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Not excusing her in any way but i have a feeling she kept declining you hoping you would get the hint. But you persisted and kept escalating. I can maybe see why she was uncomfortable. Going from there to reporting you i don't agree with though.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 01:18 PM
1

Don't give her attention
/r/MensRights07/06/23 04:03 PM
336

The right person can help make you a stronger person. The wrong one can make you feel like a shadow of yourself. That's why it's so important who you let be a part of your life.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/23 11:00 PM
6

There's a video on YouTube from 1984 with a KGB guy explaining that this is all a part of Russia's cultural and moral subversion plan. The time frame he gives is about 30-40 years and he mentions things like universities becoming breeding grounds for what we now call wokeness. Whether this is all true or a coincidence i don't know, but at the very least i find it interesting.
/r/MensRights01/06/23 08:15 PM
6

Agreed. By that logic video games would be the cause of violence too.
/r/MensRights01/06/23 03:02 PM
2

Be careful about asking fish how to fish. It can be done but you have to be sure they aren't ashamed or ignorant of their own nature so their views are actually useful to you.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/23 08:45 PM
4

Well shit. I should really be thankful I'm still on good terms with my ex and it took 30 min. for us to split all our stuff.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 01:22 PM
58

If you're American just wait until the divorce
/r/MensRights06/05/23 10:46 PM
0

I'd say that goes for everyone regardless of what's in their pants.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 10:03 AM
1

"they"? "You people"? That's a lot of generalization in such a short reply.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 08:24 AM
2

Takes 2 people to have sex, so 2 people have the shared responsibility. If you're having sex you should act like an adult and take ownership of what you're doing and the risks involved.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 03:24 PM
7

Indeed, all this post shows, imho, is that OP doesn't understand how ChatGPT works. If you fed overwhelming amounts of pictures of cats into MidJourney's dataset, don't be surprised if a lot of pictures look like cats.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 06:55 AM
24

This kinda stuff, imho, is in the "oh, but you're one of the good muslims" category...
/r/MensRights20/03/23 02:34 PM
2

I would say such a person is an idiot and has no idea what they're talking about.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 10:59 PM
1

Can you try it again but in English?
/r/MensRights16/03/23 11:00 AM
1

It's been outdated for a long time.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 11:38 AM
7

The way Katy Perry tried to kiss him was like seeing someone impose themselves on a cat that has no interest. If a man did that he would be cancelled before he left the stage.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 09:24 PM
1

I'm an introvert and still tend to meet women in random places. At a party, while taking a course etc. - chemistry handles the rest. But I'm not in the US and I'm just who I am and it sometime happens. In my culture you don't approach strangers ever, unless you're at some sort of social event.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 07:25 AM
6

As a teen I saw a documentary about prostitutes and they say all said a vast majority of men mostly came to have someone to talk to. They were simply lonely.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 09:21 AM
8

"You just have to be really confident in your truth," she said of dealing with people who disagree with you" This is not just childish - it's literally how a child handles such situations. She is a massive bullet to be dodged.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 06:59 AM
1

They're turning western civilization into China.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 11:36 PM
1

People are always going to have opinions. All that matters is: are you the man you want to be? If not, how do you become that man?
/r/MensRights03/03/23 11:52 AM
2

Isn't that a satire account? Miss Andry? Surely that's not a real account.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 08:27 AM
5

When i was married we just kinda figured it out as we went. It really wasn't a big thing. She cooked, because she preferred to, and I did the dishes afterwards because that's what I preferred. It was like that for pretty much everything.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 03:34 PM
1

I've only heard people say bad things about the situation so at least there's that.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/23 05:02 PM
1

I have absolutely no idea. Perhaps he doesn't believe enough in himself that he thinks it possible that he could find another girl.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/23 12:50 PM
1

He is just an acquaintance so no. He now has a child with his gf who talks to him like he's a retarded boy so that's fun.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/23 08:46 AM
2

And you don't give a shit because someone who calls you that isn't a person you wanna spend time with anyway
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:49 PM
2

It's been done. Literally. Somebody submitted an edited version and got it approved.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 08:25 PM
17

I've literally had someone go "look, I know you're right but it hurts too much so I'm gonna go on with my delusion". Didn't even offer it as a red pill or anything, merely another point of view on something in his relationship.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 09:22 AM
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I know a few people who are poly. Went to a casual dinner type of thing at a couple's place once. The wife's boyfriend was there too. It was so awkward to witness. The wife sometimes gave her husband attention but it felt like she did it to make him not feel neglected. I guess he picked up on it because he wasn't interested. I cringed a lot that day.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/22 10:13 AM
3

I use life to become a better person - dates included.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 11:32 AM
5

You can have social status without money. Musicians for example. I think it's about social proof. If somebody is highly reverred they can feel more attractive.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 10:16 AM
187

As Bill said: they're watching The Kardashians and making it way more valuable than any efforts made by female athletes.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 02:22 PM
10

80% of my country wanted a ban but the Jewish population cried "anti-semitism" and cited the promise made after WW2 that they'd be allowed to practice Judaism freely. The ban was shot down. Ultimately countries wanting a ban will need to publicly state whether personal freedom and choice weighs more or less than religious freedom to choose on their children's behalf. Obviously I'm for a ban. Intercourse with minors is banned because they can't give informed consent. For the same reason a ban on …
/r/MensRights15/12/22 04:03 PM
20

It also used to be that you could look up "guys" and it would explain that in plural the word is gender neutral. Now you get a whole page explaining that it'd be politically correct to use other more inclusive terms.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 12:15 PM
12

Seems kinda like a straight version of Milo to me.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 10:43 AM
5

The link says both "catgirlbutthole" and "tumblr". You're not missing much is my bet.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 09:46 AM
21

You can't choose to do something voluntarily and then complain about doing it. That'd be like giving someone a gift and then sending them the bill for it afterwards.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 08:51 AM
31

That might be what people do, but not what it means. For a long time it was simply a label for people who couldn't get laid. Then it became mainstream and people started associating their prejudices with the word. Doing that will do nothing to improve things. It becomes another label people can use to dismiss human beings who are really struggling.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 03:27 PM
23

He wasn't saying anything about women, he was saying something about a specific set of peoples' views on them.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 12:16 PM
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People have attached all sorts of things to the word "incel", like some religious people do to the word "atheist". An incel is simply someone who isn't able to get laid at their own accord. I'm sure there's a wide variety of reasons for that, depending on who you deal with.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 12:15 PM
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Trying to get a 17 year old guy to not look at boobs is like trying to make the moon reverse direction. Of course there's a threshold between natural interest and creepy ogling but come on..
/r/MensRights05/12/22 12:43 PM
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Nobody owes anyone anything. You're with someone because you both want to and you want the same things. That's why it's called a partner. If you're with someone because you owe it, you're gonna be miserable. And that's how you waste your time. Her time isn't more valuable than yours. If the arrangement doesn't work, it doesn't work.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 05:20 PM
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Aw, well that's nice :)
/r/MensRights01/12/22 12:00 PM
10

Your whole post is a bunch of generalizations. Nobody can possibly take you seriously.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:03 AM
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I think that's a huge factor but I also think people who can dance with no inhibitions and who just have fun create this atmosphere. There's some outgoing personality traits that I think are required.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 12:05 PM
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If i had kids and a stay-at-home wife i would be delighted that a person i love and trust is able to take care of a large part of their upbringing rather than some institution where you have no idea what's put in their head. Otherwise, what's the point? Hiring people to clean and stuff is somewhat cheap these days.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 04:28 PM
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I doubt people like this have had healthy male role models so she'd probably say she wouldn't miss a thing.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 11:17 AM
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No, I was talking a conventional one.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 05:35 PM
2

Personally I do. It's common where I'm from. You're seen as an oddity if you don't.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 01:56 PM
2

Where did I say that? Sometimes circumstances are just circumstances.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 07:21 AM
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I wonder how many of these shooters grew up without a dad.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 06:51 PM
24

The important rule is: it's always someone else's fault
/r/MensRights21/11/22 05:54 PM
-1

They can't really infiltrate small closed groups, was my thinking.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 04:57 PM
14

Guys are not. Assholes are. There's no reason to gatekeep gaming. If you want a male only space, get a group of only guys where you can shoot the shit.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 12:40 PM
6

Well in that case it sounds like he is an actual scumbag.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 11:07 PM
4

"Gender studies" lol
/r/MensRights23/10/22 08:14 AM
1

There's always gonna be somebody who'll complain. I CBA to care about random celebrities.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 03:58 PM
22

I love the fact that one of the most important people for MRA is Cassie, a woman. Hardcore feminists could never do that.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 12:56 PM
2

One sock doesn't fit all feet, so I'm not sure what the point of a poll is.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/22 04:09 PM
6

For me personally my first assumption will be that they have a massive amount of bagage they haven't dealt with. I'm not looking to get into that suitcase.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 02:22 PM
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I think few people are telling them what they can and can't do. The harsh reality is just that a large majority of people will run away faster than Sonic if they find out their love interest is/was a sex worker.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 12:55 PM
12

Not all countries' marriage laws work like in the US. Don't know how they are in the UK though.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 04:14 PM
6

Learn to take a hint lady. If it keeps happening it might not be them lol.
/r/MensRights03/10/22 06:01 AM
2

Not a huge fan of his politics, but his psychology stuff about taking responsibility and improving your life is great. Whether you agree with him or not, all I see is a man trying to help people better their lives. That's his job after all.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 06:38 AM
1

In my experience it's better to just own whatever you chose to do. If you cry, own it. If you don't - own it. What matters is what's behind it. I think the thing that turns some women off is being apologetic about things. Not that you should own your actions for someone else, you should own them for yourself and your mental wellbeing.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 02:56 PM
34

I used to have a female colleague who said she hated working with women for these reasons exactly.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 12:45 PM
3

You paid for the time you had on the date where chemistry might or might not occur. In your example there was chemistry. If she decided to just go home she wouldn't owe you anything. In any case there was no agreement that money would transfer from one to the other in exchange for a service.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 03:44 PM
1

Imho men and women are probably equally dangerous but men tend to be violent overtly, and women more subtle ways.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 10:43 AM
18

I had 2 friends some years ago that were sisters. One of them wanted to live here, get an education and make her own money. The family ridiculed her for it (incl. her sister). I kinda understand gold diggers if they come from countries where women can't make money on their own. I'm just not convinced eastern Europe necessarily is like that and that it's not just a matter of this having been the culture for a long time.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 10:05 PM
3

Dogs are usually submissive and eager to please.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 04:32 PM
8

Seems to me the left/right spectrum is kind of a circle. It seems that when you go far enough out on the left or right it becomes hard to distinguish the differences.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:23 AM
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"Men" are not stabbing anyone. Sick individual people are. Your logic is the same people use when they blame all muslims for the actions of a few.
/r/MensRights11/09/22 09:40 AM
1

I've seen the term on the internet but I haven't bothered figuring out what it is.
/r/MensRights08/09/22 01:58 PM
1

What the hell did I just read? I believe nature is flawed in that regard. Nature wants us to procreate. Working as intended. If you want to not have sex have at it but don't try to convince me that it's better for everyone. Least of all civilization. I do get what you're saying but imho the answer to life's challenges isn't to remove something from your life but to take it in moderation so it doesn't control you.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 07:12 PM
1

Us doing anything would be a drop in the ocean. I think it would need to be a lot more organized and broadly adopted to make a difference.
/r/MensRights07/09/22 01:49 PM
8

What is it with people thinking actors, people in sports etc. are hired on the same terms as an office worker? These people are hired based on their market value, and their agent's ability to negotiate. I don't understand how you can't get that. Besides, Leo was famous before she was even born. Of course he has more market value.
/r/MensRights07/09/22 09:42 AM
1

To me shit testing is a natural thing women do. It's a way for them to probe whether they're attracted to a potential partner. The way I see it, negging done right isn't abrasive but fun, playful and stimulating for both parties involved - just like shit testing. Over-the-top negging, I feel, is basically just an insult and a mature individual steers away from such behavior.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 08:49 PM
1

I live in a European country. It was normal for women to go topless at the beach. Nobody cared. Except, I expect men who'd gone through puberty enjoyed the view. Now you don't see it at all. Probably because we're more prude and because everyone is walking around with a camera.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 03:33 PM
10

Surely it'd take more than that? Where I live at least, logging into any governmental service requires you go through 2 factor authentication and such.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:51 AM
4

While that may be understandable, the underlying issue is that she handles her problems like a 5 year old. That's not going to go away just because she gets busy doing whatever.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 03:14 PM
15

My wife has a problem with me doing things for myself. First sentence. Makes one wonder why such a person is his wife. Surely there are better candidates out there. For a relationship to work there must be room for both people to do things that make them happy. I'd say she needs therapy because the way she handles things not going her way is extremely toxic.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 03:12 PM
2

...and/or China. But yeah.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 11:33 AM
2

I usually just slap some words together but you're welcome :)
/r/MensRights25/08/22 12:51 PM
8

He's a complete ass banana but he has the right to be. They'll ban more and more people now, moving the threshold more and more towards people who are just normal and average.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 06:31 PM
1

This is funny because the show creators specifically stuffed these birth scenes in there to highlight women's issues 😆
/r/MensRights23/08/22 04:59 PM
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I really dislike this communistic trend that people only represent the perceived groups they're a part of and not themselves. It's like the concept of being an individual with individual thoughts and actions is being erased.
/r/MensRights23/08/22 05:33 AM
2

I saw a video where he says he has multiple women working for him and they have limited personal freedom. Curfews etc. So there's that...
/r/MensRights23/08/22 04:21 AM
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He's a top notch douche bag but some of the things he says I find to be true. And it's not illegal to be a douche bag. Yet.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 07:50 PM
2

Once these buzzwords enter the mainstream vocabulary they loose all meaning.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 11:17 AM
6

It's red pill in the sense that new people will have their mind blown when they learn about the things we talk about. It's not Red Pill or incel though, that's very true.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:19 PM
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There's already a word for such people - they're called egalitarians.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 05:21 PM
1

I know about this mindset but i don't really have a good grasp on how pervasive it is. To me it sounds like the "original sin" idea from religion. Not exactly healthy.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:18 AM
3

Can you be a bit more specific about this? As a European I'm really curious/appalled about this and what's happening over there.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 09:46 PM
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I have a few female friends who say they are feminists. When I've had this discussion with them I told them I'm an egalitarian. There's an overlap in what they call feminism, but I will never call myself one. Feminism can be so many different things in today's world and feminists can't even agree on what it stands for. So I prefer to talk about my beliefs, instead of using labels.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 09:44 PM
1

Where have i heard about something like that before? Hmm 🤔
/r/MensRights19/08/22 05:10 PM
2

I've never seen that phrase. If this sub was the type of sub where people thought a woman had a specific place (like a kitchen) I would not be here. I have many female friends. I want them to be able to pursue their dreams, and I want them to determine for themselves what those dreams are. And I want their biggest obstacle in achieving that to be themselves, their drive and how they handle their issues. In fact - I want that for everyone.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 09:25 AM
1

Jesus...seems obvious get the police called on you is something some women choose to do as a last ditch powerplay. Maybe consider a restraining order too.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 02:18 PM
1

You're looking in the wrong places i think. I follow plenty of great musicians of both genders that don't make questionable (in this context) wardrobe choices and play their ass off.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 11:25 AM
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Must've hit a sore spot 😆
/r/MensRights16/08/22 11:10 AM
1

I saw The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel. All in all I liked it, but there was a scene with a bar Mitzvah. They only showed the house, it was indicated that snipping was involved. You heard the baby crying, and everyone going "ooh" and then they laughed and partied.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 02:50 PM
5

When a narrative has been shifted so far to one side, the middle seems like an extremist approach.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 10:18 AM
2

