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| 3 | Im obsessed with a toxic girl and i cant snap out of itYou sound clingy af not gonna lie. If she already told you she doesn't want a relationship then why not just accept it? either you ignore her and go on with your life or you stay clinging to her. It's been 5 years dude, she finds you attractive but that's it, she'd fuck you but that clinginess is what makes her go away, hell will make anyone go away. Just because you're head over heels to her doesn't mean she's inlove with you. Attraction =/= wanna date you. Start with just making out and that's… | /r/seduction | 27/03/21 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Getting Instagram handles instead of numbers?I'd say if you're in NA, asking for snapchat is much better while in Europe Instagram or their number(whatsapp) is pretty much it. NA girls I've dated are more into snapchat for some reason. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Is talking about your hands a way of flirting?Nah, not worth it. Totally depends on the delivery. Must be a playful tone and probably both of you should've been comparing hands by then. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 02:04 AM |
| 2 | If she doesnt want me set a day to be with you, why are you texting?The thing is these idiots acts as if women are dogs, you don't give them attention = They'll try to whine,howl, do everything to get it. When in reality healthy women just don't want guys who are clingy as fuck and seem to revolve their world around the women they like, which sadly a lot of guys do. There's a difference between a busy person who has responsibilities and cannot text all the time vs a guy who just ignores you to seem cool. Which these assholes falls into the latter. | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | If she doesnt want me set a day to be with you, why are you texting?What a fucking idiot response lmfao. Then why even get her number in the 1st place you goddamn retard? If you don't want to text then don't fucking get numbers in the 1st place. WHy do you act like a woman is going to magically meet up with you after getting her number? Is that head of yours empty? The 1st rule to build up a bond is by communication, so you fucking text her, you both say what common shit you both do and then you go for a meetup. What's with that shitty "Mystery is what they're a… | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 02:54 AM |
| 1 | If she doesnt want me set a day to be with you, why are you texting?There's no mystery needed in the 1st place. Are we fucking edward cullen or the salvatore brothers in here who needs to look mysterious everytime?.. Trying to act mysterious is cringey as shit, What you want to say is to act low key, of course you wont tell a person everything about yourself , from being a baby to your adulthood. You talk about hobbies, favorite things to do or interesting shit before a date, you can also be lowkey about past relationships or your problems.. What are you gonna t… | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 02:36 AM |
| 2 | If she doesnt want me set a day to be with you, why are you texting?No, you text them when you want doesn't need to be daily, nor doesn't need to be hourly.. it's just when you can and when you want. You do you, and she does her. If I am a woman, why would I want to date a guy who thinks he's so top notch and acts like I really want him? If a guy is gonna act like that he should be 1. Very fucking attractive that makes me horny as shit or 2. Very fucking rich and would give me money, and guess what those types of dudes aren't gonna be in this fucking sub or gonn… | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | If she doesnt want me set a day to be with you, why are you texting?If you both texts all day and then when you meet up there's nothing to talk about then it's either you're both boring as fuck, or she's not interested to you. I've met up with girls who I've talked with for so long and when we meetup we talked about literally anything. You will never run out of conversation if you're having fun. If you do, it's either you just want a quick fuck and not really interested or you're boring as shit. | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | If she doesnt want me set a day to be with you, why are you texting?DO this shit on girls on tinder who clearly just wants a 1 night stand even then those are rare without them wanting to know more about you or what you do in life, because if they just want to fuck without talking about anything else then that's 1 way to get STD's. If it's girls outside tinder on the other hand then dont do this awful ass advice. Literally makes no sense. | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 01:16 AM |
| 12 | Just wanted to shout out how good of a sub r/seduction isA couple of weeks ago the front page was full of "Alpha Beta", "Put women in place", "Show women u superior than them" type of shit with hundreds of upvotes and rewards, cringey as fuck. Hope they never come back tho. | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationshipIt's not a quality play whatsoever, it's more of a safe and comfort play than anything else. It can either end up wholesome or bad depending on how you ask and the girl. | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 12:30 PM |
| 12 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationshipDamn that's real tough. Maybe I say it in a playful, and expected way where I am 60% sure that both parties wants it.. Guess it's also the girl that you asked, fucking stucked up, how does someone gets creeped out for asking consent? either she's not interested in the 1st place or just a bitch.... | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 12:47 AM |
