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[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 77 points78 points79 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My situation is way worse..
Beyonce sleeps with Jay every single day, dude
What do i do with that?
[–]Sokalb3 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
😂😂😂 for real
[–][deleted] 31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You shouldnt care because you should be with other girls too
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah great advice, where are those other girls going to come from, and how does one seduce them?
[–]ORIONFULL23 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nothing my dude, this girl and you aren't exclusive !
[–]5_7pickup 29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
she for the streets fam
[–]Shadoweddy 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Firstly, sorry you saw that. I know it sucks.
Feeling jealous is normal. But if you’re not dating or have agreed to be exclusive, she has no reason to not be doing what she is doing.
Just say to yourself that she is missing out and go hook up with other girls.
[–]ur8moms 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is she your girlfriend? Why does it matter? Act like nothing happened because whatever she does in her own time doesn’t affect you
[–]quantumandqualia -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bullshit.
She’s not going to respect this. She either expects a consequence and is shit testing him or she doesn’t care if he sees because she doesn’t take the relationship seriously.
Either way, his response needs to be commensurate with a display of substantive self respect and dignity. He needs to cool off and retract attention.
[–]SlevinLe 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ignore this, dont mention it. Hang out with other girls and hook up.
[–]quantumactual 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
If you can’t treat her as a fuck buddy or FWB, don’t bother wasting your time lol. RUN for the hills, and don’t look back.
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
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[–]quantumactual 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Like I said, if you can’t treat her like a fuck buddy, which it doesn’t seem like you can because you assume she’s ‘wifey’ material, then yes, you should run for the hills.
[–]Brakb 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, that's not "wifey material" lol
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[–]Brakb 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You do you. I wouldn't be interested in a girl that's tweeling on some other guy while talking to me. Really disrespectfum tbh.
"but we weren't exclusive" and "we'll never be" is what I'd think is the best reaction.
Regardless : if you want to go for it, go for it.
[–]LandSharkRoyale 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never LDR
[–]TheGoatLives24 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Red flag, y'all live in different states....youre playing yourself. You Cant expect her to wait for you when youre not even nearby. Girls are always being chased and have options. Cant blame her.
[–]Shanbaceball 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup i do and im 38 F the chasing never ends we have lots of options so better to not care about and focus on other relationships
[–]Agreable_Actuator84 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What is your goal or desires end state? Are you just trying to tap it once or a few short weeks? Are you thinking you’d want to wife her up? Just trying to see if there is chemistry? What?
She has already demonstrated she doesn’t think you and your feelings are worth thinking about. Act accordingly. Go out, have fun, meet more people. Don’t punish her or shame her but adjust your expectations of the relationship and it’s potential.
[–]kingaljo_rn 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Shes fucking other dudes. U gotta move on
[–]Queasy-Ostrich-358 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude, I think you're starting to experience oneitis. I'm basing that on the red flags here such as her living in different state, and you calling her wife material.
So what I'd say is focus on yourself, stay healthy vibrant and continue meeting women. If she does come around and you hook up that's great but it seems like you're not thinking straight (no offense).
[–]MalibuProducer77 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This right here
Dude, y'all are in 2 DIFFERENT STATES. I swear to God if you take this serious and are always wondering what guys she might be talking to, you played yourself. Why are you doing this to yourself?Take your ass and go find some other girls IN YOUR AREA. Jesus Christ help me, and him!!! And when you do find another girl, if you can't at least hookup/be a FWB with her, leave her alone and try again with more girls. It's literally a numbers game for us guys. And stay in the gym along with focusing on your purpose until something comes along. Men have to operate on these certain principles well because, we're men, we are not females!
[–]ZidaneLoire 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You need to emotionally disengage from this girl. She's fooling around alright.
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[–]justmuro 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you have that thought going on in your head then I’m pretty sure you answered your own question. She ain’t relationship material.
[–]ZidaneLoire 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not bad, just that if you let yourself have feelings for someone who doesn't see you the same way, you're gonna have a bad time. She's gonna crush your little heart.
She wants you, yes, but clearly not exclusively or not as first choice. Her actions tell you exactly what you need to know, remember that. Like someone here said, mixed signals are clear signals.
[–]huntersnipern 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Best advice is to move on and talk to other girls
[–]huntersnipern 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The best way to get over this is go out and find some other girls and get laid. If what she did bothers you this much then I think you are being possessive. I also wouldn't mention any of your feelings about that video to her it will make you look like a creep.
[–]GodsGunman 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For all you know she's doing what she does to you to 10 other guys. And that seems likely based on what you've shared. You don't have anything special with her, sorry dude but time to wake up and smell the flowers
[–]TheGoatLives24 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She's for the streets. Dont get your hopes too high with any chick. Do you. Hit the gym. Get sexier. When is your turn, hit it then toss her to the side. She's for the streets.
[–]MalibuProducer77 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
THIS!
[–]Western-Trade-7553 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It just makes you know that she won't be your wife. Doesn't mean she can't be a hookup
[–]Western-Trade-7553 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You can't turn a hoe into a housewife
[–]MalibuProducer77 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Someone tell op this please
[–]AwakenedIndividual 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Icole
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