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| 1 | Finances, career and success are overrated for menSure dude, put in your tinder profile that you're a starbucks barista and let me know how many matches that gets you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 02:01 AM |
| – | Being able to have sex at any time is still a privilege.Sex just isn't worth it for a lot of women. On top of the fact that women have a lot to risk by having sex (women are designed to carry a child for 9 months after sex, men aren't), there's also the fact that women require more foreplay and need a partner who actually cares about her pleasure. Men get pleasure out of a shitty hookup, women usually don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 05:07 PM |
| 21 | CMV: Rejecting men because they doesn't earn enough is not "shallow"It depends a lot on the why. Are you rejecting a man who doesn't make enough money because you're worried he won't able to put your kids through college or because you want your man to buy you a new gucci bag every month? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menWhat if you just never tried? Some virgins are virgins purely because they don’t put themselves out there enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 02:37 PM |
| 55 | Shy and socially awkward women are as disadvantageous in dating as shy menA shy woman will always have more options because men are the ones expected to approach and the make the first move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 08:14 PM |
| 4 | Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman.I feel like some guys can get away with being awkward if they’re attractive and tall. A lot of girls like shy nerds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 05:55 PM |
| 3 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.I think it’s because as a society we tend to value men based on how many women they attract. So by pointing out that plenty of women simp for serial killers it shows that a man’s worth or character has nothing to do with his ability to gain female attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 07:41 PM |
| 9 | Isn't it weird that it is normalized to berate and hate on men?If I said the kind of stuff about women that women say about men, I’d probably be on an FBI watchlist for being an incel terrorist lol I can’t tell you how many times I’ll come across videos on TikTok with hundreds of thousands or sometimes millions of likes that openly shit on men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 11:02 PM |
| 6 | Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women.What does it mean by “approach”? I mean, there’s a huge difference between asking your coworker out to coffee who you’ve known for a few months and asking a random girl on the street for her number | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 01:19 AM |
| 0 | CMV women care about a man's money a lot and more than vice versaAre women wrong for prioritizing money? I mean, kids cost money. A house costs money. A car costs money. It’s not gold digging, good looks don’t put food on the table | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 04:51 AM |
| 210 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceTwo things can be true. Porn has ruined men’s expectations and social media has ruined women’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Why are adult Anglospherian females obsessed with a man's income?On top of that, a lot of them are progressive/liberal yet they’re still ruthlessly capitalistic when it comes to choosing a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 06:42 PM |
| -1 | Expecting men to pay on the first date is the same as expecting women to have sex on the first date.How do you know that women isn’t just using him for a free meal and is going to ghost him the moment she gets home ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 05:01 PM |
| – | "you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argumentLegalizing and destigmatizing prostitution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 12:38 PM |
| – | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageAlso, they're at completely different stages in life. A mid 30's man is probably looking to settle down and start a family, a woman in her early 20's (unless she's extremely conservative and wants to be a tradwife maybe) probably has absolutely no interest in being a mother yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsDo you and your friends ever go to parties and bars in do you just stay in and play D&D? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsI live in Canada, idk if that’s relevant but pretty much everywhere I’ve ever been, I always see men who aren’t chads with gfs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsWith a bf or husband who is usually equally fat though. So fat men obviously still get women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:07 PM |
| 6 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsI guess the blackpill is kind of true in the sense that if you’re autistic or neurodivergent (which is determined by genetics) you ARE fucked when it comes to dating and sex. But saying shit like “wahh I’ll never get laid because I’m 5’9” is obviously stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 06:26 PM |
| 6 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsJust have a social circle and don’t be autistic, that’s basically all you need to get a gf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsYeah, but you don’t even need to “improve” to get a girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 05:41 PM |
| 13 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsA trip to any public space basically disproves almost all redpill and blackpill ideology. women only want men who are tall and handsome! no no, they want men who are fit, rich, and confident! Meanwhile you go to the mall and see ugly men, short men, fat men, poorly dressed men, basically all manner of “average” men who all still have girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 05:28 PM |
| -3 | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.Why does everyone here act like every guy starts tweaking if they go without sex for too long Because we kinda do Blame it on our biology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 10:40 PM |
| 29 | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.It’s not as important as food or water, but it’s still important. We don’t need love to survive, but without it, we’ll be have severe mental issues. Same thing can be said about sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 10:00 PM |
| 28 | Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him.Hey it’s unfair and it sucks, but that’s the way it is. Across all species, the male has to impress and woo the female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 07:06 PM |
| 3 | What are some reasons for still being a virgin that would be a red flag?What if you’re just too passive and never actually approach any women and just sort of live your life?Red flag or no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?Wanting to be someone’s girlfriend doesn’t mean you just want to get laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 02:49 PM |
| 14 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?be friendly but don’t be a friend Huh ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 01:25 PM |
| 9 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?for a shot at sex Or maybe he just really likes you as a person and wants to be more than friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 01:21 PM |
| 4 | Am I the only man who thinks it would be better if women cared more about looks?I do too. I wish men just had to look good and we weren’t judged by our confidence, money, income, status, etc….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?Doesn’t autism only affect 1% of the population? Why is this sub always acting like half of men are autistic lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 08:45 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menIsn’t it strange how for literally everything else in life, we want an inexperienced, “new” version (new cars are always more valuable than used cars, new phones, new anything really) but for some reason when it comes to people (or at least men) we WANT someone with past baggage and trauma? What’s up with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 01:38 PM |
| 10 | The great "checklist" bait-and-switch (why most dating advice is useless)Yeah those guys are probably nerdy software engineers or something I think it's not just the paycheck of a job that makes you attractive but also the status of that job, i.e being a CEO, lawyer, doctor etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 09:38 PM |
| 2 | The great "checklist" bait-and-switch (why most dating advice is useless)Depends how skinny I mean, being auschwitz-tier skinny is obviously unattractive, but that applies to women as well A healthy, thin guy should have no problem attracting a healthy, thin woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 09:37 PM |
| 94 | The great "checklist" bait-and-switch (why most dating advice is useless)This post reminds me of a copypasta from 4chan: "There’s literally nothing I can think of that’s more cringe than some genetic dead end social outcast low status loser trying to “self improve” to fit into society. It’s like they’re so far off the mark I don’t even know where to begin with them. The average person, and even the above average, just exist and the things that you consider “normal” just happen to them. No high schooler ever had to “self improve” to get a girlfriend, he just existed, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 09:35 PM |
| 7 | Do you think women can just passively exist and still get relationships?Not necessarily ugly and poor, I’m just saying status and money don’t significantly improve a woman’s attractiveness in the same way it improves a man’s attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 07:40 PM |
| 15 | Do you think women can just passively exist and still get relationships?gorgeous and rich and famous Here we have an example of “women thinking men are attracted to traits in women that they are attracted to in men” Everything you listed (status, fame, money) has little impact on a woman’s attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Do you think women can just passively exist and still get relationships?I guess I mean like putting yourself in social situations but not maybe necessarily approaching anyone. I could go hang out at the mall or go read a book in the park, but I know that doesn’t mean that I’ll get approached by a woman. But I feel like if woman was through the same thing she might actually get approached | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 06:34 PM |
