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1 in 5 women get raped in some point in their lives, If I remember correctly, that figure is pure bullshit. Citation needed.
/r/seduction09/01/21 11:29 AM
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Having good hair is the number one qualifier, Hahaha good one... This must mean that all the times women were glued to me, calling me sexy or awesome, I suddenly had full hair... Truth is: I shave my head clean for the past 15 years. Try again my friend.
/r/seduction18/11/19 05:15 AM
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I've been reading your posts some while ago and I remember you said you were on the autism spectrum, right? Anyway, you seem to have been doing a lot of work, and that's great! One thing you should keep in mind though is that at one point you become blind to what you're doing. Maybe you should find someone to wing you, so you can maybe get some first hand perspective from someone else that might point out some problems you can't see. In any case, don't give it up! You've put in a lot of work alr…
/r/seduction07/10/19 11:25 AM
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Is it believed to be one person doing this and posting legitimately about (one or 2 topics, the first is the restaurant incident, the second is "are my looks good enough") over and over, no difference, always the same things? Yes. I have encountered this post about ... 3 years ago for the first time. I have a pretty good memory, and I engaged with him at first, and I can tell you, he is either seriously mentally ill (hence the repetition and the trouble of opening new accounts by the dozens) or …
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:25 AM
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Actually, I skimmed through his recent post history, that's where my suspicion was confirmed. This guy is a known visitor for at least the past 3 years (which was the first time I read his "UK" story) and he is coming up as it seems like every week with a new account posting the same stories over and over, but hey, I am amused by his reluctance.
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:21 PM
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Why? Just wanted more answers How many do you need? 3million? You were posting this shit for the past 3 years constantly. I have told you before, you are mentally ill, get therapy. You think it’s fake? Yes, I still think it's fake, as much as your other stories you constantly repeat, no matter how many answers you get. I still believe that you must get some sexual gratification from coming up with this crap, so I guess it's masturbation day again for you...
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:12 PM
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Oh! The novel porn guy again lol, didn't you tell me this story were true? Well, obviously you are trolling, or... Could it be the "UK did the girls make fun of me?" guy? at least your writing style matches. Anyways, guys, any kind of comment is wasted time on this guy... ​ edit: Oh shit! Am I good!!.... It IS this autistic fetish guy who always comes up with this "UK girl making fun of me" story for the past 3 years, you really have some mental issues, see a therapist, this is not healthy behav…
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:07 PM
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Dude, the problem is that you're still thinking about it and spamming about it so many days years later. ​ He's been posting this literally years ago on a weekly basis. He must have some mental deficiency, probably some strong form of autism.
/r/seduction20/06/19 02:53 PM
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Dude... you got probably thousands of replies, since you are posting this same post for as long as I am an active subscriber of this sub, which is about 3 years by now. Get professional help (something that I told you at least 20 times during those 3 years already...)
/r/seduction20/06/19 02:51 PM
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Do you work close to a place where a lot of people walk from and to somewhere? If you see an attractive girl, approach and try your best.
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:37 AM
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What are you actively doing to get sex? Put in the work and you will be rewarded.
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:33 AM
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I don't know about the u.s. But I am naturally blonde with blue eyes (archetypical German) and I always felt very attracted to darker skin, dark hair and dark eyes. Naturally, the women I've been were 99% darker skin with darker hair and eyes. Most of them told me they are very attracted to guys with my features, so what canarywocoalmine said is pretty much a thing.
/r/seduction07/05/19 04:51 AM
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I sent her a text and she sent one back meaning so it went pretty well. Yeah I’m very inexperienced so I guess that can be an insecurity. The phone call wasn’t as awkward as I thought but anyways it went well See, it's all fine. Just relax, the rest comes from doing this a few times, and in no time you feel like it's second nature to you.
/r/seduction06/05/19 12:31 PM
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I think you've jumped to some conclusions. Let me break down what I mean more clearly because we probably ultimately agree. ​ Actually, i give you that, you are probably right. ​ If anyone walks up to me in the street and starts talking, I will hear them out (unless I am actually late for something already, in which case I'll tell them that and apologise). ​ That sounds very polite ​ I talk to them because I don't know what they want yet and I'm not going to assume its something unimportant. It'…
/r/seduction06/05/19 12:00 PM
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Wait... 6 hours? Why are you stressing about 6 hours? Women have lives, you should know that. Contrary to the idea that all women are always texting, many or even most of them don't. Give it time and also, don't you have shit to do yourself? If you had you would've forgotten about her already instead of obsessing over her not replying.
/r/seduction06/05/19 11:08 AM
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I can already imagine how sexy it will be if you constantly ask her "is it ok if i put my dick into your vagina?" .. "can I go faster?" .. "may I kiss you?" and so on... ​ All this consent bullshit... If she doesn't say "I don't want that" she consents, this is how it always worked and will always work no matter how loud those fucking feminazis shriek.
/r/seduction06/05/19 10:59 AM
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Thanks for the clarification
/r/seduction06/05/19 10:55 AM
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It's not traumatic, it's just like... annoying and off putting. Like if I want someone to approach I'll smile or generally give some indication that its chill. Well I was being sarcastic, but thank you for providing your viewpoint (This one is not sarcastic) Also you can tell by how someone is walking if they don't want to be bothered. Like if I'm clearly in a rush and someone stops me for no real reason it's annoying. You would be annoyed too. Well, I usually don't get annoyed by people asking …
/r/seduction06/05/19 09:09 AM
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Why are you so insecure? She called you back, which is a sign of attraction, and how is it awkward to talk on the phone, saying it's not face to face, but you text her, which is also not face to face? You don't make any sense. Here's what I think you should do: be honest. You panicked, and that's not a big deal if you own it. It also shows that you are inexperienced, which is also no big deal, just own it. It will come in time. Next time you have this situation make sure that you know it's not t…
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:53 AM
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What exactly are you asking? How to beat depression? You should see a psychologist for that. Just for clarification on being deaf, I'm no native English speaker, so I'm not sure if deaf means actually not being able to hear anything, or if it just means having trouble hearing. About being deaf on one ear, that sucks bad, but I don't see any problem with that in terms of meeting women. I have tinnitus from my early childhood and I always thought it was normal until I read about that it wasn't, I …
/r/seduction06/05/19 06:05 AM
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I moved to Germany from my lovely home country USA for a better safer life. But little did I know that people here in Germany are one of the most closed minded and conservative people. ​ Why does it feel like you are one of those ideologically driven spoiled brats who started sperging about trumps election? If you actually left because of that, you at least did something instead of whining like the others, but Germany? Really? The country with the most incompetent government? I also wonder if yo…
/r/seduction02/05/19 11:30 AM
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Don't worry, improvement comes with time and work. If you keep your mind open to learn from your experiences, you will get better pretty fast. so if I'm doing well with one I sorta tend to invest in just that one too much Understanding that is a very important step, so congratulations, you're on the right path. The good thing is, the more you interact with attractive women the more confident you get and the less you care about the outcome. Try to flirt with every attractive girl you meet, just f…
/r/seduction02/05/19 05:57 AM
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what exactly do you do if someone crosses your boundaries after you've already told them? Depends on the person and the connection I have to said person. Random people: "hey random person, keep your distance to me." Work colleague: "I actually don't want to associate with you, thank you", then I will minimize the personal talk to 0. Friends: "you don't value my boundaries, and I warned you enough times about thatz, I won't tolerate such disrespect, don't contact me again." Girlfriend: "it's over…
/r/seduction02/05/19 05:46 AM
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Don't get me wrong here, but you sound like you don't have a lot of experience with women. Reading your post made me think that you are putting her on a pedestal, and that is never a good idea. Combine that with the fact that you work in the same company, and you have a recipe for the perfect disaster. So, that being said I want to give you my opinion on how this could turn out as something good. First off: calm down. Dude relax. Be aware that girls know their effect on guys, and a lot of them u…
/r/seduction02/05/19 05:33 AM
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I've sent a re-start text today, referring back to our old jokes. Well, that wasn't my advice, actually the complete opposite of it. But that's what usually happens, and however it will go, you hopefully learn something from that. Now I'm usually a negative person so I'm just going to assume the worst: that either she'll give me a shitty reply or won't reply at all. This is a whole other story, and it explains some things. The thing is, you should build your life up, learning that women are not …
/r/seduction01/05/19 08:50 AM
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What is the big drama here? I don't see anything bad here. You were showing insecurity so what? If she liked you, she will get back to you. Now the only thing you can reasonably do is to stop texting her and occupy your mind with something else. Like I said, there's nothing to recover from, people are very forgiving for stupid little mistakes like that, if they like the other person.
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:59 PM
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Stop taking advice from this sub. So, why should anyone take advice from you then?
/r/seduction30/04/19 08:49 AM
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If you look at it form another angle, society is necessary for people. Being alone kills people slowly, I have experienced this, and it was hell. Also never forget, if it wasn't for society, we all would have a miserable hard life, probably also very short, so it is a price we have to pay for security and a not too bad life. ​ When it comes to work, I can only disagree on your sentiment. I enjoy my work, since I can completely use my potential and I have felt useless without it. I think it is in…
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:06 AM
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were u unemployed for mental health issues? At first I didn't know what I should do for a living, and the things taht I tried made me depressed. Then I burned out after working two years in callcenter having to deal with angry customers for 5 hours daily... It took me many years to recover from that, and then I didn't know how to get back on track. i'm unemployed bc i cant take the shit anymore. look up hampton brandon on youtube. i feel like i could end up like that In my case it was simply tha…
/r/seduction29/04/19 08:25 AM
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Like I said, I have been going through some seriously bad shit. My father ruining my credit when I was 21, Losing my mom when I was 23, Being unemployed between 25 and 30, being ugly, fat and depressive. I got close to the point of taking my life too. I didn't because I felt ashamed for giving up. Now I am 42, and I am still fat, I was never ugly really, but also never really handsome. I still always find girls who tell me how sexy and hot I am. This has been a hard ride for me, and I was about …
/r/seduction26/04/19 12:16 PM
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Big mistake, but I don't blame them. They just wanted to see me get better :) This reminds me of a book I once got which was about depression in combination with family. It described the problem pretty well, as you said, they want the best for you, but they have no experience nor knowledge about this really serious issue, and when they give advice which is form their perspective the best advice ever, and it doesn't have any effect, they feel helpless. Really interesting perspective I didn't know…
/r/seduction26/04/19 09:44 AM
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I'm going to change everything really ​ This is not an easy task, and it will take time. Took me years to realize i had depression since my teens, and many more years to be stable at all, and even nowadays in my 40's, I struggle with light depression during the winter time. So hang in there and never stop fighting your demons. ​ I mean I came to fast and too hard because I'm 24 and felt I lost my best years due to incompetence ​ I would love to laugh at that, and I can tell you why: I wasted 10 …
/r/seduction25/04/19 12:39 PM
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You are absolutely right, but my biggest weakness is I never give up on people... I at least have to try.
/r/seduction25/04/19 11:28 AM
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But now I’m itching to text her again but I’m beyond terrified of not being ready for a relationship ​ I feel you man... I was scared of commitment too, for too many years, and still feel uneasy about the idea, but if the opportunity arises I will go in, head first, since being scared about it is weakness I don't want to cultivate anymore in myself. Just realize that you can end it if you don't like it, also sometimes in life you have to face your fears, this will only make you grow. ​ I’m scare…
/r/seduction25/04/19 09:46 AM
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Why are men attracted to boobs? Smartass Mode on: when we evolved from walking on four legs to bipedal motion, the breasts began to get full and round to emphasize on fertility in women. Before that it was the display of a females rear end, and since the wasn't so prominent anymore, the breasts evolved to mimic that display. Also, we are being breastfed, and therefore men and women alike find them beautiful since they were our main means of connection with our mother and our sole source for nutr…
/r/seduction25/04/19 08:46 AM
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Well, it's basically impossible for us to make a judgment about how she meant it, but in general I don't take things like that seriously, as long as she is engaging in a fun conversation I'd say it's fine. On the topic of you wanting to go out with her, you might want to be more assertive. Don't leave the ball in her court. Pick something fun that you do, and then ask her "Hey I'm going to do <insert fun activity> on <insert day and time> If you know how to behave, you can join me" this would ha…
/r/seduction25/04/19 08:19 AM
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To me it sounds like this: you are bantering, then you make a bold joke about that she loves you, in my understanding this is meant in a exaggerating way, and she replies in that way too by saying that's debatable. I too like to do those jokes and usually I expect the girl to deny it just for fun, since I don't take myself too seriously left alone her, it's just fun and banter. Don't read too much into it. You could reply with "ouch! Now you broke my cold dead heart... Oh wait, that was just air…
/r/seduction25/04/19 07:56 AM
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I'm way better looking than her exes ​ Here's another lesson to learn: Looks don't matter as much as you want. Women want more than just a nice packaging, and what you have to offer is not enough for her. This is why you have to develop yourself, charm, intellect, confidence, stability, worldview. I see a lot of potential to improve from reading you comments, for instance your obsessive behavior and your nice guy attitude, which are the biggest turn offs.
/r/seduction25/04/19 06:43 AM
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Wow... just wow.... you are extremely creepy. Take her advice before you do something stupid and ruin her and your life because you can't control yourself...
/r/seduction25/04/19 06:38 AM
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She never gave me a chance, and keeps dating ugly unedcated douchebags ​ Fucking hell... She's trying to help you! You are behaving like the typical trope of a nice guy. "If she gave me a chance she would know how good I am for her" and "she's only dating uneducated ugly douchebags"... This is absolutely super creepy, dude get a grip on reality. ​ I'm simply a better choice. ​ No. you're not. Otherwise she would have picked you. You feel entitled to her and that is disgusting. Sorry for my harsh…
/r/seduction25/04/19 06:37 AM
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Last summer I payed for 2 glasses of wine, food and a cinema ticket for a woman. Weird... How do you come with this now? And then she didn't want to come to my home. No way... How could she... Judging from your usual hate fueled posts I can't really see why she would. I just walked off without a word, or maybe I said "ok" and then walked off, don't remember. This perfectly describes your mentality. You actually feel entitled to a girl just because you pay for drinks and a movie? If you were actu…
/r/seduction25/04/19 04:58 AM
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Juts think about it, if you are not into fishing, would you frequent a forum which was about fishing? Women don't need to learn how to be a man, they are not men, and they have control over which man will have sex or not.
/r/seduction24/04/19 01:27 PM
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Man, you're so full of limiting beliefs... First off you actually care that a girl comes up with this bullcrap line of: "I only date tall muscular guys". Sure, she might be stuck up shallow bitch, but usually, it's what they know to be masculine, a guy that will fuck her hard and manhandle her in bed. The good news is: this is a belief they have based on their experience of such men, who are super confident and not scared of rejection. Those guys know their appeal to women and use it. You can do…
/r/seduction24/04/19 12:32 PM
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"Do you want to come to my place and watch some porn on my 85Inch mirror?" ... well... there are no good canned openers.
/r/seduction24/04/19 11:06 AM
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she had a previous and only partner for 7 years before me she isn’t inexperienced sexually but I think things were quite vanilla with her ex, unlike with me and mine. the second I begin to insert a finger, she seems to begin to slowly but surely close her legs very tightly, she puts up a LOT of resistance in her legs. ​ So... those are the things that stand out. For starters, having one sexual partner in 7 years, I would not call that experienced, but that is not a problem in itself. What you de…
/r/seduction24/04/19 10:45 AM
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But how to understand that she is ready to fuck? It definitely looks like you are trying desperately to skip the necessary steps to make her want to have sex with you. You said you had 50+ dates, so to me it looks like you are either exaggerating or you haven't had sex with any of those girls which would show that you are doing something very wrong, and I can only guess that it's missing Kino, flirting, and not really making her hot for you. I might be wrong with my conclusion though. In any cas…
/r/seduction24/04/19 10:25 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction24/04/19 07:13 AM
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The worst part is that, I drove her home later and she asked if she can kiss me. How is that a bad thing? She made the effort to close the gap I felt so freaking embarrassed that. For? It doesn't sound like things did not go anywhere, so what's the deal? I am totally not good at flirting. It does not come natural to me I would say that it doesn't come naturally to anyone. It's a learned behavior. It incorporates banter, teasing, innuendos, body language and the way you look at a girl. Maybe you …
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:46 AM
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Let me ask you a serious question. How long have you waited for texting her? One, two, three days? A week? Let me guess, at most half a day? The point is this: if you stop texting her, she will start to miss you and then text you. if that doesn't happen, she's not interested as much as you are,and you can move on.
/r/seduction23/04/19 09:21 PM
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Dude... Stop! Relax... Have your date, and fucking relax! If you keep this over thinking up, and play these silly games you will end up chasing her away. Hammer this into your mind: if you go out with a girl, have fun. Show your intentions from the beginning, and enjoy the ride. If she feels attracted to you, she will make it easy for you! Even if this date does not go anywhere, and trust me I stopped counting the ones that went nowhere, you will meet another girl, and try again, and another gir…
/r/seduction23/04/19 09:18 PM
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Lol if she followed 3 then it would be something
/r/seduction23/04/19 03:27 PM
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Think about it: There are people who actually believe the earth is flat. They even write articles on blogs about tit, and if you have no Idea what they are talking about in terms of understanding the claims they make, or when they come up with scientific terms you don't know, you might be inclined to just believe. Same here, there are guys who believe it, and make it sound scientifically proven, but both of those examples lack one very important thing: Scientifically peer reviewed literature and…
/r/seduction23/04/19 01:50 PM
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Im just a little mad at myself for giving in when she said she wanted it to be done. I never do this. But because i had a little to drink i gave in and made myself look weak. If you knew what stupid shit I pulled off already, and still sometimes do... Now if only i can stop myself from thinking about thiis shit. Well this will stop at one point, so don't worry, maybe write a song about that or something. I remember that it helps to write down what I feel when I was angry and tried to hold it in.…
/r/seduction23/04/19 01:11 PM
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Mhmm that must be a culture/age thing, I haven't heard that before nor have I been asked for Facebook or Instagram at all yet
/r/seduction23/04/19 01:01 PM
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No worries man, only people I care about can ever offend me, and I don't mind being wrong at all, it means I learned something new. Back to the topic: your observations are absolutely correct, but mine are as well. This shows the fact that women are not a hive mind, and if done right, women like to see the cock they are going to suck. There are also many women who have a fetish for that. And sure, there are lots of women who are scared to be judged if they admit they love seeing a cock, it could…
/r/seduction23/04/19 12:58 PM
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And what is your question?
/r/seduction23/04/19 10:32 AM
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Bottom line, i fucked up one of my options by gettin in my feelings and showing that I cared. Smh i know better! ​ I disagree with that. It didn't go to shit because you cared. It went to hell because you lost your cool, when you probably usually had this "dangerous" appeal to her, if you know what I mean. This whole story sounds like you both weren't a good match anyways, if you get drama so early in a relationship, it won't get better, trust me, I know that from experience. ​ Anyways, one thin…
/r/seduction23/04/19 09:33 AM
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I actually think women who friendzone you keep you on the backburner in the hope that you improve, or knowing full well that they can have you when it suits them. ​ Of course there are several different reasons for them to do that, but the most obvious one is: they don't feel attracted to that guy. This is also the reason that getting out of the friendzone is absolutely possible. ​ Its a big ego hit to them when this doesn't happen of course. ​ Yes, sometimes it is, but sometimes it is just that…
/r/seduction23/04/19 08:09 AM
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Strange... Pretty much every girl I had sex with asked me at one point for dick pics... I must be dating aliens or something... But who am I to judge, I only have real experience instead of repeating what others say
/r/seduction21/04/19 12:27 PM
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EDIT: the cheating married woman is just as wrong as the guy who knowingly pursues a woman he knows is married...both are just aa shitty. In this regard I disagree in one point: The married person has a "contract" he/she will break, and this is objectively shitty, the other party though is not bound to any "contract" but the societal expectations random strangers would love to put on them. This is called morals, and the fact that there are countries where being gay is punishable by law, leading …
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:37 PM
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Come one man... Look at the majority of posts here, how could you not get that impression?
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:30 PM
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I wish I could do the same as you but unfortunately I’m entrapped in this virtual world. Out of all social media outlets I only have Facebook but that’s because I have many international friends and relatives which whom I’d like to stay connected. ​ You can. Ever heard of: telephones? Mail? Flights to other countries? Sure, it makes things harder, but imagine that you are not the first human on this planet that has this requirement, and before facebook, people managed to stay in touch too. ​ I t…
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:25 PM
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girls take it harshly. ​ Do they or is that just a "what if" scenario?
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:22 PM
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I can't remember one woman ever asking me for facebook, twitter, instagram or what else bullshit platforms there are. Maybe it just depends on the geography or age, I don't know, but in general if a girl ever asks me, I would simply say I don't care, and it would not make a difference.
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:20 PM
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You romanian? haha
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:17 PM
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in Turkey things are pretty hard. That would be due to the different culture. I have been growing up there, so I would say I know what I am talking about. Although, my experience dates back to the late 80's and I wasn't living in a particularly western city like Istanbul (where you would probably have more success). I remember the general mindset that people have to be very traditional, women are scared to be open to men in fear of being judged and possibly having repercussions if they don't rem…
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:17 PM
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hahaha love that username lol
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:33 AM
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Where am I encouraging it? I say it's ok. It is not cheating, and I franky drop a big brown pile of steaming shit on anyones subjective morals.
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:30 AM
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Why are you making an argument then? I presented my arguments in detail, and all you come up with is "nah", you don't see how stupid this makes you look.
/r/seduction18/04/19 07:26 AM
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Oh, an NPC. What secret phrase do I have to use to unlock your capability to form coherent arguments, left alone answering my question about how many times your "I just want to fuck so women have to give it to me" worked? Come on, be honest, isn't that what you always are?
/r/seduction17/04/19 01:20 PM
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That's some BS you think would happen. When I talk dirty to the girl, the tension increases. A woman is attracted to boldness, vulnerability and non-needines. Imagine this: Some random guy starts talking dirty to the girl out of nowhere, what do you think will happen? Try it out and come back to report to us. Now imagine this: You were talking to the girl, shared your interests, made her feel like a relatable person, and you sprinkled sexual talk in between, and now you start talking dirty, how …
/r/seduction17/04/19 12:36 PM
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How do I get a woman comfortable with talking about sex? I feel like anything regarding the topic and women will give you that weird sideways "wtf" look. By being comfortable about the topic yourself. Of course she needs to trust you to some degree, first. I have taken on the habit of not censoring my speech, and in the beginning I got these weird side looks from friends too, this is due to them not being used to this behavior and being a beta they will try to shame you into getting back int you…
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:59 AM
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he hated when guys ask them over out of the blue This means "he didn't make me horny, so why would I want to go to his place?" What is the fix for that? escalate, tease her, make her chase you, Keep her on her toes, and maybe she will be the one asking to go to her/his place.
/r/seduction17/04/19 09:33 AM
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In general I see nothing bad or uncommon in your post, but this here sparked my interest: I legitimately could not tell you a single woman who I’ve successfully or unsuccessfully approached. I know I’ve done it more than once, but I can’t remember any of them for the life of me. Hell, I couldn’t tell you anything about my last girlfriend. I just don’t remember that. And it’s not for a bad memory, mine isn’t bad at all. If you weren't actually exaggerating by saying "I don't remember" and you act…
/r/seduction17/04/19 08:29 AM
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When we have these cycles, we will hang out and if we haven't reached that physical point yet, I'll usually end the evening with a kiss on the forehead. I would do it to show that I care, despite her being unsure of what she wants, that she knows I care. Usually this is a great and caring gesture, and I say that because a lot of women would love that and treat it with the utmost respect. Some don't, and that is sometimes due to issues I don't really understand. Reminds me of my dynamic with my F…
/r/seduction16/04/19 09:01 PM
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Anecdotally, I notice her social media today is filled with stuff about regret and how she's made mistakes, and about being depressed/believing things will work out for the best. That might be a try to get your attention, or just her trying to express herself without really knowing why she feels like that. Seems awfully coincidental, as she never posts stuff like that and I never ignore her message. I agree on that. My FWB sent me a couple of "I msis you" messages after a few months of cutting h…
/r/seduction16/04/19 08:57 PM
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But, does that mean cut all contact, period? Of course not. It would be the last resort, and it depends on how you deal with the issue at hand where you want her but she is distant. I know myself that at one point in my life I couldn't handle it, and with my FWB it was a whole lot of reasons, the biggest of course her disrespectful behavior, and in the end also the fact came into play that she tried to manipulate my best friend because I cut her out of my life. I would have given her another cha…
/r/seduction16/04/19 08:45 PM
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You can cook ravioli with a tent? Nice!
/r/seduction16/04/19 11:06 AM
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If you want to get out of this deadlock of not knowing where to start, make a list of things you don't like about yourself. Leave space for the things you actually do like and start filling that list. You will find that you come up with so many more things you dislike, at first, but the more you think and write the more things you find that you actually have going for you. Then pick the thing that is easiest to change, and start with that. This will give you a success, even if it's small, and af…
/r/seduction16/04/19 09:42 AM
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I wouldn't do that. I remember how cringy it felt reading comments on pictures of girls on online dating platforms, where guys where piling up with "you're so beautiful, please answer my message", imagine how much (or let's be real, how little) value it must have for the girl. They post these pictures to get put on a pedestal by weak guys, while they pursue the ones who don't give a shit and have opinions.
/r/seduction16/04/19 05:50 AM
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What was your "error" there? I don't see anything. Oh, I see it now, you are worrying too much. Hit her up for a date, or maybe call it hanging out, and then escalate. This way you get closure and stop analyzing her texts.
/r/seduction15/04/19 01:19 PM
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Those friends must be immature and inexperienced. Dating means sex. I wonder if they didn't tell her that. Everything else is called friendship.
/r/seduction15/04/19 01:16 PM
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I can assure you that not everyone likes the same things. Not everyone likes clubs, not everyone likes bars and so on. I would not go so far and claim the reason was some mental health problem, it is simply like it is, some people enjoy it some don't. Also, your point with "it's too loud to talk" is a very good one. Whenever I go out, which happens rarely these days, and when I talk to a girl, about 50% of the time I don't understand a word they say, and the next day I can barely speak since my …
/r/seduction15/04/19 11:43 AM
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So I'd like to know if you think this is actually just my akward old insecure self speaking, or if dance clubs are not for everyone and it's normal for me to not like them and feel awkward. ​ I don't like clubs either, never did. I agree the music sucks hard, and dancing is pretty much impossible for me if the music isn't "moving my body" so to say. The question if this is just due to some old insecurity, only you can answer that, but if you simply don't enjoy it, why would you do it?
/r/seduction15/04/19 10:52 AM
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Thanks for explaining. Being chill and smooth should be your second nature, and i'm sure that this is the only way that you could even have a chance on getting waitress to go out with you, since as others already stated, they re getting hit on by guys constantly, so they have a much stronger filter.
/r/seduction15/04/19 07:42 AM
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No condescension sensed in your response and I appreciate it considering all of bullshit in this thread. I am trying to help, so you're welcome I just plan on leaving my number on the slip with a nice tip and hope for the best... Nothing wrong with that right? I don't see anything wrong with that, since it leaves the ball in her court. You should not expect anything from it though. In general I think it's very hard to pull off, and I have not succeeded yet with picking up a waitress, even though…
/r/seduction15/04/19 07:40 AM
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Have you never gone camping? Usually people cook stuff there too, and they have little cooking devices... Weird huh?
/r/seduction14/04/19 05:29 PM
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Why do you think you need to appear "alpha"? What does that even mean? The problem with this mindset is that you will inevitably come off as weird. Be yourself, and best is if your self is fun and charming.
/r/seduction14/04/19 04:22 PM
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So many people already have, but you don’t want to hear it. That does not mean that he cannot try and be successful. I do agree though that trying to be "alpha" will end in disaster.
/r/seduction14/04/19 04:21 PM
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You can't control whether or not she might get hurt. The only way to not risk hurting her would be not to have sex with her, or not even approach. What you can and should do, is to show your intentions from the start, being honest about what you want. This way she can take care of herself and decide if she wants to take the risk.
/r/seduction14/04/19 12:53 PM
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What you are going through is pretty common, I bet it happened to many of us before. Of course she doesn't owe you anything, and you seem to understand that, but there is this dumb thing called feelings that fucks us over in such weird ways it's unbelievable. I find it interesting that she apologized to you about her one night stand, since it shows she is aware of your feelings about that. Now, lets get to the point here: You feel hurt, and this is nothing to just switch off. It will be there fo…
/r/seduction12/04/19 10:52 AM
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But. :( :( :( I REALLY JUST WANT her. I'm not a thirsty dude who falls for one girl; I will switch targets multiple times in a night even after putting in work. But this girl...shes would be in the top 3 or two women I've ever been with and I just want to make it happen but I CAN'T If I'm trying to put out flirtatious vibes and getting back mixed signals. I know that feeling. I think it is the fact that we cannot have every woman no matter how hard we try, and this is like kick in the balls. I r…
/r/seduction12/04/19 10:39 AM
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Its not like she is the only girl i am seeing. Just curious There's no concrete answer to this. Every person is different, and she could mean this literally or it's the common : "I am not interested in dating _you _." Best way to deal with it is to move on until she shows interest in what you want.
/r/seduction12/04/19 10:31 AM
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But to go out with a woman with that kind of attitude. The same type that made me miserable, for those several months I explored a particular dating platform. They copy-paste the same message over and over, they're from many states away or the opposite coastline... some of them would put in the email, "write your occupation in the subject line, please"... none of them cared about anything other than the job/money. That's it. Nothing else. They wanted to trade their looks for a guy who had money …
/r/seduction12/04/19 09:49 AM
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I knew this would upset some people, but I am serious. If you expect a woman to want sex, and you have her in a situation where she will know, this could lead to sex, she is already willing to have sex with you. As I said, this is field tested and worked. I could also go so far and tell you about how easy it is to get very shy women to do things you would never expect of them. My last girlfriend was one of those women. When we first met (we talked online for some time already), she was so shy, s…
/r/seduction12/04/19 09:28 AM
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So, you are a girl and you are talking about a guy? The answer is easy: men say what they think. Simple as that. He got the impression that you were flirting.
/r/seduction12/04/19 08:40 AM
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So now you are posting bullshit on two accounts? You really have issues you should talk to a psychologist about
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:38 AM
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You should never brag, it's a sign of low confidence. Someone who has, or can, doesn't have to tell others.
/r/seduction11/04/19 04:24 PM
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Compliments are a two edged sword. In the right way they can work in your favor, but if done wrong they will put you into her orbit. If you really want to start with a compliment, compliment something that is not too obvious and is about her way to dress, style or anything that she put in a lot of work. So no "you are beautiful" or "you have beautiful eyes". ​ More like "I really love your shoes, they look great with your skirt", or even "I have to admit you caught my eye wearing that dress, its…
/r/seduction11/04/19 03:10 PM
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Didnt ask, and Id rather not make these jokes (doesnt fit with my personality) That's fair, but I think you get the point I was making Just trolled her a bit and left hehe nice This is a very good reply, personally I wouldnt mention her friend though. If she brought her friend up, I would say something like "She doesnt have to know". That's actually a very good reply Dont remember exactly what I was thinking at the time. Looking back I probably should have stayed. She was hotter than the girls I…
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:51 PM
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Ok so by go out and talk to women do you mean just find random girls to talk to that you don’t even find attractive? This depends on your skill level. When I started, I was super shy and had no confidence whatsoever. I started commenting on small things with cashiers and boy did I feel uncomfortable doing that. After a while i stopped feeling weird, and it became a habit. Next step was approaching women in bars, for the sole purpose of talking, when I was drunk, and again, this felt sooo uncomfo…
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:20 PM
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Come on boy... On the Internet the only way to judge someone is on their words, and I read this sub regularly. You were standing out for your behavior which I am not really sure is just shitposting, trolling or if you really mean what you write, in which case I wonder how you even got through elementary school. Well, in any case, you are entertaining and a role model for people to not become like you :)
/r/seduction11/04/19 12:50 PM
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Your support for this method of exploiting the worst parts of the dating market--the whole "money/status" bullshit--is very disappointing, but I've got to say I'm not surprised. There is a difference between supporting something (which would mean that I do my part in this) and expressing that it is a pretty smart way to go about it. We both know that there are Golddiggers, as well as we both know that there are assholes on this planet.He found a way to use this for his benefit, and putting in th…
/r/seduction11/04/19 11:05 AM
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I smoke weed for 24 years now (started at 18) , sometimes with longer breaks, but then also for some periods daily. I'd say I turned out pretty well, but I also have a friend, my age who I know for as long as I smoke, and he's unfortunately a text book loser,dealing with gambling addiction, smoking a lot of weed and doesn't get anything done. He always says "I need weed to be able to sleep" which is a big indicator for a problem. So, if you are honest with yourself and say "I need weed to cope w…
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:57 AM
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Does it matter if she was a scam or not? I think all that matters is that she didn't play along your ruleset and has disqualified herself already. You wanted to see her or even talk to her first and she didn't want to. Just be assertive and know your own rules. If people don't play along, it's their right but also yours to say "OK, thx bye".
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:51 AM
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should I go after this girl now No. Go after the millions of other hot girls you potentially could meet and find out they are also as flawed or awesome as any girl.
/r/seduction11/04/19 07:58 AM
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There are a few things that come to mind reading this. It sounds like you rarely see attractive girls, while the world is full of them, why are you constraining yourself on one? Go out more. Then, you think you need to sit next to her to get in touch... Don't get me wrong, but this is something I only remember from my time back in elementary school. Grow a pair and approach her. Also you ask if you should become her friend first... This is so counterproductive to your cause it almost hurts. Have…
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:06 AM
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Yes. And I can only guess what you are asking what "this" means, according to the majority of people "this" is called "a reply", made up of "text" usually it is a mixture of "words" arranged in a way that it convey "information" using something that is called "language". In this case it is the so called "english" language. ​ Hope I could clear things up for you, if you still have questions, feel free to ask, no matter how stupid it might sound.
/r/seduction10/04/19 10:33 AM
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Alright, I am curious. Why are you posting this again? The first "10 times" you did (actually I don't know how often you did this, but it was a lot, and don't pretend you didn't you were posting on numerous subs about 2 years ago as far as I know) , you got so many replies, I believe i replied too giving you advice? ​ It seems like you are either a troll, some guy with a weird fetish, or your issues are more mental, why didn't you get help?
/r/seduction10/04/19 08:50 AM
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This!
