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It's a total distraction. You will always have your greatest impact in person. You will also inevitably have to interact in person in any success scenario. One would be a fool to not start there, that much closer to your goal.
/r/seduction23/03/17 10:12 AM
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You don't need to confront people unless they're entrenched in your circle. You can just stop talking to them. First step is to meet new people. Meeting new girls will give you all the opportunities to learn to stop being a doormat. Learn to shut down rudeness from a calm yet firm state. Also, pick up a new mantra: what have you done for me today?
/r/seduction01/02/17 10:38 PM
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The key is to not let her sleep in your bed in the first place if she won't fuck. It's your place. You can kick her out. In fact, you have to, if you respect yourself.
/r/seduction01/02/17 10:12 PM
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http://www.d20srd.org/srd/spells/permanency.htm
/r/seduction01/02/17 10:04 PM
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This video, and all his videos, seem targeted to women. Even acknowledging that, they're atrocious. He's a charlatan making money by stepping into a position of false authority, teaching women to become insufferable.
/r/seduction31/01/17 07:45 PM
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Game will get you social status. Social status makes it so easy that you won't need game. Then, when you lose your status, what do you have left?
/r/seduction30/01/17 09:18 PM
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You felt insulted because it was insulting. She wasted your time, ditched you, left you with the bill, and had the nerve to ask you to hold her purse at the end. That doesn't happen without several failed, overt shit tests taking place beforehand. You documented all the ones that happened during. Look them over and see how you can have as a self-respecting man in the future instead.
/r/seduction30/01/17 05:57 PM
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Sure. Becoming dependent on drugs works for some people. I mean, what's the worst that can happen?
/r/seduction29/01/17 07:14 PM
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'what you say doesn't matter' philosophy of seddit. Like many other philosophies of seddit, that is wrong. What you say, how you say it, and when you say it all matter. There are people who make it their profession to know what to say, how, and when. Let go of that silly dogma, and soar.
/r/seduction29/01/17 07:12 PM
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You're moving too slowly. Girls will take hang on for many reasons: to make other guys jealous and get attention, they think it's their best shot, etc. Then the other guy pipes up and she jumps ship because you were boring the hell out of her. /u/XanderS311 hits on something really key here, and it's that attraction (and all unbound emotion) is transferable. You can get a girl ragingly horny, and she'll take it home to the boyfriend because it wasn't bound to you in specific. Night venues are on…
/r/seduction29/01/17 06:59 PM
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One of the first things she said to me was a direct insult The date turned really weird when she kept flirting and pulling me towards her, only to shoot me down whenever I attempted to do the same. At one point she came close to my face as if she was hinting me to kiss her, then licked my nose, and when I went in for the kiss, she aggressively pushed me away. fPUA. It's unfeminine and extremely unattractive, IMO. Edit: formatting
/r/seduction29/01/17 04:34 PM
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Can't help you with defending your reputation; I attack this from a prevention angle. Prevention: Never share social media accounts. Never friend on facebook. Do not give her your full name. Take a phone number, don't give her yours. Never mention your employer. If she's going to find out your home address, it'll be by coming over.
/r/seduction20/01/17 06:36 PM
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You're getting toyed with. She's going to take up room in your calendar and cancel immediately beforehand, causing you to alternate between feeling hopeful and rejected, more so each time until you have a meltdown. Forget her and move on. Or double-book her into plans you make with less promising girls.
/r/seduction20/01/17 02:57 PM
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They absolutely do. The way he said it can be taken the wrong way, e.g., nobody will remember what I say, so I can say ill-advised things.
/r/seduction19/01/17 04:16 PM
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You misheard her. She said I'll let you no. Move on, brother.
/r/seduction19/01/17 05:17 AM
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Have you never heard someone tell a story where they quote someone? Are they just making it up, then?
/r/seduction19/01/17 05:00 AM
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Yeah, piece of advice. Stop doing it in school. Go somewhere where you can approach total strangers, and apply the lessons you've already learned.
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:43 AM
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I had this happen to me in a large community. What I'm about to share comes from experience, not speculation. If you're doing badly enough, girls will tell others about you. I call it poisoning the well. They deny you the chance to make your own first impression with what you've learned by then, tethering you to the past. It sucks, but life goes on. When you notice you're dealing with a poisoned well, don't waste your time. Even if you miraculously win her over, her friend will re-poison her bef…
/r/seduction18/01/17 02:50 AM
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They're not guys. They don't find humor in all the same things we do, and vice versa. They also don't tell stories the same way, and the way they tell stories is the way they best understand stories. Have you ever listened to a woman tell a story? 50-75% of the story is telling you how she felt about what happened, and whatever remains is the actual factual account of events that transpired. When you tell a woman a story, you have to tell her how to feel about it. Otherwise, she fills it in with…
/r/seduction18/01/17 02:37 AM
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I can't say what to do since I haven't lived your life. I've got more than a decade to go before I'm in your shoes. What I can contribute is some advice to avoid. You're a man, not a boy. If someone's advice is to be a boy, move on, they have no idea. Young women have been conditioned to like boys, but all women instinctively desire men. Play to your strengths.
/r/seduction17/01/17 03:33 AM
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Models is an evolution of Mystery Method. To mix it with MM is to water down the many generations of improvements that have been made since then. MM has a characteristic fakeness that gets turned up to 11 if you're not a good fit for it; girls pick up on this HARD. For example Models deals with shit tests as signs of rejection This is a regression. Sometimes people stomp on previous good work in their efforts to make a name for themselves. Shit tests are not rejection, they're a girl trying to s…
/r/seduction16/01/17 02:32 AM
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You left out the part where you listen to her whine about how that jerk Brendan just fucks her and doesn't listen to her.
/r/seduction16/01/17 01:49 AM
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Absolutely. Worse, it's being diluted to just social skills. There's no edge, no bite, no advantage.
/r/seduction15/01/17 10:58 PM
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Nowhere. Intellect doesn't wet the panties. It never has and it never will. Anything you share from your intellect either goes in wrong emotionally or it requires her to engage her intellect, which may be absent depending on the individual, and is always a step in the wrong direction. Sexual outcomes are reached through emotion and only emotion. Learn to speak directly to her emotional mind. Probably the most accessible way is to treat the actual words exchanged as just a cover story and bend th…
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:58 PM
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If you want to reach the girl again, don't give her your number. Take hers and don't send her a text with your name or anything. Call her the next day. Most adults answer mysterious unknown calls in case it's their bank or insurance. This should shed some light on what happens when you give a girl your number. She uses it to screen her calls -- to screen you out. They will also block your number, but usually after the first or second time they ignore your call. So, then, what do you do? You do a…
/r/seduction14/01/17 05:32 PM
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You said you use tinder and ask out girls you already know. Is that all you do?
/r/seduction14/01/17 05:03 PM
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You "fell in love" with her.
/r/seduction13/01/17 05:53 AM
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I know i'm a good looking guy. So I don't understand why I've met [...] ugly men who have new females every week Welcome to /r/seduction. Lesson 1: Looks help. Lesson 2: Looks ain't everything. I approached maybe around 500 men who have new females every week, yet they don't approach as often as I do They have a higher percentage. Actually, they're known to get laid, so women just throw themselves at them. They didn't start that way, though. I wish people didn't pump seduction so full of feel-go…
/r/seduction13/01/17 05:38 AM
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As a polyamorist will tell you, it's everyone being able to have multiple partners and abiding by the boundaries of the relationship that are set through communication. It's about trust and upholding that trust, being able to love more than one person, ... In reality, it's a trap. It's trivial for a young woman to find more partners, and she will. It's nontrivial for you to find more partners, or you would have never agreed to be exclusive with your girlfriend. When your combined circle finds ou…
/r/seduction13/01/17 05:17 AM
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Now that you mention that experiment, I realize I watched this documentary in its entirety years ago. Composite faces, facial ratio measurements, smelling sweat-soaked shirts, digit measurements, hair whorls, and, the most useful by far, the pairing up exercise where they had numbers taped to their foreheads. That experiment is a great illustration. It's also very limiting if taken literally. The experiment depends on having a total order -- that is, being able to say Joe > Jeff -- over the memb…
/r/seduction10/01/17 01:58 AM
