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Your not alone your riding solo sounds cooler
/r/seduction20/11/21 08:41 AM
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I mean if you guys are like in your 20s and it was a high school fling in the 9th grade I guess and I’m pretty sure he’d not care if u was honest. But if it’s a recent ex or they had long history together your breaking the bro code… don’t break the bro code
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:53 AM
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What he meant is your giving yourself excuses to fixate on her rather than realizing there are billions of woman in the world all with the potential of being better for you. Your current mentality is like a starving man and you only see one meal that you may not get. This will make you devastated if someone else gets it. It’s ok to have her as the girl your gonna shoot for but it’s not do or die.
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:52 AM
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You are rushing things because of wedding fever. Anxiety isn’t going to win her over. For all you know she’s freaking out about the same thing. She’s human too bro. Shit how about giving her a reason to see what you do and dress up sexy to a random wedding. Cool date idea
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:49 AM
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Can I ask you if you’ve put 100% into making you the best version of yourself for 1-2 years with dedication? I got to a place where girls or game or whatever doesn’t even cross my mind but it’s a natural thing when I go out. How did I get here? I went from first year in college unable to talk to… guys :( and dedicated everything to myself. Physical health, mental health, and social ability. Rather than expecting getting to chad fucking everyone status set achievable goals. Believe it or not I ha…
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:45 AM
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Escalate escalate escalate. If she feels uncomfortable or rushed respect it and slow it down. Go back to what’s comfortable and revisit later on during the time u spend together. If she really isn’t accepting back off for a bit. Girls just want to feel comfortable around you. For them it’s a requirement before sex. My opinion is she wants more and likes your vibes. Men’s responsible to initiate the next step/sex 90% of the time.
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:31 AM
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Yeah don’t man. You have a picture of this girl in your head that’s over exaggerated of who she is. If you actually want to do this I would get a pass from your friend and approach her. These big romantic gestures usually scare and hinder your chance. But none us of know you actual past and the history there. Do as you like in the end. Edit: I support shooting your shot and not regretting what you wish u did. Just add some class to it.
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:25 AM
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Yeah so when I read this it feels like your trolling us. So let me recap. Your female friend is saying your gonna sleep in bed with her, and she can’t sleep with pants on? Next she gonna say underwear impairs her sleep and needs you to cuddle her from behind as u sleep. Bruh… channel your inner Chad Pit and have 5 days of nonstop fucking.
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:19 PM
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She’s lost her window my friend. If you have any self respect why would you take a girl that put u on a back burner, fucked another guy, and went on dates. Plus that’s what you found out or she told you! Imagine the extra details. Tell her she’s gotta earn a title and you have requirements and she failed step 1 - show you respect
/r/seduction23/10/21 06:45 PM
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So I found a little secret for myself when I get shit tested. When u recognize it just smile and turn it back on her. Pressure flipping is fun for everyone. Literally any response where you aren’t taking her overly serious. For this test specifically she gave me an answer that annoys me so I’d ignore the fuck out of her personally. Her mentioning other guys is a shit test to see how you react. You only got shit shitty text because you have her control of this conversation and her meeting u by as…
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:17 PM
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You talked it out. But no action. Action speaks louder than words. You needed to flow the interaction out the door back to your place. I’m sure there are many outside factors to explain the event but that’s the only thing in your control to up your game to next level
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:59 PM
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So I personally believe you should open up. But every inch you show should be earned. If she’s a woman you trust, fuck with, and wanna risk it for long term. Your allowed to show more but she’s gotta deserve it.
