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Don't say a word to her about anything. Talk to a lawyer TODAY. You need to be fully prepared before hitting her with the divorce to limit the financial damage you might face.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:27 AM
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How would one vet a boxing gym? I don't want to end up at one of those boxercise gyms but there aren't any high-level boxing gyms in my city too.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:01 PM
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The ones who are casually dating multiple women post-college are all cold approaching. You always have the option of meeting new women as you go along your day. Approach younger women (18-24) and get into casual relationships. You can then enjoy your parties with them. Worst case - set out some time in the week, visit a college campus, and just mass approach. Dating apps can help you add women in your pipeline too. You can make also new friends at the gym or at a social hobby (that you should ha…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 10:12 AM
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Honestly, that seems to be the play most men should make. Hot girls always tend to have red flags. Then there's the stress of them being constantly being hit on and potentially branch swinging. They're more likely to shit test you and if they truly realize that their SMV is higher then yours, it makes it harder to have them wrapped around your finger and worship you. I'm not saying it's impossible, just harder. If you're attracted to this girl, wouldn't mind fucking her for the rest of your life…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:10 PM
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Bulking or cutting depends on your diet - not the workout. Lifting helps in muscle development not fat. Your fat depends on what and how much you eat. If you want to drop bf% then eat 200-500 calories under your maintenance but you still need to keep working out. If you neglected certain body parts before, then just add them to your routine now - don't stop doing chest, back, arms etc just because you've been skipping leg day.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:31 AM
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I actually got mad reading this till I came across the fact that you're 15. Listen up homie, you're too young to be hung up over one girl. I promise you this - there will ALWAYS be another girl. I was too stupid at 15 to realise this but you have us to show you the way. Block this girl. You need to have multiple girls at any given moment in your life - the moment you settle for only one girl you're bound to catch feelings for her. All girls do this. Take your girl for example - do you think were…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 08:42 AM
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It means you're the plate.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 05:52 PM
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Yes. It's easy to fuck 7s and 8s. All you need is an above average physique, abundance mentality, learn push/pull, be unapologetic about your sexuality and escalate, and then play the number's game. That's it.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:44 PM
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Why did you ask him if he was comfortable or not, if you don't intent to value his answer? If he wasn't dating/fucking her he has no say - I wouldn't have asked him. But now that you did, respect him and back off.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:52 PM
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I was just about to sleep but gotta help a bro out so here: Go for the move at a high point eg. when she's laughing, or sexual tension is at its peak. Try not to have an awkward pause. Escalate slowly and gauge her response. You don't want to go straight for the kiss without any prior physical contact. So start the kino right off the bat. Get her comfortable to your touch. Play with her hands, her hair etc The kiss should be the logical next step in your escalation. Sometimes I don't make out on…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:13 PM
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The whole Netflix thing should only be used when you're trying to fuck a girl for the first time. After that, you invite them over for [reason of your choice] and just grab them whenever you feel like it and start making out heavy. Pick her up and take her to your room. Proceed to fuck her brains out. You don't need slow escalation once you've already fucked a girl.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:22 AM
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Exactly. You wouldn't be stressing over this if you had other girls. You're not approaching this from an abundance mindset. Ignore her completely for now and game other girls. She will most likely hit you up again in a couple of weeks and that's when you ask her to come over (don't make a plan longer than 2 days out). If she doesn't then you've already moved onto other women so it shouldn't matter anymore.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 06:57 PM
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Is this the only girl you're plating?
/r/askTRP09/05/21 06:35 PM
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Yes. Through approach and more so through dating apps. But I've found a quick 1 hr coffee date (to gauge if I like her) + 2nd date at my/her place for drinks to give more consistent results than spending hours trying to pull on the same day/night.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:48 PM
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I haven't been to those countries so I can only base my opinion on the PUA videos that I've seen back in the day and the few white women I've interacted with in India - I think the fundamentals are the same anywhere you go. You might have to calibrate a little based on the social culture. Even in India, it depends on which part you're in. I think the only thing varies is the opening part of the approach. White chicks are more open to talk right off the gate because it's more normal in those coun…
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:42 PM
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Short guys that are absolutely jacked do look funny. But he's just starting off and he's not going to bulk up too much working out at home. Lean is always better imo but anything is better than skinny fat.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:36 PM
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Approaching new girls is going to be harder during the pandemic (especially since things are fucked in India) and considering your height, it is going to be extremely hard to pull girls from dating apps. Wait for things to get better before you can focus on approaching. In the mean time: Work out at home - bodyweight exercises are good, or use than 5X money to buy a few dumbells/kettlebells. No gym isn't an excuse to not work out. Level up your fashion and grooming. Work on rock solid inner game…
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:17 PM
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This advice is gold OP. Take it as a learning experience - the world out there is brutal and everyone is looking to benefit just themselves. Your friends, girlfriend, family will eat you alive in an instant if it means they can get something they really want. From now on, you vet the people whom you get really, really close with. Be friends with everybody, but don't rely on them. Vet them for virtues like honour, loyalt etc. These are the people who won't stab you in the back. Also, if the world…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:00 AM