| 26 | A tweet 5-10 years before "WAATGM"All the people that likes me, likes me because of either Anime or Kpop and I am neither Japanese or Korean. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/03/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | What are the best physical features?My cheekbones, eye shape, and collar bones | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Is "lets be friends instead" ever meant in a genuine way?Well if that's the case then we're both using each others and not a friendship at all :(.. | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 10:58 PM |
| 11 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationshipWhy not just ask them lol.. idk what type of girls do you guys date but majority of mine I just say "Hey wanna kiss?" or "So when is the part when we're gonna make out?" at the end of the date and it breaks the nervousness barrier also a consent. From the ones I tried it out with everyone said yes or so. I also get the "You're the 1st guy who asked me that" lol. | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 10:56 PM |
| 2 | I don't have any game but want to be preparedPlan everything + the nervousness and anxiety and you'll see your dick not going up at all. Don't think about it, if it happens let the horny take over the nervousness because if you let it the other way around that dick wont get up at all. Even then if you guys are friends why are you thinking about fucking her more than meeting her? that's tough. | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 10:26 PM |
| 30 | How do you pursue a sexual relationship with a girl over text without seeming crude and creepy?You don't pursue it. It either becomes a relationship or 1 of you becomes not interested. You do you, and she does herself. This is if you guys are talking already and both are somewhat interested. If not then you talk to her and show your interest, by flirting and banter(?).. You don't go sexual unless you're both interested and attracted to each other. Majority of girls are straightforward, either they'll stop replying or will just not reply if not interested. So if that happens just stop mess… | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 2 | NOT ALL DATING ADVICE FROM ONLINE IS HELPFUL (including from me)Yeo I really agree with that, I've been lurking in this subreddit for years and before posts were " The importance of being fit, The importance of being able to tell if the other person is interested in what you say". I agree with the people should just post their personal experience. However, the post that I've seen in this shit this year and last year are "Put women in their place" "This is why women like guys who are superior to them" "Make women submissive to you" and has hundreds of people … | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemYeah, that's nice and all if you're both happy which is the only thing that matters. | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemWhich is the problem. It all boils dows to "He's the one because he pampers me". My main question is, if he does everything you stated then what do you do?? What do you contribute in the relationship? Do you just have sex whenever he wants and wherever he wants? Because I am sure you're not being submissive to him, he's being submissive to you which is literally the exact oppossite of this post that you agree with. | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Is "lets be friends instead" ever meant in a genuine way?Actually yes lol. A- Met this girl on tinder, we flirted a bit, she was cool.. even after I got a gf and deleted tinder we still talk and are still friends. B- Tried with this girl in my class, I chased her and asked her out, got told no. She's cool and I like her so we're friends, she invites me to her bday party and hang out sometimes. C- A girl I know idk if we're friends, but basically we have this thing where we don't talk for a very long time. She asks me to hang out and then we catch up t… | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemRead what you said. "I can only be submissive to a man who truly loves and cares for me " then stated that he's "the one" because. A- He pays for literally everything. B- Opens everything and gives you everything that you want and ever wanted. C- Gives you the emotional and affirmations that you need. Basically you're telling us that for you to truly love a person they'll need to treat you like you're their child? | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 02:22 AM |
| 4 | Been texting and bombarding girls that I’m [M20] interested in because I’m hornyGo to tinder and get validation whenever you want. Last time I used it, they didn't have region barrier so the whole world was seeing me, I got so many matches and talked to some, came to a point where it even became fucking exhausting. Or go to the gym or learn how to cook. Make yourself busy whatever it is. If you're horny go watch porn or go to gonewild . | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemBasically a fucking nanny? Does he wipe your ass too? You gotta be kidding me. Sounds like a pain in the ass to date someone like this. If this is a normal woman, then no thanks, I'd rather date other guys who don't expect me to do everything for them. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 10:41 PM |
| 4 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemThe same with my male friends who has standards of an elite model with the libido of a pornstar while being a fat fuck themselves. It's not the career that's stopping them from finding a partner. It's the entitlement and superiority complex, I won't fucking date a cunt either even if I'm a millionaire. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 10:35 PM |