/r/seduction10/04/19 08:35 AM
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Haha that's Gold
/r/seduction10/04/19 08:33 AM
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Damn... Now you got me... Wait, no that was just a fart... You sound like a broken LP, can't you do better than that? Maybe some threats of violence? I love those the most, I always imagine a 12 year old sitting in moms basement pretending to be such a badass... It really makes me laugh pretty hard
/r/seduction10/04/19 06:13 AM
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Lol. Where I come from there's a saying: if you cannot bring up any kind of intelligent argument, just hurl an insult at your opponent. You clearly are not the brightest candle on the cake, so I will try to explain it to you in a way you might understand: he fucks. Do you? One could think you are just bitter because you don't get any no matter how hard you try, and that would be sad, but understandable. The thing that I admire in his approach is the fact that he tries something ridiculous, somet…
/r/seduction10/04/19 06:11 AM
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Look how charming this little monkey can be, I wonder why women are so repelled by him...
/r/seduction09/04/19 02:27 PM
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Now every time we cross paths at uni she makes it a point not to look at me. ​ Why don't you act like a man and simply talk to her? She is acting childish, but you shouldn't be fazed by that. In your mind there are way more important things going on in your life, and you don't have time for games, hence you simply don't put any thought into her "weird behavior". ​ So next time you see her, walk up to her and tell her that you want to meet for a drink or whatever you like.
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:41 PM
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Are you suffering from tourette? You definitely need some real hard therapy.
/r/seduction09/04/19 10:46 AM
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Oh come on man... Don't be such a pussy. He wanted to get laid and he did, no harm was done to anyone, so would you please stop the moral shit for a second?
/r/seduction09/04/19 10:21 AM
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Well i read most of their bios and they say "they are looking for friends" Do they really? Don't be so naive. Why would anyone go on a dating site? right, for dating, hookups and validation. Women need to label everything about sex as something it isn't. Looking for friends means "I want to meet a guy that I want to fuck, but I don't want anyone to send me dick pics or outright tell me they will fuck me, since I don't want to be labeled a slut by other women. I also want to be as picky as I can,…
/r/seduction09/04/19 07:59 AM
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Actually, like i already mentioned, I have been commenting the same (I am talking about someone asking the same question with the same picture) many times, in a timespan of weeks, about two years ago. I also went to do a google picture search, but didn't find anything. In any case, this person doesn't want advice, this person has some weird mindset or is simply a troll, in any case it is a waste of time to give this person advice.
/r/seduction09/04/19 07:52 AM
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And you didn't get shamed for mansplaining? But seriously. Did it go anywhere? Number, date, sex?
/r/seduction09/04/19 07:05 AM
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Alright, but I don't think you could claim you haven't felt this way before. You're right, I felt like that before, but I never went around and insulted anyone who tried to help me, left alone calling women whores for not replying to me online. I still struggle with it greatly every day. I realized eventually though, it's not so much individuals or groups that I hate, but "mainstream conformity", the way it shapes behavior. There is no acceptable slot into which I fit. I understand your sentimen…
/r/seduction09/04/19 06:36 AM
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But OP didn't ask about that. OP is not the girl on that picture, op (or someone else) posted this on numerous other subs including this one, about two years ago with the same text. Op is either a troll or a weird dude.
/r/seduction09/04/19 06:03 AM
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And no one noticed that those are two different women on these pictures? Also, I remember the first picture having been posted about 2 years ago with the same text, probably some kind of weird fetish this guy has
/r/seduction09/04/19 06:01 AM
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I'm from Germany and we had a time when people (the most fitting description for them would be trailer park trash) named their boys "Kevin" which is pretty much a label for dumb and primitive here, recently those people started naming boys "Dustin" and girls "Jaqueline". All of those names are symbols for no education, no manners and extremely low intellect. Still those kids when grown up had sex. So maybe you stop obsessing over your name just to not address your inability to get with women, si…
/r/seduction09/04/19 05:58 AM
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Well you can try, just become a crazy but charismatic cult leader and rack up a larger following. Then invent the rule that all women have to have sex with you if you choose to, and the guys in the cult are only allowed to fuck girls you don't want. Don't forget to do regular human sacrifices to keep your followers in line, oh and keep in mind that you have to commit group suicide at some point to stay believable.
/r/seduction08/04/19 01:24 PM
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Im i really that stupid ? Well, looking for friends, online (probably on dating apps) is not the most intelligent decision... Im i really that boring and dumb and uninteresting?? And that worthless that idiotic? Stop the self loathing. ​ Let me tell you straight: You are fishing in the wrong pond. You will not find friends in online dating, it is not the right place for that. Even for dating, online dating is a waste of time, since it is flooded with thirsty dumb guys who bombard every girl with…
/r/seduction08/04/19 01:20 PM
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That is pretty easy: He always says the same things, he hates women, he hates all people, he talks about how all girls he talks to are whores, how angry he gets because they don't reply to him, he talks about how he hates other guys for being successful, and that in itself is a reason to say he's just an asshole, or mentally ill, but then whenever someone give advice, he only replies with "fuck you" or other slurs. So, either this guys has some really really serious mental problems, and will soo…
/r/seduction08/04/19 12:50 PM
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From what I read that would be logical conclusion. I personally hold it this way, I communicate that I am not interested in commitment, and she can do whatever she wants, see other guys and so on. and if the girl is not ok with it, she can leave.
/r/seduction05/04/19 12:56 PM
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Finding a hobby is simply being open to everything, trying things out and then if you like it you Want to do it again and again. So look around your city what things you could do and then just try it out.
/r/seduction05/04/19 07:53 AM
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Evo-psych. Social Darwinism. Those are not any wing, those are rooted in scientific evidence. No matter how much people might not like it. The importance of social status and money. I cannot recall him talking about money at all, what he says is that women want strong men in their lives. Also status is a very attractive thing, but he also doesn't, and cannot define status, since it is a vague concept, which is completely different for different cultures. Some of us can't hit the fuzzy benchmark …
/r/seduction04/04/19 03:05 PM
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Wait until you finally stick your penis into a vagina, after a few times you will start to love it in its whole glory
/r/seduction04/04/19 05:56 AM
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lol I would give you gold for that, if I wasn't such a cheap ass, thanks for making me laugh
/r/seduction03/04/19 08:05 PM
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I'm pretty sure we all know the answer. Women do that all the time. They are scared but also drawn to toxic men because they display those super attractive traits of being extremely independent and free. After they get their ass kicked they make excuses for the guy, how he's just misunderstood and all that. Long story short, dude, run. You will very likely not be happy with her, probably because she will be bored of you because you are not like that guy, hence not as addictive.
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:58 PM
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Good for us that luck is in our hands, it's a simple formula: be prepared and look for opportunities, when one manifests itself, grab it.
/r/seduction03/04/19 10:28 AM
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The real world is the same way. Actually no. Yeah she's got dudes swiping at her left and right and approaching her left and right. Lol no. Men these days are too weak to talk to women (this is why they swarm those online dating platforms, getting all angry and bitter because all the "bitches only play with them"), and when they do, they are uncalibrated and/or drunk. She doesn't owe you anything. That is absolutely true! Run your game. Don't expect her to pitch in until you've shown yourself wo…
/r/seduction03/04/19 08:21 AM
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Actually when I watch porn, I usually go for lesbian porn, I am just not a fan of seeing dicks and hairy asses as well as the infamous widescreen balls shot... gross...
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:48 AM
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I just don’t get why she reaches out after I tell her I don’t want to be friends and to message me only if she wants to work things out. Well, you and her were together, so you both bonded, just because she doesn't see you anymore as a sexual option doesn't mean she want's to let go of the guy who carries her on his hands. This isn't happening consciously, it's learned behavior stemming from her upbringing as a girl in society, they are always in demand by guys and they can pick from a wide vari…
/r/seduction02/04/19 05:25 PM
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If someone treats you like crap you need to call them out on their horrible behavior. Yes, if someone comes to you and punches you in the face, or bullies you, sure. But... Like Sunzi said in his book "choose your battles". Calling someone out will only work if the person care, and frankly, most people do that to do damage for feeling "hurt". The biggest "stand up for yourself" is to just walk away. For instance, I walked away laughing, so many times from guys who tried to get me into a fight an…
/r/seduction02/04/19 05:01 PM
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mean, lesbians are able to get each other off, and I'm pretty sure neither of them have a larger dick than you. ​ Well, judging from the various porn videos of girl on girl action, they are using really big, huge, gigantic dildos to get off lol
/r/seduction02/04/19 11:26 AM
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I just wanted to chime in quickly, I see that you are trying to break your negative thought patterns, good work man. What I would like to recommend is to maybe look into Jordan petersons work. He is talking a lot about "fighting the dragon" which is basically what you have to do, fight your "dragon" to succeed. ​ Maybe listening to his lectures might shed some new light on your suffering to give you a way out.
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:47 AM
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Thank you for your very intellectual input, I appreciate it.
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:40 AM
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Good luck man! do the best you can to achieve your goals!
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:40 AM
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Good for you pal. Thank you. Just watch out, because there are people out there who will fold you for doing what you do. Haven't had a problem in 40 years so far, but thank you. I also hope, if you ever decide to settle down, get married and have kids, that some guy similar to you doesn't show up and do what you do. Mhmm... I think I will just enjoy my life for the next 20 years, I am not really interested in settling Because that very well may ruin your kid's life. Yes, but that would be her fa…
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:39 AM
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I am sorry for what your girlfriend did to you, but you should blame her, not the hundred guys she slept with.
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:36 AM
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She basically just told me she doesn’t want to pursue anything with me rn since school is getting into the semester and summer break is coming. That basically means "I want to get fucked by a lot of men right now, but one day (when I am not in demand anymore) I might want to settle... For you." Apart from the other stuff you mentioned, which screams "give me attention!!!! You are my super super bestest friend evar!!!" you should ask yourself what you want. It is absolutely ridiculous for anyone …
/r/seduction02/04/19 06:24 AM
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Nice, trying to start a discussion with insulting your opponents and playing the moral busy body. Well, let me say this much: no matter how much you despise guys like me, I will never care enough about your moral standpoint to stop doing it. Life is no theme park, life means survival of the fittest and its terribly brutal, you really should realize that since you won't change that.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:16 PM
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Well it's sad enough that you suffered from depression, and I know what I'm talking about, depression is a fucking bitch, but as long as you are getting help you should not be scared. To the topic of rejection: it only hurts if you care. The reason you care is that you are probably lonely, grasping for any kind of relation some girl might offer you, and then you commence with picturing a perfect future fantasy of you both together. Trust me, I've been exactly there. What you should do: make clea…
/r/seduction28/03/19 06:42 PM
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I'll tell you something, stop caring. Throughout your life you will always meet people who don't like you or who act in weird ways. Only if you actually did something wrong apologize or even care. Anything else is a waste of your time.
/r/seduction25/03/19 12:40 PM
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Pretty sure they're just mirroring your behavior
/r/seduction25/03/19 12:35 PM
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Partly a good point but for the most part you confuse coincidence and causality.
/r/seduction23/03/19 09:59 PM
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I had a date in summer last year where the girl told me I was too similar to her ex, so how do you think this would help you? You are seeking for objective advice for subjective matters, which is very much a waste of time. Also this way you give too much of a shit about what some random people think of you. Better ask yourself: am I great? Why not? What can I do to become great? Am I picking the right women? Do I see a pattern in what I do and does it affect my chances in a negative way? What wi…
/r/seduction23/03/19 09:56 PM
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Which will end in hundreds of contradicting advices from those various different girls... Not really helping anything.
/r/seduction23/03/19 09:51 PM
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Usually the easiest way to get into the friendzome is to giver this sentence: "I love you! You are the most beautiful girl in the world".
/r/seduction23/03/19 09:48 PM
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It also only works if you care. People have no power over you if you don't let them shame you.
/r/seduction22/03/19 03:57 PM
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Actually the last time I used it, it was a sausage fest anyway, dudes wanking off to strangers everywhere, so doesn't even matter.
/r/seduction22/03/19 03:56 PM
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Think about this: can you have sex with her in the movie theater? Do you plan on having sex with her? If you invite her to your home she knows what's going to happen, if she doesn't reject that, it's on. I guess you know what your answer will be, right?
/r/seduction22/03/19 03:50 PM
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Look, as much as I respect your right to have your own opinion, I also see only hateful gibberish as long as you don't explain what your point is. Also, one could think you see yourself as the arbiter of what is right and what is wrong, and I am 100% you are not the one to decide what is right or wrong. So, would you provide a more thoroughly formulated explanation as to why he is "going about it the wrong way"? Maybe he will learn something, as well as I might learn something too.
/r/seduction22/03/19 10:30 AM
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The feature of the penis I described is present in others animals. The border of the head of the penis has a larger width than the actual width of the "trunk", this way it can grasp the remainin sperm on the wall of the vagina. This isn't from me but from research paper. Is this research paper talking about Humans? I would love to read that. So far we don't really know the purpose of the orgasm. The studies on this subject didn't conclude that but maybe you have one that say so ? If yes please d…
/r/seduction22/03/19 10:27 AM
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Alright, let's talk evolution and biology: if a penis is very big how will it "push out" sperm? It would seal the way out. Also, did you take into account that a vagina can dilate to the point a baby comes out? Something that doesn't happen when having sex, since in a optimal scenario her muscle will contract to the point where it seals itself around the penis. When a women orgasms (which is the best case for pregnancy), her vagina will suck the sperm into her "womb" (I actually don't have the m…
/r/seduction21/03/19 02:52 PM
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Don't be needy. It will kill your chances. Also you left out any details to judge what she might think, even though it should not bear any weight anyway, since only she knows. Best option is to not pursue her, and concentrate on meeting more women so you have more choices to pick from.
/r/seduction21/03/19 10:22 AM
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How so? Because he wants to settle? This might be news to you but some people want commitment. Nothing wrong about that.
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:59 AM
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Looks like she dodged a bullet there
/r/seduction21/03/19 07:24 AM
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You're right, no guy ever in the food service industry got laid in the whole human history! It is just an invention by said industry that people who work there hook up all the time...
/r/seduction19/03/19 08:33 AM
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Made my day lol
/r/seduction19/03/19 08:28 AM
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What he means is that you try too hard to get her to like you. Not giving a shit means that you should just focus on living a great life, having fun, not focusing on a girl. Flirt with every girl you find interesting, but always make sure that there is something else that you want more than just this girl. This way you will suddenly attract more girls, because they want to be part of your life, and because you don't chase them.
/r/seduction19/03/19 08:22 AM
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When he's dead.
/r/seduction19/03/19 08:16 AM
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What is a "visor"? The only thing I can come up with is the thing that Data from Star Trek was wearing, and maybe it doesn't look good, ever thought about that? Sure it is very important to be confident, but there are also limits as to what society will accept. For instance, if you run around in your underwear, shave one side of your head and leave the other side with long neon green dyed hair, having tattoos in your face and hundreds of piercings, you will repell a lot of women. ​ To attract a …
/r/seduction19/03/19 07:36 AM
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The very moment you start caring about what she replies with rather than actually asking her out, is the moment where you have lost.
/r/seduction19/03/19 07:30 AM
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haha this is actually funny. Cold reading doesn't mean you should insult someone. Pro tip: Always think about how you would feel if someone came and "cold read" you by saing for instance "I think you are not getting laid". This might be true, but it is still insulting.
/r/seduction19/03/19 07:19 AM
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Let me ask you this: Imagine you are looking to catch fish, something to eat for instance or you want to compete in a fishing contest. What would you choose to fish in, a swimming pool, or the deep fertile ocean? ​ My best friend is like that. He doesn't go out at all, stays home all the time and he looks for women online on some local chat site. Once I looked into this site and I can tell you, I was so repelled by it... the majority of women are ugly as hell (this site has some kind of matching…
/r/seduction19/03/19 07:15 AM
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i just want to feel validated by hot chicks on tinder honestly bro. ​ You should work on that. You will never be happy if your only self worth is coming from the outside, since it will never be consistent. What happens if someone comes along and tells you that you're worth nothing? You will not be able to deal with it. ​ Work on yourself and validate yourself! This is the only consistent source of validation you will get.
/r/seduction19/03/19 07:04 AM
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Oh noes... It's the current year!!!
/r/seduction13/03/19 05:04 PM
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There doesn't have to be a reason. She either responds well or not.
/r/seduction13/03/19 05:03 PM
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and then felt obliged to ask about hers. And this cycle will continue until we have a full blown conversation over Snapchat that 1) I don't really care about and 2) I would much prefer to have in person. So how do I end this conversation quickly and naturally without being rude and leaving her on read? The long version would be exactly telling her this. ​ The short version would be to just tell her "... I would prefer to talk to you over a drink, lets say on <insert day> at <time>?" ​ Just be ho…
/r/seduction13/03/19 02:57 PM
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What could I do differently to improve my relationships with girls ​ What about talking to them? All I read is "I am attractive, I am sooo confident blah blah" but what I don't read is: "I talk to girls every day, and I am asking them out...". Look... Girls will not come to you and ask you if they can suck your dick, it doesn't work like that. You have to approach, you have to offer yourself to girls. you have to take the risks, not the other way around. Pro tip: Experiment with how far you can …
/r/seduction13/03/19 08:51 AM
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I got her snapchat when I went in break with her. She not snapping me as much as I thought. Welcome to the real world. All this social media nonsense... You should not waste your energy on things like that, you better go outside and talk to real people, it is a lot more fun. Should I tell someone who works with her, that i talk to, that shes cute and she will tell the girl I'm interested in Definitely not. You are not 6 anymore. Do you want to be seen as a man or as a weakling? Or should i just …
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:58 AM
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You should use a comma, I actually thought he should call her "bro" lol
/r/seduction12/03/19 10:09 AM
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> Not needy imo. Fun fact: She might (probably will) feel different about that > It's OK to communicate your feelings about this Sure it is, but that doesn't mean the addressed party will appreciate it. ​ I can tell you from experience that this type of behavior is extremely feminine and as a guy who want's to get laid, will hurt his chances a lot by doing that. If he was in a serious committed relationship, it would be less damaging, but she will think "What the f* dude? Are you a pussy?" while…
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:29 AM
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Don't forget your fedora while you play fortnite
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:25 PM
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Additional question, do you ever get over the feeling of wanting to fuck someone(if you see them on day to day basis)? Yes. Since at one point you realise she wasn't that worthy of your dick as you thought, and you have much hotter girls lining up to get a taste of it.
/r/seduction08/03/19 04:32 PM
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45 to 50 hours? That's nothing. Its more of an excuse not to move your ass. I've been working for 10 hours straight every day for the past four years, and I still had time to go out in the evening, and I'm 42. It's all about getting out of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction08/03/19 07:04 AM
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Was it really a date? Did you kiss her? If not, you should do that asap to make your intentions clear, otherwise you will be back here soon asking us again something we cannot know, while probably being super confused why "nothing happened" not even think about the fact that you didn't even try anything.
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:18 AM
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if you want younger girls on tinder then just knock down your age a bit... or a lot depending If you pull it off on your pics. Haha I did that on another platform, telling them I was 31 though I'm 41. I pass as 30 something so when the age came up a few times they were shocked. One girl started talking about how it would be a problem for her because I would stop working ten years before her, which raised a gigantic red flag for me, since I didn't even know her yet and she already talks about bei…
/r/seduction07/03/19 07:27 AM
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Too soft. It is OK to ask her out. State your intent clearly and as a man there's nothing to be scared about when it comes to asking someone a question.
/r/seduction07/03/19 07:21 AM
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Why the emphasis on texting? Do yourself a favor and stop texting in general. It's simply a waste of time. Use it as a tool to get meetups with people but don't try to hold conversations, it's useless for that.
/r/seduction07/03/19 07:19 AM
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Why so scared? You should go for what you want. There are basically two possibilities: she says yes to you and she says no to you. Based on experience this is already decided in her mind, and all you can do is to get that answer, there is no tactic that can raise the chances for her to say yes (only in rare cases there are)
/r/seduction07/03/19 07:15 AM
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Agreed on most points but this "If it was gonna happen it would have already happened.". Things don't just happen, one party has to actively do something until anything happens.
/r/seduction06/03/19 05:02 PM
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Well... Not friend zoned per say... But if you were to tell her you love her you'd creep her out. You might be able to turn things around by becoming more sexual and harder to get, but you'd have to risk something and it's a pretty long and hard journey to that territory.
/r/seduction06/03/19 05:00 PM
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I know I'm not a good person. Why? Because some random on the internet says so? If he was actually honest to himself, he would have pointed out that he doesn't know anything, and judging someone you don't know is absolutely pointless. On your topic I can only say: make up your mind about what you want from this girl and if your morals prevent you from going with what she offers, tell her honestly and make your choice. If you don't care, escalate it. I think in this case she had to make a decisio…
/r/seduction06/03/19 01:41 PM
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What drug are you on, and where can I get it?
/r/seduction06/03/19 01:37 PM
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There is only one answer: if you want to. Make sure you don't do it with the intention of getting into her pants, rather than "I Feel like buying this girl a drink because I feel like it without wanting anything in return".
/r/seduction04/03/19 05:30 PM
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I don't think you understand how this works. I seriously might not know, so I'm open to what you have to say. Just because there are hundreds of other guys seeking her attention, it doesn't mean that you can't stand out. Ok. Fair point, but... Have you ever looked into the mailbox of an attractive woman who is online on whatever platform? I have. I remember my Fwb telling me about her online dating account, showing me her mailbox... She mentioned that she couldn't bring up the energy nor the tim…
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:39 AM
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Also it's one of those things my friends told me not to shag my coworker/roommate but obviously if I like her I m not going to listen to them. That is a more complicated thing than just saying "don't date coworkers". The reason for people saying this is mostly because everyone is parroting it without knowing the full context, but it also has truth to it. As a grown up one should be able to assess the risks involved (drama, weird feelings, losing your job etc.). Even if you can say for sure you w…
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:24 AM
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She didn't reject you. She just told you that its not a good idea, which means exactly that. You work and live together, and this is a recipe for disaster. This doesn't mean she wouldn't fuck you if you made clear that you are the one to blame when things go awkward. Then the other girl comes around and she tries to be reasonable, still knowing that it's a high risk situation, but she obviously got jealous,you know, women have strong emotions no matter how hard they try to be reasonable. This is…
/r/seduction28/02/19 05:01 PM
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No. Just your low confidence showing.
/r/seduction28/02/19 07:05 AM
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She has made you into her bitch. Grow some balls and give her the finger... I can't believe it, you actually committed to a girl that you don't have sex with? I have a a personal rule: No commitment without having sex at least a couple of times. You have to "try the product before you buy it" , imagine what will happen if you find out you wasted your time with a girl that is not satisfying your basic needs sexually?
/r/seduction27/02/19 11:58 AM
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Haaaah... How I like the smell of upcoming drama... Just a friendly advice, don't. It will end in drama, and I think that is not what you are looking for, and you will be the one to suffer the most. She knows your weak spots and will use them against you. You both are separated for a reason.
/r/seduction26/02/19 05:06 PM
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This could be all in your head, but to be sure of course, talk to her. If you don't have the time and still make eye contact give her a warm smile to show that everything is fine and you are still friendly
/r/seduction26/02/19 12:29 PM
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It's pretty common for guys to down vote posts that state these simple facts. This is probably due to them being niceguys and therefore believing women are innocent angels and they cannot make their own decisions. But as you said, she's the one cheating not the guy. Very much spot on what you wrote.
/r/seduction26/02/19 07:34 AM
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What put you off, the fact that I know what I'm talking about?
/r/seduction22/02/19 05:32 PM
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No. To what? That women talk with their friends about guys they like? Have you never had female friends?
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:23 PM
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See, wasn't so hard eh? I also agree with you there, very true.
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:22 PM
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I'm thinking I come off as friendly, but not sexual That is probably the case. we sat across from each other at a table. Bad planning, be courageous and sit next to her if possible. If not, you chose a bad spot. I just never know when to start kino, The minute you meet her. Start with a hug. like how can I do kino across a table out of the blue in mid-conversation? You don't. You set it up (sitting next to her or on a 90° angle from her) so you can do KINO all the time when you feel like it. It …
/r/seduction22/02/19 10:20 AM
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I'd say it's like looking for a unicorn, the closest I have seen was a Bulgarian girl with Turkish roots, light skin, stunning blue eyes and dark blonde hair...
/r/seduction22/02/19 09:54 AM
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They really like to make it awkward whenever they find out I am into someone and it sucks. They are doing it either because they are assholes, so don't bother, or they feel like you are ashamed of having a sex drive, which is easy to handle, just joke with them showing you have nothing to be ashamed of. Then it will stop at one point.
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:44 AM
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Finally someone dropping some truth bombs! That's absolutely overdue here!
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:37 AM
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When I met my last ex she was doing all the chasing, and she had the habit of randomly texting me the same. I don't like to text, so I only did it when I wanted something or to plan to get together again. She wasn't happy with it and I explained it to her, she still didn't like it. At one point I tried to be more friendly about it and actually replied to her "hi" messages and I kid you not, she didn't reply most of the time. Once she told me that she only wanted me not to forget about her, and a…
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:35 AM
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In which fairytale world do you live? I will tell you a secret... The majority of women all over the world are talking to their closest friends about the guys they like! Boom... Mind blown huh?
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:06 AM
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The only way is to have more options. Go out more and work your way up to having more women you can have sex with.
/r/seduction21/02/19 04:34 PM
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Well to be fair, he asked how not be jealous, he didn't look for a lesson about how he is a weak bitch... In other words, you haven't been helpful at all.
/r/seduction21/02/19 04:33 PM
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What I have done so far? Sex in public which is more tame, finger banging a girl in a crowded bar while I pushed her onto the wall people dancing around us, the same in a dark corner of a bar, fucking her in a sex shop with people standing around watching, golden showers... Those are just a few things I tried so far lol
/r/seduction21/02/19 12:28 PM
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Out of arguments? You haven't provided even one argument against our disagreements, instead you are trying to turn the narrative.
/r/seduction21/02/19 09:20 AM
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Without writing a long comment here I want to point out a tiny but very important detail here: the fact that you never met her in person makes it extremely easy for your brain to build up a fantasy about her in your head. This is why you already say "she's the one" and chances are really high that she isn't. What I'm basically saying is this: meet real women and stop putting a stranger onto a pedestal. You don't know her, no matter how much you want to believe that. If you want to make something…
/r/seduction21/02/19 07:28 AM
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hehe I would support that if I could. Alright... I really have to think hard about what people would villainize me for, or lets say it this way, I have to think about in what case I would care... Apart from the "fucking thousands of women" (which in all honesty, the majority of guys would love) I have done pretty much everything I wanted to do sexually and I am by no means a vanilla type of guy. If people knew, they would probably say I am a pervert lol, but the girls I've done those things with…
/r/seduction20/02/19 04:03 PM
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I feel this is strong shit test, I disagree, she tells you that she doesn't know what she wants. You said she is recently divorced and her telling you that she cannot give you what you want is a strong indicator for that. seeing how her reason keeps changing and honestly I am not quite ready to throw in the towel yet. Her reasons change because she doesn't know. If you really want to pursue this, you should give it time. Relationships develop or they don't. They are a result of a million differe…
/r/seduction20/02/19 03:58 PM
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What is yours, let's start with that?
/r/seduction20/02/19 03:50 PM
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It's not a game. Suddenly not responding with anything after a mild remark like hers, would be playing games. Your comment describes this in perfection, as in: "she will respond if you freeze her", which is uncalled for. It's understanding women and how they emotionally respond. And you can read her emotions by knowing nothing about her, nothing about the conversation? I call bullshit on this, since if you actually knew how "women respond emotionally" you would know that women are no hive mind a…
/r/seduction20/02/19 11:57 AM
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The "haha" was her way of taking the seriousness off a little... And now you're a mindreader? If she really wanted a date she would have offered a different day. I absolutely agree on that. She didn't. A girl that is interested will make is easy for you to walk through her doors. Half true, and for the most part this is black and white PUA thinking. In general I would agree though that it is not really leading to anything to try to understand her motives. "You're missing out". She don't care. An…
/r/seduction20/02/19 10:02 AM
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If you are genuinely interested, you might think about reading about evolutionary biology. Everything should be answered there.
/r/seduction19/02/19 05:17 PM
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My plan is to give her a little space. I’m not gonna text back. That is the right decision I want her to put in some effort. It sounds like you don't expect a girl to even put in any effort, while it should never be a one man show. If you usually have to do all the work, something is not going right. I’m a good catch so it’s fair if she meets me half way. I'm with you on that, but it should be in general that way. I don’t want to chase her too hard and screw up the opportunity I have. Wait... Wh…
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:48 PM
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This remembers me of an ex of my best friend. She and him had a naughty couples photoshoot, basically them fucking while being photgraphed by some amateur photographer. Her main motive was that she got off on showing herself off while doing "taboo" things lol... ​ What can we learn from that situation? People have different motives, and a girl showing off some tame pictures, means only one thing for sure: she want's to get compliments. Take a look at social networks where women live for getting …
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:26 PM
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Oh yeah sorry he says he views seduction more as someone doing something to someone else, as in "I am seducing you". Mhmmm well per definition this could also be labeled manipulation, and taken from experience it is not like it sounds. Many people view Pickup or Seduction, as surefire ways to get into a girls pants, which is total bullshit. It doesn't work like that. It is a crutch to make guys actually try, and feel like they have a "blueprint" to make things happen, while in reality it is just…
/r/seduction19/02/19 01:14 PM
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You never get tired of trolling, huh?
/r/seduction19/02/19 07:30 AM
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It could be that you just look hilarious, like a clown? In general it doesn't matter, since giggling and laughing are expressions of fun or nervousness. No one besides her will know what it is exactly and it also does not mean anything more than "I Feel nervous / entertained".
/r/seduction15/02/19 01:49 PM
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I swipe left
/r/seduction15/02/19 07:32 AM
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Alright. Let me as k you some questions: Are you famous? Rich? A politician? The potential future supreme justice? Maybe even the coming president of the U.S.? If you answered all those questions with "no", your fear is irrational.
/r/seduction14/02/19 04:21 PM
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Didnt say all. Well... might have been miscommunication but you wrote: > I love my boyfriend because of pretty much all these things My boyfriend isnt the typical confident guy (he doesnt like drawing attention to himself and that works since im a wallflower too), Being confident doesn't mean being an attention addict, and according to what the OP wrote, it was never about that ever. It was about being confident in oneself, which a lot of men aren't. we dont spend hours looking into the others e…
/r/seduction14/02/19 04:19 PM
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You mean you love him because he is 1. Submissive, 2. Has no confidence, 3. cannot make decisions, 4. always explains himself, 5. never looks you in the eye and 6. values you more than himself? ​ Are you some kind of dominatrix? No judgment, but you are definitely not the norm and I would guess very young an inexperienced. Usually those behaviors are the reason for divorce and/or unilateral (from her side) breakups in relationships.
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:49 PM
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You know what I always say when someone comes up with an irrational fear? Imagine this: Right now, at this very second, there could be a meteorite heading towards your house, bursting through your roof, smashing your head killing you. What are the odds of this happening? one thing is absolutely clear, the chance is greater than 0%, that doesn't mean that it will happen ever, but it could. ​ Now... Judging from the overall climate in the U.S. right now, where a mere accusation of rape will destro…
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:41 PM
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In this case you should run. Those are the ones who will make you go crazy with drama.
/r/seduction14/02/19 06:52 AM
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Might as well ask for permission. Totally. Women get wet by even thinking about a guy asking for permission. If you read one of those sex novels for women, the guy always asks if he can touch her, kiss t, stick his dick in and so on... Not.
/r/seduction14/02/19 06:44 AM
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What signs do you look for? She's still with me, she didn't tell me not to do what I do. That is the only signs that are needed.
/r/seduction14/02/19 06:42 AM
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What about... well... you try? And then you come back and answer your own question? Seriously man... Do you think anyone here is psychic? How are we supposed to know?
/r/seduction13/02/19 04:24 PM
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You're welcome
/r/seduction13/02/19 12:35 PM
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Say nothing, move away from the situation : WRONG. It means the situation is too hard to handle for you. An alpha male as answers to situations or finds one quickly. I disagree with that one here. An "Alpha male" can be compared to the "King of the jungle". He doesn't care, since he knows nothing can threaten him. Walking away from an idiot is alpha, since the "alpha" doesn't take the other guy serious. Trying to fight that guy or play whatever stupid game he wants to play shows that he cares, s…
/r/seduction11/02/19 02:08 PM
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No. Because you have been asking this for years now. You should have enough answers already, stop wasting people's time.
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:24 PM
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I would just ignore her ​ Don't do that. It will make things really weird. Deal with the situation like a man. Be polite and friendly, like with any coworker, but don't jump for her or make any exceptions for her. Treat her like any other male co-worker. ​
/r/seduction08/02/19 03:57 PM
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Google "abandonment issues" there are plenty of articles written by psychologists describing how to deal with it. Spoiler alert: It will take a lot of time and work, but it will help if done right.
/r/seduction08/02/19 03:52 PM
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Its frustrating in the moment because I feel like his emotional immaturity is holding me back You should never let anyone hold you back. Not even a friend who you know for many many years. My best friend and I have this situation, he's about my age (I'm 42) and even though I started late with planning and working for what I want to achieve in my life, I am in the middle of becoming very successful in my career. The problem is that my friend is more of a "low life". He works... at least at the mo…
/r/seduction08/02/19 12:04 PM
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You should think about what a friend really is. Real friends support each other, and not put restrictions on their friends. I have had a lot of friendships throughout my life and I learned a lot from it, one thing I've learned is that most "friends" only care about themselves, and they will do anything to keep you from succeeding since if you did, they would lose you. I have once had a fwb with the ex girlfriend of my best friend of 20+ years, and he said he was ok with it, even though it got to…
/r/seduction08/02/19 08:32 AM
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Do you want to be her text friend or do you want to be her lover/boyfriend? Stop this stupid texting shit and ask her out!
/r/seduction08/02/19 07:46 AM
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Did you know that the definition of "cringing" at what others do is a sign of a weak psyche? Only then someone completely unknown to the person who feels that way, could care enough to feel such strong emotion.
/r/seduction07/02/19 08:02 AM
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no
/r/seduction07/02/19 08:01 AM
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I didn't take the time to read this wall of text since it's the same shit everyone is writing, so I will answer the question you ask in the title: you know when she's lying in your bed still shaking from having multiple orgasms. Stop behaving like a weak little boy and go for what you want. The worst thing that can happen is that she says no.
