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| 13 | Being too openRead the sidebar. Yes, you should keep to yourself. And don't worry. If you get anxious or upset, she won't be mad. She will just end the relationship after a while. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 11:53 AM |
| 23 | Was into a girl she told me she wasn't interested.When you talked to her a lot and didn't make a date. And there might be other stuff we don't know about. Maybe she was just fishing for attention. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 03:29 PM |
| 24 | I am so incredibly grateful to have found this community. Here's why"sure". Go watch the video of them dancing. You eat what the media tells you. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/18 06:17 AM |
| 17 | Girl said she was gonna give me a blowjob, now says she only wants to give me a handjob, what should I do?you start talking less. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 11:17 PM |
| 0 | How to text a girl to come over to your place ?Sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 12:47 PM |
| 11 | Eye contact while laughingIf a girl is into you and is already interested, this is what is going to probably happen. Someone will tell a joke, and like everyone.. they will laugh looking at the person telling the joke. Then they will look down and look at the person they are interested in for a split second. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Are these IOIs?Always assume atraction. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 06:01 PM |
| 2 | I fucked up and my girlfriend reprimanded me like a child. How to proceed?You fix your problem like the fucking man you are. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 10:36 AM |
| 4 | Book recommendations - Stoicism oriented plzMeditations by Marcus Aurelius | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 08:17 AM |
| 2 | I have a low sex drive, how to increase?"I can't help but think that I'm missing out on something." You won't know until you have it. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 08:46 AM |
| 2 | books on time management?7habits of highly effective people | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 07:40 AM |
| 25 | LTR refused sexYou cannot put all the weights on her. "And if you Threaten her she doesn’t fuck you that you will fuck someone else it’s wrong." Like wtf? This guy needs to read sidebar. He doesn't know how to dread or to keep composure. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Are big cities hard to form good relationships in?"are a priority that is a big part of trp" Read sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 10:51 PM |
| 14 | Are big cities hard to form good relationships in?Stop. You are already making decisions based on women. Making them a priority, a mission. Stop. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 06:21 PM |
| 11 | "Thanks for the suggestion!""Cold approached a girl on the train. We hit it off pretty well and got her number. I told her through text to come over if you want to see me and sent her my adress." OOHHH... Calm down cowboy. WTF is that invite? That is some plate invitation, not a "I just met you, let's do something together" invitation. If you invite girls like that out of nowhere, you will be denied almost everytime. Plausible deniability. Ask her out for something near your place and then take it to your home, always with… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 10:56 AM |
| 4 | First time - girl invited me to her houseSex God method | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Condoms, do you use it?" I am safe for now." You said it yourself. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | My ex liked two of my instagram posts randomly at 1am. why?Read the sidebar | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 12:11 AM |
| 8 | Ended things with LTR, right move? right way?Do it personally. It was a LTR. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 12:02 AM |
| 19 | Is heavy eye contact always a good sign/ioiLet's put it this way. It is never a bad sign. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 05:13 PM |
| 6 | Why do gay guys keep hitting on me?Why are you even worried? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl has 'never' been on a date and only wants to go out with her group.You have hard one itis.... Even if you go out and end up fucking, you will fuck it up. You already made 5posts about this chick.... | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 08:19 AM |
| 3 | Gonna start my bulk now. Stronglifts 5X5 or Kinobody Greek God Program. Which one should I do?It focus on strengh and not bodybuilding. Body building is for aesthetics. Strengh Building is for strengh. Of course, both lead to each other. But one is best for one thing. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Shit test or cleary saying im not option to fuck?You are her friend. You are watching movies together. She talks about a guy with you. Escalate for once. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 04:15 PM |
| 6 | Being inexperiencedLunch dates are normally known as "Lunch with a friend". Read the sidebar. Focus on your Life. On being better. Everyone has been inexperienced at least once, so don't beat yourself up and use that "rage" to become a better men. Read the sidebar | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | What is with this girl? Mixed SignalsMeet up, have fun, isolate, escalate, and this time, do what you should have done the other time | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Got her number, now what?Oh ok. Thought she asked alone. Go for a fun date then, Just text her for logistics aka setting dates. Have fun, escalate. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Got her number, now what?"After the party, she asked me to go home together but I went home first." Why even meet up for karaoke? Meet up at your place for dinner, "cooking together " and seal the deal. She probably wanted it in the first night. "Hi, let's meet up at X hours at Xplace". | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 01:45 PM |