Besides, no amount of concern posting can prevent people from doing what they wanna do. Maybe, in the future, there will be a division. I certainly don't wanna be associated with extremists on any end of the scale.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 09:46 AM
12

She doesn't even understand the terms she uses and uses them interchangeably.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 08:31 AM
1

IMO if you're at the point where you do this the relationship is dead. Your partner should feel like sex with you is reward enough in itself.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 07:46 PM
2

The only reason marriage has any significance where I live is because it has an effect on taxes and what happens in case one dies. You can see this by the fact that people move in together and have kids and then - maybe - get married.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 02:55 PM
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It's not. It's natural. And a relationship without sex is not a relationship. This doesn't mean anyone owes anyone sex, but if it's not happening it's probably a sign something else is wrong. Sex is something that should happen naturally between two people.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 06:23 AM
0

Completely besides the point.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 06:07 AM
14

You do realize The Simpsons has done satire for more than 20 years right? This like saying South Park is advocating kicking babies.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 12:39 AM
36

To me the whole point of the scene is how ridiculous it is...
/r/MensRights19/07/22 04:39 PM
3

No. Certainly not. No one should feel bad simply for existing. People who think that way have serious issues and can, apparently, only feel good by bringing other people down to their level.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 10:41 AM
1

It used to be a word that meant you were unable to get laid. Now it means "school shooter waiting to happen". In other words - it's lost all meaning.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 01:14 AM
1

My ex was in so much pain during her cycle that she couldn't walk. I absolutely think women should be able to not go to work if theirs is as bad. If the will is there, a good solution can be found for both men and women.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 01:01 PM
3

Quite strange cus I've never really seen that here, and when I do it's usually argued against. Keep in mind being against feminism and being against women is not the same thing.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 04:54 PM
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Not necessarily. You can talk about things without doing anything about them. It's called a conversation. I've done it plenty of times.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 11:07 AM
22

Everyone's damaged. An alternate way to handle it is to have some empathy and ask what experiences he's had. And he could explain the situation and be open about it. There are many ways to handle things.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 10:44 AM
33

Maybe he has bad experiences that has caused him to change his behavior?
/r/MensRights13/07/22 10:04 AM
65

The intense focus she had on it certainly is. She was acting like he was being an asshole for not wanting to talk about it. Some people just have things they don't wanna talk about. Looks like his not wanting to talk about it helped him dodge a bullet.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 08:36 AM
22

He obviously did it himself to appear innocent /s
/r/MensRights10/07/22 04:56 PM
1

I saw the documentary (and her TED talk) with a female friend. We were both surprised at how many issues were brought up. Many of the examples may not be directly applicable in my country but it opened my eyes to the struggles men do have here.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 12:30 AM
3

Indeed. Switzerland is a good example: https://www.businessinsider.com/switzerland-gun-laws-rates-of-gun-deaths-2018-2?op=1&r=US&IR=T
/r/MensRights09/07/22 11:28 AM
4

It says something about our society as a whole, not men. Men don't exist in a vacuum. The whole thing plays a part.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 09:25 AM
3

People only notice those who are noticeable. The way you phrased your post you're probably not bothering anyone. You don't represent all girls.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 05:15 PM
13

If the woman wants the child, she will have the child. If she does not, she doesn't. What the man wants is considered irrelevant, unless the woman feels his opinion counts in her decision making.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 10:51 AM
39

Nothing short of lunacy.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 06:14 AM
1

No. I'd describe myself more as an egalitarian than an MRA.
/r/MensRights02/07/22 03:49 PM
2

If there are women who want to become construction works, but don't for some reason that has nothing to do with their own determination - then yes. But having a certain amount/ratio of male/female in a profession - I don't care. I care about people, male or female, being able to pursue their passions.
/r/MensRights02/07/22 11:55 AM
3

Honestly don't see how this is a men's rights thing. Seems to me the guy lacks self awareness and the woman needs to work on herself and figure out why she's so intimidated.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 05:07 PM
1

Stop feeding the troll people...
/r/MensRights16/06/22 08:14 PM
3

My country has a female prime minister, and has had so before. I wonder what that means then.
/r/MensRights16/06/22 06:50 PM
2

Testosterone in men is already extremely low, in western society as a whole, so I'd be extremely wary of anything like this if it's true. Also, 4 pills daily? Fuck no.
/r/MensRights15/06/22 03:16 PM
0

A nice guy, and a "nice guy" are two different things. From urban dictionary: Nice Guy: Not to be confused with a nice guy (that is, a male that is nice)- When used as a noun instead of an adjective, Nice Guy refers to people (men or women) who believe basic social expectations are currency for sex. Nice Guy: I don't understand, I'm a good listener, I help carry his/her groceries, and feed the cat while he/she is away, and he/she won't even let me touch him/her!
/r/MensRights14/06/22 10:59 PM
94

We are not one singular group. People who use this argument are divorced from reality.
/r/MensRights12/06/22 11:00 AM
32

Considering they say they're all about equality, they sure like gendering things that aren't.
/r/MensRights11/06/22 02:46 PM
34

The seat isn't the point.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 07:02 PM
2

I agree. It's the way culture works i guess.
/r/MensRights05/06/22 10:56 AM
2

I'm being literal yes. The way i see it, if you don't start screaming in fear and run away when you see a trans person, it's not a phobia.
/r/MensRights05/06/22 10:43 AM
6

The word phobia is severely overused imho.
/r/MensRights05/06/22 10:24 AM
12

Who says people are generally more interested in their own race? Doesn't seem to be the case for me. My country (Denmark) is famous for blondes and white blondes are my least preferred type of woman. Not that my personal preference is proof of anything.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 06:16 PM
1

Perhaps posting should be blocked for accounts newer than X days?
/r/MensRights25/05/22 09:12 AM
6

If you can discriminate against men because some of us are bad, you can discriminate on the basis that some women will leverage false accusations.
/r/MensRights24/05/22 12:07 PM
2

Same here. When I started to realize I basically had to fill the void with books about taking ownership of your life etc. This didn't happen until late in my life so I went through a whole bunch of bullshit that could've been avoided because I made poor choices.
/r/MensRights18/05/22 08:28 AM
19

It's almost as if one is a cry for help and the other an actual decision...
/r/MensRights13/05/22 12:15 PM
4

Solipsism is a helluva drug.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 07:35 AM
8

To me what feminism is and isn't today is kind of irrelevant. It's like religion. Some people who claim to be part of said thing are great people, and some are definitely not. It happens to any movement that grows large enough. Generally Reddit has devolved into an environment not conducive to building bridges etc. The wrong ideas are banned and people are banned from subs just for subscribing to others.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 01:57 PM
56

What happened to her? Nothing?
/r/MensRights12/05/22 01:11 PM
1

Perhaps op feels this reinforces the "behind every great man is a woman" thing.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 10:31 PM
2

Nah, no worries :)
/r/MensRights11/05/22 01:46 PM
5

I don't disagree, my point was just that it's more than such "articles" usually do.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 01:11 PM
8

well at least they used the word "alleged"...
/r/MensRights11/05/22 12:55 PM
2

Surely this is a joke. I would be extremely embarrassed to propose something like that in a serious manner.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 08:43 AM
3

None of the above. Kids are learning to become adults. As such they must learn to navigate environments similar to those adults encounter, in a healthy and constructive manner.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 02:24 PM
3

Nothing. At least not if my country is anything to go by. 80% of the population wanted it banned but the Jewish community cried about religious prosecution and got it blocked.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 07:55 PM
6

No, not unless there's something wrong. Circumcision is not normal in the part of Europe I live in so it would definitely be something we'd heard about.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 04:36 PM
12

Not gone, just relocated.
/r/MensRights28/04/22 12:49 PM
2

This post says a hell of a lot about you and not so much about us. I hope you find something positive and worthwhile to spend your time on instead of whatever you're doing right now.
/r/MensRights28/04/22 07:23 AM
79

JP's content isn't even manosphere content - they just don't like it. The algorithms behave this way because that's what human nature has shown it makes sense. They just don't like that some people aren't inclined to see things their way.
/r/MensRights27/04/22 11:15 AM
14

*presses X for doubt*
/r/MensRights27/04/22 09:25 AM
3

exactly what role do men have anymore? We have the role we choose. Life is like a "choose your own adventure" book. Whatever/whoever you want to be - you can be.
/r/MensRights26/04/22 08:23 AM
10

Children shouldn't be pressured into liking, or not liking, certain things. They should have room to explore the world and they'll figure it out themselves.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 11:14 AM
9

Somebody must've let her out of her pen. On behalf of my country, I would like to hereby express my apologies.
/r/MensRights22/04/22 07:56 AM
12

If the number of trolls is high enough, you cannot rely on people's discretion. Statistics dictate that enough trolls will fulfill their purpose.
/r/MensRights21/04/22 07:58 PM
3

As a choice, I only show emotions around close friends. They happen to be girls. That said, I rarely need to. I'm very stoic by nature. It's been almost a decade since I've cried, and not because I try not to. I find it important to acknowledge what you feel and allow those feelings to exist. I would never aim to show emotions in public. It's simply not a strategically sound move. Humans are animals, and strangers could use it for evil.
/r/MensRights21/04/22 07:35 AM
10

Well that's the first time I encounter something about Rachel I don't like. My first thought was that it's probably an old post but nope...
/r/MensRights21/04/22 12:03 AM
1

She's responsible for being the person she is - not you. To blame you is very manipulative and toxic.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 07:02 AM
9

It was normal here in Denmark to see women go topless at the beach during the 1990s (as far as I know we have no laws on it). Haven't really noticed any after 2000 - probably due to everyone walking around with cameras now.
/r/MensRights15/04/22 07:41 PM
2

I don't understand how forced equal representation is a useful or realistic goal. It doesn't represent the real world. Say you implement equal representation in nursing. Men are generally not interested in becoming nurses, and so the goal of making it 50/50 is going to become very hard. This means that to fulfil that quota you would have to lower the standards substantially to populate those jobs. My point is not that women aren't fit for certain jobs, but that they might not be interested in ce…
/r/MensRights14/04/22 06:15 AM
0

Misleading title. The video says he's trying to get it into law - not that it's in effect already.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 01:42 PM
1

We are their "the others" so anything goes.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 01:32 PM
10

Similar things are happening everywhere. They're trying to convert virtue signaling to votes.
/r/MensRights09/04/22 04:04 PM
9

I don't agree with everything either but I do most of it. Enough that I'd call myself a fan. He just wants people (of any type) to live full lives.
/r/MensRights08/04/22 11:07 PM
1

1) While it can be fun in the short term, this is only for the top tier of men in the sexual market place because the competition is free. In the long term it fucks over society because there are too few opting to go for the long haul of raising a family. 2) So people dying alone is an upside? 3) In an ideal situation you would have both. If you're in a relationship where your money is no longer your own, you need to change the way you do things. 4) The increasing % of incels would beg to differ…
/r/MensRights08/04/22 12:19 PM
2

Morgan Freeman said "if you want to eliminate racism, stop talking about it". They're doing opposite.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 07:37 PM
17

Cut off a bit of a penis and nobody bats an eye. Cut off an ear or something and everyone loses their shit. Should say it all.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 10:48 AM
15

In medieval times everything was the devil's fault. Now it's the patriarchy. It's purposefully vague so it can be used to justify the whims of people who would rather complain about other people achieving success than learning to compete themselves. That said, we're obviously biased on this sub. But if a man goes to a feminist sub he will be banned for being a man. Take from that what you will.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 05:59 AM
11

It's newspeak.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 04:11 PM
4

Being an asshole is not gender specific. The way it's done might be.
/r/MensRights30/03/22 10:48 AM
1

It's only done to men, and without consent. It doesn't get more MRA than that. It's mutilation. If you performed the same procedure on the nose, ears or whatever people would be appalled but somehow it's ok if it's done on the most delicate part of the body. The religious rights of the parent are put ahead of the rights of a boy to have self determination.
/r/MensRights29/03/22 12:21 PM
3

I'm talking about from nature's perspective. As I wrote - it's up to you if you wanna do what nature wants you to do or not.
/r/MensRights29/03/22 12:11 PM
4

The reason an animal exists is to propagate. Whether you decide to go along with that is up to you, but your urges will still reflect that basic fact.
/r/MensRights29/03/22 11:44 AM
1

These things have everything to do with who you are as a person and nothing to do with what's between your legs. In other words: it's dumb.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 06:56 PM
24

What a great lesson to teach your kids - to slap your way out of problems.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 11:29 AM
25

Honestly it looks like sarcasm to me.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 07:01 PM
13

Cassie Jaye is mandatory in a thread such as this honestly :P
/r/MensRights24/03/22 06:57 PM
1

That's true, but it's also not really important imho. You should focus on yourself and I think that if you end up in a situation where you have to take this measure there are probably some things much earlier in the relationship that went past your radar. Sounds like we more or less agree.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 06:40 PM
2

That's not sexual success, you're right. Except it can be in the long term. If somebody repeatedly disrespects you, the only option left might be to disconnect yourself from that person. If you keep giving that person your time, they will only respect you less and less, and in the case of a romantic interest they will not see you as a sexual option. By walking away you demonstrate that you must be treated with a certain amount of respect. This, along with other things, can make a man seem a lot …
/r/MensRights24/03/22 04:23 PM
23

I think there's a big difference between what people consider equal. Personally my approach is a yin/yan type of thing. We all have some to offer. There are things most men embody that women can learn from, and things most women embody that men can learn from. To me, equality is recognizing the differences but embracing them. This means there should be room for female spaces, male spaces and shared spaces. About a 100 years ago ad agencies found out that directing advertising towards women would…
/r/MensRights24/03/22 02:59 PM
4

That's not a reason to ban people. That's censorship. It's completely possible to go "not the time and place bro" and leave it at that.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 02:57 PM
2

I'd say more that she's intrigued but needs to check. I would compare it a car guy seeing an awesome car for sale. He wouldn't buy it before opening the hood. If everything is rusted and he can expect the car to fall apart easily it doesn't really matter what it looks like on the outside.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 02:34 PM
14

Countless times the argument that if things were run by women violence would happen less frequently has been refuted - when you look at the amount of war waged while women ran things.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 02:09 PM
-6

I don't understand why someone would put that much effort into it. If you don't get a reply just move on. You should have better things to do with your time than to play silly mind games on social media.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 12:07 PM
5

Seems like unnecessary bullshit. Walking away would be one option.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 11:22 AM
4

You can be nice and still successful with women. Sometimes, these days, "doormat" and "nice" are confused. If you're willing to walk away if you get disrespected, and can take action - you're ahead of most men in sexual competition.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 07:03 AM
7

If mansplaining is a word, I can't tell you how many times I've been womansplained to.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 05:28 AM
36

I think it's just so integrated in society. When i did my tests to see if i was worth drafting i didn't even consider it being unfair. I just accepted that it was something i had to do when i turned 18.
/r/MensRights18/03/22 12:19 PM
21

He wants to go down in history as the mayor that did something about this issue. Nevermind that a huuuge majority of violence happens to men. Just standard political pandering I believe. And that's the whole problem with politics.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 12:36 PM
-1

You might be right. She's not that experienced with dating so i guess she just draws what conclusions she can from the experiences she's had so far.
/r/MensRights11/03/22 06:11 AM
-2

She's speaking only about the men she has dated. And for those it applied. Also she's not my girlfriend.
/r/MensRights11/03/22 06:10 AM
8

I've spoken to a female friend about this. For her it's a green flag because she's experienced a lot of men who were completely unable/unwilling to work on themselves and kept running into the same problems. If a man is in therapy it shows he's working on himself and his problems, just like she is. So at least, for my friend, it's not about men being damaged but her wanting someone you can have open communication with and deal with things.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 02:32 PM
5

Again, those are not objective things you can measure and put in statistics. They are subjective ideas being presented as facts.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 11:48 AM
7

