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| 29 | Get Ready For Happenings To Start Happeningat this point I don't care, I'm already supremely F'd based on my past hahaha | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/21 06:31 PM |
| 47 | Get Ready For Happenings To Start HappeningAnyone who posts anti-woke content OR HAS IN THE PAST, even anomalously, is future-fucked. Software is now getting intelligent enough to the point where it can can mine your digital imprint from the inception of internet and provide a dashboard of your posts/etc based on correlations between your username history. that can be used a "social currency". aka everyone will eventually be DOXXED. That one hyerbolic post you made in a fit of anger 14 years ago when you were 20 after finding out your fi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Maximum Potential Physical Attractiveness - does it matter?I'll clarify - I'm happy with myself and the way I look personally. I'm fit, dress well, take care of my health. It's moreso just getting to the root cause of things and being aware of limitations. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Maximum Potential Physical Attractiveness - does it matter? style/haircut/facial hair (this is the one that most directly impacts looks. yes preselection (create the perception that other women want you). not so much - women know I date but I don't have up front markers such as a lot of comments on social media/etc. success markers (or potential for success). yes - I'm in great shape, talented, career with a good trajectory/house. Nothing extraordinary but probably above average for my age. “fame” or notoriety of some kind. don't have this “game” or ba… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Maximum Potential Physical Attractiveness - does it matter?Yeah that's thing I was hoping for - that when I dropped my bodyfat it would help - unfortunately it didn't really. Ok if I PM you some pics and you can take a look? | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)those are exceptions to the rule. in general, the asians I know are simply not attractive, objectively, compared to white people. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/20 05:40 PM |
| 4 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)Lots of detail, and I agree with a decent amount, but I think the dislike for certain races mostly comes down to pure objective looks differences. Are women not attracted to Asian because of "durrrr stereotypes" or because Asian men are typically just NOT ATTRACTIVE. Most Asian men I know have overly neotenous features such as small frames, babyface, lack of body and facial hair, and are simply not facially attractive. this seems to apply to other non-white races. Furthermore, there is little yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/20 01:42 PM |
| 6 | How do you guys fight emotional investment?this. consistently work on yourself. health, career/hobbies,friends. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 02:00 PM |
| -3 | The "Insatiable Alpha Window"It's far more dangerous to be compared to that ONE guy that has it all that send her tingle meter to meteoric heights. It's that 7/10 girl who mostly dated the young entrepreneur owning his own house, college athlete, local popular chef, who then spends 2 months being the play toy of a 6 foot 2 ripped businessman worth 30 million dollars owning his own penthouse that used to be D1 athlete, has two puppies, and you can sure as hell is charismatic and smooth in person. Takes her up to his penthous… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/20 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Allowing women to shittest you & wondering/caring if you pass or not is a Beta Trait. Change my mind?others said it. mindset and frame. You'd rather devote your time and energy to other things. she doesn't take up mental space in your head since she has not deserved it yet - you probably barely know her. whether or not you pass or not pass the shit test becomes irrelevant at this point, since you have more important things to focus on and more women/people to talk to. example: at a bar, women gives you a huge shit test. you slip up, but instead of freaking out about it and creating a post on re… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 02:27 PM |
| 24 | Imagine paying for a thot's mealAnd if you complain about this happening, people will tell you "WHAT, ARE YOU SAYING SHE OWES YOU SOMETHING JUST FOR TAKING HER OUT?" | /r/MGTOW | 13/05/20 02:19 PM |
| 11 | Hey fellas just a little experiment I decided to doIt is. I probably hit around that in the first week. keep in mind it drops after that. but of course, when people find out I sometimes post on MGTOW, they immediately call me "misogynist who can't get women who lives in his parents' basement". I make well over 6 figure and live in my own house and have a constant supply if I want to - I just have other priorities. And then I tell them that I enjoy female company, and treat everyone with equal level of respect, and consider dates "adventures" for… | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/20 08:38 PM |
| 9 | Alimony for your ex-girlfriendprobably has to pay for the classes, which are expensive AF, to support wahmen running them, in addition to child support payments, of course, after tax payments to the gubernment as well. | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/20 08:26 PM |
| 1 | IronicYup all about outward displays of wealth. doesn't matter what actual wealth you have. I remember after graduating I CHOSE to live in a cheaper small apartment near the city instead of a luxury apartment that most people my age rented when I was 24. I made 80K a year but CHOSE to only spend only 650 a month on a 1 bedroom studio (this is back in 2010 when they were cheaper). I remember some girls would come to my place and visibly be turned off by the fact that I chose to live in a (still good) s… | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/20 07:22 PM |
| 4 | What's a thing you strongly dislike about Reddit ?"there, there, good little cuck. good boy. good boy" | /r/MGTOW | 01/04/20 12:21 PM |
| 3 | What are you goals in life?By 36 (I’m 33) make 200k working <40 hours (I’m at 140k now) STAY shredded hone my hobbies (piano/guitar). My goal is play a piece with a college symphony orchestra. I currently can play most level 8 pieces (henle) and have a great teacher (yes this is a hobby) maintain my close family and good friendships start giving back to the community (once I hit these goals). Can be donations or time. I want to mentor youth. pay down the rest of my debt, get rid of PMI. 300k in retirement (yes I’m a bit b… | /r/MGTOW | 08/03/20 03:22 PM |
| 15 | How to handle 19 y/o chicksIts not worth it if you are past your mid twenties. I can't even related to them. me: hey, nice shirt! do you happen to get it in thailand? 19yr old: uhhh noo Me: I would see it alot when I was traveling in thailand, it orginated from buddhist traditions. 19yr old: omg thailand I always to travel, look at my insta! do you have a tiktok..check out this tiktok dancing vid me and my uh like besties took omg ik love tik tok. sorry my friend venmo me #yolo #tiktokcrew4life Me: I dont use instagram mu… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 03:57 PM |
| 4 | Women and their dogsI've noticed this too and I get slammed for it. SO many women I know will I actually dislike kids (to the core), will never have kids, will avoid kids and people with kids, and sprout about how childree is the way to go. Yet, they have 3 dogs they treat basically like children and take to doggydaycare, have instagram counts around, and buy chitloads of outfits for. its like some weird ass misdirected maternal instinct. Women being disgusted by miniature offspring of their own fucking race (which… | /r/MGTOW | 10/01/20 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Gf said she is more attracted to mind, energy than looks and said a friend was objectively more beautiful than me.say "ok cool". and then move on. it will drive her insane. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 09:41 PM |
| 10 | The One Red Pill I Can See You Still Haven't SwallowedI think we all need to address the motivation behind why we want to get better. lets face it, for a lot of us, being with hotter women IS the most effective emotional driver. and hey, if its what you needto kick your ass in gear, why not use it? its what got my jump started on lifting 5 years ago and my ass into the gym when I didnt want to. its what finally motivated me to confront my fears. of course, I dont do those things solely for women, but now I have the habits in place to continue them … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/19 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Men are inevitably trapped in a game of dominationim with this guy here. its not black and white, and its more about frame. if this were true, 6'5" bouncers would get laid easily just be going around kicking everyones ass. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/19 02:57 PM |
| 6 | Why have male attraction standards for looks increased so much relative to female standards?the mechanisms which allow for efficiency and expansion of exposure to more men (dating apps, instagram,etc) coupled with the openness of promiscuity and villifcation of any shaming (slut example), with the final added psycho-evolutionary catalysit - hypergamy. a womens' attraction to men is "hard coded" to always seek for something better, and this is manifested through the concious decisions/emotions etc, whether they are aware of it or not. aka hypergamy. A mans is relatively stable. i.e … | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Real talk, I haven’t been approached by girls (only two come to mind but that’s years ago). Should I accept that maybe I’m not attractive or should I take more of the initiative?women only really approach the top 1%. yes, the top 1% I'm talking 6'2", nicely dressed, muscular, gleaming jaw, eyes. that one-two "omg hot guy" at the gym out of 200 people. the kind of guy women stop and turn around it. If you were ever questioning your looks, you are not this guy. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 07:44 PM |
| 11 | [Basics] Hypergamyin the absence of no clear higher value man, hypergamy will rig her subconcious mind will find weak points in her current man to "lower his value" in order to make another man appear of higher value to her. then, she will do the same to that other man. Even if you are objectively the highest value man, you will still lose to her internal hypergamy justification engine. | /r/MGTOW | 04/04/19 12:51 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]you're thinking about it too much. do your own thing, and text when you are free, but show you are interested. the very fact that you are care so much means its consuming your thoughts and affecting your interactions. it means you are subconsiouly in the frame of "I need to prove myself" to her when messaging, EVEN if you conciously say you are not. you need to attack this problem from within first. once you are fulfilled and content with your own directions and plans and activites and gain … | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Women treat dating apps like chat roulette, agree or disagree?yes, just perpetaute the the need for only men to continue to be more inteerersting, funny, stand out, until we basically you have to be a stand up comedian in order to land a 5/10 girl.. don't be a part of the problem! | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 01:45 PM |
| 3 | MGTOW Moment At A Local Baryeah, height I Can see. also you were probably experiencing an extreme ego driven women, which is someone you dont want to be involved with anyways. The reason why these "ignore them and they will come" posts frusrate is because Ive spent long periods focusing on myself (as a quasi mgtow), I can focus like fucking laser beam on something, its how Ive been able to get far on my career/hobbies/exercise etc. but I dont have all these women coming up to me or showing interest beacuse of it. we all w… | /r/MGTOW | 14/03/19 03:18 PM |
| 2 | MGTOW Moment At A Local BarIm sorry, but your looks are playing a factor. again, a women needs a reason to pay attention to you and notice. she isnt going to want her notice you unless she already has some vested interest in you. if you are sitting on a train, the only information she is receiving is your looks. its your looks. enjoy it, but dont people that women will "follow" them if they ignore them. | /r/MGTOW | 14/03/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself". How-to Guide.This is a lovely approach, if you are ALREADY attractive. women need to have a reason to gravitate towards you, sexually. what happens when you are not attractive but women still want to gravitate towards you? - friendzone. I'm very mission driven. I work on my career, passions, projects, etc, and am genuinely a content person. I can comfortably talk to people. Im not serious ALL the time, I value my relationships and friendships and go out and have fun. however, I'm average at best (in look… | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | dates are WAY more serious and I run into WAY more LMR now versus 2-3 years agoOh I am. I have had to lay it down thick this time!! But still it’s harder. I think the other posters have hit it on the head | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 10:36 PM |
| 6 | Modern young women are totally broken beyond repairlevel headed ones that don't operate like this exist, but they are mostly taken by their mid twenties. for the rest, you have to be ruthlessly effiicient. only go out with a women if you find her attractive or she has some potential value. on the date, make it as low cost and "efficient" as possible. meet for happy hour at a bar close to your place. if there is any hints of entitlement/etc/, tell her that you had a good time, but that its time for you to split. split the check. Think about t… | /r/MGTOW | 07/03/19 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Interesting..yeah. how far will the division go? its crazy. unlimited sexual freedom = stigma being promscuity stripped away. promiscuity is now TRENDY + access to thousands of men, picking the top ones (via apps) Hypergamy released on an insane scale. Women are literally getting HIGH and euphoric off of these experiences and validation. but what goes up must come down. its the brain's natural balance. you can KEEP getting higher, otherwise you'd reach dopamine nirvana and your brain would implode fr… | /r/MGTOW | 23/01/19 09:31 PM |
| 3 | I feel like I've had a mental "breakthrough", and I thought I'd sharebut HOW do you know what actual VALUE you are at? and what VALUE of women that commands? Sure, people assess themselves as better than they actually are, especially in terms of skills and attractiveness.. BUT, at the same time, women often shoot for men above them. I've been struggling immensely with this. I think I am, objectively better than most men (top 10% body, top 10% salary, above average intelligence, average height), however, I still completely fail to attract decently attractive w… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Gillette's expectations vs. realityThe problem is you cannot take the true nature out of men. masculinity is always somewhat inherent in our programming, hardwired from evolution. you can socialize it out, but this only re-directs it, doesnt get rid of it. this is why you have incel shooters and visibly angry incels - but there isnt a "women incel shooter". the stark inconsistencies and hypocrisy that this society has created are self evident and painfullly obvious. | /r/MGTOW | 22/01/19 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Hahahahahahahahahaha.........Jesus, what did you expect. Imagine being told by women that its all about your personality, respecting women, and supporting feminism, only to see them continously smash hot CHADS and fuckboys that degrade them in the bedroom. then when you ask them "you like it when CHAD spanks you and calls you degrading things in bed, and only wants you for sex..isnt that toxic?", they go "stop. stop. we dont owe you ANYTHING, its all about my choice and freedom". Your mind starts spinning so hard from the c… | /r/MGTOW | 22/01/19 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Interesting..its insane. I Actually posted my picture on "reddit truerateme", which is EXTREMELY harsh on judging people. they grade on tight bell curve where being a 6/10 means you are top 10%, 7/10 is top 1-5%. most men get 3-5 on there, occasionally. My rating was 6-7 (I have a great body, decent face), and I usually only match with fat girls on bumble/tinder. | /r/MGTOW | 21/01/19 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Interesting..this, its closer to 95/5. I'm not hot but I'm a little bit above average and stay in awesome shape and Its like pulling teeth to get a date with a non-fat girl on tinder/bumble. One ever two weeks if I really really try. | /r/MGTOW | 18/01/19 09:06 PM |
| 15 | State of Mind Mastery Part II: Relentless PositivenessI fail to understand why there is so much hatred and vitreol towards the red pill site (the typical "misogynist" neckbeard losers comments"), when I come here and find thought out well written posts like this which state the issue, break down the problem, and devise a well thought out solution to correct it. alot of this stuff doesnt only apply to women as well. I feel like from the outside, red pill is communicated like "grbrbbrbbr WOMEN grbbbgbg I HATE THEM AND grbrr TAKE AWAY ALL THEIR RIGH… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/18 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Growth requires recognizing when we are below averagerace is a huge factor, and being of a lower demanded race is an area which places white people as higher and even where people of your own race prefer white people puts you at a huge disadvantage. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/18 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Growth requires recognizing when we are below averageI don' compare my sexual success to my personal growth, because I know they are a function of different things, some things you cannot change. I'm pretty damn in shape, make top 5-10% for my age, and am genuinely confident in myself. However, I still have pretty lackluster success with dating because of my looks. not terrible. I still succeed, but the effort required is a lot. If you took the average white guy and put him through the same stuff I've improved in, he would probably be slaying WA… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/18 06:54 PM |
| 12 | How do you guys not let nihilism consume you?This. I'm a big foodie, play guitar, love to travel, and just sit back. its not a bad life. if you can't pursue meaning through non hedonistic goals just focus on the hedonistic ones. if old ones bore you, try new ones. just have fun and do random shit all day. who cares? want to take a road trip to canada one day from minnesota jusst for fun? do it!! want to try to eat the 72oz prime ribeye in one sitting for the grand prize. do it! want to fill your bathtub with beer just to see if you… | /r/MGTOW | 31/10/18 06:17 PM |
| 6 | My experiment with dating apps to prove to my friends and family why I went my own way.to all the deniers here who don't believe it, OPS story is VERY TYPICAL and NOT HYPERBOLE. how do I know? I have a few good female friends and have seen their online dating behaviors and who they talk to on those apps in person. one of them keeps getting burned, she showed me her phone and she is talking to about 20 men, all of which who are 8/10 MINIMUM. a few of them look like legit male models straight out of a magazine. I'm talking "6'2". pictures professionally taken. some in a suit. … | /r/MGTOW | 26/10/18 03:10 PM |
| 9 | I hate when society (especially women) keep telling me how I need a girlfriendyeah, I wouldve loved to have a girlfriend, but none of them thought I was "good enough" for them, for reasons that have nothing to do with character, common interests, loyalty, partnership. fuck em' I've learned to be happy with myself | /r/MGTOW | 23/10/18 01:36 PM |
| 3 | There will always be plenty of dudes more thirsty than you.online dating, where you can be an objectively accomplished "catch" after working on yourself for 5+ years but get rejected by a 5'5" women because you are only 5'10" online dating, wherea women doesn't like the in seam stitching of your shirt in one of your otherwise great other 10 photos and rejects you online dating, like cold applying for jobs in the middle of the recession and continually getting passed up for jobs that are shiny on the outside but are actually overqualified positions w… | /r/MGTOW | 23/10/18 01:35 PM |
| 68 | Shit tests are normal and expected, but don't they turn you off sometimes, or is that just me?when they are warranted, i'm fine with them. however, if some 23 year old barista with a sociology degree and 100K in debt feels the need to test my value to see if I'm "good enough" for her when all she offers is something she never earned (her looks), then I just flat out ignore her or ream it back right at her if something comes to mind. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 04:23 PM |
| 25 | Why friendzones have nothing to do with actual friendshipsYup. They will always leave you to priorize their imperative. EVEN if they are a decent girl that does maintain a good friendship (Being loyal, not taking advantage of you, having your back, etc), that friendship is doomed to fail. What happens when she needs to settle down and start a family. her priority will be family. that means moving careers, being with her husband, and eventually kids. and you suddenly can't hang out with her 1:1 becuase its "weird" because she is married. You could kno… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/18 02:05 PM |
| 30 | Feminist: I wish I was born a man. Men have it so easyWhen you say "I cannot find a job!" when you have a PHD and 15 years of experience, when in reality, you could get a job flipping burgers the next day. but you dont want a job "beneath you" When you say "finding a house is so tough in this market", when in reality, you could easily find a run down basic house in a shitty neighborhood for 50 grand. but you dont want to live somewhere "beneath you" What does this say about this situation? that most women conider 99% of men "beneath them". we a… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/18 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Hope for MGTOWS that are lonely. create goals, stay busy, stick to them. make a 5 year plan. life WILL get awesome.I don't have the IMAGE of status. I live in a modest house, drive a regular car. I dress nice but that is about it. I'd rather save money and retire early. and 140K a year isn't really THAT much for someone my age. hop on tinder and match and a girl can choose from attorneys and doctors that make more than me and look better than me. its hypergamy in action. the female friends I have are mostly from back in college or shortly after. most of them are already settled down, and are also successfu… | /r/MGTOW | 28/09/18 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Message After 1st date....i ghostedits just compensating for being hurt/etc in the past. people with real self esteem have no need to vocalize it to everyone. | /r/MGTOW | 27/09/18 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Hope for MGTOWS that are lonely. create goals, stay busy, stick to them. make a 5 year plan. life WILL get awesome.There are SO many simple life skills that should be taught from an early age to kids. things as simple as cooking a simple meal and basic problem practical problem solving. I'm thinking something like this: Your 6 year old son comes to you and says "I want pizza for dinner". You ask him "what kind". he says "One with pepperonis and cheese". you tell him "ok, look in the fridge, what do we need for the pizza" he says cheeze? pepperoni? sauce? then you walk him through the process. a… | /r/MGTOW | 27/09/18 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Hope for MGTOWS that are lonely. create goals, stay busy, stick to them. make a 5 year plan. life WILL get awesome.the funny thing is that when you undergo massive self improvement, suddenly your standards for the kind of women you want rise. you are going to want someone that really complements your life and someone that you are willing to give up your precious time for. you sit back, look at the fact that most women out there are banking on one quality -their looks to provide value. on top of that, they are acting like they are god's gift to the earth for being born with something that has little to do w… | /r/MGTOW | 27/09/18 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Hope for MGTOWS that are lonely. create goals, stay busy, stick to them. make a 5 year plan. life WILL get awesome.well no women don't chase after me period, even after I've gotten pretty far. it's because they only chase after what they see and know. I don't drive a fancy car. I have a modest sized house. I dress well but that's about it. I'm in very shape but Im not 6 foot tall muscular hunk. Im not super active on social media. To most women, I am just another face in the crowd. | /r/MGTOW | 26/09/18 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Hope for MGTOWS that are lonely. create goals, stay busy, stick to them. make a 5 year plan. life WILL get awesome.I don't think it is unreasonable to not choose a women because she is overweight/obese when I value physical fitness/being in shape in another partner. that's all I am saying. also, you have to remember that women are far more selective when it does come to physical criteria, contrary to popular opinion. you can change weight. you can't change height/face/etc. a lot of women will discount men that are too short. back to your statement, yes it is a bit hypocritical, but also reasonable. | /r/MGTOW | 26/09/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Hope for MGTOWS that are lonely. create goals, stay busy, stick to them. make a 5 year plan. life WILL get awesome.yeah, maybe your life will look diffeerent. maybe your vision of what makes you happy will look different than mine. why don't your pursue that? youre world, the world is amoral. for the most part no one cares about your efforts. then why not just game the world? use it for your own hedonistic desires? surely that sounds better than just sulking. but if sulking truly make you feel good, go for it. | /r/MGTOW | 26/09/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Hope for MGTOWS that are lonely. create goals, stay busy, stick to them. make a 5 year plan. life WILL get awesome.I have a lot of female friends. It also helped me see the true struggle women have when it comes to what their instincts want and what they should have. It's real. all the crazy stories you here. the biggest "red pill" I learned from hanging out with female friends when they were drunk is that looks, image, and status matter the most when it comes to attaction. period. notice I said attraction - a lot of women will marry the guy they are not as attracted to if its someone who has common interest… | /r/MGTOW | 26/09/18 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Hope for MGTOWS that are lonely. create goals, stay busy, stick to them. make a 5 year plan. life WILL get awesome.correct. I did not even know what MGTOW was 5 years ago. all I did was make the decision to become an improved person, irrespective of what I wanted out of women. I guess you could call me "MGTOW" now, if you define that as someone who had made a decision to not invest and energy outside his normal goals/activities for women. If someone comes along, I'm not going to flat out refuse it. but Im not about go to out to the clubs/bars/online dating with the intention of trying to find someone | /r/MGTOW | 26/09/18 07:01 PM |
| 8 | Hope for MGTOWS that are lonely. create goals, stay busy, stick to them. make a 5 year plan. life WILL get awesome.yes. the real power is small incremental improvements over a long period of time (5+ years). once you realize that, a lot of things are possible. for me, it was AWESOME the first weeks/months of grinding out my goals/tasks. after that, the momentum started decreasing, probably because I had not accomplished anything substational yet and I was relying just on pure motivation from emotions I had experienced when I had my "epiphany". with all new stimuli, your body gets used to it and it decrease… | /r/MGTOW | 26/09/18 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Guys 25 and under, do you feel like social media is a must have when it comes to dating?I have better things to do than maintain my social media presence. I have a snapchat, facebook, and instagram, but only use them to connect with people, not to exert effort into increasing likes/followers. as such, sometimes women will be weirded out that I only have "15 likes" on my instagram photos. Those women are usually the ones with the most validation and daddy issues anyways. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 01:29 PM |
| 4 | is the fact that I have a modest place going to influence my status to woman?principal engineer for med device company. if you thought this was bad, I used to live in a tiny apartment, while I accelerated paying down my loans and saving for a house downpayment like 3 years ago. my income on dating sites was ">100,000" and women would think im lying because they would come back to my tiny 500 sq foot studio old style apartment lol | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 02:37 PM |
| 10 | The perfect example of how an alpha widow feels.this has to be fake. its just tooooooo textbook. "He was the stereotypical super-handsome ‘bad boy’ player and I’m the stereotypical shy little Plain Jane who bit off more than she could chew. He just wanted me for sex at first but ended up liking me a little more than that while I got super attached. I know it’s 100% my fault for sleeping with a guy who I knew didn’t and wouldn’t care and I truly blame myself for this. It still doesn’t help this emptiness I feel" | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 01:50 PM |
| 7 | Why do girls agree to dates if they’re just gonna flake?1: options 2: they don't have a personal connection with you yet. you are just an item in a catalogue. funny thing, you think they would learn. After getting pumped and dumped by the HAWT guys. however, now their new "threshold" is set and they no longer find men at their OWN DAMN LEVEL attractive. attraction to men due to female hypergamy is indepedent of their own value. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 03:01 PM |
| 73 | Efforts to ban TRP have surfaced once againthe banning of TRP sounds like a massive scale shit test. TRP was the kick in the balls action plan I needed. I'm making more money, stronger (lifting), and attracting more women. all the chit I didnt believe was possible I tried and its TRUE. women like dominant men, you have to act more dominant. most women can become promiscuous and will do the dirtiest of things. women shoot for the top % and will withold sex from a beta man while smashing a alpha in a back alley after 10 minutes. I have f… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/18 01:39 PM |
| 2 | What Women Will Doare these personal stories from one person? thing is, don't except to just workout out, change your wardrobe, and get results like this. you need game, and you need to improve your looks to the point where it matters. for some men, there is a CHAD under that fat exterior that will get you results like the above. for the rest of us, expect modest results. nevertheless, make the effort. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Considering going MGTOW. Need an opinionMy mission has always been #1. however, the women havn't "magically come". you know why? because they don't have to approach. they get inundated with so much attention, they are habitually trained to sit back. only you are a top top guy (1%), you will likely not get approached by women. the main fallacy of the red pill sub reddit and a lot of other dating advice is that if you work on yourself, have fun, improve yourself, women will start selecting you. that does not apply to most guys, only… | /r/MGTOW | 07/09/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Considering going MGTOW. Need an opinionI never really labeled myself MGTOW. I just realized that that was the direction I was heading naturally. | /r/MGTOW | 07/09/18 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Considering going MGTOW. Need an opiniondid you understand my post? good. than I don't really care. and I'm an engineer, grammer and prose are the last things on my mind ;) | /r/MGTOW | 07/09/18 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Considering going MGTOW. Need an opinionyeah, I cannot imagine having to give up a huge chunk of my free time to commit to wife/kids/etc just in general, not even mentioning a situation where Im not happy..for the rest of mylife (or risk divorce rape) | /r/MGTOW | 07/09/18 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Considering going MGTOW. Need an opinioncan you explain a little more? is the "noise" all the distractions of attractive women around me? | /r/MGTOW | 07/09/18 01:23 PM |
| -1 | 10mins into the date, she said "we're going to be friends...i just know it"If its the first time meeting between you two and there wasn't too much rapport, then there is absolutely no reason for a woman to explicity say this to you within the first 10 minutes. even if she did not have sexual attraction towards you, woman usually don't vocalize it that soon and wait until later in the date or afterwards. something else is going on here, either in what is going on in her life, or in the actions that brought her to feel like she has to say something like this so early. … | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Considering going MGTOW. Need an opinionits nice man. I Hope you hit the point where you have financial freedom and can freely go about traveling/doing things/etc. its wonderful. Im booking a trip to SE asia next year. three weeks. just bought a nice entertainemtn center and 60 inch OLED TV on a whim - no credit. set some goals, get motivated by the end result, visulize where you want to be and how it makes you FEEL. write it down for when you are in ruts. start attacking every week. over time, you will get there. never put "dat… | /r/MGTOW | 06/09/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Considering going MGTOW. Need an opinionI love trying out new hobbies. I have life ADHD. ive been taken up cooking, cocktail making, brewing, been playing guitar and piano since I was a kid. there is always stuff I can fill up my life with | /r/MGTOW | 06/09/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | My gf exhibits inappropriate behavior around homosexual mensome girls who are very touchy/playful will treat their gay friends like they treat their best girl friends when they are drunk/uninhibited and being ultra weird/playful. Im talking kissing/ass slapping, etc. checking out each others privates in a playful way (dead fucking serious....you havnt seen girls comparing their "trim" jobs), down to downright silly tehehe handjobs (omg its a penis...omg....can I rub it....its okay cuz you are gay). USUALLY it isnt sexual at all, just pure ridiculous s… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 09:17 PM |
| 9 | Girls out of your leaguewhats "out of your league"? is it the HB9 women on the bus, that also has a coke habit, works as a hairdress living in a tiny studio apartment and had tons of childhood insecurities the Cheerleader with a nice, firm ass, but severe body issues, can't hold down a job, is batshit crazy and has bipolar who can't do anything other than flaunt her body. you'd be surprised, if you really got to know some women, that your opinion on if "they are out of your league" completely changes. yeah, the HB8 bru… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Constant negging from alphaThe only thing worse than a douche negging people and repeating jokes is a douche negging people and repeating jokes and everyone is FAR more receptive to them than when you say it. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with major inadequacy issues caused by inability to attract women (real life evidence)I think part of my issue is that I just don't meet that "threshold" for most women. I'm confident when I talk to people, try to make them feel desired/etc. and this is the guy feedback I generally get from outsiders. but the women just don't bite. I typically get "Friendzoned" in the "cool friendzone" - meaning they hang with me and don't use me for validation/doorstop but make it clear they are not attracted to me from the very beginning. One of my female friends will tell me about so and so gu… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Why do women dislike seeing low-SMV men improve themselves / become successful.agreed | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 02:16 PM |
| 4 | THE ATTRACTION TRINITY: Looks, Money and Status – A Complete GuideOne clarification: Its about the APPEARANCE or MANIFESTATION of money and status, not what one actually possesses. This may seem like a "duh" statement, but consider this: I was living in a kind of cruddy 700 square foot apartment for 6 years while I was making upwards of 100K in order to save money for a house/pay off some student loan debt, as opposed to live in one of those 1300 a month luxury apartments everyone around my income was in. Girls would see my place and I could feel a tinge of "e… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Programming will destroy your social skillsdealing with this struggle in my now. not a programmer but an engineer. LOVE MY JOB. great salary, 401k matching, even have a fucking pension. room for growth, independent work etc etc. none of my coworkers are less than very very intelligent - pushes me etc. but the social atmosphere sucks. i've had to reach out to other functional areas to find people to go out with. men know men know men. no women. Also, after days of straight critical thinking, trying to re-calibrate to social relaxed settin… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/18 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Redpill about fitness industry - Looking for your opinionsAs serious/non serious lifter for 10 years, here are some myths that I have debunked (often times on accident). take it with a grain of salt, as it probably depends on your body type/training/etc. I used to do the 1 gram/bodyweight protein a day. religously. hit a hard financial and life spot, and just phukked the whole protein thing. I got my nutrients and calories, but did NOT pay attention to my protein count. stopped all supplements (creatine, fish oil, zinc, etc). I kept my gym consistency … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/18 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Dangerous Times – Part 3Harems already exist, but they are contained within the "hush" circles of the female community. In the future, they will be openly accepted and made public as status qou. TV shows about groups of women and the select few guys they all date. Dating Apps openly supporting "lead" men and providing them to women. The "alpha fucks" phase being projected as a "trendy" and "necessary" component part of female growth, on the same line as going to prom in high school. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/18 06:10 PM |
| 4 | Gymcel is Real - Dave's Lawwell, if going to the gym doesn't increase your looks to the point where you are objectively and instinctually attractive to women, you aren't going to notice a change. that's it. One of the more insane things I notice at the gym (mostly mid to late twenties to early thirties) is that our gym is composed of two types of people: hot girls that are in great shape in their twenties and early thirties, and decent looking guys that are also in great shape/dress well. After meeting the gym go-ers, I'v… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/17 05:59 PM |
| 8 | Budget bulking for skinny dudes.Ensure that your lifts are going up. if your lifts are going up, you are doing fine. not need to become a bloated bulky fatass and stuff your face. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/17 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Walk into the Bar even when you don't feel like italternatively, have you ever remember a guy strolling into a bar by himself, walking confidentely up to the bar, sitting down, making small talk with the bartender and ordering a drink? yeah, you probably have, and wondered "damn that guy looks confident". | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Just got Redpilled today at the gym with my friends.sympathize with OP, Jesus Christ. He is already "red pilled". He is working on himself and investing time in the gym. What he is REALIZING is the harsh reality of return on investment. Yeah, a 6 foot 2 white guy that has just basic social skills and is skinny as phuck, lives in a 1 bedroom apartment, and has an ok face WILL have more attraction power to a hot blonde than a 5 foot 6 ethnic with a good face who has great game, a house, and a body that graces boxer briefs ads. It's just a phukking … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 12:21 AM |