| 6 | Shy girls - How do you tell if they are interested in you?"I haven't asked her out to anything yet." That is how you get to know if they are interested. Invite her out. Escalate You have oneitis. You have already made 2/3 posts about this girl. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 11:59 AM |
| 23 | Go talk to your other hoes shit test.Soft Next. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Why the fuck is my ex texting me this shit?Doesn't seem like you were into this girl at all. Good for both. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Weird predicamentYou are now her validation fuck. Which is still good for you because you will be fucking. Unless she goes full startfish | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 10:36 AM |
| 12 | Friend’s GF has a guy stop over at her house after a night out, thoughts on this situation?He does have a point. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend graduated the same university as me, moved back home 3.5 hours away. Parents are too strict, not sure what to do.She can look for jobs near your area | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 10:23 AM |
| 5 | Does Your Face Became Chiseled When You Lift?When you drop bodyfat. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 10:18 PM |
| 2 | The girl from work...Schedule another date. You did well saying you don't want to be friends. AND READ THE SIDEBAR. You don't need to "convince" her with words to do anything, makes you seem "too logical". Use your actions. push-pull. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Should I start StrongLifts5x5 right away or do posture-improving exercises before?If you going to do 5x5, then you seriously need to learn how to do the exercises with correct posture (form). If you don't do it, you will get seriously fucked long term. (Ask for help at the gym). Correcting your "normal" posture is something you can even do at home. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LT_dFRnmdGs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g-7ZWPCWv0U Your first Stronglifts workout shouldn't be even focus on weight but on getting the right movements, the right posture. to setup a good foundat… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 03:26 PM |
| 3 | [Discussion] Why are people so hypocritical in today's society? Why do people love living a lie?No. She wanted you to be honest because she had a wrong projection of you. Once she saw the projection was false, she was like "He isn't what i thought". That is why TRP tells you to not tell everything about you to a women. Women need to wonder about you. BUT you cannot sit doing nothing all day and expect her to "still love you". You focus on YOU. That is what she will love. If you focus on doing nothing and when you are with her, you pretend you are doing stuff, the egg will crack some day. Y… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 09:06 AM |
| 4 | Dealing with more reserved girls?She picked you for a date. She already went out with you. She wanted to make plans for tomorrow. She is into you. I think you just don't escalate properly. 2 Steps forward 1 step back. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Dad cheating on MomNot the right question for this sub. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 08:19 AM |
| 1 | No one told me ghosting would be this heart-breaking. What to do?Did you broke up with her? or just ghosted? if you just straight up ghosted, you are a dick. She was a LTR, not a plate. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 07:06 AM |
| 1 | How to no send that hungry vibe when im outside of my houseWhen you don't give a shit, make a mental list of what you are actually doing. (Or afterwards). | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 06:05 AM |
| 3 | What will happen if I say this?See. You really need the side bar. You are 16. It is okay to ask questions but TRP literally has a sidebar with books and articles to read. (BTW, start reading) https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5gmafv/how_to_open_and_close_a_guide_for_beginners_long/ https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/ Push and Pull. 2 steps forward 1 step back. Go to the main TRP sub and check for escalation topics. And READ SIDEBAR. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 09:34 PM |
| 3 | What will happen if I say this?Read the sidebar. Make a date. A walk through a park or Eating icecream somewhere. Sit down. Talk a bit (ask questions, let her talk). Put your arm around her. Look at her. And tell her to look at you. She will probably be unconfortable. Laugh. She will prob look at your lips because she knows it is coming. Put your hand on her chin or neck and kiss her. And bam, nothing special. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 09:24 PM |
| 12 | Text advice: Hamster is spinning (i guess)Ok. Next | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Virgin girl adviceAre you from Portugal? Seems like my ex LOL "maybe going to the restaurant" No. Go for drinks. It is more casual. Make her pay for her stuff. DON'T PUT HER ON A PEDESTAL JUST FOR BEING A VIRGIN. No one prob popped the cherry because she is in the limbo. Too beautifull for betas to hit on but not pretty enough for alphas. If you end up in bed, take it slow. Lots of foreplay. Teaser a lot around the vagina. Fingers first. When going to fuck, first use your dick head only, take it slow. While movin… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | I fall in love too easy, how do I control my self?Stop putting the girl on a pedestal. She isn't special. She has flaws, like you. And start vetting. When you go for another girl, remember what happened with this one. "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results" Reread the sidebar. And focus on your life, being a better person/men, learning more things. Women are just a complement. And stop "internet stalking" or stalking in general. Actually delete your social media, since i read the " she doesn't check my i… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 07:05 PM |