| 7 | Do you think women can just passively exist and still get relationships?I mean, they’re definitely disadvantages to being a woman and having to deal with constant attention. First of all, it’s not as if women are being constantly approached by handsome rich guys, it’s usually old creepy fucks with no self awareness and who won’t leave her alone even after she says no On top of that, you have no idea how a man will react if you reject him. Women have literally been killed for rejecting men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 06:31 PM |
| 9 | Do you think women can just passively exist and still get relationships?Yeah, attention is like water. Men are dying of thirst in a desert women are drowning in an ocean. Both have their struggles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 06:20 PM |
| 14 | "Having common interests" is one of the most overrated things when it comes to relationshipsI actually think having common interests is underrated. I mean, if you don't like the same stuff, wtf would you even talk about? "Hi honey." "Hey babe." "Nice weather today, huh?" "Sure is!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 04:08 PM |
| 9 | The male "Provider" isn't Biology. Women are just entitled.If a woman wants a traditional relationship and is willing to take on a housewife role, there’s nothing wrong wanting a man who makes enough to support both of you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 02:48 AM |
| 36 | The male "Provider" isn't Biology. Women are just entitled.Yeah, I think too many materialistic women on instagram have ruined the concept of what a “provider” man is There’s a huge difference between “I want a man with money so I don’t have to worry about financial stress and me and my kids can have a good life” and “ I want a man with money so I can have a new Gucci bag every month” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 06:26 PM |
| 17 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?“You’ll find someone when you least expect it” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Is male inexperience really the sexual and romantic death sentence that this sub makes it out to be?Yeah but sex and relationship experience aren’t the same thing. A guy could have fucked a lot of women but still not have any real relationship experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 06:30 PM |
| – | Tom Brady getting cheated-on by Gisele Bündchen proves that looks aren’t everything.The fact that rich, handsome, famous dudes still get cheated on (Will Smith for example) proves that both the black pill and red pill are wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Is male inexperience really the sexual and romantic death sentence that this sub makes it out to be?What exactly would you have to “teach” him? I never understood this argument. Relationships aren’t a math class, and there are plenty of inconsiderate assholes who have no problem getting girlfriends. Would you really rather choose an “experienced” douchebag over an inexperienced guy who just never met the right girl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Males should pay for the first date because makeup is expensiveI thought women didn’t dress up/apply makeup for men though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 02:38 AM |
| 4 | Putting on muscle doesn't make you significantly more confident or attractive if you already fitIt’s not about muscle, it’s about low body fat percentage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Low Social status is the biggest turn off to women. It's not average looks, or less than desirable income.So women wouldn’t date a friendless software engineer making 6 figures? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 01:53 PM |
| – | What should a late virgin do?Why not just lie and say “its been a while”, that’ll excuse any sexual inexperience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 02:02 PM |
| – | Would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear?Animals rape too though. Y’all never heard about dolphins ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 06:10 PM |
| – | Would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear?Women on TikTok think every man in existence is Ted Bundy lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 06:08 PM |
| 12 | 4b movement isn’t so badThis. A lot of westerners have made it out to be some massive social movement but most South Koreans don’t even know what 4B is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 09:52 PM |
| 12 | Actually, getting into a relationship DOES fix many problems for youHuman beings exist as a species because of relationships and sex. When you’re deprived of these things, to act like that shouldn’t affect you is just ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:56 PM |
| – | Is it easier in 2024 for an autistic man to make a fortune than get into a romantic relationship.Why is this sub so obsessed with autism? It affects like 1% of the populace | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 06:15 PM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Imo, misandry is way more accepted on social media. I’ve seen countless videos on tiktok of women just straight up hating men and they consistently get 100k+ likes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 01:15 PM |
| 0 | How bad are huble Jobs in the eyes of women? ( Ex. Garbage men)I have a very hard time believing a garbage man would have a mistress lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 04:21 PM |
| 99 | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in datingI think even neurotypical men can struggle with flirting/women dropping “hints”. Especially since we’ve been beaten over the head with “just because a woman is nice to you doesn’t mean she’s flirting!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 02:45 PM |
| 2 | The Big Difference of Aging between Men vs Women is...Society hates young men and older women. We should just date each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 02:23 PM |
| 6 | Older man/younger woman relationships are idealYeah but most young women want to screw around too, don’t they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 03:13 AM |
| 6 | How do women emotionally move on from relationships so quickly?I’ve heard it’s something to do with how women evolved to move on from partners because historically there was a good chance her partner would die in battle or while out hunting, so they needed to get used to moving on quickly and finding a new provider for her offspring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:37 PM |
| 7 | What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks?If you’re young enough to pass a student, it isn’t weird. But if you’re old enough to be a college girl’s dad then yeah it’s probably weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Would autistic guys have more luck if they were more social?Do y’all actually have diagnosed autism or are you just socially awkward and anxious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 04:39 PM |
| 2 | If "Being An Asshole" Was All It Took To Get Women, Why Are So Many Assholes Single?Extroverted assholes with confidence get women. There’s a difference between being a cocky assertive confident asshole and a meek, timid incel who's just a dick to everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 08:43 PM |
| – | The expections on males is still much higher than femalesA lot of the time they aren’t educated or have a lot of money either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 01:21 PM |
| 27 | "just treat them like humans"Well, there are a lot of men who treat women like shit yet still have lots of success with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 06:32 PM |
| 145 | "just treat them like humans"I hate to say it but treating women “normally” i.e like how you treat your platonic male friends is a surefire way to stay single forever Unless you make your intentions known and how to flirt, you’ll have no success with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 04:26 PM |
| 8 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?That’s an objectively terrible mindset to have lol, especially if you’re a woman “The person you don’t know” could easily be an abuser or a serial killer. I guess a friend could be too, but it makes no sense to pursue people you’re less familiar with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 09:40 PM |
| 10 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?I don’t get it either. Surely it’s better to be confessed to by a male friend who you’ve known for months/years than to get approached by a random stranger who just thinks you’re hot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 09:34 PM |
| 7 | It's totally justified for "nice guys" to feel a bit frustrated.Rich people are already vilified | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 08:40 PM |
| 4 | It's totally justified for "nice guys" to feel a bit frustrated.They’re celibate by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 08:10 PM |
| 1 | It's totally justified for "nice guys" to feel a bit frustrated.Porn stars and hookers are different, that sort of sex it’s more or less a transaction. I’m talking about casual sex or sex within the context of a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 08:07 PM |
| 20 | It's totally justified for "nice guys" to feel a bit frustrated.Things definitely HAVE changed. Our society has become a lot more secular, you used to be ostracized for having sex, now you’re ostracized if you don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 08:04 PM |
| – | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredIf women are repelled by kind men then how do you explain all those romance movies aimed at women? With the exception of stuff like fifty shades of grey, most romance media involves a man who's genuinely kind to a woman. You don't see too many romance movies about a woman who falls in love with an abusive ex-convict | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 03:42 PM |
| 72 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?It seems like women hate being approached, and most men (unless you’re super confident) hate approaching, so I don’t know why we’re still doing it…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:00 PM |