What's important there is the reason. Before you can document the reasons, it's not really an argument in itself. It's just a neutral fact.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 10:09 AM
2

I see, fair enough.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 09:23 PM
5

Out of curiosity, can you define what a "reasonable person" is? How does one measure such a standard?
/r/MensRights09/03/22 07:08 PM
2

I was referring to how feeling justified in doing something is based on something entirely subjective.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 07:07 PM
7

Reminds me of the states in America where fear is justification for using firearms. Absolutely crazy.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 05:41 PM
2

I think rich women are probably above petty bullshit like this
/r/MensRights09/03/22 02:01 PM
6

...we're men - it's literally about us lol
/r/MensRights09/03/22 10:26 AM
5

Imho if you're married and the man pays most expenses it's not really a marriage. It's a sugar baby with the wrong label applied. A marriage is supposed to be a partnership where both contribute in meaningful ways.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 03:02 PM
3

I frequent TRP myself but last time I heard the "women just want money" thing was from a Sudanese man I met on a road trip once. He was travelling with his wives and daughters who were all wearing niqabs. The women I know well don't care that much about money. They care about having a good life that has meaning. Even the ones that have no money insist they pay their share of things when we go out. I think that if women have the opportunity to make their own money, money won't matter much. Of cou…
/r/MensRights08/03/22 03:00 PM
180

Modern day white feather.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 10:56 AM
1

Rp is still accessible and for questions you go to asktrp. It's not even quarantined.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 10:36 PM
2

Considering men of a specific age range are not allowed to leave, isn't it more like just "women, not men"?
/r/MensRights26/02/22 03:19 PM
1

How is that your problem? What do *you* want? Personally I do not do restaurants as a first date with anyone. I'm not gonna get stuck across the table from somebody for x amount of time - it'll be hell if you end up not getting along. Kinda sounds like you're running into people who just want to get fed.
/r/MensRights24/02/22 07:42 AM
1

On 2nd thought it occurs to me I'm conflating working conditions and...terms, for lack of better words. Conditions and things such as how easy it is to become educated, how much you get paid etc. are different things things. The latter was what I was referring to.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 08:06 PM
1

no
/r/MensRights23/02/22 07:22 PM
1

The US has very shitty conditions if you ask me, for the average person.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 06:52 PM
3

I would call it maybe a prerequisite then. Being rich does not, as I see it, in itself grant good working conditions. Corporations want to employ people as cheaply as possible. Just because there's a cake, it doesn't mean everyone can get a slice.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 05:52 PM
2

Capitalism is capitalism. If our unions didn't fight a 100 years ago we would still be working in crappy conditions.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 05:41 PM
6

In my country unions are very strong so we have good working conditions. I feel like if you don't like the terms of the job market you should make your own business so you can set the terms. If the movement is there to improve working conditions then all power to them.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 03:01 PM
3

I see - in any case the point remains the same
/r/MensRights23/02/22 12:09 PM
28

Sylvester Stallone is around that height too and he's a fucking beast even in his 70s. Don't let some insignificant comment make you feel bad. Why does some random girl somewhere on a huge planet get to dictate how you feel about yourself?
/r/MensRights22/02/22 10:08 PM
37

When even a government simps...
/r/MensRights22/02/22 01:31 PM
1

I saw that first hand many years ago but i thought that only really applied to tourism heavy areas, and maybe not this far.
/r/MensRights22/02/22 12:04 PM
5

Oh didn't expect that. Cool, thanks.
/r/MensRights22/02/22 06:39 AM
6

And i doubt Turkey has a lot of female lawyers anyway...
/r/MensRights22/02/22 12:20 AM
1

Wait what!? Why haven't I heard of this before. That's crazy.
/r/MensRights21/02/22 10:45 AM
7

Glad I live in a country where this sort of job post is illegal.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 01:37 PM
6

When the marketing industry was in its infancy they found out that targeting women was much more effective. I suspect it's the same thing that's happening here.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 11:21 AM
1

This is like when black people say they can't be racist... I don't think any amount of logic is going to persuade her in any way. Whatever you say she'll just go "nu uh!".
/r/MensRights15/02/22 01:06 PM
4

Don't people tend to congregate with people who have similar backgrounds to them too? The same applies - it's good to have both that, and also mingling with people with different backgrounds I think.
/r/MensRights13/02/22 10:44 AM
10

This is a random post on the internet. The chances of her wanting to trap him, or it was an honest accident are equally big. The fact is if you want control of your life, you take control of your life. As a man this means you wrap your dick when you have sex.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 04:34 PM
1

Seems to be going over a lot of people's heads, based on the thread's responses.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 01:36 PM
4

Pretty sure this is satire...
/r/MensRights09/02/22 11:14 AM
118

To me, equality is about letting both girls and boys have girls and boys-only clubs. There should also be spaces where both boys and girls interact. I think all 3 types of spaces are important for a child growing up as it teaches them to interact in a well balanced way.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 11:08 AM
0

You guys posting your Google results need to realize Google personalizes your results to what it thinks you should see. That's why I use Duckduckgo.
/r/MensRights07/02/22 10:17 AM
2

She also happens to be a diversity hire. The irony is just astronomic. Getting hired using privilege and complaining about other people's privilege. Well done.
/r/MensRights05/02/22 09:32 PM
5

A contract can be binding, and still be rendered completely null and useless by existing frameworks of law.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 01:49 PM
1

Some urges are biological and cannot be helped. You can deal with them in a civilized manner, and that's up to you as an individual, but they're there.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 10:30 AM
29

She hasn't actually read it, she's just going by the instructions she has received: "mra bad!". Don't let it affect you. Then she wins.
/r/MensRights03/02/22 04:38 PM
44

That's an accomplishment - it seems they ban people even for breathing.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 11:21 AM
1

Record levels of men are single, birth rates are way down (in my country we have government entities begging people to make babies), women are increasingly also single etc.
/r/MensRights30/01/22 07:55 PM
1

Not as such, but it does suggest that maybe the dating mechanics in the West aren't really working anymore.
/r/MensRights30/01/22 01:22 PM
4

Well, there are many ways to get someone to see things from a different angle. This is one. Is it any less true than others?
/r/MensRights29/01/22 05:44 PM
1

Well in that case you obviously deserve no rights :P
/r/MensRights29/01/22 02:42 PM
1

They can't even drink for crying out loud!
/r/MensRights28/01/22 07:02 PM
5

Why on Earth would it not? Before anything else, every one of us is human.
/r/MensRights28/01/22 01:34 PM
2

The point was that if I can have meaningful relationships with women, you can too.
/r/MensRights26/01/22 02:30 PM
2

Well, my closest friends are women so I would be hella lonely if I cut off all women.
/r/MensRights26/01/22 02:01 PM
7

There's nothing to understand. They're just empty statements with nothing to back them up.
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:08 PM
2

I have a question for us man here. Why can't we not start living withoutwoman in our life? I mean just ignoring them don't get near them orstart talking with them. This is not a balanced approach to life. You can do it if you want. If the women in your life are toxic, find ones that aren't. If you can't find those, it may be a you problem and not a woman problem. And I don't mean to say it's your fault. It's just unfortunate circumstances. The way you look at things, and approach life determines…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:04 PM
2

Or the fact that it's not something that has been common in western society until now.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 08:14 AM
37

I've been thinking the same thing. Almost a 100 years ago the advertising business found out how effective it was to target sales at women, instead of men. I feel like this trend might be ongoing. More and more things are targeted at women. Even newspapers (a dying media if you ask me) are doing it.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 10:37 AM
15

They try to control the words to control the narrative. The narrative being that only men can be toxic. I've experienced the female gaze more than once so I know it's not a gender specific thing. And why would it be - biologically speaking it only makes sense that both genders stare at people they find attractive. Otherwise our species wouldn't be able to sustain itself. Of course you can stare at people and be creepy about it, but again - it's not gender specific. To me the word "male" in front…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 10:10 AM
0

Yeah, I actually went and changed my mind after taking a closer look at it. I think, if this was a court room, this article would be regarded as circumstantial.
/r/MensRights21/01/22 03:02 PM
44

Bad relationship with parents | obsessive about his mom You just can't win XD
/r/MensRights21/01/22 02:10 PM
3

1) Feminize your husband 2) Leave him because you're not attracted to him 3) Wonder how it happened 4) Repeat
/r/MensRights21/01/22 08:30 AM
6

I think the article illustrates what happens when qualifications are not the main reason for hiring someone. So i would agree, that it's not necessarily because they're women. The same might happen if you were forced to hire men as nurses. Chances are there were more qualified men for the navigation job but they were skipped.
/r/MensRights21/01/22 06:33 AM
4

What matters is you grow as a person and accomplish the goals you want.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 03:19 PM
2

Yeah, I'm actually active in the latter community. There are some people there that are misogynistic, but for me it's made my relationship with women (and people in general) a lot less toxic.
/r/MensRights20/01/22 10:42 AM
2

You're right. Personally I think pickup artists are like trained monkies (meaning they learn a few tricks but don't actually do self improvement), but that shouldn't disallow them picking something and learning from somebody experienced. I think the way forward is genuine conversations. Like I mentioned, when Cassie Jaye allowed herself to approach MRAs and actually listened she stopped being a feminist. Laura can be whatever she wants but I just don't feel like she has the whole picture because…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 10:31 AM
10

Interesting. Everything she says can be applied to feminism too imo. Seems like the men who hate women (which I find unhealthy - nobody should hate anyone, as women shouldn't hate men) are mirroring modern feminism. I also despise the term "manosphere". To me it's like saying all Muslims are terrorists. There are probably bad apples in all the communities she mentions, but that doesn't necessarily represent that group. Her estimations of these communities are completely off. Especially the one a…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 08:38 AM
2

Well, I guess it could be. It just requires that you tell the other person what you expect.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 07:14 AM
8

Bargains and expectations are different things. If you marry someone you've agreed to both be faithful. If you give a woman a thing (money, car, whatever) and expect sex in return, then you're setting toxic expectations. But yeah - make sure you're covered, and only give if they've earned it.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 08:13 PM
20

I think you have the wrong attitude. Expecting something in return for what you put out into the universe makes you dependent on things you have no control over and it's going to lead to unhappiness. Instead, do things if you feel like them. Sometimes that yields rewards and sometimes it doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 07:20 PM
7

Drafting is ok, but this violence against women is not? The hypocrisy is impressive. If only they could put the same resources into ending *all* violence...
/r/MensRights14/01/22 02:22 PM
4

The same thing can be said about feminism.
/r/MensRights11/01/22 01:53 PM
3

That's a good point. Have you ever seen that Youtube video where there's a guy explaining how to tell if a woman likes you, and no matter what the woman does he's like "hard to tell, better wait and look for more signs"? That used to be me too lol.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 05:10 PM
12

Women stare at men just as much. Women are not some sort of asexual creature. It's just that the average man may not experience it due to the 80/20 thing.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 08:56 AM
2

The amount of resources put into testing is the same, the difference is the resources were spent in a short time period.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 08:53 AM
65

Ideally nobody should be hitting anybody.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 02:25 PM
4

That doesn't change the fact that if he does get it, he will suffer a lot less having been vaccinated. I'm aware it's not an immunization vaccine.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 12:29 PM
6

She's being a responsible adult. You're not. In normal cases I would say all decisions need to made in cooperation with both adults but...in this case I'm inclined to say she's in the right. It is gross negligence to not get him vaccinated. Of the amount of people who contract Covid, the number of people who end up in intensive care (or dying) is vastly larger with the unvaccinated than the vaccinated.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 10:30 AM
3

Denmark. It would go under some kind of anti-discrimination law. It applies especially to job postings and such
/r/MensRights06/01/22 10:13 PM
1

If this is true, I think it's because of upbringing and not gender. I know lots of women and they are none of those things. Not saying they don't exist, but this is a gross generalization.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 01:42 PM
26

In my country this is illegal.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 07:27 AM
11

Not sure how this is a men's rights thing. Attractive men have many advantages in life too.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 10:10 AM
8

Stoicism is not about restraint imho. It's about mastering yourself so the things you would normally have to restrain your reaction for, don't evoke a reaction in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 08:14 AM
10

It's not illegal to be an asshole...well, turns out it is. But it shouldn't be.
/r/MensRights04/01/22 09:58 PM
3

The fact that this requires an explanation is..."impressive".
/r/MensRights04/01/22 09:30 AM
2

When a person is biased, being fair seems extraordinary.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 01:03 PM
5

Trp got me on the path my absent/dead dad wasn't able to. It has made a tremendous and positive improvement.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 12:43 AM
12

Yes, telling people they don't matter really progresses humanity as a whole.....
/r/MensRights28/12/21 10:48 AM
13

Not to be an ass but are you sure you married the right person?
/r/MensRights24/12/21 03:50 PM
0

In my country the law's definition of racism extends to religion too. I think it's ridiculous, but that's how it is.
/r/MensRights14/12/21 07:21 AM
6

When everyone wins, nobody wins. In real life, not everyone wins. You can't change that but you can change how you handle that truth. Or keep living in wilful ignorance.
/r/MensRights13/12/21 04:28 PM
1

This is very good news.
/r/MensRights13/12/21 02:57 PM
122

That they don't have to lift a finger by virtue of them being born a woman. I think that's all there is to it really. The good old "it's always someone else's responsibility because if it's not, then I'm involved and I don't like that".
/r/MensRights13/12/21 11:31 AM
1

If you average everything out - yes. But there's a reason for that. The average working hours in my country for men is 37, and 33 for women. That alone accounts for a big difference, as it should. I'm sure there are many other things as well. Men and women have different priorities and that's ok.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 01:18 PM
7

That's like when feminists say they care about men and then when you raise an issue men have they go "but women have it harder so we're focusing on them now".
/r/MensRights09/12/21 09:40 AM
27

Do you mean egalitarian, or is this some new thing I haven't heard of?
/r/MensRights09/12/21 09:39 AM
4

I agree. I prefer that women are free to choose their destiny, but when you couple that with a society where men are absent and/or not needed growing up, the results are not good. When I grew up caretakers were 50% men and women, mostly. At least it was completely normal for men to take these roles, but now? Now they can hardly be in the same room as children without getting the side eye.
/r/MensRights08/12/21 04:43 PM
7

Look at the supposedly most equal countries in the world - the Nordic countries. Women are mostly working in fields dealing with people, and men are mostly working in fields dealing with things and/or physical labor. Whether this is because nature made it this way, or our culture teaches them this behavior from the start - I don't know. But as it is right now, it seems these are the choices people are making for whatever reason. Regarding the patriarchy - what I find is that people typically loo…
/r/MensRights08/12/21 04:12 PM
5

If you're into this sort of thing, I highly recommend Peter Jackson's They Shall Not Grow Old: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7905466/?ref\_=nm\_flmg\_prd\_5
/r/MensRights07/12/21 10:16 AM
3

I think we're at a disadvantage in some regards. We have an ape brain, but we're also conscious about having an ape brain. If you ask Mother Nature, our only goal is to procreate. We just have other ideas.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/21 07:29 AM
21

I'm slightly autistic and I still didn't think it was the country.
/r/MensRights05/12/21 12:13 PM
2

I feel like this should be on askTRP
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 02:25 PM
4

He's right. He should shut up.
/r/MensRights25/11/21 09:29 AM
1

In my country the age of consent is 15, but you have to be 18 to get a tattoo. Not sure where the logic in that is. I'd say the two would better if switched around.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 02:37 PM
8

Some people want to get married (I'm over that personally but generally speaking), but you need to be able to read people well enough that you don't marry a cunt. I'm still on good terms with my ex-wife because she's not a cunt.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 02:33 PM
3

I agree. I'm working on becoming independent (which to me is part of being on this sub), because the rat race is completely pointless. I would of course try to instill values in my children that would enable them to prosper. But in any case, I have things in my life I love too much to give up for at least 18 years. Right now, all I can do is make my life matter to me. Hopefully some of the things I do will last and if not - I tried.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/21 11:16 AM
1