/r/seduction07/02/19 06:51 AM
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What is the question?
/r/seduction06/02/19 04:47 PM
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Isn't it funny how often someone posts basically the same thing about a girl? Like, she's super busy, never initiates texts or anything, doesn't reply to your texts or whatever, and still they guy who writes a post about this girl doesn't realize a few very important hints there: You are not worthy enough for her. In her eyes you are simply not important enough to make some time, to take up this shit device they are glued to constantly, to even reply. ​ It would take about 10 seconds, in a day t…
/r/seduction06/02/19 04:27 PM
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I wonder why someone would ignore you... you are such a well spoken charismatic guy... not.
/r/seduction06/02/19 04:17 PM
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You could try Morse code...
/r/seduction05/02/19 04:59 PM
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I can see it coming... Nine months after fucking her she suddenly has two children lol... Dude don't go that way, it's not worth it.
/r/seduction05/02/19 07:24 AM
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I agree with another comment, they are not real friends if they are jealous at you for having the balls to interact with women. But anyways. I usually don't associate with people like that (if they are not friends already), if they display this behavior once, they're out. In rare cases a "friend" has tried that, and the first time I was just letting it slip, but the second time I did the following. I said with a strong, easily audible and calm voice, and a look on my face showing pity for him, l…
/r/seduction01/02/19 02:53 PM
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Reading through the other comments, it is obvious that you are still in love with her. You should really listen to the given advice. It is natural to not want to hear the obvious, because it stands against what you want to believe, but truth to yourself is the most important thing in life. Just think about how it woud feel to see her again, then you become friends, you will hear her stories about her new boyfriend or whomever she's banging, you willl maybe even meet him, and it will fuck you up.…
/r/seduction31/01/19 09:36 PM
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When she texts you with something, you say: "that's cool. I'm busy right now, talk to you later" and stop responding. Only if she invests you should also invest.
/r/seduction31/01/19 08:24 PM
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Best of luck
/r/seduction30/01/19 03:09 PM
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Well, I didn't know that, thank you for explaining. A few points though are the same in every culture, for instance that the media is portraying a false image of how things have to be, but women are women, and no matter how hard one tries to make them into those "pure virgins" they are the same around the world. ​ As for society, I understand that there are strong differences. I lived in turkey when I was a child, so I know the societal differences and I agree on other points you brought up. So,…
/r/seduction30/01/19 02:25 PM
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And by the way, I know it's confusing if someone sweeps into a comment thread, but I am not the other guy commenting
/r/seduction30/01/19 01:42 PM
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Would you mind explaining what you mean? Based on my knowledge there are 1.2 billion people living in India, do you actually suggest that 99% of these are men?
/r/seduction30/01/19 01:40 PM
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There are no other girls Oh oh... Scarcity mindset. That is one of the worst things you can think. There are __always__ other girls, you just have to put in the work to meet them. On the topic, I think "giving up on her" is a bit too negative, see it more as: Don't put all your eggs into one basket. If she is interested, she will get in touch again, if not, you didn't lose anything since you would not fit together anyway .
/r/seduction30/01/19 12:46 PM
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In general you should keep in mind that not every woman will want you. But I also sense that there must be something wrong in the way you approach women in general, do you know how to flirt? Do you know how to read body language? Those things are obviously very important, since flirting is the entry to attraction, and being able to read body language is key to assess her level of attraction, and it's giving you the capability to control the interaction more efficiently. When it comes to online d…
/r/seduction29/01/19 03:45 PM
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Am I hearing the "creepy photographer tried to fuck me" trope?
/r/seduction29/01/19 02:15 PM
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It's something I've spoken about before so my apologies. No worries, it's fine Usually I write a ton and get no responses. That is weird, since usually people comment on anything here, be it helpful or not Without meaning to sound arrogant but judging by previous feedback I tick the right boxes. Keep that in mind for a sec Unfortunately nothing clicks. I thought I was just ugly. shrug And this here... Can it be that you are just insecure? No offense, it happens to a lot of people, and looking yo…
/r/seduction29/01/19 01:36 PM
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Ok, how about you sit down and formulate your question with as much detail as you can think of? Otherwise no one will be able to help you, not knowing anything, and giving short answers that are void of any information won't help it either.
/r/seduction29/01/19 01:27 PM
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Alright, lets stop beating around the bush, you are not actively approaching girls, am I right? If you really want to make a change you have to put in the hard work. Make yourself a rule that says: "everyday I approach at least <insert number> girls." and then act on it. For instance my work colleauge and I are doing this 5 days a week, where we talk to at least 5 women on the street. I cannot say this is the best approach, but it will take away the fear of talking to strangers, and on top of th…
/r/seduction29/01/19 01:24 PM
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Same with IRL. I haven't met anyone for four years so looking to boost my chances. ​ To make it easier to help you please answer the following question: How many girls have you approached during the last 4 years? Judging from you telling us you didn't meet anyone, I guess the number is 0. So there you have your problem, you're welcome.
/r/seduction29/01/19 01:16 PM
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I just wanted to see if this was a weird game that girls play That is something only she herself can answer you, but from my personal experience with girls like that (I was dumb enough to have some kind of weird relationship with one) it is more a hassle than a source of constant fun and comfort.
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:03 PM
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Yes, move on and stop analyzing. Women love the attention they get from attractive men, and they love flirting. The things is though, it is easily confused with her having an actual interest in taking things further, that's why it's so important for us men to escalate the interaction until we are either being thrown out, or at the goal which we set ourselves. It is totally normal for them to say no. Just don't stop trying with other women, since there are women who actually want to take things f…
/r/seduction28/01/19 12:40 PM
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I totally understand your point, and looking closely, people live longer, therefore they age slower, but I can't get the thought out of my head how a 50 year old woman must look ... definitely not what I would want hehe. This will probably pose a problem for me when I decide to settle, because even if I do that with a 25 year old woman, she will grow old one day...
/r/seduction28/01/19 12:27 PM
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What is your real goal? Do you want to have sex with her, or do you want a relationship? Is it maybe just that your ego is bruised? Depending on your answer to those questions there are a few things one could advise. If you just want sex, you should not pursue that anymore, since she seems to have a lot of mental issues, having panic attacks is not a good sign. If you want a relationship, it's the same. She will not be good for you or anyone in this state. If it just your ego, just remind yourse…
/r/seduction28/01/19 12:23 PM
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hehe absolutely. I guess the uprising of porn on the Internet has changed a lot of preferences, I remember in the beginning at around 1998, there was not so much weird porn around, more the vanilla stuff hehe
/r/seduction28/01/19 11:53 AM
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You could say me flirting with every girl I meet is fucked up since I’m kinda leading them on I don't see anything wrong with that. Flirting is not a contract for a romantic or sexual relationship with anyone. It is fun for both parties, nothing more, which might lead to something or not.
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:52 AM
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lol... Funny... My father is 84, and since my mother died 20 years ago, he never had a partner again. He always says: "Son... I simply cannot bang one of those old hags... I rather stay single for the rest of my life". Sad but true, I'm in my 40's now and I cannot make myself feel attracted to a woman my age.
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:49 AM
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You might be able to use some things but ones like “saying random shit” probably wouldn’t do much to a woman in her 30’s midway through her career. On the contrary, they are still just women, and they like to laugh too. Of course it depends on the person you are talking to, but definitely not her age.
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:30 AM
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Any advice? Go and meet women in the real world. It's so ridiculous that so many guys think they could get laid by talking to some attention seeking internet girl. I already see it coming, you write something, and if you're lucky she replies with more than just a thank you for giving her the attention she craves, but suddenly she stops responding, and you're here again crying your heart out why she doesn't respond. Your energy is better spent on a real life interaction.
/r/seduction28/01/19 08:47 AM
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No expert with women but don't be touching too much unless she's defo ok with it First you should define what is "too much" since there is no standard for this. Secondly, women will show you pretty obvious if they are ok with being touched.
/r/seduction25/01/19 04:47 PM
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True that some women love the a hole type, It's funny how everyone thinks in terms of black and white but there’s no future or exclusivity. I don't understand that passage here, could you elaborate on the "no future" part? I don’t want to debate. This is absolutely your right, but if you offer advice that is demonstrably ineffective, you have to at least endure the criticism. I just offered another path. It’s not necessarily the only path. Like I already asked, what is the goal for "your path"? …
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:47 AM
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Your not sneaking. It’s more of a reward thing. You take the steps and she reciprocates. As I already mentioned, this is esoteric bullshit, no offense. If somewhere she has a misstep then you figure she’s not serious and one avoids a big waste of time. Ok. Let's define some concepts here. Are we in the "seduction" sub, or in the "how to be a niceguy" sub? In seduction it is about making yourself a man that is capable of seducing women, sexually. What you describe is a concept centered around try…
/r/seduction25/01/19 09:53 AM
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That was basically what I was expecting, weasel words and vague statements. Of course being a girls best friend may land you a girlfriend, but most of the cases it doesn't, which qualifies it as an esoteric approach, or in other words "if you really believe, it will work. If it didn't work, your belief was not strong enough". What is actually working, is not to try to sneak your way into a girls pants by giving her presents or "being there for her" with the intention of getting some. Most women …
/r/seduction25/01/19 08:36 AM
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Basically means take her out, be there, simple gifts How many girls have you slept with during the last year by employing this strategy?
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:42 AM
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You will get many different answers to your question since there is no rule. My personal rule is to not text at all, except a quick text the day before if the date is still on. Why would you anyway? It won't achieve your goal.
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:32 AM
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Actually, he's just trying to get attention. Someone who really wants to kill himself just does it without announcing it
/r/seduction25/01/19 06:26 AM
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There you have your answer, don't text so much. Do some back and forth but get to the point: you want to meet her.
/r/seduction24/01/19 03:53 PM
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You can "lure" her into replying by texting something like "You won't believe what happened today..." Then, if she replies, tell her a funny story. You can get a feel for if she is genuinely interested in the conversation or not. If she is interested, tell her a modified version of what you wanted to text: "Me and my friends are going to ___. If you know how to behave, you might come with us."
/r/seduction24/01/19 02:48 PM
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Not replying reeks of insecurity. Let me tell you a short story I had lately: There was this girl I was talking to in person, mostly short smalltalk and some banter and she gave me strong IOI's. I wasn't really in the mood to ask her out yet, so I played it slow. One day I meet her randomly and it happens so that she tells me randomly that she is scared to fall in love. Telling me about this guy and so on. We still exchange numbers, and I go about my day. Later she out of the blue texts me: "I d…
/r/seduction24/01/19 02:42 PM
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Judging from your post you are the cockblocking "friend". Incase you actually run into cockblockers, change your approach from giving attention to only the girl, to giving more attention to her friends so they actually enjoy you being there, hence not cockblocking you.
/r/seduction24/01/19 02:04 PM
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I am working in software development, it's pretty tiring and I usually leave work at 6pm. What I found out is that if I don't eat anything after having lunch at 12, I get very very tired. Some small snacks during the day, and forcing myself to stand up at least once an hour, walking through the office helps a lot with my energy, normally I feel more energetic the later it gets in the evening.
/r/seduction24/01/19 10:35 AM
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No need to apologize, and yes you did.
/r/seduction24/01/19 08:39 AM
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To be honest, you seem very insecure already, just by the fact that you still call this woman your girlfriend. Have some self respect. If anyone insults you, and you come back for more, you are the one who is responsible for that.
/r/seduction24/01/19 07:24 AM
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Why not be forthcoming with women about your views from the start? Talk to them about what you think of feminism and women's equality before you ask them if they wanna fuck. Oh my god... you are not the brightest candle on the cake are you? You would not understand sarcasm if it was a wet pussy in your face... Oh and equality is a whole other topic, let me blow your mind up: Women are not equal to men! booom. They have different body features, different interests, different emotions and a long l…
/r/seduction23/01/19 02:44 PM
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There was a time when I thought like you, being called cute or sweet would be like calling a puppy cute. Over the years I started to realize that this doesn't bear any weight whatsoever when it comes to attraction. It's just the way some people voice their attraction. If you behave sexual, like others pointed out already, it doesn't matter what they call you.
/r/seduction23/01/19 01:17 PM
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The no contact concept is meant for the case where you have feelings and you don't feel comfortable with staying in touch with the gir l. In this case it is simply to avoid bad emotions, and since we are all human, we do have emotions. You could see it as self respect. No contact is not meant to manipulate her into wanting more from you, so the outcome is achieved by the rule itself: not contact because you do not want to feel bad emotions. If the girl makes it into a big deal, or if she thinks …
/r/seduction23/01/19 10:29 AM
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Is that one of your pickup lines? ​ Actually I usually say "wanna fuck?" ​ After you grab a woman you don't know, do you tell her that the reason she didn't like it is because she's fallen for feminazi bullshit propaganda? Don't get your hopes up honey, I probably would not approach you, so please don't cry if idon't ​ Maybe you should try it and see how it goes. ​ Nah.. I don't associate with fascists. ​ I don't touch women that i don't already know well, or from whom i haven't received overt c…
/r/seduction22/01/19 05:31 PM
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That was very constructive, appreciate it. If you have more of your low intelligence remarks, please let us all know.
/r/seduction22/01/19 01:18 PM
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Who are the guys you are talking about?
/r/seduction22/01/19 11:49 AM
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It's all in your head.
/r/seduction22/01/19 07:31 AM
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Which school is that? Looks familiar
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/19 11:53 AM
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But also this is what makes it hard. I understand that, and I have been on the receiving end of being insulted for my appearance when I was a teenager, which I usually deflected by agree and amplify. Needless to say it didn't help my well being, and didn't really make me friends with those people. Because I don't like that particular part of my appearance, it makes it feel like an insult (even though it probably isn't), which makes it harder for me to be witty. You have what you have. You cannot…
/r/seduction18/01/19 03:13 PM
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Body language, facial expression, tone of voice etc. Don't get me wrong here, but I am sure the majority of posters have no idea what a shit test actually is. In their world everything is a shit test. I read the other day something like: "she put her legs on my desk, it was a shit test", and I could cite even more ridiculous examples. It's not hard to know what an insult is. It's not hard to know that the earth is not flat, there are still millions of people believing that. It is not hard to kno…
/r/seduction18/01/19 03:03 PM
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I know those are shit tests. What makes you think those are not just insults?
/r/seduction18/01/19 02:13 PM
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Ever heard of banter? ... Guys... not everything is a fucking shit test.
/r/seduction17/01/19 01:11 PM
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At the same time, we really clicked ... before she forgets about me If you clicked why would she forget about you? What you really meant was: you clicked, and then you project that onto her. If she was really crazy for you, she'd have already texted you.
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:59 PM
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I wasn't talking about being a man hooker, probably the better term would be "escort" there are a lot of businesswomen who are looking for some well mannered and well dressed company while they're on a business trip.
/r/seduction16/01/19 05:29 PM
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Which is perfectly fine, but more the definition of a good person. We are talking about niceguys here, as I already said, the types of guys you would call creepy and weak.
/r/seduction16/01/19 05:27 PM
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Why not become a "callboy"?
/r/seduction16/01/19 01:23 PM
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hahaha you have no Idea...
/r/seduction15/01/19 10:22 AM
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That is a weird way to get laid, and i haven't really heard of/ seen many guys being successful doing that, but if you say it does work, who am I to disagree lol
/r/seduction15/01/19 10:22 AM
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Could it be that you are just not attracted to him? If so, you should be honest about it, this way you spare yourself and him more trouble.
/r/seduction14/01/19 04:33 PM
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the principle of white women saying no I wont date you cause of your race is the exact same as not hiring someone due to their race. Are you dating a girl of your own race? No? See, now you are the racist. It is that simple with baseless and not thought through concepts, they go both ways.
/r/seduction14/01/19 04:27 PM
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Of course it is OK. Fortunately this generation hasn't gone so far into "absolute retardation" territory to make the personal choice to date whoever one wants, and therefore the choice to not date anyone one doesn't want, illegal. Is it not OK that a girl doesn't want a man who is a niceguy? Is it not OK that most men would not want to date a land whale? Is it OK that straight men don't want to date another man? What is the difference then?
/r/seduction14/01/19 04:22 PM
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> She likes to talk about things that her boyfriend lacks ​ And her boyfriend supplies her with what __you__ lack... ​ > and wants to break up with him but he doesn’t let her. ​ hahahah sure... This normally means that she __does not__ want to break up since she thinks "I can change him". ​ > Kinda dark person. Anyways we tease each other much of the time and hug also kiss on the cheek everytime we meet or leave. ​ You probably wouldn't believe how women treat their girl friends, it sounds a lot…
/r/seduction14/01/19 03:34 PM
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Ah yes. Me the beta. You the alpha. How tragically cliche m’dude. Point by point, here we go. Interesting projection here. Weak is how it should probably sound to you. If my message didn’t ring true m’alphadude, it’s probably not for you. There are some people for whom the welfare of others is more important than our getting laid right. that. very. moment. This was for them 👍 You mean by telling men to act weak they would get laid? I doubt that. I would say most honest PUAs emphasize the high fa…
/r/seduction14/01/19 10:48 AM
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This whole post sounds incredibly weak, almost like a "guide for want to be rapists" so to say. If I understand you right, you say that being a weakling who is basically a doormat will yield at least __sometimes__ __some__ results... The problem is though, that those results are normally such low value (drama queens, crazy women, damaged goods and so on) that its not even worth it. ​ Another thing I see in your post is that you are talking from a black and white standpoint, where there is only t…
/r/seduction14/01/19 09:09 AM
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Think about it, would you like to have hair in your mouth when going down on a girl? Same goes for them.
/r/seduction10/01/19 10:23 AM
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I'm not sure how this would work. If I was healthy and higher functioning, I might be able to emulate "strong" behaviors a bit more. My mind is severely inattentive and daydreamy, I'm typically lost in thought, slow to respond. These limitations do not seem to permit the kind of "cool, relaxed confidence" a man should have. OK, this is something I cannot make any judgement about. It might even be a case where I would need, some kind of drugs or substance to increase cognitive processing/mood, so…
/r/seduction10/01/19 10:20 AM
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Hahahaha damn, didn't think about that...
/r/seduction10/01/19 09:54 AM
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Does it eventually get easier? Short answer: yes. Longer answer: If you practice it regularly, it will at one point become second nature.
/r/seduction10/01/19 09:54 AM
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The thing is that you have to warm up at first. The first few approaches are the worst and hardest. If you do that often enough, you will get used to it and it will come naturally to you
/r/seduction09/01/19 02:27 PM
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I mean, she could have been brutal, telling him that he is just too soft and dries her up, but what would that change? She basically said exactly that, just with more nice words.
/r/seduction09/01/19 02:24 PM
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Yeah it's usually the women's part to talk about your status, a man is supposed to just do what he wants and of course respect her needs for example when she pulls away or says no.
/r/seduction09/01/19 02:21 PM
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Let me translate that to you "you are such a nice guy and my vagina dries up like the Sahara when I'm with you, that is why I happily let another girl (who am I kidding, no girl will want you) have you. I am telling you this to not hurt your fragile feelings". Move on and you might want to reflect on your interactions with her to find the reason for that.
/r/seduction09/01/19 08:29 AM
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I didn't know you were a hive mind... I always connect with girls who are working, they most of the time even seek me out and I will not talk about all the free stuff I got from them over the years, left alone the numbers...
/r/seduction09/01/19 07:30 AM
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Say "thank you". If you want to be edgy say "I know".
/r/seduction09/01/19 07:25 AM
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You are a funny troll lol
/r/seduction08/01/19 05:14 PM
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"Oh gosh you're the prettiest girl on this side of the bar,... And you immediately gave her much more value than she actually has. I'm pretty sure she will immediately fall in love with you...
/r/seduction08/01/19 11:25 AM
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How do you simulate dominance/assertiveness if you are the opposite (thanks to autism, by the way.) Normally it is called "fake it til you make it" which can boil down to simply copy certain behaviors from let's say action heroes, where the protagonist behaves in a certain way. Take James Bond for instance. You can try to copy his behavior, which of course will seem a bit odd, but the more you do it, the more you will internalize those behaviors and it will look more and more natural. How do you…
/r/seduction08/01/19 10:30 AM
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The real question here should be: what do you want? If it's a relationship, move on. If it's just a fuck buddy, go on. Judging from your post though, I get the feeling that you have no options, which will lead to you getting hurt badly. Best option would be to have other girls to fuck, and treat her like any other fuck buddy.
/r/seduction08/01/19 07:10 AM
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Online at least, it is all about logic. If he doesn't look great/not tall enough? Check the education and income. Doesn't have that filled in with anything good? "Next" I could write book over book about this, but I'll keep it as short as possible here: Yes, online dating is a whole different world mainly because it is easy and men actually "approach" women, and then in a way that is not threatening to women, since they can just ignore the guy if they want. This leads to something that is called…
/r/seduction07/01/19 10:55 AM
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This comment made me come very quickly to the point where I erupted in ecstatic laughter
/r/seduction04/01/19 02:57 PM
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I respect that, but let me tell you from experience that it is a lot more helpful in the long run to understand things rather than making up comfortable fairytales.
/r/seduction04/01/19 09:54 AM
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... but doesnt that show that l am not interested at all? I follow a simple rule: When I ask a girl out, and she comes up with the "i am busy" game, I leave it be, since a girl that want's to see me, will let me know when she has time. To not miss out on the rare cases of her just not knowing when she has time, I ask again when I feel like it, sometimes a month later, sometimes two weeks, and well, sometimes I just don't care anymore. The point is: Why would you care if she thinks you are not in…
/r/seduction04/01/19 09:45 AM
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Bloody hell mate... In your other posts you talk about how she constantly disrespects you, how you don't like her and all that jazz, and now you are asking if you should in all honesty reward her behavior? Dude! Grow some balls and self respect. Otherwise if you like being dominated by an ugly girl with a shitty personality, pay for her and suck on her feet while she spits on you...
/r/seduction04/01/19 09:38 AM
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Am I haveing some kind of deja vu, or is this being posted every day?
/r/seduction04/01/19 09:29 AM
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Yesterday he told me he's fine with it ​ Just be careful, I had this with best friend of 20 years, where he claimed to be ok if I fuck his ex, and it almost destroyed our friendship, since he wasn't cool with it. He apparently still loved her...
/r/seduction04/01/19 09:28 AM
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Stop being needy.
/r/seduction04/01/19 08:41 AM
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You already served your purpose, (validation) move on.
/r/seduction04/01/19 06:10 AM
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She didn't tell me her ideal, she told me, a white guy, that she's only attracted to Puerto Rican men. That is her ideal, and frankly, I have heard that a million times before from women. I quite vividly remember sitting with 3 female friends talking about what's their types, and they all come up with stuff like "he has to be muscular","he has to be a bad boy","he has to have tattoos","he has to have black hair and blue eyes" and such bullshit... Imagine their expression when I asked them how th…
/r/seduction03/01/19 02:02 PM
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She didn't lie, she explained what her ideal was. Think about it, what type of women do you want, and what type of women did you actually get with? It's all a "I want this, but I will settle for that because it's attainable" thing
/r/seduction03/01/19 09:02 AM
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Cool story bro :) By the way, there is no need to try to impress us, most of us don't really give a shit about your "10´s" and some "insta famous" whatever that means.
/r/seduction02/01/19 12:09 PM
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I have a work colleauge who comes from a easter european country, living in my city now, and he isn't speaking my languga very well. He approaches at least 5 women every day, and when I walk from our office to the next train station he always goes with random stuff. He is learning a new word? He will use it. Two weeks ago, he learned the word "strudel" which is depicting a traditional german cake. So he walks up to a girl, says: "hey, stop for a moment... <small pause with stron eye contact> str…
/r/seduction23/12/18 08:37 PM
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so I didn't want to 'risk' it and try to make something out of it (also, they weren't probably the best type of people to be around and not necessarily my type) ​ What are the risks you are talking about? are you talking about dying if it goes wrong, or being left behind fatally injured? Imagine this: If our ancestors didn't go out to hunt mammoths, risking their lives to keep their tribes fed, their children and women healthy and safe, we would not have this discussion. ​ So think again, what a…
/r/seduction22/12/18 12:21 PM
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Dude cold approach has about 1% success rate and that's if you're good-looking/tall already. Yes, success rates are low in many cases, since it depends on a lot of factors, but even if you are tall and good looking, chances are still extremely fluctuating. I don't see the point so many approaches and risking a bad reputation, bothering all those women, etc. That's just my take on it though. I will tell you a secret about "reputation": People don't care. Seriously, they don't. Imagine you walk th…
/r/seduction22/12/18 12:10 PM
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Very well written and I do agree. Thank you for your input. You're welcome And for what it's worth, I hope you're doing better now. Thank you, I am. It is a constant fight, but I am sure I will manage step by step.
/r/seduction22/12/18 01:38 AM
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Dude, if most of your action is coming from cheating women, maybe you should have explained that before. I never said that. I pointed out that it is not my responsibility if a girl cheats. This is not something I want to take part in--I'm aware it's "harder mode" to find honest single women, but dude, that's the way I choose to go and I have my reasons for it. I completely respect your descision, and I see nothing wrong with it. One has to understand though, that reality is not adhering to ones …
/r/seduction22/12/18 12:46 AM
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To be honest, this only shows how scared you are to make a move on her. Man up. Flirt with her if you actually want her, and make your goddamn move. Either she accepts, or rejects. It is simple binary. Stop trying to find "clues" where there are none, it just wastes you time.
/r/seduction20/12/18 09:25 AM
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That's called argumentum ad populum. Big guys is throwing around big words huh? That doesn't hide the fact that you are simply put: wrong and also too blind to realize it. Just as I thought you're so stupid you don't know one iota about logic. Hahahah does this usually work with your lower intellect "friends"? I doubt you have any friends at all, given your lack of reflection and deep anger for yourself. I will tell you again little guy... see a therapist, because copy pasting latin quotes from …
/r/seduction20/12/18 09:16 AM
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That is not too easy to answer with a yes or no, so let me explain what I mean: So, she lied about it. That is something I dislike a lot, but I also give everyone a second chance, because I know that people sometimes act stupidly. No one know besides herself, why she used that lie. Most likely she had some kind of emotional reason which doesn't even have to be anything connected to you. ​ I for instance have used soft lies like this before, very rarely though, to not have to explain to my friend…
/r/seduction20/12/18 09:12 AM
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The advantage is that you can put your mind on something else if done right, and you save your energy/time , because let's be serious here, most likely she won't do it anyways, otherwise she would have done already. ​ The only disadvantages I see are her not making a date happen (most of the time they won't anyway if you push for it) and you might miss out on a microscopic chance that she is one of those women who need to be chased for a long time to get her out, but this is also something I per…
/r/seduction20/12/18 09:04 AM
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It's all taste and it ain't nothing you did Exactly... Befriending her to get her to want him, without ever making his intentions clear is obviously something he didn't do, in this sense its "nothing he did". Still this is a real garbage move.
/r/seduction20/12/18 07:21 AM
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is there any point of continuing the chase because my friend said no Was it a chase in the first place? What did actually do to even call it that? Trying to be her best gay friend so that she finally finds out that all the other guys are not good enough for her, while you are the best man on this planet, so she picks you, because you will treat her right and all that niceguy bullshit , doesn't count. In general this sounds like you are one of those guys. Do you consider her being your friend? Ye…
/r/seduction20/12/18 07:17 AM
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What a lot of guys don't understand or don't realize is that women are not some kind of innocent babies who cannot say no.if a woman cheats on her guy, it was herdecision. She is the one to blame,not the guy who fucks her, and you know why? The guy is not the one who is in a relationship with her guy. Its that simple. Also something I have noticed is that guys who argue like you, saying its "wrong", are just super insecure, and/or those pesky moral busybodies who act like they are the arbiters o…
/r/seduction20/12/18 07:06 AM
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What you describe sounds more like the usual amog or cockblocking behaviour that a lot of people do. There are a lot of articles on that.
/r/seduction20/12/18 06:58 AM
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If you never make a move your chances are 0.0%. If you try, your chances are > 0.0%. simple as that.
/r/seduction19/12/18 05:10 PM
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I would not want my girlfriend to cheat on me, so I will not cheat with someone else's girlfriend. You are aware that this does not keep your girlfriend from cheating on you, right? If it's just your moral code, it's respectable though.
/r/seduction19/12/18 05:08 PM
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She might have been honest about it, and it's not a big deal to give someone a second chance. Whatever you do though, don't act butthurt. Just text her "hey sleepy, wann hang out on <insert date>?". If she apologizes, say it's cool, don't make a big deal of it. If she doesn't give you an answer to hanging out, she isn't interested, so move on quietly,since you don't need her.
/r/seduction19/12/18 05:04 PM
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I agree with u/TheHalfMonty it's not about being "alpha". This term is being thrown around a lot sometimes in comically distorted context. So back to the question itself: If you get rejected, see it as her saving your time, she could just have strung you along for validation. Trying to make her feel she lost something is playing stupid games in the hopes she will change her mind, but seriously, do you really want that? Wasting your time playing some bullshit game, just for the microscopically sm…
/r/seduction19/12/18 02:00 PM
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I have, a lot, but never again because they all suck Did you know that if the only constant in something is you, it is you that is the problem? and only people with no experience of therapists say "see a therapist". You have so much to learn... But what should one expect from someone who says everyone else sucks, and that women have to answer you, or they are whores... Again. Get psychological help, and it could help to understand that you are the one who is at fault if it doesn't work, trust me…
/r/seduction19/12/18 12:03 PM
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Oh then that girl was just a hypocrite She's a feminist, they all are.
/r/seduction14/12/18 07:33 AM
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I found out she's a feminist Run. Dude... Run as fast and as far as you can. Chances are high you will get accused of rape by her, and then nothing can save you anymore.
/r/seduction14/12/18 07:29 AM
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You actually expect someone to treat you with kindness/respect or whatever you want to call it, while you are being the asshole? Dude... you should start reflecting on yourself, seriously.
/r/seduction13/12/18 09:23 AM
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How is not replying to you, treating you like shit? No one owes you anything. What do you do when a beggar begs you for money? Do you start a big discussion with him? Otherwise you would be the one treating him like shit too, right?
/r/seduction12/12/18 04:54 PM
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Pretty much every generation in the history of time has considered the generation's after them spoiled and weak (even plato wrote about this). This is probably because when you're young and stupid, you don't understand how young and stupid you are, so when you get older things that young people do seem ridiculous. Agreed, but this is not the point of what i wrote. If you look around, you will see how weak people have become in the western world. So weak, that on universities they cry out because…
/r/seduction12/12/18 01:34 PM
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Your odds getting it as a male doing PIV are like none. Read facts. You don´t have any grasp on probability theory, do you? Having a risk of approximately 3% doesn´t mean that you can have sex 97 times without catching it. It can mean that the first time you do it you get HIV. Educate yourself on probabilities before you act like the "know it all". By the way I have had friends who died of Aids, it is no urban legend, it is very real, and there is still no cure for it.
/r/seduction12/12/18 12:57 PM
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but I still think her finding you good looking is by far the most important thing. This is the thing, what makes her find you good looking? This depends on every girls personal perception, and it is, unfortunately, not as easy as saying "get ripped" or "wear this shirt". If you look into the underlying psychology you will find that perception is disconnected from reality in some sense. For instance: There are/were cultures where being fat is a sign of being wealthy, and therefore it was attracti…
/r/seduction12/12/18 12:22 PM
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You forgot to mention HIV which is still deadly and no cure in sight.
/r/seduction12/12/18 10:28 AM
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Hey bro, idk if u will see this but I didnt get 2nd date yet with either of them yet but if u want to read my update u can if not it's all good. they are both Persian, so my Persian buddy told me to whisper in their ear "kos bede" in their ear which means "give pussy" in Persian. Then go for kiss. ** do u think I should say that??** There is no real straight forward answer to this, since it depends on many things. If you are not 100% sure that this will work, or you are 100% sure you can pull th…
/r/seduction12/12/18 09:12 AM
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> How can I be dominant, dominance on her or in general? ​ Dominance is something that is made up of many little things, but in general your attitude towards the world. Here are a few things that come to mind... Be assertive. Straighten up your body Move slow... relaxed.. always think: you are the king of the jungle. Would the king of the jungle be scared? would he look for dangers all the time? no. He is the __king__, nothing can harm him. Strong eye contact Talk slow (not too slow though) Have…
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:29 AM
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> For the SJW thing, I feel that sort of thinking is kinda because most men don't have the problem of unwanted sexual attention, but I've been propositioned to by gay men at least once every 6 months since I was in high school. ​ Of course women get sexual attention, that is why they dress sexy, they validate themselves by doing it. The main problem with the SJW attitude is that it´s predominantly immature weaklings who are used to being told they are the best humanity can get, how special they …
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:05 AM
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Ouch... now you totally destroyed me lol
/r/seduction07/12/18 05:51 PM
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It is the best shot you have (which doesn´t mean she will bite). You have to understand that not every woman is what you actually want, and having the proper experience to screen that out is immensely helpful. It basically comes down to you having standards, not just looks wise, but also how much you are willing to take. For instance: I have met girls who were constantly arriving late to dates, and I communicate this. If said girl doesn´t stop being disrespectful to me, Next. It is hard to pull …
/r/seduction07/12/18 05:47 PM
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For some reason, academics shy away from research questions like this. The 40% was based on the estimation that about 50% of college-age chicks are fuckable, or in other words, can catch the fancy of top males. Women who belong to that group can have casual sex with the "best men" (best being determined by a woman's peer group). Why would they then accept sex with inferior men? On the other hand, only top males are welcome to the in-crowd parties, so they are the only choice women have for a dru…
/r/seduction07/12/18 05:36 PM
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This is like asking how to become a super star. It is obviously a lot of training, an understanding of the basic concepts and then of course luck, but in general learning by trial and error. Start with you mindset: You are the price. She want´s you more than you want her. You have a lot of options. Is she really good enough for you? Why would she be the best fit for you? And how could you know that if you don´t even know her? You see it is not just a line you give her, but your whole behavior an…
/r/seduction07/12/18 01:50 PM
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About 40% are having casual sex with the hottest guys, hookups at frat or house parties and on Tinder. As much as I agree on the part that women can have a lot more sex than men, I would like to see the citations for your number. Lately frustrated virgins who are populating this reddit are pulling random numbers out of their asses without any citations. Clubs have mostly gone out of style, but in some cities they are still an option too, especially for the older crowd. Again, I´d like to see you…
/r/seduction07/12/18 11:50 AM
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The only way to fuck it up is if you get too clingy/niceguy ish/too much in your head. Treat this like you have a thousands numbers of interested girls, therefore make sure that she is the one having to qualify to you. It's her job to show that she's the right girl for you to spend time with her.
