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| 13 | for the love of god stop explaining yourselfEver since I stopped over explaining myself at work, to family and friends, it’s been a weight lifted from my shoulders. I used to worry about explaining myself and now I just move right along. I’ve saved myself so much energy and time. Delete, block, move on ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:15 PM |
| 20 | A simple trick to combat negging...Yeah me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 02:47 PM |
| 56 | TW: Life Of Crime (1984-2020) is a documentary that follows drug users over 40 years, it shows the lives of the women they're with over 40 years and how they kept them from leaving (physical abuse, meThanks! Just looked it up on my streaming service and they have it! Watching it now. Will report back. You’re so right though, once a LVM comes into your life he will never leave. Block delete and move is all I have to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 08:06 AM |
| 160 | why YOU have a belly, but influencers DON'T (feel like women need to hear this more often. were expected to have certain kind of body when biologically our bodies are not made to be that way)Thanks for posting this. I’ve been really hard on my body despite losing 15 pounds in lockdown last year by doing online work outs and eating better. I want to lose another 20 pounds but the focus on my belly and arms has gotten be down so much I was looking into tummy tucks / arm lift etc. so I look ‘better’ aka what I see online. Ugh. Edit: the worst part is that I put my life on hold when I’m trying to lose weight because life is always better for you once you look thinner. It’s literally the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 02:26 AM |
| 276 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerI’ve said this many times before on FDS. I need a man to be sexy, like in the way women are sexy but I’m the masculine way. The patriarchy just doesn’t prioritise that and it’s so annoying. Men on OLD in the 30s bracket look like actual warthogs. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:05 AM |
| 33 | Sons of single mothers = a huge red flagYeah 100% I was really disappointed that once again women are blamed for literally everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 06:56 AM |
| 20 | Sons of single mothers = a huge red flagI know plenty of mamas boys who fit the bill you listed but they have both parents still together, and none of the parents are deadbeats. I wish as a society we stopped demonising single mothers (I read your disclaimer) the patriarchy does that enough. It’s like men have their own agency to be their own person and develop their own personalities, it’s not the mother’s fault that they’re defective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 06:52 AM |
| 9 | Me Swiping on TinderEssentially yes haha men do not age well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 08:52 AM |
| 13 | These scrotes and their manipulative psychological warfare are becoming obsolete. They are beginning to understand that they are not the prize and women don't care to be involved with NV/LV males just to say "I have a man".This and this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 08:08 AM |
| 83 | Dating & CovidThanks for posting this, I’m curious as to how other ladies are managing this. For me, I shut down dating, no apps, nothing for about two years, covid and working on my self esteem meant 0 time for men in my life. Plus keeping a job and roof over my head meant a lot of challenges career wise. With omicron look like three years of no dating :/ I’m a little a shamed to say this but my resolve is weakening. I would love to have someone to hold hands with, kiss on occasion, do totally non-sexual thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 07:03 AM |
| 10 | A Case Study in BLOCK and DELETE. Men are not our friends.Ok this is horrific, poor woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 08:51 AM |
| 111 | Male friends are a myth part 2 ):And now I need eye bleach. One of the many reasons I want to delete my already very private and friend selective social media accounts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:07 AM |
| 5 | Any tips on how to engage a man emotionally without sex being on the table?I’m not looking to discuss sexual or physical intimacy in this thread. Not sure why you suggested in the later part of your comment. Vetting, and rejecting guys who only want sex is already on the cards for me. I’m personally looking to build emotional intimacy because it’s important to me and I don’t think it’s a bad thing. Thanks for your story! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:04 PM |
| 52 | Any tips on how to engage a man emotionally without sex being on the table?I want to have this type of roster! Would love to know how you juggled it if you have time. I’m planning to keep a dating journal. I have one for my everyday thoughts and plans. Do you still have a roster going? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:56 PM |
| -9 | Any tips on how to engage a man emotionally without sex being on the table?I’m not playing a role to build emotional intimacy. I’m looking for specific advice or examples on the topic. Everything you’ve said is great and what FDS teaches but I want to discuss a specific type of strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:53 PM |
| 79 | Any tips on how to engage a man emotionally without sex being on the table?This is exactly the type of advice and insight I was looking for. I’ve saved this, thank you! I haven’t had a relationship in a long time and it’s like hard to know or understand what you’ve described unless you’ve experienced it. You summed it up in a way I could understand. It’s all the little things that add up the emotional intimacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:51 PM |
| 15 | Any tips on how to engage a man emotionally without sex being on the table?You edited your post after I commented the first time. So I’m addressing the edit in this second comment. I totally understand the vetting part and general dating strategies as per the handbook. Understandably I’m stepping into the dating world with the confidence of FDS but was looking for specific tips and advice / anecdotes from women who have been successful with FDS dating. What you’ve said is in the handbook and I’m totally across that. Thank you for your comment tho! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:44 PM |
| 15 | Any tips on how to engage a man emotionally without sex being on the table?Totally on the same page. However, I’m looking for tips and examples, anecdotes etc that others might have to help advance emotional intimacy. Vetting is a given. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:16 PM |
| 32 | Don’t tell a man about your past sex life ever…That’s what I thought | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 10:32 AM |
| 89 | Don’t tell a man about your past sex life ever…He won’t let you live it down ever, even after being married and having children. It will be in the back of his mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 07:46 AM |
| 22 | Poor PickMe did a dang photoshoot 🤦♀️Came here to see if this was being discussed and I’m totally with you guys, so embarrassing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 01:48 AM |
| 173 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?100% this, then I realised in my later 20s I didn’t have to have children and marry for the sake of children | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 01:13 AM |
| 4 | Found out a man I went on 2 dates with with was married (and not divorced 4 years as he said) by searching public records online! Here's how to do it.Thank you for sharing how you vetted him via internet searches. More power to you sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:09 AM |
| 41 | Isn’t it strange how single women are treated of all ages?Do you get comments or is it more of a feeling that you’re getting judged? Just curious. For me it’s the feeling or the looks I get :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 04:52 PM |
| 13 | What's your relationship status?I’m not looking because this virus 🦠 still still out of control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 06:05 AM |
| 114 | I found one of his old letters...Thank you for sharing this story. You’ve taken a step back and put a FDS lens on the situation which is so helpful to other women. I have some questions, if you don’t mind me asking, what was the final straw that made you want a divorce? Was there a particular event or just all of it (including the alcoholism)? Did he ever tell you he regretted drinking destroyed the marriage? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 01:32 AM |
| 13 | Horrified at the scrotes in the comments defending this POS, and the pickmes trying to make him feel better about doing a runner, leaving his girlfriend and her 7yo nephew at the site during an active shooter attack.This. Good character needs no explanation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 11:33 AM |
| 24 | One of the worst things your potential partner can do is exploit vulnerable women because peen. It does not matter if he checks all the other boxes, if he's done this he's ZVMI agree. Instant block and delete if I find out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 07:10 AM |
| 309 | TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vileReported the video on YT - I’m so disgusted 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:10 PM |
| 114 | Western Desi women marrying men from "back home"I’m so not surprised, being from the same background but born in the West. Desi women are gaslit to hell and back. Edit: desi women hate other desi women often because of superficial reasons, and also refuse to help each other. They only shame each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 02:29 AM |
| 21 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"This is great! Exactly how I feel about having kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 11:27 AM |
| 0 | Why do even high value celebrities have to date scrotes? Dude looks like he hasn’t brushed his teeth for years. Also, there’s a 17-year age difference — He’s 52 while Alexandra Daddario is 35. . She looks beautiful and should have ample options but she goes for this?!She used to date Logan lerman, a total babe, how did she get to this guy? Yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 10:55 AM |
| 5 | Let's give it up for the bare minimum!Come one come all to the bare minimum Olympics!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 06:25 AM |
| 48 | Why do (straight) men try so hard to appeal to the male gaze on dating apps?Not on dating apps anymore but I struggled with this exact thing! It’s like, I need to see an attractive man doing attractive things like a woman would for a man in movies, ads, modelling etc. But none of these men do and those who do are sociopaths with 2 untreated STIs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:11 AM |
| 5 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.I feel so bad for this woman, I know how this feels, being around people with a lot more cash and you agree to go to something because you want to be there with your friends. This used to be me in more career building days. You scrimp and save even before the trip which may look like even less meals or cutting your budget in half to save. You have to explain to them that you can’t do every activity or restaurant and they get mad at you? Like damn. At least you try to make the effort and it’s lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 11:57 AM |
| 9 | Screening video chat…for a walk.An excellent response hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Why the silver bullet “Parental Alienation” is a lie created by pedophiles to protect pedophiles. Remember ladies, these males walk among us. Be very wary of single dads. This poor mother and children.Yeah I second this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 01:15 PM |
| 15 | Old pick me VS new Queen meOmg the guys that want to walk around to pick something while on foot are so annoying. Especially when it’s after work and you’re exhausted / hungry. Glad you turned it down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:27 AM |
| 229 | after his creepy OLD videos, she's back with himI hope that she has people around her to let her know she could do better. The thing that worries me the most is this guy is an alcoholic, gambler, serial cheater … among other things…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:25 AM |
| 55 | So Manipulative and Creepy!!!Very creepy. Ladies, always keep your belongings safely tucked away in your bag and out of sight from these LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 04:57 AM |
| 3 | What is or is not fascinating about having a child/pregnancy?Can you please dm that post link? I couldn’t find it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 09:51 AM |
| 42 | My pickme friend after spending 6 years being single and "working on herself".Why is it always like this tho lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 07:12 AM |
| 21 | What is or is not fascinating about having a child/pregnancy?More than one-third of women in the U.S. have some type of pelvic area prolapse during their lifetime. You’re more likely to experience a vaginal prolapse later in life, especially if you have had multiple pregnancies with a vaginal birth. Childbirth doesn’t mean all women have the capability to have their organs move around and back in place unfortunately... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 05:59 AM |
| 88 | What is or is not fascinating about having a child/pregnancy?There is a reason you’re terrified and I’d recommend reading parents / regretful parents forums and communities. Here are some questions you should ask yourself before having kids: After childbirth and years later, women report having a vaginal prolapse later in life. Are you aware of bladder issues that can be life long issues for women after giving birth? Are you willing to take care of a child that may have disabilities and will your SO be present for that hard stuff that goes along with that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 05:49 AM |
| 5 | How could any woman sacrifice this much??I stopped reading at ‘long distance boyfriend’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 04:26 PM |
| 167 | Shitty dudes will even neg your family membersThis is what happens you’re a pickmeisha who marries a man with two brain cells and no money. Throw these men out and don’t feel sorry for them. This guy is an asshole! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:01 PM |
| 15 | That’s what actual “Traditional” means. I think people tend to forget that.Thank you for posting this. None of my friends every talk about how their finances work in a couple relationships, I mean I don’t ask because I don’t want to sound rude. I’m always curious as to how fair it is. I would love a situation like this video, even if I worked too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:20 AM |
| 42 | If he isn't putting effort into celebrating your life, leave him behind. Men like this exist.This is so important, otherwise you’ll be on a certain sub for mother’s who lament in the fact their husbands do nothing for their birthday, Valentine’s, anniversaries, and even Mother’s Day! And try it normalise it. If a man doesn’t even bother to acknowledge my birthday he’s in the trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 08:44 PM |
| 11 | Just watched Some Kind of Heaven on Hulu. Ladies, please do not stay with these LVM through the golden years of your life…Just watched the trailer! I don’t have Hulu but I’ll find a way, looks good! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:38 AM |
| 37 | Wedged In My Windshield Wiper: A Note From A ScroteJerry is definitely a serial killer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:31 AM |
| 54 | Always listen to your gut & let’s count the red flagsSis I got about 12 red flags and then gave up counting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:28 AM |
| 24 | Always listen to your gut & let’s count the red flagsHahahaha yeah that got me too. I had to read that line two times to see if I read it right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:27 AM |
| 8 | Don’t change your last name for a manFor me, I can’t wait to change my last name to get away from my current family name, and I generally just hate the sound / spelling of it. I really want to be apart of my husband’s life in that way when the time comes, and have a new family name that’s bonded with his. Even if it didn’t work out for whatever reason I’d still keep his last name. Totally get your point too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 01:38 PM |
| 3 | How to move on from a crushMight sound a little weird but I legit just forget they exist eventually, it wears off for me pretty quickly. Distractions are important and redirecting focus on yourself, even if it’s just painting your nails or doing your hair, cleaning your apartment etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:33 PM |
| 3 | ALWAYS leave if you ever experience any of these 'red flags'. They are predictors of future violent behaviour and are behaviours that have been precursors to fatal DV.Yes I know all about Lundy and his writings. I’m purely going off what the article said....... totally understand that alcohol isn’t purely to blame... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:26 PM |
| 35 | ALWAYS leave if you ever experience any of these 'red flags'. They are predictors of future violent behaviour and are behaviours that have been precursors to fatal DV.They absolutely do hide a lot of their issues, especially when it comes to their mental health or porn addiction. To me actively seeking to fix issues sounds much easier than hiding a flaw for the rest of your life... men aren’t very logical ... It makes me so mad because I used to be this bubbly full of life woman who gave men the benefit of the doubt only to be betrayed so many times, and not even in romantic situations. I like how the article did state bluntly ‘women can be like this too but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 01:29 PM |
| 25 | ALWAYS leave if you ever experience any of these 'red flags'. They are predictors of future violent behaviour and are behaviours that have been precursors to fatal DV.Very harrowing experience. Thanks for sharing. Really strange how he could pretend he hated socialising because of anxiety. Only someone deeply disturbed would do that to control someone. This kind of thing makes me want to just chill in my singledom forever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 12:14 PM |
| 17 | ALWAYS leave if you ever experience any of these 'red flags'. They are predictors of future violent behaviour and are behaviours that have been precursors to fatal DV.What points stood out the most to you? If you don’t mind me asking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 11:56 AM |
| 96 | ALWAYS leave if you ever experience any of these 'red flags'. They are predictors of future violent behaviour and are behaviours that have been precursors to fatal DV.Really great article, I’ve saved it and the stats are astounding. I know this sub has a hard line with guys who drink or are alcoholics. I didn’t realise how bad the drinking problem was among men, especially with hiding it from people. This article really honed in the the specifics of that. I’d like to discuss that aspect if anyone else is as surprised as me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 11:39 AM |
| 18 | Ross Butler anyone?Following him on insta now, he’s very much my type. Wondering why I’ve not seen him around more?! Thank you sis!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:36 PM |
| 52 | Ross Butler anyone?Omgosh thank you for introducing me to him. I’ve never heard of him until right now omg blesseddddddd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:32 PM |
| 15 | A boyfriend you don’t like looking at naked, who STINKS?! I’d rather be single, thanks 😘The guy is a dirty pervert omg 😢😢😢😢😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:38 AM |
| 87 | A boyfriend you don’t like looking at naked, who STINKS?! I’d rather be single, thanks 😘How is she so calm about this?! I would have a melt down and move the fuck out!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 10:52 PM |
| 54 | As a single woman, at any given time you should be either dating multiple people at once, or not dating at all.I’ve been taking a break from dating, deleted my account and apps, as well as blocked all those guys from my phone / life. Been doing good and I agree with your message! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:41 AM |
| 3 | High value basics: Self-Awareness, Self-Reliance, Awareness of Your EnvironmentThis list is turning me on tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 12:11 PM |
| 3 | The Benefits of Living Alone vs living with a LVMI’ve first hand seen the trash on the floor. It’s so gross. Legit just like empty slurpy cups just thrown on the ground ... why lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 11:27 AM |
| 39 | Textbook narcissistic abuse. Luckily, most people warned OP!I’ve seen this shit before with a couple I used to live with. The girlfriend worked two jobs, he just had one and finished at 3pm everyday. She did everything for him but he still belittled her jobs and throw all his rage towards her. Ladies, it doesn’t get better! Always leave if this shit goes on. Men like this are boys with 0 maturity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:49 AM |
| 5 | I have officially quit datingLove the last paragraph! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:47 AM |
| 28 | I have officially quit dating‘This time I’ve stopped myself from creating background stories for other people.’ A powerful sentence. Good work! 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:20 AM |
| 2 | I have to give it to Cardi - she is right ....Ok..... good for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 06:03 AM |
| 3 | I have to give it to Cardi - she is right ....Jellybeanqueen, thank you for stepping in. Great comment, I’m not a Cardi fan but damn the lyric was great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 05:56 AM |
| 1 | I have to give it to Cardi - she is right ....You derailed the conversation by imposing your tastes on other people and victim blaming Cardi for being cheated on. Very pickme vibes. Derailing / gaslighting conversations is actually against FDS rules. You are allowed to have constructive criticism of objectification of women in media but you went all in and called Cardi trash. Sounds like celeb gossip is rotting your mind. I wasn’t being rude, I kindly explained things to you. Funny, you called Cardi trash and when I called your opinion tras… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 05:55 AM |
| 0 | I have to give it to Cardi - she is right ....You legit did in your comment. I’ve repeated myself 3 times now, how are you not getting this? Stop victim blaming her about her boyfriend cheating on her. That’s not her fault. Stop twisting shit and acting like you don’t know... cmon lol I’m not buying that you don’t get it. Don’t act dumb, so transparent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 05:26 AM |
| -5 | I have to give it to Cardi - she is right ....Pickmes are the ones who victim blame women who get cheated on by a man. Which is what you’re doing. Not a good look sis, how very trashy of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 05:14 AM |
| 6 | I have to give it to Cardi - she is right ....Here’s some advice: You can totally have criticism of someone’s work and objectification of women in the media - nothing wrong with that. However, you came here to trash her and victim blame her straight up for her boyfriend cheating on her. Get your story straight and stop being trashy on the internet and blaming women for the wrong-doing of men in their life. That advice is free sis, next time I’m charging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:53 AM |
| 12 | I have to give it to Cardi - she is right ....I thinks it’s trashy to victim blame women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:27 AM |
| 19 | I have to give it to Cardi - she is right ....Being a victim of cheating doesn’t make the victim trash FYI. Also I was talking about the truth about that specific lyric..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:25 AM |
| 14 | This man has found himself a mother.Oh no no no sis noooooo 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:27 PM |
| 9 | Sharing some more thoughts on OLD.Sis thanks for the reminder! Great write up, you summarised how I feel / felt about it. Deleted mine last year and I feel great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:12 AM |
| 22 | Red Flags From My ExYepppp forcing them to do literally anything and especially if they’re into anime, big glaring red flag. Anime is top of my list for red flag interests for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:23 AM |
| 13 | Time to focus on me after breakupYou’re a wonderfully strong person. You’re stronger than you realise, let all the tears flow. Soon you’ll be on top of the world and he will be just the dust in your rear view mirror. Congratulations on picking yourself x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:08 PM |
| 99 | Excellent Advice, FDS Energy all the way!She’s so right about how hard it is to get divorced. I frequent divorce forums all the time and damn it’s sobering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 09:46 AM |
| 6 | How many friends did you lose after adopting FDS principles?Totally in the same boat as you. I haven’t spoken to one of my friends for three months either. I consider a lot of ‘friends’ acquaintances now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 11:15 AM |
| 62 | I ditched my fuckbuddy when she caught feelings because she's "drama", now I'm too sick to fuck other women. She's got a bf now, I want her back. Help, please :(I learned this wayyyy to late in life unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 06:16 AM |
| 179 | I ditched my fuckbuddy when she caught feelings because she's "drama", now I'm too sick to fuck other women. She's got a bf now, I want her back. Help, please :(This shit is so eye opening and why I stand firm on no casual sex. Ever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 06:06 AM |
| 48 | Why are so many of them OBSESSED with heightSmall dick energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 06:33 AM |
| 5 | We 👏 Don’t 👏 Chase 👏This is the face!!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:37 PM |
| 4 | How to be a true friend to your pickmeisha pals.Excellent write up! Saved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:44 PM |
| 8 | Don’t let them label you as ‘Second Best Girl’This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 09:59 AM |
| 8 | How do you feel about men since following FDS?This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:55 AM |
| 41 | Don’t let them label you as ‘Second Best Girl’Give me all your positivity! I’m hoping to crush the next decade also. Covid as kind of made it a crappy start though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Only 31% of men wash their hands after using a public restroomI just ..... 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 12:15 PM |
| 68 | Incels on the rise: The percentage of men between ages 18-30 with no sex partners has tripled from 08-18I came to say this too! But then I look at the types of people who are breeding and I’m like 🥲 I don’t know how true that is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 06:04 AM |
| 19 | Incels on the rise: The percentage of men between ages 18-30 with no sex partners has tripled from 08-18Hahaha! I’m sure they’ve never tried it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 06:02 AM |
| 24 | We don't want cHaDS, we want someome who knows what abhorrent means and treats women with love and respectAnother red flag was that the man has no neck hah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 01:55 AM |
| 24 | We don't want cHaDS, we want someome who knows what abhorrent means and treats women with love and respectThe lack of emotional intelligence that they have is so mind boggling to me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 01:24 AM |
| 13 | Derrick Jaxn LVMI don’t have Twitter but I plugged it into googled with key words and Twitter. Couldn’t find anything. Can you elaborate on what the details are? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:20 PM |
| 25 | Derrick Jaxn LVMWhere have you seen that he’s been cheating on his wife for years? I’m very curious to read the details. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:16 PM |
| 9 | Despite of behaving like a pedo in his art, interviews and real life for years and years, men will always conclude he's innocent it seemsThis Grande guy is such a creep. He’s not a real doctor btw! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 11:20 PM |
| 29 | Using movies to screen?Anything with Anime is a big red flag for me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 04:59 AM |
| 33 | You’re single!😂😂😂 I needed this video in my early 20s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 02:48 AM |
| 14 | For all the male redditors asking why women don’t approach first 😂😂Thanks sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 09:29 AM |
| 28 | For all the male redditors asking why women don’t approach first 😂😂Makes sense! How much success do you have with this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 09:11 AM |
| 68 | For all the male redditors asking why women don’t approach first 😂😂How do you have this confidence? I can never do this but always say I will try to try haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 09:04 AM |
| 34 | My pickme SIL sent me this. She loves it and hopes I'll like it too! 🤡Oh no I clicked on it and then read the title and then NOPED the hell out of there wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 01:54 AM |
| 14 | How are they not angrier?What I’m saying is that this post you’ve posted does not go in-depth about what the vaccine ACTUALLY covers! Which I pointed too. The post advocated for the vaccine but it’s not going to save you from the other strains, yes it sucks but also you need to take into account the other misinformation I’ve pointed out. Also there are two strains that cause the cancer which is covered in the vaccine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 10:25 AM |
| 83 | How are they not angrier?Ok so there’s a bit of misinformation in this post. YES get the vaccine! But that only protects you from the strains of HPV that cause cancer. You can still have cell changes even if you’ve been vaccinated, there are 100+ strains of HPV and regardless of the vaccine you can still get genital warts which are very common. I dislike posts like this because they do not go in-depth and spread misinformation, get the vaccine but HPV can still get around, men are the main spreaders and yes they have no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 10:12 AM |
| 36 | Gov. Andrew Cuomo sexual harassment case. Another lesson in not speaking about your trauma no matter how HV they may seem..What would you recommend to someone who doesn’t talk to either of their toxic parents? Like how would you phrase it or would you say tell a white lie? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 04:34 AM |
| 179 | Radfems In The Wild 💯Hidden camera show captures a HVW protecting a young girl from a creepy old scroteI started crying 😢 I want to be a woman like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 12:44 PM |
| 19 | We’re not doing this anymore!Wow I’ve been called out once again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Another reminder that hits close to home.This is very refreshing 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 12:27 AM |
