going well overall. 5'10.5" 155lbs, 11% bodyfat. I'm lifting more in squats and deadlifts but my bench press is stagnant. (185lbs squat and DL but 145 benchpress) You need to eat bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 06:38 PM
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There are usually some “OK, but let’s hurry” type comments from her. Sometimes, it's just logistics.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 06:37 PM
3

Radical Honesty I have, for the most part, practiced this. There's some level of nuance to it, you have to have a sense of humor about it, or you are just a gloomy asshole. I tend to give a mischievous grin when delivering rough truth, and maybe an intentionally out of place ass grab and rub. Sometimes I'm quick enough to avoid the retaliation, could be a hard nipple pinch, sometimes a belly poke, but I'm always laughing about it, completely unafraid of making her irritated or angry.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 05:13 PM
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TRT: Got blood drawn today. The results should be interesting. Feel pretty darn good. Libido came roaring back this weekend, I was pretty damn rough with the wife. The analytical part wonders if being OI is going to be harder when I'm actually much more interested in fucking, or whether being forceful with my desires actually would lead to not being turned down much. It's really an academic argument at this point, I haven't been turned down in a very long time. Lifting: Going ok. I started doing…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 05:07 PM
7

Shadowbanned is when a reddit admin (not subreddit admin) decides you need to be removed from the site. They don't outright ban you, the make it so no one can see your posts. Sometimes you can see that a shadowbanned user made a post if the number of comments (top of page) doesn't equal the number of comments you actually see. In this case, I think there was a bug / slow server / something else maybe because after I posted, I didn't see my comment either. I think there were almost 10 comments in…
/r/askMRP18/02/18 05:16 PM
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Someone here is shadowbanned. Now to respond to the OP. The problem is that there are incentives towards lying about the real world. Both from women, who benefit from hiding hypergamy, and from men, who avoid competition by obfuscating the truth. Then there's the feelgood pap that is lapped up by people, both men and women, who don't want to know the truth, would rather believe the pretty lies.
/r/askMRP18/02/18 01:35 PM
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No, but I don't know about you, I don't hear much mention of Corinthians outside of religious circles. Maybe you do.
/r/askMRP18/02/18 01:32 PM
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Because I was curious I was curious curious
/r/askMRP17/02/18 07:58 PM
4

Not gay myself Then exactly why are you here wasting our time with this question? Are you only a faggot on vacation?
/r/askMRP17/02/18 07:04 PM
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I concur. She will be someone else's problem soon. Why are you worrying about who she fucked?
/r/askMRP17/02/18 02:19 PM
1

Even if you aren't religious, I do recommend people read the most printed book in the history of the world. It gives context on so many things. Skip Luke and it's faggotry though. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Epistle_to_the_Corinthians
/r/askMRP16/02/18 09:54 PM
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My friend sent me a message telling me my wife was acting different and on the phone most of the time. He mentioned he was getting a weird vibe. You don't need a PI, you have your answer right there. I'm sorry bro.
/r/askMRP16/02/18 06:40 PM
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Username checks out.
/r/askMRP16/02/18 06:38 PM
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If your a gym rat, you could easily burn up your T and your results would be low for a given test. I need a citation for this level of bullshit.
/r/askMRP16/02/18 04:35 PM
1

It sucks, I just want to be normal. At least I'm getting some real gains. 2 weeks of lifting and not paying much attention to my diet (eat if I'm hungry), I have put on more muscle than in the past 6 months with strict diet and lifting.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 04:27 PM
1

LOL. Ok, I'll bite. crashed e2 no motionless depressed yes ultimate jerk no clicky joints yes greasy skin maybe low strength - have set some PRs, I think I overestimate my recovery hell no balls hanging too low high e2 not since injecting, but on clomid yes little pussy ass bitch who cries when someone dies in a movie maybe today argues like teenage girls, wife baited me good today. no destroys all rep PRs yes puffy cheeks yes balls way too high yes acne unknown hair loss - I shave my head Seems…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 04:16 PM
2

"Women are still being tied to the tracks, but now they have got to be raped first." You can look to 50 Shades to blame for that. Women like to read about rape. Women consume far more of these types of books than men do. Authors are just playing to the audience, who is glad to vote with their dollars.
/r/askMRP14/02/18 07:14 PM
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I am in the US. The lab was Clinical Pathology Laboratories. The e2 range is literally "<=60.7". There is a note "Values in the range of 17-25 pg/ml may demonstrate increased imprecision. Clinical correlation is recommended." So it's not the "sensitive" test, however the results for me have been tightly clustered, and the test was high when I expected it to be. I have copies of the actual results sent from the lab, no editing. Doc is a family friend, and as a cash only doc, he is very customer s…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/18 06:52 PM
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Yeah, I think a lot of this comes down to tuning for what your body is ok with. This is truly tinkering with how your body is regulated, and like so many other things, I think genetics plays a big part. Thank you for talking this out with me, though I don't agree with everything, it has definitely helped me think things through.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/18 03:30 PM
1

Maybe deal with the nips for a few days and see if your sex drive comes back. Well, I just had to up my AI slightly because I was having a problem taking a piss. That's a new one. I have been prone to acne and I'm greasy as fuck right now, thankfully, my skin regimen is on point, so I can just up the frequency and be ok. I think my libido is coming back, just slowly. Had a sex dream last night and fucked the wife this morning. No struggle getting it up this time. What's funny is when my T was at…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/18 02:57 PM
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You could very well be crashing your E2 since you have trickle truth that you are taking an AI :) Ok, you got me. "Running anything else" sounded more sexy (tren, deca, etc) than the 1/8mg arimidex per day than I take. I vary the dose slightly based on nipple itchyness and I'm always testing lower doses to see if I can decrease the dose. I have had e2 tested 4 times (after initial test of 35) over the past two years and it was always between 21 and 25. Range is <=60. So my dosing is decently acc…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/18 03:04 AM
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That is surprising you reacted well to Clomid. Most guys it doesn’t do anything to their T. Oh, stuff usually works for me pretty fast. Unfortunately, I get all the side effects too. I didn't notice while on clomid, but after I quit, I noticed that I did have clouding of my vision when I was on clomid. Two weeks for it to kick in then 4 for your body to figure it out and adjust E2 accordingly. If you are already around 500 I wouldn’t be surprised if you come in well over 1200 on 160 a week. This…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/18 02:11 AM
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500-600 is low at 160mg a week of Test-C. You sure you are testing in the correct window and doing IM injections per schedule? I was unclear in my prior post. The 500-600 TT and the 300 TT were both on clomid. I edited my post for clarity. 2 weeks ago I was put on T Cyp and next week I plan on getting blood work. Wow, how did you get the doc to give you 250mg/week? Are you having to donate blood often?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/18 12:42 AM
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Yeah, I might end up there too.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 10:45 PM
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Early 40s. TT was 190 before I went on clomid. For one year on clomid TT was 500-600. Next year on clomid, slow slide down to 300TT. Presented doc with fancy excel graph of bloodwork, got immediately put on TCyp two weeks ago. I didn't have euphoria on clomid, so I'm assuming injections did get me higher than TT of 600. Right now, libido is low. Not non-existent like it was, but certainly low. I'm not running anything else except B12.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 10:44 PM
1

That it is becuase it is different for each person. 160mg a week for me is a mini-blast and puts me over 1300 easily. I'm starting to suspect that I filter T out pretty quickly, but that's purely conjecture until I get some blood drawn. I surely don't feel like I'm over the top of the range.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 10:03 PM
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I do every other day and it works for me. That's a lot considering a half-life of a week. What are your e2 and SHBG levels? When on clomid, SHBG was near top quartile of the range. I keep e2 at a level in the 20s. If it goes any higher, my itchy nipples let me know to up the dose. Currently I microdose around 1/8mg arimidex daily. I also take HCG, which keeps my testes from shrinking, but it also enhances my mood and helps with the troughs -- anecdotally though Yeah, a lot of guys seem to report…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 09:59 PM
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I'm injecting 2x a week. Think I should go more frequently? I don't think he would care if I injected daily, they aren't holes in his ass. Kind of sucks that I injected Saturday and by Monday was feeling like crap. That's only two days later.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 07:23 PM
1

I had been shaving it myself at home for the past few weeks. Consider just using a pair of clippers and cutting it short. No stubble, no ingrown hairs.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 03:40 PM
2

TRT: Damn, I came down from my euphoric first week. If I could bottle that feeling, I'd make a lot of money. Have been researching injections more, I really didn't research much about it when I was on SERMs. It shall be interesting to see my levels after a few weeks, there's quite a range of opinions about 160mg/week T ranging from "mini blast" to barely get you above midrange. Yesterday, I had a bit of rage which usually happens when I'm low. I'm going to get blood drawn next week for sure. Lif…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 02:55 PM
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CVS is a real pain in the ass. They will only give you 1mL bottles, no more than four at a time, so you have to keep going back in there. I stopped using them. Funny, my doc warned me not to take 1ml bottles and wrote on the script that it should be dispensed as a 10ml bottle. I got mine from CVS and they did hassle me that I should throw it away after 30 days, I told them I'd take it under consideration. Not planning on doing that. You can get anything really cheap if you don't mind printing a …
/r/askMRP11/02/18 06:29 PM
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My personal concern is what is the best route to take to get some coverage from insurance? You are going to pull your hair out getting them to pay. It's not worth your time, and if it is, your time would be better spent finding some way, any way, to make money. Mow some lawns. If you are secondary hypogonadism, clomid costs 45$ for 3 months. If you are primary hypogonadism, T Cyp costs 42$ for 3 months. Arimidex costs 20$ for 6 months worth. Stay away from pellets and fancy creams, and you won't…
/r/askMRP11/02/18 04:15 PM
2

Your body will burn fat first then muscle later. Depending on your level of T.
/r/askMRP10/02/18 03:10 PM
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but my father pointed me here so I thought I'd make a post. Hehehe. Your father has an awesome sense of humor. I don't know who he is, but I like him already.
/r/askMRP10/02/18 03:16 AM
2

Yeah, my youngest daughter chases the cat, pulls the tail, etc and sometimes get scratched, probably deservedly. Who does the cat like the most? Youngest daughter. Seems that rough attention is still attention.
/r/askMRP09/02/18 05:37 PM
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My wife pulled that shit once. I pulled my arm back, made a fist, looked straight at her and said "If my reflexes take over, I will level you. Do not do that again." She never did.
/r/askMRP09/02/18 04:47 PM
2

Right now, I did one and my low back told me I was treading on thin ice. I could usually do 270x3 or so. Lately, I haven't been pushing myself as hard at the heavy weights and after my heaviest set, I back off to 60% weight and do 3-4 more sets of 5 there. 3 plates here is 315lbs (143kg). 35lbs more seems so far away. On the plus side, it's fairly unheard of for me to injure my low back and then come back two weeks later and set a PR. So maybe I'm on the right track.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/18 03:18 PM
2

I'm glad I can add anything to the bar on deadlift. I'm only at 280lbs, really just want to hit 3 plates. I have been stuck at 27x for two years now. From what I have read, the dose I'm on won't put me out of the range, will probably end up around 800 TT. It is a 500 point jump however.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/18 12:01 AM
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I think that over time, people get sloppy. But really, he needs to divorce her ass, anything else is just morbid curiosity. Really, the thing to do here is, get all the paperwork together, then take the phone. Don't mention it and watch her scour the house for a few days.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 04:03 PM
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Well, yeah, you have to come to peace with giving that up. You need to replace it with something else. TSM can't help you if you don't actually want to change things. Neither can we, faggot.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 03:46 PM
1