/r/seduction07/12/18 10:40 AM
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What exactly makes you fall for them? That's a serious question, since it's up to you to find the reason. For instance, I would say I am pretty centered emotionally and not so easily fazed by people in general. Once in a while I catch myself falling for a girl, just by getting to know them, and it's always the same pattern: those girls, and I have to point out that those are rare, remind me of a ex of mine who was a very outgoing and a overall great girl. Needless to say, she dumped me and it to…
/r/seduction07/12/18 10:35 AM
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Are you willing to pay? I could hook you up lol
/r/seduction06/12/18 03:16 PM
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Lol follwing your logic 70%+ of female population are dating supermodels. If you have a lot of female friends, you know for sure that this is absolute bullshit.
/r/seduction06/12/18 03:10 PM
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Waat?
/r/seduction05/12/18 08:54 PM
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That's true and it was what i was thinking about. The only thing that buggers me is why. I mean we have a great time, if she didn't why would she even sleep here? I tell you why: Feelings. Its that easy. What kind of feelings are dictating her behavior is, and will probably be a secret to you for all eternity. The only things you can do are to be a man, and a perfect man is not fazed by her feelings, an or you just walk away and spend time with someone else. Sure, there are a lot of things you c…
/r/seduction05/12/18 01:51 PM
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I didn´t expect you to be able to formulate a full sentence without making mistakes. color me impressed, son.
/r/seduction05/12/18 01:37 PM
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Could you repeat that in English please?
/r/seduction05/12/18 08:34 AM
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OK. From a lot of experience with this I know one thing: a girl that wants to see you, will make at least some time for you. I have a female friend who is always busy, and replies most of the time a day later when I ask to hang out. This has gone so far that I just stop asking her, so she comes up to me asking for hanging out. When it comes to girls I don't know well, it comes down to her not being interest most of the time, so I text once, no reply, I don't put anymore effort into her. Very rar…
/r/seduction04/12/18 03:51 PM
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18 hours is nothing. Recently a girl didn't answer for 2 days. Well, next.
/r/seduction04/12/18 02:00 PM
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What? She needs to be with someone? As in you? Wow... What has this sub become... So many crazy people these days.
/r/seduction03/12/18 05:08 PM
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When she's sucking your dick you can be sure. There is never certainty until you have her in your bed or wherever you are engaging in sexual activities with her, so it's up to you to find out. Be a man and take the risk.
/r/seduction03/12/18 07:36 AM
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the perfect girl she's completely ghosted me. ​Well... No. She isn't your perfect girl. Move on. Of she was perfect (something that doesn't exist) she would be with you now.
/r/seduction03/12/18 07:02 AM
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They prefer sexy behavior more than good looks, ask a guy that knows how to dance salsa. I have one of those friends, he´s getting laid all the time.
/r/seduction01/12/18 10:53 AM
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Nah. Just because you find your friend attractive doesn't mean chicks do. I absolutely agree. This is because women care far less about looks than we always try to think. even though he is one of those guys looking like he´s out of a catalogue for mens clothing. Furthermore, you say all of those things about yourself yet women find you attractive meaning this is pure down talk. You're probably far better than him in terms of looks. If you put behavior and body language into looks, this might be …
/r/seduction01/12/18 09:54 AM
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It is always funny to see guys like you trying to find the right vector to get to me, like they actually think I would care for their opinion in the slightest. Truth is: You bear no value to me whatsoever, the only reason I reply is because I am bored and it´s fun to see you boil inside from anger at me stating mere facts. Wake up cupcake, you are not special at all, and nobody cares about your feelings, and no matter how hard you try, you are not alpha or whatever you try to be by behaving like…
/r/seduction29/11/18 03:43 PM
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You do realize that you are a women, and being a women, you can have sex basically every day with five different guys if you like. I am not exaggerating, I had a FB that was doing exactly that for some time, and she was a regular looking but sex addicted girl ... ​ Being a man, it is a lot harder to get even one date a week, which then doesn´t automatically turn into anything sexual, if you are not constantly approaching and working on yourself 24/7.
/r/seduction29/11/18 03:20 PM
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A few points I think after reading this: You are needy after such a long time not having any sexual activity. It doesn´ t seem like you are religious, but as you say she is ultra religious. You try to be patient with her, probably because you genuinely like her, but it gets to you and I am sure you are not at all happy. I think chances are that she will never have sex with you before you marry her Those are just a few thoughts to this, but in the end you are coming here to get some advice on how…
/r/seduction29/11/18 02:20 PM
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Your reaction is a strong indicator of feeling hurt. A real "alpha" or how you like to paint yourself "very confident" would not care about a stranger telling you this. His comment was obviously spot on.
/r/seduction29/11/18 08:08 AM
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A simple thank you is good enough. If you want to be cocky, you can say something like "I know" han-solo style.
/r/seduction28/11/18 09:54 PM
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> And if things are going well, after a couple of times of talking to one another, I will try and get her Snapchat. I think I know what is coming next... > And then I will usually try to ask them out on a date relatively quickly, and this is the part where things usually go wrong. ... am I right thinking you then ask them out through snapchat? If I´m wrong, jump to my next comment... If you are, then let me tell you something: It is a sign of being weak if you don´ t have the guts to ask a girl …
/r/seduction28/11/18 01:43 PM
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Hey man, I am always watching lol, no seriously. I am here for a short time probably, since my life is pretty hectic at the moment. Lots to do and still too many demons to slay.
/r/seduction28/11/18 09:27 AM
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Nice. Are you still in high school? hahaha i haven´t had such a good laugh in the past 30 years. I am way further than that, son. Let´ s say it this way, I could be your dad, probably literally. Real original. Thank you, but I wasn´t trying to be original, truth is, reality hurts sometimes. Don’t be mad when you get cucked by someone that has the level of thinking that you do You want to know a secret? I have fucked married women, I don´t care about girls in a relationship when they tell me they…
/r/seduction28/11/18 09:07 AM
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Ok, hope all is OK, I’m here when you want to talk That is a great line if you want to become her gay best friend. You don't want to "talk", you want to fuck.
/r/seduction28/11/18 07:33 AM
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What would u say is ur kill count w women tho, There was a time when I had 2 to 3 dates a week, some clicked some didn't. During the past year or two, I was concentrated on my career and settled for one almost relationship and a fwb while not pursuing anything new. Since my last fwb ended just a few weeks ago, I am working on a new girl from Bulgaria with Turkish roots... And she's a goddam hottie... NC I'm watching a youtube channel and they saying never give women validation, It's important to…
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:47 PM
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I got to say you got blessed w that Turkish woman bro hahaha, hope that happens to me. Well... the problem was she got way too attached, but the main point is: you can do this with almost any woman. You have to be open about what you desire, have no shame about it, and also always make sure that she knows you will not judge her for whatever she tries with you, and no pressure. In the heat of the moment she might feel like doing something she knows really turns you on, and then she will love the …
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:05 PM
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Amen! Have my upvote!
/r/seduction27/11/18 03:17 PM
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And I am sure he´s really proud of that, while being balls deep in your girlfriend ;) wait... you don´ t have one... damn... too bad for you. ​
/r/seduction27/11/18 01:55 PM
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Instead of crying about your dick size, which you cannot change (at least not without drastic surgery) why don't you educate yourself on human biology? A pick up forum is the worst place for such a question.
/r/seduction27/11/18 11:45 AM
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You know what will help you the most? Assuming that she is interested in you. I have had cases where girls where ok with me talking to them, but showed no interest in me at all at first, only to tell me a few weeks later (meeting casually in between) they were strangely attracted to me but didn´ t know why. This sounds weird but it is an effect that I can only describe as "self fulfilling prophecy" where you act and talk like she cannot keep her hands off you. At one point she will actually feel…
/r/seduction27/11/18 08:12 AM
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you must be a bot or something
/r/seduction27/11/18 07:59 AM
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Given this little information it's hard to say anything of substance. I will try to give you something that might help you: whenever talking to a group of people, you talk to one person at a time. Sounds weird right? But it just means that you always look at one person at a time when you say something like you are addressing this particular person. This makes people feel comfortable and makes them want to listen. Also understand that you cannot win over everyone. Depending on your own skills tal…
/r/seduction27/11/18 07:36 AM
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Stop calling it a set. Damn... You're right. If he calls it something else the girls will immediately want to fuck him. You should focus on exactly 1 girl at a time if you approach a group, You didn't approach a group of girls yet did you? It's their nature to pull away their girl friends when they feel they don't get the attention they want or get bored or if they don't like the guy. Following your advice is the exact wrong way to do it.
/r/seduction27/11/18 07:28 AM
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Kiss her when you want to. It's actually that simple. If you feel like it, the moment you meet her again, do it. She will either accept or not, but as long as she stays it means "not yet" instead of no.
/r/seduction26/11/18 08:04 PM
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foreign too, so she different So she isn't a woman? Help me out here, how does that change the fact that women, regardless of where they come from, react basically the same way when attracted? Anyway. Meet her again, take your shot and enjoy the ride. As a rule of thumb: if she's still with you or meets you again, she likes you, keep on doing your magic.
/r/seduction26/11/18 08:01 PM
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All the answers given to you over the past 2 years you are spamming the same bullshit aren't enough? Dude I've said this many times bei and I will say it again: get professional help. You are definitely mentally challenged...
/r/seduction26/11/18 07:56 PM
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Tell her the following: "I understand that you want to do that, and maybe you find out you still love him. One thing I can guarantee you though, if you find out you still love him, and what to get together with him, i will not stand in your way." Then when it happens, you simply cut her out of your life. ​ If you object to her idea, you are the bad guy and she will cheat on you, if you let her, she might leave you anyway. Chances are slim that this is just a shit-test. Either way, it´s not worth…
/r/seduction26/11/18 03:53 PM
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He cannot "not let her", at least in the western world, women are free to do whatever they want.
/r/seduction26/11/18 03:50 PM
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"me too...". Just don´ t give a fuck and say what you have on your mind or simply ignore it.
/r/seduction26/11/18 03:48 PM
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Lol... I was off for some time, and this bullshit is still being posted? Reddit, you never cease to surprise me.
/r/seduction26/11/18 03:36 PM
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https://www.nytimes.com/2018/05/08/opinion/schneiderman-abuse-feminist-men.html https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9F1dgJLIf5o In general you should google it, you will find plenty of cases.
/r/seduction26/11/18 03:35 PM
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You got your hopes up for that girl which was your first mistake. Women are like cats. If you show too much interest they lose interest in you. The best thing you can do is to make yourself the most important person in your life. Also try to get more women into your life, since they flake a lot... On the depression issues you have, depression is a bitch, and it's fucking up everything if you don't actively do something about it. What I learned what helps is to go outside, walk around to clear yo…
/r/seduction26/11/18 01:05 PM
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For your last point, there were a lot of mixed signals with her and I. I know what you mean, but sometimes it´s just that we men interpret things as a signal, even though it was not. I think she just liked the attention. I remember one time one of the other employees told me that she assumed that we were dating. I have heard this a lot, and it should not bear any weight for you. Women do that all the time. I also think she is intimidated by me. The last four years I have been dating. She knew th…
/r/seduction26/11/18 11:47 AM
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Hope you're kidding. Of course I am, just havin some fun today
/r/seduction26/11/18 11:31 AM
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Feminist This is the most gigantic red flag ever. Did you know that the majority of male feminists turn out to be sex offenders? It's their strategy to get with girls since all normal girls don't fall for their bullshit.
/r/seduction26/11/18 11:21 AM
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For everyone it's something different. The closest thing to an explanation would be a girl who is being approached by guys constantly because of her looks. Those are also used to getting pretty much anything given to them just for their looks.
/r/seduction26/11/18 07:46 AM
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How can there be the prototype for a 10,if there is no consensus on what makes a 10? I could give you a list of people I know that could not care less about the "hot blond hair, blue eyed, white chick"
/r/seduction26/11/18 07:44 AM
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Not sure if you´re straight out mean, or just a genius for giving him the needed boost to finally make a move on her... either way, here: have my upvote!
/r/seduction23/11/18 02:57 PM
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There are a few things that come to mind reading this. First off: you had a crush on her for 4 years. Man, you waited too long, period. Also, sure, you were her boss and that's it, but But she never saw you as a sexy man. Good looks are only one little detail. Then you did the biggest mistake a man in your position could make: asking her out for dinner as a sign of appreciation?? I know you thought it was polite and nice, but women don't get attracted to nice and polite. They want mystery, "dang…
/r/seduction23/11/18 06:58 AM
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"stop caring what others think about you"
/r/seduction23/11/18 06:23 AM
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Ladies and gentlemen, Very polite. Here we see one of those "common" beta male bunny types who try to passive aggressively bitch about other people like a woman. Lol... I remember this kind of "comeback" where you would just say the same thing to someone, I remember that from kindergarten when i was a little brat. People try that even when they´re older, but it only makes me feel sorry for that person, since they are not intelligent enough to make up a genuine comeback... so sad. The most domina…
/r/seduction19/11/18 12:38 PM
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The thing is, if i read something i disagree with, i speak up. The same thing is what i expect of anyone else, and why am i doing that? Because being in an echo chamber doesn´t help anyone. If you want to stay in a safe space, or echo chamber where everyone likes you, and has the sam opinions, even if they are objectively false, stupid or whatever, you should not open a public discussion. I strongly recommend that you start thinking about the feedback you get, and keep in mind that if everyone s…
/r/seduction19/11/18 12:27 PM
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Normal people call it social intelligence, it`s the opposite of hanging around in forums on the internet all day long pretending to be a bad ass
/r/seduction16/11/18 07:50 AM
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You think the only risk is a rejection? It could become a lot more uncomfortable than a rejection. I personally don't give a rats ass about rejection, they happen all the time and have no impact at all.
/r/seduction06/11/18 06:54 AM
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Have you ever asked a friend to go out, but that friend told you he/she had no time? How did you handle that rejection? Right, there was nothing to handle at all. So. Stop behaving like it's a death sentence just because someone is not interested in you. A lot of people will simply not care about you, deal with it.
/r/seduction06/11/18 06:50 AM
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Alright. Why do you want this girl? Is it because your friends say you look like you're together? Why don't you make it a habit to hang out with her alone? Then get closer, and closer and do your game. In any way, you should avoid coming out as the creep that "loved her so much" for years already without making a move. Just do what your feeling tells you, she will either go with it, or give you the friend speech.
/r/seduction16/10/18 06:15 AM
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This is a bad suggestion. The only reason to freeze out a girl is when she is giving you the friend speech or constantly avoids one on one meetups which of course the guy was suggesting. In this case it's just dumb and manipulative.
/r/seduction16/10/18 06:11 AM
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At least you got the "agree and amplify" down, next step would be to actually talk to girls, so don´ t be scared if they come close. Feeling that girls are ugly is just phase that will end after puberty.
/r/seduction27/09/18 01:00 PM
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Use this as a lesson for you in the future. Don't wait around, make your intentions clear fast and make a move.
/r/seduction07/09/18 07:54 AM
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please continue.. fill us in on the truth.
/r/seduction05/09/18 08:31 AM
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"I don´t , I was raised by wolves. Could you show me?"
/r/seduction05/09/18 08:24 AM
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hahaha! so true!
/r/seduction30/08/18 10:49 PM
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Damn... I give a lot of money, but I rarely recieve any... I must be doing something wrong :(
/r/seduction30/08/18 10:48 PM
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Hate and envy has been around since the first intelligent human being. Just nowadays it has become more visible since every one can target millions of people online. The real question is, why do you care? Surround yourself with people who accept and like you. Get rid of the bad guys in your social circle, and stop giving a fuck about the few strangers that hate you, or envy you. Their opinions don't matter for you.
/r/seduction13/08/18 09:19 AM
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Oh my... You should definitely seek mental help dude
/r/seduction12/08/18 12:47 PM
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... that it's the wrong sub?
/r/seduction10/08/18 11:52 AM
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His problem is that he's autistic. He creates a new account for every post, and he's been doing that for more than a year...
/r/seduction10/08/18 10:49 AM
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Of course, I was not phrasing that out very well. What I mean is that we are still friends after many years, and I have lost my attraction towards her. We had talked about this date, and she told me that she actually thought I was proposing a date, even though I tried to subtly do this and was having the impressions she would not see through it. Women know those things, they are so much smarter than most men are when it comes tho knowing when a guy want's more.
/r/seduction09/08/18 03:17 PM
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The thing that annoys me is that other times I had a yes/no response the same day, Was it a date that you proposed? I mean, did it sound like a classic date? I bet it was more friends compatible if she's not interested why not say no directly? That is easily explained: You work together, and women in general tend to be less confronting. I also bet she had this numerous times already where guys asked her out and when she rejected them they became aggressive, or in best case it was awkward when th…
/r/seduction09/08/18 03:14 PM
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Oh the infamous dinner invitation... She knows whats up, and I hate to say it, but you are her friend, not her lover. I made this mistake myself with a girl I though with which i had great chemistry, but haven't been communicating my attraction properly. She panicked and came up with a bunch of requests, and drama, like "a common friend should join too" so I canceled it. After many years, still friends but nothing more, she told me she thought it was supposed to be a date... damn women are smart…
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:32 PM
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I think many people just don't understand what screening means, hence the downvotes. In this case, she wasn't down for sex, so... next. If you were looking for a LTR, she would have a point. I also sense a shaming attempt from her, as in "how dare you be sexually direct! I am the one who chooses! Now go back to into your orbit around me." it's almost comedy...
/r/seduction08/08/18 10:51 AM
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When do you want to meet her? Look. You are obviously trying not to "lose" her, but you don't have her yet anyway. At the moment it looks more like she wants you to give her attention, nothing more. Don't waste your time on chicks like that. Ask her out, she comes up with some bullshit excuse, move on.
/r/seduction08/08/18 06:29 AM
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You didn't chase her off, she was just interested in texting, killing time. She wasn't interested in you. Imagine a person you like asks you out, what would you do? And what would you do if you weren't interested in the person? There you have everything you need to know
/r/seduction08/08/18 06:23 AM
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You could call it relationship (I called it friendship with benefits, haha it didn't work out), even though I made clear from the start that we are not exclusive, and in the end, I had to end it, and even go so far as to block her... She was not letting go and texting me constantly. Fortunately she didn't show up at my house yet... When it comes to women, I come to the conclusion that no pussy is valuable enough to risk my mental health, and there are a lot real high quality women out there who …
/r/seduction07/08/18 02:48 PM
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You are the Facebook guy, right? You could provide a Link to your other post so people get the context. That said, ask her out. If she still comes up with excuses, tell her "too bad ;)". Then move on, she's most likely just there for the attention.
/r/seduction07/08/18 02:04 PM
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has some kind of emotional traumas from past relationships What exactly do you want from someone like that? Are you so needy that you need to put this on your shoulders? Let me tell you something i have learned the hard way: Broken people are bad for your mental health, get rid of them ASAP. You will never be happy with a traumatized woman in a relationship, it will turn into hell.
/r/seduction07/08/18 02:01 PM
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Hehe no worries man
/r/seduction07/08/18 06:32 AM
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If you put his text into google you will probably find that answer in hundreds of threads, by the way, he just posted it again hahaha
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:51 AM
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Good enough. One more thing i'd like to know, do you think your attraction would change when you meet them in real life? My point is more that pictures give us a wrong sense of attractiveness, since our brain has just little to no information to base it on, and therefore it tries to fill this void with expectations or even biased ideas.
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:50 AM
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I am sure you aren't the first one to try to come up with a mathematical formula for attraction, even though the problem is not solvable mathematically. You have to understand that there are too many influences to make any sense of it. In your example, Tinder, you have to see the factor of what you can see. The pictures. What influence do they have on attractiveness? You can no make a ugly person into a perfect looking one, of course, but you can make a pretty girl look "meh", and you can make a…
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:35 AM
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Congratulations on wasting your time. This exact same thread pops up basically every day, on different subs, for over a year now. He even creates a new account every time.
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:15 AM
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I've been thinking on this since I posted and I think if I did decide to give advice it'd be best to provide resources for them. I agree, but it is also possible to give advice, while expecting your audience to have the basic knowledge for what you are about to say. If someone was giving me advice on my looks their opinion wouldn't matter, Yes, absolutely, and that is also because looks are subjective. If someone came up to you and said "mhmm you could try x", this makes it different, since it's…
/r/seduction03/08/18 08:13 AM
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Hi buddy!! I thought you had left, not seen any of your posts in a while. I needed a break, it is pretty hard to keep a clear mind while having so much to do in real life :) I'm really glad to see that you are still active and providing wonderful advice as always. I try my best, even though I also try to not put too much time in anymore that I could use to process my private life hehe Nudge it in the right direction, just means keep doing what I'm going and just try and get flirty when ever I'm …
/r/seduction02/08/18 06:33 PM
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I asked her out for dinner as in... "i would like to take you out for dinner sometime"? and she said "hahaha okay, I'll let you know when I'm free" Translation: "thank you for asking, but i am not interested and hope you will get the hint". If you ask with a determined time and place, you will either get a vague "I am busy" or a "yea sure, i'd love to"/"I am busy that day, but I have time at..." Never leave the ball in her court if you want an actual result.
/r/seduction02/08/18 02:37 PM
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Hey man, long time no talk! it's been pretty busy, anyways i'd like to give you some feedback: She seems to be insecure about how you feel, which is exactly what you should do to make a girl invest, then she invested by getting all hectic about it, trying to get an answer out of you. This back and forth with you, seemed to make her suddenly want you, but she has a boyfriend, which makes it risky for her to just make a move herself. This is also why she pointed that out. In general this seems to …
/r/seduction02/08/18 01:55 PM
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but generally a girl laughing is an ioi... even if she's laughing at you? ;)
/r/seduction02/08/18 12:22 PM
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attention more followers = more attention bored trying to be nice playing with you for attention no real reason I am not too much into social media, and sometimes i get a friend request on Facebook from random people, or i got some random person to follow my Spotify playlists and so on. I don't really care and i don't think it has some deeper reason to it.
/r/seduction02/08/18 12:21 PM
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I am sure many guys here would appreciate you writing down some advice, i would be curious what that would be anyways.
/r/seduction02/08/18 12:13 PM
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Why do you need new accounts every day? because you are spamming? Mine is a few years old.
/r/seduction02/08/18 09:51 AM
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New name, this time no "asfaasfafafas", and new title for the same post you post every day? I call that a new strategy ;)
/r/seduction02/08/18 09:09 AM
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I don't believe you haha
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:56 AM
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Citation needed.
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:38 PM
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Here is a how to find your answers: log in to your numerous troll accounts click on the little mail icon top right of your screen click on "answers to your posts" read and enjoy So, for now you got enough attention, have fun!
/r/seduction01/08/18 01:30 PM
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Ok, how many times have you asked the same shit already over the past 2 years? You have been answered about a hundred times already, if that isn't enough, there will be no answer that is right for you. In the mean time, i am sure you are just a little boy with too much time on his hands wasting peoples time, and i hope i could save them from feeding your trolling.
/r/seduction01/08/18 01:04 PM
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Just look at this... funny heh? https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/905wdd/uk_girls_like_me_or_mocking_me/ https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/8gk0rk/uk_did_these_girls_like_me_or_mocking_me/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/932cki/girls_mocking_me_having_mixed_feels_about_it_all/ https://www.reddit.com/r/self/comments/93o8t4/girls_mocking_me/ //edit: Just found one more: * https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/92yboz/how_should_i_have_took_this_mixed_feels/ If i coul…
/r/seduction01/08/18 01:00 PM
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Like the other 50 Times you made a spam account, to ask the exact same shit, over the past year? Dude, at least I am not that stupid to not see your obvious trolling...
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:56 PM
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Oh my fucking god... This crap again. Go get some Hobbies you moron!
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:39 PM
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Alot of user here really think that you can get laid a dozen times by only improving your "Game", well if this would be true then almost everyone in public could be a slayer, Your conclusion is lacking logic. For one, not every guy is reading up on seduction. I would say a really small number compared to men on the planet do that. Secondly, many guys here, read and never act on it out of fear, laziness or poor self esteem. Thirdly, it is a really hard process to get somewhere, and it takes time …
/r/seduction30/07/18 09:51 AM
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I won't be you :) lol
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:47 PM
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Goddam are you a little special snowflake, eh? No wonder you are refusing to accept facts, are you some kind of SJW? or a Feminazi "ally" in the making?
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:45 PM
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heheh it equipped us with all we need, and the great thing about it is that guys who are of genetical low value (low health, low strength, low survivability), are not procreating. So, if you think you need to be taken by your hand by a woman, don't wonder if you stay alone your whole life and never procreate. it is a biological mechanism to make sure the human race will survive.
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:33 PM
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And now, please, tell him also what those men are embodying. I bet you will say no word about them having to be weak scared little boys.
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:30 PM
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By the way. you should really stop believing this leftist/Feminazi/SJW pseudo science bullshit. There are no "gender norms" being enforced, those people who claim that, have no evidence but some fantasy bullshit dreams, they completely disregard biolgical facts and the attached research. Read a biology book, get educated.
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:28 PM
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Actually... they are doing exactly the opposite. Just be honest to yourself. What does a women want? A man, someone that is not scared of talking to her, someone that can keep her safe? or does she want someone who needs her to do the talking, make him food, wash his clothes (becaus mom is't doing it anymore) and hyperbolically, change his diapers?
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:19 PM
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Your circular reasoning is cringy... Women don't approach, since they don't need to, since most guys these days are putting them onto a pedestal, and after all, i rarely see a guy that i would even call man, rather than little baby boy.
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:17 PM
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what?
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:14 PM
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Actually it was that women rate 80% of men based on their profile, to be below average attractive, so only 20% of men are being rated as attractive at all, not even speaking of the probably 1% that they would rate as above average. What does this tell us? don't waste your time with online dating. //edit: i just saw that was your point, don't mind me hehe
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:12 PM
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I remember what jordan peterson said on the inteview with cathy newman: "Womans are unhappy with weak partners". So, if you actually cannot man up enough to ask a woman out, you will definitely not make her happy, and they know that. You can of course decide to become gay and get approached...
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:05 PM
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Your mom loves you... i am sure.
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:03 PM
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Oh my... Do you really want women to become more like men?
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:02 PM
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Not sure if you are replying to the right person. Not whining saying it's fucking hard. It might have been the little guy in my head that interpreted it a whining, since the reader chooses the tone of what he reads, and the comment really gave that impression. Your being hostile for zero reason. If I was seriously hostile, I would have called you lots of names while making sure you get how much I hate you, but since I don't even know you why would I? It would be a waste of my time. Reality is me…
/r/seduction27/07/18 05:56 AM
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Wow I didn't even know tinder had text... By the way, I want World peace. That doesn't mean I won't settle for less
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:02 AM
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Thank you for your feedback, to be honest i am sitting in my office, iti s 35 degrees celsius in here and my brain is overheating. I hope it is a little bit better to read now that i have put in some paragraphs.
/r/seduction25/07/18 01:58 PM
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try a line of coke...
/r/seduction24/07/18 01:48 PM
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There's only one way to find out... Keep in mind though, that she could be actually very happy in her relationship and therefore not interested in something else than friendship. Some women are very touchy with friends, i know a few of those myself, and it is hard to distinguish if it's sexual interest, or just them being touchy. There's maybe a third option... they're looking for a sex toy (you) lol
/r/seduction23/07/18 03:39 PM
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Any ideas for attractive hobbies? That is the wrong way to go about it. Imagine having a "hobby" you don´t enjoy, but you do it because other people should be attracted to you because of them. The result is: you are not happy, and people will mostly not give a shit about those hobbies. The better way to think about it: Do what makes you walk around with a smile on your face, do something that gives you the feeling you live your life to the fullest. If that´s programming, pursue it make a career …
/r/seduction22/07/18 12:39 PM
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hahah looking for a sugarmama? Man... that can turn into a really big headache, think hard before you cross that bridge. And if i understand you comment right... A flight to a different city, a hotel room, and guaranteed pussy hahah. ... I wonder how desperate you must be to pay for aflight and a hotel room just to dip your dick into a "just attractive" old woman (I bet a hooker is a lot cheaper than that.), instead hooking up with the 20 year old you can pickup (given you have the skills) in yo…
/r/seduction22/07/18 11:46 AM
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I think you need to be her 'type'. Why not become their type then? Do you know what their type is? A guy that isn't scared of rejection. That type of guy that makes her feel like a real woman, one who can lead and so on. The op nailed it pretty much, become fearless and fucking do instead of thinking what could go wrong.
/r/seduction20/07/18 03:24 PM
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Recently a girl I know for many years told me she forgot everything that happened between us two a few years back, (we had a pretty intense affair) after I was pointing at it in a talk with her. I asked her if she was joking but she claims that she doesn't remember absolutely nothing. Well, I call bullshit on it, but also have cut ties with her due to also other reasons. I don't tolerate women playing stupid games with me.
/r/seduction20/07/18 12:06 PM
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haha well, maybe... the older you get, the less you understand the jokes of the young folks...
/r/seduction18/07/18 09:11 PM
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Working 9 to 6 as well, then commute 50 minutes to and from work. It´s tough, but in time you get used to it, I rarely get to bed before midnight, getting up at 6 to 7 to get ready for the day... The funny thing is, at about 8 i get a rush of energy and cannot sleep anymore lol... I guess that happens when you do this for years...
/r/seduction18/07/18 09:09 PM
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Well... i didn´t know you were unable to think for yourself.. sorry mate. Do you have male friends? If yes, what did you do to become friends? Do the same with any man. If no, then this is a bit longer to explain, but general rule of thumb: Find things to talk about and to connect over (i heard talking about soccer is a great way, or talk about how to get ripped). In general it is being said that men connect best over bantering, me and my buddies do that constantly. And by the way, since when is…
/r/seduction18/07/18 08:59 PM
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Any advice on cold-approaching cool looking guys to hang out with socially? Well... just talk to people. There is nothing special about it. I get talked to constantly when i'm out, and if the person is cool, i talk with them. On the other hand i talk to random strangers often, my personal trick is to talk to them like we are already friends. Works so far very good. Or cold-approaching girls, but making it clear you want to be friend-zoned? Look at the "how to get out of the friendzone" advices a…
/r/seduction18/07/18 03:12 PM
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Maybe this is a thing with the really young people, but i have never had this happen to me. Either a girl is interested in meeting, or not. It also might be that i don´t play those immature games, i mean... A girl on Tinder or any other online dating platform behaving like that? Next.
/r/seduction17/07/18 06:01 PM
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Whats the best way to get around this? There is no reason for it. Those girls disqualify themselves, be happy you don't waste your time with such immature shallow people.
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:23 PM
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but she could also have a reason. You wouldn't believe how many reasons i have everyday to basically make peoples lives living hell. If i did, i definitely would be a bad person, since actions define who you are, but i have so much self control not to do that. It sounds like you are looking for an excuse for that woman, "because she's a woman, and women are perfect and without fault". Long story short: There is no excuse for being an asshole to someone else, and it shows a lack of self control, …
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:38 AM
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Today she was looking for something in my department (a very specific type of sausage actually) and she couldn't find it. That made me laugh
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:25 AM
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I'm pretty sure she's playing you. Grow up and stop being her little jealous bitch
/r/seduction26/06/18 04:41 PM
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Cashiers are easy to talk to, easier than any girl you meet in day game. My personal rule: Comment on a observation i made. Once i said to a girl "damn your hair is amazing!" she actually had amazing beautiful curly hair, and she was very flattered, and bam. Ice was broken. Another time the girl was really anxious where she left her phone when standing up from her workplace, she was asking her colleagues and the security guy. She found it while i was waiting to pay my stuff. I said "That is why …
/r/seduction15/06/18 02:45 PM
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Every war has two sides. I agree, there is a problem though: For instance back in the 40's when my country (Germany) waged war against Russia, Poland etc. It was an offensive war with the purpose of claiming territory. The U.S. is doing something similar, but more covert. Face it, the U.S. is the aggressor in all the former wars, to gain control, power, and resources. it was never about defending their country, look at how the CIA funded Al Quaida to fight the Sovjets in Afghanistan, but resourc…
/r/seduction14/06/18 09:17 AM
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I promise! Seriously... I can promise you at least one thing: if you don't try you will never succeed.
/r/seduction25/05/18 03:25 PM
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Haha spot on, very good
/r/seduction25/05/18 03:22 PM
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I'm also super nice Don’t be nice. Be pleasant. Look up the definition of niceguy and then compare that to your behavior. If you find a lot of similar behaviors, change that.
/r/seduction25/05/18 03:20 PM
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he asked probably because this is the (to my knowledge third time) you posted this crap in the past month.
/r/seduction25/05/18 09:35 AM
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I tend to think it's more that ''the more you expose yourself, the more comfortable you feel and thus give off a better vibe'' rather than '''the more you expose yourself, the more you learn'' Partly true, of course you get more comfortable the more you get out of your comfort zone. But still you learn a lot. How to read body language, how to interact with people, and this is crucial. For the most part this is definitely dependent on character, but to a big degree the same for the majority of pe…
/r/seduction18/05/18 01:49 PM
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Haha that's so true. I once had this argument with my girlfriend, and she was like "I totally like Jim Carrey, he makes me laugh so much, but that doesn't mean I want to fuck him. He's gross..."
/r/seduction18/05/18 07:30 AM
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Do you mean ''what is going to work'' FOR YOU? Yes. I mean I could go through all the aspects of real life, human behavior and so on to explain how there are an infinite number of variables, therefore pointing out that absolutely there is no one way to attract someone, but that would take ages, and obviously you knew that already.
/r/seduction18/05/18 06:14 AM
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You don't know what is going to work? Well, the solution is easy. You have a repository of knowledge and tactics to choose from. Choose something and either falsify it, or validate it.
/r/seduction17/05/18 07:18 PM
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I want to ask you something... I graduated with a degree in psychology ... what did you learn? I would think you might have a greater understanding of the human mind than many many others. So, what does psychology say about female to male interaction and what are the triggers for attraction? My point is that you are like others who talk themselves into oblivion like "i am short", "i am bald", "i am indian", "i am ugly" and so on, while the fact is that those subjective attributes, are ... well s…
/r/seduction17/05/18 12:40 PM
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"well, then we have to meet, [add time and place]"
/r/seduction17/05/18 07:13 AM
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Damn I thought I was having a deja vu, thanks for pointing it out
/r/seduction15/05/18 12:34 PM
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If she thinks 'ewww,.....he's SO not my type'' then all the 'game' in the world won't 'work'. You'll often be talking too a brick wall who isn't contributing at all to the convo, lol And here you are wrong. I agree on easy mode, since it is an inherent instinct to look for a healthy partner, even women do that, but! They also evolved to look for a strong provider who will keep her safe, and since this is not anything that is exclusive to a healthy body, but attributed to behavior, status, capabi…
/r/seduction09/05/18 01:30 PM
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Listen to this man. Absolutely on point.