| 31 | “Me and her dated for a very long time. I was planning to marry her but over the course of 8 years she aged a lot, so I changed my mind.”Funny Anna Bey said that in her wedding video and she’s Swedish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 10:33 AM |
| 128 | “Me and her dated for a very long time. I was planning to marry her but over the course of 8 years she aged a lot, so I changed my mind.”Who dates for 8 YEARS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:29 AM |
| 10 | Only pickmeishas get mad at the other womanThis legit happened to me and I lost a friend but he’s living like a king lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:14 AM |
| 1 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menWe can grow avocados 🥑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 07:48 AM |
| 37 | Guy records a disturbing, upsetting conversation between him and his exasperated mother after she finds a tiger plushie he modified with a fleshlight. He refuses to go on family trip unless he can bring it with him.Me too 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 02:08 AM |
| 3 | The date bait and switchThank you for clarifying! This is exactly what I meant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 05:13 AM |
| 11 | The date bait and switchI never said I would ask him out for dinner and drinks. He asked me.... I would never ask a guy to anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 08:30 PM |
| 48 | The date bait and switchThe low emotional IQ makes me so frustrated. For me it’s a dealbreaker and I get so turned off by it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 03:10 PM |
| 22 | The date bait and switchYes, another thing to consider! Luckily, I’m not big in adjusting my schedule, unless a girlfriend is coming in from out of town or something like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:40 PM |
| 17 | The date bait and switchThat’s very true! And very depressing. Thanks for the insight and reminder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:38 PM |
| 31 | The date bait and switchYes! Me too! Like I can’t be readily available at a drop of a dime, I have a life. Sunday afternoon is like the worst time to ask someone out last minute. Like do these dudes know we have full time jobs or like what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:32 PM |
| 45 | The date bait and switchRight, yeah I forgot about the ‘shit test’ thing, I’ve not keeping up with a lot of dating tricks men use. Do you think most men around the 30 years old mark know a lot of red pill philosophy, even if they’re not active on those forums? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:27 PM |
| 33 | The date bait and switchThe sushi date was just an example, I would have expected more but I hear you, thank you 💕🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:00 PM |
| 8 | The pandemic is making me take the company of my own for granted - posting this to remind myself that only I can give me lovely things I crave for. Throwback to the time I took the train for 1 hour in heels for pancakes and coffee alone 🥞 Never settling for "walking dates" againI’m drooling sis! I’m having pancakes this weekend with friends 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:55 PM |
| 63 | The date bait and switchThanks for the breakdown 💕 I wasn’t even particularly open to dating right now because of responsibilities at work increasing, paying down my debt (paid it off!), deleted dating apps (sick of talking to sex starved entitled men). I wasn’t invested in this guy but I feel a little annoyed that he was the one who perused me only to flake big time... very strange. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:52 PM |
| 28 | The date bait and switchI’m very fortunate to be in a country that takes lockdown and quarantine management very seriously. Our tracing is world class and we take the proper precautions too. We live pretty normal lives here without masks in most public places, besides public transport. Went to the beach without a care in the world the last three months, I would say we are doing very well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:47 PM |
| 68 | The date bait and switchAh right, but here’s the thing, we haven’t even been flirting, just straight up conversations and learning more about each other. Does he still get the impression that I want to have sex? P.s I’m celibate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:34 PM |
| 57 | Men’s magazine glamorizes 20 year age gap between old scrote and beautiful woman for their “modern love” edition. 🤮Hahahahahaha omg sis I’m wigless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:44 AM |
| 19 | A summary of 2021 Feminism, in two screenshotsI’m clapping 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 07:14 AM |
| 29 | Creepy male enthusiasmYou summed it up perfectly. Makes me so sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 01:27 PM |
| 9 | Just witnessed some really barfy bs in the wildAnd now I have to bleach my eyes today ... ugh what did I just read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:32 AM |
| 94 | Women resent men for seeing them as just a body. LVM want what's underneath the clothes, without caring about what's underneath the skin; the naked body without the naked soul. LVM resent women for placing a barrier between them and sex because we prioritize our emotional wellbeing over sex.I kid you not, I’ve had the very same comment made to me, not on a date but online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 06:22 AM |
| 18 | If it wasn't for FDS my v day could have been like this! They're engaged and he always posts the uglist/eyes closed pics of her 🤮 she even negs herself in the post that's another level of being LVM brainwashed 🤮I feel second hand embarrassment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:54 AM |
| 6 | Posted in a female subreddit... most comments are empathizing with LVM and even excusing their behavior as “competitive”??💀Sis 😂😂😂 yes!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:35 AM |
| 41 | If You Hate Online Dating, Delete Your Dating AppsI deleted mine about two months ago 💕 Edit: I’m listening to it now. Love it so far | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:59 PM |
| 5 | Just another disappointment...Another LVMThis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 11:16 AM |
| 10 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.I do this. Sometimes I feel bad about it but I’ve just had way too many bad interactions with men when I’ve been too nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:18 AM |
| 11 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessThis was my dad 20 years ago, three girls later and he wanted to start up a harem with a younger woman so he could try for a boy. Fucking sick. My mum divorced his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 02:41 AM |
| 14 | hOw dO i NoT eMbArRaSs mY HuSbAnD aBoUt hiS bUtT CrUmBsHahahahaha sis I’m deceased at your comment. It’s funny and true haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:04 AM |
| 19 | hOw dO i NoT eMbArRaSs mY HuSbAnD aBoUt hiS bUtT CrUmBsI came to say this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:02 AM |
| 52 | Single LVM expects to be married by doing the bare minimum. The audacity.And poor haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:16 AM |
| 18 | I’m so sorry for sharing this...I was looking forward to lunch but nope, no food for me today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:05 AM |
| 48 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...Yes I have dated but not very seriously. Didn’t date last year either because of Covid and I’ll doubt I’ll be dating this year. I never told my dates that I’m celibate or anything because sexual stuff never came up since I wasn’t dating them for very long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 01:28 AM |
| 109 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...Exactly why I’ve been celibate since for 6 years. I refuse to be used for sex ever again. I’ve got my mental and physical health to think about. Don’t get me wrong, guys have tried to get me in bed but I shrug it off .... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 11:34 PM |
| 163 | This artist's work hit me hard! @violetclair on instagramThat last slide is 100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 01:29 AM |
| 11 | But men are ViSuAl CrEaTuReSAnnndddd this is the stuff that would turn me off over time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 01:40 PM |
| 9 | Females After A BreakupAin’t this the truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 01:39 PM |
| 21 | Perhaps you'll need this sign.Can this be the FDS main video haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 03:13 AM |
| 4 | My goal for this year is to have boundaries and establish them like men do. They only do what they want, when they want it, with whomever they decide. There is no forcing them, they never give in, especially if they're not benefiting. I aspire to be like this.Saved! I like how you worded it. I struggle to get this feeling articulate it well. It’s so succinct and true!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 03:59 AM |
| 1 | I made this for my new handcraft business!I love the colours, reminds me of autumn in the 90s. It has a nostalgic feel to it. Nice work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 03:53 AM |
| 52 | You ever feel disgusted at the absolute scum you allowed to touch your body?Haha yeah had this thought all of last year and this month too. Haven’t had sex in years just thinking about my early 20s and the gross basement dwellers that I allowed to touch me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:16 AM |
| 109 | Sigh... he’s short and maybe 6 out of 10, luckily only 2 dates in for the truth to come out. I’m a size 8 and too fat apparently...I mean the audacity like who even asked him?! What a disgusting thing to say to you! Are you ok? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:12 AM |
| 41 | Say no to easy men 👀And let’s not forget future | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 11:11 AM |
| 8 | The hardest thing about FDS is watching you’re girl friends struggle when you have the answersAh same! It’s like the drama is so not worth it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 04:46 AM |
| 15 | The hardest thing about FDS is watching you’re girl friends struggle when you have the answersMy friends don’t ever tell me I’m right they just get defensive and upset with I give my opinion (even if it’s right). It always blows up in my face. They’re so immature about it. I give them 0 advice and keep silent when they mention their relationships. I just nod and smile, and try to change the subject as soon as possible. Edit: just wanted to add that I’m trying to help them but dang people hate hearing the truth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | boy BYEThis is also very true hahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 03:07 AM |
| 16 | Keep it real out thereI feel so disgusted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:16 AM |
| 24 | boy BYEI want to post this to my IG story so bad but I’ll hurt my friends feelings because their men are like this lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:14 AM |
| 7 | The men (and women) in the comments are LOSING IT 😂Saved! Love this energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:13 AM |
| 20 | Get off of OLD!That’s why FDS doesn’t advocate for sex until much later down the line. You keep missing the point where we have the strategies in the handbook and the fact we apply ways to vet men. Men want sex and lie about yes, we can weed them out pretty fast and for those other men who can lie for longer, we know this too which is why we make them wait up to 6 months for sex and if they leave us or their mask drops we know we’ve dodged a bullet. FYI you’re post isn’t saying anything we haven’t already hear… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:57 AM |
| 29 | Get off of OLD!You’re only wasting your time if you entertain everyone on OLD. The great thing about online dating is that you can look at their social media or look them up. Do your own investigating via LinkedIn by just their name and company they work for alone. You can organise quick screening phone calls and talk to more than one man at once. I said be strategic. It’s a fallacy to think that LVM are only on OLD there are LVM and NVM everywhere, not just online. You can add OLD to your dating it doesn’t ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:41 AM |
| 53 | Get off of OLD!I think it’s easy to say this but it’s very much a part of our dating world now. It’s totally ok to use OLD but it’s up to you to apply FDS to the way you view it and use it. I’m tired of seeing posts just saying not to use it. Obviously it shouldn’t be the only way you try and meet men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:22 AM |
| 230 | Keep it real out thereTook me much longer than 25 to assert myself unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:11 AM |
| 58 | I honestly don't think I want to get married (and I'm tired of my family saying I'll change my mind)Love this for you! Would love to read some points on how much better it is in comparison to a man being around from your perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:56 AM |
| 106 | I honestly don't think I want to get married (and I'm tired of my family saying I'll change my mind)I could have written this for myself. I’m 100% on not having children. I have my own place with a little backyard and decorated / clean as hell. Safe space. I don’t want it ruined by someone else’s mood. I’m like you, I need A LOT of space from people, even my own siblings / best friends. I can barely travel with people without hating them lol. I feel sad that I think this way and worry others will judge me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:55 AM |
| 34 | Hey I just want to say I've stopped letting people intimidate me over having high standards. Sometimes their comments that I expect too much would make me question myself... but now I realized I either stay genuine to my needs, or get in a relationship that will not last.Usually the women with the ugliest and pornsick boyfriends love to say this. All while feeding their man like they would a child with a spoon and wiping their butts for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 07:40 AM |
| 79 | Julian Casablancas, left his wife of 15 years for a 21 yr old roadie.Never ever help a man get through anything, unless your married...and even then be wary. They just take you for granted and instantly forget all the good you ever did for them. Fuck them. Used to be a huge fan or the Strokes back in the day but you could tell Julian had no self esteem and was pretty average looking. Compared to his other bandmates he was average. He didn’t even do that much with his career after the strokes, a few mediocre albums and then?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:26 AM |
| 7 | A Boxing Day sermonYou described my best friend! ‘I don’t know why I really like him’ but he tried to cheat on you while you were at a funeral 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 08:00 AM |
| 5 | Porn addiction can cause men to become desensitized to sex. Wonder why he doesn't want sex with you? The answer is porn. This is a scrotes' own admission.Ikr came there to ask that yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:21 AM |
| 216 | Actress Margaret Qualley caught conspicuously making out with Shia LaDouche after he was sued for abusing FKA Twigs and giving her an STD. Pick Mes Need Psychological Help.Past few days I’ve been following the FKA Twigs story (thanks to this sub for bringing it to my attention!). It’s so sick what he did to her and other women he was attached too. This is the exact kind of creep FDS warns about. The violence, assaults, sexual coercion and STDs she suffered, women ALWAYS suffer more than the man. On another note it doesn’t surprise me that he has another woman already in his clutches. I can never understand why in situations like these, the male perpetrators can mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:18 AM |
| 22 | Anyone else feel significantly less attracted to men because of the existence of porn?Hahaha me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:21 AM |
| 7 | “Love yourself first, because that’s who you’ll spend the rest of your life with”Your last sentence is so true lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 01:43 AM |
| 3 | We should stop calling libfems feminists. They don't deserve the honorable title of "feminist"Someone can start another sub for that. I’m in a sub for women who have radfem beliefs who are talking about their lives and dating not to convince libfems to change their ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 01:45 AM |
| 10 | We should stop calling libfems feminists. They don't deserve the honorable title of "feminist"I’m a radfem but I’m not here to war with other feminists or women. I don’t like how this post is framed, I can see your point but I’m not in this sub to fight other feminists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 01:10 AM |
| 24 | Nobody’s nicer than a guy that hasn’t fucked you yetThis and this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 07:32 AM |
| 10 | Nobody’s nicer than a guy that hasn’t fucked you yetCan someone DM me where this thread is from so I can read.... like holy fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 07:12 AM |
| 110 | Do not ever, ever put yourself into the situation where your last friend is your boyfriendThis is so disturbing isn’t it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 12:36 AM |
| 23 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!This is exactly how I think lol. And then I go to bed content under my clean crisp white sheets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 10:34 PM |
| 14 | 😭😭😭😭Why did I read this! Omgosh 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:55 PM |
| 22 | 😭😭😭😭I’ve known people to drag their spouse down the isle and it was always found out they were cheaters before and after the marriage .... sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:54 PM |
| 4 | Do you think that a lot of women identify as asexual, demisexual, or are completely uninterested in sex is because of how male-centred and degrading sex is portrayed in society?😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Do you think that a lot of women identify as asexual, demisexual, or are completely uninterested in sex is because of how male-centred and degrading sex is portrayed in society?This right here 👆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:29 AM |
| 21 | Happy Men's Day!This is so good haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:47 PM |
| 7 | Why therapy, self-care, and levelling up emotionally and mentally is so importantPowerful ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 12:28 PM |
| 26 | What I’ve learned in two weeks of roster datingPlease keep posting your experiences as you go. It was so insightful, I didn’t connect the dots that going to a restaurant close to a guys how that late meant hen would try and get you home with him. I’m bad at connecting dots until after the fact about people. That aggressive FaceTime guy omgosh I had an experience like that a few weeks ago. Spoke to a guy on audio, his number was block and he was interrogating me. Even admitted he was a serial dater and had a lot of casual sex so gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 10:05 AM |
| 3 | Be very careful when meeting a man for the first time. Tell a friend who you’re meeting and where you’re going. Have your phone fully charged. This kind of thing happens way too often.I feel this! And OLD has just gotten worse with all the lazy pornsick men on there for the shits and giggles because their bored in Covid lockdown. My fav thing to do is to cook a nice dinner for myself and enjoy a bourbon. So much more satisfying than being around a cheapskate scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:28 PM |
| -17 | even if you don’t like or agree with the themes in WAP, you can agree that society is always quick to comment on women’s sexuality and promiscuousness but won’t say shit about the violence and danger that we are subject to everyday.This was the wrong song to pick out for your point. You have a good point but this song ain’t it sis. You could have picked real stats or stories about women who are brutalised and ignored rather than come and make a big deal about a song. It’s like drawing attention to the wrong place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Girls please never chase men! As if the post isn't embarassing enough, a guy commented just to make fun of her...I used to be this girl. If you don’t have a close circle of people who love you and support you. Intense flings can be mistaken for love and you get attached quickly. It’s horrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:16 PM |
| 2 | The absolute state of this threadHaha mine too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:07 PM |
| 29 | even if you don’t like or agree with the themes in WAP, you can agree that society is always quick to comment on women’s sexuality and promiscuousness but won’t say shit about the violence and danger that we are subject to everyday.You do realise the song had violent sexual lyrics too right? Choking and spitting etc. The song was just all kinds of pickmeisha-y and pornified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:49 PM |
| 54 | My worst date...Sorry why would someone take your change??? I don’t get it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 08:02 AM |
| 3 | You only get one chance with Edna, Be like Edna. ☺️Hahahahahahaua don’t they allow first cousin marriages there aka Milhouse’s parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 03:20 AM |
| 6 | You only get one chance with Edna, Be like Edna. ☺️I’d go with Sideshow Bob because at that stage I’d already be a 🤡 myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:53 AM |
| 17 | He invited me on a 4 day trip. Thanks to you ladies I said no and held my ground. This is his response. How dare I assume!Yep this! I’m so disgusted by this guy, seems so creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 12:45 AM |
| 24 | You only get one chance with Edna, Be like Edna. ☺️Edna was a LVW tho lol. She gave every gross guy in Springfield chances and settled for Skinner - a mammas boy with little career prospects m for a long time before Flanders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 12:18 AM |
| 5 | Pickme vet student does all the housework. LVM boyfriend wants to know what he can do to support her (doing his share of chores is not an option). Everyone in the comments thinks it’s cute. How thoughtful.Lived with two male housemates and I can confirm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 01:42 PM |
| 3 | He simply does not want to meet your needsA perfect summary!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 09:30 AM |
| 63 | I missed y'all!Oh sis we are here for it. Also I was first like omg 90 kg in 30 days what’s your secret! Then I was like oh ahaha it’s the scrote haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:56 AM |
| 28 | Pickmes are just as toxic as the low quality men they worship and defend.Pickmes are insecure gaslighters that work for misogynists for a cookie and a pat on the head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 01:43 AM |
| 9 | Male 'feminists'HAHAHA WHO MADE THIS ACCURATE THING | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:21 AM |
| 3 | Hmmm...🤔I scoffed haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:04 AM |
| 4 | Hmmm...🤔This, lived with a couple where the man only liked his gf when she was 100% under his thumb cooking and cleaning etc. If she showed any independence / wants and needs that didn’t benefit him he was as cold as ice to her. She couldn’t see the gaslighting and manipulation for what it was. She didn’t even really think he was her soulmate she was just scared to be alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:02 AM |
| 3 | GhosttI was gonna say yeah this totally looks like a gross guys bed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 11:57 AM |
| 6 | This is my pickmeisha story. I was the worst case of pick me I've ever seen and I thought that sharing my story would help me (and maybe some of you as well).These excuses gave me so much whiplash omgosh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 02:57 AM |
| 4 | Before I joined FDS I had no idea that a man was meant to improve your life...I legit thought that I had to bring everything to the table so he’d want to me with me 🤡I hate to think this but this one makes the most sense to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 12:24 AM |
| 35 | This women says feminists don’t speak for her. Not saying being a housewife is bad but she gives off pick me vibes 😓Her voice was annoying, especially since she had no idea what she was on about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 07:58 AM |
| 2 | I said what I saidI would say attacking women for having a women’s only space to speak their issues shouldn’t be done in our subreddit. Why should we attack moms? What about the shit dads? I’ve seen wonderfully supportive women in that sub who never say it’s ok for their fellow moms to stay in a shitty situation. Some vent and that’s ok but geez can we stop hating on moms. Damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 11:11 AM |
| 3 | Please STOP doing this.I know an autistic man who will always need a cared and he’s really independent. When we have outings he never touches me and he knows to never touch women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 04:27 AM |
| 14 | A man "tried" making a birthday cake for his girlfriend. Pickmeishas in the notes going crazy over the "effort". 🙁Yeah the not enough frosting thing hurt my brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:04 AM |
| 12 | Can someone explain to me how Sean Penn is still working in Hollywood and went unscathed by the #MeToo movement when he’d savagely beat Madonna?I like you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 11:41 AM |
| 27 | Can someone explain to me how Sean Penn is still working in Hollywood and went unscathed by the #MeToo movement when he’d savagely beat Madonna?He always have me creep vibes - no wonder Rob wanted him off Ironman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 05:09 AM |
| 14 | Can someone explain to me how Sean Penn is still working in Hollywood and went unscathed by the #MeToo movement when he’d savagely beat Madonna?Oh what????? I’m looking this up now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 05:08 AM |
| 8 | Tinder should be called Raper instead. Don’t support an app that profits off of raping women and does nothing to protect them.Neither did I, it all makes sense now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 10:07 AM |
| 11 | Tinder should be called Raper instead. Don’t support an app that profits off of raping women and does nothing to protect them.This this and this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 09:45 AM |
| 38 | Tinder should be called Raper instead. Don’t support an app that profits off of raping women and does nothing to protect them.For context - Four corners is very respected tv journalism in Aus. You can even download the transcripts of the episodes on their website! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 02:56 AM |
| 230 | OC: I decided to do a little gender swap on that horrible meme. I’m not a cartoonist but I hope you enjoy it! 🥰You did a great job and summarise the male meat market well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 11:07 AM |
| 10 | Ladies, look out for each other! We are all queens, and we need to support each other as suchUgh same happened to me. And I was the one who was punished for it btw, guy didn’t get any shit for it really. Now I don’t talk to that ‘friend’ anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 07:15 AM |
| 15 | Ladies, look out for each other! We are all queens, and we need to support each other as suchUgh same happened to me. And I was the one who was punished for it btw, guy didn’t get any shit for it really. Now I don’t talk to that ‘friend’ anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 07:15 AM |
| 25 | MhmIt’s like fuckboy inception lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020Yessssss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 05:31 AM |
| 8 | One of my favorite scenes from this series: Elizabeth Bennet rejecting Mr DarcyHe’s such a dickhead. Some old fashion negging he did there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:14 AM |
| 13 | When a LVM is too cheap to buy a dessert, so he’s gotta start making up new etiquette rules. 😂😂😂This thread has me howling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 03:28 AM |
| 5 | When a LVM is too cheap to buy a dessert, so he’s gotta start making up new etiquette rules. 😂😂😂Yes, lived with a housemates, one was a couple and the boyfriend policed everything from the food and clothes, she was a fucken door mat but then acted like my standards were too high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 03:27 AM |
| 3 | [seeking advice] any warning / suggestions for vetting divorced men? For men who’ve been officially divorced for 2+ years.No as yet. Looking for advice on how to vet them or red flags to look for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Stop looking through FDS everyday, and then jump in our inbox to harass us.😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 11:29 AM |
| 3 | So apparently this man is engaged but still has the time to write an essay on why FDSers are evil and entitled b******. If he was so happy, why would he care about what women he’s not dating are doing?NEVER say thanks after having sex with a man, it should be the other way around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:21 AM |
| 7 | I love it when men put LVM in their place😂👏🏾💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 01:37 AM |
| 125 | Mashable decides to celebrate International Female Orgasm Day by dedicating a whole week to porn. Because what better way to celebrate female orgasms than focusing on an industry KNOWN for women faking it.Yeah let’s celebrate women’s orgasms by focusing on what men like to cum in socks too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 07:47 AM |
| 6 | Really?! If you injure a woman during sex, she should be more soft spoken around you?! Christ...Can we just not share or give any mind to this type of misogynistic meme? Like honestly, how does this benefit FDS other than to give these scrotes air time?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:17 AM |
| 67 | 56 y.o. Liam Cunningham refused to let GoT team make Davos crush on Missandei, played by 28 y.o. Nathalie EmmanuelA man with morals! Should be the norm but this show was so misogynistic and normalised rape scenes, I tuned out pretty quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 12:20 PM |
| 62 | Hero Cougar Mom Defends Her Babies From Trespassing Scrote #ByeKyleAnd he even looks like a Kyle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Sends nudes to a random because of low effort meme, gets upset because somebody advises them not to. It’s super sad to say that at a low point in my life this could’ve been relatableThanks for the rant and letting me know what options to pick when reporting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Sends nudes to a random because of low effort meme, gets upset because somebody advises them not to. It’s super sad to say that at a low point in my life this could’ve been relatableWhat do you select when reporting because I never know what options to choose 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:46 AM |
| 4 | On Disclosure: Your Past is None of His BusinessThank you! Saved and saved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:04 AM |
| 12 | Have a delicious Tuesday 😘Hahaha this was such a wild ride. I loved it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:58 AM |