| – | Do men even like women anymore?My point was that misogyny is (rightfully) condemned in our society, but misandry is accepted and encouraged | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:19 PM |
| 21 | What are some unique burdens that the opposite gender has?Finally, a reasonable post that acknowledges that both genders have their own unique struggles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Do men even like women anymore?IMO, the hate women have more men is much more severe than the hate men have more women Most young women these days openly hate men. You can say “I hate men” on twitter and get a million likes. The only men who openly hate women are fringe incels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 05:12 AM |
| 4 | Men are infinitely more forgiving towards women flaws yet women keep pretending men and women are on an even field with dating.Ugly women have always had a chance to get in a relationship? If you’re an ugly woman, you’re fucked. At least men can compensate with humor, status, and money No one’s dating an ugly woman just because she has money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 10:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating apps are becoming the only socially acceptable way to get a relationshipMy other one got removed for incorrect flair, I’m just resubmitting it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 01:00 AM |
| 199 | I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight.I don’t get why the fat discourse only seems to ever talk about men and their preferences. As if a beautiful thin woman is going to want to date a fat guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 04:17 PM |
| 10 | Should men try to be friends with women first?Making friends with women first sounds nice in theory, but I think being upfront with your intentions is better I’m not saying you shouldn’t have women as friends, but women seem to get pisses off when their male friends confess feelings for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:29 AM |
| – | Muscles are more important than height for attracting womenManlet cope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:11 PM |
| 3 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?It’s almost like women shouldn’t only be valued for their youth and beauty and men shouldn’t only be valued for their money and resources. Who knew! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 03:26 AM |
| 26 | Why do single women seem so happy compared to single men?Yeah, we have to stop conflating being used for sex with being in a meaningful relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 05:24 PM |
| 40 | Do women look down on men who approach them?I do agree that approaching women makes me feel inferior. Like a I’m a dog who’s desperate for attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:01 PM |
| 39 | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"The guy in the video didn’t just “look” at a woman, he was staring at her, which is obviously creepy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Alcohol is a means of coping with anxiety/poor social skillsYea but better social skills = better chance at passing on your genes so it’s totally worth it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Women are far more socially brutal than men areMen judge how women look, women judge how men behave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:52 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?Men don't dislike "boss babes", it's just that women refuse to date any man who makes less money than them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 04:27 PM |
| 3 | If you don't have a big social circle, are you basically fucked when it comes to dating?You can’t just “go outside” and expect to make friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 10:02 PM |
| 4 | Men pursue “fake” women the mostIt’s sort of like how women say they don’t want a guy who’s “too muscular, obsessed with the gym and on steroids” then they all swoon over chris hemsworth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why don't you post more selfies?Simple, I hate the way I look | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 07:35 PM |
| 1 | men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address itIt seems skewed against men like me who aren't tall or muscular. Please touch grass, most men who are in relationships are neither tall nor muscular | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 03:26 PM |
| 13 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.What’s worse though? Being a man and being frustrated that you can’t get your dick wet or being a woman and being worried that men might kill or SA you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 02:33 PM |
| 35 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableYeah but women are always expected to be loved as they are. Men are told they're only worthy of love once they get their shit together, get in shape, start making money, etc. To men, love is basically just the byproduct of their success | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Why are You on this Sub if You Never Dated?Coaches don’t play | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 10:17 PM |
| 21 | Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women.So you can’t cold approach women you don’t know, you can’t ask out women in the workplace because that’s harassment, and you can’t ask out your female friends because they just want to be friends…..well pack it up guys, looks like we simply aren’t allowed to date women in 2023 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menI guess you're right, but most single men aren't violent incels who hate women either Besides, I'm pretty sure most murderers and other criminals had or have wives or at least a gf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 02:47 PM |
| 16 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menThis is why I never understood the whole pre-selection thing. "That man has a girlfriend/wife, which means he's a better choice and more attractive than man who's single" How do you know that man isn't abusing or planning to kill his spouse? Women are far more likely to be killed or SA'd by people they know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 06:40 PM |
| – | It's morally wrong for women to shame virgin/inexperienced menJust don’t get fat dude, no one forced those cheeseburgers and pizzas down your throat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 09:00 PM |
| 54 | Unpopular Opinion: Men don't need women more than vice versaMen don't need women Women don't go on shooting sprees when they can't get laid lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 09:31 PM |
| 7 | Are women really that disgusted by inexperienced/virgin men?Why do you disagree? Men are the ones who have to initiate, approach, pay, etc….. Across all cultures and even across species, the male pursues the female | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?If a man isn’t entitled to a woman’s body then why should a woman be entitled to a man’s wallet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 04:48 PM |
| 33 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?Male loneliness is caused by women? Lol get real. "I don't have any friends, or if I do have friends, I can never be open with them or they'll make fun of me. Women must be to blame for this!" I genuinely think that if men had more friends, or if they were at least emotionally vulnerable with their friends, they wouldn't be as depressed and feel so desperate for a gf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 02:34 PM |
| -1 | Being a younger generation z (post 2000) seems like hellI think a lot of the looksmaxxing stuff is meant to be an ironic joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 03:44 PM |
| 7 | Men are shamed far more for being single for life than womenA single man is a “creepy incel who gets no bitches”, a single woman is an “empowered strong woman who refuses to settle” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 10:41 PM |
| 0 | CMV This Manosphere believe that today you will get charged with sexual assault if you approach a Women in the Street or Work, is completely delusional and couldn't be further from the truth.I think the guys who say "you can't even approach a girl without it being considered harassment!!" are just using that as an excuse. There's a difference between politely approaching a woman when it's appropriate and being ok with getting rejected, versus cornering a woman who's clearly busy, trying to get her number, and being stubborn and refusing to leave her alone. Most girls will be ok with the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 02:14 PM |
| 62 | Who told men that being nice will get them laid?This. Men are taught by their mothers to respect women, so respect and niceness must be attractive to at least SOME women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 01:35 PM |
| 1 | I think the majority of men are unattractive in large part because of their high bodyfat %That's true, they were probably slim and lean. But they wouldn't have looked like gymbros, which is what modern women are attracted to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 06:04 PM |
| -3 | I think the majority of men are unattractive in large part because of their high bodyfat %Working out isn't natural though. Our caveman ancestors didn't have gyms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:51 PM |
| 28 | Most guys who struggle in dating struggle because they don't have a social life.Yep, this is my situation....my social life is nothing but dudes as far as the eye can see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 10:58 PM |
| 3 | CMV: No matter how educated, on top of their career or wealthy a woman is, if she is physically unattractive, society never considers her as a subject of envy.Women's main worth coming from their appearance is a double edged sword. If you're an unattractive woman, then yeah, you're fucked. That said, keep in mind that your appearance is basically all that matters. A low IQ, broke, young hot woman who lives with her parents will still have plenty of dating opportunities. An attractive guy in the same position? He'll struggle because he doesn't have the necessary resources. Compared to men, we have to have money and all our shit sorted out, women don't.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Women cannot love men like men love womenNow let’s see the statistics on women who leave their man when he gets laid off or faces any sort of economic problem…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 11:24 AM |
