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| 1 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝https://www.reddit.com/r/GymMemes/comments/dfyzub/to_all_the_ladies_out_there_who_are_aware_of/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf But in all seriousness, people who don’t clean after their own butt sweat. Disrespectful and eww. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 12:35 AM |
| 1 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝Fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/19 05:28 PM |
| 3 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝Before, when the military was only one sex, sex was never an issue. Nobody in the military could argue or even think, “My commanding officer is an asshole to me because ... I’m a man.” In fact, part of the hostility was attacking and challenging your gender identity, humiliating you in ways designed and engineered to break you down “as a man.” Nevertheless, there was no basis for claiming a “sexually hostile work environment” in an all-male military. It was all one sex, and it was the fucking mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 09:45 PM |
| 3 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝I hear your first point. The example, on the other hand, is a bad example. The military is necessarily hostile, and the introduction of any non-uniformity in sex opens up the door to claims of harassment ... but now SEX/GENDER is an issue ... because now SEX/GENDER is not uniform. “I hate my commanding officer,” can now turn into, “my commanding officer is probably doing this to me because I’m a woman.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 08:40 PM |
| 5 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝My point was that everyone (both men and women) should dress in a way that’s considerate and respectful towards their fellow co-workers ... in the workplace. What is appropriate dress is as much of a subjective free for all as what is appropriate behavior. It’s easy to point out the obvious no no’s. But that doesn’t necessarily exclude and foreclose all other dress choices and behavioral choices. It is “subjective,” because we’re describing human “opinions.” But the outer limit of where “we” (as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 08:32 PM |
| 3 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝Did you just assume their gender? (I’m sorry, I had to). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 08:02 PM |
| 3 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝That much is true. Jerking off “objectively” makes most people uncomfortable, that there is no reason to even bother litigating that point. Whereas, how someone dresses is open to reasonable people disagreeing. Thin material? Is that, in and of itself, enough? Maybe yes, maybe no. Depends on a lot of things. A jury would want to know, what else? Did it therefore allow nipples to show? Other private areas? Was the person feeling uncomfortable objectively reasonable? Question of fact for the jury.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 07:59 PM |
| 4 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝The illegality is not what makes a hostile work environment. So, legal or illegal, that’s 100% irrelevant in analyzing whether something creates a hostile work environment. Gambling is also illegal in most states, so is taking prescription medication of drugs not prescribed to you, or cocaine. But that doesn’t give rise to a hostile work environment claim. Also, one is not made uncomfortable for someone merely existing, but how that person chose to come dressed into the office. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 07:46 PM |
| 4 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝Speaking of that, I remember this guy at work who was very overweight. He would smell. I think he lived alone and couldn’t wash himself in some areas properly. Everyone sort of just tolerated it. I mean, it wasn’t offensive “sexually,” but boy was it fucking distracting and very uncomfortable during meetings. But people don’t have to wear a tent or be fat in order to dress professionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 07:42 PM |
| 4 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝I’m not sure I understand. Are you arguing that people shouldn’t jerk off in offices, because others might feel uncomfortable while looking at them = harassment? That’s what the EEOC says. Argue with the authors of the definition. I didn’t author the definition of hostile work environment. https://i-sight.com/resources/the-complete-guide-to-a-hostile-work-environment/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 07:37 PM |
| 0 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝And at least one person jerking off to Internet porn after 5pm or on the weekends ... in the office. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 07:25 PM |
| 4 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝All it takes is one (1) person to “feel uncomfortable or offended” or complain that a sexually hostile environment is interfering with his work. “unwelcome or offensive behavior in the workplace, which causes one or more employees to feel uncomfortable, scared, or intimidated in their place of employment”. But, there is an outer limit: In determining whether harassment is sufficiently severe or pervasive to create a hostile environment, the harasser's conduct should be evaluated from the objecti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 07:21 PM |
| 3 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝I think you’re just trying to argue for the same of being argumentative and getting the feeling like you “won” something. The girl working the floor of a Lululemon store is very different from a tax manager or audit partner at one of the largest Four (4) public accounting firms in the United States. Your “challenge question” and my point are exactly the same. There is zero conflict of anything to genuinely argue about or “back up.” What the hell is the author of HuffPost outraged about regarding… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 06:17 PM |
| 2 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 06:08 PM |
| 0 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝Co-workers may not care or mind, but “clients and customers,” who have zero incentive to “be nice” and “get along” ... and have all the power of their preferences and making the ultimate purchasing decision ... they care. And for as long as that’s the case, and the brand and image of your company depends on that, then that’s someone management (and your co-workers) should care about as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Any PurplePill men practice NoFap?No, I practice: Too busy to fap Too stressed to be aroused Too picky to be turned on Too turned off by the politics behind sex that watching the fake and unrealistic depictions of men and women interacting sexually in pornographic films is too depressing to allow me to even feel anything remotely resembling a hint of erotic excitement, much less sexual pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Who are some of the most controversial pickup artists and why?https://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/ohio-lawyer-hypnotized-women-charged-rape-article-1.2348477 | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Who are some of the most controversial pickup artists and why?Hypnosis can cause loss of free will. https://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/ohio-lawyer-hypnotized-women-charged-rape-article-1.2348477 | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 04:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The Vast Majority of Men Here Should Focus on Married WomenMy father calls it “adopting injured birds.” Captain Save-a-Hoe. I think the character flaw stems from wanting to feel like a “good person.” It’s like we’re paying reparations back to female victims of the wrongs and fuck ups of other men ... like some official PR representative of the United Brotherhood of Men. Nothing wrong with it, if that’s the way we are with all people, whether they’re men or women, and where it’s not a “sexual” relationship. I think where it’s unhealthy (even though it lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 02:22 PM |
| 0 | Who are some of the most controversial pickup artists and why?https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ross_Jeffries If you use a date rape drug, and have sex with women, by reason of her being incapable of consent for reasons other than use of force, that’s called rape. But if you use hypnosis to get women to “consent” to sex with you, then that’s not rape???? Personally, I always found it crazy how book publishers were somehow okay with allowing a book to be published where a man is telling other men how to hypnotize women into having sex. | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 01:50 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The Vast Majority of Men Here Should Focus on Married WomenWell, I was with my wife before I even went to law school. And I wouldn’t cheat on my wife. So, I’ve never actually had sex with any of my former clients. But they do still talk to me. It doesn’t take much. In fact, it doesn’t take anything. You actually have to be careful to not even say anything that may be construed as the possibility of you being interested in her that way. I complimented a client’s shoes, once. Every appearance going forward, she wore those kinds of heels. I told a client s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: good strategy to find a middle class 6/10 husband at 25?Idk, but let me know if you find out. I have a F33 psychiatrist from a wealthy family, 7/10 in terms of looks, and she’s been dying to find a husband since she started medical school. I have a F28 software engineer from a UMC family, 8/10 in terms of looks, and her and her mother are aggressively on the hunt for a husband. They attended a christening in the other end of a completely different state because they “thought” that the mom’s friend would also bring her son. I have a F27 AIA architect … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?Yeah, that’s one camp of women. Definitely not all camps, or even the majority of 25&under women. 14/16 women I’ve been intimate with were the ones who initiated things ... simply because I wouldn’t and I expected them to. End of story. Some of them were sexually experienced. Some of them were when we were both in high school. Some of them were barely 18 with little experience. To me, as a man, it was important for me to see and feel that a girl was sexually interested in me. I didn’t get to see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 12:11 PM |
| 1 | older women are nicer and easier to dateVinegar can be 18 years old: https://theolivescene.com/vinegars-1/traditional-18-year-balsamic-vinegar All the way up to 100 years old. https://www.supermarketitaly.com/mussini-100-year-balsamic-vinegar-il-grande-vecchio-2-39-oz/?gclid=CjwKCAjw_uDsBRAMEiwAaFiHa8ufJaH7mYbxEhbxvrvL5AYfO3JpIALi9nAdFWRepqyCYbDEvgghsBoCYWwQAvD_BwE Wine, on the other hand, is generally only good until 25, with very rare exceptions of certain vintage ports until 50. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aging_of_wine Moral o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Men who get married tend to have the worse sexual satisfaction, do you agree?“On average,” yes. On average, if Jay Z and I were in the same room, each of us would have roughly 10.5 Grammys. On average, if a biological non-trans woman and I were in the same room together, each of us would have roughly half a penis, one testicle and one boob. 10% of unmarried couples have sex less than ten (10) times in any given twelve (12) month period. That’s the definition of a “sexless” relationship. Marriage bumps that up to 20%. Double. So, one in five couples. Those are worse odds … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 11:30 AM |
| 1 | TRP is the ultimate symbol of first world problems.“Crony capitalism” Have you heard of the United States of America? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 11:13 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The Vast Majority of Men Here Should Focus on Married WomenHave you heard about recently divorced women? I have this one attorney friend, let’s call him James. Before James got married, he used to represent exclusively women in their divorce. After their divorce, these women would invite James to Cancún, over their house in the Hamptons for the Summer, and take pictures and post it all over social media for their ex. One woman printed out checks with their PG-13 vacation photos together, so that she could send him payments for something. Recently divorc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 11:12 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The rising SMV of men during their 30s only happens because of betabux.Umm ... so then ... it’s not their SMV that’s increasing in their 30s, but their RMV that’s increasing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Is being friends with someone before dating them a good way to develop a healthy relationship?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?I hear you. I understand and respect what you’re saying. At the same time, I’m thinking about the survival rate of the 6+ children people have in Africa, versus the 1.4 children people have in the United States. How does their progress compound over time and generations? How likely is each generation to continue to survive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Forget the higher libido spouse. What about the lower libido spouse? What are her expectations? For him to stay in this relationship for the remainder of his life ... without having sex? So, build a financial life together, have children together, and be forced into a situation where he has to either give up his relationship and cost his family massive amounts of wealth loss in divorce, and having his children live with divorced parents ... because? Because the low libido spouse feels like, “che… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?That’s your opinion and characterization, not some fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?The lack of sex corrupts and poisons every other aspect of an otherwise satisfying relationship. If one person is clearly not interested in having sex anymore ... but is still interested in being in the relationship ... then what exactly is her problem if the other person does something that allows him to continue to be in a happy and loving relationship with her? What’s her problem? She’s not losing the other aspects of the relationship she likes. And she wasn’t having sex anyway. So, I don’t g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?That’s easy to say when no children are in the picture, or you haven’t built a financial entanglement together over 10+ years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Running game vs talking too a girlThis reminds me of Milton H. Erickson. He would say, “everything is hypnosis. Hypnosis is all around us.” From the moment you get out of bed, to the moment the sunlight hits your eyes, to the ride over to where you’re going, to sitting down when you arrive, to going back home, to contemplating sleeping. Even looking at something as simple as the contrast between the background and letters in the words you’re reading ... you see where this is going, don’t you? You can already anticipate the clich… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?You want sex ... and ... a relationship with someone you otherwise love, but for the fact that there is no sex between you two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?What’s the point of you having a relationship with your partner, then, if those are your expectations about his happiness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Matched with her yesterday, i kind of know her already, used to be my friend's friend. Should i continue the chat? I'm.not sure if she is interested .my friend did tell me once that she liked me (this was a long time back) . Also, what should i say if i do want to continue the conversation?You know those signs in the park that say “please don’t feed the pigeons”? Well, “please don’t feed people clearly looking for attention and validating.” Learn to recognize what that looks like. One line, super short answers. Emotionally dead. Constantly baiting you to work harder and make more of an effort. Next. There are so many girls out there who are actually active participants to a conversation. That’s like a bare minimum common courtesy people give to one another when they talk to each o… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:09 PM |
| 9 | Matched with her yesterday, i kind of know her already, used to be my friend's friend. Should i continue the chat? I'm.not sure if she is interested .my friend did tell me once that she liked me (this was a long time back) . Also, what should i say if i do want to continue the conversation?Listen, she can also contribute to the conversation too with something other than “Haha okay.” Sounds like she just want the attention and validation. This is not how girls talk to you when they’re interested in you, just FYI. | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?That’s a fantastic answer and pov. That’s true. I wasn’t grossed out by vagina when I was in my 20s. Sex was perceived as almost magical. Fairy-like and angelic. Now, it’s “adult sex.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Well, then, there are only 24 hours in a day ... and only so much time each child can receive ... so ... If it is a biological instinct to take care of our children ... at some point we do approach a natural limit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Not when two people are not having sex. Then, cheating is about your partner putting an end to their emotional pain (than you are causing them), all without hurting your feelings or breaking up with you. That’s Patrice O’Neil’s point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?So, if your partner isn’t sexually satisfied ... because you two are simply not having sex ... then you either: (a) want him to stay and just deal with it, or (b) dissolve the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Not if you’ve assumed that they would never try to kill you either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Either all reasons to kill another human being are valid, or none of them are. The world is not so black and white, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Biologically, we must have no concept of child support lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Ah, I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 02:18 AM |
| 0 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?I don’t necessarily agree with that. Society is increasingly competitive. If a man can devote $1,000,000 to one (1) child, that child has a MUCH better chance of thriving in society than that man devoting $100,000 to ten (10) children. It’s not enough to merely survive within human society. Merely surviving means those children’s genes will die off in two (2) generations the latest. In order to carry on and be a going concern, children need to thrive. In order to thrive, attention and resources … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?I hear you in that. That is true. Those with the capital set the terms and do have their own “country” in a sense - their “company.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Okay. But even so. Is it not in a man’s biological self-interest to survive (genetically speaking) by ensuring the survival of his child(ren)? He compromises that the more children he has, because his resources are divided among more (lessening the chances of all of them thriving in an increasingly competitive society). It’s in his interest to focus his resources on 1-2 children, at most, and ideally, with their biological mother. This has to factor into biological motivations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Are you saying his cause of death was depression, and not diabetes? Edit: slow suicide by food? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Okay ... And what I’m saying is ... when someone has a sexual dysfunction or a temporary condition (that’s not recurring), which doesn’t allow him or her to service their SO sexually ... it’s not an issue of not loving your SO. And in the case of a temporary and non-recurring condition, it’s inconvenient but not unreasonable for the SO to be understanding and patient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?I guess he was a child who had no ability to self-regulate his consumption of food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?If I understand what you’re saying, it sounds like you mean ... young men (15-22), “secretly” being MGTOW (like Spanish Inquisition style), but somehow “externally pretending” to be all about sex and “pop” “bro” culture? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Didn’t he always joke about his SO keeping him straight and watching what he eats? I mean, I didn’t follow the guy’s life outside of his comedy, but from his shows, he just made it sounds like his SO was on top of him for all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?It should be an annulment for fraud, not a “divorce” in that case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 10:18 PM |
| 5 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?r/deadbedrooms r/r4r30plus r/r4r r/kikpals r/naughtyfromneglect r/dirtyr4r r/foreveralonedating r/randomactsofblowjobs r/adultery r/dirtypenpals r/affairs r/dirtykikpals r/exxxchange r/F4M r/random_acts_of_sex r/petitegonewild Foreclosure parts of your local court of general jurisdiction Recently divorced single moms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Well, an “open” relationship “is” different from “polyamory.” A “complete” relationship with multiple people is different from a “complete” relationship with just one person, but a “sexual” relationship with other persons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 10:05 PM |
| 0 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Idk if that’s very Socratic, Platonic, or Aristotelian of you lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Agreement can be revoked at anytime, but that only changes your own choices, not the other party because then it's coersion. Really, though? So, if two people agreed to be poly, and got married under that understanding, and immediately thereafter, one person is like ... fshew! I though I would have to pretend to be okay with being poly forever! Look, I’m not okay being poly anymore ... What now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Do you really think that’s what’s at play here? I say that only because, from a business management POV (forget “romantic” relationships for a second) ... if we view a man as a worker ... do you want your employees happy, motivated and engaged or unhappy, resentful, and checked out? He ain’t getting fired. You “firing” him is the best thing that could ever happen to him, if your object is controlling his sexuality lol So, what is the point ... if ... it’s about control and power? If you’re choos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?? Calm your nipples. Seeking to escape and say no to a “lifetime” or “years” of going on without sex is objectively very different from seeking sex outside your relationship because your partner had to recover from surgery for 2 weeks, or from pregnancy for 6 months. Not sure how you understood what I said to get into fetishes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Well, like he said, being African American alone places you at higher risk for Type 2 Diabetes. Look at Gabriel Iglesias. Same size as Patrice, but different genes. So, ironically, it’s exactly how Patrice said it was. “As a 40 year old black man, in white people years, I’m like 189.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Just thinking critically about our social “norms” as a society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Or married women (MAD). Plus, it’s not about the sex. What sexually deprived men are after can’t be purchased with money. It can’t be bought. You can pay a therapist to tell you that they find you attractive, that you motivate them to want to have sex, that they desire having sex with you, to act enthusiastic having sex with you ... go through all the motions ... but at the end of the day, you both know that it’s an act, it’s not real, those emotions aren’t real, the fact of payment negates any … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?In other words ... not because her husband is not having as much sex as she wants. But I’ll play along. what does it matter What does installing Tinder on your phone matter? Any difference if you work for TechCrunch and are testing out their new update to write an article about it ... because it’s your job ... versus that not being the case? Reasons matter. she is feeling bored and needs excitement Is sex the only way she can find excitement? Why is she feeling bored? Does she have depression, S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 09:43 PM |
| 0 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Well, it’s your hypothetical, so hit me with a reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?It’s one thing if a condition is transitory, versus life-long or chronic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 09:04 PM |
| 0 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Does it? In one instance, you are not receiving sex from your SO ... so you’re seeking to receive it from someone outside your relationship. In the other instance, you are giving money from you marital assets ... which is depleting and taking away marital funds from your SO. One is not “taking away” from your SO, and simply “adding” to you. The other is “taking away” from your SO, and you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?What is it with you and “prostitutes”? Nobody is talking about “prostitutes.” We’re just talking about extramarital sex with regular normal women who are not prostitutes ... unless you’re trying to make a joke and imply that “all women are prostitutes.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Exactly ... not “forward thinking” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Again, I hear what you’re saying. Unlike some women on Reddit (generally), who will flip into a rage and be like, “You don’t owe your SO sex, you don’t have to say yes every time he is horny, he has hands, he can take care of it himself!,” blah blah blah ... I hear what you’re saying ... but When my brother had cancer and had his thyroid removed, and was a zombie for 18 hours a day until he had his medication adjusted ... even if he wanted to ... he couldn’t get himself to even be awake to let h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 08:57 PM |
| -1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?You’re talking about polyamory. If it’s just sex, there is no check for car payments being cut. There are no other aspects of the relationship being outsourced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?I specifically said, not poly. See last paragraph. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?I hear you and agree with what you’re saying. All I’m adding is that it’s genuinely difficult for some people (men and women) to find the willpower to have sex, even if they love their SO and find them attractive. Sexual dysfunction is a real thing, and it’s not fair to emotionally blackmail or guilt trip people who genuinely have some sexual dysfunction into feeling like shitty partners ... or imply they don’t love their SO or find them attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?You’re right, I can’t backtrack from what “I” didn’t say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Can you just direct me to where “I” mentioned anything about “prostitutes” ... anywhere? Edit: Extramarital sex/affairs =/= “prostitutes.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 08:41 PM |
| -1 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?“Why” did she “need” to have sex with other men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 08:40 PM |
| 0 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Sure, but most guys (especially in high school), advertise it and flaunt it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?What power would a wife have Is that the why? Why would any woman accept such a dynamic? So her husband is fully committed and invested in the marriage ... instead of just being there but checked out. In addition, insecurity and jealously are perfectly normal human emotions for that woman to have. So is the desire to have sex. So, how do we reconcile the two? Why should she even attempt to overcome such natural human emotions instead of desiring and obtaining monogamy? Again, so she’s not in a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?Well, for some people (men and women), they don’t exactly have the luxury of libido. It’s not so much them “denying” their partner sex, so much as them “wanting to be able to satisfy their partner,” but not feeling like they have any fuel in their gas tank to get the car started. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?I hear you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Should we all be rethinking the young male subculture with respect to sex, and should be all be rethinking our attitudes towards “infidelity”?So, like Patrice O’Neil says ... “cheating is not for us ... cheating is for you ... we don’t want to hurt you.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Negs, am I doing them right?All I read was “neg” and 6/10. No. Just no. I’m having a negotiation right now (for work), and the other side is a pleasure to work with, reasonable, courteous, fair, and collaborative. For me to just start bluffing, being unreasonable, difficult, rude, or pushing to “get more” or have them “get less” would be stupid and counter-productive. By “negging,” even a 9/10, who is “not playing games with you,” you are effectively disrespecting the other person and taking a Royal shit on your whole inte… | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 03:23 PM |
| 2 | “Man who does not understand consent has right to pursue sex, court rules” in the U.K.Nobody has a “fundamental right” to “work with” children. But people do have a “fundamental right” to “pursue” sexual or romantic relationships with other people. This is analogous to American cases dealing, again, with the mentally ill: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buck_v._Bell The famous quote: “Three generations of imbeciles are enough.” Buck v. Bell was never explicitly overturned, but it’s practical effect - forced sterilization and lawfully sanctioned eugenics - was held to be unconstit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | What’s wrong?It is what it is. | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | What’s wrong?Look, if a girl is ignoring you ... let her ignore you. You have to feel comfortable being ignored. You sent her a message, you are waiting for a reply to your message. It’s just common manners and social courtesy. You don’t need to follow up with someone for a reply to your message. Get a reply to your message first, and then we can worry about how to be irl. | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 02:18 PM |
| 2 | How to give off a fuckboi vibeIt’s about creating and building a persona. It’s a branding and PR exercise. I’ll give you some examples. In my high school, for example, in Junior High, the captain of our soccer team, Peter, was “the man.” We had a professional soccer player visit our school once, and “bet” whoever could dribble the ball 50 times without dropping it once would get signed up to his team on the spot. Peter, in the 8th fucking grade, got called by the principal to the auditorium stage, picked up the ball, and dri… | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 01:39 PM |
| 2 | How To Practice Talking To Women In Just 2 Minutes A Day“You’re not on the menu.” Please don’t ever do this. My father used to do this with Hooters waitresses, and it was just ... no. It’s one thing to be bold as an emotional courtesy so that someone else can feel flattered. This, however, is just objectively disgusting. Too forward. Too forward. Too much too soon. It’s like that meme where the guy is going from the first step to the 10th step of the stairs ... and skipping right over steps 2-9. This is not a good idea. | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 01:18 PM |
| 3 | How do you get over the moral grey area of sleeping with multiple women?“Sleep with a girl and rule her out as a long term partner.” (Spider sense explodes from highly suspecting this is a woman posing as a man). Anyway ... pretending this is a genuine question ... by a man ... What authority do you rely upon in concluding that sleeping with multiple women “successively,” as opposed to “contemporaneously” or “simultaneously” is “immoral?” | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 01:11 PM |
| 2 | What’s wrong?In my experience, women from Poland, Ukraine, and separately, Belarus, Latvia, Lithuania, Estonia, Russia, Georgia (the country, not the state), and even Armenia (basically eastern bloc former USSR countries) ... want to see and feel a more “traditional” / “stereotypical” male gender role with the man they’re going to feel attracted to. Obviously, women are individuals. So, you will always meet women from Poland, Ukraine, Russia, etc., who have very bad and negative experiences with the type of … | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 01:01 PM |
| 5 | Your looks don’t matter but your LOOK does | The concept of Iconography |This is a very long-winded way of saying, “just be yourself.” You can’t appeal to everyone. You’re only going to capture a certain market share. Even Apple and Samsung can’t capture 100% of any market. Nobody is going to change who they are just to appeal to girl A, and then change who they are again just to appeal to girl B. So, then, what’s the point of this discussion? Just be yourself. You are who you are, and that appeals to certain people and it doesn’t appeal to others. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Asked a girl for dinner but having double thoughts about it as she is too hot!Okay ... I just want you to appreciate that that’s literally how 90% of people (on both sides) feel when they meet someone they really like. From a guy’s POV, unless the guy is arrogant and cocky to the n-th degree, even the most secure and confident man is going to privately think to himself, “Wow, I can’t believe someone like her actually likes me that much.” Right? Because it’s not binary. It’s a gradient. You’re a likable person. It’s just a question of just how likable specific people find … | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Asked a girl for dinner but having double thoughts about it as she is too hot!Wow, talk about a self-fulfilling prophecy. Agree with u/thisiswhyicant What a lame cop out. They will tease you and laugh at you? Umm, okay? And you will be dating someone who you initially thought was way out of your league. Let them laugh about that when they go back home to whoever their partner is. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 12:39 PM |
| 1 | I have been told I look like a FUCK BOI, is this a good thing or bad thing for what I want.Solidarity, brother. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | The ApproachDifferent people have different opinions. Personally, I’m a creature of habit and once I settle in the gym I don’t usually bounce around to different gyms. If you’re there for a while, you develop a relationship with the staff, you build a reputation in the gym, you socialize with a bunch of the regulars, and you become a little bit of a personality yourself. If a girl is interested in you, she’s going to ask around somebody from the staff, somebody from the front desk, or she’s just going to tr… | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | I have been told I look like a FUCK BOI, is this a good thing or bad thing for what I want.Substance as in, the quality of conversation you guys can have together, the quality of ideas you both share, how you both connect, how you make her feel cared about and appreciated. It’s uncommon, but not rare. Girls will listen to their instincts and intuition over their friends and other people. It’s all about how she feels about you ... not how her friends feel about you. If she has a good feeling about you, what her friends say won’t really be able to stop her. I could go on with stories, b… | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 10:46 PM |
| 3 | The ApproachWhat’s with all these “girl at the gym” posts lately? General rule is you don’t approach girls at your gym. It’s a place people go to in order to work out and then go back home or on with their lives ... or for free attention and validation. But, if you read the person, then she’ll either be the type of person who appreciates and wants a direct approach, or the kind of person who wants a more socially indirect and tactful approach. So, you can walk up to her, simply say hello/hi, (your name), an… | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Girls at the gymI am talking about a different race of woman, who is generally speaking very shy and traditional. I don’t think she would be the one to initiate conversation with any man. You’re right. She’s the kind of shy and traditional Virgin Mary Madonna who would only flirt with her boyfriend behind his back when he’s not there ... because she’s not like those ditsy white girls. O.o Do you re-read what you write? | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 10:11 PM |
| 5 | I have been told I look like a FUCK BOI, is this a good thing or bad thing for what I want.As far as I’m concerned, fuck boi is a compliment. You can always go from “looking” like a fuck boi to having some substance to you and pleasantly surprising those who judged you. You can’t really go from having substance to suddenly and instantaneously looking like a fuck boi. | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 09:50 PM |
| 5 | Girls at the gymYeah ... no. You’re aware that people just like cost-free attention sometimes, right? She can still have a boyfriend and enjoy free attention. If you know she has a bf, she’s free to talk to you, you’re not free to talk to her. Let this one go. On top of that, she’s not the only person at the gym. You really want to ruin your reputation at your gym over a girl who has a bf? | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 09:47 PM |
| 2 | If only the alcohol buzz could become permanentHave you heard of Xanax or Clonazepam? | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Women are Hypocrites when it comes to RejectionThey are collections of actual real recurring examples of patient issues sex therapists commonly encounter in practice ... with an in-depth analysis behind the why and how to go about treating similar cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Share your most memorable “walking on clouds” approach moment, the best you can remember (even if it was years ago).Is that an American Psycho reference? | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Women are Hypocrites when it comes to RejectionThey’re books, for sex therapists, based on individual patient case studies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Women are Hypocrites when it comes to Rejectionhttps://www.amazon.com/Women-My-Couch-Stories-Psychotherapy-ebook/dp/B010XQ3ZCA https://www.amazon.com/Men-My-Couch-Stories-Psychotherapy-ebook/dp/B0095ZP6IC https://www.amazon.com/Human-Sexual-Inadequacy-William-Masters/dp/4871877019 https://www.amazon.com/Clinicians-Guide-Systemic-Sex-Therapy/dp/0415738393 https://www.amazon.com/New-Directions-Sex-Therapy-Alternatives/dp/0415887526/ref=nodl_ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 12:16 PM |
| 4 | Women are Hypocrites when it comes to RejectionIdk, everyone has an opinion about the emotions and feelings of others. I have a cousin with ADHD and a very very very slight learning disability because of it. She’s fully functioning. Of you didn’t know, you would just think she’s a very hyper girl. Sometimes, I make the mistake of treating her like a normal person, and trusting her to be able to take a joke. That is a mistake. Since a few times it’s gone wrong, I’ve just accepted that she has some limitations, and so, I’m more sensitive to an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Women are Hypocrites when it comes to RejectionFeel free to give it a try. Nobody is stopping you from approaching men you genuinely and actually want to have sex with and offering them sex ... and seeing what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 11:30 AM |
| 44 | Women are Hypocrites when it comes to RejectionWhen it comes to self-esteem, sex therapists focus on different approaches between men and women. With women, the focus is on dealing with negative feedback from the environment and avoiding testing to see where she stands in the market. Reason: women overestimate their relative value to other women in the eyes of men, and testing reality, let alone allowing herself to be exposed to too much environmental feedback, can be very damaging for a woman’s self-esteem. With men, the focus is on getting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 01:54 AM |
| 0 | Men are not more logical than women. They're just less emotional.https://ratings.fide.com/top.phtml?list=men https://www.us.mensa.org/learn/about/demographics/ Hurts ... so ... good ... r/murderedbyhyperlinks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 01:25 AM |
| 3 | How would you respond and act moving forward, if you still want to pursue?O.o Well, then you’re going to love our vibe. | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 01:17 AM |
| 3 | How would you respond and act moving forward, if you still want to pursue?Better question, why would you want to continue to pursue???? | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 01:15 AM |
| 0 | What do you all think of the content in the female dating strategy sub?Show me on the bear where he hurt you. That’s what I think of the entire sub. Women who are clearly butthurt and angry acting confident, empowered, and valuable. An echo chamber of girls with poor coping skills and an over-expression of primitive and immature ego defense mechanisms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men can be neutral about high N women but it is rarely a postiveIf a girl is good looking, in her mid 20s, and her n-count is single digits, I’m concerned that a relationship with her is going to lead to a memoir very soon on r/deadbedrooms So, for all you guys who want a very low n-count, enjoy complaining about your married sex life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why the disconnect between dating single mothers vs dating single fathers?Yes ... because women are their customers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why the disconnect between dating single mothers vs dating single fathers?If the amount of marketing dollars and multi-billion dollar decisions of companies making baby and children’s products is any indication ... from budgets that can hire neuromarketers, devote millions of dollars to studying focus groups, testing revealed preferences, etc. ... I would put my money on women being by far and substantially more desirous of children than men. An ad for babies and children directed towards men is wasted money at worst, and “socially progressive PR” at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Every guy should push for sex on the first date.I strongly disagree. I don’t give a flying fuck about her and her imperatives and wants in a relationship. This is about your wants in a relationship. Sex is about power and control. Maybe that was my attitude earlier in life, but if my wife got hit by a bus tomorrow, and I was single again, I would gladly wait as long as she wanted to wait (non-exclusively, of course) before we had sex. It’s a negotiation. If you agree to exclusivity ... before you have sex, then, you just suck at negotiating. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 11:38 PM |
| 1 | (discussion) How close are romantic and sexual attraction for you?https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=C1IsDto41Tw Just because she’s “sexable” doesn’t mean you’re sexable. Just because you’re lovable doesn’t mean ... she’s lovable. and Just because a girl is lovable ... doesn’t mean she’s “sexable.” There have been some “cute” girls through the years. Like, 6-7s, who didn’t really arouse or excite sexually in any way. If her life depended on getting a man hard without touching him ... or making him want to jerk off to her ... within 24 hours ... she would be dead in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 09:49 PM |
| 0 | Q4All: Why the disconnect between dating single mothers vs dating single fathers?Well, the percentage of men who want to be child-free is like 90%. The percentage of women who want to be child-free? Probably less than 50%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Why the disconnect between dating single mothers vs dating single fathers?Single dad ... he’s responsible ... is clearly filling the role of a father ... which is more than I can say for most other men out there in the dating pool. So, this is consistent with my desires as a woman. Single mom ... her focus is on her child(ren) ... which is not at all the case with other women out there in the dating pool. So, this is inconsistent with my desires as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 September 2019)Go on Avvo.com and ask the question there. You’re likely to get a more detailed response by lawyers practicing almost 100% exclusively in employment law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 09:09 PM |
| 5 | Best dance style to attract women?Perreo / reggaeton You have to “start” with “Latin Dance,” which is NOT perreo / reggaeton. So, things like merengue, salsa, bachata, the cha cha, and rumba. You have to start with “Latin Dance,” which is NOT perreo / reggaeton. You can’t just jump into perreo / reggaeton as a guy, unless you have prior experience as a dancer (specifically, ballroom dancing, or even contemporary with a partner). Salsa is sort of one of those “filler” dances to show off your knowledge and competence (and confiden… | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone here really not like relationships that much?Dude, I’m extroverted, and after 22, as a guy, your interest in sex just naturally goes down. When I was 16, I literally took a Maxim magazine in front of my best friend at the time, and told him, “Dude, I have to go bust a nut in your bathroom.” I was jerking off in his bathroom with him right outside, and despite hearing him laughing his ass off, I was able to get off ... twice ... to fucking Maxim. When I was 15, my parents left for the day, and I jerked off 11 times in like 8-9 hours. My pen… | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 12:22 PM |