| 10 | Sends nudes to a random because of low effort meme, gets upset because somebody advises them not to. It’s super sad to say that at a low point in my life this could’ve been relatableWhat the point of sharing this stuff? Yeah there is a LVW doing low value things... Let’s just stop caring about these random people. Not really hall of fame stuff imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Incels really think that this is reality, while people all around the world still justify the cheating of a man and ridicule women for having a sexual past before she met her SO. And also gay men are no different from straight men, just as misogynistic.There’s just so much going on here. The first screen shot was a bad example to use, sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 10:32 AM |
| 11 | I can't control my anger with these dusty men anymore.Next time block and delete. Control your emotions because it’s not worth the trouble to get angry at these types of interactions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 10:13 AM |
| 5 | Incels really think that this is reality, while people all around the world still justify the cheating of a man and ridicule women for having a sexual past before she met her SO. And also gay men are no different from straight men, just as misogynistic.Eh both the woman who cheated and the man are low value and classless. No one should accept cheating or justify it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 10:10 AM |
| 28 | Neurochemical reasons why a woman should not sleep with a man until after he has fallen in love with her, and how to train your brain to fall out of love (hint: block and delete scientifically works!)Great post, easy to read without the jargon that can make it boring. This is why I’ll only be with a man who loves me more than I love him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:58 AM |
| 9 | My favorite self-care is ✨✨indulgent nail polish✨✨Gorgeous colour! Kind of like a galaxy 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:43 AM |
| 50 | Haha, it's a struggle out here... We be blocking and deleting left and rightAnddddd this is me. So many people eat like savages, smacking their mouths while chewing / eating too fast. I had housemates like this in the past and I used to say it was like feeding time at the zoo. Talking with their mouths full and almost choking on their food too. So yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:25 AM |
| 4 | American Murder: 7 Relationship Lessons That Could Save Your LifeConcise article! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Let them miss you (non-dating related)Thanks sis! Won’t be handing out my address anytime soon! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:28 AM |
| 4 | Let them miss you (non-dating related)You hit the nail on the head. You come first and those people can sweat it out in the mean time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Let them miss you (non-dating related)And that’s the thing! I just don’t miss them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:25 AM |
| 80 | Let them miss you (non-dating related)Exactly and it’s so strange. I just want to love my family and friends but you’re right. It’s just contempt / taking you for granted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 01:48 PM |
| 9 | I laughed out loud. How ludicrous men can be!!This ad is accurate lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:29 AM |
| 6 | Love Fraud: A study in LVM, Red Flags and the dangers of being a PickMeThe guy, was so profoundly ugly too. Had a weird face twitch, voice and overall physical appearance 🤮🤮🤮 why would anyone fall for his shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Took a leaf out of you ladies’ books and I feel amazing. Treat yourself right ❤️I love the lolly snakes too. I got myself a non-sour pack yesterday evening, they were on sale so delicious 😅 I’m trying to control myself but one is not enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:15 AM |
| 4 | iTz tHe WImmenz tHaTz tHe PrOBLeM! !!Is that subreddit just a cesspool of NVM omfg. And the pickmes who are like ‘I HAD THE BEST FIRST DATE AND I LOVE HIM NOW AFTER MEETING ONCE.’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:10 AM |
| 13 | A lot of salty people in the comment sectionPost - Relationships only work when you let men pursue you I am all for girls making moves if they want to, like there literally should not be a difference in who makes moves. However, from personal experience and observations from my peers, it seems relationships/flings only work out when the guy pursues the girl. When girls make moves, guys seem to lose interest? Does anyone agree that the guy pursuing the girl is the only way things work? I wish things were different, but I feel like guys get… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:01 AM |
| 7 | I’ve blocked incoming messages — and why you should too.Same here I just block and forget, so many ugly losers haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:22 AM |
| 9 | I deserve, at the very least, to feel at peace in my relationship.Not shaming! Sorry, I didn’t realise that you didn’t know FDS until after you were with him. General rule is never to help guys through a separation or get with any guy who is a ‘friend’. They’re usually losers romantically. No good man needs help from a woman to fix his life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Took a leaf out of you ladies’ books and I feel amazing. Treat yourself right ❤️I went a bit wild at Sephora yesterday too! Love the pic sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:52 AM |
| 2 | I deserve, at the very least, to feel at peace in my relationship.So many red flags and he was really bad. You may need to revisit the handbook because you did not vet him properly. Your gut was trying to tell you even when you couldn’t leave him alone. Sis standards are important, no man fresh out of a separation or break up is even worth your time either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:51 AM |
| 6 | Timeline from match to dateI give them 24 / 48 hours from match (depending on how good looking they are I may give them 48 hours but most of them get 24 hours). If they haven’t initiated conversation at least / asked me out by then I remove them from my matches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:38 AM |
| 23 | Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing.Omgosh fresh pesto and roasted pine nuts! Gorgeous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Those of you who are no-communication with toxic family members and having to distance from friends because of the pandemic. How do you celebrate your birthdays/ holiday events alone?This is so very sweet. Love the last sentence 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:56 PM |
| 2 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!Very cute set up sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:29 AM |
| 6 | Those of you who are no-communication with toxic family members and having to distance from friends because of the pandemic. How do you celebrate your birthdays/ holiday events alone?Oh sis yeah learned that about birthdays this year haha. I’m looking for advice on how to spend it alone rather than with people because I’m mostly done with people this year haha 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:48 AM |
| 24 | Then they insist you at least pay the tip...Yeahhhhhh I still feel embarrassed for him. I think he was expecting a kiss in the movie theatre or something too. Eww. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:45 AM |
| 29 | Then they insist you at least pay the tip...If he pushes the point then pay your share and block him and never speak to him again after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:54 AM |
| 100 | Then they insist you at least pay the tip...If he pushes the point then pay your share and block him and never speak to him again after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:54 AM |
| 69 | Then they insist you at least pay the tip...This was the face of my last date just before the few months before pandemic. He then insisted I buy his movie ticket...... I still feel second hand embarrassment for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:53 AM |
| 21 | YesA dildo is like std and manipulation free, also it doesn’t seek to control or abuse me. I feel safer with a dildo than an actual man. A revelation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:20 AM |
| 7 | "Women in a nature setting are to be conquered" (and yes, this man is married)Hila goes along with his shit tho and can be just as problematic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:48 AM |
| 4 | "Women in a nature setting are to be conquered" (and yes, this man is married)Pot smoking men are all gross and low value. Talking shit and smelling like it too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:47 AM |
| 4 | Agree?Sis sometimes that post orgasm clarity does help x 1000000000000000 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:35 AM |
| 3 | His friends are right though.This | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:55 AM |
| 4 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜🤤I have the biggest sweet tooth and this photo is my kink 💕 good work sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:39 AM |
| 16 | I made you all a guide to the PERFECT walking date outfit - just to keep it nice and "casual" for him 😉Haha the cargo shorts have so many pockets tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:49 AM |
| 20 | I made you all a guide to the PERFECT walking date outfit - just to keep it nice and "casual" for him 😉😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:40 AM |
| 27 | I made you all a guide to the PERFECT walking date outfit - just to keep it nice and "casual" for him 😉Hahahahahahaha and just spraying it around him obnoxiously haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:39 AM |
| 103 | I made you all a guide to the PERFECT walking date outfit - just to keep it nice and "casual" for him 😉Hahahahaha and bug spray | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:50 AM |
| 18 | The only person you owe a second chance is yourself.I’m skating on thin ice with myself sometimes too lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:40 PM |
| 11 | Ladies at some point we have to acknowledge our poor pussy management. Like I know most men are trash but if you continue messing with a LVM male people are going to have less empathy for you. It’s better to be alone than to be with trash.Pussy is on strike | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 12:13 PM |
| 14 | Think about it from his perspectiveThis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:35 AM |
| 11 | Think about it from his perspectiveI learned this a decade too late | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:34 AM |
| 11 | My life does not revolve around datingSo true haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:31 AM |
| 3 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡Oh sis you’re so spot on with this comment 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:30 AM |
| 6 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡My old housemate was like this, he was so gross and legit thought you could just ‘work out’ to get bigger boobs ...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡HAHAHAHAHAH 😂😂😂 please do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 12:40 AM |
| 14 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡I’m too afraid to kiss guys these days because of the lack of flossing and oral hygiene haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 12:40 AM |
| 16 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡See your friend gets it. I cannot de this type of thing or I get turned right off 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:41 PM |
| 117 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡Oh god 🤮🤮🤮 you description made me feel ill haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:49 PM |
| 125 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡This is so disgusting, has any adult in her life actually stepped in to intervene?!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:41 PM |
| 231 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡I used to massively give benefit of the doubt to ugly men because I feel shallow 🤡 little did I know they were shallow AF and didn’t appreciate my beauty at all 🤡🤡 or used it to control me and down play it 🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:28 PM |
| 8 | The Power of SilenceThis is a very powerful post!💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.I love this story! Should be it’s own post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:36 PM |
| 214 | Was I too harsh to block him so quickly? He didn’t even ask me how I was and couldn’t fathom why I couldn’t instantly see him... also telling me how “fit” I am 3 times in our 2 minute conversation just comes across as desperate and creepy...Wow red flags from that guy! Was he basically trying to make you feel bad for having a busy schedule that didn’t revolve around his stank ass? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.Oh no gross 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:29 AM |
| 44 | 30-year-old man child wakes up at 4 pm. Blocked 🤷🏻♀️Oh sis, do you know how many times I’ve heard this from guys omg. Such a lie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:59 AM |
| 9 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.What a POS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:12 PM |
| 6 | 😒😒😒🙃LVM can’t even put the toilet seat down after pissing, how can they honestly say they do all that for women? Lmao. Never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:32 PM |
| 6 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.I’m glad the fucker got locked up and you’re one strong lady. I fear getting into a relation for this exact thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:18 AM |
| 14 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.I’m speechless! What the actual heck?! Ok then I’m so glad you went looking on their phones wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:13 AM |
| 11 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.Omg how did the conversation end??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:28 AM |
| 21 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.What kind of stuff usually? Like chats with other women? Porn? Dating apps? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:24 AM |
| 19 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.My gut has always been right, I need to listen to it more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:23 AM |
| 97 | FDS fun fact: The posts that get reported the most on Female Dating Strategy are the ones that go something like "why are men so ugly?" Most of these reports are for "targeted harassment against me"Uglies are gonna ugly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:21 AM |
| 23 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.Absolutely, which is why it’s better to know early by looking through their phone. If want to play games and manipulate as a side hustle then we should be able to check their phones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:04 AM |
| 19 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.I had a male housemate who used to show me porn on his phone and I had to yell at him to get him to stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:57 AM |
| 28 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.There’s nothing wrong with confirming your suspicions but I hear you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:14 AM |
| 45 | A reminder to stop doing free labor for menIs he like 12 years old. Fucking google it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:14 AM |
| 8 | SELF-CARE SATURDAY. No one will love you like you. Did sunset picnic w/ a girl friend. Remember to take care of yourselves ladies 🥰❤️Just perfect 👌🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:53 AM |
| 103 | Someone posted the aita in a Facebook group, and I found a wild Pickme getting rightfully shamedWomen are way more woke on FB then I realised! I thought pickme culture was more prevalent there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:52 AM |
| 6 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.Just a side note. I used to given men the benefit of the doubt in my life but ALL of them have lied to me. Friend, family etc doesn’t matter they’ve lied in some shape of form. This sub confirmed for me that it’s absolutely right to say that MEN TELL LIES. Stay safe sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:44 AM |
| 15 | This, my fellow Queens, is why we say that men should plan dates and show effort from the very beginning. Because if he doesn’t, it will NOT get better.How good is the feeling of set and definite plans! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:21 AM |
| 7 | This, my fellow Queens, is why we say that men should plan dates and show effort from the very beginning. Because if he doesn’t, it will NOT get better.I’m like how is she not jumping up and down furious to have wasted 20 fucking years too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:58 AM |
| 40 | This, my fellow Queens, is why we say that men should plan dates and show effort from the very beginning. Because if he doesn’t, it will NOT get better.This is my worst nightmare. One of my pet peeves even with friends is when things aren’t planned or booked in on time. I refuse to go to a restaurant that doesn’t take reservations even with friends. If I’m with someone he’d better be planning things meticulously. That’s how I feel the most appreciated otherwise it’s too depressing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:56 AM |
| 2 | What are your favorite things about being single?Great comment!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:34 AM |
| 4 | "Your lipstick highlights your crooked teeth"Oh god this made me so angry 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:37 AM |
| 200 | This HAS to be a bit, right??And he used the word ‘hawt’ 🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Friends, here is my pic collage of my LVM ex husband. This was hard to do, but very cathartic.Oh sis I’m so glad you’re outta that. This was a really sad one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:25 PM |
| 19 | My very own Ex CollageThe hair in the sink omg 🤮😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:10 PM |
| 4 | How would you trick a man into revealing his true intentions with you?This is the answer OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:16 AM |
| 24 | but where is the lie?????LVMs greatest hits record | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:50 AM |
| 3 | 😂🤡 ain’t that the truf😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:41 AM |
| 3 | 😂🤡 ain’t that the trufHahahaha 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:24 AM |
| 3 | 😂🤡 ain’t that the trufA great deal all round! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:12 AM |
| 2 | 😂🤡 ain’t that the trufYeah right aside from the great joke the unlimited toppings is such a great deal!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:12 AM |
| 2 | 😂🤡 ain’t that the trufI love gout comment and username Hahahaha it all fits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:22 PM |
| 21 | 😂🤡 ain’t that the truf💀😂💀😂💀👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:52 PM |
| 18 | 😂🤡 ain’t that the trufIkr 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:26 PM |
| 189 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!Almost had a heart attack, had to read it twice to get the joke. Omg haha 🤣😅😅😅 you have me going for a second | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:17 AM |
| 20 | Don’t do it sis.I’m Scared 😢😢😢😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:07 AM |
| 102 | Don’t do it sis.Oh geez the horrors of men who shave and then never clean up the hair from the sink. Grosssssss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:00 AM |
| 99 | Don’t do it sis.Did you ever see how they cleaned their own homes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:12 AM |
| 15 | Don’t do it sis.This! Also the only person allowed to waste my own money is me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:06 AM |
| 16 | 😂 they're watching us 👀Also have they not heard of those zipped pillow protectors? If they didn’t want to wash the pillow they can just wash those and put them back on and then the pillow case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:53 AM |
| 29 | 😂 they're watching us 👀Ok sis now I’m really fucking scared. Why would someone WANT to love like that. WHY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:51 AM |
| 24 | 😂 they're watching us 👀Hahahaha 😂 true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:50 AM |
| 53 | 😂 they're watching us 👀Still needs bed sheets! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:44 AM |
| 15 | 😂 they're watching us 👀I’m scared 😦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:43 AM |
| 1 | I think my 23F boyfriend 23M has ED (possibly related to porn usage?) and it’s affecting our relationship and my self esteemThat was not my intention. I was actually drawing attention to the fact she didn’t know anything about him and that he’s actually a gross creep. In my follow up I actually point out she should read the handbook and dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 51 | It’s always the best ones, isn’t it? 🤣🤣🤣Never been so glad to be celibate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:12 PM |
| 265 | This is why you don’t give ugly men chances.I hope no one goes near his dick for as long as he lives | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:36 AM |
| 28 | I think my 23F boyfriend 23M has ED (possibly related to porn usage?) and it’s affecting our relationship and my self esteemAt this stage I think you’re a troll. Read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:55 AM |
| 30 | I think my 23F boyfriend 23M has ED (possibly related to porn usage?) and it’s affecting our relationship and my self esteemSorry to say that you don’t know anything about this man and I would suggest not bothering to sleep with him because he won’t be able to stay hard and you’ll be hurt your self worth even more. Also sounds like he has massive issues with porn and masturbation. Stay away from him and get an STI check just in case too. You need to find the answers to the questions I listed above, and dump him or not even bother and just dump him. Sounds like you haven’t read the FDS handbook either. This guy sounds… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:36 AM |
| 29 | I think my 23F boyfriend 23M has ED (possibly related to porn usage?) and it’s affecting our relationship and my self esteemHonestly so many questions. Do you know if he’s seen a doctor? Therapist? His porn habits? What has he actually done to fix this? If the answer is nothing then it’s not your problem that he can’t cum. Stop feeling bad and investing energy into something you have 0 control with. Get him to get to the bottom of it and if he doesn’t try then rethink the entire relationship. Stop making his dick issues affect your self esteem sis - that’s just not on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:08 AM |
| 23 | My husband's dad just said that he felt bad for a family member that just had another daughter.This was my dad. There’s a reason why I’m no communication with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:32 AM |
| 144 | My boyfriend called me out yesterday.😥😢this is so awesome! A partner should be raising you up in life and it seems like it’s happening here 💕👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Mortgage or RentI curious about this too. I’ve read the handbook but I wonder how couples living the FDS way use their money and who pays what especially when renting or marriage etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:08 AM |
| 14 | Can men who have certain mental illnesses be HVM? What is your vetting process?I’m the same, I don’t particularly want to date anyone with a mental illness who has ongoing treatment managed by meds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:04 AM |
| 8 | Why do men think stuff like this is going to make us want them? 🙄Hahahaha sis 😂💕 I’m 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:02 AM |
| 9 | When a LVM tries to drop this hot line to reel you in thinking you are a pickme, but you decide to play stupid to give him a taste of his own medicine before you block & delete for good as an enlightened QueenAnndddddd now I want a subway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:56 AM |
| 45 | Why do men think stuff like this is going to make us want them? 🙄That’s exactly where I looked. Big hips 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:46 PM |
| 10 | No woman should have to clean up her husbands pee from the living room. I’d kick him the fuck out not treat him like another child!Your username 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:58 AM |
| -6 | (TW/CW) Don't only do it for yourselfI understood what she said. I just don’t think it’s really going to do much outside of yourself and circle of women. This post seems to me to be inspired but without any proper substance 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:02 AM |
| 46 | This is why you wait until you are exclusive until you sleep with a man.I feel so grossed out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:39 AM |
| -10 | (TW/CW) Don't only do it for yourselfYou have a very Western interpretation of things and while I understand your sentiment, it’s actually like of downplaying so many disadvantaged women who aren’t in the same position to make these calls. Your list isn’t still really not helpful or attainable for all women. It’s just like saying things that seem inspirational but sounds really empty to me 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:29 AM |
| 39 | (TW/CW) Don't only do it for yourselfLeveling up isn’t going to cut it. We need drastic law reform, societal and religious change too. Sorry sis but ‘levelling up’ doesn’t actually replace the work of women like Malala who was shot in the face in her village in Pakistan for speaking out about women’s humanitarian rights. She is still fighting and graduated from Oxford. Levelling up can improve your life but let’s not downplay what it takes to stop this male depravity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:25 AM |
| 15 | No woman should have to clean up her husbands pee from the living room. I’d kick him the fuck out not treat him like another child!That’s absolutely not funny in the slightest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:34 AM |
| 8 | No woman should have to clean up her husbands pee from the living room. I’d kick him the fuck out not treat him like another child!I’m speechless! Like walk two steps to the bathroom sheesh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:30 AM |
| 5 | No woman should have to clean up her husbands pee from the living room. I’d kick him the fuck out not treat him like another child!I consider finding out until after marriage a fate worse than death | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:12 AM |
| 30 | No woman should have to clean up her husbands pee from the living room. I’d kick him the fuck out not treat him like another child!THIS IS A FAMILY DOG. She should take his ass to the pound. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:18 AM |
| 71 | No woman should have to clean up her husbands pee from the living room. I’d kick him the fuck out not treat him like another child!I understand divorce and separation are a lot but somehow seems like a better alternative than cleaning up your husbands piss bottle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:34 AM |
| 19 | New here, had an enlightening conversation with a male coworker the other dayStop enjoying casual sex sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else shocked by how many ‘out and proud’ men there are about binge drinking / smoking (420/tobacco) and drugs?This 👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:31 PM |
| 9 | Anyone else shocked by how many ‘out and proud’ men there are about binge drinking / smoking (420/tobacco) and drugs?Does not surprise me at all. LVM are variable it’s fucking depressing haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:14 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else shocked by how many ‘out and proud’ men there are about binge drinking / smoking (420/tobacco) and drugs?Isn’t it the worst when you’re going about your day and you bump into these guys it’s like 🤮 the amount of times I’ve straight up run away haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else shocked by how many ‘out and proud’ men there are about binge drinking / smoking (420/tobacco) and drugs?420 usage in at all and talking about it openly is a ‘no no’ for me with men I’m dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:12 PM |
| -6 | Anyone else shocked by how many ‘out and proud’ men there are about binge drinking / smoking (420/tobacco) and drugs?Having one or two drinks is fine. It’s the addiction and abuse which I find prevalent with men out on the dating scene. I equate 420 usage to LVM-hood. It’s stinky and just all around not fun to be around guys who do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else shocked by how many ‘out and proud’ men there are about binge drinking / smoking (420/tobacco) and drugs?Oh gross, 50 fucking years old and still no common sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else shocked by how many ‘out and proud’ men there are about binge drinking / smoking (420/tobacco) and drugs?I’m taking about addiction and abuse of these things. Personally I equate binge drinking and 420 usage to LVM-hood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:08 PM |
| 8 | Anyone else shocked by how many ‘out and proud’ men there are about binge drinking / smoking (420/tobacco) and drugs?Sounds like he listens to Rogan lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:00 PM |
| 13 | Anyone else shocked by how many ‘out and proud’ men there are about binge drinking / smoking (420/tobacco) and drugs?I could not go near a man who chewed that shit. His teeth and breath must have been awful, not to mention the beer and tobacco spell coming out of his sweat 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:51 PM |
| 14 | Anyone else shocked by how many ‘out and proud’ men there are about binge drinking / smoking (420/tobacco) and drugs?Congrats friend! Sounds like you’re doing really well x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:25 PM |
| 8 | Anyone else shocked by how many ‘out and proud’ men there are about binge drinking / smoking (420/tobacco) and drugs?Nothing wrong with having a drink after a long week or enjoying a glass with dinner 💕🍷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else shocked by how many ‘out and proud’ men there are about binge drinking / smoking (420/tobacco) and drugs?Do you think it’s because of your city or just them being LVM? I’m thinking that in my area there is more of a problem with substance abuse that I initially thought | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:16 PM |
| 27 | “You are a woman, so you must be illiterate about heavy metal”.LVM usually love anime | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:14 AM |
| 39 | The “Let’s Grab A Coffee” Outfit 🤣💀Oh sis yes this 👏🏾👏🏾 outfit matches the date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | And I’m done with this planet: no one gives a fuck about women’s sex crimes but women. Also, this is what OLD and Porn cultivates....you have males like Kavanaugh and Brock Turner getting off with slaps on the wrists. LADIES be careful out there, no one is watching out for us, only us.Wow that’s sickening. Men will justify any depraved act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:38 AM |