| 19 | Got schooled by an alpha - interesting discoveryHe prob knew her already. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 09:41 PM |
| 11 | Machiavellianism vs morals dilemmaThere is no moral dillema. He did ilegal things and needs to be reported. Whether he has a son with leukemia or not has nothing to do with it. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 09:37 PM |
| 3 | What's the point?Oh, don't get yourself wrong. They did all that and still fucked women and ate good steaks. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 04:55 PM |
| 2 | What is a definitive guide to motivation, drive and willpower?Discipline. Motivation stays for 4/5days. Discipline is what gets you through months and years. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Literature or media to consumeI'm just talking about the videos on youtube. I don't buy stuff from him but the videos are good. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 09:36 AM |
| 3 | How dangerous is a condomless blowjob?For you or for her? If i'm not wrong, for you it is dangerous if she has any cut in her mouth | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Ghosting adviceBecause i "need to learn polish at a basic level" | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 10:20 PM |
| 38 | New plate says she refuses to give blowjobs"She declined to give a reason and, surprise!, loves getting eaten out." Why are you eating her out? WTF. She refuses to give, it is ok, but she also doesn't get. "doesn't mind rough fucking or having my hand on her throat, so I'm thinking there's room to grow." Oh wow. OMG she is a unicorn..... that is standard stuff.... like being happy she goes starfish. If it's a big deal, just drop the plate. If not, just fuck her. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Literature or media to consumeI like Elliot Hulse and Coach Corey Wayne (Not full TRP but still has some great points) I like athelean X for gym stuff. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Anyone ever try going out with a fake engagement/wedding ring on?This is so NOT TRP. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Creating A Sense of Urgency?A guy that is traveling will never talk to my friends or find me anymore. A guy that lives here might. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Do alphas even play the social game or are they just doing their thing?Naturally. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Girl is giving me the “what are you looking for” shit test, did I handle it ok?I meant 1 to 2 times a week xD | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Girl is giving me the “what are you looking for” shit test, did I handle it ok?1/2 times Max a week | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 02:22 PM |
| 11 | Girl is giving me the “what are you looking for” shit test, did I handle it ok?Wednesday, Friday, Today. Too much time together already. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 01:10 PM |
| 2 | I (32m) have just dealt a terrible blow to my relationship with my brother (29m) and I don’t know how to fix this... any advice?"I don’t know what to do. I feel like crap. I know he’s insecure, defenseless, sensitive, and has probably no idea how the world works... and I overreacted terribly." Sure mate, you can keep saying that or you can face the facts. You do ilegal things or defend stealing because you "need to pay the employees salaries". And being in a moral high ground is always an option, it might not lead to the best material result but it is always an option. That is what hurt you. That he was pointing a flaw a… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 04:45 PM |
| 6 | I Stuck My Dick In A Crazy, Clingy Girl. How To Save My Ass? [UPDATE 1]I don't even know why you are lying. You are just bringing yourself more problems down the road and... BEING A MAJOR ASSHOLE. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 09:28 PM |
| 2 | DominationTell her to be your table when you are eating. Go somewhere and go to the bathroom and make her give you her panties. just google it | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys make eating healthy exciting/ enjoyable?Oatmeal... Bananas... Peanut butter | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 10:07 AM |
| -2 | Just how young/old is 27?Old. 27 years. Sure life expectancy is high but your life won't ever be like the one you have now (i assume). Back problems free, health problems free, you are at your peak physically | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Shouldn't we be discussing and taking regular STD tests?I donate blood in Portugal once/3months, and they check for it. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 09:38 AM |
| 0 | FR: Daygame Session #2: Drinks Right AfterIt wasn't a date. It was her just trying to have fun on a rather boring night. She needed the validation. Not your fault. Good job on day game. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 08:48 AM |
| 3 | I don't know what the fuck I'm doing wrong anymore.Look around you. Don't "drool" all over what she said. And Never forget to escalate. If you sitting in front of her, move to her side. As you are laughing touch her... arm around her. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 10:24 PM |
| 8 | Starting to doubt my RP journey... what is wrong with me ?One thing you need to compreend is: What you read is not your thoughts. I know some people that when they read, they immediately accept everything they read. Instead of that, you should analyze it. Another point, basically you are doubting your TRP journey. But look. You had suicidal thoughts, depression and now you are going to the gym, cold approaching, dressing better, reading.... How is that bad? You don't go from 0 to hero in a day. " She wants to see me again though" See her again then. An… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 01:00 PM |