| 2 | How do you become comfortable expressing desire and sexuality with women?Idk man. The most difficult part is actually feeling sexual desire yourself. It’s difficult, because guys either joke about being horny all the time, or they exaggerate being horny all the time because it makes them feel more masculine and virile, etc. So, for women, it creates this expectation that a man is just horny all the time, or very easily horny, or at the very least, able to be made horny without much effort, and certainly with a moderate or high amount of effort. After college, sexual … | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 01:10 AM |
| -6 | Pulling a girl when she's a virginDude, let someone else handle that. Stay away from virgins. Please downvote below if this butthurts you. | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 12:03 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]In this case, this girl had been really enjoying the conversation and laughing up until that point although not attracted to the point of initiating any kino. After she said she wasn’t sure if it was insult, that’s where just just kind of dropped in interest a bit but there was definitely no overly negative reaction. Just less investment in the conversation and then turning toward her friends. Could be either of intentional game playing on her part, or she had this idea in her mind of what she f… | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Gents, need some ideas on how to transition from the "Netflix" part of the night to the "*Chill*" part of the night.Do consider the Latin dance suggestion. It will change your life. The instructor cannot teach you to be a leader. That’s something you teach yourself. When I took my first class, there was this girl in the class that was a dance major and was dancing her whole life. I had no rhythm. I couldn’t hear rhythm. I have heavy feet. I was a total guy. I didn’t know what the fuck I was doing. I was uncomfortable, but, I accepted that I didn’t know shit, and instead, I just learned. Second month (I took t… | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How to reframe negative thoughts?https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=cflpNozNM2Y | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Why is withdrawing attention always so effective?Why do women not value, take for granted, or value less the men who are honest and forthcoming to her about his interest? Just a fancy way of eluding to: https://law.stanford.edu/publications/reactive-devaluation-in-negotiation-and-conflict-resolution/ Why is withdrawing male attention so effective? Just a fancy way of eluding to: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Endowment_effect https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loss_aversion | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if a female is interested in you in clubs/ in generalYou lost every single guy here with that male bitch statement. | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Gents, need some ideas on how to transition from the "Netflix" part of the night to the "*Chill*" part of the night.Take a step back mentally. I think you’re thinking about this wrong. She’s going back home to a strange man’s place ... alone. Unless you’re pulling girls from some kind of halfway house for the mentally retarded or drug addicts, assume she understands full well the risks, and has very consciously made the decision that the probability of getting dick tonight is worth taking the risk. Okay? Let’s stop pussyfooting and let’s be real. Now she’s at your place and she knows she’s not there to watch … | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 03:28 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Honestly, dude. Just relax. You’re talking to a person. It’s not a big deal. Worst case scenario is she has her ego feel like you’re not working hard enough to be “worthy” of her ... and you dodged a bullet. So, what are you so fucking anxious and nervous about? Most people on here are saying the same thing. Just relax and calm down. Breathe. Take it easy. If a girl acts offended, and asks you, “How did you intend what you said,” flip the focus to the more important question ... “how did you per… | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 02:45 PM |
| 32 | How do you ask to actually take a girl back to yours at the club?I’m pretty sure the universal phrase is, “Wanna get out of here?” There may even be a UN resolution on it. | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 12:51 PM |
| 2 | What do you do on dates if a girl starts trying to talk to you about her problems?Emotional tampon. Yeah, no thanks. She’s emotionally masturbating with a male attention hitachi at 10,000 rpm. It’s like a guy who’s depressed and runs to Pornhub. Don’t be her Pornhub. You got better things to do, man. For real. One brother to the other. You do you and keep you No. 1. | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 12:46 PM |
| 2 | What do you do on dates if a girl starts trying to talk to you about her problems?Takes one to know one, man. I used to keep girls on the hook just to savor and keep the security of the strategic asset of their adoration in my back pocket. Girls do it. Guys do it. Everyone does it. And as someone whose done it, I’m very familiar with how it looks like. Just because I’m talking to someone who happens to be a girl doesn’t mean I like her. Just because I flirt with her and make her feel good about herself or how she looks doesn’t mean I’m interested in her. Just because I call h… | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 05:41 AM |
| 1 | What do you do on dates if a girl starts trying to talk to you about her problems?When you say, “started dating two weeks ago,” what does that mean? Your first date was two weeks ago, and your second date was your most recent date? I’ve never really been in your situation. Closest I’ve come is some girl saying, “You know, I just want to be clear, we aren’t exclusive or anything. I’m also seeing this older guy.” And that was the last time she ever mentioned him when she realized zero fucks were given. In the meantime, we got yelled at and kicked out of bars for making out and … | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 07:15 PM |
| 3 | What do you do on dates if a girl starts trying to talk to you about her problems?Take a step back from the mentality of “if a girl.” She’s not a girl. She’s a person. And people have problems sometimes. Be a human being and listen to her. But you shouldn’t look to solve her problem. Think of it more like, “I understand, well, let me cheer you up and hopefully help you feel a bit more positive.” At the same time, the fact is, she’s a girl and you’re a guy, and you’re not here because you’re interested in friendship or being friends. Nobody can force you to be friends. If you … | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 01:16 AM |
| 2 | What do you do on dates if a girl starts trying to talk to you about her problems?Lol | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Englishman in Manhattan this weekend - where should I go?Bar Culaccino The Hunterian Bar 2nd Floor Bar & Essen Tanner Smiths The Village Underground Alley Cat Amateur Theater The Upstairs at the 66 Paddles (if you’re feeling adventurous) | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Is there any truth to the idea that girls care about looks?This question is less about looks and more about race. Start watching “The Magicians.” Pay attention to https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arjun_Gupta_(actor) Also: https://m.imdb.com/name/nm0451234/ Conform to examples that Americans are familiar with visually. Look to gravitate towards one vibe or the other. Get in touch with an identity that has been proven and accepted as attractive or respectable in Hollywood media. That identity exists for brown people in the eyes of white women. But yes, rac… | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | What's harder, picking up a girl at a Bar or a Barnes & Noble? And Why?Depends how noisy the bar is. If it’s a speakeasy, then a bar. If it’s loud, then Barnes & Noble. | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Englishman in Manhattan this weekend - where should I go?What kind of girl are you looking for? | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | What's the best way to ask for nudes?Umm, to not ask for them. Nudes are something a girl gives you, not something you ask for. | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Thought this would be useful, this guy knows how to gameWhat’s happening here is the editing effect. Irl, these guys are just not giving a fuck and messaging women and whatever happens happens. But when something happens, it’s edited in. So, this creates the illusion of, he’s not even trying and look at all the girls he’s talking to. Sure, but did you see all the girls he was actually interested in that he didn’t get anywhere with? I’m not knocking this video. It’s good for people who have anxiety to see how normal it is to talk to other human beings… | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Women Spend Hours With Guys They Don't Want to Date: Why?Men Spend Months With Girls They Don’t Want to Marry: Why? But why tho? | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to disrespect from a womanIt’s all instinctive. It’s like, you can’t teach a girl to be a slut; she has to have the slut in her. You can’t teach a guy to not be jealous; that either is or isn’t his mentality. Fast-forward, because it’s relevant to your question, when I went to law school and took trial advocacy, our trial professor said, “the most important thing you can walk into a courtroom with ... is the ability to instantly adapt and respond to anything that happens. The ceiling starts falling ... it’s because you w… | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Hooking a girl in daygameAny emotional excuse to give herself permission to acknowledge her attraction towards you. | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Hooking a girl in daygameSome things are out of order. Observe/perceive something about the environment to talk about. Think about how you’re going to follow that up and continue the conversation. Talk to her (open), but make it natural, not like an opener. As you transition from the opening to the rest of the conversation, immediately communicate your time constraint (e.g., I gotta catch the train in 15mins). So far, the only things hooking her are your looks and how you dance between the tightrope of arrogance and con… | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 06:44 PM |
| 8 | How do I bounce back after my 9/10 gf dumped me?Jeez. What is there to bounce back from? Idg this mentality. You were dating a 9/10. The end. You go back out there and keep dating. Do you have any idea how women work? Just date. ABD. Always be dating. Whether she’s an 8/10 or not, women don’t focus exclusively on looks. Women have no idea how another girl is sexually, what other value she’s bribing to the table, or how you, subjectively value one woman’s looks over the other (within the 7.5 to 9.5 range. Seriously. Women who are a 9+ are so s… | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Isn't there a significant chunk of dudes whose only barrier to sex and dating is their own apathy?To be clear, “pussy” is not “the” or “a” holy grail of being a man. So, “pussy” from a (4) or (5) woman, as a (5) man, may actually be insulting and damaging to that man’s self esteem in the long run. Not only is he not motivated to pursue such “opportunities,” he actively rejects and avoids them. Call it “standards” or whatever you want, but men are also hypergamous. When you’re a 5-7 as a man, generally, you’re looking to fuck “at or above” your looks. After all, as a man, your value is looks+… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/19 03:16 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to disrespect from a womanInner game 100%. Personally, this is my mentality: Jealousy is a useless emotion. Loyalty is whats valuable. a “person” (man or woman) is either loyal to you, or they are not. if you discover they are not, that’s not bad, negative or insulting information. It’s just information. you’re not entitled to loyalty. better to discover lack of loyalty than for it to remain a secret. if you lose someone who was never loyal to you to begin with, you haven’t really lost anything. so, what exactly is your … | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 02:24 PM |
| 6 | Picking up girls for the confidence boost, not for sex?I’m married, and I don’t plan on cheating on my wife. So, I hear you. Before anyone blows a gasket: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0sYguTPLpHE (my wife and I are both free to flirt with other people; we draw the line at sexual contact). “Catch and release,” is the fisherman’s term. Honestly, I feel like the older you get, the less interesting sex is. What’s more interesting is the, “Heh, I still got it” feeling. It’s like keeping your OS or anti-virus up to date. I think it’s important to keep on… | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Help Approaching someone from my schoolAny more information? Social network analysis? What classes do you have together? What overlapping social circles and connections do you have together? | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for gym approaches that don't annoy women?I agree with what u/Gordod26 said. If you want to pick up girls at the gym, you need to either be a 10/10, or you need to be a local celebrity or personality at that gym. You need to be cool with all the gym staff. Then, you need to be cool with the male regulars. Compliment and encourage. Clean up after yourself. Don’t hog up machines. Ask if they want to use a machine. Don’t act macho or “alpha.” Once you’re there, one of two things will happen: (a) girls will approach you or inject themselves… | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 03:03 AM |
| 1 | If they couldn’t have sex with their partner/date, would men stay in a relationship?Lol, if you say so. I explained what makes the analogy applicable. Employees are not working for “benefits.” They are working for “money.” Men aren’t in “sexually exclusive relationship” for the “non-sex benefits.” They’re there for the “sex.” Otherwise, they can “just be friends” without any limitation of other women they can have sex with. Now it’s your turn. Why do you think that analogy is “terrible”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/19 10:25 PM |
| 0 | If they couldn’t have sex with their partner/date, would men stay in a relationship?No. They’re not paying you, but you get free health insurance. And unlimited free coffee in the office. And free access to their newsletter. “Money” is what you want and need. “Other benefits they are providing you” is what they’re giving you. If what he wanted was a non-sexual relationship, he would and could be just friends with a lot of other people (and they wouldn’t require him to not have sex with other women as a condition to their friendship). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | If they couldn’t have sex with their partner/date, would men stay in a relationship?Would you work for an employer who didn’t pay you any money? Also, you’re not allowed to work for anyone else or sell your labor anywhere else for money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/19 06:31 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Men Whining About Women’s SMP Privilege Is Unattractive ... Because They Want To Be Treated Like WomenBruce Jenner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/19 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Men who are in a slightly higher role at work, do you notice a lot of the women in lower roles get crushes on you?I didn’t say that men in their 30s are unattractive to 20-year-old women. I thought you specifically asked about a coworker or employer employee context, where the man is in a superior position of power within the organization. | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 02:18 PM |
| 4 | Does being persistent ever work?When the girl doesn’t like you? No. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GZ3QHTpMZgQ There’s, “NO! STOP IT!” and then there’s, “No,” lol, “stop it,” lol, “you’re being so bad,” lol, “stop it.” But that’s not really an issue of persistence. For example, when I met my wife, I was already seeing someone, but was genuinely in the process of breaking up with her. I had started that process before I even met my wife for the first time. So, when I met my wife, I was honest with her and told her I had a girlfr… | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 02:11 PM |
| -6 | Men who are in a slightly higher role at work, do you notice a lot of the women in lower roles get crushes on you?Oh God. And this is why women say men are fucking stupid. Whenever a younger women is doing this, your first and only thought and reaction should be suspicion and disdain. What have you actually done or what does she actually know about who you are as a person for her to be making these external displays of supposed attraction and flirtations towards you? 9/10 times, she’s just using her feminine wiles to manipulate you into you -> liking -> her, so that she can somehow derive some benefit from … | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 01:08 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys approach a girl at a bar/club that's dead?“Excuse me, the manager asked me to ask you to please leave. You’re making all the other girls look bad.” | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you lose respect for a woman if she is a "forever girlfriend"?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/19 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?So, whether silence is or isn’t “dishonest” ... is entirely within the control of the person being silent. He or she can, at any point, “pretend” to be innocently foolish, clueless, and genuinely having no other agenda ... and just like that, “sorry for unintentionally being misleading ... I wasn’t intending to deceive you.” While that is the pure truth, the “problem” is that the rest of us outside that potential deceiver’s mind need some “objective” facts to point to and call “bullshit.” So, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/19 02:36 PM |
| 2 | I want to approach the receptionist at my gym, but what would I say?I hear you. Obviously not suggesting anyone do this for one girl. But I am suggesting that there are benefits to doing this, because you never know how circumstances can change in the future. I go to the gym at night, where it’s practically dead; 12-3am | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 01:39 PM |
| 7 | Suggest some direct openersCanned direct openers? It depends how good looking you are. If you’re good looking, you’re well groomed, you’re dressed well, you’re confident and have a healthy sense of self esteem (not too confident, and a bit restrained, humble and modest), you can actually open up with things that “sound” crazy when you read them on here, but sound very natural, playful and funny when you say them irl. “Excuse me,” (attention grabber), “do you have 2-3 minutes?” (soft physical attraction test) “do you mind … | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 12:57 PM |
| 13 | I want to approach the receptionist at my gym, but what would I say?Oneitis aside (bc you definitely have it), here’s what I would suggest. Personalization: there was a receptionist in my gym. I wasn’t hitting on her, but I was exercising just talking to people at the gym, and trying to build rapport with the gym staff. She had a name tag. Her name was “McKenzie.” Idk if I’m spelling it right. I saw it as I was paying for a bottle of water and she was processing my payment. So, I just said, “I knew a girl named McKenzie McKenzie.” Her, “OMG, there’s no way she c… | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 11:33 AM |
| 6 | What is the Current Social Climate Like for Men and Boys in the United States?Gay frogs 🐸 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/19 02:20 AM |
| -1 | How long was your longest dry spell?Yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Why do men marry women their age?Why doesn’t it sound that way? Because people who married their “long-term life partner” for the second time ... or didn’t “marry” their “long-term life partner” (because it doesn’t even say “marriage”) ... means? What? Definitely? Exactly nothing more than what it says. The methodology is discussed. No mention of looking to study first time married couples. That wasn’t even the purpose of the study. It wasn’t even studying married couples. Only couples who are currently with their long term lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 12:47 PM |
| 0 | How long was your longest dry spell?15 years lol ... But my second longest was idk, a couple of months? A couple of months. Idk, maybe like 2-3 months. Not how I felt when I was single for 15 years and before I had my first girlfriend. I felt okay. I don’t think 2-3 months of being single is really long enough to start feeling any woes of being single. Umm, I met someone? Married, and no. In fact, I was cuddling with my wife last night and telling her how much I love her and appreciate her. For me, just the act of loving and appre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: Why do men marry women their age?Do you have a link? Edit: https://www.marieclaire.co.uk/news/the-age-you-are-most-likely-to-meet-the-one-plus-statistics-for-relationship-milestones-20898 I imagine that’s the “study” you’re referring to. According to the research, the average woman finds her life partner at the age of 25, while for men, they’re more likely to find their soulmate at 28, with half of people finding ‘the one’ in their twenties. Take your confirmation bias blinders off for a second and do something very un-American… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Need urgent helpYou should stop talking to her and forget about her. Here is an example of what it looks like when a girl is interested in you: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d3vvc9/if_a_girl_youre_talking_to_isnt_talking_to_you/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf When there’s a will/desire on her part, she will find a way. Otherwise, she will find excuses. It’s that simple. When a girl is into you, it’s that clear. | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 11:49 AM |
| 5 | I asked a girl out and this happened....?Dude, I am cringing. Just stop it, please. For you. Do it for you. That’s like applying for a job, and saying, “Hey, you guys want me to work for you ... you know ... for money?” and them being like, “I’m sorry, you’re just not a good fit for our company. Not really the type we hire. But, you’re more than welcome to volunteer,” and you’re like, “Oh yeah ... that sounds fantastic ... I got nothing else to do with my life. That’s just perfect. Thank you for the opportunity!” Have some minimum leve… | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 11:48 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men that complain of getting rejected boy ‘low tier women’, The inflation of low value woman believing they’re high in SMV/RMV is largely due to a large number of men having low standards in the first placeYes. I’ve been very interested since I joined Reddit to try and analyze this very issue. I’m fascinated by the irony of it all, and I can definitely appreciate both sides of the issue. On one hand, girls complain about players, being genuinely “tricked” and “manipulated” into being pumped and dumped. Or worse, falling for an abusive, narcissistic, bipolar I, psychopath man. Guess which guys those are! They don’t open up with, “Hey, I just wanted to tell you that I think you’re beautiful.” On the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Need urgent helpYeah .. my advice would be to learn from this experience. “Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. Failure is delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, not a dead end. Failure is something we can avoid only be saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.” (Denis Watley). “Don’t cling to a mistake just because you spent a lot of time making it.” (Instagram thots). What lessons can you extract from this? “I think you’re beautiful” is not very effective. So much so that it’s a se… | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 10:49 AM |
| 2 | What does Instagram tell us about the sexualization of women?As an aside, a fucking but-her-face has 184,000 Instagram followers. That’s just sad, guys. Fucking shame on you. I’m done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 10:29 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men that complain of getting rejected boy ‘low tier women’, The inflation of low value woman believing they’re high in SMV/RMV is largely due to a large number of men having low standards in the first place“If dudes weren’t so thirsty.” That’s so fascinating, because I don’t think that’s what’s going on, despite what (on its face) looks like a long-winded thirst post. I think the overwhelming majority of men are BP, even the majority of the RP community is essentially BP “trying” to break out of BP. Script theory: what is the traditional and conformist male “dating” script? Boy meets one (1) girl. Boy focuses his attention on this one (1) girl. He is either successful or unsuccessful. The end. In … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Why do men marry women their age?Yeah ... “on Match.com” the Overstock.com of the dating world. I didn’t meet my wife on Match.com, nor did my best man, nor did my close friend from high school. Nor did any of the guys I’m friends with. Nor did my brother. Nor did my best man’s brother. That’s not how my parents met, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Why do men marry women their age?I don’t think most couples that marry at 30 ... met at 29. I met my wife the first year after I graduated from my master’s program. So, I was just one year in the workforce before I met my wife. I’m 33 now. We did indeed get married when I was 30 and she was 27. I met her before she could even legally drink alcohol. I remember, because we celebrated her 21st birthday. My best man and (different person) friend from high school, they both met their wife in high school. My best man was together wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Is the increasing prevalence of obesity in young women skewing the dating market?Selection bias. Tinder is the overstock.com of the dating market. Who goes on Tinder? Women looking for a self-esteem boost, or women who couldn’t find a man irl ... making a last ditch effort to clear their unsold inventory from the shelves. Who are those women? The hot Instagram type, or the 30 below average? That’s all there is to say about that. As an aside, don’t forget that most guys are nice - too nice. The guys who match with the 30 below average girls aren’t the guys who start a convers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 01:48 AM |
| 5 | Regardless of partners, if a women struggles to achieve organism is she ‘bad at sex’?“Bad at sex” is a little bit of a poor choice of language, unless you were intentionally looking for that shock value. She’s not necessarily “bad at sex” from the POV of “providing/giving” short term pleasure to a man. Over the long-run, the man’s satisfaction will obviously not be good, but that’s not what people are generally referring to when they say someone is “bad at sex.” That’s something that concerned with a zoomed in narrow moment in time, not some 3+ year time horizon. Now, from her P… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Does a woman that refuses to sleep or even entertain men that spin plates have a higher SMV and RMV?Neither. Hopefully her value as a woman is based on something more than when, how quickly, how slowly, for who, and for how many people she has chose to her spreading her legs, both her SMV and especially her RMV. If that’s what the bulk of her value as a woman hangs on, then that simply means she’s not bringing anything else to the table. There’s a reason 5-6/10s roleplay the good girl routine, and why 8-9/10s feel perfectly comfortable doing whatever the fuck they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Extreme tiredness and low mood ruining my chances with girlsI’m going to suggest that you Google your local state bar association. Usually they offer continuing legal education credits. There’s usually a course on medical malpractice or personal injury and things were you can basically jump in and be a rockstar. They take a couple of breaks during the seminar, and that’s really your opportunity to socialize. If I was you, it would be like shooting fish in a bucket. “Excuse me, I’m not a lawyer, can you help me understand exactly what they mean by _____?”… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 11:00 PM |
| 14 | Extreme tiredness and low mood ruining my chances with girlsTRP with dermatotropic testosterone and anastrozole to mitigate aromatization. 15mins breathing exercises and mindfulness to held reduce cortisol. Nothing wrong wish a Red Bull once in a while. Cialis for a little extra help if you’re necessarily and don’t have the realistic option of functioning in a sleep-deprived state. Your issue is sleep deprivation more so than stress. You’ve conditioned your brain to work optimally in a high stress low sleep state (aka Medical school/residency boot camp).… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 03:46 PM |
| 4 | “Spinning plates” doesn’t have to mean having simultaneous “full blown relationships” with multiple people ... it’s so much more basic than thatEasy joke, but I’ll take it. | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Bookmark this: dealing with shit tests5) She says (for the 4th time): "You're not my type." “Yet, here we are.” 4) She says: "I'm not the hooking up kind of girl" ”I know what you mean. I was afraid of sushi ... before I tried regular salmon rolls. Speaking of ... are you a sushi kind of girl?” 3) She says: "How do I know it's safe to come to your apartment?" “How do I know it’s safe to let you come into my apartment?” 2) She says: "You're a bit shorter than the guys I usually date" “Yet, here we are.” She says: "How do I know I ca… | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?If you need to feel that way, I won’t take away that feeling from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?We’ll agree to disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?You're caught up on the word "hiding." Do doctors not provide information prior to other medical procedures? My father just recently had heart surgery. I was in the hospital with him. The head of the CTU was his surgeon. He sat down with us and said, “Look, it’s a simple operation. 99% chance of survival. Less than a 1% chance of any complications. We need to test you for diabetes, see how clean your arteries are, there is another procedure that is experimental at this point, through the groin, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 01:20 PM |
| 0 | Q4All: Why do men marry women their age?Because those are the women men meet first early in their life ... before they become financially secure, established, and like 10x more valuable as a man in most women’s eyes. So, young and foolish, naive and green, guys fall in love young, and they willingly exchange Apple IPO shares for pre-2008 synthetic mortgage backed securities thinking, “Hey, those are some pretty hot and sexy returns on those MBSs, right? Can you believe she actually agreed to partner with me when all I’m brining to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 12:42 PM |
| 14 | As mentioned in a similar sub: Why is women’s hypergamy shamed but men’s polygamy praised?Umm, apart from this fantasy idea women circle jerk themselves with about male polygamy being “praised,” where in the world is this actually observed? https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/laws/PEN/255.17 (the crime of adultery ... clearly only applicable to women ... because male polygamy is praised) https://www.emotionalaffair.org/why-cheating-men-are-assholes/ (praising men who are “non-physically polygamous” for “emotional cheating”) https://sidechicksthemusical.wordpress.com/tag/asshole-men/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?I never said it should be mandatory. I said if you need to hide information about what you're doing in order for people to go along with it, then it's probably immoral. Hiding suggests a duty to disclose, or someone actively looking to find and another concealing the information so as to prevent it from being discovered. In the age of the Internet, if women want to find Christian propaganda on the horrors of abortion, there is a wealth of information available to them that no hospital or world h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 12:10 PM |
| 4 | Straight women are the group LEAST likely to get an orgasm. Straight men are the group MOST likely to get an orgasm. Implications?the far more common story is the devoted boyfriend trying his hardest to get his girlfriend off and nothing works, and she becomes horribly offended that he's trying and posts hateful internet articles about how the very act of a man trying to get a woman off is sexism because it's making her orgasm about him and his ego. u/CainPrince I realize I’m speaking to a brick wall thirsty for confirmation bias for her misandry (probably related to her lack of orgasms). But, as others here have said: htt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?My original point was that needing to hide info on abortion shows how immoral it is. Who is “hiding” info on abortion? You equate not making disclosure and consumption of such information a mandatory pre-requisite to something as hiding? That’s an interesting view of things. If more people knew exactly what was happening, then more people would be opposed to it. And if more people consumed North Korean propaganda, they would be opposed to United States imperialism and plan to economically enslav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Is female sexuality actually a trap for men?Definitely not at all. I rip people a new asshole on paper and in person irl each day. Don’t come online to do that to anyone here. This is my escape from that, where I get to tap into my giving/helpful/supportive side. But thank you for communicating that so openly and tactfully. I hope I clarified my position on it. From my end, we’re all good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Is female sexuality actually a trap for men?Bolding is now pretentious? I (and other people on like nearly every other sub) use it as a way to clearly emphasize the important portions of what they want the reader to focus on. Bolding was in no way intended to be condescending. Condescending: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/condescending (I kid, I kid!!) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Is female sexuality actually a trap for men?Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Is female sexuality actually a trap for men?I am wary because of things that have been said to me Those “things” that “have been said to you” ... were those personal experiences of other women who shared their own stories with you, or stories and life truisms that these women did not personally experience, but were just sharing with you, nonetheless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?Maybe, but that doesn’t mean that as a society, we (the people, the state) can require someone to consume that potentially thought-changing propaganda as a pre-requisite to exercising their fundamental rights. People aren’t even required to study and understand each and every potential candidate up for election prior to being permitted to vote; or the consequences of online bullying or spreading fake news or flooding the Internet with clickbait or potentially offending liberals and conservatives… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?They don’t. The government cannot prohibit people from taking them (strict scrutiny under the Fourteenth Amendment), but it could prohibit private companies from manufacturing the pills in the first instance (rational basis test). I am all for the GOP and conservative politicians standing up to BigPharma. Fuck their campaign dollars. Save the innocent beautiful babies!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Is female sexuality actually a trap for men?women who think this way are projecting their own thinking process onto men, and then using cherry picked personal first-hand experiences (rationalized and editorialized in the most negative and catastrophic way) or hearsay experiences or unverified stories of others ... to cater to their own confirmation bias of what what want to believe is true about men. vs. It was cause I had explicitly been told that guys will do or say anything to get laid. So, would that be hearsay experiences or unverifi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 10:47 PM |
| 4 | Is female sexuality actually a trap for men?Here is what you’re referring to: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Repeated_game Up until a child enters the picture, a man and a woman are playing what is known as a “repeated game” of “supergame.” If the woman keeps conceding and going to the boxing game, or the man keeps conceding and going to the opera (the classic examples in economics), then one of those parties will continue to experience disutility (negative utility/benefit/pleasure), and it will no longer make economic sense for them to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 10:43 PM |
| 14 | Is female sexuality actually a trap for men?A “trap”? As in, women “fake it,” until they get what they want, and then, “lose the incentive to continue faking it?” I mean, isn’t that the point of dating? You sort of test for that aggressively as a man. If we’re living with a social norm of non-monogamy, then (as a man) I shouldn’t give a fuck if you have a high and stable sex drive or not. If you aren’t feeling it, 8 other girls are, and I’ll just have some fun over there and maybe we can chill again when you’re in a better mood. You want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?Are there not federally funded anti smoking ads? Watching them is not a pre-requisite to someone smoking cigarettes. My original point was that people are often morally against abortion once they know more about it. My point is that “making a woman morally against abortion by giving her information having nothing to do with only her health and the risks of the medical procedure,” as a pre-requisite to her having a medical operation ... is an undo burden on an individual’s right to have that proc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?Did mean to trigger a nerve. Not every man who speaks to you is challenging your intellectual capacity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?The State only presents you with information about tobacco that may affect your health. Not the appearance of your teeth, not what your lungs look like after 20 years of smoking, or how much money you could be saving if you choose to not smoke. Moreover, you don’t have a constitutional right to smoke. The state can lawfully prohibit tobacco at any moment, and no individual can argue, “But I have a right to possess and consume tobacco!” Just like you don’t have a constitutional right to drive a c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?r/sociopaths Don’t let the simulated emotions fool you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?ENTJ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?It’s not a question of “morally okay.” The Fourteenth Amendment doesn’t protect someone’s liberty so long as it’s “morally okay.” “Morality” has absolutely zero relevance to an individual’s “legal” rights under the Fourteenth Amendment. This isn’t Sunday School or Bible Study. This is the law and unromanticized Constitutional interpretation we’re talking about. The second anyone starts to inject “morality” into constitutional interpretation, then the constitution becomes nothing more than an exc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?That’s what I think as well. Which is why, it just seems like there are benefits to cooperation this sub doesn’t really explore at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/19 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?So, you think women should not be allowed to vote, work for money, own or manager their own property, etc.? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?Which wave of feminism are you referring to? Or, are you referring to all waves of feminism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Guys in Their Late 20's through 50's, What are Some Socially Acceptable, Non-Violent Ways to Enforce Boundaries Against Other Men Who Lack Respect Enough for You to Openly Hit on a Woman Who is With You in Some Capacity?Obviously, it’s not worth talking about being intimidating and stuff if your question deals with what to do when it’s actually happening. So, skipping that ... Personally, I would suggest thinking about principles of cross-examination. Only ask questions you know the answer to. Don’t give the witness any power. The only leash you leave a witness is enough to hang himself. For example, if you’re with someone other than your LTR or wife, and you don’t know what her response to the following will b… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 11:27 PM |
| 22 | What are some regrets of your 20s?Getting married in your 20s and being in a relationship for longer than 6-12 months. Save marriage for your 30s. Your 20s are the wrong time to meet the right girl. There is no such thing as “the” right girl. When you’re ready for the next chapter of your life, you can find “a” girl that’s reasonably right for you. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 11:05 PM |
| 12 | What are some regrets of your 20s?This is a good one. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?Not sure what the female version of Peter is. Fourteenth Amendment, fundamental right of the individual to liberty ... so, if other people want to find reasons to tell you how to determine and live your own life, the state has to have a “compelling overriding interest” that exceeds and trumps the liberty interest of the individual. Split the baby three ways: First trimester, shut the fuck up unless you’re the mother. Second trimester, may be regulated, except in cases where it may compromise the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women?Seriously? What about “children”? You know ... the “merger” of and survival of both parties’ genetics 🧬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!Unsubscribe or sue me. Idk what to tell you. | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 03:48 PM |
| 14 | "Why don't you marry young, have kids, then when the kids are grown up, start school?" A question men ask career women all the time, answered.That’s basically the basis of “permanent maintenance.” You married her, she sacrificed her economic future depending on your commitment to her for life. The problem was “no fault” divorce. Back with “fault,” it was very important to know “why” this contractual promise was falling apart and dissolving. Was it the wife’s “fault” or the husband’s “fault”? With “no fault,” Judge doesn’t care. And because of that, “permanent maintenance” is largely a thing of the past. So, what can women do in respon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 03:50 AM |
| 8 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!Lmao 🤣 | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 03:32 AM |
| 0 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!Just put one picture of your face and body. One picture. Keep it simple. | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 03:29 AM |
| 9 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!Of course she “prioritizes” certain conversations over others. | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Redpill is beneficial to absolutely NO woman todayI think the problem is as follows: Liberal men were 100% okay having sex with women regardless of their n-count or sexual history, and actually preferred a girl with some sexual experience and an uninhibited sex drive. Conservative men transitioned from not being okay with having sex with women with a 0+ n-count, to being okay having sex with women with a somewhat moderate n-count, and were now okay with a girl with some sexual experience and a not so reserved or inhibited sex drive. So, that on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 11:11 PM |
| 7 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!When men talk to women online, a lot of them tend to operate under the mentality that he has her devoted and focused attention, and is the only guy she’s talking to. This is not at all true, even for average women. They have 10+ men PER DAY they’re simply online. Any particular man gets lost unless he’s good looking or stood out because he was funny and is fun and entertaining to talk to. If these guys understand that very simple reality, I think they’ll have a lot more success with online datin… | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 10:22 PM |
| 5 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!The US apparently | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Why are women immediately turned off by a man who says they're are sexually inexperienced?Read: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/d2s1fm/what_is_the_female_equivalent_of_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Read the comments, and the comments on the comments. “The man who does not read has no advantage over the man who can not read.” (Mark Twain) Why are collages immediately turned off my applicants that haven’t performed well on the SAT? Don’t they want to go to college? Aren’t they looking to perform their best? Same thing with guys. Is there someth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 10:03 PM |
