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| 5 | The goal of the Red Pill isn’t to wake everyone upIt's neither, those who are ripping women are in the early stages of accepting the concepts talked about. The idea is that overtime, you go from ripping women, to understanding why they do what they do (hypergamy, etc). Once you accept their nature, you realize that part of being a high value male involves doing that. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/20 11:41 AM |
| 3 | Frame: You can't lose what you never had.Good post, I thought up of an analogy with some pointers taken from you... Frame is a foundation made by your beliefs, values, worldview, ethics, sense of self When you attempt things (especially for the first time), it is like climbing a ladder (performing a task) with the desired result at the top and the floor being your foundation. Without a strong frame, it is as if the floor is hard concrete, and if you fail at your task, you will fall and hit the ground and go splat and get hurt. This is … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/20 11:49 AM |
| 4 | Female nature.Women are all about procuring as much resources as possible. They don't care that you are being kind to them, taking care of her and whatever spawn she managed to have with another man. All she wants is security and stability when her responsibility increases (having a kid). Like they say, men love women like women love children like children love puppies. She will never love you like she loves her child and will do anything to secure their success, even if that means draining every penny a man … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/20 02:00 PM |
| 11 | Creating your frame, it starts with your thoughtsThere is truth to this but to a degree. Cognitive behavioral treatment is part of this but it is most effective when you use it on aspects within your own control. Rather than thinking “all women love me” which sure you can feel, but can’t really control (as in you really can’t control whether all women love you) by understanding what women respond to and maximizing that through reinforcing thoughts, that is when you really get somewhere. An example would be losing weight, running on a treadmill… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/20 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Sub communication: the evolutionary psychology behind it and 5 ways guys in relationships FAIL at itNow THIS is a great breakdown on sexual strategy. These concepts have been discussed in this sub but this post has eloquently put them together in a concise way that gets the point across well | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/20 01:40 PM |
| 9 | You Cannot Control HerI agree, she wants to be controlled by you but if someone with higher value comes along, then all of a sudden she wants that person to take control since he represents more security, leadership, value, etc than you do. Life is all about what you can control vs what you can't and recognizing that sometimes you can make all the right moves and still lose. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/20 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Value Ladder TheoryShe probably gave him some mind blowing sex that was enough to get him to commit quickly. Seems like she also branch swings as well, typical of a woman | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/20 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Value Ladder TheoryWhat makes a man one who DHV is relative to a woman. In her case it might’ve been the fact that you didn’t put up with her shit so she sought after someone who would and would give her resources while she’s at it. I wouldn’t doubt it if she wasn’t fucking only him | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/20 09:18 PM |
| 5 | Value Ladder TheoryI address that in this paragraph: "You may DHV but over time you could slip into the Indifference tier simply because you aren’t stimulating her. You may be getting lazy, complacent, not providing push/pull. This is a dangerous place because another man who comes along may be stimulating in a variety of ways and she could “trade up,” simply because you weren’t doing your part to maintain the relationship." Her BF simply not being there can be attributed to her not being stimulated by him, then s… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/20 08:02 PM |
| 7 | Value Ladder TheoryTRP is a place to discuss sexual strategy, is it not? I'm sure when being strategic, nuance and rationalization is required. Women definitely run on emotion, but what turns that emotion into action, whether it is them being attracted to you and having sex with you vs them not wanting anything to do with you at all is something that needs expansion on. It's not simply about emotion. All I am putting out there is a theory, like it says in the title. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/20 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Value Ladder TheoryBecause they provide stimulation that errs on the side of danger. Despite a woman wanting comfort and stability, she also wants to feel. What greater feeling is there than one that makes you feel like your in danger? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/20 05:54 PM |
| 21 | My Asian ParentsThe issue here is the measure of risk errs heavily on the side of marriage failing. Plus, times are different now than they were for our parents, aunts/uncles, and especially grandparents. Marriage is a social construct, designed to create a stable family unit. Women have more opportunities than ever, they don't really NEED a man aside from having kids and plenty of single women go through surrogates. Also, the government tends to work in women's favor more in court than men's. The female nature… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/20 10:35 AM |
| 8 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouPickup is definitely a numbers game but not getting caught up in rejection is a mental game. It's about understanding who you are and how comfortable you are with yourself instead of directing those rejections into a box that is labeled "this is who you are." Not everyone will like you, not everyone will want to date you, same as how everyone will not want to be your friend like you mentioned above. But you have to know who you are first, and what YOU are looking for, not simply I am looking for… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/20 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Don't Hate, AppreciateBy understanding and even appreciating women, you can actually better yourself. Think about what they want. They want the man who has the highest value ideally. That means that if you want to attract a woman, you must improve yourself. Hopefully in this process you begin to see that by improving yourself, FOR yourself (and not her mainly), you gain more fulfillment out of life. You understand that you were born into this world alone and will die alone. Her attractions and everything that comes w… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/20 10:45 AM |
| 12 | A stoic take on expectationThis is what covert contracts are all about. Let's translate this to ourselves. When we improve ourselves with day to day actions such as lifting, studying, etc, we are doing things within our control. We cannot improve ourselves with the MAIN goal being getting laid, which is something that is not in our control because there are two parties at play, yourself and a female. You cannot control how she feels about you. You only understand AWALT, "she isn't yours, its only your turn," and concepts … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/20 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Be The Best You Can Be...HypergamyThis goes back to the saying that “she was never yours, it’s just your turn.” Sure, if you want to compare how your value is to a billionaire’s, you can. But the chances of that opportunity happening, where whichever woman your with will jump to a billionaire, is slim. But if it does happen, don’t be surprised since that wasn’t under your control. The scope really depends on what you can control and what you can do. Life is unrelenting and brutal. You could hit the genetic lottery and bag 9-10/1… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/20 12:40 PM |
| 6 | Children's course 101Women communicate but covertly. They prefer to as they can better manipulate others and gather resources since they do not have the physical strength a man does. Men prefer to communicate overtly. This is why direct communication with women tends to not work and can even be seen as being in the woman's frame. For instance, say you want have sex with your SO but she isn't putting out since you've been giving her some attention. Through overt communication, you can directly tell her you want to ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/20 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Be The Best You Can Be...HypergamyAnd how is that unattainable for them? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/20 10:01 PM |
| 13 | Be The Best You Can Be...HypergamyControl what you can control. If you’re at your best (within your control) and she strays, that’s on her. If you aren’t at your best and she strays, that’s on you. And by best I mean demonstrating the highest value you can. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Be The Best You Can Be...HypergamyNo, the approach is different. Look up the differences | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/20 02:22 PM |
| 11 | Be The Best You Can Be...HypergamyThere isn’t an answer beyond that. That’s the way the world works. We are floating on a rock in space. An asteroid can hit us anytime and boom, we’re done. Life doesn’t care about how we feel or how we conduct our lives. That’s up to us and no one else. There also isn’t any guarantee of getting the byproducts of a life that is lived with high value. But it will at least increase your chances. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/20 12:58 PM |
| 105 | Accepting that Love is different for WomenCognitive Behavioral Therapy is great at changing the way you think about things because how you think affects how you feel. Sure, it's more than that but if you have a solid foundation and belief of what reality truly is, it helps you when you see and live the truths that it throws at you. You have to first accept that the emotions of a woman are elicited by the value a man demonstrates. Accept that all she wants to do is survive and procreate with the best man possible. At the time, it might b… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/20 10:22 PM |
| 114 | The market value of e-thots is crashing. Supply and demand crash course.It's a scam. They usually want payment up front via cash app and once they get it, you get blocked immediately. They take the money and run. Why do you think the prices are so low? A lot of e-thots do this and have absolutely no intention of meeting up with you at all. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/04/20 01:20 PM |
| 7 | Miley Cyrus goes to Twitter to publicly cope with her recent divorce of a marriage that lasted 9 months and shirk the responsibility of a promiscuous past.It's also the same reason she will cross back once she gets too old for pop | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/08/19 01:05 PM |
| 7 | A Psychology Grad Student's Experience with Vulnerability, Empathy, and AttractionDo you think some of this attraction also has to do with supply and demand? You displaying masculine characteristics in an environment that is sparse of it could lead to women being attracted in the same sense a gym full of guys see that one cardio bunny. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/18 11:37 AM |
| 5 | Why are you hated if you're not the guy who "just gets it"?It’s more than looks, it’s attitude. Sure, being good looking can get you to a certain point but in order to seal the deal you have to act a certain way. This is why you see stories of good looking guys still not able to have the kind of sexual relationship with women you would think they have because they aren’t assertive or dominant, they don’t act like a man should even though they can look the part. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 03:38 PM |
| 14 | Why are you hated if you're not the guy who "just gets it"?They want the real deal because it comes down to genetics. Just like men, women want to have sex, but they want it with the strongest male, the one who would help them create strong children, and genetics plays a huge role in that. Granted, things like condoms and birth control exist (thankfully) but the primal urge for a woman to fuck a strong male hasn’t changed. If she finds out that you had to “learn” how to be dominant and a leader instead of you naturally being one, she will get pissed and… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 01:38 PM |
| 29 | The Red Pill, families and having kidsThe fact that you have to mention #9 shows how misunderstood this sub can get from its readers. TRP is merely a toolbox to help you live your life. If you choose to get married, have kids, etc, there is always that risk of AWALT/Divorce, but it is a choice that YOU and you alone made. If you choose to not get married and not have kids, again, it is a choice that YOU and you alone made. Behind all this, the principles of TRP stand true and yes, marriage is life on hard mode but if you truly under… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/18 12:05 PM |
| 26 | Disney Allowed SJW Feminist Freaks To Kill Star WarsWomen consume media much more than men do, and they are driven by their emotions. By turning Star Wars into a "girl power" fest, they are appealing to a new fan base, one in which used to consider star wars to be for nerds, but is now an example of female empowerment. Funny how that example covers Rey's rise to a jedi with minimal training/effort on her part, almost as if she "deserved" to be one, vs. the training the male ones had to go thru. | /r/PussyPass | 11/01/18 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Turns out, my dad has a weak frame.How is the relationship between your parents? Does your mom "wear the pants?" If so, his weak frame may be because he is shifting the focus of his authority on you and not balancing it out on her. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/18 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Ways to trigger neurochemical high in girls?I wouldn't be surprised if you had to have a perfect storm of variables work in your favor to get this kind of performance from a woman. You see high SMV movie stars strike out with certain women and you see drug dealers get laid easily. Every woman is different to a degree however there are the few specific things that will send them over the edge (perhaps is the cut of your hair/beard, your height, facial features). Yes, high SMV, looks, demeanor, etc will win the day, but once you get to that… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 08:09 PM |
| 110 | Star Wars: The Last White MenRemember, women consume 80% of media. Also, remember, Star Wars used to be for nerds, but that all changed when Disney got its hands on it (perhaps even before as well). Companies like Disney make media and know its general audience, women and children, and dadbod/obese fathers who follow their every wife's whim, so, how do they make money? By pandering to society, by "empowering" women and showing how strong they can be, in their movies, which will cause good "feelz" but will never translate to… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 08:57 PM |
| 10 | The subreddit Deadbedroom is a cesspool of blue pill madness...You can never be direct with people like them unless they are truly on the brink of accepting the truth. If you do, you'll hurt their feelings and they will lash back (in their keyboard warrior armor since obviously they would never be able to do so in real life). If you really want them to at least think about it, you have to go full inception on them and plant small, indirect ideas, breadcrumbs if you will, that will get them thinking about their situation and will hopefully lead them in the r… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 04:36 PM |
| 9 | reading ask(postwall)womenover30 subbredit with red glasses is just a confirmation of TRP from the source...Glasses in general display a bit of "genetic weakness," just like having a cane or being hard of hearing. But that doesn't mean it's a deal breaker by any means. The type and frames do matter. If you're a hipster wearing those coke bottle type glasses with transition lenses, then yes, you're not on the right side of the equation. However companies like Oakley make great looking frames that can do the job | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 06:25 PM |
| 15 | reading ask(postwall)womenover30 subbredit with red glasses is just a confirmation of TRP from the source...Nothing is more revealing than a woman in this situation who finds a man who "takes charge." A man who takes charge relieves her of the duties/burdens that her beta male bestows upon her. This allows her to be less like a man (in terms of being the dominant one in the relationship ie. breadwinner, decision maker, etc) and instead can be more feminine and can submit, which is what she enjoys doing in the first place. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Why we struggle with Stoicism: Introducing Weininger's concept of the "Henid"That is why ... they may be sexually repelled by a man who simply agrees with what they say and does not immediately say it better than they do. This coincides with shit testing a man. Seeing what he does and if he will "go with the flow" with her and appease her when in fact he can and should provide a different direction, one that she actually seeks but wants to make sure you have the stones to move things that way. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/17 11:54 AM |
| 3 | Posting sexual things on social mediaIt could work but you also risk being the guy who looks like he is compensating for something. Social media gains depend on the outlet. With Snapchat, people can’t necessarily “like” your posts, only you can view how many have seen your posts. Instagram on the other hand allows people to like your posts and those people can see how many others have liked your posts, thus putting a face to how “popular” you are. You risk coming off trying to hard and that may be off putting. Your best bet is to a… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/17 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Honesty is Not a Feminine Virtue [Long Post]I forgot to mention that before this guy, she was dating another doctor at the hospital she worked at. The guy ditched her after his family didn’t approve since he was Asian and she was south Asian. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/17 06:24 PM |
| 20 | Honesty is Not a Feminine Virtue [Long Post]Manipulation for survival is something that is unfortunate but necessary since women are the weaker sex. Take Helen of Troy for instance, what she lacked in physical strength (as a woman) she made up for in beauty, which launched a war (whether it is real or not isn't the point, it's the takeaway that matters here). My cousin (f) who is my age, 29, just got engaged to a dad bod like, thinning hair guy who is a resident at a hospital about 1-2 hours away. They met on a dating app which I recommen… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/17 03:21 PM |
| 36 | Massive Invasion of Blue Pill into High School AcademiaThe girls who think its bat shit crazy are the hot ones. The overweight, cotton candy colored hair, unicorn legging wearing ones are the ones who not only buy into it more, but also re-inforce it more as well. To them, its about leveling the playing field so they can get the hot chads that the sororstitutes are getting | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/17 01:16 PM |
| 5 | Pick the smarter one instead of the hot one next time.Women want to FEEL when it comes to interactions with men. Getting into technical stuff will dry her up faster than a watering hole in Death Valley, unless she fetishizes intellectual material. The only time a woman will value intellect is when it creates social value, think Bill Nye or Elon Musk. Usually at that level, you are also making millions to billions of dollars so women will use the facade of being attracted to intellect because they see what it can do for their other aspects of life. … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/17 04:23 PM |
| 2 | "It Just Happened"This correlated with the notion that men operate like a switch, on and off, while women are more like a volume knob, they have to be turned on gradually | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/10/17 06:48 PM |
| 5 | For my TRP brothers who are current pursuing/prospecting an Arab HB-whatever:I agree with this sentiment. In terms of a ladder of desired males, indian girls nowadays prefer white guys over Indian guys, for the most part. But this is evident in other Asian cultures too, chinese, Japanese, etc. if anything, these girls will try to hook up with as many white guys as they can until mommy and daddy come around with mentions of marriage, then they switch over to the typical Indian doctor/lawyer/engineer and get married. Wouldn’t doubt if they try to get it in on the side whil… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/17 04:02 PM |
| 17 | The Women who are too Smart to have a boyfriendSo many of these women get high paying careers for several reasons. For example, a majority of women who go into nursing do so to snag a doctor for a husband. Along with this, women go into high paying careers to support themselves so that they can do things like "wanderlust" or go to every music festival known to man in the search for "new and exciting places" which also includes new and strange dick. Of course, there are the few who honestly want to make their field more female dominated and t… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Orlando Karate Teacher Sent Nude Photos To 11-year-old Boy In Her Classthey are running dread, it's most likely very unintentional since at that age, kids grow at different rates, but I think one thing many guys can relate to is that at some point before puberty and the rush of hormones hit, they legit thought girls were annoying, hence this kid's reaction. What they didn't know is how much it could get a pussy wet | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 11:42 AM |
| 11 | The forced positivity around in this world is cancerousForced positivity makes people soft. There is that phrase "Embrace the Suck." It exists for a reason, because life isn't sunshine and rainbows, and you have to do what you must in order to survive the bad shit that comes your way. It's already happening but there will be a point where a majority of people, maybe this generation's children, will not be able to handle the BS that comes with life. I wouldn't be surprised if they end up having literal breakdowns over failure. A glimmer of hope is th… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 11:51 AM |
| 11 | Being uncomfortable around Alpha Males.Treat him as an "EQUAL human being, not as alpha MAN" (the wording is deliberate, not a male, but a human being) and adopt a frame of "we are playing in the same team - the lets-pick-these-girls-up" team" . If you remove the element of comparison - you remove the need to be better from your brain and thus you remove the stupid "one upping" knee-jerks that will make you do stupid things. If you adopt the "we're in the same team" mentality - it will further strengthen the idea of "him not being be… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Be at Ease and not AngryThe anger helps you process things, but afterwards you must calm yourself and remember the past. There's a saying that compares a beautiful vase to a relationship...Always consider the vase to be broken, while it is whole, enjoy it, but when it breaks, do not mourn, because it was inevitable. Keep at peace with yourself and realize the only actions you can control are your own (internal locus of control) and not the actions of others | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 02:27 AM |
| 56 | [NO SURPRISES HERE] Chris Pratt and Anna Faris' 'Insane' Split Shocked Friends, Source Says: They Were 'So In Love'If some of you will remember, he wasn't in great shape either not too long ago, until he started his role in the Marvel movies, then he really cleaned up. I wouldn't be surprised if things started going downhill from there and lead up to this. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 11:10 AM |
| 6 | 47/M matching with 20 somethings on Tinder...of course, but that's most likely because they are below 24 and are at their peak, they can get pretty much any guy they want, whenever they want. Most chicks above 30 are looking for commitment, so they may be easy to lay (since they know that's what you want), but will have an underlying goal (the big ass rock on their finger). | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 07:36 PM |
| 10 | The Narcissistic shift of modern women.Social media is inflating their self worth to astronomical levels. They believe "likes" and "views" equate to them increasing their SMV. Sure, they get attention for it, but like most women, it will drop off and what will be more interesting to see is how women who have been raised by social media validation react to the lack of attention they get in real life in about 15-20 years or whenever the wall hits em. Sure, they will seek social media validation, as I have seen in my own older (late 30s… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 11:41 AM |
| 264 | Article: Scientists discover brain's neural switch for becoming an alpha maleSure, hope for recovering blue pills, but this will most likely be a stepping stone to further control men and perpetuate what society wants in a man (being able to control him by making him more submissive) instead of making a man better. Knowing the Chinese, they would probably use it for their military. Knowing the US, they would probably use it to create more submissive, beta men. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/17 05:45 PM |
| 6 | Never break frame. Ever.It seems like Dru is one of those guys who may have had success in life in many areas, however self awareness is one of them. This tends to be the case in men who were relatively successful in multiple areas of life at a young age (women, career, looks, sports, etc). In short, life comes "easy" for them. What a good number of them may lack is mastery of self, and breaking of frame, gaining a "dad bod" or worse, and divorce rape can stem from this, all because the guy thought he "had it all" and … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/17 11:49 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My ex admitted to have cheated on me and then wanted to be friends, found my stoicism sexy, apparently.You can say "but it's been 9 years" but she's probably still traumatized by it so there's a good reason behind her actions | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/17 12:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My ex admitted to have cheated on me and then wanted to be friends, found my stoicism sexy, apparently.you wanting alone time may signal a large insecurity of hers. Women want commitment, now how much can be demonstrated through her actions. If you wanting alone time, even for a few hours, especially at home, causes her to act this way, then she must be really afraid of losing a provider. Imagine if you wanted a weekend with the boys...she might have a total meltdown | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/17 03:59 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My ex admitted to have cheated on me and then wanted to be friends, found my stoicism sexy, apparently.I'm not married but from what I've gathered after a few years on this sub and mrp is that you will have to give a little, it just comes with the territory since you're around your wife all the time. What you should not do is let things get to the point where she says you aren't spending time with her or not doing chores (btw if you are doing chores, do the shit men are at least supposed to do like mow the lawn, not clean toilets). Do things yourself, do it without being told. At the end of the d… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/17 02:19 PM |
| 11 | [FR] My ex admitted to have cheated on me and then wanted to be friends, found my stoicism sexy, apparently.with women 95% of what they say has an underlying context to it. It's like here on reddit or even in general when someone asks a question but they don't care what the right answer is, they just want someone to tell them the same thing they are thinking in order to reaffirm their thoughts. You have to see through their bullshit and see what it is exactly what they want, and never directly bring it out unless you absolutely have to. This is the "communication" that women complain is lacking in rel… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/17 11:09 AM |
| 5 | Keep that shit to yourselfWanting to know your vulnerabilities is a shit test. When you tell them no, they go crazy and keep wanting to know, which is good since you are denying them what they want. If you spill your guts and show them a side you may not even show your closest friends, she will perceive you as weaker than she thought, and be that much less attracted to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/17 02:32 PM |
| 50 | New York Times Promotes Open Hypergamy (a must read)It's nothing new that women are the gender who partake in more media consumption than men. Link that with how newspapers are a dying industry and you'll have a large, well respected newspaper like the NYT making articles like this in order to woo an audience. Topics like this are discussed and addressed on TV shows, in music, and magazines so it really isn't anything new. The only thing we can do is be aware of what is going on around us and not ignoring it. If your LTR wants an open relationshi… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/17 10:15 AM |
| 2 | King of the SIMPs: Matt HarveyEdelman and Lima used to go out before Harvey and apparently she wanted to get married and Edelman said no, hence they broke up and she went with Harvey and now you have the events that lead to today. Edelman came in hot with the abundance mentality while you see Harvey going on a bender because he got rejected. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 07:42 PM |
| 2 | The Good Wifewomen are the majority consumers of mass media, hence, if TV shows and other forms of media want to survive in this day and age, they have to market to women. Shows about "empowerment" and shit like that get these women off and make them "feel good" without having to actually get their asses off the couch and do something about it. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 02:01 PM |
| 23 | How to Bring Out Her Inner Slut and Fuck Her GoodAWALT applies here in this aspect (unless there's some hormonal imbalance you can't fix). Most women are very sexual deep down. What they do not want is to be judged for it. But first they have to be attracted to you. Once attraction has been set, you have to get past her insecurities (this can be LMR in your early stages of plating/relationship). She needs to feel like she can let her fear go, that she is safe no matter what she does, that she will not be judged by you. Once she feels this way,… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 01:09 PM |
| 8 | Stoicism: The rational approach to happiness (practical pessimism, destroying "positive thinking", a complimentary philosophy)That last sentence screams abundance mentality. Being able to enjoy what life has to offer you in the present, yet also not batting an eye when it is taken away or falls apart is a true sign of inner peace and happiness. Great post! | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 11:52 AM |
| 2 | If a girl blasts me with a barrage of shit-tests, I know I'm getting laid. Also, being corny is good + FRI think that also being in an area where the average man is over 6" may make them feel "not as dominant" whereas here in the US, you have a variety of heights, making the 6"+ man more scarce and more valued. The deciding factor here is that you set yourself apart with humor and confidence that a 6" man may not have since he is "the average male" in his region so he may not receive the kind of attention he would were he in the US. As they say, location, location, location. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/17 11:11 AM |
| 4 | What Does She Bring To The Table?What a woman brings to the table depends on what the man wants for dinner. In my case, my first LTR was more of a party girl and was a general pain in the ass by the end of the relationship however I was too stupid to let it go. I broke up, spent a year and a half figuring out what I wanted out of life and who I wanted to be and gave it another shot. My current situation makes plating difficult but I have some ways to make things work and have certain things in the works. But if the plates don't… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/17 10:57 PM |
| 61 | Women's conquest for marriage: Tony's storyMarriage can mean many things to women, but most of all it's a status booster. Like when they are teenagers and want a boyfriend, in college and want to join a sorority, when they get into their mid 20s and one by one their friends start getting married off, even when it comes to kids, they have to make sure the timing is right so they can remain within their social groups and all their kids grow up at the same time. Logic never applies to women and the way they rationalize things ALWAYS is fram… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 01:14 PM |
| 10 | A lesson on why not to be Beta and AWALTIf she is liquid, you're the container. She will pour herself into you and take your shape. When she is single, she's nothing but a shapeless puddle. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/17 12:12 PM |
| 5 | I'm the millennial in Shamrock's thread. Let me explain to you what is going on in the University system in AmericaHey I went to RU (I'm still in nj) not too long ago and it was never like this, or at least on the level you describe. It's incredible how fast things have changed not only at RU but in universities across the country. The best thing to do in order to survive is think as you like but act like the others. You can go ahead and speak out and do as you like but with how companies and society in general is nowadays, you have to be prepared for repercussions. There used to be a time when political dis… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Question about AWALT and other aspects of game and women in more conservative societiesJust because you don't see it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Women in conservative societies are much better at hiding it. They know the stigma and repercussions if their actions were put out in the open so they are much, much more discreet than say, American women, who are trying to make it more and more acceptable to be slutty without repercussions, and are succeeding in some respects. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/17 02:16 PM |
| 46 | Customer asks permission from WifeThat's a cue to those that think that it's just about lifting. Lifting will get you so far because a woman seeing a jacked guy from a distance will be initially attracted but when he opens his mouth and speaks and hasn't changed his beta tendencies, she will see him for what he really is, a sheep in wolf's clothing. This is not just about physical improvement, there is a mental component as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/17 01:51 PM |
| 2 | AWALT Confirmed. Thanks Redpill, I owe you one.There is no such thing as relationship equity. You may value the time and effort you put in but she will never care when shit hits the fan. At that point it's too late anyways. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/17 11:47 AM |
| 3 | BP example - Guy got left by his princessFuck man why rush into all this, or even do it at all? I saw someone on FB get married 15 months into dating. Marriage has it's risks and you have to own the consequences but with only 15 months of dating?! You deserve what's coming to you with that. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/17 10:45 AM |
