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[–]One-Hedgehog4722 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You made out and she comes over all the time but not sure where you are with her? Cmon man lol
[–]hunterpua 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
You only come off as needy when you're the kind of guy who'd need a few months to find another girl.
If you're the kind of guy who can get a new one in a few hours then it doesn't really matter whether you initiate cuddling or not, all your other behaviors will naturally imply to her that you aren't cuddling with her because you want to hold on to her like your life depends on it, you're just doing it because you like cuddling.
It's kinda like food, when you're starving you'll want food but when you've been eating regularly you'll still want food. In both situations you want food but the motivations behind why are very different.
Don't worry about trying to manufacture this false image of abundance, worry about creating real abundance because you'll never come off as needy when you have that.
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[–]Calamity__Bane 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This.
[–]JacobMoogberg69 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Does she want to cuddle your dick with the walls of her vagina?
[–]Calamity__Bane 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Initiate it
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it’s time to fuck.
[–]rickygervaisfax -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s shy or something bro if she opens up when u initiate then keep initiating
[–]dark_helmt8 -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep initiating and escalating, you have her in your hands. I always use my "house rules" too. Rule 1: no bras allowed because I hare them. Rule 2: she cant wear clothes because I demand easy access. Rule 3: Its a man's world and she'll do what I say or else spanking. Just work your way up to each rule. Going down on her like a pro tends to open up many doors too. Good luck!
[–]justmuro 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Escalate escalate escalate. If she feels uncomfortable or rushed respect it and slow it down. Go back to what’s comfortable and revisit later on during the time u spend together. If she really isn’t accepting back off for a bit.
Girls just want to feel comfortable around you. For them it’s a requirement before sex.
My opinion is she wants more and likes your vibes. Men’s responsible to initiate the next step/sex 90% of the time.
[–]dobbs1997 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
how do you NOT know where you are with this girl?
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