| 5 | [NO SURPRISES HERE] Chris Pratt and Anna Faris' 'Insane' Split Shocked Friends, Source Says: They Were 'So In Love'agreed. I'm finally growing into my babyface, looking better than ever after keeping in great shape and working out. At 32, apparently any women that is UNDER 23 is OFF LIMITS and "CREEPY". hell, I even get flak for hitting on women that are under the age of 27 etc. if I get anything above 27 its all downhill. why the hell would I date a women with wrinkles/cellulose/bodyfat and a sagging ass when I continue to maintain a six pack and all my hair | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 08:28 PM |
| 19 | Reddit Post of a 18 Years Old Girl. She is asking for kuddos for her N-Count of 100!yup, I am going through the same thing. Im in a high paying job for my age that I love. flexibility. upwards mobility. 120K salary by age 31. too bad its STEM. But, here I am, lifting on the reg, etc, higher SMV than most guys, with no access to women other than tinder/bumble/cold approach. I sometimes end up in situations (once a year) where I am in proxmity (via social circle/etc) to attractive single women and it just reminds me...FUCK....if only I be in more of these situations. Met a group … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/17 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Male identity and lifting - Don’t fall for the rat race.the only way it is "easier" for men is that when we do reach good physical state, we will reap the benefits of it through our fourties, in terms of attraction. And don't get me started on the fact that most women who will stay in great shape, throw on a tight dress will be attractive to most men. irregardless of height/race/etc. not the same for men. a ripped 5'2" guy will always struggle versus a in shape 5'2" girl. Have you ever seen a mid 40's female fitness model? saggy, tan, wrinkly skin. y… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/17 02:53 PM |
| 3 | I can't seem to shake the "adorable" tag women give meIt's due to my race (I am half asian), not T levels. I am on a bottom of a cut now, so my lifts are alot lower (250 bench, 315 squat). I maxed my bench at 270 in the winter. Im 5'10" 175 pounds 10-12% bodyfat now. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Women will never forgive you for your lack of SMV.this is key. MOST guys can improve to the point (after lifting/style/posture) where looks WON'T be the limiting factor for their dating success. I remember thinking I looked like the chit, saw myself in photos and against other men and thinking "wtf, it's like an optical illusion...I suddenly look less attractive". I was less attractive, It wasn't an illusion. Didn't stop me from improving myself and getting laid though. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/17 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Women will never forgive you for your lack of SMV.nothing irks me more than attractive well dressed PUAs selling almost purely on "game" | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 08:18 PM |
| 5 | Women will never forgive you for your lack of SMV.it could be that you aren't simply getting signals. tough pill to swallow - most men (including myself) tend to overrate our attractiveness. I also went from 145-175/180 and am visibly very fit, but the attention I get from women did not change. I'll think I look decent and then see myself in pictures and go "holly cooowww I look wayyyy worse". then again, maybe you just aren't noticing the signals | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 06:30 PM |
| 34 | Women will never forgive you for your lack of SMV.I've been saying this for years, and people are finally catching on. looksmax looksmax looksmax. the social skills required to attract women are literally basic social skills, if you max your looks to the point where you are objectively attractive. if you don't, you are fighting an uphill battle you cannot win. GAME is overemphasized. you don't need it if you are objectively attractive enough. you just need to exist, recognize signals, and escalate appropriately. basic shit | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 03:26 PM |
| 3 | 6 Common Things Women Say To Show Disinterestgod I hate this. have this as well, and its mostly because of the way I look. Being labeled as "nice" after interacting with women is one thing, but being labeled as "nice" before you even open your mouth, based on how you look, is worse. I was at a bar once, my friend started talking to this girl next to me, I'm just chilling. she mentions "your friends just looks so nice, like a good friend, girls need someone with more edge". | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/17 03:03 PM |
| 5 | Cognitive Dissonance: Why you knew TRP all along, but rejected it.man, I remember this mindphuck when I was in my teens and early college years. literal slap in the face "wtf". First one was my first girlfriend. raised pretty bluepill, she was actually very sweet, conservative, from a small town. SUCH a difference than the sloots that were in the dorms. dressed conservatively. waited one month to kiss, and it was just a peck. we would start fooling around, OVER our clothes, and she would freak out and get nervous about it. I was CONVINCED she was a virgin, and… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/17 08:29 PM |
| 2 | What's the secret of plain guys with hot girls?I'm think is potentially a refletion of dualistic strategy by women, and placing men into the "beta", or "alpha bucket". I get it, some of these skinny quiet men with hot girls probably have good game/status,etc. But, I'm going to have to agree with OP, more often than not THEY DON'T There is no seemingly rhyme or reason from an ATTRACTION standpoint why they are with them. which brings me back to my first point. I would almost argue that in some strange ways, you are given less of a change if y… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Girls are attracted to a level of muscularity that is easy to attain and sustain. Lift.as someone who went from 135 pounds 15% bodyfat to 180 pounds 10% bodyfat at 5'10" and competed in mens physique competitions, this is totally true. Guess what, getting laid was NO EASIER now than it was when I was 135 pounds. By that, I mean, I still get approached the same (actually LESS now), the caliber of women that has liked me has stayed the same, the indicators of interest have not gone up. Why? Its the other stuff that matters much more (face, height, race, poise, image), when it comes … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/17 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Stop blaming your ethnicity, it's not the problem.5'8" is not that short he has a good looking face he has confidence and game With any race, this won't be a problem. It's a bit misleading to say that race isn't an excuse for ethnics, and give an example where a guy, irregardless of his race, would be successful with women, for a reason that is painfully obvious and not changeable for most ethnics (your face). Here's whats going to happen, a bunch of ethnics with less than attractive faces are going to think that they can lift, gain a ton of co… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 02:22 PM |
| 14 | Cousin's plot to get marriedyup. Womym culture: Asian guys? NOPE under 6 foot? NOPE Bald? NOPE u go girl! you get the choice, never settle. Guy: Sorry, not attracted to her, she is fat. Girl: UGH, how dare you say that, you cis scum. stop fat shaming! Guy: Hey, at least women can lose weight, you can change that. all the qualities you listed guys can't change. Girl: MISOGYNIST, OPRESSOR, RAPE RAPE | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/17 07:20 PM |
| 9 | Having good looking female friends, is so incredibly sobering with many of the truths here. My experience taking the girls to a concert.GOLD here. CONVERSELY, if you are a sick guitar player, who doesn't look like a musician with TATS and plays non "cool" music, girls won't give a chit. Do you think women get wet for guitar gods like Guthrie Govan, Allen Holdsworth, Eric Johnson, etc? Look up a picture of Allen holdsworth or Eric Johnson. They look like every day people and play in button down t shirts. no tats. no crazy haircut. just look. normal. but insane guitar players. women do NOT get wet for them like the skinny tatted h… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 03:29 PM |
| 1 | March 03 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadProgress: hit the gym consistently again and increased my strength (strongest I've ever been) continued my home renovations plate seemed uninterested in meeting up. Wanted me to drive 50 miles to meet up with her. I drove to her last time. I told her that if she wants to see me she needs to drive to my place. She didn't. But felt great that I decided not to cave in. I ended up having a fun night with my friends. first time in a while (after I told plate off) that I have no options/plates etc. I … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/17 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 27I think this becomes important when it comes to cost benefit analysis - as the 80/20 becomess to 90/10 becomes the 95/5, it simply becomes unfeasible for most men to even improve enough in order to have a decent supply of attractive women where he doesn't have to invest X hours into them. I honestly think, if it were quantified somehow, that only the top 1-5% of men are having the real success here. In order to "passively" attract a women that is 8/10, you NEED to be (this is an average here) be… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/17 08:03 PM |
| 5 | February 24 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadProgress Made I am continually staying on track with my lifting goals by being the strongest I've been as each week passes. (measured by bench, weighted chin ups, front squat, overhead press, barbell bicep curl) Keeping up with my planned upgrades in my house to turn it into my "castle". painting this week. Keeping up with scheduling one date a week. Due to prioritization of my other goals, I have only commited to one date a week. Small talked with strangers to improve spontaneous conversations … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/17 04:21 PM |
| 1 | I don't want to treat women like children but it works too well.god so much this. I've had dates with women who were extremely intelligent in the same engineering field as me. I would talk about new innovate ideas/technologies and see their poonannies dry up in real time. like what the fuck? Then I'd go on dates with these same girls and just shoot the shit/talk about pop culture/etc and get a lay. its f'ing ridiculous. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/17 11:32 PM |
| 8 | jeremy meeks story proves face=lifethe real red pill of the red pill. women are becoming more like men. more emphasis on looks. now men who are not as good looking need to up their game even more. sure, they can do it and succeed, but it takes a ton of practice. while CHAD can sit at the bar and have a HB 8/10 sit next to him, just not say anything stupid, and bag her for the night. I've had things just fall in my lap (literally) by women who have liked the way I look (not good looking, but I have a certain look). in those situat… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/17 02:08 PM |
| 17 | I saw this comment in a thread about how Millenials are "choosing" to have less sex.this is old news. the 10% of men and most women: unlimited lays at their finger tips. I know men who have multiple dates a week, with little effort on their part. Yet the majority of guys (even including in shape guys with decent jobs..not basement neckbeards) struggle to land a date every few months. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/17 02:22 PM |
| 9 | It fucking sucks."reasonable" part of me says: You have no idea what happened after she left. she might have just had fun with her girlfriends and went home. She might have found you interesting, but not gotten "tingles" for you. maybe its becuase you didn't act "alpha" enough. or maybe its because she just is not attracted to you. Or maybe she actually WAS meeting CHAD later. Point is - you NEVER know. don't beat yourself up over it. Red Pill part of me says: You didn't assert your sexual side. She went into th… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/17 01:49 PM |
| 0 | The inconvenient truth about SMV and how desirable women actually find you.god this hits close to home. Living in area where women swoom over ultra masculine looking bearded men, I can see this in full affect. I get routinely passed up for guys that are overweight/pale, but have a nice beard/flannel/hairy arms, even though I am muscular/dress well, but unfortunately cannot grow that much facial hair and have smooth/dark skin. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/17 03:49 PM |
| 1 | I thought that it was only in my head that women never notice me/check me out/give signals of interest to approach. sadly, It's being confirmed to be trueThis. and zyzz level is top 1% physiques, amongst men that actually lift a few times a week. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 06:52 PM |
| 1 | I thought that it was only in my head that women never notice me/check me out/give signals of interest to approach. sadly, It's being confirmed to be trueI try to make a concious effort to NOT look down, and make eye contact if possible. I am still working on it though....sometimes I fall back into old habits | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 04:36 PM |
| 1 | I thought that it was only in my head that women never notice me/check me out/give signals of interest to approach. sadly, It's being confirmed to be truedefine hard eye contact? | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I thought that it was only in my head that women never notice me/check me out/give signals of interest to approach. sadly, It's being confirmed to be trueAgreed - its how you walk/how relaxed you look as well. I try to work on those as well. On tinder, I can usually get 15-20 attractive girls to match me in around a 1-2 week period after a 300-500 swiping spree. aftter it drops immensely to around 2-3 a week, if I am swiping around 100 women a week. I think this is pretty normal for guys who don't look like shit in their pictures | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 03:57 PM |
| 0 | I thought that it was only in my head that women never notice me/check me out/give signals of interest to approach. sadly, It's being confirmed to be truehow is the issue bodyfat? 12% is not a high bodyfat at all. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 03:52 PM |
| 1 | I thought that it was only in my head that women never notice me/check me out/give signals of interest to approach. sadly, It's being confirmed to be truereally? no, I have close to a six pack. I don't consider those stats odd at all. There are some guys at my gym that weigh less than me but can pull 315 on the bench/stronger. my muscles definetely are more strength oriented though. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | I thought that it was only in my head that women never notice me/check me out/give signals of interest to approach. sadly, It's being confirmed to be true180lb and 5'11 at 12% bodyfat I would not consider skinny, nor would I consider "jacked" either. But you do look like you are very fit/lift/etc. Bench 270, squat 350, can do 5 chinups at bodyweight+75lbs. If that gives any reference. not jacked, but not small either. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 03:38 PM |
| 1 | I thought that it was only in my head that women never notice me/check me out/give signals of interest to approach. sadly, It's being confirmed to be trueDo you look very masculine? | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 03:23 PM |
| 1 | I thought that it was only in my head that women never notice me/check me out/give signals of interest to approach. sadly, It's being confirmed to be trueI thought that was it man! so I fixed my body language a few years back. being that I lift regularly the past 5-6 years, I had already had pretty good posture (squats tend to keep you in the habit of keeping your back striaght). But I noticed no change with women giving me interest. Guys are way more respectful/want to be befriend me more though.I get guys asking me what my workout routine is/etc | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 03:23 PM |
| 1 | blindsided by 8+/10 girl that I hooked up with, thought it was just a fluke, she is still into me and I am a little confusedits hard! its like there is this subconcious voice or intuition in the back of my head. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 04:11 PM |
| 1 | blindsided by 8+/10 girl that I hooked up with, thought it was just a fluke, she is still into me and I am a little confusedno, she doesn't. but you can guess by the car I drove her in and what I was wearing that day, along with what I told her my career was. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 04:10 PM |
| 3 | blindsided by 8+/10 girl that I hooked up with, thought it was just a fluke, she is still into me and I am a little confusedI struggle with this. because I know, based on an OBJECTIVE analysis of the sexual marketplace, she can do better than me. However, I know that peoples' perceptions do not always align with reality. she may be very insecure because she got cheated on, or becuase of my body (I am pretty ripped now), etc, the fact that I sound very intelligent when I speak. I don't know what the reason is. the next day, I may run into a 3/10 that thinks she is way better than me due to her own personal experiences… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 05:31 PM |
| 17 | blindsided by 8+/10 girl that I hooked up with, thought it was just a fluke, she is still into me and I am a little confusedholy crap. this makes sense now. I remember when she showed up on our first meet, I said to myself "holy shit, there is no way this going to ever go anywhere permenantly", it made me care way less about what I say/do. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | blindsided by 8+/10 girl that I hooked up with, thought it was just a fluke, she is still into me and I am a little confusedhow did it show when you were attached? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 03:42 PM |
| 4 | blindsided by 8+/10 girl that I hooked up with, thought it was just a fluke, she is still into me and I am a little confusedthat's my plan. continue to focus on my goals, etc, what I was doing before, but continue to fit her in my schedule when I can. what do you mean by imposter syndrome? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 03:33 PM |
| 3 | blindsided by 8+/10 girl that I hooked up with, thought it was just a fluke, she is still into me and I am a little confused25 | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Women Don't Evaluate SMV LogicallyIts ALL about how your traits are manifested OUTWARDLY that matters. This may seem like a "duh" statement, but the subtle difference is that women won't give you a chance, even if you have objective SMV indicators (income, 6 pack, good fashion, etc), if those indicators are not somewhat manifested outwardly. Whereas men will stop and think "there has to be more". A guy in loose fitted jeans and a loose sweatshirt and unkempt hair and is driving his brothers rusty geo metro while walking hunched … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/17 03:26 AM |
| 1 | OkCupid's Depressing Confirmation of the 80/20 Rule - The Majority of Men are Invisible to Womenagreed - that is why online dating should not be your only medium for meeting women. but I also think it has bled into real life as well | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/17 03:01 PM |
| 23 | OkCupid's Depressing Confirmation of the 80/20 Rule - The Majority of Men are Invisible to WomenIt's not 80/20 anymore. It's closer to 95/5 if you want to talk about ease and consistency attracting women that are objectively considered somewhat attracted. Don't believe me? Go to environment where there are a mix of people that represent society with an female friend/etc that is decently attractive. Mid Level Grocery Store. Sports Bar. Park Ask them if there any attractive men around. Often times they will start looking, have a puzzled look on their face and say "I don't know, I can't reall… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/17 05:41 PM |
| 20 | The only oneitis in your life should be lifting.As someone who has lifted for 6-7 years EXTREMELY consistently, this article resonates very well. What you start to notice, after being this consistent, is that NOT working out because a non-option, because it actually induces stress/anxiety that is more stressful than working out itself. any loss of willpower fromm of laziness, late nights, lack of sleep is overcome by anxiety/stress from missing your workout. Basically, OCD. but I don't a give a chit. It has allowed me to almost fool proof my … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/17 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Single dad getting rejected by all pre-wall women.Well I'm fine plating/dating single moms as long as they have the same to offer as childless women. Its just that they usually don't.... If all single moms still had time to go out, were in great shape, and more were attractive, I wouldn't be creating this post. does that make sense? Yes - I know what you mean..if she is attracted, she is attracted. but the problem is women have so many options, there is probaly an alpha out there that DOESNT have kids that she will choose. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Single dad getting rejected by all pre-wall women.I knew it would hurt my options, I just didn't know how BAD it would it would be. I thought maybe I would get blown out by 75% of women, but its like 95% or more. Mentioning my son is the difference between me going on 1-2 dates with attractive women every week for 6 months, spinning multiple plates, versus me going out with only overweight single mothers andd geetting blown out by every reasonably attractive women. I am fine with a single mom who is attractive, intelligent, and able to still go… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Single dad getting rejected by all pre-wall women.thanks for the super practical advice. so helpful. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 06:02 PM |
| 1 | The Ultimate Diet Guide: From Bulking to Cuttingwith the IF diet, how MUCH room is there for veering off coursed? I love lifting, and I love looking cut, but I don't want refuse free drinks from people or food past 6pm, because it is outside my "fast window". Here is an example - had an inlfamed joint in my wrist from playing guitar. I usually take a few ibuprofen and it helps immensely, however, I HAVE to take it with some food, or you can seriously damage your stomach (this has happened to me before). So I'm sitting here, wrist in pain, har… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/17 03:35 PM |
| 1 | SERIOUS post. knocked up girl - she is getting a termination - what are chances of her backing out?well, thinking back on it. she is very adament due to mainly her very heightened risk of heart failure/damage at birth, and the potential for her own health and leaving her one existing child behind because of it. this is somethign she mentioned to me that happened BEFORE we even plated (we were friends). She mentioned that, even if we were together officially, she would still go through with it for that reason. I'm pretty sure it will happen, I am just nervous because I have heard about scenari… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/16 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Importance of having friends who are girlswell they dont "treat" me like im beta. no disrespect etc. its that when they got to know me I had a low SMW and that impressiong for some reason never chnages. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 05:15 PM |
| 5 | Importance of having friends who are girlsgroup of friends from college. guys and girls. we only get together every 2-3 months now (getting older). its not like I orbit them constantly. my point is, I keep improving and improving (beacuse I have the time and love improving), and despite that, I will forever be the beta in their eyes. Objectively, they are married to men with far less SMV than I am, but to them those men have more SMV than me | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 03:11 PM |
| 28 | Importance of having friends who are girlsI would caution that one carefully select which girls to befriend around - I used to be friends with a girl(s) and was percieved as beta, due to my lack of status/looks etc. The thing is, girls talk. and every girl that I got introduced had already classifed me as beta, due to the inner gossip circle. It got to the point where I would meet all these new women who would immediately put me in the friend zone and I could not figure out why - it was because my rumors of my "softness" was spread arou… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 01:52 PM |
| 8 | You Can Barely Make Yourself Dinner, And Yet You Deserve to Date 9's?well I think the point of this was that you can't rely on inward indicators of strength. women want outward indicators. another (extreme) examples - buddhist monks that practive medidation are some of the most poised, stoic, and have extremely strong mental "frame", but do you know any women who finds them sexy? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/16 08:10 PM |
| 11 | You Can Barely Make Yourself Dinner, And Yet You Deserve to Date 9's?twenties women only give a fuck about the manifestation of bad-assery and masculinity in ones' image, not ones' skills. in short - they would rather fuck a guy with a nice beard and tats and a good frame but can't fix shit, over a skinnier guy without masculine "badass" indicators but can build an entire car from the ground up. your post TOTALLY reminds me of what happened to me a few years ago. girl I tried to pull rejected me because I was not "masculine" looking enough for her (even though I … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/16 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Girls don't find smart guys sexually attractiveit goes both ways too. No amount of nobel peace prizes/patents/research discoveries will make my dick hard for a 200 pound ugly women over a 18 year barista with an IQ of 90 but a banging body. Its biology. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/16 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Money doesn't increase your SMV, only your RMV.This reminds me of the time where I was hanging out with a girl who has friend zoned me, we went out on the town - she actually bought the drinks, we got drunk, she ended up bringing back this guy to my place to fuck in my guest room at my upscale condo, riding them back in my BMW - the guy was an "aspiring artist" who lived with a roommate in a small apartment, but he was "super hawwwwt" (according to her). The guy left after they fucked (i don't want fucking strangers in my place)...she crashe… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 12:20 AM |
| 22 | Red Pill predictions for the future of the Sexual Market Place"Welcome to Alpha shares, the number one meetup app, used by over 75% of women and 5% of men. Any women can join, and we ensure that only the best looking, classiest, and intelligent men are accepted into our database. Over 100 million women of all body types and races have experienced the man of their dreams through our app" | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/16 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill predictions for the future of the Sexual Market PlaceI'd like to add - as societal financial support for women en masse increases, through taxation for the offspring off CHADs for single mothers, men will start outright refusing to pay taxes. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/16 06:00 PM |
| 5 | The Value of Your TimeThis is the very reason why I have chosen "soft MGTOW" - basically not to invest any effort I would otherwise have not on women. I don't have the SMV, even after tons of improvement, to be able to consistently attract women that I would actually not feel disgusted about having sex with afterwards, without investing insane amounts of effort. I'd rather focus on my mission, rub one out when it gets too frustrating, and get the occasionally lay from circumstance. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/16 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Things I've noticed after lifting for 2 months consistentlyburnout in the sense that plateua or sometimes even loss of strength is absolutely true. I used to go full balls to the wall with my chest workouts - once or twice every week. I am talking doing a 1.5 hour chest workout trying to fatigue my muscles like crazy. It worked, until my strength stopped increased and started actually DECREASING. yes. even after getting enough sleep, enough food (to the point where I was gaining weight still), my bench press started DECREASING. so what did I do? I did m… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/16 04:10 PM |
| 11 | Action Is Key. Talent Is Overrated.Finding that sweet spot between what you are naturally talented at (your strengths) and what you can do that makes some sort of living (supporting yourself), and then focusing on it like a precision laser and THEN applying massive ACTION is where it's at. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/16 02:27 PM |
| 3 | First dates AustraliaIt's sickening. I live in a trendier part of town where there are more affluent people and younger people - and every guy knows that there is stiff stiff competition for women, so more and more men are lifting/working on their style/etc. I went to a classier bar this past weekend and it fuking looked like I walked into a GQ model audition convention or something. Every guy was 6 feet tall, very nicely dressed (suit/etc), perfect haircut, muscular, and appeared confident. The sad thing - the girl… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/16 01:25 AM |
| 16 | First dates Australiahonestly, is the gap widens and it is harder and harder to fit in the top X% of guys required to attract a girl who is not-fat, I finally am reaching the point where it is literally not worth it. I lift, work on my career, etc for myself. but it is STILL not "enough" and I am unwilling to veer away from my path and put in extra X hours just to nab an non-fat girl. I'd rather just do my shit, and when the sexual frustration gets too much, just rub one out. occasionally I'll get laid on a night ou… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Readings all these success stories makes me feel very depressed about my "progress" with women.can't skip leg day man... I question the veracity of these field reports sometimes, I RARELY see these things happens out at clubs/bars as well. I know guys who are outright ripped but I do not see women randomly grabbing their biceps all the time. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/16 08:42 PM |
| 7 | How should I have handled this encounter at the gym today?re-rack the weights. don't let it affect you. done. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/16 05:52 PM |
| 2 | How to gain chest muscles?incline bench. flat bench. decline bench. flys with dumbells (incline/decline/flat). Cable flys. push-ups with weight on your back. push-ups with your gf on your back. so much shit you could do - just make sure you are pushing yourself each workout more and lifting heavy weight | /r/askTRP | 03/11/16 05:51 PM |
| 5 | What I've learned about TRP from my parentsthe lighting hair on fire reminds me of a similar thing I witnessed in high school....back then it was just an absolute mindphuck. This girl - virgin...innocent. church girl. straight A's. etc you get the picture - I knew because I had known her since she was 9/10. I had a onitus for her - she consistently blew me off because she didn't feel 'it" for me. she went to her first college party where she admitted (after one drink) that she had a huge thing for this super "douchey" guy who was failing… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/16 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How to accept the fact that you are an average looking woman?an average looking women that optimizes her looks will in 90% of cases have more power than an average looking men that optimizes his looks. Most men find women attractive irregardless of height Women are not exposed to male pattern baldness makeup can make most average looking girls hot. Guys don't have this advantage A girl that stays in shape and does some squats with the bar for a year suddenly has a great body in yoga pants that can look slammin in a dress. It takes FAR more effort in the g… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/16 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Guys aged 25+ that made it, how is your life like? How has it improved?I have been WAITING for years for something to ask this question on the red pill - as I have a good example of how you can "swallow" the red pill and delve into self improvement on all facets and still have your dating life be devoid of sex/attraction. 30 years old here. have always been a self improvement junkie. Discovered the community 5-6 years ago and red pill about a year ago. Always been sort of "red pill" naturally, in the sense I could see how women acted - but not in the sense that I a… | /r/askTRP | 04/10/16 09:08 PM |
| 1 | "Man are not entitled to anything" How can I accept this?I can really relate to your frustration - but I am I a little different spot. I am 4-5 years down the road of self improvement. I can lift decently heavy. My career is great. Etc. but my SMV is STILL not sufficient enough for most women - because my baseline was not that high. It takes probably around a hundred hours of effort for me to nag a decent looking plate. In my book that is a terrible return on investment and I just stopped caring. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 06:47 PM |
| 1 | The Truth About Confidence. Forget most of the bullshit you think you know about confidence, let's keep this pragmatic.in my opinion, the pinnacle of a confident mindset is the unbreakable assurance that you will be able to "deliver" on your results and goals, both ones that you are good at and ones that you are just venturing into. If you have gone through enough adversity/failure and succeeded, you have built up the objective assurance to know that you will likely succeed at other ventures, even if you are NOT skilled in them. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/16 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Girl said she sees me as a good father 1 day. I am in tears."Sounds good, I will continue to improve myself selfishly, and when that day comes X years from now for you decide you need to find someone who is a good father, don't come back to me, rest assured I will be choosing some younger, hotter, and full of less cocks than you" | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 04:34 PM |
| 0 | Game II - Be Better Than HerI'm going to go against the grain here and modify your statement (in the case that a girl clearly out of your league) "It's not that she is better than you, it's that the sexual marketplace has dictated she is better than you". in the sexual marketplace, a 20 year old girl with a banging body and hot face with an IQ of 100 that goes to community college and works as a barista on the side that has little inherent skills or talents is likely in the same "league" as a D1 college athlete or a 25 yea… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/16 03:27 PM |
| 1 | For younger Guys (25-35), what is your opinion on bringing up YOUR kids to potential plates?Very hard to find those. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/16 12:29 AM |
| 9 | Over in AskWomen they have the thread "Women of Reddit: what is your libido REALLY like?" What do you think the women say? Well most claim they have NO sex drive and the others keep comparing their sex drives saying is it good or bad. This is to foster the women can't do no wrong image.A women will have a higher sex drive and let an alpha fuck her when he wants, how he wants, no matter what how immoral his actions are. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/16 01:58 AM |
| 3 | 2 Years of RP: Lessons LearnedIt's not about "you must ONLY text 2 minutes after her last text, and respond with at least HALF the words". It's more about the lack of abundance that she may sense in you. If you are focused on your mission, HOLD that frame, and DO NOT be affected by flakey/missed/etc texts, then text whenever the fuck you want. The basic fact that you have that mental frame will come across in how you text. Some girls will still respond positively, some girls will drop, some girls will even think your texting… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 06:18 PM |
| 62 | Womans perspective - Why Beta Guys are Actually Scary AF When You're Use To Dating Bad GuysWtf did I just read? Damaged goods everywhere. I do know this, being labeled a unicorn nice guy and then properly fucking her and being dominant throws a huge fucking loop on her Brain. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 09:10 PM |
| 21 | Women will actively ruin your life if you don't fit into their alpha/beta social dynamic in order to avoid cognitive dissonanceThis is exactly like me, except reversed. Due to my babyface, introverted (not shy) nature, women tend to compartmentalize me into a beta provider with no backbone. In reality, I am 5-6 years older than my perceived age, and am in the top 5% for my income, and am hyper focused on my mission with a high sense of confidence. They usually perceive me as 23 year old kid who just graduated college, probably living Ina shared apt making 30k at my first job when I'm a 30 year old guy making 120k year l… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/16 05:44 PM |
| 13 | Boohoo; men are only interested in sexRMV = mostly traits that don't give gina tingles A lot of guys actually have high RMV, but low SMV A lot of women (young ones) have high SMV, but Low RMV Although a man with High RMV and SMV is rare, a women with High RMV and SMV is like a fucking unicorn. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/16 03:27 PM |
| 12 | Another myth that is being advocated in TRP: "Getting laid is a symptom of success"It's more about HOW your self improvement is manifested to the opposite sex and the environment you are around. Let's say you have a passion for coding, playing heavy metal music, and are a minimalist. Over the years, you spend time in house with 10 other guy coders, whose friends are 95% guys as well, developing an APP that eventually sells for one million. You also hone your guitar playing skills and play in local heavy metal bands. You buy a small modest house and a modest car with your 1 mil… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/16 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Why don't we pinpoint a man's SMV?this is an important distinction. It also reminds you that your SMV is dynamic, depending on your environment and to, most importantly, NOT get beat up for not succeeding in a certain environment. If you are using tinder, don't debase yourself because you can only attract overweight women if you are fit guy. It doesn't mean you are 'only" at fat girls level. It just means..based on the market of that environment..you are. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 08:34 PM |
| 2 | They will look at you weird. (On IOIs)yeah, it's very odd. I do dress more metrosexual, but that is more because it what works for me. It would be very hard for me to pull off the manly facial hair/beardy look. I can't grow any. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 09:40 PM |
| 2 | They will look at you weird. (On IOIs)nah, there are a ton of overweight people around where I live. Whats odd is not that girls don't look at me, its that SO MANY guys look at me/older folks yet no girls look at me. I'd say half of guys look at me for more than usual...especially if they are out of shape etc. but if you stick a group of 6 girls walking down the street right in front of me approaching me they would slam into me if I didn't move. It's very odd | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 08:57 PM |
| 1 | They will look at you weird. (On IOIs)totally get the aura of confidence part..maybe it is because I walk a little too fast | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 08:56 PM |
| 1 | They will look at you weird. (On IOIs)oh! they stare, but its never women. It's always guys. I remember going to the beach one time and some guys asked what my workout routine was, ended up hanging with them and grilling. At the same time I walked past a group of girls and none of them even noticed I existed...kept to their smartphones etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 08:36 PM |
| 5 | They will look at you weird. (On IOIs)Even after massive physical self improvement (body that could be on boxer brief modeling ad, fitted clothes, etc), I still do not get these looks from women. It took me a LONG time to get to 10% bodyfat while keeping a high level of muscular strength. I am not facially super attractive...maybe that has to be it? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on ChadChad is the guy that you meet at a house party wearing sunglasses and swaying his body like he doesn't care, absolutely no hesitation in his body language. He is flashing the biggest smile. he is the guy at the party your one-itus who you swore is intelligent, innocent, and sweet but blows off your advances end up fucking in the closet when you are not looking. CHAD walks into the gym and you can just fucking SMELL his masculinity through his sweat and frame. but it's not the old gross decrepit … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/16 02:26 AM |