My depression and alcoholism makes me unmotivated. But you repeat yourself. Go on The Sinclair Method, cure your alcoholism. Here's my post on it. Feel free to hit me up if you have questions. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4ph7ps/my_journey_with_alcohol_and_a_way_out/
/r/askMRP07/02/18 03:33 PM
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Agree with SSS. Lawyer up and do what you need to do. For shits and giggles, you can buy a voice activated recorder and leave it where you think she will be talking. The bedroom is a good bet.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 03:30 PM
2

How does one remember to be happy? Maybe it’s better to remember a man needs very little to be happy and that which displeases you is most likely trivial. That's a pretty good summary. Sometimes I get lost in the day-to-day struggle and forget the big picture. In regards to TRT here’s a pro tip. Order some needles at 27g 1in. Use the horse needles the doctor most likely gave you to draw from the vial and then swap for the 27g. Much easier plus less scar tissue in the long run. You can go as smal…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 03:18 PM
1

Workout A: Squat 5×5, Bench Press 5×5, Barbell Row 5×5 Workout B: Squat 5×5, Overhead Press 5×5, Deadlift 1×5 Well, you have 10x volume on squats than DL. Since you run Squat 2x as much, you have 2x the progressions. With SL, every time you make your lifts, the weight goes up. To this day, my squat is around 260 and my DL is only 280. Can't say I have made much more progress on 531 myself, but I have other issues (low T) going on.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 03:09 PM
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That's what happens on SL, since you squat more often than you DL.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 10:15 PM
2

I went through this, I thought it was because the wife was preggo. Turns out my clomid stopped working. Have you had you T checked lately? Fatherhood is known to lower T.
/r/askMRP06/02/18 04:30 PM
1

Oof. I concur with T_L. OP, you are a faggot, you are a DYEL, you don't need to worry about imbalances. You do need to worry about keeping cock out of your mouth.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 03:22 PM
1

If you are a beginner, any program will work just fine for you. Start with StrongLifts or another beginner program. There's no reason to pay money for a program when you should be spending that money on food or fitness gear.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 03:19 PM
2

Plates/IOI: I am approaching this as more of “get out of your aspie, never talk to anyone ways.” I got a haircut and chatted with the stylist, making dumb comments and jokes about my bald spot. She seemed to think it was cheesy, but, hey, first step is opening your mouth. Shave your head and go from cheesy jokes to rugged silent badboy. You are big (fat) enough to pull that off right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 03:17 PM
2

Once I complete something difficult I tend to bask, or reward myself too much with down time rather than immediately moving on to the next thing. Yeah, it's a balance. I have the opposite issue. I forget my wins damn near instantly and am on to the next thing. You might consider making a list of all your outstanding items so you always have something new ready to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 03:15 PM
1

Lift more, eat more. Are you on a lifting program?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 03:12 PM
2

The Needle: Doc put me on 150mg TCyp and 1000mg b12. I'm as high as a fucking kite. The unfortunate thing is that I know this can't possibly last, homeostastis shall return and I'll come crashing to earth. For now, I'm enjoying it. Still kind of wierd injecting myself, but that should pass. Remember to be Happy: Fuck that, I am happy. I don't have to power through to happiness anymore, I catch myself with a grin on my face for no particular reason. Annoying that it all came down to a needle and …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 02:27 PM
1

You are welcome, faggot. We are all gonna make it.
/r/askMRP05/02/18 07:38 PM
4

I agree with this sentiment, however, you must know the local market and know the general direction of the market. You can do ok just buying a duplex, you can do very well if you see what others don't see.
/r/askMRP05/02/18 04:59 PM
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I'm staring to think this is the effect of no gym time in the past 9 mos. no gym time in the past 9 mos no gym time To the hazing machine! We have a faggot on the line!
/r/askMRP03/02/18 11:48 PM
1

The largest of these is that despite your style, training, and experience you have to be willing to do violence on someone. This is the most difficult thing to overcome. You have to connect with another human body. I have been in a few fights in my time, though not recently. I have to say, never have I once been concerned for my opponent.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/18 01:34 AM
1

The real question here is what are you doing to be a man whose gf actually wants to see on a day off? I don't see anything about your lifts nor weight.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 03:15 PM
1

Could have been the b12 he gave me with it. I'm really not sold on the b12 I feel hungover as hell today. Yeah, once I get settled, I think I'm going to go with a 2x a week shooting subq. Something small like a 29ga 5/8" needle or so. Definitely going to keep an eye on E2, I have some arimidex just in case. Doc didn't mention anything about HCG, but I'll see how I feel.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/18 07:57 PM
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Your default strategy here should be not to mention Jane X and not contact Jane X. If she hasn't pulled the trigger on you, she might not ever. Do not make contact with Jane X, you do not want to be top of mind. You are a faded memory, and you should stay that way.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/18 11:48 PM
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Hehe, just got back from the Dr appt. He took one look at my graph, and said, time for shots! Before I know it, I'm bent over the table by the nurse, she shoots one into my glute, and I walk out with a script for 150mg/week. Kind of buzzed at the moment, this might be more T than has ever been in my system before.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/18 11:42 PM
1

Yeah, I'm sure I'm overreacting. A door is closing on me, and I don't seem have any choice in it. It's a lot easier to be stoic when everything is going your way.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/18 05:55 PM
2

I just do not feel much like initiating much these days, I am feeling really resigned of attempting sex with her. I am feeling as if my attempts are result in marginal sex. You don't go from no sex for a year directly to pornstar sex. Why do you think you deserve pornstar sex if you can't be bothered to initiate? Here is a fill in the blank exercise. ???? ???? Pornstar sex What do you think the first two steps here are? I'll give you a hint, it's not "get angry", it's not "blame the wife", it's …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/18 04:35 PM
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SERM Failure: Well, last week, I thought tamoxifen failed me. Something didn't sit right with me, so I entered all my TT results in excel and made a graph. Apparently, clomid did great for me for about a year, but has been steadily decreasing in effectiveness for the second year. Tamoxifen has nothing to do with it, the result of tamoxifen is right on the overall clomid trend line. I have an appointment with the doc this week to discuss options. I'm pretty sure the needle is in my future. Flower…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/18 03:40 PM
2

Good, most people don't get to that place. They read and read, but getting real world feedback is essential. Work out some patterns that work for you, some themes you are good at riffing on, etc. I'm also a fan of not hitting on those who are paid to be nice to you, i.e. anyone working when you are talking to them. Waitresses, bartenders, clerks, etc. You just don't get proper calibration when they aren't free to shoot you down with impunity.
/r/askMRP30/01/18 05:09 AM
1

Well, I wasn't around in the 60s, so maybe it's not all that different. But the trend line I'm seeing in my personal life, and online isn't good. Used to be that "reasonable people can disagree." I haven't heard that phrase in over 10 years, possibly more. Now, it seems that merely supporting Trump or the Republicans is cause for violence. Further, the Democrats seem to live for stirring up unrest among different groups and stoking the fires. Personally, I have never felt the need to hide my pol…
/r/askMRP29/01/18 11:21 PM
2

Read all you want, but there is no substitute for going out and getting shot down innumerable times. Go out and make sure you get shot down at least 3 times a night. Then up it to five. Then five and a phone number. Etc.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 10:28 PM
1

Just because I think the conditions are right for something to happen, doesn't mean that I think I know all the answers about how it will happen. If you know your recent world history, a casus belli can come from anywhere. An assassination of an archduke, a fruit vendor self-immolating. These things aren't predictable, like the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back, you don't know which particular straw will make it happen, but in reality, it's the accumulation.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 10:09 PM
1

A bread and circus by any other name would smell as sweet.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 04:04 PM
1

"The average age of the world's greatest civilizations from the beginning of history, has been about 200 years. During those 200 years, these nations always progressed through the following sequence: From bondage to spiritual faith; From spiritual faith to great courage; From courage to liberty; From liberty to abundance; From abundance to complacency; From complacency to apathy; From apathy to dependence; From dependence back into bondage." -- Alexander Tyler, 1887 Just because leftists don't h…
/r/askMRP29/01/18 04:00 PM
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I think the purifying fire of a civil war will engulf us within a generation. From the ashes, marriage will come back.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 03:07 AM
1

I feel like I need to punish myself in order to start over and built back up. Fucked up, isn’t it? Fuck it. That’s how I feel. I shaved my head, partly as punishment for my being a pussy. So what's stopping you? Do what you need to do and then pick yourself up again.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 03:03 AM
2

The scissors was a great idea, but done in the heat of the moment, just seems provocative and angry. If you had done it without her there, probably would have taken a week for her to even notice.
/r/askMRP28/01/18 03:24 PM
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That was true with my ex-wife as well. As soon as we split up, however, she dropped about 20 pounds and became almost too thin, and kept the weight off. It's funny how the answers are right in front of us, but we refuse to see them. What's the common factor in this equation? Could it be you? I'm ok with subbing out manual labor for lifting for short periods of time, but how is your diet? Are you eating like shit?
/r/askMRP26/01/18 03:57 PM
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You are, at best, skinnyfat and at worst a scary skeleton. You are not attractive. You have 4.5 inches on me and 10 lbs. By my calculations, you are missing 30 lbs of muscle. Keep lifting bro. BTW, crossfit isn't lifting.
/r/askMRP26/01/18 03:54 PM
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I could imagine nothing worse than being shackled to a bad wife (even if you divorce you will never be entirely rid of her) by having kids. Keep reading here, you will learn the warning signs. Even a good wife has her bad days, believe me, you want these to be as few as possible. Third kid on the way.
/r/askMRP26/01/18 03:51 PM
2

You missed my point entirely. Go back, and re-read my post slowly, and with emphasis. I bolded the relevant portion for you.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 06:26 PM
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Don't ever threaten me with that bull shit again. I took it further and said that such a malicious threat was worth taking to the elders of our church and asking them to get involved if she doesn't change her tune. Don't ever assume that others will side with you, the man, over a woman. Ever. For any reason. If I were you, I'd get a big battery for my phone and have it running 24/7 on record.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 05:07 PM
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There are so many layers of being a pussy here, it's like a fucking onion.
/r/askMRP24/01/18 05:36 PM
1

Hehe. Me and my wife make combined around 100k. Back before I started my business, combined were making around 200k or so. This was money from the old days. We never lived like we were making money. In other news, I need to close my business and go back into programming.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 02:52 PM
2

Hmmm. I watched the whole thing. I'm not sure this is a cyclical thing, but I sure could use a larger dose of "let it happen." I have been pretty bitter about feeling like shit (allergies) lately and it has been getting me down. On the plus side, I found 10k today that I didn't know I had lost. It is now time to get my financial house in order and go through my filing cabinet.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 03:40 AM
2

The Plague, Encore Performance: Well fuck, youngest has the flu, confirmed by doc. Second time this season. Wife gets it, I put them both into quarantine. So far, me and the other child haven't gotten it, or we got it very light. Stir Crazy: We have all been taking it easy to keep our strength up. I have also been making sure to eat, continuing to cut in the face of the flu is pretty much a guaranteed way to catch it. I closed out a lot of projects last week, rest of them are in a holding patter…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 04:35 PM
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What a shit-show. Pull yourself together man.
/r/askMRP23/01/18 04:19 PM
3

Fuck, nice lifts. I stayed angry until I got closer to my physical goals. I have never really been one to think about the past, I always have blocked it out as much as I could. Focus on now and tomorrow. Yesterday is gone.
/r/askMRP23/01/18 02:08 AM
2

Well, that's one way of getting the latest model phone.
/r/askMRP22/01/18 03:23 PM
17

I would have laughed and told her to look harder for my burner phone.
/r/askMRP22/01/18 04:50 AM
1

