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This is one of those things where both sides agree with the facts, but they still argue ad infinitum over who's right. Red pill men use Game. They flirt - and practice flirting, because it's a useful life skill to have, not to mention fun. PUAs also do the same thing - but if you really want to find a difference, it's one of degree. Saying that "Game" is all there is will basically turn you into an empty, well dressed shell. Going out just to practice pick up and playing the numbers will, eventu…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 10:05 AM
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> If you do it, do it because it feels good and it makes you feel more confident, not because it increases your chances of getting laid. My trainer is short. 5' short, I'd guess. He's also the most aesthetically swole guy I know this short of Arnold. Very well groomed, dresses well, got a bit of skill and RP knowledge (some of that from me). He's drowning in 7-9s. I can't tell from that how many pounds of muscle you have to add to compensate for an inch - though that's probably a good project fo…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 07:53 PM
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In all honesty, this is pretty much pretending genders are identical. Women can and do sexually abuse men, but this doesn't mean you being groped by a 5' girl and you groping a 5' girl is exactly the same thing. Implied possibility of violence is a real thing. Hell, I argued over a parking space with a neighbor a couple of weeks ago, and it was there even though nothing worse than "asshole" was said.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 12:32 PM
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I occasionally find an old facebook photo of me. I'm pushing 40, and I'm looking way better that at 30, not even a contest. And still moving up.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:30 AM
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It's more bizarre that we're the first to need it. Barely 70 years ago women guarded their reputation like their life depended on it, because it sometimes did. They may have dreamed or wanted to slut, but the actual doing... was probably 100x less than now. Now... it's being celebrated.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 04:52 PM
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Do they? Google "attractor". Pretty people will date pretty people, rich rich, smart smart. If you want it to be scary: successful people generally breed with successful people. See that "blue ribbon" dating site that came out the other day - only for people that tinder considers famous.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 08:46 AM
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And having bigger abs helps, which is the topic of this thread :) Point is, it's very easy to underestimate your percentage. I was at 25% and in denial for a long time, blamed it on the scale battery. Turns out I was just fat. I'm far from shredded, but progress is visible, and abs are stating to be visible too, even though I'm probably still around 20.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 09:20 AM
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I guess my trainer is right. His parting words every session: "Abs and go home".
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 07:37 AM
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That's 10% Abs are visible below 15%, and that's definitely doable. You're probably thinking 3% competition bodybuilder, but that's just plain unhealthy and honestly, not so good looking.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 07:35 AM
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It's a hard lesson, but a lot of the things in the game don't depend on you at all. Maybe she got back together with her ex, or whatever. It's one of the reasons you should put yourself first, and avoid putting all your chips on the same girl. No matter how well you do, things can always go south through no fault of your own.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 07:29 AM
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No. I mean that's a factor, of course (see teachers and students), but there's a much shorter explanation that starts from the same facts: if women want sex they just have to raise their skirts. They have neither the drive nor the motivation to be aggressive in their game. Men are the pursuers, the active party. So it's pretty much a statistic certainty that some will cross the socially defined line.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 07:27 AM
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Not an answer as much as an extra problem. Some hobbies are useless, and some leak benefits into your life. Chose the latter. Short example: I fooled around lightly with archery and indoor climbing. Archery is awesome, but doesn't leave you with anything at all outside the range, or at least nothing worth the effort. Climbing on the other hand gives you a sense of balance, good body, and the confidence that you can climb stuff if you really need to.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 07:23 AM
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Coquette you mean? and you might even be more handsome than she is pretty. 7s get way more attention than 9s. They look approachable, so men approach them - and some of them just went with it and build the skillset needed to milk this for all it's worth. Short answer: just don't. I wasted half a year on one and left with nothing to show for it. In hindsight she was a god damn genius at it, was spinning more plates than a juggler.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 07:14 AM
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The classic response to "too many flakes" is "you're not building enough attraction". Which is 1. how you present yourself initially, looks etc, and 2. good text banter. Yes it's possible - asking about how her day was during text is bad, but not all texts are bad. It's a matter of choice. Make texts less serious... instead of "let's get drinks" say "let's get drunk tonight at X at X time". Also flakes happen. If you get to 50% it's decent.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 07:11 AM
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Genes, maybe. But genes plus education can make a much sturdier building. I'm my grand-grandfather's offspring, even if he died decades before I was born. I've seen this heritage on one other branch of the family, so I know I'm not imagining things. But this doesn't take anything from your point, which is 100% valid: it's going to be uphill and risky as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 09:36 PM
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That's exactly where I am right now. Well, just one business and a decade older, but Eastern Europe so the same money go farther. And you're spot on. I've had a month so full of (mostly sugar) dating the limiting factor was literally the number of evenings. Every type from no strings attached tinder to straight up cash for sex, with everything in between. And... I have nothing to show for it. I also had a more meaningful connection last year which ended because, of course, I went too beta. And i…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 07:47 PM
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Places I take my advice from: http://examine.com/ for supplements. If you have money to burn, buy their stack guides. https://bayesianbodybuilding.com/ for awesomeness https://startingstrength.com/ for beginner schedule https://leangains.com/ for diet Everyobody is saying something different Not really. First thing I did some years ago was to read a lot of books. Turns out they have in common quite a lot. Compound exercises are better than isolation, free weights are better than machines (but no…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 07:43 AM
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Or, you know, maybe they went for your brother because the girl told them he did something.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 05:16 PM
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Wasn't that many years, and it was a pretty honest mistake. And she was open that it was a mistake. Goodall did good science. If you want to piss on someone, piss on Margaret Mead.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 07:37 AM
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https://www.nytimes.com/2017/08/12/opinion/why-women-had-better-sex-under-socialism.html
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 09:05 AM
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Women where made to be ruled, without it, they are incomplete. See, this is why we are being called misogynists. What OP said: at a critical time in their upbringing, women lacked a strong make presence. Therefore they grew up neurotic. What you got out of it: women where[sic] made to be ruled. OP's point works equally well with blue pill men - they also lacked strong male presence and ended up, if not as neurotic, but certainly weaker. Are men also made to be ruled?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 09:04 AM
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That's mostly the age speaking. True, women learn the lesson harder and less often than man, but still - at 20 we all hope we'll land the generational equivalent of Cindy Crawford. There was a saying - up until a certain age you feel that if you try hard enough and train hard enough, you can become one bad ass shaolin mother fucker. But at some point you realize that's no longer true. That's when you've grown up.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 07:24 PM
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You won't pick up chicks with motorcycles alone. You will pick up a lot of guys, and you'll find yourself in a pretty cool brotherhood. But it won't be the chick magnet you hope it will be. IF you have SMV and game then yes, a bike will help you maintain a relationship/plate, or may make a girl pick you over somebody else. But, like many other things, it's only the cherry on the top. Worth it tho, by itself. One of the few things that's way better than (average) sex.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 08:08 AM
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I don't know if this means I swallowed the pill or not, but there is nothing about this which surprises me in the least.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 12:16 PM
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"Getting it" is useless. They may understand the social and biological realities, and I don't doubt many (though not most) actually do. But their interests are still misaligned with men's. Hypergamy is what they actually are and desire, just like we like boobs and long, healthy hair. Understanding why doesn't make us want it less. If we're on the topic of marriage, best guess I read (Roy Baumeister, The Cultural Animal, so a pretty fucking solid guess) is that gender specialization is the first …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 05:47 PM
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Best critical thinking resources I've find come from LessWrong. The Sequences and the forum. The alternative would be a shitload of cognitive psychology: Jonathan Baron, Roy Baumeister, Keith Stanovich, everything by Daniel Kahneman etc. Anybody know anything else?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 05:47 PM
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Comes from basic risk management, I guess (disclaimer: evo psych makes it stupidly easy to explain anything, if you're not careful). Less than 1/3 of living men reproduced. If a guy has a long term mate (aka wife), his chances shoot to over 90%. If he sleeps around, on the other hand: risks harm from competition diverts resources from taking care of his children (born or unborn) risks antagonizing his mate Lots of risk for a rather small payoff - a few hurried copulations which may not give any …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 07:39 PM
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And this is why some things on this sub are not ok for beginners. They have absolutely nothing in common, and it's stupid dangerous to mix them up. Forced sex is a certain kind of sex. In a LTR you can even rationally discuss if you like it. In a ONS it's a bit risky if you misread, because there is a chance of a bad experience. (not always - last week my arm literally got tired from chocking a girl, and she still kept putting my hand on her neck. That was pretty clear). Rape is rape, and this u…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 07:16 AM
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Which is why I fucking LOVE the big names in evo psych. They're wizards - the mental discipline necessary is awe inspiring.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 06:54 AM
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Interesting post, at least as food for thought. Makes you wonder what exactly counts. Anyways, a good principle in rational discourse is to make your point falsifiable. That is, you should also mention what would make a woman a good partner? Otherwise it's just an anti LTR-rant. As an almost 40 yo bachelor I tend to agree that cooking and cleaning are not really great value. But on the other hand most of what remains is covered by your male friends - advice, support, conversation, challenge etc.…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 08:00 AM
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I've seen (and unfortunately had) BP relationships where I could easily call the women a whore, even when no sex was happening. Prostitutes... are mostly fellow business people. I can definitely relate and respect.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:30 AM
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Nah. In the developed world people already aren't having sex to have kids. They either have kids to have a family, or to entrap a guy / receive welfare. Sex robots won't even make a dent here. Plus, I read plenty of evolutionary psychology and haven't encountered AI fear even once.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:28 AM
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Can confirm. They go to either a lover/pimp or to kids. Very rarely to a bank account.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:26 AM
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"Big" is relative. She tried to go for blood, but he had an ironclad prenup and only gave her what he wanted. Which compared to the money he's working with, is probably about 2 orders of magnitude too low to register. Man has a hobby, and he affords to indulge it responsibly.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 06:58 PM
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And I stand corrected. Quite a lot, actually, it looks like IQ tests are designed on purpose to avoid any difference: According to the 1994 report "Intelligence: Knowns and Unknowns" by the American Psychological Association, "Most standard tests of intelligence have been constructed so that there are no overall score differences between females and males." However, differential item functioning does not mean that researchers get rid of group differences due to ability differences, but certain q…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 07:38 AM
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Source? No they don't. Both average and median are about the same, AFAIK. The only difference is that the gaussian is flatter for men. Which means that in EU parliament men will smarter on average - it's a gathering of exceptional people. But it also means that among people working minimum wage jobs women will be smarter. Depends on what sample you chose.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 09:48 PM
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After the last bout of oneitis and the disappointment that followed I shed a lot of inhibitions. I decided that yes, I want to get laid, and started pursuing it through all the means at my disposal. I used prostitutes before, and I keep doing it. Not very often, because the experience is often unsatisfying, plus some risk of STD. I greatly enjoy erotic massages, so I go whenever I feel like I'm not rich, but I work in IT in a poor country. I looked up the equivalents of seeking arrangements here…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 12:42 PM
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Beard depends a lot on your face shape. If you have a weak chin, growing a beard will do wonders for you. There are other things to consider - at 20 a beard will make you look older. At 40 it may make you look younger (or not). There is also a sweet spot in aggressiveness - if you have the body of a bodybuilder, a softer face will make women see the perfect combo (tough guy with a soft heart). So I don't think there is a good-for-all answer.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 12:09 PM
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This only proves welfare and affirmative actions are't good ideas - which is very true. I'm just having a conversation btw - I even said it's more fun if we don't send each other to read sources and just talk.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 09:42 PM
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Literally nothing you said even addresses my comment - or the topic, for that matter. Black people are not just white people with dark skin. They have lower levels of intelligence and a higher propensity to violence. You see the results of the black race in places like Baltimore and Zimbabwe. Sure. I actually agree. The debate is why this happens. You should really read my comment, it's quite nice.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 04:19 PM
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I fucking love being able to openly discuss controversial subjects, and I fucking love that neither of us has a negative score. This being said, I think what you're seeing is a lot more correlation than causation. If we googled enough we could probably find raw data which would prove one point or the other, but honestly it's more fun to try and settle it like this. First, let's settle the baseline (this is very important). "What would we expect to find?". Flynn effect. IQ scores have raised in d…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 08:42 AM
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I'm starting to think maybe there's a bigger thing beneath all this. 20k years ago we were hunting game, came home to a tribe with plenty of hotties, fucked one if we bagged something good, maybe hook up and help raise a kid for a few years, always help raise other kids because they're cute little buggers plus hell, one of them could be mine, who can remember what I did 7 years ago? Had mates, had girls, had family. What do we have now?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 09:03 AM
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Seeing the world other than it is will ultimately be in your disinterest - that's why Red Pill exists. You're not wrong per se, but it would help a lot if you remembered it's a problem of culture, not race. Sure, it doesn't make much difference in this context, but it might come to bite you back in the ass eventually.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 08:58 AM
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There's been plenty of stories here about the guy supporting a girl through college and the girl leaving him almost the same month her paycheck got bigger than his. Same thing here - she's been with him since he was a med student, and now that he has more options, he dumped her. Plus, they were engaged. How would you react to a story about a couple being engaged, when the girl cancels the wedding because she found a guy with a bigger dick?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 01:33 PM
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Weird. I also read "how shitty is that for her" the first time around.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 07:01 AM
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"amused mastery" (ugh) This is a big like negging. If it's done badly, it's an insult (aka "ugh"). Amused mastery done right is exactly what you're claiming RP men don't do: make lighthearted fun. If you can sense a fragile ego - it definitely wasn't done right. but the ability to laugh at yourself is actually an indicator of maturity and self acceptance to most people. By yourself or with people who know you, sure. On a first date... sorry, people aren't mind readers, and take whatever clues yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 09:40 PM
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You can't have alpha orbiters. It's much more likely the girl is simply discreet in her affairs. She gets attention from the guys around her, and good sex from somewhere else (short/medium/long term, however she desires). Literally all she has to do is take basic precautions.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 04:57 PM
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Now that's just you trying to sound alpha :) You started your post with: I will thoroughly cite sources. It's perfectly ok to call you on it. You've basically used one source, which is btw not a final source by itself. This book in its turn should cite proper, verifiable sources. Also, you're requiring us to invest, financially and time-wise, into acquiring and researching this book. That would leave us wide open to sunk cost fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 01:54 PM
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I don't think karezza should be as much instead of sex, as in addition to it. The most red pill woman I know actually has a habit of caressing her husband daily and sees it as a task/duty. "He comes from work, he enjoys lying down and be pampered for a bit". This is also one of the stupidest things about deadbedrooms. Ok - for some reason, you don't have sex. But you're too tired/sick/stressed/low libido for plain intimate contact? Then you have a problem, and it's not related to sex.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 01:48 PM
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Do you recommend any good reading material?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 08:23 AM
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It's a sort of "returning to origins" buddhism. Sometime in the past couple millennia buddhism became pretty much as full of dogma and myth as, say, orthodox christianity. Even the pomp, regalia and places of worship look alike. Some branches though went back to the early philosophical roots and skipped the myth entirely. As much of it as I understand of it looks like a mix of practical rationality training (albeit a very non-standard one) and preparation for the day when aliens arrive and show …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 10:30 PM
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If you're tempted by something more traditional, Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind is a wonderful introduction to zen buddhism. The first couple of chapters are about the proper meditation position, and the rest about the mindset. It's the Western branch of Japanese Soto Zen, which means it contains literally zero religion or mysticism of any kind (and explicitly so). I tried to read different books, and most of them leave too much of an aftertaste to go well with my atheism.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 05:34 PM
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I wish I'd find a better source than this, but there's a principle called locating the hypothesis. It's saying that reading a book is only the last part of deciding on something, and surprisingly enough, the least part. Most of it was already done when choosing which books to read. I get that you want to encourage people to read the book, but to do it properly you really have to take at least some solid arguments out first.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 05:30 PM
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I'm sorry, but I don't see it. I mean, that those foundations invested in feminism, sure, that's quite likely. But the fact that they did it on purpose for power and control - this is a pretty big assertion, and should be backed up with equally big arguments. What is end that they sought? Control. They seek control over their own future just like we seek control over ours - and ensuring they remain on top means ensuring we remain on bottom. Zero Sum. Except it's not a zero sum game. Sure, you ca…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 01:27 PM
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The gamergate is the biggest failure of Wikipedia to date. It shows that some kinds of systemic bias can get through whatever mechanisms they have in place to prevent it.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 09:07 AM
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Stop shitting on this guy. Like it or not, he's actually moving his ass and doing something. Are there better ways? Sure. But I'm guessing the discipline aspect is at least as important for OP as the actual weight loss. He stuck to it, and so he did something most of y'all saying it's unhealthy couldn't do even if you tried. And you know it. Is it unhealthy? Sure. But it's not dangerously so. Not compared to what confidence he got out of it. (For the record, longest medically supervised zero-cal…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 10:48 AM
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Bang her when she gets back but for a girl in Europe, 12 days is easily 12 dicks in her mouth, vag and ass. Remember that when you stick yours back in her or kiss her. Be a little realistic here. 12 days in europe is about 50% chance of a fling at some point, which is def not ok in a LTR. 12 dicks in 12 days just sounds like the title of a (good) porn.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 08:59 AM
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You're missing OP's point. He knows he could have managed the situation. He just decided he doesn't want to. I know the feeling very well. You're playing the game with a girl, you're both enjoying it, and she suddenly goes way off script. Plenty of possible reasons - she's unsure, anti-slut defense, she just wants to play a bit more. It's just that sometimes, they do it in such a way that it take all the enjoyment out of the proceedings. You suddenly feel like the play turned into work, and you …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 09:48 AM
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I know the feeling. Try to go for girls who attract you more. Even if you fail, the realization that they exist will help a lot.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 01:08 PM
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Going to ignore her next semester, and possibly avoid the college club altogether to do more productive shit. Which will make her chase you which will start the feedback loop all over again. In the middle of doing this myself :\ Almost over her, and then she calls me with some bullshit reason and I'm back to sleeping like shit for a week.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 01:07 PM
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I'm assuming you're familiar with the "I notice that I am confused" mantra?
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:20 PM
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I also think OP went the long way with his arguments, but the core stands: there is a discrepancy between the statistics you see in the media and what your senses, intuition and logic tell you. I've had a few arguments on reddit about the studies here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_accusation_of_rape If you filter out very small studies and you actually read the source material, there is a surprising agreement around 40-50% of rape accusations being false. This includes police complaints o…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:16 PM
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There is a difference between a girl wanting to give you a blowjob and you negotiating for one, isn't it? The latter is not only less good, but for many men it's actually a turnoff (as it should be). You can't "coach" a guy to be attractive. It's just like nagging your wife for sex - you get it, but it's going to be meh.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 08:45 AM
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However, I have to make the decision: should I risk pressuring him by setting strict boundaries for my own protection (no more sleepovers, sex, or dates unless an LTR is established) or trust his conditional offer, continue on as we have been, and really up my girl game for both myself and his trust? The question doesn't make sense in the context of the rest of the post. First of all, there is no "or" - all the things about your improvement you should do anyways. Secondly, things are going very …
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 07:50 AM
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The best (and natural) cure for Erectile Dysfunction is, ironically enough, intercourse. You can look it up, it's up there on webmd and mayo clinic. Second best is low dose of viagra. I had a couple of interesting encounters go pfff because of ED, so now I carry a few pills just like I carry condoms.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 07:58 AM
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I upvoted you and agree with the main point, but you picked a horribly example. Not only the statistics are flawed (of course men admit to fucking more girls), the percentage doesn't matter, only the risk. You're more likely to spill hot wax from carrying candle than you are to accidentally fire a gun, but you bet your ass you're much more careful with the gun. A man cheating usually has little consequence - a women cheating can end with you either raising or paying for another man's child for 2…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 07:29 AM
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Nope. https://examine.com/nutrition/do-artificial-sweeteners-spike-insulin/ http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2900484/ http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/3046854
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 07:33 AM
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They aren't that much into you. The average woman on okcupid has 10 conversations like this going on at any time. She has very little incentive to put effort into any one of them. If you were a 10, they would be falling head over heels to be interesting, and you'd at least be able to tell who the really boring ones are. This being said, if you ask TRP "are women [something bad]", you're not likely to get many no-s. Even if in this particular case it's mostly you (or the context - online is the w…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 08:13 AM
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There are plenty of diet sodas nowadays. Aspartame is probably the most tested and proved safe food additive in existence, and is also a slight appetite suppressant.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 06:21 AM
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Well, in a tribal society the mix would be closer to 90% beta and 10% alpha. Most men do their job and take care of their woman/children. Only a select few have the genes or luck to be the chief, or the chief's son, or the best hunter. In a society when women have the state as a "husband" if they get pregnant, there is a much lower need for betas. The proportion should probably be closer to 50-50 for women to actually start to appreciate a good provider. So I'm sorry, but it looks like you'll ha…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 07:30 AM
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I've yet to see anything from the US government that actually disproves the core technology of Theranos I've yet to see something that disproves a teapot on Mars. Disproving is a hellof a work - that's why the burden of proof falls on them to prove they have something to offer. People gave them credit, and several years later not only there is still proof missing, but there are very good indications they've been basically scamming everybody. Things are waaay past the point of "disproving Therano…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 01:42 PM
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I don't think he's talking to them. His audience is outside the room, and there he's scoring plenty of points - with those who voted leave and now suffer massive cognitive dissonance and desperately need reassurance, with those who voted remain or didn't vote and just want a bit of extra hope that maybe things will be ok, with others in EU who want to get out. Whether this will be better for UK or not is less important - for him, it's a huge boost and he's milking it.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 08:22 AM
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"promote an unhealthy body image." Awesome. So we'll ban all images of fat slobs?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 07:48 AM
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Speaking of, could we get a thread going with tips on how to maintain energy levels? Used to be a huge problem for me (actually went for a couple of checkups, found nothing), until I solved it by going to the gym every day just at the time I usually got sleepy, around 2 pm, and by quitting carbs for breakfast.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 07:46 AM
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Will copy an older comment: Did a bit of research and it's really interesting. Wikipedia gives sources varying from 1.5% to 90%, so at first glance it looks like quite a mystery. The 90% source is a small study and I haven't been able to find it, so let's leave it aside. The lower numbers are themselves "lower edges". For example we have a very recent, decent sized study (kelly at al) which is listed as 3% - but that's for the cases which actually ended up as official false accusations. There is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 02:20 PM
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Maybe, just maybe we should put the blame on this for those people who teach women to behave like powerless mice. And if it actually gets to "rape by misunderstanding", maybe we should place the blame on the girls too. I sure as hell wouldn't feel good to find out I just mistakenly raped a girl because she was too timid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 02:06 PM
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This isn't event the main problem. Postpartum depression is real, and in rare cases it can drive a mother to homicide. The real problem is that if you try to tell a new mother that she's not 100% logical, you're mansplaining. Can't have it both ways.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 07:05 AM
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If true, this is pretty fucking awesome information. No disrespect intended, but can you please give us any academic sources on this?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 09:55 PM
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Sure it's satire. But the funny thing is, either they're all oscar-level actresses, or there is juuust a bit too much genuine feeling in there. It's funny, really.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 09:44 AM
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In the very beginning TBP was a parody subreddit, making fun of TRP but still friendly. I read it and occasionally commented. It was fun. Then it got taken over by SRS and ... well... here it is. I actually miss the humor.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 01:37 PM
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But Redpillers are responding to a much more novel and contemporary reality that such biological imperatives: they are responding to women having financial and sexual power over their own lives and bodies. This is much truer than it looks. Women have much more of a choice now than 100 years ago, mainly from an economic point of view. So we live in a world where they exercise this choice. And in this world, it's much better to be a well-muscled asshole than a hard-working gentle money-saver. The …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 10:04 AM
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Ever since the first match I keep thinking how the world will look in 20 years. Progress in IT can come incredibly fast - we could reasonably expect something like 5 years between this and 80% of call centers being made obsolete. I'm a software developer, so I'm safe for a long time - but I'm also aware that when the end will come for my profession, it will be very sudden. Long time or short, in the end programming will enjoy the same job security as being a human calculator. Google's self drivi…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 06:22 PM
2