| 7 | Fuck them rough, they all love it.Set the tone right off the bat with a safe word, and whatever you do, if they say it, stop immediately. It will allow you to push the limits safely and give her a little sense of control if she can't handle certain things. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 11:07 AM |
| 11 | Take her out to breakfast the morning afterThis also runs along the lines of cuddling with her after sex so she doesn't feel as slutty and lessens the buyers remorse | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 05:55 PM |
| 10 | The Body Positive Movement is Lying to ItselfA majority of people are not in good shape, and with the ease of obtaining high calorie, low quality food, how prevalent and influential social media is, and how influenceable people can be, they will take the path of least resistance and actually believe this. Get yourself in better shape and become the silent minority that gets a woman wet in between the legs by just wearing better fitting clothes and having more muscle. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/17 11:53 AM |
| 8 | The difference between being selfless and being a cuckold: How to succeed in business, dating, and life.She may not respond to the male generosity aspect of selflessness, but she may respond to how OTHER men respond to you. Her seeing you gain the respect and loyalty of other men could be seen as a power move in her part. A leader of sorts who can sway other men. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/17 11:49 AM |
| 22 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread March 13When you snapchat a woman Some of you may follow Kirill (aka slut whisperer) on Snapchat and you see the wild shit he does for a living. Something interesting I've noticed and some of you may or may not have noticed, is that when snapping (pic or video) women around you, some women will embrace the snap or not care what you are doing. However, there are those who will block their face, look down, etc, anything to not be seen on your snap. Sometimes it can be your SO who doesn't have any makeup o… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/17 02:07 PM |
| 3 | “It’s easier to build strong children than repair broken men.” - Frederick DouglassI was born in the US and it still got to me. Then again being raised BP doesn't discriminate wherever you are born for the most part. It's a process, we are human and at the end of the day, there is no true RP male who exudes RP aspects 100% of the time every living second. We all experience life differently and take from it what we will. With the tools we gain from this sub, we see how life truly is with clearer lenses, we get answers to questions we haven't been able to figure out independentl… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/17 04:24 PM |
| 19 | “It’s easier to build strong children than repair broken men.” - Frederick DouglassBy continuously reading high quality posts and connecting what was written to my own personal experiences and having things "click" as I realized what I did versus what I actually should have done or what I thought was going on versus what actually went on. I went on a bit of a monk mode when I did this. It requires a lot of self reflection and realizing that what you believe or at least have been lead to believe was wrong. It can be a scary thing and can definitely shatter world views for some … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/17 01:50 PM |
| 60 | “It’s easier to build strong children than repair broken men.” - Frederick DouglassI've definitely garnered some anger towards my parents as to how I was raised, then again I'm first generation Indian in the USA so we've all seen how parents can be in those situations. I will say that my parents did a great job getting my siblings and I set with great careers however what I lacked in pre-TRP was the social prowess to see what was going on "underneath the layers" so to speak in conversations/facial expressions/social situations. My social awareness was poor. It's much better no… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/17 12:59 PM |
| 1 | What can be done to you, and what you can do to protect yourself.Some women know what they are doing. They are in it for the long con, keep up good appearances, do everything the man wants, then all of a sudden, when that ring comes on, the sex dries up as does the relationship. However this is only SOME women. Testing them to see if they will do certain things line feminine chores and are submissive in certain ways can help, as well as social behavior (alcohol use, drug use, etc) | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 12:24 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Indian Men (In particular Hindus) Stop being pussies.It's a clash of cultures really. Things that worked well in India are not working well here. Look at first and second gen Indian women born in the US and their parents. While these girls are in middle/high school, the parents make sure their daughters are good little girls with curfews and no boyfriends etc. Then, those same parents think their daughters will continue to act the same as they did at home when she goes away to college half way across the country. Of course in India, she could do t… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/17 06:13 PM |
| 16 | PSA: Indian Men (In particular Hindus) Stop being pussies.I'm Indian and I fully agree with your sentiment. The main reason is the cultural conditioning that men are ingrained with since birth ie. get good grades, study hard, don't date, be family oriented, etc etc. It's like a proverbial fortress of these values was built with each brick being something a family member (usually parents) have said to solidify these beta values. Breaking it down is difficult and it isn't easy, I had to do it and still am doing it but I don't let others, especially my pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/17 03:26 PM |
| 1 | The real reason countless people complain about life after college and why it should not affect you.Not to mention all the breaks and days off you get while in school. The pressure of exams sucks but at least when you work, as long as you aren't some cubicle monkey, you can be creative and actually make something out of your career. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/17 01:54 PM |
| 2 | The City Makes You SoftThis is why many people who can afford to live in the city have beach houses or ski cottages or time shares to get away from the hustle and bustle on weekends or for a week at a time. The same can be said for those who live in suburbs close to the cities and work within the city, since at least 40 waking hours of their week are spent there. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/17 01:13 PM |
| 17 | It's easy to depedestalise women and prevent oneitisBoth. When you have "one" that's all you perceive you have, just one, and you'll do anything to keep her if you are in the wrong mindset. In terms of "the one" you are pedestalizing her and making her out to be something she necessarily isn't. Both concepts can be intertwined. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/17 04:43 PM |
| 79 | It's easy to depedestalise women and prevent oneitisOneitis happens because of a scarcity mentality. How do you fix that? Create abundance. This could mean having a side chick in an LTR or having multiple plates. It produces a mindset that allows you to relax and not worry about if a plate falls off. Regardless if you have plates or not, you goal should be to be successful in other areas (health, career, interests), since women are a byproduct of success, and should never be the main goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/17 03:21 PM |
| 1 | The Female Narcissist - leads men to their demiseMy ex was like this, however I think a majority of women nowadays are like this with the feedback they get from social media (likes, swipes, views, etc). They think they're hot shit but don't realize that their posts are forgotten within minutes, so they keep posting, keep looking at the numbers getting higher, keep thinking more highly of themselves versus others. Also, in my pre RP days, when my ex was asked questions that required a logical answer, such as things pertaining to the topic of re… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/17 01:21 PM |
| 5 | Woman has a threesome with her beta boyfriend and an alpha friend. Beta is sad she orgasmed for onceI think it has to do with the recent surge in SJW/Feminist concepts that have emerged over the past 10-20 years. Thanks to the rise in social media, word spreads like fire and so do ideas. Equality this, consent that. Everything and everyone (mostly men and overweight women) believe they are on an even playing field. It's the attractive women and the alphas that know better, that have that social intelligence to see things for how they really are, instead of the Disney fantasy we are force fed. … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/17 01:51 PM |
| 37 | "Women are a Lagging Indicator" or "If You Build It, They Will Come"aka a form of preselection | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/17 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Beware Male Shit TestsPart of it is culture too. I'm Indian so a good number of couples get married by 25-26, especially if they are out of med school but just before residency because they are going to be busy as hell during that phase and most likely won't have time. Either that or parents, who themselves were married at a young age so it "feels" wrong for their kids not to do the same so the pressure increases. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/17 12:10 PM |
| 1 | I snooped at her messaging, and I'm know a better man thanks to it.It's more gender because a vast majority of women do it. Women value being part of the "herd" more so than a mate, unless if the herd values the mate (high smv). When things go wrong, she seeks the herd's council because she wants to be in their good graces because, just like thousands of years ago, a woman without a herd or group couldn't survive because there she wouldn't have access to resources. Sure, things have changed nowadays but the underlying context remains the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/17 01:15 PM |
| 2 | I snooped at her messaging, and I'm know a better man thanks to it.There is no such thing as relationship equity, a fact that can be a harsh lesson for men in marriages lasting decades even. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/17 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Never ever let your emotions show during an argument with a womanDread game is what you do before she apologizes, instead of emotionally lashing out. The question is what to do afterwards, more dread game? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/17 12:54 PM |
| 98 | How 'not giving a fuck' helps in attracting women.Underneath all of this is how you perceive your self. Theres YOU, and under you are girls you perceive to be "ugly/average" and above you are the girls you want to "attract." Subconsciously, you'll always be sweet and polite to the attractive girls because deep down you may perceive yourself to be below them or out of your league. You have to believe deep down that you are better than them all. That you don't need any of them, regardless of how hot they are. This is just a way to thinking to get… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/17 12:00 PM |
| 24 | Warm weather makes for soft men; victory is the most dangerous time of allThis thinking translates to LTRs and eventually marriage very well too. Odds are the same kind of guy who initially attracted his now wife (as long as he wasn't too beta to begin with, since a certain amount is required for LTR/marriage) has lessened the amount of "alpha" he had. Essentially, he isn't keeping up with the attraction and the ratio of alpha:beta has lessened in favor of the beta. You get lazy, less aggressive, you think that now that you are married you can kick back because hey, y… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/17 02:12 PM |
| 7 | Realizing women are nothing more than attention seekers. "Nice" girls are just the same.Last week I was at the gym and saw an attractive young woman who, of course was carrying around a Louis Vuitton purse and a YSL sweatshirt with the typical yoga pants. Why bother working out when you wanna show off? Smdh | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/17 12:31 AM |
| 0 | Thousand cocks stare recognizedShe became self aware, AFTER all was said and done. The issue here is not thinking ahead of time, ahead of the decisions she made. Plus she could care less about what other people want, she is still hankering for attention through this article, perhaps in hope of some poor sap who will feel sorry for her and take her out on a date followed by unprotected sex and a "oops i'm pregnant" moment. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 31/12/16 02:24 PM |
| 8 | [MovieRant]Bridget Jones's babyWomen are the gender that consumes media the most. It isn't a surprise then why shows like that stay at home dad show with Matt LeBlanc and movies like this an 50 shades of gray are extremely popular. Women watch these shows and movies and FEEL empowered/aroused/excited by it. It makes the FEEL good one way or another. However, what makes them FEEL good and what is actually attractive to them are two different things, although a fine line can be argued for it. These tv and movie companies know w… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/16 03:22 PM |
| 28 | An AWALT example regarding "traditional" girls.Another post about a girl of ethnicity. Not knocking it as I am Indian myself and know and experienced what you speak of. This is just another page in the book of AWALT. No matter what a girl says, watch what she does. ESPECIALLY women who come from "traditional" backgrounds, as they are hyperaware of the social implications of their actions and are crafty as fuck. I wouldn't be surprised if this girl you met was promiscuous despite telling you she wasn't. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/16 01:35 AM |
| 17 | A Basic Guide to Touching GirlsGoogle vin decarlo's escalation ladder for additional insight on when to progress and when to back off | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 07:34 PM |
| 6 | Realizing that nobody gives a shit about you should be the most liberating thing you think.The worst are the ones who live vicariously through their kids and think their kid will become the next Lebron or Venus. Work hard but keep your head out your ass and be realistic | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/16 01:44 PM |
| 5 | Californian Kathy Murray saved her marriage by giving up trying to control her husband. Despite considering herself a feminist, she follows the approach of a controversial book called The Surrendered Wife, which tells women to stop nagging their partners and start treating them with more respect.It doesn't work. If you're married to a loser and you start fucking him more and treating him better, you're just incentivizing him to keep being a loser. Men are driven to work harder and get better when life sucks. Not when life's great. It also doesn't work because men are the container and women are the liquid that fit themselves to the shape of the container. This is why a majority of women will do things like, root for your team if they never watched sports before or take on your preferenc… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/16 12:56 PM |
| 2 | "Not-super-fit" woman in TwoXChromosomes (read: 50 lbs overweight) declares that she's only attracted to tall muscular guysExactly. Don't change yourself around for her. Do what you want to do, she complements your life, she is not your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/16 01:24 PM |
| 1 | "Not-super-fit" woman in TwoXChromosomes (read: 50 lbs overweight) declares that she's only attracted to tall muscular guysThe guy lives with his parents and has the opportunity to save a considerable amount of his money instead of paying rent or blowing it on a mortgage. If he's been frugal, he should be able to buy a house cash once he decides it's time to move on. Not a bad deal and how she can hold it against him, I don't know. You're thinking from a man's perspective. Think from hers. What implications does going out with a 36 year old man who still "lives at home" no matter the reason, have on her status. The … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/16 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Old Friends"People want to see you do good, just not better than them." | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/16 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Straight from the Whorse's MouthPerhaps they want to wield power in front of society (to be more popular, etc), yet when no one is looking, when there is no judgment or shame from the masses, behind closed doors, they give up that power, thus, having high status while still being able to give in to their submissive nature | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/16 01:55 PM |
| 2 | "Marry Him!" Feminist article dripping with TRP truthsI think the courting aspect has more to do with "comfort tests" more so than anything else. Sure, some women, especially younger ones wouldn't care about courting but in order to keep an older women as a plate for longer than you typically could, you should court her here and there. Women in general want to be sexually proactive, however giving away sex without getting anything back may make her feel like a slut. In order to quell this and delay her removing herself from your life as a plate, oc… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/16 08:33 PM |
| 14 | A story of marriage-induced Alpha-to-Beta regression and how to avoid it.Both men and women have swirling thoughts of insecurities. After marriage, they always tell their SO that they like them "with a little extra padding" to cuddle with etc etc when deep down its to make sure their SO isn't attractive enough to obtain another mate. The other edge of the sword in this issue is that once their SO gets that "extra padding," they lose attraction to their SO and so the chances of them cheating or ending the relationship increase. They destroy the thing that made them at… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/16 03:10 PM |
| 1 | "She has a drinking problem"Exactly. Would you rather take a 7 who is all that and a great in the bedroom or a 9-9.5 who is nothing more than eye candy on your arm and can't do jack shit else other wise | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/16 11:52 AM |
| 45 | "She has a drinking problem"Sometimes they do recognize the real problem but are not willing to face it because they could be thinking to themselves, "this is as good as it's going to get for me," considering that Mary is an 8/10 in her 40s, how often do those come by? It's similar to a woman rationalizing in her head that there is always a better man out there and she will continuously branch swing until she hits the wall. But in this case the man is possibly willing to be disrespected in order to "keep" his relationship … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/16 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Stunning 18 year-old princess cheats on her boyfriend with a female friend, loses her mind afterwardsThat and making it seem like its "your" fault you two hooked up, taking the "responsibility" off of her shoulders. IE: phrases like "It just happened." etc etc | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/16 11:45 AM |
| 1 | I HAD sex with eight guys while on holiday with my girlfriends and have caught an STI...She wants a break from your dick but don't think for a second that applies to your bank. Why not have your cake and eat it too, right? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/16 02:02 AM |
| 17 | Bride gets caught kissing another guy at her hen party... dumb cuck forgives her, marriage still onIt also has to do with how men and women perceive mating. Men don't have to be "emotionally" invested in the sense that the stripper is "better" than his wife to be. Look at how women are perceived on military bases, 3s become 9s after long enough. We have the urge and get it over with after orgasm. Women on the other hand are so fucked in the head that they can have consensual sex, and think that AFTER the task was said and done, they can consider it "rape" because they had buyers remorse or ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 09:51 PM |
| 25 | I am an Indian guy......, As an Indian guy......, What are my chances as an Indian guy.......The reason behind the extremely low confidence is our upbringing (I am Indian myself). We are raised with an incredible focus on education, which we excel at greatly, however what is lacking is a development of social skills/awareness. The focus on education is due to the fact that many families immigrate from India or still living in India live in villages and are not well off financially. The logical conclusion for these families is that getting a good education leads to good income leads to a… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 01:12 PM |
| 81 | Yes, actually, they do want to be dominatedThe issue to her isn't that she didn't let you know, the issue to her is that you didn't in the first place. Aka "just get it" | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/16 06:37 PM |
| 1 | "Why don't you have a girlfriend?"I think there is merit in what you say. The reason we are here is because we were fed this fantasy as young men that we will find our "soulmate" and get married, etc etc. Also, yes, I truly believe deep down we long for that to be true. We long for a great woman, a unicorn if you will. However the reality is that they don't exist. In fact, as you get into your 30s, women of the same age who are single become much more manipulative in making sure they can catch you and trap you into marriage. The… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 02:13 PM |
| 2 | "Why don't you have a girlfriend?"The issue with "happy" couples is that there's a good chance it's a facade. In my family at least, I've heard of couples literally being roommates yet during family/social functions, act like they are the most tight knit family. It's all a sham to keep the engine that is the family construct going, to not give the little kids a bad idea of marriage. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Hey Red Pill, in regards to social life and fun; how amazing can it truly be if a guy decides to stay single after the age of 30?Yea let's see how sustainable that is, if you can achieve it consistently in the first place. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/16 10:35 PM |
| 6 | Hey Red Pill, in regards to social life and fun; how amazing can it truly be if a guy decides to stay single after the age of 30?You ultimately have to figure out what makes you happy. From what I can gather, it seems like your happiness is dependent on what others tell you, i.e. live it up in your 20s, settle down in your 30s, and this is making you concerned about "missing out." Also to some extent it sounds like your ability to be happy is determined by external validation (how people view you shapes your opinion of yourself). Life is a deck of cards, you don't know what hand you will get and when you do, either you pl… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/16 01:35 PM |
| 103 | Loneliness - What is it really?In conjunction with "killing the beta," a certain sense of self awareness is required. Mastery over oneself. If you don't realize what you are thinking/feeling, you can get carried away in your emotions and start wondering things like "why isn't she texting me back" and "what did I do wrong?" You have to realize that she's not yours, it's only you're turn. Also, from an awesome quote I saw posted earlier on this sub (something like this): "Love is the feeling you get when you don't think you can… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/16 02:19 PM |
| 6 | "The Wall Show": The Red Pill on TVCovert vs Overt working in society because a majority of people can't handle the truth. They live in the now, not focusing on when the next meal will be, that the job they live is slowly killing them, that death is inevitable. Bringing the truth to light, which exists in the very backs of all of their heads, brings about bad feelings and a sense of self awareness many of them are not willing to face head on until its too late. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/16 12:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you get your GF to start working out?Just make sure you don't slip because if the off hand chance that you get lazy occurs, while she is being attentive to her fitness, she may perceive her smv going up more than yours. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/16 11:49 AM |
| 3 | FR: Great example of rationalizingNot only this, but like an earlier post mentioned, a woman IS her emotions. Her emotions create her reality, and if you can elicit certain emotions, you have her. This is why attractive men, even from a distance, garner a positive response from a woman overall because of his physical traits, despite her not even knowing who he is. She can say she isn't attracted to him, but watch how her body physiologically responds. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/16 12:09 PM |
| 21 | Feminism: Hollywood Brainwashing.This season's game of thrones will have you thinking otherwise. It's been a good storyline but "girl power" has had huge undertones as the season developed. It funny however that the women who got their power in that show couldn't have done it without a man. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/16 12:02 PM |
| 22 | What I've noticed from staying on the "sidelines" of datingGirls under 21 don't know what they want They can be 31 and breaking through the wall and claiming they know what they want but still they don't. They can be 41 and claim they know what they want and still don't. I don't think they know what they want til they get past menopause tbh. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/16 12:39 AM |
| 4 | - Use TRP like a Bible in your Darkest Moments -I like to use the notes feature on my phone and cut and paste great articles and have created my own "foundations" article that I can look back to when shit hits the fan so it can ground me and get me back on the right road. I recommend you guys do the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/16 11:55 AM |
| 8 | [Another One Bites the Dust] Lindsey Vonn wants to start a family ... but can't "get a date." (She's 31)Give her credit, she's an olympic athlete so generally good looks will come due to her ability to stay in shape. She's in the top 15% of women who are 30+ simply because of this. The rest are definitely looking like sour milk. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 11:44 AM |
| 35 | [Another One Bites the Dust] Lindsey Vonn wants to start a family ... but can't "get a date." (She's 31)He was AF in the celebrity sense. There was a story where he was hanging out with Jordan and Jeter in the early part of his career at a party and saw these women and had NO IDEA how to approach them. Jordan said to tell them he is Tiger Woods, and it was gravy from there. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 11:42 AM |
| 5 | On the seventh day, he unpluggedIndian, similar pressures as well | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 10:53 AM |
| 16 | On the seventh day, he unpluggedThere is no happily ever after, at least for more than 50% of marriages and even with those intact, which ones are truly happy? This past weekend a girl I knew for years on back just got married and when I was with my ex, I heard that she didn't truly "love" her now husband, that she was in it because she couldn't start over with someone else seeing as she was in her late 20s and in my culture, thats looked down upon. Also, seeing her instagram pics with a fairly attractive male doctor (she's a … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 03:05 AM |
| 5 | Attempting to drive the hint across that I'm not interested in her problemsThis is such a succinct way of stating game it should be sidebar material. Straight and to the point. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that cheating women always end up being missable?it never was a celebration of two unified souls to begin with, just less repercussions for the man in the past. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Why is it that cheating women always end up being missable?Isn't that going against their code of " experience first before settling down"? You talk as if women have a sense of honor or loyalty. First thing is watch what they DO, not what they say. They lack a sense of self awareness and sometimes will do something stupid such as spill the beans on their strategy. They can say whatever they want but if a man comes along after she is married/in a relationship for any # of years to you and sweeps her off her feet vs what you can do, you're fucked. Sure, y… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 02:53 PM |
| 8 | Don't communicate; leave -- Communication is validation-seeking behaviorIt all comes down to her consumption of your time and attention, which you could be using to improve yourself, but instead are "communicating" with her, without actual communication happening. Sure, we use our words to get the point across but when that fails, which it will with women, action is necessary. This means, as mentioned above, making yourself scarce, removing her source of validation/attention, and reminding her that you are free to move on with or without her (don't get married). Thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/16 05:14 PM |
| 6 | Dealing with Post Wall Women in the workplaceAct like the others but think for yourself. Your job is your source of income and livelihood unless you have other means. Don't put your pride on the line and jeopardize your income just because you feel the need to prove them wrong. In this day and age, things like sexual harassment can be claimed by merely looking at a woman the wrong way. My point is, women have more power than ever in the workplace and can literally make things a living hell if you let it. Work hard, build yourself up, stay … | /r/askTRP | 08/06/16 02:20 PM |
| 5 | [FR] She broke up with me twice and I'm still fucking her (or how TRP helped me keep the plate spinning and avoid oneitis)This "reassurance" aspect is something I've been looking for but couldn't put in words. I'm stealing this :) | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/16 11:53 PM |
| 1 | This is what we've come to.Whatever happened to "the past is the past"? First we have to not take her past into account with her partner count however we need to take it into account if she was "raped" in order to justify murder? Fuck that noise. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/16 01:50 PM |
| 1 | a rather shallow TRP analysis on why RP is basically a "cult"The best part is that the author is a mod of a sub that shall not be named (but I'm sure you can determine that on your own)...go figure... | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 02:22 PM |
| 109 | shuaiya has passed away.I'm sorry for your loss. Any form of passing of a loved one is always something that we could do without. I would imagine that instead of mourning, your brother would appreciate us celebrating the life he lived. I see in his post history that he wrote 6 months ago about how TRP improved his marriage. Although I don't know him in any capacity, I'm personally glad he was able to find a way to improve his quality of life and glad that this community contributed to that during his last few months. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/16 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Your ego, the two blindfolds, and life on earth with women now that you're aware of the paradoxWhen you speak about not being honest with yourself about your true desires, it reminds me of the concept of congruence. When you think of something, bring those thoughts into words and bring those words into actions, thats when you pursue your desires. For instance, you see a HB 8 and think to yourself that she is hot, I want her. Then you tell yourself or a friend that she is hot and you want her. Then you actually bring your ass up to her and pursue her. That is congruence. Usually men fail r… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/16 12:29 PM |
| -1 | Women are ChildrenWomen act like children in the sense that they want to see what your boundaries are. Hence shit tests, etc. They will always test, it's in their nature. What they WANT to see is you hold it down as a man and keep them in line. The lack the natural, self determined capacity to do this themselves unless you demonstrate value/frame/masculine polarity because they know you can move on from them very easily and find another woman. Because what woman wants a man that no other woman wants? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 05:22 PM |
| 1 | How does one covertly convey to a woman that they are ok with being casual and bring out her "slutty" side?To get a better idea of what you are saying, as an example, when you say case scenario, would you say you could bring up an aspect of society, how relationships aren't as valued or how hasty people get in getting into them and breaking up, which is bad, instead of having fun first, which is good, and developing/taking time with things (without mentioning sex but still physically escalating throughout the conversation, thus setting the mood). Or do you mean she can empathize by bringing up "that … | /r/askTRP | 25/05/16 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How does one covertly convey to a woman that they are ok with being casual and bring out her "slutty" side?This is along the lines of what I was looking for. The phrase "slut shaming" escaped me. It's like inception, covertly planting ideas in her head of what you are like and what you prefer and not slut shaming, thus allowing her to be comfortable with you and being her true self (which in the end, is a slut anyways). | /r/askTRP | 25/05/16 04:38 PM |
| 7 | Dwelling on the pastIt's all about perspective. You dwell on the past, but in a positive manner. Usually we preach that if you dwell on the past, you will be depressed, and if you think too much about the future, you will become anxious, hence, being grounded in the present and being in the moment is the best state of mind to be in. We all have our reasons for being on this sub, most of which has to do with our past. We can think about our past and consider those things to be bad, all the missed opportunities with … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 06:11 PM |
| 26 | JAY Z - Never get married - AWALTHip Hop/Rap songs are notorious for spitting RP values, this is old news. It's also apparent that the whole "Lemonade" incident is a marketing ploy to create buzz amongst Beyonce and Jay-Z and keep them relevant as they get older and older. Think about Kanye West and Kim Kardashian, she is out for the social proof and who better than Kanye West, an eccentric rapper known for creating buzz (see his latest weird rant on Ellen that left her and the audience speechless). Marriage/Relationships of hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Change your thinking, kill your 'unicorn'That insecurity and lack of abundance stems from one's mindset and the fact that you give "value" to something that actually has none. This is why we emphasize frame and abundance mentality. Your mind is the most powerful thing you can possess. Either it can bring you eternal happiness or hopeless despair, but that is up to you to decide. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/16 01:52 AM |
| 10 | "Alpha" type females - A new trend with marriage, kids, social media and cheating, or is it?Being in my late 20s, I see women I know getting married and posting on FB about doing "couples" things or "how I did this or that with hubby" right after getting married, just racking up likes on social media. Truth be told, that rush will go away, new couples get married and the attention veers to them, leaving what was the once "newly married couple" with only minor attention. Then starts the enhanced shit testing only a man can get once he puts that ring on her. Only then will she bring the … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 02:12 AM |