| 43 | Abstaining from sex - how and when should I tell a potential date?You don’t, that’s how you keep them honest or wait enough to see their mask slip, and if you have to say something keep it short to the point and don’t answer any ‘why’ questions about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:59 AM |
| 30 | "FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy!And it’s ALWAYS dusty🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:48 PM |
| 9 | Insecure yet cocky men men are a disease. Avoid them like the plague.The fuck indeed. Men like this always need validation and are emotional cheats and emotional vampires. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 12:37 AM |
| 85 | Your timeline is non-negotiable.Can someone tell me what really happened with her and Liam? I keep seeing Mikey speaking out but I don’t quite get it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:31 PM |
| 3 | How I feel about this subWholesome fluffy and cute! I’m in! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 30 | Posted on the “90 Day Fiancé” tv show sub. 😂💀I’m pretty sure he was found out to be a sex offender. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:09 AM |
| 5 | 50/50 by Garfunkel and OatesOmgosh! Amazing!!! Saved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 12:24 PM |
| 52 | Men "Going their own way" etc, why are you stalking us so intensely? FDS went private for a short amount of time and all these LVM have nothing to do other than stalking us. May I suggest therapy? Why are you so obsessed with us?Ugly cheap men always love stalking expensive beautiful things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:51 AM |
| 23 | Don’t wait for closure- especially from an LVM, he isn’t worth it. The best way to move on however... just leave and never, ever look back. Show him he ain’t shit!👋This totally applies to toxic friends and family members too. Been shutting up recently and silence is really golden | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:46 AM |
| 278 | A girl had my back todayYou don’t remedy anything with any person, let alone man, who puts their hands on you. End this abusive relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:45 AM |
| 23 | He’s just mad because he keeps getting rejectedAnd you see how he counts? He’s definitely the type of guy to count his pennies and I mean that in the cheapest way possible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:53 AM |
| 44 | Madonna/whore complex in action. If a man has sexual double standards, this should be a major red flag 🚩I feel so bad for her. Honestly hope she’s ok. Men are horrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:16 AM |
| 25 | Is anyone familiar with the feeling with them like a guy first, but not a guy liking them first?It’s natural to have crushes but try to keep that shit on lockdown. Don’t act on them. He needs to approach first. It does massively suck I know what you mean. The handbook is absolutely right, crushes are a waste of time and hurt /disappoint you in the long run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:15 AM |
| 17 | New rule: you aren't my husband? No sex.Men can barely kiss as it is!! Sex is totally off the table for me until real commitment is made $$$ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:44 AM |
| 30 | It’s always the ugly scrotes with the immediate demandsI screamed and now I’m deceased 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:13 AM |
| 429 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:These are good points but here’s the thing. Straight women aren't enjoying the mental imagery of sopping wet pussies. The lyrics aren't for us, they're for men and to grab attention. It's frustrating to have valid concerns with shit like this and seeing hyper sexualized women, but then you get grouped with all the conservatives who are up in arms over it. Women who have a problem with other women degrading themselves for the benefit of men (and calling it empowerment!). And why pretend this song… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Pickmeisha friend starting to irritate meCame here to say this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:43 AM |
| 3 | I finally dumped himIf it’s therapeutic for you. Maybe you can put posts up about more of your experiences, warnings and red flags for other women in FDS in separate posts. Would like to see your take on things from your experiences! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:41 AM |
| 5 | I don't care if I trigger people by my high standards. I'm not here to make you comfortable sweetheart. I'm here to shake the ground. I'm not regurgitating what didn't benefit me. Im done caring about how people are going to react, to me honoring my self? What am I even afraid of?So many women have an issue with these high standards and boundaries. I have pickmeisha friends like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:37 AM |
| 5 | I finally dumped himI’m so shocked and sorry you were put through this. We’re here for you queen and so very damned proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:17 AM |
| 5 | OLD profileSis it’s not your profile. It’s legit the quality of guys that’s gotten even worse with the pandemic. Every low life LVM balding hobosexual with infected lip piercings is on there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:20 PM |
| 16 | Thought of y'allThis has been posted this month already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 07:54 AM |
| 15 | Reverse psychology?....Easy no for this one.All those pubes on his face 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:30 AM |
| 42 | He doesn't "date fat"? What a coincidence. Neither do I.Omg the second photo 🤮🤮🤮🤮 he’s a swamp monster pretending to be 44. He’s fattttt hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:25 AM |
| 27 | Omg 🙃 LVMI laughed out loud for real at your comment sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:48 AM |
| 19 | Omg 🙃 LVMI bet you he has no hair either 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Please check the guy’s family background/upbringing before dating seriouslyThanks for going in-depth. Hugs from a fellow sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Please check the guy’s family background/upbringing before dating seriouslyA heart breaking story. Thanks for sharing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:41 AM |
| 30 | Make it make sense! Most of these LVM don’t have any “gold” anyways 😂Have truer words ever been spoken? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:16 AM |
| 9 | Please check the guy’s family background/upbringing before dating seriouslyThis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:14 AM |
| 8 | Please check the guy’s family background/upbringing before dating seriouslyNope I didn’t misinterpret. To clarify my stance, I just don’t agree. And there are some logical fallacies that I’ve pointed out but have not been addressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Please check the guy’s family background/upbringing before dating seriouslyOf course, and we have every right to discuss it and there’s nothing wrong with exploring these topics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 8 | Please check the guy’s family background/upbringing before dating seriouslyThis, two parent families can be just as dysfunctional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:35 AM |
| 10 | Please check the guy’s family background/upbringing before dating seriouslyYou do know that a two parent household can be just as dysfunctional right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:26 AM |
| 10 | Please check the guy’s family background/upbringing before dating seriouslyNo one should judge you for your bad childhood if you’re a good person. I’m sorry that happened to you. It’s not ok for people to write you off just because of that. If you want to chat more I’m here x💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:48 AM |
| 7 | Please check the guy’s family background/upbringing before dating seriouslyhttps://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f2btjl/7_bad_reasons_youre_dating_lvm/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:47 AM |
| 15 | Please check the guy’s family background/upbringing before dating seriouslyOk so the OP literally just said she doesn’t date guys who were raised by a single mother. How dismissive is that. I was raised by a single mother so someone would just dismiss me without getting to know me first? Nah, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:41 AM |
| 11 | Please check the guy’s family background/upbringing before dating seriouslyI just don’t understand why you would point out all these red flags and still stay with someone like that? Just because FDS helps women identify these toxic traits in men and block them out of their lives. Im not being critical, just interested to know why since you shared it. Edit: if you share things don’t be offended or think others are being critical for asking valid questions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:30 AM |
| 15 | Please check the guy’s family background/upbringing before dating seriouslyYou’re pointing out red flags but you’re still dating him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:20 AM |
| 15 | This was posted by a woman & I’m tired of movements that are positive for us being hijacked by Pickmeishas who just have to point out that mEn mAtTeR tOoI read the first three sentences and barfed 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:29 PM |
| 51 | Please check the guy’s family background/upbringing before dating seriouslyI’m conflicted. I have terrible parents, and was brought up by a single parent. I‘m NC with them now but I’d say that I’m a really good person who came out on top. Educated, have my own place, own money, great job, take care of my health: I’m kind and compassionate and will drop everything to help a friend in need. I have a very special heart and soul, as well as all the most supportive friends in the world. I always fear people will judge my family and my past their and label me shitty by assoc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Man Up, Or Shut The Hell Up.Hahahaa I felt that last sentence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 12:30 PM |
| 16 | Do you girls find it funny how days, weeks, months can easily go by before you ever see a guy that’s even slightly attractive enough to take double take?Yes! On tinder or on the street, they’re all scruffy and disgusting looking. Where are the hot guys damn it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Horton hears a pick-meSomeone already posted this today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Watch, Listen and Learn Ladies-Moral Of The Story Is NEVER Let A Man Feel Like He Truly Has You, The Will Resent You For Forgiving Infidelity, They DO NOT Need An Excuse To Cheat, Despite The Justification Attempts And They Expect Women To Live To Stroke Their Ego's And Endure Struggle Love...Hey can someone explain to me why they resent you if you’re the one forgiving them over an infidelity? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:45 AM |
| 1 | 4 ways women can test a guy to see if he is serious / FDS MINDSET TO A THey what’s this guys YouTube? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Lying Awake At Night After Getting Played for the 12th Time Thinking Maybe Those FDS Bitches Are RightOuch!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:26 AM |
| 5 | i can’t imagine how miserable this girl is. holy shitWhat the fuck did I just read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:53 AM |
| 4 | Just another manipulation tactic!Omgosh haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:50 AM |
| 2 | The look on his face was worth every pennyOmfg the scrub can’t even drive!!! He should shut it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 12:50 AM |
| 6 | Smh....I came here to say this! 👏 nicely put | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:33 PM |
| 8 | Nope.I actually laughed out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:27 AM |
| 6 | To all of you Queens 👑 Keep leveling up and never stop 💖Thanks this gives me the warm fuzzies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:06 AM |
| 4 | I ain’t not gardenerI’m sorry :( when did his mask end up really slipping do you think? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:57 AM |
| 2 | School of Affluence Course SummaryThanks!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:57 AM |
| 2 | I saw this and my first thought is he just wants a “poor you” party and put his gf in the virtual stocks.They both sound shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 2 | School of Affluence Course SummaryOh sis didn’t know she stole content. How do you know about how much her husband earns? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 10 | Why are men like thisYep exact same thing as the East Area Rapist. Got dumped after threatening his fiancé with her life. Then raped 50 + women / children and killed 13 people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:22 AM |
| 9 | LOLHahaha and can I get an amen??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:52 AM |
| 18 | Age, job, education, mattress statusHahahaha I just moved into a studio so I have one chair and a mattress on the floor Rn. Deliveries for furniture are slowwwwwwwwww during Covid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Canadian mom has enough of her stepson freeloading since lockdown is over and he can go get a job. Husband bodyshames her. Reddit calls her a Karen.The video says he moved in when he was 15 but he’s an adult now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:50 PM |
| 12 | When you appreciate your own company (/r/wholesomememes)I love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:29 PM |
| 9 | Canadian mom has enough of her stepson freeloading since lockdown is over and he can go get a job. Husband bodyshames her. Reddit calls her a Karen.There are better ways to handle family conflicts. ESH. She has a lot of issues too and is generally acting LVW. Don’t know if this actually fits this sub tbh with you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:27 PM |
| 22 | Women I don’t know have little to no reasons to have a hidden agendaHahaha what I thought | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:23 AM |
| 3 | Which Movies Do you Consider a Red Flag if A Man Raves About it and Says it's his Favorite?I love fight club because of the writing style, but basically fight club | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:58 AM |
| 12 | Lvm and pick me’s in the comments are defending the men who were being selfish in the video. Saying stuff like “Men shouldn’t protect women”Shock can be paralysing. I’ve been in a situation like this one and been absolutely frozen. There was a man in the end who stepped in but in these cases you cannot judge. If I had a husband or in a relationship, I would expect him to protect, step in and keep me safe but this video seems out of place because it doesn’t exactly match what this sub is about. On top of the fact it was a really fucked up situation. Let’s just be glad the victims were ok and not make this a man vs women thing. Everyo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 01:22 AM |
| 24 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Cute pic sis and beautiful colour! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 01:11 AM |
| 15 | Lvm and pick me’s in the comments are defending the men who were being selfish in the video. Saying stuff like “Men shouldn’t protect women”This was a freak accident though. People react differently in these. How does one man protect you from a car flying through a wall? At the end a man stepped in to stop a fire. Look I’m all for men protecting me in a relationship setting but video this is a bit of a stretch OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 01:10 AM |
| 37 | Breaking news that will shock absolutely no one: Only Fans is a shady organization.Genuinely curious, please correct me, I’ve seen memes and other bits on social media saying that women make like 100k a month and bought a car / house or something to that affect because of the money they were making in OF. Are these lies or outliers? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:45 PM |
| 26 | Watch out Queens! There’s a sociopath targeting/conning women in the Chicago area through OLD and social media. I’ve seen his profile and I’m 2 states over!He literally has crazy eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Men performing noises/grunts during s£x😂😂👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:41 PM |
| 7 | A "documentary" about twerking 11 yr olds. 🙄It was directed by a woman and it’s based on her life which is even more mind-boggling. The trailer was actually foul. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:29 PM |
| 76 | Happy to see men realising porn is negatively affecting their relationshipsYeah this, the exact reason we shouldn’t be praising men like this. They’re heart is not in the right place, it’s in their dicks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:33 AM |
| 50 | Happy to see men realising porn is negatively affecting their relationshipsHe’s not giving up porn just yet he says that he ‘thinks’ he is. So in actual fact he isn’t working on anything just yet. Edit: we shouldn’t just be praising men for ‘thinking’ about giving up something bad when they know it’s bad for them. The bar has to be higher than that, it’s already in the floor for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:52 AM |
| 42 | Most comments are about how important safe words are. Perhaps something more important is having a partner that does not fantasise about subjecting you to a crime. And she was 18 and he was 26 (!!) when they started datingI came here to say this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:40 AM |
| 70 | Happy to see men realising porn is negatively affecting their relationshipsHe’s still an idiot. He ‘thinks’ he’s going to ‘give it up completely.’ My dude stop watching it. This guys gave up all his brain cells to mash it to porn every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:27 AM |
| 46 | Megan Thee Stallion PROTECTED the man who seriously injured her only for her to get her name slandered, get accused of lying and “provoking” Tory?!! Too many of y’all just hate women 🤷🏽♀️The hip hop and rap communities are so toxic and women hating, I wish I could say I’m surprised but I’m not. How could anyone blame a victim! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 08:36 AM |
| 58 | I think this one speaks for itselfYou think horror movies are terrifying? Not as terrifying as this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 06:21 AM |
| 44 | I think this one speaks for itselfPORN 👏 ADDICTION 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 06:07 AM |
| 3 | He may be losing interest- how do I take back the control?Yeah this, sit back and have fun, work out etc. I would say go as far as posting stuff publicly where possible so he knows that you’re carrying on and he will want you more. Men will chase again trust me they always come running back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:20 AM |
| 13 | Ugh!I hate it when guys ask me how I ‘got’ my amazing career and place. FUCKHEAD I WORKED HARD AND EARNED It. You can tell they’re basically losers if they ask this question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:28 AM |
| 36 | There is no greater way to kill a woman’s libido then to make her feel like she has to parent you. You’re in the friendzone because you’re whiny and childish, Craig. You also look like you need help dressing yourself and are allergic to lotion.Oh my god, this isn’t even a joke, this bit of satire is so real and applies to a few guy friends who I friendzoned early because they were slobs who made no effort to act like men with agency over their lives, and never asked me out properly etc. but then had the nerve to comment I never gave them the chance YUCKKK. These are past friends btw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:08 AM |
| 30 | Lvm would rather risk divorce than brush his teeth 👍LMAO why would you marry or kiss anyone like that yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:22 AM |
| 41 | LMAAAOO another queen out there driving away her scrote. We support you sis. If a man is uncomfortable with this sub, he's NOT A HVM.Sorry no 19 year old man is a HVM haha 😂😂 so fake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:13 AM |
| 6 | He went from compliment to negging so fast I got whiplash!Ouchhhhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:05 AM |
| 17 | Female friendships are so important!!!! Don't let the current relationship you're in devalue them. Remember the ones who've had your back!I have too many pickmeisha friends unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:04 AM |
| 21 | And I’m done with this planet: no one gives a fuck about women’s sex crimes but women. Also, this is what OLD and Porn cultivates....you have males like Kavanaugh and Brock Turner getting off with slaps on the wrists. LADIES be careful out there, no one is watching out for us, only us.From the article: Brett Taylor, 25, launched a Supreme Court bid for bail last week after being arrested and charged late last month with the rape and assault of two women, aged 18 and 19, in October 2018 and March this year. On Wednesday, the Supreme Court heard the computer science student was unlikely to face trial until the early part of 2022 due to COVID-19, which was also making his time in custody particularly onerous. Mr Sonnet said during Mr Taylor's interviews with police, he also admi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 02:01 PM |
| 29 | Reasons to vet before sex with a man 🤢🤢🤢This is because you’re queen-ing it up 💕 You’re thriving on you alone sis, that’s what these LVM can never do themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:52 PM |
| 29 | Reflecting on the LVM I blocked a month ago after finding FDS. This is why we don't write paragraphs. They don't read them. I blocked him so fast my last message didn't even have time to be delivered 😂Yes in my experience they fucking never know what to say back to any thoughtful message no matter how short or long, glad you blocked. Always block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Comment with a 2am fuckboi emojiHHahaha i know right 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:53 AM |
| 33 | Reasons to vet before sex with a man 🤢🤢🤢I shuddered | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:52 AM |
| 170 | Reasons to vet before sex with a man 🤢🤢🤢This is the type of bad advice that other men need to start confronting their friends and family about. This is a destructive and sick way of thinking and not a solution to anyone’s problems. Fucking yuck, yet they complain when they have to buy women dinner and call them leeches, yet they talk like this. Edit: checked out the thread and the advice gets better thankfully | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:05 AM |
| 1 | "The Way I Are" Is probably one of the most Anti-FDS songs out there...It’s such a lazy low effort song too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:32 AM |
| 13 | I posted about emotional abuse and it hit so close to home for this internet man that he thought it was about him 🥺Oh wow he’s a stalker?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:18 AM |
| 2 | This Instagram has no shortage of these types of fuckboi messagesOmg I loved this. I laughed so much. Following him now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:21 PM |
| 57 | This Instagram has no shortage of these types of fuckboi messagesYeahhh 🙃🙃🙃 women are just are a collection of body parts to judge apparently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:10 AM |
| 6 | And where is the lie?Yeah I had to tell one of my guys friends to make sure he brushed his teeth and hair before meeting me anywhere once .... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:14 AM |
| 15 | And where is the lie?I felt so triggered by this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I shake the constant "empty" feeling?So cute I’m dyinggggg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Comment with a 2am fuckboi emojiHow could I forget haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I shake the constant "empty" feeling?3 cats?!?! I’m so jealous! So many cuddles! Do you have a leash for adventure cat? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:28 AM |
| 8 | Comment with a 2am fuckboi emojiOmgggg this is the first time I’ve seen this combination | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:27 AM |
| 12 | Came across this old post. Sadly, it’s not satire. There’s just so much wrong here.Omggggggg😂😂😂😂😂 this needs to be pinned somewhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 07:58 AM |
| 13 | Comment with a 2am fuckboi emoji😜😋🤗🤑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 07:52 AM |
| 9 | FDS theme tune? @ninanesbitt , she makes amazing music!Wow my new theme song | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:44 AM |
| 15 | Millionaire Youtuber Asks His Part-Time Model Girlfriend To Split The Check.My eyeline went right there too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:44 AM |
| 12 | Came across this old post. Sadly, it’s not satire. There’s just so much wrong here.And nowwwww I need to bleach my eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:25 AM |
| 13 | Question: Take your time imagining and tell us, who would you be in 15 years if you decentered romantic relationships?Could you travel with them? Say once they’re older and they can get part time jobs? (If you’re allowing that). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:24 AM |
| 67 | Question: Take your time imagining and tell us, who would you be in 15 years if you decentered romantic relationships?I want those clear indoor slippers with the fluffy pom pom things on top haha to go with this description | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:23 AM |
| 6 | How do I shake the constant "empty" feeling?Get a cat, they’re so cute and entertaining. Channeling your love or nurturing side into a pet really elevated your mood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:32 AM |
| 2 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.I like you 💓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.WAP is a music video / song released by Cardi B and Megan the savage. Edit: short for Wet Ass Pu**y | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 12:59 PM |
| -3 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.You’re really taking this badly. I can see you’re upset but like I said, I can’t control your feelings. Only you can. Good luck to you. If you weren’t upset you wouldn’t be all over the comment section nitpicking and derailing the conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 12:43 PM |
| 1 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.I wasn’t sarcastic, I was very clear and direct in what I was saying to you. Like I said I’m passionate about how WOC are represented. I don’t need to find another way to do anything. If you don’t like the conversation then that’s on you. If you’re upset about it then that’s on you. I don’t control your feelings, you do. Edit: you gaslighting all over the place is getting real tiring. Please don’t take things personally on the internet. Edit: person I replied to deleted their comment, they’ve re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 12:37 PM |
| 9 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.Haha reminds me of Daria ‘sick sad world’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 12:03 PM |
| 6 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.I feel as though Azealia Banks’ songs are pretty good for any woman seeking liberating music and lyrics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:41 AM |
| 1 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.This 👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:33 AM |
| 4 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.I agree, don’t bother. I have commented in this thread with the lyrics if you want to read up on how bad it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:29 AM |
| 6 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.Yeah it gave me the same vibes from the Anaconda video too 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:15 AM |
| 3 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.Yeah no!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 10:52 AM |
| 14 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.Yeah because horny women want to be choked, gagged and spat on. They always want to hear about mopping up vaginal fluids off the floor. Oh yeah I’m so turned on 🤦♀️ Edit: the children are the ones who internalise this stuff after watching and hearing about it. You might not care about the issues that children experience because of this garbage media. I’m childfree and sis you absolutely do NOT speak for me. Seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 10:27 AM |
| 3 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 thank you u/eat_pant_b0ss this is what I was trying to say but apparently i need to cHiLl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 10:25 AM |
| 2 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.Wow the excuses the real. I’m looking at the worst lyrics because they exist in the song. This sub does not support sexual violence, abuse kink or BDSM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 10:00 AM |
| 17 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.I’m always going to be me and passionate about the over sexualisation of women of colour. It’s so important to me. Thanks for supporting that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:53 AM |
| 3 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.I don’t think I was aggressive, just very passionate. I think everything I said was valid. I’ll always encourage people to read the handbook. Yes the song does suck big time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:44 AM |
| 24 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.I wish the pickmeishas who are supporting this stupid song and music video would get that. I keep getting - ‘iT iZ eMPoWeRINg cUz tHEY R mAkiNg mOny.’ Even after I posted the lyrics! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:34 AM |
| 17 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.Women are absolutely allowed to talk about and enjoy sex but this song and music video is absolutely performative. The music video and lyrics normalises soft core to hard core porn. It’s that easy. Edit: you say you understand but you looked at those lyrics and the music video and didn’t see it as performative. I don’t think you get it at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:25 AM |
| 15 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.Thank you! This is exactly right, the lyrics on this song are terrible. I’ve posted them in different threads for pickmeisha’s who are having a hard time seeing it’s not empowering 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:09 AM |
| -6 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.You proposed a view. I didn’t agree. No need to label me as aggressive because I didn’t agree with you. It’s really that easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:07 AM |
| -13 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.You sure are supporting it. Add your dialogue but respect the sub rules. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:05 AM |
| -14 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.I am chill. Your opinions aren’t welcome in a sub-reddit that does not promote sexual aggression against women. There is a comment here by the auto-mod saying that. If you don’t like that then that’s on you sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:00 AM |
| 15 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.Because women are doing it to other women doesn’t make it right. Reassess your priorities. You’re saying your value people making money over the ramifications of the WAP music video and lyrics hurting women especially WOC? Not buying it The same BS argument has been used by pro-porn pickmeishas. Not having it, read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:58 AM |