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That's just how she is. She's fucked in the head. Take it from people older than you, who've experienced women like this - Run. Run far away and never look back. There are multiple women out there waiting for you. Don't be an idiot and get oneitis for her.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 04:28 PM
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I've been in the same position as you, and I'll still tell you: you're an embarrassment. This girl is clearly damaged. Have some self respect and get rid of her asap. And read the fucking sidebar, for god's sake.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:04 AM
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Hahahaha this was adorable. Your game is completely wrong with little to zero knowledge about RP and what is preached here. You're doing everything wrong. Everything. Just a few: Talking to only 1 girl Getting into a relationship after 1 week when you've not even had sex (I'm not even sure if she knows you're exclusive or not) Talking to ONE girl for FIVE months without having sex Getting into a long distance relationship Please read the entire sidebar - immediately.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 11:12 AM
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She's asking her friend to meet up with both of you guys. That's different from her wanting to meet up with a guy alone. I don't think you have anything to worry about if she hasn't shown any red flags before.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:29 AM
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How do you know she's interested in him?
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:17 AM
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My BPD ex. I once turned down sex because I was exhausted as fuck from work + sleepless nights. She EXPLODED, started throwing punches, breaking shit etc. I was shocked but it was also kinda funny. Stay away from crazy women fellas, it ain't worth it.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 02:21 PM
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The obvious move here is to check again in a few days. If the number changes, you know what it means. Trust your gut feeling anyway - how has she been behaving the last few months? And for the love of God, USE A FUCKING CONDOM EVEN WHEN YOU'RE IN A LTR. Imagine you get a cheating whore pregnant. Then you're stuck with a kid, shitty ex, child support, yada yada.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 10:12 PM
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In isolation, her meeting an old friend isn't a problem. It's a normal thing to happen. But only for a woman with no red flags. The step dad thing is a massive red flag. There's a very high chance that she has more red flags and you're ignoring them. If that's the case, I'd get out of there asap.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:56 PM
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There's a section in the side bar. Go through it.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 05:46 PM
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Do not reply to a single message. Don't even open them. Just delete her messages and fuck other girls.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:44 AM
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That's not true. At all.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:04 AM
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The rule of not seeing a girl more than once a week is for regular plates to avoid you getting comfortable with just 1 girl and getting oneitis. In general, you don't want to hit her up too soon after the first date because it shows neediness and lack of abundance but also not wait for too long since she might lose interest. In your case, since she's asking it means her interest is high and you need to capitalize. Call her for dinner/movie/whatever is appropriate for you at your place in the nex…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 02:53 PM
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Reply "ok" and move on. She'll hit you up in 3-4 weeks again but don't wait for it. When she does, just make plans to smash.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 01:54 PM
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Ideally you'd want to pursue your passion especially if it can bring in good money and you're good at it (not something dumb like eSports) If you're open to pursue any field, I'd recommend you should learn to code. The potential and money is endless.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 01:51 PM
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Always trust your gut. Always. You know you can't LTR her.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 08:33 AM
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Red pill does not teach you to hit women. If that's what you're getting from this you haven't understood it or using redpill to mask your abusive nature. Redpill does not teach violence. Spare me the amoral bs. Violence is never the answer. Unless it's self defense.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 01:25 PM
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Computer science. 100%. Get really good at coding. Learn the most in-demand languages. Do multiple projects of your own to build your portfolio.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 10:21 PM
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What's that about the Indian dude?
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:38 PM
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Dump her. That $100 thing is bullshit. Naming him as "Steph" is all planned. Even if it wasn't, this kind of behaviour shows she's willing to lie and hide things from you. It's only downhill from here. Also, next time, don't argue with girls about exes. Just tell them you don't date girls who are still in touch with their ex. You need to enforce boundaries. After that, it's her choice - does she block him, or does she continue to talk to him? Your response will be based on that choice - continue…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:21 PM
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Massive oneitis. She's probably BPD too. Get out of this before she ruins your life. You've been warned.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 08:29 PM
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Possible reasons: 1. You're dull and boring. 2. You take it slow and don't escalate, and they get turned off. You are deluded, not about your looks, but about thinking women will fuck you just because you look good. They won't. If 75% of your interactions end up with you getting friendzoned AFTER they show initial interest, there's something seriously wrong with your game. Become a more interesting person by picking up hobbies and reading. Learn push and pull. Do more kino. Be outcome independan…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 01:30 PM
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Don't do lunches. Maybe do a quick coffee date in the evening 5/6pm for an hour to vet and see how well you get along. If things go good, it should be easy to get her out for drinks and then back home.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:33 PM
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You're lying to yourself. No part of what you said is true. You would know that if you actually worked on yourself, and then actually approached woman and sexually escalated. But you don't. You never have. Then you make up shit like this to cope. Indian women are as slutty as everyone else. MAYBE they'll push for exclusivity faster than Western girls. But the sidebar tells you how to deal with it. Lift. Get a good job. Move to a Mumbai/Bangalore/Delhi if you're not from there already. Start appr…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 03:27 PM