This is what Reddit's becoming generally. It's more and more like China every day. If you have the wrong opinion you're done.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 10:32 AM
51

Personally I don't want kids, but I can't help but feel a sense of emptiness when I think about not leaving a legacy.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/21 09:27 AM
4

I'm active on both but find them to be completely separate things. The pill name is really bad imho. As you may know it refers to The Matrix, where Neo gets the choice between continuing on as before (blue pill) or learning how the world really is (red pill). I can see why they named it like that, but lots of fields have red pill moments as a requirement to see their merit. That's why the documentary The Red Pill had that name as well. I think all this confuses people. MRA is about men's rights.…
/r/MensRights22/11/21 10:57 AM
1

In the UK what matters is that it's a male doing penetration, so it still applies to two men.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 07:11 PM
47

I would run far away. I wouldn't want an in law like that in my life. My bet is he acts like this because he thinks you'll act the same way he did when he was your age. We have an expression in my country that goes "thieves think everyone steals".
/r/MensRights19/11/21 03:02 PM
31

Might be a good time to just switch to a different service, like DuckDuckGo or any number of other search engines.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 02:57 PM
25

Honestly I think there's more wisdom in your statement than you'd think. This way of acting is one that can only happen in a society where you're privileged and sheltered.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 10:28 AM
22

See also: poor taste
/r/MensRights19/11/21 10:27 AM
8

I think the assumption is that evil men are gatekeeping the science careers and actively preventing women from entering them. I just don't think women, in general, want to pursue them.
/r/MensRights18/11/21 12:56 PM
7

stoic to the point of hurting themselves Then it's not stoicism. Stoicism is not about suppressing emotions.
/r/MensRights16/11/21 02:42 PM
11

imho masculinity is not about suppressing emotions. That's an incredibly unhealthy way to deal with things and the exact reason there's a crisis. I can understand not wanting to cry in front of certain people and there are emotions I don't want to show people sometimes. I try to express them at a different time instead. Look into becoming a robust and well rounded person that it takes a lot to bother, rather than making it look like you're not bothered. I find it important to be true to who you …
/r/MensRights16/11/21 02:41 PM
12

A lot of people don't realize that when people tell you to do certain things it's because lessons are usually attached. I knew a guy who read that he had to approach a 1000 women to not care about rejection. When we went out he would start conversations with girls, and halfway through he would just disappear and go to the next one. He was like a socially inept road runner. These girls were so confused.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 07:26 AM
3

Yeah that was the main discussion point when it was discussed in the media. What's more important - a child's right to being protected from things they're unable to opt out of (i.e. human rights), or a religious family's "right" to mutilate their children (i.e. religious freedom). As I saw the situation, our prime minister was too afraid of how Israel would react.
/r/MensRights10/11/21 09:15 AM
9

In my country 80% of the population wanted a ban but it was blocked due to Jewish and Muslim influence. I don't have a problem with people of those religions (well I do, but it applies to all religions), just stating a fact. Our prime minister basically said that was the reason. She said we owed the jews because we promised to keep them safe after WW2. Lamest excuse I've ever heard.
/r/MensRights10/11/21 07:00 AM
10

Because it's not about equality, but power and influence.
/r/MensRights04/11/21 03:31 PM
54

Username: "egalitarian" Words: "women are always victims" So little text, yet you still failed so hard.
/r/MensRights01/11/21 04:18 PM
1

But..like...there's not gonna be enough women who want to be fire fighters to fulfill it... People don't magically appear because you set a quota...
/r/MensRights29/10/21 01:02 PM
1

Sure, here's a Google Translate link: https://dkr-dk.translate.goog/vold-og-voldtaegt/fakta-om-vold/?_x_tr_sl=da&_x_tr_tl=en&_x_tr_hl=da&_x_tr_pto=nui# They say that 9 of 10 perpetrators are men, but they say there's a different in circumstances depending on where violence takes place. For that reason I would like to see statistics for domestic violence specifically because if enough men perpetrate violence outside of the home, those numbers will make it look like men also perpetrate violence do…
/r/MensRights28/10/21 07:00 AM
21

I tend to agree with this. I tend to find that if I start watching porn it's because I'm not getting out enough. I love video games, and wanted to make them for a living as a kid but when it comes to playing them I find I do it mostly if I don't have anything productive going on in my life. When I do, I just end up not playing games. I don't watch sports at all. Anyway, just wanted to basically say why I agree with the post.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 06:27 AM
2

At least in my country, Denmark, official statistics say men are overwhelmingly attacked by other men when outside of the home, but inside the home it's overwhelmingly women who are attacked by men. But they kind of lump the numbers together so I haven't been able to figure out what the actual numbers are which, to me, seems like an attempt at making men look bad. Or least, that's the end result imho.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 06:20 AM
4

Wait, how does that work?
/r/MensRights27/10/21 11:25 AM
1

In the grand scheme of things what you, specifically, do or don't do doesn't really change anything. You need to look out for number 1.
/r/MensRights21/10/21 02:00 PM
-4

No. To me there are different kinds of feminism. To me the question "feminist or not?" makes no sense. It's like a religion at this point. So many branches and approaches. Not even sure I consider myself an MRA - I do consider myself an egalitarian, and I find there's a very large overlap of interests between what I think and this sub.
/r/MensRights21/10/21 11:31 AM
6

Pause and read the message on the phone.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 07:26 AM
1

You have to take into account the golden rule: it's always someone else's fault.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 07:53 AM
3

Only solace is every time I hear about a parent who acts like that, the kids will eventually grow tired of her bullshit as well, and then try and make up their own mind about things.
/r/MensRights12/10/21 09:02 PM
13

What gets me is kids in these situations will grow up thinking their dad wanted nothing to do with them.
/r/MensRights12/10/21 03:11 PM
1

I'm not saying that doesn't happen but to assume every woman is like that makes you no better than the feminists we complain about here on this sub.
/r/MensRights08/10/21 03:21 PM
3

That's a gross generalization and doesn't apply to the women I have in my life.
/r/MensRights08/10/21 06:37 AM
12

The women I've known who burned out mainly did so because they felt too big a sense if duty, even if they were working under ridiculous conditions. They would take on all responsibility. Men were, generally, better at saying "under these conditions i can only do so much"
/r/MensRights07/10/21 02:34 PM
14

It's not about what you do, but what you have done. My colleague has the same job on paper and he gets paid more because he's been in the company longer and has more experience and does more organizationally minded tasks.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 03:46 PM
14

That's strange, I've seen anti-male bullshit get called out on egalitarianism plenty of times...
/r/MensRights06/10/21 07:17 AM
4

I used to get interrupted constantly. Eventually figured out it was because what I was saying didn't add value to the conversation.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 09:57 AM
14

A patriarch is the male head of the family. A matriarch is a female head of the family. Thus, the word "patriarchy" indicates the belief that men are the leaders of society. That said, I was saying the opposite. If there is a patriarchy it's only for the top men in society, which in itself negates the argument. It's not about gender because men who have low status in society are also shat on. A vast majority of men have absolutely no power at all. That's why they're forced to lay down their live…
/r/MensRights03/10/21 01:33 PM
26

Where is this patriarchy? Do they have a website? A complaint department? I would like to complain about the billions of 20 year old men who were shipped off to die in wars during the last 100 years. There must've been a mixup since the patriarchy didn't help them at all.
/r/MensRights03/10/21 08:54 AM
12

I think it just makes it easy for those who would indulge in activities like this to do so.
/r/MensRights02/10/21 08:34 AM
7

If both genders can be toxic, it's almost like it's more about who you are as a person and there's no reason to gender it...
/r/MensRights01/10/21 12:31 PM
2

Probably not. This is only a problem if your life is about asking what you can do for women. Put yourself first and find women that are compatible with your life.
/r/MensRights30/09/21 10:43 AM
15

I've experienced my share of toxic women, so there's no reason to make it gender specific other than to slander men for existing.
/r/MensRights30/09/21 07:18 AM
9

Just like the ad agencies around the world figured out that they'd sell more if they appealed to women i bet that's what's going on here too. Media companies are desperate to stay relevant.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 02:32 PM
6

The whole western world is. We'll be like China in no time.
/r/MensRights24/09/21 08:18 AM
-6

Just so you know, there are other countries than the USA.
/r/MensRights23/09/21 10:31 AM
20

+ if it's legal they get the opportunity to unionize which, in my country, is a really important part of life.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 06:27 AM
15

This is just a convoluted way of saying everything wrong in the world is men's fault.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 03:19 PM
14

They're a business, they want to increase earnings and decrease spending.
/r/MensRights15/09/21 10:30 AM
1

Denmark isn't so bad imo. Not yet.
/r/MensRights11/09/21 04:34 PM
1

What type of feminism are you talking about specifically? The poll is way too broad imho.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 10:20 AM
2

With these things, there's no "always do this or that, if x or y". Assess the situation and act like a human being. If you sense someone is in danger, figure out a way to help the situation. Either directly or indirectly. Regardless of gender. Don't put yourself in danger for no reason.
/r/MensRights06/09/21 12:03 PM
2

It's called the Apex Fallacy.
/r/MensRights06/09/21 11:58 AM
7

In that case Paltrow is an idiot.
/r/MensRights06/09/21 09:45 AM
3

This is what's known as a red flag. It's an attempt to manipulate you. Don't let it work. If she finds out this works, she will only continue escalating the manipulative behavior.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 09:46 AM
3

Not the first time they've done that trick. Great way to keep an arms industry running. And wasting young men's lives, while calling it "service to your country".
/r/MensRights01/09/21 04:17 PM
6

Inexperience would also account for some of it imho. Everyone is apprehensive with things that are unknown.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 11:14 AM
14

Shitty people do shitty things. That's not gender specific. If they choose to see it that way, it says a lot about them and not men.
/r/MensRights29/08/21 09:26 PM
24

Like with every human being, it applies to some and not to others. I have female friends that aren't like that, and know girls who are. Like all sweeping statements they kind of fall apart when you delve deeper. But for the kind of woman he's talking about - it absolutely applies, just like there are men who act like children.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 08:59 AM
3

If you replace "men" with "black people" you suddenly have a very different sentence.
/r/MensRights24/08/21 06:36 PM
4

Personally I like feminine women and I also prefer women who have their own minds. I want a partner, not a grown child who needs to be told what to do and when.
/r/MensRights24/08/21 07:49 AM
2

This is what happened to me. Grew up with a single mother. She didn't force me to think a certain way, but being alone with her I was never presented with an alternative. I'm starting to have success with women now and it's not because I treat them like shit. It's because I truly feel like I'm as worthy as any human being so there has to be a good reason for people to be in my life and I treat them accordingly. I had to educate myself on the internet to come to this point. It felt like I'd been …
/r/MensRights23/08/21 10:28 AM
35

How did incel go from a label for someone who couldn't get laid to a potential terrorist? Update: was mostly a rhetorical question, but thanks for all the replies :)
/r/MensRights22/08/21 04:58 AM
1

It's called the apex fallacy.
/r/MensRights21/08/21 11:04 AM
7

That's why it's so important to become a great man, not just act like one.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/21 10:59 PM
16

1) Google is heavily biased. If you want actual search results, use something like DuckDuckGo which doesn't base your search results on what it thinks you want to see. 2) The BBC is heavily biased as well.
/r/MensRights18/08/21 11:40 AM
7

Holy shit, that's a massive difference.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 08:10 PM
28

I'm not American or have ever been in the military. I've seen enough interviews to know that people sipping lattes and posting on Twitter or whatever have no business calling anyone in a warzone one thing or the other.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 04:25 PM
67

Honestly, people who haven't been in the military should stfu about this.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 02:49 PM
8

I don't have a problem recognizing rape is absolutely horrendous. That fact should not be neglected. But it's a problem when men are considered worthless in comparison. It's the opposite of equality.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 09:36 PM
7

No. Guy is a man, guys is gender neutral.
/r/MensRights15/08/21 09:55 AM
3

That's not sexist, it's business. Stop buying bullshit products. And quit the attitude, as if it'll somehow strengthen your argument.
/r/MensRights13/08/21 01:16 PM
4

Most people don't have a fundamental understanding of supply and demand. If they'd stop buying razors that are identical except for being pink, the companies would change their approach. It's not sexist that there's a market for overpriced razors.
/r/MensRights13/08/21 11:04 AM
21

and you know.. every low level function that keeps a civilization running.
/r/MensRights12/08/21 06:42 AM
33

I like your username. That's all.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 09:02 PM
19

5 year olds are more coherent and logical than whatever that was.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 09:02 PM
9

For some people they just don't know other mindsets exist. They've been conditioned. So I don't even necessarily think they think they'll get anything out of it.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 08:39 PM
1

Yeah I like the idea, I just don't have high hopes on the part of Reddit's admins. The first thing to go with such people is humor.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 10:13 PM
5

lol this is going to be down by tomorrow
/r/MensRights08/08/21 09:45 PM
97

For their bullshit ideology to function they must have an enemy. Same way north Korea has the USA as one.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 01:07 AM
2

It's business, not voting.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 07:40 AM
3

But they give them medals and call them heroes so it's totally ok! /s
/r/MensRights05/08/21 07:34 AM
95

That's how echo chambers work
/r/MensRights04/08/21 11:39 PM
81

That wasn't men - that was men in the ruling class. And they withheld it from regular men too.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 11:38 PM
16

I'm in a sub that's been quarantined for months. It's like when authorities around the world thought they could ban internet piracy. You whack one mole, and 3 others pop up somewhere else. The sub I mentioned has simply opened up and independent website and they've achieved nothing. This one can do the same.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 01:13 AM
5

Because it's reddit. When the top is corrupted, the corruption trickles down due to the choices they make.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 10:13 AM
2

Yes
/r/MensRights29/07/21 09:54 AM
5

Indeed. This whole woke mentality we have today seems like what happens when a majority has the mentality of children. I can understand why some ancient philosophers didn't like the type of democracy where a majority of uninformed people make the decisions. Female leads today are written like a child emulating a grown up while having 0 understanding of the substance.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/21 06:02 PM
2

Same thing was said about Muslims in my country, by racists and nobody accepted that premise. These people (the ones OP mentioned) are in a place where men have been designated "the others" and so they feel it's justified. We need to look at people as human beings and not "women good, men bad".
/r/MensRights25/07/21 12:12 AM
12

Personally i love strong female leads as long as they're written like human beings and not Mary Sues. Thanks for the list.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/21 12:01 AM
-1

That doesn't mean it should be presented as a reasonable reaction.
/r/MensRights24/07/21 11:48 PM
-2

The word you're looking for is "child", because that's what you are if you can't handle life without becoming violent.
/r/MensRights24/07/21 11:07 AM
11

Thanks for your levelheaded analysis. Kinda feels like OP was seeing what he wanted to see. If anything I'd say it depicts a crappy leader more than a typical man.
/r/MensRights22/07/21 05:27 PM
24

I think it's your birth certificate 🤔
/r/MensRights21/07/21 10:06 PM
10

...that doesn't improve anything. It does the opposite.
/r/MensRights21/07/21 05:39 PM
235

Men aren't considered marginalized or vulnerable because "MeN hAve alL thE pOwah!". You know. All ~3,5 billion of them....
/r/MensRights21/07/21 03:50 PM
51

"You can't have sex if you're not aroused." (People were talking about how someone's husband had to have sex with her even if he didn't feel attracted to her anymore.) Where have I heard this before? Oh right, I believe several religious books describe it as a wife's duty to have sex with him... looks like feminism is gonna go full circle lol
/r/MensRights21/07/21 03:46 PM
5

I think things like these often only gain mass awareness once things have really started to go wrong on a massive scale. Then there'll be a hard fought backlash.
/r/MensRights21/07/21 12:29 PM
4