I like to agree, but then put a twist on it that makes it worse. E.g. "Yeah, I don't know what he was thinking banging the maid over the washing machine. I mean, he's Arnold. He could go down to the local bar and pull some quality tail. Arnold has a reputation to uphold, what would his fans think? How can I look up to the guy when he's just taking the easy road?" Say it with a straight face and they won't fuck with you anymore. I said a variant of this the other day to my wife with my FIL presen…
/r/askMRP21/01/18 05:01 PM
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Hey awesome summary, good to see people putting effort into their posts.
/r/askMRP20/01/18 04:30 PM
3

I conceal just fine with solid colors. Buy a good holster and gun belt. thebeltman does nice work for a reasonable price. I'm also a fan of comp-tac.
/r/askMRP20/01/18 02:12 AM
1

the nazi state in question just changed the law last year. it's not legislative but instead is run by "pharmacy board" or some such horseshit. i suspect the FI is trying to keep us down. i'm only 1/2 joking. Sounds like you are in blue territory. Hopping across state borders might be an option.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 04:57 PM
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about $200 per month; but research this week is already showing me i could cut this almost in 1/2 just by not using company endorsed pharmacy. shocking i know . . . My copays are 40$. In almost every instance I get my generic scripts filled for less than that. If you wanted to really squeeze some pennies, I have heard of people using a "goodrx" card to get the scripts even cheaper. The card is free, and it's only a few bucks off at costco, but it's quite a bit off at chain pharmacies. I'm not aw…
/r/askMRP19/01/18 03:05 PM
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I pay a "concierge doc" 180 per visit, I have to go in quarterly. Tamoxifen costs about 20$ a month at 20mg/day. Arimidex costs about 30$ a year at 1/8mg per day. Blood work is covered by my health insurance. I have secondary hypogonadism (balls work, pituitary isn't calling for T) so I'm not forced to inject, though I may go that route. If your are primary hypogonadism (balls don't work) that route isn't open. However, injectable T also runs about 20$ a month or so. In the US, generics are very…
/r/askMRP19/01/18 02:42 PM
1

Yep. 80% of Canadian population lives within 50 miles of the US border. OP, work it out.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 05:45 PM
1

I pay for my T treatment out of pocket. It's not that expensive if you don't get put on fancy name brand gels. Didn't feel like screwing with my insurance.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 04:45 PM
1

Yeah, they recommend not running SARMs without a test base because SARMs do suppress your natural production of T. I ran some LGD and after two weeks it felt like my balls were in a vice.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 11:55 PM
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People coming off AAS cycles will go a fair bit higher than that, FWIW. And it's a bad idea based in bro-science. I have read a great number of the available scientific studies on clomid and nolva and there's no good reason anyone can give me for such high doses.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 10:27 PM
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Step the dose down to 50mgs??? WTF were you taking? You really shouldn't be taking more than 25mgs a day, and you should really see if you can get along with less. Some guys are ok on 12.5mgs 3x a week. Clomid has side effects, and you will start seeing them quickly on 50mgs/day. Concur with the other poster, that's a lot of speed you are taking. It's definitely at least part of your anger and lack of sleep.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 07:26 PM
1

The Cut: Scale said 172 the other day, not sure I believe it. Need to do a few more weigh-ins. Lifting: Dip belt arrived. Only put 10lbs on it for chinups and dips. Going to be sore. Lifts are off, so working on form and adding volume. Projects: Scratched a bunch off my list. It's nice after piling things on my list when I'm finally able to complete them. Mission: Not much progress, tree pollen allergies are kicking my ass. Frame: Pregnant wife has been fairly hormonal lately. Been taking a lot …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 07:18 PM
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Formula for a joke: Well what about <something weird you know she doesn't do> ? Oh, you don't like that too? Hmm. <shrug> Is it me or are the new noobs more autistic than usual?
/r/askMRP15/01/18 10:56 PM
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The answer is that you are asking the wrong question. You are so far up your wife's ass that you can't comprehend action that isn't in response to your wife. We call that "lack of frame" here, but that doesn't directly address things. How does one have frame? To have frame one must consider what you want first. It has nothing to do with what your wife wants. You won't get a satisfactory answer to a question that begins with what your wife wants, because if you ask that question, you have already…
/r/askMRP15/01/18 05:26 PM
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I just find it completely unhelpful to use male terms and apply them to women. It isn't the same and we shouldn't use the same words. Women don't form packs, and if you think women can form loyal durable hierarchies, you haven't been around here enough.
/r/askMRP15/01/18 05:19 PM
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So, here’s my askMRP question. My wife’s feminine imperative pushed me to Married Red Pill; doesn’t that mean that by pushing me to rediscover my own frame, that I am submitting to her? In other words, am I doing what she has wanted me to do for so many years—be a Man? Don't think too hard about it. There are contradictions here that can fry your brain if you do. Be a man for whatever reason you need to for now. Hopefully along the way, it will be for you. Also, let me disavow you of the notion …
/r/askMRP15/01/18 05:37 AM
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Is it a miracle drug? I think so. Here's my write up on my experience. It answers all your questions. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4ph7ps/my_journey_with_alcohol_and_a_way_out/
/r/askMRP14/01/18 11:39 PM
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Well, certainly I think this falls into the "no talking about fight club". I don't talk about my lifting and goals for that, I would hope he wouldn't talk about the naltrexone. I didn't mention it to my wife when I was doing it.
/r/askMRP14/01/18 11:34 PM
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Naltrexone is the difference between needing willpower, hearing the siren song of alcohol, and walking through a bar without the thought of getting a beer. It offers the holy grail for alcohol dependency, indifference. Now I don't know about you, but I have enough temptations in my life without alcohol taking up a piece of my willpower. I never considered myself an alcoholic, but, in 3 pills, naltrexone changed my life. /u/sirenigmagiraffe I hope you don't change your plan to start the sinclair …
/r/askMRP14/01/18 05:31 AM
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I've been having this problem when we go out, my LTR starts checking out guys. The whole Up and Down look. The hair flip whenever she glances at them. I mean, it's obvious af. Shit test or not, this is a red flag. Ever hear of the marshmallow test? Sounds like she would fail it. You also sound fat as fuck. Lift more.
/r/askMRP13/01/18 03:17 PM
1

I don't need a study to know I sleep like shit. I toss and turn all damn night, can't seem to get comfortable. I was a stomach sleeper, but it was causing me all kinds of back and shoulder pain. Now I sleep on my side, but I flop around. Shoulders are a lot better now, still have some low back pain in the morning. I'm trying to sleep on my back, but it hasn't been working so well. It's allergy season for me now, so I'm drugging the shit out of myself with antihistamines at night, which seems to …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/18 02:40 PM
1

Good for all occasions. http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/7cd2e1d8f0/dick-in-a-box-uncensored
/r/askMRP11/01/18 08:13 PM
1

but I'm just going to repeatedly write and say the weird sounds that all sound the same until it somewhat sinks in. That's pretty much learning most languages. It's a brute force process. In that time, I'm going to look for more work Do you really think that illegal work can pay well enough?
/r/askMRP10/01/18 06:59 PM
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Yeah, I have seen this scenario before and it ended like you said. Guy didn't stop in cucksville though his wife did go lesbian. Now he's paying for the house that his ex-wife, female lover and two kids live in. He got some hot threesomes though. Totally worth it, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 05:03 PM
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I'm a mechanical engineer in SF and live comfortably enough. But: I have an hour+ commute and the wife has to work too even though we both have six figure incomes. 250k a year gets you what used to be known as "middle class". That pretty much proves my point. In other (not coastal) places in the country you can have all that and money in the bank at 80k a year. In my area, mechanical engineers aren't highly paid, but programmers are.
/r/askMRP09/01/18 04:53 PM
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The Cut: Taking it more seriously now. I need some progress to boost my spirits. Remember to be Happy: This is actually harder than it sounds. Have been fairly demotivated lately, and it shows. TRT: Has been almost a month on the tamoxifen. I feel ok, not great. I'm going to get my diet more dialed in and in a few weeks I'll get new bloodwork. Some of the side effects have returned, but mostly not as bad as on clomid. Mission: I have terrible brain fog which is really shitty for studying. Trying…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 04:04 PM
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This may go against RP dogma, but I think that, in some way, men are all wired to want to provide value. The AF man provides value by being hot, providing excitement, etc. The BB man provides value via money. Right now, it sounds like you are offering neither. was under the impression that I could go to higher education, get a STEM degree, find a job, and that it would be enough to support my family. Nope. Depends. Software and IT, yes, old school STEM (EE, mechanical engineering, etr) no way. A…
/r/askMRP09/01/18 03:43 PM
1

Home gym all the way. My wife has a gym family membership, sometimes I will go in to do yoga or use the stair machine. If I did my lifting at a gym, I'm sure I'd constantly be bothered by people offering advice or concern when they see me slumped over the bar on the ground after every deadlift (low blood pressure, nothing I can do). So, privacy is nice.
/r/askMRP08/01/18 07:43 PM
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The best response is going to lift and becoming attractive.
/r/askMRP06/01/18 09:07 PM
1

Reasonable people may disagree, but I find no dignity in taking classes in advanced nut slapping. If I were to start up martial arts classes again, I'd go with karate, TKD or BJJ.
/r/askMRP06/01/18 01:24 AM
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Hmm. I have a pile of chain in the garage, might be time to make it into some lifting chains. You'll get more out of the pull ups if they are weighted. Yeah, time to get a dip belt too. Just a warning, weighted ab work will make this even worst. The muscles grow, and push it all out. I'm at the end of a bulk. I really need to do more fork put-downs. Been at about maintenance over the holidays, but I'm doing something right, my lifts are better than ever.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/18 02:35 AM
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I do 5/3/1 so, that was my first lift that day. I benched the day before, but felt good so I didn't take a day off. My form didn't collapse during the final squat, but yeah, my mind was screaming NO. Lifting with no confidence seemed like a bad idea, so I racked it. The skulpt (http://skulpt.me) says my upper back and hamstrings are shit, but I have added pull-ups and stiff legged deadlifts into my accessory work, so that should help those. I have been doing general core work for a while now inc…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 07:58 PM
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focus on form and move slowly. you get used to it. Yeah, I think that's the key. Surprisingly, my shoulders, even after a year of yoga, seem to be too tight to be comfortable getting behind the bar for a low-bar squat.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 07:44 PM
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I haven't read the book, but I'll opine anyway. I don't have a problem with the thinking of some about a house being an asset. It is, however, this thinking that fuels expenditures that aren't investments, they are consumption. Putting in that pool and koi pond aren't going to get you much more when you sell. But that's how a lot of people think about spending money on a house. It's a way of tricking yourself into thinking that consumption is a wise use of resources. You put in the koi pond beca…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 04:08 PM
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Vacation: Took a week off from the grind. Still got some stuff done, but it was at my leisure. Lifting: The good news is I set some new PRs this week. I did 220 BP for reps, I could probably bench 2 plates at this point. Ran into something new with squats though. I changed up my form a bit, going to low bar from high bar squats, and lifted 260 which I haven't done before. The problem is I was legit scared to have that much weight on my back. I lift in a rack, so I don't think I was actually in a…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 04:02 PM
1

Well, sounds like you have some thinking to do. Time to continue bettering yourself or time to make your exit...
/r/askMRP03/01/18 03:40 PM
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Have you stated what you want? Time for FMOFY statement?
/r/askMRP02/01/18 04:14 PM
2

Sounds like you need to be initiating more.
/r/askMRP01/01/18 05:36 PM
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Sven, you beat me to it. OP, you haven't been lifting shit if you are 6' and 155 pounds. You are a concentration camp survivor. Start eating and lifting, this time for real.
/r/askMRP28/12/17 03:17 AM
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I was at 25mg 5 times a week. I've not heard of too many folks going that long on Clomid vs moving to the injection route. Hard to say, if you don't get side effects, it's pretty convenient and leaves your fertility intact. Nearly everything says it's not for long term use. I freakin' hate needles myself, though. The prospect of jabbing myself isn't thrilling, but I have come to peace with it. I live in a house of females, so I'm fairly against gel. There's too much chance of contamination IMHO.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/17 08:19 PM
1