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Bullshit. Indian girls in the metro cities are as slutty as the Western girls. Indian men are losers, so you have absolutely zero competition.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 10:52 AM
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Her: "You're too young for me." You: "Are you worried you won't be able to keep up?" shit grin
/r/askTRP23/05/20 05:30 AM
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I went through the same thing. It's just too much information to swallow and it can get overwhelming. You're overthinking things too much. Maybe you're calculating all your moves and your interactions. Try to relax and get out of your head while socializing. Take some time off from consuming too much of redpill text. It'll settle down, you'll be fine, just give it time.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 09:57 AM
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Yup, I used to be like that too. You can go through my post history and see how it all ended. It's all a power game for some women. They NEED to be in control. If they don't get that then they'll either explode on you or go find some other chump whom they can control. Don't be that chump. Like I said, just make sure your choices get equal, if not more, preference.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:59 AM
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You guys really don't understand what "AWALT" means, do you? You expect all girls to be these whores, who jump from one guy to the next because hypergamy, who'll cheat on every chance they get yada yada. That's not how women are. AWALT means that they the propensity to do that. It doesn't mean that they will for sure, but given enough reasons they will. They're predisposed to certain behaviours but will only act on them if you give them a reason to - like losing frame, being a beta bitch, losing…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:41 AM
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Bro, it's done. Next time don't let shit slide just because it's ok with you or you don't care about it. Make sure your and her preferences get equal importance in an LTR. Go cold on her. Absolutely do not meet her or do things with her if that activity is not something you want to do. 100% your choice or she can fuck off. Eg. You want to visit McDonalds? She can tag along. If she wants something else then she can go get that alone. You're going to McDonalds with or without her. Do this with EVE…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 01:13 PM
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Have you read Sex God Method? If not, then get on it asap. It's a very quick read. You need to make things unpredictable like people have already told you. Mix things up. Women love it when they feel guys can't control themselves around them. That's were the rape fantasies originate from. Go ape shit on her. I literally tell girls that I'm using their bodies just to make me cum and they lose their minds. Do what feels good for YOU, and she'll get her off from that. But at the same time, don't be…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 04:59 PM
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The mistake was going fish shopping with a plate, not paying for her. Regardless, it's fine. Write that $40 off to the game. She might expect more of this again, so next time just flat out refuse to pay. Don't make it a habit.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:36 AM
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You sound boring. I could be wrong but the girls might be getting bored after spending some time with you. Instant attraction loss. Go on fun, action dates. Tease them. Build sexual tension. Then pull them home. Don't make out till you're at a location where you can fuck them.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:10 AM
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Again, the excuse that you use for your pull is completely upto you. Use whatever excuse that works for you. I just gave you a framework for how to go about doing it. The whole point is to come up with an interesting thing that the girls would like to do, mention that in a fun story early on, and then circle back to it and say "Hey let's go do that interesting thing at my place." There's very little to no resistance at that point. If drugs is something the girls you usually game are into, then b…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 02:10 PM
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Look, you need to give women "reasons" to go home with you. It doesn't even have to make sense, but as long as it doesn't trigger their ASD and you've gamed them correctly (Attraction+Comfort), they'll go home with you. Here's what you do. Think of any interesting things that you have at home that she would be interested in seeing. And then you "seed" the idea early on in the conversation. If you try telling her "Let's go back to my place", this is a much higher pressure decision for her, since …
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:37 PM
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Is it obvious that the "bruise" is from a botched blood test? It's likely that she's trying to cover up a mark on her arm with this story. Does the "bruise" look anything like a hickey? Just ask her where she got the blood test from since you want to get one yourself. Then check if that place opens before 8.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:05 AM
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Bro, where can I learn this? 😂
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:40 PM
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Clean diet. Pineapple juice. Lots of water. Cum directly down her throat so she doesn't have to taste it too much.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 03:12 PM
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DNA test the moment the kid pops out. a) Check her phone/social media if you have access to it. b) Honestly, if she keeps this up just confront her. Don't care if it's beta, you need to find out since there's a kid involved. Here's the thing about cheaters, even if they delete everything, they're still paranoid as fuck. You won't even have to go through her phone, you'll know by just her reaction. Edit: use a fucking condom next time.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:03 PM
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There's no harm getting her a $50 gift ON her birthday.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:20 PM
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Don't waste any time on this girl. Message her telling her to come over on X day. Just 1 message. If she does, then bang. If she doesn't, then hard next.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 09:01 AM
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Jesus fuck. Get your head out of "rSd lUkE"s ass. All these pickup artists paint you a false story to get you to buy their products. Luke isn't what you think he is. Look up Review: RSD Las Vegas Immersion/Bootcamp with RSD Luke on seddit. The guy is a complete loser. Here's the only red pill for you: hot girls don't want to fuck a land whale. You might have some chance if you're super rich and/or famous but even then your options will be limited. You don't have to be ripped to get women. But yo…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 01:15 PM
1