Twitter and the real world are very different places.
/r/MensRights21/07/21 07:51 AM
14

As far as I can tell from another sub this was a fake account by a woman claiming to be a man.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 02:43 PM
19

Comfortable? I'd say she's bragging.
/r/MensRights17/07/21 08:23 AM
13

I wonder if this means things will settle to a new norm at some point. All change/transitions are hard both individually and as a society. That said i think this paper has some truth in it. These days i feel like dating women who aren't broken is like winning the lottery. Could also just speak to the kind of women I'm meeting...
/r/MensRights16/07/21 06:06 PM
13

People who say these things seriously, and try to change laws, are why I don't think it's ridiculous when there are people saying society is collapsing (like for real, not just that it's degrading).
/r/MensRights16/07/21 10:09 AM
2

Feminists claiming to have a monopoly on fairness reminds me of religious people claiming their god is the one true god.
/r/MensRights14/07/21 08:50 AM
15

surprisedpikachuface.jpg
/r/MensRights12/07/21 03:09 PM
6

I'm not sure where I stand politically. I guess I'd call myself moderate. Some of PragerU's videos are really good (like one where they go to a native american community and ask them how they feel about cultural appropriation) and then there are videos like the one you're talking about here where I can't fathom how they can't see the ridiculous idiocy they're spewing.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 09:17 AM
2

To be fair QM is absurd even when proven true :) That's why it's so cool.
/r/MensRights07/07/21 07:19 AM
2

It's better than a lot of other countries. But still kinda feminist, and it's getting worse slowly. This is my subjective opinion of course. I lost a friend to wokeness because she was actively writing on a comedian's page for people to not go to his shows, based on rumors only. I tried to explain to her that unless what he did could actually be verified + we weren't there so he shouldn't be judged on it. But we do have a lot of cool things, like equal amount of paid maternity leave and such. In…
/r/MensRights06/07/21 07:58 AM
28

Poor cats :-/
/r/MensRights06/07/21 07:14 AM
1

Unfortunately it is working. It's like spam and phishing - it keeps getting pushed because it keeps working.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 12:43 PM
8

Actually, men are like this. Obviously not everyone, because I know that white cishet men may get offended (laughing). But most men are like this. Let's try an experiment: Actually, black people are like this. Obviously not everyone, because I know that black people may get offended (laughing). But most black people are like this. This kind of woman would not be my girlfriend for long. Have higher standards.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 12:25 PM
71

Pretty sure asking about things like heritage and sexual orientation is illegal in my country. You can't ask a woman if she's planning to become pregnant either. But yeah - welcome to cultural Marxism. It sucks.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 10:33 AM
29

Same. I have a good friend who would be a looker if she wasn't overweight. She still gets the same amount of matches on Tinder in a month that I get in a year. And yes, I know Tinder isn't a real life metric but it does provide an indication of how things are imho. It's much better for me meeting people in real life because I get to play on other strengths than looks.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 07:24 AM
75

Here's a nice video that talks about it, with actual researched numbers backing it up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qeYts4AzRUo The way I see it, the sexual market place used to be your immediate area. Now, with the internet, the marketplace has opened to be potentially worldwide. Men are no longer competing with the cool dude down the road. They're competing with everyone in a 200km radius. Thus the 20% most attractive men are having all sex with most of the women. Women's demands are sky hi…
/r/MensRights01/07/21 06:59 AM
4

Yes. I compare the way women choose men to how they choose jobs. I remember my exwife had 2 people interested in her. Me, and another guy. This guy was confident, good looking, a player etc. and all that. I was not, but she knew I would treat her well and she chose me (she told me this later). She would always ask me what specific qualities about her I loved and I could never give her an answer. Her question made no sense to me. Back then I didn't know how I felt about anything, but I knew I lov…
/r/MensRights25/06/21 12:39 PM
1

How ignorant can you be? People just take their business elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 07:06 PM
1

I wait and evaluate people on how they are in person. I've met so many people (not only those i wanted to date) who could hardly form a sentence in text, yet in person/on a date they talk all the time. I even went on a date with a girl who replied with 1 word sentences, and then complained i wasn't giving her enough attention. I just consider there to be two different skill sets in play and take it from there.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:30 PM
11

In my personal experience it's something they do when the person they feel is looking isn't someone they're interested in. To shield themselves. They feel exposed in a bad way. The classic "it's only creepy if he's not hot" thing.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:09 PM
3

It's not lonely, you just need new people in your life who share your goals.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 08:59 PM
14

I think these things are largely governed by supply and demand. Popular guys have a high supply of women and react naturally to it. I bet most of these find a woman later on, settle down and become average blobs and have no idea why.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 09:16 AM
5

Hence the word "supposedly".
/r/MensRights07/06/21 10:39 AM
1

Seems like he's making the classic mistake of thinking a title gives respect, when it's what earns you the title that gives respect. Your description of him reminds me of King Joffrey from Game Of Thrones: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sgYpGBGDsuE ​ Any man who must say "I am the king" is no true king
/r/askTRP06/06/21 01:11 PM
177

Maybe secure your stuff first. If you stop paying rent, the first thing she's gonna do is sell it. Or break it.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 01:06 PM
1

Respect is something that's given automatically to those deserving of it. His actions aren't inline with behavior that gives you respect.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 11:37 AM
12

Imagine being a child growing up and you see "kill all men". You have no chance to know any of the back story that supposedly makes this an acceptable thing - what kind of effect do you think it has? For a movement that's so interested in how much power there is in words, they sure know how to pick their catch phrases.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 10:36 AM
2

I didn't try to imply I was just this hugely successful guy (i'm not - yet), just wanted to say that not every woman is the same and that you should pick who gets to be in your life.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 10:34 AM
2

I evaluate people on a case by case basis. None of the women I've been with have been like that.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 08:36 AM
10

Obligated? Wtf. Reminds me of men who think their wives owe them sex just for existing. Sex is about adults engaging in an activity both find appealing. If one starts talking about obligations that'd be a red flag for me. Sexual activity should be performed because everyone involved wants to.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:31 AM
1

You should acquire assets instead of trading your time for money. That's not passive income.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 09:49 AM
2

Everything is getting politicized these days, even kid's shows. The movie will flip though. Hopefully the trend will run out of juice at some point.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 04:41 PM
3

Happens to us all.
/r/MensRights02/06/21 03:03 PM
1

A fitbit, or similar, maybe? Though I think the majority of the burned calories from lifting come from the passive burning you do as more muscle requires more upkeep.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 01:51 PM
-8

That seems a bit excessive. You don't like her actions? That's fine. But your strongly worded comment reveals a lot more about you than her. Hardly coming from a balanced frame of mind.
/r/MensRights02/06/21 01:44 PM
2

Depending on your goals in life, you could see it as an opportunity. I've learned a lot from having female friends, and maybe she has friends. Sometimes knowing one person, can lead to meeting another who in turn also has a network.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:31 PM
8

The way I read her message she saw you as a friend so the kiss attempt surprised the hell out of her. She says she's willing to spend time with you again to see if something else could develop (orbiter bait), but that seems suspect to me. If she's interested she's interested.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 11:48 AM
8

We were warned about this in the 1980s by a former KGB agent (https://youtu.be/pOmXiapfCs8). At this point i wouldn't be surprised if Russia or china will swoop through the west in 30 years. If this trend continues we'll be impotent by then.
/r/MensRights31/05/21 11:21 AM
11

Seems pretty likely to me that you're right.
/r/MensRights31/05/21 06:10 AM
4

I've found that it's natural to overcompensate for a while if you discover you've been doing something that you no longer want to be doing. Establishing new behaviors takes time.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 04:58 PM
1

Yeah I've thought a lot about his reaction since - or the lack of it. Honestly I'm not sure he even registered it was happening.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:38 AM
3

You know he didn't. They're married and have bought a house now. Could've been me 10 years ago. I think it's because every guy in the room was a neckbeard nerdy blob. I'm also a nerd but not a neckbeard. Compared to them I'm skinny. I try to dress well and make myself as great a person as I can so I think the contrast was really big.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:36 AM
7

I'm very far from a Chad, but I knew I was doing something right when I visited a couple, with some friends, to watch an event on TV and the girlfriend literally couldn't keep away from me even while her boyfriend was still in the room. I'd just met her and she sat against me like we were glued to each other, hand on my thigh etc. She eventually said she'd set me up with a friend since she wasn't in a position to have me. I'd never had something like that happen to me before.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 07:42 AM
1

Yes. I can't tell you how to live your life or what you need to do. Keep reading and educating yourself and you should figure it out yourself.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 03:58 PM
1

Because they have higher social value. Keep working on yourself and it'll happen for you too eventually.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 11:25 AM
1

Even though I'm an average guy I find it goes both ways. I make more of an effort with people I'm interested in, including the cute cashiers and lots of people I meet I don't care about. It's just the nature of human interaction. If you want something you have to do something. I think the idea is to make the playfulness and such a part of your personality so you don't have to think about doing it - because you *are* it. To me your question sounds a bit like "Why am I never receiving any letters …
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:19 AM
1

Look at it this way: she probably knows what she's doing. Wear a condom and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:14 AM
3

What a great age to find it at. Hope you grow up and have an awesome life.
/r/ThankTRP25/05/21 11:37 PM
1

On that we can agree.
/r/MensRights21/05/21 03:56 PM
1

Ok dude. There are more sides to a case than the ones you can see.
/r/MensRights21/05/21 03:44 PM
1

Trust me, you don't. I wouldn't have had to repeat myself that many times if you did.
/r/MensRights21/05/21 03:33 PM
0

You're just emphasizing the fact you don't get my point at all.
/r/MensRights21/05/21 03:12 PM
0

I'm not saying it's his fault. It's still possible for him to be the cause. If he had known better it wouldn't have happened. That's not his fault. Anyway we're going in circles because you r fuse to get it so I'm done.
/r/MensRights21/05/21 03:01 PM
1

This particular thread was about thirsty men. My point was that sometimes things just align in a specific unfortunate way through no direct fault of anyone. Thirsty men are only so because they don't know any better.
/r/MensRights21/05/21 02:20 PM
-1

That's not the issue I'm talking about at all.
/r/MensRights21/05/21 01:45 PM
2

It's relative to context imho. I've had women chase me just because I was the most attractive one in the group and I'm a 5-6ish kinda guy.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:07 PM
-1

You don't seem to comprehend my point.
/r/MensRights21/05/21 11:58 AM
0

Nobody said that, it's just an unfortunate consequence of not being in a place in your life where you're able filter women like these out.
/r/MensRights21/05/21 11:49 AM
12

In my experience women who say they don't want huge muscles are those with too low an SMV to get someone who has them. They say it to not have to think about that fact. Might also be that they're extremely insecure about themselves, so men who are softer (figuratively and literally) feel safer.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:47 AM
2

though when he made more I always insisted we split things evenly to avoid potential resentment down the road I wonder if this still applies now that she makes more than him.
/r/MensRights21/05/21 08:32 AM
1

What I'm trying to say is I see arousal and attraction as something sexual, and affection as something that comes from personal attachment and that it can exist without the sexual component but in such a case a relationship is no longer a relationship but a friendship.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 06:20 AM
4

I think they're different sides of the same coin. Imho this happens when you designate a group as "the others" and blame everything bad on them. It happened to jews in the 30s and 40s, and it's happening to men now. Obviously the amount of suffering experienced by jews back then was incomparable, but give the current trend 10-20 years... Seems people are getting more and more fed up with wokeness though. Most trends tend to reverse after a while.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:17 PM
26

Honestly, I think this is what happens when a majority of a generation doesn't have a father figure growing up. It's already proven it makes people much more likely to commit crime, it must have other consequences too. Reminds me of how racists often haven't interacted much with people of other races, and a man (think his name was Darren) who was black and befriended a KKK leader so he eventually left it out of his own volition. Humans tend to be hostile towards that which they don't know.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:23 PM
2

I love things that are black and white too, but I've learned 95% of the time it comes down to what feels right. Now that you're aware, that's the first step towards improvement :)
/r/askTRP20/05/21 01:57 PM
1

Exactly. Helping those people is reward in itself for me. I sometimes do things for acquaintances if it doesn't require too much effort. In these cases I consider it an investment as interaction always gives an opportunity to get to know someone. In other cases I do a quick mental calculation and simply say "thanks, but I'm not interested" if I don't feel like things are in my favor enough. Example of the latter: a guy I know wanted me to drive him to a party. He said there'd be free booze. Afte…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 01:27 PM
1

For those who are close to me (2-3 people), or family, I just help them without asking for anything in return as I know they would do it for me if I needed it and it's enough for me to know it'll help them. With people I don't know that well there has to be something in it for me.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 01:09 PM
38

I hate the "what are the chances" argument. Laws are based on what we want to happen, and what we don't. We don't want people to get falsely accused, and as such there should be a framework to handle it.
/r/MensRights20/05/21 12:41 PM
23

Knew it was only a matter of time before this cancer would spread.
/r/MensRights20/05/21 11:53 AM
1

When I said affection I meant the affection you show another person to indicate attachment. A gift is a way to show affection, but there are many other ways.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:16 AM
1

I swear it's like people think when you're in a stable relationship what turns you on suddenly magically changes. And they conflate affection and attraction. You can love someone as a person without them turning you on anymore.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:22 AM
2

You've been on the back burner until a better prospect came along. Do you really wanna be with a girl who thinks if you like nothing but scraps and leftovers she'll only indulge in if she can't find anything else?
/r/askTRP19/05/21 04:40 PM
2

That's creepy. You should make a move when you have the chance so it becomes organic. Breaking the customer/private person boundary like that is just...eek.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 09:03 AM
1

Wouldn't call this a shit test. A shit test is done to test your frame and how fragile it is. This seems more like an observation. Imho you could just go "yup" and move on.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:10 AM
1

All men should wear tracking chips. It's the only way society can be safe! /s
/r/MensRights17/05/21 11:06 AM
3

In my journey I've come to realize that a lot of it is being able to recognize an opportunity and then act on it. If you can do that, you're far ahead of most other people.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:06 PM
38

Wow that's cold. Seems borderline hostile. At the very least she was irritated. Perhaps you were pursuing too much. Doesn't seem like she's interested in any case. So I'd focus less on the ultimatum and more on that. Spend your time on someone who's interested, instead of trying to mine for gold in an empty mine.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:34 PM
170

I think people have a tendency to want others to make the same choices as them, because it makes them feel like they made the right choices. In my experience people get extremely uncomfortable when being faced with doubt over their choices. They'd rather live in a fantasy world than face facts. I've literally had a guy say "look, I know you're right but it just hurts so much I'd rather ignore it" when we were talking about his relationship.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:15 AM
1

Do not do it. Listen to your gut. When i was your age i bought a house with people i didn't wanna live with because i didn't listen to my gut feeling. I was miserable for 10+ years.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:23 AM
1

More knowledge just emphasizes who you are imho so if you don't like who you've become you should figure out how you got there.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:15 AM
13

Not everyone needs to live the same life! This was actually one of the most important lessons I had to learn to be content with my life. I'd spent 2/3 of my life trying to shape my life according to other people (because I didn't know any better). It was like trying to fit into pants that were too small. Eventually I had enough and I've never felt happier.
/r/MensRights12/05/21 06:28 AM
3

Ignore it and stay on your mission. Girls who are that picky will end up alone and 40.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:30 PM
9

I desperately want to take a break or explore my passions He needs to prioritize himself. He should not put up with this entitled bullshit just because reasons. I went through something similar and things don't get better when you allowed them to remain unchanged (I know it's obvious, but it wasn't for me back then). They only get better when you change something.
/r/MensRights11/05/21 01:58 PM
6

You are going to get wrecked if you put this girl on a pedestal. That's fine though. The best way to become competent is to have experiences.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:55 AM
-1