| 4 | Play in your leagueOn one hand, I know that if I go after more attractive/intelligent/social women, my success plummets. I go out of my league so to speak. On the other hand, I see women with guys that I think are well below their league and noticed some pretty attractive women who have odd preferences in men. I have known girls that are slim/great bodies/pretty face who are also smart that love a little "beer belly" or when the man has a slightly crooked nose..or in some cases has a thing for much much older men.… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/16 07:35 PM |
| 44 | Embrace rejection. They're just women.It comes down to the rule of efficiency. You don't want to waste your time, energy, and money and something with a poor return on your investment. It is better to state your intent directly and weed out the ones that will waste your time. huddeling over your phone trying wondering if a girl is actually interested or not is a waste of time and energy. It pisses me of. Don't do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Be Honest With Yourself, You're Being A Pussy: You Don't Want To Put In The Hard Work.This all comes down to a simple rule: Choice Once you choose to do the actions that will GET you the results, you realize that success is inevitable. It's that fucking simple The fear/uncomfortableness of it all is just filler you have to shove out of the way. It's annoyance. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you even lift? Oh, you do? I couldn't tell. Tips for actually looking like you lift.Express stretch v Necks. Come In lik 30 different colors and tailored to guys with v shape | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/16 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Is the 80/20 principle a result of male inadequacy, or female greed?I don't really care so much about women going after the top 20%..what I care about and SCARES me more than anything is when the quality of women plummets and at the same time men are trying to improve more to fight more them. What you get is this nightmare scenario where you have to improve more and work harder to attract women that are getting poorer and poorer quality but that is EXACTLY what is happening today. It's disgusting. I don't know what is going to reverse the trend. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/16 08:05 PM |
| 2 | How to become the 10%?You have to stop connecting top 10% or top 20% to being able to attract women on the regular. Its not that easy, and realistically I think you have to be top 1-5% before you see solid results. so a guy makes 100K a year, is 12% bodyfat, lifts, dresses well, is 6'0" and only 30. he is probably top 1% EASILY, but I know plenty of guys like the above that STILL struggle with women (even with decent social skills) | /r/askTRP | 04/08/16 01:16 PM |
| 0 | TRP Real Time Exercise - Plate Managementwhat's with every other poster on here having an entire cupboard stocked with plates? "so yeah....plate 3 and 2 sometimes both bang me, but plate 7 is good by herself..plate 10 is getting clingy" | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Even the bottom 20% Women still only want the top 20% MenThis. 20% is posted as "shock value", However, the real "shock value" is that it is more around 2-5% on tinder. I have seen countless average women swiping on tinder and they typically swipe 1 out of every 20 profiles or less. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/16 02:47 PM |
| 2 | I have made a lot of changes in my life but I am still being seen as a beta male.Lost faith in post after reading "deadlift 700 pounds" | /r/askTRP | 15/07/16 03:06 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to a party in which 3 girls I slept with are also goingOne blows you while you fuck the other one while the third one gives you a back massage. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/16 03:05 PM |
| 0 | People who make Good Money (100k+ a year,) how do you make your money?work in a field that combines engineering and healthcare. work for the largest employer in that field. Took around 7 years post grad to get there...others in my same field got there faster. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/16 03:04 PM |
| 11 | [X-post] "I (26M) am dating a single mother (32F) who thinks I should pay for her kid's (8M) braces, since I can afford them"Thanks for making me spill my coffee at work! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/16 02:40 PM |
| 8 | Monk Mode is the end game. (On Consumerism Part 2)I have been thinking about this too - but I have doubts if this approach is truly practical from a bio-psychological standpoint. The urge to reproduce is the strongest biological urge, second only to the will to maintain health and stay alive (the need for sleep/hunger/water/protection against death). It is inexorably entwined into the balance of our physiological health and mental states - it is essentially PART of us. This may work if you approach things from a "nothing I do is for chasing wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/16 08:45 PM |
| 6 | I come here often but more and more often the posts are becoming make believe."hey! 6 months ago I was a 250 pound overweight virgin neck-beard who was unemployed who couldn't look a women in the eye. After reading the side bar and lifting, I have managed to lose 70 pounds, get down to 10% bodyfat with a max squat of 415 pounds and bench of 315, went from broke to making 100K through implementing red pill tactics at interviews and work, and am currently spinning 8 plates, 7 of which are HB8s. Actually right now, I am getting a blowjob from one of them as type this, with t… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 03:07 PM |
| 2 | The female teacher pedophilia epidemic (The value of Status)I find this topic extremely fascinating: Why do so many hot female teachers have sex with young teenage men?? Is it because: A) Those said women have some sort of mental issue similar to male pedophilia and they are not in the normal sexual spectrum or B) These teenage men have literally so much game and status that they are able to "out-alpha" the men she is around that are far more mature/manly/put together around her age range. Any 25 year old attractive knows she can go out and get the pick … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/16 09:02 PM |
| 1 | The female teacher pedophilia epidemic (The value of Status)I find this topic extremely fascinating: Why do so many hot female teachers have sex with young teenage men?? Is it because: A) Those said women have some sort of mental issue similar to male pedophilia and they are not in the normal sexual spectrum or B) These teenage men have literally so much game and status that they are able to "out-alpha" the men she is around that are far more mature/manly/put together around her age range. Any 25 year old attractive knows she can go out and get the pick … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/16 09:02 PM |
| 5 | To all you college kids: Here's a list of things I would do differently if I could be a student againyou know, this whole "you MUST JOIN frat and REAP THE SOCIAL AND PUSSY BENEFITS" thing depends on what you want. For my major and career pathway - I was damned if I did, and damned if I didn't. I choose a very demanding major for a career I already wanted, and I was actually VERY EXCITED about the subject matter taught in classes. I did awesome research (brain-computer interfaces - basically translating brain signals at rest into usable inputs for anything whether it be controlling a prosthetic/… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/16 02:50 PM |
| 9 | Beta males are obsoletethe divide is getting worse every year. Soon most men will not be able to even get into the echelon required to be attractive to women, even after massive self improvement. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/16 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Improvement yields resultswhen it comes to online, you really to resort to shotgun technique - It can be exhausting. I used to do this but it's just so much damn work just to get my dick wet. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/16 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Improvement yields resultshow is every other guy on here banging 5+ women on rotation after investing in red pill for such short amounts of time? I've been doing this for 2+ years and seen MASSIVE improvement in my personal life but the change in attention from women has been non-existent. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/16 03:02 PM |
| 8 | Some thoughts from a guy in his 30s (I am 33)It's also why I never mention my income or assets on dates. who said "ok like are you gay?", seems like you are dealing with just plain immature women there. Agree/Amplify or just ignore. A women who thinks you are less attractive because you can talk intelligently is just...I don't know even know what to call it. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 09:03 PM |
| 13 | Some thoughts from a guy in his 30s (I am 33)And you end up embodying those traits since you practice them. It is really a testament to how womens' attraction is not focused on what is best for the progression of society | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 05:39 PM |
| 33 | Some thoughts from a guy in his 30s (I am 33)great advice - good take on the "don't be an asshole". realizing that impressions stick for a long time, mostly with yourself. On a side note, the ONLY thing that was hard about me in my twenties was women. It's strangely backwards. Most men I know could not hold down a job/took forever to graduate college/didn't lift/didn't follow their passions - but for these men women came easy. marriage came easy. For me its the complete opposite. I got a good degree. I got a good job. I hit 100K before 30.… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 05:17 PM |
| 11 | Why do some girls with a high SMV, settle with men with a low SMV — when they are still relatively young?I've noticed this a lot too. Yes, a lot. A perfect example: Last weekend. Went downtown and met up with two group so friends, one of which brought along around 5-6 women who were all married or engaged. They were all dressed up to go out - all around 7/10+, very cute, good bodies. Fun to be around, danced, all had good degrees/etc. They went around all night rejecting 6'2" super aesthetic guys etc/ guys that hit on them who were doctors/lawyers etc. we had a backyard BBQ and they came again with… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 07:51 AM |
| 10 | [Crosspost from MGTOW] The beta thirst is realFuck 80/20. It's more like 90/10 or 95/5. At least in my area: The stakes are higher, and get higher every year. men are starting to wise up and improve their physical appearance. I see more men that are fit, that lift, and dress better. All the while there are less and less fit women. they are more snobby, more picky. The imbalance is such that It is has come to the point where it is actually becoming TOO MUCH an investment to reach the point where you can attract a girl who is not fat in my ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 02:24 PM |
| 25 | So she's talking about meeting her ex "for drinks"Plate? Who cares. Girlfriend? It's already over. Next. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/16 01:18 AM |
| 2 | LTR asked "Would you mind if I go to a | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 06:53 PM |
| 10 | [SERIOUS] When a 13 year old kid gets caught having sex with his hot 24 year old teacher: How should we look at the situation?First thing I think of is "holy shit apparently 13 year olds have more game than me" | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 05:53 PM |
| 1 | The Fundamentals of FitnessGLO, what are your opinions on "diminished returns" past the newbie gains, and balance the increased effort required to progress against your other life goals? Basically, I keep my lifting philosophy extremely simple like yours: Aside from rest periods, Do more than last time or at least different than last time. Using this philosophy I have seen my strength continually increase over the years, but it is VERY VERY slow, as I put more and more effort in. I'm getting the point where the time it ta… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/16 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Stupid Simple Six Pack Abs (or, Minimalist Midsection Mastery)I tried to read this post, but all I can hear in the back of my mind was someone screaming: "FUCCCCCKKKKKK YEAEAAAAAHHH CRROOOSSFIITTTT YEAHHHH ARGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!@$@%@#!$@#$" | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/16 08:20 PM |
| 0 | How to own Stereotypes (example Asian)True, it obviously varies from person to person, but I know in general most asians have trouble building muscle. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/16 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How to own Stereotypes (example Asian)on the note about asians having a hard time getting big from lifting - it' s a definite truth. I am asian and it has taken me around 6 years of serious lifting to get my bench press to around 255/260, whilst most white people I know hit that after 1/2 years of lifting in the gym NON SERIOUSLY. I have seen african americans hit it after 3-4 months easy. (this is after very little previous weight training). But for some reason we have great leg/ab genetics........terrible chest/shoulder genetics. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/16 01:22 PM |
| 3 | [RANT] Everything sucksYou know what also sucks? getting terminal cancer losing a close loved one getting hit by a car and either dying or becoming paraplegic and never being able to walk again, and never feeling what its like to stick your dick inside a nice warm pussy again Being born in Africa, India, China, or 90% of the worlds population that has it worse than us Being born 5'2" Being born an ugly female Being raped by your pedophile uncle Ted when you were 5 I think you need to step back, re-evaluate you the "su… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/16 05:56 PM |
| 0 | When your marriage, family and life as you know it implodes...How the flying fuck does a women become more attracted to a teenager than a man her age? How is this possible? Aren't their better options? If she were to cheat wouldn't it be with someone with more SMV? not a teenager? Someone please explain this clusterfuck, as it flies in the face of everything that has been taught to me about SMV on the same topic...all these hot mid twenties teachers banging their middle schoolers. how is this possible? dont they get hit on by men their age ever? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/16 09:05 PM |
| 1 | I have a hard time believing the "transformation" stories on hereSuddenly getting easier is believable -it could be juts changing your attitude or improving your appearance. Having women magically approach you suddenly is not. That is reserved for the top 1% | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 07:53 PM |
| 2 | I have a hard time believing the "transformation" stories on hereI think this seems to be a big part of it. Alpha men converted to beta now converting back to truth. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 07:52 PM |
| 1 | I have a hard time believing the "transformation" stories on hereA fact that is downvoted. This place has been overrun with idiots who know don't know shit about bodyfat distribution. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 07:51 PM |
| 0 | I have a hard time believing the "transformation" stories on here10% bodyfat is not fat skinny. Are you serious? Do you even lift? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 04:59 PM |
| 5 | I have a hard time believing the "transformation" stories on herePornHub doesn't count | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 01:16 PM |
| 1 | I have a hard time believing the "transformation" stories on hereYes, but this question addresses a different topic | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Difference between Low and High SMV.I agree with this response. I naturally fidgety sometimes when I am thinking up a storm. I love people watching. I'm Always observing my environment, especially when I'm driving to avoid all the dumbfucks taking snapchats. It's not a symptom of nervousness. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/16 01:45 PM |
| 5 | Quiet Observer - Quasi Field ReportThis also shows that there is ALWAYS someone better around the corner. If you enter a relationship with a women like this, you cannot win. If the investment banker starts dating her, I bet she starts monkey branching to a CEO. She starts dating the CEO and monkey branches to a richer hotter CEO. Then a CEO that is also a celebrity. Left unchecked, she will be eventually caught giving head to the president of the US while being double penetrated by George Clooney and Chris Hemsworth while she tex… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/16 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Quiet Observer - Quasi Field Reportfirst thing I think of is "you GO gurl" | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/16 03:57 PM |
| 14 | Quiet Observer - Quasi Field ReportThis has to be a troll post...it's too textbook. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/16 02:22 AM |
| 9 | Logistics or: How to kill your game before you even walk out of the houseGreat Post, and a "minor" factor that is overseen by most men. Women want things to "just happen", and trying to struggle with logistics at the end of the night just makes you seem like you are trying too hard. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/16 01:53 PM |
| 3 | 8 months from invisibility to magnetI Always take these stories with a grain of salt. I'm sorry, but one does not go from fat, barely any socialization with women, and no dates for 10 years to having "too many options too handle" in that short of period of time. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/16 03:23 PM |
| 9 | [FR] There's a reason we keep saying ita 6'2" guy with frame and height that is a beanpole still trumps a 5'8" guy with muscle, all other factors equal | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 08:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] There's a reason we keep saying itWhat if you lift and are in great shape but still don't get these IOI's? I have been lifting for 6 years, but have an ectomorphic body type - I don't have those broad shoulders women love etc. my lifts are respectable for my height and weight: 275 bench, 415 Squat, 20 dead hang pull ups in a row at 5'10" 180 pounds 10% bodyfat. However, problem is that I just don't LOOK like I really lift due to my smaller frame etc. I never get these IOI's. Women never smile at me, or give me invitations at the… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Finances are an area in a man's life where he can have total control. So why be stupid with your money? Here are some simple ways to be smart instead.Great list - I would like to also add one more "time is money". Find ways to reduce time spent on non value added activities that we all hate to do (yardwork/commuting) and you can invest more time in self improvement or working in order to generate more income. Or better yet, got the passive income route if you can, where money is generated independent of your time. Also - on eating out. Depending on where you live, you can find great food for cheap that is actually sometimes more efficient tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Finances are an area in a man's life where he can have total control. So why be stupid with your money? Here are some simple ways to be smart instead.Im curious more about using this method to save both time and money. I currently just throw shit in a crockpot, or make other dishes in bulk in freeze (curry, postickers, chili, etc) - but they always go bad after a few months and I end up throwing some of it away. I would love preservation for up to a year. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 01:48 AM |
| -1 | Decent Looking guy with a bad case of babyface - how to change my environment to get results?the problem is that I have to find a way to be around environments with these women. the gold is there for the taking once I get there. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/16 03:05 PM |
| 50 | Academia gap myth: women fall behind in their careers because they choose family over work and go into unprofitable fields, study findsIf you normalize for the ability to get your shit done and deliver results, the wage gap magically disappears. It would be In the best interest of a company to keep and promote someone who delivers results, regardless of gender. If Sally delivers results and still is paid less, she needs to grow some "balls" and ask for a raise. Which brings me to another theory I have: women are less likely to ask for a raise and that is another reason for the age gap Wha la! | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/16 01:47 PM |
| 1 | How many buff men do you see on a regular basis?yup, my BMI is 25.9, but I am 11/12% bodyfat | /r/askTRP | 20/05/16 12:06 AM |
| 2 | TRP and the male SMV - Ideology and ContradictionI have seen this same effect based on my experiences. Went to a college party (my brother is still in school) as a 31 year old. I noticeably look older than everyone, but I dress well/good haircut/in good shape, while most other guys at the party were slovenly dressed etc - reminded me of myself back then. However, I was "that old guy" at the party. I never acted like one, but I could tell women were slightly uncomfortable after my age came out One of my brother's female friends told him that th… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Steroids: yes or no?I've only thought about after blowing past the noob gains, building a solid foundation and adjustable workout regimen to blast through plateaus. After a while you put in 5+ hours a week in the gym, keep your diet in check, but your bench only goes from 310 to 320 on year. next year is 320 to 330. Its a very low return your investment. and you have to maintain it. Taking steroids smartly could boost your bench +50 pounds over a month, which is more than you could gain in 3+ years of lifting after… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/16 08:32 PM |
| 3 | The ever widening gender divide in TokyoProblem is, you are at the mercy of a constantly moving target. Top 10% today is different than top 10% 5 years since men have been improving their looks (more lifters for example), additionally, it is morphing into top 5% instead of top 10% (or the generic 20%). It gets to the point where the vast majority of men cannot reasonably reach the level required. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/16 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Almost a year into TRP and my life has barely gotten better: ready to give up and black pillTake the stories you hear on here with a grain of salt..its the fucking internet...people can hide behind the screen. I know what you mean though, I always seem to run across that same "SINCE SWALLOWING THE PILL 3 MONTHS AGO I WENT FROM A VIRGIN OVERWEIGHT NECKBEARD TO A BENCHING 225 FOR REPS AND HAVING 5 HB8+ ON ROTATION MINIMUM, BLOWING MY PHONE CONSTANTLY'. Honestly, I don't believe most of them. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 04:28 PM |
| 46 | Tinder: a dating app for women.Tinder is utterly a useless return on investment unless you are at LEAST top 5% in your age range. That is NOT an exaggeration. Yes TOP 5%.I know guys that clean up in real life that barely get a match on tinder. The problem with this is that you get to teh point where not every guy is going to hit top 5%, even after significant improvement. 20% much easier. 5%..alot wil be left behind. Additionally, almost every couple I have met that met on tinder, the guy is far far more attractive than the g… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/16 07:01 PM |
| 2 | How I've Learned to "Shit Test" Women - A little test that I've developed.You are a busy guy, your time is valuable and allocated towards investing in furthering your goals. You want to minimize the amount of time spent with a girl that is not going to lead to something sexual. Friendzoning and immediately walking away from a girl who assumes you are a groveling beta prospect has potential to fuck with her mind. Her seeing you with another attractive women in the future because you as a man move on will further fuck with her mind. I like it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/16 02:39 PM |
| 2 | What "Transformative" experiences have you gone through that you would recommend?embracing going outside your comfort zone and the comfort zones of 99% of americans a "cultural" experience that most people will never experience. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/16 06:57 PM |
| 49 | SJW reaction to an anti-PC event co-hosted by Milo Yiannopoulos at my universityDrop on the floor and convulse, citing the word is trigger and they did not provide adequate warning. Play at their own game. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/16 02:57 PM |
| 8 | The newest amazing discovery about the wage gap: maybe men and women have different attitudes toward work!on an added note, the women I know who actually have an interest in engineering make just as much or even more as their male counterparts. There is no biasing against the female gender, at least in the field I work at. It comes down to this: Deliver (and ask for those raises/promotions..something that women are more hesitant to do) and you will be compensated You can pop out a baby at age 30 and take 3 months off work but if you still deliver as much as your male counterpart who is working the f… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/16 01:46 AM |
| 4 | Tips for getting the most out of your time and avoiding bullshit.Agreed. It has been mentally ingrained in me. Even if I have extra time to relax, I Can't bring myself to do it since I am so used to moving around and I think of "oh wow ...no I have even MORE time...what ELSE can I accomplish". It has become HABIT to be constantly moving. I would love to take a day off and just do JACK SHIT all day, but I would go completely insane. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 09:01 PM |
| 1 | I have the opposite problem of most people - high confidence yet no evidence of resultsI have been lifting for 5+ years (not bodybuilding style but pretty intensely). I am honestly only shooting for 6/7 out of 10. Girls higher than that are too fucking high maintenance. I approach women, most in casual conversations (not approaching at bars en masse due to bitch shields up everywhere) The impression I get is "you seem like a cool guy, but you are just not my type". | /r/askTRP | 27/04/16 08:19 PM |
| 3 | What are some skills you guys didn't learn in school that you wish someone would teach youCamping Shooting How to do basic car maintenance (beyond changing tires/lights/filters etc) Pisses me off because I do not think there are ANY resources that could help me learn those with actual people (not online guides). For camping I know that I need a tent and that's about it. I can read a guide but it seems so stupid. What about bears? cougars? what's the legality on fires (height/width)? What if a storm comes? how do I avoid poisin ivy. waht are essential supplies? am I going to get in tr… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Lifting and 40+ hour professional work week is HARD!Some things I do to save time (I work 50 hours a week, have a son, also cook and have other hobbies as well) Only train legs once every two weeks, but go very heavy when I do. Do the same amount of volume but in a shorter time frame take a deload week every 6 weeks or so (no working out). It does not halt my progress and allows me to catch up on stuff Join a 24/7 gym and go during offpeak hours so you have to wait less time for a shower/machine Pick a gym that is closer to my place to cut down o… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 02:06 PM |
| 2 | I can never seem to "beat" the competition of men that women go after in each phase of my life. Always settle for women I am not attracted too.No lol. But the environments I am around are full of these higher SMV men. It's what you get when you move up in your career. I am just trying to figure where I could go where my SMV is more present. I went to a college party last summer (my brother is a senior), and HOLY HELL I was getting so much more to work with than in any other environment. Really opened my eyes to the fact that I need to change my environment. But where? I have no idea. Volunteer? go to a college campus and approach? What… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/16 03:47 PM |
| 1 | I can never seem to "beat" the competition of men that women go after in each phase of my life. Always settle for women I am not attracted too.yeah my point is what strategies can I see to get into places where I where I am not surrounded by men of higher SMV. I know that SMV is relative to the SMV that surrounds you. I destroy at a college party (when I can get to one these days), but get destroyed at a happy hour full of district area 6'2" sales managers and company vice presidents. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/16 03:45 PM |
| 3 | I can never seem to "beat" the competition of men that women go after in each phase of my life. Always settle for women I am not attracted too.It's more based on proof. I can socialize fine, but when a sales manager walks in that makes 200,000 a year, dressed to kill, and insane charisma, I see the way the girls' eyes light up. I just cannot compete with that. or the gym I go to in a more upscale area. I am 5'10" decent muscular build (but not ripped). I cannot compete with all the 6'2" broad shouldered ripped guys walking around that all the women stare at. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/16 03:01 PM |
| 39 | 50 More Shades of Red - Wisdom for Mentalk about "this maxim resonates with me". I had a mind bending experience with this in my early years (19-20) with self described feminists. I was scrawny little shit with practically little or no physical or social SMV. I remember telling one of the girls in this group (who I was friends with) that her friend looked really good in her dress. She immediately proceeded to lecture me on objectifying women, and that her friend felt very uncomfortable that I had made that comment. I was labeled a c… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/16 01:37 PM |
| 1 | 22 Years Old w/ $160,000 Salary, How Can I Make the Most Of It?I can tell you, generally wealth is only attracted women if it is outwardly manifested somehow, as it represents power and status. 160,000 in New York City is not impressive at all, given your competition (hedge fund managers etc). I agree with other posters - keep your expenses down, don't but that 4,000 a month penthouse and 20 dollar cocktails just to look cool. Save Save Save (within reason). You are young and not tied down. Travel the world when you can. Rely on game and improving your phys… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 02:38 PM |
| 10 | More men are waking up - software millionaire wonders where all the good men are (but has his suspicions)This is beautiful. I have never seen so much evidence of RP aware men in a comment section in a more mainstream article before. I notice it more on my facebook feeds as well - articles and comments written by women playing the victim..and a TON of intelligent RP comments below Men are waking up fast. This chit is propagating and will soon become common knowledge. The modern entitled female will soon realize this. I chatted up a decently cute girl this past weekend at a bar. decent game. bartende… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/16 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Still think my looks are my main problem with women. Have been improving the past 5+ years but horrendous success with women.Ok. My strengths: Great Body, can talk to people, leg up on younger people in terms of career/ambition etc. dress better. So one thing I could do would be hit up the local college bar scene more, or a scene with more younger 20's girls. Volunteering maybe? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Still think my looks are my main problem with women. Have been improving the past 5+ years but horrendous success with women.10% bodyfat. Can see all my abs, very good body, V-shape etc, as attested by people that have seen me shirtless. I totally know what you mean....girls sleeping with men who have pasty beer guts but have cute faces. Its like "seriously?!!". thing I realize is, even though a guy with great body and an average face is sexier than beer bellied guy with a good face, you don't see that until you hit the bedroom. With clothes on, the guy with the good face wins because you can hide that beer belly, and… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 08:05 PM |
| 66 | Remember - They are watching youFuck this. I have better things to worry about than checking my posture every 5 minutes to make sure it is "alpha" enough. I'd rather gain confidence through hitting my goals and let that manifest naturally through my body language | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 02:34 PM |
| 8 | The entire system sickens me, I'm ready to opt out.The problem is that even if you tell yourself at face value "I can live a satisfactory life without this need met", you would by lying to yourself. As long as you are furthering your goals, You are going to become more confident and more sure of yourself, meeting more people, increasing your testosterone via lifting - all this is only going to magnify your need to want to fuck women. But sometimes, meeting those goals and becoming confident does not translate into more success with women. Call m… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 04:07 PM |
| 4 | "7 reasons to marry an Engineer" - Read "Beta"As an Engineer who got his DREAM job working at a company that is less stereotypically "nerdy engineer", this shit pisses me the fuck off. You are right, when you say you are an engineer, they tend to immediately start stereotyping you as nerdy/soft/beta and their cunts dry up, EVEN if you walk, talk, and look like a Chad Thundercock. I've had it happen to me a ton of times and to some of my buddies. Say you are an engineer making 150,000K a year, have your own condo, drive a decent car, etc = d… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/16 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Photo Deception: Beyond the MySpace Anglesthis, problem is, it is literally like 90% of women. After swiping, managing multiple conversations, you maybe get one girl a week that is guaranteed to actually be in good shape after investing hours on that app. From an ROI standpoint, I'd rather spend that 2-3 hours lifting/improving myself, It's simply not worth it. This is why I don't use tinder/bumble | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 07:11 PM |
| 5 | 6 easy habits that help you grow as a man. (PART 1)This is something I do on weekends and think is GREAT for jump starting your day. However, I have to be at work at 7:30am, have a 45 minute long commute and and a night owl by nature. This routine would add another hour to my prep time. no way I am getting up at 5:30Am when I naturally go to sleep at 11pm | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 03:46 AM |
| 5 | Champion's Mentality - How To Stop Being A Loser & Become Epic - A spiritual successor to Monk Mode. If Monk Mode was "how to stop being a loser" this is "how to start being a winner"My new monk mode activity decided to undertake was cooking. It is probably one of the MOST rewarding from a financial and skill standpoint. Over 2-3 years, I gave myself a goal to learn a new recipe every two weeks - not just any recipe, but the RIGHT way to do it. (Example - making Pad Thai the authentic way using raw ingredients instead of buying the rice noodles and spice packet) I had to about 1-3 hours of research and gathering of ingredients each two weeks. I would shadow friends and famil… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/16 10:42 PM |
| 13 | You guys suck at Tinder.Correct, but on steroids. Men are essentially turning into a catalog selection where you have to "sell yourself" - the PUA coaching etc was the start, molding aspects of your personality and being to be the most attractive. In my opinion, it is only going to get more extreme. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/16 10:24 PM |
| 59 | You guys suck at Tinder.Funny, when tinder first hit mainstream I told everyone: 1 looks matter the most and that, because of #1, 2 there are going to be services popping up to optimize your tinder pictures (not bio), to the point that professional pictures costing 1-2 hundred bucks are going to start being the standard. Basically, guys getting glamour shots for women. We have been reduced to pages in a fashion magazine women shop for. THINK ABOUT IT. You better bet that these photo optimization services are going to s… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/16 08:41 PM |
| 1 | The problem with Tinder/online dating for most men.forgot 80/20. Online it is realistically more like 95/5. Yes, you heard me. Watch cute girls swipe guys on tinder. they probably only swipe right on 1 out 20 men max. I have seen it in person many times (what happens when you used to live in the same house as 6 women. you better bet these same men are phukking all the women, if they are investing in it. Often times, the girls in the house I lived in would match with the same guy, and have same convos, and in one case two of them slept with him. … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/16 06:28 PM |
| 4 | Do you guys ignore girls who said too busy for date?I'll tell you this, I have been on probably ~100-200 dates since my early twenties. Every time a girl mentioned she was "too busy" or something of that matter and did not offer another day, she NEVER followed through, even if I contacted her again. NOT ONE GIRL. So if she is "too busy" and does not offer a re-schedule, hard next. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Tune-up Tuesday: What is your #1 issue you need help with the most?Well I know I am not "good looking" objectively. I am fine with that...to help out I started lifting, dressing better, got some sun. I feel like I am at least a bit above average. I am fine not banging 7+/10s...but I feel like I can only get overweight women. As a fit guy..that just feels...wrong? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/16 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Tune-up Tuesday: What is your #1 issue you need help with the most?I'm a very fit guy that dresses well, has a high paying job, his own place, but cannot for the life of me attract a girl that is not overweight or fat. Once a girl is a 6/10 or greater, I don't have any succeess. This has been going on for 6+ years and I still don't have any idea what I'm doing wrong. Just be random chance I would have at least gotten lucky once. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/16 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Seeing is BelievingIts more of the context of the gift more than anything that matters. I've given plates occasional random acts of kindness (see something like they at grocery store, see their favorite flower) and they LOVE it, but I have never framed gifts as a hand over of power or frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/16 05:28 PM |
| 13 | I'm 21, 3 girls want to have sex with me but I'm petrified to the point where I can't even meet them in person and they're starting to get annoyed by it, obviously...I fail to understand how so many paralyzed virgins have so many women wanted to DTF them. am I missing something here? | /r/askTRP | 14/02/16 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Valentine's Day = Judgement Day for Single Women in Their Thirties and FortiesI feel absolutely no sympathy for them, since the reason they are single comes down to choices they made, choices that likely involve choosing to only phuck Chads. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/16 12:53 AM |