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I consider it the true way to get laid. The looks, money, status stuff is just the runner-up, the substitute, the inferior knock-off with better marketing. The key is to understand that people, and especially women, are strongly emotional beings, and that emotion shuts down reason. With practice, you'll learn common emotional landscapes, which states have pathways between them or overlap, and how to navigate toward sexual feelings reliably. Looks, money, status are just a means to an end. The en…
/r/seduction09/01/17 06:10 AM
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You text-zoned yourself. What kind of man has time to text and snap all day long? What kind of man chooses to keep snapchat between him and a girl he's into? You're not texting her because it's the best thing in the world. Get her in person reasonably quickly or move on.
/r/seduction08/01/17 06:37 PM
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Go Professor X and shave that dome. It looks surprisingly good. You're short, so level ground will be at an incline for you. You'll need to hook girls better, have a stronger presence, touch sooner and more often, and get their minds on something more favorable than the top of your head. You probably can't afford 2 seconds of silence, either, or she'll disengage; prepare fun things you can bring up without a lead-in so you can give her that feeling of always being a step behind. If giving up is …
/r/seduction08/01/17 06:23 PM
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Yes, I find it useless because it brings nothing new to the table. Moreover, those suggestions come from a very basic, unsophisticated approach -- the seduction equivalent of symmetric warfare. This advice is telling you to have the bigger army and win the battle head-on. I'm more interested in craftier techniques, like compromising supply lines, tainting water, occupying a narrow pass, etc. Vagabond storytellers and musicians have been getting laid since time immemorial. Why should I blow my ea…
/r/seduction08/01/17 06:06 PM
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That you think I meant it in a defeatist way is a reflection on yourself. I'm calling it useless because it gives you no leverage. This is the equivalent of "to be a better fighter, be taller, bigger, and covered in tattoos." How about some arm bars, wrist locks, and vital points?
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:35 PM
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So it's useless. Thanks for saving us the time.
/r/seduction08/01/17 02:25 AM
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I had a mental block about bringing girls home back when I lived with the family. What a girl thought was tertiary, not even secondary. I suspect there are others out there.
/r/seduction05/01/17 05:20 AM
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Also, women definitely need to see you do stuff in order become attracted to you, they'll rationalize it as, oh I like how he does that. You've got the causality backwards. When they're attracted to you, they'll like the way you don't use soap to wash your hands after taking a shit. When they're not attracted to you, you could cure cancer and they'd find their phones more interesting.
/r/seduction03/01/17 07:59 AM
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I knew a guy who self-harmed actively. He always wore long sleeves to hide his slash marks. It never caused him trouble with girls, even if it should have.
/r/seduction03/01/17 04:40 AM
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No. Apologizing will turn her off more. The ball is in her court. Move on, and consider it a little bonus if she contacts you out of the blue.
/r/seduction03/01/17 04:35 AM
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Mystery is all hype. Stop reading that immediately. Read Models, it's orders of magnitude better.
/r/seduction02/01/17 06:28 AM
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The solution to your problem is to go offline. Online, looks count for 95%. In person, looks count for 10%, 15% tops, when there's skill in play. You're not going to develop skill by swiping right.
/r/seduction02/01/17 05:21 AM
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Winners don't need to make others lose. Winners can win all on their own. Losers have to make others lose. The only way they can win is by making everyone else lose and then winning by default.
/r/seduction01/01/17 06:24 PM
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Save your money. Social circle game is just getting laid on popularity and status. I brought it up to warn you of the flip-side: getting shut out.
/r/seduction31/12/16 02:37 AM
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You're playing social circle game. You can lose the whole venue if one girl decides to overreact. This is a good place to perform, and a terrible place to learn and practice. Day game is king in my opinion.
/r/seduction31/12/16 01:52 AM
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It's "what" both ways, brother. "What" a guy is just doesn't have as much to do with looks.
/r/seduction31/12/16 01:07 AM
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Mate, you're the needy one in this scenario. Keep doing what you're doing and stop trying to ruin it with Dr Phil relationship talks.
/r/seduction31/12/16 01:04 AM
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Do you actually like clubs? There is no law that you have to go to clubs. Moreover, in night life, the venue you go to isn't necessarily the one where the best prospects are. You need to be able to change venue to get more, or just different, opportunities. Google some places, find out how busy they are, and what demographics go there and when. Find this information online, venue staff will lie to you. Never pay covers unless you're old money. Finally, there's no law that you have to go to bars,…
/r/seduction31/12/16 12:59 AM
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The only time you should put game on hold until you sort something out is when your ass is unwiped. Wipe it, wash your hands, and approach. Bad teeth, ugly face, bowl cut, gap between teeth, acne, prison tattoos, missing eye, peg leg, parrot on your shoulder, it doesn't matter. Do you smell like shit? No? Then approach. Girls just aren't visual the way we are. Looks lower the bar you need to get over with game, but the bar is always there, and enough game will get over it. Look your best, absolu…
/r/seduction29/12/16 04:28 AM
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Did you even read my post before replying?
/r/seduction27/12/16 05:19 AM
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Breathe slowly, pause more frequently, hold strong eye contact, and touch for emphasis. These cues outweigh the content of what you talk about, but it can only help if the content is congruent with it.
/r/seduction27/12/16 05:16 AM
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I take it your truck has rolling coal.
/r/seduction27/12/16 05:03 AM
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You realize she cheated on you right to your face, right? They didn't watch movies in her dorm. They had a fuck fest. Could you sit in a room all day, watching movies back to back? I know I'd be bored doing anything for that long... except what they were really doing. Likewise for Christmas Eve. The only thing you should feel guilty about is not reading the writing on the wall sooner. You got cheated on, hard and blatantly. You're finished with her. There's nothing to fix. Move on and better you…
/r/seduction27/12/16 12:27 AM
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especially in social circle settings Ding ding ding. Social circles multiply your outcome. If you get laid by one or two girls, a bunch of other girls are now halfway in your bed. If you strike out with two or three girls, you're shut out by the rest. I know that sounds pathetic but I would rather be rejected with a random girl in a bar than having my work relationships affected. That's smart, not pathetic. Gaming in social circles will just close doors for you before you ever touch the handle. …
/r/seduction26/12/16 02:59 PM
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If this isn't already a rule, then it should be: You may ask questions about specific scenarios, but not specific girls. This is not the oneitis support and encouragement group.
/r/seduction26/12/16 06:01 AM
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Good message. I have been writing field reports for every encounter I've had with a woman going back at least a year. It has made me aware of many things and also enabled me to quantify the effectiveness of techniques.
/r/seduction26/12/16 05:31 AM
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Sounds like a nightmare girlfriend-to-be.
/r/seduction18/12/16 07:11 PM
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Grab one of the likes, ask her about that. Dismiss everything else. Congratulations, you got her to invest a little -- she was giving you one-word and dead-end answers before that, wasn't she?
/r/seduction18/12/16 07:07 PM
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There's a girl that works in ... the building I work at. all I see her at is work Too close to home. This is a game where you can only win small but lose big. Play the game where you can win big and only lose small. The smart move here is to forget she exists.
/r/seduction17/12/16 08:19 PM
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Decouple fear and distrust. You don't need to trust people, and you don't need to fear people you distrust, either.
/r/seduction17/12/16 06:45 PM
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When a girl wants to kiss you, it's not going to be for how pretty your lips are. In fact, rather than disqualifying you from practicing game, this means you must have game, or no girl will want it enough to not be put off by your lip problem.
/r/seduction17/12/16 02:09 AM
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Who told you that you need to trust people?
/r/seduction17/12/16 01:42 AM
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I wrote it myself.
/r/seduction14/12/16 01:24 PM
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Yes, it's weird. Never do that again, and turn a very skeptical eye to whatever your source for that awful idea was.
/r/seduction14/12/16 03:14 AM
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A young monk asks a ranking monk at the temple, "How is it that you can best any opponent, even the ones who are stronger or more agile than you?" The ranking monk replied, "No man, however powerful, can defeat an opponent they place on a high pedestal; any opponent, however lacking, can defeat a man who buries himself waist-deep." And so, the young monk was enlightened.
/r/seduction14/12/16 12:51 AM
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I noted that quote because it seemingly implies attraction is to be thrown under the bus for comfort. Your response doesn't address whether you intended and stand by that.
/r/seduction14/12/16 12:40 AM
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Women will sleep with guys they are comfortable with, not attracted to Explain that remark.