Whatever it is there's nothing wrong with it but...it's not heterosexuality.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 06:39 PM
3

As far as I know girls are less likely to be diagnosed because they usually mask better.
/r/MensRights10/05/21 06:35 PM
1

Indeed. The first video I ever saw from them was decent (don't remember what it was) but I quickly unsubscribed again. For some reason Youtube still thought I should see the video about marriage and my jaw dropped in disbelief at how ridiculous it was.
/r/MensRights09/05/21 10:29 AM
1

For every good video they make, they make 8 that piss me off.
/r/MensRights09/05/21 08:54 AM
11

If you don't, it means you have a lot of work to do.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:16 AM
5

Seems to be the classic cause and causality thing...
/r/MensRights07/05/21 04:13 PM
7

In my country the statistics explain that men are most likely to be killed outside the home, and women most likely to be so in the home. Then they lump both statistics together clouding the picture of what I think should be completely separate since street and domestic violence have completely separate causes.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 12:28 PM
5

For me it's kind of a test in itself. 90% of the girls I've dated have insisted on paying their half. The ones who didn't were eastern european, and they come from a different cultural background. Personally I'm not interested in a girl I'd have to take care of. If I wanted to take care of someone I'd get another cat.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:33 AM
1

You can get a new girlfriend. If it's that easy for her to be stolen she's not worth your time anyway.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:10 AM
14

The easier things are to get, the less they're worth. It's supply and demand. Might not change immediately but it would over time as the market's had time to adjust.
/r/MensRights04/05/21 03:40 PM
2

You're not responsible for his holding a grudge. If you say it as diplomatically as you possibly can there's nothing else you can do. Sometimes a bandaid has to be torn off and some friction will occur. It's just the nature of things.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 03:22 PM
3

Feelings and/or indoctrination don't care about facts.
/r/MensRights04/05/21 01:49 PM
17

Yes, we all know the only people preventing men of the world from committing terror are the mods here.... lol wtf
/r/MensRights04/05/21 07:31 AM
1

Maybe try and convince her to get help. If that doesn't work, consider your own well-being before anything else. You can't be there for your daughter if you're not there for yourself first.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 06:29 AM
2

A true friend would want you to succeed.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 06:05 AM
2

I don't look at these things in terms of gender, but in terms social standing and power. Those who have the most power now have the most to gain from this. The way I see it we're headed for a society like China's or the one described in 1984. A couple of years ago I'd say this was tinfoil hat territory but I don't think so anymore. Things are happening slowly and they will spill over to the rest of the western world, from the US. This is just me thinking out loud. I'm not an expert in politics.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:58 PM
2

Feminized men don't offer resistance the same way an independent assertive man does.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 12:24 PM
2

TRP is a guideline, not law.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 06:55 PM
19

I'd you haven't already check out Cassie Jaye's Red Pill movie. Although I'm not in the us it's what really opened my eyes to the fact that men actually aren't that well off unless they have status.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 04:00 PM
4

Don't you have anything better to do than stalk who she's following?
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:40 PM
1

They say those things based on how they're feeling at the moment. Pillow talk is not supposed to be scientifically correct.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 08:28 AM
11

Come on, it's posted by "author". It doesn't get more legitimate than that... /s
/r/MensRights27/04/21 08:08 AM
1

Civilization and technology might have evolved, but we're still the same human beings who ran around in fur clothes and threw stones at other tribes. Our instincts and desires are based on that.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 11:38 AM
1

Entirely sure that guy had a major crush on the cute girl.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 08:13 PM
5

Don't drop hints. People often don't get hints. Tell them overtly.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:41 AM
3

Don't know, don't care. The point was for him to use judgment. And if Spain is such a problem, there are 100s of other countries in the world.
/r/MensRights23/04/21 11:17 AM
18

Not all women are crazy, so maybe just adjust your filter for who you allow into your life.
/r/MensRights23/04/21 10:04 AM
6

Speak out and report it. The way to a positive future is to work together.
/r/MensRights23/04/21 06:42 AM
1

Well the issue is a bit broader than just the US. Most other developed countries don't have society set up such that service is one of the ways you can escape poverty. Most countries don't have people lining up for service. Because most people don't want to go and die for no reason. The whole principle of being shipped off to die, without your say, is appalling.
/r/MensRights23/04/21 06:08 AM
6

What's your reply if you get kicked? "Chill man it's just a boot"
/r/MensRights23/04/21 03:22 AM
2

The point is she's obviously manipulating you. Not whether she's right. Trying to make you dance like a puppet. It's one thing to say she would like certain things, but to outright say it like that, like you owe her something for some magical reason? That's bullshit.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 03:14 AM
1

What effort has she been putting in? A relationship is an endeavor involving 2 people. She has to put in at least the same amount of effort. She sounds like a leech who's watched too many movies and just expects you to give her stuff and attention all the time.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:36 PM
8

Your kicking ass reminds them they're stuck and don't know what to do about it. Ignore. But maybe find new circles to move in. Find people with things in common with you.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:33 PM
5

My words didn't come the way I wanted. I want them to have freedom to be self determines but I also want them to have the responsibility that comes with it. They generally don't have the latter at the moment. That means they're being coddled, and i believe that I'd you treat people like children all their lives they tend to act like children.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 04:08 PM
4

What i meant, and probably said poorly, is that I think every human has the right to determine for themselves what they wanna do with their lives.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 02:59 PM
4

Women have more influence self determination now, which I actually think is good. Apart from the fact that men are unable to say no to women now, so their influence is being exercised without restraint and it's only going to get worse.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 02:00 PM
10

People are highly influenced by what society tells them to like, to the point they don't listen to their own needs and wants. Movies and stuff tells society that nice guys are what to go for completely ignoring biology. This is the whole reason it's called the Red Pill, and why these subs exist - because the truth is hidden in plain sight but you have to actively do something to grasp it. I was talking to a a guy once about relationships and stuff and after I'd explained my view he said (and I'm…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 01:34 PM
7

Today feminism has devolved into children who complain about the world not conforming to their needs. Instead of being the change they want to see, they point fingers until someone does it for them.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 10:11 AM
41

Shit, imagine what she'd do if you were actually involved with her. Run away like she was radioactive.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:14 AM
12

What matters is whether or not your life is controlled by you and your choices. You do NOT make decisions based upon the fear of what others will view you as or think of you. As someone who's made decisions based on others' needs in the past, it can lead you down a dark road if you don't make decisions for yourself. It's like cooking a frog. To begin with it's not so bad, but it gets worse and worse but happens so slowly you don't notice it.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 06:28 AM
3

I'm not. I'm seeing a pattern in western society.
/r/MensRights14/04/21 08:59 PM
4

My point was that when you push terms like "toxic masculinity" you indirectly say the two are completely connected and that only men can be toxic.
/r/MensRights14/04/21 06:35 PM
3

What's stupid is not walking away. Whether you force her to quit OnlyFans, give you some of the money or whatever - she's still the person who wants to be on OnlyFans. Restrictions don't change the underlying person. You have no direct control over her actions and feelings, only your own. The real question is why you want to be in a relationship with someone like that. I'm sure she's fun, but maybe she's better suited as a plate. You're basically discussing whether you should be a cuck or a pimp…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 12:41 PM
15

I'm not in a position to tell her what to do with her life, but I'd walk away from someone like that. I don't care about the money - I can make my own. My problem would be in being with someone who requires so much external validation she has an onlyfans. No thanks. Giant red flag.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 12:29 PM
7

Both behaviours come from the same place, a wounding, but are expressed in ways that are particular to masculine and feminine energies. This could apply to everything humans do.
/r/MensRights14/04/21 11:42 AM
31

There is masculine behavior, and there's toxic behavior. They are separate things. Connecting them with ridiculous terms like "toxic masculinity" is pure propaganda.
/r/MensRights14/04/21 09:18 AM
13

Suppose that'd have made it 6666.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:49 AM
3

Of course. Lots of RP facts are actually out in the open, but people have been conditioned to only see a specific big picture, so they sort out the things that aren't relevant to that picture. Like hypergamy etc.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 01:53 PM
2

I say go ahead then. In any case I find it more important to do something, and gain experience in life, than to be dead set on doing the right thing. The latter will often make you full of doubt and not take action.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 01:33 PM
10

Contrary to what most of the RP community says I have no problem with having female friends. Especially because I'm lucky enough to have one that has no problem with being completely honest about her nature (in line with TRP). It was a great learning opportunity when I was new to TRP. That said, it can only work if you have the same expectations of each other. If you want to fuck her and act like a friend, you're being dishonest and acting without integrity, and it will create an uneven and fake…
/r/askTRP13/04/21 08:45 AM
3

Works for so many other things in life too, like negotiations etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 08:39 AM
3

I think it's a very human way to act if you're just going through the motions and don't really care about the underlying philosophy. People tend to act like they feel like, and then find justifications afterwards. That's normal. Just goes to show that when religious people say they don't have this and that activity in their communities, it's really because people are suppressed and controlled like children. Better to equip them to make good choices instead of dictating what they can and can't do…
/r/MensRights12/04/21 01:53 PM
8

Because men and women are different, whether people want it or not.
/r/MensRights12/04/21 12:03 PM
3

1) This is the opposite of outcome independence 2) As far as I know, you have to actually cancel your account to not show up. If you just uninstall the app I think you'll still show up for a bit until their system sees you're not active anymore.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 12:01 PM
2

It's Twitter but with videos.
/r/MensRights12/04/21 10:00 AM
3

People aren't robots where, if you make the correct sequence of choices, you'll unlock stuff. Life is not a video game. Go for what you feel like. Also it's more important to make choices and gain experience, rather than making the right choice. The "right" choice is an illusion your mind presents you with when you have no outcome independence.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:43 AM
20

Feminists thinking they have a monopoly on fairness, reminds me of religious fanatics thinking they have a monopoly on morality.
/r/MensRights12/04/21 07:47 AM
2

There's already a word for it: egitarianism.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 07:03 AM
13

I would probably say she can get the bill next time we go out. Although, just assuming you'd be paying doesn't bode well. In any case you can use it as a quality test. Personally I wouldn't date women who feel like I'm supposed to take care of them. If I wanted to do that, I'd get another cat. If you're in a western country and dating someone from another culture there might be differences in which case I find communication is the key. I call it expectation calibration (it has a much smoother wo…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:30 PM
22

Stop using porn, and it'll wear off.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 08:46 AM
4

My advice would be to study social skills. They're called a skill because that's what they are, like learning to play a guitar. Focus on that first, because imho trying to get women without social skills is trying to run before being able to walk. My suggestion would be a resouce like https://www.scienceofpeople.com/
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:43 PM
5

I think it's a safe bet she hadn't thought that far ahead and was just reacting instinctively.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 10:00 PM
1

How? If penetration doesn't guarantee it breaks, it's not a reliable indicator.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 12:32 PM
3

There are so many reasons to not use Google. I'd recommend something like DuckDuckGo instead.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 11:49 AM
2

With a lack of information a person is likely to fill in the blanks with what they already know. Since they have no idea what men want, they list the things they're looking to know about a guy.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 11:48 AM
153

Because they assume they know what every guy is thinking, because they've been told that "guys literally only want 1 thing and it's disgusting". When the only tool you have is a hammer, every problem looks like a nail.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 10:12 AM
1

Well, I've been in your situation. The girl I felt this way about was the reason I found the Red Pill. Although she was opposite of yours in some way (mine was overly confident and non-needy) I believe our situations are comparable. My advice would be to just take things as they come. If you enjoy your time with her, enjoy it. Everything in life is temporary anyway. For me it was a huge learning opportunity that ended up giving me valuable life lessons. But try and be objective about it. Sounds …
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:37 AM
1

Don't you have an opinion on this yourself? Does this list not trigger anything within you?
/r/askTRP06/04/21 09:23 AM
8

So Reddit is officiallly intersectional. No surprise there. It's a very racist/bigotted attitude, even towards the groups they're trying to "protect".
/r/MensRights06/04/21 06:48 AM
5

It can break for so many reasons that have nothing to do with sex. Horse riding for example. It's completely unreliable.
/r/MensRights01/04/21 04:51 PM
12

Personally I use the term egalitarian. I'll fight for what I find fair, regardless of what's between your legs. Both genders have struggles and both should be acknowledged. If people ask whether I'm a feminist I say no and ask them to define what a feminist is. It's like a religion these days - so many different interpretations. If people are so shortsighted they'll have nothing to do with me just for not calling myself a feminist, they've been indoctrinated to the point where I don't want them …
/r/MensRights31/03/21 09:13 AM
1

Testosterone levels have been in a steady drastic downward trend for years. I suspect that's why. Probably all the junk in the environment and the junk we stuff our food slots with.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:05 PM
1

I have no problem with it. Women have problems that deserve to be adressed. What i have a problem with is nobody cares about men.
/r/MensRights28/03/21 07:20 AM
36

After a novel like this there should probably be a tldr.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 07:10 AM
5

Seems kinda sweet to me. Does seem like she's a little ignorant though. Like the only legitimate way to express love is the way she was brought up. I don't see how it has to do with feminism though.
/r/MensRights28/03/21 06:52 AM
0

This sub is for what works and what doesn't. Not morals. That said, gaming other girls has a high probability of generating drama, and drama isn't an ingredient in a happy life, but whatever floats OP's boat.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 08:50 PM
73

I feel like men and women benefit from having spaces both where both genders mix, and where they are seperated. The problem is if one is banned and the other is not.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 03:45 PM
34

An attack is an attack.
/r/MensRights26/03/21 11:36 AM
4

I was just doing this to make you jealous She's toxic, and aware of it. Which is even more toxic.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 02:32 PM
12

I'm just a white man but having women tell men to be more in touch with their feelings, only to invalidate those feelings when those men are discriminated against with their bullshit is annoying. We have a political party here that's a bit of a laughing stock because most of their members are blatantly stupid and racist. Everyone I know dislikes them, but many of them use the same logic as that party to express sentiments against men as whole and if you point it out you're either attacked or lab…
/r/MensRights24/03/21 09:40 PM
1

Thats a normal question yes, but as i understood your post you were talking her asking you to account for every minute.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 04:20 PM
8

How much should I tell her? Wrong question. What gives her the right to keep tabs on you like that? She's telling you to jump, and you're asking "how high?".
/r/askTRP24/03/21 02:12 PM
13

The difference between a relationship and a friendship is attraction and sex. No sex, no relationship, no deal. Took me 10+ years of torment to realize I couldn't fix my ex-wife's depression. I kept thinking if I just did the right things and said the right things I could help her overcome it. All that did was drag me down into a black hole and I didn't even realize it. Obviously if you have a nice relationship and your girl suddenly starts having problems you shouldn't just leave immediately. H…
/r/MensRights24/03/21 09:47 AM
2

In my country women work 33 hours per week on average, and men 37. Women are also much more likely to be employed in governmental functions, so it's pretty obvious already there why they'd make less money on average.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 08:39 AM
23

Replace the word "men" with blacks, muslims, whatever and you have tour answer.
/r/MensRights23/03/21 06:40 PM
1

Well, all I could lose is an account on Reddit so... :)
/r/MensRights23/03/21 02:17 PM
2

Muslims have a problem, they need to make sure other muslims don't commit terror and/or crime "omg, you fuckin' racist!" ​ Men have a problem, they need to make sure other men don't commit crime "well obviously"
/r/MensRights23/03/21 01:52 PM
1

It's in the sidebar, but things like social skills (I find this to be the most important as you get nowhere in life without it), being attractive, having a healthy mindset (being proactive instead of reactive, not relying on external factors for happiness, etc.).
/r/askTRP22/03/21 10:04 PM
2

Was talking in general terms. I'm not American, and not everyone else on Reddit is. I absolutely think men should be able to withdraw too.
/r/MensRights22/03/21 12:04 PM
1