/r/seduction12/10/21 10:56 PM
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Wait so a girl invited herself over to your place and your wondering if it’s friend zone? Seems like open season boys
/r/seduction01/10/21 03:45 PM
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27 with 19 year old girlfriend. I mean I suppose it could label you as that if you let it. But at the end of the day we are both consenting adults and I don’t give a fuck. Sounds like you give a fuck about societal acceptance when it doesn’t actually impact yourself. I mean 30 year old virgin isn’t exactly society norm either but your comfortable as such. So you can’t make up for time lost but is this really the life you want to live? Ok getting a girl now isn’t gonna get previous you laid but t…
/r/seduction29/09/21 04:45 PM
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A girls starts to tapper off around 25 a guys tappers off around 50s. Younger woman are prime. Guys with their shit together are prime
/r/seduction29/09/21 01:59 PM
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When anyone ask just say “your riding solo to see what kinda trouble you can get into” which is true because unless u have 1 friend with the same limits as you, you usually get held back
/r/seduction20/09/21 06:10 PM
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If your to attractive guys will be shy and go for the less attractive or more “obtainable” girl. U might also giving off a dont approach me vibe.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:40 AM
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Stop watching porn
/r/seduction14/09/21 02:18 PM
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A favorite drill of mine for someone that lives somewhere populated or at a college campus is go around complementing people. Genuine compliments target towards the person as u walk pass them. Nothing more just a quick hey man I really like your shirt your rocking it. Guy/girls doesn’t matter. The point is to get those social muscles warmed up. As for what to say that’s really generic. How do you talk to other guys? Woman are also human so treat them as such. Don’t be afraid to look like a fool …
/r/seduction10/09/21 07:12 PM
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She giving off signs like a mofo. What she wants is a guy that won’t take her to seriously and put a lot of pressure on her. You flirt, you take her out, you do your thing, you make it a fwb, and then she’ll let you know when she wants more. I messed up by going in for straight bf/gf before when she gave me fuck me signs. Men gate keep relationships Woman gate keep sex Use what I said however you’d like good luck.
/r/seduction07/09/21 11:19 PM
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Ok so you know how people talk about a window of opportunity and if you don’t take it you get friend zoned? Yeah she’s giving you a landing strip at an air port with the little hand lights that guide you straight to her. Take it or leave it don’t complain if you don’t pull the trigger
/r/seduction02/09/21 08:56 PM
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Don’t chase back off if she’ll come back to you she will on her own nothing you can do will change that. For now find someone else this girl is to complicated. Do you really wanna be with someone that’s gonna jump between you and another guy. You guys are sharing her while she gets all the attention and benefit. As I’m typing this move on and never go back to it she’s just hopping between cock.
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:03 PM
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It’s best to drop expectation of how things need to be a certain way. The girlfriend you have should be an addition to your life and goals. If she wants you to be something your not and drop what you enjoy then she isn’t the one. You’ll figure out things to do or she’ll say hey would you wanna do X. Maybe you know she likes a certain thing so you’ll find events. I’m a gamer, went to school, and hit the gym. I never had an issue with girls or things to do. Lots of people are busy with their own s…
/r/seduction26/08/21 08:18 PM
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Rejection is part of the game. Embrace it and enjoy it. It’s nothing personal either. And for everyone wondering I would do this every semester and found a new girl every semester.
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:26 PM
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Took me a week of doing this to find a fwb. 3-5 approach’s a day.
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:41 PM
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I mean look at it this way. Not taking a shot hasn’t gotten you any closer to getting with her. Take your shot son.
/r/seduction24/08/21 11:53 PM
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So she just said hey I like to fuck high but I couldn’t find someone that can rock it out with me. Then you said yeah I’m able to rock it out high. Now your asking me if a girl that’s discussing fucking high to you after being playful is interested? Im sorry but are you really asking a question or do you just need a bro to tell you to get her number, rock her world, then give you a high five?
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:33 PM
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If you have that thought going on in your head then I’m pretty sure you answered your own question. She ain’t relationship material.
/r/seduction24/08/21 05:38 PM
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I would just clarify it with her and your boundaries. If she can’t comply then tell her you guys are done and move forward. Doesn’t seem like you’ve been talking long so don’t worry about it. Don’t let her somehow tie you down because of her mental insecurities. Let’s be real now your not her therapist.