/r/seduction09/05/18 06:42 AM
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His point was that you never do anything anyone tells you but still ask the same questions, write the same stuff over and over again. Of course he's frustrated or pissed about this since it's not understandable by most people. It feels like a waste of time to even give someone advice who figuratively shits on it and goes into a loop doing the same mistakes, while still asking the same questions while again not doing anything one has told you. I can very much understand him. You chose your victim…
/r/seduction09/05/18 06:36 AM
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But at the same time i make weird jokes, Are you making those jokes so others give you attention or even so they like you? It's not a problem to make jokes that you feel are funny, only if you actually do them because you are genuinely amused by it and don't care about what others think. talk a lot Are you scared of silence? Maybe you think by talking a lot people will like you? It's incredible how much you can hear If you stop talking and let others do the talking. Try it out. and feel like peo…
/r/seduction09/05/18 06:31 AM
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There are too many possibilities. In my case she was extremely shy and scared to meet me, and when we met, she fell in love immediately
/r/seduction07/05/18 04:18 PM
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So what are some things you say when you approach them I prefer to open with a situational opener, something I observed and pretend that you dont even see how hot they are? There is a big difference between putting a girl on a pedestal for winning the genetic lottery, and being curious about what she actually has to offer me. Also, of course she knows what you're up to, do you think those girls are dumb and think any man wants to be friends with her, opposed to fucking her?
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:15 AM
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Please go back to Tumblr and write more sjw comments on Twitter, thank you.
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:10 AM
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The best advice is this: do it. "but what if I get rejected?" you might say. Doesn't matter. "what if I don't do the right things?". Doesn't matter. You will do things wrong, and you will fail, but you will also learn from your mistakes and experiences. Trust me, at one point in your life you will look back at your failures and laugh about it. Just fucking do it, risk something.
/r/seduction26/04/18 08:16 PM
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Did you think about the possibility that girl 2,who you slept with, and who's a friend of girl 1, told her that you slept with each other, maybe after you had your dick sucked by her? That might explain why she suddenly was behaving strange. She might have felt regret.
/r/seduction26/04/18 08:12 PM
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There's really no reason to read all of this, since you gave it away in the first few sentences. You are not compatible with each other, and you should stop playing games. Grow up. Whenever there's a break up, it's for a reason. If it happens twice or more, it's impossible to fix it. Move on.
/r/seduction26/04/18 08:05 PM
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I actually feel superior to older men...I kinda look down on them which is kinda sad..I am afraid to get older.. That explains a lot lol Ive been to my mothers work parties and all the single older milfs flock to me from age 22 to 45... Hahaha 22 year old is what you call old? Seriously, you are just too inexperienced to know what old really means. Also, the funny thing is, why would I as a 40+ year old man, want a women that is 40 as well? There are a lot of statistics that say women that age a…
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:52 AM
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Eh I disagree most college girls I know think older guys that hit on them are creeps Yeah, sure, young women are the impersonation of self reflection. Ask them what they call "older guys" and let them show you one. You will see they are talking about married old beta males. Then ask them about about someone who they consider high status, let's say "george clooney", he's pretty old, and since he's a celebrity... Then, observe their physical reaction to your question while they probably say "i wou…
/r/seduction25/04/18 03:41 PM
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do the words really not matter at all? Well, if you say "hey you wore get down on your knees and lick my boots" you will most likely get a fist into your face. So, to some degree words do matter, but not as in "just use the magic words and she'll drop her pants". I have a friend who is masterful in telling you in the most engaging way you can think of, how she one time cooked some spaghetti and forgot the salt. Sounds dumb, right? But it works. I have learned that, and in person I can talk to a …
/r/seduction25/04/18 12:54 PM
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I get rejected by like 20 hot young girls per night and i'm nearly as old as the OP! What do you say to them? It is not about what you say, but the way to say it. When i see a girl in her 20's i assume she's not as experienced as i am, and i treat her like that. Of course you need to be confident, and charming. Being dull and not well spoken isn't really winning you anything. Play by her impression of an older man that can teach her so many things. They seem to all hook up with handsome dudes th…
/r/seduction25/04/18 10:57 AM
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I am totally with you on the point that being older it is not really feasible to run around in a mall or on the street hitting on girls, as to being indirect... well i can be very blunt with girls, and so far had different outcomes. Some girls like it, some don't, what always helps a lot is charme. Being well spoken is a prerequisite to that, mixed with being able to throw out sexual hints, works wonders sometimes. I personally have a strong father frame, and as strange as it sounds, it works pr…
/r/seduction25/04/18 09:58 AM
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hahaha that is the best answer ever!
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:20 AM
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interested in her and asked her on a date with me. She told me she isn't interested and views me more like a best friend... Are you even friends? I'm not talking about "we see each other and talk sometimes" friends... We talked about it afterwards and I agreed on staying friends, because we actually get along together well. You mean, she agreed on you not hitting on her anymore, and she calls it being friends, while you were either presented with the choice of cutting her off, or going along wit…
/r/seduction23/04/18 07:48 AM
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I think that most men are too scared to approach a girl either way, they rely on strong signals and friend circles, and of course they get together with the first possible girl that wants them, because they're scared to stay alone for the rest of their lives. Only when alcohol is involved they tend to hit on every slightly attractive girl and when the alcohol level is high enough, they even hit on the most beautiful girl in the room. So basically, most "men" are just too scared to go for any gir…
/r/seduction23/04/18 06:12 AM
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You actually cared enough to comment. Check mate lol
/r/seduction23/04/18 06:07 AM
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What happens if you meet up and the women is bat shit crazy and kills you? That made me laugh. How often do you think that happens? I guess it would be in the news by now. I personally don´t enjoy online dating. It is time consuming and most of the time fruitless. Women get unbelievable amounts of attention and matches, so calculate your chances to be the one thy choose out of the hundreds that match them every day.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:16 PM
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I agree, i am happy you understand the errors of your ways. have a nice day my friend.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:12 PM
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feeling intimidated by her already? come on...
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:01 PM
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There's a tiny trick when talking to people to elicit the feeling of familiarity in talked to person. Incorporate their name, it has a lot of power to hear your own name from someone else.
/r/seduction20/04/18 01:45 PM
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these sound like the type to accuse you of rape, even after tearing your clothes off or asking for a second cum. Exactly!
/r/seduction20/04/18 01:41 PM
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know many of you will advocate just to go for it and get used to rejection, Psst. Hey... Buddy... Over here!... I have some magic pills for you, interested? This pill here will make you never get rejected, and capable of knowing what every woman wants. Ready? Here you go: there is no pill for that. There is no sure way of knowing when a girl want your dick inside her. Well, sure when she's grabbing your balls and tells you to fuck her, then you know. but I'd rather not make an ass out of myself …
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:56 AM
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wait... they want to smash capitalism? The very thing that made Twitter, Buzzfeed, tumblr, iphones, soy latte's from starbucks possilbe in the first place? Are they really that dumb?
/r/MensRights19/04/18 12:06 PM
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You mean upvotes? Actually i never cared, don't even know how many downvotes or upvotes i got in all the time i am posting. The only thing that matters to me is to widen my knowledge, and to spread it while hopefully helping someone in the process of doing so.
/r/seduction19/04/18 08:21 AM
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Hehe Still thanks for making me laugh this morning, and good luck man!
/r/seduction19/04/18 06:25 AM
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Dude, it's fine to feel a little excited, but the problem is that excitement, based on what you wrote, probably will change into nervousness. You are already labeling her as a 10, which is code for absolute perfection, which she isn't. If you were used to attractive girls you would just say "I will meet this attractive girl for a coffee, so she can prove that she's worthy of my time". Just chill out and stop making so many plans... You are meeting for a coffee, and if things go well, you might s…
/r/seduction19/04/18 06:21 AM
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she loved the quick date idea and responded with an over the top ‘yes.’ LOL it's amazing what people read into one word answers haha thanks for the laugh
/r/seduction19/04/18 06:15 AM
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Actually good idea to be persistent in certain cases, but really... When a girl says "I'm busy this week, I'll let you know" it means "get the hint, I'm not interested". An interested person will say "I'm busy this week, but I have some time next week". See the difference?
/r/seduction19/04/18 06:10 AM
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I'd pursue other people, but leave this one on the back burner. Wouldn't this require her to be interested in the first place? It's like saying "I use my old car and keep that Ferrari I might one day be able to afford on the back burner".
/r/seduction19/04/18 06:07 AM
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So, basically he could have fucked her based on looks alone but managed to fuck it up..... By opening his mouth. How many girls fuck a dude that is not saying a word? We could conclude: personality trumps looks. Kinda backs up what I just said. To some extent, sure. If he was significantly overweight, had unkept hair, hadn't changed his style since middle school, he wouldn't have even gotten a second look... True, but that same guy, with visibly better hygiene and the ability to talk doesn't nee…
/r/seduction18/04/18 01:40 PM
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However you are mistaken if you think ones interest level can't change if you text too soon. I disagree... Ever hear the words needy come out of a girls mouth? ... because they say it if you are doing more than just texting the next day. Most of the time it is something they think of you from the start or not. Sure some girls won't mind if you text them the next day. And if thats the case, they still will remain interested if you wait a couple days to contact her. So why wait? Just to play games…
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:24 AM
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Now, there's all these videos on the internet of PUA's, how to talk to girls, etc. it shows how much more difficult it is nowadays. No. It shows that there's a big market for coaches to make money on, by giving weak soyboys the presumably magic pill to get any woman
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:36 AM
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This. Don't listen to whatever 48 hour rule nonsense you heard of. Oh how wrong you all are... It doesn't matter when you write her. If you wait for days, or write something immediately does not change her interest level. This is one of those dumb short sighted conclusions, since "all women think the same way". No they don't! And no matter what those pua coaches try to sell you, there is no one fits all solution. So, if a girl forgets you in 48 hours, she wasnt interested. If a girl is intereste…
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:33 AM
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Actually he's not just reporting what he saw, he makes assumptions about that as if it was the only truth. In a scientific community this would be at best laughed at, since it's just one occurrence. Since we're here already, let me give you a story about what I saw once: a female friend was into a guy who she thought was good looking. She tried to get laid. He was a friend of a friend, and we were having a before the party setting where we all met. She talked to him, I talked to him, and my pers…
/r/seduction18/04/18 06:36 AM
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was very vague about whether or not she wanted to go out again or not. so obviously not giving me clear signs about anything That's was very straightforward, for a woman. It means: "no. And now please get the hint." It seems like she wasn't sure about you at first, but while you were having the date, she didn't feel it. This might be a couple of reasons, maybe that you didn't escalate, you were having dinner as far as I understand, which is never a good idea for a first date. Try something more …
/r/seduction18/04/18 06:17 AM
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Next time try to read the whole post, and then understand the whole story in context.
/r/seduction18/04/18 05:49 AM
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Wasn't it easy before the invention of smartphones? When I was young, there were people who I didn't know, then people who were just there and I knew them by seeing them, people I considered buddies and then there were friends. The last category were people I actually met in person, we got along and hung out. Simple thing. Nowadays, people consider strangers they have added on some virtual platform to be friends, strange times. My point is: if you never meet someone, how can you be friends? At m…
/r/seduction18/04/18 05:48 AM
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Just as a reminder that there is this stereotypical guy who women never go for (they always go for assholes), for a reason. It is this, aside from other dumb behaviors, that will lead you nowhere. What on the other hand is super masculine? Going for what you want without asking. She can always say no, but until that, don't behave like you are her little 5 year old boy that needs to ask mommy for permission.
/r/seduction17/04/18 04:02 PM
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That jump from friendzone to the bone zone is ridiculously long and the drop is steep. Good for him that he's not in the friend zone. Having a friendship takes more than 2 minutes of talking and a couple of text messages. If he meets her and escalates, she will either go with it, or give him the "let's be friends" speech, which normally means "i don't want to be around you anymore". Either way, problem solved.
/r/seduction17/04/18 03:58 PM
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You should not bring her non response up. She has a reason to do that, and you should not really care. Just behave normal and if she just forgot to reply, she'll apologize on her own. I can guess that she has boyfriend and didn't want to say that.
/r/seduction16/04/18 06:53 AM
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I am confused. This means you do not want to meet/attract any women at the places you frequent? Where/how do you meet women, in that case? There is a expression for this: don't shit where you eat. I try to adhere to this standard, since I don't want to spoil it for myself. This doesn't mean I would not flirt with the few attractive women I see there, but most of the time I just want to eat PR get my groceries. When I want to meet attractive girls I prefer night game. Most of the time I go to bar…
/r/seduction16/04/18 06:27 AM
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"minimum" I need to do, in order to achieve the desired goal of getting some ass. The minimum is to interact with women and show intent. Since all women are different from each other, there's no recipe that works for all. There are some tendencies though that help a lot. Do I have to be known in the local community? Do I have to socialize in groups? Do I need to offer "social proof"? In all actuality, I haven't been trying to get laid at all by being known in my small part of the city. I don't e…
/r/seduction13/04/18 06:46 AM
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Well... Don't underestimate the power of language. When you text a girl something that rubs her the wrong way, you're out. Of course that doesn't mean there's a magic spell to use. But what we say I a big indicator of who we are. But also you can get away with so much if you are showing a certain amount of confidence.
/r/seduction12/04/18 03:54 PM
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How many of these times you actually got laid? After having to give her that line?
/r/seduction12/04/18 03:49 PM
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Dude that was sexual assault! You should twitter about it with the meetoo tag to ruin her life. (of course this was sarcasm)
/r/seduction12/04/18 12:08 PM
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Look. There are things in life that simply don't work out. Like not eating anymore, you would die without eating, simple as that. Of course there are people claiming you could survive on sunlight only... But let's face it, it doesn't work. I don't say that you have no chance of making your approach work, but in terms of meeting women, you need to actually be social to meet them and have a reasonable chance to get laid. Otherwise you will just look forever and most likely not get anything. It's n…
/r/seduction12/04/18 05:16 AM
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As someone who has been in PUA for over 10 years, I can tell you this is not the only guy who is paying girls Who else is? Do you have proof? Share it with us.
/r/seduction11/04/18 08:25 AM
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Ah, thank you, didn't know that
/r/seduction11/04/18 08:16 AM
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Not that simple. Trust me, it is. This guy here says he "speaks from real life" I do that too... and strongly advises against it, with the implication of (possibly) damaged reputation/creeping-out women: Damaged reputation would require that people actually cared, and remember you. But even then, you won't be everyone's friend anyway, so why bother about some random people? Is it the truth, or not? That's a great question, and the answer isn't black and white. It is his subjective truth, just li…
/r/seduction11/04/18 05:33 AM
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Easy fix: go alone and talk to people, soon you aren't alone anymore.
/r/seduction10/04/18 03:28 PM
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Exactly this is the way to go about it. Sure, no one likes to be rejected, but shit, that's life and it goes on. At one point you start to not even care about it anymore and just go over to the next girl...
/r/seduction10/04/18 09:31 AM
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Start by ignoring this guy. That is so immature...
/r/seduction10/04/18 06:32 AM
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It only hurts because you take it personally, and probably put in too much emotional investment. Take the approach of: she's just one of billions of women, why would she be special then? You do not know her and she has to prove to you that she's worthy of your time.
/r/seduction10/04/18 06:27 AM
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If you've been talking with a girl for most of the night and things have been going really well, is it weird to ask her to makeout rather than just try and force it? If you are not a psychopath, you don't force it anyway, that doesn't mean that you have to ask. I'm just wondering because I wouldn't want to initiate a kiss then get denied Too scared to take a tiny risk? What can possibly happen, will you die? especially at a bar where people would watch it happen. Will they kill you? Also, it giv…
/r/seduction10/04/18 06:24 AM
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The real question is.. how do you shake the unstoppable force of shame from knowing you are inadequate and offer nothing in comparison to the average man your age, and this likely cannot be changed? And the real answer is: shame is in your head. Who is the master of your head? someone else? no. It's you. And why are you ashamed? because you didn't manage to have the best start ever? and where do you get this image from that everyone else is soooo much better than you? From sources like movies an…
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:37 AM
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Alright. You know we have been over this so many times already, but let me explain that. You are in a internet forum, and therefore there are many many different people, who have many many different opinions about any topic. Some are completely right, some are completely nonsense. Some are in the middle. Rarely you will find someone here who knows what he's talking about, since many people don't know anything. Now, his should you decide what I right and what is wrong? The only way is: trying. Th…
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:17 AM
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Wait. You're deriving your confidence from women? Fail. Do something you're good at. This should be your source of confidence.
/r/seduction08/04/18 12:34 AM
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The few times I actually read the comments of guys on girls pictures on whatever site, I felt immediate shame for my gender... All the "you're beautiful" or "why don't you text me back?" messages are so fucking pathetic... Just don't do that, it just low.
/r/seduction08/04/18 12:30 AM
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Writing to random girls on social media? How low can you go... Be aware that you are what girls call "a creep" or in best case means to her validation. Also you are one in hundreds who try that, of course you are super low value to them.
/r/seduction08/04/18 12:27 AM
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"clean up your room" reminds me of Jordan Peterson hehe, good advice
/r/seduction08/04/18 12:18 AM
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How many million times are you going to write the same thing again? How many times people have told you the same things, and still you do not even try... I got to the point where I understand that you are only here to gain compassion rather than finally getting your ass up and doing what hundreds of people have told you over the years he past year. You know what to do. It won't get easier just because you repeat the he same self loathing over and over again.
/r/seduction08/04/18 12:16 AM
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Haha burn! Thanks man!
/r/seduction06/04/18 04:25 PM
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you have to dress nice/present yourself well, How do you feel when you dress well? Probably not bad, right? have social skills Define skills. have personal success/ambition, Have you ever met someone that had success, who wasn't confident? On the other hand, have you met not confident people with success? don’t give her too much face, and at the least not be obese (if you can’t carry it well). Fortunately weight is the least of your problems in terms of being a chick magnet. Anyways. The point I…
/r/seduction06/04/18 04:21 PM
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Trust me, that friend of hers know what's going on. If the girl is interested, the friend will make it possible.
/r/seduction06/04/18 06:38 AM
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What you are basically saying is: "I am a loser". Winners not always win, the lose very often, but they still don't give up. Losers give up before really trying. Pick your poison.
/r/seduction06/04/18 06:33 AM
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No it doesn't and if a girl find it creepy fuck her, be yourself. Well, actually in that case you won't...
/r/seduction06/04/18 06:28 AM
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I have a quick story for you. When I was in school I met this girl. We were in the same class for about 2 years and I left school when I was 18. At first we didn't like each other, but in time we began to like each other, and I had a crush on her as well. I never saw that she felt the same way. On the last day of school she gave me a framed picture of her and it was such a cute thing but I still was too scared to do anything. She was very nervous about it. We met about 2 times after that day in …
/r/seduction05/04/18 05:38 AM
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Good point, but he also has a right to get what he wants, and if that is "not texting", while she is too busy to hang out, they both have conflict that is not solvable. Long story short: move on and find a girl that is not busy
/r/seduction04/04/18 06:26 PM
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As for the queer thing. It is mostly within the younger members (like uber 24) and it skews extraordinarily female (or I should say AFAB). I mean queer culture has always been apart of anime since there are genres like yuri and yaoi. But recently it has ramped up. Maybe... My two theories are that there more series like undertale, steven universe, yuri on ice, utene, etc. etc. that have queer undertones which attract these kinds of people. Or that it is becoming sort of a fad. My theory, or lets…
/r/seduction04/04/18 05:15 PM
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Cheeseburger analogy: would you like your cheeseburger warm and cooked through, or rather cold and raw meat which had 100 dicks in it. See what I did there?
/r/seduction02/04/18 06:42 PM
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she doesn't really know what she wants Do you know what you want? Take it. She will either go with it, or reject it.
/r/seduction02/04/18 03:55 PM
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I think perhaps you didn't watch the video? I still wonder why today everything has to be a video, is reading so out of fashion? Also, nothing that I being said in such videos hasn't been written down a million times already, it's just another attempt to get money for old knowledge. Every single coach knows, some guys come on board and have such low social skills, Wait, how is that connected to "leagues" which are just in our own minds and easily deconstructed? it will take quite a lot of time t…
/r/seduction01/04/18 05:53 PM
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Dude, she's bad for you. This will end in her having children and then pushing for an open marriage because you become the housewife.
/r/seduction30/03/18 01:01 PM
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And then you still talk about leagues? Wow... You can't be very successful then.
/r/seduction30/03/18 12:50 PM
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talk faster ... That's a sign of insecurity. and say excuse me For? Context matters much, just apologizing for not doing anything wrong is also not sexy at all. and learn tangential conversing is my advise I actually never heard that term before, would you mind elaborating? and also use more entertaining confident body language I fixed that for you, he's not trying to become the dancing monkey, but the guy she wants to fuck.
/r/seduction30/03/18 12:49 PM
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and I usually get girls I go for. Today, I was rejected harshly with her friends all making fun of me Who were those people, some kind of dumb 12year Olds? I can guarantee you in such a situation I would smile and thank all of them for sparing me the waste of time having such crappy personalities in my life.
/r/seduction30/03/18 12:43 PM
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What's the problem with that? Some guy's like to get pegged, some people like porn so what?
/r/seduction29/03/18 05:19 PM
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To hunt the prey, you have to become the prey.
/r/seduction29/03/18 04:25 PM
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To hunt the prey, you have to become the prey.
/r/seduction29/03/18 04:24 PM
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Can it be that you are too deep in your head? I began at one point to actively not care about others opinion of me. It helped me to get into the zone. I just feel an opportunity and act on it without thinking.
/r/seduction27/03/18 12:12 PM
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My point is that the more you do it the less you will struggle with it. If you make things a habit, the next step is a lot easier. If you are used to touching her on her lower back, its way easier slipping your hand a little deeper, and so on.
/r/seduction27/03/18 08:50 AM
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Buddy, no one cares if you had sex. I do not even care enough to judge, I give advice and another perspective. You care too much about what others think, you rationalize behavior that is obviously not helping you. Like I said: next time you have a date, Google the girl and then ask her about her posts on whatever social media sites you have stalked her on. Then come back and tell us about her reaction. I am sure she will be creeped out by that, no matter how much you want to rationalize it. And …
/r/seduction27/03/18 04:58 AM
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How is it any different than a woman doing a background check on a man? I wonder where you got the notion that this would be different. It still creepy and of a girl told me that, I would ask her to back off. Maybe she has done this before after all she has been through. maybe she doesn't even care about you. See what I did there? You can make up scenarios all day long, but it is most likely just a fantasy. We're just being cautious. Wait, maybe I didn't get the right thread here, wasn't that gi…
/r/seduction27/03/18 04:21 AM
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You are clinging to a girl that doesn't want you. It's probably just your ego talking here. Also what makes her such a great relationship prospect if all she does is frustrating you, and being cold? You like women who treat you like that?
/r/seduction27/03/18 04:15 AM
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Why did you even do that search? Do a simple test if you are creepy or not: tell that to the girl and see her reaction. People share a lot of stuff themselves, and get extremely irritated if some random person tells them about that. Sounds stupid but that's how people are. Now take into account that this wasn't published deliberately by her, so what makes you think that this would not be creepy to her? Or any other one reading this? There's a word for that: overinvested.
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:32 AM
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So you would actually go out of your way to get a "good looking" guy to have your number, only to get interviewed? Be honest, you would want to meet this guy and actually talk, face to face.
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:27 AM
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Telling a story doesn't necessarily mean lying. It is talking about an experience. There are many ways to do that, for instance the boring way of reciting facts or the interesting way with good tonality, passion, good eye contact and dramatic pauses. It fascinating how you can make people hang on your lips while talking about getting groceries just by telling it the right way.
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:16 AM
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You people make things too complicated. It also shows a lack of actions. Step one: talk to more girls. Step two: touch them, make it a habit. Step three: take the confidence and the learned habit of touching girls, and ramp it up slightly. Rinse and repeat. At one point it's natural to you. On the he subject of hugging, this is the easiest thing, just open your arms, smile and say "come here" in a friendly bit confident way. You would be surprised how obedient people are with such gestures.
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:11 AM
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Haha sure... Make sure you become her gay best friend. What do you think a girl wants in a real man? Someone who asks about her hobbies? How's school going? Or wait... Even better: ask her if you can share menstruatiom stories! I am sure she will get totally horny. Let's start over. She gave her mutual friend her number to give it to him because she thought he was good looking, not to get interviewed over text.
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:03 AM
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she thought I was good looking Don’t you see the irony? Texting doesn't equal seeing. If she was looking for a girlfriend to text she would have asked a girl.
/r/seduction27/03/18 02:59 AM
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Why does this sound like you think girls are angels and men a Re the devil... Also, what qualifies as consent? is a written contract enough? Last time I was in a club there were bouncers who just waited to Escort overly aggressive guys out through the front door.
/r/seduction27/03/18 02:44 AM
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Actually only the unwise don't understand women. The wise ones know that her words have a much meaning as men's words, her actions though are the real message.
/r/seduction27/03/18 02:34 AM
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Wow... Just wow... Dude you're creepy.
/r/seduction27/03/18 02:31 AM
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Lol, sorry for that insubstantial reply to a insubstantial post: be her dancing monkey...
/r/seduction26/03/18 08:17 AM
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You had 6 chances to flirt, make her feel attracted to you, and then make a meeting happen. Did you really think your chances are better with texting her now? She probably doesn't even remember you for more than "the guy that brings his dad to the therapy session", if at all. Make it a habit to flirt with attractive women. It would at least make her remember you, this raising your chances by a lot.
/r/seduction26/03/18 06:14 AM
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And in the process lose any chance of getting together with her hot friend. Congratulations on not knowing how to handle cockblocks.
/r/seduction26/03/18 06:04 AM
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It might be a cultural thing, but here in my country, girls don't have sex on first date. They simply don't. Sure, no girl ever had sex on the first date, they are a hive mind and if they break that holy rule they will get exiled. I can only agree with GameAndGains on this, don't be so naive. The secret is to make sure no one knows. You claimed she said she wanted to have sex with you, which contradicts your narrative.
/r/seduction26/03/18 05:07 AM
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The one where the conclusion was that women rate the majority of men as unattractive?
/r/seduction23/03/18 05:00 PM
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Mhmm OK, did she reply to you asking her out? I don't really know what a life night is, but from what I get is that you are both religious? Normally when someone doesn't reply it means one of two things: too busy, or not interested. I she is interested she will reply at one point, and tell you either that she's free and likes to attend, or that she is busy, but offers another day and time when she's free. Of course when you come up with something concrete that I happening on a certain date, it m…
/r/seduction23/03/18 04:55 PM
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Have you met her? Have you asked her for a date? Have you had sex with her? What is your relationship with her? Does she even know you, or are you by chance just one of her hundreds orbiters? I wonder why you are writing her for so long, what is your goal? Are you maybe just seeking a pen pal?
/r/seduction23/03/18 09:40 AM
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One of the hardest things in life is to get to the conclusion that sometimes some things just don't work out. This applies to relationships of whatever nature too. If you are not happy with what you have, seek what will make you happy. It won't help neither her, nor you if you are dissatisfied.
/r/seduction23/03/18 09:37 AM
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I was just wondering, still very deep comment
/r/seduction23/03/18 09:34 AM
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Thank you for actually supporting my argument
/r/seduction23/03/18 09:33 AM
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Be sure though, it's hard first...
/r/seduction23/03/18 08:17 AM
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Maybe not eating what you want anymore, makes you unbearable in terms of mood, I would be.
/r/seduction23/03/18 08:11 AM
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Just a few seconds ago I was impressed by that statement in another post... Are you having this in your copy paste storage?
/r/seduction23/03/18 08:08 AM
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Damn guy, that's deep!
/r/seduction23/03/18 08:06 AM
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If she's actually in a relationship, this would not do more than give her a smile, while stilonot considering him to be more than just a classmate.
/r/seduction23/03/18 08:02 AM
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https://theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e This is just one study which shows it, other sources are this sub reddit, the amount of pick up instructors, the countless forums where guys cry because no girl likes them, the fact that rarely one guy says that he gets approached by women, the fact that online daeis a wasteland for most men, I am sure you will find the flood of posts regarding that by yourself, and of course your own experience, as well as mine. Do a study and a…
/r/seduction23/03/18 07:58 AM
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I think my time to get there is running out... :-/ Constantly thinking about it, makes you never do anything. This is definitely making your time run out. In retrospect, I was always attractive to someone, when I was not dressing like a bag of trash, I was not behaving like the World will end tomorrow and when I actually was confident. Throughout my life. So many hints I didn't get, so many opportunities I didn't take. Being in your thirties doesn't make a difference. Some guys have girlfriends …
/r/seduction23/03/18 07:16 AM
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Did you know that the majority of men will never be attractive to the majority of women? But sure, guys, keep making excuses.
/r/seduction23/03/18 06:44 AM
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Did you miss the part where women react to feelings, induced by behavior, rather than some shallow written resume? The problem with this study is that it doesn´t take, interpersonal interaction into account. They show pictures! imagine this kind of bullshit, pictures and some text for women to choose from. This says nothing but when it comes to pictures and text, women choose the best they can have, the better looking ones. Put those women into dates with those men, and let´s see which ones they…
/r/seduction22/03/18 08:24 PM
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Dude... No offense but it's starting to get really annoying. Your Modus operandi is to always take the negative examples and say "it is like that!" basically saying that all the other examples are false. And what are you basing this off? Other people, rather than your own experience. As a rule of thumb: don't let others tell you what you can't do. Find out for yourself! By actually trying! Edit: I'd like to add one more thing. Do you know the definition of "loser"? A loser is someone who says "w…
/r/seduction22/03/18 06:39 AM
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Think about the setting you were in: a bar. You approached her, she was receptive but with her friends. Why does a girl go out? To have fun, to dance and socialize. Going the comfort line isn't a good idea, take her dancing, ramp up Kino and the most important, isolate her from her friends, after you built some comfort with them. Keep in mind that you don't have a lot of Time to play around, and a girl knows your intentions when you approach her. Overall I like to be fun and energetic when I app…
/r/seduction21/03/18 05:35 PM
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Do you give gifts to everyone in your social circle? Then yes. If your Motive is to gain her approval, make her want you or whatever, don't do it. It's that simple
/r/seduction21/03/18 07:30 AM
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Actually from the little information he supplied, we cannot see what he's actually doing. How many women is he talking to? Is he actually showing intent? Is he showing sexual intent, or does he try to win a girl over by being a nice guy? At one point a man has to be sexual to get at least some interest, and it's pretty important to do that from the start to not run into rejection after rejection, and even then, not every woman will have interest it's a normal thing. From what he wrote I only see…
/r/seduction21/03/18 06:35 AM
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Thanks for clarification, this makes much more sense
/r/seduction20/03/18 07:24 AM
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Your main problem is that you don't apply whatever anyone tells you. Rather than self loathing you should start working on yourself. How long do we know each other now? Two years? Maybe even longer, and still all I read is the same self depreciation like two years ago. You need to get outside and start interacting with women. Only this way you can grow as a man. And on topic in this guy's story, what he said doesn't mean much, since women don't work that way. They don't magically throw themselve…
/r/seduction20/03/18 07:23 AM
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I don't really see a "unique situation" there at all. It's always a variation of the same old thing, boy likes girl, boy is too afraid to ask girl out. Same advice as people always get in this situation: ask her out. It doesn't matter how, since your chances are fluctuating anyway, depending on too many factors. Think like a man here: do you want this girl? Then be direct in terms of making things happen, of course adhere to given social standards, but be assertive. About the girl leaving soon, …
/r/seduction19/03/18 05:35 PM
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That sounds much more reasonable hehe
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:52 PM
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Wait... No more apples, banana, berries etc? No more carbohydrates? Are you sure you aren't just parotting some stupid people's crap?
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:09 PM
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There was a statistic from okcupid, they were basically asking women to rate men, based on their pictures. Funny thing is: I believe it was 95% of men had been rated extremely unattractive, and only a small percentage very attractive with nothing in between. Still a big portion of those men have dates with women from online dating sites. How do you explain that? Well, if you actually try, you will simply waste your time, since women don't function like men. You feel too short, it's your own inse…
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:05 PM
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You are right, I should not be so aggressive. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/seduction16/03/18 08:25 PM
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Thank you for your input, i guess your comment wasn't aimed at me, since it said basically exactly the same as i did, but still, great point!
/r/seduction16/03/18 02:22 PM
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I don't have any reason to bash you, i might have a strong way to articulate myself, and sure, it might offend people, but sure as anything, i don't really care. In a exchange of opinion, i always hear the other side, if there is something that i disagree with, i voice that. Something that people sometimes confuse is that fact that even though the discourse might feel hateful, after it, i will go back to being as friendly as before, since i don't hold grudges based on opinion. What i can't respe…
/r/seduction16/03/18 02:18 PM
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Based on only 100? It takes a lot more than 100 approaches to build skills and get results. I guess we both agree on the fact that there is no concrete number at which one becomes proficient. For one it might tak 100.000 tries, for the other it might take 10, the point is that i am very very sure that this guy jumps to conclusions, while not even trying. I'd like to know your take on this: I've approached maybe 500 women in the last year with no results, but had sex with 50 or so women I met onl…
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:39 AM
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The very fact that you actually ask how to handle this situation makes me wonder if you are not just a beginner. Abundance, man... Also let her be a dramaqueen, she'll come back if you meant something to her, and if she doesn't, she obviously wasn't a friend anyways.
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:23 AM
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There's a big difference between "I use a tool" and "I need this tool to feel valued". Social media is not inherently bad, but for sure it wastes a lot of time and acts as a validation mechanism for a lot of people. Feels like you might be one of those.
/r/seduction15/03/18 07:17 AM
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Yeah that sucks, but next time a girl does that, try the following: she "can I bring some friend?" you "sure, if she a hot girl..." then if she actually brings a girl friend, give her more attention than the girl you invited. Whatever happens, have fun with both. In the worst case you would have some fun with new people, in best case you convince her friends to give her a "go". Girls are very conscious about what their friends think, and if you win over her friends, you will have it a lot easier…
/r/seduction14/03/18 05:29 PM
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I will make an educated guess here... you will, and read carefully, you will never fuck this girl. To do this you would have to actually make something happen, obviously though you prefer to admire her from the distance...
