OK, so this is the 'seduction' sub. so it might seem like a silly question.

But as a guy, a girl 'seduces' me by being nice to look at.

I think it's the same for girls, but i'll play along for now and assume that girls don't care about looks.

Just so i'm on the same page, is the idea that 'confidence' is what 'seduces' a girl?

In my experience, the 2 things that actually make a girl want to have sex with you are:

1/being handsome

2/having other girls all over you/pre-selection

But without being handsome, we are relying on 'game'. What aspects of game are actually responsible for 'seduction'? Being funny and charming seems to make people like you, but I feel as though a girl will still friendzone you if you are not her type 'physically'.

What about things like stating your intentions and touch? I think if you were handsome that could further 'seduce' her, but without the looks, i'm not sure what the effect is supposed to be?

What about the actually act of BEING INTERESTED in a girl? Soeone told me that THAT is what 'sedcution' is, but I kind of don't get that! Does asking a girl lots of questions about herself and showing interest in her answers and trying to realy understand her as a person actually cause attraction? (seduce her)

But sometimes, when you read stories in the paper, and it says 'he seduced her', it then goes on to state how he paid her compliments and touched her etc. Basically showing her that he likes her. So does the act of showing someone you are attracted to them somehow CAUSE attraction in them? I mean, it wouldn't work the other way around (I don't get turned on if an ugly girl tells me that she likes me) but is that just one of the differences between the sexes?