| 4 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemThis is some dumb and cringy shit I swear to god. No, it's not that women wants to have someone protecting them or having someone lift them up. It's that they want a man with fucking value, whether it be being goodlooking, having a great job, feeling secure or having money. Women or people in general love people who will give them what equals or more than they think they are worth. That's why you see insecure women go for anyone who gives them attention, That's why you see some "superficial" wom… | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Only use texting to set up a date.Nope, I advocate on getting to know each other and having comfort even before a date. I am opposed on "falling" and getting all giggly and nervous when she replies tho and where lots of guys fall into, that's where texting becomes toxic. How the fuck do ppl get all fall in love and shit just by texts- | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Only use texting to set up a date.Because it is ridiculous, If you run out of what to talk about it means that you're not really interested in the girl or vice versa. You will notice in person if the other party is really interested in you or just there. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | How to get girls numbers at the gym I work at?Pfft it's such a taboo to hit on clients when you're working. Idk but it just seems unprofessional unless they hit on you 1st. | /r/seduction | 03/03/21 10:33 PM |
| 4 | Pickup doesn’t HAVE to be misogynisticYeah, i respect people who does it in a healthy way and a respectable way. But here's the thing, most posts here has that "Be alpha" vibe that makes it look like that women should be attracted to you just because you're confident. It makes it look like women are just these creatures who will kneel to you all mighty just because you have ego, it gives the wrong impression to teens and makes a new generation of "mysoginistic" guys. | /r/seduction | 02/03/21 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Pickup doesn’t HAVE to be misogynisticThe fact that most PUA's and pickup videos ends up in cringe compilations. Not gonna lie, I respect people who approaches women in a respectful way during the day, However I don't respect people who "pick up" drunk women at nightclubs while they themselves are sober. | /r/seduction | 02/03/21 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Pickup doesn’t HAVE to be misogynisticOnly unattractive people take picking up seriously lol. Can't get women naturally so they go with the manipulation tactics. Ugly ass dudes. | /r/seduction | 02/03/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you get from just talking to flirting?You flirt jokingly, and then if she flirts back you take it to the next level that's if she's already a friend and you want to date. In tinder on the other hand, just flirt, she swiped right to you so it means she's interested. | /r/seduction | 02/03/21 12:52 PM |
| 1 | She's not the prize, and neither are youAnother false statement. Idk about you guys but I'd rather have the girl like me for my face or personality, real players are the one who can fuck without doing a single shit. Billionaires on the other hand only gets gold-diggers, do you consider that a success? nah I consider those, parasites, that¡s almost the same as paying a prostitute .. lol... and also, I'd rather count genuine fucking such as getting who you want rather than hunting Drunk women at nightclubs and or going to 3rd world coun… | /r/seduction | 02/03/21 12:34 PM |
| 1 | She's not the prize, and neither are youThis is just so false lmao. The amount of insecure and loser guys who are getting lots of pussy just for being attractive debunks everything you stated although those women dating them are superficial as fuck. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Age 20 Never had a gf and socially awkwardBy treating them like people. They are normal human beings, they take a shit, they fart, and they all have insecurities. A lot are superficial and majority just like males are fucking trash (personality wise) so you do you. | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Age 20 Never had a gf and socially awkwardWhat I'm asking is why are you gonna hate women if you've never been with one before? I'd understand if let's say a girl cheated on you and you went "Fuck dating and women imma be an incel" but why turn one if you've never experienced it? A good advice you'll always hear because it works is focus on yourself and be confident. You like a girl? Get to know her and subtly flirt with her, be direct with your intentions without being too bold on your words. Women are human beings too, just like men,t… | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Age 20 Never had a gf and socially awkward Idk why are you even gonna turn into an incel without ever talking properly to a girl? | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Girls like the type of Men who are aligned with their life purpose and have the courage to walk on their own path without caring what anyone else thinks.Where is the alleged joke? | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Girls like the type of Men who are aligned with their life purpose and have the courage to walk on their own path without caring what anyone else thinks.I see the dumbest shit in this sub I swear to god. Women are addicted to serial killer documentaries because they like psychology and how bizzare these people think. It's not because they're attracted to them. Fucking dumbass. | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 10:50 AM |
| 5 | No bullshitI mean, isn't this the whole point of this sub? haha | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Seeking advice in regards to datingI mean as long as you don't have a micropenis you're fine. Not every male in this world has 20 centimeters. World's average is below 15 centimeters, and highest average by countries is 17 centimeters. | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | To the guys who hook up with a lot of chicks, what do you think you do differently?From what I noticed from my friends who hooks up with lots of chicks is. They got no fucking standards, every chick for them is good unless she's just straight up nasty. They are very thick faced, like my homeboy is short af like 5'5 and be trynna talk to girls who are 6'' like wow. They are silvertongued, they just talk and make you feel comfortable, just good vibes everywhere, no bad ones. They dont give up easily but knows when to back down or if the girl is uncomfortable. They get like lots … | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Stop worrying about being creepyChoose the right parents- | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 12:47 AM |