| 9 | "Alpha" type females - A new trend with marriage, kids, social media and cheating, or is it?It's all about status, having their cake and eating it too. Laws are so skewed in their favor now that they aren't penalized for their actions. Marriage is so fucked nowadays and I don't see why guys my age (mid to late 20s) are so enamored with it. It's a social construct designed to maintain a family structure, however, thanks to laws in favor of women, that structure is going to shit and men are checking out of marriage. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 02:08 AM |
| 2 | How To Shit Test WomenYour expectation for them to fail would be correct however that all depends on how you demonstrate your value to her. Also, the reason she would put herself in situations to abdicate responsibility is mainly to test YOU and see how YOU would react. It's your job to put her in her place. Just as children do, they will always push and test boundaries, how far can they push you, how much can they get away with. She wants to know, time and time again, are you still that "rock" that she believes you … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/16 12:16 PM |
| 4 | How I've Learned to "Shit Test" Women - A little test that I've developed.I wouldn't mind seeing your take on it. Gauging sexual interest is always a fascinating topic. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/16 11:48 AM |
| 9 | I royally fucked myself over. Learn from my mistake.If you fuck her at your home, keep a bottle of watered down frank's red hot (or your preferred hot sauce) in a spray bottle and spray it in the condom just to make sure she ain't trying to steal your swimmers if you throw the used rubber in the trash...that way if she tries anything funny, she'll be in for a spicy surprise >:) | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/16 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Dime's( 10/10) women with no social media?I love this site, although I wish there were tabs for each "sponsorette," all the scrolling gets in the way | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/16 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Does keto really work?Yes it does. I've been doing it since January and combined it with -25% TDEE while lifting 3x/week and a bit of cardio (20 min high intensity intervals on elliptical as tolerated)/abs 2x/week and have lost over 30 pounds since then. Once I hit my goal, I'll maintain then go up 25% over my TDEE and bulk in the Fall. It requires patience, discipline, and consistency. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 10:00 PM |
| 21 | Congruence - Own Your DesireAs Dave Chappelle once said about women who dress a certain way but don't want to be objectified, despite the low cut dress and plentiful cleavage... "You are not a whore, but you ARE wearing a whore's uniform..." | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/16 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Online dating: 3 flakes this week. What am I doing wrong?Online game isn't as much of a game as it is a way to set things up. It's been said that if you match on Tinder, about 50% of the work is done because men and women know what Tinder is all about. All you have to do is make nice for a bit and set up some drinks with logistics working back to your place. The downside with online game is that its like a roller coaster with every hill being a new guy that a woman can meet. Sure, she will message you for a bit but then all of a sudden she will drop o… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/16 02:39 AM |
| 2 | "Communication is the key to a healthy relationship"I think this is where being well versed in social competence plays a huge role. Which is why practice by exposure and meeting women and people in general is emphasized, as long as we recognize what the mistakes are and "experiment" and see what works and what doesn't. The plus side here is that we have a community that actively gives feedback and field reports so learning is accelerated and more focused so a lot of the "experimenting" has been done already since certain actions create consistent… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 03:22 PM |
| 1 | "Communication is the key to a healthy relationship"This sounds like a form of "push/pull," but not in the sense of teasing but in the sense that you are still "pushing" by creating distance and by using comfort/amused mastery and bringing her emotions around to something "fun" you are "pulling" her back in, thus maintaining the "emotional rollercoaster" that you want to keep going, as opposed to doing nothing and being a dud. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here used Tinder in Latin America? How has it gone for you?It would help to know the local language as well | /r/askTRP | 27/04/16 02:32 AM |
| 2 | (FR) Stop talking about yourselfI would also think that you need to elicit an emotion from her. Women love to talk about themselves because they think they live amazing lives. This is where the "pull" aspect of push/pull comes in. You tease them, make them feel like they are being judged/insecure about what they do, since women are SUPER insecure about stuff. They want to be as much a part of the "herd" as possible. Tease her, but calibrate it so it is not too personal else you will put her in a negative state (such as talking… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/16 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Dick HealthYou can get Bromelain (the enzyme responsible in pineapple for the "nice" taste) in pill form, easily available on amazon | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 01:21 AM |
| 6 | Redpill advice: wear makeup to improve your looksOR you could try to figure out why you have dark circles or acne blemishes and change your diet and use proper medication like AHAs. Sure, some things are not addressable with medication and makeup will ultimately be the go to for these cases but do things like cleaning up your diet and look into skin care products that don't mask the issue but instead addresses it properly | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 02:01 PM |
| 2 | On sluts: Be sexual first. Be a person second.You can even think of it this way. If you don't try, your rate of success is 0%, but if you do try, it goes up 50% (either you fail or you succeed). Doesn't 50% sound better than 0%? Either way, you gain knowledge as to how to better tailor your interactions if you fail or succeed so you end up a winner in the end anyways. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/16 02:23 PM |
| 4 | Understanding woman: Part 1 - SolipsismAs a man, you have to understand how she thinks because many men out there apply their own logic to her thought process, which is invalid because you can't expect her to think like a man. Understanding her own thought process can actually get you through the "anger" phase and puts things into perspective for you in a way a man can understand. The self interest, female collective interest, and socio-cultural-religious norms are all things a man can understand and make sense of. Sure, you can do w… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/16 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Understanding woman: Part 1 - SolipsismFantastic stuff man, the irrationality part hits home hard because as a man, we have to think from her perspective to understand (as best) what the hell is going on through her head because sure, a woman will SAY things, sure she will have opinions that do not "rock the boat" secondary to social norms, but watching what she DOES is the key because that is where her true nature lies. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/16 10:37 AM |
| 6 | When asking girls out, almost make it a command.I shed a tear for shit like this. I wish RP was apparent to me when I was your age, but better to learn it now than any later. Take advantage of all there is to offer on this sub. You aren't even in college yet...i can only imagine what two years of RP under your belt will do for you, keep it up! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Make her feel special. (In other words, lie.)I had to read and then re-read this post to get a better sense of what you are trying to convey. Here, at a quick glance, it looks as if you you are saying to treat women as special. However, at second glance, I see you focus on treating her special based on her LOOKS vs. her INNER BEAUTY. Differentiating validation between her looks and inner beauty utilized two different sets of approaches, however I personally believe that the looks aspect will win out vs. inner beauty in the short term, with… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/16 05:39 PM |
| 2 | My (single-mom) cousin shared this idiotic FB rant today along with the phrase "too true".The follow up should be, "do you expect her to reciprocate in someway?" I'd love to hear their answer | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 02:23 PM |
| 4 | Stop trying to impress her; start impressing yourselfMy dad occasionally tells me "amaze yourself." He never elaborated on it too much (which I think was a bad decision on his part) but I finally understand it and how it runs along the lines of this thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 11:43 AM |
| 17 | My (single-mom) cousin shared this idiotic FB rant today along with the phrase "too true".They want to have their cake (aspects of equality) and eat it too (all the perks of being a woman before equality) | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 11:34 AM |
| 3 | How does the social life thing generally work after college and in the adult world if you're a single bachelor that doesn't get married?I can second this. As an almost 28 year old, after breaking up with my 1st gf after 6.5 years, I realized that I never focused on ME during my college/grad school years. I never developed my values. I never looked deep inside to see where I stood in life and never believed in myself in the capacity that I do now. You could say that now I am in a "monk mode" of sorts as I've lost over 30 pounds since January and have been in the best shape of my life. Not to mention I am much, much happier than I… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/16 02:24 PM |
| 10 | Wife resents beta husband for being more attracted to her after she loses weightAmazing how even picking the color of a room can be a shit test. Shit like this makes marriage so unappealing. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 02:15 PM |
| 15 | Women Do Not Want Your LoveThat's dat preselection at work. The post "When Plates Collide" has some great stuff in there. The most eye opening quote in there is this: "When women say they don't like it that when a man is a player, simply take it the same way you would if a company told you that it doesn't like the competition. It's a statement made entirely out of self-interest--but they will,out of that same self-interest, strive to be better and keep you around." | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/16 02:31 PM |
| 8 | The WeekndMusic, and much of media intact, is geared towards a certain audience. It's how they make money. Hence, why you wouldn't expect most 50 year old men to watch a show like Pretty Little Liars but would most likely expect a 16 year old girl to. The weeknd's music is geared to young 20 something women who want a man who portrays himself as a high value male. Deep down these women are engaged in what he says because they know that with a high value man, those are the things they would do. Now, combin… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 09:42 PM |
| 6 | From Alpha to Beta... How a few months of studying intensely drove me insane.Growing up means slipping back into being beta? Sounds like you didn't have your shit together and didn't have a routine going for you. Yes, sometimes working hard requires sacrifice and you may not be able to hit the gym, however you are thinking in the moment and not long term. Instead of complaining, figure out your schedule and when to fit what is most important to you, which, at this point in your life, should be school and your body. Women will come. Or don't, none of us give enough of a s… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/16 07:37 PM |
| 20 | AskWomen confirms red pill truths: episode #83,557Interesting how she went for the OVERT route, something women aren't known to do, unless the man's SMV is that high | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 11:38 AM |
| 28 | I cheated on my girlfriend with a friend of hers, now she's threatening me that she's going to tell everything to my girlfriend.Go insanity wolf and call her bluff. Better yet, call your GF and put her on speaker with "Julia" in the room. Take away ALL the leverage | /r/askTRP | 05/04/16 01:54 AM |
| 3 | How you will lose 10 lbs* this weekKeto + 25% deficit of your TDEE (with attention to meeting your minimum needs to maintain LBM) does wonders. It will cause you to stall when lifting however you will literally feel how carbs affect your body if you do a re-feed. I've done this with 3 days/wk lifting and 2 days/wk interval work and have gone from 207 to 179. Aiming for 165 to 150 and will maintain through the summer and will jack it up to 25% over my TDEE for keto bulk. Meal prep and the mental side is hard stuff but get through … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/16 01:37 AM |
| 27 | Once again, AskWomen accidentally confirms TRP. "When I see a tall guy, like over 6'3, my vagina automatically flexes and gets wet. I'm not even exaggerating."It's a shame when a man has true power and fails to understand what he can do with it and use it | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 08:51 PM |
| 7 | Being a top pro football player doesn't make you any less of a Beta.What's insane (but not surprising) is that I believe his divorce with his first wife, who is quite attractive, happened AFTER he won the super bowl. You know you done fucked up when you win the super bowl and everyone has your name plastered everywhere and your wife STILL cheats on you. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/16 12:08 PM |
| 12 | My turning point from Blue to RedThere's a buddhist saying similar to the samurai concept. It's about a beautiful glass and appreciating it for what it is, but also understanding that it cannot last forever. It goes something along the lines of, "“Do you see this glass? I love this glass. It holds the water admirably. When the sun shines on it, it reflects the light beautifully. When I tap it, it has a lovely ring. Yet for me, this glass is already broken. When the wind knocks it over or my elbow knocks it off the shelf and it … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 03:02 PM |
| 6 | Be Her EscapeGreat post. Simply put, the post TRP version shows you NOT entering her frame while the pre TRP version shows you entering her frame. Now, the question to ask is, how do you discern whether this is or is not a comfort test? Shit tests come left and right however some may interpret this to be a comfort test and perhaps end up falling into her frame somewhat with the premise of passing it. How can one make a determination what one is versus another? BTW, you and u/iamgale have been coming out with… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 03:57 PM |
| 139 | How to get Laid Like a SociopathBelieving in your own bullshit can truly change you for the better. I used to have self pity when things went awry whether it was with girls, playing sports, or just life in general. I would mentally beat myself up over it and think about it for days, even when it was insignificant. TBH, I still do from time to time however, I am much more aware of it and squash it with positive thoughts. By changing my overall thinking into one where I believe in my efforts and I believe that everyday I can be … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 02:15 PM |
| 1 | The Price of NiceIt's all a shit test really. Women want to control men from a young age, just look at our education system, the broad use of medications at such a young age, etc. These women WANT men to win, but they will be ruthless at testing a man, even as a boy. Either the woman is self-aware enough to know that she needs exciting AF cock with a BB to fall back on or she has no idea what she is doing by manipulating young boys into being "nice guys." I honestly think they are self aware enough. It's a sexua… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/16 11:46 AM |
| 16 | 2 old sluts just sat next to me at the bar and started telling me I'm cute and flirting with me. They asked where my girlfriend was, when I said "I don't date" they started going off on me saying "I'm on the wrong road" and that "I just hit it and quit it" I saidthe same is true for marriage. Women have a herd mentality, if a group of women have SOs, once one gets proposed to/married, they all start falling in line and put pressure on their SOs or at least desire to because if they don't, they FEEL excluded from the circle. If one gets a BF, theres a good chance the others will as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/16 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers who've lost weight, how did it change you as a person and your interactions with women?Was around 207 lbs in January when I started (my highest was 225), now around 185, still got 20 lbs left. My college weight was 195 and it was not a good 195 either. I lifted heavy but ate like shit as well. Now that I am on a cut, my lifts have stalled and it takes a lot of mental effort to tell myself to not eat a lot since lifting stimulates more hunger and you feel the need to make those gainz. My ex's BFF saw me after about 8-12 months for the first time and I could see the look on her face… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/16 02:11 PM |
| 5 | 3rd date F-close: Younger woman asks me "what took you so long?"Being bold can pay off in many ways. From what I gather, it is always up to the man to initiate and escalate. Sure, we say, look for IOIs, but one can also use the notion "go for the no." That's not to say, go from touching to hand to her tits immediately. It's more to say, progress kino and escalate naturally and just watch her reaction, if she doesn't flinch or move back, you're most likely in and can just keep going. Nuclear option is what OP did and it paid off and sometimes, it works. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Country music is so bad for oneitisI have honestly only paid attention to his recent stuff but I'd like to think that he hasn't changed his message if it's this point in his career and his music is still pretty good so perhaps starting from the top and working your way to his most recent stuff will be fine | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Country music is so bad for oneitisthe only downside of LDR's songs is that they are all the same, all about getting fucked by some high smv masculine man while drunk and high on cocaine and weed, but she has a hot voice fwiw | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Country music is so bad for oneitisJ. Cole has been great as of late, rapping about things relevant to real life, verses like "...and you ain't gotta worry if that's YOUR kid love" breath some fresh air into shit like fetty wap singing about how much he needs some girl | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Get that minor surgery/procedure over withMy uncle had LASIK done. Lasted about 10 years until he had to go back onto RX lenses for night time driving. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 03:11 AM |
| -9 | Any connections/observations to gaming women during a full moon/moon phases in general?I'm asking the hard questions :p But really it's something to give a little thought to after all the things you hear about the full moon and its effect on human behavior | /r/askTRP | 11/03/16 04:32 PM |
| 14 | Reducation: Investing in manly education to find your true self.There is a saying, "Spend the first 30 years of your life learning as much as you can, spend the middle 30 years of your life making as much money as you can, spend the last 30 years of your life giving it away (to charity) as much as you can" or something along those lines | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/16 11:44 AM |
| 7 | Throwback Thursday: Do It All For YourselfFind your happiness, do not seek it from external sources such as women. Look inside, internally and ask yourself, what do you want to do/get out of life? Do you want to learn guitar? Do you want to reveal your six pack? Do you want to learn a new language? Go out and do these things, not for that hb8, but for yourself. Develop your passions and good things will follow, such as improved confidence and most importantly, belief in yourself. You only have about 70-80ish years on this planet, if you… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/16 04:51 PM |
| 20 | She's Your Woman Not Your FriendThere is no such thing as relationship equity. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/16 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Beliefs about the roles of men and women are 'as firmly held now as they were in 1980'Interesting thoughts. What if feminism is a societal survival mechanism, something to push only the best of the best men to the top to perhaps do things that "softer" men cannot? Theories and ideas to think about... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/16 12:37 PM |
| 6 | Wednesday Wisdom: Red Pill ObservationsWhen going through my break up with my ex, she told me she took me for granted. Those words resonate with me everyday and push me to become the man that no woman will ever take for granted | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 08:40 PM |
| 19 | Beliefs about the roles of men and women are 'as firmly held now as they were in 1980'It's feminism. It's all one gigantic shit test and if you can't see it for what it is, then you're at a huge disadvantage. Women will say they want this and say they want that, but watch what they respond to versus what they say. The past 50-70 years have been filled with attempts to undo thousands of millions of years of evolution. Women WANT to have their cake and eat it too. They want equal salaries while still being able to have custody of children despite a man being a good father. They wan… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 03:25 PM |
| 5 | The Rational Male – GhostingBeing direct about things like this reminds me of how you must be COVERT, not overt. Use his own personal experiences to incite the anger phase by having him put 2 and 2 together. Initiate a sort of "inception" and every now and then prod it. Being direct will only incite anger in a negative form because it is seen as an "attack" on him, whereas if you just put an idea in his mind, you did your job, he just has to follow the bread crumbs and jump down the rabbit hole and see how far it goes... | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/16 12:49 PM |
| 6 | Nate vs. Connor: Alpha 1.0 vs. Alpha 2.0.So any words following last night's match? Seems like Nate out alphaed McGregor pretty damn well... | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/16 03:08 PM |
| 1 | The Barbell Doesn't Care: Meditations on LiftingI can personally attest to this. A few days ago I felt AMAZING after my workout on my way to work, it was like I was so high I could never come back down. It makes you so much more excited when going to the gym because you end up chasing that high which in turn makes you want to be better. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/03/16 01:13 PM |
| 1 | The RedPill Secrets that Made Joshua Waitzkin a Chess and Martial Arts World ChampionGreat post. Being able to see someone apply concepts to his life to achieve success holds more weight IMO than a post that says "lose your ego" or "embrace failure" because we see for real what happens when your apply the aspects, the real life applications. It gives me a sense that, hey, if he did it, so can I, and I can apply the same because the notion that it is accomplishable exists. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Learning to cook/meal prep as a teenager?In terms of timing, the best thing you can do is either pick one day (or two) during the week and plan out your breakfast, lunch, and dinner. What are your goals? Bulking/Cutting/Maintenance? Consider a meal plan with your macros in mind and stick with eating just that. If you need a snack like almonds, prebag em. If you just want to make dinner sometimes for your parents like you say, look for homemade marinades like mojo for pork. Also, invest in a slow cooker so by the time you get back from … | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 12:41 PM |
| 26 | Travelling is the cock carousel on steroids for womenWhat's this prefecture called? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/16 04:14 AM |
| 12 | It feels so good to be happyYou can throw in all the scenarios you want but unless you're in the shoes of that person you will never know what their current state of mind is and what they would want currently (that is attainable) | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 03:13 AM |
| 16 | It feels so good to be happyYou just keep grinding along. First, ask yourself, what do you want out of life? Organize yourself and make a solid effort to reach those goals, even if it is a little bit every single day. Pretty soon it will build up. Walking a mile is accomplished one step at a time... | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 01:52 AM |
| 42 | It feels so good to be happyHappiness is an awesome thing, yet can be so evasive for many. It's funny you posted this because this morning, I told my self, "I feel happy" and I genuinely did feel happy. I'm working on my career, have my diet down, lift, just ordered an electric guitar that I want to learn. Sure, I may still live at home, working on paying down school debt that will be brought down with a solid plan to move out in a year or so, and yes, I may not be having any current success with women (the ones I want at … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/16 11:33 PM |
| 1 | My TRP Nuggets Part 2The "joking" aspect of power talk you speak of is actually plausible deniability. It allows them to a way out if you slip up and do something unattractive. Men can spin this in their own way and use it to their advantage when it comes to escalating with a female because at the end of the day, a woman loves sex just as much, if not, more than men and wants to do it, however, does not want societal repercussions of being labeled as a slut, hence the common phrase "it just happened" when you lead h… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/16 07:10 PM |
| 4 | FR: TIL Why I Got Dumped 5 Years AgoSimilar reasons why women go into nursing. I read somewhere that a significant percentage of women went into nursing specifically to lock up a doctor. Women are so sophistic it's sickening. They will use any and every means to their advantage because all they care about is their own well being, no one else's. The only thing I can think of that would matter more than their own well being could be the child of an alpha, because at the end of the day that's what they want. Shit only matters to them… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/16 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Tune-up Tuesday: What is your #1 issue you need help with the most?I have issues initiating kino naturally and with sexual intent. I know it requires practice and I've searched old posts but if anyone has any advice that's worthwhile, let me know. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/16 05:43 PM |
| 22 | [FR] Sharing an alpha, realization of BB statusI saw this posted on a thread in a different subreddit but I believe it applies here... "Behavior seems nearly unchangeable, but behavior is a just a word to describe "a series of individual conscious decisions, over time". At some point you stopped crapping your pants, but you take it for granted that something so ridiculous used to be a really tough choice. But you chose. And chose again. And at some point it just became... YOU. . Past choices predict the most likely future, not determine it. … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/16 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Woman in blue pill divorce rapes her husband, creates most textbook red pill post I've ever seen.That's a nice one, I personally prefer the tungsten since it's shinier | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/16 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Woman in blue pill divorce rapes her husband, creates most textbook red pill post I've ever seen.How about one of those tungsten "thin blue line" rings but instead of blue, just make it red | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/16 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Rape accusers sue University of Tennessee for giving the accused student due processImagine if it gets to the point where a guy with low SMV simply looks the wrong way at a girl and then she demands her tuition back...fuck man...hopefully not | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 03:22 PM |
| 2 | [blue pill example] Lost relationship of over a year due to a failed shit testIt's always a lose-lose with these situations unless you see through her shit. She perceived that her SMV was higher than his, or at least wanted to test it and threw that at him. He say's yes, he's cucked, he says no, he's "controlling and jealous" as you've noted above. The most realistic option is to recognize that she is checking out of the relationship yet he could've tried to instill dread to see if she responds to that because that that moment in time, she thinks that she can do better. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Girls who watch porn, is that a red flag?Shouldn't be an issue, however I'd look into the types she was watching...shit like cuckold, swingers (as you mentioned), wife sharing, that could be an at least yellow flag | /r/askTRP | 16/02/16 08:18 PM |
| 2 | "You do you" is "just be yourself" with lipstick."be yourself" is a woman's way of weeding out attractive men from unattractive men by emphasizing that men be the most genuine version of themselves. If men truly followed this, it means that one man could be genetically inclined to be stoic, no bullshit taking, and confident while another could be inclined to be caring, soft, communicative. Which one do you think the woman will go for? It's a shit test in itself. This is partially why women are so turned off by TRP. TRP tenets are like "cheat c… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/02/16 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy / AWALT / Lack of Masculinity at its best.If she is this amoral in her poor excuse of relationships, imagine the shit (or who) she did to get to 90k... | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 11:47 PM |
| 114 | Brazilian Crysis. Women are almost 70% on Brazilian Carnival. So what?Funny this article came about, I'm on my way to Brazil this weekend with a few friends for Carnival. Of course we are there for the fun and women but when it comes down to it, quality of life is everything. I really wish you luck in leaving your situation and hopefully finding something better sooner than later. I'll be in Rio, any tips? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Woman goes to the AskMenOver30 sub and asks why her Alpha fuckbuddy won't commit.The odds of a woman holding back any sexual act for several weeks to size up a man is an extremely unlikely, although possible concept. A man with any respect for himself who invests his time and money will grow tired of those kind of games because if he so chooses to be seeking a relationship, then he is a provider of sorts and there is an expected return on investment. (Yes there are all the smv factors to take into account yet a trade is still expected to some degree, especially in the early … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 07:54 PM |
| 5 | Why maintaining frame is harder than it should beTo sum up what you've said, there is no such thing as relationship equity. All good things you've done for her will never be taken into account when everything is on the line. It all boils down to your behavior towards her...do you display alpha or beta tendencies because at the end of the day, your smv compared to hers will determine the path of your interactions with her | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend has 3 way with Chad Thundercock and his brother Brad Goldencock, I still love her though.cool story bro, actually you aren't a bro, pussy | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 02:45 AM |
| 3 | No bullshit advice on food prep/cooking?Figure out your goals, use the various well reputable macros calculators that's been repeated on subs like r/gainit, loseit, keto etc, search for foods that fit those macros and make them once or twice a week in large batches and divide after cooking or the day of. This is a gist of it. You will see how life gets a bit easier because your food choices are already made for and you don't have to burden yourself with making the decision of what to eat everyday when you have food pre-made. It's easy… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/16 04:31 PM |
| 10 | Maintenance Sex is a Shit TestPatrice O'Neal was also famous. I'm sure Jonah Hill has had his share of HB9s and 9.5s | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Basics of GameCalibration is definitely an important topic because how would one know what to do if she doesn't reciprocate your advances? If you back off escalation, at what point would you try again? At what point can you determine if your efforts will be fruitless and should next her? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/16 06:11 PM |
| 3 | I'm going to make it!! Starting tomorrowLet's get one thing straight, you are alone. We all are. Listing your goals is great and all, maybe it makes you feel like you accomplished something by telling us all this but it doesn't change the fact that you are sitting here typing this all out when instead you could be making a workout regimen or a meal plan or even get out of your apt/house. Get your personal shit done in private, set goals, keep em secret from everyone and just grind, keeping out the other noise. When you have something,… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 12:24 AM |
| 2 | "The Red Piller's Guide to Online Dating:" Word FodderHave you had a chance to fully read the book? I can understand why you think that way if you haven't read the book but his definition of vulnerability is different than the typical one. He means vulnerability in the sense that you are able to take rejection and still move on instead of not being able to take rejection and trying again. Sure, the word itself isn't the best choice but the idea behind it is solid. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Observed my daughter using/abusing a Beta: She's 11It comes off a little confusing towards the end but he might've relented and held the party since the boy was still invited. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 11:18 AM |
| 1 | NATURAL LAWS : "As it is above, so it is below; as it is below, so it is above"Being good looking/rich/having social status is like having the key to a door and opening it. Your inner game is what gets you through that door. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 02:32 AM |
| 15 | Observed my daughter using/abusing a Beta: She's 11Women lack self awareness, until they experience the same thing happen to them, then they are all angels. No guarantee that she will learn even after you do this, however its worth a shot. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 02:16 AM |
| 3 | FR - Check yourself or you wreck yourself.It's funny you posted this because I remembered to randomly check this morning as well. No issues but hopefully it'll work out in the end for you man | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 02:56 PM |
| 6 | Sometimes you can get accountability....sort of.Not really sure what kind of accountability you "got." Sure you tried to HOLD her accountable (good on your part), which obviously didn't work so you went ahead and installed the carpet despite the manager doing anything about it. Getting a woman to hold her accountable for her actions is like trying to drain water out of a dry paper towel. That's where a man comes in, unfortunately she didn't care for you nor did she know you so she really could care less. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 01:47 AM |