Of course I wanted to achieve something, I'm not a masochist. That's not the point really - well, not sure about OP, but it's not my point at least. It's about maximizing pleasure. Don't masturbate, have sex. If you masturbate, at least do it seldom and well. Don't watch TV, get netflix. Don't binge on whatever food or sweets you have in the house - let the hunger build a bit and go get something good. If your goal is to maximize long term pleasure, just finding something that feels good and rep…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 09:24 PM
2

I did a calorie restriction diet a few months ago. One of the rather unexpected side effects is that I got a lot more enjoyment out of food in that time. only do it if it sucks That's probably a very bad way to put it. It's more simple than this: the first few pieces of a large chocolate bar get you more pleasure than the whole last half. So it makes sense to just not eat the last half and do something else instead.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 08:11 PM
2

I'm pretty sure Eastern Media is way more feminized than the West. Oh, anime is first and foremost a highly advanced form of escapism. And it could be gettting worse - all big "boy" animes are at least a decade old. Not sure if the current crop has much male-positive examples.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 07:56 AM
2

Treat women literally like children to ensure responsiveness. You can actually play some toys with them. What kind of stuff would you keep around for this?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 02:40 PM
1

The Black Swan by Nicholas Nassim Taleb was what made me realize there are books worth reading out there. After that... so many books. A nod to Eliezer Yudkowsky - From AI to Zombies, if you're into serious stuff, or www.hpmor.com if you prefer light reading.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 07:55 PM
4

Good book, but dark and later gets repetitive. Makes sense when you read the history, but still. I much prefer Seneca when it comes to stoicism. He was literally the richest man alive, and still slept on a blanket on the side of the road when his travels required him to.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 07:52 PM
1

in every way you look at this, this is comedy It's not comedy. It's an unpleasant experience, and while it's relatively rare it probably happens often enough. More often to girls, but to guys too. This is not the issue. The problem is when it's a career-destroying level of politically incorrect to say that it's your fault if you get drunk in a club and make out in the bathroom with an ugly girl. That you should take a shower, a deep breath, and resolve to pay more attention to where you get drun…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 05:21 PM
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I don't know, it probably depends. If they live in the countryside then yes, it's a hard life and it shows. My generation, girls look quite ok well over 30. Most guys over 27 start getting fat btw, but few of the girls (edit: unless they get married). Not like the french, of course. Their women are meh on average, but you will check out 50 year olds in the subway.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 03:01 PM
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For Romania: prices for sex would be around $50 per hour, $30 per encounter. Average wage in the capital is around $750 per month. Hope it helps. It is technically illegal, but not for the john. Well advertised, including reviews.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 12:56 PM
3

I don't know... her attention whoring? I'd expect her to be more embarrassed for a 4.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 11:04 AM
2

I do occasionally. Encounters differ. Sometimes you just bust a nut, and sometimes that's all she's good for. The one in the video would probably not be good enough even for that. But some are closer to "pay for convenience, not for the sex". You meet a young, pretty, smart med student once a week. There's nothing that happens in the bedroom that doesn't happen with a regular girl, both the do's and the don'ts. You just pay for it, and have the convenience of seeing and not seeing her whenever y…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 10:31 AM
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Offtopic, that's the standard looks for an escort in US? If that's the case, come to Eastern Europe. I don't know about the definition of 10, but we have plenty of 9s.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 07:53 AM
1

In direct contrast, one of the primary factors for both SMV and RMV of a man is his status. Possibly the only factor. Unfortunately not. I've seen this from bitter experience: I'm easily the highest status in one of the pools I swim in, but while it's making things easier it's by no means shooting fish in the barrel. Far from it. This is probably why men are suffering today. The civilization they built is taking good enough care of women, so from their mixed mating strategy the Beta route ends u…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 09:39 PM
1

Yeap :) Which is where viagra helps. Helps you have pressure free sex, and after a while you don't really need it anymore. And even if you do you know it's a pill away, so much less worry.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 04:21 PM
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There is actually a drug-free, extremely successful treatment of ED. Guess what it is? It's intercourse. Yeap, the mother of all ironies. But the bright side is, the more (good) sex you have, the less you need any crutches.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 10:23 AM
2

Let's try something risky and actually give advice. Get some Viagra. This one is a no-brainer. Things aren't always perfect in bed, and at the very least it'll take your mind off performing. Spice things up in bed. Get some massage oil and rub her all over or better yet, make her rub you. Don't "try too hard". Being extra nice and doing all kinds of small favors for her will not help you in the attraction department. Dread game. It's usually easy to overdo it and shoot yourself in the foot, so I…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 07:25 AM
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Roosh sales more things, makes more money. Also incidentally gives TRP more exposure, which long term is probably a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 07:04 AM
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A 'heads up' for those men who may be regular Home Depot customers. This one caught me by surprise. I became a victim of a clever scam while out shopping. Simply going out to get supplies has turned out to be quite traumatic. Don't be naive enough to think it couldn't happen to you or your friends. Here's how the scam works: Two seriously good-looking 20-21 year-old girls come over to your car as you are packing your shopping into the trunk. They both start wiping your windshield with a rag and …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 02:48 PM
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Guys, this is getting embarrassing. I know concern troll is a big nono so delete my post if you want to, but this particular post is utterly offtopic and quite a bit of a circlejerk. The guy stole the phone from his wife, not from his daughter. It's perfectly ok to take a phone away from a child, schools do it all the time - but you always return it eventually. He didn't. Ronald Jackson and Michelle Steppe readily admit they are not a couple anymore. Jackson said they were never married but had …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 07:21 AM
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This is a perfectly realistic situation and has likely happened many times, but just a quick reminder that / r / relationships is a breeding ground for trolls, and the guy isn't writing like he's on the phone drunk and with a hangover at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 07:38 AM
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Good comment in itself, but it is completely missing OP's point. OP is commenting on several facts we already know, but I think maybe still close our eyes to. Women go for the top 5% - except if you factor in all age groups, height, game etc, it seems that being a 1 percenter is still not that great Making the right choices early in life - college, a white collar job etc - is ironically decreasing your chances to have sex, if only because you follow a regular routine and have to expand (non-triv…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 07:29 AM
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Funny thing is, you can only waste somebody else's time if you're more attractive. Both ways. Lesson learned: be attractive, don't be unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 06:56 AM
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Mine is consistent to under 1%. I do use it only first time n the mornings. And it could be also a better scale. Not super extensive though, maybe $50 Edit: Uhh, downvotes because my scale works ok? For the record, "consistent to under 1%" means it differs from day to day by less then 1% BF, not that my BF is 1%.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 02:24 PM
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You don't really need much accuracy. Keep the batteries fresh and it'll give you a decent idea of where you are and of day to day progress - which is what you want anyways.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 01:34 PM
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Not sure what you mean by bad bitches, but they're sure hot as hell. Probably the best looking women I've seen.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 07:02 PM
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Hungarian government isn't exactly the best role model possible. Plus Red Pill or not, I can't read this with a straight face: not to mention that the book of Moses does not say anywhere that men and women should be competing on the labour market
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 04:04 PM
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This is actually the best time in the history of mankind to be chair-bound, and it will only get better (unless WW3). So much that plenty of people actually chose it as a way of life. Like many others said, money makes a lot of difference. Programming might be a good idea, and it has another advantage: you can (and probably will) do it remotely, which means you can chose to live in a place cheap enough to offer you 24/7 care plus extra left. Which you can btw spend on sex - this option will stil…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 09:52 AM
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Oh, the biting irony is that she hired him. Literally. He was selected by a committee of less then a dozen people... and guess who's name is on the list?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:57 PM
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Good question. While I don't think there are traits which are 100% the result of sexual selection, most are influenced by it to a certain degree. Where and how much hair we have (head hair, beard, lack of fur), breasts, penis size and others have some functional element, but they're used mostly as signals of high SMV, and most of their value is derived from SMV, and not the underlying advantages. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_selection_in_humans
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 06:48 PM
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With women, all attraction is in some way or another based on safety. Part of it, but definitely not all. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_selection There are certain traits of sexual selection which are more or less arbitrary - a trait is sexy because it is sexy. If a guy is X and X is considered sexy, it means that a woman's children by him will also have have trait X and be sexy. X being relevant to anything else is secondary.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:56 PM
2

Good exercise. Makes me realize how weak my game actually is. Question 1: ”Are you a player?” Why, thank you! Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” Only the pretty ones. Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” I'm thinking about puppies... Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” You mean this week? Question 5: ”Are you seeing anyone else?” Sure. Lots of people. I'm very social. Question 6: ”Are you gay?” Unfortunately not. Just think of all the sex... Quest…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 09:25 AM
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The article is from January, and googling didn't find anything real coming from it. Interesting enough, wikipedia says Allison Sanders is know for prosecuting false rape accusations: As the Director of Public Prosecutions, Saunders has faced criticism and controversy around the handling of trials for rape and sexual assault. The Crown Prosecution Service has been criticised for being too eager to bring cases for perverting the course of justice against those who have falsely accused others of ra…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 07:53 AM
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You know, problem is he's not even strictly wrong. A good family is probably more important than a job, and 60k in Midwest is a pretty good starting point. Problem is he got shit instead.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 05:28 PM
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isn't part of TRP accepting that women themselves don't know what they want And this is where you distinguish good experimental design from great. Good studies do stuff like ask women what traits they find sexy, and it turns out they like tall people. Very good studies show them silhouettes and ask them which is sexier, and find out they like low waist-to-hip rations. Great studies ask men how often they get laid, corroborate this with what their peers say about them and correlate this with vari…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 08:57 PM
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That's just like, your opinion, man. I'm talking about finding answers with some degree of confidence. Even very informative and well written field reports can be just selection bias at work: simply because something extraordinary happened it became a good subject for a post. The reality could be the exact opposite 9 cases out of 10. The reason I believe in TRP is because the evidence comes from several directions at once, and a good part of it comes from good, old, well-established research. It…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:24 PM
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Plus, well, we're often ok to bang a girl even if we don't think she's LTR material. (just the way girls are often ok to orbit a guy even if he isn't sex material). We want different things in a partner, and this kind of personality traits happen to matter a lot more to women. You wouldn't date a girl with thinning hair, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 01:26 PM
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Stories have a point, real life doesn't. Red pill is about renouncing nice stories with simple morals and embracing the ambiguity and uncertainty of real life. There are however plenty of lessons to be learned around you, if you pay enough attention. This would be the point of the story, if there's any.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 10:51 AM
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This is more akin to not allowing homosexuals to donate blood because of higher risk of HIV. It's not discrimination, it's effective altruism: you're doing the most good you can do with limited resources. Allowing single male immigrants puts a higher burden on security and PR. Nobody's going to protest receiving women and children, so you can help much more people overall. I don't think this post is useless, though. It shows that by both SJW and TRP cannons, men still get the shaft. It's a fact …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 10:43 AM
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It's really hard to get what's going on unless you can read panel data and is also long as fuck. If you put it like that it sounds less appealing. I could probably wade the data, but there is something to be said about having the author sum the paper for you.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 04:18 AM
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So men kill themselves more after divorce and women less? We don't mind reading research papers btw.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 06:57 AM
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The current stickied post: https://archive.is/tHxMS The mod team doesn't care if you think a poster is a "little beta" or a "fucking cuck" or any other bullshit that involves negging another forum user. We encourage you to keep it real, this isn't a "safe space" for the weak, but at the same time it is not a battleground where "whoever speaks the most edgy shit wins." When you feel the need to tell someone how pathetic they probably are and how awesome you are in comparison, nobody learns anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 02:12 PM
1

It's probably the danger of good ideas. People discovered that to discriminate against race was a bad thing (and there are pretty powerful arguments that it really is), and it also happen to be a very righteous thing to advocate. So it turned from "common sense" to "sacred". Once you get there anything that you associate it with becomes sacred, and therefore also right. It's a bit like: Black emancipation (good idea) --> black emancipation (good idea / feelz good) --> cultural relativism (feelz …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 09:27 AM
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This is a bit like looking for an excuse. Feminism couldn't and didn't by itself create such a huge fuck-up. Maybe the cultural current of which feminism is just a branch could be blamed for this, whatever you want to call it - cultural marxism or whatever. Science fucked up too, with sociology insisting for about 100 years that the brain is a blank slate at birth. Or, like Roy Baumeister says, it's the natural process of women entering the institutions that men created, now that they're mature …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 07:59 AM
2

The logistic curve is a better approximation. The bulk of the gains come when you've already invested some effort (muscle or otherwise).
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 01:33 PM
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Truth be told, ex-communist countries really didn't have sexism. An educated woman was as normal as blue sky, and women who didn't work full time were extremely rare. Which is why I see facebook feminism imported here and it's a really obvious translation of US issues. Stupid and useless, but I guess catchy enough. Good think most women here don't hesitate to call bullshit publicly, even more often than men.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 06:50 PM
2

From personal experience: Doesn't really matter what you say. Chances are he won't even remember. Be there. Socialize, hang, help. Don't avoid him, don't "give him time to recover" or some other bullshit. Keep things normal - if you aren't, who is? Especially long term - don't avoid talking about his mother. People acted like mentioning family in front of me was a faux-pas. It wasn't, I happen to be quite proud of my mother and see no reason to avoid talking about her. Don't risk being airy or m…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 04:45 PM
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To me it looks like she was still flirting, shittesting etc. She may not have gotten the "just friends" memo, or she was just treating you as an orbiter because that's the only way she knows how to treat men. Either way, I think you just picked a generally shitty human being, not necessarily proven that women can't be friends. Though to be honest I have none currently, and got really burned once when I thought I found one.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 06:13 PM
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Nope. You're redefining a word that has been used in a certain way for years. You don't have to fuck all your plates - you just have to juggle them. Source: http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/ This is very important for two reasons: You can spin plates long before you're able to actually close. It's the go to exercise for getting comfortable with women. Quite a lot of men chose exclusive LTRs, and this is very important: you're not supposed to stop spinning plates. Plates are o…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 06:08 PM
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Why does this[3] [RES ignored duplicate link] come out on top? It's also the absurd low level of fat. That looks (and is) unhealthy at first glance - the ways veins pop out etc. Add another 5% BF and suddenly they're just very big healthy guys - think rugby players. Add a beard and they're impossible to top.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 08:34 AM
1

The opposite of love is not hate - it's quite easy to hate someone you love. It's indifference. Of course, this does not mean you should make people hate you and expect them to love you at the same time, it's a bit more subtle than that. Let's put it this way: say you grow a big beard. You're doing something which is polarizing people - some will be indifferent to it, of course, but there will be some which will care a lot one way or another. Maybe 30% of girls will think it's retarded and scrat…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 08:27 AM
2

Had an interesting discussion about that over the purple subreddit. Bullet points: no documented evidence about pair bonding per se being affected by many STR STRs are documented in multiple studies to be associated with depression in women. CC is not good for you, go figure in personal experience, I am just as likely to fall in love and be stupid at 35 as I was at 15 I've known a rather large number of sex workers. Their criteria for alpha cock are so high through the roof they're astronomic, b…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 12:21 PM
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and has me angry if true. Remember AWALT? AWALT is both true and not true at the same time. Are all women literally like that? Of course not. But AWALT is a good measuring stick the same way we say "treat all guns as if they're loaded". The downside is so much greater than the cost that it doesn't make sense, from a sexual strategy point of view, to wonder if maybe the one in front of you is an unicorn. Treat her as if she's loaded.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 12:57 PM
1