| 1 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!What do you mean? What do you want to talk about in more detail? | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 09:50 PM |
| 28 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!Ecosystems? | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 09:49 PM |
| 18 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!That’s true. That’s the biggest advantage of IRL over OLD | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 09:48 PM |
| 33 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!Absolutely. Was just showing what it’s like from a girl’s POV (from a man’s eyes), so it’s hopefully easier to understand and appreciate how much divided attention any particular person on the other end is getting. A lot of guys here have this knee-jerk reaction to be like, “Hey there, you left me having yesterday,” or “it’s been 24 hours, so much for getting back to me later,” or “Wow, that’s extremely rude and disrespectful. If you’re not going to respect me and my time then ...” DELETE! At th… | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 09:34 PM |
| 164 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!Exactly! It’s like 4+ hours of your time a day at least and that’s just to keep them around. Idk how some of you fuckers have the mental energy for friggin’ 2+ relationships at the same time. Just keeping 2+ girls on the hook at the same time is too much mental energy and time for me. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What is your view on weight gain in a relationship? At what point would you put your foot down or even consider leaving?As I said, I had all jobs in the relationship. Looking good, having sex all the time (in response to, “Besides sex, which includes looks ...”) earning money Same relationship one has with a business partner. That’s not something most men want or care about. Unless that’s something this particular guy actually cared about and valued greatly, that’s not something that was done for him just because you want to feel like it was something you were doing for him. The value is not determined by the POV… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Does a person’s N-count affect how long they’re willing to wait sexually for a romantic partner?Count, 16 inclusive of my wife. But I don’t think it has anything to do with n-count, per se. In other words, if I met Girl A on day 0, and didn’t have sex until day 90 ... then met Girl B on day 0, and didn’t have sex until day 86 ... then met Girl C on day 0, and didn’t have sex until day 98, etc., I would just think that after a certain point, it would only be logical and make common sense to be like, “You know what, man, even if you are into casual sex, this shit is clearly not something tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What is your view on weight gain in a relationship? At what point would you put your foot down or even consider leaving?Besides sex, which looks is a component of, what other “job” did you feel you had in the relationship? If you were happy and stayed ... then ... how come you has multiple iterations of this relationship with different men? Again, like Harvard said, “tolerance is acceptance.” If she’s happy, if she’s genuinely happy with what she is getting in return out of this relationship, then where is the problem? If she’s not happy, then what is she doing about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What is your view on weight gain in a relationship? At what point would you put your foot down or even consider leaving?Idk, I can’t even put myself in the mental frame of mind of BBW or what that relationship would even look like from both ends. Obviously, not dying of a heart attack > making others happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 02:59 AM |
| 4 | Q4All: What is your view on weight gain in a relationship? At what point would you put your foot down or even consider leaving?When I met my wife, she was 115lbs and a size 0. At one point, she was 156lbs and a size 12! So, not 15lbs gained, but 41lbs. Not 2-4 dress sizes higher, but 12. She had to throw away all the shoes I got her. She couldn’t even fit into the boots I got her. ... (turning point in this story) If she didn’t change, I would have divorced her. We had no kids. But that was disrespectful towards me. That’s like me, as a man, making $40,000 a year as a part time paralegal, even though I have a law degree… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Can men open up to women without losing sexual attraction?It’s one of those things that really depends. If you’re a 6&under as a man, and you’re dating an 8+, then she’s going to see that as you putting on a show and just trying to get into her pants. That’s the default view of men, they’re just lying and trying to get into your pants. So, best play for you is to go with that and at least make her feel like you’re not lying about wanting to get into her pants. No emotional stuff. No emotional depth. It’s not that it won’t be appreciated. It’s just that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?Yeah, trazadone suppresses the pre-frontal cortex. Which means, it can cause “sexsomnia,” which is an extremely rare sleep/wake disorder. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleep_sex https://www.healthline.com/health/sleep-sex#causes https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sleepless-in-america/200902/sexsomnia Trazadone’s effect: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1978350/ Edit: priapism is a side effect, just not for me lol 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?I hear what you’re saying. I’ve been drunk myself, and I’ve never even felt inclined to touch. I did propose lol, invite someone on a vacation overseas, and call someone beautiful. That was the extent of it, before I started throwing up. When I was on Trazadone, I would have sex with my wife in my sleep. So, even when the pre-frontal correct is offline or self-regulation is impaired, my inhibition-free brain doesn’t even have the desire to engage in that behavior, period. Maybe culture is to bla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?That’s crazy. I’m sure if most guys on here saw that happening on a bar, they would put a stop to it. I’m not apologizing for men or for people other than myself. But, I think it’s fair to say that men hate men like that just as much as women do. It’s not a behavioral standard we support. That’s all. Yes, people forget they enjoy only a revocable license when they’re in a bar or club. I’m a proponent of women getting law enforcement involved. If more women did that, these guys wouldn’t feel as c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?Grabbing the vagina, in addition to the lesser crime of forcible touching, also triggers a laundry list or other more serious sex crimes, including a criminal sexual act and possibly sexual abuse. Additionally, if someone isn’t letting you move freely and almost cornering you, that’s attempted or actual false imprisonment, and you can use physical force in that instance. Additionally, when the conduct is continuous and ongoing like that, it’s perfectly reasonable for a person in that position an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?Correct. Physical force is force that has the potential to cause physical injury (but not serious physical injury or death) (but, serious pain is also included in the definition of physical injury). Edit: as an aside, the reality is, by the time someone is even aware that they have been groped and that’s not something that’s continuing, but was a quick and fleeting crime of opportunity, there is issue of perceiving what may be imminent or defending against or stopping anything. The person copped… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 02:47 PM |
| 2 | As a man, how do you feel about other men coming on to your significant other?Why would I disrespect him? Because he’s intentionally disrespecting me. What would I say or do? Kiss my wife or grope her while not even looking at him and asking her, “Are you going to introduce me to your friend?” “Hey __. Nice to meet you. Are you here with someone? All alone? Were you hoping that would change? Babe, do you think that’s going to change for __ today? Me either.” Then just smile at him. What’s he going to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?Under NY penal code ss 35.15, it appears you can use force to defend yourself from the use or the belief of the imminent use of "unlawful" physical force. To answer your question again, Physical “force” = “hard” slap causing serious pain or physical injury, pepper spray, punch, etc. Physical “contact” = a “soft” slap causing no serious pain or physical injury, but merely acting as a social insult, spitting on someone, an insulting light and minor push or shove. You cannot use physical force to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?When we’re talking about self-defense, it’s not about what we “baptize” or “label” the offense. It’s about the “definition.” The “crime” of “groping,” is just that, “groping.” Nothing else. Not causing physical injury. Not putting someone in reasonable fear of death or physical injury. Just “groping.” Just an intentional “touch” of intimate body parts for the purpose of sexually gratifying the desires of the criminal actor. That is “groping.” Using your hand to direct someone’s hand away, withou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 12:47 PM |
| 4 | As a man, how do you feel about other men coming on to your significant other?It depends. There are two different categories of this behavior: A. Intentionally disrespecting me and making an implicit or explicit dominance challenge; B. Just hitting on a woman he had no idea had a husband, but respectfully backs away as soon as he realizes she has a husband and isn’t looking to cheat on him. If the guy is in the (B) category, I don’t mind it one bit. I feel good and happy for my wife, and for myself. It means other men find what I have in my life, what I come home to and s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 12:15 PM |
| 9 | Why do women insist be direct, but refuse to be direct themselves?Poker game: Woman: “I like it when men are direct and tell me exactly what cards are in their hand.” Man: “Here, let me show you my cards. I hate these stupid games, anyway. So, can I see your cards?” Woman: “No, I’m afraid not. I’ve been hurt in the past. Oh, and by the way ... all in.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Well, then that’s evidence confirming your belief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?groping you and thus committing sexual assault. Compare S 130.52 Forcible touching. A person is guilty of forcible touching when such person intentionally, and for no legitimate purpose: 1. forcibly touches the sexual or other intimate parts of another person for the purpose of degrading or abusing such person, or for the purpose of gratifying the actor's sexual desire; or 2. subjects another person to sexual contact for the purpose of gratifying the actor's sexual desire and with intent to degr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?What you’re describing is people wondering if you’re physically capable. How can you single that out and isolate it to you being a woman versus you looking small in physical stature? If a young boy or dainty “man,” who was even slightly smaller in physical stature to you, did not receive the same concern from those same people ... then that would confirm your theory. If, on the other hand, a young boy or dainty “man,” who was even slightly bigger in physical stature to you did receive the same c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 11:35 AM |
| 1 | "There is little manliness here: therefore their women make themselves manly. For only he who is sufficiently a man will redeem the woman in woman"Off topic, but not really, there is a kind of koi fish off the coast of Japan that is able to change sex non-sequentially. The sex change does not happen consciously, but automatically. There is only one male in any particular group. When the male gets old, it turns into a female. When there is no male in the group, a female turns into a male. When researchers removed a female from its environment and placed it into a tank with no other koi fish, the female turned into a male. When researchers r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?If you had to articulate the sexism, how would you? What do you think these men think? You shouldn’t be doing that work? You can’t do that work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?Do I think as a non-lawyer or as someone interpreting the penal code? As a non-lawyer, yes. If interpreting the penal code, only if I “reasonably” perceive an imminent danger to the person (man or woman) causing me serious pain or physical injury from touching my junk (so, most likely my balls). If someone was about to punch my balls or try to grab a hold of them in anger, and I reasonably perceived that person as wanting to them squeeze them hard to cause pain, then yes, self defense is justifi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 03:09 AM |
| 1 | At what age do women start losing their youth?Sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?Funny how being married to a civil litigation lawyer doesn’t put men like that any more at risk of being sued for what they’ve done. My wife wouldn’t sue. I didn’t push her to. Her decision at the end of the day. But if it was up to me, the guy would be on welfare right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?Aka, only if you want to pursue your lawful remedies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | At what age do women start losing their youth?Hey, just looking for a photo. Feel free to link. My wife worked as both a prostitute and stripper. I get what you’re saying, but it’s the one thing that sets the Dollhouse in Tampa from the other clubs in the area. And when you go in there, no, the girls aren’t over 25. It’s part of the Dollhouse’s brand. That’s why people go there. Not for any particular girl. If a girl is looking to be a career stripper, she can go to another club. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?My wife was sexually harassed for 3 years, and her boss cornered her over her desk and put his hand up her shirt until she pushed him away. He asked her to meet him in the office at 9pm. She refused. He fired her. I’m with you, which is why, to maintain the credibility this issue deserves, it’s important to be precise with language and not look to conflate and lump everything together. It doesn’t do harassment victims any favors. It doesn’t do rape victims any favors. It doesn’t do anyone but th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?Well, that’s your only lawful remedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?Yeah, because that’s what you’re supposed to do. Nobody is saying to not report them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:51 PM |
| 0 | At what age do women start losing their youth?What does the dancer community have to do with club management? Is there some shortage of 18-25 year old girls who want to make easy money? I’m looking at their Instagram for Tampa. Other than porn star celebrity appearances, I’m not seeking a girl over 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?If that’s the mentality, then we should just run people off the road for going 1mph over the speed limit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?Well, now you know, check your state penal code before you go pepper spraying and slapping people. “Forcible touching” is very different from “sexual abuse,” criminal “sexual acts” and “rape.” And speak to HR. Don’t pepper spray your co-workers! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Outside the conventional is always tough. People and their social scripts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:41 PM |
| 0 | At what age do women start losing their youth?That’s what distinguished the Dollhouse from the other clubs in Tampa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?I just find it interesting that you don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about as a woman, but talk about it so passionately. A woman on the street gets groped by a stranger. You think a woman should file a sexual harassment lawsuit? Your words, not mine. A woman on the street get groped. No knife. No deadly weapon. No threatened use of physical force to cause her any kind of physical harm. You think use of pepper spray is justified? http://ypdcrime.com/penal.law/article35.htm#p35.10 If you p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:38 PM |
| 0 | At what age do women start losing their youth?That’s how it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:28 PM |
| 3 | would social pressure stop you from dating a pretty 18-19 year old...Correct, but the OP specifically asked if “social pressure” would stop me. Regardless of other reasons stopping me, “social pressure” wouldn’t be one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Don't women 35+ have a vested interest in turning younger women against men?I agree with the lazy part for 35 year old guys and that it’s “easier” for 20 year old guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?People should not be committing crimes. And if they do, the proper remedy for that is to go to the police, unless someone’s life is in imminent danger and self-defense or use of force is justified. Being groped is not one of those cases. Further, when responding to a criminal with crime, don’t expect that criminal to all of a sudden abide by the laws of society and not resort to additional criminal behavior (like knocking you out cold). Let the police handle it and stay safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | would social pressure stop you from dating a pretty 18-19 year old...No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | At what age do women start losing their youth?Fucking men. Why don’t you start minding your own business and start putting yourself first? Stop always being concerned about other people. Trust me, she is worrying plenty about herself and what’s best for her. The decline starts at 23. 16-23 is the female peak for SMV (exceptions for fat girl deciding to lose weight, plastic surgery later in life, and very very late bloomers). But as a general rule, the decline starts at 23, and picks up traction at 25. The Dollhouse in Florida, as soon as a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:05 PM |
| 0 | Q4Men: How old are you, and what's the youngest age a girl could be for you to date her? What's the oldest?I’m 33. Youngest I’d date is 18. Oldest I’d date is ten years younger than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?That’s what the police is for. We don’t take the law into our own hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 06:56 PM |
| 9 | Women aren't getting the best from men in their 30s+ either, that's not a male only phenomena.I’m just talking purely physically and facially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Don't women 35+ have a vested interest in turning younger women against men?20s on the skin. A 35-year old metabolism and protein synthesis rate can’t compete with a 20 year old’s ... unless the 35 year old is on HCg or taking steroids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Oof, that’s painful to hear. My heart goes out to you. Why do you think that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 03:40 PM |
| 7 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?I wouldn’t even slap a Tyrion Lannister sized dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 03:39 PM |
| 60 | Women aren't getting the best from men in their 30s+ either, that's not a male only phenomena.If we’re talking about averages or generalizations, I suppose that’s true, “on average” or “in general.” I’ve seen a lot of lawyers and accountants (and even doctors), who I knew from high school or college, and they’re easily 50-70lbs heavier now. For a lot of men, it’s this mentality that, “money is all women really care about. So, if I’m making good money now, I’m not going to bust my ass for shit she doesn’t value.” But it’s definitely not true for people who are active and curious, and have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 03:38 PM |
| 2 | What type of man cares deeply about things feminists say?https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=c078AVNTjM4 “I’m a male feminist. What’s my favorite music? Whatever your favorite music is! Will you touch it, now? Am I doing this right? Why aren’t you touching it?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Don't women 35+ have a vested interest in turning younger women against men?It really depends how happy the 35+ woman is. If she’s unhappy in her marriage. Or if she’s single. Misery loves company. That’s a universal truism that’s not really uniquely applicable to older women, single women, or feminists. As far as the age gap thing, some younger women want older men for a variety of reasons. They’re not stupid. They understand full well the motives of older women. The more older women make it taboo, the more sexually exciting they make it for both older men and younger … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Should it be socially acceptable again for women to slap men if they cross a line?I’m sure if you spend some time on r/pussypassdenied , you’ll see videos of women playing judge, jury and executioner a little too liberally and with a little too much entitlement ... and men being like ... goose gander rule, bitch. Women getting straight up knocked out from a slap, or her $8,000 hat flying like 25 feet away from her head following a clean slap knocking her out. Sorry, if I’m on a jury and seeing that video, the guy is getting a not guilty / not liable verdict. So, feel free to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?No, it's not negative or pessimistic; it's just reality. Fuck, that’s hardcore depressing if you legit believe that about yourself, let alone about all women in general. but if I'm not pretty enough to attract a man's attention, Looks matter, but even on here, guys have differing opinions. For some guys, looks are both “necessary and sufficient” in terms of creating the interest to approach. For some guys, looks are obviously still “necessary,” but not “sufficient” to create enough interest to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 02:45 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Ask millennial guys who are all assumed to be lazy unemployed hipsters who identify as tiny unicorn ponies. Some people get their narcissistic supply off of negative reinforcement. But offering help isn’t necessarily sexism. And I’m not making excuses here (although, I’m sure it’s going to seem that way to you, and not because you’re a woman, but because it seems you’ve already dug year heels into the ground on this issue, no pun intended), but ... “No one can say you’re lazy” doesn’t necessaril… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?I feel like there was maybe no better way to articulate this, but the point got across. Thanks for sharing. And yes, I agree. There is a female version of the male mentality that assumes girls never grow out of their high school or college mentality. As men get older, those things do matter, a lot more than maybe girls who are still currently 19 might appreciate. But, you live and you learn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?So, what you ex does after you defines your value how??? You’re assuming you have no other value based on the actions of your ex? That’s just negative pessimistic thinking. Fuck your ex. What value do you feel you bring into a man’s life, that’s noticeable at first glance before he even had the chance to talk to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?That is what you’re labeling as sexism? That’s a pretty low bar. I mean, why stop there? Why not include breathing and taking up air that could be providing oxygen to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?You really think that there’s nothing else that draws men to you besides looks and sex, or you just don’t want to bother thinking about what that could be or was through the years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?What are you talking about? What question do you think you’re answering? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?To answer this question, So, besides looks, is there any other reason men would be interested in you enough to approach you or initially give you attention? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?https://www.reddit.com/r/4chan/comments/1xcbxm/the_fit_scale_for_rating_girls_v20/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 12:07 AM |
| 5 | Women have deeper friendships than men do.Apples and oranges. Women see friendship in terms of what they can unload onto someone else (as a benefit received from their friend) and what they can absorb from someone else (as a benefit given to their friend). That’s simply not how most men see friendships. So, if you’re defining male friendships under female terms, then, yes, women have deeper “friendships.” Men see friendships in terms of what they can get from someone else (as a benefit received from their friend) and what they can give … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 11:59 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?A good fisherman knows what bait to use depending on what he’s fishing for. Honey to catch bears, shit to catch flies, etc. Pray you come across the guy whose game doesn’t work on you, not across the guy whose game does work on you. If it doesn’t work on you, then that’s good news. Also, we get it, no girl wants to identify as easy, cheap, used, etc. But when you have a hot, intelligent, and reasonably successful and established guy in front of you, let’s all cut the BS (seriously), if the top 1… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?But even before the approach, looks in and of itself aren’t “sufficient” to approach. “Necessary,” sure, but not “sufficient,” in and of itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?I mean, those are all things clearly unrelated to looks and sex, so, there you go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Interesting. Thanks for that perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?So, zero tradeoff. That’s good, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Well, human kind obviously got to where it is today by men being attracted to a woman’s personality at first sight. But in all seriousness, you can’t think of anything else besides appearances? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Meh, whatever, no big deal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | When men claim that they want to be loved for 'who' they are... what does that mean for you?I felt like I was “liked” for being “me.” I felt like I was “appreciated” for being accommodating, flexible, the way I negotiated and resolved conflict, communicating well, being supportive, etc. I felt like I was “loved” for how I looked and how much cash flow and assets I brought to the table. And I don’t see what’s so wrong with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?catatonically depressed, had just got out of in-patient treatment, and for months barely left my house or showered Shame on the guys who wanted to fuck someone in that condition. emotionally vulnerable women are a bit of a magnet for assholes. Emotional vulnerability is the mating call I respond to first lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Sure, but you really can’t point to anything besides your physical appearance that would cause you to get more attention and interest from men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?But that’s not really the same as saying that if you looked exactly the same, was there anything else unrelated to your appearance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Literally google search player up SFTC and sort by highest price $30,000 for an account | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Why do men not select for height in mates?Men do select for height. “Spinners.” Hop on and spin. Easier to man-handle. Priorities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?I was intentionally negging. I was very consciously lying to the girl. I didn’t think she was innocent or came off as mostly innocent. But I exaggerated the truth, which was that she maybe came across as 1% innocent, so I just verbalized my personal opinion of her as being “innocent.” And that obviously bothered her. And she was motivated to show me that wasn’t true. I wasn’t looking to insult her. I was looking to test her. It all depends why a guy is saying it. If a guy is hitting on you, or i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Then I hit 18, moved to a big city and fixed all of the above. How did moving to a big city fix all of the above? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Exactly my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?So, when you were dumbing yourself down, you had a larger pool. When you stopped, you had a smaller but higher quality pool? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?I think even I may have intentionally said to a few people, “When I first met you, you just came across as really innocent, and I didn’t really know how to feel about that ...” Now they’re trying to be like Britney all like, “I’m not that innocent!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Have you been to LA & NYC? Since they have mouths and feet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?I got it. Why I said, “Ah, I see.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 05:26 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Idk how much of that is real and how much of that is maybe projection. I just finished a deposition just now. This lady just fucking lost it. Something about this older man just ticked her off. We took a break, and she’s like, “You know how men treat you a certain way, because you’re a woman, and they don’t really respect you as a female attorney?” And I was like, “Umm, I don’t really think that’s what’s going on here. I’ve been in depos where that’s happened, and this isn’t one of them.” And ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?That’s not true, from personal experience. I met one of my exes at a get together. I noticed her, but wasn’t interested in her or motivated to walk up to her until she got on the piano and started playing and singing “Roxanne.” When she sang, “You don’t have to sell your body to the night,” I felt my whole body tingle. I was just impressed and turned on, that’s legit what got me to go over and talk to her. For other guys, it’s different things: the way a girl loves and takes care of her dog, how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Their partner didn’t come up to them and say, “Wow, the first thing that caught my eye about you, without even speaking to you until just now, is your amazing personality.” Disgusting. Absolutely disgusting how light travels faster than sound. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 05:02 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Women in comedy; I like it. Thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Ah, I see. I was thinking about her leading interactions more easily and comfortably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 04:47 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?After a certain age, I think most guys know that calling a woman “innocent looking” or “you just looked so innocent” is kind of a neg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Kind of, except, we’re talking about things that have nothing to do with looks or sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Interesting. Thank you for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Idk if I agree with that. Many people meet because they love dogs or cats, or through shared academic honors, or because of being in the same industry. When they were “general,” they were 1 in 10,000 ... but now that they have some niche, they’re 1 in 50 women ... so, maybe more men would be interested in her now or giving her more attention than before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Funny how life tends to work that way. I stopped giving a fuck about the police, and now I can stop getting pulled over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?That’s interesting. So, you feel like quantity remains unchanged, but the quality increases? So, zero tradeoff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Exactly how u/Texastentialism described. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?I see, very interesting. So, it’s like you were being tossed softballs (no pun intended), but didn’t know how to hit a home run. As you got more used to hitting fastballs out of the park, when a softball would come your way, you knew how to knock it out of the park. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?I’m so confused lol Forgetting tree removal ... When you started going to school, taking education seriously, you started attracting more quality men ... ... but then you go on to say that it quantitatively made no difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?I’m sure there’s something else you’re maybe not thinking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?I could literally be the most awful person ever and somebody would fuck me. I want to say, as a guy, likewise, if not more so. But seriously, besides looks, you can’t think of anything else that you’ve noticed a major difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?So, besides looks, nothing else really making a day and night difference with respect to a significant amount of men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?So, in your own personal experience, besides looks and sex, you’ve never found that anything else really contributed to men giving you day and night more positive attention? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 02:46 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Thanks for sharing. Yeah, people don’t realize how common alcoholism is in young women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Very interesting. Thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Understood, but what else, besides looks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Interesting. How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Besides looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?So, you noticed a difference as your social skills got better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 02:22 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Besides looks ... interesting on the job angle. I guess if someone never left the house before, it’s more accurately, “Ugh, men never even noticed me until I started leaving my house smh.” Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Jeez; way to take a positive question and turn it negative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 02:14 PM |
| 4 | Any other "boring guys" here? What are your experiences with dating?Never live your whole life for women. You already devote so much of your life to studying and working beyond what you have to in order to survive until the day you die. The surplus is for who? Not for you! It’s for women. The 2-3 hours a day you have to yourself should be for yourself. Be who you want to be, not who you think women want you to be. I’m a lot like you. Wanted to join the military when I was younger. Got into fitness. Didn’t get into MMA, but I did Daito Ryu (traditional Japanese a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Sexual submissiveness in men - alpha/beta behaviourI’m SCUBA certified by PADI, Advanced Open Water Diver But I’m Muff certified by my exes, Advanced Wet Muff Diver Then again, “wanting to please” or “give love” in the form of sex ... I’m not sure the BDSM community would necessarily label that as “submissive.” If you were talking more along the lines of men receiving a giant black strap-on up their ass while begging “please, mistress,” to have their charity cage remove and be “allowed” to cum ... that’s another story. I think you maybe conflate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Agreed. But apparently, even if we control for experience and put it aside, there’s still an urge to rationalize away a narrative where being given a compliment is somehow justifiably negative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 09:36 PM |
| 8 | Why do women have sex with dangerous looking men straight away, but they are "not comfortable" or "feel threatened" inviting average non-threatening men back to their place?As someone who has a death / orgasm with consequences fetish, I can tell you why from the male POV, and maybe it’ll make it easier for you to understand the female POV. Poison Ivy, a succubus, a spy assassin, vengeful ex, the gold digger looking to cash in on her husband’s untimely death. they are leading the sexual interaction; they’re not inhibited; they are confident: they look like they are in control of themselves and secure with their role in the sexual dance at every step of the way; they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Has there ever been a guy you were as attracted to as the sexy guys you ONS that you made wait because you 'really liked?' Explain the thought process and why men shouldn't feel like Billy Beta or why they shouldOof, you’re going to get a lot of make believe stories and post-fact rationalizations of why the men the female poster is married to today is exactly the kind of man you’re talking about in your question. ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?We all know and it’s 100% obvious that this is not something that would go over well in real life, at least in the United States. That’s not really the point of this question, but I agree with you. What’s interesting is, the guttural negative emotions a genuine compliment elicits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Looks are something that’ll fade, which is why it’s interesting that commenting on how one’s hair looks versus how the person looks overall, and how that is expected to yield a different reaction. As far as response, a simple “thank you.” I remember I had a telemarketer call me up and be like, “We’re calling only a select group of local business owners who are leaders in their industry.” You know it’s bullshit. You know it’s a solicitation. What’s the socially appropriate response? “Go fuck your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 06:50 PM |
| 2 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?Just like girls and women are socially programmed with social scripts that fuck then up sexually, so are men. A common social script is, “Men who desire sex are bad. Male sexual desire is disgusting. Men who don’t desire sex are smart and intelligent, enlightened, and sophisticated. They are not just about sex. There is more substance to them. These men also respect women. Men who want sex and are sexual aggressors disrespect women and treat them as just good for sex only and nothing else.” So, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?“I notice your hair looks like you’re someone unique, who wants to have nice looking hair, and therefore, go to an establishment that knows how to style hair well, or takes care of her hair personally. What an incredibly rare quality that most other women don’t have. Please, tell me more about it, I’m fascinated.” Not being argumentative. I’m just not a big believer in “choice,” especially with respect to things like personal appearance, colleges, or anything that’s a race or competition to “be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?However, most normal, socially adept people can watch his behaviors and delivery and what he does after that to make a more accurate assessment of his honesty and his intentions. So, in my example, why do you assume or fill in the blanks in terms of his behaviors and other cues you normally use to assess “intentions” so as to make the man in the hypothetical “dishonest” or have “bad intentions”? You’re saying that women are either “blind” to assessing intentions behind words, or that they are “n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?But a presex waiver does provide this right. So does a default opt-in rule. Moreover, a “pre-sex waiver” would affirmative require state level legislation regarding the regulation of intimate relationships. The same exact kind of state level law that would be invalidated as unconstitutional under the Fourteenth Amendment. An “opt-one” system would require no action on the part of the legislature. As soon as the “biological affinity” basis of determining parental status is invalidated, we are aut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?hunky young men Clarity for the sake of avoiding conflation or misstatement. I’m not saying that woman desire men regardless of appearance. I’m not saying appearance is not important. But just because something is important doesn’t mean it’s the only thing that’s important. Not stating anything profound or anything you and other women don’t already know. The male gaze is narrow. The female gaze is broad. The male gaze objectifies, necessarily, as part of admiring external beauty. The female gaze… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 03:16 PM |
| 0 | Abramović's Naked Doorway Exhibit-- which way would you face?It’s 2019, eating nothing but fat helps you lose fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?If you say so. I’m still here if you want to address your own contradiction instead of hiding behind what I took the time to already clarify for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?Alright there PB&Jelly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?Nothing last forever. But I’d rather be on the top of Mount Everest for a year than on the top of a mole hill for 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Does your preferences in women change with age?Idk what kind of busses pass through your driveway lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Have you/how have you changed the way you approached dating as you got older?I like this question. confidence or abundance mentality through experience? Till this day, I still don’t know what an “abundance mentality” is. I mean, I get it in theory, but I’ve never really had the kind of attitude of like, “I’m God’s gift to women, I can have any woman I want, when I want, how I want, so why is this bitch wasting my time?” I sure there are men who are genuinely on that boat mentally, but personally, I don’t think there’s any degree of money that I could have that would let … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 05:22 PM |
| 5 | What do men offer in relationships in this day and age?Has it ever occurred to you that maybe your life would be better by being a lesbian and using all that time and energy you spend venting your anger and resentment towards men ... into maybe finding happiness with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?Yeah, exactly. Jokes, humor, and hyperbole all aside ... in all seriousness, even for men who currently or one day desire children, I’m pretty sure very few men would answer: “If you could have as many children as you could, without having to pay for a single one of them, how many would you want to have?” With: “Oh, that’s a tough one. Probably between 50,000 to 12,000,000.” How many children does Bill Gates or did Steve Jobs have? Jeff Bezos? Prince William? Is anything stopping them from havin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Does your preferences in women change with age?I’ve made a note of your concern on my new roll of toilet paper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?Men don’t desire to “multiply.” Men desire to “have sex.” Also, very few guys wake up in the morning and are like, “Oh boy, I would love nothing more than to completely fuck up and destroy the lives of 50 different women today.” Unless someone has an impregnation fetish, men aren’t aiming for 100+ children. That’s not a male desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?No. Men would like to raise and groom maybe a hand full of children. Not a continent of children. His resources (numerator) / number of his children (denominator) The more children he has, the less their chance of “thriving” in subsequent generations. People are not viruses or bacteria. We’re complex organisms. “More” =/= “better.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 04:09 PM |
| 4 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?Do movies really objectify men in the way women were objectified (and still are)? I don't see that happening. See Ellen (the show), the Witcher, Man of Steel. Lucifer, Arrow, Magic Mike. We’re proudly getting there. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for it. I would love nothing more than for masculine sex appeal to receive the same amount of media spend and marketing dollars as feminine sex appeal receives. That just increases market demand for masculine sex appeal and the market power men with mascul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Swoleshaming is Beta Male Behavior, not Female Behavior(Rolls eyes), those fucking people. They’re not really shaming you, they’re just verbalizing their excuses out loud so they can create evidence and environmental feedback to justify not putting in the work themselves and feeling okay about themselves. No matter how you react or respond, they’re looking for confirmation to their own desired reality. You were silent? It’s because you know they’re right. You demonstrate they’re wrong? You must be lying because you’re either delusional or in denial.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?Men want a few high quality long term “flings” that result in exactly zero breeding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 06:35 AM |
| 8 | Abramović's Naked Doorway Exhibit-- which way would you face?It’s when you mean to say one thing, but end up saying your mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 06:29 AM |
| 11 | Abramović's Naked Doorway Exhibit-- which way would you face?Facing the woman, of course. Why? Because I’m not gay, and the guy is not fucking me up the ass as I’m passing through. And, because I want to look into the eyes of a woman who has the fucking balls to do something like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Swoleshaming is Beta Male Behavior, not Female BehaviorFirst, disagree to the extent that it’s both male and female behavior. My own mother tries to constantly shame me. “Ugh, you’re too too big. Men don’t look nice when they’re so big. You want to be a body builder? Do you think that looks professional when you’re in court? How are people going to take you seriously?” My own mother. Secondly, I’m about to share a dick move story. I’m not proud of it, but it’s totally relevant to your post, so I’ll share it. There was a time where my wife was mental… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 05:45 AM |