| 1 | What does a women's relationship with her dad signify? How does that reflect on you?I'm confused too. how does not having a father figure translate into women being psychologically messed up? Aren't they values mostly inherent in most people anyways (Respect Yourself, Stand Up for yourself, Respect others). | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Went hard MGTOW a few months ago but it isn't working due to my innate desire to reproduceWell, shit | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Went hard MGTOW a few months ago but it isn't working due to my innate desire to reproduceI mean "act like a normal person" as in most guys can't hold a normal conversation in front of an attractive women they just met/approached. They turn into a bumbling nervous wreck, and women sense that. I am saying more of acting playful/fun etc and don't show you are intimated by her - aka you are treating her like anyone else. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Went hard MGTOW a few months ago but it isn't working due to my innate desire to reproduceAct like a normal person? I don't believe in canned lines. Basically, notice something about the person/surroundings/situation and casually mention it to her. Something that can start a convo other than hi. hold eye contact, smile, etc. If I am feeling a vibe, continue. If not, discontinue. Tell her we are going to grab drinks/hang out whatever and tell her and say "whats your number". thats about it? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Went hard MGTOW a few months ago but it isn't working due to my innate desire to reproduceI'm speaking to the attractive women only here: I typically get a positive conversation/reception on the first meet up. We usually meet at a bar and I pick a place where we both can sit right next to each other. Night usually progresses to touching on leg, etc. Followed by a goodbye and a kiss/makeout half the time. The date usually lasts longer than her I think think (she usually mentions that she did not except to be out this late but is having a fun time) I usually make the move. It's after t… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Went hard MGTOW a few months ago but it isn't working due to my innate desire to reproduceI improved immensely in my career/hobbies/lifting. I put a 5 year plan together, broke it down into sub goals and broke those down into more sub-goals and hacked at it every week. Took along time. One thing I realized is that I overestimated the amount of progress I can make in on year, but underestimated the amount I could make in 5. But girls, that didn't change at all. or stayed the same. I expected that to improve as a side effect. But as I got stronger, dressed better, leaner, better social… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Went hard MGTOW a few months ago but it isn't working due to my innate desire to reproduceUgly - no. Attractive - unlikely. Zero game - not zero, but I can hold my own. the dates I go never really end early and I get decent compliments, but it never progresses with the ones I find attractive. I constantly get the "I'm just not feeling it....I don'tknow why?" excuse. And its always the attractive ones that say that. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 05:17 PM |
| 7 | How to Stop Being an AFCI remember when I had a high grade fever and went to the grocery store, I literally started talking to this 9/10 next to me on the grocery store line. Starting give chit to her. She loved it. I didn't even fucking realize that the only reason why I did that was because I was way too sick to feel anything but being sick. No anxiety/nerves nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 03:16 PM |
| 19 | Go Full PatriarchHere's the thing that "dare" not be said outside the confines of red-pill: If you want women, lead them like they are stubborn children. Once you show a modicum of leadership or some sort of control over the situation, they tend to soften and gravitate towards following your actions. This does not apply if you have shown them weakness over the situation. Again, I am ALL for equality, but we have to look at the facts, dictated by their actions, that that is NOT the case. Women are also victims of… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Why do women find me attractive in person, yet online dating yields almost no success for me? I'm above average in looks...Using Tinder swiping all girls as en example (swiping all is more efficient) I'd say it's worse than top 10%. Judging by how I have personally seen women swipe men, its usually 1 out of 20 guys, or top 5%. If you hit the top 5%, about 25% of those girls will be in shape and cute. of those 25%, only half will respond. of those half, half of those will agree to meet up on a date of those half that meet up, half will actually meet up. Let's do the math here, EVEN IF you are a top 5% (not 10% guy), … | /r/askTRP | 13/01/16 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Why nice guys suck at datingHow about the "good" guy who is genuinely nice, transparent, and open to everyone, even if his honesty and openness is harsh? A guy who knows that helping people and guiding people requires sometimes harsh judgement and not sugarcoating things. This guy won't manipulate people to his own ends, but he cares about people to the extent that he knows exactly how to lead them and give them the correct advice. Someone who is honest about his desires etc. Where does he fall? This is the kind of persona… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 03:15 PM |
| -2 | Woman's SMV is fixed, Man's SMV is malleable. Build your SMV.As a red pill guy who has been at self improvement for several years (5+), how do you balance time invested in the opposite sex to fulfill your desires versus time spent on yourself to fulfill your desires. What if you realize that the effort you will need to achieve the SMV to attract women you are attracted too requires an inordinate amount of time and effort that would otherwise detract from your personal goals? That is the predicament I am in. Simply to put it, I was not blessed with a good … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 05:28 PM |
| 0 | How do you confirm a date?This. Set the time and place. If you think of something or see something that reminds you of her, send her a quick text. But don't think about it too much, you have your own life and your own thing going on. Confirm on the day of the date. I know this goes against the red pill but I don't like having my time wasted. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 03:33 PM |
| 1 | "Lets just be friends" after 1 month of datingFirst of all - I completely AGREE with the fact that you should always be escalating, along with outcome independence (goes along with abundance mentality). however, the thing am I starting to not agree with is when people state that the reason why they were friend-zoned is because they "played it too safe" etc, as in if they always escalated, they would not be friend zoned. Sometimes the girl is just PLAIN NOT attracted to you enough from the get go and is trying to give it a chance but her att… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 03:17 AM |
| 3 | The Difference Between Alpha and BetaI like the above assessment of alpha and beta - notice how it has NOTHING to do with getting girls. you also have to realize that being alpha by this definition might mean you will not have success with women. Talk about a tough pill to swallow. Let's say, outside of women, you fucking LOVE to program, play in a heavy metal band, and work as a carpenter. you hate clubbing, going to bars, tweeting, facebook, dancing, etc etc (insert activity with lots of women in it). You could potentially feel g… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Tinder's new update confirms RP truths in a big way.If you are so afraid of putting your work place down, why not just put something ridiculous instead like "Bartender at the Playboy mansion" or some crazy shit like that. Your facebook friends will know it's a joke anyways | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 08:11 PM |
| 2 | What happens if there is no 'backlash' against the misandry bubble?The day that I see an obese whale on Instagram with 10,000 likes, a smug face, and a list of criteria "she won't settle for" that is WAY WAY above her, with everyone applauding "you go gurl" is the day that I just sit back and laugh comically at the ridiculousness of the situation and go one with my life. hell, maybe I'll create a daily blog listing all of them for red pill chits and giggles | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 06:27 PM |
| 2 | How often do you guys get clear indicators of interest from women?shit. I don't a girl has ever done this to me, other than an overweight one. Maybe my SMV is not has high as I thought it was. Literally what you described is completely foreign | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 05:09 PM |
| 0 | What does it take to be top 20%?In today's dating market it's more like the top 5-10%. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 03:54 PM |
| 7 | My Rant on "Standards" and how "getting lucky" are Blue Pill TermsThe only time "go out of your league, you'll be surprised!!!!" works is when there is a disconnect between your perceived value, which is relatively universal, and the value you are actually perceived. I know guys that are very good looking/smart etc that look at a 7/10 and think "man she is out of my league". in reality, they are in part or above the girls' league, but just are not aware of it, so when they attempt to attract a girl and nervously ask her out, they end up banging and suddenly th… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 04:57 PM |
| 1 | At a club or bar, what should I be saying to girls within the first 5-10 min?casually point out something in the environment that is silly/etc and mention it to them. Also, It's highly beneficial to have a high perceived SMV, as this will do the work for you (know the bartender, people at the bar, well groomed etc etc) You will have to rely less on a fancy opener and hell, she may even open you. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 08:09 PM |
| 3 | I have decided to go Hookers way.I fuller concur and relate to this post. The feeling of being a fully testosterone infused male, lifting everyday, seeing your sexy body, and not getting pussy (for whatever reason) makes you want to smash things. It's like food and water. If don't have it for a while you start going fucking insane. if you have it for awhile and have ALWAYS had it in some form, people who are starved for it seem like crazy lunatics, because you just don't understand. I'm in the same phase right now. Literally ev… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 02:57 AM |
| 5 | Mommy Meets Online DatingSay what you will, online dating has its perks especially if you live in a metropolitan area. whoa whoa hold on here. only if you are in the top 1-5%. forget about it if aren't. approach in real life. women on online dating in metro areas have a huge pool of young professionals. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Watch out for energy drains - they are probably also confidence drains.This. Set Goals that motivate you and break them down into sub goals that make the main goal seem achievable. now your'e motivated. you will be too busy and too empowered by the action your taking towards yourself to give a chit about whether a 7/10 barista that spends 3 hours day on instagram texts you back or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 12:46 PM |
| -1 | TRP's Guide to Skyrocketing your SMV with PhotographyI like how men have been reduced to fucking objects that women just peruse through based on how shiny the picture is. I would rather remain celibate than go through a fucking 15 step DLSR photo glamour shot optimization class in order to get women. What's next? getting chin implants so we all have deeply cut jaws that are also appealing to women? Wearing clothes that are optimized and tailored for each specific person to bring out their V-Shape. Oh...you have a small wrinkle down by your torso..… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Looks are everythingWow, I'm surprised that you aren't being flamed by the whole red pill community for this post. Glad to see people are finally waking up to the REAL RED PILL of the RED PILL itself. The red pill has some vestiges of the PUA days in regards to informing men that looks is NOT the most important thing when attracting women in this day and age. Wake up call: IT IS, by far, the most important thing. Improving your looks is the thing that will get you the most increase in your success, period. I'm not … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Instant Gratification / lack of Willpower and DisciplineWillpower is developed by overcoming the strong feeling associated with an "Addiction". It's not supposed to be easy. It' supposed to feel like shit (at first). that's why most people fail at it. Instead of thinking of it as a burden, thing of the stress/shitty feeling as a temporary obstacle and challenge. It's sorta like running a 10K and feeling like "shit" because you are pushing your body - but you know it is temporary and if you get through you will add resilience and willpower. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Rapid Rise in Teacher/student scandals? Symptom of mental issues or normal AWALT behavior?How did that opportunity arise? | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Rapid Rise in Teacher/student scandals? Symptom of mental issues or normal AWALT behavior?15 year old kids are awkward, ugly, stupid, and have no social status or anything going for them in the real world. I'm sure they can be cute, fun, funny, etc. I just can't imagine what would cause a grown woman to find them sexually attractive. This is why I think the only alternative is that they have some sort of sexual niche that is rare (kind of like how some men prefer chubby women). | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 02:37 PM |
| 2 | If you were a woman that found TRP, what are the first 3 things that you would say?21 year old 6/10 HBB finds the TRP after googling "elliot rodger supporters" in her gender studies class at University of Arizona. The combination of her hangover from the night before and relentless pounding from Chad Smith, third string college quarterback have left her legs weak and her eyes sensitive to the bright classroom lights 1 - Seriously? why are men so entitled these days. These MRA forums have to stop. I might get raped on the way home tonight because of people like this. or maybe a… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/15 08:48 PM |
| 0 | I'm making the conscious decision to go "MGTOW". Thoughts on my stance?So a virgin neckbeard who is overweight and his personal goals are to become a local magic the gathering tournament coordinator and a IT tech support manager on the side to fund his hobby is going to magically have 8/10 women banging on his studio apt doorstep? | /r/askTRP | 13/10/15 08:08 PM |
| 15 | Online Dating Photo RetouchingIt makes me uneasy that men basically have to take glamour shots in order to have a chance at dating women on online dating. Take a real good look at what it has come down too: -Must have a good fashion sense with a nice haircut. Don't you dare be seen with sweatpants. Fitted suits at weddings are a must now. -The phucking shoes men were now. They look nice by for the love god you need like 10 pairs in order to effectively look fashionably put together -Glamour shots for online dating profiles. … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 02:38 PM |
| 14 | Guy sees his fiance of 3 years talking to her friend about her Ex-Boyfriend's amazing skills in bed^ This. Even if you were the #1 sex god in the world, the fact that you committed to her and she knows she has you automatically makes you #2. Why do you think break up sex is the best? Even for guys, damn..break up sex gets me off WAYYYY more. and this goes both ways | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 06:28 PM |
| 3 | How does working in a STEM field affect a woman?Male working in STEM field past 6 years with mostly younger engineers. The thing I am MOST curious about is why women in STEM are much less attractive than the average or other fields. I'm am talking about genetic attractiveness (most of the women I know in STEM have unattractive faces, so the excuse I hear that it is because they don't have to dress up is why like a marketing manager or sales person is BS). Is it because they were not treated as highly growing up and therefore nurtured their lo… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 05:03 PM |
| 1 | He doesn't have to be a Chad.Nothing to do with my self esteem, more to do with the fact that I am still on my red pill pathway to actually attract an attractive girl like that, and this guy literally did jack shit and was jack shit at the same time. I would love to experience actually sleeping with a girl like that - still endlessly working on it, for the past 7 years. Its just a little...frustrating. Working on my game now, it still sucks, I'm a completely literal person, don't have a single iota of intuition around subtl… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 07:52 PM |
| 9 | He doesn't have to be a Chad.this is KEY to reconciling the jarring inconsistencies we see in who women end up sleeping with sometimes. Men tend to like consistency and systems that make sense. Yes - sometimes, in the right circumstance and situation, you can see a very sexually attractive women going home with a overweight neck beard with poor body posture and social anxiety, just because she hasn't been laid in 9 months, gets drunk, broke her vibrator 2 weeks ago and hasn't gotten a new one, and just read an article about… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Girl I'm dating giving ultimatum'sThis is fucking stupid. Tell her that it is because you want to learn dance. Tell her she can come too. Do whatever, but don't ever tell her that you will stop learning just to make her feel less jealous. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/15 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Protecting frame/SMV whilst sick?Don't act like a bitch about it. "Yeah I got this fucking tonsillitis bullshit again, sorry for the hoarse voice, now let's wrap up this photoshoot" | /r/askTRP | 02/10/15 01:59 PM |
| 0 | SMV Hers < YoursWait, I thought that girls went for guys that are above their SMV? Aka a girl who is 5 will reject a 6 because she thinks she can get a 7. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Can you rationally destroy any mis-perceptions of SMV a girl may have?True, it is about perceived SMV, not actual. I am just surprised that some girls are so delusional that the think that if they are fat, that their "Equivalent' is a guy who is very fit. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Can you rationally destroy any mis-perceptions of SMV a girl may have?Agreed, I guess it was more of a knee jerk emotional reaction, but who would I be trying to impress? I already know I'm ahead of her. It's a waste. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 07:50 PM |
| 3 | What are some of your personal, less common, red flags when it comes to girls?Completely agree. If she is a 9/10 online and you don't look like Thor from the Avengers and she is overly excited to meet you at your place in 2 hours, chances are she is probably a 4/10 in real life, a hooker, or there to steal your wallet and run. If you are in Thailand and this happens she is probably a ladyboy. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Can you rationally destroy any mis-perceptions of SMV a girl may have?Jesus I never said game that game is not required I simply hold the belief that the importance of game is often overrated, especially if you have the ability to read signals and confidently express yourself, which is NOT THAT HARD. I have no doubt that you swooped attractive girls under tall and handsome swole guys but what kind of "lack of game" did they possess? are we talking they were socially retarded and it was therefore easier or these otherwise normal men that were able to "confidently e… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Dates and timingIts posts like these that remind me how much logistics and happenstance play into gaining success with women (=laid). since getting laid typically means the women is emotionally invested in you, you could almost say that happenstance and logistics, some of which seem to be "minor" factors, are a huge factor into whether a girl "falls for you" or not, and to optimize these factors In my opinion, a huge reason for this is that women want things to "fall into place" with little effort on their part… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 04:46 PM |
| 0 | navigating the marketplace as a well-off, young, unmarried single dadinteresting? maybe the women I have been going home with just are turned off by children? or the prospect of dating someone with them. Where do you meet these women? send them my way haha. A women who has a nurturing side (And is good with kids) is strangely very attractive to me. I am up-front about it too, and love showing pictures of him to people (they always ask). The difficulty I think arises from the fact that, they presume I am married since I am a guy in his twenties still, and maybe th… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 03:34 PM |
| 2 | How has The Red PILL actually changed your life? (All Aspects of life)I'm a strange case where the red pill has improved my life in all areas except attracting women. I embarked on a self improvement mission ~ 3 years ago and discovered the red pill around 1.5 years into it, realizing I actually already had ingrained a lot of its principles already. I almost doubled my income, people take me more seriously at work. almost to my ideal body and fitness level. Learned how to cook decently well, improved my guitar playing. The level of interest from women has remained… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/15 07:03 PM |
| 1 | LTR joking around about how she will not change her family name to mineI hate how women are so passive and indirect in their intentions ...jeebus. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Did any of you come from a point where you were "below" beta bucks?I totally get what you are saying - and have thought I about myself as well. However, does success in areas that are not itself conducive to attracting women have net positive effect on your self esteem to the point where it matters? I guess it depends on how that success if manifested in the personality of the person. If I succeed, I will become more confident, but I may not show that outwardly? Isn't that what is attractive to women? The outward display of confidence. If you set a precedent th… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Did any of you come from a point where you were "below" beta bucks?Is there a point, in the process of self improvement, and gaining more insight into what raises a man's SMV and what is needed for that specific person to raise his SMV to attract the women he wants, that he decides through cost benefit that it is simply not worth putting the effort in to get to the necessary level? I guess what I am trying to say is that I am seeing SOME level of improvement in girls responding to me, presumably because of constant lifting/better dress/better approaches - howev… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 05:37 PM |
| 0 | Did any of you come from a point where you were "below" beta bucks?Is there a need to balance the effort needed to obtain the women you want to attract and how that relates to your personal self improvement goals (factoring women out of the equation)? TRP advocates to never improve FOR women. Yet, the need to attract women is biologically ingrained in all of us, and ignoring it provide great distress. Needless to say, a lot of the things we do are at least partially motivated to attract women. But how do you balance the two? What if the things you are passionat… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Did any of you come from a point where you were "below" beta bucks?Mother of God - Do people like that even exist? Guys that are fucking multiple 8/10s every week. Banging girls within 15 minutes of talking to them in the bathroom stall on a constant basis. I feel like I need to befriend one of these guys and follow them around to see what their life is like | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Did any of you come from a point where you were "below" beta bucks?Googled it. Shit, there is an actual term for this. wow. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 03:02 PM |
| 2 | 20F here, need some brutal honesty from you guys.We will always deliver the truth even if it hurts. And true, you cannot change the past and should not fixate on the past. Move forward. I would not go overly fatalistic on this one. If you treat the guy you choose to commit too with complete transparency on your past, and show that will give him the same sexual attention you gave during your carousal riding (hint, stay in shape, don't do sex as a reward for something), you should be fine. A was in a LTR who was a self-admitted carousel rider, w… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 07:22 PM |
| 2 | 20F here, need some brutal honesty from you guys.Well she is fucked, since she admits she is attracted to and wants to end up with a red pill esque men. It is likely that a man of this type will not want to commit with her given her past. Only exception is if she gives it up early to him | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 07:01 PM |
| 8 | 20F here, need some brutal honesty from you guys.First off, is this a troll? your story is almost TOO fitting to the red pill archetype of a carousel rider that wants to settle down. So basically, you did rode the cock carousel into oblivion and now you expect a halfway decent guy to court you and take you in? I know your type. You are the EXACT type that gave me the finger when I gave you the time of day 6 years ago (and I cringe at how I acted before I realized the truth...), and now that you realize the idiocy of your decision (which you we… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Re: over-tasking yourself with too many self-improvement goals (or trouble starting in the first place). Consider that the pitfall is more in your conception of them rather than the quantity of them.Personally, it has taken me a LONG TIME to get to break through that barrier and "just do it", especially when I have a plethora of tasks to do. However, the past year, as I stick to my guns and perform all the sub goals I right down, I am starting to realize how stressed out it all makes me feel. Is it worth it? I have goals related to my career and hobbies. I tried one week "accomplishing everything" and it for one, drained all the energy out of me, and number two, took up virtually all my fre… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Regarding lifting as seen on /r/theredpill today, how can I apply that to myself as a hardcore ectomorph?This. Also, the only time you are going to be appear nervous and awkward is if you act like it at the gym. I have never really given a second glance to a noobie guy training at the gym lifting up the bar on the bench press. A lot of seasoned guys started out exactly where you started out, and are more than willing to help you since they know improper technique can lead to injuries etc. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/15 03:37 PM |
| 2 | The Red Piller's Guide to Weight TrainingMy calories increased a little (since I actually gained some muscle mass- not noob gains). Fat % remains around 10-12%. Time and Money is why. I have other goals other than lifting that consume vast amounts of time (and require saving money). There is a certain cut-off point. Every bit of time I save adds up. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 02:49 PM |
| 29 | The Red Piller's Guide to Weight TrainingGreat easy to digest, relevant advice Point #5 cannot be re-iterated more. I dropped supplements (even whey) over a year ago and I noticed NO change in progress. I used freak about getting enough protein and in a certain time window, so I would buy whey protein to get my 1gram per pound of body weight. I dropped the whey, moved down to .75 gram per pound of body-weight, and stopped caring so much about eating windows and NOTHING has changed. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/15 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How come Korean male models or actors get that much attraction from girls when they are really feminine?No, Looks are a huge benefit. Improving your looks as long as you have NORMAL social skills and game will by far give you the most "bang" for your buck (or cock). Ever Tried using a male model profile on Tinder/POF/OKcupid and saying stupid shit and STILL getting girls wanting to hook up with you? Look it up online, several people have tried it. And Stop citing extreme outliers (celebrities) of examples of status and charisma (but mostly status) than can make up for looks. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/15 10:13 PM |
| 2 | How come Korean male models or actors get that much attraction from girls when they are really feminine?oh so they were ABLE to get sex. Point refuted. Still got them in bed. If you are "hawt" looking, some women will stop at no end to fuck you, to the point of things like trying to get you drunk/grabbing your ass/coming over to your apartment and watching a movie with you with her underwear on. The only way to fuck it up is to have ABSOLUTELY NO GAME. having SOME level of game, AKA basic social skills is enough. Looks will do the rest. If you are average looking, you will need to make up your loo… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/15 10:04 PM |
| -1 | How come Korean male models or actors get that much attraction from girls when they are really feminine?Looks are a subset of game. A big subset of Game. Looks also influence a girls' perception of your social game and causes a positive feedback loop to increase your confidence and social game even more. Therefore Looks do Matter. A LOT. For us mere mortals who are not motivational speakers/celebrities/high profile musicians, millionaires and cannot leverage that level of status and money, looks matter. SMV = Looks + Money + Status. If you don't have money and status TO THE POINT WHERE IT MATTERS,… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/15 04:04 PM |
| 3 | “The Red Piller’s Guide to Online Dating”Marketing has harnessed the emotional circuitry of women to their advantage to maximize profits. This guide is similar, except we use it to maximize lays. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/15 03:05 PM |
| 7 | “The Red Piller’s Guide to Online Dating”the most distressing thing a man notices in his pursuit and evolution of online dating from 1st profile and message to maximizing his success rate is the painful realization of WHAT WORKS and what doesn't and how that reflects on women in society. Initial Strategy: I'll create a profile with an emphasis on my personality, interests, likes/dislikes and what I am looking for in the opposite sex. I'll put some pictures up of me, they don't HAVE to be the best ones because women care about personali… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/15 02:12 PM |
| 1 | I believe I have identified my main sticking points.Really? so my level as a fit guy who is not short is an overweight girl? I find that hard to believe. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/15 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Is there really any point in lifting?If you have been on a good lifting regimen with good results for a while you start REALIZING the benefits that occur OTHER than the increased sized. -Increased Sex Drive/Drive in general as well as decreased depression. I believe this is related to increased testosterone as well as the "high" you get after any exercise -TRP is all about improvement and charting progress. Lifting is a perfect example of something where you can visually see evidence of your progress that is directly proportional t… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/15 06:59 PM |
| 7 | The Australian Bachelor Is "And Idiot" For Choosing Beauty Over Brains (a.k.a. The Hamster Dissected)God this reminds me of the experiment a guy did on POF with a male model profile. Women starting flocking to him basically offering to drop whatever they were doing to screw him, most of which were far below is his league. When he responded to them that they were not his type, in the KINDEST way possible, most of them completely blew up. and these are the SAME FUCKING WOMEN who have shit in their profiles that reads "if I don't respond to you, it probably means I don't like you, stop throwing a … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 03:32 PM |
| 5 | What matters more for men, looks or success?In MY experience (prepares battering rams) If you have THESE baseline qualities down: -Good Social Skills -Decent Job and financial independence -Solid Social Circle -Don't dress like a slob Then looks by far matters more. However, if success means owing your own multi-million dollars business, the penthouse downtown, etc etc, then success matters more. But let's say for simplicity sake that most of us are not going to be multimillionaires and it is not terribly hard to get the baseline qualitie… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/15 08:50 PM |
| 3 | As higher percentages of the mainstream start adopting TRP and it's self improvement practices, is there going to be a point where RP men start opting out of SMV improvement due to competitionI do approach women. (albeit with less frequency since I have been in a monk mode lately). I'll tell you what exactly happens: the ones that are 4-5 (maybe a 6 if I am EXTREMELY LUCK) respond very well to me, and have ended up resulting in many lays, almost a 50% conversation rate on the first or second date. However, once they are objectively "cute", the whole attitude changes. Flakes, "boyfriends", going out but not responding to Kino. the difference in responses between the 4-5's and the 6+'s… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 07:50 PM |
| 5 | As higher percentages of the mainstream start adopting TRP and it's self improvement practices, is there going to be a point where RP men start opting out of SMV improvement due to competitionWOW, maybe because that has been my experience my WHOLE FSCKING LIFE. All I fucking see are people shaming men who may have this CRAZY thought that looks matter MORE than people like to say, EVEN ON HERE. These are INTELLIGENT MEN, who are also SOCIALLY VERSED as well. Worse yet, I find out the guys telling other guys that looks don't matter END UP BEING OBJECTIVELY GOOD LOOKING. I mean, fucking seriously? And don't you DARE start referencing extreme outliers such as danny devito as "proof" that… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 07:41 PM |
| 4 | As higher percentages of the mainstream start adopting TRP and it's self improvement practices, is there going to be a point where RP men start opting out of SMV improvement due to competitionThis is where my experience differs from most peoples' on the red pill reddit. From what I have experienced (personally and through friends/going out), is that looks, BY FAR is the most important factor in attracting the opposite sex. I mean, as long as you can hold a normal conversation, have a job, and don't act like a huge creepo, looks will be the most important factor. I went to a wedding this past Sunday night. There were probably 20-25 men there who were taken (had dates), and in every in… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 07:27 PM |
| 1 | As higher percentages of the mainstream start adopting TRP and it's self improvement practices, is there going to be a point where RP men start opting out of SMV improvement due to competitionwhat about that whole primary motivator and biological urge that is comparable to the need for water/food/shelter - Urge to Procreate? If you base all your actions on not making women top priority, there is no guarantee that as a side effect, you will attract more women. I can tell you from first-hand experience that not getting your needs met as a guy with decent testosterone levels - it is going to start surfacing and you cannot simple say "welp, I'm not making it my priority" | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 06:45 PM |
| 2 | As higher percentages of the mainstream start adopting TRP and it's self improvement practices, is there going to be a point where RP men start opting out of SMV improvement due to competitionIt is ridiculous, but in 10-15 years it might start becoming a reality. It's the reality on POF, and other sites such as Eharmony/Okcupid/Match are headed in that direction. Scarier, Tinder, which is becoming arguable the most mainstream method, is the worst. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 06:42 PM |
| 8 | As higher percentages of the mainstream start adopting TRP and it's self improvement practices, is there going to be a point where RP men start opting out of SMV improvement due to competitionI'm fine with SMV relative to other men. What I am not fine with is when I have to become a 9.4 guy in order to attract a 5 girl. If it "costs" me a significant over the top investment in areas I would otherwise not overly-invest in just for an average looking girl - count me out. It terrifies me, because I am starting to see men entertaining radical ideas to improve their SMV due to the ever increasing imbalance in the market place. -Leg lengthening surgery because height matters -Plastic Surge… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 05:56 PM |
| 6 | Saw the truth so clearly last nightWomen revel in the power they have over guys, to the point of pure evil manipulation for their sole enjoyment. This is a perfect example. And no one fucking calls them out on it. At the bar, their girlfriends laugh it off like it's some fucking joke. This has to change. Reminds me of a girl on POF that was clearly overweight but reveling in the fact that she got so many messages. she told me, that based on the messages she gets that she will only date fit guys and has "plenty of options" and "pl… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I cannot seem to raise my SMV to the point where I actually attract girls that I am attracted too5 10 175 pounds 12% bodyfat | /r/askTRP | 07/09/15 09:59 PM |
| 2 | I cannot seem to raise my SMV to the point where I actually attract girls that I am attracted tooI have a lay count of 50ish girls, only 2-3 of which are not ugly/fat. I'd like to raise my standards | /r/askTRP | 07/09/15 09:58 PM |
| 1 | I cannot seem to raise my SMV to the point where I actually attract girls that I am attracted tooCareer-wise, I'm in a good position already. Wardrobe is also pretty good - although I tend to wear "plain-ish" looking clothes. Maybe it is time to branch out so I stand out a bit more???? | /r/askTRP | 07/09/15 08:06 PM |
| 5 | You work a terrible job that you strongly dislike. Although you dislike it, it pays the bills. Do you sacrifice passion for security? Or do you throw caution to the wind and pursue something different?I think you are referring to this statement "I want to do what I love, when I want to do it". - this is a side hobby/passion and much different than making it your career When it becomes your job and source of income, you are not the only "shareholder" and therefore when you are sick/tired/etc you will still have to "work" on your "passion" Do you think you rolling stones are flailing with excitement that they get to play "I can't get no satisfaction" for the 100,000th time after touring for 50 … | /r/askTRP | 03/09/15 07:51 PM |
| 1 | newbie to trp, somewhat friend zoned last night after first date, need advice."It's just weird when you say that because you are just my friend". That's almost as bad as the excuse the last girl (FWB who suddenly stopped seeing me) gave me "I can't have sex anymore I just don't have time" | /r/askTRP | 01/09/15 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How can anyone be a chad if you are aesthetically good looking but earn an average wage?I would STRONGLY argue that the it is much much much more advantageous to be good looking with an average wage than average looking with a good good wage. You can always improve your wage but your looks only until a certain extent. Source: I'm a 29 year that makes six figures but can only pull 5/10 girls, primarily due to my un-masculine looking face. While some of my buddies who make a fifth of what I do pull way more attractive girls with a similar level of game to myself. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/15 06:58 PM |
| 2 | I missed out on the college experience and I am pissed off about it, what can I do in my adult years to make up for lost time?yes! I would also add that on the same note, one of the MOST frustrating things is excelling in areas of your life such as hobbies/career/etc but NOT having your baseline sexual desires met. Frustration is compounded by the fact that as you improve, your perceived SMV increases yet you are using jergens and the paper towel every night. Lack of sexual needs being met will cause depression to bleed into an otherwise healthy normal life. It needs to be addressed before your positive trajectory towa… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/15 08:58 PM |
| 2 | I missed out on the college experience and I am pissed off about it, what can I do in my adult years to make up for lost time?Im going to be the devils advocate here and say that obtaining "hot women" typically requires work, sometimes tremendous work, outside of the pursuit of "personal hobbies/careers/lifting etc". Sure, if your career is in advertising/marketing and your hobby is playing john mayer covers at college, you will get massive poon as a side effect of you the pursuit of "you". however, if your career is software engineering followed by lifting at a power lifting gym followed by being in a heavy metal band… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/15 05:12 PM |