| 10 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.So you value people making money over the ramifications of the WAP music video and lyrics hurting women especially WOC? Not buying it The same BS argument has been used by pro-porn pickmeishas. Not having it, read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:56 AM |
| 12 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.Oh yeah? You feel empowered / torn by women doing soft core to hard core porn in mainstream media by lyrics like this: Wh ** s in this house* // There's some Wh ** s in this house* // There's some Wh ** s in this house* // There's some Wh ** s in this house* // I said certified freak, seven days a week // Wet-ass pussy, make that pullout game weak, woo // I do a kegel while it's inside // Spit in my mouth, look in my eyes // I wanna gag, I wanna choke // Your honor, I'm a freak bitch, handcuffs,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:53 AM |
| 14 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.Oh yeah? You feel empowered / torn by women doing soft core to hard core porn in mainstream media by lyrics like this: Wh ** s in this house* // There's some Wh ** s in this house* // There's some Wh ** s in this house* // There's some Wh ** s in this house* // I said certified freak, seven days a week // Wet-ass pussy, make that pullout game weak, woo // I do a kegel while it's inside // Spit in my mouth, look in my eyes // I wanna gag, I wanna choke // Your honor, I'm a freak bitch, handcuffs,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:51 AM |
| 18 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.Also don’t listen to scrotes on memes who don’t live women’s experiences 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Woman begs boyfriend to pee in a mason jar with a lid, empty it out, and wash it every morning instead of peeing in water glasses and leaving it sitting out all day.And I’m 100% done with all me as of now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:07 AM |
| 3 | Why do some women have low/no standards?Well for the women I know it’s because they are desperate to just have someone and not be ‘single’ (which is the worst thing in the world) and they want to pump out kids ASAP. The world doesn’t need more children fathered by fuckheads but here we are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:04 AM |
| 8 | My dad leaving my beautiful mom WHOS A LITERAL ANGEL VERY SENSITIVE, INTELLIGENT, AND CARING(and who he abused) for and literal narcissistic bimbo with giant fake tits, 50IQ pickmesha(she's prudshaming me or being virgin and saying that porn is toxic) IS THE BIGEST PINKPILL OF MY LIFEThis 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:03 AM |
| 69 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.Also this is NOT empowering me as a POC woman. I already get creepy fetishy shit from men. I don’t need anymore with garbage music video. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 04:38 AM |
| 41 | People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me.Yeah it’s like sick and what is this doing to the young people internalising this crap. It’s like pickme galore already out here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 04:35 AM |
| 10 | What guys on online dating really mean by causal is essentially is fuck buddy.I just saved this comment omg so true!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:06 PM |
| 6 | Is he playing with me?This | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 11:37 AM |
| 50 | Is he playing with me?Do this test. Take your thumbs and time how long it takes to type a text and send it. Legit 10 seconds. Ghost this guy for a couple of days and see how he likes it. Also sis that petty message you sent him is really immature. Don’t take his bait he’s testing you and you’re falling for it. Ghost this clown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:55 AM |
| 1 | 36 YO LVM PhD Candidate Does Not Know How to Use a Washing MachineWhy waste time venting about a 36 year old guy who can’t work a washing machine? Just block and move on. No need to sigh about it. Really it’s that easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 06:45 AM |
| 1 | 36 YO LVM PhD Candidate Does Not Know How to Use a Washing MachineYes but he’s setting you up to see if you’ll fall for it. Setting up excuses early. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 06:30 AM |
| 2 | 36 YO LVM PhD Candidate Does Not Know How to Use a Washing MachineThis couldn’t be true. Are you sure he isn’t doing the bumbling man thing so he gets out of laundry? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 06:22 AM |
| 35 | Decided to be bold and outright say a hangout isn’t a date! What do y’all think?Block this scrub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 06:02 AM |
| 14 | Just say you are broke and go. 🥱Yes! And I expect the same from the man who wants to take me out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:48 AM |
| 6 | How many of you ladies are childfree?So many more childfree women on this sub than I originally thought | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:28 AM |
| 9 | I found this on Facebook today lolI’m deceased 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:28 AM |
| 26 | What an asshole. Worst thing is she actually looks very fit 🙄The manipulation and emotional / mental abuse HES doing to her. He’s trying to fuck in her self esteem for his own benefit because he knows she’s hot af and can leave him at any time. Also these guys care A LOT about fake boobs and filler, I dare him to show who he’s following on insta. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:09 AM |
| 12 | How many of you ladies are childfree?Omgosh is this me???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:49 AM |
| 10 | Hard passThis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:03 AM |
| 27 | Hard passWhat’s with all these milky looking guys with the weird creepy peach fuzz on their faces yuck lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:03 AM |
| 6 | Saying too bad he couldn't sleep with me is apparently a compliment 🙄Dodged a bullet imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Wtf 🤦🏾♀️Is this an actual real thing?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:00 AM |
| 65 | What guys on online dating really mean by causal is essentially is fuck buddy.It doesn’t help that women actually go along with this with stupid airhead pickme logic that he will eventually fall in love with them lol nope These are the types of cheap, lazy men I want to avoid. Nothing worse than a man without money and a shitty attitude... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 02:58 AM |
| 9 | How many of you ladies are childfree?I’m so proud of you. Can you be my mum too? You honestly have the strength of a god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, please for the love of GOD do not have children OR marry a cheater! Don’t ever take back an ex - EVER. This woman took back her cheating boyfriend after the first year together. Now 5 kids later it’s ramped up online again. He had the AUDACITY to blame her for finding out.I just don’t get it. Tbh doesn’t sound like he wants them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:26 AM |
| 10 | How many of you ladies are childfree?How are you doing raising twins? 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:06 AM |
| 24 | How many of you ladies are childfree?Basically feels the same if you were dating as a person who wanted children. Majority of dating prospects turn out to be dumpster fires. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:06 AM |
| 23 | How many of you ladies are childfree?Same here being Childfree. Thinking about adopting later down the line, I’m celibate too. Have been for years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:04 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, please for the love of GOD do not have children OR marry a cheater! Don’t ever take back an ex - EVER. This woman took back her cheating boyfriend after the first year together. Now 5 kids later it’s ramped up online again. He had the AUDACITY to blame her for finding out.Sissss!!! I know women with dudes like this and you know what they say - ‘i felt sorry for him’ ‘he’s just an idiot’ ‘I just really like him’ YUCK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, please for the love of GOD do not have children OR marry a cheater! Don’t ever take back an ex - EVER. This woman took back her cheating boyfriend after the first year together. Now 5 kids later it’s ramped up online again. He had the AUDACITY to blame her for finding out.He used his own personal computer. They had to use his because the kid’s school laptop wasn’t working | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, please for the love of GOD do not have children OR marry a cheater! Don’t ever take back an ex - EVER. This woman took back her cheating boyfriend after the first year together. Now 5 kids later it’s ramped up online again. He had the AUDACITY to blame her for finding out.Same here, the risk of STDs gets way higher. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, please for the love of GOD do not have children OR marry a cheater! Don’t ever take back an ex - EVER. This woman took back her cheating boyfriend after the first year together. Now 5 kids later it’s ramped up online again. He had the AUDACITY to blame her for finding out.So the way you can tell is the download history because I was thinking the same thing too. If someone uninstalls, goes back to the website at another time and re-downloads, you can check to see the installations via the download history, time stamps are there. I don’t know how correct this is because apps don’t usually have this anymore? They just auto download | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, please for the love of GOD do not have children OR marry a cheater! Don’t ever take back an ex - EVER. This woman took back her cheating boyfriend after the first year together. Now 5 kids later it’s ramped up online again. He had the AUDACITY to blame her for finding out.This is the other questions I have. You can’t comment in the sub unless you’re a mom but I doubt you could ask why she decided to have 5 kids in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, please for the love of GOD do not have children OR marry a cheater! Don’t ever take back an ex - EVER. This woman took back her cheating boyfriend after the first year together. Now 5 kids later it’s ramped up online again. He had the AUDACITY to blame her for finding out.Yeahhhh exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:31 PM |
| 67 | Ladies, please for the love of GOD do not have children OR marry a cheater! Don’t ever take back an ex - EVER. This woman took back her cheating boyfriend after the first year together. Now 5 kids later it’s ramped up online again. He had the AUDACITY to blame her for finding out.There were probably other red flags she’s not bringing up here that aren’t related to cheating but just being a shit husband. Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:14 AM |
| 19 | Dogs are always the first to know!Omgosssshhhhhh 😂😂😂😂😂💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 11:02 AM |
| 9 | Dogs are always the first to know!Omg ok that too lol. They also detect cancer too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:53 AM |
| 70 | Dogs are always the first to know!We all need a fart dog to protecc us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 06:30 AM |
| 8 | Are most men from dating apps LVM? What is up with guys thinking it’s okay to invite themselves over to your home DURING a pandemic?This guy is old enough to having saggy balls. Block delete and date guys your own age. Read the handbook, this guy sounds sus sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 04:11 AM |
| 7 | What do we think about common-law relationships/marriages vs. traditional marriage? I would like to hear your opinions and stories if you have any ✨This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 01:59 AM |
| 1 | When men pull up other men for their irresponsibility. Mod message to r/AskMen.Yeah no dating during a pandemic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Why are some men with respectable jobs such assholes? Wish those in their field new what assholes they wereThe entitlement is realllll in this guys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:08 AM |
| 7 | Why are some men with respectable jobs such assholes? Wish those in their field new what assholes they wereI can here to say this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:59 AM |
| 20 | It’s worse than I could ever imagine out there with dating men. Have a look at this depressing thread. Women of all ages just giving up on the prospect of dating / settling down, and who could blame them?I think you mean martyr* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 12:56 PM |
| 139 | It’s worse than I could ever imagine out there with dating men. Have a look at this depressing thread. Women of all ages just giving up on the prospect of dating / settling down, and who could blame them?Also I was banned from AskWomen for posting this link here 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 12:49 PM |
| 25 | When men pull up other men for their irresponsibility. Mod message to r/AskMen.Yeahhhh so weird and the racism comparison. Like how can you compare having standards and racism??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:56 PM |
| 38 | What happens to the “cool girls”.Block him sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:25 PM |
| 12 | When men pull up other men for their irresponsibility. Mod message to r/AskMen.Oh cool!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 11:12 AM |
| 7 | Favourite dating apps to find high value men?Been on dating apps for a decade and I’ve had nothing but mostly bad or fleeting experiences. If you go on them, keep your guard way up and don’t have sex with any of them. Try and meet them IRL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:11 AM |
| 23 | Man moves to another country but doesn't bother to study the language, because he thinks he can "find a girlfriend to teach him"Omg they actually say that as an excuse??? TBH, Korea has every right to pick their own people for job positions etc first. It’s good they don’t worship these clowns who half ass stuff their whole life because of white privilege. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:10 AM |
| 49 | Man moves to another country but doesn't bother to study the language, because he thinks he can "find a girlfriend to teach him"Yesss I came to say this happens in Asian countries a lot like Japan too. These guys are gross and don’t study the language or culture! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 11:55 PM |
| 5 | This really changed my life.Sis you need to get independent ASAP. Your post is not selling me. Get your shit together and live your life. Men like this don’t change their behaviour forever. You have to rely on yourself Rn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:42 AM |
| 9 | Why do Men lack Emotional Depth ?One of the things is that the entire world is catered to them. So they don’t ever have to try in so many aspects of their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:38 AM |
| 11 | Sad cause I really wanted to marry him 😭I came here to point out the teeth also 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:47 AM |
| 1 | ExactlySis he wasn’t looking for friends. He was looking for sex and pretending to be single online | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 01:12 AM |
| 20 | heatbreaking. "The men who leave their spouses when they have a life-threatening illness"MakeHimClean2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 01:15 AM |
| 15 | heatbreaking. "The men who leave their spouses when they have a life-threatening illness"THANK YOU. Been very interested in this topic since reading about it in a reddit sub months ago. Great article. I want to just scream this from the roof tops: ‘To say that men benefit hugely from female caregiving is borne out by research. Men tend to suffer a lot more from widowhood, partly because they gain more support from marriage than women do. When his partner dies, he is more likely to actively seek out another relationship, whereas women are more likely to avoid marriage. Why? “Because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | ExactlyYeahhhhhh this happened to me and my friend with her new boyfriend earlier this year. I sent her the screen shots of the profile and she is still with him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 07:57 AM |
| 8 | Looking good at any age ladies!Pot belly Paul’s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:05 PM |
| 21 | You ladies really have a sista's back! Thank you!The $6 hair cut got me sis 😂💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 11:41 AM |
| 1 | I’m speechlessYeah this is true, didnt consider that perspective, I feel bad now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 01:10 PM |
| 8 | I Did Everything Wrong. LITERALLY. Everything.This whole post should be in the handbook. Great examples in this of how men are and what not to do. Saved it! Thanks for sharing sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 03:04 AM |
| 5 | Him: "I'll die without sex!!!" Me: "Then perish."This exact thing happened to me a couple days ago wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 02:41 AM |
| 2 | THE D.E.N.N.I.S SYSTEMWine in a can sis 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 06:23 AM |
| 3 | THE D.E.N.N.I.S SYSTEMThis is my fav ep of the show | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 12:36 AM |
| 14 | My response to him would be to pay a FUCKING CLEANER out of his own WALLET. Ladies get your man or you will be stuck like this woman who refuses to divorce his lazy stank ass. Love just isn’t enough for me to degrade myself in a relationship where I’m legit acting like a maid. FUCK. THAT.r/deadbedrooms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 01:41 PM |
| 14 | My response to him would be to pay a FUCKING CLEANER out of his own WALLET. Ladies get your man or you will be stuck like this woman who refuses to divorce his lazy stank ass. Love just isn’t enough for me to degrade myself in a relationship where I’m legit acting like a maid. FUCK. THAT.EDIT: this was meant to say ‘vet’ not get in the title. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:15 AM |
| 54 | My response to him would be to pay a FUCKING CLEANER out of his own WALLET. Ladies get your man or you will be stuck like this woman who refuses to divorce his lazy stank ass. Love just isn’t enough for me to degrade myself in a relationship where I’m legit acting like a maid. FUCK. THAT.mY hUSbAnD iS wUnderfuLl cuZ reAzonZ eVeN iF I gOTta wiPE hIz aSS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:13 AM |
| 5 | Typical pickmeisha profiles be likeI can smell his breathe through the tinder profile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 06:26 AM |
| 39 | Prepping you for zero effort 101 - a 38 year old’s journey of nothingness.I want to say I’m shocked but I’m really getting less surprised by these 38 year old men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 08:42 AM |
| 9 | Liberal feminism = seeking approval from who objectify and exploit the female sex and giving them exactly what they want; our submissionThis is 👌🏾the best summary I’ve seen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:10 PM |
| 1 | My top 10 reasons why I think women are better than menI’m here for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:39 PM |
| 21 | Where's the lie? Women are always expected to give 110% or they're selfish, while men get away with murder.I straight up cracked it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of my HVM manifestations? Anything you would add?Crustycube, you are pointing out something wrong with it. Sounds like projection. Read the FDS rules. No standard shaming sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:00 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of my HVM manifestations? Anything you would add?Babyaf, don’t let anyone standard shame you. You’re allowed to not like short men the same way short men won’t date fat and tall women etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:59 AM |
| 21 | Don't date while you're fragileThis and this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | I let my cheating ex text me because it’s entertaining and doesn’t make me feel emotional or angry anymore. He doesn’t care about me enough to have basic respect lol, he just misses what I did for him when he was sick.Lmao yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 02:40 AM |
| 24 | So *ALL* women except for younger ones are unattractive, but this grandpa is soooo attractive. Porn rots men’s brains. Look at any age bracket, women are more attractive. I bet his wife looks light years better than he does. I hope she leaves his crust ass.I’m officially traumatised after reading this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 02:39 AM |
| 39 | iM a pROuD PICKME!Does she wipe his ass too ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 12:57 AM |
| 6 | Look out for #1, ladiesOh shit I’m being attacked rn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 10:51 AM |
| 17 | Let the beast and the rose rot in hellHahahaha the castle had many many nice books at least 😂😂😂😂💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 05:45 AM |
| 43 | Let the beast and the rose rot in hellHahahaha true. No neck Ed ain’t no prince. Also, I mean the prince in the story was a fuckhead too. He was mean to a witch in need! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 03:08 AM |
| 4 | Unmatched, hard pass, NO!!!Oh yuckkkkkk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:27 AM |
| 8 | I got banned from Tinder...Sis I just deleted mine but it’s such a misogynistic shit hole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Tuesday MotivationCoco Chanel was a nazi sympathiser who loved a high ranking nazi man. She’s a pickmeisha and LVW. She also sided with the nazis during the war. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:58 PM |
| 25 | If he wants to get to know you and see what you’re up to, he needs to take you out.As I’ve said, and will keep saying, if he wants a pen pal get him to contact the nearest women’s penitentiary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageLike I said before there are videos of Steve (the guys in the photo) referring himself to Steve on his Instagram called Steve Chevrin. Not sure if Foy is actually the catfish fyi. Quick google search if Steven Chevrin and you can see that he matches the photos through articles etc. plus Steve Chevrin is verified on Instragram lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:16 AM |
| 4 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageOh shit sorry sis! Yeah I meant Philipp! I didn’t read the formatting correctly. Steve is a stage name I guess, there are videos of him referring to himself as Steve. Hahaha omg no that gross couch potato neck beard ewwwwwwwwwww sorry about that haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:50 AM |
| 15 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageHis name is: stevechevrin Edit: not all models are the same. I’ve had friends who’ve modelled for major brands and they have a mixture of photos up publicly. Steve has a mixture of photos. Google his name and you’ll see his stuff. Also Catfish are smart and don’t use high fashion photos in order to not be googled or recognised because women have caught on - it’s a tactic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:11 AM |
| 4 | All over the world there are women and children are murdered by selfish SCROTES. Don’t give men the benefit of the doubt, ever. Don’t take a man back. Don’t give them the time of day ever again. SCROTES / LVM NEVER change and are seriously deluded.I hope you’re safe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:10 AM |
| 31 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageWhat I’m saying is that the model isn’t the one behind a profile. It’s actually a guy pretending to be him. He’s a high fashion model who has a public Instagram so anyone can steal from it. You should report that profile for impersonation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 12:46 AM |
| 62 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageThe first guy is a photo of a famous model. Pretty sure that’s a catfish profile FYI. His name isn’t Franky, his name is Steve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:20 PM |
| 119 | These women need all the therapy. The scrotes are a lost causeSome male dominated cultures and countries seriously believe in this crap. Usually you’ll find they sell off child brides to old men too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 12:25 PM |
| 110 | Fabian Thylmann, the pornsick pig and founder of Mindgeek, the worlds biggest porn enterprise. Let that face sink in, lmaoIt’s always guys with a neck beard and a receding hairline | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:12 PM |
| 9 | I hate my mother, for realHave you visited raised by narcissists sub? Could be helpful, it’s so hard to let go of the past. I haven’t let go of the past and I don’t believe in forgiveness personally. I just try not to think about the shitty things my mum did and focus on the future when I can. Boys of the family are always treated better... fucking misogyny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:08 PM |
| 12 | I hate my mother, for realWould it be possible for you to move out and have limited contact with them? Sounds like a toxic household overall. My mother was the same, narcissistic and used me as a scape goat and my other sibling as the golden child. I barely respond to her texts and I hardly talk to my other sibling. We’re better apart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:05 PM |
| 121 | Scrotes can't see it any other wayHahahaha I was called ‘unfeminist’ and ‘radical’ by a friend for being critical of porn and sex work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 11:02 AM |
| 20 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsI came here to say this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 06:38 AM |
| 150 | Found this. 😂🤦♀️He probs can’t afford it either lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Never date a guy that’s into animeYou replied: Boohoo I got told by supremelyparanoid who knows nothing about anime on a Reddit sub that I am a pickmeisha 😭. Gotta book that therapist appointment ASAP to recover from the burn. Sis’ really said “a small fraction of cinema is pornographic so I’ll just stop watching movies altogether” lmaooooo ok. And i’m saying: that avoiding the topic and laughing in the face of pedophilloic aspects of anime for a cheap petty throw away comment is really horrendous, immature and pickmeisha like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:38 PM |
| -3 | Never date a guy that’s into animeNaamshiko: would you like to answer my reply or just be immature about it? Edit: You’ve brought up serious problems in anime such as pedophilia and you’ve reduced it to a laugh stock. Not cool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Never date a guy that’s into animeNaamshiko: That’s like saying that porn isn’t the issue, it’s the men who are consuming it. If there are pedophilloic aspects to anime there is in porn, then I don’t think anyone should support anime. That fact you even know about the bad aspect to it but still support it tells me you’re a pickmeisha. It’s crap 💩 Edit: thank you for finally replying honesty and showing me what all the anime defending in this thread think and how they excuse bad things in anime. It must be mentally exhausting. Yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:26 PM |
| 9 | Never date a guy that’s into animeAdding this: People haven’t addressed my points, rather defending anime rather than discussing my issues with it. Saying I have a lack of knowledge about cartoons with a history of misogyny is really silly. Men don’t care about female feminist characters in anime, or plots involving women. They live for the fantasy and hero archetype. ITT: a lot of pickmeishas defending male fantasy cartoons. Pointing at other media to deflect the terrible nature of anime isn’t a good argument. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:22 PM |
| -7 | Never date a guy that’s into animeNaamshiko: people haven’t addressed all my points, rather defending anime rather than discussing my issues with it. Saying I have a lack of knowledge about cartoons with a history of misogyny is really silly. Don’t deflect from anime because of your bias towards it. Like I’ve said before men don’t care about female feminist characters in anime, or plots involving women. They live for the fantasy and hero archetype. ITT: a lot of pickmeishas defending male fantasy cartoons. Edit: reiterating my p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:13 PM |
| 12 | Never date a guy that’s into animeITT: people defending anime but not addressing cultural misogyny, addressing the male fantasy aspect OR the fact that men don’t watch it for the PLOT or ANIMATION, they watch it for the toxic portrayal of women as a sexual kink. See it from a male perspective. They don’t care about any supposedly ‘feminist’ characters.... Edit: calling me ‘uneducated’ because I called anime misogynistic but not addressing things like anime like hentai rape porn. Sigh. Big sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:08 PM |
| -14 | Never date a guy that’s into animeInk3dmama: men don’t watch anime for the story lines. They watch it for the male fantasy including bad depictions of women. Men don’t care about female characters or plot in anime. You’re biased as your seeing them from a woman’s perspective, see it from a male perspective and it’s all perverted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:01 PM |
| 4 | Never date a guy that’s into animeGeorgettesego: Thank you! Yes, I wish women would listen to that instinctual feeling when it comes to pop culture garbage. There is a reason behind your instinct not to like it: It’s written by men or pickmeisha’s who love to write about male fantasies about women, among other violent plot lines etc. It doesn’t seem natural or what women would look or sound like. Women are written to be brain dead dummies or Lolita type characters. The depictions of women are downright degrading and infantilisin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 02:58 PM |
| 9 | Never date a guy that’s into animeDon’t feel sorry for me sis i’m doing fine without cartoons. I think you should chill and think more critically about the types of pop culture you consume. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Never date a guy that’s into animeBlackopium777: Yes I cancel it all. Pickmeisha’s can create and cater to the male fantasy too. Edit: your sarcasm or not, I think it’s all garbage. You can name all the ‘feminist’ pandering anime you want. Doesn’t matter to me. Bin them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 02:30 PM |
| 2 | How do you genuinely start over with someone you have deep history with? How do you allow an ex to chase you? He is a HVM.💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 02:27 PM |
| 6 | Men get so madSounds like a small man in more ways than one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 02:19 PM |
| 34 | "He sold my kidney because my family couldn't meet his demand for dowry."In India they have a high female mortality rate. They abort female foetuses for the sole fact that women hold no power of value to them in a family as they are seen as more of a burden. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 02:17 PM |
| 77 | Dear ladies, please value yourself.I wish I had this talk when I was in my early 20s. I’m literally still made that no one told me this shit. Everyone around me just wanted to make excuses for these clowns. Good summary! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 02:07 PM |