It's not some sort of trick, like you put in the Konami code and win the girl. You grow yourself into a high value man and eventually you'll be the one girls leave other guys on read for. It takes time and effort.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 11:09 AM
3

Support Cassie by purchasing it here instead: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXVJX0fmowk
/r/MensRights22/03/21 11:01 AM
-9

the man should also have the legal power to withdraw from the financial trauma of unwanted child support This'd put a huge burden on the government of any country it would be implemented in. While I completely agree with you, I don't think it's realistic to expect it to become a thing.
/r/MensRights22/03/21 10:57 AM
1

The point is you give her validation and get nothing in return.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 10:50 PM
4

No, they just don't care about it happening to men.
/r/MensRights21/03/21 04:44 PM
3

The cognitive dissonance necessary to say shit like that is astounding.
/r/MensRights21/03/21 04:43 PM
20

Sure, there's a reason they're choosing the wrong men in the first place.
/r/MensRights19/03/21 06:19 PM
106

If theyre expected to do All chores theyre obviously getting with the wrong men. Thats not my problem. I don't know a single man who has that expectation.
/r/MensRights19/03/21 04:19 PM
17

If you don't like it, don't Tweet it.
/r/MensRights19/03/21 10:33 AM
1

Mustve misread. Was quite a Long sentence.
/r/MensRights18/03/21 07:31 PM
2

Where did I say one was worse? I'm just saying there are differences in what causes them.
/r/MensRights18/03/21 05:20 PM
10

Different causes, I'd think, mean you have to work on those issues differently.
/r/MensRights18/03/21 11:27 AM
14

Using my country as an example, statistics show that outside the home men overwhelmingly kill men but in the home men overwhelmingly kill women. Imho those two types of murder shouldn't be merged together. Getting killed by someone you don't know is vastly different from getting killed by someone you know.
/r/MensRights18/03/21 09:42 AM
5

Think of gender relations as a market and in terms of supply and demand. If attention is given freely and without giving anything in return it lessens in value. The same for women who are attractive. They have loads of guys hitting them up so they become picky because the supply is high. On the flip side women who reach a certain age can become less attractive. Even more so if they have kids. Their supply (men, attention etc) will start to fall and they become more and more desperate because wha…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 06:22 AM
3

I remember being at a party. I weighed the most I ever had (that's not a lot for me though), was wearing a shirt that was too big and hadn't accepted that I needed to go bald because my hair was so thin and I was thirsting for her attention. Still I was confused as to why the girl I was interested in went with the buff confident entrepreneur lol. We all have to start somewhere.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 08:56 AM
6

According to statistics the same logic can be used for black people, immigrants etc. for various countries. Thus we end up with the same logic far right political groups use to demonize those groups. That should say it all.
/r/MensRights15/03/21 03:27 PM
4

Imagine the outrage if somebody said that about muslims or something.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 08:10 AM
2

Amazon’s computer models were trained to vet applicants by observing patterns in resumes submitted to the company over a 10-year period. Most came from men, a reflection of male dominance across the tech industry. If you feed it mostly resumes made by men, and then tell it to look for that pattern isn't it self explanatory that it'd prefer men? By the same token, if you did the same experiment in a field such as nursing you'd get an AI that preferred women? Seems like a poorly designed AI more t…
/r/MensRights12/03/21 01:58 PM
5

I'd say it's a close tie with the chinese government. They're doing things the Nazi regime could only dream of. And nobody's doing anything because we depend on their slave factories.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 01:41 PM
-1

If America's way of doing things worked there'd be world peace by now.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 10:00 AM
5

As long as you interact with, and subscribe to, things that interest you it's no worse than Reddit. That's not saying much though.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 09:59 AM
3

There's nothing wrong with emotional attachment. There is if it opposes your goals in life. I find it much more valuable to have the integrity to act on what I feel is right, even if it later on turns out to be wrong. In that case I will have learned a lesson that I can use for the rest of my life. If you want to be there for her, do it and see where it goes. It's not a crime. Allow yourself to make possible mistakes. If it wasn't the thing for you, you will eventually resurface.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:56 PM
2

There could be so many reasons, and yes - one of them could be she's not that intersted. And that's ok. Your job is to look out for you, so if you have other prospects you hit them up before anything else.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 11:34 AM
16

Of course, but forgiveness and empathy don't really make sense if nothing changes. If they just use it as an excuse to keep walking all over you then. I also believe in accepting things you can't change. Only you can tell what's really the appropriate way to handle it.
/r/MensRights10/03/21 07:55 AM
3

I think it's real in the way that you always have to live with your actions. Even if nobody finds out, you know. At the very least it leads to drama, and drama isn't part of a happy life. It's also a breach of a verbal contract you've made, unless otherwise agreed. For some that's a problem.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:37 AM
20

If people need to be cuddled and wrapped in cotton to be nice to you, you don't need them in your life anyway.
/r/MensRights10/03/21 07:25 AM
0

The reason I said it like that is there's no consensus on what a feminist is these days. There are so many ways to be a feminist today that simply saying "I'm a feminist" has no meaning.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 09:58 PM
0

tbf that was a pretty shitty gift...
/r/MensRights09/03/21 12:13 PM
2

The video has been made private.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 12:12 PM
1

I don't get it..I don't see a meme, just a browser...
/r/MensRights09/03/21 12:07 PM
2

If I sent money to any of my female friends (they call themselves feminists) they would promptly send it back and ask me what the fuck I was doing.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 09:05 AM
-1

Don't blame all women for one woman's wrongdoing.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 08:35 AM
3

Right place at the right time. After finding the red pill it's become my mission to become a man who can have sex because he did something for it - not just because the dice rolled in my favor. One of those right times led me to the Red Pill though, so it's important to value the past as it helps shape who you are today.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 02:10 PM
2

Keep trying. Everyone goes through that when learning new stuff.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:31 PM
6

There are a million reasons why people do what they do, and most of them have nothing to do with you. Should've just replied "ok" and moved on.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 12:54 PM
1

I wasn't presenting it as a fact. I was just presenting the impression I have from watching videos with middle eastern religious leaders. Luckily people follow religions in vastly different ways so just because a religious leader says something doesn't mean everyone of that religion follows that instruction to the letter.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 12:28 PM
8

Butthurt for the purpose of being butthurt. Find another jacket.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 12:05 PM
7

I won’t even look at 99% of the women who are close to my age I feel the same way and I'm only in my mid 30s lol.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 11:07 AM
3

I did not know that was the case. That's ridiculous.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 09:58 AM
1

My understanding is using the thumb method doesn't count as beating. Anyway, I'm not trying to start a debate on which religion is superior. I'm not religious. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39K9K1T7wvg
/r/MensRights03/03/21 11:47 AM
1

This is interesting because it's actually a rule in Islam, as far as I know.
/r/MensRights03/03/21 07:19 AM
39

One of the biggest non-sex Red Pills I've found is that schools are designed to churn out employees, not entrepreneurs.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/21 12:53 PM
2

You write like she's an unruly minion who's not doing what she's supposed to...wtf.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 09:42 AM
2

If rather call it a double shit test lol
/r/askTRP27/02/21 11:31 PM
10

Maybe, maybe not. People aren't robots where action X triggers response Y. Try it, see how it goes and gain experience. It's the only true way to progress. Focus on learning instead of dividing outcomes into "success" and "failure".
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:31 AM
1

Except it blocks me for not being in New Zealand
/r/MensRights26/02/21 10:47 PM
1

Seems it requires a VPN to see it...
/r/MensRights26/02/21 12:50 PM
1

You can still catch STDs though.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:47 PM
1

I mean, we used to be hunter/gatherers. I wonder who did the hunting?
/r/MensRights25/02/21 06:08 PM
3

Yes...a long time ago. It's full of gatekeepers.
/r/MensRights25/02/21 04:52 PM
11

Fighting fire with fire, not understanding why they get burned.
/r/MensRights25/02/21 01:28 PM
2

I feel the opposite. I think it's more about your interaction. The location is just an excuse for you to interact. I've been on a date where we walked around town and talked in heavy rain and it went quite well.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 07:20 AM
10

If you take a look at OkCupid's blogs, you'll find a report they did on who men and women are attracted to. For women the age of men they were into rose with their age. For men it was a constant of preferring women around 20-22 years of age - so yes. You're normal.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:45 PM
1

The same as without muscles...
/r/askTRP20/02/21 09:18 PM
1

I'm like a 5 or 6 so no. Besides, where I am Tinder is a sea of single moms, Hinge is empty. I used to prefer going out and meeting people, but that's not really a thing anymore.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:16 AM
6

Because it's framed as if only men can be condescending jerks. We do *not* have a monopoly on that. It's a way to make it hard for men to make counter arguments because anything you say after that will make it seem like you're digging a deeper hole.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 09:39 AM
2

Another word you could use would be influence. The more influence you have, the more power and resources you have and the more attractive you are for offspring (biologically speaking).
/r/askTRP15/02/21 09:34 AM
2

Instead of trying not to sound butthurt, worry about becoming a person who doesn't get actually butthurt over something like this.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 09:01 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/entrepreneursincars seems to be pretty good imho.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 08:20 AM
5

Do I bring it up with my chick? Why? I’d consider his Smv slightly higher than mine So? She's not with him. This is a you problem, not a him problem. more IG followers A person with healthy and good priorities in life doesn't care about trivial things like these. Is he a better person than you because he has more followers?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 09:23 AM
1

Try and get proof you didn't rape her and then never talk to her again. That she got raped fucking sucks for her, but she's a ticking time bomb for you. She needs help.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 11:32 PM
1

I'm focused on self improvement as well, so for all the other things I'm just hitting sources and communities that deal with those things.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 11:43 AM
2

Yeah. I think the younger generations today are too childlike. They haven't learned their actions/choices have consequences, that sometimes people say bad things about you etc.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 11:29 PM
6

Indeed. And the other way around, a person who gave consent can just go "i was forced to give consent". Back to square one.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 06:02 PM
2

I find it utterly amazing that in the 1st world war it was kind of known it was a thing, and by the 2nd there was a word for it yet veterans are still fighting in so many countries to get support for this. Both in practice and in everyday situations.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 03:52 PM
24

As a Dane I find it completely ridiculous. If you can force yourself on another person, you can also force that person to give their consent in this app rendering it completely useless.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 03:49 PM
6

She's not interested, and she's too afraid of directness to tell you directly so she handled it in a passive manner. Disregard and move on.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 03:44 PM
2

You're welcome. Keep in mind I'm not an expert, so please do your own research.
/r/MensRights04/02/21 12:18 PM
3

History is often presented as men always having the vote, and women not. That's not the case though. In most western countries it was only business owners, and people in high society generally, who could vote. The reason men received the vote was because of them being drafted. Regular men were forced to fight and risk their lives, and couldn't even vote. For that reason, political battles were fought and men received the vote on the condition the draft remained. Then women got the vote later on,…
/r/MensRights04/02/21 11:32 AM
1

Not in my opinion. Life is full of things we have no direct control over, other people being one of the main things.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:15 PM
3

One could argue that it applies to everything in life. Nothing is truly yours forever. Nothing is forever. I've never seen anyone of significance on the RP sub claim the classic sentence wasn't true though.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 02:49 PM
15

They probably don't have their settings to that low an age.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 07:44 PM
5

Reminds me of what a certain political party said about jews a long time ago.
/r/MensRights01/02/21 06:41 AM
1

Whoever "they" are, they're probably not the kind of people who care about facts.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 10:52 PM
1

You don't need abundance to have an abundance mindset.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 10:46 PM
3

Should've ignored her after "I don't feel like hanging out today". You fed her the validation she wanted. She knows you wanna fuck her and now holds all the cards.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 01:24 PM
3

About sums it up. The nazi regime would be envious of what China's doing these days.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 04:31 PM
3

For all we know it could've been a question about her car. We'll never know.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 09:36 AM
7

As always, aim for a meetup. I went on a date with a girl once and talking to her online seemed like a chore because she gave short answers and stuff. The date went fine and talking was not a problem then. We'd already set up a date 1 week in the future so I thought I'd keep the talking to a minimum because I didn't want to have to drag answers out of her. Not something I wanna spend my time on. After 2 days she wrote me half a page asking why I wasn't giving her enough attention basically. She …
/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:55 PM
6

It's not an illusion, it's just a lot harder than it's made out to be. Life is not a Disney story. Like everything in life you learn from experiences, and if you find the right person you can learn a lot from them. As long as you learn, nothing is pointless. You'll probably have to look for quite some time though, so have some fun in the meantime.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 08:54 PM
4

I agree. I think it's important to share and cooperate as a species, but...like...not your wife/gf. Might also just be an open relationship. I've visited a couple before where the wife's boyfriend was visiting too. Creating a really awkward social dynamic.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 04:43 PM
14

Some people are turned on by it. Dunno why. My guess would be something about social proof. That his wife is so hot other people wanna fuck her, but really she's (mostly) his. Probably makes him feel alpha in some fucked up way.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 04:41 PM
2

If your goal is something you have no direct control over you're headed for trouble down the road. That's why your mission should be you. Then everything else will fall into place as a side effect.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 12:36 PM
6

If you can truly say you don't want to fuck her you can be friends because then you have the same expectations. You might learn a lot from it. If you're thirsting for her, it's going to be a drain on her if she's a mature person and if she's not she's gonna use you for validation. Imho.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 12:34 PM
1

Needs a source. Anyone could've written this.
/r/MensRights24/01/21 10:36 AM
2

You'll probably need some time to adjust. It can be a big paradigm shift.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 08:09 AM
1

At this point I'm just going to presume you don't understand English properly or something. Every sentence you write is hateful bullshit, yet I'm the problem.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 11:20 PM
1

I was not making a statement about muslims... I have no problem with them. I was using an example for comparison. How you can pick up anything racist from what I said can only be because you wanted to. Anyway, I hope you keep reading this sub, maybe something will get through to you eventually.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 11:06 PM
1

that's like saying "muslims are bad, but some of them are good".
/r/MensRights22/01/21 10:52 PM
1

Because you're lumping all men into the same box. Some men are bad (just as some women are), and for that reason you think it applies to every man. That makes you a sexist.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 10:26 PM
1

So men can be oppressed because of their class? You just said men have never been oppressed. You also said "men do bad things". You're sexist or a troll.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 10:14 PM
1

Men have never been opressed? Wow. You obviously know nothing of history. Do your research before you say such things. It's true, those with all the power in the past were men, but not all men had power. Power was for the upper class. Every regular man was drafted for the military to die with no say, and they couldn't vote. It was only later men demanded the vote in exchange for the draft, and after that women want to be able to vote too. But you only hear about the last part today, because it d…
/r/MensRights22/01/21 09:51 PM
1

It is what it is. You can only change how you react to it, so just react to it casually.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 05:09 PM
1

And that is completely irrelevant to my point. I could've said jews, asians or whatever and nothing would've changed about my point.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 05:04 PM
2

Sure I can. If the same sentence would make people offended with "black person" in it instead of "man" then it's a problem, regardless of either group's circumstances, because the groups aren't what's important here. It's the thing being said.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 12:00 PM
2

That wasn't the point at all.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 06:21 AM
1

You missed the point completely.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 06:20 AM
3

Personally I don't find that to be an appropriate response to things, but you do you :)
/r/MensRights21/01/21 11:45 AM
1

Now I want to see this girl again. Looks like she doesn't want to see you again. Move on. Take a hint.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 08:04 AM
3

Countries have defense needs.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 08:03 AM
1

If that's changed it's on you. TRP gives you tools, how you use them is up to you. Women are still human beings and some will be trustworthy, and some will not.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 07:23 AM
750

Replace "men" with "black people" and you get a whole different post...
/r/MensRights21/01/21 07:16 AM
29