Initially, I felt fucking great. However, over a span of almost two years, I had some very light gyno, terrible anxiety, syncope (fainting), and mood swings. When I started tearing up at the end of some poorly written, formulaic cartoons that my kids were watching, I knew something was really fucking wrong, and identified the clomid as a possible culprit. I'm on tamoxifen at the moment and the sides aren't quite as bad as they were on clomid, they are coming back. Especially the fainting. Bah. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/17 07:28 PM
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She is in dialysis waiting for a new kidney. It didn't stop her from cheating though. Unhealthy, probably unattractive, yet still getting dick on the side. What conditions do you need to dump her? And who needs to approve you divorcing your cheating whore wife? What exactly would your wife need to do for you to lose sympathy? At the end of the day, you are the only one who will make the right decisions for you. Why this reliance on the outside world for you decision making? BTW, you are the lowe…
/r/askMRP27/12/17 02:48 PM
1

The Cut: Took a week off for the holidays, back to it this week. Lifting Whack-a-Mole: I scanned myself with the skulpt, it said my hamstrings were lagging everything else. Ok, fine, I do a lot of single-leg romainian deadlifts this week. That tightened up my hamstrings to the point where I had to bench press with my feet up on the bench. Normally, I can bend over and put my hands flat on the floor (yay, yoga), so this is new for me. Remember to be Happy: A comment by W&S last week reminded me t…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/17 12:16 AM
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Consider neoprene knee sleeves. I won't squat without them. If you haven't read "starting strength" already, it has a really good discussion on squat form that really helped me. I thought I was doing them the right way, and my PT didn't have any corrections for me, but that book really helped. Don't hurt yourself and get knocked out of the game.
/r/askMRP23/12/17 01:14 PM
4

Extra points if it's something hilarious and you pull it off with a straight face.
/r/askMRP22/12/17 08:26 PM
11

Personally, I'd make it a joke and raid the kids toybox for some temporary tattoos. The tats would be fake, but the dicking I'd give her would be real.
/r/askMRP22/12/17 07:40 PM
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However, as part of the settlement I had to get her a vehicle. So I purchased a short yellow school bus that I found on ebay for relatively cheap. She was furious that this was the car I got her. Sometimes you have to hold your childish impulses in check. Please tell me this is a troll.
/r/askMRP21/12/17 09:51 PM
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Need any more friends? How about a lifting buddy?
/r/askMRP21/12/17 04:07 AM
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That's a lot of stretching, be careful.
/r/askMRP20/12/17 10:15 PM
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Unconscious incompetence Conscious incompetence <- You are here. Conscious competence Unconscious competence Well, there isn't much else I'd tell you, you realize where you fucked up, you just need to start not fucking up. Sometimes it takes a while. How's your lifting?
/r/askMRP20/12/17 09:30 PM
1

it's pretty ambivalent and hard to tell. Yeah, exactly. There's actually a lot of shit going down right now, stuff I haven't spoken about, but what I have influence over, I'm handling. The wife has also been high stress, her stuff has been going south too, I help her with my advice when I can, but the issues that are in motion, they have been unavoidable. She just has to deal with the outcomes of some happenings, and frankly, there's going to be some upset when a deal worth a shit-ton of money g…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 02:15 AM
1

No, but I don't watch the fluctuations all that carefully. When calorie labels can be +/-20% it's really hard to tell much other than "gaining" or "losing". And I actually weight out everything except dinner. I can also vary as much as 5lbs based on water weight. TDEE is just a good guess. Same goes for calorie listings.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 09:21 PM
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Current plan: recomp at very mild calorie deficit, targeting bodyweight change of 0 to -0.5 pounds per week, keeping between 150lb and 152lb through January. Yes, you are skinnyfat, but IMHO, you would do better on a bulk for a while. If you lose too much weight you will look like a concentration camp survivor. Strong and Lean > Strong and Fluffy > Skinny
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 07:15 PM
1

Nothing that brings me to my knees or makes it so I have to brace myself on something, no. I might get some lightheadedness, but it's far more manageable now.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 06:35 PM
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Did someone call for a boot in the ass? You are in luck, we have some of those in stock. Just step right this way...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 04:30 PM
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TRT: Well, I convinced my doc to prescribe tamoxifen instead of clomid. After a week, I'm feeling much better. All my side effects are reduced or gone. In addition, there were some extra things that I didn't notice, but clearly noticed improvement after coming off. Tamoxifen is highly recommended over clomid, and initially, I didn't have any of these side effects, they just slowly crept up over time. I'm going to go with tamox for a while, at least a few months until my gyno (apparently, I had a…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 04:29 PM
3

Fuck your wife or file for divorce.
/r/askMRP18/12/17 06:47 PM
1

Well, there's long term goals, structural things (I want a good sex life), and there's more short term goals (I want to fuck tonight). You can have long term goals that you work towards, but the short term expectations have to go.
/r/askMRP15/12/17 12:58 PM
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Another big issue for me is sexual frequency over the week- I can get very hung up on the numbers. Here's the main thing. Having expectations leads to disappointment. If you expect 3x a week, and it has only been 1x by Wednesday, you are putting too much pressure on yourself, and you are expecting something. Expectations + Not getting what you want = Butthurt We have two parts on the left side of the equation. Lifting and reading the sidebar should help you with the "not getting what you want" p…
/r/askMRP14/12/17 04:27 PM
1

Well, I think the consensus, if there could be one, is to not talk about fight club. There are those who choose not to hide their books, and well, to each their own. I have had enough issues with my wife mirroring back RP stuff without my straight up handing her the playbook.
/r/askMRP14/12/17 04:21 PM
1

Toolbox in garage. Old, beat to shit, surrounded with other toolboxes that are old and beat to shit. Everything else on phone, wife doesn't have access code.
/r/askMRP13/12/17 09:37 PM
1

Importation of scheduled drugs into the US is murky. You can get away with a 90 day supply of unscheduled drugs with a prescription.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/17 06:36 PM
1

Axiron Can't compounding pharmacies make T gel for you? This isn't something you need a branded product to treat. A compounding pharmacy is also probably a lot cheaper. My doc makes me see him every three months anyway, so wouldn't affect me any. Good news, just came in, there's a script for tamox waiting for me at the doctor's office. Woohoo!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/17 04:01 PM
1

Well, I took a clomid, and now I'm chill as fuck. So I don't think psych care would help me here. I have learned that I can't go off. I must always be on some form of TRT for the rest of my life because I don't like how I am off it. The side effects are better than the crap I have to deal with without the drugs. I need to remember this. In other news, I had always wondered if a HPTA restart would work. I now have my answer, no.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/17 02:36 PM
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TRT: Two weeks ago, I cut down on the clomid. Last week I stopped it. Nearly all my side effects are gone and the syncope is now much more manageable. I haven't had an episode that brought me to my knees this week. I hope that stays that way, but it could be too early to tell. Doc didn't believe me about tamoxifen being a possible clomid replacement, but did leave the door open if I found some studies showing tamox increases FH/LSH. I spent the rest of the day chasing down every relevant study, …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/17 05:10 PM
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We've both cheated before, we both know it's more likely than unlikely that we'd someday do it to each other. If it did happen we both agreed that the best thing would be to keep it from each and deal with those demons on our own. I thought it was a mature and rational mindset. You straight up gave your wife permission to cheat. Are you a fucking retard? You seem like a fucking retard. You told her: Hey, if you fuck around, just don't tell me, ok? You need to be put in the stocks and pilloried a…
/r/askMRP11/12/17 01:51 AM
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If you think the wedding is going to cost you, wait until you see the bill for the divorce!
/r/askMRP10/12/17 04:13 PM
1

When I was downsized around the age of 30, I realized that I need to diversify my income stream. This job loss exposed a major single point of failure in my life. I was 30, wife and two kids with less than $5000 in the bank. This was my first taste of real fear. Me going hungry is one thing, my 6mo and 2-year olds? No fucking way. I wanted to get paid multiple different ways. After six months or so I got that new 100% job, and everything was OK again - but something was different this time. Is t…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 09:54 PM
11

Agree 100% with HB. and I would feel a bit abusive exploiting this fact You would feel abusive that your wife wants to give you sex even if she isn't entirely into it? Sometimes I fuck the wife if I'm not entirely into it (not often I admit, I'm usually into it) but I certainty don't feel abused. OP, get off twitter, stop reading about #MeToo. You aren't abusing your wife.
/r/askMRP05/12/17 06:06 PM
1

Hormone replacement is actually a big chunk of his practice. And he's a family friend, so I don't get the usual doctor bullshit of them thinking I want drugs, etc. He is actually the one that figured out I had low T. I have brought switching to tamoxifen up before, but I haven't really made a case for it like I did now. We'll see.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 05:52 PM
2

Main problem is "Afraid of Wife" Really? The scariest person I have ever met IRL was a butcher. He looked at me like he was sizing me up for how he would cut me to make the most tender steaks. And it's not like he was angry or anything, he was fairly friendly.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 04:29 PM
1

I have an appointment tomorrow. Sometimes I get tested before a doc appointment to see if anything needs adjusting. I mean technically, FT is the T that is available for use. TT is FT + bound T (that can't be unbound) so in theory FT is what you want to look at. However, usually they look at TT.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 04:02 PM
1

I'm not aware of a lab that only does TT and not free T or SHBG. If you have TT and SHBG you can calculate FT. There are definitely instances where you can have high T, but still feel like shit because you also have high SHBG which binds T and makes it unavailable. It also inflates your TT because the half life of T is 10 minutes, but SHBG binds T and floats around much longer without actually giving your the benefit of T. I'll find out tomorrow what the doc thinks.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 03:48 PM
1

WTF: Well, got my bloodwork back. Free T is top of range. Total T is near bottom of range. I have no earthly idea if this is good or bad, but I'm pretending it's good. Research has turned up nearly nothing on this situation. Lifting: Form continues to improve. Think I have achieved near perfect form on OHP, except, without fail, it will cause me to black out. First time I put it up with heavy weight, I lost all vision and most feeling, got the weight down to my chest and slammed it back into the…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 01:39 PM
10

Are you seriously complaining that your wife's father is chopping firewood? He can come to my house any time. He sounds like an old salt who just wants to be useful. I'd bring him a beer and compliment his chopping style. After that we can work on the cars.
/r/askMRP04/12/17 02:28 PM
1

She is not attracted to me. Well, be attractive. Realize that it's not going to happen overnight. Because we are married, we have kids, I'm attracted to her so it feels as if her being attracted to me more is the last puzzle piece... Is she not attractive? You sound like you have somehow achieved attraction through obligation.
/r/askMRP02/12/17 05:01 PM
3

And God I hate this insecurity of not knowing the whole god damn day. Am I waiting for something that will happen or not? Now she anyway said something along the lines of that she will go to bed early and "we have to wait until she is more rested". It's true that she hasn't slept much at all last week, she is genuinely tired, but I still don't know really. Promises of sex are worthless. Don't get yourself hyped up over it, probably won't happen. It's a delay tactic, nothing more. Have already be…
/r/askMRP02/12/17 01:45 PM
1

Action items: Lift. Eat. Sleep. Repeat.
/r/askMRP02/12/17 12:41 AM
10

You do it for you. Stay plan is the same as the go plan. You sound like you don't want to improve yourself because you might have to make a decision. Pretty stupid, IMHO. How about this: You aren't improving for your wife, you are improving so that you don't die from being a fat fuck before your sons get out of the house.
/r/askMRP01/12/17 08:15 PM
0