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:42 PM
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Cold approaching is an art. With practice I was able to close with a number almost every time. In reality it’s being spontaneous. First of all how are you when you cold approach? Why are you cold approaching? What are you thinking before the approach? My best approaches is when I feel loose and just talked to a lot of strangers. When I approach I see a girl and think ok she is cute but how is her personality and how can I get a glimpse. So I approach and talk to her with light banter more for my…
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:47 PM
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So first of all she is another human being with her own insecurities and probably has some regarding how you view her. She might be beautiful but by no means a perfect human no human is. Just remember she wants someone she can vibe with and just be herself with. Show you her weird side and all the other sides. If you really want it to work out with her and want to get out of your own way do this. Stop giving a fuck about outcomes. Stop giving a fuck about what you think is the right move. Stop t…
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:39 PM
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So tip number one don’t ask them what they want. At the end of the day it doesn’t matter and it puts weird pressure on her. So just don’t do #1 question. Tip #2 you don’t tell them what your looking for either. That also doesn’t matter. It solidifies it and it’s kinda weird? You just met this person and your saying hey btw I wanna fall in love with you and marry you. Or your saying yeah btw I just wanna bone you for X time and move on or see where it goes. So muro your telling me not what to do …
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:18 PM
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I stopped reading after reading she dated another guy. Rest I don’t need to read move on bro. Your worth more than being someone’s backup or someone’s second choice. Have some self respect and realize her pussy isn’t the only one you’ll enjoy. And a secret that you don’t realize yet. When u think you found someone great usually the next person u date is even better. Because you know what you look for and what you do and don’t like. Keep chasing if your ok with being a third wheel in your future …
/r/seduction12/08/21 01:35 PM
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Sounds like you need a good old round of brute forcing it. Force yourself to make these interactions, go ahead and dive into the deep end. While you do so communicate interest. Say I think your cute, I’d like to take you on a date, etc…
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:43 PM
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Yup, that’s all. Whatever way to introduce yourself or be unique. From my experience number closes are about 95% or higher success rate. Responses to text you send them is the difficult part. If they respond you were interesting and stood out to them so they wanna talk. After enough approaches and numbers you can tell if your gonna get a text back or a date after. It’s a numbers game.
/r/seduction11/08/21 02:45 PM
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She’s probably thirsty if you think about it. Or maybe dude she went for turned out to be wrong choice and she didn’t wanna pass up the opportunity with you. If you gonna give her a chance your better make her work for it. But sounds like your not, especially if you got options. Stay humble and put yourself on a pedestal. Your time is valuable.
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:25 PM
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Depends what your looking for. Sounds like relationships out of the cards but you could enjoy hitting it and never have her tie you down. But sounds like you got abundance mentality so you have your own answer my friend. Plenty of fish in the sea that will chase you and push others off for you.
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:00 PM
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I was able to find a new fwb every semester and I never went to a party once. I also found lots of dates. Fun fact - lots of girls on campus at coffee shops, condensed places, louder study places, etc…
/r/seduction10/08/21 04:01 PM
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I’m more curious about how you increases your pay by so much
/r/seduction10/08/21 03:58 PM
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Bro just take a step back and take a deep breath for a second. Realize what your trying to do. Your going out and talking to another human being. Do you get this nervous talking with a guy? What about your buddy’s? Your mom? Your going out with such attachment to a result, expectation that you put on yourself, and expectation that you put on the idea of “pick up, game, or flirting” that it’s unrealistic. Bring an open mind and just enjoy yourself and don’t be attached to any result. From making …
/r/seduction06/08/21 07:48 PM
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All flirting is, is teasing them and having light banter. Like how you’d mess with your brother, sister, or friend. The only difference is your interested in more and telling them isn’t wrong.