Bro just remove her from discord. This relationship isn't going anywhere even if she comes back (which she won't because she's got other guys). It's only going to be incredibly harmful for you in the long run. Rip off the band-aid.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 01:09 PM
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You spend 3-4 days with her every week. That's the problem. Start seeing twice a week. No more. Less attention during the week. When you meet her, go on fun dates. Don't have the boring stay-in-and-movie kinda nights. Also, start applying dread. Show her that you can easily get other girls if you want to and she needs to sort her shit out asap.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:51 AM
2

MBA from a low tier college doesn't amount to anything. You're better off learning sales/marketing/finance skills on your own and leveraging them to get a better job or building a business.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:16 PM
1

You didn't try to apply any of "the red pill stuff" though. Not one. You made every mistake in the book. You probably thought being emotionally distant = being alpha but that's not it. She's gone. Go no contact. Re-read the sidebar. Start playing other girls.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 11:34 AM
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Start therapy again. Don't think it won't work for you now just because it didn't work for you when you were a kid. And lay off the weed and LSD. It's going to rot your brain. Don't use anything as an escape. You have to learn to be accepting of everything that happened in the past and then letting it go so you can move on. Meditation will help.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:17 AM
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I went through something similar. Went a few months with REALLY bad insomnia. Couldn't sleep for more than an hour. Now it's a little better but still not perfect. You need to sort out the basics. No caffeine after 12pm Turn off all screens an hour before sleep. If you feel sleepy anytime post 8.30pm just sleep. Don't wait till 12ish or your usual sleep time. If you can't sleep, read a book. Don't use your phone or laptop. Meditate when you wake up. You're likely very stressed out. Chamomile tea…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:03 AM
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Bro. Fuck. Come on man. You're 30. You can't let's 23 year old hoes play you like that. Just keep fucking her. Once a week. Rotate her with other girls so you don't get oneitis. This plate is very likely going to break soon. Have fun while it lasts. Fucking hell man. These are the basics.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 09:54 AM
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Gym or MMA membership. High quality clothes. Books. Save the rest.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 12:30 PM
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You did the right thing but you could've gone about it in a slightly better manner. The fact that her hanging out with other guys bothered you so much, so as to "eat you from the inside", it's clear that it is a hard boundary for you. You don't explicitly tell her to stop hanging out with other guys. Ofcourse she, and everyone else, will tell you that you're controlling her. So how do you enforce hard boundaries? You tell her "I don't date girls who ________". ** Boom. That's it. Now she knows. …
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:08 AM
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This is not true. Numbers are always better but literally every girl under 23 spends an insane amount of time on snap. It's what the "children" are doing it. There's very little resistance for her to add you there and it's an easy way to show social proof through stories.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 11:52 AM
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Used to be a tits guy growing up (like most men) but now I'm an ass guy. More specifically, it's the ass to thigh ratio that's important. It's not just about having a bigger ass or really huge thighs to go along with it. There's a perfect ratio that just hits right when you see it. If you know, you know.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 07:24 AM
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You're young. You need to get out of this ASAP. You don't understand the psychological trauma this relationship will cause you for years to come. Get out while you can. Plus you shouldn't even be in an LTR at this age.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:23 PM
1