Completely unfair to call someone out as DEER when you are having a legitimate discussion about something. But then again, I didn't see the original post.
/r/askMRP30/11/17 08:36 PM
5

She countered with a decisively non-covert contract. “How about you hurry and do the dishes while I go slip into something more comfortable?” LOL, you got played. She did slip into something more comfortable. Lost 14 pounds of fat by dumping sugar since November 1 Ok, going to have to call bullshit on this. You didn't lose 14 pounds in three weeks. No. Even with water weight, no.
/r/askMRP30/11/17 06:34 PM
1

Do you live with her, or does she live with you? Big difference.
/r/RPChristians29/11/17 03:01 PM
3

The main beliefs I see these women hold are That's what they tell you. And you believe them? Why would you believe them? This is the essence of the blue pill.
/r/RPChristians29/11/17 02:59 PM
1

All of the above things are in check so I know I'm a catch. Height, weight, lifts. Oh, you don't lift?
/r/RPChristians29/11/17 02:55 PM
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That's tough. Where I'm at there's a bunch of billboards from hungry men's clinics. As a last resort, there are some online places (defy, etc) that seem to have good reputations. Expensive from what I understand. I still don't understand what the point of such a low T dose for you was. Your "corrected" level was barely in-range. I get tested about twice a year just to keep an eye on things.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 01:25 PM
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I'll check out Juggernaut's vids, thanks for the tip! Are you getting lightheaded after squats? It's not too bad, except when it is. It's far worse doing deadlifts. After each heavy deadlift, I have to go to hands and knees until it passes. I'm also at the start of a 5/3/1 cycle, so the weights are on the lighter end so it has been easier. I'm hoping it's the clomid, but we shall see. I can't be trusted with AMRAP without deciding on a specific number or reps beforehand Yeah, I have determined I…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 06:45 PM
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Well, if he cares about his fertility, he should see if he is able to go on tamoxifen / clomid before he goes straight to the needle.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 04:35 PM
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I can’t tell you guys how worried I am about what will happen when my boys start dating and/or want to get into a LTR. The more I read, even just random articles in newspapers etc, the more it seems things are going to be utterly stacked against them. I’m scared for them. Be a good example for them.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 03:02 PM
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Got T injections last winter, brought my level to 290. Doc says he doesn't want to give me anymore because I'm so young. So I'm going the natural route for now, lifting, cold showers, sex, reduce BF, etc. Since starting SL I have found morning wood is slowly coming back. That's... good. Your doctor sucks. Consider going to someone specialized in low-T. You first need to determine if you are primary or secondary hypogonadism. I.e. pituitary not sending LH/FSH to tell your testicles to produce T o…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 03:00 PM
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Special thanks to /u/hystericalbonding for his comments last week. After reading his comments, I went down a few internet rabbitholes that resulted in some positive outcomes. Baggage: From my lifting days while low-T I pretty much perfected lifting at my "minimum effective volume" (MEV), mostly because it was nearly the same as my "maximum recoverable volume" (MRV). To an extent, I have continued that even after getting my T corrected, though I think my MEV and MRV have some distance between the…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 01:52 PM
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Nutrition is good. We never eat fast food, homecooked meals, no junk food, plenty of protien, etc. Sleep has not been so good, but we have taken steps in the past two weeks that seem to have remedied the problem. I live in a community of entitled fucks who send their kids to activities when they have raging illness. Assholes.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 03:59 PM
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Nice strategy. My eldest daughter wants to lift with me because she sees that I basically force feed myself disgusting amounts of food, and she wants on that train.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 03:47 AM
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Well, you have to decide what you want to tell her. In a nutshell, I told my daughter that being healthy and looking good makes for an easier life. You feel better when you are healthy and people also treat you better. Not that I agree but this is life and that's the way it is. Realize this: If you aren't telling your kid how things are, someone else will be. That might be some commie teacher at school, antifa friends at college, faggots on the playground, etc. Be glad it's your wife and not som…
/r/askMRP27/11/17 03:40 AM
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specially since her birthday in September. My daughter told me a number of things my wife has said to her recently and I don't like a lot of it. She's encouraging her to be restrictive with her diet, told her about carbs and basically told her she needs to start eating low carb because she's getting older. "I'd prefer my daughter think the world is full of unicorns and rainbows and I'd never like to have a hard conversation about how the world is. Maybe when she's 18, I'll tell her what the worl…
/r/askMRP26/11/17 11:30 PM
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Eh, one LTR at 22 yrs old, honestly, in his situation he probably can't afford to be choosy. Vetting is 1) has pulse and 2) has pussy. Of course, if he finds his way to the sidebar and touching iron, that can change. Any practice is good practice though.
/r/askMRP26/11/17 06:24 PM
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"So long, and thanks for the pussy." What you don't understand is this. If a woman likes you, tingles for you, you can do nothing wrong. When the tingles are gone, everything you do is wrong. She seems to be on a six month schedule to get bored and lose the tingles. Honestly, she didn't sound like LTR material anyway. The good news is you found the red pill. so, read the sidebar, start lifting and be glad because the rest of your life is ahead of you. Some of us took a lot longer to find our way…
/r/askMRP26/11/17 03:12 PM
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I'm trying to initiate she is saying how if I want to get some action then we "need to discuss a few things." "Talking is not what I had in mind." Then continue.
/r/askMRP25/11/17 05:51 PM
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Then have a church ceremony, invite the 500 people, throw a party. But keep the fucking courts out of it. In most jurisdictions, this means you are married even if you don't file the paperwork with the state. You can't "keep the courts out of it." Yep. /u/Red-Curious, care to briefly weigh-in?
/r/askMRP25/11/17 01:40 PM
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Out of all the married women I know who have gotten boob jobs (around 5 or 6) only one is still married to the same husband after two years. Dude pulls down some serious scratch and pays for a staff of nannies.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/17 04:02 AM
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Then have a church ceremony, invite the 500 people, throw a party. But keep the fucking courts out of it. In most jurisdictions, this means you are married even if you don't file the paperwork with the state. You can't "keep the courts out of it."
/r/askMRP25/11/17 02:37 AM
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When you were married, I bet you had no time, but there were things you wanted to do. You now have time. Do them. Don't mope. Work your job the best you can, you don't need to start a downward spiral. Lift consistently. Get out and get some sun. Go to a coffee shop and read a book. Nothing sucks worse than staying in your empty apartment and being alone with your thoughts and memories. If you have pain deadlifting, check out Rippetoe's Starting Strength book. He goes into extreme detail on form,…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/17 01:01 AM
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Lesson learned: Don't pull the tail of the black and white cat.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/17 07:37 PM
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Holy shit, that's the biggest red flag of all. I can see this two ways. It's either her call or yours. If you made the call, you are a dumb fuck for not trying before you buy. If she made the call to not have sex with you, that's clearly because there's a total lack of attraction with you. Now I'm not nearly as anti-marriage as most people are on here. However, I believe you should do a LOT of vetting and you should be open to realizing that the current girl isn't marriage worthy. Also, she migh…
/r/askMRP24/11/17 01:08 PM
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I have not seen any red flags to be honest You don't see what you aren't looking for. Sounds like she has orbiters on standby at work. Discusses your relationship with orbiters (Tom). Pulls a marriage ultimatum before you even graduate college. Has no concept of responsibility if she wants to get married in college when you are both dependent on others. Don't think that this wasn't a calculated move and she didn't tell Tom knowing full well that he would talk to you. Please tell me after all thi…
/r/askMRP24/11/17 12:12 PM
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You’ll never regret ditching that clomid. I was an emotional wreck while on it. It had me so clouded I let it go on way longer than I should have. It would certainly explain some things. When I started on it, I was basically in full-on rage mode, but I attributed it to the T. I have calmed down a bit, but there's still some times when I'm getting clearly more emotional about things than I should be.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/17 12:04 PM
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Username checks out. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amalgam_(dentistry)
/r/askMRP23/11/17 04:40 AM
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The downside to invisalign is the positive. You can take it out. If you aren't disciplined, get regular braces. I had regular braces, wife got invisalign. Took her longer because she didn't wear it as often as she should have.
/r/askMRP23/11/17 02:36 AM
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Ouch, my wife isn't that bad. I did get a thank you for keeping it together and taking care of the household, etc. When she was feeling better she even made it a point to take on some more of the household stuff to give me a break. I didn't expect it though.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 09:41 PM
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I feel you. And this is the pot talking to the kettle here, but, how can you break the remaining items into smaller pieces and knock them out bit by bit? Yeah, that's what I'm attempting to do, and I am making progress, it just seems like there's always something blocking. I will say I'm feeling a bit more optimistic at the moment, finally starting to feel better after being sick. I also really, really hate being fat and I'm nearing the end of a bulk. It really grinds my gears, I could never be …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 02:30 PM
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Most of that sounds straight out of TRP. I don't think we have that here thankfully. So I take it you are a believer in SS over 531? I have been doing 531, it has been ok, but really haven't progressed all that much. Maybe time for a change.
/r/askMRP22/11/17 12:05 AM
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finesteride Please be careful with the finasteride. There are boards full of dudes that wrecked their hormones with finasteride. Hair isn't worth it. DHT is also very anabolic. Who knows the gains you might be missing out on.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 09:23 PM
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Nice lifts.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 09:20 PM
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My latest worksets (weight x reps x sets) are Squat 255x5x3, DL 255x5x3, OHP 115x5x3, Bench 205x2x3. My weight is down to 185, beginning from 193. I’m 5’10”. I think I have met my twin. My stats / lifts are very similar. Why do you think your DL is low relative to your other lifts?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 09:18 PM
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Do you really believe the numbers in that page? The numbers are self-reported, it's very easy to believe only skilled lifters responded.
/r/askMRP21/11/17 09:13 PM
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Very creative. I actually had to check your post history to see if you were a bot.
/r/askMRP21/11/17 08:19 PM
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You need an olympic weight set. Bumper plates are a luxury but not strictly needed, plain iron is ok to start. Do not get a "standard" bar. If you can buy a power rack and bench, that's ideal. Craigslist is a great place to get used equipment, especially racks.
/r/askMRP21/11/17 06:43 PM
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I'm surprised apple hasn't added the :dicksuck: emoji. Next version I'm sure.
/r/askMRP21/11/17 05:51 PM
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Tell her that you would like to suck her dick.
/r/askMRP21/11/17 05:03 PM
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Why are you taking STBX to a concert? WTF is wrong with you? I squatted 80kg a month ago, but I am taking a break now to focus on work. Clearly you have met your goals with squatting 176 lbs. What a pussy you are, this whole post reeks as do your responses. You are lucky I'm not a mod, I'd lock your post and ban you. You should be quarantined before your stupidity infects others.
/r/askMRP21/11/17 04:11 PM
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The Plague Returns: There's a special place in hell for parents who send their kids out with fevers knowing other kids will get sick. This week was a total waste except, through a minor miracle, I knocked out a ton of shit before I succumbed to disease. It was the bright spot through all of it. At least I got all that crap done. Health / Lifting: I feel weak and fat. Blech. At least my back seems to be doing better. One or two more weeks of bulking, going to get T tested for grins, and talk to t…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 03:38 PM
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You didn't mention kids. If you don't have kids, don't bother with your wife, it's just not worth the effort. Improve yourself, get your plan together and divorce her. Maybe she comes around, but she sounds really far gone.
/r/askMRP20/11/17 06:19 PM
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All of them.
/r/askMRP20/11/17 01:13 PM
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You are clearly doing something wrong here. Stick your dick in her and keep doing it until you get off. When / if she gets off is irrelevant to the process. Any questions? Edit: Read the sidebar, start with NMMNG.
/r/askMRP20/11/17 01:10 PM
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I'm a big believer in once you think you can get a phone number, get it and bail. Have something better to do, whatever. You want to leave them wanting more. Not so good if you are going for the same night lay, but I have always found it easier to go out, get some numbers, and have a side chick to go to and bang.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 03:45 AM
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I wear a castle clock on my wrist. Yeah, kind of heavy, and the weight on a chain sometimes gets in the way, but it's always a conversation starter. In a pinch, the weight and chain makes a great melee weapon.
/r/askMRP20/11/17 03:27 AM
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And that's why your country is having so many immigrant problems Herr Cuck.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 07:19 PM
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Here’s the conflict — I didn’t tackle the dishes, instead I went and got the bookcase. She’s pissed at me for having the wrong priorities, for being selfish and getting the bookcase (which was not a high priority, I’ll admit), instead of tackling the dishes. You do have shitty priorities. You should have fixed the dishwasher first, then you wouldn't have to do the dishes. Instead, you are putting together a bookcase? WTF is wrong with you? If a car breaks down, household appliance breaks, etc, n…
/r/askMRP18/11/17 09:24 PM
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I think you wanted to be found out. In that whole thread, I was really surprised that no one had told you to tell your wife the truth, that she was fat and you weren't attracted. I'd have done so myself, but I was wracked with the plague and coming in and out of consciousness when I read it. inflated statements Are you fat and unattractive too bro? A crypto-fatty?
/r/askMRP17/11/17 10:35 PM
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Olde timey wisdom comes through again!
/r/askMRP16/11/17 01:39 PM
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LOL, quelle surprise. Going Rambo is always more attractive than putting in the work. What people (you) fail to realize is that for a takeaway to work, you have to have/provide value in the first place. No value provided and she doesn't give a shit when you leave. Then where are you when your bluff is called? So, I'll ask again: Height, weight, lifts?
/r/askMRP16/11/17 01:37 PM
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Height, weight, lifts. seeing as earlier that morning when I left for work said she was going to "Get all dressed up sexy so you can have your way with me tonight". Crazy up and downs. Never believe a woman that she's going to fuck you later. That's a noob mistake. When she says something like that, that's how she feels right now. Fuck her right then and there or forget it. Maybe it will happen later, but maybe not. Either way, she feels no obligation to fuck you later because of her word. No ti…
/r/askMRP16/11/17 01:51 AM
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Was going to say this. OP needs to eat more. OP is now a scary skeleton.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 03:26 PM
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but part of me is also wondering whether she’s just giving me false hope. Part of being outcome independent is crushing your hopes. If you don't have expectations, if you aren't thinking about what you want happening, it's much easier to be chill when your expectations aren't met.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 03:24 PM
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Frustrating as there was a hot girl yesterday clearly interested in me/attracted - I want to talk to these girls and set them up as plates, but the environment holds me back. If you aren't the kind of guy whose wife would look the other way at evidence you were cheating, you aren't ready. Unless you are ready for those consequences, which you don't sound like you are.
/r/askMRP14/11/17 01:30 PM
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or a sign or no attraction? What do you think it is? Are you fat? No muscle? Are you attractive? What are your lifts?
/r/askMRP13/11/17 11:17 PM
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I broke it off with a girl. Saw her six months later, she was in much better shape. Saw her five years later, she was a hambeast sitting at a table with other hambeasts, male and female. Let them have their "revenge", hopefully they end up happy and leave you alone. But probably they will be the bitter bitches they were all along.
/r/askMRP12/11/17 11:39 PM
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I leveled out after a while. I'm surprised you are still like that at 18 months and 120mg/wk isn't a huge dose. Also, it's partly you directing your thoughts where you want them to go. It's just not helpful for me to be thinking about sex 24/7, so I don't.
/r/askMRP11/11/17 07:41 PM
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“why?? Why?? You look so mean.” Fuck yeah I do. Best reason ever to shave my head.
/r/askMRP09/11/17 05:39 PM
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Just did. There's a whole lot more anger in those posts. I'm definitely more chill now. I'd like to say it's because my mastery has improved, but I think it's more because if you are attractive, your frame doesn't get tested much. So perhaps my mastery has improved, I just feel like I don't get tested much anymore. Maybe I handle the tests with ease so that I don't notice them anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 12:13 AM
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Health/Fitness. I’m just not satisfied with the progress I’m making. Yes, I’m fitter. Yes, I have better upper body muscles thanks to lifting. But I still look at myself naked and I don’t like what I see. I’m still flabby, soft, and in poor shape. It's going to be a while bro. This stuff doesn't happen by accident or overnight. I don’t lift enough, and I eat too much – or too much of the wrong things. This week, it’ll be more lifting, more general exercise, and proper tracking of my calorie inta…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 03:56 PM
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Mission: Ok progress. Lifting / Fitness: Seems that I'm still riding the edge between getting better and hurting myself. Need to back off more if my back starts going out. Latest weigh in was 175. Feeling fat, but I'm going to 180 again. I don't know how people let themselves get really large, I feel pretty gross at this weight. Projects: Knocking more out, trying to make daily progress. Time Off: I need to pay more attention to deliberately taking some time off. I run myself ragged, and then st…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 03:31 PM
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You can't unplug those who don't want to be unplugged. It's sad, but there's nothing you can do but improve yourself and be a good example.
/r/askMRP06/11/17 05:46 PM
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Can't wait to see what happens! What a shit show, time to get some popcorn!
/r/askMRP05/11/17 09:48 PM
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spending the rest of the evening with the wife until the cycle repeats. Sounds like "netflix and chill". She doesn't need your assistance to watch Gilmore Girls. Buy some weights, go lift instead.
/r/askMRP04/11/17 01:18 PM
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Mental-Been doing a lot of research into biological processes and the effects of meditation and self appreciation of my efforts. I will often complete a task and not give myself time to enjoy it. Thus life feels like a series of labors with no payoff. Still studying thus but implimenting as I go. I have learned that I need to appreciate achieving my goals. Sometimes it all moves so fast that you need to take a step back and go "damn, I kicked ass this week."
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 02:01 PM
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All those words and not a single one about lifting iron. Methinks you haven't found the redpill yet.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 05:14 PM
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Sounds like a cool grandma. Just don't think that buying something is going to make you happy. You become happy by deciding to become happy.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/17 06:32 PM
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Yeah, I'm normally all about shock and awe, but there's just too much of it to go that route. Shredders also have duty cycles, there's only so much I can feed into it per day too. Yeah, she has enough to max out the duty cycle probably for a few weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/17 03:48 PM
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There will be a test of my new frame coming. I am getting a small inheritance from my grandmother and the wife will want to spend it. It will be for me, and will probably go towards my motorcycle but I haven't decided yet, so in the short term I will put it in an easily liquidated investment. Maybe this is superstitious of me, but I try to honor the dead with anything they bequeath me. A girl I was dating, her grandmother died, instead of spending the money on college, she bought a new car. I du…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/17 02:49 PM
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Mission: Shit progress. No excuses, back to it this week. Lifting / Fitness: Lifts are ok. APT / Posture is improving, but still a struggle. Standing straight is starting to feel more natural, but still requires conscious thought. Need to make an appt with my doc and start building my case for going off the clomid. Projects: One of the kids activities is coming to a close which is good because I volunteered to help and they really needed it. Has still been a time sink though. Business: Took care…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/17 01:23 PM
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Nice lifts. The only thing you can do for your kids is be a good example. Not staying with a cheating whore is a good start. No more drunk captaining.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 08:36 PM
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This reminds me of myself a year ago. Things have changed since then. Right now, my wife knows that I'm a light sleeper and if she surprises me with some cold feet and hands after I'm asleep, I'll wake up and possibly not be able to get back to sleep. So she wouldn't do this to me now. She wants to please and knows that would fuck with me. A year ago, my wife might not have cared if I woke up, her hands being warm was more important. Be the guy your wife wants to please.
/r/askMRP30/10/17 02:59 PM
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BP is consistent 100-110/60-70. That's on the low end of the "normal" range, same as mine. My GP suggested that it might be too low for me. While I'm not necessarily recommending this, here is what has helped me towards increasing the BP a bit. 1) Increased salt consumption. I was generally eating all home prepared food, to which I rarely added salt. I now salt everything. 2) Increased fluid consumption. When I ate salt, I have become very thirsty, this should be self fulfilling. 3) I'll do a li…
/r/askMRP28/10/17 01:37 PM
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Yeah, sounds like he has it much worse than I do though. I hadn't considered that there are syncope specialists.
/r/askMRP28/10/17 02:10 AM
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If you can't get help where you are, consider finding specialists online. Are you near a major medical center?
/r/askMRP28/10/17 12:34 AM
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Every time I think it's fucked up in the US, Canada is there to make me think it's not so bad. I think your only hope is if the Quebecois finally throw down and revolt. God help anyone who's only hope is the French.
/r/askMRP26/10/17 07:09 PM
1