/r/seduction03/08/21 05:54 PM
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I’m not sure what this means. I’m not sure if your asking how to manipulate your partner or a girl your interested in. But I believe the question is suppose to be “how do I tell a girl my expectations and not overly commit to her so she pushes me away?” I’ll answer these questions. First of all once you meet a girl and it’s going somewhere it’s ok to tell her “hey I like this and this from my partner” until you find common ground and can agree on something. If you want to find someone you can fu…
/r/seduction02/08/21 05:40 PM
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People that look like brad Pitt usually put in a lot of effort to their appearance. Stop downplaying the effort those people put into their lives. Yes some people have genetics but usually what gets judged is the effort you put into yourself. Unless you are just the unluckiest guy in the world with some deformity I don’t see why you should complain. What most people don’t realize is the following; the majority of people are fuckable and attractive if they put effort in themselves through proper …
/r/seduction31/07/21 04:16 AM
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We’ll it sounds like you can get to the point where u kiss and can do basic escalation. Just keep escalating. If u step over a boundary respect it and build backup to it. You can’t know how far u get without risk of stepping over a boundary. Btw sex is amazing but nothing to fomo about. You’ll eventually have a girl then another one. Then maybe one after that until your satisfied or settle down to just one. But every girls got a pussy and it’s nothing scarce or rare. Bruh I’ve literally went ove…
/r/seduction03/07/21 08:28 AM
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Not to be mean but if you flipped the last sentences mentality to the opposite you’d score girls. You don’t even have to be out there and wild. Just be confident in yourself and treat a woman… like a female human. Do you see female and male dogs and treat them with a big difference? No? So why should you treat men and females differently. This means you won’t put them on a pedestal. You’ll tease them and flow naturally. Don’t be afraid to upset them. When they feel how light and fun your interac…
/r/seduction03/07/21 08:22 AM
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So I live with family and that’s never really gotten in my way. That’s just an excuse and barrier you put up in front of you. Ask yourself this. Do you really want to change? Do you reallllyyyyy want to get a girlfriend? Out of high school I went through a lot and my first year of college I made a goal to my self. Talk to 1 person in every class. Not make friends with people. Not talk to a girl. Not flirt. Just 1 person, a casual hi how’s it going relationship. I was that bad at social interacti…
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:19 PM
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This.... It’s actually super simple once you get in the flow. Rather than putting yourself down you bring your self up. Rather than saying oh why would anyone want to talk to me it’s, oh why should this girl be worth my time? It’s your life you live it once live it the way you want to and take control. Your worth so much more than you give your life credit for. Once you realize this you take control and realize that dime piece is just another human being and it’s another human interaction. Like …
/r/seduction28/05/21 11:30 AM
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My friend it sucks to hear this happened to you. But I have a question for you. Did you happen to ask yourself what real value she brought to your life? What about her own value? Or did you assume she was something before she proved that to you? The biggest mistake men do is creating a woman to be some fantasy before the woman actually does anything. But what did she do besides appear as the girl your gonna fall for. It sounds like nothing to me. Girls are always looking for what value you’ll ad…
/r/seduction03/03/21 03:45 PM
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I feel like it’s an accomplishment when a cold approach ends up into sex. But it’s less “omg I got to fuck this girl” and more “yeah I’m fucking amazing I can accomplish anything and this proves it”. I’m the prize fucking some girl I meet isn’t a big deal. Then if deal for me is improving upon myself. Once you get laid pretty much when you feel like it it’s less euphoric and “holy shit I landed a girl”.
/r/seduction17/09/20 03:20 PM
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Men aren’t the only chasers. Woman want to earn and chase a man they have feelings for too. This guy sounds like he is a typical “nice guy” that isn’t 100% genuine to females. Look a female you click with which has chases going equally both ways requires patience and persistence. If he wants to work his ass off to make a girl give up and accept him to later get cheated on because the girl doesn’t actually respect him, that’s his call.
/r/seduction20/08/20 04:46 PM
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A lot of people see where your coming from. The reality of the matter is most people really should move on because it’s healthier. It’s so much healthier as a person to understand things move on. Time passes, you meet new people, and not everything will work out. Plus do you really want the love of your life to be someone u had to put in a tremendous amount of effort for her to give u any attention? It feels better when things click. Most people also do cold approaches or meet knew people not da…
/r/seduction20/08/20 06:54 AM
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Dude is this all fat or have u started lifting. If you went from being thin to way more filled in it’s not that big a deal. If u went from being thin to gaining all fat then just have her meet you and hopefully your games on point and she picks up what your putting down
/r/seduction20/08/20 06:50 AM
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It’s crazy how much this little fact takes you so far in many aspects of life.
/r/seduction07/08/20 05:02 PM
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I’m sure everyone’s addressed this already. It comes from the lack of abundance. The idea of a female spending time with you is what you love. Your insecurities are distracted when a girl smiles at you. Deal with your shit and grow as a man. Talk to lots of girls then you’ll realize how few of them you actually vibe with rather than your penis thinking and wanting to bone everyone. I used to be like you until I talked to enough girls to realize “shit what’s this girl have to offer as a human bei…
/r/seduction07/08/20 12:24 AM
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Have you ever tried to expand your social circle, hobbies, and just put yourself out there? You can score hotties so it’s all the same my guy. I like Mediterranean and Asians mostly scoring them. Just realize the culture and how to communicate with them. Show them your fascination with their background and how awesome of a person that made them. It’s not different than any other girl you scored. Keep frame and know what your made of.