It's probably about pulmonary hypertension, not the regular kind. Interestingly, it's also a decent bet for improving gym performance in healthy people.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 07:12 AM
1

I don't see it. Might be my experience with sex workers, but you're really trying to make this something it's not. You know. The easy fuck you find in a party. As a rule, they're quite particular about separating work and play. You'll never be able to take a prostitute on a date without paying. "Prostitute" and "slut" are different concepts, and have a lot less overlap than you'd imagine. Hell, in my experience they're a hellof a lot more honest about things than your average girl. The situation…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:08 PM
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Picture is accurate, except in reverse. Feminism is selling itself as mainstream. If you want to check subreddit numbers, go to twoXchromosoms - 3 million plus.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 07:52 PM
1

Google vaginismus. It's not very difficult to deal with, and once you do it she can have sex without problems.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 06:50 PM
1

sigh are you familiar with the full quote?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 05:19 PM
1

You're inferring quite a lot. But yeah, what I'm thinking is that "primarily" in parent's comment is a bit ridiculous. I'd much, much MUCH rather work in an explosive factory than go on the front. I know the literal meaning of the comment is different (it's the women who primarily worked in explosives factories, which is probably true), but on a cursory reading it does sound a bit like "the woman are the main heroes", and forget about trench warfare. Like the comment by the politician.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 09:16 AM
1

Sorry, my net isn't at its best right now. Could you please pick a few names that fit the bill? Specifically, they're not famous for being a woman who did something, but for doing something defining. Not just successful or record breaking - records are broken regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 05:05 PM
1

It took a lot of persistence on her part "Convincing daddy" is not exactly a big achievement :) But yeah, I already took back my hesitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:59 PM
1

OP asked about more than just being successful, or a successful woman. There are 500 Fortune 500 CEOs. Some happen to be women - good for them. If Jobs or Gates had been women, that'd have been "defining for their field".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:55 PM
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Yeap. Marie Curie... I had thought about her of course, but I was hesitant to include her because she was a member of a bright family (5 nobels, 2 of which hers) and she might not be as famous had she not been a woman. But that's probably unfair - she did her portion of groundbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:50 PM
1

I did, and found all about Beyonce and Madonna. Apparently acting and singing is what most women are famous for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:39 PM
2

Actually, that's a damn good example. But I'm not feeling very guilty: so far it's Rosalind Franklin, Florence Nightingale from this thread, plus two ex-prime ministers of India and Pakistan from my googling. Not exactly the flood of examples I'd have expected if the pattern didn't hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:38 PM
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GREAT example. She certainly defined her field, and had nothing to do with her gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:35 PM
2

Source? wikipedia says she founded the company, and she's a decent example if so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:34 PM
1

Yeap, this is where the whole question came from. They are such perfect counter-examples...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:32 PM
1

Well not Rosa Parks but the juvenile delinquent her persona was modeled from - I can't remember her name, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:32 PM
1

and also it was primarily the women that risked their lives in factories handling explosives to make the bombs during the world wars This reminds me of that quote by Hillary Clinton.... "women are the primary victims of war".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:31 PM
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Sean Connery was one reason I doubted TRP - why go lift if there is living proof that a guy who can charm his way with the ladies without touching iron? Until I found out he started his career with professional bodybuilding.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 04:53 AM
3

There is NO incentive for the people around you to tell you the cold truth and to push you do do more. Sure, they're "supportive" when it's expected to be, but NOBODY goes out of their way to say stuff like "you have a dead end career" or even the much more simpler and obvious "you're a fat fuck". There is no incentive to do this: there is a real chance you'll get pissed, and little personal gain even if you don't. Plus if you actually move your ass and improve, there's usually more competition …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 12:05 PM
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It should make no difference at all whether your wife has had a couple or scores of lovers, so long as her focus and sexual interests are now zoomed in on you. I suspect you are hung up on the numbers partly because you are insecure about your own sexual experience. This is actually perfectly true, IF her focus and sexual interest would be 100% about him. The problem is if she's "not that kind of girl" when it comes to certain kind of things.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 06:20 AM
1

Individual examples aren't good for proving things ("the plural of anecdote is not data"). Rousey may be the best fighter in the world, pound for pound, and it would not affect RP theory at all. It just means she is an outlier. OP's main example is much better, and statistically relevant. You have a team of players playing multiple matches. That's "data" - a small sample, true, but usable.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:23 AM
3

So I started to plan a different path to class, setting off 20 minutes early to add enough loops to my route to avoid the trio that caused me trauma. I didn’t want to tell him, but I didn’t want to seem unfriendly or uptight. I was delighted when he misheard it, and didn’t correct him. So I’ve imposed my own curfew, and try to be in bed by 11pm. Bill was not a man in the fullness of his mental health, and I thought the greengrocers were mocking me for being intolerant and closed-minded. Even her…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 06:24 PM
1

So maybe he wan't the loser she's painting him to be. Quite a lot of the story doesn't sound 100% believable.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 06:07 AM
3

Is this obsession about making it "official" a cultural thing in US? Where I'm living, if you've been acting like a couple for 6 month you are a couple, no need to put your knee down and make a show of declaring it.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:04 AM
2

Orson Scott Card took a lot of flak on forums for being extremely conservative politically. At the time I was pretty stumped by the contradiction. I wonder how I'd feel now if I re-read his essays...
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 06:23 AM
5

and amazing chick magnets. Must be using them wrong. They're a much better dude magnet by far.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 07:42 PM
9

The balls on these women are bigger than those on a silverback gorilla in heat. Not a nitpicker by nature, but this is a place to discuss sexual strategy... Gorillas do their sexual competition outside the bedroom - the lead male has exclusive access to females. So they have no sperm competition and rather small testicles.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 07:41 PM
0