/r/seduction13/12/16 11:37 PM
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Idiotic. Talk to some of the guys who try to get laid by making girls comfortable and not attracted. Spoiler: it doesn't work.
/r/seduction13/12/16 11:16 PM
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You're in a smallish school. Reputations form more easily, spread more quickly, and persist longer than in a larger school. The situation you're describing is one of social circle game. Read relevant resources if that's the game you want to play. The effect you want won't be achieved by a line. You're asking for an incantation that will cause a door to open. What you really want is to learn to pick locks. Since your quest is very ground-zero, my two cents is to GO LIGHT at the party, make connec…
/r/seduction13/12/16 11:04 PM
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It doesn't matter unless you make it matter. You're not going to remember these girls in a week. Many of them, you won't remember by the time you get home. Spend your emotional energy elsewhere.
/r/seduction13/12/16 10:39 PM
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You'll have grown massively when you come out of the other end of this. Recognize your dogmas, be ready to toss them in the garbage in a moment's notice, keep your eyes peeled, and always defer to reality. The nature of this hero's journey is that, once you learn the secret, you can't share it with anyone.
/r/seduction13/12/16 04:59 AM
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Looking at your post as taking the angle of prevention or early stop-loss, your suggestion to be mindful of what beliefs he forms and how he frames things is valuable. It can prevent things from going over that tipping point if he's not past it yet. I've said what I wanted to say otherwise. Take it how you will. OP can chime in with more details. He can only get out what he puts in.
/r/seduction12/12/16 04:08 AM
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Having actually been there and known what it's like, here are my suggestions rooted in actual experience: Stop reinforcing the reputation. Whatever it is you're reputed to do, stop doing it, tone it down, or do it differently so the label no longer fits. Cut ties with people who feed or maintain the reputation. I discovered a year after the fact that my bad rep that turned into an effective blacklisting in a quarter of the campus was actively fed by someone I considered part of my inner circle. …
/r/seduction12/12/16 02:26 AM
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When in reality most people are just consumed in their own lives and drama and insecurities to be bothered to even know or remember things about you This is great as a motivational fiction. It couldn't be further from the truth. Him having a reputation doesn't require that people think about him being creepy 24/7, or even an hour a day. All it takes is that one person who always brings up negative shit about other people to bring him up regularly enough. He can be made into a meme within a socia…
/r/seduction12/12/16 02:10 AM
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Absolutely. Having your own lines that you use in certain scenarios is called being prepared. Whatever you come up with in the moment, if it's not good enough, you have a tried-and-true alternative to use instead.
/r/seduction11/12/16 03:45 AM
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The "it's your fault you're so hot, I can't help myself" schtick exists. I wouldn't use it. It's boyish and looks or popularity are probably a prerequisite.
/r/seduction11/12/16 03:38 AM
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You need an invitation to do that. She won't be content just walking away, she'll likely report it. It's called escalation for a reason. You escalate from innocuous to intimate. If that's picking a lock, then what you're doing trying to kick in the door. It trips the alarm system.
/r/seduction11/12/16 03:36 AM
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Enjoy your arrest warrants.
/r/seduction10/12/16 08:16 AM
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Yep. And ugly girls are the absolute worst. It's completely counterintuitive. You can tell how good-looking a girl is without her clothes and make-up by how she treats you.
/r/seduction07/12/16 11:54 PM
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I went to and tested this at a school with a student body of 20,000.
/r/seduction07/12/16 03:02 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5gnl5y/what_made_you_guys_start_learning_seduction/datu4pd/
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:37 AM
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How about a girl who has been fucking on the first date her whole life, but decided to make you wait so you don't think she's a slut?
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:33 AM
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College is the only time in your life when you can be as socially aggressive as you want. No, not at all. I executed on this belief and discovered it's not the case. Student bodies, though a loose network, are nonetheless one big network. City bar scenes are much more fragmented and nigh-impossible to become blacklisted in.
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:23 AM
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You asked for honesty, so I won't feed you feel-good bullshit. Yes, it's a problem. How you speak has a deep and subtle power in all communication, and especially in seduction. It's not just words. It's your voice, your tone, your pacing, well-placed pauses, when you speak, and when you stay silent. Because you're starting in such a deep hole, if you can climb out at all, you'll have an awareness others lack, and reach for the sky instead of being content to be above ground. Get yourself some sp…
/r/seduction03/12/16 09:12 PM
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You're putting the cart before the horse. You don't get a wingman to help with fear of rejection. You handle your fear of rejection on your own, then you become a worthy wingman. What you're trying to do is going to create a crippling dependence for you. Go out alone and find your sack.
/r/seduction03/12/16 08:59 PM
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my selfesteem is shit and I have no irl friends Stay out of bars, clubs, and parties. Social proof is king there. Also, how you represent yourself suggests to me that you might show weakness in some way or another, so minimizing the potential audience can only be a good thing. College campuses are swarming with hot, young girls walking alone to and from class. Incorporate an approach or two into each of your walks from one place to another. You say you're already comfortable talking to people du…
/r/seduction03/12/16 08:49 PM
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Are you trying to seduce a dude who gave you his number, or did you get a girl's number from some dude?
/r/seduction03/12/16 08:18 PM
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They look like one big crowd, but they're really a bunch of small crowds. They're united on precious few things. Other than that, it's a free for all. Did someone or something tell you that you have to go to bars to game? Night life is on a big pedestal outside this community. You might find you're not that attracted to that scene after you've deprogrammed yourself a bit.
/r/seduction03/12/16 12:23 AM
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53 approaches is enough to know whether what you're doing works or doesn't. Whatever you're doing, it's not working. Re-assess and change course.
/r/seduction02/12/16 06:16 AM
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https://lmgtfy.com/?q=ross+jeffries+speed+seduction
/r/seduction30/11/16 04:56 AM
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I don't meet girls online. I don't schedule calls. I call, and she either answers or she doesn't.
/r/seduction29/11/16 05:54 AM
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Approach other girls who wear make-up.
/r/seduction29/11/16 05:36 AM
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Stop accepting it, then. Change what you do. It won't be easy, but the alternative is only more painful. If you decide that you have no chance, then you really have no chance. Decide otherwise.
/r/seduction29/11/16 05:19 AM
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Quite the opposite. Calling out of the blue at reasonable (non-work) hours, taking her phone number and not giving her mine in exchange unless she explicitly asks, not giving any indication of when I'm going to call. Each one of these increased my call answer rate, and every time I violate one of these, the girl predictably doesn't pick up. I started out politely texting, scheduling calls, etc., and experience taught me that I was asking to be walked over when I did that.
/r/seduction29/11/16 05:11 AM
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There are no special Olympics in game. There is only one league, and we all compete in it.
/r/seduction28/11/16 08:44 AM
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This article is what happens when you apply pick-up theory in the absence of experimentation.
/r/seduction28/11/16 08:29 AM
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Yeah, you are. Move on.
/r/seduction28/11/16 08:04 AM
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She's wasting your time. Your kino sounds off. You touched her on the leg and waist, and nowhere else? The least intrusive places for a first touch are arms and shoulders. After that, it's less important to touch more intimate places and more important to make touching a two-way street.
/r/seduction28/11/16 07:58 AM
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I've wanted to do this myself with a hot college girl in a convenience store. She was on an idle, long-term phone call that outlasted her stay in the store. In retrospect, I wish I had interrupted her and approached, and I'll look for the signs of such a call in the future. Normally, I think it's a bad idea to interrupt a (reasonable) phone call with an approach, since you start yourself off in a hole by doing something most people will find annoying or rude.
/r/seduction28/11/16 07:35 AM
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Never snitch girls out. Word will travel, and it won't be good. When are you going to escalate?
/r/seduction26/11/16 08:17 PM
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The key bit to notice is 2 months or so pass Her life wasn't on pause during those two months. That's what she's telling you. If you really want her, invent a time machine. Otherwise, move on and do better next time.
/r/seduction25/11/16 07:55 PM
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Let me reframe this in a way I think will shed light on it. You have an interview with a candidate. 2 months or so pass You invite her to another round of interviewing. She replies "I've already accepted a job offer, but we can get coffee and network on a weekday after 5."
/r/seduction25/11/16 07:45 PM
1