| 9 | I don't know what the fuck I'm doing wrong anymore." turned into a what the fuck did I do wrong." Maybe that is your problem. Push and Pull. Don't just PULLLLLLLLL. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 08:46 AM |
| 7 | She's pregnant, fuck my lifeThere is a guide that someone made about unwanted childs on the main TRP some time ago if i remember correctly. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Ltr vs girlfriend?Yes. Long-term-relationship | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 12:48 PM |
| 5 | Condom broke during sex.Make her take a next morning pill in front of you. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal I find kissing a waste of time?To be honest, i really enjoy having their tongue in my mouth. I make sure they know it so i just "love" kissing. Gets me so turned on... | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 11:04 PM |
| 6 | Plate asked for 'Expiry date' of our relationshipToday. Hope you get what you want in life. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 06:28 PM |
| 3 | How to educate your girl?Keep doing what you are doing. Sometimes giving more is what fucks things up. Just make sure to not fall for the "everytime we are together is in my place so we can have sex". Take her on dates, have fun. Keep her guessing. Take her out on some random stuff without her knowing where you going. Don't fall into routine for too long. She is the one spoiling you with sex. Remember, girls want the attention. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 11:16 AM |
| 8 | Realizing I can only fuck women I develop a bond with.They only want a 1NS right now. If you do well, they want more. Take it a step at a time. Everyone goes for 1 date at a time, one evening at a time, 1 night at a time. "I think this same mentality leads me to only trying to pull attractive women (HB7+) which most of my buds think I’m shallow for doing. " Lol, they just jealous they can't get them. "They also tell me if the opportunities I’ve had to fuck women but I never take it." Same with me. The girls they want to score are the girls i don't … | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 09:39 PM |
| 8 | Asking out a client that I’ve never met"but don’t know how to broach it without seeming unprofessional." There isn't. Don't shit where you eat. It is one of the rules that is really simple to understand. You also seem to have a high scarcity mentality. Take care of it. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Guide for developing inner and outer game?Write it down. Write your objetives. What you are gonna do to get them. And keep yourself in check. You are here to live the life you want. Not to live the life other people want. Read the sidebar. I've been daygaming once a week? If that is your thing, maybe switch a bit. Go do stuff. Like going to the gym, going to the martial art class, going to the salsa dancing classes (if you like dance), go learn a new language. While going there and coming back, day game (if you use public transportation… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 07:02 PM |
| 12 | Gf angry that I slept with other people while we were dating.Seems like you need to read it again. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 06:17 PM |
| 2 | How do you treat guys who are mate guarding?Tell her come sit next to you and start chatting in a lower more intimate voice. Take her outside to catch some air, walk. Or you can even just go to another division/place alone, Just make sure you talked to her before leaving. Trying to leave the impression that you want her to follow | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 02:14 PM |
| 8 | Why are men going out with couples?Thank you. I know for some people " It is all about the girl" but jesus, we have friends too. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 01:53 PM |
| 11 | How do you treat guys who are mate guarding?Isolate the girl. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 10:20 AM |
| 7 | Girl asked why do I have so much will to talk to her all day?Don't talk to her all day. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Girl asked why do I have so much will to talk to her all day?Read the sidebar | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 08:33 PM |
| 4 | Soft nexted a girl who always checks my snaps. Reflections on last date"As we're walking to the car, i say lets take a picture and i ask a guy to take a pic of us. " Stop with taking pictures. It just tells you are into her so hard that you need photos of her. You tell you use it for preselection but it is just strange men. Save it for when she is a plate. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Can you have high SMV in this day and age without Social media?No. They give you their number. Social Media is not good for game, except a few cases. Do you really think a girl needs you to have social media to sleep with you? WTF | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Shit test: "you're so skinny" or "you need to hit the gym and get muscles"i bet i can pick you up. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 04:37 PM |
| 10 | Which is better, going to sleep late and waking up late or going to sleep early and waking up early?Sleep early and waking up early. You get the gym done in the morning. Setting it up to be a great day. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 06:59 PM |
| 7 | Family and friends driving me crazy over EX.People seem to be forgetting that you can't go full alpha on a relationship, if you wanna keep it. You need to throw little bones. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 06:12 PM |