Well maybe there are overall much fewer buff men, so you don't see them. Or they can have short term relationships without having to commit unless they want to. To falsify this hypothesis you need to find buff (and cut!) men struggling to find a relationship. Which I can't say I know of.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 05:34 PM
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Well, this thread counts for as much an unofficial poll as you can make without cooperation from the mods in trp, and I can't really see the majority you're talking about. This being said, I lost my liberalism in trp. Well, more accurately, I lost it about a year ago when I tried to talk to the people in /r/TheBluePill and found out the feminist caricature I had been reading about wasn't just on paper. And then I slowly started to associate huff post and guardian with "biased news", and to see t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 05:37 AM
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Well that's ok because feminists actually hate having children and purposefully destroyed the concept of family so they can blame something else for staying child free. Which is something with exactly as much supporting evidence as what you've said. Come on, could you at least pretend to offer sources? At least one link, so we can say it's not representative (it's really not, but it's polite of you to make the effort).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:45 PM
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I strongly suggest you read "Is anything good about men", the book. It's exactly about this. The tl;dr is that men created civilization with sweat and blood and death, and once it became obvious that it was a good thing, women wanted their share. The funny thing? The author is a liberal academic. TRP is not about how things should be, but about how they are. Women are in the process of being included in all the institutions men have created, and this will cause great effects. Some of them are pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:35 PM
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I started a thread about this in PurplePillDebate asking for sources (it's in my history - ignore the blue blala there and look for the comments with links). It didn't turn out anything about pair bonding - no research its effect diminishing and quite a lot of anecdotal evidence on pair bonding still happening. My reasons for asking the questions were: I don't feel I have less capacity to paid bond as time goes on. I am equally likely to fall in love and make mistakes at 35 as I was at 15, I jus…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 07:48 AM
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I said that in PurplePillDebate, I'll say it here: What is good for the gene is not necessarily good for the person This should be gospel for everybody using evo-psych. Of course this is why we dislike a high partner count. OP's question is more broad: in the modern world, where we have birth control and paternity tests, is it still a good idea to listen to your instincts and avoid a high count? And it turns out it is, but for different reasons (look for my other comment here).
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 07:47 AM
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Oh, you're an idiot. Never mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 04:38 PM
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That's... not nice. Of course I'm not going to write stuff in that format, partly because I actually mentioned in the comment I'm somewhat short on time but mostly because I don't feel like it. But this doesn't call for this kind of language. Honestly (and don't take this the wrong way, especially if I'm right by any chance) this makes you look a bit like the "aspie" in this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 04:33 PM
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See my comment above. It's actually a very fucked up and unfortunate mistake. A few years after Freud a couple of people (Émile Durkheim, Marx is also mentioned) went on to invent the science of sociology, of which they were very very proud. The central (unverified) assumption they made was that the mind is a general information processing instrument, and whatever "tendecies" we have are the product of culture. I'd like to say this was unimaginably stupid, but it's not - with the information the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 04:26 PM
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The first chapter of the handbook is literally about this. The resulting changes to the social sciences are expected to be dramatic and far-reaching because the traditional conceptual framework for the social and behavioral sciences—what we have called the Standard Social Science Model (SSSM)—was built from defective assumptions about the nature of the human psychological architecture (for an analysis of the SSSM, see Tooby & Cosmides, 1992). The most consequential assumption is that the human p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 04:09 PM
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That's a very common mistake to make when discussing evolution and evolutionary psychology, and it's probably the no 1 cause of misunderstandings: what is good for the gene is not necessarily good for the person And more to the point, the reason we do things and the reason genes shaped us a certain way have nothing in common. Which also means you can't ever say that people "should" do something because we evolved a certain way. On-topic, TRP is actually not against LTRs. It is very much against …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 02:17 PM
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Said everybody who never read evo-psych. Or statistics, for that matter. EP is hard, but its results are amazingly solid. If you try to compare an EP result with the psychology paradigms before it, it is not only more logically sound, but it gives numbers and repeatable results. It's a whole new step up in how to deal with the human mind scientifically. Before that it was stuff like "this looks like it makes sense so let's do that". How on earth they could actually imagine the brain is made up m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 11:27 AM
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The main issue here is the sheer size of the mountain of evidence. Honestly I don't even know where to begin digging. Just to give you an idea of size: Almost everything in evolutionary psychology supports parts of TRP. Incidentally, the handbook opens with a now famous scathing critic of SJW in science. A list of 250 relationship studies. And point by point (noting that I have limited time right now). The comments are from an evolutionary / genetic point of view, definitely not moral and (an of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 11:03 AM
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The question comes up though, is a benevolent alpha possible? And why are they so rare? In a time and place where most women behave like ladies, it's only proper to behave like a gentleman yourself. If you try to do this in current western world, you're likely to be taken advantage of or mistaken for a pussy. This doesn't make being a good guy something inherently wrong, but it means that it's much harder to pull off. It take a higher level of alpha to be a benevolent alpha than to be a jerk, in…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 10:27 AM
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Frequent RP client here. Just wanted to say everything op says looks legit. My country is somewhat less "civilized" and prostitution less accepted, but after correcting for this it's exactly what I'd expect. Also the relation between partner count and paid bonding is something I'm also undecided, partly becausd I've seen too many sex workers being in love, jealous and overly dedicatec to the point of irrationality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 08:13 PM
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Good links (read them yesterday but couldn't reply). In the end the evidence is solid, but not as wide as assumed in TRP: there is a clear link to life style, so while a direct causation between many partners and worse LTR is not (yet) established, it is at the very least a big warning sign some things are more correlated than others: infidelity and substance abuse have strong correlations, depression and less lifetime happiness not so much several studies mentioned short term depression, sugges…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 06:56 AM
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Joss Whedon wasn't pandering, he was the real deal. He actually encouraged women to man up and solve their problems. He has absolutely nothing in common with the kind of feminists who think teaching women self-defense is the same as supporting rape.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 07:42 PM
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Would you mind if we do a bit of book exchange - what else did you read and would recommend? My RP-tinged reading list also includes: Roy F Baumeister, Is There Anything Good about Men (but also pretty much everything by the guy) Donald Symons - Warrior Lovers - short and sweet Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam - A Billion Wicked Thoughts, really really great book with clever insights into the woman brain. David Buss - Why Women have Sex. It's co-authored with a (smart) woman so the tone is a bit more mel…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:57 PM
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Good article on caffeine. Worth the read, but tl;dr: side effects start at 200 mg caffeine per day which is a bit over two cups of coffee half life is 5 hours (more if you're have a slow caffeine metabolism like I do - 23andme.com rocks btw), so 10 hours after you still have about 1/4 still kicking drinking just one cup in the morning keeps you away from side effects and tolerance. For better dosage and absorption, use caffeine in powder form.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 06:59 AM
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I don't really see it as obsession. More like "good for them" for the rare (usually very old) couples where that happens, and dire warnings against very high counts. Nobody's really expecting to find virgins anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 07:28 PM
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Yeap. The article doesn't even touch what he actually did - just a list of things he didn't do. I can't really judge based on just that.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 06:22 AM
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Well, if you get to the point where you can be your own men, good for you. But if you're asking for help you're not there yet. Also respect is pretty much the coin in men-world. Unless you're aiming for monk mode for life you're going to have to interact with people, and knowing when to be a whiny bitch and when not is pretty useful.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 07:36 AM
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Neh. Lots of people in the anger phase react exactly like this, and I'd bet that most overreact in some way. I've seen it happen. It's a pretty traumatic thing to have your life view turned around, and it especially hits you when RP stuff starts to work. Hard to put reasonable limits on what looks like a cheat code. When you have a hammer... It's statistically plausible, even likely that some member of the family or SO would come here for advice. Actually I'm betting it's happened before, but mo…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 07:19 AM
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Can we use this to get feminist websites banned?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 05:44 PM
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What really helped me open my heart to Jimbo was suddenly seeing him as a kid having a temper tantrum. But seeing him control everything on set was really sexy. However, what's sexy on the set is not necessarily sexy at home.'" I'm reading this in a slightly different way. Hot guys are coconuts: hard on the outside, soft on the inside. Or in TRP lingo, looks like he failed a few comfort tests at home.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 06:19 AM
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She just answered, and quite well.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 06:06 PM
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Oh, it worked. And as shock therapy it was probably very good. But if you read a bit more from Rational Male, he talks at length about overt vs covert communication. Point is that both ultimatums and overt communications are a loser's tool. They signify you're either a very bad player of the game, or at the end of your rope. This is why he should switch to covert communication from now on, and subtle dread game like improving himself or going out with the guys.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 05:56 PM
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I actually have an answer, or at least a framework for stating the answer. Take a look at this. That's a marketing graph for how people generally adopt radically new ideas. You'll first have the innovators - the gadget freaks, those who buy $2000 mobile phones when they're still the size of a brick. Us. Red Pill is unfashionable, immature and socially dangerous, but we're still here. RP already crossed the first hurdle, because early adopters (aka a good part of reddit) mostly embraced RP ideas,…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 04:21 PM
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Roy Baumeister did a lot of other cool stuff. This should be required reading.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 06:05 AM
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Well, technically you're talking about my argument right now, because GLO was talking about politics, dinner conversations and by context this conversation. I generalized. And I actually stand by the generalization: like most hardwired biases, caring about the sex of the speaker is something we're unlikely to be able to ever completely shrug off. But sure, you're a lot more likely to see effects on reddit than in academia. I'd happily even concede that it's possible that in your field of academi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 07:36 PM
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The meaning of the word "gentleman" changed. Back then it was closer to a combination of "rich and cool", in this order.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 07:27 PM
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Was really puzzled by his comment until I read his next reply: You really don't care about the quality of things you just want women included like its some sort if fun summer camp. Woman stifiling intelectual discourse in academia with their feelz. You dont care about the quality of institutions. Your primary concern is how many vaginas are walking around. And then I got it. He is perfectly, literally right, including in this context. His argument translated: "Women muddle intellectual discourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 07:22 PM
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I think it's the mirror image of women wanting commitment. You can be and mean much more for a young woman in a LTR. First to have sex maybe, but also first (and only) to show and do with her many more things - and so we (hope) to ensure her fidelity. An older woman is more jaded and hypergamous. Her capacity for pair bonding is lower. Her impressionability threshold is much higher. You are automatically less of a man for and with her. And this is both bad for a LTR, and also subjectively feels …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 07:08 PM
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I think I've seen half a dozen loaded questions here, so I'm going to bring it up in the open: Why do you think it is immoral for a man to sleep with a married woman? We're excluding the case where he has some form of relationship with the husband, there's no controversy there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 07:02 PM
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Was this deleted from the front page by any chance? Why?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 06:56 AM
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We don't censor anything. That is outright wrong. The official policy of this sub is to delete posts for a large number of reasons, starting with quality, topic, concern trolling etc. I've had at least two posts deleted from the front page which had already generated interesting conversation in comments (one about getting out of the friend zone, and the first thread about Ellen Pao a few days after she became CEO, deleted after being upvoted over 100). I'm not saying this to complain - I actuall…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 09:10 AM
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Come on, I marry a girl and I'm expected to be at her mercy to have a kid? Just like she is at yours, if you keep using condoms or get a vasectomy. People talk about this kind of things before marriage, and if the other guy/girl changes their mind then you're free to get a divorce. Which btw is one of the good things feminism did. Don't mix up stuff like "choosing to have a child" with "having sex outside marriage". That's exactly how feminism works. "You're against rape and abuse, right? Good, …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 05:44 AM
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Came here to comment this, but at least I'll upvote it. However, I think it's productive if we make it clear what we talk about, otherwise we'll just get a comment marked "controversial" or downvoted: India needs Second Wave Feminism right now, and probably needs a hell more of it in rural areas. I wouldn't be surprised if there are places where even first wave would be useful, with things like voting and property rights. Taking the same need and applying it to the modern, urban culture, you end…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 05:39 AM
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For one thing, I don't consider marriage to be "sacred" by default. There are barriers I would't cross, like betraying a friend or destroying a good thing, but a piece of paper or a religious ceremony hold no power over me. If social convention or economic reasons or even children are the only thing holding a couple together, there is little left to desecrate. Read some posts in /r/DeadBedrooms to get a picture of how such a marriage looks like, only imagine that both people checked out. Also ma…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:37 PM
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The most beautiful thing is that OP posted the first two threads back when /r/theredpill didn't even exist. You can't say he's a RP troll or a madeup story. He really is a guy who used to post more in suicidewatch and is now happy.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:27 PM
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In the sense that woman will always point their fingers at everyone and everything else but themselves unless cornered. That actually is general human behavior. Look at all the blue pillers out there who keep blaming everything but themselves for their lack of success with women.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 12:54 PM
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In which way AWALT? In this case it looks like she is a generally shitty human being, which thankfully isn't the case for most human beings, including women. We use AWALT to remind ourselves if certain traits of character which indeed all women posses, some in greater degree than others. Like men liking boobs, or women being hypergamous. Overusing anything dilutes its value, and this also applies to TRP concepts.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 10:28 AM
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Honestly, I'm a bit low on patience to again research papers only to have them ignored, but with 2 minute googling: http://www.sscnet.ucla.edu/comm/haselton/papers/ https://xsplat.wordpress.com/2013/09/25/250-relationship-studies-organized-by-category/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 06:33 AM
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all the other RPillers I kinda resent that. Also can't help but point out that the first thing US women did when they got to vote was prohibition, which is widely regarded now as a stupid move. Sorry, couldn't help. It is an obvious joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 07:04 PM
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There is plenty of science supporting TRP. It's probably not discussed much because it's simply drowned in all the other topics, but it's there. Alpha fucks beta bucks, difference in mating habits, women's preference for muscular dominant men - all is pretty well researched.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 07:02 PM
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r/relationships demonstrates the dangers of bluepill thinking once again. Your problem is the word "demonstrates". You can use "illustrates" and be perfectly in the right. But that's all. That thread is simply an anecdote. The probability of something being true when you only know one data point... well, there is some fancy math where you can get an estimate, but the short story is that you can't compute it. It's just one data point. It's not enough. What you have to do to demonstrate something …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 06:56 PM
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This is beautifully put, and it describes probably 3/4 of the problem. Not all however, because we should be able to find some common ground if this was all. With all the talking that's going on. But more often than not we can't, and call me biased, but when it comes to rational conversation with proper arguments, rp wins in most conversation threads. BP more often than not ends to "but it's horrible, can't you see?!!!", while RP keeps describing their side of the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 06:48 PM
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This also implies abolishing welfare, free health care and free education, because they're also paid by those who do not benefit from them (aka male bachelors). I admit it solves this particular problem very well, but not being an anarchist I hesitate to live in such a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 06:38 PM
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You see, this is why trp men find it frustrating to talk to feminists. What you're doing is putting your fingers in your ears and yelling (rather loudly) lalalalalalala. You weren't near providing a solution to op's question. You're simply pretending you are so that you can rant. Sure, if there are other people who like feminism they'll upvote you and comment approvingly and criticize trp together and unchecked will basically end up like TBP, but you're not doing any rational progress. You're no…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 06:36 PM
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Name them and I will show you how wrong you are. ... not sure where to begin. Everything in cognitive psychology in this century? All research by Baumeister, Kahneman, Stanovich and god knows how many others. Half the things in TRP come from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 12:56 PM
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modern art Modern art moved to deviantart. If you still look for it in museums, sure, you're going to find shit. Science has all become packaged lies made for easy digestion. Haha. Now I know you don't read enough. There are freaking amazing things happening in the past decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 12:26 PM
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Ok, speaking of red/blue, this is a point where TRP was an amazing epiphany for me. I always considered myself center left, but if I'd live in US I'd definitely have been democrat. Seeing how blue people react to TRP was an amazing experience. There was no reason - only hate. Gershwin's Law aside, I actually understood how you can take a good idea (like feminism or egalitarianism or other leftism) and use it to build a dictatorship and kill people. I'm hiding my normal account because I'm afraid…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 11:33 AM
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RP here - everything in this comment is spot on. I'm really hoping the pendulum will swing back and TRP will get a bit more common sense in time. This post for example is encouraging: http://np.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/32ztxn/nawalt_i_found_a_snowflake/ In the meantime I still think TRP gives more value to my life than it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 11:21 AM
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All people are trash. Beware of golden glasses when remembering history. Do you know why old music is almost always better than contemporary music? Because it has 10x the quantity and only the best survived. It has nothing to do with any actual progression of music quality. Same with people. I'm betting we are actually better, both in average and in peaks than 10, 50 or 100 years ago. Let alone the Flynn effect, a huge percentage of population is better educated and has internet access. Which of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 11:15 AM
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You went to the wrong subreddit. Literally - you were looking for /r/PurplePillDebate, which works surprisingly well and has an extremely high signal to noise ratio. I even used it to challenge TRP ideas, which can't be discussed here because of the "no concern trolling" rule. TBP used to be a pretty funny satire sub, for about 2 months. I liked it. Right now it's just a circlejerk, without any shred of redeeming quality.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 11:08 AM
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"I'm just trying to help the guy" Implies: the guy needs help, it fucks him up even worse I'm so not into you I'd rather help him
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 10:38 AM
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Right questions to ask is: suggest a study design which would disprove red pill beliefs. The food blogger who committed suicide a few posts up/down had a pretty good point: statistics finding no patterns in race and short term relationships. Statistics finding no correlations between male musculature/height and female beauty in short term relationships. Speed dating studies showing a better correlation between female positive feedback and intelligence than height/musculature. Studies disproving …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 10:24 AM
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Seriously? That link was my commute reading for a couple of months. It's pure gold, and I got it from TRP. Rollo Tomassi from rationalmale has a BA in psychology. I was saying that you can find anti-psychology idiotic comments, thought not many, but all top posters are pro and occasionally know a lot of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 10:05 PM
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https://xsplat.wordpress.com/2013/09/25/250-relationship-studies-organized-by-category/ Not a science at all. Ironically enough, I'm also going to say you're talking with the wrong RPers, and to hell with scotsmans. For the record though, while I've seen mild science-bashing comments moderately upvoted I've never seen a major post even hinting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 09:31 PM
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My throat is metaphorically sore already: I'm not trying to convince you TRP is good. I'm trying to convince you its ideas can be debated - aka it'a not all green sky situation. One we get there we can talk about whichever TRP concept you want, but to do that you first have to stop treating it like it's Satan's bible brought up from hell all on one package of sin, and actually talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 09:25 PM
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Contemporary Nazi rally, sure. We have the benefit of hindsight and anybody ignoring it is either stupid or evil. But original Nazi Germany was a pretty normal place, with children happily growing up in youth Nazi organizations and normal Nazi wives watering Nazi window-flowers. TRP doesn't have much history yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 09:19 PM
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You're saying it's impossible to take a post and discuss the ideas in it? Actually, now that I think about it, this might be the crux of the issue. You can't. It could be a male/female thing, it could be a matter of personality, but thinking about an emotionally charged event and discussing it on an abstract level is something I don't see often in blue-pillers. Reddit has a large percentage of INTJs, and I'm guessing TRP has even more. We thrive in analyzing things. We can bitch about an ex wife…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 09:14 PM
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Well, first of all, we are hanging, and I am one of those degenerates (thank you). And don't you find it ironic that you're rejecting a bunch of people based on their affiliation? That'd be close to what I consider prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 09:02 PM
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Well sure, that's exactly like taking specific examples from TBP and calling all non-TRP people infantile. It's not true scotsman if you're using specific people to generalize to a... I can't even find a name for it. It's not even mature yet, let alone easy to generalize from examples. Try debating ideas instead of users and it'll work much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 08:55 PM
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Why? There are very few things I can only get in one place. I'm not trying to convince you TRP is good. I can't, and I honestly don't even want to. I'm trying to convince you that it can be debated. This way I gain somebody who can criticize my ideas, which is a whole lot more valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 08:51 PM
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God point. Except we're trying to discuss here if it's actually a nazi rally or just a biker's club with a few skinheads mixed in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 07:50 PM
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If TRP is defined by what all TRPers say on the TRP subreddit, then TRP includes everything you sent me, true. But I am on TRP, so does this mean that I automatically endorse everything there, including the tone and the rudeness?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 07:30 PM
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There is literally no context that makes 99% of any of that even remotely okay. I said they used the theory in inappropriate contexts. This is not the same as saying that whatever they said can be put in another context and magically made clean and proper. The difference may be a bit subtle, but it's important. You can have a nazi saying that blonde people are better because of <insert argument from genetics>, but that doesn't make genetics itself wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 07:06 PM
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I promised I won't debate each point and I'm glad I did, but I will say that they're not TGS-level. I can definitely see how they could seem that way though. I'd like to take an example - I'm not trying to convince that it's right, only that it can be discussed. Paraphrasing: "threesomes are bad". The logic behind this is two-fold. First, TRP considers that the number of sexual partners has an impact on the success of a LTR. There is some scientific support for that, and it's also the common sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 06:52 PM
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CFRProflcopter is in the right here. Quality debate requires some amount of structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 06:37 PM
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So, why shouldn’t I fuck and suck whomever, whenever the mood strikes me? Yey for middle ground :) I think there's a misunderstanding here, including probably by TRP. TRP says that if you find a woman with a very low count, she's very likely good LTP material. And it's probably right. But this is from the point of view of the guy finding such a girl (and useful only if he's looking for a LTR). From the girl's point of view, it means that keeping a low count gives her a better chance of pairing w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 06:35 PM
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So, why shouldn’t I fuck and suck whomever, whenever the mood strikes me? Yey for middle ground :) I think there's a misunderstanding here, including probably by TRP. TRP says that if you find a woman with a very low count, she's very likely good LTP material. And it's probably right. But this is from the point of view of the guy finding such a girl (and useful only if he's looking for a LTR). From the girl's point of view, it means that keeping a low count gives her a better chance of pairing w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 06:35 PM
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No, he cut salaries for civil workers when the financial crisis began. But honestly, if you consider that bullshit as even mildly representative for TRP, you're simply plain wrong. And probably a victim of confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 06:23 PM
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You know, we have a politician in my home country who's generally reviled. He's kind of a jerk. Thing is, I can never get any actually reasons why he's so awful - he just "is". It's a consensus, something obvious that any decent person knows he is so. I like him a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 06:13 PM
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In the beginning religious people were more common on TRP. It's very likely that for some reason religiosity is correlated with it (though I wouldn't really call TRP gender politics, it's much too centered on the individual and lacking prescriptive social discourse). But now it's getting close to the general reddit markup, which means mostly atheist. It's generally agnostic/indifferent to anything not related to its mission: religion, politics, sexual orientation or nationality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 05:59 PM
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Actually, I'm going with the group doing the judging. The other one definitely not going to help me improve in any way (or simply lying).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 05:56 PM
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I am missing your point, and getting genuinely curious. Would you mind giving me examples of "sky is green"? Later edit: there was a deleted reply to this saying: Most subjects on here are subjective though, despite TRP thinking they are objective about it. There is no winning and losing in these discussions, since we can't verify what is true and who is right. Wrote a longish reply before realizing it's deleted, so I'll just put it here: That btw is reminding me of postmodernism and its relativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 05:54 PM
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Asking you to mention them here would be overkill, but I'm sure it's not really much trouble to provide a few links to older posts in this subreddit where TRP gets completely trashed in a reasonable debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 05:48 PM
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The only numbers I've seen that are close to that are statistics among men who asked for paternity testing - where the results were around 30%. All the general population studies that I know of (including an anthropological study across tens of cultures) are 2-10%, with 3-5% in western cultures. Bad, but not that bad. There isn't really enough motivation when there is welfare and forced child support.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 05:29 PM
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Oh yes. People talking about discrimination are very very careful not to talk about factors which actually discriminate, like wealth or IQ. That would mean having to tackle real problems, instead of just using identity politics for profit.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 10:51 AM
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Negotiation is based on roughly too components: open practical discussion centered on solving a common problem, and a game of chicken (aka both need to consider that the other party may leave the table). The risk of leaving the table "irrationally" is directly proportional with testosterone, and the interesting thing is that apparently people can guess if they're dealing with a high or low T person, and adjust their offers accordingly. Make a lowball offer to a high T person and there is a fair …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 08:14 AM
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Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 02:07 PM
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Yes, but we're discussing sexual promiscuity here specifically. Sexual promiscuity a very bad thing to have in a wife, but depending on context it can be neutral in a husband. If we had been talking about emotional promiscuity, whatever that is, the argument would work in the other direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 02:06 PM
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Of course it matters. It's the same reason I can't brag about having sex with a call girl: she's getting paid.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 02:03 PM
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From an evolutionary psychology perspective, marrying a "slut" is a very very risky thing for a man to do, and very stupid unless her SMV is significantly higher. Marriage means first of all a commitment to raise her children, so any risk of her being unfaithful is a risk of the man investing huge amount of resources into somebody else's child. Men cheating sexually (aka meeting a girl in a bar, having a one-night-stand, and not getting her number afterwards) has almost no negative connotations …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 09:19 AM
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It doesn't really matter if causation is proven or not. Correlation is enough to balance the probabilities. You don't know in which direction the causation goes, but in real life we often don't. But we still don't ignore evidence. I can probably dig up the math for this, I actually read about it recently. It's a consequence of Bayes Theorem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 09:12 AM
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TRP is basically a road map to making one a high value man. However, once becoming high value it turns out there is little point in committing to a single partner, for various reasons. This is suboptimal - humans are in the end pseudo-monogamous animals, and we enjoy pair bonding and raising a family. This is where RPW comes in - it tries to be a similar road map to becoming a women that a high value male wouldn't mind committing to. As for the general question, "How do women benefit from the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 09:04 AM
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Dataclysm, I think in the first chapter talks about the age preferences of men and women. The guy had access to a ton (more like a shit-ton) of data in his career. He was CTO of okcupid, and worked with datasets from facebook and match.com. Turns out women like men slightly older up until 30-40, then slightly younger. Men on the other hand like 21 year old women, period, regardless of their age. There is just one small cluster of young men who chase cougars - not small enough to be insignificant…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 08:57 AM
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Science is very much pro red pill. Sure, you'll find the occasional feminist study, but anybody can publish a study. It matters that it's peer reviewed and cited. And those tend to support (and expand on) what we talk about here. Sure, they won't have the same language and when written about in mainstream press there will be plenty of weasel words to appease the feminists, but the content is there and it's good.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 08:34 AM
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I've seen it happen a few times. I'm in a country where prostitution is illegal but barely enforced, with a rather large Gini coefficient but overall very safe. Aka perfect ground for independent escorts. In a couple of cases I've caught young girls when they've barely started their careers. There was a level on which I could connect to them which just disappears after 3-6 months. I still like them, they're still fun and pleasant to talk to, but you can feel the capacity to bond on a romantic le…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:56 AM
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Soo... you're saying women actually have a dual mating strategy? Alpha fucks beta bucks? Being easy and looking for sex with hot guys on Tinder and being all prude and looking at job credentials and accommodating personality in a husband? Or are you saying that those women who populate Tinder are all non-wife material? Because that's slut shaming on a scale TRP never even tried to touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/15 03:19 PM
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There's plausible deniability, for one thing. She can be semi-public about it and claim she didn't touch the forbidden fruit. Which automatically makes the whole thing more accessible to women. It's also somewhat more high class. Personally I'd prefer this sort of arrangement if I'd afford it (or well, if there was a similar service where I live).
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 06:05 PM
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Her career was over when she fucked her boss Why? Doesn't make sense either from my experience nor from what I hear of this case - trouble apparently started a long time after the affair was done and over.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 09:55 AM
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Everything described here can be achieved by a female best friend No it can't, and that's the unspoken context here. Any sane person would take offense with 37 calls early in the morning, man or woman. Except the third sex: the beta.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 03:41 PM
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This attitude suddenly makes sense if you redefine marriage. The way men see it, it has a quite heavy romantic side: you're the only ones for one another, the relationship has a lot of meaning and investment. The way these girls see it is more or less a social construct. There may be faithfulness and monogamy, but there isn't really much emotional investment in it. It's a cohabitation contract which fulfills various social and emotional roles - and much more for the woman than for the man. There…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 12:08 PM
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Much of what is called "assault" today was much less serious for 99% of our evolutionary and cultural history. I've know a now very successful married couple back when they were just dating. Once in the car, over an argument about her receiving text messages he turned around and slapped her. I was mortified - to my morals that was a huge faux-pas, plus I was preparing to get my ass kicked if he'd try to do it again. Retrospectively... I won't go as far as "she deserved it" or "it was the right t…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 01:22 PM
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Especially if you hear yourself using them. It's not just the mob you need to learn to watch from a distance. You need to be able to watch your own thoughts from a distance. That's not a radical idea, by the way; it's the main difference between children and adults. When a child gets angry because he's tired, he doesn't know what's happening. An adult can distance himself enough from the situation to say "never mind, I'm just tired." I don't see why one couldn't, by a similar process, learn to r…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 12:24 PM
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Experienced the same with motorcycle and programming talk, and pretty much any serious topic. Also, I've seen plenty of guys giving their uninformed opinion - hell, if I were to paint the portrait of the typical opinion giver, it would be male, 50, with a pot belly and a drink in his hand. Also Dunning Kruger effect.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 11:06 AM
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Exactly. I'm almost tempted to forgive her for trying to "open the marriage" instead of just breaking up. Neither of them is a great human being, in the end.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 12:47 PM
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Since her husband did not want to have children but wanted to stay with her. So had a vasectomy. I'm with the wife for this one. The whole point why a (good) woman skips CC is to have a family. We here in TRP should be long over the Disney stories of women being completely monogamous by nature - so why exactly are you pissed about? She paid a real price by marrying him and he didn't live up to it. I'm all for childless marriages and will probably end up in one myself, but it has to be a mutual d…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 10:57 AM
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It's completely irrelevant to the alpha/beta dynamic. If anything, it's going to encourage it. I've been... let's just say I've had moments I'm not proud of in the past, so I can speak from experience: lust and romantic love hit different pleasure centers in the brain. Porn will never satisfy a guy to the point where it can replace a oneitis. It can't, it's just like putting a round piece in a square hole. So if it can't make things better, how can it make them worse? Well think of it this way: …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 09:11 PM
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To say that you're one of the leading voices in the manosphere is also a bit much He really is. Nowadays RP is more widespread and the concepts are probably more mainstream friendly, but he is one of those who made it this way. He was writing incredibly good content back when reddit didn't exist yet.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 05:33 PM
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INTJ (like probably half the people here), and this is actually a very good point. I'll think about it.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:04 PM
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Read Dataclysm, I don't think there is any argument better for the Wall. First chapter is simply beautiful. One tidbit I remember: men dutifully set preferred age limits in concordance with social norms, including slightly over their own age... and then keep messaging 21 year olds.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:10 AM
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So you make a woman cheat on the guy That's why we make fun of women having no agency. They do - they just pretend they don't so excuses like this one seem valid. Are you sure he didn't also rape her? Since she obviously had no say in what happened. As for OP's moral ground - fucking with a friend's SO is a crappy thing to do - hell, even exes should be approached with care. But this is where your obligation ends. You have no responsibility for somebody else's relationship - you're both down to …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 12:51 PM
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Note: what we call hamstering is actually a psychological phenomenon called cognitive dissonance, which is basically holding two opposing beliefs at the same time. Human mind not being a computer has no problem dealing with stuff like "I'm a good girl" and "It's a good idea to suck this cock in the bathroom of the club" at the same time. So it's not that she's pretending to know/not know your interest. She both knows it and ignores it at the same time. The how of it is pretty complex but not mag…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 08:43 AM
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I've seen his ugly wife, and heard all the shit he goes through and all I can say is helllllll noooooooooo. Cognitive dissonance. He went down this road, and it's much easier for him to argue that it's the right road than to face the fact that he's fucked up his life. Explains quite a bit of white knighting.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 12:05 PM
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The author of the last study is probably my favorite thinker alive (or ever). This is a good primer related to the topic, and this is the book it eventually became. Book ended up going in different directions, so they're not overlapping much. Offtopic, pretty much all of his work is worth reading. Pick and choose from here when you have spare free time. Ontopic: I can't remember if it was the Hill study (I think it was), but there was an interesting bit about women preference for masculine faces…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 07:55 AM
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That stuff above is not what people hate about TRP But still, the OP's question was: if TRP doesn't work, what is the [better] blue pill alternative? Should we take it that the answer is: "TRP does work very well, it's just that it also has parts which we don't like" ? Also there is a thread here about dread game and it turns out BP has been hating a straw man all along, so it gets dangerously close to "TRP does work very well", period...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 08:23 PM
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But PUAs and terpers have a very simplistic and one-sided understanding of such interactions. They assume that the external signs cause the internal state, not different from the cargo cults[1] Isn't it a bit of straw man? I'm sure plenty of bad PUA do this, but it doesn't really have anything to do with how good their methods are, only with their particular skill level. I can't imagine anybody being moderately good at anything and ignoring something as basic as a feedback loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 08:17 PM
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Man here, no. There are more things to gender then a scalpel and a decision can change. If I'm with a woman (sex or LTR) I want a bunch of things from her that can't be separated from the way she was born and raised. Irrespective of this, I disagree with "trans" on general principles, but that's offtopic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 08:07 PM
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I've probably changed just enough in the past 4 months to be worth a transformation post. But I wouldn't even think to put one in /r/TheRedPill, for a different reason from doxxing: you don't brag on trp about lifting because it's the most basic thing you can do. Of course you lift and eat clean. You also brush your teeth in the morning and take regular showers. It's necessary, but far from enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 07:59 PM
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Tried being subscribed and posting in /r/TheBluePill a long time ago. In my innocence I thought I could have there the kind of dialogue we have here. Now I know there are things and people I really don't care to "handle". Just the way I wouldn't care to approach a rabid dog or a skunk. And the comparison is demeaning to the rabid dog, if you try to post in tbp as a redpiller.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 07:56 PM
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It says a lot about people that this sub is so small, while TBP and TRP are considerably larger. I don't know.. I think it's a small miracle this subreddit functions the way it does. And a rather large miracle that it kept working even during the mod strike some time back. Probably goes to show that people are stupid only en masse. When forced to talk as individuals and focus on issues they can be quite civil and productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 07:47 PM
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Haven't read them with an eye on red pill. And I don't think you'll be able to find one study that proves red pill true, because truth be told, RP is mostly a way of looking at things, plus a large amount of knowledge - none of which can be easily proven (or disproven) in one shot. From that list I particularly liked Hill et all which quite elegantly avoids the problem of asking women what they like. You can skip the math and jump to the conclusions. I remember the one you quoted, and I actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 07:43 PM
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The domain itself is still somewhat subjective. There isn't definite research on many of the topics discussed, and generalization from evolutionary psychology is rampant. This being said, I'd guess the opinions there are more supported then disproved by current science. It takes quite a bit of reading to be able to say so, though. This is a good start. But even so, you need to read more then a couple to draw valid conclusions. For example many studies find that height is the primary attraction f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 01:08 PM
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I've seen children go from their mother's house and live with their fathers and the transformation is incredible. While I do agree with you, when a child stops living with the mother it's usually for some pretty serious reasons, so it's just a case of reverting to the average.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:05 AM
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reddit announced that it would start censoring posts from "climate change deniers." Reddit didn't, certain subreddits did. It actually speaks in favor of subreddit independence - you do what you want on your own turf. Plus it looks like they got sick of having the same unconstructive conversation, so it's more alike to banning trolls. http://grist.org/climate-energy/reddits-science-forum-banned-climate-deniers-why-dont-all-newspapers-do-the-same/
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 07:35 AM
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No, the guy actually is that good. You'd be amazed what some guys in the academic world can do nowadays. Hell, more then half the stuff in TRP is filtered down modern evolutionary/cognitive psychology. Rolo Tomassi is quite open about it, up to posting sources and citations in some of his articles, and he's not the only one. Anyways, there are two answers to the apparent contradiction: the guy is right, and there isn't really a contradiction with TRP. His message may seem soft, but is perfectly …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/15 08:35 AM
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Yup, thanks for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/15 08:25 AM
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Dread game (which sounds like "stonewalling," one of his four horseman) It's not. Dread game is about sending the message that you have SMV, and only that. You can do this overtly or in very subtle ways, but either way it has nothing to do with stonewalling. The guy is good and he knows what he's talking about, and he's also very likely right. But it doesn't really apply to TRP. Why? Read again his four horsemen but do it twice, and this time put a gender on the person doing it. What you'll find…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/15 11:14 AM
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Notes on STDs. While it's true working girls are extremely clean for the amount of exposure they have, a few extra comments: beware of the young and stupid, especially those who just came to the big city. They tend to be a lot less educated and more likely to take risks. for stuff like gonorrhea condoms are only a partial solution, and you can also catch them from unprotected blowjobs. Fortunately they're not really dangerous when treated, just very annoying. the really dangerous stuff like HIV …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 08:06 AM
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This is very likely actual rape, or something very close to it. There isn't anything about them being a couple, a hookup or even acquainted. He was fingering an unconscious girl by the side of the road and ran away when found.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 11:49 AM
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Women are pretty fluid with prostitution. In the right context (poor area and available opportunity) there are plenty of cases of reasonably nice 20-25s doing this for only a few weeks or months. They stop either because they don't enjoy it or because the need is less. They're also very typical with respect to retiring, and probably even more keenly aware of time. Passing 25 makes them look forward to finding a husband. Can't really tell how many of them manage to end the career successfully - m…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 02:07 PM
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I like how your hamster won't allow you to read the actual evidence prsented at trial. Are you hoping to be one of Knox's orbiter's or something? Look up "ad hominem". I clearly said I don't give enough of a shit for the subject to revisit it again. I did some time back, in cleanroom conditions - no prior bias, balanced exposition of evidence etc. Reading one more biased source won't make my day a single iota better. It's pretty bad when people posting on redpill get caught up in the 'poor rich …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 07:06 AM
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I only skimmed this because, honestly, the topic is pretty low on my list of priorities, but at first glance pretty much all the physical evidence is on the order of "her DNA was all over the house she lived in".
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 09:52 AM
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I actually found out about this case as an exercise on lesswrong (rational thinking community). There was a thread asking us to read two opposing points of view, without any prior bias - a site pro and one anti amanda knox - to make up our minds and discuss. I think the percentages were something like 95% pro, with quite a bit of disbelief on how you can even get to a trial with the available evidence, let alone a conviction. Nothing I read since makes me want to change my mind.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 08:59 AM
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Uh. No, thank you. I was born in a similar society, and it's very far from happy. Not to mention most things you put together can be found separately in very different contexts. And I don't really want a true "patriarchal" society. Having educated women in the workforce doesn't bother me one bit. I want what we have now, only with the liberalism toned down and me in the top 5%. Much better the a traditional society.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 08:55 AM
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This is a story about Italian justice system, really. They're the same guys who sentenced Amanda Knox (twice) and is actively trying to put seismologists in jail for failing to predict earthquakes.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 06:16 AM
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Sex yes, true love can be postponed. This is why I'm a big believer in (quality) paid sex. Once you're over a certain income it allows you to truly be independent and go for what you want. If that includes a LTR, it's perfectly fine.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:11 PM
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99.96 percent is the newsman's quote, based on no pregnancies in 350 couples for 30 days - but that's assuming the normal pregnancy rate in 30 days is 100%, which is not, it's actually close to 80% for 12 months. But anyways, looks good. Now to check for side-effects..
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:11 AM
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Oh god, the hamster in that thread... "It's just a number!" So is the room temperature, but let me see you ignore it if it suddenly doubles.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 08:08 PM
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De gustibus, I guess. It's enough if a (relatively small) part of the female population finds him very attractive to create enough buzz. Add a bit of preselection...
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 08:03 PM
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Did you see him in star trek? I'm straight as a reasonably straight arrow, and he gave me tingles. Guy has presence.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:42 PM
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What's that have to do with anything? Successful marriages do exist - I'm saying hers is motivated by self interest and that's a pretty solid foundation. Of course, that's no guarantee. They didn't sign a prenup, so that's a huge risk for the future. But if she decides the children are better in a stable family she'll keep it together, at most with some discreet side-cock. Note that she didn't lose her virginity to alpha cock either. All signs point to above-average self control. Getting married…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 08:43 AM
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She was adopted from Korea and taken from her adoptive parents by the state when she was 4. At the very least she has serious attachment issues, probably more then a touch of sociopathy. She's actually able to chose the best future for herself without much interference from those pesky feelings. I'd guess they'll have a long and happy marriage, as long as he keeps his end of the bargain.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:33 AM
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Postmodernism is something we're outright rejecting. We're not going to say "yes, of course what we say is true, but because everybody is a special snowflake it is very possible that it doesn't apply to me/you". AWALT exists because it's a hell of a lot more likely for some poor sap to fool himself into believing he found a unicorn. And even when they do find the unicorn, she's still a woman, and most things we talk about still apply to her. It's a bit like all men like boobs. Of course some lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 08:51 PM
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Ever since reading Rollo Tomassi I'm less of a fan of open communication in relationships. True, guys are more likely to say what they mean, but it's still better to notice what works then to try and make him tell you (he might not even know it himself). I think a more concentrated effort on various methods of seduction could help Make sure you also add some time-offs. Having your SO say "I you to fuck / cum" etc is very sexy when you're in the mood, but pressure and extra stress when you're not…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 08:20 AM
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Guy here. It could simply be a period of low libido. I'm in the middle of one myself, I know why and I don't really mind if for a while. It's mostly work and stress, even if it's actually hard to realize it. Not much you can do here, other then try to suggest a few days of travel. Also JDGroove is onto something, despite all the downvotes. We do like to conquer and seduce, and a bit of coquetterie didn't hurt anybody. Read Robert Green's Art of Seduction, it applies to both sexes.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 05:10 PM
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Monogamy is not natural. That's very doubtful. A human child is absolutely helpless for 4-5 years, and far from being independent for about 12. Taking into account early death, a woman before modern times would have to give birth to at least 4-5 children. Raising them alone is impossible, therefore pair bonding is natural. I doubt we've ever gotten close to absolute monogamy, but that's not what OP was talking about anyways. Women want to sleep with multiple guys. Guys want to sleep with multipl…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 04:40 PM
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I didn't expect to see this point made in /r/theredpill... Yeap, it's very true - religion is a fairy tale, but it's a very useful fairy tale. We easily see where it goes wrong - the inquisition, fanatics, religious genocide, voting based on religious precepts. What we don't see is the quiet mass of benefits. The very fabric of countless societies was/is made from religion. Plus the benefits to self. Religious people are in general significantly happier. When it comes to self-control faith is ba…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 08:39 AM
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I can't help but feel for Kathy. Divorced, 35, no kids - she must actually feel her ovaries shriveling. She does need a child, and I find myself rooting for her. Problem is, in our society (and it's a global issue, I'm live far from US) she can't have this without automatically roping a guy into 20 year long servitude. Situation is so unbalanced that even when the girl says (I'm paraphrasing here, heard it a while ago): "Why are you upset, you don't have to have anything to do with it! I was goi…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 08:26 AM
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She writes back "I don't think you get what I mean" This is the level of effort girls put in when hitting on guys. How on earth can feminists even suggest genders are equal?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 06:22 PM
1