| 2 | You guys think I still have a chance?Yes of course, we're modern now so if you've got no time to go out and meet new people, try meeting people online. For example, Tinder (not recommended), or just adding and chatting people in your area on instagram, idk why but somewhat this worked for me lol. But that was during quarantine. | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 04:01 PM |
| 2 | How to make a girl like you based on their insecurityTo answer your question then the most you can do are girl's with deep and very strong daddy issues where everything is an insecurity, if you're average looking and show an ounce of attraction to them chances are they'd fall for you. Most of these girls are either 15-20 year olds or fully adult women who never grew up. Even then that's Manipulation and manipulation is the worst thing you can do when trying to get girls. It just fucking sucks, instead of using other's weakness, just use your stren… | /r/seduction | 23/01/21 02:24 AM |
| 1 | If you aren’t getting responses from the messages you send to women on Tinder, you need to stop blaming women and start changing the way you word your opening message.You wrote so much but the only truth is this: " You're not getting responses because most women get 99+ matches and 99+ messages in less than a day. Nobody has the time to reply to all of those, and most likely they'll just reply to the ones they find more attractive" I blame men more for being too horny and having little to no standards. I am kind of proud of my 100 matches in less than a week, and even then I never wrote all of them, I just picked out the ones Im more interested in, and even t… | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 01:24 PM |
| 1 | I can’t help but feel that my engagement to my fiancée is a little tainted as it’s her second time. Does anyone agree?So, you've been with an ex for 10 years but then get so hypocrite about your new girl marrying another dude that ended in 2012? You sound so insecure, You're telling me that you've had more relationships other than this woman and you're judging her because she had a past with another man? Damn bro, imagine being 30+ and still having this mindset. What a waste of time, just say you're 19-25 and we'd understand it more. Holyshit, Grow up. | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | I can’t help but feel that my engagement to my fiancée is a little tainted as it’s her second time. Does anyone agree?I've read in a comment that you stated that you're 34 but you're acting like a fucking 15 year old who's full of insecurities. To be honest, just leave this woman alone, you're just going to waste her time. Everybody has a past especially at your age, If you're still an insecure virgin at this point and hasn't got any history with love or flings then it's your own fault. Anyways, who the fuck cares if people gossip? Why do you even think they'll compare you with him? and even then it ended on … | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 12:52 PM |
| 1 | What to text girl between dates?Well to be honest, If you both have nothing to discuss in between dates then mostly there's just 0 chemistry. What's your goal tho, long term or short term? | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Why is cold approaching the best method?Except you have more chances online as they swipe on you because you're attractive for them. | /r/seduction | 07/12/20 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Why is cold approaching the best method?It's true though? Watch any approach videos and not those ones where the guys hit obviously drunk horny girls at the clubs while they are sober themselves, something where people just approach someone in broad daylight or night. Some girls would probably get or give you their number just to be nice, some would be in a hurry and will ignore you, lots will tell you "I have a girlfriend". Stop with the delusion lol, girls aren't 100% actively looking to fuck, especially with a stranger who randomly… | /r/seduction | 07/12/20 10:42 AM |
| 9 | Why is cold approaching the best method?Cold approach is the best method if your end goal is to gain confidence and to be less shameful, but the best method to get laid? hell no. Cold approach is 99% rejection. | /r/seduction | 06/12/20 11:41 PM |
| 2 | How to handle a women that’s flaked on the first date ?I mean the fuck? Then if it's because of health reasons then it's not flaking, it's cancelling/Rescheduling. Put some commonsense and context on what you say. Don't take it personally just because she doesn't want to risk infecting anybody else. I swear to god, people don't think before the post some shit. | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 01:44 PM |