| 1 | If she has/had 'friends with benefits' she's not worth the commitment.I do think I have EVER met a girl who has NOT become emotionally bonded to her "FWB", no matter how much she convinces herself "I'm an independent womyn and can do casual sex fine". And the ones that I have had that were emotionally distant - It was almost like they were going significantly OUT OF THERE WAY to almost "force themselves" from developing feelings - they knew it would be a battle. Things like becoming as distant as possible immediately after sex (literally just getting up and leavin… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/15 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Man flees Canada after losing his kids and $1.2 million home, and being forced to pay $4000 a month to his wife. Is labeled a "deadbeat dad" by the media.and I bet the media/family portrayed him as "selfish" for committing suicide and taking the easy way out. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone have any tips on "leaning out" the necessary routines of your life in order to free up more time on self improvement?all the random stuff that comes up you can't predict. Oh shit my water faucet broke. Crap I need new paper towels. Uh oh..car accident on the freeway, looks like it's going to add another 30 minutes of drive time. It ALWAYS takes way more time than you think to get stuff done | /r/askTRP | 23/08/15 10:27 PM |
| 2 | How common are indicators of interest? At what level of SMV would you start seeing them consistently?I do but I never notice women looking at me | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 04:56 PM |
| 21 | Man flees Canada after losing his kids and $1.2 million home, and being forced to pay $4000 a month to his wife. Is labeled a "deadbeat dad" by the media.This is the kind of stuff that drives men to suicide. especially if kids are involved. and we have the audacity to call them "deadbeats". Society today has NO empathy for men in this situation. god damnit. I can't stand it. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/15 10:15 PM |
| 14 | What if everyone was red pill aware?90% of men will be members of gyms, 10% bodyfat with defined musculature. Dressed like GQ models. People will start getting plastic surgery to increase their looks. Gym corporations will explode. Suddenly, you will have to be 6'2", a PUA master, 10% bodyfat at 200 pounds, own a condo, and have seasoned salesman level charisma in order to attract a 24 year old Barista with an IQ of 95 that has 100,000K in debt and an average looking body. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/15 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Should I pay for her ice cream?Who gives a fuck? It's ice cream. not a fucking 4 star restaurant. If you are feeling especially gregarious then go ahead and pay for it. If she somehow loses attraction for you or it sets a precedent JUST BECAUSE YOU PAID 5 DOLLARS FOR HER ICE CREAM then she is already a loony control freak. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/15 07:49 PM |
| 2 | How To Forget About Women/Validation While In Monk Mode?I totally feel for you and can relate, I'm in your same shoes. Lucky for you, you have 9 years on me (I'm 29). More time to improve! I know what you mean by feeling like you are "sub-blue pill" - Most guys complain about being the "orbiter", but you don't even qualify as being worth of that. Most guys screw up because girls give them signals of interest or even put them in very obvious situations and are too much of a pussy to make a move (girl invites guy to movie over at her place and lays hea… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/15 08:33 PM |
| 1 | What is your typical week?nope, but it is a huge passion of mine. I have a Paul reed smith custom 24 through a bogner uberschall. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Love the improvement stories on here, but really questioning the validity of these stories I read on hereI was referring to more of the 6'2" guy who is chubby with no social skills. He lifts and loses weight - revealing a classically handsome face underneath the face fat and a chiseled body. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Beta gets screwed by societyThis pisses me off to no end. And reminds me of my best friend in high school who came SO DAMN CLOSE to becoming labeled a sex offender because he slept with a 17 year girl 5 days after he turned 18. Oh, and it was his girlfriend by the way, whom he had been dating for 2 years. Another tidbit, she was 10 days away from turning 18. Pretty much the SAME AGE. She didn't like the fact that he was going to move away for college and called the police on him. He had just got into Michigan Tech on a ful… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/15 02:05 PM |
| 2 | What is your typical week?Monday: Work, See My son at night Tuesday: Work, Shoulder and Tri Workout, Practice Guitar ~3 hours Wednesday: Work, Leg Workout, Date or Practice Guitar ~3 hours Thursday: Work, See my son at night Friday: Work, Back Workout, Go out with guy friend (trying to invest more in good male relationships) Saturday: Early Morning Chest Workout, Guitar for ~6 hours, learn a new good recipe from scratch, Go out at night Sunday: Biceps/Ab Workout, Make meals for the week (morning), Guitar for ~6 hours, va… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Can you describe to me the life of a "high SMV" guy in his 30s when it comes to women and social life?I agree, it isn't that impressive. but the fact that I only had to get a Bachelors and only work 40 hours max a week to get there makes the 60+ hour law school grads with 100,000K plus in debt seem alot less appealing. Oh, and I expect to make close to 150,00-200,000 by my mid thirties anyways, if I get into a management position (which at my company does not require a masters). | /r/askTRP | 03/08/15 08:25 PM |
| 1 | What're the rules for waiting/replying to texts?I used to always think about how to respond to texts as to not appear needy. What I didn't realize was that the very fact that I was putting so much thought into not appearing needy WAS giving me a "needy" mindset - I was still heavily invested basically. Key - Abundance abundance. prioritizing your life first. There are no rules- if you like her, text her, call her. text her 10 times in a row if you think you are having chemistry. If there isn't reciprocation, don't let it get to you, because y… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/15 02:43 PM |
| 13 | Can you describe to me the life of a "high SMV" guy in his 30s when it comes to women and social life?his other 8/10, the one whom he picked solely on her culinary skills, cooks him breakfast while he pours bourbon. he calmy eats his breakfast and places it on his table, a glass sheet held up by four 7/10 girls, one of them blowing him from underneath the table while providing support simultaneously. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/15 07:16 PM |
| 18 | Can you describe to me the life of a "high SMV" guy in his 30s when it comes to women and social life?100,000 at 30? lol I'm at 100,000 at 29 and it women really don't give a shit. Why? because I'm not running around telling women I make 100,000 and I live a relatively spartan lifestyle (minimalist). I'd rather invest and save my money and drive a civic than dump it into a BMW 5-series. Income only matters if it appears as though you have income. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/15 07:11 PM |
| 6 | A lot of guys are starting to read TRP, and it worries meWhat you should worry about the most is that THIS IS HAVING NO EFFECT ON THE QUALITY OF WOMEN. What you are seeing is natural selection in hyper-drive. Men are starting take notice and improve, compete with each other. Women still have no impetus to improve their attractiveness however, the ball is still in their court. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Ask IllimitableMan - July 2015What is your stance on the cost benefit analysis of the improvement of oneself solely to fulfill his biological imperative to reproduce with attractive women? and to further expand on that question, is it feasible fully detach oneself from this strong biological imperative and completely pursue other interests and passions in life? If this is the chosen path, what steps would a man take to avoid/supress/manage triggering his biological response towards an attractive women. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/15 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Are women's dating advices valuable?95% of the time no. the best "advice" you can get is to have attractive female friends in their 20's and somehow get into their social circle and just watch their actions. that's the best teacher. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/15 02:07 PM |
| 4 | The shifting wallWhat is the MOST striking example of how much things have changed is when one compares the type of men in long term marriages with most decent looking women in their 40's today to their value if they were suddenly single. The most common sight I see is the decently attractive late 30's early 40's women in heels/dress walking around. Her husband is wearing cargo shorts with a sports T shirt tucked in it, with an obvious beer belly. top it off with a balding head etc etc. If that guy were to enter… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Harsh Truth Revealed - Biggest problem I have is that I look very unmasculineNo, banana republic is targeted at younger professionals wanted to look decent without spending shitloads of money on tailored shirts or spending copious amounts of time on their fashion sense. Also, it is too pricey for college boys. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/15 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Harsh Truth Revealed - Biggest problem I have is that I look very unmasculineapparently a very very very very small niche. Which brings me back to my original issue pretty much. I know very very few attractive women that actually are fine with a guy who is very unmasculine looking. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/15 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Harsh Truth Revealed - Biggest problem I have is that I look very unmasculineI don't buy it - I have seen too many men with really shitty game pick up girls due to their looks. Also, are we talking about some far-fetched compensating mechanism here? or something that is reasonable. I don't have an interest in becoming a master of social charisma, becoming a celebrity, or making 10,000,000 in order to compensate. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/15 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I am tired of Western women.Why? What is your SMV like now. STOP. Don't give up, you have barely done shit so far. Lift, approach in public, refine your skills, work on your passions, improve improve improve. its addictive. Then if you come back 4 years later and decide its not worth the cost benefit, THEN entertain MGTOW. and MTGOW doesnt meant just shut women out completely - still approach, but don't make it part of your life plan to get laid. I'ts been 7 years for me. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/15 08:33 PM |
| 2 | I am tired of Western women.It's just the way it is. But like I said, AFTER self improvement, you may have much better luck hitting a higher SMV than I did. I am limited by my looks (yes, looks make a huge component of it, despite the shit people say on here) so I can't really go much higher other than making a shitload of money or becoming a DJ or having the charisma of a top tier salesman. This is going to sound crude as fuck, but my turning point was when I had spent most of my time during a week maintaining convos with… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/15 08:01 PM |
| 4 | I am tired of Western women.this reminds me of the cost-benefit analysis I did in how much time I invest in women, from an emotional/time/money standpoint versus what I got out of what. I used online dating (tinder, pof, okcupid), approaching in real life, bars, etc). for every 100 communications I made online, I got 12.7 responses. of those 12.7 responses, 4.3 turned into conversations that I had to maintain, of those 4.3, 2.2 turned into dates of those 2.2, 0.5 turned into a lay or something worthwhile. Total Time per la… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/15 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Two dates, several hangouts, turned down when making physical advancements.ACTIONS ACTIONS ACTIONS. always assume that she would likely fuck chad within the first two dates even if she says "she doesn't do that". You have no idea how many times a girl has refused advancements with the statement "I don't kiss on the first date, let's wait, I want to take this slow". then two months later I see her googly eyed with a 6 foot 2 Chad that reamed her on the first date. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/15 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Question on dining aloneWho Gives a Flying Fuk? Yes, I will tell you the truth - seeing someone dining along in a restaurant does lower his value in my eyes, especially if everyone else is with people. You know what, you should still not give a fuk. I'm a foodie, and love checking out new places to eat. I prefer to do this alone, so I can focus on checking out the menu and trying out the item that has the greatest buzz there, and enjoying it by myself without having to worry about keeping someone else occupied as well. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 03:23 PM |
| 2 | I am failing to understand why mention of your income or occupation is a giant "no no" in the world of attracting women?I never bring it up up-front, only if she probes and asks, and I usually tell her what I do and why I do it, rather than what my exact title is and how much I make. Example: What do you do? (let's say you are a aerospace engineer for space-x or something) -"I design and explore new methods for flight - imagine being able to travel from new york to bangkok in 3-4 hours, on a route that would take you on the edge of space, I love traveling and seeing new places, and I want to be able to connect pe… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 08:07 PM |
| 1 | A girl I'm interrested in has a picture of her making out with some guy in a club published on social media.You are making a huge deal out of something so insignificant. Girls make-out with everything. Random guys, their girlfriends, when they greet their dogs and the slobber all over them. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/15 02:24 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I am never going to get my SMV to the level where I can attract a "cute" girl, objectively speakingI'm starting right away on these two books | /r/askTRP | 01/07/15 09:47 PM |
| 1 | your gut isn't always rightMy gut has been correct nearly 100% of the time. Example: due to wanting to focus time on myself and not waste time with women who are not interested, I will cut off girl when I get an instant intuition that they are not interested anymore. Almost every time, I get an immediate gut sense that they don't "feel it" anymore, either through their responses (content, timing, etc) and then 100% of the time, they fail to meet up with me, despite verbal indications that they want to "Sure, I'd love to m… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Introverts, be the best version of yourself you can be, stop trying to be someone your not!It's the most effective method | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/15 01:31 PM |
| 38 | Introverts, be the best version of yourself you can be, stop trying to be someone your not!Being a true introvert that would like to still fuck women in the US is a constant struggle of finding balance between "being yourself' and "in order to get women, which is a desire I have, I need to change aspects about myself that I would normally NEVER change". I am not a clown, and you have to be an entertaining "clown" in order to attract women. Being "mysterious" and "quiet" unfortunately does not work for the majority of women, unless you have a cool image or are known for something great… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 04:37 PM |
| 2 | How to start anew? and not be beta.Jesus Christ OP, if your biggest problem is NOT making a move when you have girls literally humping your leg, then 99% of the battle is already won for you. you literally JUST HAVE TO MAKE A MOVE. it's hard to fuck that up. Think about it like this: Instead of having to spend a year lifting, dressing better, making more money etc etc (which you should do anyways), you just have to not puss out. Girls already find you attractive. 99% of the battle is won. I would KILL to be in your situation. I h… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 02:36 PM |
| 2 | I feel threatened by another guy's SMVRelative SMV is just as important. This is why I don't try to hit on or talk to girls at the gym I work at. My gym is in a very "posh" part of town and has a lot of fitness enthusiasts (cross-fitters, semi pro athletes, bodybuilders). It's hard to stick out when more than half the guys at your gym look almost as good as Chris Hemsworth. Stick me in a college bar or house party where everyone is skinny and disheveled and things are totally different. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Other than lifting, what do you guys do in your free time?Lots of Music - Been playing guitar and piano since I was around 8/9. Mostly instrumental stuff. Learning how to cook well. I made it a goal 2 years ago to pick one authentic/good recipe from scratch and learn it every 2 weeks. Over 2 years that is about 50 recipes, usually I pick a few key ones from each ethnicity. I have to say I am a much much better cook for it now and people are very impressed by my cooking. That's about it. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Seriously thinking about making a firm decision to opt out of this whole "dating" and "getting girls" game. Am I making the right decision?Man, my job involves talking to people and I thought I had decent social skills? can it really be my game? I know guys that are awkward as fuck that still have hot girlfriends. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/15 02:11 PM |
| 4 | Seriously thinking about making a firm decision to opt out of this whole "dating" and "getting girls" game. Am I making the right decision?I don't have that high of standards. if a girl has a decent body (not overweight) and at least a cute face (not HOT), than I am down. I see these women EVERYWHERE. I am sociable and friendly, people describe me as so. however, it never usually works. With my stats (which are true), things should be way easier. It's almost like the vibe I get from women is "you are friendly, but don't even think about it". Sure I could learn game (and I have), but it is so damn exhausting. I don't talk like a cha… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/15 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Standardizing the HB 1-10 ScaleHow does age factor in this? is the assumed population a certain range. If we are talking ages 16-60 then it doesn't make much sense. needs to be calibrated towards an age range that most guys would be comfortable with. 16-35 seems a more realistic | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 01:50 PM |
| -4 | For beginners, one simple tip.I'm an engineer of medical devices that is actively involved in the heavy rock scene and plays piano on the side. I market myself as sorta left brain / right brain mix. highly intelligent (due to my job) yet artistic as well. Women seem very intrigued by this. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 11:04 PM |
| 2 | What weight training program should i do if I cant do deadlifts?100,000 dollars? jesus. The place I work at at sells them for 30,000 max. and that's if you get the souped up cadillac device (cardiac resynchronization + pacer + defibrillator). Congrats that you can still do what you do with the help of that device - makes my job more fulfilling. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/15 09:30 PM |
| 1 | WTF just happened here? more amused than anything.Even if I am the one that told her we can be friends? I thought the fact that I brought it up before makes a difference. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/15 07:11 PM |
| -1 | WTF just happened here? more amused than anything.bad logistics prevented meeting up. This is the first time I have heard that attractive women do not have value in helping you appear of higher value if you are around them/access to their friends. Obviously I am still going to approach etc as well. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/15 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Why Do I Care So Much?good advice above. Real strength comes from acknowledging your emotions and why they are there, and then NOT steering away from your goals and path due to them. To be effected by it in your mind but not your actions. Easier said than done. I am going through the same thing right now. It's a tough mental exercise. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/15 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women approach men?could depend on the situation. Women are more apt to approach at a college house party than in the middle of a funeral service or the middle of Manhattan. I have always had mixed feelings about the contention that "It will be obvious when women approach, and if they don't it means you have a low SMV". I say that because I know very very very VERY few men that have women approach them on a regular basis. And these men are the top 1%. Also - I have essentially maxed my physical SMV and women still… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/15 08:40 PM |
| 2 | mixed signals and communication from 8+/10 potential plateI have no idea why she is not receptive. But my guess, from past experience, is that she most likely (since she has an ACTIVE social life) has other potential suitors lined up, some of which are likely of higher SMV than myself, due to her looks. fuck it, I'm not going to worry about it anymore, it's not worth my time. I'm happy I had the balls to ask her and escalate to the level I did. Its a massive improvement for me. I went outside my comfort zone to get what I wanted. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/15 07:14 PM |
| 1 | mixed signals and communication from 8+/10 potential platehow is this one "torpedoed"? I escalated insanely the first time we met to the point where we looked like two horny teenagers ready to go at it, but due to LOGISTICAL reasons (and her leaving in two days) I could not close. she knows im a sexual person that is not afraid to escalate if I am attracted. Correct - I am going through previous modes of thinking, but I did not act on it and show it to her, due to knowing the consequences. Maybe "torpedoed" due to failed logistics but I dont think beca… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/15 06:57 PM |
| 1 | mixed signals and communication from 8+/10 potential plate1: two other ones, definetely not attractive as her 2: I mean "lets go get drinks". Its more of "we are going to have fun, come along" than "asking out" I suppose 3: I usually mean past making out (sex, fooling around). but in this case I could tell she was very turned by me, even if we could not seal the deal. she ended up becoming more open that first night and giving me "that look in her eye" you see when I women wants you. I practiced good eye contact, frame, and physical escalation. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/15 06:16 PM |
| 1 | mixed signals and communication from 8+/10 potential plateI have to add - she is a little more reserved/shy/introverted. During dinner and drinks last week she seemed a little shy until I finally escalated enough physically that she gave in and was the one wanting to get closer that night. I got a few shit tests when trying to escalate. due to logistics, I could not seal the deal. It will be difficult to escalate during lunch this week, I need to get her in a more open night environment. maybe I can suggest this if lunch goes well. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/15 06:12 PM |
| 7 | Girlfriend calls me "adorable."I took home a girl on a party bus, fucked her, and in the morning fucked her again. I held her hand while I did it in the morning and she called me "adorable" All about context. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/15 07:31 PM |
| 1 | If girls have to be "led" in terms of dating and escalation, can factors outside your control prevent attraction from escalating, or will girl's attraction for you determine success?she is leaving for another company in 1 week. otherwise no, I would not do this. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/15 07:09 PM |
| 3 | I'm a 6/10 guy that asked out and managed to attract a legit 8+/10 girl. this is a new experience for me Now that I think I have her attracted, how to proceed.My goal of asking out and dating this hot girl was to learn how to treat her like any normal person and not be nervous....and escalate. Frankly, I'm just proud of myself and happy that I actually took the balls to ask her out, look her in the eyes during our date, and not be afraid to escalate. This is growth and improvement for me, even if things don't go anywhere past this point. I know based on this experience, that I can do this again. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/15 02:21 PM |
| 1 | I'm a 6/10 guy that asked out and managed to attract a legit 8+/10 girl. this is a new experience for me Now that I think I have her attracted, how to proceed.only 5'10", but she is 5'2" | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Just said "screw it" and started asking out girls that I think are far above my SMV. how to proceed?Thanks! I was wary of asking her out, mainly since its kind of strange to breach the subject in a professional work environment that is not conducive to kino/escalation tactics. That is why I am spending as little time communication with her at work in person until I seal the deal, if it happens. nothing is worse than being tossed in the friend zone just because you can't escalate physically for logistical reasons. After reading the posts, I am to consider this as a "learning opportunity" and a … | /r/askTRP | 15/05/15 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Get a hobby/ passion. Get good at it.Steve vai, aside from being an amazing guitar player, also is decent looking guy with a cool "image". Allen holdsworth, on the other hand, is an amazing guitar player with a nerdy image. What is the difference between the two? ah....not the guitar skills at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Get a hobby/ passion. Get good at it.In rare rare settings. Don't count on it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 01:14 PM |
| 32 | Get a hobby/ passion. Get good at it.I've played in bands as an advanced guitarist for over 10 years and not once has it resulted an increase in pussy. I'll tell you why - it's more about your "image" than your talent on guitar. Girls will pick the tattood rocker with tight pants and gauge earrings that plays bar chords over an asian prog rocker that can rip jazz fusion modes. Look up "guthrie govan" and "john petrucci", or "eric johnson" and then look up "jack johnson". which one makes girls wet....? yeah, not the virtuousos, beca… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 04:10 AM |
| 1 | about to enter out of monk mode in early June and enter the "dating field" full forcemedical device engineering. high profit margins. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/15 05:47 PM |
| 2 | about to enter out of monk mode in early June and enter the "dating field" full forceI like your simplified approach of "just talk like a confident, normal human being and be direct about asking them for the number", it seems like a simple and effective strategy that beats out formulaic PUA tactics. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/15 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Are there situations where you can seemingly do everything right and still not succeed?I can definitively relate - I have been hitting goals everywhere in my life, except for women. In terms of career/socializing/lifting/hobbies, I would give myself an A in most of these categories, but with women I would give myself a D or lower. I really don't know what has gone wrong. I get continuously rejected in person and online, almost to the point where it is comical and I just keep doing it for the comedy factor. as someone who makes 100,000 at the age of 29, owns his own condo, has 10-1… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/15 08:16 PM |
| 3 | My friend just got out of the friendzone, WTF?I am always #1, which I am finding out is a very very shitty place to be. If you constantly end up in #2, literally all you have to do is make a move. She crashes in your bed in her undies - climb on top of her. She looks at you with those "eyes" - kiss her. If you are always part of #1, you are not getting ANYTHING to work with. Hell, in fact, you may have way better game and be fully cognizant of the red pill but plain in simple, she is not attracted to you. you can' just wait until she shows … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 10:05 PM |
| 3 | My friend just got out of the friendzone, WTF?True, this is a rare situation where a guy really fucked up and she continued to pursue him. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 10:00 PM |
| 5 | "What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly" A lesson for men looking to increase their value as it pertains to a career and their education.Stop - before you drop another 2 years into a more robust program - what steps have you taken in order to land a job. I say that because, yes, the degree matters, and employers WILL toss you aside if you don't have a 4 year STEM degree with math, IF IF you apply for a STEM job immediately that requires that degree and go through the HR filter. even if you have a STEM PHD, you will likely still not make it through the Bullshit HR filter because most companies HIRE BY WORD OF MOUTH. I work for one… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 12:18 AM |
| 2 | What does it mean when an attractive women will not even allow you to enter the friendzone?what is the best way to find out if you are aiming too high? I guess another piece of information is that the girls that reject me are typically around the 6/10+ range (alright face and decent body). I typically can only attract overweight women or ugly women in shape. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/15 09:58 PM |
| 0 | I'm not even good enough to be considered a blue pill back-up, feel so behind this whole dating game.the only place where I've ever met single women is online dating and bars. I do co ed tennis and volleyball, and rock climbing in the summer. All the girls are married/in relationships and it has historically always been that way for me. I'm not even joking - and I keep trying new things like cooking classes/hot yoga/etc etc and all girls who are marginably dateable are in relationships. In my area, people seem to meet their partners in college and if you don't do it by then then you are shit ou… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/15 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Women and 'friendships'.being friends with most women is a complete an utter joke. and I'm not even talking about superficial "friends" either. They act like their time to spend with you is limited - and don't you dare make any fun playful innuendos. Unless of course they need support, and come bawling to you about their issues and problems. That would be fair, except when you do the same they seem seem annoyed, like it is almost a chore. Suddenly, you can't hang out one on one with them any more, because the guy they … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Differences between girls that exercise and those that don't?yeah, If a women exercises and has a haflway decent body because of it, suddenly she wants a 6 foot tall man with a bodybuilding physique and a large masculine frame to go with it. summary: Most very fit guys cannot attract very fit girls because those girls have higher standards than just fit guys. Source: 5 foot 10 guy with 6 pack abs, 10% bodyfat at 175 pounds but can still only attract overweight girls since I have a small frame. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/15 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Feel like women give me nothing to "work with" when interacting with themI got it tested using caliper method last week, came out to 11.4%. My goal is 10%. I have a decent fashion sense but not great (I don't look like a GQ model but don't wear baggy jeans with baggy shirts). | /r/askTRP | 29/03/15 10:10 PM |
| 7 | I’m A Guy Who Stopped Dating Because I Found The Next Best ThingThis reminds me of a joke I heard from a comedian once (forgot might have been chris rock?). I believe he said something along the lines of "You women always complain about ending up with assholes and jerks who are smooth talkers, you know how you find someone who actually likes you? talk to the guy who gets a little nervous and fidgity around you" | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/15 09:13 PM |
| 7 | I’m A Guy Who Stopped Dating Because I Found The Next Best ThingYou can't get to genuinely know a women and take interest in her nowadays because doing so (unless you are a natural player) involves letting down your defenses and devoting energy away from required "pick up oriented acitivities like" saying the right thing/standing up straight/texting not too much etc etc etc. There are all these rules, and internalizing them takes time and constant maintenance. you become a facade of who you really are in order to hit on girl. every girl becomes "practice wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/15 08:13 PM |
| 11 | Instant grat and Delayed grat activities, how they can change your life.I think the most difficult part of instilling delayed gratification activities is that some of them are arduous with little or no gratification for years until you hit your goals. Obviously, the more arduous and difficult the path, the greater the reward. I have personally recognized two "failure points" in this path to success. the first one is where 90% of people fail - you get get all motivated and make progress for maybe a few days but depend on that initial motivation to get you through. Wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Strange behavior at the office from certain woman.reflects poorly on them, I am not intending to flirt with them at all, since I view it strictly as a professional interaction that they do not follow through on. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Strange behavior at the office from certain woman.why the hell would they ask me to do an informational interview in the first place? | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 08:25 PM |
| 17 | Woman hamsters away about "Good Guys" over Facebook.I do know a few women that are honest about their situation and strategy, and say things the way they are: "He' trying to find a job and has a slight alcohol problem, but I was really attracted to him, he's hot and fun. I'm willing to put with that for now, nice guys keeps keep asking me out but I just can't feel it for them, and I need that. I don't think he would be a good prospect for settling down, unless he gets his shit together". On the same note, these women will also give honest advice … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 02:05 PM |
| 194 | Woman hamsters away about "Good Guys" over Facebook.I never once believed, even in my blue pill days, that girls refused to date good guys because they were too "good" or to not "break their hearts" if you know the basics of the basics about sexual attraction, you know it's just complete bullshit talk. Why on earth would a girl WANT to be with a guy that is "broken" by her definition? I thought girls liked ambition, strength, intelligence. This never ever made any sense to me growing up. That is, until I saw the "broken" guys they were fucking. F… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 03:56 AM |
| 8 | Bachelor Nationyes, that is the part that engrages me. You can have your hypergamous standards, but when you don't get what you want, don't blame the opposite Also, if women advocated with honesty what actually attracts them, half the issues would be gone, period. Interviewer: What attracts you to a guy? what makes you stay with him? Women: Well, I love a nice V-torso. A decent income (100,000K). a man that dresses very well. Intelligent. He has to have a good social circle and be a leader. 6 foot plus is desi… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 06:52 PM |
| 78 | Bachelor NationThere article inspires nothing but rage in me and signs of complete ignorance on womens' part This article screams "where have all the career minded good men that have goals gone". they are being ignored, by you (women) for not being "shiny" enough. They aren't driving fancy cars because they don't beleve in debt even if they can easily afford it. They don't have "HAWT" tattoos all over their arms because they live for the future and In the moment and have foresight. Lastly, they aren't the most… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 02:46 AM |
| 1 | After getting the body I want, good career, standing tall, having fun, why have indicators of interest from women not gone up?I do, but just am curious about this phenomenon I observe on here | /r/askTRP | 04/03/15 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Why exactly are the women from online dating so mean/aloof/uninterested?I have always wondered this, I mean if I get spammed with a million messages, I would feel a little ego boost, but I wouldn't suddenly becoming a raging ranging bitch like 99% of women are on online dating sites. It like the attention completely changes them. It's sad, but mostly completely pathetic since most of them don't have merit behind their perceived value anyways. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/15 10:36 PM |
| 3 | TRP 301: How to Apply Redpill in All Aspects of your life (Day 1)1- B. I don't have time to get internet angry 2- B/C - Depends on the context of the situation. I have a decent career and the kinda of boss that awards someone that accomplishes things, and is someone that if I impress will not hesitate to put a good word in for me. That being said, If I will have to explain to him what my current priorities are (we are self managed mostly) and why, and then ask him to make the final executive decision on which action of mine to replace to allow me to finish th… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 09:44 PM |
| 1 | She's prepping herself for a "sexless" life? (Conversation with a woman approaching the wall)With all this black and white talk about girls dumping their alpha cool boyfriends that are good in bed for a clearly inferior in the sack beta bucks options- What the fuck happens when the girl goes to fuck her beta bucks for the first time (and assumes sex won't be as good) that age did not feel huge tingles for and he ends up having a sexy strong body underneath his beta 9-5 white work shirt and Fucks her like a boss? Is he something more attractive now? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 07:17 PM |
| 8 | "Guys never hit on me"I challenge everyone here with a plate/gf/whatever to take their plate out to a crowded bar with over 100 people in in it and ask them "honestly, are their any attractive men here?". I have done this with my previous girlfriends and every situation, they said "wow, there like no attractive men here, maybe that guy over there (6'2" tall muscular jock), or that guy over there (sharp looking man in business suit)". It will blow your mind really how little percentage of men they find attractive. Jus… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes i'm jealous of gay guys.This. I wouldn't say jealous - but something different. Can't believe I'm admitting this, but I wish I was gay. Sometimes I feel like I was born to do things that gay guys like except pussy turns me on. I don't have interest in "manly shit" like sports/cars/hunting/cigars etc. I have a strange interest in gossip and have always liked to stay in very good shape and dress very well. Another problem is that I get hit on all the time by gay guys, because they way I look (young and babyfaced) is a bi… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 11:52 PM |
| 12 | You are going to slip and fall right into a comfortable sofa. Get the hell back up.I'm experiencing something different - burnout from trying to do too much shit to improve myself. Trying to improve my career - 50 hours a week (I like my job) Trying to stay in shape and lift - 8 hours a week (incluiding commutes) Working on my hobbies (cooking/music - 20 hours a week. Socializing = 10+ hours a week then you have all the shit like cleaning/laundry/car breaks down In the end, I maybe have only a few hours a week to actually relax. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Physical Optimization - Improving Your RegimenI want to address the lifting part - The struggle I have with lifting is the balance between looking strong and being strong to having a cut facial figure. I have the facial structure where I start to look bad in the face if my bodyfat goes above 15%. I'm talking about roundish appearance, super super bad babyface. Problem is, If I cut (even after bulking) to 10%, and my face looks good, my body looks skinny as phuck and I lose my visible musculature, unless I walk around with a shirt off. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/15 08:41 PM |