It takes relatively little to be an "alpha". Don't have a potbelly, lift, repress the worst of blue pill traits. About the same it would be if every women was fit, dressed well and not crazy. So you'd still have hyper alphas, but mostly selection would be done on different, more blue pill criteria, like status. In a world of fit, confident men, a CEO would really kill it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 07:18 AM
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Can probably get reasonable advice on mistakes to avoid. For example there's a certain kind of naive young girl who bought into the whole "people should like me for my real me" and "beauty is skin deep" and genuinely things she shouldn't bother with make-up and dressing up. On the other hand it takes quite a large amount of self-awareness to realize as a man that you're into the "coquette" type and that, like Dorothy Tennov noted when she described limerence, passion is fueled mainly by incertit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 06:57 AM
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A somewhat offtopic point about height. I've spent some time reading a few dozen papers from here. Not an endeavor for everybody, but quite interesting if you have the time and inclination. There is an almost absolute consensus that height is one of the primary factors of attraction for women - study after study confirms it. However. An interesting pattern emerges. The studies use various ways to measure attraction, but what most of them have in common is that in one way or another they are aski…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 07:58 AM
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so they will never commit,thus making women and the bottom 80% of men unhappy(in theory). And this is where things start to go really really wrong. Because at this point women have a triple safety net: they work, and easily make a living wage they get financial support from the state in pretty much any modern country, quite a lot in some the current climate makes it acceptable and even likely they will be able to get a beta bux in their 30s. So they don't really need a AF to commit to them. Life…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 08:06 PM
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We've been married ten years. Things are pretty good. But we have kids, we both work full time and on opposite shifts, we don't get a lot of quality time together. What the fuck man, this is as bad as /r/relationships always saying "dump him/her". Why on earth would you say a pretty standard marriage is a lost cause? Not to mention the guy isn't even so clueless as you give him credit for: I've dropped about sixty pounds. I'm actually lighter than when we met. And I'm hitting the weights. [...] …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:15 AM
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Crazy girls are good in bed. No reason to hard next her, just disqualify her as serious dating material.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 04:56 PM
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Just a comment on EP (much agree with the rest btw). EP is a very solid science, with two big caveats: it's incredibly easy to misuse by beginners. Just say "yeah, people are like that because in our ancestral environment..." and fill in the blanks with whatever sounds about right. There are ways to make it hard science, but you won't find them in casual discussions. for humans, EP actually works on two completely unrelated levels. There is the genetic component, which is why everybody thinks ab…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 06:01 PM
1

I've been going to the gym with a friend who's in his third year of kendo. He's way better at cardio (like... waay better), and predictably less so at max weights though rapidly improving. But most importantly, he looks very soft. His (best in the country) sensei has a rather large beer belly. I think 14 years of pretty much any sport other then sumo has a good change of making somebody look fit. But when it comes to short/medium term results, I doubt anything beats 3+ times a week lifting and c…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:42 PM
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TA used to be pretty red pill back in the day, not sure how it's doing now. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transactional_analysis
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 02:42 PM
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/r/theredpill tends to be overly negative in order to make its point. In my (limited) experience, while exclusively dating a single mother is an obviously stupid thing to do, having a SM as a plate is perfectly ok provided that: you keep the relationship with the kid to a minimum, preferably zero keep the relationship plate-like, aka lots of fun stuff, zero commitment and no family activities don't play sugar daddy. Occasional favors are ok, but you're not a walking wallet. You can get a pretty …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 11:20 AM
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That's actually a reverse shit test. If you fail (aka "yeah, I'm cool with commitment even though we haven't even had a date yet") you're on. Shows that shit tests are just a sieve, and women will pick either side of it depending on what they're looking for.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 11:07 AM
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Bragplaining aside (and I didn't even finish reading the whole thing) the main idea has a lot of value. There are several stages in the whole seduction process, and being an attractive guy will only get you a foot in. You still need game to close the deal. On the other hand, you may be a smooth son of a bitch, but if you're displaying a large beer belly this will cut a lot into your potential.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 12:12 PM
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but unbelievably stupid So, she's staying rent free, phone bill free, less then half expenses if that, and you call her stupid? I'm assuming you still want a live-in girlfriend, just on better terms. In this case asking her nicely will have the opposite effect, and asking her strongly will make you seem weak. I can think of two things you should do: have clearly defined expectations. Don't beg nor strong arm her - set up reasonable rules and have them followed. And avoid any form of passive-agre…
/r/askTRP30/11/14 11:26 AM
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I think the big underlying issue with therapy OVERALL is that most of the practitioners are female, and the man that do bounce to it are feminist due to long indoctrination in their schooling and plenty touchy feely tendencies to begin with. I was just thinking about this today. I'm about to finish "Games People Play", written in 1964 by a psychiatrist. The book is pure RP gold, and at some point recommends [a certain kind of] therapy for marital issues. Knowing what therapy is today this is lau…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 07:20 PM
1

Minoxidil (rogaine) is the obvious thing to do, maybe mixed with some ketoconazole shampoo once or twice a week - last one especially if you have problems with flaky scalp. Neither have side effects, and they have reasonably good results. Finasteride (propecia) has much better results, but the risk is high. Roughly, there is a 1% chance of impotence, and a huge 10% chance of depression. Much worse, both these symptoms can be permanent - i.e. sometimes they will not go away even if you stop takin…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 06:26 PM
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I think the correct way to think about opposite sex relationships is as always having a romantic/sexual component. This may take many many forms, but it's healthier to be aware of it then to imagine it's not there. girl's SMV is higher, so there's a tendency for him to become an orbiter guy's SMV is higher - many possibilities. Most likely, especially if she's attached, is a long term, reasonably successful platonic relationship but one where you have to keep an eye on her blowing up for no appa…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 07:50 AM
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Got it. Copy-paste problem...
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 08:16 PM
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A few other links relevant to the context. Not on Ellen Pao specifically, thought there's more of the same to be found with a simple google search. Yishan's stated reason for leaving: www.quora.com/Why-did-Yishan-Wong-resign-as-Reddit-CEO?share=1 Board member and recent investor's take: http://blog.samaltman.com/a-new-team-at-reddit Thread on Hacker News: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=8603845 Older post on Quora, maybe supporting stated reason for leaving: http://www.quora.com/What-is-it-…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 08:03 PM
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They're always physically attractive to me. I feel like the novelty and excitement is gone and I'm just "going through the motions". The other possible reason I can think of is I'm very dominant, so most girls are almost like dead fish in bed, and throughout my trysts the women rarely kiss my neck and just take anything I give them. They lay there and get naked but don't do much else but I want more than that. I give out the energy and vibe I want and girls love it but I don't feel I get what I …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:31 AM
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I know exactly what you're talking about. It's not performance anxiety, and it's definitely not a physical problem. It's just a lack of real desire and connection - talking / making out is fun, but to take it from this to actual intercourse is simply boring. I have this exact same problem. My (partial) solution is viagra, which will probably take you through the first couple of dates. After that you may or may not develop a real connection, but if you don't there's not much point in continuing a…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:25 AM
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Plus ass, of course. One of the most looked-at by women body parts - if you have it.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:14 AM
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Borders are opened, and just being in Argentinian soil means you can access public hospitals and education even if you don't have papers. Why is that a bad thing? From an ex-communist country myself, so I know first hand how bad it can get, but free education and health are among the very few things that were beyond a doubt good. Plus it has nothing to do with RP anyways.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 08:25 PM
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I tried doing some research a while back. Not much, granted, but I tried. Read a paper recommended by purplepill on instances of women "freezing" when being raped, and how this can be mistaken for consent. Found it.. can't say useless, but overall not very rigorous. On the other hand read a paper on the incidence of false rape claims. Much better data, easy to extrapolate, and really scary numbers.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 07:02 PM
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Develop herpes, or maybe you're being tested for something worse. Also, might want to drop in an unrelated conversation how you're probably sterile.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 06:24 PM
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Bro, do you even read post? Come on people, a minimum of effort before sprouting knee jerk replies.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 12:44 PM
1