| 0 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/505/717/49b.jpg “You shut the fuck up! Take that back! You don’t say that about Tom Ellis!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?Tom Hardy v. Nick Jonas or Sean Mendez My man crush is Jon Bernthal. I told my wife, if he ever shows interest in me, it’s bad news for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 04:00 AM |
| 8 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?As an aside, idk if you watch Grace at all, but she has a very interesting video about the female gaze. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oVHWh-jR964 The problem in Hollywood right now is that they’re trying to “give women” the revenge satisfaction feeling of “making men feel insecure” by showcasing all these eye candy male celebrities and objectifying them ... and feminists are cheering and celebrating and “labeling” that as the female gaze I mean, even amazing critics like Grace just verbally adop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?All it takes is one off the wall comment to crack a major revelation wide open lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?Hear you and agree, “with the theory.” But in defense of Tom Ellis, we’re not saying he’s insecure. Lucifer Season 5 is coming up. I’m sure he’s under a lot of pressure to do these types of social media and PR things to drive up awareness and interest in him and Lucifer. So, he has all that pressure that’s pushing him to get results. John Stamos doesn’t at the moment. Just want to be clear that neither I nor my wife were saying that Tom Ellis is actually insecure. I love Tom Ellis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?She didn’t say Tom Ellis was insecure. She just said that Stamos came off more unconscious learned and authentic, whereas Tom Ellis came off like he was consciously controlling himself and thinking about how he appeared. Not really “insecurity” among actors. I mean, they have PR people. Tom Ellis has Lucifer and his career is kicking off. Stamos doesn’t give a fuck. What does he have, still? A yogurt commercial? But, even that, it’s the kind of stuff that women notice and pick up on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Women have no problem with a toxic relationship, as long as the toxicity is in their favor.Have you heard of battered women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 03:27 AM |
| 10 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?My wife and I were watching “thirst tweets” from celebrities the other day. After Tom Ellis, we watched John Stamos. Personally, I told her, if I was a woman, I would fuck Tom Ellis. John Stamos, meh, not so much. My wife was like, “I would fuck John Stamos over Tom Ellis.” At first, I got concerned, because I was like, “Woah, hold up, what does that say about me if you would fuck someone who looks like John Stamos?” I started to question my own physical appearance. I was like, maybe my wife’s a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Explain the rise of the manosphere philosphyIt did. It was forming the moment The Mystery Method and The Game came out. People were taking about PUA online “for free” and starting to form the RP community and theories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Does your preferences in women change with age?Every guy is different, so you’re not really going to find too much commonality. Age range: when I was 15-17, I would obviously only date girls at my age or younger. when I was 18-22, I would only date girls older than 18, but I dated someone who was 29 and 25 in that period too. If I had the chance, I would have also done whatever my biology professor wanted, and she was in her late 40s. It wasn’t really a physical attraction to her, just the idea of servicing a much older woman I thought deser… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Explain the rise of the manosphere philosphyWhat? No. I said: MRA —> MGTOW —> PUA —> TRP Between 2005-2008, TRP started to form online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Explain the rise of the manosphere philosphyIn 2005, journalist Neil Strauss wrote The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists, an exposé of the PUA community. The Game reached the New York Times Bestseller List, and made pickup and seduction techniques known to a wider audience. The community was further publicized with the television show The Pick Up Artist (2007–2008) on VH1. Prior to that, everything was dating advice or NLP and applied clinical hypnotherapy (creepy). That’s day and night to the “PUA” literature that ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 02:22 AM |
| 43 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?Okay, if ladies can calm their nipples and not go off on an exaggerated hyperbole of the reason I’m drawing this analogy: I have a female dog. Both her parents are show dogs. I’m a human male. When I was looking to breed her, the Canadian breeder and I obviously checked for pedigree, but we also wanted to see videos of the stud that was going to sire her, and we wanted to see his qualities in person ... the way he walked, his temperament, his aggression, his hair, etc. Again, “I’m” not even the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 12:20 AM |
| 0 | What will be the Impact of Facebook’s new dating app?Attractive girls logging into FB: https://mobile.twitter.com/TechnicallyRon/status/568893875286372352 Below average girls still single by the time they get their 26th birthday notification from FB: https://bdn-data.s3.amazonaws.com/blogs.dir/40/files/2018/01/26540532_10104701804567809_961486508_o.jpg Above average guys on FB: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=If3WBHVVS6Q Below average guys on FB: https://static7.depositphotos.com/1158045/696/i/950/depositphotos_6960284-stock-photo-businessman-pointi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?You don’t see a lot of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?I'm not glossing over it at all. I have been perfectly clear that since it is her responsibility to "opt out" utilizing the methods available to her, it is his responsibility to "opt out" utilizing the methods available to him. It’s nobody’s “responsibility.” It’s her “right.” The Fourteenth Amendment isn’t concerned with “responsibility,” but “liberty” and “privacy” rights. I 100% get that you have this hat on where you’re looking at things through the lens of, “Well, the woman has this respons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 08:20 PM |
| 12 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?Poster: What differentiates chocolate milk from other kinds of milk is the fact that it has chocolate in it. OP: Oh yeah? Well, then explain chocolate bars and chocolate cake. Go ahead, I’ll wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?Except most men don't have problems with women and understand that life is not a porno. So then you should have no problem opening up with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?..but it is his decision - he chooses to obtain the waiver or he doesn't and takes on the risk. ... but it is her decision - she chooses to obtain her husband’s permission That’s the point you’re glossing over. “We thus agree with the dissenting judge in the present case, and with the courts whose decisions are cited above, that the State cannot delegate to a spouse a veto power which the state itself is absolutely and totally prohibited from exercising during the first trimester of pregnancy.” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?Why are you ignore what men said just because they contradict what you want to believe? Facts do not care about your feelings. Why are you ignoring what certain men are saying just because it contradicts what you want to believe? Facts indeed do not care about your feelings. Because most men know better. You think incels and niceguys are “most men”? Except it actually is. Please open up with that when you meet a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?Again, female fear driven lens over this entire analysis. That's exactly what happens. It's all fun and games until you realize she's r/Nicegirls, she cheats on you, or she takes your money. Men have talked about and since even the biblical age have warned men about letting lust control them. Yeah, not sure that’s accurate. The men who are most vocal about it don’t necessarily represent or account for most men. If it’s a 5M dating a 7F, and in his mind, she’s “hot,” because that’s the most attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?“Risk comes from not knowing what you’re doing.” (Warren Buffet). It’s presumptuous to just assume that lust is going to take over a guy’s brain and he’s just going to be in it for the sex, until that high fades and he suddenly realizes, “OMG! She speaks! Oof, and she’s a bitch. Who is this person? Did my sex toy break, or something? Where are the batteries, maybe I just need to replace them. Ugh, it keeps talking about marriage and babies, how do I get it to stop?” Female insecurity/fear driven… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Do men fantasize about marrying a woman who's a "slut" just for him?Umm, you do realize that’s my wife you’re talking about, right? Poverty is not mental illness. “Non-judgmental game.” “Understanding game.” Women who survived and overcame poverty and bullying, and then had to overcome a form of sexual abuse, by having to get into sex work as a means of survival and do things out of economic necessity. These days, yes, things are different. She would definitely give Belle Delphine and OkPeachTot a run for their money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?Umm, pretty sure I tried my best to address all your points, without redundantly addressing what seemed like the same point. If I missed anything, let me know. You know it clearly wasn’t my intent to intentionally ignore any points you raised. I appreciate the discussion we’re having. The decision to “have sex” =/= the decision to “be a parent” ... for women. The decision to “have sex” should =/= the decision to “be a parent” ... for men either. Insisting on an automatic default rule where anyon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Do men fantasize about marrying a woman who's a "slut" just for him?Well, a lot of guys 16-20 post on askmen, dating advice, relationship advice, teens, and other subs, and I read them sometimes, and I legit wonder .. is this a girl posing as a guy? Is this person maybe trans? Is this really a guy? Wtf needs to happen for this guy to think and feel the way he does? The female MO has always been that, that’s nothing new. But now days, it’s on another level. “Stop being sexist!” “Stop mansplaining what sexism is and is not!” “We will not tolerate sexual harassment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Do men fantasize about marrying a woman who's a "slut" just for him?If the insurance thing was real the men's Cialis would take priority since it's an actual disease or be covered under medicare which afaik women do pay into, while B.C. is the equivalent to condoms The insurance thing is real. Following the staged Saundra Fluke “hearing,” the Affordable Care Act covered birth control medication ... even if it was “not medically necessary.” Birth control is prescription medication (condoms are not) related to sexual activity. When not medically necessary (e.g.? t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?I do both. No matter the area. Construction contract disputes, I do both sides. Scaffolding, gravity related injuries, electrical injuries, I’m on both sides. Fraudulent concealment of assets and fraud litigation, I’m on both sides 😔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?If a father has custody of the child “Unilaterally.” Where do babies come out of? The mother. What can the mother do? Go have birth at a hospital without telling the father where or listing him on any birth certificate. Then, she drops off the child at a safe haven. Now, what would a father need to do in this situation if the mother wants to keep the child? She has birth in a hospital she doesn’t disclose to the father. She is listed on the child’s birth certificate. The father then does what? K… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?I see what you’re saying with respect to products cases. Yes, in drug and med. device cases, it’s the “facts” that don’t lend themselves to a contributory negligence defense. You’re right. As far as NY: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scaffold_Law_(New_York) http://www.wbgllp.com/single-publication.php?type=2&id=225 https://law.justia.com/cases/new-york/other-courts/2017/2017-ny-slip-op-27082.html (Read this case if you have time to understand why Construction is so expensive in NY) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Do men fantasize about marrying a woman who's a "slut" just for him?Abusive father. Her mother escaped and took my wife with her. My wife’s mother was a single mom, working three jobs, living in LA. They had to go on welfare for a year. Her mom would take her to McDonald’s some days just to get something from the dollar menu just for my wife, and just be happy knowing that at least her daughter ate that day. So, as my wife got older, she started getting made fun of at school, basically because she was poor, and her clothes were from the Salvation Army, and becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Do men fantasize about marrying a woman who's a "slut" just for him?Okay, let’s back up. In grade school through high school ... did you have a Valentine’s day rose day that your school permitted ... where boys purchased roses for girls? Did you have dances, where boys asked out girls to the dance? Did you have teachers who told boys, “You don’t talk to girls that way”? When there were problems between a boy and a girl, who would the faculty side with overwhelmingly more often? Have you heard of MWBE? Are you a woman-owned business? Here is a construction contra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Do men fantasize about marrying a woman who's a "slut" just for him?indeed about rejecting the girl. In your story, I get what you’re saying. But just to be clear, it’s not the fact that she was a slut in her past that bothered you. It was the fact that she was a slut in her past, but a dead starfish for you. That made you feel a certain way about her personality and character. It made you feel a certain way about how much she valued and respected you as a man, and your needs and what was important to you. a treatment that amounted to making me get used to get a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Do men fantasize about marrying a woman who's a "slut" just for him?How is a sex life limited only to making love where the man never looks at the girl in a raw and carnal way as purely for gratifying some desire for sexual pleasure ... abusive? Have you heard of the Orthodox Jewish community? Disney? Hallmark channel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Do men fantasize about marrying a woman who's a "slut" just for him?For as long as “red pillers” continue to throw around, “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn,” then they don’t genuinely understand or accept why they’re saying that. The thing with women in the womansphere is that at least they’re self-aware enough to know that the external show and performance they’re putting on for everyone else is not genuinely what they believe, and they can very often catch themselves being in denial or hiding behind excuses and rationalizations. The thing with men in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Rate SMVs of accents.I had a woman speak French to me. I literally felt the tingles in my penis. Everything about French is so sexy. She could be talking about goats having butt sex, and I would still be willing to gladly go down on her and fuck her for as long as she wanted me to. Next in line, Russian. When guys speak Russian, it doesn’t really have that same feel to it. When women speak Russian, it turns me on. Again, I just love the language, and how it sounds rolling off a woman’s tongue. Spanish, Italian, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Most men will fuck anything young and thin that is reasonably ok looking though. So, young, thin, and some minimum level of ... a man finding her reasonably “okay-looking.” Is it hard to just say that men will not fuck anything that moves? Is there some need for women to believe this and I’m not following? should always believe what men say Not want I said, but I see your in the mood. That’s said for women who focus on how a man acts and makes excuses for and rationalizes everything he is actual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?How does your parental rights written consent doctrine apply to women who are raped or who have unplanned pregnancies and bring the child to term though? What if they never provide consent what happens to the child? State custody + attempts to adopt it out? Obviously I understand with parental rights comes responsibilities including financial support (and vice versa). With respect to the man, he missed his opportunity to secure his parental rights. Whether we’re talking about a rape or “unplanne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?Neither parent has some right to get out of financially supporting a child who exists but for things like adoption or I guess if the state takes the kid away. The woman has the legal right and ability to make sure the child doesn’t exist. But even putting that aside, the woman can unilaterally drop off a child at a safe haven. Doing so severs her financial liability to the child and her parental rights. A man has no such option. it’s also the child’s entitlement. The child is “entitled” to nothi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?Otherwise you could easily say rape victims or bio dads of unplanned pregnancies - since they weren’t consented to beforehand - have no constitutional basis for their rights. I don’t think the Supreme Court would envision a fundamental parental right as only vesting upon a clear written choice or specific consent. It would for the simple reason that the Supreme Court is unlikely to hold that rapists have a Fourteenth Amendment right to have forcibly create parental rights. The right to privacy d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 09:03 PM |
| 6 | Do men fantasize about marrying a woman who's a "slut" just for him?Ladies, c’mon. Surely women know full well that just because people “say” or “outwardly express” an idea, preference, or reasons for their feelings ... doesn’t mean that those are actually their genuine thoughts, preferences, or reasons for their expressed feelings. RP men who say, “she’s not yours, it’s just for turn,” are butthurt. This is a butthurt statement. What it translates into is, “I wasn’t her AF when I was younger, so, fuck her, there’s no way in hell I’m going to be her BB when she’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Most adult women don't believe in "Getting the man of your dreams"The “prize” top 1% man can be “gotten” in the overwhelming majority of cases by these three ways: You were born into a wealthy family, he was born into a wealthy family, you went to Yale, he went to Yale, your families liked one another, your families encouraged both of you to date and get married and have babies that could one day hopefully make it to Harvard (jk jk); He had low self-esteem and issues growing up because he was a late bloomer, he stumbled upon you just as he started blooming and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 07:49 PM |
| 1 | If you can't negotiate attraction, does that mean a man should never pay for a woman?in order to gain her attraction. Really? I’m going to avoid personal criticisms, because, they’re not helpful. As a man, you don’t pay because you have to, you pay because you want to. The best analogy I can give you from experience has nothing to do with women or dating, but try your best to draw the parallels to dating and women. I love being prepared. I’m paranoid and I like camping. I also like being a good host. It’s important to me. Guests over my house own my house. When I have friends ov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?The Supreme Court argued that the consent of parents is not required? The standard was “undue burden.” A judge had to determine whether a girl between 13-16 was “mature enough” to make the decision to have an abortion without her parent’s consent. The plaintiff argued, if she had to obtain her parent’s consent, the process of obtaining a judge’s highly subjective determination as to whether she was “mature enough” essentially deprived her of her ability to exercise her fundamental right by placi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?Man was raped: no waiver Boy was statutory raped by teacher: no waiver Sperm was stolen by stranger: no waiver Places burden of proof on man to prove he “did not consent” to create a parent-child relationship and 21-year financial liability, rather than the burden of proof on the person alleging the same (which could easily be proved by securing and then later presenting the man’s written consent to the same). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?“Getting out of child support liability is a right men want.” Not exactly. Men just want women to realize that they are not entitled to a man’s financial support over her decision to be a mother. Men don’t want the right to not be liable. They just don’t want to be liable for things they never consented and agreed to be liable for. That’s like men saying, “Can you believe women? Now they want the right to have an abortion without first securing a waiver or written consent from their husband or t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?so again those opinions would need to be overturned or the issue settled that they are not constitutional in nature for your plan to occur -yes? No. Not at all. That the ability to determine one’s own parental status is a fundamental individual right is the very basis for invalidating this kind of state law. That’s exactly what this state law deprives men of the ability to do. Also meant to tell you earlier that products is my wheelhouse and pure strict liability doesn’t really exist there anymo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?That parental rights are a fundamental right is at the core of family law and the right to privacy under the Fourteenth Amendment. Otherwise, the “state” not “individuals” would define what a “family” is and is not. That doesn’t need to be invalidated or chipped away. https://codes.findlaw.com/ny/family-court-act/fct-sect-532.html “If the record or report of the results of any such genetic marker or DNA test or tests indicate at least a ninety-five percent probability of paternity, the admission… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?Justice Kavanagh writing the majority opinion for the Court: “Oh baby, I’m about to transfer possession onto your face. Are you ready to accept my gift? Oh fuck, I can feel my donative intent!” These were the thoughts clearly going through the man’s mind prior to the making of his gift in contemplation of a normal and regular property transaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?The conclusion of my thesis was a simple reversion back to the contractual theory of third-party beneficiary law. Before the “moral obligation doctrine on the 1500s, “parental status” was determined by written agreement. It was a promise that by its very terms could not be “completed” within one year. So, the statute of frauds applied, and that agreement needed to be “in writing.” That’s promise was a part of the “marital contract,” which among other things, included the promise to provide for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?My reply would simply be ... “So before we begin here, spare me the whole ... every single child support case or paternity petition involves a man willfully ejaculating inside a woman’s vagina while having unprotected sex.” So, that’s really the end of that female criticism. The entire rant argument goes out the window. This isn’t our first dance. The next go-to is, “Yeah, okay, fine, but how often does that happen?” Response? When the Supreme Court considered cases of very young girls “mature” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up?stolen sperm being "a gift" which is absolutely ludicrous on it's face on it's face Hehehe 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Cute. A catty dismissive gif. But I didn’t fucking lie. Relax, it was a joke, not a personal attack. Saying “that is not true,” not “you’re a liar.” Almost any woman can get laid on tinder, even if she’s obese or ugly because many many many men actually will fuck anything female that moves, let alone a thin young decent-looking one! Yeah, because there will definitely be at least a hand full of that “one guy” within a 100 mile radius. Before Tinder, good luck soliciting men self-selecting themse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?I like the murderer example. The honest murderer lets the victim understand the fate that awaits. The victim them processes their impending doom with despair. The dishonest murderer lets the victim continue to operate unaware of the fate that awaits. The victim then processes their sudden death with short-lived feelings of shock, surprise and betrayal. We’re definitely not looking at honesty here in terms of “likability,” but in terms of “credibility,” especially within the context of what would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?I have never been more happy to be on slightly different wavelengths with someone and be lost in this beautiful dance of misunderstanding. What a fascinating conversation this has turned into. Thank you. women in general do know that men desire nearly every non-obese woman under a certain age, with seemingly little regard to how she looks https://imgflip.com/i/2h8zaa It’s one thing to attribute onto men generally, “Men like sex.” But it’s quite another to attribute, “Men (broadly speaking) desir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 11:50 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionOh save that fallacy nonsense for libertarians. The fact is, she is an authority. Her personal experience and analysis as a female medical doctor sex therapist on the “transactional analysis” between men and women is valid. You can’t just dismiss her by saying, “appeal to authority.” Her opinions, based on her qualified transactional analysis holds (at a minimum) more weight than yours. The book was written for a mass audience, not for the medical or psychological community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Do women have a blindspot when it comes to their attraction?Virtue signaling? Most of it is simply conscious lying for the purpose of saving face, “pick me,” and negative reinforcement. (Read that sentence again a few times). The other good chunk may legitimately be a blind spot. Core beliefs —> Intermediary beliefs 7,483 intermediary beliefs about men, sex and relationships ... all burying (protecting) her core beliefs (which are on her self interest) and her external persona and sense of identity. It’s hard to distinguish between a conscious lie and a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionYou mean, her own observations and analysis, as an expert in this area. Not some third-party hearsay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionIdk why you say she relied on anecdotes and speculation, besides being a woman who is against her ultimate conclusions. Esther Vilar was a medical doctor who spent her life studying female sexuality and psychology. So, not sure what basis you have in trying to summarily dismiss what she has to say based on years of her life’s work. Are all female medical doctor sex therapists easily dismissed anti-feminist miserable hags? At some point, we have to call denial and minimization out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 08:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionErr, I think a female doctor specifically focused on female sexuality debunked this: https://www.naturalthinker.net/trl/texts/Vilar,Esther/The_manipulated_man.pdf “Favor men,” lol Say that to all the guys who stayed behind on the Titanic, or fought in WW1 & WW2. Sounds like someone needs to read The Power of Sexual Surrender really badly. https://www.amazon.com/Power-Sexual-Surrender-Marie-Robinson/dp/0451069218 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Explain the rise of the manosphere philosphyI was around as it was happening almost in real time. MRA started it all. MRA is the starting point. MRA was a “reaction” and “response” to feminism. MRA initially started out its existence by falling victim to late stage feminism. It didn’t really have a concrete agenda. It was just basically bitching and complaining about “social issues” and “unfairness concerning men.” Things like suicide, joblessness, less money going to social programs and medical research “for men” as compared to women. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Purple Pillers, why are you in the middle instead of Blue or Red?From my POV, and in my opinion, life is like a half-circle. You start out knowing nothing, then you learn a little bit and think you know all there is to know (the sophomore effect), and then, you realize you know nothing and set out to keep learning until the day you die. BP is the Hallmark channel and Disney, in a nutshell. Man grovels and dotes over a woman, and exchanges his commitment to be her workhorse in exchange for? Idk, because it’s certainly not a sex life. RP is, imo, an extreme “re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: What makes you lose respect for a woman?Feigning emotions as her go-to manipulation technique. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?If you would have just stopped at the first paragraph, I would have had more questions. But I think you added a new angle to this, and left me with a lot to think about. It’s definitely not the case, as many women on here have suggested, that women “know” they’re beautiful or attractive, etc. The central component of human female sexuality is desiring to be wanted and desired, by men ... so that she can feel secure in being able to attract and retain the desire of the specific man she wants. Sec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?As someone who litigates fraud cases, I explain the distinction between “fraud” (with “scienter,” intent to deceive) and a mere “lie” of “dishonesty,” alone, and “deceit” (the intent to deceive and detrimental reliance without a false statement of fact) to clients all the time. I hear you loud and clear, and maybe it’s the case law in my mind that’s throwing me off this one. Using your analysis to the hypothetical, let’s test it with another. Imagine that woman starts talking to that man at the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?No scolding or passive aggressiveness intended. And it’s not just me. Anyway, I’m guessing you don’t want to address the question. No problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Why do women have this complex where they feel they get scolded by a man every time a man just simply communicates back to them? That wasn’t me scolding you. It was challenging and testing the truth to your response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/19 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Is the fear of divorce (and all its negative repercussions) holding you back from getting married?You don’t make your wife the trustee because it’s not a valid trust for tax purposes, and, because that’s the whole point of asset protection in the event of a divorce. Also, if the trustee does anything he is not supposed to do with property that doesn’t belong to him, in addition to civil damages, it’s a crime (trust fund diversion; aka, theft). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/19 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Is the fear of divorce (and all its negative repercussions) holding you back from getting married?For as long as “you” have the authority to transfer, then a court in the US can simply order “you” to transfer what’s within your control “in another country.” If you don’t, you’re in contempt of court. If it’s in an irrevocable trust, you have no control to take the assets out or do anything. And the trustee cannot be ordered to do anything against the trust document. Nor can you be held in contempt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/19 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?That’s a very long way to say, “No.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/19 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Examples: I don’t like guys who play games. You know when a man is lying, when his lips are moving. Something was off about him, he just seemed dishonest. He seemed very sincere and honest; I liked that. I hate when you’re honest with a guy, and it just feels like he’s continuing to hide something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/19 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Is the fear of divorce (and all its negative repercussions) holding you back from getting married?A trust is an agreement. The only thing the trustee has is authority, responsibility and possession ... not ownership. The trustee cannot engage in self-dealing or gift to themselves. So, it’s not about trust. It’s about contractual entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Ty for your reply ... but: “Now, I’m not talking about what works irl. That’s not at all the point of this question. I’m only asking about a hypothetical utopia, an aspirational ideal for human behavior.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/19 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?They don’t know if they want to have sex with you just by looking at you. It’s one thing to find someone attractive aesthetically, it’s quite another to feel certain that you want to have sex with this person. The decision and desire to have sex with someone is based on more than just finding someone aesthetically attractive. So, no, that wouldn’t be honest based only on initial visual observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?The one who told her that men are afraid to approach because of MeToo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?So, overall, do you agree more with the OP of the person responding back to her on the RPW thread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Social intelligence is valued more highly > than honesty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 08:25 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?The emotional motivation to act offended by compliments, revealed ... negative reinforcement. If you like being complimented about your looks, it means you don’t receive them enough, which means you’re ugly. I don’t want to feel or believe I’m not attractive, so, I’m going to act offended when someone compliments my looks. But I need the man to initiate and escalate ... so he can make me feel like he wants me (as a patty cake partner?) ... as a sexual partner. 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?If that’s what you truly think, then do you initiate and approach men? I mean, after all, you know men are attracted to anything female that moves. He doesn’t know you’re attracted to him. So? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?In economics, “utility” is a positive benefit. So, an emotional positive benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Well, in a sense, yes. What I’m more interested in is how we put on the facade of honesty externally (both giving and expecting), but internally, we relish in and savor the illusion or fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?I was kind of hoping it wasn’t a rhetorical question, because then I’d share with you how I let my besties and wife knew in vivid detail the color, texture and viscosity of the remainders of my meal consumption for the day. But since you’ve indicated you don’t want to know, now you’ll never know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?With the Venmo example, wouldn’t it be more appreciated by men to have a woman who posts the link to her Venmo in her bio, as opposed to having a conversation, setting up a date, going on said date, and then, let’s say, the girl says, “By the way, my Venmo is ...” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Interesting. So, you don’t view the first example as hiding something or disingenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 12:33 PM |
| 2 | What would dating look like if everyone were honest with each other?He would probably get customers who would want to talk to him and maybe drop him a $100 tip to cheer him up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Are you asking me because you want to know, or was that a rhetorical question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?So, even if you wouldn’t be attracted to the honesty, you would still appreciate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Maybe. Or maybe, an economist would argue, people rationally look for ways to maximize their emotional utility. The actions may seem irrational, but they are very rationally calculated in at least attempting to maximize personal emotional utility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Social intelligence > honesty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?So, you prefer to believe the lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Well, I tried my best to remove irl emotional forces, but I see now that that’s not practical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Simple, but yet a lot to unpack. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Fair point, maybe I needed a better example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Sadly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?It would have. Exactly! And irl, that would have been a bad idea. But, can you imagine a world where people genuinely did value that kind of honesty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:26 AM |
| 1 | How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting?I’m sorry, I simply refuse to believe that 30% of single men are not having sex ... involuntarily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Not my original thought process, but I can see how that’s kind of true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:22 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Even if those comments are the truth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?None of those situations make premature ejaculation a “compliment.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:20 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?“Unnecessary oversharing” = lying by omission? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Yeah, I think men would react totally differently, irl. Money doesn’t have the same “stigma” for men as looks do for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Well, there’s “not finding pleasure in,” and then there’s “finding displeasure in.” I can still go to work, even if I find no pleasure in work ... especially if I need to work for a living. We need to interact with people on the day to day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 10:13 PM |
| 1 | How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting?So, the “disease” is ... genetic inferiority? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?I didn’t say “it depends on the context.” I just asked, “is there any context that you can think of,” where premature ejaculation is a positive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Because we know how people “feel.” We don’t know what “color” an imaginary teapot on space is. So, we can imagine hypothetical people in a controlled setting. We can also imagine a hypothetical teapot in space. And if we are given an assumed color, we can also imagine the color of that teapot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 10:08 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?I hear what you’re saying, but I wasn’t really aiming for this to be a question “about men” or “about women.” More along the lines of human nature generally. It seems that people (both men and women) value honesty very little, and only in very limited cherry picked situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Interesting. Interesting to see honesty and truth consistently rank so low in these responses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?So, the “illusion of reality.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?So, it’s the “social norms” of most people not being honest about something that makes being honest about that something “negative.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Okay, you’re personalizing this philosophical question about human nature. So, I’m just going to stop here with that. But as an aside, you don’t need to be a smoke-show to get male attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Hypotheticals don’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Is there any context where that would be a good thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?So, walking the tight rope aside, to some degree, you like “clarity of intention.” Again, not “if we click, I would totally love to fuck you” clarity of intention, but there is some degree of honesty that you like and appreciate. That’s interesting. A new spin on things. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Ok, thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Very funny, considering I’m binge watching Lucifer atm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?I hear what you’re saying. Again, we all know what happens on the day to day. But do you think it’s a general rule of human nature that we crave the lie more than honest transparency from others ... even if people are not emotionally fragile? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?For the same reason you wouldn’t participate in trying to answer my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Just conveying information to someone, that it’s objectively positive. A “quick” fox A “smart” dog A “wealthy” man A “good” athlete A “handsome” young man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?That’s one way to look at it. Valid. Limited to the effect on you, but valid. So, in the context of an argument, when Jeff communicates how he’s feeling, would you want him to not be honest if he knows that it would make feel negative or your reaction would be negative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Yes, on the day to day, this is true. Everything you’re saying is true. But assuming he has already demonstrated this in her presence without actually talking to her. Get that consideration out of the picture. You’re saying that his honesty regarding what he first noticed about her is universally not appreciated and never a positive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?That’s fascinating. I’m interested to understand what kind of behavioral or psychological assessment you presume or visualize for the same man that uttered two very different initial statements. Is “valuing honesty and transparency” a part of it, or is it for some other unrelated reason? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?That’s not what I said, but ok. You don’t need to be a 9/10 to be worth a guy’s attention or a guy liking you for who you are as a person. But believe what you want to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Yes. But the nature of “social skills” is essentially calling honesty a virtue externally, but being dishonest internally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?More of a seafoam green. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Not at all. You don’t have an opinion about human nature apart from what happens on the day to day? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Not at all. Not to bifurcate and segment people, but if you want to think of it in terms of types, there are types that can engage in social games, but don’t get pleasure from it, and types that can engage in social games, but get pleasure from it. Both can engage in social games, but one doesn’t prefer to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Maybe not actively, but it is ... by omission. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?There’s a lot of depth in what you just said. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?That’s just it. Isn’t interesting how “being honest” is “weird”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Well, first, thank you. I realize these questions are not appealing to everyone. Secondly, I hear what you’re saying. I personally wouldn’t really consider a utopia to be a place where the goal is to have sex and eliminate and friction between seeing someone you want to have sex with and having sex. That’s an extreme that I wasn’t eluding to, but more importantly, it’s an extreme. People can show appreciation towards someone and give pure compliments without necessarily wanting to have sex with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Why should it be appreciated? Because if Jeff is willing to be open and honest about things that would trigger an anticipated negative response in you towards him (i.e., he knows you wouldn’t think favorably of him), objectively, wouldn’t that make Jeff a more trustworthy person than ... say someone who is concealing what he’s thinking and exaggerating or pretending to be thinking about something else ... just because he knows the effect it’s going to have on how you see him? It’s just interesti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Because of all of the conversation that follows the initial approach??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?I disagree. I think there’s pleasure in discovering each person’s unique life experiences and perspectives. There are positives from socializing in and of itself. “Games” aren’t “necessary” for the release of dopamine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Considering a utopian ideal hopefully helps mentally remove the effect of all these other real life factors and let’s us zoom in (as people, not as men or women) into our human nature, and whether we do really appreciate transparent honesty ... or whether we actually prefer to live in a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Okay, assume you were gorgeous. Again, assume a utopian ideal world. Do you think you could ever appreciate honesty and transparency, or would you still prefer the lie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 08:57 PM |