| 13 | Never date a guy that’s into animeI’ve known plenty of gross guys who have drooled and continue to drool over anime ‘girls’. Literally bad cartoons lol all these anime depictions of women is short skirts, unrealistic proportions, big boobs and they jump around saying idiotic childish crap. It’s like these writers and animators have never interacted with women before. Or are just plain misogynist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:55 PM |
| 5 | Never date a guy that’s into animeThe majority is written by men for men. I don’t see how you can call male fantasy art. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:47 PM |
| 12 | Never date a guy that’s into animeYour reply isn’t addressing the cultural misogyny of anime. All of them aren’t the same, alright but that doesn’t excuse issues surrounding it. Edit: I see you edited your reply to expand on what you meant. Still doesn’t excuse the rest of the misogynistic anime crap you see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:46 PM |
| -2 | Never date a guy that’s into animeAnime is written by men who like to infantilise and sexualise women in a creepy Lolita way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:44 PM |
| 35 | Never date a guy that’s into animeWomen depicted in anime is misogynistic and underage Lolita fantasy. Edit: let’s not forget that men are writing these female characters too. So that’s we’re the fantasy comes from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:37 PM |
| 20 | I’ve Been Married 25 Years and Have NEVER had sex with my husband, not once. I keep finding random prescriptions for Viagra around the house and in his car. Stoya: "Have you tried writing him a letter?"One of my neighbours who TMI on a regular basis says she’s only had sex with her husband on their wedding night. She’s 12 years younger than him and have been married 3 years. They didn’t haven have sex prior to getting married. She’s always threatening to leave him. He’s pretty gross and doesn’t even work. Like dude you don’t work or fuck your wife. He’s does masturbate tho .. of course 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 12:12 AM |
| 14 | Thoughts, Ladies?My soul and dignity is worth a lot more than money earned from taking my clothes off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 01:35 PM |
| 17 | That's a rough 41 😬I’m deceased 💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 01:29 PM |
| 15 | Stop mistreating you female friends, especially over a fuckboyThis happened to me recently and she was somehow shocked that I didn’t want to talk about her cheating bf who hit on me. I told her that I was waiting for him to fuck up again and he will so i’m sitting pretty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 02:28 PM |
| 14 | Can you pay my bills?[Beyonce:] At first we started out real cool Taking me places I ain't never been But now, you're getting comfortable Ain't doing those things you did no more You're slowly making me pay for things Your money should be handling And now you ask to use my car (car) Drive it all day and don't fill up the tank And you have the audacity To even come and step to me Ask to hold some money from me Until you get your check next week [Kelly Rowland:] You triflin', good for nothing type of brother Silly me,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 01:58 PM |
| 22 | And here is an example of a scenario FDS has trained me for...any newbies care to list the reasons why I will not be responding to this text?This and this lolllll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 05:56 AM |
| 33 | I'm speechless. That whole thread... I'm not even angry, is this even real? HOW ARE PEOPLE LIKE THIS REAL?! Are men even people?This is definitely because he watches rape porn which is all over pornhub and very popular | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 01:44 AM |
| 4 | Their is always a part of me that wants to be nice and give ugly guys a chance..This happened to my friend once. Of course he went back to his ex right after my friend and he broke up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Their is always a part of me that wants to be nice and give ugly guys a chance..This is the best comment, thank you for sharing, I’ve saved it as a reminder 💕👌🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 08:17 AM |
| 14 | Their is always a part of me that wants to be nice and give ugly guys a chance..Social conditioning has got me this way. I definitely prefer handsome over ugly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:59 AM |
| 8 | Their is always a part of me that wants to be nice and give ugly guys a chance..Mightbethrowaway: I wouldn’t date a guy I found ugly. I just feel bad that I don’t and I feel pressure on myself to give him a chance. I’m pretty uppity when it comes to guys looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:51 AM |
| 16 | Their is always a part of me that wants to be nice and give ugly guys a chance..Yessss I always forget this shit! Your comment is saved as a reminder! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:48 AM |
| 10 | Their is always a part of me that wants to be nice and give ugly guys a chance..Definitely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:48 AM |
| 8 | Their is always a part of me that wants to be nice and give ugly guys a chance..Science with a smile: I don’t date these guys FYI. In the back of my mind I feel bad for not giving them a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:47 AM |
| 13 | Their is always a part of me that wants to be nice and give ugly guys a chance..I think it’s because I want to prove to myself that i’m not shallow and definitely because I pity them 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:42 AM |
| 153 | Future HVM! Kudos on Whoever Raised Him Right (It Sure as Hell Ain't the Dad)Hussain gets it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Guys with nose rings (studs)I instantly write off any guy with piercings, unless it’s ear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:48 AM |
| 5 | What to do if your ex threatens to kill himselfI didn’t even know this was a common thing until I came to FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 12:40 AM |
| 8 | It’s been almost one month since I told my best friend that I didn’t want to hear about her fugly cheating creepy scrote of a boyfriend. I’m not emotionally responsible or stressed for her anymore and I’m really happy about it!What changed her from being HVW to pickmeisha? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:35 AM |
| 3 | It’s been almost one month since I told my best friend that I didn’t want to hear about her fugly cheating creepy scrote of a boyfriend. I’m not emotionally responsible or stressed for her anymore and I’m really happy about it!Thank you 💕 you’re absolutely right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:34 AM |
| 13 | It’s been almost one month since I told my best friend that I didn’t want to hear about her fugly cheating creepy scrote of a boyfriend. I’m not emotionally responsible or stressed for her anymore and I’m really happy about it!Thanks ma’am 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 08:01 AM |
| 4 | It’s been almost one month since I told my best friend that I didn’t want to hear about her fugly cheating creepy scrote of a boyfriend. I’m not emotionally responsible or stressed for her anymore and I’m really happy about it!So far it’s been good and I’m giving her space to heal. We’re part of a larger friend group and she has said she’s keeping him away from everyone for now since he can’t behave himself properly. I’m not worried because I just know he’s going to fuck up and keep fucking up. If she can’t handle it, then that’s on her, I’m still the same minus the guy. Sorry to hear about your friend though, sounds like you’re better for it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 08:00 AM |
| 31 | I communicated my standards but nothing changedCommunication with men about texting is frivolous. Just give them the same energy if not more or find a few texting guys and just have your own fun 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 01:54 AM |
| 40 | Despite what modern media tells you, your boyfriend or husband should not be your best friendSis I think we have the same friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 11:15 AM |
| 4 | Despite what modern media tells you, your boyfriend or husband should not be your best friendA lot of my friends took our close friendship for granted as soon as a man walked into their life. Poof, years of friendship gone for one mediocre guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 11:14 AM |
| 5 | Men complain about how women use too much toilet paper. Yet you hold your genitals when you pee and some of you don’t even wash your hands afterwards🤢 I’ve legit seen guys write on Reddit ‘iTs bCus mY dIcK iS cLeAN’ lol no it ain’t....Omg sis what | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 10:05 AM |
| 33 | Great video about the dangers of stingy LVMI love Anna so much. She has a really interesting level up story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 07:23 AM |
| 32 | Ladies I need a reality check pleaseI stopped reading when he was trying to killing an animal on purpose. Lol sis dump his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 06:06 AM |
| 18 | Exercise: Send multiple men the same text and see how they replyHahahahahaha 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 05:31 AM |
| 7 | If the thought of your friends hanging out with him embarrasses you... you know what to doCorrine Fisher is from the guys we fucked podcast is gives out the most toxic sex advice to young women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 05:23 AM |
| 6 | This piece of shit sent me two videos of women he was fucking from behind, telling me I should have been in their places. He probably filmed them without their consent. Absolutely disgusting.Haha yeah it’s always the guys with the biggest heads and skinny bodies haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 05:21 AM |
| 5 | This piece of shit sent me two videos of women he was fucking from behind, telling me I should have been in their places. He probably filmed them without their consent. Absolutely disgusting.This guys head is bigger than his body lmao uglyyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 05:11 AM |
| 4 | Men complain about how women use too much toilet paper. Yet you hold your genitals when you pee and some of you don’t even wash your hands afterwards🤢 I’ve legit seen guys write on Reddit ‘iTs bCus mY dIcK iS cLeAN’ lol no it ain’t....Omfg 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Men complain about how women use too much toilet paper. Yet you hold your genitals when you pee and some of you don’t even wash your hands afterwards🤢 I’ve legit seen guys write on Reddit ‘iTs bCus mY dIcK iS cLeAN’ lol no it ain’t....Sis don’t fuck a cheapskate who complains about buying toilet paper tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 03:58 AM |
| 6 | My vocal anti-porn and anti-sex work stance uncovered a friend who was considering itYes the second friend mentioned what I was saying was radfem, really ridiculous that I’m labeled that when I don’t agree with damaging societal behaviour. I hope my first friend doesn’t either and I’ll do my best to remind her that she is capable of so much more. I’m so sad about it. I’m to sad to view the link but thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:42 AM |
| 13 | My vocal anti-porn and anti-sex work stance uncovered a friend who was considering itYes exactly! Second friend was blaming everything and everyone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:39 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020Love this story sis! I was surfing reddit and found this place a couple months ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 12:36 PM |
| 9 | ‘My husband broke my elderly dog’s legs but I still love him’ call the police and get a divorce pleaseYeah I saw that comment like ‘have you tried talking to him about his tempter’ like wtf she should leave ASAP! Talking isn’t going to help! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 10:58 AM |
| 27 | 35% of men in study admit raping female animals. Most many times over years. 30% group rape. All articles are primarily concerned that the rapists could be more likely to develop penis cancer. GOOD! Fuck men's sympathy for rapists. THEY DESERVE FAR WORSE.And this is why I choose to be single for a LONNNGGGG time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 08:57 AM |
| 26 | Yes yes yes yes yesI’m 💀 deceased sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 07:24 AM |
| 9 | You don't need to be submissive to be feminineWow victim blaming the woman he abused in the past with toxic masculinity is not cool. The idea that the ‘right woman’ can change a man is idiotic. The man you’ve described in this post wasn’t a HVM to begin with, so your story is null and void here sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 07:05 AM |
| 6 | Is low self-esteem a LVM trait?They do techniques like CBT to correct toxic behaviours | /r/askFDS | 29/04/20 12:24 AM |
| 5 | Is low self-esteem a LVM trait?It’s an excuse and cope for men to treat women badly. Get therapy. | /r/askFDS | 29/04/20 12:04 AM |
| 69 | LVM are always lyingHahahahahahahahahahaha I’m deceased 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:17 AM |
| 22 | Hopefully after leveling up, we choose neither!This is so excellent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 11:15 AM |
| 37 | Take a seat, Declan.Yeah that one woman who broke up with them 25 years ago in high school is still a real bitch according to them and that makes all women bitches 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 04:05 AM |
| -8 | A dude not meeting your standards doesn't always warrant a clap backIf it takes that much explanation ..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 03:20 AM |
| -14 | A dude not meeting your standards doesn't always warrant a clap backBut what you’re saying is that they’re a pickmeisha until number 4.. where the evolution ends according to you .... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 12:12 AM |
| 20 | Men and their biological clocks; why you shouldn't settle, listen to sexist rhetoric, and why older men are not better (With sources and links)So glad I’m not having kids. No old scrotes for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 12:12 AM |
| 5 | A dude not meeting your standards doesn't always warrant a clap backClapping back doesn’t make you a pickmeisha..... Edit: number 3 is right though. A lot of us women are sick of creeps and have sat in silence for too long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:54 PM |
| 10 | A dude not meeting your standards doesn't always warrant a clap backWe get a post about ‘not clapping back’ every week. I get it’s not your cup of tea but can we just let people do what they want when it comes to that? It’s not like they want the relationship to go on. The last word can be important to some people and and empowering. While I understand it’s not recommended I’m sick of this kind of post being recycled! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:50 PM |
| 53 | Why attractive women are single?Yes sis the majority of guys shave and shower and hardly wipe their butts lol none of these guys are hot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:43 PM |
| 185 | Take a seat, Declan.Every single one of these guys I’ve dated in the past has come with a sob story and here we’re being told women are the emotional ones 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:36 PM |
| 2 | PhD student showing HVM qualityShe’s the green | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:33 PM |
| 24 | PhD student showing HVM qualityAh right, I understand. Don’t get emotionally invested in a man through text during a global pandemic. No offence to you but your standards sound very low because of your ex-LVM. Also did you change the flair from justhvm to greenflag? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 07:18 AM |
| 6 | When a woman lets a man take her to McDonald's for the first date😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 07:09 AM |
| 47 | PhD student showing HVM qualityI don’t understand what’s HVM about this? Praising you via a couple of words text isn’t really HVM standard imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 07:04 AM |
| 5 | Serious question about meds, plz helpWhat I’m about to say is not a popular opinion but I don’t want to date anyone with severe mental issues. For example, paranoid schizophrenia, manic or major personality disorders, or on the lower end of that ADHD. I know men with these types of disorders and seeing how it affects them is eye opening. It’s not for me, personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 04:38 AM |
| 4 | Serious question about meds, plz helpYes, I would so as long as they showed they were responsible with taking meds, seeing a doc or therapist etc. Wouldn’t date anyone taking anti-psychotics or meds for ADHD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 02:57 AM |
| 18 | Was talking to a guy friend of mine and he said "that alpha men don't want relationships", so I should give up on looking for someone with an alpha personality.Sounds like a jealous creep trying to lower your standards and or he actually believes what he’s saying as a cope because no one wants his dusty ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 02:54 AM |
| 100 | You’re going to need a drink after reading this. I know I doHe’s legit using her as a blow up sex doll. Yuck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 02:04 AM |
| 63 | Couldn’t crosspost. NVM wanted to abandon child after his wife passed. What the actual fuckTranslation: My bang maid died and now I want to be single again but my 2 yr old is sooooo clingy. How can I legally abandon her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 11:38 PM |
| 13 | For real though:Nah sis I’m not missing anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 03:36 PM |
| 23 | For real though:Talk about missing the point big time lol 🤦🏻♀️ Edit: bUT 2 bE fAIr sTeAlINg wAS eMbARraSsInG. iT WAz on cAmera Edit 2: iT waS iLleGal 👩🏻⚖️ Edit 3: yEAH tRUmP nD stUFf bUt STEALinG is ilLegaL and eMbarRaSsINg! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 03:33 PM |
| 35 | For real though:So her life should be ruined over one incident of stealing but rapists and sexual abuse perpetrators can hold the highest seats in some of the most powerful countries and businesses? Oh that’s HELLA embarrassing.... what’s ‘to be fair’ about that exactly?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 03:26 PM |
| 38 | For real though:Male lurkers be like: bUt sTeAlInG iS wRoNg bUt bReTt cAvanaUgH waS ALmoST rOBbed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 02:55 PM |
| 160 | For real though:bUt mEN hAVe iT hArD iN sOCiEtY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 01:15 PM |
| 7 | The first time I saw the Narc Prayer - I was blown awayMy mom was the same more power to you sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 12:35 PM |
| 8 | I just dumped my bf because he said me having a bikini photo on IG is the same as him secretly posting photos of his dick on Reddit!My friend you did good! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 11:13 AM |
| 85 | womp...womp...wompHe’s paying asshole tax for his shitty behaviour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 11:12 AM |
| 1 | I feel so happy for you ladies who actually have a roster, but OLD is so so disappointing nowHey desertedstreets: exactly the reason why I don’t bother with bumble. All the men there are looking for a woman to legit do everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:33 AM |
| 0 | I feel so happy for you ladies who actually have a roster, but OLD is so so disappointing nowDjfranken: I’ll leave your so called statement that you labeled as ‘advice.’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:32 AM |
| 2 | I feel so happy for you ladies who actually have a roster, but OLD is so so disappointing nowI only swipe in my area only! Not worth international swipes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 11:46 PM |
| 10 | 32 ? His triple chin says 52😂😂I reported 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 05:35 PM |
| 9 | 32 ? His triple chin says 52😂😂Hahahahaha 😂 the LVM logic right here. When I read the first sentence it took me a minute to register is was satire. I was so shocked baha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 05:34 PM |
| 4 | I feel so happy for you ladies who actually have a roster, but OLD is so so disappointing nowWith tinder don’t swipe at night, any other time of the day is better and don’t reply to any messages after 5pm (mostly you’ll get fuckboys after at night looking for a booty call). Best to swipe every couple of hours if you have the time (lord knows I do). I live in a big city - me and some other friends (all my friends are different ages and ethnicities) have found bumble to be worse tinder. At least with tinder you have more guys and all of the guys on bumble are definitely on Tinder so don’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | I feel so happy for you ladies who actually have a roster, but OLD is so so disappointing nowThat could be the case. I’ve had to widen my age bracket (not by a lot but by a smidge) and adjusted how many miles as well. Have you tried that? Also, what times of the day are you swiping? Tinder has an algorithm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 03:23 PM |
| 9 | I feel so happy for you ladies who actually have a roster, but OLD is so so disappointing nowDjfranken - I see where you’re coming from but at the same time it’s not that helpful. See my comment to the poster expanding on my comment. There is some strategy to OLD as there is anywhere, before during and after this pandemic. LVM come in all shapes and sizes ... LVM exist everywhere OLD and not OLD. I’m not using any of my emotional bandwidth because I can keep my emotions under control - but thanks for checking. I invest emotionally in no man unless he’s invested in me financially and emo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 03:15 PM |
| 5 | I feel so happy for you ladies who actually have a roster, but OLD is so so disappointing nowI’ve been talking to some nice guys. Any sign of creepy behaviour and they’re immediately unmatched. Right now I’m just looking for texting buddies and seeing what’s out there for my roster. And checking out how many hot guys I can chat too as well - not going to lie lol. Some have asked me our once the social distancing is lessened (for my area that could be late April). I’d just reframe your goals for OLD under the circumstances. To give you a breakdown for mine: talking to potential dudes for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 03:12 PM |
| 8 | It’s not always possible to have fast confirmation of low value behaviour. Which is why it’s important to vet and CONTINUE to vet throughout your relationship.Ah right, damn that’s scary. I’d like to read some of their stories if they post them in this post comment section. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:57 PM |
| 64 | Should I warn a woman that’s about to marry my LV ex that he’s been flirting and saying inappropriate things to me?She will most definitely do mental gymnastics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:56 PM |
| 7 | I feel so happy for you ladies who actually have a roster, but OLD is so so disappointing nowI’m in the same boat. At the moment I’m just looking for cute conversations and I’ve put as much in my bio (removed all the other stuff written in there for now). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:55 PM |
| 30 | It’s not always possible to have fast confirmation of low value behaviour. Which is why it’s important to vet and CONTINUE to vet throughout your relationship.I have yet to experience this personally. For me they always reveal themselves on the first or second date. I guess it’s better than having to put up with their long game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:53 PM |
| 36 | 32 ? His triple chin says 52😂😂When you don’t wear sun screen lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:53 AM |
| 35 | 32 ? His triple chin says 52😂😂Hahahahahahaha 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Don't Date Much Older Men!!! My Story of Dating my ProfessorHey just throwing this out there. I’m working on my roster of guys, I’m 29 and one of my guys is 39, what do you think of that? Good? Bad? I’m not taking any of these guys seriously but seeing who invests. Idk what to think after reading this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Watch out for these male only groups the are everywhere!You can stop baiting people now. Trolling is not cool btw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Watch out for these male only groups the are everywhere!You’ve been bashing him all over this comment section actually. Also don’t worry I’ve presenting you with the research so you don’t have to do it yourself because clearly you refuse too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 10:58 PM |
| 10 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Watch out for these male only groups the are everywhere!u/MandJtraveltogether yes he did name and shame them. A quick visit to his fb and you’d be able to see that..... you can get off your high horse now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 10:56 PM |
| 14 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Watch out for these male only groups the are everywhere!This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 04:10 PM |
| 29 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Watch out for these male only groups the are everywhere!Ladies please do not bash the person who wrote the post - Tarang is on our side. You should applaud him. After Tarang’s sister was murdered by her husband, he’s been looking out for women, those lost to the violence. He even calls out other men, and the media for how they portray murdered women. You should look up his story here. He’s doing MORE than the care minimum: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tarang_Chawla He’s got different initiatives and projects to educate men and protect women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 03:53 PM |
| 12 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Watch out for these male only groups the are everywhere!Um the bar isn’t low for this guy. Can you please do your research before bashing him? I’ve replied to you in another comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 03:51 PM |
| 64 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Watch out for these male only groups the are everywhere!You should applaud him. After Tarang’s sister was murdered (guy who wrote the post in the screenshot) by her husband, he’s been looking out for women, those lost to the violence. He even calls out other men, and the media for how they portray murdered women. You should look up his story here. He’s doing MORE than the care minimum: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tarang_Chawla He’s got different initiatives and projects to educate men and protect women. Tagging u/ahritime19 because the other pers… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 03:49 PM |
| 16 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Watch out for these male only groups the are everywhere!Don’t be hard on yourself! Let’s hope they’ve been deleted etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 02:47 PM |
| 19 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Watch out for these male only groups the are everywhere!They’ve been reported hundreds of times over. They’ve disbanded to other groups and places but they’re being weeded out in those too. Screen shots have been taken names / photos of individuals making comments sending revenge porn have been uploaded across social media too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 02:45 PM |
| 78 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Watch out for these male only groups the are everywhere!That’s so fucked up. I’d seen the screenshots shared and everything, comments and stuff from the group which were so gross 🤮 but that’s a lot of members for one fucking day. It’s a network for potential and actual sex offenders!!! Thanks for the update. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 12:36 PM |
| 36 | Reminder that most of these guys will care more for their dog than for your wellbeing. Don’t bother investing emotionally in them until they have invested first.That’s horrible for the neighbours and the ex. Omission of information is still lying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Be like Johnson’s Shampoo when it comes to men: No More TearsIt’s not that. The motto is about the shampoo not stinging eyes lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 11:43 PM |
| 7 | Questions about dating in the quarantine. Please helpOh keep him as a text buddy because that helps if you’re in isolation. Nothing wrong with keeping your roster of guys on a hook 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Questions about dating in the quarantine. Please helpYou said: There aren’t really any other options, and you are still swiping, so to fault someone for trying to accommodate the situation that you are both partaking in does not really make any sense. The poster doesn’t want video dates as a standard. Saying it might need to be accommodated because of the ‘situation’ is silly. The poster is justified in ghosting and unmatching if it’s not her thing. She should definitely not be dating that we can both agree on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 01:43 AM |
| 9 | Questions about dating in the quarantine. Please helpYeah don’t bother with video dates. I think they can turn creepy real fast and are low effort, no point in wasting time on that! Good for you and don’t allow anyone to standard shame you on that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Questions about dating in the quarantine. Please helpDon’t standard shame the poster! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 01:35 AM |
| 13 | Questions about dating in the quarantine. Please helpMy answer to both is don’t. Just stop dating or anything like that for now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 01:34 AM |
| 5 | Be like Johnson’s Shampoo when it comes to men: No More TearsIt’s actually tears as in crying.... why would shampoo tear like paper lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Glad he cleared things up; the innuendo was so smooth.Beautiful come backs 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 11:06 AM |
| 1 | My long ago fuckboy texted me last weekend with his coviditude penis at the wheel. I had a little laugh about it, thought you ladies might too! He hasn’t talked to me in 6 months. DW he’s been blocked!It was just a smug ego boost. He was just looking for something easy and I wasn’t biting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 11:25 AM |
| 1 | My long ago fuckboy texted me last weekend with his coviditude penis at the wheel. I had a little laugh about it, thought you ladies might too! He hasn’t talked to me in 6 months. DW he’s been blocked!I was pretty smug. Edit: the difference is in the past I would have jumped in joy. It would have led to some pretty mediocre phone sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 11:15 AM |
| 4 | Always remember, you are special and deserve the best!💕Wonderful 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 08:40 AM |
| 8 | Can you even?!😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 09:50 AM |
| 7 | Can you even?!Call the police. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 09:50 AM |
| 60 | If lying to women is normal to you there’s something seriously wrong with you. If you brag about tricking women, you’re a disgusting excuse for a ‘man.’ You males need a life outside of porn and penis (LOPP).That’s horrible, I’m sorry. It’s just manipulative power trip to these guys. Scum of the earth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 01:16 AM |