| 6 | Only 3% Of American Singles Are Worth DatingBitch please, this list applies only to beta providers. I only see two bullet points which are related to "giney tingles" (income and education level). There are a ton of guys who slay more than guys that fit the above list. You think a young tight fit 22 year old blonde is going to turn down fucking a hawt 6'2" italian with broad shoulders, muscle and a wicked five o clock shadow just because he makes 75% of the median income? Hell naw. She would jump on that cawk more than a skinny 5'5" asian … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/15 03:58 PM |
| 5 | Embrace the SuckMy dating life has been pure suck for the past 7 years with no resolution in sight, even after all the pain of improvement. I'm simply exhausted, don't care anymore, view it as a terrible cost-benefit. Tons of Energy, Time, and Money wasted. Other facets of my life: Career, Body, Passions, Hobbies, Traveling - I am very satisfied and have seen the fruits of my labor. This is how MGTOW is born. (from my perspective). At least I can say I tried, I have that. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/15 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Tendencies that can be beta/alpha?If you do what you want, when you want, and drive your life to what YOU want to do according to your values and beliefs, THAT is alpha. But be humble about it as well (don't say, "well fuck what the wise man said, I'm going to be a fat slob and eat 24/7 because that is WHAT I WANT TO DO"). Its ok to ask for guidance. Now, notice how that no where in that equation women are mentioned. that is because they should not be the primary drivers of your life. Also, you have to realize that the above phi… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/15 04:47 PM |
| 22 | Suicide Note of Wilkes McDermid - Basically an Elliot Rodgers that didn't kill anyone else.because women are not attracted too men who are the drivers of society. Typically these men are intelligent/rational/very introspective. if you have these three traits you are most likely not charismatic, are good at small talk, or usually attractive. I design the next generation of medical devices for a living, and love every minute of it and am passionate about it. I went on a date with a girl who works in fricken healthcare and is familiar with it and she did not want to see me again because … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Are You Using "Monk Mode" To Avoid Discomfort?I am currently in monk mode for the next 4-5 months so I can dedicated ALL my energy and resources into goals and passions that I have wanted to accomplish, and require a tremendous amount of energy. I would describe it as "liberating" more than anything. I feel like I won't have to waste invaluable time and money on securing plates for sex when I don't NEED them (but still want them). Literally the only thing that stands in my way is my sex drive, but that is nothing that quick swiping and text… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 10:35 PM |
| 5 | In a rare moment of drunken honesty, a poster in r/TwoXChromosomes admits she prefers assholes to nice guysThis read confirms that not only do NICE guys (Trademark nice guy) finish last, but actually genuinely nice guys also finish last. I define genuinely nice as a guy who follows his desires, masculinity, etc but also gives people the benefit of the doubt and keeps his masculinity in check sometimes (aka doesn't go on a aggressive rager). He is still honest. Let's face it, women can't tell the real difference between a guy that is genuinely nice and one that is just being nice to get in her pants. … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 08:01 PM |
| 36 | [FR] Happy hour reveals many facets of TRPWhere the fuck do people find women who are so candid about shit like this. It blows my mind. I've only occasionally run across women like you described, and when I do, I just dismiss them as brainwashed immature children that I would never associate myself with. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/15 09:50 PM |
| 11 | Let's quickly look at this: Father forced to choose between wife and Down syndrome newbornThis is an absolute nightmare. Also a true measure of selflessness. Most selfless actions are actually selfish inherently, people do them because it makes them feel good or gets them satisfaction down the road. this man is losing everything (wife, family support) to take care of a special needs person for the rest of his life. There is literally nothing he gains from this, and he sacrifices everything for it, for his entire life. better hope he is Religous, otherwise he just threw his entire one… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Can someone assess my SMV?5/6's, but this is only using Tinder/Online. I know my equivalent is not a slightly overweight barista with a sorta cute face. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/15 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Can someone assess my SMV?A V shape is top 1%? seriously? It didn't take too much effort to obtain mine. Just work on slimming the waist and bringing out the shoulder/traps. I would say at least 10% of men have it. My confidence is high, but my OUTWARD confidence is "neutral" since I am an introvert. I speak more directly than passionately. It drains the shit out of me. I would say outward Charisma and Confidence is my biggest sticking point - It's not a habit of mine to be extroverted. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/15 01:07 AM |
| 4 | Women select men based on obsolete instincts and essentially push the human species back in timeBut fat chicks didn't discover calculus or the laws of motion Men are weeding out women who have a lesser chance of producing viable offspring. Women are weeding out the chief architects that progress society. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 06:53 PM |
| 6 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on Tinderthis x 1000. As a tinder user for the past year with around 10 lays from that app, I have noticed very very consistent trends and this exact same phenomenon. First of all, I would put myself not in the top 20%, but pretty close, just based purely on my pictures and profile. I have a slightly above average height, pictures which show off musculature, and a decent face (but not what you would call "hot" or "super cute"). I probably had 200+ total interactions on Tinder. First of all, I rarely matc… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 07:57 PM |
| 2 | How can I help my ultra beta boyfriend?I can totally understand getting tingles for true longer lasting alpha traits such as obvious visual strength, power, confidence. But I have seen many girls go for "second tier" indicators like "man, his jaw looks nice in the baseball cap" or "wow he looks so laid back smoking a joint". Only to find out the guy is wearing a baseball cap because he is bald and looks laid back because he is...fucking high.. and that he is actually a beta-fied pussy. However, since the tingles are already there, sh… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/15 03:27 PM |
| 5 | How can I help my ultra beta boyfriend?This post makes me want to kill myself swear to god There are guys that are 1000 times less pussy than your current boyfriend that would kill to be in a relationship with a girl that is willing to put up with as much as you say you do. Let me guess, the reason why you are with him is because you were initially attracted to his "hawtness" or some other random arbitrary quality he had like "I liked the way his hat brought out his jawline" or "it was super HAWT how he smoked his weed so laid back".… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/15 12:18 AM |
| 1 | I signed up for a gym membership 3 hours ago. In 1.5 hours I'm going down for my first workout.agreed agreed agreed. It will also teach you to not give a fuck. Also, people honestly won't really notice either - I have occasionally seen guys just go with the bar and all I think is "oh just must be warming up or working on form". hell, I still go with just the bar sometimes for warm ups or to ensure that I have proper form. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you know what "league" you are in?Ouch. Since only overweight /fat girls approach then is that my league? | /r/askTRP | 27/01/15 12:46 AM |
| 0 | Filtering out the 80% of men: Woman from Stanford to create "Elite Tinder App"I think one part you are missing is that women really are giving less a shit about what a man does and what he makes. The influence of money and power on a women's biological attraction response only takes real influence (creation of "tingles") as men make amounts of money that signify real power above the norm (aka owning a BMW 5 series or a Condo or your own house don't cut it anymore..you need that mansion/high rise condo etc). This is because women are more independent, as you say. Strangely… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 06:02 PM |
| 0 | FR: 19-year-old college freshman from Tinder. Blondie likes older men…a lot.Ok, I'm going to be the devil's advocate here. Obviously, you had a very high level of initial attraction built up even before you met - once you do that it is easy-mode. You can just sit there and stand tall while she talks and talks and then just go for it. It's not hard to mess that up. How physically attractive are you? I think it is extremely easy to get a lay on tinder if she has a very high level of initial attraction built it. What I am saying is - most men, would not be able to say or d… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 10:16 PM |
| -4 | American Women have No Gameamerican women don't need game because "game" doesn't make a women more attractive, as long as you two get along. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 08:39 PM |
| 2 | The Rules of TinderWhat are the typical success rates people that are successful with tinder seeing? Assuming success mean attracting a girl that is not overweight/ugly etc. In my experience, I probably get a good conversation going that leads to a phone number for about 1 in 4 girls that I match that are cute, and then from there it is about a 1 in 3 success rate for an actual date/fuck. In other words, 1 one 12 attractive girls I message with a GOOD conversations leads to something. I find trying to maintain int… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 08:17 PM |
| 22 | [FR] A different sort of FR: My Time Behind the Curtain - when I briefly lived in close proximity to "hot girls."back to tombreck2's point though, it is becoming harder to rely on cold approaches at bars as other means for meeting men like tinder become more mainstream. Women are really that brutal, if she is young (20-25) and has a tinder account/okcupid etc and is at a bar, you bet you better pull her right then and there otherwise you will just blend in with the other 100 guys that are vying for her attention on tinder/okcupid etc. Ive seen it in action countless times. It is the truth I think this tren… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 04:38 PM |
| 18 | [FR] A different sort of FR: My Time Behind the Curtain - when I briefly lived in close proximity to "hot girls."I have been on tinder dates with 6/10 girls and seen the number of matches and number of convos they have with guys, followed by the number of actual dates they get (at least 1-2 a week). -First, they match only the top 5-10% of guys, looks wise -Then, only 25% of those guys that message them get a continued response -Then, they only go out with 25% of those guys And then I wonder why I struggle to get a date with a 6/10 and she constantly disappears/flakes 90% of the time. Newsflash - It's not … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 03:08 PM |
| 7 | In a rare moment of honesty, AskWomen admits they are disgusted/insulted by beta guys asking them out.what I am wondering is: how MUCH difference does your approach make on whether you are the "how dare you to talk to me" guy she is not attracted too and the "wow you can say and do what you want to me and I'll still say yes" attractive guy? Is your fate already sealed from before you open your lips? How much wiggle room do you have? I am asking because I see plenty of vanilla guys with a poor approach still elicit a positive response (with the girl saying "he barely talked to me! he was looking … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 10:18 PM |
| 0 | My Reaffirmation of the TRP Truths (The Story of My Divorce)I think my downfall is that I think it should be easier. I think it should be easier because everything else I have done in my life that I have wanted I have achieved through hard work/discipline/taking intelligent risks etc. I have risen above most men in my pursuits and it gives me this sense that women should be no problem. But it has, it has been a terrible terrible problem. In fact, I would say I am far below average when it comes to the opposite sex. I'm not use to being below average or e… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 03:29 PM |
| -3 | My Reaffirmation of the TRP Truths (The Story of My Divorce)is the red pill full of a shitload of diamonds in the rough or something? Typical story on here: I got married, let myself go, became fat, my wife left me THEN I DISCOVERED THE RED PILL, DIGESTED IT FOR MONTHS HIT THE GYM AND WITHIN 3 MONTHS I HAD WASHBOARD ABS, HAD AN ENDLESS SUPPLY OF 8/10 PUSSY, AND TRANSFORMED INTO A LEGIT ALPHA. LIFE IS GREAT AND ANY GUY CAN DO IT Ok seriously, 95% of guys will not go from being a complete overweight beta to an alpha that has a fitness model body and had te… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Women are always on my mindThis is my daily struggle as well. I have realized that, at my current state, my return on investment with pursuing women I am attracted to sexually is very very low. Basically, trying and failing and failing and failing and blunt and honest women telling me that if I want more success I need to get bigger/dress even better/have better "game". Its not that I have bad game now, its more that I need really good game to overcome my physical hurdles I have. I am on semi-monk mode. I will not invest … | /r/askTRP | 19/01/15 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Can we really compensate for unattractivness by raising our smv?I have the same problem OP, but my face is not ugly it is just very unmasculine looking. I started lifting and dressing better to compensate, but its seems women care more about the face (A attractive face with a skinny/overweight body wins over an ugly face with a hot body). not really sure what to do now, I have been working on myself for years but think this one thing is holding me back, since my SMV has objectively improved in ALL other areas yet I still can only attract overweight girls. Re… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/15 05:15 PM |
| 3 | The Process is Worth It. You are worth it.Wow, talk about tremendous success after putting in the work. It almost, to be honest, seems like a complete fantasy life. Congrats to you man. I am still working on myself - I imagine it will be another 2-3 years before I get even CLOSE to the success you are seeing with women. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Huge sticking point using Tinder - something is obviously wrong but can't pinpointahhhh ok I can see where you are coming from. you are saying that, by not texting to confirm, she will sorta be "locked in" to meeting with you unless SHE says texts you and tells you it's off, which would likely not happen. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/15 03:10 AM |
| 1 | How has the dating game changed for you after you raised your SMV?Here is what I did: -Doubled my income -Went from a skinny 145 to 175 and kept the 12% bodyfat -Dress WAY better. Honestly, women will comment on my muscles but that is about it. I still struggle with the dating game the same as I used to. the attention from women has not increased at all. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/15 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Huge sticking point using Tinder - something is obviously wrong but can't pinpointum? I ALWAYS verify a few hours before the date if we are meeting up. The flake rate is so high these days that I'm not about to get dressed up/shower/drive to a bar, only to find that there is probably a 50% chance that she isn't going to show up and my time is wasted. I really don't understand this. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/15 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Huge sticking point using Tinder - something is obviously wrong but can't pinpointYou should be investing virtually nothing until they agree to meet and actually follow through with the date. Unless they show interest through action, they don't deserve investment. The hard part of this is that you usually need investment on their part otherwise doing "virtually" nothing will just result in them not contacting you. This applies to situations like tinder where they have not met you yet and you are still a fly on the wall of 100 other matches she is talking too. I find when I me… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/15 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Huge sticking point using Tinder - something is obviously wrong but can't pinpointso in summary: when asking out, keep in short and simple. don't ask for permission or even hint at it keep the momentum built by not breaking the conversation flow until you have a date set up. then you can text/call later | /r/askTRP | 10/01/15 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Did any of you start from a position of almost nothing in terms of attracting girls? how did you move up and burn through the failuresbut only overweight/ugly girls right? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 10:30 PM |
| -2 | How to show off your body?Wear fitting clothing! Also, you would be surprised, but girls really don't care about how tone or muscular you are. do it for yourself, in other words. this is going to sound weird, but being masculine in the face is what matters. You can be a skinny emaciated hipster but as long as you have facial hair a women won't care, in fact they will probably choose the skinny emaciated hipster with a masculine face over a baby faced guy with great muscle tone. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Let the failure happen!what is with girls being turned off when a guy mentions he is an engineer/consultant etc? some of these guys make upwards of 200,000+ a year (especially in consulting). Its almost better to mention you are an english teacher/artist/graphic designer. Another reason why most women really have no fucking idea what these careers actually do. You could be an engineer for NASA designing the life support system to take astronauts to the first trip to mars and she would think being a sculptor at a small… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 04:37 PM |
| 1 | After years of frustration, heading into monk mode for approx 6 monthsso objectively, if I am a super fit guy who makes 100,000 year, has interesting hobbies, and isn't socially awkward, that means I am being "entitled" when I am pissed that I can only attract overweight girls? We all know that those are things girls LIKE, from a red pill standpoint. not being overly nice/supplicating like a white night. So where in the hell is my frustration not justified? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 01:35 AM |
| 1 | After years of frustration, heading into monk mode for approx 6 monthsagreed, one of my objectives is to take the opportunity whenever I can to talk to strangers. baby steps | /r/askTRP | 06/01/15 11:10 PM |
| 1 | After years of frustration, heading into monk mode for approx 6 monthsI get not being "entitled", but god, I know that I should at LEAST not have to be with overweight women. that's just being reasonable, not entitled. I do need a harsh, critical look from an outside source, at my "game". | /r/askTRP | 06/01/15 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Using Online Dating Sites to Get Dates, and Not Just Numbersafter experiencing a near 75% flake rate on Tinder AFTER setting the date up, and feeling like I wasted hours a week on girls that never went anywhere, I adopt the SAME strategy. Basically I open with something witty/observant. after a maximum of 10-15 messages I ask her out and tell her that I don't tolerate flakes/validation seekers and to only go out if she is actually going to hold up to it. I few bail on that but the ones that continue I end up usually getting a date with. Of course, I don'… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Super frustrated with my life.You know I thought I had a shitty 2014 as well. Then I realized that I learned a ton, traveled, got promoted, re connected with my relatives, and got closer to my fitness goals, while almost paying down my debt. I realized that the one thing that made it shitty was the fact that I still can't fuk a girl that is not-overweight, while everyone around me, even blue pill betas, are fucking cute girls. So this year I decided to cut that negative shit out of my life. One of my "resolutions" is to not … | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Anyway to get attractive girls consistently without game?-Prostitution -Be really really really really ridiculously good looking | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Steps to improving my SMV: job/incomewell if you shadowed a job and found it boring than I guess the moral of the story is that you don't want to do that job for a career and you are one step closer to figuring out exactly what you want to do. keep shadowing | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 10:04 PM |
| 3 | When a girl says "buy me a drink"tell her "ok, i'll get you something I think you would enjoy". And then buy her diet pepsi | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 10:02 PM |
| 10 | Steps to improving my SMV: job/incomeJob shadow Job Shadow Job Shadow This leads to two essential things: -Finding out if you actually want to work in the career -Networking And don't rely on improving your income to raise your SMV, income really only matters if you are raking in 200,000K+ and if you have to outwardly display that you are of that value as well (driving a honda civic and living in a normal size house will not get you any attention even if you make 200,000k). I make close to 100,000 at the age of 28 and I am still tr… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Sisters friend starts showing signals and I'm confused as to where to go from here.god I can't wait until cute girls actually give me signals of interest so I can easily close, its like being handed a winning lottery ticket. escalate next time, 99% of the battle is win. you can't really fuck it up. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/15 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Don't underestimate the power getting in shape as it relates to your SMV.I Strangely, being in very good shape hasn't helped me at all with girls - I have a terrible babyface (no facial hair etc), and having a good body hasn't even put a dent in how girls respond to me. Sad but true. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 01:39 AM |
| 1 | How do you stay strong when you dont pull much?Only true if what you do is an environment where there are attractive women around. I also don't believe that girls will suddenly gravitate towards a guy that is driven/motivated/confident. You have to be good looking as well, or it won't mean shit, and you will end up dissapointed when you pull up in your BMW 7 series and the hot 22 year old still goes home with the weed dealer because he has a haawwwt five o clock shadow. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/14 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Can't handle the frustrations and failures I keep experiencing trying to attract women, need a power throughQuality is definitely not tinder, I have yet to bang a girl off there that I consider my "equal" (within my league) Yeah, for some reason when I read this forum I imagine the success stories as a 25 year guy in sunglasses laying on his bed with a smoking hot 22 year old curled against his chest gazing at him after fukking her for 6 hours straight, and for some reason that seems the norm of what typical success is for red pillers after 6 months of unplugging and improving. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/14 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Can't handle the frustrations and failures I keep experiencing trying to attract women, need a power throughI have been lifting for 8 years +. Currently at 175 pounds 12% bodyfat 5'10". Also do rock climbing on the weekends. love every second of it :) | /r/askTRP | 31/12/14 12:43 AM |
| 5 | Women live in the momentThis is exactly why I don't set up dates unless I can meet up with in the next 48-72 hours. They can be the most excited and feel lots of attraction for you in the moment - however they still barely met you and it will wane over the next few days. If you wait to long they will mistake the naturally waning for her thinking that she won't feel any attraction towards you. Last two tinder dates I set up that were a week out stopped responding to me texts, the one I Set up with 48 hours we went out. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 02:00 PM |
| 9 | Online dating and getting blown out by low SMV girlsmy problem is the opposite of yours, its like pulling teeth for me to just get a tinder date to meet up, about 75% of the dates I set up flake. However, when I get the date its always a ton of attraction from the girl and I usually get a lay. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/14 03:23 AM |
| 4 | the decimation of (western) women is completeGod, even finding time to seduce women and for plates is becoming a time consuming chore. This thread inspired me to go through my tinder lists since I downloaded it a few weeks ago. my last tinder lay took this long: 2000 swipes right 100 matches 35 girls that were not fat and at least cute 20 of those girls responded to messages 8 conversations kept going (imagine trying to juggle 8 different convos trying to keep the wittiness etc on each one) 4 phone number obtained 3 dates set up 1 actual d… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Move to that big city you've dreamed of. It will CHANGE your life. Part 1/5having been to bangkok a few times, I am seriously considering moving there for a few years if I Can get the logistics down. in my experience, hands down better in every way (Except maybe the pollution and traffic) than the US cities. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 11:24 PM |
| 26 | Is Online Dating Destroy Prospects for Average Guys?I would say it is closer to 95/5 too. I know plenty of men who aren't getting laid, and a few select men who seems to have 5 plus girls on rotation. Yet every girl I meet that is non fat is running her mouth on how many dates she goes on a week | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 12:03 AM |
| 17 | Is Online Dating Destroy Prospects for Average Guys?Too bad most girls have jumped on the tinder bandwagon, so they will insta compare you to the male model that messaged her on tinder the night before, who is fucking 10 other girls at the same time, but she doesn't care, it actually makes her more horny for him | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 12:01 AM |
| 5 | Is Online Dating Destroy Prospects for Average Guys?If online dating becomes any more mainstream, the sexual power play will converge to what it was 50,000 years ago - 100 people in a tribe and 1-2 guys fucking all the women, with the remainder of men tending to the tribe and help raising their offspring. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 11:58 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.problem is that "8s" and up do react differently. you have to be clever, wittier etc. You can treat them the same as 5's, but it doesnt mean they will suddenly start flocking to you. I've tried it, it's not that easy. I'll be cocky and funny to an 8 just as a 5 and she will laugh a little but then turn towards the guy with higher SMV than myself that is also cocky and funny and fuck him instead. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/14 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Question Regarding the Dreaded 'Friend-Zone'Also where you end up if you aren't physically attractiveness enough for her, but fulfill other roles. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 05:54 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.I've tried being cocky, and I am on no fap for the first time (1 month so far). cocky gives me a bit better response, but it just makes them laugh more, it doesn't seem to make them more sexually attractive towards me. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 10:02 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.I have hard time grasping this. I enjoy my job A LOT, and if someone asks me what I do I will tell them and be passionate about it, but you are telling me to instead to make something up like "I'm a chippendales stripper ;)"?. That is supposed to get a girl to want to fuck me more than telling her about how passionate I am about my job? is this just american women? I mean I get it, if I am at a party drinking and just fucking around with people, yeah, I might say something like that. but if I in… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 09:30 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.I meant in my body, not OVERALL (height, facial aesthetics etc). half the population is overweight, so getting to be more in shape than 95% of guys is really really not that hard. If you have visible muscle mass (look like you lift) and are lean than you automatically crack the top 10-15%. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.I would define getting rejected as communicating with a women and her not putting in the position to ask her out. her "vibe" (bad body language, short responses, wanting to leave). I don't ask a women out until she puts out a vibe that signals it. I would also define getting rejected as getting the number from a girl or the date and her bailing on me for a non-legitimate reason. I have tried pushing it further with girls that I thought were not interested and was blocked 100% of the time (on onl… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 08:54 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.I think the way I speak could be a detriment sometimes? I speak a little fast. My body language is very good....I started having back problems so I sorta forced myself to stand up straight. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 08:48 PM |
| 2 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.Well...to be honest I have not done this outside of bars/clubs. When meeting new women with friends of I am interested I will ask them out before we part saying something like "hey lets grab a drink, there is this new place I want to try out that is supposed to have the best beer/cider flights, you should join me". thinking about it too...I guess I have been shooting myself in the foot with the attractive ones. I am afraid to just ask them out without a clear indication of interest. if an attrac… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.I used to fill uncomfortable silence, but I am getting better at just leaving it as is. I do speak less - but when I get excited about a topic I end up speaking more. the hard part is, how much is to much? Yeah, she asked me what I do for a living and instead of "I'm a designer" I said "I'm a designer of the wings on commercial jets in oregon for boeing - I love my job and it lets me travel the world, I've been there 5 years". Is that too much? I dont know... it seems normal to me and any less j… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 08:44 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.Well, I would say I don't even get any opportunities to even GET rejected into the friend zone, if that makes any sense. I cannot land a date even. I think you need to get a date before truly getting friendzoned. The only times I have opportunities is when I meet new girls in a group, and we just happen to end up alone for some reason - then I usually get a "I think you are a cool guy but I am not sexually attracted to you" vibe from them. I try escalating kino but get the "im not attracted to y… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 07:41 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.Jesus christ an 8 seems just so much higher than anything I have been able to attract ever. I cannot even imagine what that would be like. I am not a fan of PUA, it has always seemed so "formulaic". There a few I like that don't rely on canned lines and routines and more on a confident vibe. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 07:39 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.well, in between periods of trying to hit on women, I would focus on myself and realize that I in fact, do have a ton of potential, have accomplished a lot, and am the kind of guy that would be fun to hang out. I would get hyped up etc. Bring that out to meeting women. problem is, I would get rejected over and over again and I would brought down. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 07:25 PM |
| 2 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.maybe a ring, rent my 2 year old niece, and throw in a puppy dog and go to the park. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 07:23 PM |
| 0 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.I feel hopeless. like Im just wasting my energy. like any action I take to attract women is just a dead end. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 07:19 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.its very very difficult for me haha. I can probably pull off a 5. but a fit girl with a cute face - I dont know what that is like. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 07:19 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.This could be it. I was on tinder and I always end up typing a decently long response once the conversation gets past the initial greet and meet phase. after I do that I usually hear crickets. funny thing is, it only takes me 30 seconds to text these responses, so how the fuck is that needy in any way? | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 07:18 PM |
| 3 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.8s? I have an average face at best. I have gotten IOIs, but never from girls that I am attracted too. Usually when I start conversation or approach I immediately get the "ok this is never going to happen" vibe from them. they are friendly but put-off. Its not a look of disgust but a look of "yeah you are cool, I like talking to you, but the sexual attraction is just not there" Also, consistently when I am with friends girls will ask me if he is single/available etc. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 07:14 PM |
| 2 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.If you try not talking, no one will approach. I could try talking a lot less. I make good money - but it is not readily apparent. I don't drive around in a fancy BMW. So how would they know? I have friends, although most of then are married and settled. I have met new ones and some girls through them but none of them have taken interest in me and instead talk about other guys in the group in front of me. a few asked me for advice on if they should ask a guy out, showing me pictures etc. And this… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 06:29 PM |
| 2 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.no, I am not trolling. and I meant body in top 5% (very visible abs, toned, obvious that I lift when dressed, V-shape). My game needs work? I think perhaps I get too excited when I am attracted to someone. I want to more about them etc. maybe I should just tone down how much I say and how I say it? Could someone being excited about talking to someone actually kill attraction? | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 06:26 PM |
| 2 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.I know I am awesome haha, I just cannot seem to attract the girls I think I deserve, and I am not shooting for the stars when it comes to standards. Yes I know deep down...I could give them better sex, a better time, I can lift them up and fuck them better than the skinny hipster they decided to pursue. But they don't care? Its like..I just need the change to get close. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 06:23 PM |
| 2 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.and what if they still reject you? It's a hard mental hurdle. I'm stuck in a loop here. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 04:18 PM |
| 3 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.A) read side bar but need to re-read (it's been awhile) B) in progress C) I hope I don't have to go here D) Yes and I had to close my eyes most of the the time. I should be having a problem even with not reading the sidebar here. I am not getting any IOIs or any interest signals. I have nothing to start with. I feel like the sidebar and most people come here because they fuck up OPPORTUNITIES (girl shows interest and don't make a move for example). I don't even have opportunities. and yes, even … | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 04:17 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.I dont know what it is, I suspect it may be my face, I don't have a very masculine looking face, but it is not terrible looking. The fat ones I am getting are probably "overweight" more. (flabby ass, cooshy stomach etc). I would not say landwhale. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 04:15 PM |
| 7 | "I've done all the RedPill shit, but girls still don't want me. What now?" I'll tell you.except sex is like food, if you don't have it the desire digs into your brain like a painful splinter. It's hard to focus on "yourself" and you can go about your day learning how to make guns and build log cabins from scratch because it is what YOU want to do, but once you take a break to go get beers with your buddies at a liquor store and pass a cute girl in a short dress on the way and you havn't been laid in a long long time it is going to pick at you, very very painfully. you aren't going t… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 03:13 PM |
| 9 | Tom Leykis Show: Men Quit On Dating WomenI gave up on putting any effort that detracts away from my personal goals to try to attract women. It takes me probably around 25-30 hours of effort in order to attract a girl and successfully seduce her using either, cold approach/tinder/etc. I'm not naturally attractive it is a time suck for me, and I only do it if I have tons of free time /my sex drive is getting out of hand. here is an example: Using Tinder: Spend 25 minutes swiping 1,000 girls right get 50 matches, 15 of them are attractive… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 03:30 PM |
| 36 | Get To The Top 20%. Lurkers and New RP Men, Your Beta Qualities Are Officially Worthless To Today's Womensuddenly it makes sense why the hawttttt HS/college dropout who can't maintain stable job but has all the time in the world to "explore" and develop his game and attracttive"aloof" attidue (a result of having no direction and no ambitions) is able to attract so many women. If he has a nice square jaw, is muscular, and is 6'2" and can talk decently well, he will be getting laid more than the 5'9 senior software engineer making 150,000K that owns his own condo. All women see nowadays is the hawwww… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Tinder meetup - girl makes me sleep in Seperate bedWell since I nexted her and she does not know any of my friends I really could care less about my dignity. It was a free place to stay and I did not have to pay money for a cab home. Although, it is frustrating It seems like a common thread I have with all these potential plates and hook ups is that it they are 6/10+, I always get rejected like this. It's my sticking point and I can't seem to figure it out | /r/askTRP | 12/12/14 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Tinder meetup - girl makes me sleep in Seperate bedI just said "ok" and went in there, to be honest and told her to give me a glass if water. And soon as we got back to her place she seemed rushed and told me she really wanted to go to bed. I did put my arm around her when we got back and she immediately turned away and told me to go to sleep. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Tinder meetup - girl makes me sleep in Seperate bedShe said I could stay back her place since the bus lines were not running anymore. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Tinder meetup - girl makes me sleep in Seperate bedNo I got back to her place and she immediately told me to sleep in the guest bedroom. She mentioned she was very tired etc | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 05:12 PM |