Use that anger to rock it in real life. Yes, online is bullshit. No, it doesn't deserve the amount of emotional energy you're giving it. Yes, girls who use online dating are often single for a reason. Now you know how to dodge that minefield.
/r/seduction25/11/16 07:40 PM
1

Awful idea. The saying around here that other people pay more attention to the itch on their ass cheek than to you approaching isn't quite true. People do notice, listen in, watch, and even interfere. But it's alright with guys; they're really just admiring you. With girls, if you basically go door-to-door, they'll see that you're spraying and praying. And that communicates desperation. They will also see the previous rejection(s) as negative social proof, more or less "that girl isn't better th…
/r/seduction25/11/16 07:32 PM
1

He's clearly doing something right, seeing how hung up you are on it. Guys, take notes. He just always said he was really busy we have great sex But then he goes back to his life and dosent talk to me or text or call for like a week or two. I know hes woth [someone else] and it kills me. i have 2 kids which take up a lot of my time (IN COLLEGE) But he wont say i love you or treat me as well as her. he is almost out of school and will have a good career Translation: I'm want a provider. Prepare f…
/r/seduction25/11/16 07:15 PM
1

I grew up with instant messaging and texting stopped being prohibitively expensive when I was in high school. The older generation is 100% right about texting. It's too easy to end up in the text zone, feeding girls validation and attention as a remote orbiter and never seeing them in person.
/r/seduction25/11/16 07:01 PM
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If you've been following the science that's been done on attraction, you'll know it's a joke. As much as I value and live by science, it isn't the right tool for every problem. When it comes to social, sexual, and seductive, turning to science is about as good an idea as using a hammer to tighten a screw.
/r/seduction22/11/16 04:16 AM
1

Is it better to have friends? Yes. Do you need friends to get laid? Depends on your methodology. Friends will slow you down in day game, and you won't be throwing any parties by your lonesome. Is it better to stick with "friends" who don't treat you right for fear that you'll be alone? No.
/r/seduction10/11/16 03:10 AM
4

This isn't an FR. This is a review for Dave coupled with shaky advice for guys.
/r/seduction08/11/16 02:00 AM
1

Decent video, mate. Some feedback: "the 3 ways" implies there are no other ways. There most likely are, we just haven't discovered them yet. You may want a logo that doesn't read "BS". Also, I have to wonder if comfort tests are supposed to be passed. I've never passed one without losing the girl shortly thereafter.
/r/seduction07/11/16 01:59 AM
3