| 43 | Do NOT believe men when they say they like being approached/pursued! It's a lie!It’s happened to me so many times | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 11:09 PM |
| 16 | Men thinking they’re wokeI don’t want to help build a man’s career and life he needs to come with something read to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:42 AM |
| 5 | Low value men giving advice about women...This was so accurate! I feel sad tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:41 AM |
| -1 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?Eh you do you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:32 AM |
| 111 | Dick is abundant and of low valueThat guys entire comment was like wtf, men love talking about women this way. They’re taught by every other male around them. Also, goes to show that talking about your sex life with them is very very dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 05:28 AM |
| 3 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?The wipe yo butts thing really spoke to me haha 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 04:40 AM |
| 3 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?The title is the response to the meme I posted. Taking care of yourself being deemed high maintenance is ‘not like other girls.’ Either way it’s fine don’t brag about being a low maintenance pickmeisha is what I was getting at... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 04:05 AM |
| 38 | The first year of dating a HVMThis is a really excellent breakdown for anyone looking to understand what the ‘goal post’ is meant to be month by month. I’ve seen a few people asking about where they should be with their partner by ‘xyz’ month. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:31 AM |
| 1 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?My point is taking care of yourself is great. Just don’t be a ‘bit like other girls’ pickmeisha about it. Especially when people are dying. You ain’t getting brownie points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Drunk agAin and accusing me of cheatingDump is ass. Do not put up with men who have substance abuse issues and are readily abusing, and betraying you. Self respect is free. Block him, his friends and family and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:26 AM |
| 2 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?It’s really cool that you do that for you zoom meetings. I just try to turn off the camera is I can get away with it 🤷🏻♀️ funny thing was I had a zoom with friends and I looked not great, I regret not dolling up a bit. You should definitely do it for your fam Easter soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:22 AM |
| 2 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?I understood, I was agreeing with you.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:17 AM |
| 3 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?Hahaha ‘de-crusting’ 😂 so do I! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:16 AM |
| 3 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?How does grooming make you a porn star or ‘fuckable.’ One standard doesn’t make the other better. What I was saying is the ‘not like other girls’ mentality is equally bs and pickmeisha behaviour is cringy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:15 AM |
| -3 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?Your edit is spot on. So much ‘I’m natural’ and it don’t do diy grooming because I’m above all that superficial stuff’ is really cringy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:12 AM |
| -3 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?I loved this comment so much I used it as a response to a few comments in this thread. Needless to say people were not happy about it. Don’t know why when what you’re saying is the truth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?Hey I replied to one of your questions in another comment about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:10 AM |
| 3 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?I’ve really appreciated my clothes way more. I’ve been living in loungewear and pjs. I’ve been changing into athletic clothing for my walks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:09 AM |
| -2 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?Standard shaming is the real crime here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:06 AM |
| 6 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?As u/pissed_af said so eloquently: They didn't need hundreds of thousands to die an awful death just to do what they always do with their appearance, nothing (which in itself is not a bad thing, you can send whatever message you want about yourself, we're all different). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:45 AM |
| 12 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?It’s almost as if a man is talking. Men size you up, they look at how much effort and money they’re going to have to spend on you in the future and whether to make the effort (one of many factors). Some women will lower themselves in order to be picked. Nah, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 10:52 PM |
| 79 | Ezra MillerHe has weird egotistic feminine energy. People would applaud the fact that he’d dress up like a woman and wear make up, like LOL get your fake ass outta here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 10:38 AM |
| 7 | How did he turn this around into his girlfriend’s problem?This happened to me and my bestie recently. I told her but she’s still dating him. Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 11:22 AM |
| 3 | So Many Women On Another Messing Board Actually Took Dude's Side. As If We're Not In A Pandemic Right NowSad thing is that I didn’t even know this was supposed to be a thing until I found FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:58 PM |
| 5 | Is he HVM or LVM?One of the main reasons why divorces happen is because of money issues. If you don’t have the same values about money then this guy will take you for a ride into the poor house. Earlier this year I actually cancelled a date with a guy because he didn’t have the same values about what a man should be. No thanks, I don’t want a half assed version of a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:48 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with Pickmeisha ways and scarcity mindset when HVM are actually scarce?I don’t know about anyone else here but if HVM doesn’t come along with all my levelling up and vetting then I’m prepared to die alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:47 PM |
| 31 | How can we save this girl who’s thinking about saving her ex who’s an unremorseful rapist?This sounds so fake like it was written by a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 08:14 AM |
| 13 | Good evening lurking scrotes! How is the coviditude coming along?I had my first covidute yesterday haha 😂 a serious clown who was broke and moved back in with his parents haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 08:08 AM |
| 37 | This is the 'empowering' dating lifestyle lib fems are trying to push on us. Lmao. I can'tHahaha bridgetroll play ahaha 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 08:05 AM |
| 15 | This is the 'empowering' dating lifestyle lib fems are trying to push on us. Lmao. I can'tHahahahahahahahaha reducing her carbon foot print indeed haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 07:01 AM |
| 17 | This is the 'empowering' dating lifestyle lib fems are trying to push on us. Lmao. I can'tNot even two minutes in and I’m ready to bleach my eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 06:12 AM |
| 3 | Is it just me or do men need to invest more into their sex appeal to women?I was joking springday... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 02:11 AM |
| 5 | Is it just me or do men need to invest more into their sex appeal to women?Depending on where you live maybe 1 in 100 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 01:33 AM |
| 19 | Is it just me or do men need to invest more into their sex appeal to women?You came through with a totally accurate observation. I forget that they think it’s weak for them to try harder with grooming themselves and that they’re not taught to go the extra mile with how they appeal to women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 12:44 AM |
| 11 | Is it just me or do men need to invest more into their sex appeal to women?I try not to give the the benefit of the doubt on how much they know about women’s grooming and the effort we put in. Things like plastic surgery etc is the norm. These guys are always joking about ‘fAKe tIdDys’ and taking women swimming on the first date. They know how much we do because of societal standards. They know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 10:37 PM |
| 19 | I thought this one was a little ridiculous. Some women aren't even healed at the two month markWow called his own newborn a cockblocker ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 11:06 AM |
| 25 | This sub has made me cry. I've wasted so much time and love. Did I (29F) lose a cheating (with 18F) narcissistic LVM (30M) or a HVM that met me as a Becky, treated me as a Dreamgirl but wanted to get rid of me due to my Beckiness again?This guy is a pedo and a cheater. Girl get some self respect it’s free. Read the handbook and look in the mirror. You have no respect or self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:25 AM |
| -1 | Where is the line between desire for growth and acceptance of self?I think you’re really wordy and looking for validation and brownie points from women. I don’t know why you’re asking really obvious questions. Edit: you’re faux intelligence is showing. Don’t over complicate bettering yourself with your ego and overthinking. | /r/askFDS | 01/04/20 12:40 PM |
| 3 | Why do some men find it OK to raise their voice during moments that could really just be discussion?Hahaha I hope you liked it 😂💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:54 AM |
| 7 | Men KNOW when they do something wrong! Don’t give them the benefit of the doubt!The biggest sob stories I’ve ever heard in my life were from men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 06:22 AM |
| 2 | What to do when your bestie is a pickmeishaThanks! This sounds really mature. I feel as though I’ll have to follow this routine for a while for some friends anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 05:50 AM |
| 3 | So I tend to be a pickmeisha. I’m not proud of it and I’m working on improving. This guy showed me why I need to work on my independence. I turned down a date because the pandemic & then quickly got sick after. Here’s how he reacted after finally asking how I’m doing (two weeks later)Big insecure dickface using your sickness as a way to make it about himself. Emotional vampire alert | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 05:48 AM |
| 21 | Why do some men find it OK to raise their voice during moments that could really just be discussion?Cave men idiots with a -0 IQ go to this. Emotional intelligence doesn’t exist for this men. ‘Ogga booga, my peepee is iMpOrTaNT.’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 05:43 AM |
| 13 | Only 6 months of dating and he proposed. Con used whether or not to say yes but I actually l**e him.6 months is not a long time. Be careful that he doesn’t bait and switch on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 05:31 AM |
| -2 | Where is the line between desire for growth and acceptance of self?This is so wordy. Pay down your debt and work on your immediate life issues, maybe get better work that can see you supporting yourself / get you moved out. Work on how you as a man and add value to your life and a woman’s life. There are books and podcasts that can help you do this, I refuse to believe it’s as hard as you’re making it out to be. | /r/askFDS | 01/04/20 05:22 AM |
| 6 | I need advice about my boyfriendIs there anything more you can say about what’s going on? It’s hard to just go off of ‘short conversations.’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 05:12 AM |
| 17 | this is what happens when you "give the ugly/fat guy a chance". attraction is important in a relationship, you can't be with someone you're not attracted to. don't let anyone shame you for that.This | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 05:05 AM |
| 6 | Scrotes gonna Scrote😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:14 AM |
| 13 | Scrotes gonna ScroteSo did I .... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:06 AM |
| 3 | What to do when your bestie is a pickmeishaGreat advice. How did you distance yourself without making it too obvious to your friend? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 04:47 AM |
| 14 | sneak peak into the realities of a pickmeishaYeah this hurt my feelings too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 11:18 PM |
| 22 | Over two-thirds of men under 40 have slapped, choked, gagged or spat on partner during sex, BBC Scotland doc findsI feel very disturbed by this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 03:45 AM |
| 4 | Had to make thisThis killed me hahaha 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 10:13 PM |
| 8 | A compilation of reasons why I deleted OLD for good...Omg wtf keeping up with these lies. Of course he’d have a face like day old pudding 😂😂 from what I could tell from the first pic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 10:12 PM |
| 27 | I have a question for former pick me or cool girls. How do you come to terms with the things you used to do?I was never a full pickme but I had some pickme tendencies because of societal pressure. I think of things in this way now: Is this behaviour or choice benefiting me or the man in this situation? Even if it benefits the man or us both, in the long term what will that get me or leave me? Am I still being taken care of in the future emotionally / physically or just in the present moment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 02:58 AM |
| 38 | New here. Bf ghosted me after I said I love you for the first time. Seeking adviceThis bro is a piece of shit. Don’t take what he said to heart, he’s obviously a fuckhead. Act like he doesn’t exist and avoid him at all costs. How long were you together before you said you loved him? Did you vet him? Hugs for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 02:37 AM |
| 40 | For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not!Funny thing that, they’ve been coming for me in my dms on here. Insane, I hurt so many bros with a truth / joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 12:22 PM |
| 40 | When you put 60+ hours of prep into your bf's birthday, only for your toxic bf to whine about how nO oNe NeeDs hIm. I don't really understand why men do toxic shit like this and spoil things for themselves, when their girlfriends already pour their life and soul into their relationship.Don’t ever put that many hours in for a man sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 04:59 AM |
| 34 | For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not!Yes! They always get glassy eyed and small. They don’t want to work for anything or be any better than what they’ve been their whole lives. Losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 04:56 AM |
| 18 | For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not!Yesss thanks for summarising this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 04:55 AM |
| 28 | For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not!😂😂😂😂🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 04:53 AM |
| 25 | Just one of the hate messages I’ve gotten from my last post. Pot Belly Paul / No Hair Harry is MADDDDD 🤡🤡Hahahaha i remember that scene 😂😂😂 will use next time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 03:55 AM |
| 106 | For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not!MAN BOOB MICHAEL IM DECEASED | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 03:26 AM |
| 39 | People are having FaceTime first dates during quarantine.That’s a no for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 03:08 AM |
| 47 | Just one of the hate messages I’ve gotten from my last post. Pot Belly Paul / No Hair Harry is MADDDDD 🤡🤡I don’t want to change their minds. I want them to feel bad and stupid. Which for the most part they do because they can’t get mommys pat on the head lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 02:37 AM |
| 66 | Just one of the hate messages I’ve gotten from my last post. Pot Belly Paul / No Hair Harry is MADDDDD 🤡🤡Yeah it’s so annoying. Like they can lurk if they want but the messages omg. I shouldn’t reply but I want them to feel bad for being creeps. I’ve outright had to tell them to learn how to read in the past because they have not understood simple things I’ve written in a post. Of course, they refuse to edit themselves or admit they didn’t read my post properly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 02:31 AM |
| 7 | Men: "we never get matches for online dating! It's not fair for us!" Majority of women's matches:🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 02:20 AM |
| 81 | Just one of the hate messages I’ve gotten from my last post. Pot Belly Paul / No Hair Harry is MADDDDD 🤡🤡I had a couple of messages from guys who were 30 + looking for a cookie and sympathy. Soul suckers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 02:09 AM |
| 63 | For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not!😂😂😂😂 ahhhh haha 😂 yes. It feels so mean but right at the same time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 01:43 AM |
| 8 | How often should a guy make contact in the dating phase?This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 01:39 AM |
| 219 | For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not!Pot belly Paul 😂😂 and no hair Harry haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 01:14 AM |
| 54 | For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not!Hahahahah 😂😂😂🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 01:05 AM |
| 10 | I feel I missed out and will be shamed if I want the same things everyone else had.This guy wants to have sex to boost his ego lmao like tell me something new about men! | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Even in the midst of a pandemic, male depravity knows no bounds.This | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 02:50 PM |
| 30 | What are your favorite FDS Youtube channels? (And a rant)Chloe_ and Anna Bey. All about levelling up and hypergamy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 01:20 AM |
| 2 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.Oh Jesus is this real?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 07:01 AM |
| 14 | How quickly they change their tune. In the past I would have settled. Thank you FDS for teaching me to put my foot down!We were moving an original dinner date to another day. That’s why he suggested the weekend, I brought up possibly moving to the weekend before him after we see what happens with the virus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 06:25 AM |
| 25 | How quickly they change their tune. In the past I would have settled. Thank you FDS for teaching me to put my foot down!I’m building a roster of guys to bolster my technique and strategies. I’m not invested in anyone. I haven’t exactly said yes to the new date suggestions. I can handle myself 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 06:23 AM |
| 32 | How quickly they change their tune. In the past I would have settled. Thank you FDS for teaching me to put my foot down!Could be that too actually! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 04:59 AM |
| 58 | How quickly they change their tune. In the past I would have settled. Thank you FDS for teaching me to put my foot down!I haven’t replied yet but they’re shutting down the country because of the virus so I don’t think it’s safe for me to go out rn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 04:54 AM |
| 65 | How quickly they change their tune. In the past I would have settled. Thank you FDS for teaching me to put my foot down!Turned me off too sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 04:45 AM |
| 2 | I lIKe nATurAl gULzExactly right, makes me wanna 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 04:01 AM |
| 2 | I lIKe nATurAl gULzYes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 11:38 PM |
| 11 | I lIKe nATurAl gULzYes! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 12:56 PM |
| 16 | I lIKe nATurAl gULz😂😂sis exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 09:11 AM |
| 39 | I lIKe nATurAl gULzI don’t know who this is. Just found it on Instagram vs reality lol 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 09:09 AM |
| 20 | I lIKe nATurAl gULzI don’t know. Just found it on Instagram vs reality lol 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 09:09 AM |
| 4 | My friend’s bf (both 34) messaged me on tinder while she was overseas at a funeral. He didn’t recognise me.I’m just waiting for him to fuck up again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 08:17 AM |
| 11 | My friend’s bf (both 34) messaged me on tinder while she was overseas at a funeral. He didn’t recognise me.I actually want to mind my own business right now because this whole thing has been taxing. Feels like a high school drama 🎭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 03:58 AM |
| 10 | My friend’s bf (both 34) messaged me on tinder while she was overseas at a funeral. He didn’t recognise me.That’s well and truly messed up wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 03:17 AM |
| 4 | My friend’s bf (both 34) messaged me on tinder while she was overseas at a funeral. He didn’t recognise me.Ok I understand loud and clear as to what I should do. She can be really dramatic, I don’t want a scenario where I become the bad guy. Even thought I have photographic proof (screen shots) and sent it to her. I guess delusions can take some women far. I’ll keep my trap shut, I’m such a vocal person though. So frustrating! Thanks again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 12:52 AM |
| 8 | My friend’s bf (both 34) messaged me on tinder while she was overseas at a funeral. He didn’t recognise me.Thank you very much. This is what I needed to understand. She has definitely felt as though loneliness was killing her. Is there anything else I should take into consideration? Edit: extra sentence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 12:30 AM |
| 15 | My friend’s bf (both 34) messaged me on tinder while she was overseas at a funeral. He didn’t recognise me.Can you please elaborate what I should expect further? I’m trying to prepare myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 11:38 PM |
| 6 | My friend’s bf (both 34) messaged me on tinder while she was overseas at a funeral. He didn’t recognise me.I was blind swiping in Jan, even my friend was blind swiping for me. I had no idea we matched because I don’t speak to my matches. He only spoke to me a couple days ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.I think if you understood then you would not be getting the response that you are. You’re acting like a reddit martyr and pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:56 PM |
| 11 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.You can try having a mature conversation and understand why this sub does not support the commercial porn industry instead of slinging names around. You’re not edgy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:50 PM |
| 8 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.You’re really ready to die on this hill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:40 PM |
| 33 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.You’re really missing the point but proving the poster right at the same time lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: Male sexual attention is not a compliment, and you should not make receiving it a priority.The McChicken line haha sis 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:42 AM |
| 6 | Seen this on Facebook, so many butthurt comments "Advice on marriage written in a pamphlet by a suffragette in 1918. It is currently on display at the Pontypridd Museum in Wales, 1918"I came here to say this hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:17 AM |
| 8 | Dating over thirty sub: women should do all the work because mEN DONT kN0w wHaT thEY R d0ingI’ve had the exact same experience more than one time. You’re right, If they want you - you’ll know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:14 PM |
| 6 | Dating over thirty sub: women should do all the work because mEN DONT kN0w wHaT thEY R d0ingYessss sis preach it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:13 PM |
| 8 | I’ve never felt protected by a man before in my entire life. I would like that feeling of being provided for and protected. Anyone else feeling the same?That’s fucked up, I’m so sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 01:35 AM |
| 77 | Dating over thirty sub: women should do all the work because mEN DONT kN0w wHaT thEY R d0ingAlso this comment about not playing games like sis men are always playing games with you even if you’re ‘friends’ with them! 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 10:50 PM |
| 190 | Dating over thirty sub: women should do all the work because mEN DONT kN0w wHaT thEY R d0ingFYI asking men out has never worked for me. They all ended up being clowns who thought they were better than me or easy lay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 10:48 PM |
| 25 | Men: You get what you giveLove your reddit name haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 10:39 PM |
| 6 | Lazy communication from OLD. Left on read.I out right say I hate questions like that because they’re too general and not mention boring. What are your hobbies? Idk reading, tv - please not another question like that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 10:24 PM |
| 2 | I’ve never felt protected by a man before in my entire life. I would like that feeling of being provided for and protected. Anyone else feeling the same?Yeah it would be nice for someone to be in your corner for once! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 10:22 PM |
| 12 | I’ve never felt protected by a man before in my entire life. I would like that feeling of being provided for and protected. Anyone else feeling the same?Yep, physical attraction goes bye bye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 10:18 PM |
| 12 | I’ve never felt protected by a man before in my entire life. I would like that feeling of being provided for and protected. Anyone else feeling the same?Thanks for saying this Radical, people take the protection as only meaning physical or a fight scenario when I also mean the other stuff you mentioned in regards to it. Fuck it would be nice to have a partner who had my back or was in my corner in rough patches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Another profile outing a LVM on Tinder. Sisters warning sisters 👯♀️Don’t be a reddit martyr. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Another profile outing a LVM on Tinder. Sisters warning sisters 👯♀️I don’t think anyone is offended. Other people have been replying respectfully. Because they don’t agree with you doesn’t mean it’s hostile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 11:03 PM |
| 4 | Another profile outing a LVM on Tinder. Sisters warning sisters 👯♀️The fate of women of colour in the hands of white men who have warped ideas about their culture and the vulnerabilities is an everyday reality for those who live in countries as minorities. I’ve seen plenty of white women be treated much better than minority women. Hell minority women even get shit for having ‘weird’ names. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:14 PM |
| 12 | I met a fashion model but doubting on his sexualityGay or not, this guy sounds like a creep who is looking for women from other ethnicities for notches on his belt. If he’s openly saying to you he knows minority women are easy to exploit and knows that. He’ll definitely try to do the same to you. Looks are very deceiving. Look at his actions and words right now. NO MAN can understand the exploitation that women of colour go through! They only know the weaknesses of women of colour and exploit that. Trust your gut. This guys probably has all mann… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 09:24 AM |
| 34 | Watch out for these greasy men, ladiesThis is exactly how the everyday man thinks. You see it everywhere! Dating younger women is a tactic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:48 AM |
| 0 | Got asked to a date tomorrow night? Should I accept?Dinner should be offered by the man to justify your time too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:38 AM |
| 8 | What are the categories to work on when Leveling up ? Plus possible update ?Looks good to me! Maybe social / travel can be added once you’ve got a handle on the rest but you’ve summarised you’re goals well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 01:13 AM |
| 12 | Blocked!!Damn! Well next time try and only do your hair / make up if he’s 100% confirmed he will be at the x place at x time. I don’t bother lifting a finger to get ready for a date until such time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Got asked to a date tomorrow night? Should I accept?I’d go but keep the date very short. See the show, have dinner and then leave ASAP. That way it leaves it open to him making another move to plan a date about you and not just a show + you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 01:08 AM |
| 183 | Another profile outing a LVM on Tinder. Sisters warning sisters 👯♀️I’d like to note that a lot of women who are a minority in another country have to put up with misogyny of dudes who wanna fuck you because you’re ‘exotic’ or ‘different.’ I want to put it out there that these men know how to LIE to get their way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 01:07 AM |
| 21 | I don’t think I have to explainIs this real? Omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 10:17 AM |
| 32 | Men: You don’t need constant positive reinforcement or attention for doing minor chores. Just do them and shut up like every other adult woman has to do without flattery or compliment. Stop being man-children, step up and do your share.A lot of the time they use work as an excuse but of course any work a woman does away from the home is BS even though it’s paying half the mortgage / food / car payments etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 04:13 AM |
| 22 | How to become more datable and lovable?? For ugly girls?? Tired of the 100th rejectionDon’t let any man make you feel ugly! You are the prize, have you read through the materials in the side bar? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 04:11 AM |
| 9 | This is good... I think?Comparing any man to a shitty ex is going to make them look good. Don’t put any man on a pedestal just yet. Let the dust settle and ink dry on those divorce papers. We rarely do know anyone in a honeymoon period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 04:10 AM |
| 3 | A friend asked me what I’m looking for in a partner...Are my expectations really that unreasonable??I’ve had this same exact conversation with a couple of my friends (both women) and it’s the same type of response. They do some and projection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 04:02 AM |
| 36 | 3 degrees of separation. He's been reported.Omg the fire juggling wasn’t even the worst part lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:59 AM |
| 40 | Men: You don’t need constant positive reinforcement or attention for doing minor chores. Just do them and shut up like every other adult woman has to do without flattery or compliment. Stop being man-children, step up and do your share.I legit almost spat out my tea lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:11 AM |