| 5 | SMV isn't high enough if women ask "who are you" is this why so many PUA's are recommending having "some" social circle game at least and on point social media?"I'll add chicks i know or know of through people and often times when talking they'll ask "who are you" ." Now let's pretend i have a facebook account. Someone added me. A girl, i never talked to her, i never saw her. She starts talking to me... Did i met her before? I really can't remember, i think not... Proceed to type " Who are you?" | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 11:49 PM |
| 1 | If you feel she fell in love with, can you break no contact?When she wants you back, she will let you know. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 09:20 PM |
| 26 | Lost virginity to me, started avoidingIf she pulls back, you pull back. Non action is an action in itself. And the correct one most of the time. STOP thinking you need to act. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Are Dread Game and other TRP strategies "emotional abuse"?I'm by no means a trp expert. Maybe you should wait for an endorsed response. But yes, some strategies are "emotional abuse". But as you said: "It destroys her self confidence". Which means, her self confidence is dependent on your behaviour, so who is at fault? Aren't women using "sex deprivecy" abuse too? To get what they want? They use sex as currency all the time. We use validation and attention as currency too. Relationship has a power dynamic. And one uses what the other want to keep it st… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 11:47 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with angry mood-swing wife, after you wake up to TRP?It takes time. Both ways. She will test you for weeks. WEEKS/MONTHS. And you will change for WEEKS/MONTHS. A man just "doesn't" change from beta to alpha in a day. She knows it subconstiously. It will be very hard. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 11:40 PM |
| 8 | Broken frameBeing late in itself is a shit test. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 10:24 PM |
| 6 | Got over oneitis; can’t get over the fantasy.Don't try to forget. Appreciate it. Recognize it as a part of your life, learn from it. Accept what you did, what she did. Focus on you. And suddenly, you look at it happy. As a part of your life. The same way that you look at those memories from when you were a kid. It is a part of you. Just keep going out with other women. Accept yourself. Accept your past. And focus on who you want to become. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 11:00 PM |
| 3 | I don’t feel any remorse after ghosting my exYes, they will. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with the ultimate shit test?She is the one that has to be worth your time. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 12:32 PM |
| 0 | Is there such a thing as lifting too much?" slow down (or ease) my workout routine" The more effective way to bulk up, is just sitting on the sofa watching tv and eating pizza. Bulking on fat. "I was wondering if there is such a thing as lifting too much or too heavy." Yes, but you probably ain't doing it. What is your calorie goal? And how are you barely meeting them? Peanutbutter, Eggs, Bananas, oatmeal, Tuna. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 10:04 PM |
| 59 | Sister leading boyfriend of 2 years onMen, i love your intentions but... let's be honest. If you were on his shoes, would you listen? He already knows she cheated on him (i guess from what you wrote) and he still does everything to keep her whenever she attempts to break up. Your words won't matter. Just. Focus. On. You. To help people they need to want/ask for help. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 10:00 PM |
| 14 | 4 years in LTR and I lost my frame. How do I get it back?"4 years in LTR and I lost my frame. How do I get it back?" Wrong question. The question should be: "How do i become the person i want to become." Do you know that things that you know would make you a better/stronger version of yourself if you did them? start doing them. The focus should be you. Not the LTR. You are your focus. The rest will come along. You go to the gym. In the gym you don't lift to make other people gain muscle. You don't lift to make other people stronger. You lift to make y… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 09:45 PM |
| 10 | June 08 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadWhen you want to jerk off, go for a walk. it works for me. now i don't even need the walk. I just go "Okay, i'm horny, let me breath in and breath out. I don't wanna fap. let's go work on something". | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 02:56 PM |
| 9 | When is a ldr a ldr?No. That is not a LDR wtf. You are 3 days a week together. (maybe too much?) Half an hour away. How is that LDR? That is normal. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Need advice to get back on the saddlehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMnMp-d5pKs | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 09:45 PM |
| 6 | Isnt it just ridiculous...No, it is not. Take your head out of your ass and stop trying to justify stupid decisions (stop being a women). | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Asked a girl if she wanted to grab a drink, she said she's busy until next Sat/Sun."Ok" | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 12:18 AM |
| 21 | Be the priest AND the chief"But there is a “spiritual” aspect to being the alpha male that most men ignore and do not even understand, which causes them to melt when challenged by women. Holding frame is directly related to this spiritual aspect, and you can be the richest, most badass guy and still look like a little bitch to women because you do not act like you have the power that the priest has." Thank you for making the spiritual point. Too many people forget it. Thanks for the great post. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Why are women ALWAYS on the phone?"And who in hell is in the mood to talk at that time of the day?" Orbiters. Their girl friends. Social media never sleeps. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Does apologizing to a girl for being a dick make you look bad?Lol. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 09:57 PM |