A lot went wrong, but I'll focus on the worst. For a sense of scale, what I'm highlighting here is call-the-cops bad. At 2:05, she noticed your camera crew, two other physically capable men, effectively flanking her. I know you're not going to kidnap her and take her to your rape dungeon, but she doesn't know that. All she knows is there are 3 dudes who could overpower her and stuff her into a van at any moment. By far the worst thing I saw was how you got up suddenly, face-to-face and much too …
/r/seduction24/10/16 09:56 PM
1

The hivemind here is very much about following trends. RSD? You mean what people were talking about before Adam Lyons? We're all about Mark Manson now. Get with the times. If something works for you, stay the course.
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:09 AM
1

Yes, if she says she's single, she is inviting you to spit your game. No, it doesn't work in reverse.
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:06 AM
1

Take note of topics you introduce that get good results, and use them again. Most people are somewhere between awful and mediocre conversationalists. It's like playing tennis with someone holding the racket by the mesh. You have to steer them off shitty topics and have a handful of topics you can jump to when necessary. Repeated practice means you'll also get really good at developing these topics in the directions that work best. The next bit is what makes the last point come alive. The content…
/r/seduction21/08/16 08:24 PM
0

Consider wrapping the direct opener in a little puzzle for her to solve. I usually make it situational, too, but that bit's kind of optional. Inspiration: Would you happen to know someone who's single and looks exactly like you? When I saw you, I couldn't resist coming over to say hi. You don't plainly say you find her good-looking, but it's undeniably in there. She just has to unpack it a little first. In my opinion, this is the missing piece in direct openers.
/r/seduction21/08/16 01:22 AM
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/r/askseddit
/r/seduction20/08/16 10:18 PM
4

Your LTR is clearly still young. Report back in a few months.
/r/seduction20/08/16 10:15 PM
0

In that study, Henningsen asked 101 female and 99 male students to write out a hypothetical flirty conversation between a man and a woman, then identify the motivations for the things they said. This isn't science, it's comparative literature.
/r/seduction20/08/16 05:04 PM
1

Well... yeah. Why should they want anything else? Same deal with us horn-dogs and fat or ugly girls. Stewing in bitterness is doing you no good. Do something about it. Practice and get smooth.
/r/seduction19/08/16 03:49 AM
3

If every girl on the planet is socially retarded, will you remain celibate?
/r/seduction18/08/16 11:58 PM
4

Yeah, I take all my dates here. Nothing wrong with that. That's owning it. The explanation that comes afterward is an apology. That comes across as weak. This isn't some macho bullshit a bunch of men made up. This is how women evaluate us on an instinctive level, regardless of whether we like it. I personally like Only the ones who haven't won me over yet.
/r/seduction18/08/16 11:22 PM
2

Paragraphs. More of them.
/r/seduction18/08/16 11:05 PM
3

100%
/r/seduction18/08/16 10:56 PM
1

First of all, you're insane. Online will get you busted. Destroy all of those profiles NOW! Second, what kind of silly rule is that? In for a penny, in for the whole thing. If you're going to diversify your portfolio, be ready to go all the way. This isn't a game of half-measures. Do you think the consequences will be lighter if it's "just a blowjob"? Finally, you're not doing anything wrong... in my unmarried, skeptical-about-marriage-and-LTRs opinion. If she won't fully satisfy you, then any a…
/r/seduction18/08/16 10:45 PM
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Yes, it was a shit test. Yes, you did well. You have the lead the conversation from there, though; that's your reward for defusing the shit test: you get to set the topic :)
/r/seduction18/08/16 09:40 PM
0

Because it's a trap. Either you're a "player" or you don't get any.
/r/seduction18/08/16 09:34 PM
1

Set your boundaries. With a proper abundance mentality, you can tell your date to put her phone down, and walk away if she reaches for it again. Texting while with you is basically a shit test. Ironically, you'll never get a non-toxic connection unless you don't need a connection. Exactly like how recruiters only want to shower you with jobs once you're already gainfully employed.
/r/seduction03/07/16 01:01 AM
1

Only if she likes Iron Maiden.
/r/seduction02/07/16 07:19 PM
1

I am not a number, I am a free man!
/r/seduction02/07/16 05:44 PM
3

"Significantly improved" would be a major understatement.
/r/seduction29/06/16 04:20 AM
1

Sarcasm is best in small doses. It's clearly your comfort zone, so you want to stay in it for as long as you can. The problem with that, which isn't unique to sarcasm, is that if you stick with it for too long, she will burn out and get bored of it. You've got to change it up as you go.
/r/seduction26/06/16 06:36 PM
1

It's rather funny to see this Seinfeld moment being seriously used as a model for seduction. I've actually been thinking about introducing myself this way facetiously (I'm gainfully employed and have my own place) to test for a sense of humor.
/r/seduction26/06/16 06:29 PM
1

First thing to note, online dating heavily emphasizes your looks and robs you of your in-person presence. Unless your looks are something to write home to mom about, take online dating with a grain of salt. Since you say looks aren't your strong point, cultivate presence. Everyone is talking about it, yet it's understated how important it is. You can literally substitute a good presence for stunning good looks, no exaggeration. The essential component is an internal sense of peace and groundedne…
/r/seduction26/06/16 06:24 PM
2

The chief mistake is to manually move your face at all. You will get it wrong, and even if you do it perfectly, it'll seem fishy because it's being done consciously. (Have you ever seen a psychopath smile? They do all the right muscle motions, yet you can feel that it's wrong regardless. Don't smile like a psychopath.) What's your smile cue? A box full of kittens does it for me. Find something like that that works for you, and visualize it as vividly as you need to for the smile to come naturall…
/r/seduction05/06/16 10:19 PM
1

Everything that has ever been done has been considered impossible up until the moment someone did it. I can't help you, as I'm simply not knowledgeable enough on the topic. Make it your contribution to humanity. Decondition yourself and reclaim your sexuality, then share it with others who are similarly inclined. clarification It's not about insecurities. It's that it goes against the biological imperative. On an instinctive level, it's abhorrent.
/r/seduction02/06/16 04:34 AM
2

The behaviors involved express, very clearly and without nuance, on a primal level that we recognize and understand, regardless of how we try to frame it intellectually, simple weakness. No one will be able to participate in those activities without coming to see you in that way, no matter how they manage to make their lips move. Also, consider that they're not your kinks at all. They're wrongs that have been inflicted on you and haven't been handled effectively. Why should some girls' dishonest…
/r/seduction01/06/16 03:48 AM
7

That's... a lot of build-up when you could just go for the kiss in a lull or something.
/r/seduction01/06/16 03:37 AM
7

Given how long the cube has been getting used in the seduction scene, it'll have had an impressive run if it were retired tomorrow. No skin off my back; I don't use it, anyway.
/r/seduction31/05/16 04:56 AM
1