| 1 | A woman hires a male escort to a dinner party and is universally priaisedThink of it this way, she hired an alpha do something an alpha wouldn't necessarily do, be seen as being "locked down," even in a minimal capacity. Any guy with some self respect wouldn't do her a "favor" and be seen as her arm candy and be shown off because then it admits he doesn't mind being used by her, which then lowers his SMV. I am sure she could get a similar SMV guy to sleep with in an instant, however to do something like this requires a man's investment into a higher form of interacti… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Observations about kinesiology of good postureOne of the biggest things I see nowadays is poor posture among women and kids and you know why? Our phones. Being constantly hunch over looking at how many followers you just gained or the next best YouTube video has lead to horrible posture. The biggest thing I've seen in my patients with shoulder pain that their pain is a by product of poor posture, weak scapular stabilizers and poor alignment of the scapula. This leads to impingement of tendons among other issues. *im a physical therapist | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 03:48 AM |
| 2 | RP truth straight from a LTR's mouthCreating emotions seems to be a hard concept to grasp among a lot of men, especially myself, however I try to seek out how to do it because as most men are (at least those who are here), we are the logical gender. We were "told" that if you buy her flowers, hold the door for her, pay for her dinner, essentially, be nice to her, she will reciprocate with a good night kiss, and maybe more if you're lucky. To us, this made so much sense, yet all it did was create comfortable boringness for her beca… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Everything happens in PhasesI agree, life is definitely short, seen too many people go too young, but just like school, like cutting/bulking, you gotta invest a little time to reap the rewards for the rest of your life, and that's where I'm at. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Everything happens in PhasesCorrect me if I am wrong, but implying that women will like me as I am sounds the same as "just be yourself." I believe it's more important that YOU like who you are before considering if other people will like you. Yes, if you are happy with yourself yet you do crazy/stupid things, you may be mentally off your rocker at times and people may definitely not like you for that but for the most part, if you want something, you have to put the effort to get it. I would say that I'm in sort of a monk … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Everything happens in PhasesGreat post, definitely puts things into perspective for those who think improvement is a linear climb. There's always highs and lows, peaks and valleys. Whether you recognize them is one thing, what matters is how you take it all in and if you will let it affect you negatively. Personally for me, I am at a point where I could care less about going out whereas maybe 6 months ago I was worried about being alone, yet now I cherish it. There are no extra distractors that will take me off of my cours… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 01:55 PM |
| 3 | The Idea Of Transferring The Knowledge About Women And Success In Life To Younger And Upcoming Generations.This is a great topic that actually doesn't get as much say as it should around here. Sure, a bunch of us are turned against marriage, however, I wouldn't be so sure if we are turned against having children, regardless if they are from us or adopted. It also isn't limited to our own children but perhaps younger male family members, brothers, cousins, nephews, even grandkids. I see one of my little cousins, a freshman in high school, a kid, who I see reflections of myself at his age, a bit chubby… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many Indian guys in the USA come off as so awkward, unappealing, and kinda strange even if they're raised here? (no racist)You forgot to add in the fact that when we turn 22-23 and graduate college, we got aunts asking us why aren't we married yet and parents wondering where their grandkids are...smfh I hate that aspect of our culture | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 06:30 PM |
| 60 | Prone to negative thoughts? Acknowledge, Learn And Move On (ALAMO)GREAT post, little things like ALAMO can help keep you grounded. If I could add anything, it's to always stay grounded in the present. If you keep thinking about past indiscretions/mistakes, you will always be depressed. If you keep thinking about future endeavors and are nervous of them, you will always be anxious. If you find yourself in either state, close your eyes, take a deep breath, and reminded yourself to stay grounded in the present. Ask yourself, "what am I doing right now?" For insta… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 03:22 PM |
| 8 | What she will and will not do, a unique form of manipulation.u/-Anteros- makes a good point in asking "why keep her if she did this?" You state that it is female imperative and yes, you are right, it definitely is. However, you've demonstrated to her that despite her objecting to jumping through those hoops, you will still keep her. You will allow her to suppress your sexuality and what you want in the bedroom. I am not saying that all is lost nor should you break up with her (yet). Instill some dread game, make her feel like voicing those concerns about … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 03:11 PM |
| 9 | Only you can fix decades of damage and beta behavior, Women can't fix you!When we attain a comfortable lifestyle, we get lazy, there is no growth because we are happy where we are. For you, its video games, eating junk food, living in a basement. There is no challenge, no room for change. For me, it is not participating in social activities, not reaching out to people, not taking initiative, not having hobbies/interests. This past year brought about a great sense of self awareness, that I would have to develop interests in order to first off, be happier, and secondly,… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 04:22 PM |
| 10 | Money has less value to women.This statement wouldn't be as strong 40-50 years ago as it is now. With women working and being able to sustain on their own, the value of the dollar, in a relationship aspect has gone down tremendously. If she has a full time career, she doesn't need you for financial support. She can most likely get her own place, buy things for herself, do the things she wants. This changes the dynamic of what a woman desires in a man yet it's all relative to the woman's situation. If she is financially indep… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Once again...DO NOT GET MARRIED...DO NOT HAVE KIDS...DO NOT LIVE WITH A WOMAN.You've been going out with her for 6 years and she isn't your Facebook friend? Sounds like someone has something to hide. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Having a kid soon. Any of you experienced with picking a school? Is montessori bulshit?My uncle has taken his oldest daughter to a certain school, she just turned 3 and he says he would've paid twice as much had he known how well they would teach her. Not sure the name exactly but I am sure that its better you look around in your local community rather than stick with the reputation of a company as teachers can vary from place to place. | /r/RedPillParenting | 30/12/15 12:31 PM |
| 13 | Have Something They WantEveryone has insecurities. Women moreso than men, they are just better at hiding is unless you know what buttons to push. By "pressing" those buttons, you can elicit emotions far more intense than in a man, who at least has the potential ability to remain calm and cool in situations to maintain frame. Just be sure to exploit them COVERTLY and not overtly since that would make you look insecure by displaying you are manipulating her instead of eliciting emotion, which 99.9% of the time trumps ove… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/15 05:24 PM |
| 3 | "Race whiners": Understanding guys who believe they can't get girls because of their race.The negative feedback loop is a real thing. As an Indian guy I've experienced it myself and it can set you back when you are raised by parents who want to BP the shit out of you so you can be that doctor/engineer/lawyer, get married, have a few kids and make them look good in society. At the end of the day, you were born with nothing and will die with nothing. Unless you make history (and odds are you won't), you'll be forgotten within 100 years. Concepts such as submissiveness, lack of frame, r… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 11:38 PM |
| 2 | The role of radical feminism and liberalism in the dating struggles of Asian and Indian men in North America.It's no better on the East Coast either. I'm an Indian guy, late 20s, over a year into my professional career and I see it here too. The issue is that indian girls get treated like princesses. I'm sure you've seen how strict parents were during elementary, middle, and high school. To a guy or a girl, it can be annoying and repressive, however think about what a girl would think. Usually being so strict will actually inflate their ego because they think they are special, like a diamond kept from … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Dooble's guide to taking women off of a pedestal. Part 2: Femininity is just deficient masculinity.I can see how thinking of femininity as deficient masculinity is a great way to keep a woman off the pedestal in your mind, however women do not have the degree of self awareness to know that femininity is not that great. In fact, nowadays, with social media, they think they are hot shit and have value when it's just ego inflation. They will respond to a dominate male who doesn't take shit from them and is self sufficient, but that is only because that behavior exhibits the "survival" instinct t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 12:35 PM |
| 5 | Woman's SMV is fixed, Man's SMV is malleable. Build your SMV.6 feet tall (at least) with a 6 pack and 6 figures (salary or in the bank) | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 10:55 PM |
| 1 | “But I'm Fine Just The Way I Am!”"A man is living representation of his beliefs, as he believes, so he is." You need to believe in yourself and believe that you are capable, however you must also realize that work is required to reach those heights. Betas will just "believe" and go haywire when their beliefs never pan out to reality. Instead, you must believe AND act. Through acting on your beliefs, you will fail 1000 times however after every failure you will learn and adjust and get just a bit better. This is how confidence i… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Woman's SMV is fixed, Man's SMV is malleable. Build your SMV.Wheb i say major, I mean speaking relatively. If she's overweight, losing weight to become visually appealing will be a significant boost in her smv to a man. If she is a girl who piles up tuition debt while sitting in her bed watching Netflix or even if she is getting by as an art history major or something equally easy and then ends up relying more so on a man as a gold digger vs a woman who can hold a steady job yet still doesn't make as much as you, I'd say studying hard and getting to that … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Woman's SMV is fixed, Man's SMV is malleable. Build your SMV.They CAN do a lot, however they do not possess the capability to. Most if not all are self centered, insecure, and hyper aware of their place in society. If they are not the 7,8,9,10/10 with the 6-6-6 boyfriend and friends at equal or below their SMV, they will be the one who plays the victim (hence the overwhelming SJW land whales we have today). They can study hard, workout like an athlete, develop skills like us, yet its not their nature to. They know what they lack, however for many, even at… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 04:48 PM |
| 3 | "Are you fucking other women?"-----Shit Test!It does however, what does that have to do with her comfort testing you regardless of you being alpha or beta? She will have insecurities regardless of who you are to her. If you're alpha, she could be afraid other women will be around and take you away from her. If you're beta, she could be afraid that you won't be able to afford the house with the master bedroom and walk in closet. It's all relative how she sees you. At the end of the day, she is being selfish either way and is only looking ou… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 02:58 PM |
| 2 | "Are you fucking other women?"-----Shit Test!You may want to consider the fact that you and the beta husband plays different roles, however you both will be comfort tested regardless. He may be comfort tested in things like the house, money, security, while you are being comfort tested in things like other women, seeing as you provide the "alpha" aspect in her life. I wonder if regardless of what role we play, shit tests and comfort tests will occur no matter what, they will just be tailored to what we add to her life. Comfort tests aren't… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 12:28 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Beta white knight set on fire"I don't deserve her" That right there tells you everything you need to know about this guy. The WK honestly believed that being a "nice" guy would lead to the land of pussy. As if there were a transaction taking place, whereas you DID have an objective (getting laid), but didn't make that your focus. You built rapport with others, stayed on everyones good side and set no expectations because even if you struck out, the abundance mentality should exist within you to not slow you down. Unfortunat… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 12:12 PM |
| 1 | What I Learned About my Time Offline: How Hypergamy WorksWell that's where comfort tests come in. She will comfort test you when she feels like it so you just have to be aware of when that happens, else you shouldn't actively display provider qualities. Passing the comfort tests should suffice. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 01:50 PM |
| 1 | What I Learned About my Time Offline: How Hypergamy WorksThe issue between tingles and thinking is where does one meet the other? At what point does thinking override tingles? You want to keep the good feelings going but reaching out too soon can indicate neediness. Waiting too long can have her enter overthinking. This recently happened to me and I am trying to figure out a way around it. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 11:41 AM |
| 9 | Man refuses blind set up date, every women who knows the people involved take the girls sideI've read somewhere that women become nurses to LITERALLY have a better chance of marrying a doctor. Patients be damned. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 05:05 PM |
| 15 | Do Not Ask Women How They Feel; Tell Thema 24 year old woman with a degree, career, and logical? you have a better chance of winning the lottery than finding one of those, hell, the odds are probably even better than that | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 04:38 PM |
| 53 | With Friends Like These....It's great timing that post like this came along. With Thanksgiving just passing by, I'm sure plenty of us (in North America), have heard some rumblings from aunts/grandparents/uncles about marriage and what not. There's a few uncles I have who are 6-8 years older than me and recently got married. One of them who I am close to has a son who is about to turn 1. Seeing the change in him from this guy who went through 4-5 girls in the span of about 7-8 years, hooking up in between relationships, to… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 04:34 AM |
| 0 | Women. Are.Expensive.when I broke up with my ex, I noticed how much smaller my bank statements and how much fatter my wallet became the next few months afterwards. a good feeling nonetheless | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 03:51 PM |
| 29 | Give her a specific invitation to go out rather than a vague "Want to do something tonight?"a mix of that and women want to be lead. they do not want the burden of making a decision because subconsciously that is the mans job. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Are women turned off by the act of lifting (seeing a man struggle)?Lifting weight is relative, if you are a beginner vs a seasoned vet, you'll be at different weights throughout your lifting lifestyle. It wouldn't surprise me if they find the act of lifting unattractive however they go weak in the knees for how you look after the lifting is said and done. Just like how women want to see the results and don't care about the journey it took to get there. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 04:31 AM |
| 1 | LTRs: Even when you win you are still losing (or why the fuck do I do this)The odds are probably good that most of those women are hitting or are past 30 as well | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Why You Shouldn't Explain Female Nature to WomenShe wanted to show off her clit, you just learned about the eiffel tower...it was like fate intervened | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Stay away from "Independent" career womenIt's not like non independent, part time job women are any better either. If anything, they will be more inclined to divorce you should you get married to them because thanks to modern laws, she will be more "entitled" to your shit and she could look just as good, if not better than a career driven women and can branch swing with the best of them | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 01:50 PM |
| 14 | Does beauty corrupt character?Perhaps at one point in time this would've worked. The current issue is that your avg 5-7s are getting the same amount of attention as 8-9s and at times, even more so since some men are literally afraid of approach into an 8-9 so they seek out the lower, more "attainable" end of women. This in turn inflated the egos of your avg 5-7 woman. I remember reading somewhere that the average female in 2015 gets as much attention as a 1955 movie star actress did back in her day. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Being "nice" is always the wrong thing to do."If a man with disposable income meets a woman he likes, doesn't he want to treat her?" I'd love to know what her definition of "treat" is. All she needs to do is find out exactly how much he has in the bank in order to determine the appropriate gift for herself | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 03:46 PM |
| 22 | Stop Being A Beta Orbiter To Your Inner VoiceAgreeing and Amplifying yourself doesn't seem feasible long term as a man because we are more logical than a woman. A&A is great for women because it changes their emotional state from a shit testing one to one less aggressive because you flipped the script on them, didn't back down in frame, and subsequently made them laugh (most times, leading to good "feelz"). As a man, it boils down to self discipline and being in control of your feelings through logic. Yes, men hamster about many things but… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/15 02:52 PM |
| 19 | Girls self value is determined by the men she can fuck - Example from Kimmel Live (interview)You could see her subtly get giddier and giddier as she revealed more details...until they figured it out and it all crashed down. It's like the build up of an emotional rollercoaster with the climax being the reveal of the player, all of which is happening before our eyes. THAT is one way to evoke emotion, the fear of getting caught | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 11:45 AM |
| 124 | Simple guide on how to get a deeper voice.Try this: Hold your nose and read something. If you detect that your voice sounds "nasally" it means you are speaking through your nose and throat more than you should. Adjust where your voice is coming from and "lower" it more into your throat until the "nasal" sound is minimal or completely diminished. Now your voice will be lower. It's actually a great way to quickly adjust your voice before going to a night out. Also, be aware of what your voice is like around certain people. Guys typically … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/15 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Losing respect for accomplished actors and professionals when they echo feminist beliefs?Women are the gender that consumes the most media. Making movies and shows that appeal to feminist interests is ideal for making big profits since they appeal to "feelz" | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/15 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you tell them what they want to hear? Is that lying?It's all about that amused mastery, joke about it and break their frame | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 03:20 AM |
| 7 | Hate the way your LTR is going? You could be forgetting that women are reactive and react to YOU.Regardless of your frame, there is always the chance that your woman may run into a man with a stronger frame, who is fitter/smarter/stronger/more attractive than you. There will always be circumstances where the destruction of the relationship is something that occurs out of your own control, however, the odds aren't as big if you are on top of your shit. Based on how your LTR is going, you have to employ the captain and first mate dynamic because the men lead the relationship so yes, in this p… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/15 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Monica Lewinsky, the alpha widowThis reminds me of the picture a woman posted of her in bed with Julian Edelman (the night after they won this past year's super bowl I believe). Once word got out, she was shunned by so many in Boston for what she did, trying to climb up the social ladder and up her value by making that information public. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/15 02:25 AM |
| 7 | Vitamin D/Zinc - It works30 mg zinc is a good place to stay at, going into the 50 mg range led to heart palpitations so you don't want to over do it. I mainly take mine at night and notice very vivid dreams whenever I do take it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/15 01:15 PM |
| 11 | #FragileMasculinity - For When Marketing Campaigns Targeted at Men Becomes a Sign of the PatriarchyUs not complaining, or at leasing being active in being against things is what let's SJWs think that they can get away with this stuff in the first place. Not to say that we should whine or bitch but we as a gender are complacent as a majority. We are easily swayed for the most part because little things don't matter but over time those things can build up and ultimately ruin our frame. Feminism ideals keep attacking the masculine frame like a spear to a shield and it's up to the male to determi… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 04:26 PM |
| 5 | As you hit 30, you really start to understand the true meaning of 'the wall'.Being 27, I see it a lot more than I used to. I've seen 25-27 year old girls on Tinder who look more like 35-37 and it blows my mind. Also, my ex-gf's friend, a girl who has been a notorious slut (her latest achievement is sleeping with a New York Giants football player after a wedding held in a Meadowlands hotel) just got a cat. It's like clockwork and all I can do is sit back with my popcorn and enjoy the show. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/15 12:54 PM |
| 11 | Is Dwight Schrute RP?He's like a RP autist | /r/askTRP | 13/09/15 12:56 PM |
| 3 | The hardest thing for a woman to see is your back as you walk awaycan you direct me to that post or the title if you remember it? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/09/15 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Is this the new norm now? Letting strangers finger you on the plane? Times have changed...reading the comments on posts where women do "crazy" things is interesting because when people say things like "go on...," it's just as if a beta monkey was sitting on the side lines jerking off while watching an alpha have his way with a female | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Skeptical About TRP Theory? Try it on Your Ex-GF. (Step-by-Step Guide to be her Chad)People break up for different reasons, if she cheated and did shit behind your back, this won't work. If things fizzled out over stuff like distance, work, etc, you could apply this. Relationships end for different reasons, only you can be sure of why it ended and whether the circumstances behind it ending deem this approach. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 03:15 PM |
| 14 | Orbiters give women the energy they need to ride the CCAs women approach post-wall territory, their number of orbiters gets smaller and smaller (though most likely never at 0, because only the worst kind of orbiters will hang around at that point, unless she maintains her looks) Hence, the sudden realization of "marriage," because perhaps they somehow hamster themselves into thinking that having a constant form of attention and validation (via provider husband) is better than no validation. However, they will soon grow bored of that as well, despite… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/15 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Self-loathingDoubting yourself leads to not loving yourself because you stop giving yourself enough credit and sell yourself short. You stop believing in yourself and thats where things like fear of failure build because you would rather do nothing and say you didn't fail and not have a chance to give yourself shit instead of trying and facing failure and "allowing" that self talk to occur. You have to realize that its just a thought/idea that is holding you back from everything you want and if you change th… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 01:00 PM |
| 13 | Loser is one of the most devastating insults you can hit a woman with.having problems means gaining attention, having others feel sorry for you and worst of all, having white knights at your beck and call | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Trp and steroids.I've never done them but IMO I would max out natty and then move on to extra help just to see how far you can go on your own | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 10:36 PM |
| 12 | “Marry a man who loves you more than you love him.”It all comes down to evolution. Shit tests exist to aid in her finding the strongest mate. Yes even with society as it stands today and all the conveniences have we still think like animals and from that perspective, the strongest male is the most well built and aggressive make because he knows how to survive and women are built to respond to this. You're applying too much logic (to an illogical gender) to your statement, especially saying that she should be feminine and submissive even to BP me… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/15 08:41 PM |
| 1 | "Watching sports is a waste of time" - /u/abdada.TRP is an incredible thing, it has helped a lot of us, however the principles aren't the ONLY thing in life. We're human beings, we want to push our limits but even then, we want to be happy. We find happiness in different things and based on what we believe and what /u/abdada just did is break your frame by agitating you and making you feel that you to write this post. Yes, because he had a few more upvotes and influence than a lot of us he is heard a little more, but you always have to fine tu… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/15 02:14 PM |
| 5 | Why the woman with a n=1 count may be most dangerous LTR of allWell it dragged out over about 3 months until we had some closure. By then she wasn't mad but didn't want to continue the relationship. Neither of us were perfect but she has had low self esteem and didn't have much friends during elementary school so she always put her friends (since high school) first because she was scared of doing something that would outcast her. She's 26 turning 27 in Sept so I've definitely had her during her best years and yea, you could say "next" her and all that but i… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 01:31 PM |
| 9 | Why the woman with a n=1 count may be most dangerous LTR of allI've been a victim of this concept. I met my ex when she was 19 and I was 20 and we were both in college (different ones but close by). Besides kissing, we were each other's firsts in everything. The relationship lasted for about 6.5 years until a fight threw her over the edge, along with some attention from a guy at work which was out of my control. During the downhill process that ultimately ended in our break up, she revealed how she would always talk about the bad things to her friends, most… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Hollywood shamelessly promoting AF/BB againHollywood and most consumer driven products are made to cater to the more consumer minded sex, females. When you're product appeals to a female, regardless of how absurd it can be, she will buy it. Most men will take the time out to actually figure out if the product is worth buying, but women will drop the money very quickly if it affords them some sort of benefit, regardless of how impactful the benefit is | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 02:54 PM |
| 5 | Maybe I do want kids or an LTR?I've heard shit within my family, that during social family events, they put up this facade, that everything is perfect but at home, they are nothing more than roommates. Mind you I come from an indian family so BB is rampant as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 01:58 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill Reader's Digest: Lamenting Tradition Whilst Embracing Modern Slut CultureI've been swiping around on Tinder and have seen some shit. I'm 27 and it astounds me at just how bad the average 25-28 year old female looks. Some of these women look like they are 35-40...women really do age like milk | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 03:51 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill Reader's Digest: Lamenting Tradition Whilst Embracing Modern Slut CultureI read on this sub something along the lines of "today's average female gets as much attention as a female movie star did in 1955" all due to social media and the ever expanding reach of a selfie. A girl can post a pic in NYC on instagram and a guy she has never met in LA can "like" it. Imagine what that, x1000 can do to a woman's ego | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 03:49 PM |
| 2 | [FR] After 3 year relationship, wanted to turn me into a beta to replace her BB father that paid for her.I believe women have a certain limit between being with the alpha or the beta. Its not as cut and dry. To have an LTR, there has to be a mix of both characteristics. Too much alpha and she won't feel provided for, too much beta and she will never get tingles. You pretty much have to be ryan gosling with a SMALL side of sam tarley. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 01:06 PM |
| 3 | [FR] After 3 year relationship, wanted to turn me into a beta to replace her BB father that paid for her.Grown women are considered as the "most responsible teenagers in the household" Just like children they like to push and test boundaries, which ones will you set? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 01:03 PM |
| 8 | Natalie Dormer calls BS on "women are objectified more than men" delusion. Also, a discussion of other self-serving myths women perpetuate.This reminds me of when Shailene Woodley said that she loves men. There was a bit of a backlash, most likely perpetuated by the media because of it seeming "anti-feminist," even if it's just her views. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 09:19 PM |
| 19 | Woman thinks her guy friend is being an 'asshole' because he's no longer doing nice things for her after she rejected him.I can't form any rationale as to how she came to that conclusion You can't rationalize it because you are a man. Any man will never truly be able to get 100% of the rationale of a woman's decisions because it is so complex however, the underlying theme is that it is selfish thoughts. A woman thinks solely for herself. She wants to put herself in the best position. If a man wants to be helpful and allow her to make her life that much easier, she will let him. Men will also do this as well however… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Indian girl marries a beta Indian guy after riding the cock carousel, divorces him three years later. Repeat after me: AWALT.Does this Indian friend happen to live in NJ? We're quite the hotbed for daddy's little princesses who love to go to NYC on the weekends or a happy hour on a weeknight and get themselves pumped and dumped | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Does glasses lower your SMV?No, I was in a 6.5 year relationship recently and it was rough but I'm slowly putting myself back together. This post is funny because it brings to light shit she has said to me over the years like her liking the way I looked without glasses and wishing I was taller or thinner or joking about how "dark skinned" our kids might look (we are both Indian, my skin tone is darker than hers). It hurts but ultimately it seems as if she was "thinking out loud" as to how all girls think in terms of what t… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/15 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Does glasses lower your SMV?I've had them for about 16+ years and am contemplating lasik, I do believe it makes a difference | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/15 11:28 PM |
| 4 | Does glasses lower your SMV?I feel as if they do, but not as much as say, having a high BF percentage. If you are fit/muscular with low BF and have glasses, then won't really have much of an impact but I believe it gives off the perception that you have "bad genes." As in, it gives off the subconscious perception that you're eyes don't work right so if women were looking for a "mate," they would prefer their offspring not have what they think is a "deficiency" | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/15 11:08 PM |
| 6 | Vanity Fair's "Tinder and The Dawn of the Dating Apocalypse" is chock-full of RP truthsIt's not even being raised, its their nature, women are genetically prone to leaning towards guys like "chad." This behavior has its own evolutionary origins which have been explained on this sub a lot and it makes sense. Media isn't helping by mixing "how chad looks" with what "billy beta" does | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Beware: Situational Confidence ComplexSituational confidence reminds me of a saying that goes along the lines of...It is better to know a little bit about everything than a lot about just one thing. Confidence has a lot to do with success AND failure in what we do, and more importantly how we approach and react to failure. I think that confidence and situational confidence is one in the same and calling confidence situational is redundant because confidence is an inherently situation related feeling. How much failure you have had wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/15 11:39 AM |
| 16 | Every unhappy wife is a rape victimThat statement might be as close to the truth as it could be. She knew what she wanted in a man, she knew how to play the game, it is the man who failed shit test after shit test, thus, justifying her saying "he isn't the man I thought he was." His failure of her tests revealed that. Yes, you could say she made him that way, but relationships involve power struggles and a man who isn't strong enough to lead will ultimately fail the tests she throws at him and will subsequently not be "man enough… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 04:54 PM |
| 1 | You were never her friendThanks, I had a good idea of what you meant but it always helps to get real life examples. But of course the best way to learn is thru self experience | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 07:29 PM |
| 3 | You were never her friendI realized guys aren't 'stuck' in the friendzone, they chose to be there by failing to define the context of the relationship early on. The first time she and I met, I made it clear what I wanted. I asked about her interests more as a courtesy to open the conversation into what I wanted to do. She went on to describe her orbiters, she had more satellites than Jupiter. Can you elaborate on defining the context of the relationship early on? I understand that you have to set somewhat sexual underto… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 03:45 PM |