| 42 | Easiest lay ever - a cocktail of AWALT, plausible deniability and feeling strangely guilty afterwards"he sounds alpha and care-free and like a total player.". "wearing the promise ring he bought her" | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 09:21 AM |
| -1 | GrayNo, you don't. Are you even seeing how sad you are making yourself? This is actually enjoyable to read. You went all the way to check my coments. (and then talked about me posting league of legends and other gaming content - "Just throwing stuff in the air, to see if it sticks".). Also Checking comments from years ago. "that you can ride this high horse and blame other people for their "validation seeking", which he wasn't actually doing." Oh he wasn't? then read this. "and it brought nothing bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/18 08:16 PM |
| -1 | GrayJust because you are willing to doesn't mean i am. Don't force your personal "truths" onto others. "If we walked around with TRP painted on our skulls, how do you think life would have turned out?" Is TRP the only thing you have in life? " I'm pretty damn sure that you're not honest with a lot of people about many things in real life - few of us are." You seem to know a lot of things about me. This discussion is just stupid. You stated you lie to get things. I stated i don't lie because if i wan… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | GrayBecause you were searching for validation. I'm honest and yes. I know i could get a lot by being a liar. But guess what? It wouldn't be me that was getting those things. Lies aren't about becoming the best version of yourself. Lies are about pretending to be the best version. I don't like to pretend. I like to be me. With all my flaws and strenghts. i deal with them. Of course i try to fix them. If i don't deserve a job right now, its okay. I will fix what is wrong and deserve it later. Lying wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/18 05:15 PM |
| 10 | Women will always trade up for the alpha"When we were leaving, drunk me was so hyped up that he decided it would be a good idea to go up to HB 7 and tell her that everyone knows she wants to fuck my guy friend." LEL. And you not trying to steal your friends girl. But you trying to cockblocking him. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/18 10:44 PM |
| 7 | Is being sexually selective an important virtue?Wait what? Yes, there is. You have a brain. You seem you have a scarcity mentality. With the abundance mentality you can be as sexually selective as you want. Your dick might want it... But your dick would want almost any girl as long as she has 2 eyes and a nose. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 07:30 PM |
| 6 | Is it bad idea ( blue pilled) to write poem for my girl....?No. Just have a reason for it. And it also depends on the text itself obviously. Has she been behaving well? Has she done this or that that you wanted? And OWN the poem. Don't go with a "I tried my best". You wrote it, you gave it. it is done. Be sure to not give more gifts in a small period of time. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 07:28 PM |
| 5 | How do I approach the girl/Does she like me?"There is this girl I really like, huge crush. " Do people even read the sidebard? Urgh. Care about yourself, focus on your life. You have one ities for a girl you haven't even approached. It is normal. You are after all in highschool. TRP might not be the right place on this proper moment to you. Read the sidebar. "i have this planned out. Bla bla bla" I was like you once. I would plan out what i would say. And to be honest, at that moment it was better to have that than nothing. But Now i have… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 09:46 PM |
| 164 | Desperation Leads to Being a Bitch's Bitch and Losing Friends" I made the mistake of not being more alpha and taking over again, letting him game the girl." I don't see a mistake, only a choice. Where is the abundance mentality? The only mistake i see is keeping him a friend after he gamed "your called" girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 05:50 PM |
| 14 | Set your expectations low and always have a good time"When I mentioned to people I got stood up I laughed and joked about it instead of seem depressed about it. Which obviously would have turned them away." Isn't that self deprecating humour? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 01:00 PM |
| -2 | Casual Observation: The Perfect Family Man, Married and UnhappyYeah. Give a bit of time. when you are 60. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 06:28 PM |
| 17 | LTR: Mistakes and adjustments I made to get her to chase againNo. I'm suggesting you hand all of your free time the way TRP suggests. Self improving. Becoming the best version of yourself. Treat reading as a commitment. I will read for 1 hour. If you receive texts you don't answer because you are reading. Treat meditaion as a commitment. ect. Yada Yada Yada. Learn languages, play piano. Make yourself busy. make yourself a better man. Don't pretend to be. If you pretend, there will be no LTR after a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 05:37 PM |
| 4 | LTR: Mistakes and adjustments I made to get her to chase againThese schools of thought are not supposed to be schools... Being busy is a result of having a busy life. Not pretending. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Book recommendations?Do you meditate? If you are interested in starting: Mindfulness | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 04:54 PM |
| 2 | What is the body fat percentage women find the most attractive?It is super hard to be under 10% body fat. Super restricted diet and good amount of exercise. I once reached 10% (tested) but i was so restricted with my diet (counting calories and only eating/drinking healthy, NO down days). I was also the happiest i have ever been, the most energetic, the most devoted to my goals i have ever been. Working to be there again :) | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 04:19 PM |