| 0 | Should I tell her I am a virginIf you're ever going to say you're a virgin, make sure she's comfortable with you and you both have a playful, good chemistry. I don't think she would care, so go on and say it but atleast on the right time or when there's context. For example when you're both getting ready to fuck and you're very nervous, best you can do is tell her that it's your 1st time to atleast put that shit out of the way and be less nervous about it. Like just be honest, Don't act like you're a sex god around her then d… | /r/seduction | 03/12/20 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Don't be a nice guyExcept that's not what you're implying with the post at all. Your 1st paragraph states "If you're looking for love chances are you're a nice guy" so, you're saying everyone who wants a lovely relationship and doesn't want to fuck around is automatically a "nice guy"? Your last paragraph also states " YOUR NEEDS ARE more important in a relationship" which is the most bullshit thing I've read lmfao. In a relationship both people's needs are important, that's why it's a goddamn relationship. You bo… | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Don't be a nice guyYour example is not even a "nice guy", nor a simp. It's just a socially awkward dude with low confidence which isn't wrong but let's be honest almost everyone in this sub are like this lol. It's not bad being this way. TO BE honest that shit could work if you do it with more confidence and you know that the girl is into you. The example you gave literally falls on Creepy if the girl doesn't find you attractive and playful and hot if she finds you attractive and cool. Imma give the real definitio… | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 10:38 AM |
| 5 | What do guys prefer? Easy or difficult?Someone who shows interests in me without being clingy. That's it. | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Don't be a nice guyThis is like the most common sense thing in this world. To be honest, if someone doesn't know this yet, they are either: a. Lying to themselves b. Stupidest motherfuckers out there, there's really no helping you. And also, you don't need to be masculine or Alpha. Girls atleast the ones who have the personality of a white bread don't care about that shit, be confident and put yourself 1st. | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Any ideas for when I’m on a google meet?Isn't there an option to private message someone in google meet? just type "Hey :) this class is boring" on her dms or some shit then spark a convo | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 11:13 AM |
| 1 | How do you even approach at the gym?If you really like and find a specific person pretty then go and try to chatup with them. Making friends like gymbuddies is good too. However, if you're going to the gym to chat up multiple people with the intention of "gaming" then pls don't, it's fucking annoying and gives second hand embarrassment. I've seen a guy try to chat up and flirt with a girl in yoga pants with the girl just trying to be nice and getting annoyed, girl even said "okay I'm moving" and the dude just replied "where to? I'… | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Girls saying shitests or something like thatI can see that you don't understand women at all lmao. Act like this with every woman and you'll never see pussy your whole life. The thing that you say is "Acting like a manchild who will throw a tanthrum and kick you out for not having sex and wasting my time" = Her feeling bad about it that she'll cook out her clams for you. Shit doesn't work this way my man. All you need to say is "I understand, just tell me when you're ready".. Your whole "I'm alpha" bullshit will only work on women with lo… | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 01:23 PM |
| 4 | How to have an abundance of women if you're naturally an introvert?I can fully relate to this comment lol. Why do people act like being an introvert is equals to being socially inept and not being able to communicate with other people. It just really means people who are comfortable being alone and values their own time and space. Being a player exhausts me, I tried talking to multiple girls at once and it always ends up just talking and pursuing a relationship to the one I like the most. | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 04:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I improve my social circle to meet girls?Well but if the posts says ''His main goal'' is to chase women and have casual sex/relationship then chances are he's not going to enjoy whatever he wants to do. It's better to do your own thing and make meeting women secondary- | /r/seduction | 23/09/20 10:08 PM |
| -1 | How do I improve my social circle to meet girls?By not chasing girls and not making it your main goal. | /r/seduction | 23/09/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Sleeping with someone in 'open-relationship'It's not worth it man. I've had someone like this, sex was so fucking great, total nympho, had sex 7 times in a day made me do it raw and all. But these types are emotionally unstable, It'll make you go crazy .It's hard. I got forced to ask her out because she wont stop giving hints and ngl I fell inlove with the sex haha They also fall inlove easily so if you ignore her there's probably about 2 months she will not stop harrassing you until she falls inlove to the other victim.. Just my experi… | /r/seduction | 21/08/20 05:21 AM |
| 2 | What is the difference between being creepy and flirty.Yeah and what's the difference with that? No matter how you put it, if a girl finds you creepy then for her you're creepy. You can analyse their feelings and be deep on how egotistical and narcissistic they are, but if for her you're creepy then there's just that. All you can do is move on and find a girl who doesn't find you creepy lol. | /r/seduction | 17/08/20 05:08 PM |