| 0 | How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting?You think the West will see the same thing happening in Japan happen to it? What’s happening in Japan is strongly linked to video game addiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Again, not talking about what works or doesn’t irl. You want someone who hasn’t spoken to you or heard you, to walk over and talk to you about how funny he thinks you are? So, you basically want someone to lie to you ... and have that serve as the starting point of communication for the rest of the relationship. Is that because you think people will always be uncomfortable when meeting someone new in the very beginning ... so they need this comfort that the lie provides? In an “ideal” or “utopia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting?I’m not sure a statistic of people who have not had sex in the past 12 months confirms or demonstrates that those people have actually attempted to have sex with someone other than their spouse or significant other. All it confirms is that they haven’t had sex in the past 12 months. 15-20% of people are in a sexless marriage. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexless_marriage There are also sexless “relationships” https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/sexless-marriage (people who are “not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Like to play social games? I mean, would that be your version of a utopia? Where people play social games? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 08:42 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Again, not talking about irl. Purely a philosophical question. Where is the objective negative in a pure compliment? Isn’t it interesting that in this area of life, we don’t appreciate honesty and actually long for the lie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Again, irl, obviously not. But outside of real life, where is the objective negative in what’s basically a pure compliment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Make a question and ask guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Except, my example was something more general and less specific. Not, “I love your tits, and face, and legs, and ass, and stomach, and hair, and ...,” but simply, “You’re beautiful.” You think a man wouldn’t appreciate you walking up to him and simply telling him that you think he’s good looking / attractive? Especially if he also found you attractive and was interested in interacting with you further? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?I think you’re missing the point of this question. Specifically, we’re not talking about irl. We’re talking about an aspirational ideal. Flirting is flirting. We’re just talking about the very first initial approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Do you agree that a woman who lives by herself and enjoys life without seeking a relationship is viewed as strong and empowered, while a man in the same situation is seen as a loser? If yes, why?Umm, no? There’s no automatic judgment regarding either one. Now, when they’re 50+, that’s a different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Do most marriages fail because balancing everything is just difficult?Better to secure ... not just better to have I hear what you’re saying. I didn’t suggest staying together unhappy. If anything, I implied that two unhappy people would naturally drift apart and eventually go their separate ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?Funny enough, I don’t actually put much weight on what the manosphere has to say about this, because 98% of men have no money. So, their complaints are basically tainted by the “I’m angry and upset that this makes me feel threatened and inadequate” bias (similar to how women get upset when men look at actually attractive women ... not women who are only attractive to other women, but women who are universally considered attractive by nearly all men) My method is: Studies testing “revealed” (hone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?8% find a man “making a lot of money,” absolutely essential, whereas 57-64% (depending on age, income level, race, education), find it desirable. So, more than two thirds of all women either desire or find it absolutely essential that a man makes a lot of money. The remaining ~33% did not “state” desiring a man who “made a lot of money.” Why is gold digger a bad or negative term? That’s what women are into, clearly, second only to maybe penis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 07:41 PM |
| 9 | Neoreactionary men: Why should women accept the patriarchy?To quote from “The Power of Sexual Surrender” (Marie N. Robinson, M.D.): “It is this trait [aggression] that most clearly defines him, and it is this trait that is at the root of the [] woman’s anger, fear of and feeling of rejection by men. She is antagonistic to this aggression because she does not understand it. Since she cannot understand or accept her own role, her feminine nature, she feels that male aggression is opposed to her and she takes every opportunity to prove to herself that this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Do most marriages fail because balancing everything is just difficult?The only thing that comes “naturally” is wanting to relax, do nothing, and eat whenever and whatever we want. But we make an effort in every other aspect of our lives. It’s sad if the only aspect of our lives we don’t make a conscious effort is with our significant other, our life partner. We force ourselves to do it until it becomes a habit and “natural.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Do most marriages fail because balancing everything is just difficult?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?No. Again. It was demonstrated that women are 1,000 times more sensitive than men to the effect of money (pure money, not “nice stuff”) in terms of the attraction they feel towards the opposite sex. Further, I proved that more than 1 in 13 women consider it absolutely essential for a man to make a lot of money, and more than 1 in 2 women desire a man who makes a lot of money. This is specifically distinguished from merely a stable income. 8% + 60.5% (i.e., (57 + 64)/2) = more than two thirds of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 03:24 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?I have. Whether you want to admit it to yourself or not is not issue determinative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 03:00 PM |
| 2 | "Women Are Wonderful" Affect and Men Who Have No AgencyMale version of “the Patriarchy” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 02:48 PM |
| 6 | Do most marriages fail because balancing everything is just difficult?Live within your means. Better to secure a family with two parents who are there for their children 15+ years from now, than to try to chase emulating a higher class lifestyle (even if it’s just for the kids). Forget the “better” house with the “better” car, and find comfort and security in the “sufficient” house and “sufficient” car. That will take away much of the stress and anxiety. Next, after bills and kids, your partner should be the next in line priority. If you neglect your friends, your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Contrapoints asks, what kind of masculine identity can exist? The answer is the same as always, Masculinity is only a luxury for the rich. This is ironic given what feminism was supposed to be fighting for.I once has to go to a meeting. Out came this man from an electrical utility closet. Maybe an apprentice or journeyman electrician. Not ridiculously buff, but in very good shape. Very attractive neck, collar bone, traps, jaw line, skin, eyes, hair. Now, I can appreciate a good looking man. And I thought to myself, “If I was a woman, I think my vagina would get wet and tingle,” just by him walking outside that utility closet and looking at me. That guy was masculine, and clearly, it had nothing to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?Outraged? Your level of self-importance and ego defense mechanisms are just entertaining. I said all that needed to be said. Your defensiveness was just the icing on my cake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Is Sexual Liberation a facade?Bigger question ... “inner peace” from what? Why is there some “void” that needs to be filled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Do men understand that almost every woman has been sexually assaulted?Sure, women are going to presuppose that any contact was not only intentional, but specifically intended for the purpose of sexually gratifying the actor. You know, like Jim Acosta trying to hold onto the microphone. https://lawandcrime.com/legal-analysis/no-cnns-jim-acosta-did-not-criminally-assault-a-white-house-intern/amp/ But “even so,” assuming even that for the sake of argument, it’s not “sexual assault.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Do men understand that almost every woman has been sexually assaulted?That may still be a “crime,” but that crime’s name is “forcible touching.” https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/laws/PEN/130.52?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app But women don’t run around saying, “I don’t think men have any idea that most women are subjected to forcible touching.” Instead, they run around saying, “I don’t think men have any idea that almost or nearly ALL WOMEN have been the victim of sexual assault AT LEAST ONCE in their life!!!” No ... they haven’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | It's hypocritical for women to complain about "muh porn/Instagram/Snapchat addiction" when it's the sexual liberation that WOMEN pushed for which makes a sufficient number of women available who are willing to perform in porn in the first place.Yeah, that I agree. That’s “cherry picking” the best of both worlds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 02:18 AM |
| 5 | It's hypocritical for women to complain about "muh porn/Instagram/Snapchat addiction" when it's the sexual liberation that WOMEN pushed for which makes a sufficient number of women available who are willing to perform in porn in the first place.I’m following what you’re saying 100%, but I’m not disagreeing for the sake of disagreeing. Woman X is no doubt the beneficiary of the women of the 1970s, 1980s and 1990s. But I have a feeling you’re talking about women who were “born” in 1989+. These women didn’t really take a stance and contribute to what’s going on today. They’re just the passive beneficiaries of the actions of women who came before them. As a result of “those women” (1970s to 1990s “adult” women), men are also the passive th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with starfish, ie maintenance sex?I’m guessing your partner isn’t a ventriloquist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 01:06 AM |
| 11 | It's hypocritical for women to complain about "muh porn/Instagram/Snapchat addiction" when it's the sexual liberation that WOMEN pushed for which makes a sufficient number of women available who are willing to perform in porn in the first place.So, you’re holding X woman accountable for the actions of ABC group of women starting in the 1970s? That’s like black people who harbor animosity towards “white” immigrants from Eastern Europe because they’re “white,” and “white people” in America did bad things to “black people.” I’m not saying “get over it.” But like, it’s not hypocritical. The women of today didn’t exactly lead the sexual revolution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 12:57 AM |
| 6 | How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting?A “maximum” of 28% of “all” men report not having sex in the past 12 months. The bulk of that comes from men ages 18-21. Those men aren’t likely “divorced” or in a “sexless marriage.” That’s probably the largest candidate group for “incels.” Other guys have their own stories. In the middle of or just got out of a divorce. In a sexless marriage. Religious and waiting. Can have sex, but just picky or holding onto some minimum baseline standards. A quarter of all men (much less all 18-21 year old m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 12:28 AM |
| 5 | How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting?The sad irony of life, man. Tell your sons lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 12:19 AM |
| 5 | So what is y'all experience with Stacey?Not as bad as people make it out to be. One of them was actually named Stacey lol. These are the ones with either a big ego or most flaky/emotionally detached. acting/theater major, Greek/Peruvian. 10/10 undiscovered talent face. 8.5-9 body. Complicated character. No games. Very warm and physically affectionate. Almost always happy and smiling. Very easy going, no real arguments. She just liked to party. She was a little addicted to social media and attention. I liked her mom (personality wise, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 12:09 AM |
| 2 | How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting?I wrote what I can during my breaks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.Exactly, and we’re not even there yet on that. And then you have cartoons and memes from feminists mocking or criticizing situations where men get custody of a child ... you know, because since the history of divorce, men in America have historically had automatic child custody (sarcasm emphasized). All of family law is just living in the 1500s, and that law is governing the social and legal relationships of people in 2019+. That’s really what the issue is. The law no longer reflects the realiti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 09:33 PM |
| 8 | How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting?If someone was an “incel,” no, obviously I wouldn’t say the same thing. But was this question written with the assumption that most people are incels? No, obviously, if someone has a learning disability or no hands or legs, you’re not going to tell them how disappointed you are in them for not getting an athletic or academic scholarship, etc. Totally different standards and advice. But most guys are not “incels.” So, idk why that’s a concern on an otherwise neutral question. Also, what does any … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 09:24 PM |
| 5 | How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting?O.o, I never heard that before. Then again, I don’t follow Kanye West. Have to add that to the list, next to, “Fuck bitches, get money,” and “Just because you got good hair, you think you gonna be livin’ it up?” That extreme is true, but how frequently do we all think that happens? Zero sex involuntarily? Not as often as people here make it out to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?I mean, considering I pay the bills, I’m still curious to hear what I don’t know about how important money is. “Because wealth is more tied to your abilities/efforts/personality than your looks.” Whereas, for women, it’s apparently not. And for men, who work 70 hours a week, wealth apparently means they don’t work as hard as Donald Trump. Maybe they need some more “executive time.” Wealth apparently means that a neurosurgeon’s abilities are less than Mark Zuckerberg’s or Steve Jobs’. Wealth appa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.Those are my only trades, skills. For everything else, there’s Westlaw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 07:14 PM |
| 24 | How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting?Yeah, never got to the point of having “pussy affluenza.” That’s like the top 0.5% of men. I only had sex with two girls in high school. In my four years in college, I only had sex with seven girls. After college, when I graduated (but before I started law school), I had sex with six girls in one year (and that considering that I don’t have “casual sex,” I need to be “in a relationship” with someone to feel comfortable having sex). Then I met my wife, and that was the end of my sex life (jk jk).… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.I used to focus on financial fraud cases, securities fraud, spouses or fathers concealing assets and income, business divorces. Now I’m mostly of counsel on all sorts of cases, PI, Ins. Coverage, Civil RICO, and large construction projects. 2-3 big clients and 2-3 big law firms keep me comfortably busy. I’m not a subject matter expert. I’m a skills guy. Someone wants me to research, write and argue a brief, or handle an oral argument, or give opening/closing statements or cross a specific witnes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.No way. Zero tolerance for either here in NY. Are there really opposing counsel lawyers that throw around sexual overtones your way? That’s just sad ... for lawyers (in terms of respect for bar and profession). I mean, I’ve had sexual tension with one lawyer I had an appeal with. But that was mutual, and she started it, and she was older, and I was just doing the favor of playing along for fun. Other than that, no way. Don’t shit where you eat. Plus, idk, I like seeing more women litigate. I’ve … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?If you say so. It’s a much smaller leap than, “most men are criminals and/or dangerous.” The fact remains, more than 1 in 2 women desire men who not only have a “stable income,” but “make a lot of money.” And more than 1 in 13 women find it “absolutely essential” that a man “makes a lot of money.” Additionally, compared to men, women are 1,000 times more sensitive to the effects of salary with respect to the attraction they feel towards the opposite sex. Baptize it “gold-digger” or “Bob,” those … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Deleting social media is one of the worst TRP adviceI disagree. Granted, I’m 33 now. But back in college, when I had “Facebook,” before Instagram and Snapchat became a thing, you had two options as a guy: (a) shirtless pictures (which you knew would be on the internet forever thanks to Google), or (b) stream of updates on where you were going, clothed pictures of you at social events and parties, being tagged, people commenting on your status or pictures, etc. By senior year in college, I deleted my Facebook and focused exclusively on LinkedIn. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 05:30 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?No, dear. When “steady income” was clearly distinguished from “makes a lot of money,” 57-64% of women (regardless of age, education, race, or income level themselves) confirmed that they found “makes a lot of money” (again, clearly distinguished from “steady income,” and part of the same study) desirable, and 8% of women said it was “absolutely essential.” “Makes a lot of money,” was whatever value those women wanted to assign it to mean, but more than a “steady income.” So, literally, a majorit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.I litigate as well, so I feel you 100%. Respect for women who are litigators. My apologies in advance for men who talk to you raw and “disrespectfully” over the phone or email (in a non-sexual way). That’s how men talk to one another and “keep it real and emotionally authentic.” So, it’s just how we show respect to one another, like saying, “I respect you enough to be real and emotionally authentic with you.” A lot of female litigators I deal with crazy glue their “professional roleplay” hat on,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.It’s so funny you said that. Someone in the gym asked me what I do, and I was like, “I read and write, A LOT,” and they’re like, “OMG, don’t say you’re a book publisher!” I wish I still had time to read books. I like to grab and finish a book in one sitting. So, unless I have a full weekend day, I usually don’t read anything but practice reference books 📚 now days. Anyway, so nice seeing a fellow lawyer on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 04:21 PM |
| 2 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?What do you mean by that? I’m not in your brain. Idk what you mean by that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 04:19 PM |
| 2 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Except it’s not. It’s over with respect to the immutable traits, not the mutable traits. Otherwise, if I was 6’5”, instead of 5’10”, you think I could just sit on my ass and rely on my face (which God knows how fat it would be if body didn’t matter) and my white/European skin tone and race? What, I would walk into a bar and be like, “Bitch, look at my face, and skin, yeah I’m white, oh and ... (whispers) 6’5”) and you think I would have the same or more success (with an average body, average dre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.It depends which state you’re in. In a nutshell, some states follow the California rule: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moore_v._Regents_of_the_University_of_California (human body parts, tissues, cells and generic materials or sequences are not property, tangible, intangible or intellectual, and therefore, cannot be lawfully sold, purchased, rented, licensed, copyrighted, patented, etc.) Other states follow the Illinois rule, which holds that “some” parts of the body are “so far removed” from … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 04:12 PM |
| 3 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?????? What do you mean “there are no quality women left”? What happened to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 04:04 PM |
| 2 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Face, race and height are important, but you can’t change those things. Of the things you can change, respectfully, don’t deny the substantial positive effect those things have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eisenstadt_v._Baird And yes, we have state level cases on cryogenically preserved pre-zygotes. These cases are interesting, because the development is arrested or suspended and the generic materials are both outside the control of the man and woman. It’s as close to a pure test case as one could hope for on this issue. “Family court” judges are then left to wrestle with the question of whether a woman should be able to obtain a court order ordering the storage fac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 04:01 PM |
| 5 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.Well, in Intermediate Macro, we learned about the “silent tax.” The government can either increase the tax rate on the same tax base, or it can keep the same tax rate and simply increase the tax base. To the government, it makes no difference. To businesses and individuals, it makes a big difference. And since businesses have the power in the labor market, the cost of such decisions flows down to individuals in the form of higher prices (increased demand for goods and services) less purchasing p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 03:48 PM |
| 2 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?“Goals”? “Guarantee”? Here’s what I tell my clients. “There are no guarantees.” Death is the only guarantee, and only as a medical matter. https://www.theguardian.com/world/2018/mar/16/romanian-court-tells-man-he-is-not-alive Even taxes are not guaranteed. You can have an enormous tax bill at the time of death, but if the assets were gifted to others 3 years prior to death, tough luck Mr. tax man. Nothing is guaranteed. These things don’t help “a little bit.” They help a lot. Athletes fight toot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 03:41 PM |
| 12 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.Lawyer to lawyer, I don’t think we need dicta. If we wanted to, we are already there with 14th Amendment case law. Liberty and privacy interests are “fundamental rights.” So, strict scrutiny, not intermediate scrutiny. Government must prove a “compelling” government interest that “overrides” the individual’s protected fundamental right to liberty or privacy. The right of a man to simply be free from “imposed parental status” is day and night a different analysis than a woman’s right to “terminat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?I’m not into fat acceptance. I have sympathy for people “struggling with their weight,” but that’s as sympathetic and nice as I’ll be, especially now that their life choices and weight end up costing me more money in health insurance premiums.. So, I’m basically “rewarded” with $175 for going to the gym at least 6 months a year, but penalized by more than $175 a year in additional premiums because fucking 30% of the population is obese or overweight. I hear you 100% on that. No excuses for men o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?57-64% ... “makes a lot of money” (specifically distinguished from ... “steady income”). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?So, you mean 20-21? Well, if you’re in better shape than me, then you should be drowning in pussy. What are you complaining about, then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 02:06 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?“Higher financial status” based on stated “income.” https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/8531056/ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886915005462 .. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S109051381730315X “We found that ratings of attractiveness were around 1000 times more sensitive to salary for females rating males, compared to males rating females.” “ For female images, the same 10-fold salary increase would improve attractiveness by a score of 0.47 points (y … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?I mean, if you want to call sexual dimorphism an excuse, sure. Same caloric intake and exercise, women will have a higher body fat percentage than men. What age range are you talking about, then? 15-17? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 01:41 PM |
| 0 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Women are “fat” because they have higher estrogen, which leads to less muscle mass (lower BMR) and higher subcutaneous fat (less dense and thermogenic than visceral “brown” fat) storage. Take the average woman in her 30s and the average man in his 30s. Do a five year study. Have the woman just go about her life. Have the man get in shape physically and financially. Then, take them speed dating (sample size 40). Of the sample size of 40: 10% rated 9.5 or higher 20% rated 9 or higher 30% rated 8 o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?I gave you links. You’re using laziness to read as your excuse? “People like nice things” as your excuse? The studies were about stated “income.” Pure money. Numbers on paper and the attraction effect they had on women. Go back and read instead of trying hard to justify your ignorance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Does being Chad help empathize with women?• “sexually aggressive” - were they upset that you weren’t initiating? Or also the sex not being rough enough? (Both. I was never much of an initiator. My first sexual experience was with a girl literally nicknamed “doorknob.” Her name was Maria, she had a really cute face and bone structure. She just initiated everything, and I was nervous because it was my first time, so I couldn’t even get off. Afterwards, most other girls I’ve been with were usually the ones to initiate. I only started init… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 01:14 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?The woman who does not read has no advantage over the woman who cannot read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 12:51 PM |
| 6 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.Parental rights “don’t exist” before the child is born. Child support liability “doesn’t exist” before parental rights exist. Birth —> parental status —> prenatal liability What “creates” parental status for men is not conception, nor choice, not consent, but merely “biological affinity,” determined “presumptively” through a “genetic marker” (DNA) test. http://www.nbcnews.com/id/7024930/ns/health-sexual_health/t/sperm-gift-keeps-giving/ What always struck me as fascinating was Justice Ginsburg’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 12:50 PM |
| 38 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.It can also be where the man doesn’t have to do anything. Parental rights “don’t exist” before the child is born. Child support liability “doesn’t exist” before parental rights exist. Birth —> parental status —> prenatal liability What “creates” parental status for men is not conception, nor choice, not consent, but merely “biological affinity,” determined “presumptively” through a “genetic marker” (DNA) test. http://www.nbcnews.com/id/7024930/ns/health-sexual_health/t/sperm-gift-keeps-giving/ W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Do men understand that almost every woman has been sexually assaulted?Jeez, I didn’t realize public transportation was so dangerous and so many women were disfigured or threatened with a deadly weapon: https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/laws/PEN/130.95 The crime of “assault” is the tort of “battery.” For example, “assaulting” an officer doesn’t mean groping an officer. It means punching, taking out a knife 🔪 or gun and attempting to kill or seriously injure an officer. Sexual “assault,” for women not just looking for victim “woe to me sympathize with me and/or f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 11:27 AM |
| 0 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?My mistake. Keep doing what’s working for you. And tell your sons to do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Does being Chad help empathize with women?This isn’t so bad. Caffeine, so that might be making you jittery, especially if you have adrenal fatigue from anything else during the day/week. Then, Citrulline Malate, you can feel that down your arms the first week you’re taking it (but then the sensation goes away). It’s just a vasodilator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 11:14 AM |
| 0 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?You know what, you’re right. Don’t hit the gym. Don’t watch what you eat. Don’t have an active lifestyle. Don’t worry about how you dress. And don’t worry about money. It’s what’s on the inside that counts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Does being Chad help empathize with women?Lol. It’s pre-workout. https://shop.jackedfactory.com/products/altius | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 01:13 AM |
| 0 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Umm, you shot yourself in the foot there and can’t back peddle out of that one. Security would be Cost > Return, “overkill.” So, the strong rod, the juicy bait. Just in case, better safe than sorry. The underground bunker. ROI would be Return > Cost. The “sufficient” rod and lure. The $200 pump action shot gun, in the “very unlikely chance.” So, not sure if we’re having a genuine discussion at this point, or you just want to feel a certain way. As far as my wife go, 11 years and counting: https:… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Does being Chad help empathize with women?Lmao 🤣 @ the last part. Idk what it was called. It was a clear liquid. Had to keep it in the refrigerator. Used the small syringes 💉. Basically, it shut off the drainage valves of the penis and opened up the blood supply valves of the penis. It involuntarily caused the penis to fill up with blood and unable to drain the blood (at the same or greater rate than blood inflow). So, the result was an involuntary election. Arousal or not (I like Cialis, which still needed an arousal signal from the br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 11:24 PM |
| 0 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?I disagree. Security is important. If you don’t have a solid foundation and BATNA, that’s when you start compromising and conceding. At 33, we know the difference between shits and giggle flirting and when it’s time to cut things off because it’s getting to no no territory. You can stick to what you said. Maybe we just have very different experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Does being Chad help empathize with women?Northern Lights and Sour Diesel, it’s possible it was maybe laced. The risks we take when we do drugs and don’t grow our own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?You don’t do it for the ROI. You do it for security. I’m married. My wife and I are free to flirt and get attention from other people. No sex, just flirting. I still flirt with women. I love to flirt. Why? It’s clearly not the sex. I’m not taking it there with these women. It’s the security of know that “if you wanted to, you could.” That completely changes the dynamic of your relationship, as well as every other aspect of your life. That’s hands down better than sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Does being Chad help empathize with women?No. I never “spun plates.” But being good looking obviously helps a guy empathize with women, if he cares to. The three things that helped me empathize with women are: getting over approach anxiety before you even develop approach anxiety, and learn to enjoy flirting just for the sake of flirting. You don’t need to “spin plates” to have options. The anxiety that men feel when they’re dating a “extremely” beautiful woman 9.5+ is, “If I fuck things up, how am I going to work up the courage to appr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 10:23 PM |
| 2 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?I guess more people need to voice their complaints to the Bureau of Reproductive Equality. It takes A LOT for men to take a “tasteful” (even if the photography is otherwise amazing) shirtless selfie that won’t make a girl feel negative about herself for swiping right. That’s not the case for girls, but that’s because men don’t negatively judge themselves for being interested in a girl that’s sexually advertising herself (as often as girls negatively judge themselves for being interested in a guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Lol 😂 that’s hilarious, “I don’t want to give it traffic.” I linked it for the video. I couldn’t find that video anywhere else. Used to be on YouTube, but I guess it’s not anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 09:50 PM |
| 1 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Oh. I see what you mean now. Yes, family flow-down is wealth is very important. I felt that in high school. You were who your parents were. And our parents were who their kids were. If you don’t come from wealth, there’s no way you’re getting a home in New York City or North shore Long Island, or the Hamptons, or “decent” MC parts of California. You can’t save enough by your 40s to put a downpayment on a home and afford a child. It’s got to the point where is cost prohibitive unless you come fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Sadly, race matters a lot. I didn’t realize how much animosity there was towards white guys because of all the Latina and Asian?? girls who apparently want to be with someone “white.” I was never really attracted to either, but sadly, yes, race is a big factor. Height, once you fall below 5’9”, it starts being a problem. Once you’re above 6’, there’s a noticeable bonus, but it’s not as drastic or determinative as people make it out to be. Face, yes, facial structure, symmetry, jaw line, cheek bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 09:46 PM |
| 3 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?But if you care about how “physically attractive” your partner is in addition to all her other qualities, then it doesn’t hurt to hit the gym and watch what you eat too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 09:37 PM |
| 2 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Apparently not. And yes, it’s that easy. They just don’t want to put in the effort. It’s easier to make excuses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 09:35 PM |
| 0 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?In a county like Brazil, you feel that. In places like NY, you don’t really feel that as much, unless you’re MC- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Shirtless selfies, unless you take them well and tastefully, disqualify you to A LOT of women. They automatically think, “this guy isn’t serious or mature, just wants sex, etc.” It’s a choice and a tightrope as a guy. Same thing for women, but a lot less men on Tinder are going to harshly judge women for sexing themselves up compared to how many women will negatively judge a guy for a shirtless selfie. All that aside, not all of dating is stacked against men. Men aren’t the ones taking “pole dan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 09:34 PM |
| 3 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Sometimes, I used to contemplate men giving ugly women pity sex or pity attention. Just to boost their self esteem. And then I though, Men should do that. “Men” (in the general abstract), but that didn’t include me. I would like the world to be that way, just as long as I wasn’t the one helping it be that way. I mean, “I” didn’t personally want to bite that bullet. But it would be “nice” if we could make the bottom tier of women feel better about themselves. Women don’t care. Given a choice, wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 09:11 PM |
| 2 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Go into a bar IRL. Get off OLD. Women who don’t diet and hit the gym don’t have anything on women who do. Maybe they do for guys who don’t give a shit one way or another. But, if you’ve busted for ass 6-7 days a week to be where you are on the totem pole, I’m sorry, a girl can take her emotional clit stroking and enjoy it with another guy. Make a “dating site” with no pictures, height, weight and verified income and net worth stats, and then let’s discuss how “Men outperform women on OLD.” When … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 09:06 PM |
| 0 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?“Why” are the attractive guys not getting laid? Is it because they “can’t,” or “don’t want to”? Have they tried a few girls two levels below them and failed? Or, are they just picky, or socially shy? “Who” are the fat slobs fucking? Apples 🍎 and oranges 🍊. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 08:59 PM |
| 3 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Making it your life’s mission? Going to the gym, eating healthy, being active, dressing well, making an above average amount of money ... are these things that constitute “making it your life’s mission ... to appeal to women”? Guess what, it’s your life mission to do a lot of things. Having enough money in the bank to make rent, your mortgage payments, payroll, etc., is one of them. Being healthy and not having avoidable heart surgery in your 40s or 50s is probably not immature. Neither is dress… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 08:57 PM |
| 9 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Men who aren’t lazy, which is apparently less than 20% of all heterosexual men? Give a fuck about what you eat. Give a fuck about hitting the gym every day and being reasonably active. Give a fuck about how you dress. Give a fuck about where you spend your time and making some money. Boom, you’re already in the top 20% easily. 80% of guys just sit there all like, “Oh, a woman will just love me for my personality ... preferably a cute and attractive women ... oh, and she has to be a virgin, and c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Oh. That much is clear, https://legalinsurrection.com/2015/07/college-sex-contracts-life-imitates-parody/ That’s a topic for another day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Workplaces is a different animal. If people start talking about “consent” in the context of “talking” to women for the “first time,” you have to wonder 🧐 how the fuck are these guys approaching women where “consent” becomes an issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you know your partner's N count?She was uncomfortably interested. To the point where it had me a bit concerned. She wanted to know their names, how long we went out, how we met, why we broke up, and any and all crazy stories in between ... my boring ass was thirsty for excitement and playing with fire 🔥 when I was younger ... so, she was just interested in the crazy stories after a while. But sometimes, she would think that I was comparing her to an ex, and I was like, umm ... you’re the one who asked me. It’s not like I broug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 07:23 PM |
| 13 | Is female attraction to male height about physical power or is it just directly height.It’s what they call an evolutionary “runoff,” like beards. The peacock 🦚 can’t fly, and the very traits that females find attractive and select for are the traits that make them more vulnerable to predators. With men, beards were highly correlated with social status and ability to provide. A man with a full beard 🧔 usually had high testosterone from battle or physical labor, or from age (which was itself an indicator of wealth and status to be able to live to an old age). With respect to height,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with starfish, ie maintenance sex?Meh, maybe that’s true, maybe it’s not. On the off chance that it’s not, there it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you know your partner's N count?What do you mean, “similar intention”? Similar to what you described for yourself, or like, she was expecting me to do the same and ask her about her history? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?“Collective harassment” 🙄 Fancy way of expecting to hear, “I’m sorry ... for being a man?” 🥺 Anyway, I hear you. So, based on your relatively recent first hand personal experience, you don’t think the point the responder was making is actually consistent with reality? My last experience was 11 years ago. So, back in my time 🗿🏰📽💾, I never really had the negative 👎 experiences that guy or girl??? was describing. But, given that kids eat Tide pods now days, idk how it is with the recent/younger gen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Do you know your partner's N count?I never cared about any of my partners’ n-counts. The only person who really cared was my wife. She kept asking me about my exes and past relationships when we first started going out. It got to the point where I had to make a timeline and pretty much itemize them like it was some kind of CSI episode. Even then, I still didn’t ask her about hers. Honestly, because I didn’t care. Not that I didn’t care about her, I just didn’t care about her past relationships. But she volunteered the info anyway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Well, I don’t want to assume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 04:35 PM |
| 2 | "Masculine" vs. "feminine" compliments--would you take offense?The nature of language is that it’s just a series of anchors that trigger different emotional memories and associations for different people. Cold Dark Argument Yelling Aggressive All mean different things to different people. We may have a socially agreed upon definition, but even the same word has multiple definitions, and even then, the “meaning” of the “use” of that word can be broader or narrower (or even unrelated to) the dictionary definition of that word. That’s the nature of communicati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?I can pretend to cry 😢 if that’s working for you. “Oh baby, it’s like you rubbed onions on my face.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 04:04 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with starfish, ie maintenance sex?Why not? If someone wants opinions and different experiences in response to their question, there it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Like I said, rub as hard as and for as long as you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Whatever you need to believe and feel. Glad you enjoyed yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 03:51 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with starfish, ie maintenance sex?O.o Presupposing anger? really? What are we, 12? Yes, I’m also creating my own hunger by refusing to eat SPAM or a candy bar. I’m sorry, but that’s not acceptable food. And if that’s what my “exclusive food vendor” thinks is ever acceptable, then it’s time to find another food vendor to give exclusive rights to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Girls are starting to notice me and chase me.A lot of things to unpack in your post, but I’m really glad you posted. First, I’ve been cheated on. I was infatuated with this girl. I was 21-22, she was 19. I was looking at Tiffany’s rings for her. I offered her to move into my place. I wanted to marry her, and I was completely against marriage. Totally not thinking straight for this girl. And then, she cheated on me, and then wanted to break things off because I wasn’t “aggressive enough” for her sexually (which was and is 100% true, I’m ver… | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?No rush. Relax and get back to it whenever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Well, I hope you at least used a good amount of lube when typing that out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 03:14 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with starfish, ie maintenance sex?Men are entitled to have preferences and place conditions on sex, just as much as women are. It’s the one singular thing men want. So, between men and women, if anyone gets to insist on conditions to the sex they want, it’s men. Otherwise, we can all be roommates and friends. It only takes a toxic 1% to grow into a toxic 10%, and 30%, and 60%, and 95%. That’s how that works. That’s like a doctor saying, “Come on, you’re being a bit picky here, aren’t you? Only 10% of your body has a bacterial in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Fair. Fair enough. I guess I don’t understand your value system, then. I can definitely appreciate and respect diffident value systems. I just don’t understand which one yours is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?That’s okay. Still not sure whether everything you’ve said has been based on recent personal first hand experience. So, that makes two of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Go-to kino?Courtesy of my uncle, “Sometimes you have to go slow to go fast.” “The longest road is the quickest way home.” Mark Twain. I’m personally a big believer in intentionally frustratingly slow kino. But, you do what works for you. I’m just sharing a different perspective. My go-to moves are: The Palm Reader: I’ll lead into palm reading, and start off serious. Then, I’ll observe something about the palm lines and make a joke, like, “The mark of the Glory Hole; Apollo’s Three Way; the Milky Shake, it … | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?I agree with you. And by that same reasoning, money spent on an escort can be better spent on yourself. That is a “minimum,” not a “standard.” Like I said, you can do way better if you simply limit your time and effort to responding to clear invitations to approach only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 02:12 PM |