| 0 | I get a good share of female attention but still not a whole lot of respect from other men.Gaining Men respect and having female attention are very different things. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 12:29 AM |
| 5 | “What are you thinking about?”Girls don't like silence. Just trying to fill the void. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 12:25 AM |
| -2 | This girl I'm dating talks about her ex all the time. Red flag?Next. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have a link to The Sex God Method free pdf or ebook?piratebay... type the author name | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 05:54 PM |
| 46 | First day of daygaming and what I learnt"I proceeded to follow to approach them, and the anxiety that followed was fucking insane. It was like being struck by lightning a million times a second. I felt sick and my vision was like I minimised the FOV settings in a video game. " This can be solved with just talking with people in general that you don't know and not putting the girls on a pedestal. And never forget they are people too. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/18 08:30 PM |
| 5 | Do you guys experience jealousy from betas?Some look at you as a motivation If you have a good body, yeah. It is funny they are scared about their gfs? No. It is normal. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Need to get my ex backMove on. In 1 year call her for a coffee. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Herrs a nice guy's scenarioIgnoring was the best decision. She isn't interested. You said you were nervous and sweating and almost lost the trick when you showed her. That shows. Shows that you aren't that confident even when doing something that you love and practice. Keep going. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Lifting and eating Big has its place, but here’s a second pairing that you should consider.Damn. I do feel tired after the workout but through the day i feel like i have more energy.... I don't do much strengh training. I go more for drop sets for muscle gains. Maybe it is because of that? I don't really know. Maybe i'm not training hard enough but on the training itself i just can't do more sometimes. I aim for muscle fatigue. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/18 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Lifting and eating Big has its place, but here’s a second pairing that you should consider.Despite normal thought, i feel i have more energy through the day if i workout in the morning. And yes, i actually feel that i'm more confident,outgoing and pressure free through the day. I just don't do caffeine. I don't do drugs that i don't need to. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/18 08:26 PM |
| 2 | It's uncomfortable to be big and strong, specially if you're a beta.Just looking at your body. It is awesome. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Frame is EVERYTHINGYet, it does matter what the fuck he says. It was the solo point i was trying to make. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Frame is EVERYTHINGYet i'm attacking the point: "it doesn't matter what the fuck you say."" | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/18 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Frame is EVERYTHINGHave you ever had any discussion? There are people that are against your opinion that can actually make arguments. And then there are those who don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/18 05:09 PM |
| 49 | Frame is EVERYTHING"When you have this type of frame (which can only be achieved by working on yourself and searching/living towards your highest purpose in life), it doesn't matter what the fuck you say." Yes, it does matter what the fuck you say. What is this stupid phrase. You don't gain respect, you don't own it, you aren't sucessfull by being an idiot. You can say what you want because you have developed yourself. You read. You listen. You think. Then when your mouth opens to actually say something: 80% of th… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/18 05:01 PM |
| 4 | How to get back the power after a poor showingYou are asking TRP. So i give you the TRP answer. You don't seem to come from an "abundance" place /mentality. Fix that first. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 07:04 PM |
| 47 | To those who are getting over an ex or oneitis that dumped them - Stop being a BitchThank you for making this post. And i wish i knew before ( a year ago). Thank you. You are trully correct. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Where to start?So, know your value. Be confident. Know that you are not like the others. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Where to start?Are you happy about that passive income? Do you have friends (your age) that have that passive income? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/18 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Where to start?Focus on be a better man. Focus on being the best version of yourself. Not on getting a girlfriend. Don't take what you read or what people say as "what i have to be, this is it. This is all true". Analyze it. Use critical thinking. Just because some things make sense, the overall picture might be bad or just plain wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that people who don't know what TRP is, fight so hard against it?"He's the only person I know who would rather lay in bed all day watching a bunch of grown men play video games than to go out and get a job, start paying rent, get his license, and get his life to a point that he's actually worth something." This just proves your point. He is in a stagnation moment, it happens. We all had it. Let him be for a while. You can't change someone that doesn't want to change. Regarding TRP. I also don't agree with a lot of points made by TRP. But i also agree with a l… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 10:42 AM |