| 11 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menIntroverted women don't want an introvert. Oh come on, this is a bunch of shit An introverted, shy girl isn't going to want an extroverted bf who's always dragging her to parties, social events, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 02:12 PM |
| 7 | Most men cause their dating issuesYep. Women CHOOSE to get fat and sleep around. Men can’t control their height or dick size | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 01:52 AM |
| 1 | The single life is great. I recommend it to everybodyFulfilling relationship >>>>>>>>> being single > unfulfilling relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menWell I guess I just have a very romantic view of relationships. I think women should be with men because he genuinely loves her and treats her right, not just because he can buy her shit Besides, women can make their own money now, they shouldn’t need a man to do it for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menYeah but there are also a lot of guys that are handsome in their 20s and less handsome in their 30s. Look at Leo DiCaprio for example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 07:31 PM |
| 33 | I think the true love it s just when you are youngEh, social status still matters to young people A popular jock is obviously going to get more girls than a lonely nerd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:39 PM |
| 5 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menAs always, alpha fucks/beta bucks is the way of life. Women are attracted to tall, confident, rich, rich I thought "alpha fucks, beta bucks" meant that women don't really care about money if they're attracted to the guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Why aren’t we as harsh on promiscuous men as promiscuous women?Maybe because women always shame virgin/inexperienced men, so men feel pressured to sleep around a lot to get that "experience" that women want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that autistic women have much more attractive traits than autistic men?I've still yet to see an example of an autistic woman + normie/chad man couple that blackpillers say exist In my experience, autists date other autists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 06:34 PM |
| 4 | We hear "women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of relationships." Is this true anymore?Women are the gatekeepers of both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:08 PM |
| – | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeProbably because complimenting your friends is seen as "gay" I do honestly wish men were more like women in that regard, we really need to start making each other feel better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:19 PM |
| – | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeI sympathize with women and how they have to deal with creepy men, I really do, but trust me, being a man and just feeling completely invisible everywhere you go and no one ever wants to talk to you or acknowledge your existence is no fun either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:13 PM |
| 11 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Men have a laundry list of what they want from women Like what? As long as you're decent looking and pleasant to be around, that's usually enough for most men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 06:55 PM |
| 3 | There is no place for men to meet womenOur ancestors have been meeting and approaching women for literally THOUSANDS of years, if they can do it then so can you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:45 PM |
| 33 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Because women basically just need to exist in order to get a relationship, while men actually have to put in effort and try. Men take a proactive role in dating, while women take a passive role Going by this logic, there will obviously be more single men than women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 01:18 PM |
| 4 | CMV - if you don’t have a strong social circle, you have no right to complain about the dating market being unfairSure bro, let me just magically poof a strong social circle into existence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?I think this is a very bleak and depressing way of looking at dating. It suggests that men only have value as long as they have money, and women only have value as long as they're young. A man isn't worthless just because he has no money, and a woman isn't worthless because one wrinkle appeared on her face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenAll those rich CEOs, investment bankers, etc must be pretty high IQ no? You can't get rich by being a dumbass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 03:01 PM |
| 19 | Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approachIs it not possible to just be a nice person who doesn’t expect anything in return? Why do we always have some sort of ulterior motive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 03:05 PM |
| – | Where is a man supposed to go in order to meet you?I don’t fucking know man. You can’t just sit in your room and expect love to fall into your lap but at the same time, you shouldn’t try too hard and you don’t want to be desperate because “love will find you when you least expect it!” You’re supposed to actually “put yourself out there” and get involved with your community through hobbies and clubs, but at the same time, you don’t want to be the weirdo creepy who joins a club just for the sake of trying to pick up girls No matter what you do, yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 06:28 PM |
| 2 | On single men wearing wedding bandsI find it really stupid how effective the wedding ban effect is. Oh, he's married, so he must be a good partner! I want him! Are you forgetting about the millions of men who cheat and abuse and in some cases, straight up kill their wives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 08:49 PM |
| 42 | Do women resent men who are late bloomers?It's funny you say that, because I'm pretty sure almost every man you listed was sexually successful and had a wife and/or children. Women see a single virgin guy and think "he must be a serial killer!", even though most serial killers had no problem attracting women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?Spending half an hour putting some powders on your face vs Mutilating your body with a medieval torture device | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 08:40 PM |
| 1 | [Updated] *Some* lonely men can benefit greatly from seeing escorts.Surely women would be more disgusted by a man who's solicited prostitutes than by a man who's just an inexperienced virgin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Wouldn't it be better for everyone if women initiated and made the first move?If they approach, it’s a social risk, but if men approach, there’s a risk of actual violence. I dunno, but if I were a woman, I’d rather feel awkward for a few minutes than risk getting attacked, stalked etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 12:17 PM |
| 6 | Do men or women love more intensely?I do find it weird how women are supposed the more “emotional gender”, but breakups seem to be a lot more tough on men than women. Even though women are supposedly more emotional, they can move on quite quickly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Yes men peak at an older age than women. But that's because most men start at the bottomMen peak later if you want to beta bux. A 20 year old model or athlete definitely isn’t “at the bottom” of his life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 03:52 PM |
| 27 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.Men are in a difficult situation. If we don't approach women, we stay single forever. If we do, we risk getting publicly ridiculed and humiliated. Also, men of this generation have basically been told that even making eye contact with a woman is harassment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 01:56 PM |
| 2 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.If women never talk to me, why should I talk to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 01:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.Women mostly want fit and muscly Being fit and muscly is like being a woman with big boobs. Does it help? Absolutely, but it's not like every guy only wants to date a girl with DDs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 08:09 PM |
| 2 | What if I'm authentically not happy being single?Nothing pisses me off more than people who say "Just learn to be happy alone! If you're not happy single, you won't be happy in a relationship!" This is like telling a broke person "just learn to be happy when you're poor!" or a starving person "just learn to be happy when you're hungry!" It's also almost always people in relationship who give this advice. Pretty much every human being wants companionship, and we aren't weird for expressing frustration over not having it. No one wants to be lone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 08:48 PM |
| 1 | 70% of all younger woman are in relationships where as only 30% of younger men areSource? I know more young women are in relationships but I don’t think the gap is as extreme as 70% and 30% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 11:57 PM |
| 0 | How much do looks matter?It’s not as important as money or status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 01:57 PM |
| 11 | How do red pillers explain the average guy being in a relationship?It’s almost like fringe weirdos on the internet don’t represent reality, lol Go to your local shopping mall and you’ll see tons of fat, ugly, short men with girlfriends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 07:53 PM |
| – | CMV: Assuming all else equal, looks and neurotypicality are the most important factors in both dating and general lifeWhat about attractive neurodivergent guy? Also most handsome NT guys probably don't want an autistic girl, unless you have absolutely 0 standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersDo average women realize that a rich man simply isn't obtainable for them? I'm sure many men would like a hot supermodel 20 year old girlfriend, but we realize that it's just simply not in the cards for us. In the same way, I would hope women realize that getting a top 1% earner isn't an option for you unless you are exceptionally attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 03:03 PM |