/r/seduction14/03/18 12:49 PM
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After the first date im pretty consistently getting home safes, and receive warm extra messages Is it just me or does this sound like girls would text with each other? Maybe you give off a soft guy vibe rather than a "I want to get fucked hard by this rough man" vibe? These get home safe messages I can only remember getting from my close female friends, where there is no attraction.
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:32 AM
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Depends on where you look for those articles. Did you know that there are thousands of articles telling us white men, that we are all racist, hate women, and are overall unworthy of life? Point is, whatever you want to believe, you will always find an echo chamber validating that. This doesn't mean it's remotely true. Reality is (field tested) : don't wait for the thing you want, to come to you. Go for what you want yourself.
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:28 AM
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I literally never receive IOIs or approach signals from women And do you think that this was bad? In reality, and don't listen to the few guys who tell you otherwise, women don't give IOIs to random guys. You would have to be exactly what she was looking for in exactly that moment to get that. And even then, many women feel too shy to do that. For getting IOIs, you should start interacting with girls, and obviously not "waiting for approach signals"... I mean, does the lion wait for the gazelle …
/r/seduction14/03/18 07:39 AM
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So what if I just stayed off and focused on my real life? Would I just fade into the background and no longer become relevant? Narcissisim in action... If you stop using the ego pusher, you will see how much value you actually have to your social circle, it Worth trying
/r/seduction14/03/18 07:28 AM
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By that point I has kinda given up on having anything more because she's just so ridiculously out of my league. With that little confidence you will not have any chance anyways. "out of my league" lol... The only leagues that are there, only exist in our heads. You should see people for what they really are, simple, imperfect human beings, some with many friends, some with no, some dumb like toast, some genius, some ugly some beautiful. What makes you give someone you haven't even met for more t…
/r/seduction12/03/18 08:19 AM
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The best way to lose the nervousness is to have more dates, and just try to not put so much pressure on yourself. Also, some girls don't feel it immediately, I once had a girl over that stopped mid sex and went home, she said she didn't feel it... Some women are definitely strange hahaha don't sweat it
/r/seduction09/03/18 09:41 PM
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Overall, I came across as too serious about life-she said she was "worried for me" because I seemed so focused on getting good grades. Little does she know about life... But seriously, she probably meant that you should loosen up a little from time to time.
/r/seduction09/03/18 04:42 PM
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Haha, thanks for your testosterone fueled reply man. I will take your advice and try not to castrate myself next time. hehe i felt for you, since i was doing that so often throughout my life... I knew I hadn’t crossed a line, but this was around the whole Harvey Weinstein thing had happened and I didn’t want to be that guy. Plus she is a close friend, and if I did unknowingly cross a line, trying to explain how I wasn’t creeping to all the other girls in the group wouldn’t be fun. Besides, I’ve …
/r/seduction09/03/18 03:39 PM
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A few months ago I (23/M) was out with my friends and started getting close to a girl (24) from our group. We were all out dancing and so it was the perfect setup to make a move. She was grinding against me while dancing and even playfully slapped my butt, so I thought it was on. I started initiating kino, but once we all left the club her behaviour changed completely, and she started distancing herself from me. If she responded well, while in the club, and just after getting out started distanc…
/r/seduction09/03/18 08:57 AM
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But is it easier to get actual dates? If you see things for what they are, as a man you are fighting an uphill battle. Thousands of guys fighting for the attention of a girl, the girls being either super picky, annoyed by stupid messages or simply looking for some validation/chatting. Look at the numerous threads about girls not responding and guys getting almost no matches. If you approach a girl in reality, your chances are a lot higher and the feedback is much more valuable than guessing why …
/r/seduction09/03/18 07:08 AM
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What is the problem? Are you trying to find a texting buddy or do you want to have dates? If you want someone to text constantly, then looks like you're out of luck with her, but at least she is open to go on a date with you
/r/seduction09/03/18 06:41 AM
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You should have asked him if he didn't have manners, one does not interrupt two people talking with each other. Then walk away.
/r/seduction08/03/18 05:17 PM
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Is it legal in your country? fuck her. Do you want to have relationship with her? Try, and find out that it won't work. Do you really care what other people think about it? Grow up. Do whatever you want as long as you don't break any laws, while not expecting maturity of a teenager.
/r/seduction08/03/18 10:29 AM
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Anyone with an IQ higher than room temperature will understand that your Post is full of hatred for women. So, again. Have you been hurt by a girl? Come on... don't be shy, you can tell Uncle XXL ;)
/r/seduction08/03/18 10:23 AM
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What country is that? and when you claim that there are unlimited beautiful women, why use a shitty method like Tinder instead of seducing them in the real world? Usual this screams insecurity and fear of rejection.
/r/seduction08/03/18 09:32 AM
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No, but she already knows he doesn't just want to be friends and she is still reaching out to spend time with him. You must be very inexperienced. Women do that all the time if you are of high value for her in any sense. This might mean that you could just be the gay best friend to her, obviously with the thought in mind: "if ia m nice to her, listen to all her problems... someday she will see me for more than a friend" This is how a lot of guys function, and women who are in demand don't unders…
/r/seduction08/03/18 08:36 AM
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Either she wants to be friends Most likely or she's unfaithful, This is a pretty far jump judging from a few lines of text, which was my point. both of which he doesn't care for That is another topic, and frankly not the point he made there.
/r/seduction08/03/18 08:28 AM
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The army is only good to make you into a commands obeying robot.
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:40 AM
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What you describe isn't mentally strong. You need to become mentally stable. At the moment your source of validation is other people, most likely because you haven't achieved anything in your life yet. Start with your own life, achieve things, learn and that it's only you that can change anything for you and your confidence will grow. Also you he more women you actually interact with, and online dating isn't what I'm talking about since it's a weak man's tool, the more you start to not care abou…
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:39 AM
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Hahaha you are funny
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:31 AM
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word “date” can stress some women, And what do you think will happen to a explicitly stated shy girl? but on the other hand you need to make your interest clear. It's always amusing to see how guys have such a hard time to understand how different womens brains work. Only because it mormal for a guy to be straight up and unable to get hints, doesn't mean that women work the same way. On the contrary. If you say "date" and she's not hundred percent interested, she will reject you. The word Carrie…
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:28 AM
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Who has hurt you that hard to come to hate women so much?
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:13 AM
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have a boring office life, although in an interesting company). Looks are I think not bad, but I'm definitely not photogenic and I don't have a gym body (yet). All this would probably disqualify you then, since the majority of the users look for fairy-tales, as in "oh he's living an awesome life, look how unbelievable sexy his body is" or "damn this girl has a great ass". It's just a way of getting attention online, and women have it a lot easier anyways.
/r/seduction07/03/18 05:41 PM
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since she's obviously unfaithful Is it now forbidden to have male friends as a girl in a relationship? He said "I can't be friends", and give the fact that most posts like this are about being friend zoned...
/r/seduction07/03/18 05:38 PM
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(C) don't play the sjw game. It's like sargon once said "you just have to say no. That enough to disarm them".
/r/seduction07/03/18 08:21 AM
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Also some people say cute because they dont want to say sexy because it might be offensive or awkward. What? hahaha sorry, this is pretty ridiculous. It's not like anyone liked to have raw, wild and dirty sex... Saying something is sexy is a mild way of saying "i want to rip off your clothes and fuck you/get fucked by you" while cute means "i want to show you around so everybody sees my new accessory, while you give me good emotions like a new pair of expensive shoes". If a female friend of mine…
/r/seduction07/03/18 08:14 AM
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It is more like when someone says "i would have done this and that and this..." when people talk about something bad happening. This is showing the need to elevate oneself to a much higher level than they actually are, which in itself is pathetic. A wise man doesn't even think about that, he doesn't care about it. He either does, or doesn't, there is no need to voice an assumption based on pure ego, rather than realistic assessment. In other words: I am sure most of those girls would not fuck yo…
/r/seduction07/03/18 08:07 AM
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Btw, did you see that part in bold where I say I don't want passive aggressive cunts commenting on my thread? What part of that didn't you understand? Expecting others to adhere standards while not adhering to then yourself, nice
/r/seduction07/03/18 07:18 AM
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One of them but most would fuck me Cuz they say I'm cute Classic dunning Kruger. "but they would" is a lame excuse. If a girl calls me cute I know it not going to happen. I'm not cute, babies are cute, puppies are cute etc.
/r/seduction07/03/18 06:59 AM
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Best and most accurate comment so far.
/r/seduction06/03/18 08:54 AM
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. I am a kissless virgin, and have not had any success so far Why don't you have any success yet? Are you trying? I know she is not LTR/marriage material How do you know? Just by being acquainted with someone for 6 months, it's hard to tell. But that aside... even though I'll delude myself into thinking she is, from time to time. ... This will most likely become a problem when if you got to the point you want to get. She recently broke up with her bf, and is now talking to me about other guys, w…
/r/seduction06/03/18 08:53 AM
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she isn't\will never be sexually attracted to you. The wiser you become, the more you see how little you know... Life isn't black and white.
/r/seduction06/03/18 08:30 AM
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This is the real world, so i'm not gonna feed you bullshit about how girls don't care about good looks etc. Why do I have the feeling that you still didn't get it right?
/r/seduction06/03/18 07:56 AM
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Too scared to talk to real women, huh? You should realize that you will be just one creep out of thousands that do the same shit, every day. Go outside and talk to girls, you will have at least a chance.
/r/seduction06/03/18 07:52 AM
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What is your end goal with a girl? hint you can't do it via snapchat, Facebook, Twitter or whatever shit there is nowadays. If you want to get the honor title: "justKeepinItReal, entertainer of girls, gay best friend of women, conqueror of Instagram messaging without real life meetup" then go ahead.
/r/seduction05/03/18 05:25 PM
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I would like to read more about that. What is the biological reason for women to flake on dates? You see that in this statement itself there is a problem.When the Homo Sapiens evolved, there wasn't a big society, and definitely no dates. I also doubt you can come up with a source for this, since this sounds very much uninformed, most likely a result of taking some basic anthropological research result, and taking it further to a this conclusion. There is a saying "when you hear hooves, do you th…
/r/seduction05/03/18 03:53 PM
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hehe I mean, i have said worse to girls, and when it was seriously mean or something (which happens rarely, but does) i apologize. In this case, my reaction would have been something like "awww girl you are sooo cute, did you seriously do that for me?!" hehe... by the way i personally love curly hair
/r/seduction05/03/18 03:02 PM
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Hahaha that's hilarious, I couldn't really take that seriously
/r/seduction05/03/18 07:32 AM
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You escalate, seem to look out for her feedback, but one thing you miss: isolation. It's great if you don't care about what others think, but this is just half the trick. The girl feels judged, so you have to get her out of public to go at it.
/r/seduction02/03/18 04:26 PM
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Totally! It will make every girls panties wet... uhm by the way, what is a "snapchat score"? I have no idea, since i am busy interacting with girls in the real world... you know...
/r/seduction02/03/18 02:55 PM
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Some say "be yourself", and when they do so they ruin everything that they hoped for to happen and regret their decision for following that advice. If what is "yourself" is weak, dumb, or simply put, just awful, then of course it doesn't work. How to change that? Work on yourself. This isn't a guarantee for getting every girl though, obviously. Or some say to be the man, you own women nothing, That is better, be a man. Have manners, don't go like you are the best thing ever, and listen to her. j…
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:20 AM
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Dude, I already said what the problem is on the paragraph after the thing you quoted. I don't get what you mean, you were mentioning with one sentence something about appealing, while i go more into detail. Did i ruin your narrative? And telling a girl to lower her standards is like telling a guy not to care if he only gets girls that are sorta hot instead of really hot. It means to stop looking for a diamond and instead take the gold bar. The media has drawn a unrealistic picture of what we sho…
/r/seduction01/03/18 10:55 AM
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The thing that makes a man attractive is being independent, strong willed and all the stuff we see in movies and TV when we see the action hero. The thing with "bad boys" is that they excel at being independent, strong willed, rebellious and so on,but also they don't give a shit about anyone else, while making their own rules. They have a good portion of attractive traits, bit also a lot of negative ones. That why bad guys, and this is a distinction, are leaving scorched earth behind when a woma…
/r/seduction01/03/18 08:47 AM
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Btw, if you have to say, "I'm a bad boy!" You're not. Haha spot on!
/r/seduction01/03/18 08:41 AM
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While they do have a point, the individual doing this doesn't have that much more of control over his sexual destiny than he did before he started. Only if focusing on yourself means being blind to obvious invitations by women. Women often complain about dating being hard. But how can it be hard for them? Most cultures on earth are set up so that men are the one's who pursue women. What exactly is so hard? The problem is most of the time not the missing pursuer, but the high standards that aren'…
/r/seduction28/02/18 05:24 PM
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In this case literally. He also said make your bed every day, it sounds stupid, but it makes a lot of sense. it's habit building and teaches you discipline, slowly and not with a crowbar so to say.
/r/seduction28/02/18 09:22 AM
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I get what you mean, just think about the time you will waste running after someone who will not ever be interested in you, and this one example you had is not the rule. I would say it is maybe 0.1% of all cases, so if you want to waste your time with 999 out of 1000 people, girls, guys ... it doesn't matter, then go ahead. Like i say, the rule that a long life of plenty of experience has taught me, is that time is invaluable, and people who are not responding to phonecalls, texts or whatever me…
/r/seduction27/02/18 02:49 PM
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Haha nice, looking for new patients, that's one way to go about it
/r/seduction27/02/18 07:41 AM
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That's pretty much untrue, since it would mean that people are all the same. It's simply about the work one puts in. If he asks her out now, probably she will reject him, but not because it's too late, but because there's no comfort.
/r/seduction27/02/18 07:40 AM
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My theories on this snap are as follows: 1) this is a guy she’s fucking that she’s hanging out with/he’s cooking dinner for her. 2) this is one of her roommates bf’s 3) this is one of her male BFF’s she tells me about from her classes (which could also be fucking her). As I learn more about women, I feel so much more relief in truly not caring about weird tests like this. Yeah, this is truly not caring... You even open a post on reddit for strangers to give you insight to this stupid matter. Wha…
/r/seduction27/02/18 07:27 AM
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Thank you for the sources, i will read through them and get back to you. Have a nice weekend.
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:14 PM
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Relax... You don't know what the reason is. Sure, most likely she didn't have time to reply, or whatever. Doesn't change the fact that you will not get far by texting.
/r/seduction23/02/18 12:16 PM
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All peer reviewed studies show a preference for either clean shaven or stubble/small beard. Do you mind pointing me to one of those studies? I don't know why you are suprised by this? I don't listen and believe, i prefer facts over opinion. Do you have a daddy beard by any chance? I don't see the relevance, as i was just asking for your "studies", which apparently you cannot provide, since you haven't done them. Not everyone is stupid enough to just believe without proof, son.
/r/seduction23/02/18 12:14 PM
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ah alright, now i get it. I recommend you to relax. There are people out there who don't give a shit about texting, and writing stupid crap on social media. Imagine she was one of those... This implies that it would not be personal, which is the best position you can take right now. Whatever the reason is, only you can know, since no one here has a crystal ball to look into this matter. Wait until you see her again, have the same fun with her as last time, and to do yourself a favor, escalate. Y…
/r/seduction23/02/18 10:37 AM
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I once read a post by a girl who was working as a waitress. She described how she got "picked up" by a customer one time. Basically, he was a regular customer, and they talked here and there, small talk. She said that she doesn't date, or even want's to have any private contact to customers. This guy was sympathetic, and obviously there was comfort. One day he was with a friend, and he said something along the lines of: "i'm hanging out with my friend later today, watching a movie, drinking a be…
/r/seduction23/02/18 08:46 AM
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Making a move is in my opinion most of the times a good idea, if it means trying to escalate while paying attention to her body language, and of course a verbal no. You will of course never know if you don't try, i personally like to find out as soon as possible, but i also always manage my expectations.
/r/seduction23/02/18 08:38 AM
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Good point, even though it's a giant waste of resources to commute so far away.
/r/seduction23/02/18 08:34 AM
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50miles away isn't far away, unless you lack a car Even with a car, one has to ask himself if it's really that urgent to drive for that distance, just to have a date where probably nothing happens, and where there will be no second date. If you are really extremely desperate, it would make sense though...
/r/seduction23/02/18 07:09 AM
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Just chill for the moment. Good idea Don’t rush things and ruin everything, Ruin what? She doesn't want a relationship... girls don’t want a guy that only think about using her for sex. Hahaha hahaha... Yes totally, no woman ever wanted to get laid, without commitment, ever...
/r/seduction23/02/18 07:06 AM
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I have done extensive study on this and big beards are a turn off for the vast majority of women. Stubble =/= big beard Which methods did you employ, where can I read that study, has it been peer reviewed, and how big was the sample size? asking 5 girlfriends, reading buzzfeed/reddit or watching YouTube videos doesn't qualify as "study"
/r/seduction23/02/18 06:50 AM
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Well... This is a pretty big wall of text, I actually stopped reading after the first few paragraphs, since I expect it to be nothing else but crying about how bad you have it. You point out things you cannot change. You point out that others have it better because they won the genetic lottery etc. What will this apparent crying help you with your problems? Exactly. Nothing. The only thing it will achieve is hardening your self loathing. But alright, let's address those first three points: your …
/r/seduction21/02/18 05:17 PM
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I haven't met one vegan who wasn't just a emotional condescending fascist trying to silence other people who aren't on their side. Isn't it the foundation of veganism to think he who is living vegan, is living morally right, and all others aren't? Except the very very few people who have to eat vegan for health reasons. Don't get me wrong, i'm open to get corrected, and so far you seem to be level headed about it... but why is it so important for you if there are others vegans here? I don't see …
/r/seduction21/02/18 02:55 PM
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Without context it looks like she's having drinks with you as a potential friend. I don't see a problem with that, unless her possible boyfriend is a jealous little girl.
/r/seduction21/02/18 12:21 PM
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if tell her when are you available, it will make it seem like i am dropping everything I am doing to hang out with her What makes you think that? It is the polite thing to do. It's a different thing though, if you always have time for her. Having a busy life means that you will most likely say "oh on that day I can't, but that day sounds good". This is why it's beneficial to offer more than just one possible days for meeting
/r/seduction21/02/18 07:01 AM
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The easiest way is to approach those guys with her together. Break the ice and have a fun talk. She then can make her intentions clear.
/r/seduction21/02/18 06:58 AM
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Did you escalate on your dates? How did she react? Maybe you were too pushy? Too thirsty? So many questions, and since you didn't provide much to work with here, it's hard to give you advice.
/r/seduction20/02/18 10:34 AM
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What is your goal? Getting a virtual girlfriend, or pen pal? Did I miss out the point where you wrote that you actually were on a date with her? Reward her with asking her out, then reward her hopefully good behavior, by escalating until you can reward her with your dick.
/r/seduction19/02/18 09:35 AM
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I agree on the bigger point, it is unimportant if a girl rejects you because you are this or that unless it's something you can and should change for your own betterment. I personally prefer to be realistic about things rather than closing my eyes to simple causality. This is why i know that there are reasons some people don't like me, and some women reject me, while this is sometimes just me causing it, whether we can call it blame or not. If i am simply not her type, or she doesn't like my t-s…
/r/seduction19/02/18 09:01 AM
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It's funny how you wrote three times in this one post, that you were calling her out for whatever reason, and then you wonder why she doesn't want a relationship with you. It seems you are not only jealous, playing games, but also totally deaf to what she says. She mentioned her ex, and how she doesn't want to feel like that again. Have you ever asked her what that means? I am sure she has a story to tell. Also, from what I read you both are not committed, so it's none of your business if she's …
/r/seduction19/02/18 08:15 AM
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tiny bit reluctant to share on social media or whatever because of my self-image issues. hehe i can realte to that. I was playing around with sequencers and some native instruments for many many years, i enjoyed it very much even though i got distracted by other stuff all the time, which is why i never became more than a beginner with low skill. I uploaded a few snippets of what i had done to soundcloud to show it to my best friend, and forgot about it. A few years later i looked into it and i a…
/r/seduction15/02/18 10:03 AM
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Sometimes for your own personal clarity it's just best to ask. Of course, and i don't judge anyone who is not experienced enough to get obvious hints, i even go so far to say that i am radical in this matter where i simply don't waste my time with people who don't show a certain amount of investment themselves. My point was more that it is best to see those obvious hints rather than making such a situation even more annoying/time wasting/hurtful whatever you will feel when the answer to the ques…
/r/seduction15/02/18 09:57 AM
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Maybe you just look so goddam ugly that they can't believe their eyes? Ask them.
/r/seduction15/02/18 07:02 AM
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I've been focusing hard on making music tbh. Def makes me happy and I'm tryna build something out of that, but of course it hasn't given me any status yet. Status is great and all, but it is also very subjective. The one thing i wonder here is, have you produced some kind of song or whatever, that you were proud of doing? If you look back at what you have learned so far, how do you feel? I have achieved some things in life that others would probably look down to and say "pfft. this is no big ach…
/r/seduction14/02/18 03:10 PM
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As soon as she asks you to pay for something (her flight to you for instance), you understand why she would lie.
/r/seduction14/02/18 10:57 AM
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Ask her why she's ignoring your requests to go out. As a "high value man" like you describe it, there is no need to ask her why she is ignoring his requests, since a "high value man" should not be so stupid to not know that this means i am not interested. Someone who is interested will say one of these things: "of course i'd love to...", "that sounds great", "i would love to but i am busy that day, what about [another date]?", "i cant that day, but the other week is better..." and so on, i guess…
/r/seduction14/02/18 10:50 AM
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The alternative is to have some self respect and move on. The opener was pretty obviously not going to give the desire outcome in the first place though...
/r/seduction13/02/18 02:33 PM
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Am I being too needy if I step in-between? Yes. Do I step off since it's all new? Better would be to relax. In addition, Is sleeping with my roommate too much friction in the first place? If we are talking about causality, yes. If we talk about concrete problems or probability of being a problem, then I think you will be the one creating friction due to your jealousy. fuck I hate this feeling. I can relate to that, it does indeed suck, but it's in your hands to fight it. I guess from your text t…
/r/seduction13/02/18 07:32 AM
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I wonder how people survived before there were Smartphones and texting. Can you believe that people didn't talk every hour? And they still lead a happy life together! Crazy huh? But joke aside, I'm im a similar situation. The difference is though, that I explained it what felt like a thousand times, and over time she just understood. I don't have time to text constantly, not even every two hours, since I work full time and need my concentration to get my job done. Although I agree that being in …
/r/seduction13/02/18 06:50 AM
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Self reflection is not your strong suit... Taking criticism is something one has to learn, and something that is very important to grow.
/r/seduction13/02/18 06:35 AM
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Interesting how one can turn an obvious insult into a "she's interested"...
/r/seduction12/02/18 09:16 AM
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The thing that "went wrong" is exactly what she said. I recommend to listen, i mean really listen to what girls tell you. It's easy to overlook but goddam important. What you should do now is to see other girls. Why waste time with pursuing someone who is not interested?
/r/seduction12/02/18 07:28 AM
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This reminds me of the standard stupid answer "a blue one". Probably the answer that comes to mind first hehe
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:03 PM
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I used to think that girls were telling the truth when they say "I want a guy who is funny." I have never heard of this before. What i have heard though, and this is a very big difference to what you said, is that girls say: "i want a guy that makes me laugh". Biiiig difference. What you say would mean: "i want a dancing monkey" which is not what any healthy woman want's to fuck. The other versions means: "i want a guy that makes me feel good emotions, and doesn't take everything seriously." It'…
/r/seduction09/02/18 09:53 AM
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Follow this simple rule: Don't try to make anyone laugh. Make yourself laugh. Either people share your positive emotion, or they don't. It is not your job, nor is it you duty to be comedian to people.
/r/seduction09/02/18 09:43 AM
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lol... Matrix, man...
/r/seduction09/02/18 08:41 AM
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I'm having NO good results in anything I try This sounds very self deprecating. going out, socializing with friends, setups, online....nothing. I mean nothing. Psychologocally speaking, this is a self fulfilling prophecy. While thinking not having any success, will make you strive for not having any success I'm not generating any interest. Why aren't you changing that then? I have a decent job, dress well, am in ok but not great shape, but certainly not in a kind of condition that would be disqu…
/r/seduction09/02/18 08:35 AM
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hahah that is creative, but i wonder... Have you had sex with any of those girls?
/r/seduction09/02/18 08:03 AM
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Have you ever watched his videos? Obviously not. He is always collected, rational and actually cites facts rather that using rethoric.
/r/seduction09/02/18 07:37 AM
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That guy is a fucking genius! Love his videos, very in depth and thought through.
/r/seduction09/02/18 07:36 AM
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Do you remember her name? Yes? Write: "Hey [insert her name] What a coincidence! long time no see, what are you up to these days?"
/r/seduction08/02/18 02:50 PM
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But if you've got muscles and look good for your efforts, you have every right to tell people that and not be ashamed. Of course, i agree with that. I have the most respect for someone who is shaping his body, and the effort that goes into it. But even if you are just passionately talking about it, it will get boring, except the other person is also a workout enthusiast. General perception about it is that people who put a lot of effort into going to the gym, and talk about it a lot, are narciss…
/r/seduction08/02/18 09:10 AM
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One time I asked her for a pic whatever she'd tease me and say "that's too bad etcc" Wait... Did you ask for nudes? Joke aside, Asking for a picture is a pretty strong investment so early in getting to know each other. Today while talking with her on the phone making her laugh, I never thought that people nowadays are actually talking with each other, color me impressed, calling her was a very good idea. she gets a call and tells me she gets a call and puts me on hold. Well, getting a call happe…
/r/seduction08/02/18 08:39 AM
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As many others already pointed out, maybe means no. Actually it means no in a way that she can wait it out, so you don't get aggressive or insulting, in hopes you forget about it and she can live in peace.
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:41 AM
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Be aware that they are talking about you. Both know what's going on. It's now in their hands if you even have the slightest chance with the other. So don't sweat it, most likely you will not get her anyway, but trying is free and will at least yield you some experience.
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:28 AM
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Talking about working out is boring (except she's a guy who's also working out or is also obviously interested in talking about it) . Talking about it as a footnote should be no problem though.
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:17 AM
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Now i get what you mean, i agree with you on that. In general i don't take people too serious, and of course not when i am in a flirty mood talking to a stranger. This might go overboard sometimes, like once when i hit on a girl who was telling me not to get so close, to which i just went closer and said to her "you mean like this?" later she was purring like a kitten and started Kinoing me like crazy... Trying to come up with the best or strongest response is in my opinion the most beta move ev…
/r/seduction07/02/18 04:48 PM
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Also, your answer can either pass you or put you in AFC mode. how so?
/r/seduction07/02/18 04:35 PM
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It just rings me a bit weird inside. it's funny, i felt the same way when i was a lot younger. Nowadays i joke around with my work colleauges and friends about dicks, getting fucked by guys and so on. We all laugh about it hard and play along, because it is funny like hell, and i guess it's just because we all don't take ourselves too serious. It is liberating, and it makes interaction with people much much easier and more fun.
/r/seduction07/02/18 01:10 PM
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I might add... at least right now, and as it has been for a long time.. unfortunately, the things that make me happiest are sticking to a rigid routine where (like HP Lovecraft used to do) I tend to burn the midnight oil crafting art and creative writing. That's neither a career nor is it a source of income yet (I'd like to think it's possible) and it's also not traveling or being active/social and so on. Traveling is so common. Look at online dating profiles... the one thing you always see is: …
/r/seduction07/02/18 01:08 PM
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I think your advice is something like.... Either be confident and wait for her to reply (although if you see OP I ended the convo). It's more like: facebook, or texting in general is a bad medium for building attraction so to say. If the girls isn't already totally into you, it will be hard to get her to that point.Your goal should be to get her to meet you again, so you can work your charm and ignite her sexual/romantic interest in you by body language and KINO. Since your conversation was gett…
/r/seduction07/02/18 12:27 PM
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Without context it's impossible to know. I guess you have heard about the concept of being disrespectful, or insulting people on visible flaws, right?
/r/seduction07/02/18 08:30 AM
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Is having a good career and good education the only reason these women are interested? Look at it this way: Education is mandatory for having a good career in most cases, so there is no question to that. But is a good career necessary to make a woman interested? Let's say it this way: Some women make this a prerequisite, just like there are women who are incredibly dumb and superficial. This doesn't really matter though, since those are just some women. What the good career does though, it gives…
/r/seduction06/02/18 09:14 AM
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Problem is that another friend (but not super close friend) had been kind of “set up” by one of her friends It is only a problem if you make it one. and being the good looking guy he is, he sealed her number and is already texting her etc and they’ll probably go on some dates. What has "good looking" to do with being assertive? He obviously made something happen, and also why are you already fucking your head about it? That’s fine by me It doesn't really sound like that... because we also hit it…
/r/seduction06/02/18 08:39 AM
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Well... what can i say, i am a reactionist... Thanks for making me laugh by the way, you are funny hehe
/r/seduction06/02/18 08:06 AM
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I kind of don't believe that you ever get laid with that mindset. Would explain your anger.
/r/seduction05/02/18 09:10 AM
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Good thing is, you learned a lesson here. Going back again wasnt a smart decision in terms of social intelligence. She is sleeping on a couch in a strangers house, and then another stranger violates her privacy after she asked to have this privacy. This is why it´s so important to learn basic social rules, even though you didn´t mean harm, she probably felt uncomfortable.
/r/seduction03/02/18 02:04 PM
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looks reasonable, i maybe wouldn´t have written the part where you say "you make me work harder..." but that is just personal preference. Something i´ve learned is to always apologize for things i actually done wrong, it´s a sign of strength to not fear the judgement, and people will respect me for it. All the best of luck with her!
/r/seduction03/02/18 01:47 PM
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with an insult about a pic you don’t like Yeah... Girls love being insulted by random internet pervs for sure...
/r/seduction03/02/18 01:33 PM
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Well, you wrote something rude, in that sense you are guilty. I would go so far to say you behaved like an asshole, but shit happens. Did you apologize? If so, you did all you could. Wait until she's cooled off, then contact her again. The biggest mistake would be to make it a big deal now, she will let you know if she can't look over this Fauxpas. Though I bet she will let it go at some point.
/r/seduction02/02/18 04:32 PM
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hahah you are killing me... once i almost shat my pants when i came from a party... I had to drive for about an hour home with the subway, and i obviously get explosive diarrhea from a certain type of beer. In the middle of the train ride, i feel it coming... barely made it outside into some corner while actually soiling my underwear... While i was squatting in a dark corner at the subway station, a guy comes along freezes, and says to some other guy "oh it's just some guy shitting", he was so n…
/r/seduction02/02/18 01:19 PM
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My gut feeling tells me that i need to take a dump, this is per definition reality, but turns out, it was just a fart, which is the other side of that reality. Use your brain, not everything is always what it seems.
/r/seduction02/02/18 12:48 PM
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Which would hint at a bad friendship from the start, i prefer not to have friends who are jealous assholes.
/r/seduction02/02/18 08:50 AM
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Just like a full moon affects us in some way. Only thing is that we decide how much it affects us. This meetoo bullshit makes me angry, sure, it affects me, but it is my decision to let it have this effect on me. Fortunately i live in a modern country where things like this only have a small effect on people, no matter how the crying snowflake minority wants to make it a big deal, and as long as our incompetent politicians don't cater to those people (which they fortunately don't), i am not real…
/r/seduction02/02/18 07:43 AM
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I've heard this before, and sure that could be the case. But sometimes people are genuinely busy. I totally agree. I like to assume that a girl isn't playing games with me. This is a good way to see things, but like with everything in this world, it isn't the only truth. Some women will play games, or simply put, not feel confident enough to be upfront with others. This of course isn't a purely feminine trait, but a trait of evasive personalities, for the sole reason of keeping the peace. If she…
/r/seduction02/02/18 07:20 AM
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With this mindset you are only building yourself up to a narrow mindset. Just because something can be objectively true, doesn't mean it is true in every situation.
/r/seduction02/02/18 06:32 AM
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Have you ever thought about the fact that not every person is attractive to everyone? I see a lot of those supposedly hot models and think "why is everyone so thirsty about this mediocre looking woman?" it's called having a different taste. In my friends circle there are many different tastes, and funny enough, mostly the younger guys look for the same superficial beauty standards which I find boring. Attraction is a result of mainly mental processes. The younger you are, the more likely you are…
/r/seduction02/02/18 06:29 AM
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You forgot the obvious, actions speak louder than words. It looks more like she's not interested. Someone who is interested in someone else, will make time for that person.
/r/seduction02/02/18 06:19 AM
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hahaha made my day
/r/seduction01/02/18 03:46 PM
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I don't think it's improper to put a foot down and express that makes you uncomfortable if you're in an exclusive relationship. Not in a possessive way, Yes, very accurate, voicing your concern is good, but also might show deeply rooted insecurities which in it self are human, in mass though, are a problem. It's great that you added your perspective on this, which only shows the obvious, that people have different levels of comfort when it comes to things like this. I would say the same if gende…
/r/seduction31/01/18 04:21 PM
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Give her the best oral she ever had. Seriously.
/r/seduction30/01/18 02:03 PM
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i honestly cant tell if she isn't interested or is genuinely busy with stuff And what end result do you expect from knowing that? Would it somehow magically change the fact that she is not meeting you? You have two possible outcomes: She is genuinely busy = she won't meet you. She is pretending to be busy = she won't meet you. And now tell me what the difference would be. See the problem there? I wonder why after all the time and the millions of threads here, people still don't get that it is ab…
/r/seduction30/01/18 10:01 AM
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I fear other people in my surroundings listening to what I’m saying to her and consequently judging me for trying to talk to her So you basically don't think you deserve to be happy. If you did, you would get angry at people trying to interfere instead of being scared of them even listening. Think about it. What do you think about yourself? Do you think you are worthy of the girl? Do you think you are a valuable human being? This is the most important step towards to confidence.