| 0 | What is the difference between being creepy and flirty.Ofcourse I know that but we're talking about if women finds you creepy or not. Creepy is subjective to each and everyone in us. I don't think I'm creepy at all, but if a girl who is not used on flirting and direct things might find me creepy or so. No one said shit about what girls think influence the game, as the reddit post says ''What is the difference between creepy and flirty'' The answer is given, based on how attractive you are for the woman. That's a fact. It's as if we're talking about … | /r/seduction | 17/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 7 | What is the difference between being creepy and flirty.Yes it is. I've seen and heard lots of stories from my girl friends about this topic, everytime a guy who they don't find attractive messages them they are repulsed. Yeah it scares people to not approach anyone anymore but that's the reality, either you adapt to it and have a thick skin or be shy. Better yet I know an Actor who gets any girls she wants, literally he's hooked up with all the hottest girls in my class back in highschool, but when he tried to fuck a friend of mine she told me that … | /r/seduction | 17/08/20 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel like they're chasing a high they cannot get anywhere else?The only time I had that type of high was when I was 16 with my very 1st GF so seriously inlove and happy all the time, didn't think of anything else, no responsibilities. :) Man I'd love to have that again. | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 10:10 PM |
| 5 | Coming on too strong?''There was sexual tension'' lmfao.. so only you then? | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 2 | I'm probably an evil seductress.Well if you're gonna flirt and seduce men ofcourse they'll fall for you. An average guy is more likely to fall for a woman who will accept his advances, and then you'll chew him out after he gets too interested? This is why there are a lot of guys who don't want relationship anymore bruh.. Too many fuckboy wannabe's now shit man. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 03:33 AM |
| 2 | How much does being in shape help you while pursuing girls?YEah a fitguy with an average to ugly face will never get called ugly because the 1st thing you'll see is their body and that ''determination is ''hot'' for people,, so most of the time an ugly guy with a fit body is called ''exotic'' | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 09:16 PM |
| 6 | How much does being in shape help you while pursuing girls?ofcourse, have you ever seen an ugly guy with an average-ugly face? they are never get called ''ugly'' they are called ''hot'', ''hunk'', ''exotic'' | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 09:46 PM |
| 6 | What age did you lose your virginity?Eyyy 15 gang! | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 12:09 AM |
| 56 | Why would a girl be on Tinder if she has a boyfriend?It's because she belongs to the streets. | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 06:16 AM |
| 1 | She gave her number to someone elseThe best things to do in these types of situations is just tell her straight that ''Hey I really wanted something serious with you but if you're not prepared for something like that then I'm not going to waste my time, goodluck'' | /r/seduction | 10/07/20 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Tinder advice: you’re in the wrong cityBro I am more popular in USA and in Mexico for some reason.. I'm like 10k away from those countries lmao, I got 87 matches in 3 days and I was being really choosy. | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else get happier but sad during deep relationships?Yeah especially such relationships in highschool. Man I built up a very nice relationship when I was 15, it lasted till 18.. Thinking about it now, why even build up relationships like that where you build up each other and lots of memories just to be strangers again. It took me 1 year to move on and even then I don't feel like I'll encounter such love ever again.. ruined me | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Am I too much of a nice guy?Yeah it's cool to do it and have humor like that once in a while, but doing it too much will result to them thinking you're immature and childish. But don't put all the blame to yourself, Girls I met on tinder are the most boring girls ever, sometimes I wonder why they're on tinder anyway lol | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Am I too much of a nice guy?Vibe = energy/aura you project to other people. To attract a potential person then they should feel positive energy from you which means confidence, feels safe around you, being cool in general or even be passionate about something. In my opinion, It's impossible to notice your own vibes because everyone of us has pride and will always think that we're fun to be with. Just act cool, don't be too insecure, and think about what you say. If there are people who have good energy and smile around you… | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Am I too much of a nice guy?Look at number 3 and re-evaluate yourself. Never compliment a girl unless you really mean it, if you're only complimenting someone because you want to ''seduce'' them then chances are it's not being nice. No offense, but I think it's mostly because of your vibe, don't ever use sexual innuendos unless you feel like she wants you the same way. People will feel it naturally if someone is being thirsty or not. | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 08:37 AM |
| 1 | This seems like a toxic environmentLots of people who pays people to tell them commonsense. | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 06:59 AM |
| 1 | What should I put on my IG story to get him to reply/Dm me?Depends, tbh I don't even reply to those shit anyway.. Like whenever I see a girl posting those stuff, I'm just curious on what ppl would say. Majority of the time it's thirsty guys saying ''Opinion?'' '' Would you hookup?'' ''wanna meet up?'' blabla. I'd rather get a meme from someone or just get told ''Hey you're cute :)'' heh | /r/seduction | 10/06/20 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Girl I like only views my first Instagram stories, but then skips the rest? Why?She's just not interested on seeing the rest of the stories. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 02:39 AM |