Why Martian Chronicles in particular and not something like Heinlein or Dune?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:41 AM
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Yes, but time, time! Between getting myself sucked in old indian texts and readying everything Roy Baumeister ever wrote, I think the second will be a better endeavor. As a civilization/culture we're finally at the point where we can actually answer "the big questions" with a strong theoretical footing. Sure, the answers turn to come more from psychology then philosophy, but this only makes them more useful.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:39 AM
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Re-reading "The Sex God Method" right now. Just finished "Evil", by Roy F Baumeister, and before that it was "Why the West Rules", by Ian Morris (if you enjoyed Guns, Germs and Steel, this is like the sequel and definite answer). After that it'll probably be Green's Mastery, and I'm tempted to re-read "Vorkosigan Saga". Somewhere in between I'll have to squeeze "Theory of Conflict" by Schelling - awesome, but really hard read - and a book on improv.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:32 AM
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Or Why Nations Fail
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:27 AM
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So happy to see this here. Antifragile has direct implications to entrepreneurship and dating: try often, keep potential for gain high and potential for loss low. Doesn't matter what the numbers are, in the end you'll end up ahead. Or, translated: always pick up, never get married.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:26 AM
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Thought the same for a long while. I found (here) a page with ~250 papers on various related topics, and made a habit of printing and reading a bunch on my commute. If you read 1-2, yes, height seems almost the most important. But if you read a bunch, a very interesting picture emerges: all studies which placed height as a very important criteria were using self reporting, aka asking the fish what bait they like. And all the fish said they like tall men. there was one very well made study in par…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:18 AM
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I'm not advocating sending women on the front lines per se. In practice, it's quite unlikely that it will ever happen. But: knowing it might will make female voters act differently it'a matter of basic justice. Even if it's not front lines, at least they can get drafted in something like civilian service.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 08:16 PM
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No philosophy, really. TRP varies from MGTOW to temporary Monk Mode to PUA - one will tell you to do whatever makes you happy, the other to keep your boiler under pressure for better performance. Just use common sense. Extremes will almost always have downsides, so if you find yourself enjoying porn daily or more, it's probably best if you slow it down a bit.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 08:12 PM
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Do you, as a man, want the military to draft women? your little sister; your girlfriend? That's exactly why this is a good idea. Sending troops to die will take a whole new meaning. Plus it's honestly disgusting to allow half the population to vote for a war which only the other half will be fighting.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:59 PM
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"Women are the gatekeepers of sex" is a gross oversimplification and is becoming less and less true I don't particularly like OP's style or arguments, but would you care to develop this? AFAIK, this is as clear-cut as possible. In an overwhelming majority of relationships between single people of opposite sex and relatively similar age and attractiveness, the man would say yes to sex with only a minimum of convincing. Hey may require a few conditions like discretion, guarantee of no long term in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 08:44 PM
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It makes sense. Once under the influence of the wall they're looking for beta bux a lot more then just plain fucks. So they'll string along every poor sap they encounter in the hope he'll go for the long haul. Of course, if he looks like bailing she'll turn into a horny bunny because 10 dates is enough to give her hopes, and losing him is unacceptable.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 03:04 PM
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But even then you have to complicate things by understanding things like hawks and pigeons. If you have most males swiping selectively you'll automatically have a minority of males reaping the benefits (hawks). Both a population of pigeons and one of hawks are suboptimal and unstable (swiping right already makes tinder less likely to survive long term, and swiping selectively would make things way to easy to game by a few swiping right), so you'll usually end up with a minority of hawks. OR, tin…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 07:23 PM
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Oh come ON. I get that complaining about "the man" is trendy, but this is ridiculous. 99% of the moderation you see on reddit is done by the mods of the subreddit itself. Actually, I'd venture it's closer to 99.99%. Of the rest, there's a number of automated scripts that punish spammers and users obviously trying to game the system. What you're probably referring to is a number of highly publicized cases (which you can probably count on the fingers of your left hand) where the admins actually in…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 07:17 PM
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She's been in an LTR for about 2 years now, living with the guy Framing is everything. He's not a sugar daddy, they're in a LTR. They have feelings for each other etc. God, I love paying for sex. Makes things so much simpler.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:59 AM
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In this case the woman is saying that OP doesnt get her off, but occasionally she lets him fuck her for other reasons. OP would be me, and it's the kind of relationship where I let her fuck. Also it was my observation women have other reasons (her main one being that it feels good"), whereas we regularly have sex even if it's bad, just because it's sex. She either is or will be soon getting it from some place else. I'm encouraging her to. I realize that I was tired when I made the post and proba…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:52 AM
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The entire conversation started off with the false premise that men do not fake orgasms. Actually my point was that we do, occasionally fake orgasms and from there we went to why men have sex and my answer was "to have sex", because we generally consider a sexual experience a plus even if it was bad sex. Women, as far as I can tell, don't.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:45 AM
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But women, at the end of the day, need the D. They just don't like to admit it. Women don't "need" the dick, not even half as bad as we need pussy. The longer they go without sex, the less intense their libido is. They don't have almost any natural testosterone to keep it up. We by comparison are a hurricane of hormones. But that's not what I was going for anyways. Whatever they need/want/feel like sampling, it's not "the D", not the way we want sex. Women want the top x%'s D. You'll never hear …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 09:26 PM
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/r/nootropics www.examine.com Personally I try to go the "sleep well and exercise" route, but I do have a stack of pills in a corner of the closet. I found a couple of supplements to be almost completely side-effect free and ok to take long term: melatonin (< 1mg) in the evening, and Vitamin D in autumn/winter. Caffeine is also ok long term. An interesting observation: I played with a few mild stimulants (provigil (modafinil), kava, theanine) and by far the most efficient and side/effect free wa…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 05:57 AM
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Theanine is weird. I assumed it'd have the same effect as black tea, especially in combination with coffee, i.e. it'll help me work. Bullshit - I didn't work any harder, but I didn't give a shit about it either. So yeah, I see how it'd be great for chilling. I should probably try to use it as a party drug instead.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 05:49 AM
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Right here myself. As far as sex and companionship goes, I'm using a combination of long term plate and paid sex. I'm investing hugely in career (job and starting a business). I manage to keep up with a few close friends and to do maintenance weightlifting, but I don't even try approaching right now. Even if it worked I wouldn't have time for dates.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 05:24 AM
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Pretty much any example you'll find elsewhere would be conventionally romantic, and therefore BB. I'm too lazy to search for it, but Rollo Tomassi said that great romantic gestures always have meaning inside the relationship, not outside it.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 11:54 AM
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That's actually awesome. Tells me I should stop with high fat/proteine diets I've been trying with moderate success and add a bit more friendly carbs... I'll have to do a bit of research... potatoes, maybe sweet potatoes, beans, peas... it's gonna be fun. Thanks man!
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 10:49 AM
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She's actually making an effort here. Maybe she is a genuinely nice person? My 20s was filled with dating emotionally unavailable "bad boys." Ah. the wall.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 09:59 AM
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Not exactly true. We don't have a wall, but SMV will naturally decrease after 30-35. Belly, balding head, the whole thing. The main difference from the female experience is that our clock can be slowed and/or reversed almost at will. It costs effort and at least some amount of good genes, but it's there.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 09:16 PM
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More like New Zeeland, but not Eastern. It's from beyond the former Iron Curtain.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 07:25 AM
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Link is removed, but I've read about several similar experiments. Results for "let's have sex" are wildly different. The minority of men who said no were apologetic (I have a girlfriend etc), I think only 1-2 women in all experiments I've read said yes. Results for "let's go to my place" were not so different though, and for "let's go somewhere else", aka a date, were actually almost similar. Which is probably influenced by the attractiveness of the male, but is definitely giving support to the …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 07:22 AM
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Euro, but not western. No immigrants here, so I could be mistaken. I'm only saying there are plenty of ways into sex work without the gasoline dousing. If they're doing it... it's likely for different reasons (they're psycho?).
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 09:21 AM
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1,400 English girls, including some as young as 11, were lured and coerced into sex slavery by Pakistani gangs As an occasional consumer of prostitution, I think there is a hell of a lot more "luring" then "coercing" going on. I've seen a number of ways girls get into this job, from trans-national migration to small town girls making petty cash to girls forced into it by dire need of money (family/health problems etc). I haven't yet seen any instance of coercing or of archetypal pimp bitch slapp…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 07:38 AM
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Neh, that's the beauty of bureaucracy. The cops likely arrested him because a judge said so. That's why they refused to look at the video - it would have been useless. When the judge actually gets to see it he'll say the equivalent of "ups", and let him go. Nothing will happen because judges are allowed to make mistakes (it's actually next to impossible to punish a judge for anything short of getting naked in court and raping someone).
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 07:27 AM
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It's not a perfect solution either. Many (most? all?) men would rather keep working on their job or career and bring home even a little more money then take a year-long break just to change diapers. The proper solution is to stop punishing businesses for worker's reproductive choices. It's one thing to have an employee take a year long vacation - unpleasant, but workable, given the reason. It's a completely different thing to have to pay their wages in the meantime and be forced to rehire them w…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 08:30 AM
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It also takes away the excuse. If women (can) use this, they can no longer drink until they pass out and blame drugs for it.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 08:20 PM
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Just doing this 15min before bed will achieve very little I think. I don't know. I think you underestimate how bad people without any training are. I'm a noob, and I borrowed a punching bag from a friend a while back. Took me weeks to learn how to punch, and the difference between what I was doing in the beginning and what I can do now is amazing to me. I went from half-hearted mispunch and maybe break my wrist to doing a reasonable one-two with good body weight behind it.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:57 AM
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That's actually a pretty valid dilemma. I like doing stuff to the girls I'm with. I like touching, and giving orgasms, and... fuck, they have boobs and asses. Of course I love touching them. And then I wonder why exactly is it just me who's doing all the touching? Well, it's easy - that's the dynamic I set up. TBH, I haven't found the answer to this yet. I enjoy being dominant, and I enjoy doing most of the work. But I still don't know how to maintain this in a balanced way.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 07:10 PM
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Of course looks are objective. I can tell at least two reasons why the waters are murky: women hamster their socks off when it comes to why they like a guy they're with. "my little cuddly bear" looks nothing like brad pitt, but this has absolutely zero consequence if you're a "cuddly bear" type and want women to find you attractive. When it comes to first meeting tingles, they have similar tastes. there are some "types", though they are largely context or culture based. The classic remains well-…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 07:30 AM
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Can you open up about your dreams and hopes and even fears? Sure! That is the myth. Of COURSE you can talk to your LTR. I talk a lot with my LT..P? about my work and plans, and to my surprise the reaction is always positive. I do complain about problems, but it probably helps that I always frame it in a positive, goal-oriented way: "why this happened" (loves hearing about it), "what to do next" etc. The best explanation I heard about avoiding to talk with your SO is that it's a slippery slope. I…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 07:18 AM
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one felony count of sexual abuse of children Main story aside, this is a fucked up charge. No children were abused by that idiot downloading images.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 03:15 PM
1

As a guy I'm actually likely to turn down girls I already know. Last time I counted I was about even on the turned down / turning down front. The reasons are almost never "not attracted", but a mixture of: afraid she wants commitment and I don't (or much more rarely, I want commitment and she doesn't) it's a bad move social-wise, which may go from she's a friend's SO and up to she's ugly/easy/blonde and I'd be embarrassed to be seen with her. Note: never because I wouldn't tap it. So, if you rea…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 10:14 AM
1

Sexual selection. There is far from a 100% overlap between being "sexy" in the eyes of women and being a successful human being, and there is a good reason for this. Say there is a random trait that by chance appeals to women. Maybe a bigger penis, or bushy eyebrows, or a longer nose. Once there is even an inch of positive effect from that feature, it is actually a good strategy for women to pursue men who have it because their sons will also have it, and will also be pursued by women. So you'll…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 07:17 AM
1

Yeap, that's what I meant. Thanks for clarifying.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 06:31 PM
0

Someone said that if you're not willing to walk away during a negotiation, you have no power at all. You're practically begging. In some social contexts it works, say with your friends. But if there's something significant on the table, you're simply begging and that's all there is to it.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 06:26 AM
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I say until they shut down /r/picsofdeadbabies[2] Well, they moved to ban /r/jailbait, and we're a lot closer to it then to dead babies.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 07:35 AM
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Rape is actually well documented as causing prolonged (and sometimes irrecoverable) depression in its victims in many many cultures and societies. It's a small mystery in anthropology - or at least I wasn't able to find a proper explanation at the time. Whatever the root cause is, it is clear that the damage is real and usually huge. The obvious explanation would be that it's somehow related to the virgin female's value in the society. Marrying a virgin is pretty much the only way a man can be s…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 07:28 AM
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I watch anime - selectively - and I have to say this: if you want the most extreme cases of ball-cutting betaness in culture, you'll find it in anime. It's probably due to the officially checked out, herbivore subculture in Japan where some men stopped trying a long time ago. This being said it's quite a diverse genre. Stuff like Kenichi is pure RP, and there is also a strong undercurrent of "being nice is nice, but being good is better". I'm also enjoying quite a lot identifying the BP examples…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 09:49 AM
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Watched star trek when I was a kid, and read once in a novel something about Picard being shorter then Riker but still dominating the scene. And I was all "yeah, right, bullshit... Picard is a lot taller then Riker". http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AGGEymAXD7s
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 02:22 PM
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D E V I Because none of them understands what is happening they have to go through this pitiful charade. It's not the polo shirts and the cologne, he just has to be more dominant in bed.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 05:48 PM
2

I see a very strong bias in TRP against investing in imperfect relationships. I get that nexting works when you're spinning plates, but the real world has a lot of imperfect scenarions - probably a lot more of them, actually. Salvageable relationships, girls who already turned you down, even the occasional "just friend". But every post discussing them is heavily downvoted (I actually had one deleted by a mod). This is way beyond what the actual arguments in the comments would justify - something…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 08:33 PM
1

Married guys have the luxury of time. They're probably better off going with long term self improvement and low level dread game. Or at worst solid preparations for divorce and treating the wife as a plate.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 08:24 PM
1

She's an intern. She hasn't proven herself yet - she's just potential and a cute face. At this stage it's damn easy for any detail to disqualify her because there are so many interns to pick from As a manager you're actually grateful for such excuses to make a choice. If her boss went as far as to give her advice, it's a very good sign. And of course a stupid mistake to ignore it.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 08:19 PM
1

Actually had a girlfriend with vaginismus (virgin too). Took several months to get to proper PiV, but we did so much other stuff that it was actually quite fun time. It was before I had tried the method above. My main problem at the time was that after having her flinch 2-3 times, I was actually losing erection (humorously noted that I'd make a lousy rapist). There are resources online about this. There was a famous thread on reddit a while back. And looking for it, seems there's also /r/vaginis…
/r/trpGAME18/07/14 03:31 PM
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Well, if you think you have the required patience... here's some extra advice. Women having to bleed from first sex is more or less a myth. There is the hymen which is breaking, but that's small and usually insignificant. Most of the blood comes from the sides of the vagina tearing up from not being able to expand fast enough. So if you want decent penetration sex, there is something you can do. Again, it's not required, but if you can pull it off... The key is very slow penetration. She has to …
/r/trpGAME17/07/14 08:41 PM
1

Eh, my mistake then. Have fun!
/r/trpGAME17/07/14 08:30 PM
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Doesn't look like you're gonna take this advice, but take the focus from penetration (small chance she'll enjoy it) and put it on different stuff. She'll likely enjoy fingering, maybe oral. You may or may not enjoy oral from someone without much experience. Find something else you'd like to do. Tittyfuck? Get some oil and massage the fuck out of each other. Take turns. She's likely to have a "one thing" mindset and be focused on ending the experience somehow. Either penetration or you coming or …
/r/trpGAME17/07/14 08:04 PM
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Over several iterations, the woman will eventually deliver her full answer, but it will not be her full answer --- it will be the answer she has calculated is socially beneficial to deliver. Which partly explains why we are vulnerable to oneitis. It's so easy for us to believe we found our "soul mate" because she will behave like she is. Her answers and behaviors are tailored to please and impress us, and they do. Until the honeymoon is over, of course, but by then we're already pair bonded and …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 09:12 AM
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Coconuts. Girls like coconuts - guys who are hard on the outside, but have a soft spot for her only. The harder the shell the softer the core seems.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 06:46 AM
1

When talking about comparative attraction you need to consider the huge difference in how attraction works: 50% of prewall women are reasonably attractive to men, and they can improve this with makeup and clothes. 5% of men are attractive to women, and they can only improve this marginally with years of bodybuilding.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 06:35 AM
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A bit unexpectedly, How to Train a Dragon 2 is extremely red pill. Female characters were purely supportive, and it even dared to suggest that a wife choosing career over family is a big mistake. Plus a lot of male archetypes: going your own way, father-son, leadership. Hell, there was even a lot of talk about the "alpha dragon", and it was very transparent that the main character is the human equivalent.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 06:53 AM
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It doesn't even touch the point. I'm not even sure why we're having this conversation. It's a basic statistical fact. It's not about men or women. Hell, fathers are probably 10 times more likely to kill their children then plumbers. Or auto mechanics. Hell, I'm betting parents are more likely to kill their children then serial killers, if you don't account for category size and time spent together. WTF people... it's not a difficult concept :\
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 10:25 AM
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Women are also more likely to hurt children (in all ways). Well of course they are, they're spending by far the most time with them. No news here. Also why most child abusers are family or close friends. It doesn't mean that you're better off leaving your children with strangers, just that family and friends spend a far larger amount of time with the children, thus a lot more chance for abuse.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 06:54 PM
1

He did the picking up and the wife came later. From a RP perspective that's SMV proof. Personally I'm not a great fan of any form of open poliamory, but I don't see anything obviously wrong from a RP pov.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/14 06:44 PM
5

You're doing god's work, son.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 06:47 AM
1

You could counter sue. But the system is actually smart this way. It was designed in an age where the bad guys where big and powerful. You want to be able to prosecute the local mobster with impunity, even if he manages to get away the first few times on bribery and technicalities. Probably the easiest way would be to prosecute something like "malicious false accusations", where you can both prove innocence and intent to harm on the part of the accuser. It won't cover every case, but enough to b…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 06:28 AM
1

The thing is, no one is asking "what does it make sense for the school administrator to do in the current environment". Well, why not? It's one of the pertinent questions here. I wasn't even arguing in defense of the administration. I was simply pointing out what I thought was an obvious counterpoint, because I thought it should be part of any intelligent discussion on the subject. I got 10 downvotes to 1 upvote and I actually feel lucky my comment wasn't deleted. Not because I was a troll or of…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 06:19 AM
1

Upon what do you base your right to destroy this guy's life Because I can muhaha. But seriously, from the sourced article we don't really know if there is no evidence that the guy slept with her or not. I'm assuming there is at least some, though it's not to the level where it would assure a conviction. Of course it could be that there is none, in which case my comment is irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 06:18 PM
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From their point of view it makes a lot of sense. There is not enough evidence he slept with a student - being a criminal case I'm assuming the standard was beyond reasonable doubt. But even if it would be preponderance of evidence, it could still leave the chances at say 30%. From a school administrator's perspective you are left with the dilemma of keeping a teacher with a 30% chance of sleeping with students, vs a baseline of probably 0.1%. Firing is the right decision. Guilty until proven in…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 07:25 AM
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You don't go tell TRP the L word. They're all for relationships in theory, but god forbid you admit you like the girl and you'll have 10 people telling you to dump her ASAP. One of the less pleasant features here. Anyways, herpes. It's very prevalent, especially among the young, sexually active population. Chances are you already had sex with somebody who didn't tell you or didn't even know it. It's also easily manageable - protected sex, extra care during outbreaks, medication etc. So it's not …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:27 PM
4

RP and feninism - don't ask how that works Works very well, thank you. We like our women educated, intelligent and usually with a good job - and that's what feminism used to be about. Problem is, once it actually solved whatever it had set up to do it started chasing its tail more and more. I had never in my life not thought myself a feminist, until I found tumblr & company. I'm guilty of hamstering. If you enjoy reading you may want to try some modern psychology - maybe something by Daniel Kahn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 06:28 AM
1

Those who were actually good providers would be preferred (like say 50 years ago), so Blue Pill would make a comeback as a valid strategy. See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hawk-Dove_game - ideal combination is around 20% hawks. Probably less with RP/BP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 06:13 PM
2

That's actually somewhat true, at least in my experience. I had a post removed - about getting out of the friendzone - because the "consensus" is that it's not a productive endeavor. Which ironically I agree, but the unpleasant surprise was that it apparently didn't warrant a discussion either. Which is sad, because the thread was shaping up nicely. The problem with this kind of moderation is that you tend to throw away stranger ideas, and (unwillingly) embrace a lower level of ever repeating to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 06:06 PM
6