| 4 | How to ask for nudes?I’ve never asked for nudes in my life. One girl I was seeing created 3-4 videos for me where she was doing “something,” idk what you would call it. Strip teasing or contorting herself on the bed and trying to look sexy. I never even bothered to look through all of the videos she sent me or play them in full or more than once. But I appreciated the gesture. When we broke up, she asked me to delete them, and I did. Why? Because I’m thinking about you assholes out there who ruin these modern expres… | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 02:09 PM |
| 9 | According to a recent study, people who use Emoji's are more likely to get laid.🍆💦🔥🤣👌🏼 | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Why? A balanced BP/RP neutral pure mathematical truth about a French man approaching random young and thin women on a sidewalk and his statistical success rate is not purple pill enough? 7%. You have a 7% chance at completely blind approaches. If That’s too low for you, then just watch out for signals and invitations to approach, and only act on those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?🤦♂️ really? You would seriously hire an escort instead of approaching 20 different women? You realize they’ve done studies on this in France, where men in a totally shit car approached random young women, and still had her accept a date 7% of the time (compared to 23% of the time with an €80k car). All else constant and equal, a complete random shot in the dark with zero game has a 7% chance of sticking. And you would rather pay for an escort? Come on. When you control for things like approachi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Back up. Your opinion, is that based on your personal first-hand experience, or not? That was my question. If people want to go on a rant about expressing their desires about how men should operate or behave, be my guest. Express away. But that wasn’t really what I was asking about. If people want to masturbate and rub their emotional clit by creating an online persona where they are trying to reframe “merely being spoken to in public” as “criminal harassment” ... (i.e., woe to me, it’s so annoy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?Then you haven’t read all the links I laid out for you. That’s your issue, not mine. Believe what you choose to believe. The facts and reality don’t change just because you want to continue to deny it for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 01:00 PM |
| 4 | What's wrong with starfish, ie maintenance sex?I mean, if that’s the case ... Then women should be totally fine with: A man not wanting to be in a LTR Not wanting to get married Not wanting to have children Saying “yeah, I love you” with a lazy exhale Not putting in any effort into expressing his feelings Remembering her birthday, anniversary and Valentine’s day ... because Siri reminded him Taking her word on it quite literally and just getting her a card for special occasions going 50/50 when they go out and maybe rinsing out a dish once i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?So, in your experience, you believe the OP or the responder in that linked thread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 11:14 AM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?Actually click on the multiple peer-reviewed scientific journal links provided and read them. “Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored.” Aldous Huxley | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Yes yes, we get it, you want men to approach. Are you under 30 and still single? Are you talking from recent first hand experience, or just expressing how you feel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 04:02 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid being seen as the spender/providerLmao 🤣 I’m not laughing at you. I’m laughing at the common and redundant issue. I am the same exact way. When I graduated, I was working as a public accountant for a Big4. I was probably the only guy who landed a job, let alone at the Big4, right out of college. It would be my pleasure to host and treat my group of friends. That’s just how I am. I don’t think about the dollars and cents. I don’t keep score. When it comes to women, don’t think about it the way you’ve been saying. It has nothing t… | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Yeah, but then it gets into the flip side of the: “Do I risk having sex with him and then it turning out that he was just using me, or do I risk making a good guy feel like a loser and unwanted and lose interest and leave anyway?” As a man, are you gonna “Not approach a woman that could most likely be open to and welcoming of a man who is transparent and honest, because you don’t want to take the risk that she’s a drama queen who overreacts so she can masturbate emotionally and enjoy negative at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?I’ve been out of the dating game for 11+ years. So, I wouldn’t know how things are now. Back when I was in it, though, I remember women appreciating and welcoming a man who walked over, approached her, and was transparent and honest with his intentions, even if it was just sex (for as long as he wasn’t pushy or objectively disrespectful). You always ran into a drama queen, where anything male or sex related was “disrespectful” (according to “her”). Which is okay, because that wasn’t according to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?Going to search on NCBI for this later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?Environmental factors affecting desired sexual frequency among men and women, and the resulting effects on self image. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:59 PM |
| 2 | What accounts for the amount of single mothers in society and how do we fix it?State level “biological affinity” basis for paternity and child support liability. If parenthood is based on more than biological affinity alone, and instead, upon a contractual promise and agreement creating a third-party benefit towards a child, you would see a lot less single mothers. Simple economics, you take away the sugar subsidies, it’s no longer economically feasible for farmers to grow sugar. You take away the housing subsidies, it’s no longer economically feasible for developers to bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?What would it be about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Sexual unavailability in LTR partnerWhen I was 15, my parents and my brother left for like 6-8 hours. Oh man, I must have jerked off 10-11 times that day. At some point, nothing was coming out. A blood vessel popped and my penis turned into a baseball ⚾️ made of flesh and blood. I ran it under cold water, and it subsided 1-2 days later. Last time I ever did that. By the time I went to college, I was maybe interested in sex 1-2 times a week. By the time I finished college, maybe once a week. After working for a few years, again, my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?Yup, now let’s write a book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?The gap is what matters. Small gaps, small conflict, talking and understanding can help. But when one person needs it 2-3 times a day to not feel depressed or negative, and one person can’t bear to have it more than once a month without feeling used and negative, all that therapy and talking is just wasted money and time that they could both be spending developing and strengthening a relationship with someone more compatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Sexual unavailability in LTR partnerDude, 2-3 times a day is too much even for me, and I’m a guy. I’m a content camper with once a week. My wife needs it 2-3 times a week to not feel negative or down. At 2-3 times a week, I’m flying. I’m tackling and dominating work and life. Beyond that, and I just don’t think we can find the time (and we don’t even have kids yet). I mean, that definitely sucks. But you also have to appreciate that that kind of interest in sex is very high and difficult for most people (let alone women) to keep u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?Working on it is hard. People need to feel more comfortable parting ways when they realize they’re incompatible in that department ... and just figure that out sooner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?That’s something people should figure out before they commit to one another for the long run | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?Oh yeah. For men born with low testosterone or being asexual from the get go, it’s definitely depressing. They used to chemically castrate homosexual or bisexual men prior to the 1960s. Within two years, most of these men would commit suicide. That much is true. Long term, if I had to go through that for like 10+ years, I would probably be on that boat too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?I think so. It was way more difficult for my wife than it was for me. Not saying it was “easy” for me. I fell into a depression. But I knew it wasn’t my fault. It was an accident and physical trauma. It is what it is. Can’t rewind and reverse time. It was like learning to live without legs for a while. For my wife, it was difficult to understand it. She took it very personally. I felt “incapable” ... because of an accident. She felt “inadequate” ... despite me being a man and her being a woman. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?“Especially” just for sex lol 😆 Oh the irony. It’s men who care about more than just sex who end up placing a particular woman on a pedestal ... and never end up approaching “out of respect” ... oh the rationalization the brain will think up of | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?Yeah, that’s another story for guys. I’ve been through that following my car accident. But I think it’s somehow easier for men to cope with. It’s relatively easier to feel not virile as a man than inadequate as a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?What age range of men of women are you referring to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?Yes, that’s a very important topic. Very common and a lot of women don’t come forward to talk about it. Everyone falls within a bell 🔔 curve. Definitely doesn’t mean anything negative about the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:03 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?There are no “gold-diggers,” just women who are good at suppressing and denying, and women who don’t bother. That’s what the science confirms time and time again, for women. But at least we know which one you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Did wokeness of women about men cause the divorce rape epidemic? Will wokeness of men about women cause more bad relationships in the future too?Men are simply delaying getting married (by like ... 10 years), or simply not getting married at all. Many couples are not simply becoming “domestic partners,” then having a child together, and the higher earning non-spouse gets to file as “Head of Household,” while the lower earning spouse still gets to enjoy a “Single” tax status. Even for people who “are” getting “married,” more and more men are insisting on a prenuptial agreement, and taking advantage of DAPTs “prior” to getting married in o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Is ignorance really bliss?Ignorance is bliss. “Μακάρι πτωχοί τον πνεύματιν” Jesus Christ Transliteration: happy poor those intelligence Translation: happy are those who are lacking in intelligence But then again, he also said sum bullshit like: “Πίστευε και μην έρευνα” Transliteration: believe and not investigate Translation: believe and do not question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Omg, that reminds me of an article my brother sent me of this guy who spent over $30,000 on IMVU (as a female character), roleplaying as a woman, to have cybersex with men, and have men pay him or gift him digital goods ... all so he could dress up his avatar/character and jerk off to it. I’m also watching Mindhunters season 2 with my wife, so I’m just waiting for the episode where this dude and the RP guys pretending to be women get their cameo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?I just am still in shock till this day. I was actually starting to kind of like the guy. He wanted to get in shape, I was giving him advice. He had some legal questions which I helped him on. All the while, he was emotionally destroying my wife. Anyway, yeah, the truth is, not to white knight or anything like that, but most men hate men like that with a burning passion. We restrain ourselves to avoid going to jail, because if we do, they win and our SO and we lose. But believe me, there is nothi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:43 AM |
| 4 | Is porn these days an accurate representation of women's sexual behaviour and desires?He was “and still is” a character. Just left the hospital from open heart surgery (was in the hospital for 3 weeks). Doctors told him to take 3 months to fully recover. First week he’s out, he goes fishing (and not some freshwater finesse fishing with a 10lbs test line; saltwater fishing for mahi mahi and tuna). My brother texted me the Rocky Russian boxer meme: “If he does, he dies.” My dad has always been raw and hardcore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Yeah, I thought that sounded like a guy. But then, I swear I read other recent posts by the same username saying that “she”?? was married to “her” husband?? So, I got confused whether it was a guy or girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:15 AM |
| 4 | Is porn these days an accurate representation of women's sexual behaviour and desires?Like I said, insecure small dick fucks. It’s “men” like that who ruin and punish good women. Here this girl was looking to place the perceived needs of her partner ahead of her own and think and care about him as a man ... and this narrow-minded unappreciative fuck thinks I don’t even know what the fuck that thought process looks like ... blows my mind away. Sometimes, I swear, even I don’t understand men ... and I’m a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:12 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?My wife didn’t tell me for 3 years. She broke down in one night. She just came home and started crying. If he would have done that in front of me, I would have spat on his face and dared him to lift a finger and give me a reason to “defend” myself. My wife was out of work for 2-3 months. But we were fine, thankfully. He definitely broke her emotionally. What upset me the most is that she felt like she had to hide it from me and couldn’t tell me for three years. She thought I wouldn’t believe her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:09 AM |
| 6 | Is porn these days an accurate representation of women's sexual behaviour and desires?Don’t listen to those insecure small dick fucks. A woman who is willing to put in the effort > a woman who expects a guy to just enjoy McDonald’s every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Good point. I’ve been thinking a lot lately how important it is to think about socioeconomic status and race when considering what people online say about dating. It’s day and night between UMC white people and LMC white people. I can only imagine how inaccurate it would be for MC black or Hispanic guys or girls to take UMC white guy or girl advice (or vice versa). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Considering that almost everyone I’ve dated “approached” me first (I asked them out in terms of exchanging numbers and setting up a date), but they “approached” me first. So, definitely know that life is on a Bell 🔔 curve, and there are people all over the place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 01:44 AM |
| 7 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Very nice. Genuinely happy for you. My wife got sexually harassed for almost 3 years by her boss. She only told me when she got fired for refusing to meet up with him late at night in the office (given that he had lowered her compensation a week prior for her saying, “No” to his question of, “What is sex? You and I can have sex. It’s not some big deal, right?” in front of a customer and co-worker). She had texts of him sending her links to PornHub videos and telling her he wanted to do that to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 01:41 AM |
| 5 | Is porn these days an accurate representation of women's sexual behaviour and desires?There is no way you are being serious. I disagree with a lot of things my father told me through the years, but one thing I agree with him on is, “If a woman doesn’t fake it for you, then she doesn’t really give a fuck about you as a man.” A lot to unpack in that statement, but with respect to your question, there’s a general awareness among both men and women that porn is fake and a performance art (like erotic dance ... its erotic “acting”). Obviously the women aren’t enjoying themselves. Even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 01:31 AM |
| 8 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?For example, they genuinely believe that there is some “special relationship” he has with the woman he’s harassing. He seriously believes they have some kind of emotional connection, or that the sexual interest is mutual, and that he’s being invited to continue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 01:09 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Yeah, guys who sexually harass are usually socially autistic or delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?I’m guessing larping means posing as. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 08:37 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime?Apparently, this thinking is coming from the womansphere on RPW, from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | What does this plain women's experiences on Tinder (r/dataisbeautiful) show about the modern SMP?You’re presupposing that all men want sex very badly, that these men have some large demand waiting to be satiated. Or that everyone is comfortable with casual sex. I can assure you, that while some do, most don’t. When you’ve had sex in high school and college, you get it out of your system by college the latest. When you take away the social/emotional desire for sex, the biological desire is so negligible it’s not even worth masturbating for. Yes, it’s fun feeling wanted and desired, but peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: why do you think women don’t care about n count?Whether women “care” or have some other fantasy reasoning, rationalization or justification isn’t relevant. The fact is, the majority of women don’t care. So, who cares what less than half of women care about? Secondly, want a man to stay? Make a calendar and track how often you guys have sex, and do a quarterly review of how sexually satisfied he is in the marriage. “Virginity” and “loyalty” have nothing to do with it. People leave because they’re not happy. Men leave because they’re not happy.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 04:33 PM |
| 1 | What does this plain women's experiences on Tinder (r/dataisbeautiful) show about the modern SMP?It’s not at all that simple. You’re hated by most other guys. All women assume you’re a player. And you don’t have a dating pool of 4s through 10s, more like 7s through 9.5s, and the 7s & 8s feel too insecure so they don’t even open themselves up to the possibility and would rather be defensive to avoid getting hurt. There’s no free lunch. Everything has costs and benefits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?Anecdotes? Sure, if you consider entire industries catering to the female desire to get with rich men “anecdotal.” https://i.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/010/692/19789999.jpg “Higher financial status” based on stated “income.” https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/8531056/ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886915005462 .. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S109051381730315X “We found that ratings of attractiveness were around 1000 times more sensitiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 11:44 AM |
| 0 | What does this plain women's experiences on Tinder (r/dataisbeautiful) show about the modern SMP?Weird flex, but ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 12:08 AM |
| 1 | 'Blue Pillers' use shaming language more often and to a greater extent than Red Pill leaning peopleIf you never wanted it, if you truly never wanted a child or child support liability for the next 21 years of your life, yes, it is. Also, birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 12:07 AM |
| 2 | 'Blue Pillers' use shaming language more often and to a greater extent than Red Pill leaning peopleNot reading “safe haven” is poor reading comprehension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | What does this plain women's experiences on Tinder (r/dataisbeautiful) show about the modern SMP?I’m 33, but my mechanic friend is 28. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 11:23 PM |
| 3 | 'Blue Pillers' use shaming language more often and to a greater extent than Red Pill leaning peopleBPs, liberals and feminists using shaming tactics against men who don’t conform to pro-female dating norms? Say it isn’t so! Personally, I think RPs, conservatives and the deeply religious use insults and shaming just as often as BPs, liberals and feminists. Cuck, libtard, where is your morality, I pray for you, of course you love your husband ... he looks like a strong and independent lesbian, etc. At every step of the way, women, beta males, and “male feminists,” are looking to justify, ration… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 11:21 PM |
| 2 | What does this plain women's experiences on Tinder (r/dataisbeautiful) show about the modern SMP?I’m not a big believer in that. 1% of men is A LOT of men. I get that face is important. I get it and admit that much. But I know from personal experience, my face aside, I didn’t start doing really well until I had a nice body. My mechanic friend, his face is average, and he’s balding, and he’s short. He used to be chubby. Now that he’s getting in good shape, he’s getting Tinder matches and conversations every week, he’s getting dates 2-3 times a month. It’s not genetics. It’s effort. “It’s gen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 10:54 PM |
| 6 | What does this plain women's experiences on Tinder (r/dataisbeautiful) show about the modern SMP?99th percentile is not as amazing as people make it out to be. That’s 1 in 100. Over 13,000 swipes, that’s 130 men. So, to say you’re in the top 1% means you’re 1 of at least 130 other guys more or less just like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 09:45 PM |
| 5 | What does this plain women's experiences on Tinder (r/dataisbeautiful) show about the modern SMP?She had literally just “one” (1) man out of over a hundred that agreed with her to the extent that she had what she labeled as a “long-term relationship”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 09:43 PM |
| 5 | What does this plain women's experiences on Tinder (r/dataisbeautiful) show about the modern SMP?You’re assuming that the onepercent that she selected is identical to the onepercent that represents the top 1% of all men on tinder. Just appreciate that that is what you are assuming. We don’t know whether the value of the partner that accepted her is with in the top 1% of all men on tinder; we only know that it was within her selection of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 09:39 PM |
| 2 | What does this plain women's experiences on Tinder (r/dataisbeautiful) show about the modern SMP?Ugh, this fucking male catastrophic negative thinking is so fucking toxic and detached from reality. Also, this line of thinking is the same line of thinking I run into with my bipolar clients going through a manic episode and looking to sell their real estate. “Look at all these listings and how much their asking price is for. Take the average, and that’s how much my house is worth.” No you fucking manic moron! There’s a big difference between asking price (i.e., the minimum a seller feels comf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 09:22 PM |
| 1 | N-Count Cannot Be MeaninglessSo, that’s a, “No, I can’t say she would have behaved the same way but for poverty.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 07:48 PM |
| 33 | Discussion: Research finds that women do not prefer "nice" guys; in fact they prefer "bullies" and psychopathsIn a related story: water, wet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Getting women is easy !https://imgflip.com/i/433g9 | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?So his needs are only acceptable for as long as they compliment how you want to feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 04:30 PM |
| 1 | N-Count Cannot Be MeaninglessDo you think she would have behaved the same way “but for” her circumstances of poverty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 03:29 PM |
| 2 | N-Count Cannot Be MeaninglessYeah, that issue is poverty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 01:04 AM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?No; what do you think of it, not of the fact that men have a sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 11:08 PM |
| 0 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?Your answer is your own interpretation of my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 10:15 PM |
| 2 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?Thank you for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 09:52 PM |
| 0 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?How did you used to think your SO thought about sex compared to how you thought about sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 08:14 PM |
| 6 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?Thanks for sharing. Yes, this is a common source of shame among women, who feel like they’re in some unicorn minority of having a higher sex drive than their husband. Then they start thinking, why, what’s wrong with me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 08:11 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?What do you think is driving him to desire sexual intimacy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?Not encouraging anyone to upvote. Not even encouraging them to downvote. Literally saying they can express themselves however they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 08:06 PM |
| 5 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?There’s no “gotcha.” Just curious to hear what everyone has to say, however you interpret the question. Free association. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | You shouldn't go to X, or you shouldn't do Y just to meet Women!Ah, I see what you mean. I guess I don’t really know any guys, first hand, who have such tremendous social anxiety that they avoid public places. And then, of course, I wouldn’t actually “see” any of those guys, because, well, they wouldn’t be there to begin with lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 07:27 PM |
| 1 | You shouldn't go to X, or you shouldn't do Y just to meet Women!“it doesn't hurt to buy something you would have got online at a store now and then.” r/woosh Not sure I follow that analogy of metaphor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 06:06 PM |
| 5 | N-Count Cannot Be MeaninglessI think a lot of people have problems bifurcating. The brain is an association machine. But just because we use induction to reason doesn’t mean that our conclusions are deductively true, or that our assumed (cause) —> (effect) relationship is true. A 32 year old virgin gives a guy a blowjob. She now has herpes. A 28 year old virgin has sex with her husband on her wedding night. She didn’t really feel like it, but she’s married now, and those are her marital duties. Plus, it’s sort of what peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 05:59 PM |
| 0 | You shouldn't go to X, or you shouldn't do Y just to meet Women!Exactly. If it happens fluidly as you’re just going about your day, that’s one thing. But I’m sure we all see guys all the time that are going out of their way to “hit on” or “cold approach” a girl, and it’s very uncomfortable and cringy just watching it unfold as a third party observer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 05:11 PM |
| 4 | You shouldn't go to X, or you shouldn't do Y just to meet Women!Idk about the comment about the Reddit population. My best friend from law school, a former model, lives on Reddit. He has no Facebook, no other social media, just Reddit. Same thing with me. Reddit is a place where people actually exchange ideas, not just pictures of their food or babies. Plus, “Funny starts on Reddit”TM Anyway, all the “attractive” guys I know, myself included, don’t “hit on” women. I’ll flirt, for the fuck of it, because I like to flirt. But I never do it with the goal of hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - I don't know how to title this but it involves pictures vs dance videosThe photos for who? White women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 02:22 AM |
| 1 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesThe woman is not physically or legally “compelled” to “involuntarily” assume the role of mother and child support liability for the next 21 years. That’s just a fact. “Morally” is not a physical or legal compulsion. Nothing is actually or factually preventing her (“scientifically, under the laws of the universe, physics, time and space”) from leaving the child at a safe haven . So, you can feel free to avoid and deny, but that truth is there for everyone else to read when attributing weight to y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - I don't know how to title this but it involves pictures vs dance videosI’m white and not even into Asian girls, but the white girls were beyond rating in this question, except for Iggy, so I guess it’s the first pic for Q5 on the white girls. Everything else, I’m sorry, instant boner kill all around for the white girl samples selected. Surprisingly enough, I could actually look at the Asian girls. Q1: photo Q2: photo 1 Q3: I prefer “cute” over “sexy,” but I think those definitions hold different meanings to different people. To some people, “cute” is PG-13, practic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 01:39 AM |
| 1 | How did you beat the “you’re too young for me” shit test?I want to say, if you want to get fluid in this, just go to law school, come out and get into litigation, and take a lot of depositions and do a lot of cross examinations and oral arguments on motions and on appeal. But always glad to help. | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesSo, that’s a, “No.” Nobody is “forcing” women to become a mother and involuntarily assume child support liability for 21 years. She has the legal and physical ability and freedom to not become a mother and unilaterally divest herself of any and all child support liability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | In my experience, women tend to show interest after I have shown interest in them. Why is that?You’re conflating and confusing two different things. What you’re referring to is women in a club/bar setting that don’t want to be approached unless they show interest to a guy first and nonverbally signal him to try and get him to come over and talk to her. On the other hand, when you’re already talking and you have some kind of rapport, that’s when women start testing. That’s the power struggle and negotiation phase of the relationship. So, women want to see that the man is so moved and enamo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Is there Gender disparity in dating?Is the wage gap between men and women real? ... The ketogenic diet is not the same thing as a low carb diet or the Atkins diet. This is how the ketogenic diet works. Blah blah blah. This is how the Atkin’s diet works. Blah blah blah. Here is the difference between Leto and low carb. Blah blah blah. In conclusion, Keto is very different than Atkins and low carb. References: Blah Blah Blah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesIs anyone forcing the woman to be a mother and financially support a child for the next 21 years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 10:36 PM |
| 2 | HB9 Med-student FWB: monster sexting shit test.... Or did I just fuck up?In the context you described, I would have said, “I’m not really into that style of role play. Give me a heads up when you’re looking to transition like that.” Her breaking frame, and you responding: “Sorry, I’m not really in the mood anymore. It’s getting kind of late anyway. I’m gonna call it a night.” Her keeping frame, and you responding: “Umm, okay then. Mission accomplished, boner gone. It’s getting kind of late anyway. I’m gonna call it a night.” The punishment is the distance and no comm… | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman a lot younger than you?Idk for sure, because I haven’t lived two lives; I’ve only lived my life. But I would assume, based on evolutionary psychology regarding male beards, male socioeconomic status, etc., it definitely didn’t use to be the case. Now days, a lot of women almost see it as an insult to themselves to be dating a substantially older man. It makes them feel like a gold digger. It makes them feel like they can’t easily attract a guy around her age that’s just as (or more) good looking, and that all the good… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | “A Museum isn’t a date try harder”I would basically just hang out with her on a probationary basis after that. Guys usually try harder? Excuse me? And girls usually suck my dick by this point, but I’m not going to say that shit to you! You don’t like it, leave. Go back to those other guys. The fucking arrogance. Anyway, she did something incredibly difficult, which was swallowing her pride and reaching back out to you. If for nothing else, you have to respect that. Again, probation. You can contact her back and plan out a “date”… | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Why am I getting no Tinder matches? (Pictures provided)Get rid of selfies in the mirror. Get rid of that picture of you sitting on the log. You come across as slightly feminine from body language and your jaw. So, don’t overcompensate. Use it and work with it. Go for the artist vibe. Take a picture of you performing to a crowd from behind you to give the views a your POV experience. Take some pictures with a few other people in the pictures and your eyes not looking directly at the camera. | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I know if I'm being kept as a beta male orbiter by a class mate?Live and learn. Put some dirt on it and keep moving, soldier. | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 06:08 PM |
| 2 | HB9 Med-student FWB: monster sexting shit test.... Or did I just fuck up?If you do plan on talking to her again, I would slip in: Dr. Her Name, MD, F.A.C.M.E., Board Certified Cockologist. I think you need to stop beating yourself up over it. It’s like timed chess or jujitsu. You make a bad move in the moment, it is what it is. You step back, pause, reflect on what you did and how it could have been better, and know better for next time. I think you pushed too hard, and she tried communicating that to you in a way that also made her feel (as a woman) that she was mai… | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 06:04 PM |
| 1 | How do I know if I'm being kept as a beta male orbiter by a class mate?Based on the info provided ... have you had sex with her yet? If yes, then you’re not an orbiter. If no, then you’re an orbiter. The end. | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | l need a witty reply to use when girls say I remind them of Clark Kent (Superman's alter ego).“Well at least it’s not Prince Charming. So tired of hearing that. Because I’m not Prince Charming. Because I’m Superman.” | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 05:32 PM |
| 4 | How did you beat the “you’re too young for me” shit test?“You —> are too old for —> me.” Response: “Why, how old are you?” Now the focus is on how old she is. You didn’t bring up age, she did. We can go as far down as she wants with this. How many more years until you can retire? Did you get your AARP card yet? What if your gerontologist says it’s okay? Can I get your number ... in case I have any questions about Medicare Part B? “You can’t handle me.” Response: “I think you’re being too hard on yourself. You don’t look like you weigh that much.” “Sor… | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Girl I like is being fickle - what’s the best way to play this? (Please read)Not worth pursuing. Move on. | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 04:44 PM |
| 0 | Going out with a sexually conservative girl, but I feel that I am being led onShe’s being sexually dishonest. This is known as the “hold out” tactic, tale as old as time, first codified in “The Rules.” Do you really want to build a relationship with someone who has been dishonest with you from the beginning? Also, how is she making you feel? Can you really ever “trust” the intimacy that you will have in the future? So, what the hell are you still doing in this situation? She’s shown you both who she is and how much she respects you ... OR she’s show you that you too are c… | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 04:41 PM |
| 3 | WTF is BluepillDisney and the Hallmark channel; also most Hollywood films and most television programs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman a lot younger than you?Date? Only very casually, practically as just friends. Just for company and sex. Would I be open to more? Sure, but youth is youth. Unlikely that someone 10+ years younger will stick around for the long haul. So, you can have some casual fun together and enjoy each other’s company, but don’t expect to find someone who is interested in more than just sex and a fun time 100% on your dime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesOnce again, step outside the limited universe where conception only happens through unprotected penis in vagina sex. A condom will not protect a man against a case where: a condom breaks a blowjob that somehow leads to pregnancy a handjob that somehow leads to pregnancy sleeping that somehow leads to pregnancy cryogenically preserving sperm that somehow leads to pregnancy It absolutely matters what happens afterwards. That’s like saying, “it doesn’t matter what happens after the woman is inside … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Has the "holding off sex" method ever worked on you?Understood. This is the point where we say that there are two Americas. Over on that side of the playground, what you’re saying is 100% valid, and I respect that. On this side of the playground, where “pregnancy” is not really a “risk” for a woman so much as it is for a man, for as long as a man is wearing a condom, everyone is being safe, and the woman has no personal/moral reservations about taking a plan B in case of an accidental pregnancy, sex is not this grand CIA Top Secret Clearance thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 11:50 PM |
| 5 | Has the "holding off sex" method ever worked on you?There we go with the inevitable morally self-righteous r/gatekeeping BS regarding sex. Apparently people who don’t conform to your rules don’t “take sex seriously.” Thanks for sharing your opinion. Someone whose desire and interest to engage in an activity is stronger than their self-imposed artificial inhibition (justified by “morality,” and other circle-jerk self-masturbatory beliefs and rationalizations) is clearly MORE sexually interested than the person whose desire and interest to engage i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Do men and women just have completely opposite attitudes towards sex? (for some aspects)Seen as worse, yes; objectively worse, no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Has the "holding off sex" method ever worked on you?Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 02:36 PM |
| 12 | Has the "holding off sex" method ever worked on you?... and other fairy tales for adults, Volume I (Greatest Hits). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Has ghosting become more prevalent in our society, or am I just noticing it more?No lol. (1) I’ve never spun plates in my life; mostly because I’m bad at mentally multitasking like that, and (2) there was instant and powerful sexual chemistry with the second girl; time literally felt like it stopped - I felt “infatuation” for the first time in my life. Definitely wasn’t kink shaming the first girl. We spent over an hour talking about it before we went there, and we were there for like 3-4 hours. Just because it’s not my thing doesn’t mean that I judged her. I don’t get it or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 02:26 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men are divided between people who need good looking lovers and people who can allow other factors to compensate for imperfectionsPart of that is true, but part of that is false. I know from personal experience, when I was in the best shape of my life, I wasn’t even interested in having sex ... but I was still very sexual, because my sexual pleasure came from being a sexual object, and “giving” my partner sex. When I was in law school and put on some weight and hit the gym less often, I didn’t feel so good about myself, and “defensively” (because I didn’t want to confront how not good I felt about myself), I “wasn’t intere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 01:17 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men are divided between people who need good looking lovers and people who can allow other factors to compensate for imperfectionsI’ve had the starfish sex experience once, and it was with an aesthetically average girl. Granted, she was Indian and from a sexually conservative culture. All the 8+ women I’ve had sex with had a high sex drive, were enthusiastic, dressed up and coaxed me to be aroused and in the mood to have sex leading up to sex, and then even dressed up and turned me on further during sex. Some of them talked dirty. But all of them made an effort. Never really been with a good looking girl who didn’t make an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 12:50 PM |
| 1 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesAs a man, he trusts the other person he is having sex with to do the right thing and also consider his life and his input on things that would affect both of them ... you know, the same way a woman trusts a man to not rape her if she chooses to go up to his apartment with him alone. But the fact remains, without deflecting to what the guy can do ... that the woman has the choice ... she allows herself to obtain access to a man’s sperm not necessarily through consensual unprotected sex, and now, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Are men unable to conceal their thirst or do they simply not care enough to do so?Idk about it being so much about women “knowing ... that’s all their good for.” But, you’re onto something in the sense that it absolutely speaks to her own inner world of fears and insecurities ... and her default defense mechanism of projection and projective identification (and to some degree, negative reinforcement). For some women, what drives that thought process is fear and insecurity over being seen “by men” as nothing more than just sex. But for some women, what drives that thought proc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Has ghosting become more prevalent in our society, or am I just noticing it more?Oh, no, I fucked up. I asked her out. We had hookah and had a great convo for 3+ hours. Then, she mentioned BDSM, dominance and submission. I wasn’t really a dom or part of that lifestyle at all, but I could tell she was a sub and curious about that lifestyle. So, since we where in Manhattan, I said, “Have you heard about Paddles?” She had not. I only knew about it from a documentary on TV. So, I told her, we could go right after we were done eating. She was excited and down for that. So we went… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 12:03 PM |