"Canadian girlfriend" ?
/r/askMRP26/10/17 07:04 PM
1

LOL, you would prefer people here wanting to fuck you? I won't be introducing you to my Asian supermodel scientist friends. Didn't say female. Definitely starting to sound kinda gay. Are they at least katoi?
/r/askMRP26/10/17 06:54 PM
1

As a member of the 18' calf squad, I will always notice. It's a good thing no one here wants to fuck you.
/r/askMRP26/10/17 04:44 PM
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Yep, truth be told, no one ever notices my legs. Best bang for the workout buck is upper body. I think the "squats increase T" is a bit oversold anyway.
/r/askMRP26/10/17 01:55 PM
1

If I feel like joking, I'll say "Speak into the microphone" as if I'm recording the apology. I definitely wouldn't withdraw attention after an apology, you want to reward her recognizing that she has been a shit, though you don't want to reward her when she is being a shit.
/r/askMRP26/10/17 12:30 AM
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He was never yours. Most people can't adapt to new information, which is why I don't try to unplug anyone. They see TRP as attacking their way of life, they can't accept that they have been doing in wrong all along, the pain is too great. You want to be the hero to save someone, you will become the enemy for making them realize that they suck. Then they will deny it, they don't suck, you do! I'd rather be alone than be around people who suck.
/r/askMRP25/10/17 03:51 PM
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The best thing you can do is to forget the old you. At two times in my life, I left everyone I knew behind and became someone else. It's very freeing, people who know you have expectations of you, and it drags you back down. If you don't have kids, perhaps it's time to look for greener pastures.
/r/askMRP25/10/17 03:24 PM
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LOL, I wear a t-shirt and jeans pretty much every day. I'm not the one against it, it's my wife. But she's coming around.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 01:53 PM
1

LOL. On skinny Steve Jobs? Or grey t-shirts on Cuckberg? Those who are known for wearing the same stuff every day tend to be techies and they don't tend to look good.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 03:06 AM
1

Oh yeah, got two already.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 12:57 AM
1

Hehee. We do have a sex swing. Wife is pregnant at the moment, she would be a ball of anxiety about the whole thing. Sex is pretty vanilla at the moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 09:38 PM
2

If you think T might be an issue, 30$ and a jab will get you the answer. discountedlabs.com
/r/askMRP24/10/17 09:34 PM
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Mission: Progress on track. Lifting / Fitness: I stopped going to the PT. Been lifting, back is slowly getting better. Diet is on point. Grinding it out. Wardrobe: Hehe, the wife is coming over to my way of thinking on my wardrobe. Found a black t-shirt in the closet that I forgot I bought. Wore it, fit really well. Later get a text from the wife saying that if I wanted to be one of those guys that always wears jeans and a black t-shirt, that would be fine with her. Heh. Projects: Two emergencie…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 02:33 PM
1