/r/seduction31/07/20 03:30 PM
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Dude Leonardo DiCaprio hasn’t dated anyone under 25. Yes he is a famous actor but how many famous actors are there that has a track record like that? Believe your a super star and present that to the dime piece you want. Said guy had a dad bod and isn’t what he used to be... still fucking and dating super models that are under 25. For some reason all this relationships end after 25. Respect. Work on yourself first and develop confidence through trial and error. I went from a depressed loser that…
/r/seduction19/07/20 10:00 PM
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If I can coach my dwarf 4’6 (maybe shorter) friend who shoulda died due to a birth defect and has had his spine bolted together plus plenty of surgeries a female and not only one but plenty of woman fighting for his attention. My friend I assure you have nothing to worry about as long as you focus on developing yourself and focusing on your path. The most attractive trait a man can have is being self-driven, and confident to the point where (name hottest model/female) wouldn’t distract you off y…
/r/seduction28/06/20 04:48 PM
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Look man you can experience life in two ways. The statement is true but at the end of the day isn’t a little bit relieving. Like life everything else ends. The most you can do is live your best life and give your all in everything your apart of. Eventually you’ll find a woman to share your time with and she’ll recognize the value that only you can bring. Once you have her pimp her and make her realize that she needs to put in work for her to keep you. A perfect relationship or anything worth it …
/r/seduction09/06/20 03:59 AM
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Good point. Your mindset makes things become reality. This is why I lean towards more lofi type things without lyrics because they are all questionable lately. Either that or go old school.
/r/seduction13/05/20 08:32 PM
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I used to be the same way and the entire human race does this. It’s called hamstering and a useful technique in seduction. Get someone’s mind going about you and your in. They can’t get you out of their mind. Let’s get back on track... There are physical things you can do like get busy, workout, work on yourself, do more things, see more people, talk to more woman, create abundance of woman. All of these tie into the mental aspect that will help eliminate this issue. Mentally what can you do? Me…
/r/seduction13/05/20 04:23 PM
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I have tree trunk legs so my squat has always been decent but I think it took me a year and a half of lifting to break 115 pound bench 185 squat and 185 deadlift. I was weak as fuck. Never played sports in my life and was a massive gamer. At least I was good at it so I drowned my self in it. I was weak as fuck. Fat. Ugly. Took me like 6 years of consistent/on/off lifting to get me here. I think I’m weak still but I got my life to keep climbing and get to higher numbers. I’m still a massive criti…
/r/seduction08/05/20 10:01 PM
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Is it me or do you look like Chris Prat just a bit. Amazing story I come from a similar background of fantasizing about suicide and how the embrace of escape felt so good. Now I’m 215 dead lift 455 squat 375 bench 270 and can get laid when I feel like it. I’ve coached my virgin friends how to get laid and push all those around me to improve themselves. For the people out their struggling with motivation look at those around you. Do they make lots of excuses on why to not get better? Are they neg…
/r/seduction08/05/20 03:16 PM
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I don’t like the phrase double standards. Isn’t it just a standard for men and a standard for woman? We are separate beings with a different chemical make up and have completely different brain patterns. Our sexual strategy and goals are different yet similar. Hot girls or feminist just want an advantage or to get attention. Plus if a girl says “I wouldn’t be caught with a guy like that” it’s usually due to a lack of self respect on the mans part. Most woman look for a guy that has social skills…
/r/seduction20/04/20 07:33 PM
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Just remember when you attempt to escalate. Being shut down isn’t completely failure it’s being told slow it down. Her cutting contact or leaving is the rejection. I mentioned signs and that’s all her body language and how she flirts back with you. Good luck
/r/seduction19/04/20 04:38 PM
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Escalation never made any sense to me until one day it clicked. Now I can tell you how I do it but escalation is very personality related and execution is based on you. What I can do for you is give you guide lines on when, how it looks like, and signs. Now the first level of escalation is sexual interest. This is as simple as telling yourself you wanna fuck this girl. Imagine ripped her cloths off while looking at her. This will naturally change your eyes to a flirtatious look. From there every…
/r/seduction19/04/20 04:13 PM
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Glad to hear it man. Remember motivation is the initial spark to momentum. Keep that fire burning with discipline.