| 2 | The problem of induction: How do we know AWALT and that unicorns don't exist?All I know is that all men have a Y chromosome, smh. (hashtag) AMALT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Would you care less about a woman's N-count if you knew you were getting her sexual best?Don’t give a shit about a woman’s n-count either way. Obviously, you would always prefer to be getting someone at their sexual best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Has the "holding off sex" method ever worked on you?I love how it presents these modern issues about celebrities, corporate branding, duplicity between public persona and actual motives and personality ... in a raw slapstick way, but all without taking itself too seriously, and then sprinkling some comedy here and there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Has the "holding off sex" method ever worked on you?I’ll help you, non-sarcastically. “I only prefer to date men who are over 6 feet tall.” Does that mean that she dates multiple men simultaneously, or that she dates one man at a time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Has ghosting become more prevalent in our society, or am I just noticing it more?I’ve done it twice in my life, once intentionally and once unintentionally. I was set up on a blind date. From the first 2-3 seconds, I knew I was going to ghost this person. But, I had to be a gentleman. Went through the whole date. Went through all the motions. I even paid the cheque on full without a second thought about it. She was very enthusiastic and happy, and had my cell, unfortunately. I gave her a polite political goodbye and goodnight. And that was it. She texted me back the same nig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Has the "holding off sex" method ever worked on you?I can. There is “we” plural, and the royal, “we.” It’s the Internet, not an appellate brief to the US Supreme Court. People speak casually and informally here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Has the "holding off sex" method ever worked on you?Well, we’ll have to wait and see what he meant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Has the "holding off sex" method ever worked on you?Oh, you need to watch the Boys. Anyway, one is Superman, the other is basically evil Superman (but pretending to be good Superman). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Has the "holding off sex" method ever worked on you?Maybe, but I don’t think he said anything aggressively or to be snide. You’re assuming he would continue to date and have sex with other women ... after a girl has shown him that she’s really into him sexually and that she’s not playing the hold out game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Has the "holding off sex" method ever worked on you?How those women see themselves versus how they are: https://www.reddit.com/r/memes/comments/ct4ddm/niceas_the_ceremonial_word_has_been_set_by_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Has the "holding off sex" method ever worked on you?Question didn’t ask to “prove that strategy wrong.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Are men unable to conceal their thirst or do they simply not care enough to do so?I’m sorry. That sounds awful. I know my mechanic friend, he went through a period, post-breakup, where it was almost a year since he even spoke to anyone else (his ex cheated on him and he caught her ... not live, but over her phone). Even so, if anything, he went into “respectfully asexual” mode with new women. Between guys, however, that was a different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 05:32 PM |
| 8 | Do men and women just have completely opposite attitudes towards sex? (for some aspects)First, men don’t get emotional pleasure from negative attention and playing the perpetual victim. So, right off the bat, major difference between men and women. Secondly, apples and oranges. The way most women express sexual attention towards men is very different from how most men express sexual attention towards women. I don’t mean verbally and soft bullshit like that. For example, I was at club Liquid in Las Vegas. I was in the pool, alone, just having a drink. This group of girls comes up to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Women's looks and their sexual performance (especially for men under 25)Modern problems require modern solutions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Women's looks and their sexual performance (especially for men under 25)Hands down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 04:19 PM |
| 0 | When you hear the phrase "Good personality" regarding men and attractiveness...Absolutely. There are soldiers, NBA players, portfolio managers, surgeons, etc. who are funnier, more interesting and more engaging than others. Which ones do you want on your team? The more genetically gifted, physically fitter, and more functionally intelligent ones ... or the ones that are clearly funnier, more interesting and more engaging? I definitely know which ones got picked first at gym class, or in college, or at the bar ... and it wasn’t the funnier, more interesting or more engaging… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 04:17 PM |
| 6 | Are men unable to conceal their thirst or do they simply not care enough to do so?Take your female gaze horse-blinders off. Emphasis on the why women think men “catcall.” Why do you think men catcall? Also, a man acting hypersexual or thirty doesn’t necessarily mean that a man is being sleazy. That’s hyperbole that’s just trying to dismiss understanding that point. Men want sex =/= men only want sex and nothing else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 01:46 PM |
| 8 | Are men unable to conceal their thirst or do they simply not care enough to do so?“Conceal” their thirst? Damn, women are totally fucking clueless about what it’s like to be a man. Women lie by feigning high emotionality and understating facts. Men lie by feigning NO emotionality and exaggerating facts. Idk why you or women think men “catcall”, but there’s a very good reason why “catcalling” isn’t a crime (or even even a $10 violation). Society as a whole doesn’t give a fuck about punishing people all because others want to feign high emotionality to feel like perpetual victi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 01:09 PM |
| 1 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesThe woman has a choice. Not wanting to and not being able to are two very different things. If you don’t think so, then men who don’t want to use condoms also don’t have a choice. The woman also has a choice she can live with (if she cannot live with the thought of abortion, plan b, or leaving a resulting child at a safe haven) ... not having sex with a man who will not agree in writing to financially support any resulting biological child. Except, she wants to allow a situation where she has a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 12:28 PM |
| 1 | When you hear the phrase "Good personality" regarding men and attractiveness...I think it means he’s attractive, has good earning potential, is actually already making good money, or has a big dick and fucks well. “Good personality” is a female euphemism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Do men really make the first move, as is often claimed? As far as I can tell, women show their interest in a man and men pick up on the obvious signalsSave brain cells, this is not a debate. Women make the first move. The end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 12:13 PM |
| 1 | When men cheat and when women cheatYes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 10:54 PM |
| 7 | Question (mostly) for red-pill men: How many girls have you "pumped and dumped" in your life and how do you feel about having done so? Have your male friends also used this tactic? Is "pumping and dumping" a strategy that some men simply *have to* use if they want frequent sex with new partners?O.o? Is that how you’re trying to redefine “pump and dump”? Pump and dump is literally having sex for a few times and then dumping the girl. It’s more of a female fear and insecurity than a male “tactic.” Women are afraid to “be” pumped and dumped. Men aren’t out there looking “to” pump and dump. Men are out there just looking to have sex. Hurting people’s feelings is not on the agenda or menu. Lying is lying. Has nothing to do with “pumping and dumping.” Again, more evidence that the “tone” of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 10:18 PM |
| 5 | When men cheat and when women cheatThis is so factually inaccurate. I don’t even associate with my uncle, because he cheated on his mistress (while he was married) with yet another mistress. I keep my distance from clients who I know cheat on their wife. I’ve never had a guy in my social circle cheat on his wife, but, if it happened, I don’t think he would be part of the circle anymore. Had a guy friend in high school who cheated on his girlfriend. I stopped talking to him. The guys from the soccer team stopped talking to him. He… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Renaming some of the cringiest mansphere phrasesI think they’re made as intentionally cringy as possible, because that’s how guys speak: busting my balls he’s a jerk off go fuck yourself Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 09:58 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Is It Worse When a Woman Doesn't Realize You Want Sex When You Do, Or When She Assumes You Do When you Don't?Very interesting question, depending on “when” or “in what context.” When you’re dating someone and things are getting obviously intimate, and you’re back at someone’s place ... and she doesn’t realize you want to do something, even though you do, then that’s more bothersome than her assuming I want to do something when I don’t. If she assumes I want to do something when I don’t, then what’s the worst case? I get her off and explain it has nothing to do with her and that I’m just not in the mood… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Why are guys expected to be optimistic in dating but women are suppose to be sleptical?Understood. “Marriage” is not a necessary pre-requisite to “being with someone forever.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/19302732/ https://akademiai.com/doi/abs/10.1556/JEP.12.2014.1.1 http://www.richmendatingsites.net https://babe.net/2017/08/25/if-a-guy-doesnt-pay-on-the-first-date-you-should-ghost-him-11980 https://www.bolde.com/dont-care-old-fashioned-think-guy-pay-first-date/ https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/a58ctr/if_a_guy_doesnt_pay_on_the_first_few_dates_it_s_a/ The thing about “revealed preferences” is that they reveal much more than “stated preferen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Most of the men of the current manosphere have poor character and that is the main contributor to their lack of success in the SMP/RMPI agree with your premise, that most men have poor character (myself included), but I disagree with your conclusion. It’s so funny, because I was talking with my wife about this in the shower the other day. My wife straight up told me, when she met me, she was not attracted to me because if my personality. If anything, she was concerned and kind of iffy and still feeling me out in terms of personality. The only thing that made her interested in me when we first met was my face, shoulders, and ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Doesn't the average man LTR every girl that has sex with him? Isn't that kinda lame?Is this a genuine question or venting? From the time I was 15-21, I “dated” 18 girls, and “slept / was in a relationship with” 15. Then, at 22, I met my wife. I was never into casual sex, FWB or ONS situations. Obviously, we all know guys who are, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Just because people are different doesn’t mean we are better than them or they are better than us. It’s just a different mentality. That’s fine. The reason I was never into casual sex, FWB or ONS is because of my fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Paternity tests should legally trump birth certificatesNo. Rich guy is the biological father. But this broke man was acting like the child’s father for 12 years. So, now, the mother is “estopped” from claiming that the rich man is the child’s actual biological father. So, child has to grow up with a poor father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Why are guys expected to be optimistic in dating but women are suppose to be sleptical?What caused that? Did you not encounter other men before you got married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 10:55 AM |
| 1 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesI’m a casual Redditor. It’s not that I don’t care about you or have anything against you. But I don’t have enough time in the day to look through everyone’s post history. But I believe you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 10:48 AM |
| 1 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesA woman who is opposed to abortion can use Plan B, or drop the child off to a safe haven (unilaterally, without the man’s consent and without informing him). Doing so absolves of of any and all child support liability. Just FYI. RP blames the woman ... because, what gives her the right ... without first knowing for a fact that the man consents to having his sperm used to create a child and bring life into this world (to bring life into this world) and separately, to look to him for a 50% subsidy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 10:47 AM |
| 2 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesWe can’t talk about men being “trapped” without talking about the law. https://www.theguardian.com/science/2018/nov/24/sperm-donor-man-who-fathered-200-children https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yXY28nnxuh8 https://www.huffpost.com/entry/desmond-hatchett-30-kids_n_1528850/amp https://www.wvlt.tv/home/headlines/45871127.html The law is obviously outdated: https://www.uakron.edu/dotAsset/726694.pdf The entire basis of the moral obligation doctrine, later codified in the Elizabethan Poor Laws of 1601 a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 04:01 AM |
| 1 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesSo that people aren’t homeless, the state allows people to safely leave their homes destroyed by dynamite and move into an identical “save haven” home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 03:45 AM |
| 1 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesThis whole discussion was motivated by simply wanting to state that the “pullout method” is not a legitimate form of contraception? Agreed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 03:44 AM |
| 1 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesIf you say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 03:40 AM |
| 1 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesHow many scientists did it take to create conception? How many doctors and nurses does it take to perform a conception? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 03:40 AM |
| 3 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesSo is the observation of abortion and plan b, and creating plan b and performing a safe abortion. Hence, plan b and abortion > science than mere observation of conception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 02:51 AM |
| 2 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesMe: “Assume we are talking about a case where the wall is black.” You: “Invalid. How do we know the wall is in fact black? What if it’s just a shade of grey? How old is the supposedly black paint?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 02:50 AM |
| 2 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesLike I said, you can’t consider science in a vacuum. In nature, with no laws, science alone doesn’t “trap” men. You get pregnant, it’s your problem and your problem alone (and again, only if you want it to be your problem). You are free to throw the baby off a cliff, or just leave it there and walk away. That’s pure science, in isolation. The whole issue of “trapping” a man ONLY arises when we consider the laws and social “rules” of society and relationships between people, not “science in a vac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 02:49 AM |
| 5 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesIs not. YOU are the property owner (the woman). That’s who YOU are in the analogy. The dynamite manufacture has somehow, intentionally, accidentally, or maybe even you as the homeowner has taken a stick of dynamite and placed it in your home. It doesn’t matter, apparently. What we’re saying is, we can be aware (as the homeowner) that the fuse is lit 🔥, and avoid simply pouring water on the fuse during the first 72 hours, and not lawfully cutting off the fuse for the first 90 days ... and then tu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 02:45 AM |
| 3 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesAgain, let me extract your eggs and hit you with 130 child support petitions, and then come talk to me in good faith and with a straight face how it’s not harm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 02:42 AM |
| 3 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesIf a woman wants to have sexual intercourse, what’s her risk of that consensual encounter resulting in unwanted child support liability? If a man wants to have sexual intercourse, what’s his risk if that consensual encounter resulting in unwanted child support liability? Where does that risk come from? Not nature. Not sperm. Not eggs. Not science. It comes from the law. The whole issue of “trapping” isn’t even an issue “unless” you consider and discuss the law. Trying to limit the discussion and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 02:41 AM |
| 3 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesIn the eyes of the law, slavery was also not harm. That’s the whole point of this discussion. Family law is admittedly stuck in the 1500s and out of date. Unwanted parenthood is objectively harmful to all parties involved. When the Equal Protection Clause was held to be inapplicable in a case where the law was phrased in completely gender neutral terms (e.g., not considering pregnancy as a temporary disability for insurance or social welfare programs, because it also wasn’t considered a disabili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 02:34 AM |
| 3 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesYou don’t need any doctors or scientists for conception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 02:18 AM |
| 4 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesBeing made liable to pay for $200,000 worth of goods isn’t “physical injury” either, but if you didn’t actually authorize your agent to order those materials and you had to nevertheless pay for them, you have a cause of action against your agent. Physical injury isn’t the exclusive form of harm or unwanted consequences the law recognizes. Like I mentioned earlier, family law romanticizes “children” and “the family.” All it’s concepts are still based off of 1500s English common law no longer appl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Why are guys expected to be optimistic in dating but women are suppose to be sleptical?What is the urban Florida culture like? Because I have plenty of clients in Miami, Tampa, Ft. Lauderdale and Wellington. We speak very frankly about women, dating and marriage. Granted, they’re older than me. So, I’m all ears on what Florida culture is pushing onto me. What do you think most men think is going to happen after they put a ring on it or take a bite of that wedding cake? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 10:35 PM |
| 1 | What’s it to you if women are hypervigilant and cautious around strange men?You’re trying to deflect and avoid my point by turning it into something not at all critical or responsive to my point ... and when someone calls you out on it, you try and complain about it by accusing them of “holding frame.” No, your point is just not applicable to what’s being discussed. Assume people are hypocrites. Your point is conceded to. Now what? How does that change in any way what my point was? It doesn’t. How does that negate what my point was? It doesn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 10:14 PM |
| 6 | Why are guys expected to be optimistic in dating but women are suppose to be sleptical?No, I grew up in a very regressive and backwards small town. NYC, not a lot of people have heard of it. Where are you from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 10:08 PM |
| 1 | What’s it to you if women are hypervigilant and cautious around strange men?What? You think this is me trying to pick you up over Reddit right now? Are you serious? No. This is someone simply saying that two wrongs don’t cancel each other out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 10:06 PM |
| 12 | Why are guys expected to be optimistic in dating but women are suppose to be sleptical?Idk what you’re talking about, man lol I grew up in the 90s and 2000s, and even then, the rule was, “your signature and your dick ... be very careful where you put them.” “Optimism”? Since when are there hoards of men happy go lucky and dying to get married and live happily ever after? Men avoid marriage like a MRSA infection. What part of the world are you in? I’d love to go there on vacation if that’s the norm over there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 10:03 PM |
| 1 | What’s it to you if women are hypervigilant and cautious around strange men?Umm, okay. Even assuming that’s true, what’s that have to do with what I said? Two wrongs don’t cancel each other out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 09:59 PM |
| 2 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesI’m just pointing out, you’re either on a quest to “feel right” and “confirm what you believe is right” ... or, you’re on a quest to find “the truth.” When you say things like that, when you try to force the conclusion you want and deny inconvenient facts to the contrary, then it doesn’t really seem like you’re on a quest to find “the truth,” but merely looking to create your own confirmation bias echo chamber so you can “feel right.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 09:58 PM |
| 2 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babies🤦♂️? Then we’re not talking about fraudulent misrepresentation. If we’re taking about in cases of fraudulent misrepresentation, then we are assuming a case of fraudulent misrepresentation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 09:53 PM |
| 1 | What’s it to you if women are hypervigilant and cautious around strange men?I’m legit not sure what you meant or what your point was. My point was simply that sexism against men is no less bad or wrong than racism against blacks or Latinos, etc., or sexism against women. The only thing you’ve essentially said is, “Idk why every time we’re talking about sexism against men, all the dudes gotta come out and bring up racism against people of a certain race.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 09:19 PM |
| 3 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesBeing a parent ... for someone who wants to be a parent, is not harm ... to the person who wants to be a parent. But it is harm to the resulting child, and to the biological father who does not want to be a parent. But you’re right. Under the female line of thinking, for as long as it’s not applicable to or negatively affects her, then who cares? To the product manufacturer, a customer’s hand being cut off is not “harm.” Nobody from the product manufacture’s board, shareholders or labor force su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | What’s it to you if women are hypervigilant and cautious around strange men?Not citing this to be a dick, but only because you asked what a word means: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/immutable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What’s it to you if women are hypervigilant and cautious around strange men?Because sex and race are both immutable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 08:39 PM |
| 0 | What’s it to you if women are hypervigilant and cautious around strange men?I’m confused. Are you saying you think black people are criminal? What are you referring to when you say, “observe the same thing going on here”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 08:11 PM |
| 0 | What’s it to you if women are hypervigilant and cautious around strange men?Black “criminality”? O.o I’m going to state the obvious, but, I hope it’s clear that most black people are not criminals. And saying, “Yeah, but enough of them are, so, I’m sorry if we ___” is racist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesThat is true: https://www.statista.com/statistics/183657/average-size-of-a-family-in-the-us/ Practically at one child per family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 06:40 PM |
| -1 | What’s it to you if women are hypervigilant and cautious around strange men?Why do you care if men treat 95% of women is if women are perpetual children, if that’s only true for 30-40% of all women? Because sexism is sexism. Why do black people care when you walk to the other side of the street when you see them walking down the same sidewalk as you, or you clench your purse or check to see if your wallet is still in your pocket when you realize a black person is close by? That’s effectively what you’re saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 06:37 PM |
| 2 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?If women didn’t care about money, then why are you asking this question and why are women complaining about the wage gap? Also, why are women working so hard to out-earn their husbands, when they could be living in a comfortable modest apartment and spending more time with their man and have less stress as they enjoy their lives together instead of slaving away chasing more and more money? Also, why is it a turn off when a man doesn’t pay for the first date? Or still lives with his parents (as h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 06:31 PM |
| 2 | How would you rate these two guys 1-10Is guy No. 1 a picture of a young Ray Allen? 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 06:26 PM |
| 2 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babies90% ... in 50 years? I mean, maybe in 100 years. In America, I think most Americans would lose their shit if it was suddenly the law that people could only have a maximum of two children per family and there would be no such thing as a child tax credit or dependency exemption anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 06:25 PM |
| 2 | You Cold Approach a Woman What do you think she's thinking?I never really cold approached a woman for myself. Only time I did it was when I was with guys from the college gym and we were just fucking around it, or with my Asian friends and showing them that women don’t bite. No deep theory or thinking behind it like other people on here have said. For me, it just felt strange and unnatural. Simple as that. Socialize? Yes. Talk to people? Yes. Make small talk and joke? Yes. I do that with a lot of people. Just the other day, I was at the gym and leaving … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 06:23 PM |
| 2 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesI’m no mathematician, but I did major in economics. All the “paternity” petitions and child support enforcement proceedings cost the state more money than what it would cost the state to support any children that mothers did not want to take care of and dropped off to the state at safe havens until they were placed in adoptive homes. That’s in and of itself in isolation to anything else. In addition to that, consider the cost of children bouncing around the foster care system and being raised in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesAll I’m saying is, there’s a Fourteenth Amendment basis to strike down the state level “biological affinity” test basis of child support liability. What would be left would be the marital presumption, equitable estoppel (aka “paternal” estoppel), and, of course, “third party beneficiary” contract law (whether through the marital contract or any other contract). That would remove any need for litigation unprovable he said she said non-rape cases, or even getting into the circumstances of “how” th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Paternity tests should legally trump birth certificatesPaternal estoppel and marital presumption. https://www.lawmoss.com/publication-presumptions-in-paternity-cases-who-is-the-father-in-the-eyes-of-the-law (a good historical overview as well; to preserve “decency”). Seems like good enough of a reason in 2019, notwithstanding the mother’s Instagram and reputation in the community. Nevertheless, “decency” in 2019 > fundamental right to determine one’s “life course.” Talk about an “overwhelming state interest” waiting to be struck down lol. https://ww… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 04:18 PM |
| 2 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesBut we don’t know what happened, as cases like Irons v. Wells illustrate. Conception overwhelmingly happens in private. The circumstances of “how” it happened are more of a he said she said than rape cases, especially when one party had incentive to be dishonest “during and shortly following” the act. The other party may not even realize what actually truly happened until days or months after the fact. We “assume” conception happens between two adults (by agreement) having consensual unprotected… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 03:59 PM |
| 9 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesAs an aside, I love your precision of and sensitivity to language. Refreshing. Insidious or not, the point is, if I own a home, and a stick of dynamite 🧨 finds itself on my property, and the fuse is lit 🔥, but starts from NY to CA and will take nine (9) months before it reaches my property to cause the dynamite to explode 🎇 ... yes, the dynamite factory could have done some things to prevent that from happening. But if “I” genuinely don’t want my house blown up, I have at least 90 days to simply… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 03:35 PM |
| 2 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesThat’s not what the OP is saying. The OP is saying, “because condoms are 99% certain to prevent an unwanted pregnancy from occurring through sexual intercourse, therefore, the point that men should not be equally responsible for any unwanted consequences is invalid.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 03:25 PM |
| 2 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesFraudulent misrepresentation “is” hard science lol 😂 Someone claims she is infertile. Forensically, we can determine that to be a lie. Someone claims she was on birth control. She can submit to a blood and urine test within seven (7) days of when sex occurred, and we can again forensically determine that to be a lie. Just because she lied about the state of physical reality doesn’t mean we cannot observe and scientifically determine what physical reality actually was or is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 03:22 PM |
| 2 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesThe spirit of my question was “legal,” not the Catholic Church or GOP pro-life convention. So, basically, your response was neither in the “spirit of my comment,” nor “purely hard science.” At some point, even if you don’t acknowledge your defensiveness, we’ll just keep pointing it out. We accept obvious implied admissions too. Explicit admissions are not necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 03:20 PM |
| 5 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesSo is abortion and Plan B. “Harder” science than conception. When you get what you “supposedly” are asking for, you find artificial excuses to dismiss, minimize, of deny it. Again, re-read Rule 8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What frequency or "type" of sex is enough to "prove" that a woman you're in a relationship with is actually attracted to you and hasn't "settled" for you?I’m not beyond agreeing with people. It’s just that those were not previously my words. I wasn’t saying that that’s how women “should behave” or “must act” (period, as a general universal blanket rule). This question called for personal opinions, and I simply gave mine. I agreed with you in the sense that that much is true for me, personally. Never too proud or big to agree with the truth. Respectfully? Not sure why someone would be offended by having reactive sexual desire. My sexual desire is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What frequency or "type" of sex is enough to "prove" that a woman you're in a relationship with is actually attracted to you and hasn't "settled" for you?It’s not how a woman “has to act.” I never said that. Those are your words, not mine. But yes, for me, personally, that’s how she has to act for me to feel reassured that she’s genuinely and honestly attracted to me. If I don’t feel that, then I can’t trust anything else she does sexually in the relationship. I’m 100% okay with leaving a lot of pussy on the table. We all leave a lot of pussy on the table. It’s not everyone’s mission in life to fuck as many women as time permits. I’d rather feel … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 07:47 AM |
| 7 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesGoogle: “confirmation bias.” The point of a CMV question is to genuinely be open to having your view challenged. You throw up “science” as an excuse/shield to shut others up (when what they’re saying isn’t convenient to you) but willingly go into the gatekeeping and “no decent human being would” emotional blackmail non-scientific route when it suits you. It’s not a debate flair, because you already lost in that department. But next time, before you post a CMV, read Rule No. 8. You’re coming off … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 07:26 AM |
| 3 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesThank you 🙏 Textbook denial and rationalization is strong with the OP. https://www.slideshare.net/mobile/Lucia_Merino/15-common-defense-mechanisms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 07:21 AM |
| 5 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesNo decent human would argue? Really? We’re going there now? What happened to “science”? I think the mods need to step in and enforce Rule No. 8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 07:18 AM |
| 0 | [Q4RP] What frequency or "type" of sex is enough to "prove" that a woman you're in a relationship with is actually attracted to you and hasn't "settled" for you?Apparently something you refuse to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 07:08 AM |
| 7 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesJustice Ginsburg’s dissent in Gonzales v. Carhart. “The Fourteenth Amendment is not a right to autonomy over one’s body. The liberty interest protected is the right to determine one’s life course, whether to be a student or be a parent, whether to pursue a career or a life at home taking care of a child.” "If the right of privacy means anything, it is the right of the individual, married or single, to be free from unwarranted governmental intrusion into matters so fundamentally affecting a perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 07:02 AM |
| 7 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesDid you literally not read the case of a blowjob leading to pregnancy? homeless man receives handjob while wearing a condom. Condom is discarded in the trash. Condom is then retrieved and a turkey baster used for artificial insemination. fraudulent misrepresentation of being infertile fraudulent misrepresentation of being on birth control statutory rape by female teacher of male underaged student second degree rape of man through combination of GHB and Trazadone (which causes priapism as a side … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 06:48 AM |
| 1 | What age is it an SMV decrease to live with your parents?Idk if you’ve seen this yet: https://m.facebook.com/logged_out/watch/?video_id=1438444506222898&refsrc=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F&_rdr Your story reminded me of that. Look, save your money, dude. Forget some white girl. Focus on YOU. You know what’s really going to add to your SMV? Money. So, do the right thing and let that shit grow. Take this time to get in shape and grow financially with an eye towards your future. That’s the carrot you have to dangle, not your own place. When I was in co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 06:44 AM |
| 2 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesGot it. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 05:35 AM |
| 7 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesIt’s not my position, that’s how the law assigns responsibility and liability ... based on which party is in the superior position to prevent the negative outcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 05:29 AM |
| 14 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babiesThanks. I did my law school thesis paper on exactly this issue. So, please, come at me. From the “moral obligation” doctrine to the Elizabethan Poor Laws of 1601, to Blackstone’s “natural law,” I can talk about this all year. If the Fourteenth Amendment is going to be interpreted to permit women to terminate an unwanted pregnancy (which I believe is the correct interpretation of liberty and privacy interests as fundamental rights), then “parental rights” and “liability for the support of the res… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What’s it like dating a baby crazy woman? Is there upsides? What are the downsides?Oh, don’t take my word for it. Not a fan of babies. Take my wife’s word for it. She’s the one that’s on and off with babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 05:15 AM |
| 32 | RP ignores science when they say women trap men by having their unwanted babieshttp://www.law.harvard.edu/faculty/shavell/pdf/07-Shavell-Liability%20for%20Accidents-Hdbk%20of%20LE.pdf The party in a superior position to prevent harm is “strictly liable,” otherwise, a rule of “negligence” is appropriate. The answer to your original question is “no.” You place a sperm into an environment with an egg. If only the woman does not want a human baby to fully develop, she singlehandedly has the power to safely terminate any such unwanted pregnancy that will otherwise (through her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 05:09 AM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What frequency or "type" of sex is enough to "prove" that a woman you're in a relationship with is actually attracted to you and hasn't "settled" for you?Respectfully, that belief is contrary to experience. Two models have done just that, both over the age of 20. So, it has nothing to do with how attractive a woman is. I’ve initiated first time sex with one person my whole life, and that was this shy Indian girl in college. Every single other time, it was always the girl who initiated things, and pretty much in those ways. 7-9, looks didn’t matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Witchcraft and femininityThat’s it ... if this question doesn’t get deleted for having nothing to do with PPD, then that’s the new bar for the mods going forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Posted a pic of an average guy on Photofeeler and he got great results - what do you make of this?Interesting post, my man. Glad the mods didn’t take it down thinking it had nothing to do with PPD. Although, it does touch on a lot of stuff. If you look at this post as a white person, 7.9 seems kind of high. But, if you remember that 😲 there are people other than white people in this world 😮 ... then, you start including all the Asian and Latina girls who give a “white premium,” and the 7.9 starts to make a “bit” more sense. At the end of the day, though, it’s a sample size of 20, representin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What frequency or "type" of sex is enough to "prove" that a woman you're in a relationship with is actually attracted to you and hasn't "settled" for you?Choose what you want to believe if it makes you feel better. That’s reality, dear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 10:12 PM |
| 0 | [Q4RP] What frequency or "type" of sex is enough to "prove" that a woman you're in a relationship with is actually attracted to you and hasn't "settled" for you?Umm, yeah. Almost every single one. I’m sorry if I’m not moved by your feelings over my experiences and personal opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What frequency or "type" of sex is enough to "prove" that a woman you're in a relationship with is actually attracted to you and hasn't "settled" for you?https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=b4hNaFkbZYU | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What frequency or "type" of sex is enough to "prove" that a woman you're in a relationship with is actually attracted to you and hasn't "settled" for you?Me either. But enough to want to act out how I’m feeling after spending 12+ hours with the person. That’s not in any way exclusive to the world of porn or fantasy erotica. That’s real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What frequency or "type" of sex is enough to "prove" that a woman you're in a relationship with is actually attracted to you and hasn't "settled" for you?The guy not initiating, suggesting, implying, etc. or doing anything leading things towards sex ... ... and the girl literally taking the initiative to seemingly spontaneously (from the guy’s POV) take things to a clearly sexual place (e.g., putting her hand over his pants and rubbing his manhood, unzipping his pants and HJ —> BJ, grinding her ass on him while spoon/cuddling on the bed and then pulling his pants down and her pants down and leading his erection into her vagina). There’s no “one t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 05:41 PM |
| 0 | [Q4RP] What frequency or "type" of sex is enough to "prove" that a woman you're in a relationship with is actually attracted to you and hasn't "settled" for you?“You mean to tell me that just because a woman in an LTR didn't fuck her now SO on the first date, any sex she has with him is just maintenance sex to keep him happy regardless of frequency?” That’s a hyperbole, but I’ll go with it. It means that in her mind, in her eyes, he wasn’t a stud. He wasn’t the man she automatically got wet for, felt a warm numbing sensation spread across her body in the first 2-3 minutes of interacting with him, and get overwhelmed with the genuine desire to just have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 05:35 PM |
| 0 | [Q4RP] What frequency or "type" of sex is enough to "prove" that a woman you're in a relationship with is actually attracted to you and hasn't "settled" for you?Because if you’re on the mental track where she sees you as a sexually “hot” guy and the first few thoughts in her brain are, “I want him to fuck me,” or “I want to fuck him,” then you’re not on the relationship train and she is taking it upon herself to grab your hand, put it on her ass or breast, or unzip your pants and start sucking your dick. Her “n” count is the last thing on her mind. If you’re “objectively kind of handsome and attractive,” but not quite enough to give her that same feelin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 04:30 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What frequency or "type" of sex is enough to "prove" that a woman you're in a relationship with is actually attracted to you and hasn't "settled" for you?To respect your Q4RP, I’ll add my comment here. “Proof”? She initiates sex on the first or second date. The end. Whatever happens “after” you two are already in a relationship can never act as proof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | what would you tolerate with your "pre-wall" wife that you wouldn't once she's "post-wall"?You’re going to tell me what I mean based on what other people say or don’t say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What’s it like dating a baby crazy woman? Is there upsides? What are the downsides?You and me both. New baby smell just smells like pre-shit to me. That’s the smell before someone’s diaper will soon need changing. Dogs > babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | what would you tolerate with your "pre-wall" wife that you wouldn't once she's "post-wall"?I think that’s just you reading into something that’s not there. I love my wife. We’re both busy working people. And “if you got hit by a bus tomorrow” is a very common precatory phrase when starting off hypotheticals where you are responding to questions about men being single (but you’re married). Each time I’ve used that phrase, if you look back at the question, it was in relation to assuming I was single for the sake of the question. I never said, “Gosh, I really really hope and wish that my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | what would you tolerate with your "pre-wall" wife that you wouldn't once she's "post-wall"?I was in a car accident that severed the blood flow to both of my testicles. Following that, I suffered from severe depression until blood flow was eventually re-established. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What’s it like dating a baby crazy woman? Is there upsides? What are the downsides?Apparently, when they don’t cry or poop ... or when they’re not your responsibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What’s it like dating a baby crazy woman? Is there upsides? What are the downsides?You must be around screaming babies. You need to be around cute babies and only see the positives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What’s it like dating a baby crazy woman? Is there upsides? What are the downsides?Spend time around mothers with newborns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 05:23 AM |
| 1 | what would you tolerate with your "pre-wall" wife that you wouldn't once she's "post-wall"?Nobody said we could talk about it either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 11:23 PM |
| 1 | what would you tolerate with your "pre-wall" wife that you wouldn't once she's "post-wall"?Obviously not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 11:17 PM |
| 0 | what would you tolerate with your "pre-wall" wife that you wouldn't once she's "post-wall"?Hey, I’m not saying she doesn’t look good “for her age.” I think she looks great for her age. But zooming out of her age bucket and speaking objectively, she’s not what she once was. That’s just an objective reality we have to acknowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 08:54 PM |