At the risk of sounding the the neighborhood pharmacist, I'm going to blame my discipline on drugs. Naltrexone. Helped my become an almost teetotaler without being insufferable about it. Clomid. Corrected my T and gave me tons of energy that needed direction. Vallium. Cured my anxiety and paralysis by analysis. Decisions are now clear and easily reached. Men are meant to be industrious. What exactly is holding you back? Do you prefer to veg and watch netflix? Do you have a behavioral stumbling b…
/r/askMRP24/10/17 02:10 PM
1

I haven't received any hate mail. What am I doing wrong?
/r/askMRP21/10/17 06:41 PM
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Well, I will say this. Wife didn't follow my lead until, one day, she did. If you are doing all this, and are at the beginning of the voyage, she probably won't follow until you start getting closer to the destination. To be honest, I'm not particularly motivated when I see fatties working out at the gym either. And some just won't ever follow. That's why the stay plan is the same as the go plan.
/r/askMRP21/10/17 02:17 PM
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The entire modern feminist-slanted media is constantly pushing that agenda. (this ain't the 50's where we hear "father knows best") She constantly hears stuff like that from TV, movies, magazines, her GF's, etc etc etc. If you had really lurked, you would understand that we all think that's bullshit. You still believe in equality when you should be leading by example.
/r/askMRP21/10/17 01:19 PM
1

Do they not teach the scientific method anymore? All you have to do is apply it to your life.
/r/askMRP20/10/17 10:04 PM
2

If you were worth a damn, giving her a bag of skittles would count as an "act of service" to her. Height / weight / How much do you squat?
/r/askMRP20/10/17 06:29 PM
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Yes, they say accept it and plate her. DO NOT MARRY A WHORE. You can fuck a whore, sure. But you don't marry her. That's what you aren't getting. Start lifting and enjoy keeping your dick wet for now (assuming you are actually getting laid), but realize that you need to find a new one. Have I fucked sluts? Sure I have. Was I going to marry them? Fuck no. How are you a doctoral student and not getting this?
/r/askMRP20/10/17 03:11 PM
2

I couldn't help myself. It's like a slow motion train wreck, couldn't look away, needed to find out how deep the rabbit hole went. I turned back before I reached the bottom.
/r/askMRP20/10/17 01:53 PM
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I love her, I really do but she cheated on me a few times in the past and I worry about trust. She made it super clear that she needed to prove that I was the right guy and I was partly to blame as i wasnt there for her (I was busy with my thesis.) LOL. She needed Chad's dick to know that willysmiles was the right one for her. It's not that you aren't ready for marriage, I don't know how you are allowed to go out in public. How do you avoid daily pitfalls like cars, sticking your finger in elect…
/r/askMRP20/10/17 03:33 AM
1

We all do. People like everything around them explained and predictable.
/r/askMRP20/10/17 01:13 AM
7

People like predictability. They like to put you in a box. When you get out of the box, people react "Hey, WTF, get back in your box!" You sound like the predictable beta. Have you been? Don't apologize, don't back down. Own it. And don't get back in your box. Sometimes you have to be an asshole. It's life. Edit: Also, quit looking to your wife's approval to gauge your success or failure. Guy was an asshole, you dealt with him, sounds like success to me!
/r/askMRP19/10/17 05:26 PM
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/u/Ny_Ambolt You are in a good place to start bulking. At 54, if you have 30$ to spare, you really should get your T checked, no doctor required. https://www.discountedlabs.com/ If your T is great, then awesome, if not, get medical help, you will only hurt yourself lifting. Next, a beginner program and a good diet will take you far. SL 5x5 is a solid basic program to start. Calculate your TDEE and download MyFitnessPal. Even if you don't do it all the time, you need to track everything you eat f…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/17 02:13 PM
1

Contrary to the teachings of RP, I have had this same experience. Nukes take care of the situation, AM / AA can just get me more banter from the woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/17 07:08 PM
1

Krav Maga 3x week I went for a while. Seemed gay as fuck. It's 90% nut slapping.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/17 04:30 PM
1

boy i feel you here. i have mentally slowed a lot in the last 10 years. it is very common actually. T could help with this. Otherwise, I find that discipline reduces the need for brilliance on a day-to-day basis.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/17 04:29 PM
2

Well, this has given me something to ponder. I'll try to not assume I hate everyone for a while. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/17 01:59 PM
1

It's OYS, not Be Your Interpretation of MRP's Version of Chad. That's a fair criticism and a thought I have had before. However, if you could be anyone, why not be Chad? What it means that other parts of life are going really well that this particular part doesn't matter. Yeah, I'm not focused on that part at all right now. But I know my skills have atrophied.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 11:25 PM
1

Dread Level -5
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 07:44 PM
1

Thanks! I'll check it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 03:47 PM
2

It's demoralizing and can interfere with your next training session, both physically and mentally. Yeah, I just give what I have at each session. It does chafe me a bit to know that I have lifted more in the past, yet the weight feels so heavy. If you don't give a fuck about the other person, then don't waste your time with them Well, that's the rub isn't it. I don't give a crap about anyone except my family. But that seems too easy, a cop out. I can't save any men, I don't want their weaksauce …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 03:47 PM
2

No good here. Maybe I'm a harsh judge but I'm fucking sick of not having full mental faculties. I've got a lot on my plate but it's my fucking fault that I can't prioritize and focus. I'm not present. I'm stressed. I forget things. I hate listening. I have an enormous lack of gratitude and trust in the present moment. I give myself a F+ here. I'm just tired of accepting this level of exhaustion. Aside from the physical progress, you sound like the posterboy for low T. Have you been checked out?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 01:58 PM
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Mission: Solid progress. Lifting / Fitness: More assistance work is filling out my frame, but so far hasn't resulted in any PRs. Anterior pelvic tilt remains an issue, I have to relearn how to stand and walk and it's really a PITA. Back is better, but I still know it's there after deadlifts and squats. Diet is on point. Better Living through Chemistry: The fact of the matter is that I'm much more functional and decisive on low dose vallium, but admitting I need meds really hacks me off. I'm hopi…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 01:52 PM
2

Keep going then. You will get there.
/r/askMRP17/10/17 10:58 AM
2

The tears need to be heartfelt. Any lack of congruence and you have to try it over again.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 10:53 AM
2

You sound insecure as fuck. Your rule is stupid and projects your insecurity. You think your "no emoji" rule will prevent your girl from slipping and falling on chad's dick? No, it won't. So why attempt to enforce it? What do you get out of this? I'm all for setting boundaries and choosing a hill to die on, but why this one? I just don't get it. If you aren't setting her up with tons of asinine rules, then, yes this is a red flag. But I have zero confidence that you aren't attempting to dictate …
/r/askMRP17/10/17 10:41 AM
3

Women will use any excuse they can to not fuck someone they don't want to fuck. You sound fat. Height and weight? DYEL bro?
/r/askMRP17/10/17 10:34 AM
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Then he grills me b/c I'm taking too long. I really don't want to go into detail about how I had to take a dump, then started clipping my toenails, then started checking skin for blackheads, etc. I feel like I'm left without my dignity intact. If it were me, I'd tell what I did, in graphic detail. It wouldn't happen again.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 10:40 PM
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It's both! I did get two invites and it's fodder for jokes! I certainly believe that someone could have gotten seventeen. cat userlist | sort | uniq > de-duped-list How hard is this? Edit: If you really want to get fancy you can add awk '{$1=$1};1' and trim leading and ending whitespace from your list.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 04:41 PM
5

LOL, that's hilarious. Script kiddies no good with the scripts today.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 04:06 PM
5

I'm so awesome, I received two invites. Bet you are jealous now!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 03:09 PM
3

Your life sounds devoid of joy. It's the life of a miserly accountant. I don't think of OYS in terms of efficiency, yeah, they can take me between 15 mins and an hour generally, but that's time spent reflecting on success and failure and what I can do going forward. The typing it out part is minimal, and part of the process anyway. If you can't spend some time plotting your course for the next week, are you just careening from one emergency to the next?
/r/askMRP13/10/17 01:14 PM
2

On the internet? No.
/r/askMRP12/10/17 05:20 PM
2

Have conversations with yourself much?
/r/askMRP12/10/17 05:15 PM
1

The main rationale is that it would teach her the tricks of the trade and how to be a better arguer against me, making it harder for me to lead her. If your wife is having a problem and you know how she could benefit, lead her and show her how to overcome. Of course she's going to use it against you, laugh and call her out on it. I taught my eldest daughter some tricks to deal with other kids, who does she use it on? Other kids, me, her mother and teachers. Teachers were kind of freaked out, the…
/r/RPChristians12/10/17 01:31 AM
2

Daily diet is: minimum 140 grams protein (body weight is 151) and 2200 calories That sure sounds low. At 170lbs a 1lb a week bulk is 2800 calories. Are you actually gaining weight consistently? After a cut, you will gain a lot of weight from glycogen / water (google it). So you might not actually be gaining what you think you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 04:12 PM
1

Seriously? Are you sure, man? I had people asking me why I wore jewelry. We are only talking about a class ring here and sometimes a bracelet. They didn't straight out ask me if I was gay, but that was the unspoken implication. Regional cultural differences are for real.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 10:32 PM
2

TRT should not cost you 300$ a month. All meds for TRT are off patent and are generally cheap. I pay 150$ per doc visit 4x a year. Cash at a "concierge" doc. Meds run me about 200$ a year for clomid and arimidex. Edit: Yes, you should have more results than that, how is your diet? Have you been cutting all this time?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 10:14 PM
1

Yeah, I carry a glock 26. It's a "subcompact" but it's still a double-stack fat glock. Carrying at 5 o clock is what I usually do, but tight shirts are totally out. I've had good results with suit vests over dress shirt The shoot-me-first vest! I also want to avoid clearly looking like an "operator". Someone completely random stopped me the other day to ask if I was going shooting. Apparently, the blue-blockers I wear look like I just left the range. Accessories were almost required where I came…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 10:11 PM
2

180 degree difference. I'd never go back to having hair. If you shave your head AND don't wear a hat to hide it, the shaved head really makes a statement. Just make sure to lift so that you don't look like a cancer patient.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 09:59 PM
2

Mission: Final review, practice tests this month. Test before thanksgiving. Lifting/Fitness: I hate to say this, but I feel better than I have in a long time. Partly, I think it took a month to recover from my month of crossfit (never again). The other thing is I have been working on correcting my anterior pelvic tilt, I think that has been throwing off my form on my lifts and causing injuries. I'm back tracking all my calories, lifts are getting back to where they were. Projects: One coax run t…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 05:53 PM
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Find a new job then. If you won't protect your boss, your boss knows and acts appropriately. It's a self-fulfilling prophesy. My bosses have known that I'm a top performer and have worked to protect me. Through a merger I ended up with a boss that I knew wouldn't pound the table for me, I didn't stay there long.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 03:16 PM
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I have never corrected any boss. You don't correct the boss. You protect the boss. I have never had a hard time telling the boss what I think, but my boss always knows I have had his back. If I disagree on something, it's because I want the project to succeed. Sometimes, I'm right, sometimes there were considerations that I did not know about. Also, if overridden, I shut up and do my job.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 02:45 PM
3

If you are ever going to answer the question "what are you doing for that bachelor party", the answer needs to be: Well, we are going to start out having some beers, and end up doing blow and killing a few hookers. The rest of the evening will probably spent hiding the bodies, cleaning the blood and disposing of any evidence. I'm in charge of beer, the best man has the shovels and tarps. Then hold your ground and speak no more of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/17 06:07 PM
5

Just pisses me off that it's always me. One day you will get over that and just accept it. It's really easier this way.
/r/askMRP08/10/17 04:01 PM
4