This issue is widespread and rampant. It's not strictly woman-woman. Girls are giving guys this advice and vice versa. Even guys are giving themselves this deluded shit at times. I think that men commenting in 2x threads are about the same as women who come here and start a comment with "As a woman...". We're not supposed to talk there - it's neither polite nor productive. But yeah, confusing emotional and factual advice happens often. And it's particularly bad when guys try to imitate this kind…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:28 PM
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Reading David DietaDeida right now (recommending it too). He is very clear that when your SO is trowing a temper tantrum or just is tired or in a bad mood, the solution is not to talk rationally with her, but simply change her mood. This is related to the "tread women like children" idea that's been thrown around here. The link is from 2X - there are women there talking to a woman. Of course she is not asking for rational advice, and of course they are (wisely) not offering it. She is asking for…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:18 PM
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Because, well.. it's an insult, like being called a dick. Except it offers you the chance to pretend that you're not pissed because you've been called a vagina, but because he's being a misogynist.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 02:35 PM
1

who gives a fuck when was the last time you actually saw a van with one of those? Plus I guarantee half the people in the handicap spots aren't actually handicap one of their relatives are why not take pictures of them That's his original comment. Give it a rest guys, he was simply a douche (or possibly drunk). Made a couple of provoking comments, including calling them "vaginas". That's not a men vs women issue.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:22 AM
5

That's a popular opinion, but it doesn't necessarily make it true. For over a century resources grew much much faster then consumption. Most of us live in societies preoccupied with creating demand. Yes, there's been hunger, but that was for political reasons mostly. Meanwhile the west was happily paying its land owners not to produce and using edible crops to make fuel. Also, birth rates below replacement means a lot of room for immigration. This may be good or bad in the grand scheme of things…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:13 AM
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The peak would be around 17-18 most likely, with a sharp cutoff around 14-15. But yeah, you should start the graph at around 10 to be rigorous.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 09:38 AM
5

Stands to be repeated: blackout drunk does not mean you're passed out. Alcohol impairs memory forming, which means you can function well (though of course drunk) but what you do will simply not be recorded in your long term memory. Fall asleep or get distracted and it's forgotten, gone, deleted. If there is evidence of a blackout (and in this case it is - forgotten messages etc) and no evidence of a struggle (and there isn't), then there are two distinct possibilities: he was passed out when the…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 05:17 PM
1

At this particular time in my life, probably the best thing I could do to improve my relationship-side of life is to start practicing the theory and go pick up women. I know it, and I also know that postponing it is a dangerous thing. But I still don't have time for it - my life right now is simply too full. Work is going great on too many fronts to take it easy. And I have a combination of FWB/lover and paid sex which solves the problem in a very MGTOW style. So yeah, sometimes you can't do bot…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 05:04 PM
1

There's a whole field called "psychology of happiness" with a lot of interesting stuff. Daniel Kahneman himself has done some research in it. Worth checking out. Anyways, my 2 cents: being happy and enjoying life is something which doesn't come naturally, at least not in our society. Especially here it /r/trp it's quite possible to have people working towards some goal (money and women being the most obvious ones) and expecting to enjoy life when they reach that goal. It doesn't work that way. H…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:50 AM
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she had bipolar, no big deal, I have depression. [...] She moves in, gets pregnant. [...] Makes more financial sense for her to stay at home. Now she doesn't pull her weight. [...] We're way past abortion. Well, you're fucked. This out of the way, let's see what can actually do about it. First - you're at the beginning of the relationship. So whatever else you do, keep reading TRP and work on internalizing it. You have a 20+ years timeframe to consider. Read everything about relationship game, s…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 01:32 PM
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Well, we did it because we wanted to, and we were openly proud of it (as we should be). Now, things change a bit if somebody comes to you and "demands" that you give him/her what you previously gifted. There are two ways you can react to this: what you're doing is (honestly perfectly natural) say "fuck you and your entitlement" and try to live for yourself only laugh or sigh, but ignore the crazy people and do things your own way. The second leads to a better, happier life.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 05:45 AM
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Cultural Marxism, my friend. It can be very good to those who serve it.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 05:35 AM
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Proves again that when women think about men, they only think about the top 5%. Every single thing in that list works perfectly and gives huge gina tingles... as long as the guy is Brad Pitt.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 12:09 PM
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I'm going to pick on the first, because it's the first and because we happen to have hard evidence (though please don't make me look for sources before coffee...) Do 50% (or more) of housework This is gender-symmetrical, and applies to many many things, not just marriages: we tend to see what we do, and be blind to what others contribute. No matter what the division of work will be, the reported percentages will always be above 100% (i.e. both doing 60% of the work, or 80-40 etc). This is the re…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 07:02 AM
1

What exactly is wrong about Kay? I think that's one of the big steps from BP to RP, to realize that jerks are not jerks at all. They're just not supplicating.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 09:10 AM
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With its own small effect on the pay gap.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 09:04 AM
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The question was "How do I get laid". But it's ok, we don't really expect women to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/14 02:21 PM
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You WILL have to pay child support. I think I came.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 10:29 AM
1

Distributed, not re-distributed. Natural resources are in a way just stuff you stumble upon. Society has a choice on what to do with it - and usually it's a small frenzy of corruption, some companies get exploitation rights and the state gets a cut which it then uses on whatever it wants. BI is actually more fair. Redistribution through taxation on the other hand has two major disadvantages compared to this: You take wealth from somebody who created it and give it to somebody else. Honestly, I'm…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 10:26 AM
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I think fundamentally it's a good idea. Also it's a very easy way to redistribute public income that's usually "disappeared", like natural resources - the Alaska Public Fund is a great idea. And the level of fairness implicit makes it quite attractive. I still don't like the idea of people voting themselves money, as it's a very slippery slope. It can easily get to the point where a part of the population has the full time job of voting greater BI, and they'll have an overwhelming majority among…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 08:50 AM
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I don't particularly see a problem with this. Women need more free days. It's a fact - from menstruation to pregnancy to taking care of children. It's really hard to dispute and honestly, it's a better society that gives them this option. And this is where the difference between liberal and libertarian rears its head. Allowing them the option is a very libertarian thing to do. Forcing them to take those free days, and forcing somebody else to pay for them is liberal.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 07:07 AM
2

There actually is a /r/basicincome and it's pretty active. I'm not sure whether it's interesting or scary.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 07:03 AM
2

If a woman had to choose between a handsome man with no game, and an ugly man with a lot of nice and skilled game, she would choose the handsome man. I would really like a source for that. There is more then one way to answer: Women have a much fuzzier concept of handsome, and can easily include behavior clues into it. Plus stuff like build, clothes, posture etc Looks are overall much less important. Status (contextual and social), confidence, game etc matter more. Women have an exponential resp…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 05:58 AM
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Either she did the work or accidental alpha. No chasing involved whatsoever, both were surprises. Accepted the "just friends" arrangement, proceed to get drunk together at my place. After a couple hours of her giving me hints instead of getting drunk she straight out told me she wants to hook up. I was still surprised. Get dressed up in formalware. Looking sharp. Roomate says "let me see how it feels to kiss a guy with a beard" as I'm about to leave. Chasing women with a BP mindset is the worst …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 05:48 AM
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I don't particularly get the whole concept of bachelor party. It's foreign to my culture, and I can only see it as an expression of regret for what you're giving up. If people are getting married because they have to, then yes - it makes a lot of sense.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 07:43 PM
1

Edit: i'm not sure why your post was removed. I thought we were having a good time. :( Yes it was apparently... oh well. Good time was had, for a while.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:28 PM
1

Honestly, I think there's a bit of groupthink at play. Yes leaving the friendzone is usually best. I know it. I went as far as adding a disclaimer in advance. Are you actually saying: There is absolutely no use ever of friendzone game, because anecdotal examples to the contrary are plenty. For example a BP friend actually got the girl a few weeks after telling him about RP. Hell, even Mystery lost to friendzone game. There is no point discussing it - because honestly, I find it intellectually st…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 01:36 PM
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Dread game, absolutely, and no need to be subtle. I was speaking from my own experience (which was a failure in the end, so take with a grain of salt), and also from "One Billion Wicked Thoughts" which says the ideal male is one who could have any woman he wanted, but chooses the protagonist. I do admit subtlety is probably lost on many women. As for demonstrating value, I stand by my words: qualifying is dangerous and should be avoided, so some attention is definitely needed here.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 01:17 PM
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Except well, they don't really appear anymore. Not the ones they could have caught before the wall.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 10:56 AM
1

a little thing they call dread game around here God, no. It will have the opposite effect on him. He'd be willing to do anything for her if just she'd stay.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 03:33 PM
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But I guess there's something about having to ask a man to wash his hands/not leave boogers in the shower/clean the wax clumps in his ears, etc that just killed my sex drive. I dont think it's coming back. It works the other way around. If you're sexually attracted to someone it automatically inhibits any disgust you may feel. Kissing means tasting saliva, after all. Which also explains why lots of fetishes are possible. And to address your original question: it won't work if you have to change …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 03:31 PM
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Social science research on this point shows more than 50% of DV situations are "mutual" violence that is usually followed by hot make up sex Do you have a source by any chance?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 07:02 AM
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Well, in all honestly men kill (and are killed) orders of magnitude more then women. So saying "he's more likely to be a killer because he is a man" is perfectly true, from a bayesian probability point of view. There are different reasons why it's a shitty argument, both statistic and social.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 06:58 AM
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I think the fairest answer is that he is very close to what TBP thinks red pillers are. Which btw nicely explains to red pillers why they get the hate and disgust they get - wouldn't you feel the same about a community of Elliot Rodger's? Pre crime-spree, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/14 01:57 PM
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This fits perfectly with the thread about avoiding clubs and bars. I had a longish talk about the subject with a woman friend and she admitted that the main reason they go to bars is attention, while we go to pick up women. But this still didn't fully explain what leftajar talks about: the rejections seem out of proportion with the context. "We're not here to have guys hit on us" is blatantly false. This is the key: they go to clubs/bars both for attention and for the possibility of rejecting so…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 12:41 PM
1

At least success in online dating has been documented to be correlated with height. It's not the only factor, but it's among the bigger ones. In real world it's easier to compensate, plus you can't be filtered by height...
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 09:23 AM
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Alpha is way overused. If you want a relevant answer, try to taboo alpha and see where you get. Is it "good" not to approach women? Depends - do you want women? Because if you do and are not a famous actor, you're going to have to approach. Is it "cool"? Not particularly. Will it make you happy? If you put your effort in other things you like, quite possibly. Is it a good strategy long term to get woman? Only if you focus on bettering yourself, and then start approaching again.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 08:19 AM
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sigh. Again with this kind of posts. Where it's not incorrect it's just uninteresting. My dad actually told me "never run after women and buses - there's always the next one". It's a good metaphor. This is actually hamstering on the part of OP. "women aren't the pretty little innocent flowers I want them to be, therefore sluts and hamsters". If you get HIV, one of the first things that would suck, social-wise, is the enormous difficulty of entering a LTR. I don't get why women should not be worr…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 08:14 AM
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Gotta use a tumbler. Like I said above, bitcoin transactions are completely public.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 07:43 AM
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That's... not likely to be correct. Bitcoin transactions are public (waaay more public than anything else). All a court has to do is put a value on his bitcoin stash, and take the same amount from somewhere else. Worst case scenario, garnish his wages. If he refuses to pay and splits, it's exactly the same as selling the house and leaving with a suitcase full of money. Possible, but quite illegal. May or may not work, and almost certainly not if he stays in US (where I assume this is taking plac…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 07:42 AM
2

Definitely just using me for a drink. Oh well, I buy it anyway and keep that in mind. Let's just say the night ended well. Proof that rules are made to be broken.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:22 PM
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This is not Red Pill stuff, even with a "venting" tag. I'd have fired the guy too. Dress code (smart casual at least) isn't meant to use like this - it's for keeping away people in sportswear. Turning somebody away has plenty of potential problems, at the very least the loss of a customer, and should have been done sparingly.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 02:57 PM
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I find that things work a lot easier if you put on the table your limits. "Nah bro, I'm not going to stop having sex. Sorry. Can you work around that?". No need to drop a relationship of any kind just because you can't see eye to eye 100%. I've yet to get a "no" since I started doing that.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 03:34 PM
1

Read the book, it explores a lot more the adversarial aspect. It's really pulling no punches about the nature of the conflict, its inevitability and its consequences. Well, "conflict" in the way feminism (and to a lesser degree TRP) are approaching the problem is probably not the best word. Better would be conflict of interests, and even better "conflict of preferences" - but with world-changing consequences.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 06:58 PM
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This is one of the ways of dealing with LMR, and it's often correct. But don't make the mistake to think that because it works it's the only one. Essentially, shit tests are an attempt to switch frame. OP had a strong enough frame that he managed to keep it not by doing some advanced jiu-jitsu maneuver on it, but simply by deflecting it. As for "shaming"... stopping 15 minutes into a blowjob and saying "I think I should go" is probably the clearest shit test I've ever heard. As far as I can tell…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:00 AM
9

...we looked at 22 surveys sampling 20,000 university students. Of course men were smarter in his sample. Had he looked at prisons the results would have been reversed. I've posted this several times before, but it fits the topic perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 08:34 AM
2

I don't like this situation but I can see where the decision is coming from. She was about to become permanently infertile, and decided together with the boyfriend to freeze embryos. If he had said no at that point she would have had a number of options: freeze eggs, find another guy, find a sperm donor etc. Now he gets a new girlfriend who objects. Problem is, the deed is done. This is the backup plan, there is no other. It's too late to change his mind, and if he did he'd be indirectly respons…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 06:18 PM
3

It's a surprisingly difficult thing to do. In time you can do it more naturally, but at first you can treat it as a dominance play, even openly. "you like it, don't you? good, then we'll take a break".
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 07:16 AM
1

Ah, for a LTR sure, I've seen the statistics. For casual or semi-casual sex it may be a turn-on, but the act itself is rarely lots of fun.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 09:16 PM
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Try searching for it, there are quite a few discussions. The consensus seems to be around: it's the most open form of relationship, i.e. no bullshit legalizing and bringing it mainstream would bring down the value of pussy and make women somewhat less entitled (which is why it's hard to make it happen) for some it works well, including long term. Others find the lack of chase a big turnoff. It's seldom comparable to a LTR, although few have managed. people keep calling it "not alpha", but they'r…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 09:14 PM
1

Not all it's cracked up to be...
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 04:19 PM
2

As it happens I just had first sex after reading "The Sex God Method". Didn't really make much to apply it and I was pretty good in bed even before but still, it's a pretty nice feeling when she's watching you all googly eyes when you get dressed. So yeah, I recommend it. And e beginner tip: focus on what makes you feel good and be open about it. Even simple stuff as setting the pace, taking a break etc.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 10:54 AM
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There's a fine thick line between dominant and abusive, and thinking she has no say in what the limits are puts you halfway over it. Please remember quite a few men reading this do not have the life experience (and possibly overall knowledge) to tell the difference.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 10:50 AM
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If your normal sexual encounters regularly involve someone saying no, I would seriously begin to question how normal they really are. It's a bit disturbing how discussions with feminists always involve ad hominem. I'm mostly used to it by now so I don't take it very seriously, but please be aware that we're discussing an abstract topic. As for how regular they are, I have at least a couple of experiences of "no" which had a resounding yes behind it. And popular culture seems at the very least no…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/14 05:05 PM
17

There are two different things at play here. His behavior worked. They were together for 5 years, and even at the end she clinged to him as hard as she could, and gave up(?) only when her brother threatened him. He was a cunt, insecure asshole. Which is pretty obvious. But point 2 doesn't change 1 in the least. What he did worked. What he wanted from her is likely not what a normal, mature, well adjusted guy would want from a girl. But that's only a matter of preference. The method itself - the …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 08:17 AM
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Great, thank you! Exactly what I wanted. As for whether it's ok to ignore a no: of course not. But this doesn't automatically make it rape. in practice and in the real world there are plenty of normal sexual encounters which involve "no"s. It's not an ideal situation, but it's the reality that women do it. So anything that clarifies the situation is helpful, for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/14 07:50 AM
1

It's pretty hard to find a solid source for that. Maybe statistical data from dating sites? The closest I found was this: http://iconicmen.wordpress.com/2013/10/24/smv-is-it-real/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/14 09:48 PM
0

Do you have any details/links etc? It just seems so... off. From a logical pov, evolutionary pov, common sense pov... As a man I can't imagine being [prison] raped and being too shy to do anything about it. Edit: for the record, I've always read on PUA forums that the best response for LMR is ignoring the woman. "just take out your laptop and start working". Stuff like "pushing through LMR" I've only found on /r/TheBluePill or here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/14 09:35 PM
1

Btw, I had success in similar conversations using this technique: http://lesswrong.com/lw/nu/taboo_your_words/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/14 09:29 PM
9

A man with 30+ hookups is likely above average, so can likely attract a better partner A 30 year old man is in a better position then a woman - man's SMV peaks around 35, a woman's around 23 - so again, likely go get a better partner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/14 09:21 PM
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The problem with BP - RP conversations is that parties often mean different things from the same words. "rape" itself means forced intercourse for most of TRP, and a whole lot more for TBP. Same here with aroused. TRP men had plenty of experiences with women saying no and then jumping their bones - or both at the same time. I also know the feeling, and it's pretty clear we're not talking about an involuntary response. TBP on the other hand interprets this as "so when you're [forcefully] raping a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/14 09:08 PM
7

That's a consistent definition. Problem with it is extreme selectivity in enforcing it. For example men have about as many stupid drunk hookups as women, and on top of it there's research showing that being aroused affects their decision making capabilities. So why do we never see women prosecuted for raping drunk men? We also have plenty of cases when both parties are drunk, and again only men are considered rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/14 09:02 PM
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Rape is any sex act without the enthusiastic consent of all participants. Then plenty of my girlfriends raped me, and I probably raped quite a few of them back. And "wednesday night sex" married couples rape each other for years. That's exactly why we need definitions, because otherwise we have unenthusiastic sex treated the same as tying a child in the basement and forcefully sodomizing him/her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/14 08:58 PM
4

I also think that men trying to by-pass LMR could very quickly turn to rape. The problem with this scenario is that is sounds a lot like "I got raped because I was to embarrassed to do anything about it". Denial of agency doesn't mean you disagree on the subject. It means you are put in a position you actually can't do anything about. Either you're forced, or unconscious, or threatened. Saying "no" and then going along with it because you can't think of anything else to do... I've seen a number …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/14 08:52 PM
2

Other redditors reported a stark difference in countries with legal prostitution. Likely the difference fuzzy and somewhat subjective anyways. Still, I'd like to offer two counterpoints - while admitting everything you said is valid: prostitution exists, so at least that many men prefer hookers to the non-paid alternatives. relationships usually involve better and more frequent sex, and likely cheaper in the long run (unless a baby "happens"...), but prostitution offers variety - and men are wir…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/14 09:58 AM
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The difference may be real. Professional skill is equal, but men have different (and much better) ways of cooperating in institutions based on abstract interests. So it's possible that female domineering women actually are on average more "bossy" and less skilled at leading. Sources: http://www.amazon.com/There-Anything-Good-About-Men/dp/019537410X http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1168182/Catfights-handbags-tears-toilets-When-producer-launched-women-TV-company-thought-shed-kissed-goodby…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 09:41 AM
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The delusion is not in wanting gender egalitarianism, it's in forcing it. It's a good thing to allow both genders do whatever they feel like, and maybe even encourage them. 100 years ago you'd have quite a few women with a formal education, and if you asked somebody they'd probably tell you that women don't need or want it anyways. Things change. Nowadays it's women in the army. Let them - few of them actually will, and in time we'll find out if it's a good idea or bad. Where feminism (or postmo…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 07:32 AM
4