/r/seduction10/03/20 06:15 PM
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Guys I added some exaggerated humor take it for what it is. Yes all girls will still get hit on a bunch. Sure what I said may not be 100% true. Y’all need to learn how to take things with a grain of salt and understand the underlying message, which for you who can’t interpret... Stop thinking so much, focus on yourself, develop yourself to be the best version of yourself, and understand that EVERYONE has something about themselves that they are self conscious about. PS: This is all that matters …
/r/seduction10/03/20 01:50 AM
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All ima say is hotter the girl usually the less self confidence they have. Believe it or not but super hot girls seem unattainable by so many dudes they rarely get hit on. 6-8 get the most attention. After that 9/10 question why their uglier friends get more attention then they do. Once you realize all females fuck it all humans are cognitive beings that could have anything going on in their life it’s really not to bad. Hottest model in the world is just a person with mental struggles of their o…
/r/seduction09/03/20 10:47 PM
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Ok your rebuttal I get it’s easier but because it is girls look for that alpha level man. The best man they think they can get. Internally if they get slut shamed it harms them in society can’t have they as a woman. So they sleep around with guys they can justify with. Not many girls that go and fuck anything with a cock. Bro work on getting rejected and how to escalate you’ll be fine. Start lifting heavy. It’s good your at a solid place in life and have good health. Practice makes perfect hard …
/r/seduction09/01/20 01:29 PM
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It’s not as difficult as you’d think considering from my experience girls are more horny and dying for sex than men are. Before you look towards sex and outside enjoyment work on yourself and inner fulfillment. It radiates outward and even with the presence you give off. Start lifting and lift heavy, read books, and always practice game. I went from a overweight nerd that didn’t have an ounce of muscle. I was depressed without the understanding of happiness or where it came from. First semester …
/r/seduction09/01/20 01:09 PM
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You should only ever be disappointed in yourself for not doing your best or for bitching out of things. Failure isn’t a cause for disappointment if u have your 100. It’s a learning experience. As a man you will fall and get back up. Part of life. Do your best and continue to grow
/r/seduction13/12/19 10:08 PM
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I’ve been there so many times. What helps me is meditation and/or lifting. Focusing my inner no fucks given and just making moves rather than thinking. The main thing that helps is giving 0 expectations to it. One thing that elevated my game to new levels is realizing one thing. “Man I really don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks or about proving myself to anyone especially the girl I’m gaming”. Once I did things for me going out or interacting with people became easy and natural. Your going out …
/r/seduction13/12/19 09:56 PM
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My friend you don’t need tinder or online dating in order to get the results you want. Those apps are more addictive than productive and have a higher chance of decreasing your hopes and attitude towards dating as a man. Improve on yourself and go out there forcing yourself into uncomfortable situations. Become comfortable being uncomfortable. Game in person and better yourself. Lift, study, work, develop hobbies, it’ll take u so much further. I can suggest Avery Hayden but this is for in person…
/r/seduction13/12/19 09:51 PM
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Realize how lucky you are to experience this moment and thank the universe for it. It gave you the path to see a light not many men have the balls to search for. Your upset, your in shock, you have no idea what to do, and so you pick yourself up and move forward. Look man I get it’s heart break and she’s a hoe that hopped to the next. Like everyone said lift and read the side bar. I also suggest you not looking for a quick answer and search for something to make it all go away. One part of being…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/19 08:09 AM
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Obviously looks are important no one is saying it isn’t. I would say even when I improved my looks I gained more attention when I had an aura going on. Like the confidence I walked with and how I spoke helped me out a lot more.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 08:22 PM
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Source... the red pill go read the sidebar. I may have exaggerated a bit because a man with confidence, mental fortitude would be on top of self care automatically increasing them up to at least a 5-7. I get it’s easy to say the worlds black if I’m not born into something I have permission to give up and be a bitch. If you swallow the pill and go through the stages you will realize woman have natural behaviorism, genetically encoded expectations in a mate, and you can use your abilities to get w…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 07:19 PM
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Lol you truly believe you absolutely maxed yourself out? Sure the world can be harsh and people live with the cards u are dealt but no reason to have a negative mindset and give up. You’ll always be able to grow yourself or improve some aspect of your life. Fuck what other people are born with or what they have focus on you. You create your own happiness it’s not determined by anyone else.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 07:48 PM