Don't lie, don't bring it up, don't talk about it. All of those things draw attention to it. Talk about literally anything else. Basketball, bedsheets, Slavic delicacies, the art show coming up next week, cat videos. I'm not really sure what there is to reframe for yourself. Everyone has been without a social circle at some point in their lives. Whatever you did in college, it led to you learning the importance of social connectedness and wanting to change your situation. We learn different less…
/r/seduction31/05/16 04:21 AM
1

Most of Sun Tzu's brilliance is that he understands the human mind and how to game it. As a general, he learned to game it through the clever use of his subordinates' violence. Yet, hence why we still read this book today, he was lucid enough to expose his thinking in such a way that you can decouple the general skills from the application to generalship.
/r/seduction31/05/16 03:31 AM
1

Try reading it from the perspective that combat and battle are a metaphor.
/r/seduction31/05/16 03:29 AM
1

What effect do you think members of this sub being overrepresented in your study would have on the credibility of its results?
/r/seduction29/05/16 07:40 AM
1

"Whatever happens, happens, accept it and move on. Shit happens. It's not necessarily good nor is it bad. It just is.", says the stoic. TIL I'm a stoic.
/r/seduction29/05/16 05:41 AM
2

The DMT genies are wrong this time. Lay off the rocks until you have no doubts about what you're doing.
/r/seduction28/05/16 04:01 PM
1

No. It's been around for at least 3 years. It's where all your overly specific questions and solicitations for advice go.
/r/seduction24/05/16 12:19 AM
2

If you're going to be posting here, it's just as important that you learn about punctuation as it is that you read the sidebar.
/r/seduction23/05/16 05:08 AM
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/r/askseddit
/r/seduction23/05/16 05:02 AM
2

Typical stuck point. It's that the bar for giving you her number is noticeably lower than the bar for actually meeting again. Girls will give you their numbers even if they have no intention of even acknowledging your existence afterward. Set standards. Don't take a number unless there's a connection. Numbers aren't the goal. They never were. They're a rain check. Pursue the real deal, and if she's game but in a bind with timing or something else, take the rain check.
/r/seduction22/05/16 07:39 PM
1

Post this to /r/askseddit. I'll comment there if I see it.
/r/seduction22/05/16 07:33 PM
5

They're not your friends. She's an adult. She's responsible for the decisions she makes. Maybe she still hasn't learned the lesson of not inviting others to have input on her very personal decisions yet. That's a way she doesn't measure up to your standards. When she's more grown up, she can reach out to you and see if you're not too busy. tl;dr: meet ten other girls
/r/seduction22/05/16 03:12 AM
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She's an adult. They're trying to take away her choice. Even if OP is an asshole, the "friends" are also assholes.
/r/seduction22/05/16 03:07 AM
1

I do wonder if they are being intentionally mean. It's not like they all have Asperger's and cant read his nonverbals when they push an obvious pain button. They know it bothers him, and they're continuing to do it for that reason. They're making fun at his expense.
/r/seduction21/05/16 06:14 PM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eS-jWA-WDKA
/r/seduction15/05/16 05:14 PM
1

I don't want my ex back.
/r/seduction15/05/16 05:10 AM
1

Yeah, that's life. Why do you think ASF ever existed? Internet newsgroups were a new thing for most people, and seduction was discussed there because most people just won't talk about it in any productive capacity in real life. Find a lair, found a lair, roll solo, or reserve all your pickup talk for here and /r/askseddit.
/r/seduction15/05/16 05:08 AM
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/r/askseddit I'll give you an actual answer once I see your post there. For other commenters, if you answer this kind of question in /r/seduction, /r/seduction will be (remain?) flooded with them.
/r/seduction15/05/16 05:06 AM
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While the truth is a great thing, there are some questions that either should not be answered at all, or should not be answered truthfully. If you're a virgin, that is for you and you alone to know. Anyone else should think you've had sex beyond their ability to confirm. If you've never been in a relationship, the same rule applies. If anyone asks, either deflect or lie. Lying isn't something to celebrate, but it's a perfectly acceptable response to a question that shouldn't have been asked in t…
/r/seduction15/05/16 04:52 AM
1

Formatting. Stick your post into a word processor, set the font size to 14. If an entire page is just one paragraph, you need to break things up. Too much content. We're busy people. Make this something we can read in 3 minutes. Field reports get some leeway, this does not. /r/askseddit
/r/seduction12/05/16 10:47 PM
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Stopped reading at #1. Blocking a girl's path, approaching her from the front, is going to get you maced and get the cops called a lot more than approaching from the side. Not necessarily by the girl, either. It's really confrontational. Plus, whether a girl slows down or stops with you when you approach from the side is valuable feedback. Why would I rob myself of that information by trying to force her into a dead stop (and probably some fear)?
/r/seduction09/05/16 04:39 AM
1

Here's a tip for you - try being yourself in the cockpit and if that doesn't fly the plane, then it wasn't meant to be. If you legitimately have a repertoire of techniques and case of books and manuals that you think are going to make you able to fly a plane then you are a pathetic pathetic pilot. Just my opinion.
/r/seduction09/05/16 04:35 AM
1

Isaac?
/r/seduction08/05/16 03:39 AM
1

/r/askseddit
/r/seduction07/05/16 05:35 AM
1

Dancing is completely optional. The trick is to go to places where dancing isn't just optional, but unacceptable. There are more places to meet women than clubs.
/r/seduction07/05/16 05:32 AM
2

There's a lot to be said about friendship/intimate; I'm more interested in the feeling. The feeling you described isn't a good thing. You could call it the dark side of love. Another thing I know about it is that the area is vulnerable. It can feel like you got stabbed there if your feelings aren't reciprocated. Pain and tenderness are typical symptoms of a physical wound. That is a wound, too, it's just not physical. It's what happens when your experience of intimacy is bundled with bad experie…
/r/seduction07/05/16 05:24 AM
1

Love is not something you can feel for a girl all on your own. She needs to earn it. Moreover, she has to go first. You can dip your toe in lake love once she's waist-deep. Before I can continue, I need to know something: does what you call love feel like a pit in your chest? If not, and if yes, please describe it in detail, strictly as a feeling.
/r/seduction07/05/16 03:54 AM
2

But dismissing anything they say as wrong is stupid. You've got a phone signal, but it's really noisy. You can make out one clear word every 10 seconds. How long until you stop listening? It's not that everything they say is wrong. It's that there are vastly superior ways to learn the same things, with a much higher signal to noise ratio.
/r/seduction07/05/16 03:21 AM
2

It's a secret that many people partially know. It's that it's socially unacceptable to talk about this, even among men, lest one try to brand you a misogynist. Result: people don't share this knowledge.
/r/seduction07/05/16 03:16 AM
1

You don't ask the person getting a massage how to give a good massage, you ask the masseur/masseuse.
/r/seduction07/05/16 03:07 AM
1