This is TBP style argument. You're not reasoning at all, only repeating yourself as if it's obvious and self-explanatory. If it were, we wouldn't be having this conversation.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 09:02 PM
3

http://tierneylab.blogs.nytimes.com/2007/08/20/is-there-anything-good-about-men-and-other-tricky-questions/?_php=true&_type=blogs&_r=0
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 08:10 PM
1

PS: With all due respect Born in a language with phonetic writing. I'm forgiving myself these kind of mistakes as a sacrifice to the monster that's English.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 03:10 PM
1

1) The assumption of the article is that only men are responsible for rape. It is not possible for women to take advantage of drunk men. At least the way the article is set up it makes sense: the standard for rape is unconscious/vomiting/pissing drunk, and in this condition it's unlikely that a man can actually perform. The problem of course is that at least for women the standard is lower in practice, up to the point where they're both equally wasted, able to perform but unable to make great de…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 03:09 PM
1

Depends on how the paperwork is set up, which I honestly don't know. There is a large bias against "pimping" as a business, so it's possible they're freelancing and the brothel is simply providing them with a venue. Testing is of course necessary, but I'm not sure what licensing would involve other than an age check... I'm sorry, my experience has only been in (theoretical) prohibition country.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/14 02:58 PM
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With all do respect, put down the f*king torches. The article was as balanced as it's reasonable to expect. Under that standard, the prosecution may win a conviction only by proving that the victim’s intoxication was extreme and verifiable. She has to be way past buzzed or tipsy. For example, a person who is falling-down drunk, too intoxicated to walk. Or unable to talk clearly or coherently. Or too uncoordinated to undress herself. Or sick drunk, slumped over a toilet vomiting or urinating on h…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 09:24 PM
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There is another thing at play. Women are more social (this means many things for many people, but for our purposes it suffices to say they perform more in close-knit social networks), and so tend to be much less radical with choices and answers. "where do you want to eat?" will never get a straight answer from a woman because a straight, single answer would be aggressive. A "proper" way to ask this in womanspeak would be "want to eat at X or at Y" which allows her to chose one or suggest someth…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 05:15 PM
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a hooker's career is going to be over by the time she's 40 This is a smaller problem in practice then you'd think. Many girls are involved with sex work only temporarily, some just for a few weeks. Depending on financial or relationship circumstances they may come back to it for stretches of time. Incidentally my favorite erotic masseuse is finishing her 3rd year of medical school, and she's far from being an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/14 04:34 PM
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Market forces would change. Things will greatly improve for the sex workers. Human trafficking would increase in numbers, but more in the sense of work migration. Being in the open would allow women to voluntarily move to a country with legalized prostitution and more importantly, to request help and assistance. The other market force that will change is the value of sex. In a prohibition country the men have to invest effort in order to obtain sex - the investment is mostly in time and incident…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/14 04:26 PM
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I've made a habit to never say names during sex because I'm afraid of something like this happening. I've actually found myself saying another name in my head, so that's probably a good idea. But I've also noticed that mixing up names doesn't really mean that much - at least not for me (male). It could be some girl I have a passing attraction to, or just somebody who left an impression. Also when turned on and about to orgasm - mostly when masturbating because I have less on my mind - my head fi…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 11:47 AM
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Yeap, at least for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_transmitted_disease#Transmission I'd like to see somewhere the percentages too, but either way they're probably in double digits so risky enough. Given that we probably already have herpes and that siphyllis is rare (and you are checking for it yearly for general principle, right?) it means that oral sex is very risky, but not particularly dangerous.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 03:56 PM
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Can't ask a woman to sign over what the government may do. For one thing it's not her thing to give - it's the child's. Also it's written deep into the basis of contemporary law that you can't give up your rights anyways - you can't sell yourself in slavery for example. What might work is making her indemnify you for it. Something like an insurance: "in the event of child support, I will monthly pay to X the exact amount of child support no less then 14 days after it has been received".
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 03:45 PM
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Truth is, this is generally a shitty situation. A higher SMV guy comes to town, girl gets fucked, relationship goes to hell. Maybe people with higher game skills can give some pointers, but I'd suggest playing it safe and avoiding the guy. Take the gf somewhere else, stay in, whatever. Of course, if you find yourself doing this often then you have a problem. But when it comes to once-a-year events, better be safe then sorry.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 02:16 PM
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I think Rollo Tomassi wrote about women communicating "covertly" vs "overtly", and how overt communication is for them the same as admitting they lost. In this conversation you're always responding to the overt communication, which is completely beside the point. And the fact that you're obviously aware of what she means is predictably driving her crazy, up to the point where she actually openly asks if you've done anything with Brittany. Jenny: Hey are you awake? Just remembered I still have yo…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 08:55 PM
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There was a question on sosuave (I think) many years ago: when is it ok to give flowers or gifts to a woman? The answer is relevant to your question: when she perceives your SMV to be higher, and is afraid you're not serious about her. For example if you're a known playboy in the community and she's aware of it, it's ok to keep being alpha with her - but if you don't mix any beta traits she'll think you're just after a quick contest and (usually) automatically reject you.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 06:04 PM
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Read "A Billion Wicked Thoughts". It's a book about what erotic literature can say about sexuality: http://www.amazon.com/Billion-Wicked-Thoughts-Internet-Relationships/dp/0452297877
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 10:06 AM
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Neh. Rape may have been more likely in the evolutionary past, it still doesn't make it even close to the rule. If it were, we'd see it both in great apes and in present time hunter gatherer societies. And we don't. Well, that's not exactly true, because great apes have different mating systems. Ape females in heat are a lot less discriminate, and so they have little reason to avoid having sex and even less so with powerful males. And even so btw they have plenty of ways to make sure their prefer…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 07:29 AM
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Problem with comparing feminism with RP is that the meaning of the word "feminism" got diluted, or maybe broken up in the past half century. I submit to you that most subscribers of this subreddit are feminists (don't skin me just yet). In its original sense, it used to mean "equal rights for women", and it was born in a world where it was actually very difficult for women to make basic life choices like get a college education or choose a career or even control when, how and occasionally with w…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 08:05 PM
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Have a "gang"? No, not really, unless you're highly extrovert. But having 1-3 close friends with which you keep in contact, that's not only ok but it's highly recommended. Both for your own health and for the health of the relationship. If all companionship, validation and advice in your life comes from just one person... not only is it extremely fragile, but the burden on that person is significant.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 11:46 AM
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Rollo Tomassi (of Rational Male, first recommended link in the sidebar) is happily married, monogamous and has a ~15 yo girl. Proof that it can be done.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 11:41 AM
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I've had this exact dilemma some years ago. In the middle of a date it comes up that she's lesbian. Looks like a date, sounds like a date... wtf is it?!. Well, a week later in my bedroom it turns out she's actually bi. I'm guessing you just lost a big shit test. Of course, redpillshadow could be right and this could be just a no, but I don't think so. For one thing, she said she's "married" after she said yes to the date. That's a big shit test indication. As in, "you're still taking me out, but…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 11:36 AM
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Pi.. sorry, cops are a necessary evil. I also think they're ultimately an oppression tool, but this doesn't change that a good part of what they do is useful, and more importantly it's indispensable. It's a bit like berating knives for killing people. Not that the system doesn't need improvement, of course, especially in the sense of more responsibility. But there's really nothing to gain by cursing individual cops.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 11:23 AM
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I think it's a sign of (puritanical) US culture on reddit that affairs are always frown upon (and openly vilified on /r/relationships). Biology is quite suggestive: men are enraged by physical cheating - aka wife had sex with someone else - because this brings the huge risk of raising someone else's child. Women on the other hand are mostly affected by emotional cheating, because it signals a potential transfer of resources from her to the other woman. What this means is that if properly framed …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 11:15 AM
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Yeap, I actually wanted to add something about having a healthy social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 11:04 AM
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If you read about "ego depletion" there is an interesting side-effect. Basically it says willpower is a limited resource (trainable though) and that if you invest it in one area of your life you're likely taking it away from another. For example during exams dorm rooms are a lot messier. So at least short term, you're wrong. However, there comes a time in people's lives when they get to choose their priorities. Like when I looked in the mirror and saw I'm 20 pounds overweight and it's making me …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 10:54 AM
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There are interests you enjoy as a spectator, like movies and TV shows. They may be important to you, but they rarely make you a better person. But if you're into candlemaking this shows: you have the patience, willpower and skill to stick to something you have tastes and interests different from what TV tells you to, which means: you're genuinely different/special only lastly, it makes for good conversation. So you're not bringing candles to the table (though they're welcome too) but a more com…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 10:46 AM
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Reminds me of feminism before postmodern activists stole and redefined the term.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:43 AM
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How we find the post matters. If I find a RP related post in /r/motorcycles which I happen to frequent, that's ok - I'm free to comment to my hearts content (though linking or naming TRP will probably court downvotes). But if I see a post through this subreddit, then no matter how much I'd like to go there and comment I abstain myself. Because that's exactly what SRS is doing: using brigading to kill discourse. We're no longer a small subreddit, and it's conceivable - no, it's already likely tha…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:00 PM
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Back home, I had a small but tight group of friends, all of whom are passionate, driven to succeed, and very intelligent. Might want to consider the possibility that what you're looking for is a rare thing. And doubly rare in Eastern Europe, where such people either emigrated or went into entrepreneurship.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:27 PM
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I like how this one has a disclaimer at the end, but the husband's doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 05:59 AM
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Amnesia is associated with being a woman and having done something you're embarrassed of.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 07:06 AM
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Considering your background in Psychology I'd have thought you'd mention Dr. Roy F Baumeister more often. What do you think of his work, and in particular Is Anything Good about Men?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 04:35 PM
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Just wanted to say the print book is perfect for its stated purpose: when I talk with a friend about women trouble, I take it out of the bookshelf and lend it for a few weeks. Also: thank you.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 04:30 PM
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Sure, this sub is often quoted as being hated because it's so popular as a backpage sub, but we are nothing compared to some of the other subs which vary in degrees. But we may be seen as dangerous. It's about politics and power - if we're banned it won't be because we're easy to hate, but because we had some degree of success. What would happen if TRP ends up being criticized by the big media just as jailbait was?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 01:33 PM
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I was really really afraid the top comment would be "dump the beatch". Lately it seems like the comments in a thread depend a lot more on the hivemind of the specific subreddit then on the facts of the post. And the default in almost any relationship thread is "dump her". "Dump her" is an easy and "feel good" thing to say (and it might often be the right advice) but it often ignores two simple facts: OP is not a super PUA able to get a new girl by snapping his fingers. There is a real effort inv…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 07:30 AM
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Actually being inexperienced it's easy to make an image of the female body from photoshopped covers and porn movies. I remember I was pretty surprised the first time I saw a woman naked in real life. She was definitely not unattractive, but there was no photoshop and the perfect resolution was a bit unflattering.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 06:49 AM
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Yey for legal prostitution. I'd also be happy with various other arrangements that make more open the money for sex relationships, maybe something subscription based, or rent a holiday girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 01:58 PM
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I don't know. It ultimately depends on the numbers. I'm willing to do some risky shit (in my case riding a motorcycle) that has X% chance to maim and cripple me each year - because I consider the risk worth it. Plus we're always risking the girl getting pregnant even with a condom. 2 minutes of googling found this: A study of heterosexual couples in Uganda in which one partner was infected revealed that infected persons who did transmit virus to their partners had significantly higher mean viral…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:43 AM
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I'm really surprised martial arts are so rarely mentioned in a TRP context. I started karate recently, and it fits the bill amazingly well. It's very clear self improvement, it's very demanding physically (and on top it has a good enough mix of strength/endurance to help with having a nice body). It gives you the possibility of bare-handed self defense. And usually it's safe enough - much safer for example then boxing, where brain damage is a question of when.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 01:07 PM
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No no, you don't get it. If blue pill didn't work, it just means you're not blue enough. You did some stupid shit, or more likely you weren't honest enough. Not with her, with yourself. There must be some part of you that [fill in the blanks]. I swear, when you put it like that it's a goddamn cult, what it is.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 09:58 PM
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Oh, I knew trp even back then. It was simply a case of panic / blue pill coming back. As for what to do, I had already done it and she liked it. Anything except cave would have been great. Just ignore it, tease her, agree and amplify - try to bring back the innocent child that liked the unexpected and ignore/drive away the judgmental shit-testing bitch that thought it was disrespectful.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 09:53 PM
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If you'd care to move away to /r/PurplePillDebate you'd get a proper answer to this. Here it's just trolling.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:56 PM
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Look, wanna comment here, fine. But find something constructive or at least articulate to say. "Y'all are subhuman" is neither. Actually, the fact this kind of comments are so rare makes me grateful for the mods we have. Thanks, mods.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:55 PM
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Romance man. Guys who bought into the blue pill and don't know the theory will actually think this is romantic because "money don't matter".
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:47 PM
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I'm walking with my oneitis, she says some stupid shit and I jokingly slap her on the butt. Her spontaneous reaction is a delighted "hey!". Her delayed reaction is, of course, "how do you dare do this". Now, at that point I already knew the theory, so I have no excuse for what I did: I caved, and apologized profusely. I did many more shitty things before and after that (mostly by not moving on soon enough) but this stands out as having the highest degree of pure stupidity and wasted opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:45 PM
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Which is why in the past societies made female promiscuity a crime and they knew what they were doing. Whoho there mate. You're talking about making it illegal to have sex with 22 year olds. Not gonna sign up for that. Agree with much of the rest, though. A big chunk of the male population will just sign out and cease to care. AFAIK, in Japan it's already a scarily high percentage.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 07:21 AM
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Oh, she can be the active one in doggy. Quite nice.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 03:36 PM
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"I've always been told I'm great in bed". And don't get me started on how everybody told them are the master of blowjobs when they have no idea what they're doing. I've been with a rather large number of escorts, enough to be statistically significant. My observations (which also apply to the smaller sample of girls I dated): Only two really great at blowjobs. I wouldn't have thought a girl can do things to my dick that are beyond my comprehension, but it happenes. Rarely though. Limited number …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 01:55 PM
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Ex president of Harvard University. In a speech he suggested there are few female engineering phds because maybe women don't like engineering. He had to resign because of this. No I'm not trolling.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:06 PM
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Some are blue pill. But even when they aren't, it's not a very smart thing to speak up. There was an old saying: don't attribute to malice what can be adequately explained by stupidity.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:57 AM
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Anon, isn't it depressing to be an atheist? Wouldn't it be easier if you had faith to support you? Why yes, anon, it would. Do you have a way to plug me back in?...
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:52 AM
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I've always heard that "women fight dirty" but not until I tried commenting in TBP I understood exactly what it means. They don't have any concept of ad hominem as separate from the argument itself.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:47 AM
2

I'm not a big drunkard - can somebody with livelier college days confirm? AFAIK there are two kinds of "blacked out drunk". You either simply collapse - alcoholic coma - or you're walking and talking but unable to form long term memories, in which case next morning feels like blacking out, because you can't remember shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:44 AM
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I failed to mention that this has happened once before, almost exact same situation, about a year ago. Got really drunk with someone she barely knew and a bunch of strangers. Blacked out and ended up in the guys bed the next morning, her only recollection being trying to tell the guy "no!" and not being able to communicate to the cab driver that she wanted to go home. The guy got her blacked out trashed and dragged her back to his apartment. So there's that. This is the second time, and she swor…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:40 AM
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Give me advice on healthcare when you pay for your own defense, m'kay? Defence spending may or may not be relevant here, and I could bring into discussion the fact that US has been printing international currency for decades. But that'll just takes us further from the point. I don't think you can realistically claim that the money the average Joe pays for overinflated healthcare somehow goes into protecting european countries, do you? US insurance model is simply wasteful - or possibly deeply co…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 07:11 AM
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TIL
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 07:43 PM
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I agree with you, but coming from an european, any change in your healthcare system is a step forward. Going to a hospital and having your problems solved for a moderate pay is not communism, is simply civilization. And another point - redistribution is there and is real, but I don't think it's the greatest problem (and arguably some is positive). The problem is the feminisation of previously masculine spheres, starting with the workplace and ending with the society at large. There are ways men …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 06:20 PM
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Agree with the sun lamp. I'm actually on the fence on using melatonin long term. Haven't felt any side effects, but on the other hand I mostly took it as needed, maybe 2 weeks at a time. Plus there's a clear "less is more" effect, where 1mg or less doses are better then the 3mg you usually find. So at this point I'm somewhere at "it's definitely safe and recommended medium term, not enough data to recommend it long term".
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 04:39 PM
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This seems to use the same data as the Teachman study mentioned above. Which after some googling I managed to find without a paywall: http://www.faithandreason.ca/chastity/Premarital_Sex_Cohabitation.pdf
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 04:23 PM
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Putting my amateur statistician hat on, there are a couple of weaknesses: we also need a source, and preferable a peer reviewed one it does suggest a correlation between number of partners and marriage stability, but it measures more then that. It could also be that women with more sexual partners marry later or less.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 03:52 PM
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Creatine does what it's advertised to do and is relatively free of side-effects, except one: it can speed up hair loss. You might also put Vitamin D up there in bold - it's good for so many things it's really a shame not to take it. AFAIK it's the one supplement worth taking for the general population. The caveat: don't take it in summer or if you live somewhere sunny. I'd also add melatinon to the list. Given the modern lifestyle and how much electric light we have in the evening, it's not real…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 03:42 PM
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Weak social relationships are a matter of taste, but Belonging is one of the main psychological needs, if not the top one. We need (not just want) 3-6 close relationships, doesn't matter of what kind - friendships, romantic, family, work etc. Where men differ from women is that up to a point we can use groups, institutions or even ideas as a source of belonging (aka sports, reddit, gaming etc).
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 08:22 AM
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Formula is not exactly correct. Attractiveness colors everything else. If you're over a certain level of attractiveness, forwardness is a plus. Under that it's a minus. Hell, if the difference of SMV is big enough, even some awkwardness is a plus. Persistence on the other hand is rarely good.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 09:15 PM
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Doesn't that make illegal most feminist blogs, half of the super ball commercials and quite a good many sitcoms? [..] is evidently intended to express contempt for a person because of his gender, or that regards them as inferior, [...]
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 10:16 AM
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Ok, this is very much not peer-reviewed papery stuff - mostly speculation and anecdotal, so please take it as such. A constant in RP theory is "hamstering", which is another way of saying "resolving cognitive dissonance". Both sexes have their own particular lies to tell themselves. For women, it's very important to be "pure" from a SMV point of view. Being viewed as easy or cheap is a very bad way to find a good husband - this comes directly from the fact that women always know they're the moth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/14 08:15 PM
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A quick comment on that. Men's sexuality is very much set in stone from birth - mostly visual, we like boobs, ass, long hair, clear skin etc. Women's sexuality is much more plastic. I can dig up links if required, but I'm lazy right now. Both sexes settle in their preferences around puberty (which btw explains why a certain generation likes granny porn), but women have a much much wider range of stimuli they may end up finding arousing - because what makes a "successful" male changes with the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/14 07:39 AM
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This explains a lot of the flak RP is getting. I'm sorry (and happy) to say you have a completely skewed view of RP. I do agree with the notion that some aspects of the Red Pill are very dangerous, namely that marital rape doesn't exist and that it's okay to hit your SO, I honestly hoped you were trolling when reading this. Either that, or you found some fringe examples of sexual play and are somehow equating them with beating your wife. I don't agree with the idea that women are less than men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/14 07:23 AM
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Well, if you want to be useful, please add some reasons. If not, wtf is the point of this post?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 12:38 PM
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