| 42 | Post asks women how their SO reacted to their 'high' sexual partner count. The responses are priceless.this is very significant. they want to have their cake and eat it too. deep down its all about power. women know what men want, however they are fighting their very nature about it because all they do is go for "feels." They know their number plays a significant factor however they want to "climb up the ladder" so to speak, fucking as many high SMV males as possible to "raise their own value" in their heads. Even things like LTRs aren't natural. as many advancements as we've made over the thousa… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/15 04:20 PM |
| 3 | The Root of SJW LogicSJWs believe that society should function in a way they understand They want society to be more than something they could understand. They want to "feel" good when they interact with society. They don't want the cold, hard truth, they don't want to face the scary things in life, hence, they want to shape it into what they "feel" is good and their perception of "fair," as long as it doesn't threaten their own identity | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 07:26 PM |
| 14 | The Root of SJW LogicThe words SJW and Logic do not go hand in hand, at least in the male sense of the word. If anything, I think the SJW mindset is a free flowing set of thoughts and ideas based upon feelings. If something doesn't "feel" fair to someone, like a land whale seeing a thin woman in a bikini, they call it "thin privilege." Overall, it's all due to a complete lack of introspection and determining whether they way they are acting is actually appropriate and properly assessing what is fair. Most men, at le… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 06:32 PM |
| 6 | People will always try to put you in a box; break free from that.People want to see you do better...just not better than them | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 02:18 PM |
| 1 | The reason why late 20's guy hates his job but late 20's girl loves her jobIndia is getting westernized more and more everyday, just look at how feminism has been sprouting up lately over there. Also, imagine how the United States and its culture would look to a woman who has been suppressed by a culture so much that she had to opt for an arranged marriage? Imagine what would go through her head seeing all the "empowered" women doing things to men in marriages. Now, you could say that she will not stray due to fear of cultural shaming but regardless, marriage is a doub… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/15 05:13 PM |
| 1 | The reason why late 20's guy hates his job but late 20's girl loves her jobhow often would you find a hot virgin in the first place? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/15 11:19 AM |
| 10 | The reason why late 20's guy hates his job but late 20's girl loves her jobAs an indian guy, I feel this drive more than ever. After having a 6.5 year relationship end, I can definitely relate to the anger phase of TRP and am willing to admit that I am probably still in it. Being 27 and a year out of professional school, I feel the need to move out and do my own thing because at this point, I will simply not accept an arranged marriage and when it comes to meeting women, saying that you still live at home at 27 or 28, despite your individual situation, won't exactly ge… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/15 09:30 PM |
| 4 | Pick up a girl from the bar. She is married.So you're worried about the impression of a man who already fucked your wife? What good will it do you to punch him in the face when he's already dumped his load into your wife's mouth. From that point on the damage is done. Punching him may make you feel better but it prob won't get your wife back, at worst she will see you in a much less light because A) she fucked the guy already and B) you allowed another man to get you so amped up that you had to resort to violence. You're best bet is to la… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/15 08:47 PM |
| 6 | Pick up a girl from the bar. She is married.TRP is amoral, do what you wish with the material, this includes either having morals or not. In turn, this means a man can choose to respect the relationship a married/attached woman is in and not have sex or they can throw it out the window and proceed In a fuck fest. You have the believe that those men owe you and your relationship respect, that's nice. Too bad the world doesn't necessarily work that way | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/15 08:24 PM |
| 16 | Pick up a girl from the bar. She is married.If you're rich and you get cheated on, there's no point in getting mad at the guy. He owes you nothing. It's on your wife or SO to remain faithful as that is part of the relationship but it is on you to make sure she stays faithful, and that happens by exhibiting "alpha" qualities. Even then it's not a given and yes, she may cheat because AWALT but as long as you can walk away from it without leaving the door open for her, you'll be ok | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/15 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Someone on r/GetMotivated posts an inspirational quote about becoming a better man. Bluepill weenies and women start throwing a tantrum in the comments.Motivation makes you "feel" like you. Can do the task at hand. Whether you do it or not is an entirely different question. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 08:53 PM |
| 1 | I'll repost in askTRP if necessary, but I'd rather ask this here: Are you guys happy?Hmm I see, I guess I was more alluding to comparing the good times that were had in the relationship and the belief that a woman can be better than she already is, but I think this is something that is just unique to me right now and I have to really set those beliefs in me that AWALT | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/15 04:30 PM |
| 2 | I'll repost in askTRP if necessary, but I'd rather ask this here: Are you guys happy?Based on what your saying, and I am going through this right now, although I am aware and working through it, have you ever considered the fact that you might be comparing your ex to everyone you've dated after breaking up? I've been dating around and find myself in a whole new world after 6 years in a relationship. It's slow and steady but you have to be aware that you can't expect the same kind of relationship that you had with your ex. The closeness, the little things you knew about each othe… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | I'll repost in askTRP if necessary, but I'd rather ask this here: Are you guys happy?That's rough man, mine ended with a fight I started when I should've been much calmer. Regardless, before your break up, how would you say your relationship was? Did you imagine yourself marrying this girl? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/15 03:46 PM |
| 1 | I'll repost in askTRP if necessary, but I'd rather ask this here: Are you guys happy?If you don't mind me asking, why did she dump you? I am currently going through something similar. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/15 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Backup Forums in the Event of a Shutdown.I definitely think Puearchy is due for an overhaul but at least it exists as a back up. I'd like to think that it would be re-formatted into something more akin to reddit or an actual forum to make it more user friendly. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 02:54 AM |
| 0 | Jiro Dreams of Sushi and The Red Pilldocumentaries like this need to be made more often, however, its hard to find a man with as much dedication to his craft as Jiro. It seems that he comes from a real old school culture of Japan with a lot of emphasis on living their work. Now you see what has happened in Japan and wonder how the hell it got that way. With technology, the world is a much smaller place and with the ever increasing amount of people with low self esteem and low self worth, the wails of SJWs and Feminists will get eve… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 02:52 AM |
| 15 | Dress code sparks protest in Canadian schoolsyou can raise her into anything you want but at the end of the day, she's going to want to fit in with the crowd. Being a social outcast is detrimental to a woman, it lessens her chance of survival, hence why fat feminists are trying to do things like level the professional playing field because they can't compete beauty-wise so they are looking for other ways to better themselves. At this point in time, "fitting in" means seeking as much attention as your phone can handle via instagram, snapcha… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 09:20 PM |
| 9 | Testing Women for MotherhoodYou are analyzing roosh's mother vs someone who you are dating. A more appropriate example would be someone who you are dating that does show "mothering" qualities. From a dating perspective, you wouldn't really be able to figure that out unless you were deeper into a relationship and even then, some women are in it for the long con, especially if they know you make a pretty penny at work. To be able to determine a woman's ability as a mother is not only impossible but unrealistic as a woman und… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/15 03:06 AM |
| 10 | Not caring. It's slowly starting to sink in.the first paragraph is where you have it all wrong. Wrong in the sense that you come off thinking that she shares the same viewpoint as you in terms of why you initiated "first contact" You are applying too much logic to a situation where you needed to "feel" the situation and act based on the IOIs. As a guy, I can agree with your logic, but logic doesn't get a woman's panties wet | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 02:36 AM |
| 16 | Guy's girlfriend pushes him to open up the relationship. Guy decides he deserves better and dumps her. Girlfriend subsequently has a mental breakdown.my younger brother is currently 25 and getting married to his fiance and they are both in med school. They're starting the marriage off by her going to a residency in NYC while he is doing a 2 year research thing in baltimore. I just got out of a 6 year relationship where I was about to pop the question to a girl I thought I could spend the rest of my life with. Too bad they're all fuckin crazy. Marriage is rough enough as it is, I can't imagine how it will be without a good start | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 02:09 AM |
| 3 | For Asians and IndiansIts not just salt, the traditional food is carb laden. Things like rice, naan, rotli, are staples along with other snacks. Its more common in older folk but of course they will get you on that track because you gotta eat what your mom makes. More carbs lead to the bloat as well. Just make your own food, I've been cutting weight so for me right now, tilapia and steamed spinach is my go to. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 01:57 PM |
| 9 | Just because you have the body of a God doesn't mean you get quality assI honestly believe that the first rule to sex with a woman is to be attractive. Once this happens then anything else is fair game. Just as you said, you get your foot through the door by being attractive, after that, its all up in the air based on what you do. You can get away with more if you are attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 01:44 AM |
| 5 | Something within TRP "guidelines" I feel that I struggle with - Hypocrisy.The people on PPD are using shame tactics and making you feel self conscious. They feel threatened by those ideas that are simply the truth but basically want to condition you into thinking its "wrong," just like how some cultures say if you masturbate you'll grow hair on your palms. Their arguments are emotion based and only work to shame with no basis in truth. Deep down, all women know that it is bad to be labeled as a slut or whore by society, hence LMR and all that fun stuff. With men, you … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/15 11:28 AM |
| 27 | Good sex should never be an indicator of a woman's loyalty.It all comes down to SMV. Even if you have high enough SMV for her to fuck you, another guy with the same or higher (aka Clooney), can come around and have a piece of her. Women do not possess loyalty, its not in their genes. To them, whether they acknowledge it or not, it's all about survival and who will supplicate them the best. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/15 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Confused about social sexual etiquette.Can you create a post expanding on the concept of strength of emotion? After reading this it hits home. I can't tell if you have or haven't because my app isn't working right, else I'll look more later at home, thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 01:42 PM |
| 7 | Hard Lesson from a Redditor from /r/entrepreneur, his wife wants to divorce him because his business isn't successfulThis kind of lack of support doesn't even have to apply to poor business performance. The main issue here is attention towards her. You can explain how hard something will be and how difficult it will be for her and she will say "yea yea I know" but then when it really goes down, and she finds out that she wasn't prepared for all of it, she starts flipping a shit saying its your fault when it was you who warned her in the first place. Unless the guy had more to offer than just beta bucks, she is… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 11:48 AM |
| 4 | Lane Bryant's #ImNoAngel Campaign tries to redfine overweight as sexythe best kind of marketing for any business is the one that appeals to the most people...unfortunately this seems to be landwhales. companies could care less about people's feelings, they just see what people are responding to nowadays and try to capitalize on it. For instance, I saw on reddit recently that a bigwig at Roche pharmaceuticals said something akin to "we are in the business of selling drugs, not saving lives," hence why you see drugs cost an arm and a leg for a pill. Businesses exis… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/15 03:49 PM |
| 0 | Don't blame women. Blame yourself.When your woman tells you to do something or fix something or handle something that, honestly, you really should have already done, fixed, or handled on your own, you are now the woman. You should have proactively noticed something that needed doing and taken care of it, simply because you keep your life in order and run a tight ship. If she notices the problem first and tells you about it, you are now female. I don't agree with this on the basis that it gives off the notion that we essentially … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Kill Your Ego or Stay Beta Forever"so why are you on tinder" is a great question to move the conversation into a more sexual direction. Just last night I was talking to a 21 year old, albeit I got her number off of tinder and was texting her, asked her why tinder. She also wanted to do something along the lines of my profession and doesn't live that far so I invited her to a "late night tour" of my office, with an emphasis on showing her what a table felt like. From there, she bit the bait and I believe she is coming by tonight.… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/15 11:29 AM |
| 0 | why do most women like rough sex? it's all in the brain...It's controversial but makes sense on a primitive level. Nowadays sex is only "rape" if the woman has buyers remorse in the morning or worse, even eye contact had been elucidated into a form or rape, which is a sad realization but not surprising based on the sjw bs that's been going around. If you have high enough smv, you can do almost anything to her. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Asian and Indian guys in the USA, you need to realize that your parents are trying hard to make you into betabucks.texas/florida/nj/nyc is crawling with indian girls, especially if you live near a college town. its like mommy and daddy gave them keys to a room (their dorm) to fuck in without recourse. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Asian and Indian guys in the USA, you need to realize that your parents are trying hard to make you into betabucks.just went through a rough break up with my ex gf of 6.5 years. struggling with the idea of who she is now vs who she was when the times were good, but things are getting better day by day. anyways, my younger brother is getting married and every so often my parents will mention either me or my youngest brother getting married. This is after the fact that I told them how girls are nowadays and how I don't plan on marrying anytime soon, if at all. It's like in one ear and out the other. I think it… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Warning: Prepare for Subreddit ShutdownI just took a look a puerarchy and its layout seems a bit dated, is there any way we could turn it into something more forum like so that more interaction is allowed? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 12:48 PM |
| 1 | why do most women like rough sex? it's all in the brain...honestly, i think that its a push and pull with the limbic system and other systems (the secondarily developed systems). When it comes to primal functions such as the 4 Fs (fighting, fucking, fleeing, and feeding), we should not compromise and give it all that we possibly can to obtain one or more of the functions as needed. The other parts, such as our heightened intelligence compared to other animals, should be used to enhance the 4 Fs | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 12:09 AM |
| 2 | why do most women like rough sex? it's all in the brain...it should, and all men fortunately do, but as you know, many men are BP conditioned at a young age so it gets suppressed | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/15 11:30 PM |
| 0 | Despite Mayweather's 48th (undefeated) victory last night, it's still somehow about women.Hernandez killed a man, imagine the media reaction if he killed a woman. A person is a person, regardless of gender, it just shows how much the media twists things and what they value in order to get a spike in ratings. men are the disposable gender | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 04:45 PM |
| 9 | High value men in their 40s often bounce back after marriage.women are social creatures, they go with the crowd. For example, lets use observations I made on the "big" mayweather/pacquiao fight, especially on social media. I for one am not a fan of boxing and didn't get caught up in the hype and actually was on a flight back home when the fight was happening, just to show how much I don't care about it. Other guys though, have AT LEAST a background on the fight, the issues revolving around it (how it should've happened 5 years ago etc etc). Then, you see … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Everyone Is not equalEntitlement is such an ugly, negative word, I wouldn't be surprised if the word equality was established in replacement on purpose to make it more socially acceptable and palatable | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 09:37 PM |
| 4 | Because White men won't commit...Even that's been on the fritz. Feminism has been hitting the city parts of India pretty hard lately especially after the raping of women in villages | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 05:19 PM |
| 7 | Because White men won't commit...Decent Indian girls are becoming harder and harder to come by unfortunately, I believe they get the special snowflake syndrome harder than any other girl because it's reinforced by their family | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 03:33 PM |
| 13 | " He can't get hurt, he has muscles" [FR]Kids, up until maybe puberty, don't have a social filter, they tell it like it is. A while back, maybe a year ago, there was a similar post of a kid saying something very RP. Too bad so many get so conditioned by society that they have too extreme of a filter. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 12:56 PM |
| 6 | Your Body Is A Physical Manifestation of your ValuesI believe what OP said here is correct, however he should've worded his title differently. The title should've been "Your Body is A Physical Manifestation of your Values TO OTHERS" Then, what he said would hold more ground because no one gives a shit how many hours your put into your body, no one cares that you've been athletic all your life, or had to start from the bottom and lose fat and gain muscle. No one cares. All they care about is if you HAVE IT and what can it do for THEM. People are s… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 12:49 PM |
| 2 | How BP friends can turn on you, and how easy it is for them to throw you under the bus."You should accept yourself for who you are" Just along the lines of "be yourself" to weed out betas, she wants him to remain her orbiter and knows (but will never reveal) that changing and improving himself will only be a disadvantage to her | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Express Yourselfespecially when many teachers are female | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 07:27 PM |
| 18 | "The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man."Women simply want to be associated with high status, but they can't do it through themselves, like men can. Instead, women need men to latch onto as the man rises. This is why women go for high status men instead of seeking to become high status themselves. By seeking a high status man, they become perceived as high status and thus, can avoid all the hard work the man did to become high status, but still enjoy all the benefits. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 05:59 PM |
| 11 | A comprehensive guide to developing confidence.I think he might've meant apathy towards the outcome, more along the lines of outcome abundance. Don't let anxiety take over, simply be apathetic towards it and move on with your life. So what if that girl doesn't give you the time of day?? Next her and move on. Learn from the experience and use it to better yourself | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/15 06:58 PM |
| 12 | Women are addicted to validationValidation exists on multiple levels. Fishing for upvotes is merely the tip of the iceberg. Women feed off of validation in groups as well. They feel the need to be seen as high status by women and men alike. This is why they gravitate to high status men, so that they can get a piece of the action and in turn, elevate their own status along with feeding their egos | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/15 05:19 PM |
| 34 | "TRP is too nice to men, too mean to women. Waaaah!" ... the responseWomen can be the cause if you let them. It's part of the reason why you are on this sub in the first place. As a man, you are the captain, she is your first mate. If the first mate has no idea how to handle the wheel of the ship, yet you let her, you're never going to get to your destination. It's up to you to make sure she knows that you are in control and making all the decisions else not only will she steer the relationship elsewhere, she will resent you for it too | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/15 02:49 PM |
| 1 | If society fully admitted being nice doesn't get men laid, then people would realize that women are fucked up. If women are fucked up then feminism is indefensible.It's more than that, women know all about AF/bb and they only deny it so that they don't get "fake" alphas. They want genuine 100% alpha genetic material for their kids and AF/bb is just one giant shit test so that they can root out the guys who aren't worth their time (at least until conception occurs with an alpha) | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Women and 'friendships'.To clarify, I meant in excess. She currently goes out EVERY weekend, and drinks at least twice a week. I have no issue with her doing these things and I enjoy doing it with her, my qualm is that it has to be a daily thing with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 10:37 PM |
| 5 | In theory everyone hates Red Pillers. In practice, they love them.This can apply to more than just women. Although TRP is about sexual strategy, we have seen it expand into other facets of life...health, work, friendships, etc. People have been raised and taught notions that things "should" be a certain way. Being nice and chivalrous to a woman "should" make them love you more than if you were an asshole. Giving a woman everything she asks for and more (a nice house, a few kids, two cars, 2-3 vacations a year) "should" make her a happy wife. Even just being ni… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 06:37 PM |
| 0 | Women and 'friendships'.In her case I do doubt it. Its possible she might've had someone in mind, but I've come to the conclusion that she realized her time was running short and she might as well look elsewhere to get what she wants and not necessarily had someone lined up so she took the more "honorable" (if you can say that) approach and broke it off instead of doing shit behind my back. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 04:22 PM |
| 4 | Women and 'friendships'.You actually brought up something that is significant to my situation. My gf is very close to her high school friends and especially close to two girls, one who has been a notorious narcissistic slut and the other who actually works in the same field as me but it seems like she is working just to get through the day and not really develop professionally. They drink at least 1-2 times a week, light social drinking and they do "girly things" like brunch and wine tasting on a daily basis. Being in … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 03:48 PM |
| 9 | "5 Scientific Reasons Why Women Just Won’t Go For The Nice Guys" - Red Pill confirmation directly from the horse's mouthThe same can be applied for men. Who hasn't heard of the saying "guys think with their dicks?" The only difference is that the level of intensity to which we "think" with our dicks seems to determine the outcome with a woman. Women will have their vagina "override" her thoughts and will subsequently justify her actions AFTER she gets fucked by a high smv male so she doesn't seem slutty even though all women are wired to be this way. For men, sexual aggression isn't as cut and dry. The average BB… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 03:04 PM |
| 0 | Women and 'friendships'.I highly doubt it because I'm her first serious bf and first everything besides kissing. Based on studies posted on trp, she was as solid a mate as she could be because she didn't have multiple partners, I was the only one. She didn't want to be with me because she thought she wouldn't be happy. This was also based on the fact that she has no school loans and can do almost anything while I'm handicapped by the loans for the time being. Not only that, she said I changed after graduating grad scho… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 01:50 PM |
| 7 | Women and 'friendships'.pretty sure my ex was attempting to do this to me yesterday. bitch breaks up with me because she doesn't think she will be "happy." I'm a medical professional who is currently neck deep in loans but I had it all planned out to bring them down. she was with me for 6.5 years and there were ups and downs but i thought she was worth it til now. Then she texts me a few weeks later asking me how I am. I never responded. I know the game and she just wants me around because at 26, her looks have faded s… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 11:37 AM |
| 4 | My girlfriend of 3 years suddenly doesn't want to blow meMy ex did this to me as our relationship was going downhill. After 6.5 years she said that and it blew (pun intended) my fucking mind. I was like "who is this girl and what happened to my gf"? We're broken up now so it doesn't really matter, although she was quite good at it. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/15 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Moving On From The PastI've found that saying one thing and doing another has been difficult. It helps if in a difficult situation that you talk to someone going through something similar because they could provide you with a new perspective that can really change the way you think. I recently broke up with my ex of 6.5 years and although I was keeping busy, I had bouts of serious depression. My uncle introduced me to a friend who just got out of an engagement (the guys fault, not hers) and we talked about our individ… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 04:48 PM |
| 6 | A moment of RP-TIER frame control from my best friend with his LTRWomen always speak and act before they think and even when they do think, they're never at fault. It's up to you to be that rock that keeps her grounded else she will hamster herself into oblivion. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 04:42 PM |
| 0 | girls confess they cheat during spring breakAs an Indian guy, it's not getting any easier finding a decent Indian chick who hasn't been with only 2-3 guys. Mommy and daddy lock them down during high school and then they let loose in college. Ok top of that they (more so than any other ethnicity) have tiny dog syndrome thanks to their parents and basically think they're gods gift to earth and have major entitlement issues. After breaking up with my gf of 6.5 years for ridiculous reasons, I don't feel like putting forth effort for a relatio… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 05:10 PM |
| 5 | [FR] I (28/m) went on a second Tinder Date with a Blonde (22/f)I'm beginning to think I for one need to differentiate physical/verbal/emotional shit tests. She physically called the Uber and could've easily set the frame that she was leaving and that was that. But he over took her frame based on how receptive she was to his escalation, which is something that needs to be acknowledged. I think that it is one thing to verbally pass a shit test but its another when it comes to physically engaging the woman's actions and overtaking frame that way. But the under… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 03:42 PM |
| 3 | On the Topic of Defining an Attractive Woman.It's like when you are in the process of hooking up with a chick and she says "I'm not usually like this." They justify in their minds that they aren't slutty yet they continue in the behavior of hooking up. Their nature goes against their logic because they fear being slut shamed but want to be the slut deep down. Women will never hold themselves accountable for their actions. They will use their "logic" to justify it and will at times not even disclose the real number of times they took a ride… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/15 07:04 PM |
| 2 | The Era of PityNot to undermine the fact that men also participate in victim hood but there was a quote I read on one of the posts in this sub recently which was something like this: in order to make a female character, I think of a man and take away reason and accountability. Men with low self esteem rally around women who promote all forms of victimhood because they most likely think it'll get them a shit inside their pants (not sure why you'd want to go into a feminist's pants in the first place imo) By not… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/15 06:49 PM |
| 1 | The marriage apocalypse. CNN talks to kent state students on there future ambitions.Like I said I never expected them to fully back me but they didn't shell out a penny | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Please don't talk to girls over social media.Well there is the anger phase but of course accepting their nature is what will not only bring you peace but even amusement because then you can see just how predictable that "special snowflake" is. I feel that you won't just pass through the anger phase into the acceptance phase. I think it's a mix of both. You'll flow in and out of both phases, in the sense that you will feel angry but will know WHY you are angry instead of pure blind emotion. From there you can level yourself out and calm dow… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Dear Red Pillers. I present you.... my father.The fact that you are aware of your father's behaviors is important and you shouldn't underestimate that. You can use it to grow and form your own path. Write down everything your father does that you feel is blue pill, then write out what YOU would do and internalize it. You are on the path to change but you just don't know it | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Please don't talk to girls over social media.Some of the shit guys say on Instagram sickens me, even worse is when you see girls on Instagram promoting their snapchat and those same girls will promote their Instagram through snapchat. All they want is attention and there is no such thing as "enough" attention | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 07:02 PM |
| 2 | The marriage apocalypse. CNN talks to kent state students on there future ambitions.It's a mix of both proper parenting and being able to financially support your children. I once read that parents will spend an average of $1 million on their kids throughout their lifetime. Speaking from my own personal experience, my father has a bachelors degree and my mother quit college because she was pregnant with me and never went back. I also have two younger siblings. Our parents have done a hell of a job raising us (I am a physical therapist, one of my brothers is finishing medical sc… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Please don't talk to girls over social media.It's a shame what social media has done to society. People have their heads in their phone more than anything and judge attractiveness based on pictures and snapchats than by actual conversation. If you're attractive, it can be a great way of getting a catching a woman's eye for her to be further interested however most guys are simply seen as a "like" or a "follower," which feeds into a woman's already inflated ego. If anything, social media can help you reach out to more women but it also adds… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Quick recommendations for building an aesthetic male bodyI'm surprised no one has mentioned The New Encyclopedia of Modern Bodybuilding: The Bible of Bodybuilding by Arnold Schwarzenegger! I just got it for about $20 off of amazon and just started reading it this weekend and can't put it down. It's 830ish pages of information ranging from anatomy, diet, to workouts and more, all by the man himself. Ive had it for a few days already and I highly recommend it, you won't be disappointed | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/15 07:38 PM |
| 1 | I'm utterly frustratedYou told her what she needed to do regarding soda and she didn't like that. It's just like telling a kid they can't donor have something because it's bad for them, they will just cry. Women are the worst when it comes to being called out because they know what the truth is, they just don't wanna hear about it. Also, you lost frame by feeling like shit and giving in to her crying. Hold firm and make it known what your view is else a woman will know that all it takes is some tears and a whimper to… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/15 12:41 PM |
| 7 | red pill conversation at a job interviewhooking up with her is like hover a lit match over a fuse attached to 10 tons of dynamite...its eventually gonna blow (pun intended) | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/15 01:51 PM |
| 7 | Sister had me listen to Taylor Swift's 1989: Track 9 talks about Alphas. Track 10 lies to Betas.I've heard here and there on the radio that she's a stone cold businesswoman in reality, she knows what she's doing in terms of her brand, then again it could be her agent or someone else orchestrating all of it | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/15 12:24 AM |
| 3 | She did her bestthis falls in line with the whole "being a stay at home mom is the hardest job in the world" bullshit line. i have a patient who is that. she's in her 50s, not bad looking but definitely aged, and she's a stay at home mom who does odds and ends jobs, runs errands, and told me this past week that she wasn't doing any of the cooking "because it wasn't anywhere in the marriage contract" this is a woman who goes skiing on the weekends, bikes, works out, pays bills, and other errands and you're telli… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 01:16 PM |