| 1 | What Do Fit Guys Wear?Wear anything that is your style that doesn't make you look like a clown or a homeless person. If you mean those people who really love themselves, then tight T shirt + Jeans 24/7 | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Close to making girlfriend c*m but cantDepends on how long you guys are together, the main key is Patience and getting to know her body so take your time, I'm gonna list some tips I've learnt overtime, hope I help: DOn't focus on inserting your fingers in the hole, Focus on the clitoris, that's the main spot that will make her cum 1) Communication. You need to communicate, ask her if you're hitting the right spot, if you're applying the perfect pressure and the speed you're doing it. 2) Try to know her body, there are girls who likes… | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | How are you supposed to treat a FWB?Treat them as your bro who you can fuck and no one would think you're sus | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Why am I still jealous of my girlfriend?Well 1st of all how old are you? I understand you to some extent. It's hard to be alone and to lose your 1st one, 1st serious relationships that lasts a long time will always be remembered afterall no matter what. Remember she's your 1st one, there will always be more. If it's the second time then, unless you say something then she'll just do it for the 3rd time. No one likes looking inferior because their partner is flirting with other people. IF you haven't communicated your frustrations yet t… | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Why am I still jealous of my girlfriend?What a fucking waste of time. If a girl ever pulled that shit out to me, I'd be gone instantly. It's not that you're jealous of her, it's that you're frustrated and resenting her for her actions. Respect yourself, being hurt by your 1st love sucks, it's fucking shit. Don't waste your time with childish games like that. Either talk to her and tell her not to pull shit like that ever again or go break up, you're just hurting yourself in the long run. | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 12:21 AM |
| 16 | Is it worthwhile to talk to women who are taken?With what kind of goal? If the goal is to have sex or her cheating on her husband/BF then no. What's the point in that? the probability of you getting rejected is high, and evem if she cheats on the husband/BF then it would just be an asshole move. It's a childish action, control your dick. | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 07:47 PM |
| 2 | When interacting with a new girl, is it best to avoid texting on the weekends?If you're interested in her and you think the feeling is mutual then write to her aleast once a day even if it's just a short convo. If you think she's interested then it's fine, who cares. Talk about some shit like ''This song reminded me of you'' lol.. or ''Hey how did your day go?'' even then if you don't message they'll msg you themselves.. atleast in my experience. | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 12:23 AM |
| 8 | 19F, new to hookups, looking for a fwb, any advice you’d like to share?Tbh in tinder, be direct to the other person like ''I'm searching for a FWB''.. beware of creepy guys tho.. Don't write ''Looking for FWB in bio'' attracts lots of thirsty guys. | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Help me with "getting myself out there"Get friends to hang out with in campus, doesn't matter if they're deep friends or surface friends, don't get into any dramas. Get Tinder, it's a nice way of knowing ppl It's better to have girls around you that are really friends. It's pretty cool to be in the friendzone and you friendzoning them Club is a bad way of getting to know ppl, bleh! it's just good for drunk fucks or hookups, + loud sound and all. Personally I'll avoid it. That's basically it. Flirting comes naturally and you'll know i… | /r/seduction | 24/05/20 02:40 AM |
| 1 | What Happened?Well 1stly I feel like everything went so fast like there's no chill. It became from a simple hey, to wanna meetup?, to ''I hope we don't friendzone'' in a matter of hours. She's either forcing herself to 'move on' from her divorce, It's kind of an impulsive move. Then the meetup came and she just didn't feel right, I mean she is still talking about her ex, and idk how much you know about him (the more the worse). Maybe she feels guilty? or she just doesn't feel ready because she impulsively tho… | /r/seduction | 23/05/20 09:16 PM |
| 3 | How do you keep yourself from getting emotionally involved in the dating game?Yeah I get what you mean. There's this girl who like msgs me every couple of months to hookup, and then ghosts again. I asked her what's her plan with me and she said ''I'm fine the way you are'' so I was like ''???''... what the fuck? She also has other guys so I got kinda jealous about it, I mean she's a wild girl and enjoying her younger years. I never rly understood her and somewhat it kinda hurt me that I can't have her only for myself y'know? But then I realized, hey I'm the same. I talk t… | /r/seduction | 23/05/20 08:51 PM |
| 10 | How do you keep yourself from getting emotionally involved in the dating game?Basically by accepting that I'm not the center of the world and people are not obligated to only be exclusive with me unless we mutually agree on it. That's it, that's the reality. You need to see that, especially if you meet them in a club, tinder, or if you're not one in her main group. A girl will always have a guy trying to get on with her, What you can do is to get her attention and be special so in her eyes you're YOU and not someone who just want to get in her pants. | /r/seduction | 23/05/20 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Complimenting girl on snapchat storyNo it doesn't mean she's interested. There's rly no way of getting she's interested in that kind of reply even then if you're someone who's not close with her or a total random and complimenting her story then 100% she's not interested. It's just a way of being polite. There's no normal