| 2 | I decided to go MGTOW because I am not sexually attractive to women. I am confused about a lot of things, and need educated advice. Help!Op, what the fuck are you trying to pull here? Humbebrag much? "Women don't find me attractive sexually and my life sucks because of it, you know, except for these 9 cute girls that wanted me to fuck them in the past year" If you want sympathy don't go about it this way. Frame the question differently. Men like myself have never had a cute girl show obvious sexual interest in the past few years and have to work their asses off to get what you just get handed too on a silver platter (and then fuc… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/14 09:05 AM |
| 4 | Men who decided to go MGTOWs, how do you deal with people's curiosity/shaming/...?You know, most people I have told have been very understanding and totally get my situation once I explain to them my reasoning. I basically tell them that I am unable, in my near maxed form and after trying many different starategies, able to Attract women that I am sexually attracted to enough to form the mutual intimacy necessary for a healthy relationship, and that it would be unfair for both parties if I had, so I choose to forgo pursuit of relationships. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 07:15 AM |
| 1 | OkCupid vs Tinder, what is your take TRP?Okcupid and tinder are a complete waste if time if you aren't at least considered good looking or are unphotogenic, unless you want bang overweight women of ugly skinny women. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 07:09 AM |
| 1 | If you are struggling getting to the top 20% consider going to Thailand to experience what it feels likeYou are living a lie as a guy if you say your pursuits are not at least partially motivated by pussy. Also, the need for pussy is similar to the need for water and food. If you are starved of it, it is all you can focus on. However, if you have a steady supply of it and if you are USED to getting it you don't Feel like you need need it as much. It is an innate biological driver. Believe me, if I could shut off my sex drive easily without hormonal repercussions I would. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 08:53 AM |
| 8 | If you are struggling getting to the top 20% consider going to Thailand to experience what it feels likeYou have no idea how many fat butt ugly Americans I see in bangkok running around with decent looking Thai girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 08:44 AM |
| 6 | If you are struggling getting to the top 20% consider going to Thailand to experience what it feels likeAs a 28 year old that makes 100,000 a year, has good people skills, owns his own place, reached his fitness goals, and dresses very well, I don't really feel like putting increased effort into just attracting women. I am relativity maxed out already. I'm 90% there, spending 20 more hours a week getting 5% more there won't really make a difference and id rather spend that time on my own pursuits. If you were to see me, you would instantly "get it". | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 08:39 AM |
| 1 | If you are struggling getting to the top 20% consider going to Thailand to experience what it feels likeFor those of us who don't have master pua game or the time to practice endlessly to get master level pua game, and got the feminine sides only, we Lose, period. We fuck fatties, go mgtow, or move. Yes yes I'm sure if we weight lift like crazy, and approach super short girls it is possible, but it is a shit ton of work | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 08:26 AM |
| 5 | If you are struggling getting to the top 20% consider going to Thailand to experience what it feels likeNot all half Asians are good looking, just like all other races. If depends on which traits you get. If you get facial hair and height of a white person but a cute babyface and tan of a Asian person then yes, you are hot, usually very very hot. It's the balance of feminine features from the Asian side (baby face) with the masculine features of the white side (build, facial hair, height) that make a lot of half Asians very attractive. However, if you get the short genes and no no facial hair as t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 08:05 AM |
| 5 | If you are struggling getting to the top 20% consider going to Thailand to experience what it feels likemy favorite is blondes/brunettes but over here I am able to attract someone that is actually MORE attractive in my eyes than a brunette/blonde I can get in the states. super fit top 1% thai girl > overweight blonde. and yes, as a fit guy, I was only unable to either attract an overweight girl with a cute face or ugly girl with a good body in the states, due to the asian stigma I have. it really sucks having the body of an underwear model but only be able to attract overweight women just because … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 02:43 AM |
| 4 | If you are struggling getting to the top 20% consider going to Thailand to experience what it feels likeYes I am aware of the sociological component, but nevertheless that also feeds into the heightened SMV. I did not mean it is just because my looks are more appreciated here. It's both. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Share your monk mode experienceI say start with learning some basic techniques that are used in a wide variety of dishes (how to make a basic cream sauce, how to make basic marinara sauce, proper caramelizing techniques to name a few). Of course these basic techniques vary between ethnicities (Thai cuisine relies on proper balance between salt/sour/spicy/sweet coming form palm sugar/fish sauce/lime juice - these are used in most dishes). The best way I learned was through seasoned mentors (hint: ethnic mothers) and through yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 03:08 PM |
| 0 | Share your monk mode experienceyeah I have noticed this too - and it sucks to be on the "bad" side of it. I don't think men or women have really figured out how these certain guys have women gravitating towards them. also - on another note, even women far above their SMV. (17 year getting IOIS from a 32 year old...really? how is this possible?) Congrats though, I wish I could experience the same success. I feel like a strange case - this guy who has it all but can't attract women. sometimes I feel like I am living in the twil… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 10:35 PM |
| 10 | Polygyny better for women worse for men and society as a whole.A very important clarification to your TLDR is that ALL men not in the top 20% (or even 10% I would argue) suffer from rejection by their female equivalents as these women go for higher status males. it doesn't just affect the low value men. It is only when you get in this top 5-10% that suddenly you are swimming in women you would have otherwise not gotten before in a traditional monogamous society. The reality of today is that when a 6'2" tall, dark and handsome man with a high paying career w… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 09:13 PM |
| 18 | Share your monk mode experienceBeen in "monk mode" for the past 2.5 years. "monk mode" = not actively trying to pursue the opposite sex. -Increased my salary from around 72,000 to 92,000 and landed a job that I am passionate about in the one company I wanted to work for -Reached my body and fitness goals (body in top 5% of men easily as long as I am not on a bulk) -Could not cook worth shit, and learned around 50 new GOOD recipes and basic cooking techniques from around the world. I make 90% of my food at home (freeze it etc)… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 06:00 PM |
| 22 | [FR] Curious what a bad FR looks like? Here you goI think they should all say "where have all the top 5% men with SMV much higher than mine gone" | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 12:27 AM |
| 9 | [FR] Curious what a bad FR looks like? Here you go3 dates is a small sample size, maybe you just had a bad run? I had one week where I had planned 4 dates, and all of them backed out 2 hours before. usually it's only around a 30% ish back out rate. If this isn't a consistent issue, I would not beat yourself up over it. Stop thinking about "I wonder where I went wrong" unless you are actually striking out like this consistently. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 09:30 PM |
| 4 | FR: The Neighbor Girl, Part 2on the same note, that is why a girl will often times end up ditching said guy who was a truly deep and meaningful match and end up wanting to marry or marry a guy who is incompatible. how often have you heard "ohh...I know we are different, but that is what makes things exciting!!, and he is also calm!, always a mysterious, I know him enough to know I want to be with him though" Then you have divorce 5 years later as these men either play the women or their "aloofness" and unwillingness to open… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Looks don't make up the majority of a man's SMVI Work at huge corporation and hear conversations women have about men in our corporation. they only really call managers "Sexy" if they are physically good looking. It's only once you get to VP level that suddenly the vanilla-looking guys start becoming "hot" because of their power. VP level in our company is 400,000+ compensation minimum a year. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 02:52 PM |
| 47 | Looks don't make up the majority of a man's SMVCiting extreme outliers (celebrities/millionaires/club owners) as examples of how looks don't really matter doesn't really convince most logically minded intelligent people that they have a chance if they are obese, bald, and 5'0". I would argue that, exluding both extreme ends of the spectrum, where most of people don't reside (Billionaires, celebrities on the extreme good end and WOW bronies and men with aspergers on the other end) looks in fact, do compromise the majority of a mans' SMV, to t… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Women have it hard in the End. Men have it hard in the beginning.when yous say "beta males are the wheels to progress society" are you speaking to the proposed effect that beta males are typically the scientists/engineers/disease curers? and that people of these type will be slowly weeded out. Let's face it, most traditional alpha males turn into politicans/athletes/business owners and don't really do much to really progress society in terms of technological progress/progress towards curing disease/new forms of energy etc. I think it's terribly sad that natur… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 02:56 PM |
| 7 | Women have it hard in the End. Men have it hard in the beginning.Or maybe the need for sexual release for males and pain of not getting it will outweigh the pain for the level of work required to get into these top spots. You will have more beta males willing to improve themselves and put in the hard work. The increase in red pill subscribers is just an indication of this. This will create more "alpha" level men. These late-alpha men will represent the strongest of the beta men (plus the natural alpha men) and will be the only ones that re-produce. Over gener… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 07:35 PM |
| 5 | Women have it hard in the End. Men have it hard in the beginning.Why is this post being downvoted? He is more frustrated with the fact that he feels confident he can get those hot 20 year old college girls, but he is not in college anymore! I feel you, definetely - I have risen my SMV (great body, dress very well, near 100K job at 28, faces is so so but whatever), however, all the attractive women I am around at work and area I live (more upscale neighborhood) are attracted too the millionaires/6 foot tall guys with muscle who do iron mans/men with penthouse … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 04:18 PM |
| 17 | For whatever reason, it’s very popular to scold men and say, ‘women deserve better,’ but nobody ever seems to turn to women and say, ‘men deserve better.’" But they are too short-sighted to ever give the future drug dealing bikers, investment bankers, or PhD professors a legit chance on a date" It's not a matter of being shorted sighted, they know exactly what they are doing. They are the victim of their emotions so then the next thing they do is hamster hamster hamster away. "Ohh! yeah...I know I wasn't going to end up with the outlaw bike until death do us part, but I needed to get it out of my system" But I totally agree with you, after years … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 10:38 PM |
| 31 | For whatever reason, it’s very popular to scold men and say, ‘women deserve better,’ but nobody ever seems to turn to women and say, ‘men deserve better.’I think it just gets to the point that most american women are completely unable to place themselves in a mans' shoes. Then again, if you are a higher value male (good looks, status etc) then they will try to impress you, and suddenly all those little faults (like a women rejecting you because noticed you were wearing a yellow polo and she hates yellow) and even much bigger ones (like lying/cheating/stealing) become a non issue. Think about the stark dichotomy: Girl on date with man SMV at her l… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 08:05 PM |
| 7 | My beta friend Jack"he girl gets up calls him an asshole and walks off. He gives me a "it's not working man" look. I go to sit next to him at the bar and tell him it's fine. It's just one girl and he shouldn't give a single fuck about it. And as if it was a cue in a movie... one of the friends of the girl he treated like shit sat next to my friend and asked if he really said that to her. He seemed nervous and I considered that she might throw a drink in his face so I immediately got ready to grab him and pull him … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Does confidence fluctuate, and what can you do to be more confident?Not trying to bash OP (as TRP is out to help him), but it is beginning to remind me of posts on the misc forums where it starts off with "what did I do wrong, feel so rejected, never going to get a girlfriend?", and then reads something like "so this hot girl keeps talking to me in class and always looks at me, she invited me over to watch a movie and have drinks and kept looking at me like she wanted me to kiss her and then fuck her, but I just pussed out and she went to bed angry". I'm going t… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Does confidence fluctuate, and what can you do to be more confident?no, to be honest I have never been approached by the opposite sex, unless the women were unattractive/obese. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 01:46 AM |
| 14 | Does confidence fluctuate, and what can you do to be more confident?"Like 3 or 4 women have approached me on campus" "I ran into a gorgeous girl that I knew from last year and she got really nervous seeing me, and I think she was interested, but I just got nervous and couldn't make a move. In retrospect, she was pretty much setting me up to ask her out" Jesus Christ, is every other story on the red pill entail guys being approached by gorgeous women and fucking it up? I am starting to think Red-Pillers are all 6'2" muscular Male Models or something. I'm barely e… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 10:32 PM |
| 2 | By request: Gay man, longtime MR/RPer, with self-reported "50/50 male/female cognitive split". AMADefinitely not thin, and visibly muscular (but not overly hulky). Yeah, when I'm out to the bars and stuff my vibe slows down. However, when I'm out running errands etc picking up women is the last thing on my mind and I move fast. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 03:40 AM |
| 6 | By request: Gay man, longtime MR/RPer, with self-reported "50/50 male/female cognitive split". AMAI'm 5'10", so not classically "tall". I'm not sure exactly what entails a "leader" vibe, but I don't walk with my head down nor walk with a huge machismo vibe either. I'm busy and always focused towards my goals, so I usually walk faster but with purpose, if that makes any sense. I don't like to walk "slowly" and "chill", unless I'm relaxing. It would take me too long to get from point A to B and I'm impatient. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 12:00 AM |
| 19 | By request: Gay man, longtime MR/RPer, with self-reported "50/50 male/female cognitive split". AMAWhy do I Get hit on or checked out by gay guys all the time, but I seem literally invisible to women, unless they are unattractive or senior citizens? (I know this is a silly question but it is something I have noticed as as stark difference and some of my friends who keep themselves clean/dress well/lift notice as well). | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Morning routine makes a huge differenceI function the best at night (9-11ish) so I streamlined my morning routine to be as quick as possible. -Pick out outfit night before and place work laptop/food/gym clothes in front of door the night before. -Get up at 7:00am sharp -Shower from 7:00am - 7:15am. Brush teeth/floss/shave/etc in shower (saves time) -Eat Can of Tuna and three raw eggs for breakfast and put on clothes and head out the door by 7:20am. Other things of note: My preworkout is just a cup of coffee with 4-5 packs of sugar ad… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/14 07:23 PM |
| -7 | Do you guys ever want to have children?no, it's selfish to not have kids because it would deter you from reaching your financial/career goals due to time/money dedication they require. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/14 04:16 AM |
| 15 | Do you guys ever want to have children?I think the thought of kids is terrifying to red pillars especially because they command a lot of resources (time and money) to raise, and red pillars are especially dear to their own self investment of time and money to further their self-centered aspirations, that could not be accomplish with the responsibilities of raising children. I am not implying self-centered as in a negative connotation, but more as a true definition (as dedicating resources and time to yourself in lieu of others is sel… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/14 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Thought Experiment: What would you consider your "Equal" the SMV?It is enlightening - some of us start from very low points and gradually build ourselves up over years and years. I am still trying to edge my way up - however I am not sure what I could really do to improve myself other than push into the realm of being an enigmatic captivating speaker/ having the physique of a fitness model etc. I am maxed out at 6/10 - I wasn't given good genetic potential. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 08:48 PM |
| 7 | Some wisdom from a beta turned ladies man (turned beta turned even more of a ladies man.) And some online dating advice.And what happens when you become closer and closer to being that best version of yourself, after years and years of improvement, and you wake up every week getting closer to your goals, and women still don't seem to really care? If you aren't getting results in the women department, even if you are succeeding everywhere else, you are always going to have a thorn in your side. I'm still trying to figure it out. I've figured everything else out. You can't just go half- "monk mode" (Don't pursue gi… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Do you need Game ?well what do you define as "game". the only guys that have good looks that don't score with women not only have no "game", but they are just damn socially awkward and too afraid to escalate. "Game" is sold as something extra "special" like a specialized skill one must learn outside the normal realm. its NOT. If you are good looking, you don't need that extra charming "game". Just talk like a normal human being. | /r/trpGAME | 31/10/14 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Do attractive women have a "sixth sense"? Can they "sense" when you have low self-esteem/low SMV etc?but WHY do they do the things as I described above? It's almost like I should wear a shirt that say "I'm GAY, you don't have to run away, I'm not going to hit on you", or some shit like that | /r/askTRP | 31/10/14 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Do you need Game ?I might get flamed for this, but the need for "game" IMO is much simpler than the original post: This is "game": Step 1: Be good looking (objectively) or become good looking (top 10-20% of guys) Step 2: Talk like a normal human being (be able to make your conversations natural and flowing). If you do not fulfill either of the steps then you are in trouble. As you can see, for most people, #1 is much harder than #2. That is where PUA's will disagree. I think this is the true "red pill" of the red… | /r/trpGAME | 30/10/14 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Can being TOO RP essentially just make you a MWGTOW?a small percentage of men can never grow enough muscle or have the right frame to look masculine. If you naturally have a very skinny small frame, extreme baby face, no body hair, and inability to grow any facial hair at all, no amount of lifting is going to make you look masculine. Example - many asians! And toby mcquire in spider man has a natural larger frame and grows facial hair and is fairly good looking, so he satisfies criteria #2 handsomeness and does not have to fulfill masculinity to … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 10:12 PM |
| 4 | Can being TOO RP essentially just make you a MWGTOW?I am considering MGTOW due to the following reasons: 1 -Looks matter way more than you think and trumps game, unless you take into account massive numbers "game" or becoming a celebrity. 2 -My Looks are at the point where I am not able to attract a girl that I am sexually attracted to enough to consistently have a healthy sexual relationship with. You either need raw "handsomeness" - pretty face, symmetrical face etc" or "masculinity" - rough arms/height/very muscular build/facial hair". one can… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 08:58 PM |
| 1 | considering going MGTOW but at the same time do not want to "give up".I spend time online (tinder/okcupid), but it usually never goes anywhere. I also approach at the bars/clubs but that never goes anywhere either. I have tried speaking up at gym/coffee shops etc but I usually just get the "don't bother me" cold shoulder. Occasionally the girls are friendlier but it usually ends up in them just giving me their number and not picking up when I call later. the places I have succeeded are through friends etc, but that avenue is drying up fast as people get married/mo… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/14 09:14 PM |
| 57 | Ugly girl laments miserable time out at club. Hamsters console her; "Men have it much easier"Below average girl gets rejected by attractive guys at club (but still gets average looking ones and occasional attractive ones) and cries: OMG you are beautiful!! you're smart etc! you deserve so much better! Guy gets rejected at club by every girl and complains: OMG you shitlord, you don't DESERVE sex just because you try. You scumbag misogynist. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 08:34 PM |
| 1 | The most unattractive trait of all: trying to attract a womanproblem is that if you show any level of over excitement they automatically assume you are supplicating, regardless if you are actually going to be a needy stalker in the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 03:35 PM |
| 2 | The most unattractive trait of all: trying to attract a womanI fucking hate this shit. As someone that (naturally) gets easily exited about things he is interested in and shows it (and that applies to ANYTHING, not just a particular girl), I feel like it always backfires. Girls always have a sixth sense if you like them. It's almost like you have to consciously monitor your behavior so that you do not appear excited to see them or be around them, in order to appear as if you don't like them, so that they can like you. Funny thing is, I am a busy guy, I sp… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 01:46 AM |
| 54 | The end of academiaGod, this reminds me of my dealings like you described during my freshman year. the most JARRING thing I noticed that these SAME women would go to parties later and screw the exact men displaying behaviors that they would say oppress women and would YELL at me for displaying. It was the biggest mindfuck I had ever personally witnessed. Then when I confronted them about this they would always say "Wow, you are such a shitlord, are you ONLY helping us out because you wan to get into our pants? it'… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 09:18 PM |
| 2 | "Smart women don't like ..."The most infuriating example of this to Blue Pillars and the thing that leads to mass confusion/mindfuck is when the women that are LIKE them common interests wise end up fucking men who have little in common with them over them. It's like the anime girl who is into video games, cosplay, and anime choosing to fuck a fratboy that is into sports over her guy friend who is into video games, cosplay, and anime who arguably has a closer connection and more common interests. I've seen it happen more t… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/14 09:31 PM |
| 1 | serious question: Do any of you have any theories as to why Feminists and Progressives can't condition modern women to prefer blue pillers?Think of this argument applied to what gives men 'tingles" (and I think it does exist) -Why can't men be convinced to ignore their biological instincts and get their dick hards for fat, masculine women? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/14 08:09 PM |
| 0 | The story about the two hot teachers sleeping with the 16 yo student is so eye opening. So much to be learned from itI'm sorry I don't buy that a 14 year old could have enough game to consistently fuck attractive girls in their 20's that are most likely surrounded by men of significantly higher value, inherently. The gap is just too big, I would need to see it to believe it. I am guessing the only plausible explanation was that the women were put in situations were they were NOT surrounded by many high value men their age. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/14 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Finally took a chance, and I'm high off of the results.congrats man - show's how a small decision change can really mean the difference between kicking yourself in the nuts later and fapping and a meeting success. Now I am going to assume OP is attractive. What do you do if you do the same thing OP does but the girls are put off and don't smile back or pretend like you don't even exist when you walk past them and smile | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/14 09:43 PM |
| 3 | [Example] Eye-opening Backpacking in EuropeIt's stories like these along with personal examples that I have noticed that are such a huge downer for myself and other men who put a SHIT TON of effort in self improvement and me like Bob can have an IQ of 75 and pull easier than we can. Let's cut to the facts and face it, being able to fuck a 9/10, for most men, is the thing that will make you feel like a confident man and boost happiness more than ANYTHING, except for maybe finishing an IRONMAN/Making your first 1,000,000 dollars, winning t… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 04:15 PM |
| 13 | Too goodI think it is important to highlight that it is difficult to be a MATURE, STABLE man and be an "alpha" in the context of what gives women gina tingles. It's just pathetically sad, but the more you align yourself with "I'm going to be honest/loyal/to well at my job/get a house/go to church etc/not stay out late/take care of my responsibilities", the more you just start drying up her vagina. Really, as much as she will readily discount it, the 20 year old female in her physical prime will get more… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/14 01:01 PM |
| 12 | I got to see the 'wage gap' in action today.better check your privilege at the door.... in must be too infuriating to be in this situation. I would love for someone to do a documentary going to into factories such as these and secretly document how much work certain classes do compared to others (Whites/Blacks/Men/Women/Old People/Young People/Mexicans/Asians). If everyone is called out for SOMETHING (since every subset has weaknesses), then people will be less inclined to call out "THIS STUDY WAS RUN BY MISOGYNIST SHITLORDS". For example… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/14 11:17 PM |
| 68 | The Guitar: Destroyer of LMRReady for a Jarring Perspective? IT DEPENDS MORE ON THE IMAGE YOU PROJECT RATHER THAN HOW WELL YOU PLAY GUITAR As a guitarist that has been playing professionally and semi professionally for the past 12 years - I don't think I have ever gotten a signal of interest from a girl because I play guitar. Here is why - What matters most is IMAGE period. I play METAL guitar, mostly progressive metal. The clientele is mostly guys. It's "nerdy" not "Sexy". Girls aren't into Metal. I can play circles aroun… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/14 08:03 PM |
| 6 | Your Embarrassing Beta StoriesFriend in college that I sorta had a crush on convinced me to give her a ride to a house party, where she abandoned me immediately and fucked her crush, who was fucking another girl that night. turns out these guy was your typical alpha player guy. she came down crying after I was by myself at this house party for an hour and not knowing anyone (and couldnt drink since I drove), and I gave her a ride back to her place. The whole time she told me how she went up there (to fuck him) and he was in … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/14 03:39 PM |
| 11 | There is a "new masculinity" wherein women & betas re-label traditional markers of male success as "sexist" or "divisive". It's a comforting mechanism by which losers will try to redefine failure as success and success as wrong.quarter of a million is not enough to make up for looks limitations. you have to in millionaire territory actively flaunting your wealth. also, he had no interest in beta bux | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 04:20 PM |
| 35 | There is a "new masculinity" wherein women & betas re-label traditional markers of male success as "sexist" or "divisive". It's a comforting mechanism by which losers will try to redefine failure as success and success as wrong.Here is food for thought - I know someone that went MGTOW in the way described above, except this was around 10 years ago, before this term really existed. He is much much happier with his life. He realized that there were things he was passionate about, that truly made him happy. He realized that those things he was passionate about were not attractive to women nor putting him in environments where there were women, but most importantly, his passion involved a lot of time and investment. He rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 02:45 PM |
| 6 | ENTRAPMENT! red pill example! woman selling positive pregnancy tests for purpose of "make him yours"yeah I know some guys that if, given one of these by his LTR/fiance, would first be shocked but then accept it, and then subsequently take advantage of the fact that birth control does not matter (to him) and just bust everywhere without a care, ending in pregnancy, sealing their fates. And in the end if he found out, it would be on the men, even if they were deceived into not using BC methods. "her body her choice" and "all the in the best interest of the child" = crazy women using this decepti… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/14 03:33 PM |
| 1 | I missed the boat. Is it reasonable to end it all?I went on sort of a MGTOW for a long time to work myself. Unfortunately, none of the things I did involved being around women. All my coworkers are guys. the gym I go to is all guys. most of my friends moved away to different states. On top of that, I look like I am 21 when I am 28, when girls see me and converse with me they don't know what I do, or what I have, they see a guy who is 20/21 and often times don't care to get to know the other half and what I have accomplished. the only way girls … | /r/askTRP | 05/10/14 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I missed the boat. Is it reasonable to end it all?Try being close to 29, hitting all your other goals in life, and still struggling with women. Then talk to me. Do you know what its like to walk into your condo overlooking the city after coming back from a workout where your body, 5 years in the making, shows defined abs and body in the to 1% of guys, throwing your prime rib eye on your grill on your patio, just got promoted at work making close to 100,000 a year, and talking to your friends about that trip to thailand. Everything you have - yo… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/14 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Internet dating sucks. Where to meet women outside of a bar?do you have any classier food oriented bars/restaurants around the area? Around my city we have a bunch of small places that are more bar-like in terms of the clientele yet they more like restaurants. They usually specialize in a certain kind of small appetizers and have people sipping on wine flights instead of getting hammered on vodka tonics. The people are usually younger/single/looking and there is definetely mingling. The only downside is that you better show up in your maximized look in o… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/14 08:50 PM |
| 6 | A reminder that being an alpha is fun: two female teachers had a threesome with a 16 y.o student after a football gameAre these women outliers or did this 16 year high school student really the best choice to fuck rather than men in their twenties that are probably fitter/more money/etc? How does this example prove hypergamy? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/14 08:01 PM |
| 1 | A prisoner impregnated 4 guards and got 2 of them having his name tattooed, all while incarceratedWell I think, especially in her case, she probably hadn't witnessed someone like that in a long time, she was from a small town and just started college earlier that year. It was probably just pure curiousity on her part. Then you have booze+confident guy = sex | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/14 01:01 AM |
| 8 | Not In A Million Yearsmoney itself does not create attraction unless with it comes the appearance of power and influence. as such, money will not attract women, on a visceral level unless you are a high flying director/CEO etc or spend all your money on material possessions so that there is at least the appearance of money. Trust me, the fact that I make 94,000 a year at the age of 28 has had absolutely no affect on whether women are attracted to me or not. They don't care, even if they know, since #1 I am pretty fru… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 08:18 PM |
| 12 | A prisoner impregnated 4 guards and got 2 of them having his name tattooed, all while incarceratedYou know I read my response again and it seems absurd, but I assure you it is the truth. Believe it or not. I was only 18 at the time and just entered the party scene in college, I could not believe what happened. I thought I had traveled to another fucking dimension or something. I think I seriously spent the entire next day just fuming and thinking the girl must have had psychological issues inside. I assure you she was pretty normal - and I saw this thing time and time again. Gina Tingles are… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 05:47 PM |
| 1 | How can you REALLY tell a girl is attracted to you or interested in you.This. What I was asking for in this thread was more specific indicators other than things normal people do often. "Omg she touched her hair four times in the past 3.5 minutes", she must be interested "Omg she licked her lips twice", she must be interested. Going by that logic my 90 year grandpa is getting tail from 18 year old high school students. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/14 05:45 PM |
| 14 | Not In A Million YearsAs someone that is trying to find where HE fits in between these two groups (MGTOW and Men benefiting from polygamy) this post resonates with me deeply. The main problem with one of the premises of this article: the need for sexual satisfaction in guys is very related to happiness and it takes a great great deal of focus on self control to go on a MTGOW path without sex other than the occasional hooker. Despite improving myself physically, mentally, etc and going after my goals in forgetting abo… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 04:09 PM |
| 68 | A prisoner impregnated 4 guards and got 2 of them having his name tattooed, all while incarceratedreminds me of back in the day when I noticed this guy at a party peeing on cars in the road with a neck tattoo and cigar in one hand, drunk. Someone yelled at him because he peed on his car and he comes in and says "I dun give a FUCK, I do what I want". The girl I was trying to hook up with tells me how immature that is. 2 hours later she slept with him on the couch after ditching me and calling me a someone she could see herself being friends with I later asked her (fuming obviously) what was u… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 02:49 PM |
| 1 | 4chan user gets a taste of female hypergamyIf he can't get out of the lease he should do this: Immediately set ground rules around guests. He is not allowed around all the time in your place and since you split the apartment, you can split the bedroom if you want based on what the night is. Be firm and come to an agreement with her - frame it as "we are two different negotiating parties that have to live with this situation". Be cool and non-nonchalant about it. Then start lifting, dressing better. acting more confident. internalize red … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 02:44 PM |
| 15 | What makes a guy good looking according to TRP and is it a possibility for a lot of men out there?Ok call me a little cynical, but I don't believe game to be as effective as most people. more importantly, I believe looks are far far more important than game, as long as your "game" is at a level that you can get the basics down (talk like a normal human being, escalate, talk confidently). For most intelligent men with basic social skills (I assume that constitutes most of red pill), telling them that their game is flawed is not focusing on the right area. In MY opinion, I feel like telling so… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/14 07:30 PM |
| 29 | Mom shocked that young, "very pretty" girl chooses confident son over "introverted" sonIt is all how you appear on the outside. Usually, An introverted man who is confident will not seem as confident as an insecure man who is extroverted. An introverted guy who just finished his first marathon, and got a promotion is going to sit back and relax at a bar with a grin on his face. The extroverted guy who just lost his job and is insecure about it is going to say "fuck it, Im still going to have a good time", and drink and playfully hit on girls at the bar, I'm not going to stay depre… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/14 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Mom shocked that young, "very pretty" girl chooses confident son over "introverted" sonI think this situation is an interesting play into what I believe is the concept that the only thing that matters is how you make a women feel, based on how you appear (personality wise and looks). One of concepts you here, even on redpill forums is that if you are an older guy, you immediately have the upper hand with women because women prefer more "mature men". This goes against that concept. Now I do not know the specific of the situation are how these people are personally, but it seems as … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/14 09:27 PM |
| 9 | Beta is angry at "player" best friend for "stealing" his potential perfect girl, doesn't understand why she'd fall for a guy like that.Just reinforces the tenet that looks>>everything else, as long as you can speak like a normal human being and escalate. Not sure if everyone else got that in this article. If you have the looks, you can literally act like a beta and chase her endlessly and still get her over some guy who spits out great game. Its so painfully obvious but no one seems to either notice it or everyone chooses to ignore it. Lift until you look like you lift with a shirt on Increase the masculinity of your appearance… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/14 08:10 PM |