/r/seduction30/01/18 09:33 AM
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Also if she was looking for a man her own age. Why meet up in the first place? That doesn't make sense. Let me clarify: Most people look for relationships. Women are no difference. When it comes to looking for a partner, men like to choose younger women which is to some extent socially acceptable, and for a man desirable. For a woman it is less desirable, since a woman looks for a support, not another "child to raise" so to speak. This is why older men are more attractive to women when it comes …
/r/seduction29/01/18 04:29 PM
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She started with saying she didn't want a relationship persee. Translation: I want a relationship with a man my age, a man who can be a father to my kid. But i am also open for passionate sex. And primarily wanted to meet people. And she knows it is a datingapp and isn't naieve. But she met a friend trough it before. Blablabla. Translation: I don't want you to get the wrong impression of me. She ended saying that it was a way to meet people. And if in the process she meets someone fun she could …
/r/seduction29/01/18 12:20 PM
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I have two rules for such things. Rule 1: If you think it´s a shit test, you are not practicing (enough). Stop reading, start doing. Rule 2: Treat everything with rationality. Emotionality rarely gives you reproducible results. Science for instance is based on rationality rather than emotions. Let me explain to you what i am almost a 100% sure what is happening. She is genuinely your friend, at least she feels very close to you. You are like a girlfriend to her. This is not inherently bad like m…
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:16 AM
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You should definitely get used to talking to strangers, that's somehow the biggest problem that guys have here. If you do that regularly, you will never start thinking again, you will see something you like, and be like "oh I have to go and talk to her" like a child that sees something interesting. Only when you interact you will know if she's interested or not.
/r/seduction04/12/17 05:01 PM
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Oh wait, I actually looked at your blog, sure you don't have ads, but you are lying when you say you only want to help, you want to make money with that. Or will your book be free? I personally do not mind someone making a living with this, not even by ads or whatever, what I find annoying is when someone tries to make believe he does it for karma, while obvious monetary motives are behind that.
/r/seduction04/12/17 12:18 PM
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That is actually very noble, one last question I still have, and it basically the first question that was asked, why not just post it here then? You probably are aware that it looks suspicious when someone tries to lure people away from the sub to his blog, since normally it's just for monetary reasons.
/r/seduction04/12/17 12:09 PM
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This is really god damn frustrating for me folks. This beautiful girl I had a fling with about a year ago on vacation recently moved to my state and has been hitting me up to hookup again. It frustrates you that she asks you to meet? Shes about an hour away, and I could do it. We both kinda developed feelings for one another over the like month we were together before. and? Maybe I'm scared of that? How are we supposed to know? She's so sexy, but I find myself looking on tinder or whatever when …
/r/seduction04/12/17 09:06 AM
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What exactly is your question?
/r/seduction04/12/17 08:58 AM
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Where did you post that? I would so love to rip his illogical conclusions to shreds...
/r/seduction04/12/17 08:13 AM
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Wait... You take tinder as the one argument for a claim that has been disproven by science a thousand times already? The thing with tinder is that there is only visuals to choose a person by. Have you seen that funny experiment that has been conducted by okcupid? Where the majority of women rated the majority of men as unattractive judging by their pictures? If you like, you can link some sources which prove your claim, and I will drown you in scientific sources which tell you how reality works.
/r/seduction04/12/17 08:11 AM
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Let me guess, you aren't having any advertisement on your blog, aren't you? I didn't bother to check, so maybe i'm wrong, but let's say it this way: I work in the online advertising industry, and therefore i know how much money there is to make, my salary (and it's not small) is being paid by that :)
/r/seduction04/12/17 07:33 AM
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Because money. Seddit is always full of this crap where someone makes an article, or even worse, a video of common basic knowledge, which has been said a million times before... But well, it seems to work, maybe I start my own blog and of course a YouTube channel where I only talk some bullshit into the camera for 15 minutes lol
/r/seduction01/12/17 04:22 PM
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But they have girls, and just find new ones pretty fast when single. Did you know that getting a girlfriend/boyfriend/relationship is one of the easiest things in the world? There is a reason why there are 7 billion people on this planet, the problem is that while it's so easy to get someone to stick your dick into, it does mean it's taking what you can get. Not taking what you want. You can claim whatever you like, i know it's not true, your friends take what they can get, not what they want, i…
/r/seduction01/12/17 10:14 AM
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That is a very accurate description of what i think. This "base Respect" i would call it, has the only purpose of not threatening my own well being, by adhering to basic social standards in day to day interaction for instance.
/r/seduction01/12/17 10:05 AM
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I guess i know what you are talking about, which has nothing to do with respect, but people will always find a reason to justify their inability for problem solving without violence...
/r/seduction01/12/17 10:03 AM
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You want to hear the secret for losing that fear? Confrontation. You confront that fear and learn to lose it.
/r/seduction28/11/17 07:58 AM
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So the idea is you could help me write a personal ad that I would use on a throwaway account, and maybe if I get a reply, you could help me figure out what to say next. Mhmm in theory this could work, but in practice this would blow up in your face, if a real life meeting would follow up. I mean, sure i could write something, and help you through the first steps, but what then? I am thinking hard how to help, but like i said, i have no experience with autism, and i know you for some time now and…
/r/seduction27/11/17 03:19 PM
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Well there is a distinction to be made. Did this guy take "model pictures" of some guy (great pictures of an average guy) or pictures of a guy who looked like a male-model? I need to know the answer to that Here you go: http://www.tinderseduction.com/male-model-tinder-case-study/ I'm mid 30s and a gigantic loser with poor social skills. I'm behind everyone in every possible way. I am either profoundly lazy, autistic and stuck in routine (this is the way i see it) or have low intelligence and can…
/r/seduction24/11/17 09:20 AM
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I totally agree with you, it's the vocal minority, and i would only laugh about it, if they didn't have so much reach. The media is rolling along this narrative more and more, and people get fired or their reputation destroyed because of some bitter "feminist" calling it Sexism/Rape or whatever when someone does something she doesn't like or agrees with. This starts to affect reality and this is where there should be a hard stop. Just look at the cancerous anita sarkesian who even spoke in front…
/r/seduction24/11/17 09:07 AM
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Haven't you ever thought about just pinning her to the wall and taking her? I'd say let your inner animal out.
/r/seduction23/11/17 02:34 PM
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You're welcome
/r/seduction23/11/17 02:31 PM
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Don't worry, i am dead serious about that. I spare you the rest of the "go out and be a man" speech, since i guess you know that already. I recommend looking through the sidebar to get some inspiration.
/r/seduction23/11/17 02:00 PM
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A niceguy is not what you think a niceguy is, so the title is strongly misleading. A niceguy does nice things for the girl disregarding his own interest, while expecting her love in return. A niceguy will also say yes to everything and try to be friends with everyone, regardless of his own real opinion. Basically a niceguy is not nice, he pretends to be nice to not be confronted by others for having a spine. You on the other hand are a good man, you show your girlfriend affection and all that, t…
/r/seduction23/11/17 01:58 PM
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No.
/r/seduction23/11/17 01:52 PM
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and now the conclusion... I used to think maybe some of this could be attractive but then I think.. it's all geeky/manchild type of stuff, probably not very rare, women could get this from any other "autistic loser" or any other "manchild" not just me. Ha! i am nerd... i love playing with electronics, i like tinkering with stuff, i behave like a child sometimes doing stupid shit, i tell strange jokes while laughing my ass off, i like video games and don't feel shame for that and so on. Some wome…
/r/seduction23/11/17 09:54 AM
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Do you suggest a thought that goes "pictures are the only thing that matters for guys" because women are aware too many guys lie about their stats, job, income, education, and such? Look at Tinder, what is the main functionality for getting to know each other? Matching based on nothing more than picture. So they just take the best-looking guys thinking they can trust the visuals, but not the text? What i was saying was: The pictures are the first deciding factor when it comes to even considering…
/r/seduction23/11/17 09:53 AM
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I recommend you to stop thinking in stereotypes.
/r/seduction22/11/17 12:55 PM
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Making your intentions clear isn't about talking. It is about showing. You like her? show her. Start with the most obvious, touching. Google for escalation ladder, and you will find some hints.
/r/seduction21/11/17 03:35 PM
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The problem is not that he never told her "it's a date" the problem is that he never showed his true intentions. He obviously tries to sneak up from behind and go the niceguy route.
/r/seduction21/11/17 03:26 PM
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People. Stop looking for signs... This is not a live or die situation. Girls are no praying mantises, they are no crazy dogs that will bite your throat if you say the wrong thing. What your friend sees is the opportunity to talk and interact with so many attractive women, and his confidence doesn't need signals. he just assumes that they are craving his and your attention. It doesn't matter if they really do, he simply assumes it. This brings me to the main point here: Assume attraction! What wi…
/r/seduction21/11/17 03:19 PM
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some external factors could make things pretty awkward Then you simply don't do it. It is that easy. The same with walking, you could fall, so don't walk. Also crossing the street, you could get hit by a car. Driving cars, you could crash. Eating out, you could get food poisoning. I could go on for a loooong time. The main point is: either be a pussy and be scared of a "risk" (i was almost laughing at that, what risk???) or be a man and stop being scared about nothing.
/r/seduction21/11/17 02:40 PM
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I must still point out that the first school of thought--conventional high value, or forget it--appears to work exactly that way with online dating. Yep, that is true, and i will explain why that is, in a minute. You've said you don't like OD and you advise me not to use it (I agree) but it's worth pointing out that the entitlement of women on those platforms is absolutely ridiculous, I believe it basically works out that they may choose 1 out of 4000 guys. Exactly. That is because those online …
/r/seduction21/11/17 08:26 AM
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lol, wrong sub
/r/seduction20/11/17 01:55 PM
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A wise man once told me: "Sometimes you can't just keep people from falling down, you can just stand there and watch them fall. If you are a friend though, you will be there to help him up, after he fell." This has proven right in 90% of cases i ever experienced with people digging the holes they are about to fall into.
/r/seduction20/11/17 01:42 PM
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Personality doesn't matter to most women. Wrong. Maybe the morbidly obese ones. Wrong. But no matter what my personality, I'll never date a non-deformed woman who isn't morbidly obese. Wrong. Is this explanation enough? I would go into more detail if i wasn't smelling, pure anger and hatred towards women, from you. I would probably also have to write books worth of stuff which you would only try to fight against not to admit you are wrong and you want to change that, only to give up at one point…
/r/seduction20/11/17 09:02 AM
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I think being realistic is better than being delusional. Right? Absolutely! but the problem is, you are not at all realistic,.
/r/seduction20/11/17 08:25 AM
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Is it possible to be balding and get a decent girlfriend? The only reason, I can come up with, is that women are shallow, superficial bitches. No, the real reason is that you are insecure and put the blame on others.
/r/seduction20/11/17 08:24 AM
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Yeah... There it is, the typical behavior women have, too scared to say no and too scared to tell the truth that she isn't into you. This is why experience in reading body language comes in so handy. Also the mindset of "i don't need anyone else than myself to have fun" is very helpful. Things like this will happen often to you, this is why i say you should never get your hopes up, just try to get a good amount of experience and you will at some point know when to expect what. And currently sitt…
/r/seduction20/11/17 08:19 AM
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By realizing that all those pesky image hosting sites where peopl show off, are mad for exactly that reason, for people to show a perfect version of themselves. Does it mean that they are perfect? Not in the slightest. They look like crap in the morning, they only take the best pictures from hundreds of taken ones, where they look as perfect as possible, but in reality it´s just fake. When it comes to building up a succesful life, there is a nice saying for that: "people always say they never ha…
/r/seduction18/11/17 02:46 PM
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Also, Instagram is like an advertisement for someone's life. The movie is never as good as the trailer. Spot on.
/r/seduction18/11/17 02:36 PM
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that kind of reminds me of this: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3185768/iPhone-owners-really-blindly-love-Apple-Fans-tricked-thinking-Android-new-iOS9-instantly-rave-beats-it.html People are so goddamn stupid...
/r/seduction17/11/17 02:44 PM
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haha that video is epic , thanks :)
/r/seduction17/11/17 01:57 PM
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First of all, I'm just gonna make claims about how I see the world, as I already did in the original post. That is perfectly fine, even though it doesn't mean that it must reflect reality, just keep that in mind. I probably could provide examples but researching sources for every little thing I write is something I already do "professionally" so I can't really be bothered to do it during my free time as well. Well, i don't actually need many sources, but don't you think that saying you don't wan…
/r/seduction17/11/17 01:12 PM
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When I was in high school, some girls were teasingly, playfully asking if I had a date to a dance. I was convinced that they were asking so they could make me feel bad for not having one. I was convinced that they were really trying to twist the knife when one of the girls said that their friend didn't have a date and implied that someone should ask her. Ha! i just saw me as a teenager. A classmate, standing with her girl friends in a group was shouting over to me "you want to be my boyfriend?" …
/r/seduction17/11/17 09:00 AM
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One piece of advice I often found particularly bothersome goes along the lines of "don't listen to women for dating advice, they don't know what they want. Only other men can tell you." The truth is, this wording is radical but transports the right message. Have you talked to girls about what they want in a man? I have, so many times already, and you know what? They contradict themselves immediately. They want a guy that's is this and that, and he has to be like this and so on, but then... How i…
/r/seduction17/11/17 08:26 AM
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Be honest... You don't just "not want to interrupt" you just are too shy and scare to talk to her when people are around, because you don't want to be made fun of or have others seeing you getting rejected. That's not a big deal, it happens to a lot of people, but it is totally unnecessary to be worried about. Like recyclable bantha said, just go over and talk to her. She won't kill you for that.
/r/seduction17/11/17 07:27 AM
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Great thing man! I just want to add something... Something most people here just don't want to hear: You are overweight, and aside those health concerns that are obvious, i can tell you from experience that it is not a big deal to the majority of women. There is no reason to feel inferior or being insecure. You should also always derive your confidence from what you are, do and your capabilities, never let the sole opinion of someone change that. In this case you made progress and you see it doe…
/r/seduction16/11/17 04:45 PM
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Well, you have triggered exactly the reaction that most guys have when getting rejected. It is some kind of confusing though why she would ask "I don't want to sound like an asshole..." maybe there's some context to it? Anyways. There can be a wide range of things going on, hard to pinpoint the one that is really the case. Maybe you are behaving strange since her advance, maybe she feels like you are behaving strange, maybe she is ashamed of being rejected, maybe she thinks you are lying... you …
/r/seduction16/11/17 02:01 PM
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in my town of 180k people You know that you can move into a more dense part of the world, don't you? working in the middle of nowhere for about 8 And that there are also other jobs in those dense parts of the world? No friends. Ok, that sucks, but only means you have to do something about that. So I'm actually looking for ways to have fun, don't seem creepy cause I'm alone and meet some people in the process. Being creepy is also subjective. Some might be immature enough to think that a single m…
/r/seduction16/11/17 12:42 PM
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lol
/r/seduction16/11/17 10:17 AM
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no worries, misunderstandings happen on the internet.
/r/seduction16/11/17 08:07 AM
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hey man, i took some time out to progress my own life, it's going good so far, and how about you?
/r/seduction16/11/17 08:05 AM
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My problem isn't that they are rejecting me, it's that they're straight up lying and saying they don't read just because they don't want to talk to me(Ï can tell by body language which ones are lying and which ones really don't read). I find that to be very bratty. That's why they need to be put in their place. No, I don't care that that doesn't sound PC. Ok, i wondered before if it's your ego that needs that, and here you confirm that. I don't really care for this pussy behavior of being politi…
/r/seduction15/11/17 04:08 PM
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About half the women can tell right away that I'm trying to pick them up, I am sure that this percentage is wayyyyy higher. The problem is when the woman doesn't want that and attempts to shut me down immediately by just saying "no i dont". ... snip ... what can I say to try and salvage the pickup or if that's not possible, a good snarky comeback so I can at least get the last word in? You basically want to change her mind... mhmm... i wonder why you want that? In my experience it's a waste of t…
/r/seduction15/11/17 03:58 PM
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I had several interactions where i suspected that there were attraction but I am never sure and I think that i often see things that arent there. You are overthinking. It's hard to get out of your head, i know, but it's blocking you. Next time you interact with a girl, keep the mindset of "how could she resist me? I am attractive as can be!". If you are wrong, well, no problem, you were wrong, but it doesn't change that "i am attractive". This helps you to let loose and go for what you want, and…
/r/seduction15/11/17 03:51 PM
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got stressed very much from this. What should I do? Keep going my way or just give up? It's not giving up since there is not much to win.You simply understand it's not worth it and spend your time doing something more productive. Online dating and all it's forms is a waste of time, it doesn't matter what everyone else says, but communicating with people through a screen ins only efficient to transport information. Interpersonal relations need transport of emotions which is most effective in pers…
/r/seduction15/11/17 03:46 PM
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But as you said, many men are lacking basic insights, myself included. For all my life, I was afraid to even touch a woman, and I still am. I didn't realize that it was okay to initiate light physical contact to let a woman know you're interested in her. I didn't realize it's okay to let a woman know you are sexually interested in her and most woman won't accuse you of rape for it. I have been this for too long too. I come exactly from that background, and i woke up just about 10 years ago in my…
/r/seduction15/11/17 12:27 PM
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Yep that's very true. You could also boil it down to: "don't put up another personality".
/r/seduction15/11/17 08:35 AM
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Since you want it to be this way, i will make it easy for you: yes he wants you sooo bad. Seriously though... No person is like the other. There is no general rule to this.
/r/seduction15/11/17 08:34 AM
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I wanna save it till marriage. And then you will find out he's not good in bed, or you find out that he's not saving it.. with your best friend... and so on. This is the best recipe to end up in a dead bedroom marriage. Let me tell you why: First off, procreation is a basic need in eve living organism, and most living things do it by getting together and having what we would call sex. The reason why female and male get together in such a close bond is to procreate and make sure the offspring sur…
/r/seduction15/11/17 08:30 AM
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hehe i like your honesty, here have my upvote ;)
/r/seduction13/11/17 03:37 PM
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How would this information have any value at all? It would not incorporate any other influence that might lead to not having the desired outcome, influences that are appearing even if the girl was manipulated (you call that game) into having sex.
/r/seduction13/11/17 01:56 PM
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The biggest problem is the definition of "game". What is the definition of "game"? Ask 1000 guys, you will get 1000 different definitions. The deciding factor in being successful with seduction is to adopt a certain mindset that is not existent in many guys heads due to a lack of a male role model during their childhood, and the constant bombardment with feminizing bullshit from society and the media. This might be a "game" topic, but what else? Simple concepts like "show her your intentions", "…
/r/seduction13/11/17 01:53 PM
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I accept I may well be down-voted into oblivion for posting this I honestly wonder why you even care about votes on such an unimportant thing as a random internet forum... I certainly don't. But back to topic, i agree on every point.
/r/seduction13/11/17 01:43 PM
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Talking about tricks, do you know the best trick to be successful in seduction? No? Being real. Not playing some role. Being honest about your intentions, about your needs, showing your vulnerable side without being scared. Is this still immoral to you?
/r/seduction13/11/17 01:40 PM
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mhmm yeah, that might be the case. Anyways, what i think about your question is the following: Very often this feeling of getting a cold vibe is one self. It might be some discomfort about her having a boyfriend that makes you project it to this situation, making you feel she's cold at times. You say you are not touching her often if i understand right, which does its own to enforce this coldness. I am friends with a girl like this for many years now. When we first met, she was fresh out of a lo…
/r/seduction13/11/17 12:40 PM
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Not even sure if I should apologize, For? Did you do something wrong? If you actually did something wrong, and this depends on your own moral compass, you should not be scared to apologize. But if you think by apologizing you would get her to suck your dick, don't... in fear that I might really kill my game With her? This is most likely already not existent anymore. She isn't compatible with you...
/r/seduction03/11/17 07:57 AM
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counter question, how is your question hardly related to seduction? What you ask is advice on social interactions if most. Also you ask for something only a mind reader would know... how could we know what happened? We don't even know you left alone the girl. But anyways, what he said was the following: She doesn't like you, and this means you are polarizing. You should be proud of that because it also means you are standing up for your ideas, which is one part of being liked and respected by pe…
/r/seduction03/11/17 07:54 AM
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just be aware that she is living off of the validation from men, and she is getting such messages a "million" times per day. If you don't mind becoming one of her little peasants who worship her, then do it.
/r/seduction03/11/17 07:44 AM
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just be aware that she is living off of the validation from men, and she is getting such messages a "million" times per day. If you don't mind becoming one of her little peasants who worship her, then do it.
/r/seduction03/11/17 07:44 AM
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wait... you actually claim a professional psychologist makes you do some "magic breathing" exercises? Far from being true man... i have been in therapy, and it was more a mix of medical and talking therapy.
/r/seduction02/11/17 01:25 PM
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What would you say are the most important things in order to be really good with girls Approaching them > everything else. Fuck this "you need to go the gym" bullshit... This stems from guys with low confidence. Even though it helps, it has less of an effect than people say.
/r/seduction02/11/17 09:31 AM
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Use pranic breathing techniques. lol I'd say he should go for something less based on superstition than scientific knowledge, like a professional psychologist.
/r/seduction02/11/17 09:29 AM
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I give you a hint: attractive means, having traits in any sense, that makes people want to be around you. If for you want to attract women, you should know what will attract them in the first place. I can assure you, there are billions of women on this planet, and they bring billions of different mindsets with them. If you have been taught that "all women" only want a beautiful man or however you will call that, then you have been taught wrong. So terribly wrong... People are not acting on a sol…
/r/seduction02/11/17 09:05 AM
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What exactly makes you cringe? Normally, people cringe about things they feel ashamed of. I can only guess you are ashamed of being decisive, of learning through making mistakes instead of trying to do everything perfect, without having it done even once. I am curious...
/r/seduction02/11/17 08:56 AM
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Take your time!
/r/seduction01/11/17 04:17 PM
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Now my friends are pointing this out to me all the time. They make fun of you, play along and show you don't care. Is it something I should be ashamed of? Fuck no... I myself am very fit. I don't see the correlation. There is only "two people like each other and find each other sexually attractive, so they have sex." end of story. This could be two men, two girls, men and girl or attack helicopter with unicorn... it doesn't matter.
/r/seduction01/11/17 03:55 PM
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wait... why are you posting this the second time in two weeks? Who are you trying to troll? You say last week she didn't say anything, but in your last weeks post about the same issue, you said she was... What the fuck is going on here?
/r/seduction01/11/17 02:05 PM
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how you drew these outlandish conclusions from my previous statement i'd say this: Thats just a violation man. It makes you sound like the countless other guys who think their moral code applies to every other guy too, just because they think they are right, which comes along with the said implications.
/r/seduction01/11/17 01:59 PM
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Don't underestimate the power of wanting the forbidden fruit.
/r/seduction01/11/17 01:55 PM
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hehe yeah, but it is good exercise in not giving a fuck, since you will be dragged into outrage and discussions by maaaaaany guys who hear that... god... if i had a dime for every time i was discussing this with a friend, because it was outraging him "How could you!!! this is Imoral!!!" all i think is: "Fuck your morals... I don't have morals!"
/r/seduction01/11/17 01:52 PM
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haha that is far from true. source: personal experience.
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:45 PM
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with no friends This says it all. Your problem is not your weight, it is not the lack of women, it is the lack of social contacts. I would say you lack in social intelligence, which would just come down to a lack of experience it said field. This can be learned. I have been fat for my whole life, at some point more, at some point less.. depending on my overall feelings. I have started being very social at some point, since i was always very social intelligent, but too scared to act on it. I unde…
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:44 PM
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That is so far the best reply in this thread!
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:29 PM
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but a 7 can surpass a 10 in this respect What is a 7? or a 10? Can you give a objective measure for that? is there a rating committee that set's those numbers up? Basically this numbering is so useless, the 10 for you might be the least attractive female for me...
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:28 PM
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Every guy wants a girl with big boobs and ass, Wrong. Another example how dumb it is to generalize personal preferences, and attraction. Also, what does big even mean? Where does it start? with breasts, does it start at melon size? which is horrible... yuck... is a hand full (yeah another subjective measurement) big? which i prefer... And for ass, why do you think all guys like gigantic asses? It is ugly like shit to me, i like it proportional, symmetric (it means not only left/right but also th…
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:26 PM
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you are hooking up, so i'd consider her a fwb or something like that... C) Let her know that I went out of my way to plan this and that I didn't like the fact she bailed and didn't apologize Would be the way, since there should be some respect in a social relation, and she probably cares about you.
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:18 PM
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Why do you even ask, since you already know how to reply? Just say whatever you think about, and that amuses you. If she's on the same wavelength with you, she ill enjoy it too, if not... well... next.
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:14 PM
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You can have any job you like, as long as you know how to sell it. For instance the "mcdonalds" example, if you simply would say "i work at mcdonalds" it sounds... shitty. If you sell it like this: "I am making children smile, and i feed families" it gives up a more social vibe, and she will ask you what you do. Then tell her where you work with a smile, and you will have done way better. The same with your robotics job, you could say "i am working towards the rise of the machines, to the point …
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:11 PM
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When it comes to PUA instructors it's obvious, he sells the skills to make women melt in your hands, so would you trust him if he said "well, i had succes like... 1 or two times already in the past 10 years... you know..." instead of "dude, i am in the business for 10 years now, and i have fucked about 1.000.000 women! i have godlike skills bro!!" As for the people who are not making money with it, it might be validation, it might be a facade to look cool in front of the others, it might be exag…
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:01 PM
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Wow burn haha
/r/seduction26/10/17 03:44 PM
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I’m just afraid to be put in her friend zone now. I feel you... happend to me too often, but i found a way to deal with it. With some of the girls i am still friends, even after so many years... She used to be starting conversations but not anymore. Well, you already got your confirmation that she panicked, now she feels like shit and avoids you to not be hurt or confronted. You need a lot of sensitivity if you want to get to her now, if she does feel something for you. I want to pursue her, she…
/r/seduction23/10/17 12:42 PM
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Wait, she likes you as her boyfriend, but not as her boyfriend? what? I always thought that i knew the meaning of this word... but obviously i don't. The reason is that she was fat a year ago and she lost 100 pounds Wow, so this happened in the range of a single year? That is quite a lot! It also sheds some light on her inner workings. Have you had sex yet? I guess no, since normally such a gigantic weight loss leaves stretched out skin that doesn't look so nice and needs surgery to get rid of. …
/r/seduction23/10/17 09:20 AM
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I'm considering it. She's asked about meeting up and talking before but I ignored it. It might be worth a chance to see what she has to say but it also seems like a terrible idea because she might think that she's "won" and then I'm even further into the friendzone. First off you should stop seeing this as a fight, there is no "win" or "lose", and to be real here, you put yourself into the friendzone. You already said it, you were the nice guy for her while having feelings for her. Also, what do…
/r/seduction23/10/17 07:48 AM
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Depends on your reasons for cutting her out of your life. If you are sure you can't have her in your life anymore, don't answer. Keep it that way. If she's starting to bug you, block her on Facebook too. If she doesn't give up, tell her politely to stop contacting you. The rest is obvious.
/r/seduction13/10/17 08:01 AM
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That is tricky... I recommend you to delete it right away, since, if you do not even know what to do with a phone number, you will not know what to do with the girl herself, on the other side of that phone.
/r/seduction13/10/17 07:58 AM
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Are you talking about a real anxiety disorder, or just that normal nervousness most people feel when they go out of their comfort zone? If it's the first, you should see a specialist for that, if it's the latter, get out of your comfort zone more often and stop feeding your head with all this shit that is supposed to scare you into oblivion, on social media.
/r/seduction13/10/17 07:56 AM
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Yep, best way to get better is to see a professional. Like ragondux said, no shame in it either, it's just a sickness, and who would for instance be ashamed of having a flu... If therapy is going well, you will get a more positive outlook on things and probably start approaching girls anyway, just try to get better and everything will go it's way.
/r/seduction12/10/17 12:53 PM
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Don't get me wrong here, but I come from another time, a time without internet and Smartphones, that's when I grew up. Back in the days I never met so many people being sooo scared of reality like these days. I mean, it's like young people Today are made up by 40% social media addiction, 40% fear of everything you can imagine, and the last 20% is a mix of speech policing, being intolerant while demanding the world being tolerant to them and making up fairytale genders... Look: I have done a lot …
/r/seduction12/10/17 12:49 PM
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How do you young folks on the internet say these days? Pic or it didn't happen? Well, whatever dude, I don't really care anyways, if was for me, you could be God himself, no one can check that anyway.
/r/seduction12/10/17 08:00 AM
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Watching too much porn lol
/r/seduction12/10/17 05:40 AM
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I wasn't talking about playing Russian roulette...
/r/seduction12/10/17 05:30 AM
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Where to find the right woman for you? Everywhere and nowhere. It's not like there is a warehouse where the women with their qualities are stored and you only have to choose which one to get, so the only thing that is left, is to meet many women. Where do you meet the most women? For instance at Dance schools, cooking classes or art classes.... whatever women love to do, and what is not as popular for men. Then you have to still do the work of filtering out all the women you don't want, this unf…
/r/seduction11/10/17 06:38 AM
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what? What is DM? i always thought sliding into her panties with your hands, or with your dick into her pussy would be the right move....
/r/seduction11/10/17 06:33 AM
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you're welcome mate.
/r/seduction11/10/17 06:32 AM
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My approach is usually a whatsup I think your cute then I find something to talk to her about for a few minutes until I get her number. Sounds about right... I was always taught that you just simply have to talk to a girl like anyone else and it works fine but it’s worked terrible for me. That's how it usually goes, i'm puzzled that they respond so badly... can't make sense of it... I wouldn’t know what else to say, I can’t go up and tell her to come over and let’s go at it, I’d probably get sla…
/r/seduction11/10/17 06:31 AM
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thanks man, i never stop learning new things ;)
/r/seduction11/10/17 06:28 AM
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It's more like "Erzfeind" as in Arch enemy hehe
/r/seduction10/10/17 02:41 PM
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We also hate the french... but who would judge, they both beat us in WWII...
/r/seduction10/10/17 01:11 PM
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So I met this girl in day game and about 5 minutes in thought it was going well, so I went for the # close. Text book, well done man. she said she never gives her number out and gave me her email address. Ok, that was a soft rejection. If you were to send her a mail, it will just disappear in her spam filter. She will not even think about it. I teased her about it, but she didn't budge. Next time if you see a similar response, you should realize, she is not interested. A girl that doesn't give a…
/r/seduction10/10/17 12:41 PM
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I don't watch porn There's a saying: "There are two types of guys in this world, those who watch port, and those who lie that they don't." But sure, if it makes you feel better... I don't know how you just assumed I'm easily swayed by my friends At least you are getting defensive about it, which shows i was totally right. Think about my words, if applied right, it would help you. I did mention that I found a couple of girls attractive, that my friends didn't really agree with See, another point …
/r/seduction10/10/17 12:33 PM
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The gist is, women don't like it when you talk to them, except in dedicated environments. To meet women, you should use dating apps or maybe clubs and bars. This is pure bullshit. Do you know those SJW and Feminazi assholes? They sit there and talk about what they want, and what they don't, and then they make it into a statement about what all people want. They are either so manipulative to do that, or so extremely dumb that they don't even notice it. The gist of this is:These types of articles …
/r/seduction10/10/17 12:07 PM
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none of them meet what I'm looking for Then you should stop just looking at them and dismiss the idea of getting to know them just because they don't resemble your favorite porn star. Like with so many things, it's impossible to like something without having tried it first. Also you seem to be very easily influenced by your friends as to what you can like and what not. This makes me believe you are trying to impress them, and since there are no girls who can meet your standards, you are not attr…
/r/seduction10/10/17 11:43 AM
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I give you something to think about, instead of trying to impress others, with something that is nothing to be proud of, since, seriously, what's the big deal in having a "10" as a girlfriend, you just delete that need, to number females on a scale, from your mind, start numbering them if you really need, based on how well she fit's your personality and needs? This will help you in so many ways. First off you will start confronting yourself about your ego, that little bitch that makes you want t…
/r/seduction10/10/17 11:34 AM
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ha! they don't know we germans call them "Inselaffen" (Island monkeys) muhahaha!
/r/seduction10/10/17 11:24 AM
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They like lean trim male bodies, light musculature is always a bonus but not necessary. Its about proportions, the golden ratio. Narrow waist, wide shoulders, small but well defined butt, trim but fit legs. Which is only partly true, since there are so many different preferences... Some girls like it muscular, some like it manly, some like it clean shaved, the other likes it when he looks like a gorilla and so on. The OP has narrowed it down pretty well already. I saw a meme once that showed it …
/r/seduction10/10/17 11:22 AM
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i mean, he's right... this is the kind of content that doesn't really add value, not to talk about the format itself, a guy that talks about something that you can only really experience yourself... in a video?? Why not just write it down and spare people the time they have to listen to someone having a boring monologue about theory? Nontheless, "do looks matter" has been discussed millions of times already! Go out! Approach women! stop sitting on your PC trying to sell theory that others have t…
/r/seduction10/10/17 08:56 AM
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Your situation is real fk'd. Nope. It's crying on a high level. I know because I'm in that same hole. I turn 20 next month, I'm not the tallest guy 'round, I rarely have ever gotten compliments about being good looking, only "cute" when I was younger (probably because I was like less than 5'6 until around a couple years ago). Then let a old fart like me, tell you how good you have it. If that is your only concern you are sooo lucky. See, the minority of men get's compliments from girls, and you …
/r/seduction09/10/17 03:27 PM
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stand at a whopping 5'7 (insecure af about this) No reason to be. -lifting for a year -been complimented on good physique, style, smell, humour -on the path to medical school next year So i wonder what your problem might be? Problem *-depressed as fk because i've never even kissed a girl and i feel like a goddamn loser and less of a man * Ok. Let me tell you, it's all in your mind. You are constructing a fantasy that you cannot ever achieve! To have sex is fulfilling, but it is sooo much less ma…
/r/seduction09/10/17 03:07 PM
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Because in this case I'll have to see her every Saturday for the next 8 weeks. Oh shit! You can't risk it, no way! She will kill you and then devour your warm corpse in one piece!! Seriously man... It's all in your head. If she says "sorry, I have a boyfriend" then she's the one being scared of you making things awkward, not the other way around. If you can handle that and not behave like a 5 year old that didn't get his candy, then there's no reason to be such a pussy about your intentions. I p…
/r/seduction09/10/17 08:30 AM
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Let me tell you, introversion and anxiety are curses to your game. True... Part of me wants to be more social in some way, but there are things holding me back and I can't put a finger on it. Maybe it's the pressure you put yourself in, and this constant thinking about what others think, and do? Everywhere I look it seems people are normal and socially adjusted, So? Have you ever thought about the possibility that they are having problems too? in other parts of their lives? They are not nearly a…
/r/seduction06/10/17 01:38 PM
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So I'm a 19 year old guy, I have damn near no confidence with girls, To have confidence here... or really anything else in life. You first need to have confidence here. I don't really have motivation for anything. What exactly do you mean? Are you scared about something, or is it just "where will my life lead to?" I've tried therapy and other options for help but I'm still in the same spot. What kind of therapy, and have you been in depression so you had to get therapy? I'm just convinced I'll n…
/r/seduction06/10/17 01:17 PM
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Where is he doing that? You must be very sensitive to feel offense in his words. He made a fair point: "Stop being a pussy and go out into the world to learn." Name me one case where treating a guy like a baby lead to becoming a real man.