human being who would be interested to someone just because they complimented their story. | /r/seduction | 23/05/20 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Complimenting girl on snapchat storyIt means in a lot of ways to be honest. Generally it's a way of them sounding ''nice'' let's say... something to reply to not leave you on read or to seem very rude. | /r/seduction | 23/05/20 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Blocked soon after. No idea why. We only had a conversation on colours.Green is go, red is I have a boyfriend, and yellow is it's complicated | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Women want an asshole!Well before you were a simp. I mean c'mon, I won't choose a guy who tries to give a woman ''the perfect experience'' in bed. probably one those guys who asks girls ''Am I hurting you?'' or the ones who says ''Can we use the tongue'' when they kiss lul | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Get a load of this 💩Which is the same as wasting time. | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 07:39 PM |
| 2 | How to give off a bad guy vibe with a bit of mystery and cruelty?Well 1st fix the inferiority complex. 2nd find your own personality. Jeff is not mysterious nor cool because he went to prison, it's because he is a cool guy in general and knows how to make fun of himself 3rd don't try to achieve being mysterious or cruel, people find that shit tryhard and creepy | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Need opinions/advice what to do with this girlI mean if it's me, I'd probably just ignore it and move on. But if you're really interested then just come up to her and ask her what's wrong? I mean what's gonna go wrong? either you get your closure or both of you ignoring each other and becoming strangers would just continue.. so there would be no losses | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 10:03 AM |
| 54 | Thank youYeah right? It's crazy how things change when you stop caring about what other people think, and you start focusing on making yourself better and confident. | /r/seduction | 04/04/20 02:43 AM |
| 6 | No More Mr. Nice GuyI mean being nice and being a pushover is different. You can be nice to people especially to girls, and not be the ''Free food'' saved on their phone. I have friends who always say ''I'm nice to everyone but why don't they like me?'' and it fucking annoys me because they only perceives themselves as ''NICE'' no personality or confidence at all just ''NICE''. so yeah if you want success in women or in making friends, Being nice should be there but you should'nt let people walk on you either or no… | /r/seduction | 03/04/20 12:01 AM |
| 16 | No More Mr. Nice GuyBeing nice should be natural, it shouldn't be your personality. That's it | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 06:26 PM |
| 28 | Try to fit into a "scene" if you can, you'll have a lot more success.This is so true. I was never part of any groups before. Then I started to focus on myself and really found myself on the ''rock, emo, grunge,metal, piercing, tattoo'' type of people. I joined them, went to raves.. and wallah I suddenly have girls liking me because I have a ''personality'' now | /r/seduction | 24/03/20 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Now is a great time to game, get out there!Look at this motherfucker being thirsty at a time like this. Hey bro look. We're tired of this corona thing and people are doing the social distancing for a reason. TO people reading this, don't do this shit advice all you will look like is a fucking moron. | /r/seduction | 24/03/20 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Girl wants to meet me but do I look different on the pic she saw me on?I don't know where should the photo be focused on, on your nose or your forehead? | /r/seduction | 20/03/20 02:01 PM |
| 7 | A common theme I see among girls who ghost or ignore your texts.Nah I don't think it's that. It's more about the attention you're giving them, if you look at an instastory say 3 minutes after being posted and you reply fast everytime then it would only show that you don't have a life lol. it's better not to reply on anything they post even if it's them naked. | /r/seduction | 20/03/20 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Keep your heads up kings, you're not the problem.It's not about checking out girls, I'm gonna agree with that one focus on yourself instead on checking out girls at the gym. However, that's not the point of my post. I'm saying is girls already get a lot of attention from guys, and hell girls are either interested in you or not. This particular girl I'm talking about only talks to my friend at the gym, hell she even initiates the conversations with him like we're doing chest and she will come from the squat rack just to talk to him. It would be… | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Is she into me? Am I just too dense?This post is gonna get removed. But Ask her out, literally you will never know if she's into you if you don't ask her out. Also try to hang out alone with her, fuck the 3rd wheels if she can't hang out alone with you then she's not into you or comfortable with you in the 1st place | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Keep your heads up kings, you're not the problem.I'm not talking about that though and I think you got my post wrong and we're in the same page. What I'm talkign about and implying is that Men or atleast non creepy men should stop thinking about what women thinks. it's either they are interested in you or not. SO as long as you improve yourself and don't let them lower your confidence, you're doing fine. My friend actually stopped being acquainted to this girl too because she brags about men hitting on her everytime and it annoyed him. It's mo… | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 03:45 PM |
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