| -2 | what would you tolerate with your "pre-wall" wife that you wouldn't once she's "post-wall"?In terms of appearance, my urologist and therapist assured me that I would get more flexible with appearance as I aged. That was back when I was 28. I’m 33 now, and don’t see much of a difference yet. If anything, I’m less flexible now at 33 than I was at 28. So, I worry about the longevity of the relationship sometimes. Wrinkles on the face, I can deal with that. If you know someone for years and have a relationship, that’s maybe endearing, like ... other guys won’t find her as attractive becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | what would you tolerate with your "pre-wall" wife that you wouldn't once she's "post-wall"?Omg, I loved Elizabeth Shue in the Saint. Would definitely bang. Elizabeth Shue in the Boys ... not so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?Well, you qualified your experience with, “Example,” so, it is what it is. It doesn’t invalidate the other points you made about lesbian relationships. It’s just an example. Neither one of my parents helped me emotionally. Arguably, my father damaged me more emotionally than my mother ever could. I got beat with a belt, punished based on my father’s moods, left to my own devices with zero guidance growing up regarding socializing and development ... until I was 15-16 and started beefing up and m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What’s it like dating a baby crazy woman? Is there upsides? What are the downsides?My wife just turned 30 recently. The way she describes baby fever is seeing babies or hearing something about babies, and being like, “Aww, omg I want one!” But then she looks at her checking account and is like, “But I like going on vacations and coming back home and just relaxing.” So, I got lucky in that department. I dated this 29 year old in college. She was aggressively looking to lock down and trap a man and start a family together. I legit felt like a mouse in a maze being chased by a ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Virtually all men would rather have a 15 year old than a woman in her 30sErr, lol, idk about that. I wouldn’t even have a 17 year old, let alone a 15 year old. A 15 year old (in my eyes) is a child. She may think she’s an adult, but she’s a child. And a child who thinks she’s an adult is worse than a child who at least understands she’s still a child. 19-20 ... now we’re talking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?Like I said, I’m not about to devolve the thread. You’re right. You’re 100% absolutely right. Please have mercy on the rest of us down below on our river of wrong as you look down on us from your cloud of right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?AWALT response: “We deliver babies! So, STFU!” Anyway, I hear what you’re saying, but now we’re just broad strokes generalizing, and it’s getting into misogynistic territory. I hear you. Women have a different system of values than men. That doesn’t necessarily make them bad, and more than we can say a child is bad. You just have to come to terms with that instead of expecting women to behave like men and then get upset with them when they don’t behave like men ... because they’re women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?I’m not about to devolve a thread because of semantics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Are women who want kids that scared of being single moms?Even with those numbers, looks like single parents are doing just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?The comment on male friends delivering more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?https://media-thetab-com.cdn.ampproject.org/i/s/media.thetab.com/blogs.dir/90/files/2019/02/face-seniorcitizen-person-human-1.jpg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?I understand the blind eye part. But what do you mean by “stay in the dark”? She never finds out, or “willfull blindness”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?Understood, but he’s been in 5 year relationships. I’ve divorced couples who have been together less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/azjti7/leonardo_dicaprio_refuses_to_date_a_woman_over_25/ What’s sparked this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?In theory, and hopefully in practice too, a woman has more opportunities to add value to and enrich your life than a male friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?I’m comfortable in my car, but I still get up and get out of it. I’m comfortable sitting on my couch, but I still get up and get out of it. It’s complacency. I’m 33. Looking forward to the point you’re going to make with respect to age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?You can’t really compare apples and oranges. A male friend is a male friend. When was the last time a male friend suggested you should go on vacation, or buy something for the house, or have children? Do you rely on your male friend for sexual intimacy? Apples and oranges. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?Complacency | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Are women who want kids that scared of being single moms?Judging by all the single moms out there, I’m going to go out on a limb and say no. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2018/04/27/about-one-third-of-u-s-children-are-living-with-an-unmarried-parent/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?That’s not the point. They almost celebrate despair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?Idk, check out r/The_Wall Personally, as a guy, I find that group extremely depressing (as a man). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?Accurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/azjti7/leonardo_dicaprio_refuses_to_date_a_woman_over_25/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?I guess a lot of BPers would stick around no matter what for the romantic sake of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?You just took it to another level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?O.o why is (what she has done with other men) > (what she’s doing with you)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?Very interesting and honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?Possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?Why wouldn’t you just end things and break up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?Fair enough. Post-wall also assumes less energy, complacency over time, hence ... less effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?You just blew my mind. I wasn’t expecting that. You would cheat in No. 1, even though you can just leave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 02:12 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: would you voluntarily stay with your post-wall wife?Well, this whole question comes from that infographic of Leonardo DiCaprio refusing to date anyone older than 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Discussion - men, kids, abandonment, etc.Define, “treated better,” because I legit can’t recall a single girl I’ve dated who has “treated me poorly” (pre-breakup). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Discussion - men, kids, abandonment, etc.Aka, it’s never “worth the wait.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | What's the thought process behind these games young women play?https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Defence_mechanisms https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/389916-sometimes-you-put-walls-up-not-to-keep-people-out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Discussion - men, kids, abandonment, etc.That’s true. The world and media is hard on everyone. But for women, they seem to have a harder time handling artificial pressure. In my eyes, my wife has extremely low self esteem. Her firm called her in to tell her how they are setting up a brand new M&A consulting department that they want her to head, and she comes back home all like, “Oh great, more responsibility. I don’t know if I can do this. I’m just afraid to let them down.” At some point, when she was taking her professional licensing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Are lower class women more sexual or are higher class women hiding their sexuality?Ty. Relatively new to this Reddit thing, and I’m not exactly super tech savvy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Discussion - men, kids, abandonment, etc.The problem, RP, BP, PP aside, is that people are selfish. Men are selfish in the sense that some men just think about what they want as men, 100%, and disregard their children and wife, and leave in order to seek out what they want. Some women are selfish in the sense that they focus on what they want as woman and their children and ignore their man and give him only token lip service. Granted, there are always “reasons” this happens, but at the end of the day, it wouldn’t happen without some d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 05:30 PM |
| 0 | Discussion - men, kids, abandonment, etc.Simple answer, but this right here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 05:17 PM |
| 2 | [Ask BP] What is The Blue Pill's advice for Men to get laid? What about for an LTR/family?Genuine BP man aren’t looking to get laid, remember? BP men are self-castrated eunuchs who are so self-actualized and enlightened that “sex” is so below them, and the only thing they care about is a caring and loving long-term relationship, marriage, children and a happy family. “Sex” is something that’s merely “incidental to” a relationship. It’s not important to them as a man. Nothing is important to them. Their only desire in this world is to serve and be of service to his perfect princess an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 04:14 PM |
| 6 | Are lower class women more sexual or are higher class women hiding their sexuality?The best way I can analogize it is to people and their relationship to food. (Trigger warning; if you’re fat, your defense mechanisms may process the following as “fat shaming”): Have you seen fat people? I’m not talking about people with some kind of thyroid disorder. I’m talking about 99% of all fat people. What do they have in common? Zero exercise ... and zero self-control when it comes to food. They’re like Ariana Grande, “I see it, I like it, I want it,” I eat it. On the other hand, what d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | "Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction DemographicAh, I see. There are special insoles that add height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 02:52 AM |
| -3 | "Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction DemographicWtf does wearing insoles have to do with height? 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology?I was just being sarcastic to illustrate the double-bind in the OP’s question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 12:00 AM |
| 1 | An Introduction to Radical Provider StrategyWhat’s happening in Asia? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/19 03:56 PM |
| 31 | Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology?Women: “If a man doesn’t get jealous when other men show interest in you, then that means he doesn’t really love you.” Also women: “I don’t like guys who are controlling. I prefer men who just learn to be jealous and sit there quietly suffering.” Also women: “As Justice Ginsburg said in Gonzales v. Carhart, the right to abortion under the Fourteenth Amendment is based on every person having the right to determine her own life’s course. So if a girl is not yet ready to be a mother, the government… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Should we have a month where we try and help invisible women feel better about themselves?I just think it would help reduce some of the bitterness these women feel towards men as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/19 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Should we have a month where we try and help invisible women feel better about themselves?Isn’t that sort of the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/19 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Should we have a month where we try and help invisible women feel better about themselves?O.o To discuss the pros and cons of doing this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Should we have a month where we try and help invisible women feel better about themselves?No. I’m sure 1s are invisible to 5s, 2s to 6s, and so on and so forth. Anyone you would otherwise actively avoid or just ignore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/19 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Why even try? (not clickbait)Yeah, that’s quite the rationalization for your depression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/19 01:05 AM |
| 1 | What are you ladies always talking to your mother about?It definitely works, if the title of the book was more accurately called: “How to trap a man with no other options, turn him into a husband, and then convince yourself that he had plenty of other options but chose YOU!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/19 07:34 PM |
| 0 | What are you ladies always talking to your mother about?Here you go: https://www.amazon.com/All-Rules-Time-tested-Secrets-Capturing/dp/0446618799 The “advice” of four (4) generations of women, in one book, completely unchanged yet still identical and true to this day. Whatever advice your mother would give you, and whatever advice you would give your daughter ... would basically be some spin off of the advice given in this book. Chapter 1: Don’t be sexually honest Chapter 2: Playing games Chapter 3: How to not sound or look like you’re playing games … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It's a bigger red flag if a girl's ex's have cheated ON her, than if she has cheated on her ex's.What? What kind of bullshit is this? Her cheating is a much larger reflection of her character and personality than other people doing things to her. Contrary to what women may think, they’re not FBI profilers, they’re not CIA human intelligence. Most women are basic. So, they can’t peg someone as a cheater or a good guy if their life depended on it. When things work out, she’ll backwards rationalize that it must be because she had amazing intuition. When things don’t work out, she’ll backwards … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/19 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Would you still consider a girl relationship material if she gave into blackmail?Personally, that doesn’t matter to me. I’m a very flexible and understanding person. Shit happens and nobody’s life is perfect. But that being said, stop calling it “forced to have sex.” None of these women were “forced” or “coerced” into anything. Compare (theft by extortion): https://statelaws.findlaw.com/new-york-law/new-york-extortion-laws.html With (rape): https://statelaws.findlaw.com/new-york-law/new-york-rape-laws.html Prostitution is not legal in New York. Theft of “services” is limited… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/19 04:37 PM |
| 6 | Off Topic Thread: Politics (10 August 2019)How the fuck will MC & under children survive in the economy that awaits them? Unless your parents have money, you’re pretty much fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/19 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: What's the "105k a year" for sexual happiness?Frequency? Friday, Saturday, Sunday. New partners? Genuinely not interested in new partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Are you equally turned off by women who have had tons of BF?Not turned off by either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | what goes through your mind when you sleep with someone you find unattractive?Never happened, so I wouldn’t know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/19 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What happens to the increasingly large amount of "left behind" & undesirable men in the dating marketplace? Fallout for society?Well, that’s the model in Manhattan and the rest of NYC for the higher end nightclubs. Some café/lounges tried something similar but moved away from it. Basically, you pay the fee for the bouncers and management making sure it’s not a sausage fest in there. They let in 1:1 ratios of men and women, and in some clubs like 1 Oak, they used to let in 1:2 ratios. Additionally, you pay for the layout. If the layout is shitty, nobody is going to pay money to get on and drink by themselves and form thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/19 05:23 PM |
| 6 | Q4All: What happens to the increasingly large amount of "left behind" & undesirable men in the dating marketplace? Fallout for society?Well, if a guy is clubbing, and looking to get with someone, if he’s not having luck in one club, he moves on to another one. Don’t forget, unlike women, men actually pay for things like cover charges and door fees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/19 01:24 PM |
| 1 | If men don't want to be dominated by their wife, they should help with the household chores moreAnaphylactic shock to all this uber softness from men. Fuck, when did guys born in the 80’s get so soft. I can only imagine the guys born in the 90s and 2000. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/19 12:59 AM |
| 1 | How does a woman's sexual strategy change after menopause?Is this a joke? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Has online dating and social media DEFLATED the value of the average girl?Alright, dude. Thanks for sharing your opinion. I’ll agree to disagree with you on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 06:55 PM |
| 20 | Q4All: What happens to the increasingly large amount of "left behind" & undesirable men in the dating marketplace? Fallout for society?Just to be clear, I do NOT agree with MGTOW. MGTOW was a cop out of MRA, where instead of arguing for issues that affect men, like the Fourteenth Amendment and divorce, MGTOW was like, “Fuck all of ya’ll, I’m out, peace.” But I agree with what you just said. The most bitter guys are the guys who are out clubbing 3+ nights a week, and the only thing they have to show for it is $600 less in their checking account every week. The guy who stays at home and drops $2,400 on a mobile game in in-app pur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 06:54 PM |
| 44 | Q4All: What happens to the increasingly large amount of "left behind" & undesirable men in the dating marketplace? Fallout for society?I know a few of my father’s friends who never got married, and now they’re 55+ years old. No kids. No wife. Just walk over, eat some food, watch some fishing shows, go out fishing if the weather is good, and that’s it. And they’re 100% content. Idk how “happy” they are, but they’re definitely not “unhappy.” They’re just “content.” And they will repeat that cycle until the day they die. What seems to be happening now is that men are falling into that way of living from age 21. The consequences of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Men actually get pissed/judgey when women date younger guys too.Then they’re not your “friends,” but “orbiters,” who are butthurt that they never could fuck or are no longer fucking you. If I’m a man and have zero sexual interest in a woman in my group of genuine friends, why would I care about a guy’s age, or whether she just wants to have sex with a guy? What am I, her pastor? These guys clearly are upset they never fucked you, because apparently they wanted a shot with you they never had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Men actually get pissed/judgey when women date younger guys too.Those three comments were by your friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Men actually get pissed/judgey when women date younger guys too.By who and in what context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Has online dating and social media DEFLATED the value of the average girl?? Are you comparing apples to apples or apples to oranges? You’re talking about a man who can’t get any female attention on one hand, and comparing that to what? A woman who can get male attention on the other hand? Have you spent any time at all on r/truefemcels ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Men actually get pissed/judgey when women date younger guys too.No, I’m a man who is friends with other men, and a lawyer who handles divorces with both male and female clients. Between me and you, I’m in a much better position to hear men at their most honest moments, especially when the feelings are negative. And I’ve never heard a single man complain about a woman dating a younger man. Ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Men actually get pissed/judgey when women date younger guys too.O.o ? Are these men homosexual? The only judgments I’ve heard leave a guy’s mouth is: “Slut/hoe” when he’s butthurt because the girl who has sex with EVERYONE, has now turned into the girl who has sex with everyone EXCEPT HIM. “Whore” when the guy is a 37th degree Grand Wizard in the Masonic Order, and also an Evangelical when he’s not also a Baptist and taking a break from the Lord’s good book 📖 as he’s saving the lives of countless precious beautiful 8.5 month old babies from being viciously m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Are men actually more obsessed with kids than women?I don’t actually have a strong desire to “have” children of my own. The only strong desire I have with respect to children or younger people in general is to give them guidance and help them avoid the avoidable hardships of and mistakes they will likely make in life. I volunteer for high school and law school mock trial competitions. I signed up to teach a class on Expository Writing recently at a local community college. If there was more money in teaching, I would have loved to have been a hig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 03:39 PM |
| 2 | If men don't want to be dominated by their wife, they should help with the household chores moreLmao 🤣 Lmao 🤣 Lmao 🤣 Oh man, that’s rich. If men don’t want to be “dominated” by their wife, they can simply divorce-proof themselves with a prenup, and an LLC housed within an irrevocable trust. That way, worst case outcome is you walk away with your income and assets in tact, less appraisal costs, because if she wants to litigate any issue which has already been pre-agreed to in the prenup, all litigation costs come out of her equitable share of the assets ... and child support (which is a sep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Men who are 'in touch with their feminine side'; do you find this hinders or helps your success with women?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Would you be open to buying eggs from women to have a child?Depends on how much the eggs are sold for. Surrogate’s start at $30k in India to $70k in the US. If a child is something I wanted, the woman would have to be practically perfect, not just “beautiful/attractive,” and I would gladly pay a surrogate $70k to take the year off and commit to basically being a surrogate, give her a room in the house, pay for all her food, let her chill and relax stress-free, and then recover for 2 months after birth. But again, who are these men? Haven’t met more than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't men prefer younger women?Here in NY, that’s how it is. Guess it might be a local culture thing, then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Has online dating and social media DEFLATED the value of the average girl?O.o Umm, okay, let’s dissect that statement or idea. Men have porn. What do women have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 02:02 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Being Good Looking Gives You More Practice In SeductionI 100% disagree. First of all, everything is in shades of grey and on a sliding scale. If you’re talking about the difference between a 5 & 6, that’s very different than talking about the difference between a 9 and a 5. Secondly, a (9) has zero issue getting female attention, walking on clouds, getting numbers and getting dates. That part is easy, and once you have a number or a date, I don’t think there is EVER been a girl whose number I got or first date I set up that hasn’t led to a second da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 01:55 PM |
| 9 | How often do you have success with girls that are slow at responding to texts?Dude, those are the best kinds of girls! You don’t want to be texting! The less time you spend texting, the better. Plus, what everyone else said. For as long as you can tell that she’s only feigning disinterest and acting hard to get, that’s a positive. Can’t see how you can view that as a negative (at least about her interest towards you). It means you’re making her feel a bit insecure. | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 12:25 AM |
| 9 | The key to destroy insecurities-related shit testsOne of the best lines I’ve heard was: “Yet, here we are.” You can follow it up with, “What is it about unemployed, short, small dick Asians that just draws you in?” Don’t take it personal. Turn it into entertainment, because quite frankly, that’s all it is anyway. | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 12:23 AM |
| 4 | M21 needing adviseAlso google pictures of them and note their clothing styles | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Looking for ideas.It’s very likely the reason you’re attracted to her is because you haven’t dated a much older woman and like the novelty of it, plus ... it’s ego. I had a similar experience myself. In college, freshman year, my biology professor. She wasn’t very attractive, but she wasn’t ugly. She was cute in an endearing way. I would fantasize about “giving” her a sexual experience with a younger guy. Maybe she didn’t feel like she was attractive anymore, and something like that would spark some new life into… | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Hot girls all around me on plane but of course it’s an old guy sitting next to me, is there still hope for seduction?You’re not limited to your seat 💺 In a 12 hour flight, people get thirsty, hungry, and need to take a piss. Get up and make chit chat with the flight attendants. If someone walks within earshot, “Excuse me, do your feet feel swollen?” | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 11:37 PM |
| 4 | M21 needing adviseGo 100% Mr. Clean and hit the gym. Research archetypes for references on what else can compliment that look. Vin Diesel, Dwayne Johnson, Jason Statham. | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Would you be OK being the "BB" choice? Why or why not?AF, hands down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 11:31 PM |
| 5 | Q4All: Has online dating and social media DEFLATED the value of the average girl?It’s horrible. I know this one girl now, she’s 27, beautiful, thin, but always going on dates, yet always single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 10:50 PM |
| 5 | Q4All: Has online dating and social media DEFLATED the value of the average girl?I feel so bad for both guys and girls coming out of high school in 2019. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Shit test?Responses: Who? Have you worn something like that out before? Where? How did you feel when you were wearing it? (put her on the defensive). Alt: The real question is, how jealous do you want me to act? You like it when you feel like you’re making a guy jealous? How’s it make you feel? | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 10:35 PM |
| 8 | Q4All: Has online dating and social media DEFLATED the value of the average girl?Fuck, I’m so happy I’m done with dating lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 09:42 PM |
| 8 | Discussion: The Reality of the Beta Bucks SexEDIT: Poster above: Men don’t deserve women to make an effort. Also poster above: On the other hand, if the man is willing to put in the effort ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 09:23 PM |
| 13 | Can women feel genuine attraction towards the safe bb?High “dominance” and high “status” are not synonymous. Unlike wolves, for primates, “alpha” means high “dominance.” It’s the silverback gorilla 🦍 pounding his chest, being loud and acting intimidating. Yet, this term is used to refer to relations and social dynamics between males. It is actually silent with respect to how men socialize and relate to females. With respect to females, all females prefer the male with the higher dominance. Females want a high dominance male, because a high dominanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Would you break up with your woman/man if you found out you were his very-direct backup plan?Don’t think my ego could handle it. Just being honest ... with myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 04:19 PM |
| 7 | Would you be OK being the "BB" choice? Why or why not?Hahahahaha ... no. If I’m not your AF, then I’m not going to be your BB either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 04:18 PM |
| 6 | On the topic of younger women, older men, and revenge fantasiesWhat? Lol When I see a hot 18-23 year old woman, the LAST thing I’m thinking about are other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 04:17 PM |
| 5 | Women should marry the men they sleep with while on the CCA lot of assumptions here, things omitted and glossed over. Not saying your premise is wrong, but your conclusion is incomplete, because you’re missing some premises consistent with your central premise. woman have two mental train tracks when interacting with men they will eventually feel “attracted” to: (4 second track; fuck, he’s hot, I wonder if he would want to fuck me) and (3+ month track; he’s not ugly, and there’s something endearing about him, over time, as we got to know each other, I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 02:18 PM |
| 11 | Why shouldn't men prefer younger women?To the extent this is a genuine question, Selling points for older women: More realistic expectations in terms of relationships; less interested in seeking “excitement” and “fun” more likely to actually understand men makes money to buy her own skincare products, hair care products, style her hair, get her nails done, get the nicer fuck me heels and skin tight outfits, can afford to get her makeup done by a professional before you make her look like a crying raccoon and turn her face into a Poll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Women Are Devaluing ThemselvesCome from a family of some means; Am a lawyer; Work for myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 09:43 PM |
| 2 | What is going on with crashing sperm counts and testosterone levels? Are we heading toward a species-shattering male infertility epidemic? How will male-female relationship dynamics weather this?It’s not so much about “total testosterone” itself as much as it is about testosterone/estrogen ratio and “free” testosterone serum. Boron and Magnesium bind onto SHBG to prevent it from binding onto testosterone in the blood stream. This allows testosterone to act on androgen receptors. Most Americans are boron and magnesium deficient. Endocrine disrupters aside (which is the most important issue in the FSH/LH cycle), xenoestrogens from soy, artificial cheese and plastics simply “add” to a man’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 07:46 PM |
| 5 | Why do men here act like women created the stigma of being chased / prey? Men love the dance between an obvious interested women just as much as women do.While we can all admire a defensive masterbatory post, Umm, have you seen lions 🦁??? And that’s just one example. So, if you want to take a lesson from science and nature, go bring back your alpha a pride of young lean bitches to vary up his sex life, hunt and bring him food, and then talk as much as you want about women being the prize. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=If3WBHVVS6Q https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=G1YXdISd6Zs Peacock 🦚 Literally any species of bird 🦅 Deer 🦌 Gorilla 🦍 Horses 🐴 🐎 https:… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Shaming of legally permissible age-gap sexual relationships--why don't the laws reflect the cultural zeitgeist?The concept of “consent” and “age of consent” is a core concept. From that point on, it’s still a “prescriptive” law, and it’s the kind of law within the control of the state. On the federal level, child pornography is videography or photography of persons under the age of 18. On the state level, https://www.ageofconsent.net/states both the age and “close in age exceptions” differ. For example, in Alabama, the age of consent is 16, but it’s not a crime to have sex with a 13 year old, for as long… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 06:15 PM |
| 3 | If male sexuality is predatory, do females enjoy being the prey?The prey/predator analogy is just that, an analogy. Don’t go balls deep into it. Women want attention and validation. They are looking to comfort their primary fear: being alone. Denial is a common band aid (ain’t need no man, happy single, etc.). But her hardware and software is designed and self-programmed to want to feel attractive and “lovable,” and unfortunately, other women cannot make her feel the way she wants to feel about herself. When women say, “men love to chase,” that’s projection … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 04:25 PM |
| 6 | Women Are Devaluing ThemselvesFirst, your grandmother was a stupid sexist hag. Secondly, why buy a dog ... when you can get dog milk (somewhere, I presume) for free? Dumbest fucking analogy ever. If men want “milk,” you are not the only cow giving it away for free, and there is always fresher less sour milk available for free. Men don’t buy cows because access to milk is restricted. Men buy cows because they want to have a loving relationship with a cow (just like how people buy cats and dogs). This is the biggest female-ins… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 03:15 PM |
| 2 | What are some reasons why people rape?Teachers who rape their underage male students (intimacy seekers), prison guards who rape male prisoners (intimacy seekers and power seekers). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 01:21 PM |
| 1 | It's ok to sexualize teen girls since they sexualize themselves now, and it's played on the radioLink? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 01:02 PM |
| 4 | Shaming of legally permissible age-gap sexual relationships--why don't the laws reflect the cultural zeitgeist?Oh Jeez, you’re basically asking for an entire semester of the first year law school in one post. I’ll try my best. There are two kinds of law: “descriptive,” and “prescriptive.” An example of descriptive laws are the laws of physics. You may not agree with them, but they are there, and they do not change. An example of prescriptive laws would be a software program, defining what is: prohibited, or required (necessary). “Society” was first formed through a system of implicit understandings. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 03:10 AM |
| 1 | It's ok to sexualize teen girls since they sexualize themselves now, and it's played on the radioIdk if 1985 qualifies me as a “boomer.” But other points taken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 01:12 AM |
| 2 | It's ok to sexualize teen girls since they sexualize themselves now, and it's played on the radioIt’s ok. Thanks 🙏 mod, appreciate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?I guess that list is a good test for RP guys lol. If their first instinct isn’t to think, “So, basically a justification and backwards denial and rationalization of BP AF/cc in your youth and BB later on in life while being silent as to BB so as to not turn off any BB guys,” then they’re not purely RP or tradcon. I can get behind 1 & 2. Especially No. 2. Show some love to them older ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?What would glitter pill’s philosophy be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 10:49 PM |
| 1 | I think women should offer a paternity test to the father of their child without being asked.“I completely understand, dear. That saves me the conversation about you doing your job as a woman and taking care of your daughter.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | I think women should offer a paternity test to the father of their child without being asked.The bigger question is, why would a woman who is faithful be reasonably offended by this? “I’m offended” is basically a socially acceptable emotional guilt trip way of saying, “Shut the fuck up.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 10:31 PM |
| 2 | It's ok to sexualize teen girls since they sexualize themselves now, and it's played on the radioUmm, you realize that “artists” now days are not in control of anything, from the lyrics, music, to the clothes they wear, to their own fucking Twitter accounts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How quickly would you be able to have sex with someone new?Well, feel free to Ctrl+F the Internet for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?But ... they’re women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?But if you think about it, women do deserve to earn more than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?Do they believe the wage gap is primarily the result of unlawful sex based employment discrimination? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How might we expect AI "companions" to influence relationship dynamics?Idk, man. I think you’re thinking too much of men. Most guys would probably be fine with this AI for a long term girlfriend: https://www.amazon.com/Proctor-Silex-25408Y-Sandwich-Toaster/dp/B001YI459O?ref_=Oct_CABSellerC_1090766_1&pf_rd_p=a0579f7c-dbb2-5d1d-8fbd-418ee685429e&pf_rd_s=mobile-hybrid-10&pf_rd_t=30901&pf_rd_i=1090766&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_r=86BTPE43S0468M9V08KC&pf_rd_r=86BTPE43S0468M9V08KC&pf_rd_p=a0579f7c-dbb2-5d1d-8fbd-418ee685429e | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?Idk if women who are anti-RPW hold a genuine belief that they can have sex with ANY MAN or have whatever n-count, and that it wouldn’t affect them later on in life. Not saying that they are wrong or right. All I’m saying is, when non-RPW speak, you “rarely” hear them talking in terms of, “Who the fuck cares how many guys a girl has slept with?” or “What’s THAT KIND of girl? Go ahead and explain to me exactly what that is. You mean a girl with a vagina who wants a dick inside of it?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?I’m guessing you’re referring to BP women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?Very interesting. Thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 05:50 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?Feel free to downvote and rage stalk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?Neither will me explaining it then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 05:34 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?Re-read it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?So BP is a “negative definition.” It “is” not anything. It is simply what something else is “not.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?How is that different from RP lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?So, unlike men (who we hide game from and sweep under the rug), women grow up knowing that BP is BS. What you’re saying is that only men “believe” BP until they discover RP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?Isn’t that ironic, tho? RP is supposed to come after BP, because RP is a response to BP. BP cannot be the response to RP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?Umm, literally the mods of that subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/Trufemcels/comments/9rh7yc/jfl_we_are_faceless_on_the_internet_suddenly_we/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app Also, if that’s how you classify blue pill women, does that mean there are like 5 blue pill women on earth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 04:02 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?I get it. I’m not saying they’re blue pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?Interesting contrast descriptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?Yes, it’s black pill, but they proudly refer to it as pink pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?Exactly, r/Truefemcels (not meant as an insult, just what they self-identify as). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?Idk, because it has 11k members? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 02:33 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?So, basically feminists. How are they different from pink pill, then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 02:17 PM |
| 3 | How important are these things for you?Looks: very important. Personality: the most important. 3-5. Not relevant, don’t care at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 02:15 PM |
| 2 | What jobs do you consider "hot" and what do you find are"boring"?🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: How quickly would you be able to have sex with someone new?Well, first of all, I’m against “waiting” to have sex, but at the same time, I’m against “casual sex,” “FWB” or a ONS. It’s my childhood trauma. I wish I could be comfortable with those things, but I personally can’t. But assuming I was: A 6/10? Umm, basically go to Spiros, Ludlow Street, Astoria or Woodside, and a 6/10 would be more than happy to go back home the same night. So, from spotting to having fun: gym (2hrs) getting ready to go out (2hrs) driving (30mins) settling into bar/club/lounge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: (if you had to pick only one; and couldn’t have both), would you want your preferred man to chase you, or to wait for you?Neither wasn’t a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/19 10:25 PM |
| 9 | What are some reasons why people rape?Uhh, re-read No. 1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/19 06:12 PM |
| 31 | What are some reasons why people rape?https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0123860296/ref=dbs_a_w_dp_0123860296 https://www.amazon.com/Criminal-Profiling-Introduction-Behavioral-Evidence/dp/0123852439 Why do people rape? (70-78% of all rapes) socially delayed persons seeking intimacy (not physical sexual pleasure). These rapists do not want to identify as a rapist. They usually ambush a victim, drug a victim, or otherwise incapacitate a victim. The “set-up” is premeditated and planned over a period of 3-6 months, as is the “exit.” These r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do red pilled men care if women get married later on in life?Country ABC. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/19 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: (if you had to pick only one; and couldn’t have both), would you want your preferred man to chase you, or to wait for you?Ty for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: (if you had to pick only one; and couldn’t have both), would you want your preferred man to chase you, or to wait for you?Thanks for the perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/19 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Which, If any, parts of TRP do you consider to be morally wrong or using the wrong tone, yet factually correct or efficient?Lol 😂 I was fucking a girl in the forest. She was like, “I’m on birth control, you can cum inside me.” I’ve never pulled out so fast, blown my load on the dirtiest leaves 🍁 I could find, and covered them up with dirt. Bitch, I was not born yesterday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do red pilled men care if women get married later on in life?It was a hypothetical example, not a real life example of what Venezuela is actually doing. Come back down off the clouds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: (if you had to pick only one; and couldn’t have both), would you want your preferred man to chase you, or to wait for you?That is for priests and nuns, which is why they get “married” “before” they become ordained. Which is why you also don’t hear nearly as many sex scandals when compared to Catholic priests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 05:20 PM |
| 9 | The best strategy to get commitment and keep a low n count is to only sleep with someone when they've committed to youAgreed on both fronts. No shortage AT ALL of women who take the initiative 100% of their own between date 1 and 3. I’ve been made to feel “slow” when a girl grabs your hand and puts it on her breast or starts to unzip your pants on date 1-2. On the other hand, and this definitely depends where in the United States you are, there is no shortage of adult men who are 100% “willing” and even so much as “prefer” waiting 3+ months or even until marriage to introduce sex (even “thinking” or “talking” a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | The best strategy to get commitment and keep a low n count is to only sleep with someone when they've committed to youHoly shit!!!!!!!!!! This post warrants a new thread on Darwinism and natural selection of women who are less hypersensitive and overly emotional from generation to generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 05:15 PM |
| 2 | The best strategy to get commitment and keep a low n count is to only sleep with someone when they've committed to youThe best strategy to get sex and keep a high n count is to only give commitment to someone when they’ve slept with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why are so many upper-middle class white women alcoholics?Boredom. My mother-in-law works with a lot of addicts. Nearly all of them are white, UMC+. They have it all. They are depressed their life doesn’t have more. They feel lost. What’s the point of it all? What is fun? Have they ever really been happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do Red Pillers fetishize traditional masculinity?Why do Fox News viewers fetishize a version of 1910-1920 and 1940-1950s America that never existed? Why do people fetishize things, period? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: (if you had to pick only one; and couldn’t have both), would you want your preferred man to chase you, or to wait for you?Ty for sharing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: (if you had to pick only one; and couldn’t have both), would you want your preferred man to chase you, or to wait for you?O.o? Umm, I literally went to a Christian Orthodox high school. There was no prohibition against sex before marriage for people not looking to become priests or nuns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: (if you had to pick only one; and couldn’t have both), would you want your preferred man to chase you, or to wait for you?Ty for sharing your story, and then actually responding to the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do red pilled men care if women get married later on in life?Alyssa’s Sex Strike works even if not “ALL” women participate. The problem would be an uncoordinated OPEC problem. Venezuela just wants money, so while other OPEC countries are holding out, Venezuela is benefiting from high sales prices and selling away all she has to offer. BUT, Venezuela doesn’t have an unlimited supply. There are only 24 hours in a day, and only so many men one can naturally and not proactively seek to have sex with. So they would be a “limit” in the SMP of suppliers. All an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 05:04 PM |
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