| -2 | How to make a change from passive to assertive in social circlesYeah, for manipulators. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 01:17 AM |
| 12 | What do you do when gay guys are checking you outYou DGAF . They can't magically put their penis on your ass. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 09:17 PM |
| 13 | Don't burden your soul by searching for something that isn't there"Many a man through the ages has gone mad looking for something in them that is simply not there and never was: A human being." That is just plain wrong. They are also human beings. They just aren't mens. Men need to stop looking for a men in a women. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Weak game, need help"I gauge their interest in dancing and they're receptive so I tell them I'm going to find my friend and bring him by so the four of us can dance" "I go back to the girls, tell them my friend can't join and try to continue the conversation." Next time, just dance with the two of them. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Is it all about emotionally affecting people and gaining validation?Resnine. One IOI on itself doesn't mean shit. It is like a coincidence. But multiple ones.... It is like seeing 10coincidences happen one after the other..... It just can't be a coincidence. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 05:50 PM |
| 7 | I want to have a good body by September, how?You don't lift. You shouldn't worry about the best. You should worry about starting it. And eat healthy, count calories and eat a lot of protein. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 05:46 PM |
| 2 | How should I respond"I haven’t spoken to her and I can’t really be arsed. She sent me this message yesterday:" Well she wanted an answer, you didn't give it. So you gave an answer in itself. And she is right. You are a pussy. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Thinking of someone elseYou are asking on the wrong sub. You know the answer you will get from here... A answers that doesn't come from TRP: People will always want what they don't have. You have a good girlfriend... sometimes you will think about fucking other girls. It is normal and there is no problem in it. You are a man after all. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/18 12:54 PM |
| 6 | plate blowing up my phone - shit test or red flags? or nbdShe is using sex as a weapon. Do you even read the side bar or TRP posts? She is using sex as an exchange. Why would she stay over without you going for sex? You are probably not facing her LMR properly? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Feel like I'm never good enoughHey, getting something else you want to do on your life might help. You can also get girls every weekend, just lower your standards. (i'm not saying it is good.... just saying that if your main focus is any pussy, just go for any pussy) | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Was this breaking frame?If it was a joke, You should have laughed after the serious face tiny moment. It was a breaking frame moment. It happens, don't worry about it. If the question was to personal, it was also a setting boundaries moment. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Why do girls talk shit on other girls?Well. She is just a person. And as a person she may not want her sister there. Maybe they aren't in good terms right now? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 03:31 AM |
| 27 | Is it beta to offer oral to a girl?Yes, it is beta to offer. You just do it. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Advice about meeting a girl yesterday?You wait. She hasn't even read the text. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 10:46 PM |
| 6 | Crippling nervousness and overthinking when girls are into meYou don't drop your number, you ask for her number. Dropping is a thing girls do, to get guys to call them/text them. Asking is a thing mans do, to call/text the girl. And to be honest. You don't ask for the number. You say you want it. Give me your number isn't really a question. Can you give me your number is. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Brief Thoughts on the Overthinking and Overcomplication of the Alpha/Beta Heuristic.No. That is not how Alpha and Beta works. Just because you are trying doesn't mean you are Alpha. Just because you are in the arena doesn't mean you are alpha. The Theodore Roosevelt quote is amazing, don't destroy it. The Stephen quote that you modified also sucks. Just because you are beta doesn't mean you haven't tried. Jesus, i look back and i see some of my beta behaviours but that was ME TRYING. Just because you are learning how to manage a company, that doesn't make you a manager. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 05:32 PM |
| 4 | It's a decisionDoes the TRP community hold the belief that you should be patient with all people? And hold onto your beliefs? Most of the TRP community is made of guys that had beliefs but suddenly an event happened and they dropped them all in favour of another one. And they absorb it all together, just because some parts are believable and actually make sense. And they actually go to TRP in a bad phase, a phase where they want an explanation. Not with critical thinking. The better yourself part about TRP i l… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/18 09:05 AM |
| 24 | It's a decisionI like this post and i think he goes against a lot of points made by a lot of the red pill community. Especially "It takes a strong person to hold onto their beliefs and be patient with all people." "A immature person to let the crowd decide their actions" | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 03:31 PM |
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