| 52 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?Would any man marry a woman if his wife will eventually end lusting after richer men? Or taller men? Better looking men? You get the idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Your location is the biggest factor in success in datingBut if he’s 5-6 inches taller than the average man, say if he moves to Japan or Vietnam I don't know Vietnam, but Japanese people are extremely closted and don't really have much interest in dating foreigners, unless you've spent many year becoming fluent in Japanese You might be able to woo a few girls who think you are exotic, but generally speaking dating is a lot harder for foreigners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 05:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Assuming all else equal, looks and neurotypicality are the most important factors in both dating and general lifeWhy don't neurodivergents just date other neurodivergents? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Romantic love in the West is basically full of fundamental contradictions... no wonder it is a mess.My personal favorite: "Don't chase love, you'll find it when you least expect it!" "Uh you actually have to put yourself out there and try, love isn't going to fall into your lap!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Guys who lie about their height vs women who lie about their weightI find it so weird how people act like it's only women who are fat and who get insecure about their weight Hot women aren't exactly lining up to date fat dudes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think so many women are sexually attracted to K-pop male stars ?Imo, it's mostly only Asian girls who find them really attractive. Your average white western girl still probably wants a traditionally masculine looking guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think so many women are sexually attracted to K-pop male stars ?Imo, it's mostly only Asian girls who find them really attractive. Your average white western girl still probably wants a traditionally masculine looking guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school?It definitely would've been nice if someone told me in high school "Hey, if you don't start dating now, it's going to make things significantly harder for you later on down the line" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:58 PM |
| – | If a man struggles with dating, romance, or sex, why is the default assumption that he is misogynistic or at least has problematic views on women, and that he doesn't see women as people?It's really irritating when people think this way, because a lot of guys who are really horrible/abusive/misogynist still have success with women Meanwhile, a timid, meek guy might just not have had any luck with women and everyone thinks he's some school shooter incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:05 PM |
| 1 | "just be skinny" doesn't workThe same argument can be made for men. Even if a guy gets in really good shape, it won't matter if he doesn't have the right height, hair, or face Women only need to worry about their face. Men have to worry about their face, height, and hair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 07:44 PM |
| 7 | Many of the problems in the dating landscape can be attributed to a lack of viable social venues for young people.Honestly, I really wonder just how people met and started relationships for the thousands of years of human existence. It seems like only in the 21st century have we become more isolated and have difficulty forming connections | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 06:44 PM |
| -1 | As a man, you always have to try to initiate sex with a new date, even if you are not that type of man.Sigh. Being a man is exhausting. If you don't initiate sex, then you're seen as effeminate and not a real man. If you do initiate sex, you risk making her severely uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 05:35 PM |
| 2 | If there is a push for older women to be seen as more attractive then there should be a push for younger men to be seen as more attractive20 year old men have to jump through hoops in order to get laid and are mostly invisible. Do you guys think men just flip a switch when they hit 30 and suddenly become sexually desirable? If you were getting in laid in your early 20s, you'll continue to get laid, and on the flip side, if you weren't getting laid in your early 20s, you're not going to magically become a chad once you hit 30 And also, most college aged women are interested in college aged men. A 20 year old will, in most cases, be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Doing household chores do not make men sexually attractive, but they're still important for a relationshipCooking and cleaning are basic adult life skills, they shouldn't be considered "feminine" Do single men just live in filth and survive off TV dinners and takeout? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 07:27 PM |
| 0 | If a sexually experienced woman begins a relationship with a sexually inexperienced man, she should be willing to experiment with him and teach himA lot of women say they want a sexually experienced man, but isn't each woman different? If your boyfriends previous girlfriend liked it very rough and wanted to be choked, slapped, etc but then he does that with you, won't you feel pretty uncomfortable? Wouldn't it better to have a sexually inexperienced man who you can mold to fit your own tastes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Are most people who severely struggle with dating just ugly?I’m very picky and I haven’t met the right person yet 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 05:30 AM |
| 1 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?What does that have to do with anything? Most dates you go on won’t lead to childbirth, and if they do, that’s going to be several years down the line | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women compliment and approach men?Across all species, the male has to impress and pursue the female. It’s just how it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 01:39 PM |
| 6 | CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrumdo you actually think a handsome chad/normie is going to want to date a woman with autism? They're a lot of work to deal with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with?Do you have a link to that thread? So do women just want to be alone forever? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVThat's kind of a weird comparison. You can touch and play with big boobs and butt. You can't really do anything with a man's height other than just look at him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you like Zac Afron physique?Women look at this and say "ew, gross! I don't like guys on steroids!" but then fawn over men like chris hemsworth or any of the other superhero actors who are obviously juicing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:24 PM |
| 13 | Casual sex is easy for men not because of standards, but because men are sexually stimulated purely by looks, and for women its a complex mix of thingsSo if women care about the perceived size of a man, then it obviously means that women are visual too, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:56 PM |
| 14 | Casual sex is easy for men not because of standards, but because men are sexually stimulated purely by looks, and for women its a complex mix of thingsEveryone always says "women aren't visual", but then why do the overwhelming majority of them refuse to date short men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:48 PM |
| -1 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?Looks aren't enough for a man. A handsome shy autistic guy who lives with his parents probably won't be romantically successful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Has online dating been a net positive or a net negative for woman?I don't see any reason why women would dislike online dating. First of all, it's incredibly safe. Compared to being out in public where you risk getting drugged, harassed, molested etc, being behind a phone screen poses literally no threat to you. Then of course you can basically swipe through men the men you want like you're ordering Uber Eats. Why would anyone woman dislike this? Online dating gets rid of fears that women may have, while giving them all the options they could ever want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Women, what do you think of men who have never had a girlfriend?Woman has high standards, is picky, and doesn't want to date unless she finds someone who fits her standards: You go girl! You don't need no man! Man has high standards, is picky, and doesn't want to date unless he finds someone who fits his standards: Yikes....you've been single for how long? Are you an incel? I'm not even talking about looks. Maybe some guys just haven't met anyone they are compatible with? What's wrong with waiting for the right person, rather than rushing into a relationsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 04:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Say what you want about TRP, but it's messed up that nice, perfectly normal dudes struggle to get basic women while literal thugs and walking red flags slay with women just because they're overconfident.Women who are interested in criminals, bullies, etc aren't good relationship material anyways. Would you honestly want a girlfriend who idolizes serial killers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 03:59 PM |
| 7 | It’s obscene that in 2023 there’s still a pervasive stigma that people who are single king term must be lacking in social skills or something majorI think the problem is that people assume that getting a relationship is something that's just supposed to happen to everyone naturally at some point, rather than it being the result of circumstance and luck, which is what it really is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 07:57 PM |