48 Laws is about Machiavellian tactics. It's completely different.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:13 PM
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What kind of bottom tier thinking is this? Practise on high SMV women. There are plenty of them out there. Don't degrade yourself with women who don't deserve you.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:15 PM
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Then you need to approach this with as much friendly intent as you can so that she doesn't fuck you over. Get a lawyer. Break up with her firmly. She will try to emotionally manipulate you but you will need to stand firm and not cave. Cut off all contact with her except in regards to your daughter. Do not let her find out that you're dating other women post-breakup.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:12 PM
1

Is your girlfriend physically or emotionally abusive towards your daughter?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:08 PM
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Read 48 Laws of Power too, to understand the other end of the spectrum. Learn to balance both.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 11:53 AM
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You need to learn a few skills. If you want to get into the tech side of business then you need to be really good at coding. But as a general rule, to start off in business, you need to learn atleast the basics of marketing, copywriting, and strategy.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 11:31 AM
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It's a shit test. Sometimes women will look at your ex's photos and tell you that she was ugly and how she can't believe you dated someone like her. They know men are insecure about the kind of women they date so they want to hit you where it hurts and see if you cave. It doesn't even matter if your other girls are butt ugly or not. The fact that she gets jealous is proof that dread works. Treat it as a shit test and proceed as usual.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 03:05 PM
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This is not a relationship. You're not in a relationship. LDR relationship are highly discouraged here but you haven't even met her. If a girl keeps behaving a certain way, even after you express your boundaries, you cut her off. You don't try to "fix" or "make" her do anything. Boundaries are for you, not for her. When someone crosses your boundaries, you cut them off. Just think about it. She knows you're uncomfortable with her talking to guys yet she still does it. What does that tell you? Sh…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:06 AM
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You'll have to read up on East Asian philosophy and critically analyse it on your own. I can only tell you that all the TRP tenets are applicable to most of the cities in the East, while the basic tenets are applicable to all.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:43 PM
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Going by your name I'm assuming you're from India. Everything is 100% the same here, especially in the bigger cities. TRP principles are universal because the female imperative is universal. I've skimmed through your post history. Never let these "traditional" girls fool you. Ever. It's all a facade.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:37 PM
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That means he has options. Start talking to other guys with the intention of moving on. Jealousy can be a powerful tool. If dread works on him then good, if not, then at least your primary motive of moving on will be accomplished.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:02 PM
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If his SMV is much higher than yours then obviously he's got options. And if he's explicitly told you that he doesn't want to be with you then there's nothing you can do to change his mind. You can stay as his friend, but you've got oneitis and that isn't going to bode well for you. For your sake I'd say you should move on completely.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:40 AM
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It's not absolute. Different results for different people. You'll have to try to run both and see what works for you. Imo if you're good looking, you're wasting time running indirect game. But direct works only if you know your way with women. The reason indirect game is recommended to beginners is so they they can learn all the nuances and steps of pulling women. Direct: 1. Hooks better 2. Comes off as more sincere 3. Brings you higher quality leads 4. You waste less time on girls that aren't v…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:41 AM
1

Jesus, you're pathetic. She cheated on you, just move on. Cut off all contact. What kind of autistic shit are you on?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:08 AM
1

Look she's not going to tell you every single detail of her life. No girl ever does, no matter how much she workshops you. Everyone has shit about their lives that are super personal to them. If one of the darkest things she's done is give her ex-bf blowjobs then I'd say you're good. If she had talked smack about your relationship or if she was still hung up over him, I'd say you have a problem. But that's not the case. You've honestly got good something here, don't let something that happened 1…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:06 AM
1

Learning a new language (30 mins) Learning copywriting, marketing skills (min 4 hours) Learning to play the guitar (1hr) Learning how to paint (1hr) Meditate twice a day (used to meditate once/day before)
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:57 PM
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Post a random screenshot of a chat so we can judge. Or update after your friend gives you more details.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:55 AM
1