/r/seduction06/10/17 12:01 PM
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What he is doing is called "challenging". He doesn't pat him on his head, telling him how much of a poor little guy he is, and he deserves so much better and all that "participation award" bullshit people these days fuck up their kids with. You obviously don't like it, cool, but ever looked further than your own nose? That there are other methods to make someone learn something? When someone is at this point, where he gives excuse over excuse not to do something, he is either seeking for "awww s…
/r/seduction06/10/17 11:57 AM
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Stop relying on your friends, it's not like you would need them.
/r/seduction06/10/17 11:47 AM
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I thought girls preferred guys who have their own life? That is one thing that most people do not understand. Women, and also men, are not a hive mind, acting and feeling all the same way. Sure, having your own life is attractive to a big portion of women, but just not all. The main point is that this way, you will attract those women who are attracted to this, and those who look for a guy that's giving himself up for her, won't. Think about what you want, if it's a girl that wants to control yo…
/r/seduction06/10/17 05:45 AM
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As far as going the "agree and amplify" route, I agree, but trying to give it back is a move that shows insecurity and turning things into a pissing contest, whilst showing the guy how much his statement got to him. The best approach in my opinion would be to, still agree and amplify, but then just not give a fuck about it. He was obviously trying to belittle him to look the bigger, better man, which is in itself a sign of low confidence.
/r/seduction06/10/17 05:39 AM
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Meanwhile she just sits there expecting to be entertained because she's done her part by being born and putting on some makeup/clothes. Or she sits there thinking: "damn this guy is such a fucking pussy... how can i get out of here without making him cry like a baby?" The average man needs higher standards. The average man should also grow some balls.
/r/seduction05/10/17 02:46 PM
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Depletes your energy and fucks your brain up. Which is still a myth, no self proclaimed "study" will change that.
/r/seduction05/10/17 02:44 PM
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Pretty good advice, but there is an even better one: Get into one of those sex club websites, and look for a girl who is looking for a threesome. At least in my country we have plenty of those, and it's a piece of cake for a couple/single girl, to get another girl to have a threesome in no time.
/r/seduction05/10/17 11:24 AM
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My point was that he's chasing just those two girls, and it seems that he doesn't approach other girls, basically having this mindset: I need this girl, because there is no other. I might be wrong here, but what can we know from such little information
/r/seduction05/10/17 08:45 AM
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Not sure if it's even slightly impressive that two girls are flirting with him... I feel that he's more confused than proud, since he didn't even have sex with one of them. To the op: don't try to get with those two girls, this is the scarcity mindset, go out and live the abundance mindset.
/r/seduction04/10/17 04:50 PM
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As far as i remember i was just reflecting on your poor grammar and the tendency to troll other peoples posts, without adding any value to it. This in itself could be used by you, to better yourself, since you cannot really make anyone believe that you are successful with this, no matter how hard you try to make belief. So, stop playing the big guy and learn from this my friend.
/r/seduction04/10/17 01:12 PM
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Interesting... does that normally work on your friends?
/r/seduction04/10/17 09:22 AM
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Fast forward 2 months and she messaged me a Youtube video saying that i look like the guy in the video but am way cuter. What does this mean? Do i still have a chance? What should i do? Should i try to ask her out again or play it cool? Women... huh? Strange creatures... but seriously, i read that you were trying to get with her "for months", which would imply that you were chasing her., and i guess you stopped chasing her when she didn't respond. Now, what do you think happens inside a girls mi…
/r/seduction04/10/17 09:20 AM
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He says that for one to have true confidence and be attractive needs to be polarizing. He states that a polarizing man will be hated by some in order to be loved by others He uses the word "hate" figuratively. The main point is that you will polarize when you are not bending over backwards to anyone to make them happy, which is the true intention here. Polarize means in this case, that you will make some people dislike your behavior/what you say, and others love that. Imagine you are going out a…
/r/seduction04/10/17 09:03 AM
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I guess i was really unclear, my bad. I didn´t get it either, not too deep into comics, that´s why i said you should ask in some comic sub.
/r/seduction02/10/17 07:20 PM
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So your problem is that you don't get that reference? why don't you ask in some comic sub?
/r/seduction29/09/17 02:00 PM
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The main problem is with the word seduction, which means exactly that, not love, not finding a girlfriend or wife, not even getting a better life. So, if you take that word literally, it means exactly that. However, this sub is of course targeted at helping guys with their romantic interests, basic concepts of how to actually seduce a girl to have sex with him, and as there are different groups of people who have different approaches to that, there are different schools of teachings how to achie…
/r/seduction29/09/17 09:30 AM
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hahah sorry that i laugh at this, but you sound like she's another species or so... 6 years... good god that's nothing. Do whatever you do with women normally...
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:12 PM
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Yeah thats the good old lost art of actually talking with each other. Whenever I point that out, the only thing that guys say is "the girls that I know will not pick up" or "things have changed, we do not call anymore", which my real life experience, and I would say it's a lot longer than the majority of young guys here, shows me different. It basically the last step before having a date with a girl I met online, just to know if I would just waste my time or not.
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:36 PM
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How can you initiate sex over text??? Is that some new technology that I don't know of?
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:30 PM
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It is hard to say, but in my experience, women who are at work are getting hit on by a lot of men. If this happens regularly to you with different girls, in different settings, this might mean you are giving off the "i want a girlfriend" vibe, but that is really hard to decide from the little info i have. I get the "i have a boyfriend" line pretty often, and in most cases it is just a fact. In the end it doesn't matter, since you cannot have every girl, and you will never be everybody's darling.…
/r/seduction28/09/17 08:30 AM
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This is not a special rejection. It is a general "i am not attracted to you" rejection. She knows you are a customer, and the only way to shield herself off from guys who are trying to get into her pants is by saying something that cannot be changed, and the majority of men would take as non personal. If she said "i am not attracted to you" to a guy, she would risk hurting his feelings/ego/whatever, which would risk her getting into trouble with said guy, which could end up her getting stalked/h…
/r/seduction28/09/17 07:53 AM
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I want to add that risk is something only insecure/unconfident people avoid. If you are confident, you take that risk.
/r/seduction28/09/17 07:41 AM
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unfortunately, and i think if you are living by that rule you have experienced that a lot too, you are in for a hard time when you are always straight forward and honest with people. It's such a drama to many people if you are that way, and also in a work environment it is so annoying when your boss comes up to you and gives you his "feedback" that pretty much says "half of the people like your straight forward and strong opinions, and the other half has complained to me about it. You should ton…
/r/seduction28/09/17 07:35 AM
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I was considering just telling her that I would be down to meet up and fuck Did you watch the movie "a beautiful mind"? There's this scene where nash (the main protagonist) approaches a girl in a bar, and says something like "i know you expect me to follow social norms by saying certain things to you so you decide to have sexual intercourse with me, so let's consider i have already done that, and we skip that part to get to the exchange of bodily fluids, what do you say?" well... if you seen it,…
/r/seduction28/09/17 07:31 AM
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Oh man how i hate this situation, when a friend is into a girl, but i can get her... It happens rarely since my friends are either married/taken/gay or i meet girls alone. But i have straight mindset about it: If it's a valuable friend, i will not risk it if i am not 100% sure he is ok with it, and if it's just a buddy, i do it. It's a rough world out there, and i will not let other people stand in my way just because their little feelings.
/r/seduction27/09/17 01:44 PM
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It usually happens to me, that when I meet a new girl, I am the one who starts new conversations and who keeps alive the conversation. How many girls did you meet already? 2? 5? 50? are they all acting by the same schema? If your sample size is too small, it might be coincidence. If you have seen this behavior with many girls, then there can be more factors involved: You could be just too boring. Maybe your screening is off, look for other types of girls. Maybe these girls are the types to play …
/r/seduction27/09/17 08:29 AM
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which doesn't explain why she is interested in gay guys, except she's actually a he.
/r/seduction27/09/17 08:21 AM
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Honestly could be all of the above. I know my voice isn't particularly high, but it is highly emotive, as in flamboyant excitement. I think it is a combination of many factors... My natural ability to emote is a powerful attraction tool, it makes people more engaged in what I am saying and enjoy it more. I have some gay friends, and they are like that. I like them very much since they tell nice stories, and are overall very fun to be with. That said, there is a difference between general attract…
/r/seduction27/09/17 08:02 AM
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you are so stuck up. Yeah, my bad. That was meant to be something else, didn't find the right words. This whole forum is more constructive when we stick to concepts, instead of personal attacks. I agree, got a little bit carried away there.
/r/seduction27/09/17 07:41 AM
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You can do that, sure. It depends on her, how she will react to that, but let's be honest here, if she likes you, she will be honest with you and not make it a big deal. Also, my personal experience with dating a new girl, if i don't set the frame really early on anyways, which is noting serious, very early in the interaction the question "what are you looking for in a woman?" to check your status. This opens the obvious counter question, what she is looking for, to which she most likely will te…
/r/seduction26/09/17 02:48 PM
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Easiest is to just ask, no need to complicate things, but i think if you both are on that level where you talk about such intimate things, she would tell you anyways. On the other hand... it's not your business, so if you ask her, she might outright tell you that. Either way, if you want to know you have to ask. Trying to beat around the bush about it would make you seem like a pussy.
/r/seduction26/09/17 02:22 PM
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Of course don´t ask, it´s subcommunication. Like i said, learn how to dance, take a dance class to to get better than the majority of guys. Then dance, and keep your eyes open for girls who flirt with you. Either you will be approached anyways or pretty much invited to dance with a girl. It is hard to explain, but every person gives out clues if you might get closer or not.
/r/seduction23/09/17 10:36 AM
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Thank you sir! I really liked your comment. Sometimes I hesitate to post on here because I've realized that people on here are people who have friends with benefits and are into women who have sex on the first date. Sure there are people here who claim to live that "highroller fuck hot bitches" life, but as far as i have seen in those years i am reading and giving advice here, those who really do are rare. Most people try to achieve that, but fail because of the reality of things. And as gay as …
/r/seduction23/09/17 10:32 AM
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We'll have to agree to disagree. I don´t mind, it happens. In my experience everything you've said is patently false. Adopting that kind of attitude toward sex will cause a net harm in almost everyone's sex life. I agree that his case is somewhat special, and there are a lot more peope out there who are more open about sex, but still this doesn´t mean everyone is like that. Overall i think you have had the right way of screening to avoid the women who are not as open, good job man. These two kid…
/r/seduction23/09/17 10:26 AM
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actually what you write sounds like you just start approaching a girl from behind and start rubbing your junk on her ass. Of course this doesn't work. This is the definition of creepy. Like someone said already, learn to dance (and i am not talking about "rubbing your dick on people dancing")! then, dance away, make eye contact with girls, and let them come to you!
/r/seduction22/09/17 01:26 PM
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You don't have that much experience, don't you? Let me tell you something from a long time of experience, women are no fuck dolls that are only waiting for you to fuck them. Some are attracted, some aren't. It that easy. Also, having female friends is actually pretty fulfilling, you should try that too.
/r/seduction22/09/17 05:32 AM
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My suggestion is that you need to fuck her asap if you want to keep her around. That's not a bad advice in most circumstances, but a far as this looks, and he mentioned that they both are virgins, they both are obviously inexperienced. The fact that they both are having so many dates, and are talking openly about that, shows that escalating things to sex asap will not work with her. What you people seem to forget is that not all people are the same. Seducing women doesn't work this way with ever…
/r/seduction22/09/17 05:28 AM
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There is more to being sexual than just obvious flirting. And even then, you can always flirt, even if she's not interested, if it has become your second nature it is a given thing. There are plenty of girls i know who are taken, but why would i change my behavior with women, just because she's taken? I still speak my mind, if i think she looks sexy as fuck, i say it exactly like this. I touch her also like i would touch every other girl, pulling her in while grabbing her waist for instance... T…
/r/seduction21/09/17 12:35 PM
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'let's be friends' Means either "i will never consider you for sex", or "you didn't spark anything in me yet" 'I'm not looking for a relationship' Can mean the above, or "i think you will be clingy, and i am not interested in that" or "i just want to fuck without any strings attached" In any case i would not play games, it's pathetic. You can go about this in many different ways: leave it be, be more sexual around her, seduce her in the first place and see if she is receptive, or just accept tha…
/r/seduction21/09/17 07:44 AM
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Totally agreed, but having the right logistics on your end is also not enough. Just because you are ready to fuck, doesn't mean she is. She might be on her period, her friends are bugging her to go home, her brother is sick, her cat died, she is tired, has to work next day... yada yada... Logistics means all of this. Basically the word says: Check if all hurdles are overcome. And of course, a girl that is not into you, will not give a fuck about anything when it comes to going home to you/her or…
/r/seduction20/09/17 01:52 PM
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I asked a girl sitting with her friends at school to come and sit and eat lunch with me You got balls, got to admit that. But next time befriend her friends first.
/r/seduction20/09/17 09:55 AM
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haha fuck, i would probably make a joke about that girl i knew who sucked off the bartenders, in the storage room, in our favorite bar...
/r/seduction20/09/17 09:44 AM
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You know what the best date ideas are? Things you like to do, that could be exciting for her. If you manage to have something where you can do much KINO, you have maximized your chances with her.
/r/seduction20/09/17 09:20 AM
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Damn... she's my neighbor... Let the games begin hehe
/r/seduction20/09/17 08:20 AM
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so i just stand or sit in silence Look at her, put up a knowing smirk, and wait for her to try to fill the silence. Problem solved. Works every time for me.
/r/seduction20/09/17 08:13 AM
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Those boots are very sexy, if the girl wearing them has the right.. uhm... format.
/r/seduction20/09/17 08:11 AM
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I follow her on Instagram, Snapchat and youtube. I want in on that... post links man :)
/r/seduction20/09/17 08:07 AM
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Well, it starts with talking to such people. Like it has already been said, add/give value. There's a simply psychological trick you can do, which i often do, you give people an honest compliment from time to time. This raises your value, because people like compliments, if they are genuine. If you have the right body language with it, you can also make it seem like that person is seeking your approval, that he now has gotten from you. When i meet a cool guy, i say "i gotta say, you are pretty c…
/r/seduction20/09/17 08:04 AM
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No I'm not like those other threads, I do care about this. That's a good start. But first of all, I just literally have damn near zero confidence with girls I mean that's just something I have. Many of us start like that. It comes with experience. I don't really have much to offer to girls right now since I'm in college, I don't have lots of money or anything like that. Let me help you with that... it is not about having money, or having a car, or a gigantic luxury apartment... I mean I'll talk …
/r/seduction20/09/17 07:40 AM
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Alright. Tell me honestly. Do you think this "whining" will make any difference? I have read many threads like yours already, and many of them don't even want to get help. Are you one of the few who really seek help, or is this just another "i want everyone to see how bad my life is..." threads? If you want help, i will do my best, and you have to at least try, but if you only want to feel sorry for yourself, spare me the energy i would waste.
/r/seduction20/09/17 06:39 AM
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Is that what I think it is? "Have you been to turkish bath?" haha no, they always ask me "why did you live there?", "for how long did you live there" and "is your mother/father turkish?"... of course those are obvious questions, i am the typical german guy, blue eyes, blonde (back when i had hair lol) and pale skin... One time, I met this French dude and I asked him if he likes escargot. He seemed pretty pissed for even getting that question saying "That's a stereotype. Only 2% out of all French…
/r/seduction20/09/17 06:36 AM
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ha! you have no idea how short you will stick to that. It will probably not take longer than a month, tops! then you are back in the game. It's your genetic programming. So i advise you to stop feeling like a pussy and learn to love every rejection. Do you know what a bunch of rejections mean? do you? It means you were behaving like a real man! You were going for what you want. Sure, you failed, so what? Do you think that no one else fails? Do you really think that the seduction lifestyle is jus…
/r/seduction20/09/17 06:29 AM
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Oh man... the self loathing is strong in this one... I read about millenials a while ago, and you do exactly what they wrote.. feeling sorry for yourself and making it into a drama. Dude... you are 20!! Do you have any idea how much time you probably live? can you even imagine how it feels to have lived, let's say, 40 years? How many things can happen in that time, and how much your mind will change? ... pffft.... 20 years.... giving up on women... pfft... what the fuck did i just read... Either…
/r/seduction20/09/17 06:10 AM
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How do you deal with this situation when you bump into a girl who's from a country you've never even heard of? I always find something to say, for instance, Spain: "Mhmm i haven't been there yet, but i hear it's very nice, and the food... I love falafel!" of course i just put in an obvious joke, since i don't take most things serious, and i have not much of an idea about that place. Sure, i could say the same shit everyone is saying like "barcelona is such a beautiful city!" or some crap like th…
/r/seduction20/09/17 06:06 AM
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If it comes down to getting a wife, or even a girlfriend, everything is possible. Open your eyes and you will see. I have a female friend who was dating one of my closest friends (about 195cm) for many many many years. Then, she broke up and got together with a guy that is so short, that i always feel he must be shopping for childrens clothing. Maybe 160cm, she is about 180cm, and i guess you people who need to rate by numbers, would say she's definitely a 9. She said to me: "he's not my type, b…
/r/seduction20/09/17 05:54 AM
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One of them saw me and pointed at my clothes saying "Oooh, Michigan State!" I wore my college clothes on that night on purpose in hopes of someone picks up on it. Uhm.. does that work normally? And someone INDEED picked up on it. Sounds like you are surpised yourself. I told her "How do you know Michigan State"? maybe she didn't hear me, no response (Because maybe music was so loud) so I switched my question quickly to "So, where are you from?" She said she's from Spain. So far good... All of su…
/r/seduction19/09/17 03:33 PM
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Callboy
/r/seduction19/09/17 02:44 PM
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the guys I'd approach vs my ex boyfriends are actually very comparable. I can't really show you, but they're pretty desirable guys. No need to show me, i wonder what do you think makes them so desirable? I have talked to so many different people, men and women, and the women never could give me an answer, nor did the they agree on what attracts them to certain guys. If I was really just batting out of my league The main problem is that you believe in "leagues". There are no leagues when it comes…
/r/seduction19/09/17 07:55 AM
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Since i am a critical person, with lot's of experience in the field of hum interaction and psychology, the first thing i think when i hear this, is the following: "putting on a show for your friends, how sad", then i stop caring. Why does it get to you that bad, is it because you feel left out? Do you consider yourself to be the loser in this game of "getting a partner"? That term "cringing" in combination with something ... common like women putting on a show for their girl-friends, makes me be…
/r/seduction18/09/17 12:48 PM
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I call for confirmation bias. How many times did you actually approach? Also, do you compare your past boyfriends with those guys you approach? I bet there's a big difference in them, meaning that the guys you think you want, are also those that are taken by girls who also think they want them, as opposed to your past boyfriends. One last thing i want to point out, that pesky discussion about "value". What defines value? Can you maybe answer that on behalf of the human race? I am sure you can't …
/r/seduction18/09/17 12:09 PM
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hahaha so true
/r/seduction16/09/17 12:30 PM
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Do you fell like doing it, yes? Do you think she will freak out, no? Remember that you are a man. You are the crazy one, the one that does stupid unreasonable things sometimes, so the girl can roll her eyes and say "you are an idiot" while smiling at you, knowing how exciting you are, and of course knowing that you are "her idiot". The main point here being that you do what you want to do, and then you ask for forgiveness if necessary. After 10 dates, and like you say, lots of sex, i don't think…
/r/seduction14/09/17 01:41 PM
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hahaha what? She is openly fucking another guy while letting you in the hope she might get monogamous with you? Dude, are you really that needy? Two ways to go about this: Have fun with as many other hot girls as you can, while staying with your ex (the most stupid thing you can do by the way) or, remember why you dropped and get out to have as much fun with hot girls as you can. There is no recipe to give you what you ask, and since you are asking, you are not proficient enough to pull off this…
/r/seduction14/09/17 01:33 PM
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Funny, i would just say "it's ok, talk to you" and then do my more important than her stuff, maybe see another girl, go on another date, hang our with my friends, but in a nutshell i would just respect her decision without asking for a reason.
/r/seduction14/09/17 01:25 PM
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Ask the girl that makes drama because of it. The topic was about if people do it, and i pointed out the fact that you can if using proper protection, i don't get the point of discussing totally subjective matters.
/r/seduction14/09/17 08:40 AM
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And you can avoid that by asking her to show you that she gets tested frequently? The only other option would be to not go down on her, and what if she asks, but you say "no"? See? You can construct a drama out of everything
/r/seduction14/09/17 08:31 AM
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I am curious, what kind of problems are you talking about?
/r/seduction14/09/17 07:22 AM
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Listen to /u/ForeignInUsA. He's very right. The thing you try to achieve is to do it by your own rules, thinking you would function better the way you decided, but your main fallacy is that you don't realize you are part of a faulty system. How are you supposed to see the fault then? Someone from the outside can however see the exact thing that isn't right, and tell you how to fix that. I am like that too, i always think that if i want to fix something, it has to be the way i want it, but someti…
/r/seduction13/09/17 02:19 PM
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I said I wanted to see her again and purposed a time and haven't gotten a direct answer as she hasn't responded to my last text When did you send that text? It matters, since grown up people are busy. We don't have time to text every day, so give it a few days. If she still didn't reply, she's (with a pretty high probability) not really interested in you, so even another date Proposal will be met without a reply. If you want to be sure, just send another message after giving her some time to get…
/r/seduction13/09/17 02:07 PM
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France? oh.. haha We are mortal enemies then, i'm german. But anyways, i thought you were in the US now, but i might add that this is pretty normal in Europe, germany is the same.
/r/seduction13/09/17 01:20 PM
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I live in a student residence, and I always say hello when I cross the path of someone, as in my country it's considered impolite if you don't say hello to a neighbour. There you have the first problem. You are expecting things to be the same as in your culture. I guess you are from the middle east, (as muslim country?) and now living in the US? Those are two completetly different culture. The one is very friendly and hospitality is one of their major foundations of society, while the other is t…
/r/seduction13/09/17 01:18 PM
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So if the girl im talking to, I'm only superficially attracted to her body not her face. I shouldn't say anything? Yes, exactly that. It's the least hurtful and you are not lying. I mean, sure you can also say what you think, i like to to do that, but i also avoid saying negative things to people if i don't want to waste my time. When with girls i for instance say that they have a great ass, or if i really think she's a hot girl, i will say it without giving a shit about her reaction. I mean wha…
/r/seduction13/09/17 12:46 PM
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Being congruent does not mean to say everything unfiltered. It means you should not fake your behavior. As in, when you are nervous about something, don't try to make believe you aren't. Or, if you aren't a tough guy, don't act like one. It's easy to see through this. So, when you think it's inappropriate to day something particular, don't say it. It not making you incongruent, but if you don't feel something, then you also should not say you do.
/r/seduction13/09/17 12:34 PM
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Apart from not approaching in a confined space like the subway, I would say don't approach sitting. Walk over, talk, if she rejects you, just walk away. It's more natural that way.
/r/seduction13/09/17 05:34 AM
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Here we have a great example why adult topics are not to be discussed with children...
/r/seduction11/09/17 08:49 AM
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yeah pretty funny this guy hehe
/r/seduction08/09/17 07:18 AM
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Go out, maybe hit a bar, then start talking to people, preferably women and at one point, if you both enjoy the talk, ask for her number/Facebook whatever, and start texting. Easy fix huh? How could you not think of it yourself...
/r/seduction08/09/17 06:17 AM
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Haha thanks, made my day
/r/seduction08/09/17 06:15 AM
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Almost none of my friends call, i'm 21 years old Ever thought about being actually special? I don't mean dressing like an emo, or buying those hipster glasses to look "special" but to be really something special? yes? Then do the things that your friends are too scared off, for instance: call her. This way she will be able to say "he is not like the other guys!"
/r/seduction07/09/17 03:40 PM
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Personally, I always say a phone a 30min phone conversations trumps 100 text exchanges. a 100? more like a 1000 or 10000. The pure amount of information you are conveying (and of course the better control when it comes to tonality and emotions) in 30 minutes is so much bigger than the usual bullcrap texting people do...
/r/seduction07/09/17 03:38 PM
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I think I will get hammered and just be completely honest, cause then I will be confident af. Don't. Just don't. What you think is confidence, is just a lack of boundaries. This might turn on some women, but only if it's not just alcohol fueled, and not out of the blue when you were the complete opposite before. Also, why do you want to make your friendship become complicated uncomfortable for her, by "telling her how you feel"? This is the weakest and worst display of Hollywood logic you can im…
/r/seduction07/09/17 01:36 PM
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Just ask what she honestly thinks of you and what is it going to do for him? are you some kind of troll, trying to get this poor dude the "I love you like a brother" talk from her?
/r/seduction07/09/17 01:28 PM
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Damn! So no chance for me with her u think? To be honest, i have no idea. No one will know, since no one can read minds or look into the future. What i do know though, that it is likely that you came off too weak for her taste, judging by the little information i have. This should always be taken with a grain of salt, like i say, i judge based off little information. But back to the main point, no i don't think you have no chance with her, since you are doing great on your dates as far as i can …
/r/seduction07/09/17 12:46 PM
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what do you want to do with her? She refused your advance (which was way too late into your date) saying you're a shy guy, yeah, she definitely got that one right, and i am sure you have already friendzoned yourself there. Her saying that reads translated like this "I feel you are too soft for me, and since i don't wan t to hurt your feelings, i simply don't want you to start to cry, i make up this shy guy thing". I give you a hint for the next time you meet a girl: Escalate! Stop being that wea…
/r/seduction07/09/17 11:49 AM
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So if you meet someone who is top-tier then it could still hurt even though abundance. The only situation where this isn't valid is when you have an abundance of these top-tier girls but that is physically almost impossible. What can i say, it's pretty accurate what you write, but this takes into account that there's still that investment you do, which ultimately hurts you. By investment i mean of course you invest emotions, thoughts and so on, which raises expectations, which when not met, hurt…
/r/seduction07/09/17 07:31 AM
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Your post reeks of insecurities. Even if your question was more than meaningless, you forgot to ask it the right way, which would be: "How many rejections, does a guy [insert race], [age], [location], [country], [age/haircolor/height/weight] have when hitting on [insert amount of approaches] girls [insert race], [age], [location], [country],[age/haircolor/height/weight of girl]?" I definitely forgot many other important things, but in short: your question is impossible to answer with anything re…
/r/seduction06/09/17 02:40 PM
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But what if that guy spent so much time building up the courage to talk to her/ask her out or ask her number? Then he did something very wrong. Never invest so much that you cannot afford to lose it. It was time and effort for him. He cant just forget her. Thats why "moving on" seems impossible Agreed, so basically not put in so much effort that it hurts, problem solved.
/r/seduction06/09/17 01:44 PM
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I posted on Reddit for a third opinion Man... are you a child? since I'd already asked someone else about it. He wasn't sure since he himself doesn't have much frame of reference. What do you expect? Don't get me wrong here, but you seem like you are looking for someone to tell you "she loves you!", but it's not working that way. No one.... really, no one can tell you what she wants, except her! I will ask her about it but at a later time. Translation: "i am too scared to ask her, so i will post…
/r/seduction06/09/17 08:06 AM
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I know this sub isn't really the right place for this, but this fact alone just makes me want to end my life. look, i can remotely relate to what you feel, i have been in a dark spot too where i was about to end it. I then told myself: "Why would i? What will it solve? no. I will show this fucked up world that i will survive." Since then i fought hard, and even though it´s hard sometimes, i was right. I can survive and it is also fun most of the time when you live by some rules you make for your…
/r/seduction05/09/17 04:24 PM
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chatted for a good while and I was happy I made a new friend. Cool Apparently my friend fucked her that night. Did i get this wrong, how is that a negation of finding a new friend? I was confused because it's not like he used any PUA techniques like kino or escalating, (I watched him) we were just talking like friends. PUA has become basically the theory on how to behave like a normal man, from not normal men, to not normal men. In the beginning it was something different, more like: nerds using…
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:19 PM
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My dear, i am far from being angry. I am laughing my ass off at the modern feminists crying about imaginary problems rather than addressing the real problems people all over the world face. But i have to agree, it is way easier to cry about a non existing pay gap, those unequal rights, while living in a country that gives women even more rights than men, for instance when it comes to child custody and so on. I wish you too a nice day, and have fun with your little hobby ;)
/r/seduction05/09/17 09:30 AM
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don't feed the troll
/r/seduction05/09/17 08:03 AM
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Yes I'm a feminist Are you also bitching about the "pay gap" that doesn't exist, and the uneven rights in the western world (which also don't exist), or are you actually doing something against the real sexism and mistreatment against women based on their sex, in countries where it actually happens? Like in many muslim states? we're not born 100% independent or 100% dependent, Actually, when we were born, we were 100% dependent. On our caregiver, mother , whatever. A human baby cannot survive on…
/r/seduction04/09/17 11:27 AM
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Looks are always important Looks != perception What you all call "looks" is a mixture of many things. Body appearance, height, color of your skin, hair, beard no beard, posture, clothing, colors of clothing, and the most important factor: The perception of the watcher. If you embody what attracts the watcher, just by seeming something he wants, he will find you attractive. This can be clothing, posture, behavior, height, color whatever. The funny thing is, that what makes the most attractive is …
/r/seduction04/09/17 09:42 AM
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But, are you in an open relationship? Do you value your relationship? Do you respect his relationship with his wife, and if you were his wife and he was fooling around with a co-worker, how would that make you feel? Do you think that your moral bullshit is what she was asking about? Are you going around in your real life telling people to not cross red lights, or when someone swears you go over and say "swearing is unmoral, don't do that"? At least here shows the stupidity in people who are alwa…
/r/seduction18/08/17 12:57 PM
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Imagine there was a time when people didn't have smartphones, thus they didn't holde "conversations" through text. They actually called each other. There you have your solution, don't text, call. If you don't have time to have a phone call, then you don't have the time to have a text "conversation" anyways.
/r/seduction18/08/17 11:45 AM
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Are you still here? Does it turn you on? are you having fun?
/r/seduction18/08/17 11:36 AM
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You want me to take you serious? With this? haha bitch please...
/r/seduction18/08/17 08:44 AM
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I was going to write a well thought out response, but the i read /u/brianbria 's response, and i have to say, he wrote everything i would have. I totally agree with his point of view. Cheers mate.
/r/seduction18/08/17 08:37 AM
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Problem is, I don't know how to do it without coming off as a douche who is only there to hit on girls. Simple, don't be the guy that is only there to creep on girls. But it seems like most people advise against it, saying that trying to hit on girls in dance classes will immediately out you as perverted creep. Most people? Who? Girls? we all know how good female advice is, especially when it comes to dating. Men? those either don't go dancing, or are those who also say "you are a creep for talk…
/r/seduction17/08/17 11:48 AM
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hard to read, but from what i understand you pretended to be something you aren't (a wild lion). She fell for that, and as soon as you were together, you turned back into yourself (a cute tiny kitten). This is the reason why she a. loses respect for you, hence the comment: "your not my father and I talk to you like a what , what are you gonna do ?" and b. loses attraction for you. This will end badly if you not eject now, or at least manage to hold up your facade of the tough guy (which you obvi…
/r/seduction17/08/17 09:36 AM
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Thx a lot. I'm really new to dating and the fear of losing her was really holding me back from being myself and checking her before making her walk home. Don't worry, most of us have been there, including myself. The biggest regret I have now is not kicking her out the moment she got smart with me in the car. Regrets won't change anything, so just keep in mind that you are a free man, free to cut a uncomfortable situation whenever you feel like. Now that I think back I held myself back because I…
/r/seduction16/08/17 07:38 AM
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Sure, you can discuss, but it's like discussing who would win in a mortal fight: Darth Vader or Gandalf....
/r/seduction15/08/17 02:29 PM
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Ask yourself this one thing: Do you even know her? You say it started in 4th grade, dude she was a kid back then. You were a kid. Both of your personalities are still developing! You had no further contact from what i read here, apart from shallow moments. How do you even think you can know her at all? You are crushing on a fantasy you made up about her, based on a void you needed to fill. I know how that works and feels. I had a crush in my school time, and i knew this girl very close... my las…
/r/seduction15/08/17 09:00 AM
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increased aging Damn... wondered why i turned 40 this year... should not have smoked...
/r/seduction15/08/17 08:43 AM
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What you try to do is like looking 100 years into the future. It is not possible. Accept that. What you can do though, you can test if a girl likes you, by simply making a move. So, next time when you are interested, do the same you do when you assume she is interested too. This way you will know if she is.
/r/seduction14/08/17 03:05 PM
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You totally missed his point. With no word he said your "Method" would not work for you. He pointed out some flaws in your logic. What you bring to the table here is being defensive and not even addressing his criticism. All you do is say "But my method works for me!!!! i don't know why you say it doesn't! and if it doesnt work for you... " bla bla bla. I wonder how you even teach people when you fail to understand the criticism targeted at what you say. By the way, i am also not a native englis…
/r/seduction14/08/17 12:03 PM
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And maybe you are concluding way more than you can, based on that little information we have. I wonder how you can make a judgement on her attractiveness, no one here can. It's laughable to do it. What we can conclude from your post though, is that you are pretty emotional when it comes to women, just like you have been rejected your whole life, and maybe even cheated on by your only girlfriend.
/r/seduction14/08/17 11:28 AM
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I can sense an overwhelming disinterest in every girl I talk to after a few seconds This means you are boring. Your goal should be to make her feel electrified for talking to you. Tease her, joke with her, shock her. Play with different styles and things to say, and in time you will be successful.
/r/seduction14/08/17 09:04 AM
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I want awkward or needy at all! What went wrong? This. After we part ways my pal gets a call saying that she did not like being touched. Your "pal" is doing what most guys do. They white knight a girl when they are interested in her. I doubt she called him to tell you she didn't like the touch. If she did, she has some serious mental problems. Most likely your "pal" was overprotective and probably jealous like hell... i bet he's the classic nice guy.
/r/seduction11/08/17 10:58 AM
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haha so bold and witty
/r/seduction11/08/17 10:53 AM
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