| 26 | To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not?I think the idea of each gender having a "prime" is stupid. Going by this logic, you believe women are only good for their looks/fertility, and men are only good for their money/status, which I think is a really fucked up way of viewing relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Women don’t cheat because they’re ‘emotionally unsatisfied’The guy isn’t making enough money? Lol. Women cheat with broke dudes all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How powerful do you think is status in attracting woman?Even if I was rich or famous, I think the kind of woman who’s only with you because of your status or money isn’t a woman who will make a good partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:17 AM |
| 13 | Men are more superficial about weight than womenIt’s because women just need to not be fat in order to be attractive. A naturally slim women who’s never set foot in a gym will have the same attractiveness as a man who’s lifted weights and dieted for 10 years. So, naturally, men get a little pissed when women can’t handle the basic task of “don’t eat like a pig” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 10:57 AM |
| 9 | Are women only attracted to fit men because it's currently trendy?I don't think that most women like the look of bodybuilders and steroids. There's a common misconception that taking steroids will turn you into Arnold Schwarzenegger, but you'd be surprised how many famous people are on them. A lot of athletes and movie stars who might not even look that big definitely have chemically enhanced physiques. You think most women would turn down Chris Hemsworth, who's obviously on roids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Bodyfat Percentage Is The Single Most Important Controllable Factor That Determines Your AttractivenessMaybe it depends on the age group. I still think women in their late teens/early 20s prefer skinny guys over stocky ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 06:29 PM |
| 10 | Bodyfat Percentage Is The Single Most Important Controllable Factor That Determines Your AttractivenessWhat makes you say that? A lot of women openly admit they like skinny guys. Most pop stars that women swoon over are slim. As long as you are decent looking and not short, skinny guys shouldn't have much issue with dating. Muscular/lean > skinny >>>>>> fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 06:12 PM |
| – | People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average manAll those celibate monks who live in monasteries seem to be doing fine. If they can do it so can you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Men dont actually care about a women being healthyWell, women are attracted to dehydrated, starving hollywood actors on steroids. Those men are objectively unhealthy but women are still attracted to it. So it goes both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 01:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV : women don’t have an easier experience dating. It’s just as hard. But that’s because they’re playing in a higher league."Women hold men to insanely high standards. So why don't men hold women to insanely high standards too?? That's your own fault!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 09:10 PM |
| 7 | CMV : women don’t have an easier experience dating. It’s just as hard. But that’s because they’re playing in a higher league.I still think men are expected to tick off a bunch of boxes while women basically just need to exist. Men need to pass all the physical tests (decent looking, not short etc), mental tests (can't be shy or autistic), and finally, the financial and status tests (needs to have a good job, his own car, overall just needs to have his shit together). You might say "women get used for sex!" and that might be true, but as a woman, men really don't care about any of the things I listed. A woman could be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 03:53 PM |
| 9 | Young Men Cannot Compete With Older Men For The Most Attractive FemalesI'm just speaking from experience here, but when I was in college, women would date and mingle with men their own age. At college parties, are those women hooking up with 30+ year old men? No, they're hooking up with men around their own age. They meet a cute guy in their class, and they gradually start to develop feelings. I honestly believe that late teens/early 20s women who date 10+ years older are in a very small minority. Young women aren't in a hurry to settle down and start a family, so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 09:43 PM |
| 21 | Young Men Cannot Compete With Older Men For The Most Attractive Femalesolder men are often literally superior in every category to 99% of younger men Male pattern baldness has entered the chat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 09:35 PM |
| 8 | The mockery directed toward's peterson's crying on live Tv is proof of women's loathing of weak emotional men.Marginalized is the lack of access to education, housing,Healthcare,jobs etc Does not having access to the basic human requirement of love and intimacy not also make you marginalized? "Healthcare, education, and housing is a human right!!! But love, affection, physical touch? No one owes you that, you weird incel!!" Honestly, I think being broke but having a loving partner is a more satisfying existence than being rich and lonely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 03:59 PM |
| – | CMV as a Man Status and Money beats Looks easily, and anyone who disagrees is completely delusional.Women who are blindly attracted to money or status usually don’t make very good partners anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Most of the young adult dating divide is caused by the internetIf you are a male model, sure, you might be able to get away with being a broke loser. But for the other 99% of men, you need confidence, money, and status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 07:23 PM |
| 10 | Most of the young adult dating divide is caused by the internetwomen are actually more visually oriented than men. Not really. Men still need status and confidence to match. Even if a guy is decent looking, it's not enough. He still needs a good job and has to be extroverted to be attractive to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 02:27 PM |
| 9 | The male 'aesthetics' popular in South Korea are not attractive to western womenI doubt South Korean men are bothered by not being desired by 300lb landwhales covered in tattoos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Being a bad boy is very beneficial when it comes to being respected by peers and attracting womenI’d rather be a good, kind person and not have any female attention than a criminal douchebag who gets a lot of pussy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 01:25 PM |
| 19 | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?A lot RP guys say "nah I don't care bro, she just needs to be young and hot" but I've yet to see one real life case of a mcdonalds worker dating a lawyer or doctor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What's the idea in politics around virginity?Women know it's harder for men to get laid than it is for women, so why do they treat male virginity as some sort of red flag? If something requires significant effort to achieve, we should not be chastising someone who hasn't done said thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 03:35 PM |
| 7 | Most people under 30 are not meeting on appsmaybe those couples met on an app? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:27 PM |
| 9 | Promiscuous women who preach that you shouldn't judge women by their sexual past are the first ones to judge virgin guys for their lack of sexual pastI guess it's all they know. When people are trying to fuck you everywhere you go and you know you can basically have sex whenever you want, maybe it's hard to comprehend that that isn't the reality for the other gender? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 10:38 PM |
| 46 | Promiscuous women who preach that you shouldn't judge women by their sexual past are the first ones to judge virgin guys for their lack of sexual pastImo, a woman judging a man for being a virgin is like a rich kid making fun of the poor kid. It's someone who has easy access to something judging someone who doesn't have easy access to it. You've had things in life (in this case, sex) handed to you. You've never had to work or put in effort to get sex, so who are you to judge a man for being a virgin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 06:43 PM |
| 17 | The amount of economically, emotionally, & physically viable men in society is declining. How do we change this?Men really need to get over this virgin fetish. Most women have sex as teenagers, unless you marry your high school sweetheart, wanting a virgin wife is a very unrealistic goal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eithergoing for skinny girls "I love to stay in shape so naturally I'm into fit muscular men" Maybe it's just my experience, but most girls don't say this The only girls who really want a fit muscular guy are usually the girls who they themselves are also gymrats, your average skinny girl who doesn't diet or exercise probably doesn't care that much about muscles. Of course, having muscles can help, but for most girls it isn't that big of a priority I mean, you can even look at genuinely beautiful fema… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Why Are You Single?I don't know, honestly. I just sort of naturally drift through live and don't meet many women, or if I do, they're unavailable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.I've always thought the idea of women being "used" for their bodies is strange, because women enjoy sex too. Are they being used? Isn't it more of a mutually pleasurable experience for both of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Why is being a tall woman a bad thing ? Why are man attracted to petite woman ?Tallness in women isn't anywhere near as undesirable as shortness in men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 12:17 AM |
| -2 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?It’d make life a lot easier if they did lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 11:58 PM |
| -2 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?I’ve never approached a woman because of the reasons I listed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 08:35 PM |
| 15 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?I don't think they ever will. The fate of the world could rely on it, and women still wouldn't approach men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 03:01 PM |