Holy shit you're thick as fuck, aren't you? Dump her, she's looking to branch swing. You think she's going to stop if you tell her? She's gone, she's not yours anymore.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:38 PM
2

First of all, why are you even friends with a guy like that? Drop him as a friend completely. Second, if you keep acting this insecure, he's going to end up banging her. You'll push her away and 1000% she will end up with him. You make something taboo for women, it makes them want to do it even more. Stop being a little bitch. If she wants to cheat on you, she'll do it either way. Atleast you'll know for sure that you didn't end up with a cheating whore. Drop the friend, right now. Don't "forbid…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:51 AM
3

Lol bro. You're so out of your depth here. You can't deal with BPD girls. They'll ruin your fucking life. Get out of there asap or else you're going to regret it. Don't say we didn't warn you.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 04:17 PM
1

Try 20 on 10 off.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:24 PM
4

Sure buddy, we believe you.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 02:10 PM
3

Yes, this. You don't have to move to a new town and change your name, but you can move to a new area in the same town and cut him off completely. Being his neighbour puts you at a higher chance off coming in the crosshair.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 04:59 AM
1

I've had no exposure. Any specific work of theirs do you think I should start with?
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:48 PM
2

Books you recommend for an advanced reader? Philosophy, Game, Science, Business etc etc. Genre doesn't really matter.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:33 PM
3

You know what you have to do bro. We don't have to tell you. There was no need for this post. You know. Block. Move on. Start lifting. Start gaming. No need to get closure from her. No need to give her closure.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 08:30 PM
1

Go NC for 10-15 days if you want to salvage anything. Read the sidebar again in the mean time.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 12:30 PM
2

100% monk mode is silly. Monk doesn't mean you can't go out with your friends and meet people. Isolating yourself completely will naturally lead to depression-like feelings. Go out with your friends and socialize, but don't drink. If anything it'll be a test to see if you can truly stay sober. And get a hobby that keeps you happy and fulfilled during the weekends.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 12:54 PM
1

She's not pregnant.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 11:46 AM
1

Get the ebook.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:47 AM
1

Get the ebook.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:46 AM
1

How often do you have erection issues with your wife? Or with girls you're regularly seeing? Could tell you if it's just a nerves thing with new women with whom you're not comfortable yet (happens to a lot of us) or if it's something else (medical or otherwise).
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:38 AM
2

Drop her, RIGHT NOW. Or else, when you get cucked, don't say we didn't warn you.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 04:48 AM
1

Jesus christ you're an embarrassment. Sit down and re-evaluate yourself. No self respecting man behaves the way you did.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 09:25 AM
1

Rational Male first and then Book of Pook.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 09:47 AM
1

Do you shoot your own content or produce content for others?
/r/askTRP23/01/20 04:04 AM
1

Honestly I thought the same thing 5 years ago. Picked it up again last year and I was blown away. If there's one book I'd recommend for actionable advice on TRP, it's that.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 07:52 PM
2

You shouldn't ideally be in 100% monk mode. If you want to, don't do it for more than a couple months. Things to do during monk mode: 1. Gym 2. Meditate 3. Read 4. Take courses, learn skills to get better at work and increase your pay. 5. Read some more 6. Try out new hobbies - sports, dancing, music etc 7. Fucking read 8. Eat clean - learn to cook your own meals if you don't know how to 9. READ
/r/askTRP10/01/20 06:17 AM
1

Absolutely the fuck use the fact that she's rich to your advantage. The ONLY thing you need to do is get inside her business network. Build your connections and use that to get a better job. That shit will be worth much more in the long run than the money she spends on you now. Plus your network will still be there even after the plate breaks. She's temporary, your connections will not be.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 04:47 AM
1

ALWAYS trust your gut. Figure out a way to confirm for sure whether shes cheating or not. See if you can access her phone (not really a recommended thing to do but sometimes you need to be sure) or if you're close to her dad then come up with an excuse and give him a call. Regardless, withdraw attention, start gaming other girls as back up, and reduce emotional investment in her just in case the bomb drops.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 12:14 PM
1

Take notes everytime you read or listen to something. Build a Black Book or sorts with all the ideas that appeal to you. Re-read the notes every few months. (Make sure to note down the book & page no. or whatever is the source next to each note so that, if needed, you can revisit that idea and read the detailed explanations)
/r/askTRP09/11/19 02:15 PM
2