| 29 | Men: You don’t need constant positive reinforcement or attention for doing minor chores. Just do them and shut up like every other adult woman has to do without flattery or compliment. Stop being man-children, step up and do your share.Same here. My vagina auto-dries lol. They will do anything to keep a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:32 AM |
| 33 | Men: You don’t need constant positive reinforcement or attention for doing minor chores. Just do them and shut up like every other adult woman has to do without flattery or compliment. Stop being man-children, step up and do your share.Yes! Some women don’t think it’s worth the battle and will just do it to avoid talking to their man child | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:37 AM |
| 82 | Men: You don’t need constant positive reinforcement or attention for doing minor chores. Just do them and shut up like every other adult woman has to do without flattery or compliment. Stop being man-children, step up and do your share.Same with washing their asses lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 11:33 PM |
| 6 | Do highly accomplished women have trouble finding a life partner?This | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 03:16 AM |
| 9 | Libfems promote female empowerment by *checks notes* censoring a female content creator #SoundsAboutRight #NeverTrustALibfem #SchoolOfAffluence #IStandWithAnnaBeyShe used licensed music in the video that was not paid for. I loved the video myself but I think she released it too quickly without crossing her t and dotting her i. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 01:25 AM |
| 13 | What are critical expectations to set early on? E.g. The most high value way to respond when a man suggests a coffee date instead of a real date etc.I live by this too! You’ve articulated it really well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 12:43 AM |
| 22 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)Hahahaha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 10:40 PM |
| 20 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)Sounds like he has a tiny peen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 10:40 PM |
| 4 | "Good luck finding a guy like that!": Do NOT fall for the LVM Cope.Also show me where I was ‘demonising’ these women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:56 AM |
| 6 | "Good luck finding a guy like that!": Do NOT fall for the LVM Cope.This sub is for venting and talking about these issues. A lot of people project and it’s not cool. Well meaning or not. I feel as though your on the side of standard shaming because it’s well meaning, again not ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:55 AM |
| 12 | What stupid things did y'all do for a man?I made him breakfast for our second date. I will NEVER cook for a man ever again. Not unless we’re married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:36 AM |
| 2 | CringeOh what trash! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:33 AM |
| 9 | "Good luck finding a guy like that!": Do NOT fall for the LVM Cope.A lot of the time it’s projection, they might not know they’re doing it which it fair but at the same time it’s not nice of them to shame my standards or tell me I’m never going to find it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:26 AM |
| 6 | I left a HVM, did I make a terrible mistake?He’s probably using his stupid bag of non-communal tricks on her too. Just know you’re better off without him. A man should be a man on his own, he isn’t a project. Next time you date he should tick all your boxes and not be a man waiting on a woman to make him better. Cut your losses and make a new start. You will find someone 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 10:47 PM |
| 15 | Ladies and ladies, I present to you my married friend [abridged version]Doesn’t that make you shake with anger? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 10:23 PM |
| 36 | Ladies and ladies, I present to you my married friend [abridged version]This is so scary and creepy, I feel so grossed out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 10:19 PM |
| 111 | "Good luck finding a guy like that!": Do NOT fall for the LVM Cope.Thanks for posting this. I’ve found that a lot more women buy into this way of thinking, especially those with LVM boyfriends. I’m experiencing this with friends right now. Otherwise lovely women who tell me I’m never going to find what I’m looking for or even worse the line: ‘I don’t know what you expect from these men!’ Ummm human decency, reciprocation, actual effort and love? Nah sis, apparently that’s too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 10:18 PM |
| 4 | Steven Spielberg’s daughter becomes a porn star to cope with childhood sexual abuse. Are we supposed to pretend this is “feminist and empowering” so we’re not called “whorephobic” by the Erin Taylor types or is FDS right to tell her to immediately cut that shit out and go see a therapist?Her parents don’t give a fuck about her omg the photos were horribly heart breaking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 05:51 AM |
| 7 | The "peak" for women really is in our youth. But it's not a peak in achievement, happiness or looks. It's a peak in exploitation and being used.Thank you for sharing your story. You’re really brave. I want to also give gratitude about all the myths you’ve dispelled about dating, marriage, biological clocks and older men too. I feel really empowered. Good luck to you🙏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 01:41 AM |
| 32 | Ladies we are almost 3 months into 2020! Have we all dropped that pick-me mentality yet?!I have and I’m focusing more on how a guy can add value to my life which is very exciting / liberating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:18 AM |
| 13 | Oh baby! 👶🤣😂🙃😂 this is so true it hurts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 12:42 AM |
| 16 | Life Hack: Ladies, want to avoid being beaten, raped, abused and murdered by your significant other? I have the solution for you! Just date Nice Guys!I don’t know whether to cry, laugh, or say AMEN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 12:21 AM |
| 8 | Any idiot can make dinner plansYou summed it up! Apparently they don’t think at all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 11:19 AM |
| 56 | Any idiot can make dinner plansYes sis, adding value to my life is what I’m looking out for more now I found this sub. However, last week I had a guy ask me out to dinner and when I said if he could make reservations, he said that was ‘too formal’. He wanted to drag me around on foot to look for a dinner spot after work... sis I just unmatched immediately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 08:41 AM |
| 1 | YouTube channel Giving Queen AdviceI love her advice! Her clothing suggestions on what to avoid can be a hit and miss though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 1 | YouTube channel Giving Queen AdviceWatched this this other day and I’m sorry to say that these types of men are like 80% of the male population. Don’t fall for the 50/50 scam! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 23 | Men won’t think twice about lying to you.This is some scary shit that keeps me from dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:15 AM |
| 13 | LVM on Tinder be like:Ahhhhhhhhhhhh!!!! I love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:53 AM |
| 5 | LVM on Tinder be like:I was going too! But then I felt like I didn’t have a leg to stand on because it was most the bio than his profile photos. They seems to only look to see if the photos are appropriate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:50 AM |
| 20 | LVM on Tinder be like:Yeah, I’ve been looking up the feminine arts for a few months. I’m learning a lot about using my looks and femininity to my advantage. I wish I’d known sooner lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:40 AM |
| 27 | LVM on Tinder be like:I guess so? I could only see this attracting Pickmeisha’s though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:32 AM |
| 33 | LVM on Tinder be like:All he had to show were the arm muscles he gained from constant masturbation 😂🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:32 AM |
| 67 | LVM on Tinder be like:I screamed 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:08 AM |
| 9 | Why are men so unattractive (cough cough UGLY) in comparison to women on dating appsHahaha wild | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:48 AM |
| 41 | How would y’all respond to this? I’ve only met him once before.Real fuckboy style haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:16 AM |
| 80 | How would y’all respond to this? I’ve only met him once before.Yeah exactly instead he went full insecure fuckboy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:14 AM |
| 56 | How would y’all respond to this? I’ve only met him once before.Block this guys is an insecure dweeb who wants to be chased. What a fuckboy. He’s trying to manipulate you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:14 AM |
| 27 | Started from the bottom now we here. (FDS TRAFFIC STATS)This is also true haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 11:29 PM |
| 77 | Started from the bottom now we here. (FDS TRAFFIC STATS)Just goes to show that FDS is needed and resonates with a lot of people. It couldn’t just be all haters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 11:16 PM |
| 15 | The Pickmes would say “That’s so sweet! He wants to better himself for me!”😂🤡 oh my I bet she can’t wait | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 09:44 PM |
| 4 | When a fuckboy thinks he’s playing you but he’s really playing himself 🤡😂🤡Next time I’ll look up the exact joke rules. Thank you so much. If only I’d known about the proper jokes to make 🙏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 09:41 PM |
| 3 | When a fuckboy thinks he’s playing you but he’s really playing himself 🤡😂🤡It’s a joke 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 08:56 PM |
| 3 | 37M Virgin finally gets a GF (38F) after being rejected for being unattractive his whole life. Thinks he “deserves better” after she asks him to wait for sex. FRIENDLY REMINDER TO STOP GIVING SUBPAR LVM MEN CHANCES!!That’s so fucking disgusting. I just ... can’t. Sex is meant to be a loving thing. Not something where you violate someone geez 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 01:35 PM |
| 2 | I wish men would make an effort to be more outwardly flirty, charming and playful without being SEXUAL.Sis most of them don’t even have the hair to work with 😂😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 01:34 PM |
| 18 | He is busy with workFound the pickmeisha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 07:20 AM |
| 4 | 37M Virgin finally gets a GF (38F) after being rejected for being unattractive his whole life. Thinks he “deserves better” after she asks him to wait for sex. FRIENDLY REMINDER TO STOP GIVING SUBPAR LVM MEN CHANCES!!What makes men like this I mean seriously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 04:32 AM |
| 24 | That made me lol 😂 They are all the same no matter what language they speak. *Not my messages, got it elsewhere😂😂😂 bless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 01:25 AM |
| 19 | giorgio looks really young and radiant for 25yo with this gray beard and all those wrinklesHahahahahahahaha😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 11:40 PM |
| 20 | giorgio looks really young and radiant for 25yo with this gray beard and all those wrinklesHaha he’s had one heck of a hard life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 11:40 PM |
| 20 | I wish men would make an effort to be more outwardly flirty, charming and playful without being SEXUAL.Omg that last sentence was epic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 11:56 AM |
| 7 | I wish men would make an effort to be more outwardly flirty, charming and playful without being SEXUAL.Haha even if they do make themselves appealing they’re suspiciously playing the game | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:57 AM |
| 23 | I wish men would make an effort to be more outwardly flirty, charming and playful without being SEXUAL.Omg no not cargo shorts. My vagina says no 🙅🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:56 AM |
| 21 | Need some advice. Ya girl is lost. Complicated FWB situation.3 fucks later he doesn’t care about you. This is what men are like if they have sex out of a committed relationship. Block him. Next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 04:03 AM |
| 140 | 37M Virgin finally gets a GF (38F) after being rejected for being unattractive his whole life. Thinks he “deserves better” after she asks him to wait for sex. FRIENDLY REMINDER TO STOP GIVING SUBPAR LVM MEN CHANCES!!Another confirmation as to why you never tell any guy how many men you’ve slept with. This loser is obsessed with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:58 AM |
| 5 | "No one is going to put up with my son" -- straight from the horse's mouth.Paprika flavoured lays, sis I’m dying hahahahaa | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:43 AM |
| 8 | UncertainWhy are you uncertain? You’re 44 you’ll find someone else who’s ass doesn’t stink sis. Dump his ass 2020! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 12:38 AM |
| 17 | I need to rant a little bitIt’s because men seriously just see women as sex dolls and objects 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:14 AM |
| 36 | Almost Half Of Young Guys Don’t Feel Confident Enough To Date IRL, Study FindsWhat a bunch of precious losers? What happened to all the real men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:06 AM |
| 14 | A Whole Truckload of Red Flags: Age gap, "surprise" pregnancy, marriage turns into dead bedroom because now 44 year-old man obsessed with jailbait porn and doesn't want wifeThey both seem LV people to me. What a mess that relationship is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:05 AM |
| 52 | Comedy hour: what is the most ridiculous thing a LVM has ever told you about the dating pool?I’ve definitely heard the first one before. This is exactly how ‘nice guys’ act and talk... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 05:39 AM |
| 16 | So, here's the thing....I'm really tempted to start trolling these trash pilesIs this guy fucked in the head. Like he’s acting as though his parents are going away on the weekend so he’s ready for his friends to come and party lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:27 AM |
| 17 | Ladies, what do you expect in an engagement ring?For me, I’m particular, if I get proposed too - I’d want to choose. It would be easy for him to get it wrong. I don’t care too much about carats but it has to look like the one in my head and he should be prepared to pay! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Observation: is there any man out there without a beard or neck / hand tattoos?Good luck to him finding a job haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Observation: is there any man out there without a beard or neck / hand tattoos?What a fuck head | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:23 AM |
| 3 | Live laugh love ... or not 😂🤡Hahaha my friends have a joke and it’s ‘live laugh lube’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 10:26 AM |
| 85 | So disappointed.Hi friend, just read this whole thing and I’m just heart broken for you. A couple things I wanted to get out of the way: You did the right thing by looking in his phone. If you didn’t imagine what kind of hell or heart break you’d be living with in a committed relationship. Better now than later. Don’t ever let anyone make you feel bad for snooping! I’ve had a friend find a guy who had a second phone in a gym bag which freaked her the fuck out. You’re not alone with thinking that men might be to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 08:17 AM |
| 18 | Why I'm not dating broke guys or guys who don't want to pay for dates.Sis I’m in the same boat just recently. I ain’t paying for shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:04 AM |
| 9 | How do you know if he’s consciously trying to make you jealous?Has to do with the context of the situation. If you know he’s trying to make you jealous then you know he’s conscious of the head games he can or will continue to play with women in his life. I think jealousy he’s trying to inspire in any woman is LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 08:20 AM |
| 24 | How do you know if he’s consciously trying to make you jealous?Any man trying to make you jealous is a LVM and not a gentleman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 08:12 AM |
| 15 | How do I find a man in his late forties to sixty who still has an open mind/heart and actually likes women?There’s also this if you haven’t seen it already https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ewyr26/fds_rules_for_black_girls/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 08:11 AM |
| 20 | How do I find a man in his late forties to sixty who still has an open mind/heart and actually likes women?I don’t have much to add but Chloe_ on YouTube is a black woman who focuses on hypergamy for women.. especial black women. She gives great advice on what you should be doing to level up or to improve feminine energy. I’ve been watching it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 08:10 AM |
| 94 | Things LVM SayyOu wOMEn wANTEd eqUality haHa - every LVM and couch creature | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 08:06 AM |
| 55 | d0n’T cATCh FeELiNGs bEcAUSe TRUsT mE MY diCK iS mAGIcaL 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡Hahahaha sis I need a mop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 11:24 AM |
| 58 | Dibs on this KINGOh what a keeper 😘🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 10:44 AM |
| 34 | THE AUDACITY 🤣 my friend just sent this to meTheir ratings based by looks I think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 08:30 AM |
| 14 | THE AUDACITY 🤣 my friend just sent this to meOmg I’m so shocked ummmm what lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Seeing an older guy for a date tomorrow. What questions should I ask?Trust me I’m curious too! He seems open so I’ll as him and see how he reacts. Thanks sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Seeing an older guy for a date tomorrow. What questions should I ask?This is true! I forgot about the leaning back philosophy. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Accurate.Sounds like this guy was trying to rain on your parade dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:01 AM |
| 6 | Accurate.Tell her to dump his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Don’t boost a LVM’s egoWhat a fucking creep. Of course he talked about how they hate themselves like they think we care lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 09:25 PM |
| 81 | Accurate.I think they have a cure for that called FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:46 AM |
| 69 | Accurate.Sis this is biblical | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:45 AM |
| 45 | Accurate.I shivered 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:41 AM |
| 48 | Accurate.I used to have a casual guy like this last year but I never had sex with him. Damn you like hurt my own damn feelings haha 🤣 you’re right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 06:46 AM |
| 7 | Observation: is there any man out there without a beard or neck / hand tattoos?Yessss! I’m glad I’m not alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 06:06 AM |
| 24 | Observation: is there any man out there without a beard or neck / hand tattoos?Yes! I don’t like that failed and tired prison lumberjack look either. The second photo is what I’m into as well. Or just complete my clean shaven, hair on the head is a must. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 06:05 AM |
| 21 | Tonight in audacity...The movement of the dad bod is ‘hot’ has created this monster. So not sexy lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 04:47 AM |
| 2 | Observation: is there any man out there without a beard or neck / hand tattoos?Oh yeah no cargo shorts / pants and the early 2000s look of skinnies and super man shirts are so juvenile. Fortunately I don’t see much of that style anymore. I don’t know if there are a tonne of guys where I’m located since they all seem to have this look (especially with beards!). It’s just getting worse tbh. I like a particular look too, nothing majorly superficial but it just ceases to exist sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 04:30 AM |
| 17 | Tbh i haven't seen a lot of the first but being into games and cosplay attracts a ton of the secondOh yuck! Whatever you do, continue to ignore him. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:41 AM |
| 37 | Saw this total catches profile and had to shareONCE IN A LIFE OPPORTUNITY TO HURT MY EYES WITH YOUR POOR GRAMMAR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:27 AM |
| 25 | Tbh i haven't seen a lot of the first but being into games and cosplay attracts a ton of the secondHahahaha yeah those men who love anime so creepy but there are so many of them lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:26 AM |
| 24 | Saw my ex with a new girlHey sis, I’m sorry you had to see that and right after work too when you’re trying to unwind. I don’t have much to say other than just ride out the feelings and consider all the shit you won’t have to put up with anymore now he’s gone. It’s been two weeks so it’s ok to feel sad. Time and space is the only thing that can help now. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Also he’s likely looking for a rebound, men need feminine validation so he’s probably just going out with anyone who will have him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:00 AM |
| 22 | My friend sent me this lol, men are fully aware they want us to settleThis has to be a joke omgggggg😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 01:07 AM |
| 8 | Pick me logic 101: being in a relationship makes me better than the other girls- even if I’m being degraded!The IT analogy had be floored! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 01:03 AM |
| 20 | Pick me logic 101: being in a relationship makes me better than the other girls- even if I’m being degraded!It’s interesting you say that because my friend and I kind of joke about some our friends who seemingly are in a ‘couples club’. They kind of forget about us singles or they can look at us differently because we are single. Or they might hang out with other couples or only hang out with us singles as a couple. I didn’t buy in the ‘couples club’ label until my friend explained it. Your comment has helped me understand it more. I can tell sometimes I’m being pitied by the women in those couples id… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 12:56 AM |
| 18 | The level of pick me is over 9000The bar is so low omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:58 PM |
| 19 | The level of pick me is over 9000I feel so embarrassed for her. Girl get some self respect, it’s free! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:57 PM |
| 15 | Remember ladiesSometimes I do, do this though. I’ll have little conversations about being nicer to my self and what I’m having for dinner or whatever in my head but that’s because I try to be my own best friend. Otherwise, I’d be to hard on myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:55 PM |
| 68 | Reminder that 52% of men over 40 have erectile dysfunctionI didn’t know that ED was such a big issue amongst men until I came to this sub. These men hit the wall earlier than women, the wall starts in their pants 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:02 PM |
| 55 | 😂😂 she got him goodWhat if hot oil splashed on your skin?😂😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:01 PM |
| 2 | She waited 9 years for this... it’s not so much the diamond size, it’s more the fact that it obviously doesn’t even fit properly!I spat out my drink hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 09:55 PM |
| 5 | Don’t you dare put the letters back...This is almost too good of a meme 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:50 AM |
| 11 | Damn, men are lying on tinderMy philosophy is if a guy can’t post photos of himself or message your phone with them, then straight up block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:34 AM |
| 16 | Damn, men are lying on tinderSis this happened to me two days ago https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/eyo8ev/so_he_waited_4_days_to_tell_me_hed_gained_like_40/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Men lie about their looks so much lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:34 AM |
| 33 | She waited 9 years for this... it’s not so much the diamond size, it’s more the fact that it obviously doesn’t even fit properly!If I got this after 9 years I’d be fuming lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 04:01 AM |
| 5 | It takes 7 months for men to proposeThis is dangerous advice and does not look at nuances. Examples: Someone could be love bombing you only to trap you in a marriage to control and abuse you. How can your truly know someone after 7 months? Especially if you haven’t lived with them? What if you’re both 18 and you’re not looking for marriage but instead a secure relationship where you can safely be intimate without having ONS and risky sex. Does that show good judgement if a man proposed after 7 months? Or does that show impulsivity… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Found the elusive cheater profile made by a woman on tinderGuys like this always think they’re hot shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 08:43 PM |
| 4 | What are some ways to find more wealthy HVM's?Anna is the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 11:23 AM |
| 15 | Honestly, I wouldn’t mind something semi casual with a handsome, polite fellow, but how do men not get that they’d get laid more if they cut this shit? Next!Next time send them to the wrong address lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 05:32 AM |
| 13 | Important note on Pickmeisha’sAccurate! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 05:28 AM |
| 5 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowMen like this know exactly what they’re doing. Stop making excuses it’s disgusting. Lying and being a bad liar isn’t complex for LVM it’s easy, it’s a way of life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 02:40 AM |
| 2 | ‘Make me feel better about not trying’ Starter PackI actually screamed idnsurvival haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 01:50 AM |
| 5 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowIt was a massive excuse to cover up a deliberate lie. Even if it’s by omission it’s still lying. He claimed because he was a single male he didn’t have time to update his photos at first and then when I pulled him up on that he went right to his ex. Not ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 11:53 PM |
| 35 | ‘Make me feel better about not trying’ Starter PackMen should be shamed the same way women are about their looks. That survey omg what bs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:43 PM |
| 5 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowFirst dates are always nerve wracking because you’re hoping the person who walks through the door to meet you looks like what they said. I feel pity more than bad. I’ve struggled my whole life and put my life together, he can do it without blaming his ex for why his most recent photos aren’t up. Like get a life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:33 PM |
| 47 | Posted in r/seductionThis guy is definitely a virgin, I was banned from the sub for 5 days because I was giving out real advice lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:24 PM |
| 6 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrow29 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:12 PM |
| 7 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowDon’t guys have shame I don’t get it🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:12 PM |
| 5 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowA great saying ‘most men aren’t playing with a full deck’ and sis it’s getting more and more transparent. They don’t have time to write anything in their bio and when they do they’re valid and idiotic. The worst is ‘ask me.’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:11 PM |
| 3 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowNo one would swipe if they saw the after photo for sure 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:01 PM |
| 3 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowI screamed 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:57 PM |
| 5 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowYes exactly! I’m still shook and grossed out. He’s 29. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:56 PM |
| 12 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowLike what do they think? They’re gonna wow us with their personality? Men don’t have that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:55 PM |
| 12 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowAlso hellllloooo ms_tilly 👋🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 02:08 PM |
| 44 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowHe’s in the trash heap. I don’t understand what the fuck his gf had to do with photos of himself? Also if I’d known he was rebounding I would not have agreed to the date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 02:07 PM |
| 63 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowAnd I screamed 😂 haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 11:24 AM |
| 126 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowAlso I’m aware I shouldn’t have said anything at all lol I just felt heated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:58 AM |
| 271 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowHahahahaha! Luckily I didn’t write it in my diary. I told him off and told him I was doing him a favour by telling him to be honest to women next time, how would he like it if I deceived him and turned up looking bigger? He felt really bad. I got so angry by the end, guy was deluded as fuck. He said ‘all the recent photos of me were taken by my ex and I feel uncomfortable uploading those.’ I ripped into him saying that no chick gives a fuck about his ex sob stories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:56 AM |
| 141 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowHE SAYS IT LIKE ITS NOTHING BUT DUDE YOU GREW A BEER BELLY BETWEEN PHOTOS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:48 AM |
| 214 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowI’m a single woman and I have uploaded honest photos of me, friends have crossed checked that I look like those photos too. How would he like it if I turned up 40 pounds heavier? If the roles were reversed he’d be recoiling in disgust. I’m so turned off by men with beer bellies. He kept making excuses after I told him that wasn’t cool but he sent me a photo before the date of his beard (face only). I asked why he couldn’t have been honest then? Anyway, he felt bad. I blocked this 🤡. I just can’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:46 AM |
| 18 | This screenshot isn’t mine but I thought of this place when I saw it😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 04:01 AM |
| 12 | Girlfriends just do not get it!Thank you! You articulated it really well, I thought this could be the case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 02:06 AM |
| 7 | Girlfriends just do not get it!I didn’t share certain things to be ‘agreed with’. I was talking to friends who I consider close and was speaking to them candidly but not about absolutely everything just certain standards. They were in context at the time and totally conversational. I just didn’t like the pickme projection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 01:56 AM |
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