| 5 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?Sure, women might get sex easier, and maybe that's not fair, but who said life is fair? Men don't have periods, we don't have to worry about getting pregnant, and we can walk alone outside at night. Sure, we might not get sex as easily, but our other privileges make up for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | We all know how men feel about women's body counts. How do women feel about a man's?High N count is attractive. I wonder, though. If a man is high N count but the women he was fucking were hookers, fatties, or ugly girls, would he still have that desirability? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:14 PM |
| 11 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular women"bro you have to be a roided bodybuilder in order to have a chance with a slim woman!!" Obviously being jacked/lean can help, but if you think you need to be visibly muscular or ripped just to date slim women, you are seriously mistaken. If you look at any slim woman's boyfriend, he's probably slim or averagely built. If a woman doesn't give a shit about fitness (which a lot them don't), she's probably not going to want a gymrat who doesn't drink alcohol and who is in the gym 6 days a week. Pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 01:54 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.When all you turds say we “expire at 25,” Most men don't say this though. On the other hand, virtually all women expect their man to be a provider with a lot of money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 01:19 AM |
| 13 | Can someone rationalise men wanting virgins but not being willing to wait for sexI've never seen a guy who was obsessed with "muh pure virgin woman" and still had healthy, normal views on women. I'm sure there are guys out there who are like "I'm waiting until marriage so I want someone who shares my beliefs and values", but 99% of the time when a guy is obsessed with virgin women it's some redpilled MRA douchebag or an incel creep who thinks it's ok for men to sleep around but not ok for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 05:00 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.Beauty can get you a rich man who will pay your bills though, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 10:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.Come on. You can't deny there is FAR less pressure on women to be economically successful than there is for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 08:52 PM |
| – | Men are not intimidated by tall woman just not attractedAre you guys forgetting that most supermodels are tall? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Men aren’t creepy or gross for preferring young adult womenlikewise men prefer short women. Men prefer shortER women. No man is going to be like "You're 5 feet tall? that's so hot, I'm attracted to you based solely on your height" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 11:33 PM |
| 32 | Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point?Absolutely, think of the problems that would be solved if women made the first move. - No more feeling uncomfortable about what a man might do if you reject him. - Women approaching would probably have a pretty high success rate, most men are desperate. - As a man, it's exhausting having to deal with women and all their mixed signal bullshit. If women just came up to us and asked if we wanted to go out, life would be so much better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 01:01 AM |
| 1 | What is your ideal way for a man to approach you?How is trolling? It seems to me that women have absolutely no interest in being approached or ever starting a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone noticed an increase in the demonisation of age gaps?Aren't those who criticize age gaps basically saying "women are too dumb to make their own decisions"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 05:39 PM |
| 5 | What is the issue with women having social media?Seems like modern men should just date Amish women, no body count and no social media | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 06:11 PM |
| 60 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?True, but obesity makes everyone unattractive, male or female | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 05:23 PM |
| 24 | I actually think women SHOULD find a man who has already made ithonestly I think the stigma surrounding a man in his late 20s/early 30s with no relationship experience would probably negate any of the positives that would come from his established career | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 03:23 PM |
| 0 | Why do so many women (and some men) here act as if men date younger women because it's easier to land them?It absolutely is easier to land younger women, unless you go for gold diggers. Most women in their late teens and early 20s don't care too much about whether or not you work a high-paying job, have a nice car, have your own place, etc. Women in their late 20s/early 30s will absolutely care about those things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 04:04 PM |
| 4 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.It's also strange how those who are the most vocal opponents of age gap relationships are typically progressive liberal women. Aren't you basically saying "that woman is too dumb to know what she's doing"? I believe in a woman's right to choose, except when that choice is to choose a significantly older male partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:32 PM |
| 68 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.You completely missed the point of the show if you idolize anything Dennis does lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 06:43 PM |
| 155 | Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men.So wtf are short men supposed to do? If they’re skinny or fat, they’ll get laughed at. If they’re muscular, people will still laugh at them for “overcompensating” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:34 PM |
| 4 | What is the equivalent of the 666 rule (6 feet, 6 figures, 6 pack) for women?The 000 rule 0 previous sexual partners, $0 in debt, 0 tattoos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 02:13 AM |
| 43 | Entitled sex starved men, sex is not a resource. It’s like asking women to let you eat them just because you’re starvingIf we're using the food analogy, it's weird because women would rather feed well-fed men than starving men. They don't want to feed a guy who's never eaten a full meal and is desperate for food (virgin/inexperienced men) but will happily feed the guy who eats 3 meals a day every day. (experienced high N-count men) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to find men who do not put a huge emphasis on looks?Imo looks are incredibly overrated for long-term relationships. Everyone will get old, wrinkly and ugly eventually, so you might as well be with someone who’s going to still be valuable to you once their looks fade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 04:39 PM |
| 0 | Would you marry a woman making significantly more than you?Yes, but most women probably wouldn't marry a man who makes less than them. Same thing with height, most men would marry a woman taller than them, but most women wouldn't marry a man shorter than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 06:44 PM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?Having social skills/status is more important than being “hot” Even if a guy gets jacked, he still won’t get any women if he’s an awkward friendless weirdo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 05:45 PM |
| 5 | Do men really get better with age?Women peak early-mid 20s, men peak early-mid 30s. “Men age like wine, women age like milk” is ridiculous though, there are no men who look better at 40 than at 30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 08:53 PM |
| 27 | CMV: Women don’t actually care about money“Status is irrelevant” “Women won’t marry a douchebag just because he’s famous” c’mon dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 02:17 AM |
| 40 | CMV: Women don’t actually care about moneylol lmao even | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Women don't care what it took to get there, they are just waiting at the finish line to fuck the winners.Always found it weird how women openly talk about how they prefer older men because they're more established, mature, have more money etc then will shame said older men for dating younger women. You're shaming men for following a dynamic that YOU perpetuate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 08:33 PM |
| 18 | What women DEMAND vs what men Want."Women don't care about muscles bro" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Men of PPD, would you prefer a young, high N-count woman or an older, low/no N-count woman?Compared to a 21 year old yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Feminists bad! Men have it so hard! We're so oppressed REEEEEEEEE!!!!!Attention is like water. Women are drowning in it, men are desperately thirsty for it. Neither is good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 11:18 PM |
| 16 | Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom?So the redpill claim that “men age like wine” and the belief that young 20 year old women will throw themselves at a +30 year old man because he has money, status and resources is a lie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 11:02 PM |
| 24 | The whole "women want relationships, men want sex" cliché is not only a gender stereotype, but also a subtle variation of the "women are good, men are evil" narrative.I think the popularity of onlyfans disproves the "men only want sex" myth. If men only wanted sex, they would just jerk off to porn. They like onlyfans because there's an interactive element to it, and it makes them feel like they have a special connection with a real woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Do women care about the type of job you have?This would be an interesting experiment. Get a guy who's objectively very handsome but give him a minimum wage retail job, see how well he does in dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 05:48 PM |
| 6 | What do you define as flirting?Yeah this is why I never approach women, I'm too scared of making them uncomfortable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:57 PM |
| 142 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.Now that women can become educated, earn money, and own property If women can earn money then why is a man's income still so important? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 12:02 AM |