| 3 | When women use "special events" to be free of all accountabilityie. "retail therapy" or, blowing money on unnecessary shit just to "feel" better | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 01:33 AM |
| 0 | Being alpha, beta or omega is irrelevant—it's getting what you want that matters.I think that it includes that but you need to have boundaries and self respect for it to work. If it were only simply doing whatever it takes to get what you want, one could give an example of a stunning blonde who you want to have sex with but will only do so if you let her peg you in the ass. Not to say there is anything wrong with that but if that isn't your thing and you aren't comfortable with it but you'll go through with it to get a chance with a girl like that, then you lose self respect… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 05:35 PM |
| 14 | [FR] Asian SJW plate talking shit about asian guys.Not only that but when they find out asian men date white women, they get PISSED, like their pussy is made of diamonds while women of any other race is made of dirt | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 01:58 AM |
| 11 | As a man you can never 'own' someone else's accomplishments or wealth. Thats what separates the sex's, we only get what we earn.this guy throws around his wealth like a drunk man trying to piss on a target | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 04:26 PM |
| 6 | The Trinity of Security, Status, Escape.As a man, you would want to logically provide a solution...ie. if she is unappreciated, tell her to not to worry about what others think, or if she is under paid, you would tell her to get another job with better pay...however, what she wants is just someone to vent to, she could hardly care less about fixing the situation, just that someone listens and gave her ATTENTION, because she basically wants to FEEL wanted...fucking feelings man, just gotta accept the way they are and find a way to move… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/15 04:15 AM |
| 2 | What female integrity isSo now they create their own definition of integrity, and it's a steaming pile of shit. | /r/TRPOffTopic | 05/03/15 09:34 PM |
| 34 | "I wanted to cry on his shoulder, not the other way around."You are the rock which the violent waves of her ocean wash upon | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 02:12 AM |
| -9 | Lately I've found: Girls want to get laid but not make the decision consciously.great quote, sounds like a potential tattoo | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Be socialIntroversion/Extroversion isn't so cut and dry that one can thrive by taking up aspects of another. This is something that comes down to the genetic level. Now, I am an introvert but I do value applying extroversion here and there. I spend time with friends but also realize I have my own shortcomings. As an introvert, I would simply like to stay in and do my own thing, however, if I want friends, I know that i have to reach out and make plans and set things up. I have to make the effort, and as … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Patricia Arquette's Oscar speechit seems like the only reason big media gets behind feminism is because a majority of its viewers are ham planets so why not feed the machine that powers their ratings? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 12:31 PM |
| 6 | Beware the dangers of the MMF threesome.This guy felt uncomfortable throughout the whole experience and basically let it happen. The WHOLE time his frame was shot and basically he became first mate to his captain wife. If anything, he deserved it because he never made his case known and let her take the reigns the whole time. Let it serve as a learning experience for him | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 08:21 PM |
| 6 | "Nice guy" since becoming assertiveThis reminds me of guys who make themselves too available, who answer texts too fast or pick up the phone too quick. Its like making yourself submissive to the other person if you say "yes" too much, which basically gives off the vibe that you and your time isn't that valuable seeing as you have enough time to contact the other person fast enough because you aren't busy enough (ideally improving yourself) | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 03:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR – Follow up] You guys were right (as usual)she won't thank you because from the way it sounds, she initiated the break up when you two were together so somewhere in her head, she may be thinking that contacting you will end up shifting the "power" (ie. he/she who cares least has the most power) so she is staying away, plus, her ego must be so far up her ass that she probably thinks that any contact may cause you to fall hard for her again, so she's doing you a "favor" by not saying anything (in her mind at least) | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 03:11 AM |
| 21 | How men and women treat those with low SMV.I'll hand this to women, they are much MUCH more natural at being social creatures than men are. This isn't to say that a man can't be, it's just that a majority of us are here to raise our SMV and I'm sure that being more social falls under that. Because they are more in tune socially, they have that "intuition" on their standing, hence why they go after the top 20% of men, because simply being associated with a top 20% man will raise their SMV astoundingly. The opposite goes for men in the bot… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Take a break, come back strongerWell let me rephrase that, I am paying off my loans based off of the payment plans however I am using whatever money I have left (that could be used towards loans) to save for a ring. I do have automatic deposits into savings accounts for emergency funds and what not so I am covering myself for rainy days. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 05:06 PM |
| -2 | Take a break, come back strongergood advice, I plan on hiring a well reputed fitness coach or nutritionist to give me a blueprint on what I need to do in terms of diet, more so than lifting | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Take a break, come back strongerSee, the thing is I've done it before, for 2 months with her, she gave me her reasons and I understood, I told her though, if it ever happens again, theres no going back, and I'm staying true to my word, as much as it kills me inside...which isn't as much as I thought it would | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Girl bangs NFL star and posts it over social mediahe got hit really bad during one play, a solid helmet to helmet which wasn't called, i believe | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 12:29 PM |
| 15 | Take a break, come back strongerThis seems like it couldn't have come at a better time. I'm currently going through what seems like will be a break up with my gf of 6.5 years, a girl who seemed solid enough to actually marry. However, she acted in line with TRP thinking in that she flipped her switch once a huge fight happened, which was over a disagreement. The girl won't even kiss me. Honestly though, its about 80% relief and 20% sadness for me if we break up. I just graduated school and have loans up the ass to pay for whic… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Learn from older menTalking to your elders is a great way of learning. My father always told me things and when I asked why I should do it this way, he often mentioned that he has "experience" in it. Now this doesn't mean I should take every word he says for granted because although my dad has had some crazy antics in his youth (which I've heard from my uncles), I've noticed he's definitely spill out some BP, conservative advice more often than not, and I think its just because he doesn't want to see me get hurt. B… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 11:49 AM |
| 4 | Post wall woman surprised when she feels hurt by lover's disinterest in "taking her out to dinner"even then, that epiphany/realization never comes to all women, even post wall. some are smart and do the whole "date up/marry down" thing but there are those who never catch on to that and then boom, here they are 32 years old still dating (or trying to get a date) and appalled at how men go for the younger women while not giving them the attention they so "rightfully deserve" | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Women are Childrenwell yes, thats definitely true, the preservatives and artificial flavors they put in junk food is what shapes your palette and giving good food time to fix it is something that she isn't willing to do because she simply "can't" (her words) | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Women are ChildrenThis reminds me of a 15 year old patient of mine who I had a discussion regarding food choices. She's in good shape but I attribute that to youth and genetics (metabolism). Her diet is basically pizza, chicken nuggets, and whatever she craves at the moment, and explained how she is a picky eater and doesn't eat healthy food her mother makes. I asked her why she doesn't eat what her mom makes and she says that she "can't" and that it doesn't taste good to her. I explained of course, a lot of stuf… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 05:14 PM |
| 5 | You CAN change your persona. Don't let others shame you back to your old ways.I personally think its strange to send a message to everyone as to what you are doing, it gives off a sort of "not rock the boat" kind of vibe and might be attention seeking as well. You may be changing your persona but making sure everyone is aware of it may be taking it too far | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Why does Hollywood continuously put out films with a "kick-ass" female protagonist?its all about the benjamins, smart people who know how to exploit the masses by feeding to both parties, either that or they've caved under feminist pressure and want to satisfy neon blue haired, kankleled womyn | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 07:13 PM |
| 1 | The demotivatoinal playlist I hear every time at the gymfree pizza and bagels are quite hard to beat | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 02:39 AM |
| 6 | The demotivatoinal playlist I hear every time at the gymplanet fitness especially, for $10 a month, that membership will be long forgotten and running on millions of bank statements. a combination of that and the "judgment free zone" is the work of a genius who is is probably sitting on millions right now | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 10:46 PM |
| 1 | What is innate/primal vs. What is civilized/proper/PCYou definitely hit a note here because a lot of people nowadays have a warped perception of what a "hard life" really is. A lot of people have grown up with cell phones at the age of 2 and being able to whine and cry for whatever they want and have it handed to them. To have mommy and daddy pay for everything and come out of college debt free. They don't know what it truly means to work hard. Because of this problem, of not valuing what you have, of not really having to put effort into anything,… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 01:50 AM |
| 8 | My experience as a highschool male surrounded by feminism.girls who say they're pansexual most likely had a whole pan pizza for lunch | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Cowboys RB Demarco Murray aka 'Spray Tan' Sleeps with Oklahoma RB's wife, affair outed on twitteralong with the branch swinging, demarco murray also had another child by heidi mueller, a soap tv show actress, who is attractive. (preselection). its like hypergamy was a child's storybook laid out in the simplest terms and it was all unfolding before your eyes. it just goes to show you that status means more to women than even an athletic body, which both men have | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 05:08 PM |
| 20 | Carousel rider lies to her husband about her history, gets busted after marriagesomeone should forward that bj video to her mom, that'll make her understand real good | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 05:22 PM |
| 5 | Carousel rider lies to her husband about her history, gets busted after marriagethanks, didn't get my coffee in at the time lol | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 05:14 PM |
| 56 | Carousel rider lies to her husband about her history, gets busted after marriageThere's plenty of posts explaining why, I've made a few comments on them myself (as I am indian and see this happening first hand) but its basically them being on lockdown by their parents up until high school and then basically unleashed upon the world when they go to college and dorm and are away from mommy and daddy. Many indian women are vegetarian or at the very least thin and attractive to a point so they have no issue finding guys. Put yourself in their shoes, sure, in high school they we… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 02:48 PM |
| 9 | Snoop dog dishes red-pill advice on Kim Kardashianhe says that now, but if by any chance her fortune tanks, that statement will become null and void | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 11:18 AM |
| 3 | The Hotter the Girl, the Weaker the Self Esteem and the Higher the EntitlementWhen you talk about the 1/10 girl, I think you are stating what we IDEALLY think she should be, but unfortunately that isn't the case. Due to feminism, the 1/10 girl is doing her best to level the playing field by getting her grips on widespread media (i.e. huff post, cosmo, etc). She is also playing the politically correct card while being selective at it as well so that she gets to have her cake and eat it too. She says "you go girl" when a 1/10 girl gets a high SMV male but when a 1/10 guy go… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Do women ever end a relationship without someone lined up?Whether the woman is post wall or not, i think there needs to be a certain degree of SMV for a woman to end the relationship. If she has none, and subconsciously knows it, she won't go, because you are her best shot. Women with enough SMV to know that they can get another man, even if they don't have one lined up, because to them, the notion that the grass may possibly be greener on the other side exists | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Women take rejection much worse than men, yet all the creep shaming attention is always focused on guys.I read a different post on this sub and it speaks to me. The post basically said that women might actually be thriving on "creep shaming." Its like a form of SMV in itself because having someone to CALL a creep can, in some ways, boost a woman's ego. If a woman didn't have someone to call a creep, she either is A) surrounded by high SMV men all the time or B) is fat and has no one that will creep on her (and will subsequently manipulate the term "creeping" into having a male simply breathe the a… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 05:32 PM |
| 2 | "Gyms should get rid of mirrors and ban Lycra to encourage more fat people to lose weight, the Public Health Minister has said."Great idea (the lycra thing, not the mirrors, need those to work on form), but it simply won't work unless its a gym with some integrity, which many gyms nowadays aren't. I read a post on a different subreddit talking about how gyms want you to buy more "soy protein kale shakes" than to actually do what you go to a gym to do. At the end of the day, its all about the bottom line and gyms ARE a business so they will do whatever it takes to get that extra person to subscribe to a membership. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 05:26 PM |
| 3 | my conversation skills have transformed ever since I came on red pillsounds legit, perhaps starting with small favors and working your way up to bigger ones will create bigger feelings of investment | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 03:09 PM |
| 2 | my conversation skills have transformed ever since I came on red pillin a way, its like asking someone for a favor, and i've read that people respond more positively to you when you ask for a favor (not entirely sure why but combining asking a favor while making it seem like they are seeking your good graces seems like a great way to enhance rapport) | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 02:59 AM |
| 4 | TRP: Just what is so special about college life in the USA and what advice would you give to people that missed out on it?I dormed in college for my first 2 years and i regret not doing more, especially in my first year. I didn't take advantage of the social opportunities, i didn't put myself out there as much as i could've, and I look back on it to this day and it depresses me. I just sat in my room on my laptop, and sure, I talked with some girls, but never made moves, never really established myself as someone who would be "alpha" material. I always believed I could've done more, looking back on it. Then I ended… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Why women don't tell you what they wantThis runs in line with why you should never ask a woman how to get other women. They will tell you "be nice, tend to her needs, bullshit bullshit..." but deep down subconsciously, they want you to be "genuinely" alpha. If they tell you that they want you to take charge, hold a strong frame, lift, etc, then they are giving away their blueprint for an ideal man because now you are going to change yourself, instead of being "genetically" inclined to be/do all those things. When it comes down to it,… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 02:43 PM |
| 35 | An example of a girl who wants to get out of a LTR to ride the cock carousel.She isn't a slut, its reasonable and logical to have the feelings she is having IF and only IF she hasn't been with anyone else. What she shouldn't expect is her bf to come back to her after she's done. and if she's riding the CC, then she will get whats coming to her | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Female soldier on front lines in Afghanistan: "I kinda just like hit the deck and hide and let the boys deal with it. That's kinda...my way of dealing with it."My issue isn't with women in the armed forces, what really gets me FURIOUS is when feminists are looking to LOWER our standards for training our members in the armed forces. why in the fucking world would i want to make my training program easier so that you could be able to complete it? its hard for a reason and thats what makes our armed forces one of the best in the world. lowering our standards for training just to allow more women in is fucking ridiculous and feminists will never understand… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 06:17 AM |
| 3 | An ESPN Rant with too much truth...the only good thing about espn are their 30 for 30 series and E:60 shows, thats about the last bit of real journalism thats left on that station | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Falling in 'love' with an Indian slut. Help.its no secret society but there's plenty of people out there who know the concepts with which it consists of but don't have the balls to live its ideals. yes there is r/redpillwomen but even then, women are women, and you telling her about TRP can possibly make you seem less genuine as a man then you actually are in her eyes. women know about TRP in terms of concepts, deep deep in the back of their mind, they just won't admit to it because that would hurt their ego | /r/askTRP | 03/11/14 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Another Indian slut about to marry a beta provider (watch out Indian guys)fortunately and unfortunately with each passing day, india becomes more westernized, and with that comes the feminist mindset which heavily goes against long standing traditions | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Another Indian slut about to marry a beta provider (watch out Indian guys)she's not perfect but definitely one of the better ones | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 12:34 AM |
| 25 | Another Indian slut about to marry a beta provider (watch out Indian guys)As an indian guy with an indian GF for 6 years, heres my insight into the matter. While growing up, indian girls are watched like a hawk by their parents when it comes to interactions with boys and men and this can extend well into their 20s. It wouldn't be unreasonable for indian parents to literally think that their daughter will get pregnant or literally lose her virginity by being within a 5 foot radius of a male. Then, when these girls go off to college, living in a dorm, they come in with … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 09:57 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Stick to TRP even if you decide to have a LTRMMSL is great if you live with your LTR or do want to get married | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 01:23 PM |
| 6 | "Dread" is just another word for honesty, a sadly outdated conceptMen are creatures of logic AND emotion. Sure, we rationalize shit to our selves when we really shouldn't but a lot of us have the decency to hold ourselves accountable and look through our own bullshit. However, guys come to this sub because they are lost. TRP uses terms like "dread game" and "frame" in order to break down typical alpha behaviors into more understandable concepts. As men, we are able to wrap our heads around these terms and make sense of them. I've never heard of terms like "dre… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/14 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Your Embarrassing Beta Storiesback in college, when my alma mater's football team was doing some good, i had a crush on this girl who lived across my dorm and i bought her and her roommate $80 team jerseys...i used my own savings with the expectation that it'll make her like me more. Then later on, i got a flower and put it in a water bottle as a vase and left it in front of her door as a secret admirer. eventually i had her tell her friend that i like her and of course, she just stopped talking to me at all until i let the … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/14 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Hunter S. Thompson On Finding Your Purposegreat read, definitely something that needs to be read several times to truly appreciate what he is saying. the goal is secondary but you have bend the goals to who you want to be...the goals aren't an ends to a mean, but a means to an end | /r/becomeaman | 09/10/14 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Sensory integration therapy: the time the wild over diagnosis of children turned full circle.As a PT in America, I've seen SIT work for children with autism (haven't personally seen it used on kids with ADHD). The working theory is that autism is a sensory disorder, that kids have difficulty processing the stimulus received from their sensory system, hence, why there is a spectrum. Kids can be anywhere from uninteractive with their environment to full out screaming and kicking, with the idea being that their sensory system is having extreme difficulty processing what is around them. I'v… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/14 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Not a personal fan of the PUA scene, but this little [FR] from an 8chan /pua/ mod caught my attention. If you needed evidence about hypergamy and female capriciousness, here's just some of it.Looks like she was seeing if there was a potential branch she could swing onto...this must mean she isn't as attracted to her bf as one may thing | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Betas gon betas: be a nice boring guy as she fantafucks other men till she's ready for a real man"I also think there should be some level of love and love making, not just hard pounding" Sounds like the roles have been switched here, yikes. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Whats the best method of slowly giving a friend the red pill?Some people will say "Don't." Instead, what you can do is bring up concepts and make it relative to his experiences, but in a discussion based atmosphere. You have to plant the idea in his head but he has to connect the dots and a lot of people do that by relating concepts with their own experiences. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/14 01:34 PM |
| 31 | College doesn't turn good girls into sluts. It allows sluts to quit acting like good girls and be who they really are.Even in high school good girls are sluts. You always see high value girls of all grades (9-12) get with football players/upper class kids with a nice car/high SMV males. This also applies to guys with avg SMV who gets a girl. It's just the aspect that they are in a relationship which makes it seem innocent but it really isn't. Even in high school they seek to use resources that men have (cars, money for dates, gifts). In college they simply seek to move up the ladder. High SMV guys will probably… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 11:29 PM |
| 1 | AFBB confirmed, classic Indian style.create balance...her withholding sex while you provide a relationship= imbalance...her withholding sex while you withhold the relationship= balance | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 06:40 PM |
| 0 | Interesting opinion on the mindset of a SJW and what it has to do with rape accusationsyou know what the sad thing is? SJWs just don't know any better and it really isn't their fault (most of them at least). You can't control the environment you're raised in and when you are being raised, you tend to absorb the characteristics of your environment. they say you are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with. imagine the 5 people a SJW spends the most time with... its kind of like the nature of women. you can't change it, you can only do your best to contain it with fr… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Interesting opinion on the mindset of a SJW and what it has to do with rape accusationsi do have the original link, ill send it to you via pm, I can't post it here due to the rules | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 05:38 PM |
| 2 | How to find out what actually happened on her bachelorette trip?if you have an iPhone, i would suggest getting phoneview. its a little pricey at $30 and you will need at least 15-20 min of alone time with the phone for the first back up but it will archive messages and backups will be faster with each subsequent back up. i stand by it | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/14 09:48 PM |
| 16 | Wife wants guy to wear her panties while out and about. Commenter nails it.this is the kind of shit that makes me sick. On TRP we speak about bettering yourself, improving yourself, living life for YOU. But cases such as this happen more often than naught. Here we have a man with a jiu jitsu black belt (something that takes time and effort to achieve) and as much as he has achieved for himself, he still succumbs to being submissive. I also have to bring up several past cases where strong, muscular men, men who clearly lift, clearly invest in their bodies, still display… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/14 05:36 PM |
| 1 | What's the male equivalent of The Wall?I don't think there is a wall per se, more of something along the lines of women's makeup. Think about erectile dysfunction. Its a natural issue, just like women's beauty and for women, they use make up to fix their beauty, which, in a sense, ruins the genuine nature of a woman's beauty. ED can do the same for men, that is, if a woman found out you were taking viagra/cialis/ed meds. I think that its much more palatable for a woman who you have been married with for some time because she will be … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 03:28 PM |
| 7 | Snapchat Dread Gameone issue is that with snapchat, you generally know if someone is directly sending you a snap vs putting it up in the my story section, so a girl who is getting a snap from you may be able to piece together what you are trying to do | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How I say "Fuck you, whore".keep that post sex bleach+hot sauce around all day for your condoms | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 02:28 PM |
| 0 | LTR Theory & Tips MEGATHREADHolding your woman accountable for her actions is a big thing for me. When something happens and its explainable on your behalf but for her, she is constantly flipping a shit, take a minute (or an hour), step back, and freeze her out. Simply refuse to talk to her until she has defused. Maintain the notion that you want to talk to an adult, not a child, and will wait until you have an interaction with one. This has worked well for me lately because after defusing her, we can have a logical conver… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 05:07 PM |
| 1 | TRP, lets talk fraternities.I've done it, with DEPsi and its a great experience. I never really knew what I was getting into (besides the typical pledging experiences) but once I was in, I had responsibilities I didn't expect and had obligations to fulfill in order to help us contribute to our cause, which was JDRF. We held a lot of events and when I was on campus, I was part of the second class in the chapter (colony at the time). Now we've grown so big and have added more than twice the amount of chapters since I first j… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 02:40 PM |
| 10 | Hamstering seen on a "reality" tv show aka how not to run a gymPretty much. I was just doing a little work but the sheer amount of ineptitude displayed by the owner was too good to pass up IMO. But as I said before, it IS entertainment and I was in the mood to get entertained. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Indian woman sleeps exclusively with white guys goes against her culture. Now 32, looking for a guy to start a family with.The reason a lot of them are cunts and bitches is because when they were younger, they were held tight under lock and key by their parents with strict rules and curfews along with the "don't talk to boys" schtick. This developed a sense of "i'm something special" and greatly boosted their egos. All of a sudden, these strict parents let them go off to college, unleashed, only with the requirement of good grades with the goal of going to med/law/dental school. its like shaking a bottle of a coke e… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/14 01:00 AM |
| 1 | The most ridiculous advice that blue-pilled men will follow. Boils down to do most of the work and as women sayThis afternoon as I was driving, I was thinking, why the hell do people have kids when they don't invest the time to make them the best they can possibly be? It's like having children (who are now BP'd teens and adults) is just a part of life and their parents wanted to get it out of the way instead of investing the time and effort to teach them how life really is. Then again, do those parents know how life really is? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/14 12:45 AM |
| 13 | The most ridiculous advice that blue-pilled men will follow. Boils down to do most of the work and as women sayAll I could think of while reading the article was, "this is insane" | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/14 03:47 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I was in a Red Pill cartoon last night. Attention whore Vs. nice girl at our party.I miss my old alum, many good times were had at RU | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 03:13 PM |
| 2 | A List of pure Beta BollocksNumber 4 hits home...you can't improve by just being "yourself." That means you are staying at the status quo. If you were born with the personality of a man who highly respects himself while not taking any shit from anyone, then that, at the very least, is a good status quo to stay at. Unfortunately most of us aren't born like this and we have to learn how to be the best version of ourselves through constant improvement. It starts with lists, self awareness, talking yourself through it, but in … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Shaming women for being a whore is absolutely okay, and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.For the sake of humanity, I'd love to see that happen, I personally don't think it ever will though. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 10:23 PM |
| -1 | Shaming women for being a whore is absolutely okay, and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.You're misinterpreting my statement. I'm not excusing the nature of women, I'm saying that we, as men, can't control their nature. Because of this, we should worry about ourselves and our own well being and not try to change their nature. I never said anything regarding women controlling their own nature. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 09:57 PM |
| 5 | Reddit Female Solipsism Firsthandhonestly, society as a whole makes me depressed, its not just limited to the nature of women. you see shit like net neutrality, companies like nestle wanting to put a price on the world's water supply, ACTUAL rape/murder, on going fighting all over the world...it makes me lose faith in humanity. everything is about money, power, greed, looking out for yourself...in a way, yes you should look out for yourself, but not to the point where the livelihood of others is impacted negatively. i truly bel… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 07:03 PM |
| 14 | Reddit Female Solipsism Firsthandthe irony is like a gigantic zit on your forehead out there for everyone to see. they judge you on your posting history but don't think women should be judged on their sexual history. Theres a reason that a history for almost everything exists. it indicates present and future behavior by looking into the past. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 05:46 PM |
| -6 | Shaming women for being a whore is absolutely okay, and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.as a man, you have the right idea, but nature will tell us otherwise. we can't control the nature of women. Its something that has persisted for thousands of years. we can only hope to realize what they are capable of and make sure we put ourselves in the best position to avoid their bullshit | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 05:42 PM |
| 2 | I was browsing Reddit today and I found something in /r/Sports that blew my mind.Concepts of motor learning can apply to other concepts of learning Cognitive-stage where you need to think about how to do things, creating a lot of errors as you do so Associative-the stage where you start making connections, are less reliant on others and start realizing your own mistakes and making self corrections Autonomous-concepts that you once had to think about now become automatic and require little thought to initiate, you can self correct on the fly and make adjustments as need | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/14 02:30 AM |
| 4 | Why you need to shut up and listen: A litmus test you all failed.I agree. we need to think about the quality of people who have come over in those spikes...some may truly want to change for the better but I think there's a solid group that came over out of curiosity and are still too held in their ways. Sometimes it's those people, the ones who say to "tone it down" who need a rp life lesson before taking this stuff seriously | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy doesn't care - S93E12Imagine if something happens like it getting infected? Gross | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 02:01 AM |
| 5 | TRP is the futuretheres WAY more men out there that are plugged in and simply refuse to acknowledge that the world works this way and instead still live with the disney romance/white knight mindset that every damsel is in distress and must be saved/pampered/paid for/comforted/etc etc. Its up to them to see if they want it or not. Just look at that EMSK post and see the sheer amount of up votes and comments. Yes, we have ~62k readers but its not enough. that being said, i hope men wise up and see what this is all… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 12:56 AM |
| 6 | TechCrunch groups TheRedPill with Stormfront as a "misogynist hate site"its all about protecting their ego, doing whatever they can to not associate themselves with something that will decrease their perceived value, ie. the truth that women love a man with red pill qualities but know that publicly and internally acknowledging that will make her feel and worse, be seen as a slut | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 12:45 AM |