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Guys it’s really simple. Girls care about your confidence and mental fortitude more than just your aesthetic looks. In reality girls should be the ones who are black pilled. Most Men will not even give you a shot if your a 5/10 (no matter your personality or what u have going for u). Yet for men if your the most confident mother fucker in the world that’s witty with game you can still score a 10/10 as a 2/10.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 04:54 PM
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Chad is a mindset thing. Be the most attractive guy with incel mentality and your still be a loser that has a hard time getting laid. “ITS A MINDSET THING” - Eric Bugenhagen
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 05:48 PM
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Start working out and stop making excuses. Teach yourself to get comfortable while being uncomfortable. Beat and control your ego don't let it control you. Look into Stoicism. Your pitying yourself and using that as an excuse to not better yourself and push yourself to your limits. Your a well of untapped potential. Start lifting with dedication and goals. Message me for my story if you want
/r/seduction12/09/19 11:35 PM
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Rule of thumb unless you’ve fucked you usually never mention sex with her directly. You can talk about sex and if it becomes about with you guys go that way. But like I said before go out on a small date of sorts and escalate without ever telling her “let’s fuck” have your actions show it. Girls want it to “just happen”
/r/seduction29/07/19 08:49 PM
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The ultimate orbiter lmfao. Good comedy sketch
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 01:08 PM
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Should of asked for her number so u guys could talk more over coffee sometime. You used martial arts to open her up if she is obviously into you she probably canceled because you came at it from a group activity like your being nice. Seems like she was looking for something more personal. Or maybe she just wasn’t into you or didn’t want to continue. Either way don’t let it hit your ego just continue learning and growing.
/r/seduction29/07/19 12:59 PM
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Invite her over or go over her place. If she thinks that’s to fast go grab something to eat, drink, mini date that leads back to your place. You have both agreed that you’ll be fuck buddies this isn’t that hard. Meet up and have sex lol
/r/seduction29/07/19 12:55 PM
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That’s an easy choice you go. My buddy invited me out to a country music concert with a rented out bus. Now Country music is my least enjoyed genre of music but I still went. Leaving the house and attending an event not only makes yourself feel better and productive but it gives you an excuse to talk to girls. What happened with me? I never even went to the concert the girl wanted to stay on the bus to makeout with me and get handsy. Needless to say I got myself a girl. The choice is yours stay …
/r/seduction09/07/19 06:41 PM
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That’s to bad my guy! Look keep your head up and look straight. What your feeling is ego pain but in reality nothings changed and you left with more experience. Growth is all that matters in this life. Grow your self socially, with game, in your career, in the gym, and never stop improving yourself. Focus on yourself always! Go out there and find yourself someone else to flirt with and talk to. If she wasn’t buying what your selling someone will there is billions of people on the planet keep sho…
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:29 PM
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Pull that trigger. If she comes to your place and your one on one that’s an unspoken “yeah I’m cool with where ever this goes” as long as your not super creepy about it and go through it confidently it should go well. Enjoy the gal my guy you got this! Don’t try and get to involved with what she does. When she gives you reasons to get involved you can join her in volunteering and that’s if you care about it too. Don’t change who you are for her
/r/seduction30/06/19 04:08 AM
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Sounds like she wants you and is trying to get you to make a move. If it’s not to late already make a move. If you wait to long she will dry up and no longer want you like that. Decide what you want, if you want her then make a move. If you don’t and just want her to remain a friend then get that shit out your head and find another girl to fuck around with. Just make a move my guy. If your afraid of losing her because you want her as a friend I would interpret you want a friend. If your afraid o…
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:48 PM
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No don’t text her you want to be more. Show it with your actions. Let it build into it. Telling her what you want forces her to make a decision. Girls don’t like making decisions make it for her. Plus it also gives the power up over to her. Pull away (if you can’t stop thinking of her means your not busy enough or talking to enough girls) and try and set something up where u can escalate. If you feel like your gonna get friend zoned it’s because your caring to much about her approval and how you…
/r/seduction18/06/19 06:06 PM
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