Report.
/r/seduction07/05/16 02:52 AM
7

Your challenge is your inner game. Toss those books in your fireplace.
/r/seduction07/05/16 02:49 AM
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/r/askseddit
/r/seduction07/05/16 02:21 AM
2

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=boyfriend+destroyer
/r/seduction07/05/16 02:17 AM
1

Your distilled message is good. The shots you take at OP, the person who replied to you, and the speculation all detract from it. Keep the wheat, dump the chaff.
/r/seduction05/05/16 06:07 AM
1

Sure, we can go dancing. Here, hold my purse.
/r/seduction05/05/16 05:17 AM
1

You bring girls home without ever having kissed them?
/r/seduction05/05/16 05:05 AM
1

That one sentence should be 3-5 sentences. It should also be on /r/askseddit.
/r/seduction05/05/16 04:48 AM
1

You'll get an answer there. /r/seduction is for sharing field reports and exchanging and discussing new ideas. /r/seduction is not for asking questions.
/r/seduction05/05/16 04:43 AM
4

Not your support group.
/r/seduction03/05/16 05:11 AM
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/r/askseddit
/r/seduction03/05/16 05:07 AM
1

I used to think so, too. I was wrong. Plenty of girls will take them right off. Though, to be frank, I rather don't like that it takes a little more effort to get their attention, and that you often have to repeat what you said to get their attention. Sometimes, though, I'm not willing to miss the chance to talk to a hottie over her listening to fuck-knows-what for the ten-thousandth time.
/r/seduction02/05/16 03:43 AM
1

Hand on shoulder when she laughs. That's THE way to get your first touch in, and get her to start being comfortable with your touch. You'll also be able to notice if a girl isn't into you, or isn't worth your time, by doing this. The eyelash thing, by the way, isn't how you break the touch barrier. That's more something you do just before kissing her to see if she's ready.
/r/seduction02/05/16 03:29 AM
1

Trash post.
/r/seduction30/04/16 07:04 AM
2

The best way to show a woman that you're "high value" is to challenge her to prove her worth to you.
/r/seduction30/04/16 06:57 AM
4

Kiss her. You need to escalate to it, but it's really not that far from "hi". The thing about going for the kiss is that there's no way around the fact that you have to take a risk. Ultimately, you have to make it blatant that you're going to kiss her, and she could turn you down. It's the willingness to take this risk that tells her beyond a doubt that you're interested.
/r/seduction30/04/16 06:51 AM
1

People who don't want to get stuck in the text zone.
/r/seduction29/04/16 03:55 AM
1

Good stuff, bro. You did great for a first-ever approach. Stuff I noticed: Me: What’s your name? Her: What’s yours? This is what's commonly called a shit test. By giving your name first, she lost respect for you. This one you got is actually trickier than most. One right answer was silence for up to 5 seconds. She'll either tell you her name, or the conversation will die and you'll leave. Her: tobetrulyalive how old are you? She is ruthless. She just keeps hurling these tests at you. Correct ans…
/r/seduction28/04/16 04:30 AM
1

"Nice legs, what time do they open?" Great way to get more experience talking to cops. I handed her my phone and she put her info I used to do this. I got more numbers a week doing this than at any other time in my life. Less than 10% would actually pick up when I called.
/r/seduction28/04/16 04:08 AM
1

My question is...why cant we do this? For the same reason the Trojans won't be accepting any more giant wooden horses as gifts. Experience. It could work as a joke, though.
/r/seduction28/04/16 03:56 AM
2

Yep. Ross basically doesn't exist to most people. He teaches strictly day game, which made him unpopular in the early scene, which was bar- and club-centric. The current scene is mostly made up of Mystery method offshoots.
/r/seduction09/04/16 06:21 PM
1

It's not. Someone who claims that's sexist is out of touch with reality.
/r/seduction30/03/16 07:44 AM
4

That's how lists of don'ts work. They confuse the shit out you by making contrary claims. I bet "respond to texts on the same day, but prioritize what you're doing in real life over checking your phone" would have been more actionable advice.
/r/seduction30/03/16 07:36 AM
1

She invited me to visit her at her home and told me her roommate isn't around. If that's not a green light, I don't know what is. Her nonverbals, though, were curiously quiet. She never leaned in, was out of touching range, etc. She's Russian, as in she grew up there and was only visiting the States for a couple years of school, so she's probably used to men being aggressive to the point that it would be considered criminal here. I think she wanted me to make a move in the dark before she'd star…
/r/seduction30/03/16 07:23 AM
21

But if it was number 1, you wouldn't have read everything that came before it. That's, like, rule number 10 of writing clickbait articles.
/r/seduction29/03/16 10:33 PM
2

It worked entirely on a motivation/drive level. I was using weed for a false sense of contentedness. I needed to feel the discomfort of not having women in my life in the way I want to get off my ass. The other side is that, while high, I would be anxious and not socially open. Basically, I should only be smoking with the bros, if I know all of them already, we're all high, and we're not out to meet girls. I currently don't smoke. I may do it again in the future, but not habitually or chronicall…
/r/seduction29/03/16 04:43 AM
8

Online dating is not for you. It's not for short, fat, ugly, or non-camera-owning men. Day game is for all of us.
/r/seduction29/03/16 01:25 AM
4

Great. Two areas of immediate improvement for you: Break walls of text up into paragraphs. Seriously. Small effort, big result. Never say "f-close" again. It's called fucking. A nugget: if you've talked to over 100 women and have a ~1.3% conversion rate to show for it, it means you're talking to the wrong women. What are your standards? What do you do when you discover someone doesn't meet them? One of the subtlest improvements to your game is being willing to walk away. It saves you time, and i…
/r/seduction29/03/16 12:47 AM
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Never? Lol. Non-exclusivity is the default; if someone wants to be exclusive, it's on them to bring it up. In which case I decline :)
/r/seduction29/03/16 12:27 AM
1

Correct me if I'm wrong: she doesn't want your dick in her. Is that a deal breaker? If yes, live up to your standards and leave her in the dust. If her feeling something she labels as love toward you, which doesn't include the former bit, is what's really important to you, then stick with it.
/r/seduction29/03/16 12:16 AM
2

Google "buddy to bedmate".
/r/seduction28/03/16 04:44 PM
1

Question you should ask yourself: Are you with her in the way that you are because it is the type of relationship that you truly find most fulfilling, or because it's the kind you were told was "the right thing" as a child?
/r/seduction28/03/16 04:44 AM
2

Since everyone else already suggested that you lose weight, I'm going to assume you're not willing to put your quest to lay pipe on hold for a few months. Your weight is working against you, but it works against you much less in day game than it does online. Ballpark: by a factor of 100. If you're comfortable in your own skin and can make conversation, your path of least resistance is meeting women in the real world.
/r/seduction28/03/16 04:05 AM
6

Common feature in all scenarios: "met her through Tinder".
/r/seduction28/03/16 03:57 AM
1