Don't listen to your BP friend. He's going to turn you into a cuck. Stop talking about issues over text. Texting is only for logistics. If there are any issues you can discuss them CALMLY in person. I'm also sure you aren't spinning plates and she's the only one on your roster. One of the subtler things about soft nexting is that when she stops being 'angry' she'll realize that SHE needs YOU, and not the other way around, and she will come running back. It doesn't matter if she says she doesn't …
/r/askTRP05/11/19 02:22 PM
1

Take Ashvangandha and Gokshura if you can. No fap and take your mind off girls completely for 10 days. Focus on other things. Also, how's your sleep? I find my interest in pussy goes down massively when I'm sleep deprived.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 07:02 AM
2

Start with Headspace or Insight timer and then get yourself a copy of The Mind Illuminated if you're really serious about reaching higher levels of meditation.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:49 AM
1

What do you say if the girl doesn't offer to pay? Also, I find I have more chances of closing if I pay than if we split. What gives?
/r/askTRP25/10/19 02:56 AM
3

9s and 10s don't spend time on fucking dating strategy sub-reddits.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:19 AM
2

Own your shit. Plenty of 18-21 girls love that pretty boy/boy band look. If you want respect from men then bulk up a bit, and sort out your body language and voice tonality, and have solid frame. As you get older you'll get that masculine look that you want. Look at Zac Efron now. He doesn't have that boy band look anymore since he's older and massively bulked up. Maybe grow a beard or stubble if you're clean shaven. But for now, I'd say just capitalize on your strengths.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:01 PM
1

Oh right. I guess I misread that. OP just needs to increase his portions then.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 10:42 AM
2

50g of protein is way too less. You need to be eating around 0.8-1g of protein per pound of bodyweight, which is around 125-150g for you. Just keeping everything else constant and trying to eat this would help you hit your goal. Add one chicken breast to your meals. Have 1-2 scoops of whey to make things easier (that gives you 25-50g of protein on its own) You need to figure out all your macros (carbs, proteins, and fats) according to your BMR and weight goal, and start eating accordingly.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 06:18 AM
12

Do not set an ultimatum. Let her go to Vegas. Demote to FWB. Spin plates. Once you find an upgrade, drop her.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:02 PM
2

You've made alot of assumptions about her interest, her monogamy, and your role. Only way to know is to escalate and find out for yourself. Just ask her out.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:45 PM
1

Don't message her at all till you're back in town. Literally 0 messages. Then hit her up with "Hey I'm back in town. I'm going to _____ place at ____ pm. You should join me." When she comes, DO NOT hesitate to escalate and then pull back to your place.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:02 AM
2

Bro, just look at your post history. You have no idea what TRP actually is. You might have read all the theory but you don't understand any of it. You have one-itis for this Polish chick. Just because a few girls have rejected you, you think this shit doesn't work. How many girls have you approached? How much do you lift? How's your fashion sense? What are your hobbies? What's your mission in life? The Red Pill isn't just fucking pickup advice. I guarantee you, you have zero charisma, you haven'…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:46 AM
1

Should not have told her to tell her friends to pick her up from your house. You fucked up there. She can't just tell her friends she's going to some random dudes house to fuck. Next time, tell her to tell her friends that she's going to get something to eat with you and she will hit them up in like 45 mins. That's it. She can later text her friends telling them where to pick her up from. If it's just two girls, introduce the fatty to another dude at the club so that she can focus on him and you…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:51 AM
9

I'm sorry dude. I know how that feels. Instead of typing things out I'd recommend you go through my post history and read all the comments on that post. It'll help you out.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:20 PM
3

I wanted to do it just to get a reference point. But yeah, I'm ghosting these hoes for now.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:29 AM
5

Hahah you learn something new everyday. Thanks for letting me know.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:27 AM
3

Yes, I've considered that possibility. Should I go and pay only my share, or just fuck it and hit the gym instead?
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:17 AM
8

Nope. Like I said, she gets emails for every action on that app and it goes straight to spam. I knew she was on the way to his house before she reached there. How? Uber sends a mail for everything. Gmail shows her mobile searches too. She's too technologically retarded to know how and what to do, to actively hide anything from me. Btw that's what BPD women do. Act on impulse. I know for a fact that she hasn't done it before but here's the question - why does it matter? She did it once and that's…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 09:07 AM
5

This is true. I ignored all of them. I'm taking full responsibility for the position I'm in. The only thing I'm focusing on now is improving my SMV and holding myself and others around me to an extremely high standard.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 05:31 PM
9

Man, reading this gave me some hope & made me feel good. Only good times ahead. Can't wait!
/r/askTRP29/07/19 04:12 PM
20