| 4 | TechCrunch groups TheRedPill with Stormfront as a "misogynist hate site"just like jezebel/io9/gawker/deadspin, one big fat company with a shared mindset | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Hey Guys, What is your view on Arrange Marriages?my girlfriend's brother is currently going through this right now. last girl he met came straight from india and wasn't that good looking either. but he said yes to his family out of consideration since they went through the effort of finding him someone. He is looking for a girl and joined the indian equivalent of match.com and this kid is by no means a FOB, he's a smart guy and def someone you want around when you go out for a night on the town but he is 28 so that's "pushing it" for indian fa… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/14 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."Well your mind has definitely been made up here so were just gonna have to agree to disagree. Good luck on your little quest of enlightenment for people you apparently think can't make choices on their own accord. I hope that instead of hating TRP and attacking it, you'll one day see thru all that hate and benefit from what it has to offer. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 10:46 AM |
| 0 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."Suit yourself. Let's see if your opinion of redditors being vulnerable holds true. Time will tell whether your post will make a difference or not...and I'm pretty sure it won't | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."Every subreddit is going to have a mix of extreme to liberal members. The issue with your post is that you simply point out all the extreme posts and are trying to say that that is ALL of what TRP is about, which is simply not true. More importantly, who is to say that people who browse TRP are vulnerable? I believe they have a choice, they can look on this subreddit and either they can look into it more, or they can just close the window. I like to give reddit users more credit than you do and … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."Well that's your opinion bud, thanks for sharing. I'll get what I want to get out of it and you go ahead and get what you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."I think perhaps its a sort of evolving of concepts. Honestly, since I found TRP, which was around when it started, I haven't been on r/seduction, and IMO, I always saw posts on r/seduction as being more about techniques, mystery method, neil strauss, etc, rather than self improvement. I think that r/seduction was more about going out and picking up women whereas TRP was trying to look at why a majority of men had to turn to things like pick up techniques instead of having that innate ability lik… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 01:37 AM |
| -10 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."You pick and choose what you think is right. That's a little extreme to me but I can definitely see why OP believes that, such as when you make most of the decisions. That has helped me out because I realized my gf is very indecisive. Someone else's may not be, so you have to adjust the concepts and use them however you have to. Even then, it's not about completely making the full decision. If she has to make a decision towards something, I'll either outright tell her what to do or I can give tw… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."You're right, We can judge anyone, in our thoughts, our words, our actions. That's where TRP comes in...judgment is everywhere, it comes from society, our friends, and family. Either you listen to it and you let it mold you or you stand your ground, keep frame, and hold onto your beliefs. Or you can mix it, either way it's your choice and it's your life. Thanks for that insight. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 09:56 PM |
| 7 | Field Report: She Just Couldn't Get Enough.Great job, it definitely helps that you had some solid social proof provided by the ONS. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."Like I said before, you should pick and choose within TRP what you feel is right. There are extremes and other posts that may be fake, or exaggerated at the very least, but if you happen to take something from here and it impacts your life positively, hasn't it done it's job? In your case, you say that sex is life. That's your opinion. You can go on living life with those words in mind and I won't judge you, I have no right to, but I pick what I want out of TRP and so should you. I believe TRP i… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 09:05 PM |
| 0 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."Thanks, Made it up on the fly | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."An idea is like a match being lit, putting it on the internet is like taking that lit match to a body of gasoline the size of the Atlantic Ocean. That being said, you have to take anything from the internet with a grain of salt and choose what you believe wisely. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."exactly, the only issue that people will have with this is that they will feel that it is manipulation, when you are simply putting the idea into terms they can understand. so many people make a fuss about an idea that is different, however, they always seem to forget that they have the power to simply ignore the idea and move on with their lives instead of making posts attacking it. Then again, here we are, giving attention to this EMSK post, which puts us in the same boat. The best thing for u… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 08:13 PM |
| 13 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."society can tell you to do many things. society stands by and takes a cell phone video of a mom getting beat up by another woman while her toddler stands by scared for his life. society can tell you THE WAY things should be. however, it is more than just a habit, its in our nature, as a man to act as a man, and a woman to act as a woman. We are not fighting that nature with logic because 9 times out of 10, nature wins. Instead, we try to understand it, through TRP. People, such as those in that … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 08:08 PM |
| 135 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."I've been on this subreddit for a while now, long enough to say that yes, there are definitely extreme ends of TRP that I personally don't agree with, however, I believe TRP has expanded to much more than "A discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men." I think that it further spans the identity of a man himself, who he is, what makes him feel good about himself, what he can do to improve himself. When this sub started, it was about sexual identity… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 07:41 PM |
| -1 | She is not your shoulder to cry on - UPDATE: I slipped upIt SHOULD be but nature prevails and the response she gives is a natural one. As men we are the stronger, more steadfast gender and must not show weakness. We bear that burden and there isn't any way to explain it but how we see it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/14 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Even HINT at the role of the mother not being all powerful and prepare for a shit stormThe View is like a jenga tower that needs one more block taken out of it before it topples over. Either you agree with them or you have 3-4 women hounding you about your views until you succumb. Takes a man with some real balls to get on that show and be able to hold his own. That being said, a lot of women think of being a mom as a status symbol. "But I'M a mother. My children NEED me. etc etc" It's bad in indian culture because a lot of moms are stay at home moms so when their kid leaves the n… | /r/RedPillParenting | 18/06/14 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Redpill in chart form.thats like a needle in a haystack, and if they've been single for that long, theres gotta be a reason | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 01:06 AM |
| -1 | Redpill in chart form.regardless, even at 34, she will still believe she has more to offer than the 20 year old. She may be aware of it but she'll be damned if she admits it. She wouldn't allow her ego to take such a blow, especially after being on the CC for so long and suddenly being out of tokens for another ride. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 07:23 PM |
| 2 | [Article] Lana Del Rey is more interested in space exploration than feminism: Consequence of SoundShailene Woodley (female star from Divergent, Fault In Our Stars) was interviewed and was asked some questions regarding feminism. She basically responded that she isn't into all that and she LOVES men. That rustled the jimmies of a lot of her feminist fans. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 07:21 PM |
| 10 | Redpill in chart form.Tell that to the 34 year old professional, I.N.D.E.P.E.N.D.E.N.T. woman who will down play the 21 year old as immature and lacking wisdom, when it was her who was in the same place only 13-15 years ago. The wall is quite the wake up call. Even if you go after that 34 year old, who's to say she won't use you up for financial security while she secretly goes for the more exciting, rugged man? Old habits die hard. Dat double standard. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Your mother is special. Don't treat other girls like her.I have good parents, however their way of raising me, I felt, was imbalanced. Being asian (Indian), there is that STRONG emphasis on education. Girls are out of the picture, at least until college. This, along with little emphasis on self respect and not letting people give you shit, is what got me to where I was before seeing this subreddit. I realize now that my parents, especially my dad, who were born in India, didn't know how to handle the social culture of America, and to them, the one thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 06:54 PM |
| 8 | Guy worshiped his gf but busts out RP jerkboy text game to break up her when she cheatswhen he says I wanna do bad things to you, along with her response of "oh really, like what?" I feel that as much as it may seem that she is yearning for his dick, she could just be tugging on his chain too. maybe in her mind, she is thinking that she can lead him along, possibly give him one or two mind blowing sessions of sex and that'll have him hook line and sinker onto her pussy like he was before. she's not sorry about what she did, she's sorry about getting caught. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 06:46 PM |
| 11 | What Malcolm X learned from prostitutes.The wives will (shit) test the men time to time to see if they are the same man as they were when they first fucked...I personally believe it is up to the man to be a man and pass them while staying true to himself and not giving up on what he wants out of life. That urge to be a man must be developed within the man himself. If it isn't, then it shouldn't be a surprise that you are getting dropped by your wife because she isn't seeing you be the man you ought to be. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/14 03:22 AM |
| 0 | Any of you have young daughters? Do you intend to somehow impart any kind of knowledge on them to stay away from particular men? Maybe in fact PUA?I had a nice conversation with my uncle the other day about this. He has a daughter entering the 8th grade in September and from what I've seen, I believe he has put a sense of accountability in her. He has taught her things like not leading guys on, being nice, not being a bitch. He even talks about boys and what not with her. Things that a lot of fathers are not even willing to give the time of day to, let alone have a conversation. In a sense, he is keeping it real with her and that is what I… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/14 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Thought policing from the SJW crowd rises to a fever pitch, this time striking Snapchat CEOeveryone says shit, apparently its really trendy for people to air other people's dirty laundry and give them shit for it. I'm not supporting shit like what Sterling said, but its the principle in that people can't even say anything in the privacy of their own home without getting criticized for it. That being said, we should all strive to not be bigoted or racist or have negative qualities, but we are human beings, we aren't perfect. At times, we may not be entitled to our feelings and they may… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What is confidence?I think that theres 2 sides to this coin. Confidence and self esteem. IMO, confidence is an external term while self esteem is an internal one. Both regard your perceived ability in regards to situations and tasks. When it comes to a situation, YOU believe you can do something (self esteem) internally while externally giving off that same vibe (confidence). The vibe that things don't phase you, that sure, inside, you know you may have never done it, but you BELIEVE you can. Confidence is the ext… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 01:57 PM |
| 5 | Are you becoming the person you want to be?great post, hopefully more like these will come about | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/14 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Don't Believe a word.in this guys case, he better cube it | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/14 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Old but excellent. Maddox has been wrecking feminists since the 90s. "26 things a perfect guy would do and other propaganda.."maddox brings back some old memories, i completely forgot about this guy! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/14 02:02 PM |
| 1 | even when you win a super bowl, you can still lose the girl...like i stated above, this is just a rumor, but it wouldn't really surprise me if this happened at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/14 01:28 AM |
| 1 | even when you win a super bowl, you can still lose the girl...a few sites international business times, barstool, etc | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/14 11:18 PM |
| 7 | even when you win a super bowl, you can still lose the girl...good point. i misframed my title. it should've been, "even when you win a super bowl, she'll still cheat..." | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/14 11:17 PM |
| 2 | The economics of Indian dating(or why Indian/Asian men are blue pillers:These kinds of concepts exist in India and stateside here too, however, I think the imbalance here is the emphasis on education, financial stability and getting a job (keeping in line with traditional indian male roles) while indian girls are also being raised to go into the STEM fields (diverging from traditional stay at home female roles). Many female family members I know who came from India in the 70s and 80s came over without a degree, or one that they couldn't use, and so they either becam… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/14 09:43 PM |
| 3 | How do I ask a girl to dinner TRP way?regardless of where you go and what you do, you don't ask, use phrases more like "lets go.." "come to this place.." use phrases that imply leading more than asking permission. if she says no, then next her | /r/askTRP | 01/05/14 08:23 PM |
| 1 | FR - Picnic Escalationdid she tell you she wants the leche? i love it when they say it in that slow sexy voice with that accent | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 10:16 PM |
| 1 | your daily dose of BP truth on tv...i should have mentioned this before...the mom IS on a second marriage with a guy who looks like a skinnier version of her daughters boyfriend. they do have a home and her husband does work. i wasn't able to catch any specifics on other items like child support, etc | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/14 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Women will refuse to tell a guy they don't want a relationship.i definitely think you hit a point where it depends on what women want out of a man. some of them literally get off on turning a lover into an orbiter, just shit tests on shit tests, constantly testing the frame of a man. others just do it out of necessity...subconciously, is this man fit? being considered fit means hitting a lot of check marks, such as physical fitness, confidence, money, etc...that being said, money can get you only so far, it can buy things, provide a good life in the long ru… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/14 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Women will refuse to tell a guy they don't want a relationship.i think it would be giving them too much credit to even say that its them who decides whether to friend zone you or not. its more in her subconscious than anything. a survival mechanism that isn't immediately apparent to most women. its incredible how big little things like this are. your simple interactions and reactions to her moves (i.e. shit tests) are what shut down that hamster that is such a big problem to many men out there. its like the woman is in a constant struggle between the leader… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/14 08:53 PM |
| 6 | Women will refuse to tell a guy they don't want a relationship.great post. simply put, women want to be lead. There's no point in having her determine the next step of a relationship, be it good or bad. If she goes cold, next her. her attraction to you, at the very least, was enough for her to have sex with you. at that point, its up to you to justify her staying with you. more assertive women, as rare as they are, will express up front whether they want a FWB status or something more. but this is rarely the case. its up to you to determine her fitness as a… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/14 06:34 PM |
| 1 | a little "what if" thought on tinderif only that fake "match of the day" thing was true... | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/14 02:19 AM |
| 1 | a little "what if" thought on tindernot just likes but initiation of conversations and other useful stats, using numbers to really break down attraction | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/14 01:14 AM |
| 2 | a little "what if" thought on tinderi didn't even think about that, guess that works as well | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/14 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Low T@20yo. Depression and being a loseryikes, but to each his own. I used to take 50 mg but then got weird chest pains which went away after decreasing the dose. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/14 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Low T@20yo. Depression and being a loser30 mg zinc helps, I try not to take more than that since I get slight angina/palpitations with more zinc. Take it after working out | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/14 12:12 AM |
| 0 | Every woman wants a lion & when she gets a lion, she turns him into a pussycat, at which point she looks for another lionTHIS. Just like in illimitable man's article, she will never stop trying to change you/testing you. Hell, like we say, don't get mad at the girl, she is who she is. For all we know, she is probably genetically hardwired to do it, she can't even help it. It's up to us men to wade through the BS that is the shit test and just demonstrate ourselves appropriately. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/14 02:47 PM |
| 7 | She Doesn't Love Youthis question by patrice has been discussed on TRP every so often. when asking what they would do if they didn't have a pussy, the question is meant to revolve around other forms of sex. the underlying question in this is, what else can you do for me sexually if you didn't use your pussy. that is what was implied by asking the initial question. in a sense, it was a trap. it would have been better if patrice asked the question without making the question framed around sex. if he had done that, AN… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/14 01:31 PM |
| -2 | Stop apologizing for everythingno ehs or aboots or french accents so i think not | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Stop apologizing for everythingI just can't let him in on the big ole TRP, thats for him to discover and me to know | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Stop apologizing for everythingim 99.9% sure he's gonna say sorry to me about saying sorry. the kid has been "engaged" once, to a 30 year old chick (big fuckin red flag) and called it off, then got engaged with someone else who is like 19 or 20, and the engagements occurred within a short amount of time of meeting the girl, 2-3 months. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 08:56 PM |
| 26 | Stop apologizing for everythingi work with this kid who says sorry/apologizes for EVERYTHING. I work at a coffee establishment and if he's in the way of the sink and i need to clean something, he just zips away and says sorry. If i need to grab a cup and he's like a foot away from the cups, he says sorry, like he offended my aura or something. its to the point where you want to smack him and give him a solid reality check | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 03:55 PM |
| 2 | A tale as old as time: Indian woman is thrown off the party/drugs/sex/alcohol train, looks into the mirror and realizes she's getting old. Asks daddy for help finding a husband.the guys who come here from india are too used to the values established over there. they may wise up and see that the girls are good for pump and dumps but they are horrible for long term material. for them, its just easier to take a 3 week vacation from work, have your wife hand picked for you, and come back with someone who is similar to your values. just hope that she doesn't pick up on whats going on on this side of the pond. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 03:53 PM |
| 5 | This is in /r/askreddit right now. Jesus fucking christ.women are the ones who realize guys don't look at them the same way they look at girls, aka the wall | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 03:46 PM |
| 2 | A tale as old as time: Indian woman is thrown off the party/drugs/sex/alcohol train, looks into the mirror and realizes she's getting old. Asks daddy for help finding a husband.As an indian guy, I can relate because I've seen how indian girls can act. In this guy's case, this girl should be so lucky that her dad is so understanding. For every girl like this, there are 10 whose parents would be on them so fast for behaving like this. Indian culture is INSANE with how much they glorify their girls purity. Its like any form of non acceptable interaction is strictly prohibited/looked down upon. My gf is 25 (lives at home) and to this day, still gets shit from her parents f… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 03:42 PM |
| 4 | Confidence is NOT key and wishful thinking won't turn you into an alpha.confidence + drive for self improvement in all aspects + good nutrition/lifting/cardio + good fashion sense + looks + social status + money...you have all these and you're good. ideally most people don't have all these but if you can manage to achieve as much as you can, imo, you will be good | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/14 05:23 PM |
| 4 | The most desirable traits in a man for a submissive womanas long as you make them "feel" something (that is productive towards you hooking up with her), you have her. logic will always be trumped by feelings, don't even bother explaining it to them. by lifting, bettering yourself, being calm and assertive in situations, it gives her the feeling that you are a strong, capable man, who knows what he is doing. the feelings that that kind of man provides creates slip and slides in between her legs. remember, money can provide material things which help pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/14 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Red pill marriage advice?I'm not married but having a gf with some rough spots in our relationship has effectively led me to believe there is no unicorn. Based on what I know, as is common knowledge on this subreddit, there is NO unicorn. However, if marriage is what you seek, and it is for me at least, you need to basically seek out the best of the bunch. I believe I have. She's not perfect, but thanks to TRP and what i've learned, I can see a majority of shit tests come my way and I can adjust, so I believe I can lead… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I'm fucking done...whatever argument that girl had with that guy, he should've been smart and just nexted her instead of run it on and on | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 10:59 PM |
| 2 | If you could delete one subreddit, what would it be? #1: TheRedPill. #3: SRSThanks I appreciate it! | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/14 07:40 AM |
| 7 | If you could delete one subreddit, what would it be? #1: TheRedPill. #3: SRSI really hope that it won't get deleted because this valuable information is something that only a few men embraced before venues like reddit were made. With trp, the truth is spread on a much bigger medium and people, who are so vehemently against someone having their own personal views, will do anything to stop the freight train that is now #1 on the list of subreddits that people want deleted. Btw are there any backups incase something like this happens? Such as redditlog? Will it save and ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/14 09:03 PM |
| 0 | "I don't give head" - a message from my friend's gfdread game city all the way, its incredible what a little jealousy and fear can do | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/14 07:07 PM |
| 1 | No one is going to listen to you about TRPthere isn't such a thing as TRP or RP life, its simply just life, however, so many people fail to see it for what it is and then we get the "why did my gf cheat on me after putting a roof over her head" etc etc. and even when shit hits the fan, so many still fail to grasp what is happening, but there are always the mindful few that realize whats going on | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/14 11:33 PM |
| 0 | NoFap?I believe the unrealistic aspect comes from the fact that porn stars are paid to do what they do. It's stimulating and all but there will always be that little buzzkill in the back of my mind that it's a job to them. It's always better to me if the girl can "fuck like a porn star" while it not necessarily being her method of income. But of course to get the most out of her, attraction and all those fun things must come into play. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/14 01:30 PM |
| 3 | How to Maintain TRP Over TimeI like to use the cognitive, associative, autonomous theory, which you can easily google. basically, when you read TRP, your mind is blown and you have to literally think about the concepts to make sense of them (cognitive). as you keep reading and, I emphasize this, REREADING the really good articles on this subreddit, you, in a sense, study the material, until you get decent with the material but still have to think through a few things (associative). However, over time, and with consistent re… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/13 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill MoviesI haven't seen it personally but have heard that The Last American Virgin is a real eye opener. More so in pointing out the flaws and issues that stem from blue pill behavior than emphasizing red pill ones. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/13 04:09 PM |
| 1 | RP is great, but it doesn't help me with me being awkward. How do I change that?someone has been looking at the tinder pick up line thread | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/13 01:48 PM |
| 1 | A new disease strain - Red OneitusThis is you transitioning from reading the material to actually utilizing it. Sure, there's a lot of women who you will not have oneitis for, but for the one's you do...consider them a test of sorts, a test that determines your capacity to apply the material after simply reading it. Using your brain over your emotions. When you get those feelings, take a step back and realize what is going on and use your logic to overtake the emotions (this is really hard to do but you have to merely stop think… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/13 03:18 PM |
| 8 | I am Tuthmosis from returnofkings.com Ask Me Anything!how do you, personally, deal with keeping a strong frame, improving yourself (in ways that you see results), and what do you think of women? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/13 12:35 AM |
| 0 | guy catches wife cheating in the act, watch her reactions...maybe, i'm not sure, with the quality and all, but it could be | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/13 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Red pill in training. Ltr gf almost goes home with bosses son. Hypergamy blues.can you possibly find the link? I'm interested in reading it, I'm searching on ROK for it but having trouble finding it | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/13 12:42 AM |
| 4 | Changing your beliefs about yourself is the key to changing your mindset and improving your inner gameInstead, most of us progress in small steps - starting conversations, getting comfortable with conversations, getting a date, becoming comfortable with dating, starting a relationship, becoming comfortable with relationships, etc. which could take months, years, or a lifetime. So we're left with option three - use positive references consistently and repeatedly. Affirmations Start a new list entitled "Affirmations". Go over your list of negative beliefs, and for each one, create a positive state… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/13 04:34 AM |
| 5 | Changing your beliefs about yourself is the key to changing your mindset and improving your inner gameLeverage For any decision you make, your brain weighs the pleasures and pains of taking action and not taking action, but it will motivate you more to avoid pain than to gain pleasure. If you're not getting the results you want, it's probably because you've linked too much pain to the action. There are two ways you can get around this - either find a way to lessen the pain associated with the action, or associate even more pain with not taking action. This changing of the rules is called Leverag… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/13 04:34 AM |
| 16 | Changing your beliefs about yourself is the key to changing your mindset and improving your inner gameYour Own Worst Enemy Now think of the implications of this. Every time you've relived your failures and rejections, every time you've beat yourself up with your self-talk, every time you've felt sorry for yourself, you've been reinforcing the problem, and possibly made it worse. Now, I'm not saying you should never feel bad. It's a natural thing and it's bound to happen no matter what you do. But being excessively negative is unhealthy for you. Starting now, don't allow yourself to dwell on pain… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/13 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Directly asking a female if you are in the friend zoneI do have issues regarding my self beliefs and I saw something great on the Misc section of bodybuilding.com regarding changing your beliefs, which are really ideas that are reinforced, i think I'm gonna make a post on this...I have to focus on changing those beliefs, which will take time, but at least the awareness is a step in the right direction | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/13 04:08 AM |
| 1 | [warning: world star hiphop] hypergamy in action - status does the work for himUPDATE: apparently this turned out to be fake, i wish it was true | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/13 03:31 AM |
| 11 | Help the "betas" outagreed, TRP is what you make of it. you're lucky enough to find the material here, what you do with it is up to you. you can sit here and read the stuff all day long but if you aren't out in the field, lifting, reading, conversing with everyone (not just the opposite sex), and just plainly getting the most out of life that you can, then you aren't doing it right. now, some people may not be capable of that for certain personal reasons, but if you keep the ideals as a goal to strive for, well, th… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/13 02:57 AM |
| 1 | I do so much better flying solowould you consider groups other than yours to have an in-group mentality as well? thus making it more difficult to break through and meet people when flying solo? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/13 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Poll: How many of you still eat pussy?I think it depends on approach, either you tell her you want to please her, or you tell her you enjoy and want go down on her because YOU want to do it for yourself, kinda Iike validating yourself in getting the reaction out of her (don't think of it as making her feel good but you feeling good about what you do) . It's all about perspective | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/13 10:43 PM |
| 2 | The importance of body languagebody language is simply a component of TRP, along with a solid frame, and alpha mindset, its like a web, all working intertwined to one another. guys on this subreddit who realize they have blue pill behavior are LEARNING about frame, mindset, improving themselves, and body language is also an aspect of it seduction is focused on just getting laid, TRP is about improvement and body language is a component of that since it applies to more than just women | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/13 02:40 AM |
| 0 | Directly asking a female if you are in the friend zoneliving at home is tough, it really is. I'm 25 in grad school, almost done, living at home, and I can't stand it. I've been in a rough patch with my gf and idk how its gonna end up but if things end, I can't really see myself getting any until I have my own place. It makes things really difficult because it conveys your status, and for me, it doesn't help that I don't have a group of good friends, I have friends but not really any strong bonds so when it comes time to go out to bars and what not,… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/13 02:31 AM |
| 2 | [warning: world star hiphop] hypergamy in action - status does the work for himshe was dumb for doing it on camera but if this isn't evidence on how women act, then idk what is | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/13 02:30 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid being beta bucks?I totally agree, it's not about being a dick for the sake of being one. It's about not being a doormat and being taken advantage of and passing shit tests. Being confident, being sure of yourself and your capabilities. That's what's so great about confidence, it forces you to truly face yourself and determine if you need to improve in an area or not. If you suck at basketball, you practice, learn from mistakes, and get better. Same goes for talking to women. Nonetheless, you should always be imp… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/13 05:17 PM |
| 4 | What she says vs. How she feelsintoxicated minds reveal sober thoughts | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/13 08:56 PM |
| 6 | The media is poisonIf anything I would advocate netflix and movie channels (for good shows like game of thrones or homeland), but mainstream media is a no go | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/13 05:40 PM |
| 11 | The media is poisonToo bad we gotta keep it "client friendly" I'm sure some 2chainz and Kendrick Lamar would liven the place up | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/13 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend going clubbingIt's going to be tough to not let her go out because it would most likely cause problems, the best thing to do is let her do it but run dread game when she does this to be reminded what you're capable of and to put her in her place. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/13 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Cock blocking friends... Are they a Shit test?I believe its just about jealously and being an overall asshole and its not limited to just women. People just don't get the hint when you don't want to spell it out such as saying you're bringing someone over and you can't be so non chalant about it as much as you try | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/13 02:08 AM |