| 3 | How much of a role does being fit and muscular play in a man's attractiveness?Being shredded isn’t healthy either, almost every ripped guy you see in hollywood is on roids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 05:50 PM |
| 6 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menIsn't it kind of strange how the less fertile a woman becomes, the more masculine man she seems to prefer? You would think that 18-early 20s women in their fertile prime would prefer strong, burly men instead of skinny prettyboys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their leagueI don't think it's just upper body strength that makes you attractive. I seriously doubt that women would choose a 250lb bloated powerlifter over a 150lb lean athletic guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 09:08 PM |
| 6 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their leaguetry to date skinny girls "I love to stay in shape so naturally I'm into fit muscular men" This doesn't happen lol, most skinny girls are ok with thin/average bodied men, it's only the gym rat women who will want a gym rat bf If you think skinny girls only want muscular men you are really delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to womenA man’s height has often been compared to a woman’s weight. I'm sorry but this is so stupid, a fat man is just as unattractive as a fat woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Men love to complain about women looking fake but consistently go for the fakest looking womenDon't forget someone like justin bieber used to be the most sought after man in the world. For 10 - 15 year old girls, not fully grown women lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 02:18 AM |
| 3 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.Physically, beauty standards for men are timeless Idk honestly, I seriously doubt that women in the 1700s cared that much about big biceps or abs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 12:35 AM |
| 8 | Is the SMV arms race accelerating the sexlessness of average men?abs are almost the floor now This is delusional as fuck, having abs puts you in the top 5% of men easily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 06:52 PM |
| 7 | If women approached men more, would there be less men identifying as incels?Honestly, we really have to normalize women approaching men more. Everyone wins because men get a break from having to do all the approaching, and women no longer have to feel scared when a man approaches them. It seems to me like it just makes logical sense for women to do the approaching | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:36 PM |
| 7 | It’s significantly easier to be an attractive woman than it is to be an attractive manMaybe, but the amount of women who have boobs so small it becomes a hindrance is like the amount of men who are below 5'5. They're an extreme anomaly, as long as you aren't flat most men don't care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out?Yeah but all a woman needs to do to be considered "fit" is lose weight. Men on the other hand need to have significant muscularity while having low levels of body fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 07:26 PM |
| 10 | What do you think a High Value Man wants from a partner?You don’t get abs exercising 1 - 2 days a week lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 03:12 AM |
| 10 | For marriage, it's logical for men to marry the youngest attractive woman they can pull.God the modern dating scene is bleak and depressing as fuck. Women are only valued for how young and attractive they are, men are only valued for how much money and status they have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 03:30 PM |
| 35 | Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphiaWomen's standards The ideal for women is lean with a decent amount of muscle, nothing too crazy. The huge roided out bodybuilder types only mostly appeals to other men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 07:28 PM |
| 4 | (Q4A) "men peak in their mid 30's."This mindset encourages betabuxxing, I don't see why so many redpillers follow it Why would you want a girl who you know is only interested in you for your money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 01:54 PM |
| 9 | Are you <26M?I would agree that 20’s are potentially difficult time for a lot of guys in regards to dating. I'd completely disagree, it's the only time when (assuming you're in college or university), you'll be around lots of single women and starting a relationship is fairly easy How the fuck is dating in your 30s supposed to be better? When most of your options are single mothers, divorcees, and other women with lots of baggage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 08:02 PM |
| 29 | Are you <26M?Yeah dude just don't bother trying to get a girlfriend or get laid in your early 20s, you'll magically become a chad once you hit 26 and you definitely won't be a socially awkward virgin who has no clue how to talk to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Men 30+, is it true that you prefer not to date 30 year old womanHonestly, I feel like there's a level of guilt we should assign to 30+ year old single men too. "Men age like wine" is a cope. If you haven't successfully secured a lifetime partner by 30, I think there should be shame assigned to you the same way we shame 30+ year old single women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:43 PM |
| 5 | American men should stop dating/marrying American womenAnd betabuxxing a woman from a third world country who only wants you for your green card is a better solution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 06:49 PM |
| 11 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?I think it's somewhat disingenuous to say men only care about whether or not they get laid There's a huge sense of emotional validation you get from being in a relationship, knowing that someone who doesn't have to love you (i.e a family member) actually loves you for who you are means a lot to a lot of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Young guys that can't get laid should just get with older women.Why would an older woman, who's used to guys with lots of experience, want a young inexperienced guy? Not to mention older women are typically a LOT more picky, they care about things like status and money a lot more than young women do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 02:57 PM |
| 52 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.The average woman is 5'4 and 170lbs. Only if you're American lol, fat people are still a minority in most countries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:09 PM |
| 15 | Why are there so many lonely young people now? (Particularly men).Before the internet, if someone was a loser, they'd either rot alone or would be forced to improve. But now with the internet, people can find online communities of other losers, who basically do everything except for actually trying to improve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 03:43 AM |
| 61 | Giving woman your own age a chance why?Idk why some people think men magically turn into a chad the moment they turn 30. If you weren't getting any women in your 20s, it's very unlikely you'll get them in your 30s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 11:19 PM |
| 26 | Do looks matter more for males or females?Everyone says "women care less about looks" but look at how many women aren't willing to date short or balding guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:26 AM |
| 6 | Women's preferences in men are culturally engineeredThe strange thing is that even though we usually say "women like buff guys because they're good protectors", the body type that women are most attracted to (i.e all those shirtless scenes in superhero movies) is actually when men are at their weakest. All those actors are usually incredibly starved and dehydrated, sometimes even on the verge of passing out. A lot of the actors describe the experience as genuinely miserable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 08:23 PM |
| 5 | How much of a deal breaker would it be for a guy to be living with his parents in his early 20s?Yeah I'm also like that, I don't just sit in my room all day, I do a lot of cooking and cleaning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 04:26 PM |
| 15 | Guys cannot claim they have low standards if they wont date overweight women.most women will choose an overweight man compared to a skinny man. I seriously doubt this. There are a lot of skinny male celebrities that women openly thirst over, some of them even seem to prefer it over muscular gym bros. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Do you think your boyfriend truly cares about you?Now let's see the statistics on women who leave their man after he loses his job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 04:20 PM |
| 15 | What sort of "intelligence" are women attracted to?And what exactly is "social intelligence"? Just confidence and charisma? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:06 PM |
| -1 | Do wholesome, romantic relationships based on genuine love exist in adulthood?The way I see it, there's a lot less pressure and the standards are MUCH lower as a teenager. As a teenager, you can basically be a broke loser who lives with your parents and that's just seen as normal, it won't impact your chances of getting a relationship. Now if you're a broke adult with no or a minimum wage job who lives with your parents? Good luck getting even a date Because things like your job or economic situation aren't relevant as a teenager, to me that seems like a much more pure, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 07:38 PM |
| 36 | Why do men tend to have a more varied taste in the opposite sex?I wouldn't say that's true. Some women like skinny guys, some like dad bods, some like ripped athletic guys, etc. The only factor that I think is unanimously undesirable among women is shortness though. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't think there's a single woman on earth who would say "yeah short guys are totally my type" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 03:20 PM |
| 10 | Are young men at a disadvantage when it comes to dating compared to older men?I'm working on getting in shape, but even then I'd still be a broke college student who lives in his parent's basement who happens to have abs, doesn't seem like it'd help THAT much honestly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 03:13 AM |
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