Why don't you say what you really mean? "I don't want to hear about your problems." See here.
/r/seduction26/03/16 04:21 AM
1

Pick-up artistry started in the US because the internet began in the US. Upper middle-class individuals in the US were able to afford personal computers and internet access sooner, enabling them to communicate about picking up chicks on Usenet (the pick-up scene in the 90s) before their counterparts in the rest of the world. Seduction has been around ever since there existed hominids with the necessary intelligence to form abstract thoughts. In fact, it's one of the proposed explanations for hum…
/r/seduction26/03/16 04:14 AM
1

Next time someone disrespects you, don't come here to vent. Ditch them and enjoy your night elsewhere. Also, who commits money to hanging out with a person with a history of extreme flakiness? There's a Chinese proverb that applies here: "Before a man can be insulted, he must first insult himself."
/r/seduction26/03/16 04:04 AM
3

Found OP's friend.
/r/seduction26/03/16 03:52 AM
12

She fell asleep because you bored her to sleep. She invited you to netflix and chill, bro, and basically told you to touch her ass.
/r/seduction25/03/16 04:30 AM
2

If smirking and winking works for you, have at it. I get more mileage by smiling sparingly and genuinely, and being more opaque.
/r/seduction25/03/16 04:24 AM
3

Use paragraphs for fuck's sake. Hit enter twice. Leave a blank line in between. That's how reddit works. Don't talk on fucking twitter. It's texting, so everything you say is 10 times as likely to be taken the wrong way, and it's public, so people you've never even heard of can read it. If she doesn't reply, stop sending messages. Move on. You shit in the well. Stop trying to drink from it.
/r/seduction25/03/16 03:16 AM
1

Do be careful with NLP. Meditation, on the other hand, is very powerful and also completely safe.
/r/seduction25/03/16 01:57 AM
1

You can only choose a dish that's on the menu. By approaching, you put yourself on the menu.
/r/seduction25/03/16 01:54 AM
3

I talked to her for 10 minutes.
/r/seduction25/03/16 01:51 AM
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Have to disagree. Don't be so nervous next time As well-intentioned as it may be, you're effectively blaming her for the outcome and disguising it as (unactionable) advice. Having incompatible senses of humor, on the other hand, is blameless.
/r/seduction24/03/16 11:25 PM
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Speak for yourself, bro. The rule that men approach is a blessing in disguise.
/r/seduction24/03/16 04:30 PM
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I have a respectable, 6-figure profession. It has never helped me bring a girl to bed. I think trying to impress girls, even if you are impressive, is shooting yourself in the foot. It's not your place to impress her. She needs to impress you. Unless your profession is bullwhipping through heavily-trapped ancient temples to steal artifacts, the mystery of not knowing seems to be more exciting for women. I'll be answering "hang around me more, and you might find out" in the future. I'll say somet…
/r/seduction24/03/16 03:34 PM
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Are you doing any meditation or other means of collecting yourself before going out?? If not, change this and try again. It helps more than you can quantify.
/r/seduction24/03/16 06:08 AM
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How to know she wants you to make a move: 1) Does she exist? => she wants you to make a move. No further questions.
/r/seduction24/03/16 06:03 AM
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"Is this seat taken?" I'd say more, but the effectiveness is >=80% delivery. Experiment.
/r/seduction24/03/16 05:03 AM
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What I'm about to say in story form. One woman's 10 can be another's 1. As much as this sounds like a negative answer, it's the key to "being a 10": identify your target demographic. Some features that are attractive to some will be turn-offs to others. Expressing dominance in a way that is acceptable in upper-middle-class America will not be well-received among hoodrats, and vice versa. To be more attractive often means being more polarizing; your goal, then, is to choose the axis of your polar…
/r/seduction24/03/16 05:00 AM
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Please reformat. It's a disaster.
/r/seduction24/03/16 04:51 AM
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You don't sound confident to me. You sound arrogant and likely dickish. A boulder is confident. It doesn't resist when you push it; it doesn't need to. It doesn't judge you for trying, it doesn't rub it in your face if you fail, and it doesn't care if you succeed. You can't move it.
/r/seduction17/03/16 08:21 AM
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NLP is good stuff. I have a lot of gratitude for my past self who decided to learn it. I learned how to pick up cues ("sensory acuity"), state control, and lot of other goodies through it.
/r/seduction17/03/16 08:00 AM
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OP, what you're experiencing is common. Clubs, loud bars, dance parties, etc. are not fun for everyone. You don't need to dance on stripper poles or chant "chug chug chug" to get with girls. Like us, women have differences in taste, and most like variety. Do you, in the best way possible.
/r/seduction16/03/16 04:13 AM
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Your goal is to figure out what works for you. If you want to know whether a suggestion is valid, go out and put it to action.
/r/seduction13/03/16 05:50 AM
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You've turned your negative circumstances into an identity. You should only be building an identity out of things you want to keep in your life permanently. You could say I've had the deck stacked against me up until 9 months ago. I've been working on seduction since my sophomore year in college. I had deeply fucked-up social skills that barely developed during my teenage years. I would say you can stack the deck against me all you want; you can't stack the player. I recognized that I could chan…
/r/seduction10/03/16 07:44 PM
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Yep, that's what I meant.
/r/seduction10/03/16 07:09 PM
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No; that's what makes this remarkable to me. She was one of ~4 attractive girls who weren't a band member's girlfriend, and the attendance was at least 4 guys per girl. I was there 100% for the music, this was just a nice bonus.
/r/seduction10/03/16 06:09 PM
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You're not screening. What is your walk-away point? From what you wrote above, it seems like you don't have one. What are you doing to test girls for whether they meet your standards? Guys who don't screen come off as desperate. Desperation is incredibly unattractive.
/r/seduction10/03/16 05:47 AM
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Ha, I'm not yet the superhero this makes me out to be. We all have our shining moments. Here's to shining more brightly, more often :)
/r/seduction10/03/16 02:28 AM
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You don't need any money to learn how to be in control of your mental state. This skill is a prerequisite to basically all seduction techniques. This is not something you can give up on. You think the worst that can happen is that you'll be forever alone. Nah, it gets worse. Work on the basics, fuck all the techniques, just master your inner game. It's not even about getting laid for you. It's about having a better relationship with yourself.
/r/seduction10/03/16 02:22 AM
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The Robert Green book? I couldn't make it past the third page of that. It frames seduction very negatively, and reads like a field guide to venomous spiders. I like to think of what I do as adding value to a woman's life, not a form of predation. If I were in your shoes, I'd dig up the receipt and return it.
/r/seduction10/03/16 02:11 AM
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You look like a tryhard. I don't even need to look at your picture; from your appearance-centric description of the problem, it's plain as day. If I can tell this across the internet from a sequence of buttons you pushed on a computer, those girls probably pick it up (among other things) in your nonverbals. Work on your inner game, dog.
/r/seduction10/03/16 01:33 AM
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