What is your medical condition? I have low blood pressure, some days I almost faint after every lift. I work around it as much as I can. STFU means don't go Rambo. You are learning, and you are probably angry if you are new. Don't engage when you should be laughing stuff off.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 06:55 PM
3

Honeypot.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 03:26 PM
1

When I'm cutting, a re-feed day definitely helps calm me down on the other days. However, a refeed is not an excuse to eat a half gallon of ice cream. That's just disgusting. I have never eaten more than TDEE + 500-750 on a refeed day. Also, the less you think of food as a reward the easier getting in shape will be. The reward is looking good naked.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 02:00 PM
2

Hahaha, I had forgotten about that. Glad to see my comedic wit made an impression on someone. And yeah, that DID sound kind of gay, but I thought it was funny nonetheless.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 12:40 PM
1

Yeah, as I was writing that, I realized it was ripe for misinterpretation. Then I said "oh, well" and clicked save.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 12:38 PM
2

But I can’t. Because I’m fully convinced that you will kill yourself if I go, and I still love you. And the only way I can even express these feelings is by puking them out into a document that I’ll delete as soon as it’s written for fear of you seeing it. The only people who will ever see it are anonymous strangers on the internet. This is the gayest thing I have ever read in askMRP, and I have seen a lot of gay shit.
/r/askMRP06/10/17 11:25 PM
1

Most people IRL at the gym will say yes. I try to fit it in, but it's last on the list after lifting and yoga. If you do cardio, track your calories and make sure to eat the calories you burn doing cardio.
/r/askMRP06/10/17 05:12 PM
9

Do not get married. You are going to end up regretting it big time. Lest you think I'm one of those that always spout that, I'm not. This is advice specifically for you. She's more interested in talking about herself than she is about finding out more about my day or whatever about me. LOL, I can almost count on one hand the times my wife has asked about my day in the past year. Also helps that I have learned to STFU and not whine about my day. I gym weekly At least you are being honest with us.…
/r/askMRP06/10/17 04:06 PM
1

We are, and we'll be waiting for everyone else there. Plenty of room!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 08:18 PM
5

I also never dated a girl that entertained orbiters Red flag. Demote to plate.
/r/askMRP05/10/17 05:54 PM
2

If I don't feel like answering, I say "Insanity."
/r/askMRP04/10/17 10:33 PM
1

If I don't feel like answering, I say "Insanity."
/r/askMRP04/10/17 10:28 PM
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Find someone with good hair, ask them where they get their hair cut. Price isn't everything, I have spent 50$ on a haircut at a fancy place and I have spent 15$ at a backalley asian barbershop on the recommendation of a friend. The 15$ haircut was far better than the 50$. Most "reputable hairdressers" do 200$ haircuts for women, they don't give a crap about your 50$ cut. I also gave the asian guy a 20$ tip and next time the cut was even better. Full disclosure: A few years back, I said fuck it, …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 03:09 PM
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I have discussed the issue of her being lazy multiple times and there's only a change for maybe the first 2 weeks after the discussion and she'll go back to her lazy habits. Against my better judgement, I'm going to assume you are in fact, somewhat attractive since you say you are. I think you need a change of tact here. By accusing someone of being lazy (though it may be true) you are 1) attacking them and 2) not leading them to the behaviors you want. Start by giving simple instructions and ge…
/r/askMRP03/10/17 03:02 PM
2

Congratz, you just trained your wife not to initiate. If you think you are going to read MRP for a few weeks and your wife will be on her knees begging for your cock, you are wrong.
/r/askMRP03/10/17 01:41 AM
2

If you really follow the process with your wife, and go back to some childhood bullshit, your wife will lose respect (and tingles) for you. If you have some issues, work them out alone. If you wife has some issues, she will want to work them out for you IF you are attractive.
/r/askMRP01/10/17 06:42 PM
1

Imago is complete horseshit. I lost a few hours of my life listening to that crap. Funny how when you lift and get in shape, all those childhood problems seemingly go away.
/r/askMRP30/09/17 09:07 PM
3

5 pages of comment history, zero mentions of lifting. You fail at MRP. Restart, sidebar is on the right.
/r/askMRP28/09/17 04:47 PM
4

Underrated post. Dating is a trial period for marriage. She flunked being exclusive before marriage, why would you wife her up? These questions must be answered. Why would you do this? DYEL OP?
/r/askMRP28/09/17 04:18 PM
2

At the end of the day, if you can't assume good faith you can't repair things with her. She is setting you up for jail time. You are playing with fire if you don't lawyer up. You cannot assume good faith here, your wife is plotting to send you to prison. I know we talk about AWALT here, but this isn't AWALT behavior. This is serious shit that is going to fuck up the rest of your life. If you don't talk to a lawyer first, you are going to lose the ability to be on the offensive. If you knew this …
/r/askMRP28/09/17 02:20 PM
3

Ok, you fuck the wife once a week. Do you have any other sexual outlets? Wanking / porn / furry dress-up club?
/r/askMRP28/09/17 03:04 AM
3

Pot: Increased my anxiety and paranoia to insane levels. Would not do again. Nicotine: Decent for concentration. Tolerance and dependence happens pretty quickly. Nootropics: DMAE + piracetam + choline is a pretty potent stack. Tolerance hits in 3-4 weeks, or you just get used to the effects, I haven't decided which. Testosterone: Increased T lifts brain fog and anxiety. Am on clomid at the moment puts me at 500-600, considering going to the needle and just injecting T to get to 1000-1200 (upper …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/17 02:23 AM
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I'm going to assume you aren't a troll because you aren't hitting anything that makes the bloopers mad about TRP. Your wife is clearly manipulating your daughters. You need to make a copy of the diary, even though the diary sounds incriminating. You need to talk to an attorney ASAP and start planning. There's enough groundwork laid here to land you in jail for a long time. Be honest with your attorney and tell him about all this. Worry about your daughters later, you need to worry about yourself…
/r/askMRP27/09/17 02:44 PM
1

Heh, I was scratching my head thinking: Someone made it to 1000lbs on Stronglifts? WTF am I doing wrong here?
/r/askMRP27/09/17 01:15 AM
9

You are basically bedridden, bored and looking for drama. Why don't you go slam your dick in the door to get some feelz in your life? Alternately, you could start improving by reading the sidebar.
/r/askMRP26/09/17 06:46 PM
5

Post history: Completed as of 2/9/2017 Squat 195 - Bench 135 - Row 100 - OHP 100 - DL 225 So, where are your lifts today?
/r/askMRP26/09/17 05:08 PM
1

Wow, that's a pretty major deload. Cutting sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/17 02:21 PM
1

Mission: Took a back seat to this week's project. Back to it today. Leading the Family: Slowly but surely, I am making progress. Wife seems inclined to follow and we are digging the house out. Projects: The cable is laid, terminated in keystones and a patch panel in a closet. Super clean. Right now, I have a probably 20 year old 10bt hub connecting everything and it's still way faster than wifi was. New gigabit switch in the mail. Woohoo. No more adventures in the attic for a while. Lifting/Fitn…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/17 02:16 PM
2

It has been a while, but some guy propositioned my wife in front of me. I was inquisitive and amused, like he was a bug under glass, a specimen to examine. "No thank you. By the way, does this work for you often, offering to fuck other men's wives?"
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/17 01:55 PM
1

She is not very capable, we occasionally meet her friends but then it's together with me, the baby and the friends boyfriend. I personally dislike these kind of meetings because they are so Gay. What is wrong with going out and hanging with the boyfriends of your wife's girlfriends? You can only hang out with people that are found by you? Try and be versatile. Right now, you are the one that sounds gay.
/r/askMRP25/09/17 04:53 PM
5

Damn dude. You can't go a day without paying a chick to throw her tits in your face? You are paying for validation and not working on your life. Subtract strip club. Add gym visits.
/r/askMRP24/09/17 02:35 PM
2

Remember this, the phone is for setting dates This is key for many reasons. Communicate with an outcome in mind. When you have achieved the outcome close the communication. This makes you scarce (https://sites.google.com/site/724ecialdiniwiki/tyrone-dixon--scarcity-summary) and leaves her wanting more. If you can't achieve your desired outcome, you need to cut communication off quick anyway. No use wasting your time on cows that won't give milk.
/r/askMRP23/09/17 01:30 PM
1

I wish I had a rack. Craigslist is great. I have a commercial rack probably from the 80s-90s that I picked up for 500$. You do need a LOT of space though and some racks require a high ceiling. If space is an issue, I really like powerblocks. I lifted for years with just a bench and a set of powerblocks. other than to do curls and situps. Ha! Hey, I do assistance! Curls! Interesting lactic acid stuff, I'll have to look into that. Thanks!
/r/askMRP21/09/17 07:16 PM
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Do not leave the house without talking to a lawyer. Trial separation is because you are too much of a pussy to divorce your wife. You prepared to have your wife take cock on the side and then you move back in? No? Then just get divorced.
/r/askMRP21/09/17 01:30 PM
1

2 plates is when I started getting a lot of respect from other guys in the gym and IOIs from other women working out, so that's probably a pretty solid place to be regardless :) Yeah, I don't lift in the gym much (have a rack at home) but I'm definitely not one of the noobs when I go there. I have been grinding for a while, I have made some form improvements, but it's going to take a while still. I think that I need to focus a bit more on assistance lifts, too much focus on the main lifts has le…
/r/askMRP21/09/17 01:07 PM
9

I would love to always have a snappy retort. This isn't something reasonable to expect, we aren't a bunch of quippy bitches on Gilmore Girls. Sometimes keeping quiet and not giving in is plenty good enough.
/r/askMRP21/09/17 12:52 PM
24

You have never had a blowjob until you have had your dick sucked by a girl who is truly grateful to suck your dick.
/r/askMRP21/09/17 12:44 PM
2

Damn, sounds like you lifted that. I don't test for ORM, but I doubt I could bench much higher than two plates. Though this last cut I went on pretty much wrecked me, so I'm going to have to build up again. Unfortunately, most people who wander in here are completely untrained, so, no unless you have been around a while or lifted independent of MRP, no. I'm not huge by any means, but I'm bigger than most random dudes on the street. Doesn't take much to be top 10% when 90% of people don't lift an…
/r/askMRP21/09/17 03:36 AM
1

You bench press 275lbs? Damn.
/r/askMRP21/09/17 01:55 AM
1

I do that, and browse Reddit over VPN only. Slacker. Back in the day, I'd use ghostzilla. Pretty nice app, but I believe it was abandoned. Might still be available though.
/r/askMRP21/09/17 01:52 AM
1

If she is that much overweight, she can go to the doc and get legal meth, I mean amphetamines, I mean appetite suppressants. They will destroy her hunger. You can also stop at any time. Gastric surgery is life changing. If you can't manage your calories before surgery, life is going to suck after surgery. I have seen someone eat a quarter of a hamburger and throw it up on the floor because it was too much food after surgery. She will never eat a normal meal again for the rest of her life. Edit: …
/r/askMRP20/09/17 04:58 PM
1

I need to go on a cut. I can kind of see abs in the right light but jesus christ I need to get rid of that persistent baby fat BS. Boy do I feel that statement. Midsection is the last to go for me and most persistent.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/17 11:34 PM
1

LOL, I wish. Local wifi is congested as fuck. Everyone has 2-3 routers per house, and the asshole a few doors down is running double width ht40. "Wifi Analyzer" on an Android phone will show you all of it. The only way to win the wifi game in my neighborhood is not to play. Hardwire is going to be fucking sweet. I got my flex bits out of the wall, had to cut another hole in the the wall, but I was able to fish a wire through, so hooray. I may also run a wire to the garage, but I'd be perfectly h…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/17 11:25 PM
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