| 10 | Hot girl wears fat suit on Tinder dates with hilarious resultTrue. My 6/10 female friend is marrying a legit obese guy. But he towers over her and has a huge frame. She mentions that she feels "protected" even though he is overweight. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Genetics proves that women all fuck the same mennot sure this belongs here, but I think it is relevant if we are talking a few select men breeding with most of women. I really really REALLY hate it when men and women go on their whole "omg you can't generalize what women like in a men and what they are attracted too, women are attracted to different things, you'll get your chance bald manlet". Such utter bullshit. Studies show and raw evidence show that certain indicators of good genes are going to be attractive to 95% of women and other indi… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Genetics proves that women all fuck the same menif you strip down this demographic to only include women that are at least mildly attractive (not overweight and cute face) and exclude married couples or any instance outside the realm of true instinctual attraction (most marriages, women riding the CC looking to marry), I bet you the ratio is closer to only 1-5% of men are having sex with 80% of the objectively attractive women. scary. Basically you have 95% of guys getting very occasional lays from attractive girls and mostly unattractive gir… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Morning routineHow does someone with a Full Time Job and Other Passions/goals supposed to fit this in his schedule? My morning routine is down to 20 minutes max, mostly because if I spent 2 hours doing the above I would have less time to work on my goals. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/14 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Men Who Are Invisible to WomenCan someone please do a legit study on sociology to test the theory of at what point do men become "invisible" to women? This would be gold. First, define what "invisible" is (maybe getting less than a 5% response rate on online dating across the same set of women, only 5% acknowledgment cues from women as men approach them on street, Sending these men off to a party in a double blind study and then ask the women which guys they remembered). Then try to, as objectively as possible, rate the mens… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 09:34 PM |
| 7 | Men Who Are Invisible to Women10 times in a row? he is moping about that? That is probably less than the average number of rejections a guy gets asking a girl to dance. And who asks a girl to dance at a club anyways? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 09:29 PM |
| 4 | What the hell is so red pill about the Red Pill?this strikes a chord with me. Looking back, in many ways I was very Red Pill and did not understand how other men would let their wives/S.O's treat them. However, I also had poor communication skills (social anxiety growing) and very little experience in how to properly flirt/game a girl. I see trends very apparently and have always gone by peoples' actions rather than words. Some Truths I learned since High school: -I knew in high school/college that women loved the badboys and that even good, … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with loneliness as you work toward becoming a top 10% manIt is a lonely road, but you can think of self improvement for those that are not high enough SMV yet and need a lot of time and effort to improve as sort of a toned down "monk mode". You know it will take time, and effort to get where you want, but you know that when you emerge and you can invest more time in recreational activities (gaming girls) you will be perceived stronger/more confident, and get a better response. I know my SMV is not high enough yet - I need about another year. By next s… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 02:01 PM |
| 4 | "Take my breath away"Try this: Get on tinder or texting and steer the conversation into a sexual direction. Start asking questions around "what is your sexual fantasy....". I kid you not, 100% of the girls that I mentioned that too, after I got enough comfort from them, they licked their lips or made sly faces through text and someone like "I have always wanted to be handcuffed, chocked, spanked, or bent over a bed and just fucked so hard it that I have to hold myself down from being pushed forward". and this is com… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/14 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy in Action: "How do I break up with an old boyfriend whom I have dated for 4 years, for a new, better guy I've known for 1 year?"jesus christ people it was a joke, and a nod to how insane lengths some people go to get laid. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Betas gon betas: be a nice boring guy as she fantafucks other men till she's ready for a real manOk this is going to sound nutsy but: If you are a low SMV who knows the red pill, for some reason does not think he can improve his SMV high enough to ever have sex with a objectively "very attractive" girl, and on top of that don't really give a shit about your reputation why not just try to use beta tactics to try to get her. chances are, if you are SMV is low enough beta tactics might be the best way to at least get the experience of sexing a 8/10 girl that you would other die without getting… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 06:22 PM |
| -12 | Hypergamy in Action: "How do I break up with an old boyfriend whom I have dated for 4 years, for a new, better guy I've known for 1 year?"muscle implants. (seriously people get muscle implants - mostly for the pecs and calfs). Then you wont have to worry about lifting. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 04:22 PM |
| 50 | Hypergamy in Action: "How do I break up with an old boyfriend whom I have dated for 4 years, for a new, better guy I've known for 1 year?"What kind of girl weighs people with a pro's con's list like that and breaks relationships on what seems like a explicit "ranking" system? Sleeping around, is not so bad, but relationships? This girl doesn't value men as human beings, but as trophies to be traded. I can only hope that her moral depravity is somehow manifested in her actions and words (It is hard to hide this from intelligent people) and that most men (not her current bf) would see the obvious warning signs and run, or just fuck … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 02:23 PM |
| 4 | Why do men give female friendship such low value?Because to most people, especially men, a true friendship is an implied mutual agreement built on trust, loyalty, etc. If you are truly very good friends with someone they will be there for you. If you are truly very good friends with someone they will prioritize you in certain situations when it is needed. They will be loyal. And this is not just short term, it is LONG term as well. Read on.... Now what happens when you do find a girl that you have similar interests with, have loyalty that is m… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/14 02:34 PM |
| 1 | I want to take her on dates, he just takes her to parties. He sleeps around and breaks her heart, but I always mend it. He just wants sex, but I just want to make her happy. Why does she keep going back to him?...My question here, if part of the intent of feminism was to remove shaming of the true sexual desires of women (Women love sex too!), why are a lot of women still lying to men about their true desires? come out say it "I want to sleep with alpha's regardless of how they treat me, learn how to be that guy, then you can have me". It will help us men from a very early learn exactly what women want and allow us to improve then and not wait until we are divorce raped to learn. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/14 02:15 PM |
| 0 | More Rules for Men - GQ Magazine Social Engineering: How to Be Polite to Women Without Pissing Them OffYes newton died a virgin (supposedly). And nerds have negative sex appeal. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/14 08:50 PM |
| 69 | Yes, men do leave the market"I just wish women would be honest and say these guys aren't good enough" Because a 5/10 women who openly admits she is not attracted to 5/10 or 6/10 guys looks like a complete entitled hypocrite. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/14 08:15 PM |
| 155 | Yes, men do leave the marketWhat is so perturbs me the most about the author's experience is the fact that it is so incredibly obvious (after taking the red pill) that these women in these dance classes that supposedly could not find any single men really meant "I cannot find a single guy that is GOOD enough for me", which is usually a guy that is a 2-3 points higher than her. This canned statement is pervasive amongst the women of the 20-30 some hip urban culture and means the same thing - that these women are rejecting a… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/14 07:00 PM |
| 2 | "Do it for yourself": the pervasive hamster [Reminder post; /u/redpillschool]agreed, it is almost like a "red pill" within the red pill community. Most people come here thinking they can bang 9/10's after improving themselves. Some will, and although the disappointing reality will reveal it self down the road (most guys can only improve so much), it is still better in my opinion, for motivation's sake to preach "discover the red pill! Lift for 2 years! work on yourself! Start that business! change your game and attitude! you will be spinning five 8/10 plates after 2 year… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 08:53 PM |
| 3 | "Do it for yourself": the pervasive hamster [Reminder post; /u/redpillschool]And what happens when you see that hot blonde girl when you are a blue-pilled 21 year old that looks like chit and keep getting rejected, so you swear you will improve yourself to attract someone like her. Then 7 years down the road after hundreds of approaches, a year on tinder swiping 3,000+ women, lifting in the gym 3 time a week, pushing you salary to 95,000 dollars, and hitting some other personal goals of yours that supposedly have the side effect of attracting women, you still have not be… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pill saved my life!you know, If extreme blue pill/beta qualities are so utterly repulsive as we say we are, a offbeat way to get a stalker-ish women disinterested in you (since ignoring her just makes it worse) is to go full creep mode beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Men Do Not "Feel Entitled To Sex"For most younger women, saying this is a just a knee jerk reaction to any sort of hint of the slightest semblance of entitlement brought on after reading an article on Jezebel or a feminist magazine about how men who are frustrated they aren't getting female attention and how it is not womens' faults and they are in fact empowered etc etc etc. They blow it out of proportion. Progressive feminists are always about really understanding why people who are troubled are in the situations they are and… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 02:33 PM |
| 7 | How Tinder has changed the gameWhat really makes me curious is - if the balance have been even tipped further - I feel like today more than ever it is harder and harder for 90% of guys to get laid by a decent looking girl. Especially if you are talking about the 20's demographic. The squeeze is becoming so tight, there aren't enough "hot enough" top 5% guys to satiate the top 50% of 20 year olds. This begs the ironic preposition - are cute+ women getting less sex because of this? Or are the top 5% of guys just reaping the ben… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 02:16 PM |
| 25 | Recently ended up with a stripper for a flatmate. I had no idea how constant their stream of validation is."Her: "Oh heavens no, these guys are creepers."" haha, because every single guy Okcupid is a total creep. I love how women have a few bad experiences and every man gets lumped into the "creeper" catagory. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 01:58 PM |
| -3 | On Not Approaching Women at AllI think most of them would definitely not want to trade places in the context if trying to attract the opposite sex. the (smart) ones know how ridiculously lopsided it is. I wanted to highlight the fact that most women at clubs aren't being bitchy for the fun of it. It still doesn't make me think "omg, that is TERRRIBLE, it's ok for them to bitchy, totally get it". and to answer your question, I was not fucking them, but driving 4 girls only 5-6 miles to the bar without having to drive them back… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Are you really improving - or just treading water?Or what if we have started from a mental frame of utmost confidence "I can get a 9/10!, I am good enough!", and got shot down hundreds and hundreds of time yet had success with lower value women and realized we cannot disillusion ourselves since proof through high sample sizes shows otherwise. It's like telling a 4'10" guy that he needs to think he can slam dunk the basketball on the standard court hoop versus the kiddie hoop even though he has failed 1,000 times trying to dunk on the standard h… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 08:34 PM |
| -3 | On Not Approaching Women at AllYou know I used to hate women for having bitchy entitled attitudes about approaching and essentially going to a club to get dressed up in sexy outfits and be in least approachable state possible. Then I went out to a club with several 8+/10 women in a group (drove them there) in exchange for free drinks, and just realized how fucking creepy it is to look over and there are 8 men staring at you at any given second, most of them salivating at the mouth. You don't really realize how creepy it is to… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 08:28 PM |
| 40 | Are you really improving - or just treading water?I think this is the missing "red pill truth" of the red pill itself. Self Improvement is great thing, but you may not be doing enough self improvement. Sometimes, the amount of self improvement required to make 7/10+ women consistently attracted to you without having to expend serious amounts of efforts is unreasonable for some men. I think this constitutes a subset of the "MGTOW" population - the realization that the only way to attract these types of women is through plastic surgery, height en… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Applying TRP when you have 0 dates, plates, and LTRsI would actually argue that most young women can't tell much of a difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy". Hence you will probably be automatically associated with the "nice guys" when you associate with them. Better to take the safe route and be slightly arrogant. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Applying TRP when you have 0 dates, plates, and LTRsI totally this - Being a stem major and landing a job you are passionate about that makes very good money at a young has it's positives - but the jarring problem being that there are usually no women. Imagine driving around a BMW/Infiniti, making 100,000+ a year, owning your condo after moving to a new city and the only network you have to all male coworkers. Then you see some guy who makes 1/4 of you pulling all the women just because he works at a coffee shop full of baristas. This is how I an… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 02:36 PM |
| 1 | very successful with average/below average women (4/10 or 5/10). success non-existent with women that would be considered objectively "cute" or "attractive"I guess we need to calibrate what exactly is a 5/6/7/8 for a guy? In my opinion, a 5/6 is an average looking guy - he does not turn heads when he walks down the street, regardless of how he carries himself. a 7 is a "good looking guy". Women will describe him as "good looking" when describing other people's boyfriends. They will also "he looks well put together", "he's a decent looking guy, pretty cute". an 8 is getting into "hot territory". These are the guys that need little game to really get… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/14 12:34 AM |
| 1 | very successful with average/below average women (4/10 or 5/10). success non-existent with women that would be considered objectively "cute" or "attractive"too be honest, I Am not sure really how attractive I Am. I know I definitely do not turn heads, and women never approach me at bars. I have a very very good body from years of lifting and I dress very well (have to for my job). My face is questionable and I Am around 5'10". I would put myself probably around 5/10 maybe 6/10. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/14 02:16 PM |
| 2 | very successful with average/below average women (4/10 or 5/10). success non-existent with women that would be considered objectively "cute" or "attractive"I sure hope its inflation. This is the typical "success after I discovered the red pill" thread: "I was a typical blue pill beta, average looking, totally whipped, depressed - never having had sex in 5 years will do that to a guy. all my oneituses walked all over me and I was always in the friend zone. After discovering the red pill and lifting weights, taking up guitar, MMA, and increasing my income by 20% the past year, I am spinning 5 plates, all 8/10 women with tight assess and that would tu… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/14 02:46 AM |
| 2 | The Rational Male – Myth of the 'Good' GuyThis article just confirms the fact that I get the best results when I gain genuine confidence in areas that I personally want to succeed and improve in, and "share" what I have passionately gained with others as a side effect. Its selfish investment foremost that yields true value to other peoples' lives as a wonderful "side affect" | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 09:34 PM |
| 8 | Female OKCupid user decides she is tired of dating Alpha males and tries dating 'nice' guys. She can't understand why she feels no tingles.You know after reading the red pill I had hoped that women were attracted to good, genuinely confident men in addition to assholes. then I learned the harsh truth that women are in fact, the most attracted to men who are, in fact, real assholes. You can't have the same"tingle inducing" qualities to the same level as a true asshole will bring. There is just something about a very masculine, overly cocky guy that just really turns women on just like a youthful feminine women in her prime turns a g… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 02:29 PM |
| 24 | Why Are So Many Professional Millennial Women Unable To Find Dateable Men?And 5 years earlier when they were in their prime they were fucking the grocery bagger that had a motorcycle and wicked five o clock shadow and KNEW they were doing it because they were "liberated and exploring their sexuality". doing anal, letting her friend in on the action, and dressing up in a sexy outfit so that he could give her a "pearl necklace" when she was her in sexual prime was all part of "Discovering herself". Then 5 years later she has the audacity to want a man who is more intell… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 04:09 PM |
| 4 | "30 and single-should I have gone husband hunting when I was 22?"On a more depressing but interesting note, is that, as someone possessing all those qualities listed - except I am 5'10" only. I realize that none of it matters since I lack a manly physical look. It renders everything else obsolete. -Make 95,000 a year and passionate about my job -Have a master degree -Run Triathalons, bike, and weight lift -Play Guitar as a serious hobby (in a serious band) -Very Fit -Creative (Musician as side hobby). I gaurantee you, when she is listing those criteria she is… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Just Friends is Just StupidBut I doubt it will be to the same level as before. Of course it will be fine for a little while after marriage. But wait until the responsibilities pile up. Kids, relocations etc. You will not be having get togethers every month when you are both 35. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 09:26 PM |
| 8 | Penalized for having kids.as a single father of a cute as fuck 2 year old toddler that I see a few days a week, I was afraid that girls would run far far far away after I told them I had a child. turns out most thought it was "the cutest thing ever" or something like that and stayed with me. I was surprised to say the least. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 05:33 PM |
| 19 | "30 and single-should I have gone husband hunting when I was 22?"This. Problem is that women do not want to date their "equivalents", to most women their "equivalent" is invisible to them. Look at online dating - A girl who is at least in shape (not fit), who is 5'6" and has a cute face that works as a admin making 30,000 a year will immediately reject a guy who is 5'9"/is in shape (not muscular maybe has a slight belly/has a "cute" (slightly above average) face and makes 30,000 dollars as a graphic designer. Girls I know that fit the above criteria (and look… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 03:48 PM |
| 10 | Just Friends is Just Stupidthink of it like this - even being good friends with female and not being her orbiter and having one of those "just like brothers' relationships without either the girl or guy being used will never work in the long term. I assume if you are a guy of high standards that your female friend will probably be relatively attractive and have a good personality. This means that a few years down the road, you will be immediately thrust aside for a guy she just met. Since she wants to procreate, they will… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 02:00 PM |
| 9 | What do RP men do on their free time?Weight Lift 3-4 times a week Play guitar 10-15 hours a week learn to cook new recipes (one a week) Play with my son (3 days ish a week) Work 40-50 hours a week I don't watch TV, read fiction, or go out too much. I'm sorta in a hibernating monk mode | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 09:43 PM |
| 2 | It's not your looks. This sub will teach you that.I completely disagree. If you take a guy who is going after women in their 20's and has what I call "the basics down" - he is not super socially awkward (aka he can talk like normal human being), and he does not look like a slob, that looks the thing, that if improved, will give absolutely the most "bang for your buck" (pun intended). recognizing this means a guy can focus more on really maxing out his looks (lifting, dressing better etc), and practice verbally as well without having too put too… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes they date "down"With women, sexual attraction to guy as in the act of actually touching the guy, is only at two extremes: Either are so disgusted that they would rather fuck their pet dog (seriously), or so in complete lust. I've been clean cut, muscular, and have female friends that are so afraid of sexual contact with me that when we go out (as friends), they will refuse to give me full hugs and usually tell me after a few drinks that they will never ever have sex with me or the thought of being physical with… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes they date "down"True, although if they had kids she may be able to keep full custody, which I would say is more heartbreaking, especially for someone with character like him | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 09:12 PM |
| 6 | Sometimes they date "down"Damn I hate to say it but, this guy may be BP beta, but here is a skinny bald uneducated guy who treats a 8/10 girl like a a princess and bang her occasionally. To him that's a pretty damn good deal, just as long as he doesn't actually marry her. I mean god, I have never had sex with a girl that is above a 7/10 ever, It may be worth it just to find a hot girl that just got dumped by her AF about to hit the wall so I can act super nice and sex her up at least once. Once is better than nothing at … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 09:41 PM |
| 3 | I want to be a Beta Male.Think about it this way - What are your goals and ambitions? Are you a very ambitious person? You start to realize that success in many truly ambitious goals (starting your own business for example) require you to adopt new habits such as good vocal projection, dominant communication, picking your battles (aka choosing to ignore certain people), and coming across as selfish to some when you realize the time commitment (your family/friends/girlfriends/potential clients for example). Your mental f… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/14 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Getting numbers off Tinder but girls reply slow as hell or just stop completely. What the hellThat's funny because I just posted some random picture on tinder. I got matched by about 20-30 attractive women per day. Most of them messaged me first and I did not say much, just "hi". they would then suddenly steer the conversation into sexual stuff, ask me to come over and have a few drinks after I told them I had a good day, I like football, and I am trying to learn guitar. Man I don't know what it is about all these other guys on tinder having to swipe 1,000 time to get 5 matches with attr… | /r/trpGAME | 27/08/14 03:10 AM |
| 45 | AlfaFux,BetaBux: Indian woman wonders why she can't get tingles for a "great guy" who has an Ivy League degree and treats her better than her ex-boyfriends.yet she cums instantly for her former 19 year unemployed former lover whose criminal record she rationalizes as "strangely sexy and rebellious", and terrible attitude as "misunderstood". She even lets him fuck her even though he is 30 IQ points below her new "Great guy". the sight of his facial scar and neck tattoo he got on a whim makes her squirm with delight and immediately want to swallow all of him. It's not her fault though, she is victim of her biological instinct, which her mother and fa… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 03:01 AM |
| 12 | Red Pill Analysis of Asian/Indian American Dating.yeah, the frustrating part is that, low height males set aside, Most white american men are all "diamonds" in the rough, in that if they seriously spent a year or two really working out and cutting to 10% bodyfat, getting a tan, really finding a haircut that fits, and dressing well, most of them could end up a 7/10+ and land a 8/10+ girl. they all have high potential attractiveness. Asians do not. Ripped asians get annihilated by skinny pale skinned hipsters in the dating market just because the… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 06:20 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill Analysis of Asian/Indian American Dating.I don't think its a matter of racism, I think it's literally a matter of the fact that american women are biologically not attracted to asian features in the face since they are feminine, even if the face is on top of a muscular masculine body. Now, asian women, you have may have a lot better luck. Here is a something to chew on - I have been with white american women when they go through their cosmo magazines with male models. They all are not attracted at all to the asian models, even if they … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 06:17 PM |
| 4 | What are a few Tinder tips and tricks that every man must know and aren't common knowledge?Step 1: This is going to sound ridiculous but works Either: If you are physically attractive in the face, find the most physically attractive picture in a casual environment and post it. It will work. If you are not physically attractive in the face head on but can grow facial hair, grow out your five o clock shadow, put sunglasses on (to hide your face and draw attention to five o clock shadow and jaw formation. Take a picture with jaw angled up with five o clock shadow hiding a face a bit. you… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/14 06:11 PM |
| 21 | Red Pill Analysis of Asian/Indian American Dating."The main reason Asian women prefer White dudes is not because Asians are beta, it’s because they prefer White physical features" This sticks out like sore thumb and is something I struggle with. Although I am not fully asian, I am half asian and retained more asian facial features that are considered "feminine". As such, self improvement that works for white guys seems to be such a struggle for asians, in the physical sense. I have been lifting for 7-8 years and have my proportions down to the … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 04:52 PM |
| 68 | I want to reject the red pill.The trade off and sad fact about shifting the way your treat women to align with the red pill mindset is that you tend to lose parts of a relationship that really made you connect with someone at a deeper and honest level. the soulmate experience if you will. The openness to be completely honest about our feelings. you aren't allowed to display true vulnerability you aren't allowed to truly grieve you need to maintain frame despite how hard you fall for her It's all about staying closed, and tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 03:43 PM |
| 2 | So I made a short list of some of the times I probably could have gotten laid and didn't realize it because I thought "Woman aren't like that." Learn from my mistakes and feel free to share your own!Wow, I love how everyone on this forum has had ultra hot girls to beg them to pretty much fuck them at least once (or maybe a few) times in their lives, even when the were BP betas. Reading these posts is both hilarious but at the same time disheartening for me, I've never had any of these situations happen to me, ever. And I have been a pretty social guy the past 10 years - constantly meeting new people etc. If one of these situations ever happened to me I would be completely floored. It makes … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 02:25 PM |
| 15 | STUDY: Women find "responsive" men (those who "understand, value and support important aspects of a woman's self-concept") as totally and utterly undesirableAnd this is why the frustrations come in - men are frustrated at the system, not that they can't be a "nice guy" (that is obvious now), but that they cannot even be a genuinely nice, confident "good" guy. You feel like you have to adopt this completely selfish, almost egotistical, arrogant mindset that women are disposable "things" in order to attract them, and constantly having to come up with an "interesting" frame and approach every time you meet a girl. Only then are they interested in you. … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/14 07:02 PM |
| 2 | 10 times asking her out, eventually she said yes, now we are married - Don't be this guyOk hold on a minute here. I thought that begging for sex with a women never works. Obviously this guy is getting laid. What gives? If this truly works I'm going to keep begging women to go on dates with me until they finally cave in and sleep with me, and then when I get them in bed, fuck them mercilessly and then let them go. I'm being facetious but seriously, seems like it works (know guys that have pursued and pursued and literally begged and finally got laid). | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/14 05:20 PM |
| 24 | STUDY: Women find "responsive" men (those who "understand, value and support important aspects of a woman's self-concept") as totally and utterly undesirableHonestly, i think it comes down to the fact that most american women are just plain immature. They do not realize that fucking a bad boy on his dirty mattress for 10 minutes is not as fulfilling as fucking a good guy that took you out, got to know you, really built up sexual tension over the course of a few dates, and actually wants to sexually please you because it turns him on even more. No, most women never get to the point of discovering it because they discard the good guy before he can eve… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/14 02:15 PM |
| 98 | STUDY: Women find "responsive" men (those who "understand, value and support important aspects of a woman's self-concept") as totally and utterly undesirableThis. Seriously, I like the idea of meeting a girl, throwing some banter between us, flirting. Getting to know her and understanding her problems and issues and discussing them from a philosophical standpoint. That shit actually makes me connect with people more. Then asking her out on a fancy-ish date and tell her to get dressed-up sexy like I will, picking her up and getting excited about how damn hot she is going to look. I'd even bring her flowers to the date if she happens to mention her fa… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/14 01:54 PM |
| 2 | A Basic questions on how attractive women respond to presence of men?Blunty put it, my observations of reality have shown that attractive women are not attracted to me at all. I still need to improve my SMV, working on it - but it is a long and tough process. I dress well now, almost have the body I want, make close to 95,000 a year, but obviously still need to improve in order to be able to attract women. I didn't realize how hard it would be. More frustratingly, I am beginning to realize how really important raw physical attractiveness is. My buddy who is 6 yea… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 10:49 PM |
| 1 | A Basic questions on how attractive women respond to presence of men?Things do not change depending on how I act - There are some days I will be done with a great workout (hit a new max) and will walk confidently and still, nothing (of course I realize this after the fact). | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 10:31 PM |
| 5 | A Basic questions on how attractive women respond to presence of men?"Bash right the fuck into her". that literally made me lmao | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 10:30 PM |
| 1 | A Basic questions on how attractive women respond to presence of men?does this pretty much confirm that I am not an attractive person? | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 05:22 PM |
| -2 | Well holy shit, just found this gem in /r/cringe, the guy's a self proclaimed chauvinist, and one legend of a manwe can agree on one thing, the women is very pissed at his crudeness in calling her out on her weight in front of everyone. However, that does not mean that she is any less attracted to him. That does not mean, however, that she is any MORE attracted to him. I hope people don't watch this video and go around telling overweight women to hit the treadmill when a debate arises. There are better ways to attract women. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/14 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Topic: Success stories; have you been successful with TRP? C'mon, tell me objectively how your life has changed.I would say it is maxed out reasonably - the next step being paying for a personal fashion consultant and having a body that could be on the cover of a fitness magazine. I'm 5'10" 168 pounds around 12% bodyfat (at the end of a cut). Then again, it's not my body that is the problem | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/14 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Topic: Success stories; have you been successful with TRP? C'mon, tell me objectively how your life has changed.Attraction in objectively ATTRACTIVE women is a large part image (aesthetics and how you dress), and the other things you mentioned. however, if you do not pass a certain "image" threshold, there is really little you can do in the other areas other than go after a less attractive women (If you are talking about non-celebrities, non-millionaires etc, which is most of us on this forum). In my case, my reasonably maxed "image" is not enough to pass the threshold of pretty much all attractive US wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Topic: Success stories; have you been successful with TRP? C'mon, tell me objectively how your life has changed.The red pill has basically caused me to shift my focus from women to other aspects of my life, and caused me to begin the process of 'dealing with" not being able to fuck an objectively attractive women or be the object of desire of one. As a physically unappealing guy that has completely maximized his looks via working out and dressing better and still does not pass the looks threshold required for 99% of attractive women (which is very rare, most guys can pass the threshold with work), I have … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 07:31 PM |
| 8 | Woman who get engineering degrees soon quit their profession after graduation (40%).Most women that quit engineering do so because it can be a very mind-numbing profession. Sitting in a cube analyzing data all day along with other people who also analyze data. Little room for social interaction and little "colorfulness" - I honestly believe it is more of a cultural thing as to why women quit rather than being unable to handle the workload. Most of the women we hire at my company are rational and very bright. We have a very good filter system. Think about it, when you can't talk… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Have a nagging feeling that my physical appearance is my limiting factorI have a very very bad case of baby face, and am of half Asian heritage. I cannot grow any facial hair. People often assume I am 20-21 when I am approaching 29. It is so bad that I literally looks funny in suits and nicer "mature" clothes because my face looks like a kid's. Although I have a body probably in the top 1% of men, it does not seem to matter. Most women care about the face. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/14 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Have a nagging feeling that my physical appearance is my limiting factorSo are you saying that, your sense of own attractiveness is what the women will be attracted too? If you think you are ugly, the woman will not be attracted to you. If you think you are "the shit", then she will magically be attracted to you. I get it, confidence is attractive. But this seems all too easy. all I have to do is speak louder, keep my shoulders up all the time, talk with a super deep confident voice and women will start falling for me. I mean, I am already pretty good at talking to … | /r/askTRP | 11/08/14 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Some thoughts on the irreversible truths of lifeDany Devito is not an apples to apples comparison to real life redditors. Of course he gets laid, he has extreme social status. I know for a fact from being around women that you have to pass the threshold of either good looks or a masculine appearance. Is you face ugly? grow stubble and muscle - you will do fine. Is your face ugly but you cannot look masculine for whatever reason (for example - you are asian, can't grow facial hair, and have a very small frame that cannot be built up to look "b… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/14 07:09 PM |
| 4 | On dates, women prefer men that are not responsive, women may view a responsive man as vulnerable and less dominant.what is the reference point on what is "non-responsive"? If they mean a man who is laid back, speaks confidently and is at ease is more attractive than a nervous jittery fast talker than a I totally get it and this article isnt telling us anything new But are they saying that talking back in simple one worded phrases (yes/no/sure) or having a face like a stoic poker player that is a different story. Women want some level excitement and humanity, they are not going to want a robot. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 06:50 PM |
| 1 | My lack of sexual experience doesn't really make me feel like a man. I would be a lot happier if I just didn't let it bother me so much. What can I do?Is anything you are doing as a result of your new lifestyle/hobbies/activities put you in environments that are conducive to meeting single women naturally? I have the same issue - I have improved VASTLY the past 6 years, yet the environments I have been around are either male dominated (career, music) or there are very few single women (friends in their late 20's 30's). As a result, I have to use online dating / tinder to just land a date and it is extremely exhausting and can be a huge blow to… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Maxed my looks and still objectively not attractive? Affect on red pill gameI have reasonably "maxed" my looks, being that I have put 95% of the effort into it and any more is too time consuming (for me). yes, Instead of consulting my fashion conscious friends I could hire a 100 dollar an hour consultant to help me choose out a dashing 1,000 dollar Armani suit instead of a well fitted 300 dollar banana republic one that will make me look better. I could also dedicate more time and energy into weightlifting, adjusting my diet even more in order to get to 185 pounds 6% bo… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/14 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Maxed my looks and still objectively not attractive? Affect on red pill gameAgreed, part of being a man is taking action. However, I need SOMETHING to work with. If a bunch of women are completely ignoring you and eye fucking the shit out of your friend, you have nothing to work with. You are going to have to spit out some massive game to make up for the reality that some better looking guy will most likely swoop in and just spit some basic human conversation and have a leg up on you. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/14 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Maxed my looks and still objectively not attractive? Affect on red pill gamehow to I break a negative thinking cycle that has been so positively reinforced for so many years even after some nights where I am initially strong and positive? Example: last year I went out with a buddy of mine who is far shyer than I/has poor body language. I was feeling good that night - just finished a workout, got promoted at work. I was walking/talking confidently. This buddy of mine is 6'1", very good looking guy. we go out and girls are just shooting interest signals at him left and ri… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/14 04:42 PM |
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