| 11 | Do you know what I was doing at 25? Dancing on bars after 4 too many shots of Jagermeister. Dating as many men as possible...So by emotionally you mean when she becomes terrified of the premise that she could end up forever alone after the men she used to ride are going after girls years younger, fitter, tighter, and thinner and financially meaning she's got a beta provider lined up amiright? ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/13 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Should we dispense any validation?It's all a balance, somewhat, maybe use the 80/20 rule or 70/30, complement her for only 20-30% of the things she does for you, if it's 50/50 then that might be much | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/13 07:33 PM |
| 15 | Do you know what I was doing at 25? Dancing on bars after 4 too many shots of Jagermeister. Dating as many men as possible...Tell that to little Johnny who's in the NICU | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/13 07:27 PM |
| 37 | Do you know what I was doing at 25? Dancing on bars after 4 too many shots of Jagermeister. Dating as many men as possible...Amazing how she hamsters over the optimal time to get pregnant which was set by means she can't control (biologically) and she thinks she can simply reason her way out it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/13 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Mortality: The most important Red Pill TruthAgreed, mortality is something we realize too late in our lives. Realistically, people of all ages die, from children to the elderly, it's not limited to those 60+ years. If anything, take a ride by yourself and contemplate life, your existence, how miraculous it is that you were once a little sperm and a little egg and now you're a bitchy little beta who has a limited time on this earth and is wasting it by not living up to your potential and worrying about other peoples feelings instead of you… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/13 12:25 AM |
| 0 | I told this chick at a coffee shop that I post on a website that would get a kick out of her shirt. She gladly provided a photo.I wonder if the carpet matches the drapes...actually no, no I don't | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/13 12:15 AM |
| 8 | Need help, RedPill. I know I can rely on you.I suggest asking this in r/asktrp If I were you, I would garner some attention from women, don't give them any, take the lead and say (don't ask) "come with me to prom" or something along the lines of that, where its a command, not a question, but build up good rapport, have worth and faith in yourself, believe in yourself, you're young and have a lot to live for, read up on the sidebar and other topics. you may get angry, you may not understand, but take it for what it is, because its the truth… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/13 12:09 AM |
| 11 | Found this file from 2010 - The Red Pill /b/tardAn oldie but a goodie, we need a trp hall of fame | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/13 07:34 PM |
| 0 | For those of you who feel insecure when gaming. You can either be the sad chump in the corner or the bar or you can be this guyI think what you're getting at is the type of women at a bar or club, they may not be ltr material but good for a few pump and dumps. I tall depends on your preferences but if I were you, I would find out what environment I like and work in that setting, be it at school or in a bookstore, etc | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/13 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Being alpha doesn’t necessarily mean being popularthis is good but merely an example of an extroverted beta, where is the example of the introverted alpha? this is basically saying, if there are extroverted betas, then there MUST be introverted alphas. inferring doesn't do me any good and I would rather see evidence on an introverted alpha (an alpha who isn't popular, which the title implies). I'm sounding like a dick because I was expecting to read about an unpopular alpha | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/13 02:07 PM |
| 2 | [rant] why do guys take dating/relationship advice from girls?because they don't know any better. its just a matter of experience and realizing that its the wrong thing to do | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/13 02:44 AM |
| 2 | What part of TRP makes all these men openly come out against it?they honestly believe being nice, calling everyday, making sure "m'lady" is pampered and primmed will get them closer to true love when they don't understand biology at its true core. survival, no matter what, and these girls want that sperm because they want their babies to survive, not be nice. just because you didn't eat the lion doesn't mean its not going to eat you | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/13 02:24 AM |
| 1 | I'm having trouble coming to terms with some of the ideas in this subredditI believe it would be. If marriage didn't happen, then legal concepts like child support would come into mind, maybe even things like visitation days (I'm not 100% sure on this but from what I believe, this may be true) If married, you can maintain the relationship at a more manageable level as compared to not being around the mother of your children if she had her own place. Plus, I do see the idea of a "family" without marriage but it just doesn't seem as sustainable without the marriage part.… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/13 03:03 AM |
| 1 | I'm having trouble coming to terms with some of the ideas in this subredditWe're all sluts, men and women, we all like sex, biologically, before anything, I think we are all hardwired to make sure our genes pass on into the future. I do agree that a long history does bring up red flags for men and women alike, but what they do with their lives is up to them For me, as much as TRP discourages it, I do want to get married, if anything, for the prospect of raising children. If i were to go about it, I would apply Athol Kay's MMSL and keep my woman in check. LTRs and marri… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/13 02:31 AM |
| 16 | 25F seeking advice from TRP communityIts understandable, you want to be successful, make a difference, especially since you have a personal connection to such a career decision. Yet, we are all responsible for the decisions we make, men and women alike. For me, as a grad student, seeing my peers go out, go on vacation, enjoy happy hours, parties, etc, while I have an exam to study for or school work to do is hard but its the sacrifice I made and had to come to terms with. For you, your not just sacrificing your freedom during your … | /r/askTRP | 31/10/13 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Man kicks girlfriend to the curb after she admits to blowing another guyHe said "I won't tell", and that's all the reason she needed to do what she did, to keep the hamster spinning | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 07:04 PM |
| 1 | After you kill the neediness, bring down your defenses.this is great, it likes climbing out of the deep dark hole that is TBP a new man, yet these are like an added set of values, not just something separate from TRP. Being vulnerable is all part of the male sexual strategy, in a way that exudes straightforwardness and cuts through the bullshit. Now, I advocate this but probably when the time is right, when some comfort has been made with who you talk to, but nonetheless, even if it doesn't work, being outcome independent is what you turn to next so… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/13 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Musings from An Intermediate Red Piller and a Thank YouTHIS. I'm 25, still at home due to wrapping up grad school (which is 15 min away from me), and I come from a family that isn't too well off financially but we make it work. I was listening to some Childish Gambino when he said money is power, you can't do most things without money and by not being able to do those things, you don't end up happy. Not saying that money is everything, but it sure as hell allows you to do a lot of things. Personally, I have found that by not having money, I have mis… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/13 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Being shit tested in male groups. How do I stop it?you could say something about him not having any so theres no need to spread his legs lol then again someone would then say how do you know he doesn't have any, then that opens another door of issues | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/13 01:37 AM |
| 6 | Post your RP halloween costume ideas & strategies for getting laid this weekendget a costume that exhibits power, such as a roman emperor or a character that people know have a lot of power or something that feeds into a girls fantasy such as a cop, fireman, a guy "in uniform" use your costume to set a sexual state of mind, and have your actions reciprocate the same as well | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/13 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Making Mistakes after TRPSee them as just other people, no matter how hot, that way you don't put them on the pedestal and you don't treat them like anything special unless they've earned it. I'm working on this but it's something I remind myself a lot of when I talk to anyone | /r/askTRP | 21/10/13 09:04 PM |
| 9 | Angry guy gets defused by an alphahis girlfriend was probably super turned on by that shit, im sure he had a wonderful night after that | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/13 09:56 PM |
| 1 | New redpill junkie. What are your beliefs about homosexuality, bisexuality, and the shades inbetween?im heterosexual but i read recently on a thread (not in TRP), that men who are homosexual seem to be attracted to other guys just based on looks, their face mainly, and how they carry themselves. I'm sure you can find connections between hetero and homosexual relationships/mating, but there are differences as well that make them unique sometimes you're just hardwired for a certain gender, not much you can do about it | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/13 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness is a POWERFUL force. Getting laid can be so difficult. Getting close to leaving TRP, please tell me I'm wrongan idea i think you should adapt from TRP is to watch for red flags. always improve yourself and make sure your woman respects you. you can maintain a LTR but you need to watch for red flags, which are explained throughout various posts and on the side bar in TRP. you have to find a balance because yes, TRP is all about male sexual strategy but its also about overcoming the things that lead to red pill ideas in the first place. enjoy a relationship, let it grow and blossom, but you must know you… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/13 09:50 PM |
| 21 | The Shit Test in Corporate Americathis is great, just think about your teachers telling you what to do, and most of them being women, who will influence you, your education, with bookwork, but more importantly, subtly, their own views on things | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/13 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Are supposedly Alpha rap stars actually Beta?considering the music industry is heavily calculated and carefully run, in order to make as much money as possible, i personally think its just perception. these rappers throwing dollar bills, where do you think they get them from? the record label they work for, who is dictating what songs they sing, how they look, etc. for all we know, some of them could be pretty beta, more than we even think | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/13 02:15 AM |
| 0 | “Owning and Operating Men” – A woman’s guide to getting it wrongIt's a shame women don't know what they really want and those who do are lost causes | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/13 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Finally swallowed the redpillYou've found it alright, now it's time to process things. Read up on sidebar material and top posts and esp blogs like rational male, there's so much here but also remember to find ways to apply them into your life so that these values are reinforced | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/13 04:41 AM |
| 17 | Women give each other tips on game and are very open to receiving them. However, they communicate this with each other through their emotions.imagine what happens when women start hitting the wall? one of the women in the group hits the wall and gets married and all the other friends fall in line, making sure they don't get left behind, not only because they are hitting the wall as well but also because they simply see their friends doing it too | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/13 03:08 AM |
| 9 | You have a boyfriend, Fuck Youthis video demonstrates a man who gives up after finding out these women have boyfriends. he doesn't persist, he demonstrates childish behavior, all in the name of comedy of course, but childish none the less. if anything, it would dry their pussies up. the idea of this subreddit is a collective, yet individual compendium of ideas on male sexual strategy, which this video doesn't provide, maybe a good laugh but no real value. doesn't matter if they have a bf, its up to you to test them, to see h… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/13 01:38 AM |
| 1 | A prime example of blue pill logic. • Why women and white knights see game as coercion • Why women and white knights see gaming a girl as rape AND MORE!I guess this brings up the question of how to game properly and gauge situations and what to do but obv there's posts in trp for that, but thanks for the great feedback, if you have more to add please do | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 10:24 PM |
| 0 | A prime example of blue pill logic. • Why women and white knights see game as coercion • Why women and white knights see gaming a girl as rape AND MORE!Thanks I def will | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 10:01 PM |
| 1 | A prime example of blue pill logic. • Why women and white knights see game as coercion • Why women and white knights see gaming a girl as rape AND MORE!To be honest, after sitting back and thinking about it for a minute, the feeling that comes to mind is fear of rejection and the perception that all I want is sex (rather than it simply being wrong to do), which would then a lot of times give them that vibe of "ew" that reveals how big their ego is versus just honestly not being attracted What I mean by "ew" is the way a girl acts after you make your intent known but they absolutely won't have any of it. If they were your friend, or even talked … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 09:06 PM |
| 10 | A prime example of blue pill logic. • Why women and white knights see game as coercion • Why women and white knights see gaming a girl as rape AND MORE!As someone working to be more red pill, I can personally say that the idea of stating sexual intent still makes me feel slightly uncomfortable because it just feels wrong. But that feeling is definitely subsiding because I know that it's the only way to proceed in life regardless of my feelings. It's all a matter of working through it | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Remembering what we learn, a little personal step in the right direction...I agree, nothing dries a pussy up faster | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Remembering what we learn, a little personal step in the right direction...There isn't anything wrong with asking, the issue here is me trying not to get back into bad habits while still trying to be helpful | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Just found out about TRP and I wanted to discuss my thoughts on the subject.keep reading, it takes time, and after reading and reading and reading, you start actually connecting what you've read to what you experience and then BAM, thats where the real connections and true understanding takes place, along with a little chuckle to yourself and perhaps a chill down your spine because you realize that you are realizing the truth about how things really are | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 01:58 AM |
| 1 | In my bed, but nothing happened!. Did I just swallow a bottle of blue pill.should've told her if she was gonna sleep over and use a side of your bed, she was gonna have to have sex with you | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Remembering what we learn, a little personal step in the right direction...Let me better interpret what I meant: I didn't want to create the IDEA of that label in my head. I wasn't worried about her opinion, I was worried about my opinion of myself. I didn't want to reinforce negative past behaviors that have lead me to this subreddit in the first place. We are humans, we're all susceptible to judging ourselves, this affects our self esteem and its something I am not ashamed to say I am working on | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 01:34 AM |
| 20 | I'm a girl and I recently started visiting here to see what TRP was all about and I guess I have some questions.These are great questions that have been well answered by the fine redditors in this thread. What is great is how you have an open mind about this and haven't proceeded to label it as something bad. You actually want to understand WHY this subreddit exists and you actually acknowledge that its concepts make sense on a biological level. We are sharing our experiences and stories and growing as best as we can based on things we notice going on nowadays in terms of male sexual strategy. Whether we … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/13 03:59 AM |
| 3 | RedPillWomen vs TRP. What aspects of feminism do we reject?I think what they mean by working to better themselves, they need to understand themselves, at least first. I think what needs to be emphasized and learned by women is the way they operate subconsciously. Some women truly understand why they act the way they do and proceed to not give a shit (until the wall hits at least). Yet the majority want the nice, caring guy but don't FEEL that way, since more "alpha" guys tend to get them tingly. A lot of women can't handle their emotions, get caught up … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/13 05:02 PM |
| 1 | ultra beta email apologizing for 'misogyny'.Jezebel in General is the worst, just an outlet to complain about the actions of others and how they "hurt" feelings | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/13 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Was adopting "The Red Pill" as our name a bad idea in the long run?Agreed, there will always be someone who will have an opinion on something but as long as you're doing what you wanna do, I wouldn't lend an ear to them | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/13 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Stop Trying to Be HappyBasically it's like a woman saying she wants the nice guy but goes for the opposite. We can't think about happiness and act accordingly, it's really a feeling, that we have to experience in the moment to truly appreciate it. Essentially we're hamstering. BUT, we should also remember our memories which have a tendency to bring out emotions in us, because that's what we felt when we had the associative experience, such as sadness when someone close passes away, or happiness when we remember a big … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/13 04:37 PM |
| 1 | There are obvious "dealbreakers" to avoid, but there are also subtle "red flags" that should be consideredits probably just cuz they dress so sluttily that it gives off that vibe, its just a trend that is hot right now and yea, you gotta pick out the good ones from the crowd, maybe the ones who are well versed in EDM artists and actually know details about them instead of mindless dancing to the music | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/13 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Holly Michaels, Porn Star, did an AMA today. Mentioned she had a boyfriend. My wats are in overdrive.im sure it can be emasculating to the SO, especially with certain male porn stars nowadays, but there is a difference between just paying for it and having it with someone you care about, hence, an emotional connection. its that plus factor that does make the experience better, and its one that i think depends on the personality of the person, whether male or female and if they can separate the business from the emotions | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/13 01:40 AM |
| 2 | American-Indian women in New York trying to live the 'Sex and the City' lifestyleThis. She def is a product of her environment but she also does have the ability to make her own choices too. Her actions and personality are a result of both. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/13 09:53 PM |
| 9 | American-Indian women in New York trying to live the 'Sex and the City' lifestyleas an indian guy, i do see her actions are making her look entitled, but i feel as if this is more a "product of the environment" situation. this is two cultures clashing and its something people may not understand. having been raised in america, she has taken on the feminine ideals that are currently working its way through society (basically having their cake and eating it too and being entitled), however, due to traditions, she is using it as a poor form of "backup," because the article doesn… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/13 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Dear Daughter, don't let Miley Cyrus be a lesson to you.well that equalist shit def rubs me the wrong way, u want equal pay? how about lifting that 50 lb box... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/13 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Dear Daughter, don't let Miley Cyrus be a lesson to you.It isn't her fault (mostly). Yes, she is the one who makes her choices, but remember her past, as explained by u/notnotcitricsquid on np.reddit.com/r/cringe/comments/1l3cdr/miley_cyrus_vma_performance/cbvgwf1 When people are raised a certain way, they might try to compensate in other ways at one point in their lives. Now, she does have the ability to choose how she acts, she has money, she has the freedom to do so, but her foundations, as rich and plentiful it was, wasn't appropriate for a young… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/13 12:42 AM |
| 2 | What's TRP theory on friends?im speaking in the context of being interesting. usually people have interests and because of that, they can relate to others, such as being fans of a certain team or liking the same hobby like fantasy football. you can most certainly be different but when you aren't interested in something when everyone else is, its hard to relate, hard to be a part of something when you simply don't care about it at all | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/13 08:44 PM |
| -1 | What's TRP theory on friends?When with friends, I feel like you need to have the same interests as them. For me, I apparently am apathetic about alot of things so its difficult to have a lot of friends who you hang out with on a daily basis but I do have a small number of friends. Its difficult for me to fake being excited about something I'm not because then that is not the real me, its not me being myself, contrary to the famous advice. Some people can fake it til they make it but I know I am not that kind of person. I wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/13 06:43 PM |
| 1 | "You don't want to date me." Shit test or warning to be heeded?borderline personality disorder | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/13 01:53 AM |
| 2 | what makes this person get the results he gets?that wasn't the point of the post but yes, the comments made in the original post, and even in the bodybuilding forum definitely showed that alot of jimmies were rustled | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 02:48 PM |
| 2 | I Needed to Say This...This is not about feminism or mega corporations. This subreddit is simply about the discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. (yes i took that from the sidebar) If you want to talk about feminism or mega corporations, go to another subreddit. This subreddit is about men being men in a time and age when their primal, subconscious ways are being suppressed. What do I mean by their "ways"? I mean the ability to stand up for yourself, to not take sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 02:46 PM |
| 2 | History Channel -- Secrets of Body LanguageI think that everyone definitely benefits from TRP but even more so, those with AS because of the lack of ability to grasp social norms quickly such as having the same frame as someone else or over powering their frame so that you can maintain your identity as a person and not so to speak, submit to someone else | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 01:54 PM |
| -1 | Lifting Vs Getting Fitfrom a shallow point of view, yes, having muscles may not lead to "fitness" but it does make a difference in your value. Just like how men will react to a well done pair of fake tits, muscles count. What should be focused on is the individual aspect, the self improvement aspect, mainly just for health purposes. So yes, lifting + cardio will get you fit, but muscles do make a difference too, aesthetically speaking. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 02:16 PM |
| 4 | Heartbreaking tale from Relationships. Just a reminder, some women will turn on you in a heartbeat the second you cease to be useful.Not to mention having one testicle removed, physically, literally taking away the source of hormones (such as testosterone), that can influence the (masculine, alpha like) decisions you make. Even with supplements, I can't imagine it having the exact same effect as natural test production | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 01:00 AM |
| 1 | What are your favorite red pill truth songs?wow I made a post like this 10 minutes after you did without realizing, anyways... "1985" by bowling for soup and "can i get a" by jay z | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/13 02:44 PM |
| -1 | Women using oral contraceptives show a weaker preference for masculine mento add on, its like watching porn then fapping and not being interested in it anymore (with the exception being those who fap ALOT.) in a sense, if the woman's body is thinking it is already "pregnant," it has theoretically gotten "impregnated," which means she subconsciously doesn't need to look for a mate (since she is "pregnant," due to the pill's effect), more specifically the desire for a strong, albeit, alpha mate (for survival purposes) is depressed because the need has been "met," even t… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/13 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Ever wonder why people hate the red pill? Answers rights here..the reason its so extreme is because it is as close to the truth as you can get as to how we, as a species operate in terms of mating. as for "we're all animals," we ARE, but simply civilized monkeys who have mastered natural selection over other species and other factors such as food, jobs, etc (for alot of us) and have simply refocused it on ourselves | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/13 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain why some pre-nups get thrown out in court?couldn't you have her sign something saying she comprehends it 100% and something along the lines of it can't get thrown out? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/13 10:07 PM |
| 2 | whats the academic composition of redpill?doctorate of physical therapy student | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/13 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Made an account just to give this piece of advice.There is an "algorithm" posted somewhere of sorts that, depending on the level of comfort and how far your game is with the girl, you can touch certain places (arms, back, ass, etc). If you haven't gotten good enough rapport, touching her ass will most certainly lead to a shutdown, unless you just don't give a fuck and wanna russian roulette it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/13 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Ungrateful Woman Divorces Her Husband Because He's Too Nice! - this is too funnyat 2:34, after asking the wife if she wants a man who runs around on her and hits her and the wife saying no... "What do you want from a man, Mrs. Lucas?" she just laughs and shrugs PRICELESS | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/13 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Down Syndrome's Extra Chromosome Silenced in Lab Cells->What effect does this have on "hitting the wall?"her mind says yes but her body says HELLLLL NO | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/13 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Down Syndrome's Extra Chromosome Silenced in Lab Cells->What effect does this have on "hitting the wall?"Obviously, 20 somethings are always the better choice (in looks at least), but my focus here was on the behavior of "hitting the wall." How will something like this contribute to that behavior? How will it change things? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/13 10:24 PM |
| 15 | Why sluts are damaged goods when it comes to long term relationships (comment from a former slut)all the while she's probably hooking up with someone else | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/13 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Shit testing to evoke an emotionwell you asking for it means that she has power over you. get out of that mindset because it isn't a mentality of abundance. sure you wanna talk to her but she isn't the only girl out there. If anything, you can evoke jealousy in her by bringing a friend that is a girl, into the restaurant to eat. Don't even make eye contact with the other girl because then she will know that you are doing it to make her jealous. You have to shift the situations to your liking. Use emotions as a tool to get what… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/13 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Shit testing to evoke an emotionI would imagine she would give you shit for not coming to get the number. A good response (I would think) would be something along the lines of you being busy and not having time for games. This would be more direct and I would think, evoke a stronger emotion (of guilt, like she owes you something, or wants to get forgiveness for not giving you the number earlier like she did something wrong). But of course you can also make a joke out of it too, but that might not evoke as strong of a feeling, … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/13 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Shit testing to evoke an emotionI like the emphasis on "shift in focus." Reframing a conversation to while still being funny seems like it could work in your favor, AND you get to control the conversation. If in a different situation, you can reframe conversations to something sexual, while being funny, which would hopefully put the girl in a more comfortable state while still allowing you to state your intentions in a subtle manner. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/13 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Being in a Red Pill marriage, and why it is superior to the feminist idea of marriage.That's all we really can do. Do our best to not lose sight of the ideal we strive to maintain, because if we lose that ideal, we could become beta/blue pill in our marriage and we all know what happens when we go down that road. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/13 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Being in a Red Pill marriage, and why it is superior to the feminist idea of marriage.Marriage is something i haven't encountered yet in my life but I am using posts like these to set a template for it. It's not going to be a perfect red pill marriage, considering I am new at it, but yes, I am most certainly going to lay down rules, "guide/manipulate" her, so to speak, so that what I want done, is done. This is new territory so I am treading carefully, hell, I haven't even married her yet! | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/13 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Being in a Red Pill marriage, and why it is superior to the feminist idea of marriage.My gf of 5 years recently told me she would LOVE to become a stay at home mom. It makes me nervous (money wise) but I see the benefits as stated above. I want to try it out and see what happens, all while promoting her good health and making sure things get done around the house. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/13 03:04 PM |
| 9 | Former fat guy gets into shape, his first GF gets jealous and makes him apologize for flirting with girls. He is now afraid to look at other girls since they fought. Oh yeah, she also wants to marry him.The title is kind of manipulative. She states she met him after he lost all the weight. The title makes one assume that she was with him when he was fat, which changes the dynamic of the situation. Nonetheless, this is the trade off when it comes to having an attractive bf, regardless of whether she is his first gf or not. Being attractive means that all the girls want him, and the attention is VERY compelling. She needs to understand that and do what it takes to keep him, else he'll find someth… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/13 03:02 PM |
| 6 | An Interesting Study w/ signs & symptoms to come?To me, this quote is most interesting: "The conclusions drawn from this experiment were that when all available space is taken and all social roles filled, competition and the stresses experienced by the individuals will result in a total breakdown in complex social behaviors, ultimately resulting in the demise of the population." The question to ask about these conclusions here is, HOW have competition and stresses affected these individuals, which in turn contributed to the breakdown in the co… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/13 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Two realizations that have occurred on TRP over the past month, lets grow more from within and realize how we as a species tick...Throughout my life, i've had trouble making friends, and whatever friends I do have, don't regard me as highly as others in my social group. this past 6 months, i've slowly come to realize its because of the shit tests, and partially my lack of participation in social events, but this is due to work and money related issues. Now, after realizing this, I've noticed shit tests more, comprehended them, and responded to them appropriately. It's still very hard, so I have to encounter them more to ge… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/13 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Two realizations that have occurred on TRP over the past month, lets grow more from within and realize how we as a species tick...Shit testing your pets? Something to think about... | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/13 04:09 AM |
| 1 | "Good girl" shit test on first datewas it a "date" or just a lunch? because you picked up the tab and put yourself in this situation. if anything, ignore the chick, or actively pursue another girl, and be more aggressive. initiate, conversate, and don't fail the shit tests | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/13 03:05 AM |
| 1 | After a small epiphany, I realize that even men hamster, which perpetuates that beta blue pill behaviorI don't mean to compare it to female hamstering, I just wanted to convey my experience into a more relatable term. It's definitely not female hamstering, but it's a behavior that we use to rationalize things we experience, similar to what females go through but most certainly not to the female extent, because as men, a good number of us will tend to come to logical terms with what we experience, and this coming to terms with reality, whereas this isn't the case with most women. Those who don't c… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/13 05:09 PM |
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