It wasn't. They matched and spoke the same night. I have access to her emails and I can see the notification emails.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 04:11 PM
2

I get what you're saying but I have a very low tolerance for posers but I feel like I have a lot of room to grow as a conversationalist. Maybe I need to started tolerating people.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 09:14 AM
2

I'm 100% sure you don't physically escalate and play it safe. Stop asking interview questions, and start making cold reads, polarize, push/pull, deep dive into who they are and fucking KINO. There's no way they'll look at you as a friend if you are physically escalating.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:58 AM
21

Fellow Indian here and here's my advice: Get the fuck out of there. You're still 30. You have your prime years left. You're going to regret not spending time plating and enjoying your freedom. I know it's going to be hard because families get involved but get your family to see your side of the story. Tell them she's a manipulative bitch and you will end up broke if you stick around with here. The whole "she's spending more time at work" is bullshit. She's going to end up cheating on you if she …
/r/askTRP28/05/19 12:26 PM
1

This is great advice. Thanks a lot.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 11:58 AM
1

Find a coffee shop that's never crowded. Get a corner seat. Never sit opposite. Order them to sit next to you. ORDER them. They will always comply. After that just escalate normally. Learn some kino PUA routines if you need to. Make sure to set the date at a later time than usual. If things are going well, location bounce to a bar close to you for a drink. You'll see her entire demeanor change once you get her to another place. Once you're at the bar, you can escalate without reservations. Go fo…
/r/askTRP25/05/19 05:36 AM
1

Yes they do. I've already dropped a bunch of plates because they were being needy and I had to focus on a pre-college study thing. I know what my priorities are. Doesn't mean I can't get my dick wet once in a while. After all, I'm going to be there for 2 years.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 05:19 AM
1

Plain well-fitted t-shirt, dark jeans and boots is my go to. Add on a denim, bomber, or leather jacket if you want. Also, learn to accessorize - bracelets, watches, rings etc.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 04:52 AM
2

I can almost guarantee you don't escalate on dates and play it safe. Do kino. Lots of it. Don't be afraid to physically dominate her. Atleast get a makeout sesh the first time around. If she's super into you before the date there's no way she won't be receptive to your physical dominance. Also, spin plates. Cast a wider net and talk to more girls. If someone ghosts you, it won't bring you down because you'll have other options.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 04:49 AM
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You're stressing out over something you've realized after banging 2 girls. TWO girls. Jesus fucking Christ. Two is not remotely a big enough number you can base these theories on. In all probability they ghosted you because of completely different reasons. You're just looking to blame that on something you have no control on instead of self reflecting and seeing what you lack. Heck, they might have ghosted you for something not that's even your fault. I promise you, your dick size isn't a proble…
/r/askTRP25/05/19 04:11 AM
30

I'm tired of people repeating the same shit again and again - if you're having dinner dates with her, then she's not a plate. Here's the hierarchy: 0 - One Night Stand - self explanatory 1 - Plate - just meet for sex 2 - FWB - hang out, chill, do what friends usually do, and have sex 3 - LTR - also self explanatory Stop taking your plates out for dinner dates. Just invite them over for sex. You can get through the basic chit chat post sex, it's not a big deal. Then send them home because you hav…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 10:30 AM
2

By what you've written, I think you can bang her. (But it seems like she might BPD so be wary of sticking your dick into crazy.) Here's what you do if you want to fuck her: Go for a night out. Just you and her. Get some drinks. Start hitting on other girls while you're there. She'll get incredibly jealous. Might shit test you. Laugh it off. Grab her hand, take her to the bar, do a couple shots and go for the kiss. Then pull her home. This never fails. Try it out and report back.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:14 AM
1

More money isn't always the answer. But the best way to go about this, is to ask the company for a visit? You could check out the workplace, meet your potential future team, see if they're fun guys, ask them questions about work life balance etc. Take a call after you've done that.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 06:46 AM
2

Jealousy is normal. First you need to accept that feeling. Don't fight it, just acknowledge it. Second, you need to make sure you never act on it. Don't show your girls, or anybody else, that you're feeling that way - not just through words, but actions too. Try meditation. It seriously helps. If you say you might have mental issues possibly caused by what you went through in your past, then you need to get therapy. Therapy is the only thing that will help you figure out the root cause of your p…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:38 PM
1

That's true. I'm happy with what I do. Just thought maybe this part of my life that has some scope of improvement.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:28 PM
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