To me it's a yin/yan kind of thing. So many things in nature are, yet people insist on division and hatred.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 05:57 PM
1

One thing is what you see in the news, another is how it works in real life. The friends I have with kids figure out how they want to run the household and they share equally in the responsibilities. I really don't see that as a problem.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 11:54 AM
9

I always give up my pussy If she feels like she's giving it up, it seems to me she's doing it to get something else. Probably commitment. The way I see it sex should be to mutual benefit and enough of a reward in itself. Probably not much you can do if you don't want to be in a relationship with her.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 11:06 AM
6

Just go for the sake of having fun and enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 09:41 AM
1

That's exactly the purpose of asktrp, and the reason why not everyone writes on the main sub.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:37 AM
48

I don't think it's too much to ask to not be put in the same box as rapists, on account of me not being one. Wasn't there a whole movement to combat excatly this sort of thinking in the US? Like...people were tired of being stereotyped because of their skin color or something? But sure, keep alienating those who would otherwise agree with you. See how it works out for you.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 09:42 PM
1

This is it. I was that guy. Once.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 03:09 PM
1

Well that sounds good.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 02:49 PM
4

OP will have to make that call, depending on the place he's in. If HR isn't an option there's only quitting or playing the same games against her - either can be problematic/dramatic.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 02:11 PM
4

I would be more interested in the reasons behind it. If she paints every relationship ending as being the other person's fault entirely, you know something's up. Mature people take responsibility for their part, even in unpleasant things. And aren't ashamed of doing wrong because it leads you down a path of betterment.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 02:10 PM
6

Write it down every time you hear of it (who, date etc) for a while and then go to HR.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:37 AM
3

"teach men not to rape" is the same as saying "teach muslims not to commit terror". No further explanation needed.
/r/MensRights18/01/21 11:36 AM
4

Well, it wouldn't be in mine. Also I'm quite a bit older than you :)
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:34 AM
2

The age old <your age> / 2 + 7 works pretty well for my tastes. Not that I use it to determine whether I wanna date someone, but it just happens to describe my preference well.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:43 AM
2

Most Muslim women are used to it, but iranian women seem to hate it. Probably because it was forced on them in the 70s and on. There are still iranian women who remember what it was like without it.
/r/MensRights17/01/21 10:03 AM
3

Might wanna look into what islam actually is. Doesn't mean every muslim is a horrible person, but islam really isn't like other religions. The Quran is both religious and political.
/r/MensRights17/01/21 10:02 AM
22

It makes his claim of misandry sound like "fragile masculinity" while hers "empowering". Make sure to pick up these signs boys. Modern feminism summed up.
/r/MensRights14/01/21 01:55 PM
1

Probably have to set your status as single.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 11:20 AM
11

Honestly I don't get their point. Times are hard, some women make money on OnlyFans and some don't. The market is saturated. No shit... If they wanna be prostitutes that's fine, and OnlyFans is quite a safe alternative to meeting people in real life, so if it works for them...
/r/askTRP14/01/21 08:45 AM
1

If you're interested in her: yes If you're not: no
/r/askTRP13/01/21 07:13 PM
3

Fantastic video.
/r/MensRights13/01/21 08:55 AM
1

I think it's more than that. Biologically men want to impregnate many women, where women can only get pregnant every 9 months roughly. This creates an imbalance as it's an investment for her and not him. As such, women have to filter the men they deem suitable. In terms of supply and demand, they control the supply and so it makes sense for them to have propositioners, rather than being the propositioners.
/r/MensRights12/01/21 10:29 PM
2

What is your goal with girls at the moment? Just sex?
/r/askTRP12/01/21 10:25 PM
3

Would be entertaining to have a website that had examples of derogatory stuff like this post next to similar WW2 propaganda.
/r/MensRights12/01/21 10:15 PM
9

There's a difference between interest and clinginess. The former is great, the latter is annoying. To me it's simply a social function. Neediness is bad in any context.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 10:11 PM
2

This is going to flop so badly.
/r/MensRights12/01/21 12:20 PM
1

I don't think it's the words themselves so much as what's being implied with them.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:42 PM
39

I think a lot of the things described on TRP are really just social mechanisms. Maybe some mechanisms are more likely to be experienced by men, and some by women. Anyway, yes. It's normal. If you feel it, it's legitimate and you'll have to figure out how to deal with it. I had a girl write me a page long paragraph after 1 date. I hadn't been much in contact via text because she was giving me 1 word replies and stuff and we had already set up the next date. A couple of days after the 1st date she…
/r/askTRP11/01/21 02:42 PM
109

because he had raised the child for many years This is incentivizing fraud. Disgusting. Dupe a man long enough and you're home free.
/r/MensRights11/01/21 01:08 PM
1

My recommendation would be stoicism. Here's a presentation by the man who's written, what I consider to be, the most well known author on the subject: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yhn1Fe8cT0Q
/r/askTRP11/01/21 12:21 PM
1

Learn to handle your emotions, rather than suppressing them. It's not healthy. Maybe look into the stoicism philosophy or buddhism.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 11:07 AM
2

In the context of Covid19 I get this, otherwise I think it's wrong on so many levels.
/r/MensRights11/01/21 07:23 AM
1

The traditional way of life in the west was constricting but secure. You knew what you had to do, and you did it. Those who wanted another way we're outcasts. Now we have immense freedom (which is slowly being rolled back but by bit now) but freedom carries responsibility for one self, and honestly I think most people don't thrive when they have to set their own goals. We're also a society that now teaches other people's opinions are important so we ha e people growing up who take absolutely eve…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:31 PM
2

Personally I think TRP has this particular concept mixed up. Imho the high body count is a result of other unresolved issues that also cause the lack of pair bonding. I'm sure that if such a person sought help with the underlying psychological issues they would be able to pair bond eventually.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:40 AM
7

These days everybody's writing, but few deserve to be called journalists.
/r/MensRights08/01/21 09:14 PM
0

Who cares?
/r/askTRP08/01/21 06:51 PM
3

I feel like you're missing an "other" option. I'd call myself an egalitarian first and foremost. I want things to be fair for both men and women, but I'm a man and honestly it seems men have some very big issues that are largely ignored. Women have issues too, but most issues being brought up in mainstream are misleading at best.
/r/MensRights08/01/21 10:07 AM
2

You didn't fuck up, you learned something. Saying you fucked up is a judgment call, revealing the fact that you're much too invested in the outcome of a situation you have no direct control over.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 10:02 AM
1

They did it out of ignorance, like a child wanting ice cream all the time. You'd be doing it out of spite. You'd be the evil person in this. This is incel logic.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 09:58 AM
9

I've seen simping defined as paying for the bread but only being allowed to smell it. That definition perfectly applies to OnlyFans. Besides, why the hell would pay for something you can get for free? Use the money for investing or something instead of throwing it into a black hole. I have no problem with girls being on OnlyFans. They can do what they want, it doesn't affect me. And yes, I do think it's better for them as they can do it on their own terms. Still, I would never pay for it, or be …
/r/askTRP08/01/21 08:51 AM
19

For those who disagree: it's like when you cook a frog in a french kitchen. You put it in the pot, and slowly turn up the heat. Do it slow enough and it won't notice it's being cooked alive. This is how the big brother state is going to be implemented.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 11:16 PM
2

As far as I can tell, body weight is a viable alternative to lifting. There's an app called Freeletics which is helpful for it.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 07:43 PM
1

Spelling correction on my phone trolled me apparently.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:54 PM
1

Toy raise your smv, not your job.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:19 PM
1

I found it at around 30 and it's completely changed me and my life. If you think it's not for you, that's a you thing.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:12 PM
2

You talk a lot about what other people want from you. What do you want?
/r/askTRP06/01/21 09:11 AM
8

Reminds me of the "a key that fits all locks" analogy. People hate it, probably because it's surprisingly accurate.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 04:31 PM
3

I mean, it's true. He can't control her body. But he can control his own and gtfo of there.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 10:14 AM
6

The skills required to earn big money translate to a much greater life - with or without girls. Girls should never be the primary mission.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:02 AM
1

If that's what you think, you're doing sex wrong. Maybe you have mental issues you haven't resolved holding you back.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:33 AM
2

To be fair, adding the "with you" takes some time for many to be able to do so that's good.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:06 AM
1

It's biology. There's nothing wrong with differences. Nature is full of them and that's what makes it so fascinating. But to claim were all the exact same is unrealistic, especially when you look at what else nature is doing. That doesn't mean we should have different rights or anything. https://imgur.com/r/ImagesOfThe2010s/TKQq1rn
/r/MensRights04/01/21 05:30 AM
1

Men have more muscle mass due to having a lot more testosterone so while I get your point it's probably not the best comparison. The worst male sprinters are better than the best female ones for example. That doesn't make men better, it just means we have some strengths, and they have others.
/r/MensRights03/01/21 01:06 PM
1

Stop prospecting in desolate mines.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 01:22 AM
6

The fact that she can't communicate properly like an adult doesn't mean she should scam people.
/r/MensRights01/01/21 11:56 AM
3

I find it weird but they can do what they want. I judge people on their values and how they act, so I'd they're nice to me it's all good.
/r/MensRights31/12/20 03:24 PM
3

A girl i was sorta seeing after I got divorced almost 10 years ago toughy me utterly replaceable sexually. We'd been talking about doing some things together, we ended up not working out and then she just went and did those things as dates with new guys immediately. I'd never been introduced to the concept of outcome independence back then. Everything in my way of thinking at this point was based on neediness and too few options. The red pill itself wasn't a problem. It felt more like a blessing…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 03:20 PM
1

It's an arcaic ridiculous practice.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:51 AM
5

Lol let's call it consensus then.
/r/MensRights24/12/20 07:40 AM
13

Looks like her bullshit is starting to form a movement.
/r/MensRights23/12/20 11:55 PM
1

Self improvement is like investing. You do a little, but very often and it accumulates over time. Rome wasn't built in a day.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:47 PM
1

I think the same biological imperative that makes men focus on tasks and goals, sometimes so much they push other things away, is what makes us better in some regards. Not because we're men, but because we gain more experience in a given field faster. I also think it's what makes us more likely to be lonely and kill ourselves. The way I see it, there's not one gender that's better than the other. Like with everything in life it's not a matter of what you have/are but what you do with it.
/r/MensRights22/12/20 01:06 PM
1

Wow. It was only just the 70s where women were fighting against this sort of devaluation and now they're going to face it from their own gender. Sigh.
/r/MensRights20/12/20 05:27 PM
2

I've just finished a major hobby project I'd planned for 2020. I was never one to plan things but I'm experimenting with doing it so I can get something out of life. Next year the plan is to work on another project with a other hobby (i have lots of hobbies), and it might even end up making me a bit of money down the road. I've also started a process my doctor so I'll get help. Due to childhood experiences I have a hard time being physical with girls the first couple of times and other stuff. Th…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:21 PM
1

Something along those lines was my point. Hopefully op sees this as the learning opportunity it is. Rewiring your brain is hard and we've all been there.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:17 PM
6

People aren't robots. There's not some magic answer that will get you into her pants. It's about what you say between the lines. Even by posting this you're completely in her frame. She posed the framework of your interaction, and you're desperately trying to figure out how to appease her like a good little golden retriever. What you would be saying between the lines is that you will jump through every hoop of hers. Women are attracted to men, not pets. Not saying this to be harsh, just letting …
/r/askTRP16/12/20 02:21 PM
1

You're not supposed to learn tactics. That's for pickup artists. You're supposed to improve yourself, and then all these things will fall into place exactly because they're natural.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 10:29 AM
1

TRP is about self improvement and you should strive to give a fuck about yourself. Not other people. To me there is no paradox. ​ But if a person is constantly putting effort into doing these “alpha” things then obviously the person is lacking confidence right. Because they feel like they have to do something in order to get the girl. You don't do it to get the girl. You do it to have an awesome life. A biproduct of that is often girls.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:05 AM
1

One of the points of TRP is to learn to go for what you want regardless of what other people think, and be ok with rejection. I spent countless hours years ago trying to anticipate peoples' reactions. It was torture. Figure out what you want, go for it, and move on.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:50 AM
6

I always say the only feminists that count are those who can make changes in law and culture.
/r/MensRights13/12/20 12:35 AM
2

The line of danish is the same as the one above it in english.
/r/MensRights11/12/20 03:12 PM
1

You can both self improve and chase women. It might even aid you in that regard. Any type of resistance let's you grow if you use it.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 12:07 AM
13

Signals severe unresolved issues imho. Probably daddy issues and/or extremely low self esteem. To me it's basically prostitution without the physical component, except they do it both for the attention and the money. Old fashioned prostitutes only do it for the money.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 10:59 PM
1

She probably just got a better offer. It doesn't necessarily have to be that you did something wrong. Girls aren't robots where you have to input the correct combination to unlock her crotch. They're just circumstances. That's why outcome independence is so important.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:47 PM
2

Wow that's disrespectful. If I was treated like that, i wouldn't want there to be a 3rd time.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 12:05 PM
1

It's not out of malice, but ignorance.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:56 AM
3

Meanwhile the game has 3 protagonists and they're all completely damaged and unstable human beings...
/r/MensRights07/12/20 09:39 AM
1

Perhaps it'd be worth verifying before posting... or reading the description of the video.
/r/MensRights07/12/20 09:37 AM
2

"How do I mine for gold in an empty mine?"
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:25 AM
9

The way I see it, you should be a person who can back up the "be the prize" mentality. Otherwise it comes across as try-hard. So what RP teaches is to BE the prize, not have a "be the prize" mentality. It should be effortless, and to get there you need to keep improving yourself.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:16 AM
27

No. If anything, it's taught me they're just as human as anyone else. All the more reason to treat them as such.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 09:46 AM
2

It's an experience, and it will change how you pick girls in the future as you'll pick up on behavior you wouldn't before.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 08:49 AM
2

Most people today have absolutely 0 self awareness. When people, including myself, express what they're like and what they like, I always add "as far as I know".
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:47 PM
3

Well, I've seen it before at company events. Men are just as uncomfortable about it as women.
/r/MensRights29/11/20 08:53 AM
4

If so many women attempt suicide and don't succeed i think it's more a cry for help than an actual attempt at killing themselves. For that reason I find it unrelated. If they really wanted to kill themselves they would.
/r/MensRights29/11/20 08:51 AM
5

You think you can buy sex with transactions. That might be something you wanna work on. Well, you can of course but it would be less work to hire a prostitute then. Work on your inner game.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:39 AM
2

Aka. NPCs.
/r/MensRights27/11/20 08:25 AM
2

It's like a child. They try to make their own rules and if you allow them they'll keep doing it and suddenly you have an unruly selfish child on your hands.
/r/MensRights27/11/20 08:24 AM
29

Last time I wanted to see a girl's friends and she said no, it was because she was sleeping with one of them.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 09:11 AM
2

Am I completely off or didn't the left use to stand for free speech?
/r/MensRights22/11/20 08:19 AM
3

A Lot of the time you don't even need to bend the rules but just grab something right in front of you. In a society that Shane's assertive men that's hard enough.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/20 12:14 AM
1

I guess aboriginals and such aren't culturally and linguistically diverse also...
/r/MensRights17/11/20 02:55 PM
7

Sorry but I have no idea what you're talking about
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:48 AM
5

...
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:25 AM
6

Cognitive dissonance is a wonderous thing. The lack of self awareness people have is astounding. There's a reason people like that are called NPCs.
/r/MensRights14/11/20 01:48 PM
18

At 15 I'm checking in to see where she is. At 30 I'm leaving.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:40 AM
3

Seems lots of people here don't understand the concept of crossposting.
/r/MensRights12/11/20 06:29 PM
1

Emotions aren't bad. They're a fact of life and if you repress them you're gonna have a bad time. The way I see it though, there's a time and place for everything. One of my life goals is to have as much of my emotional baggage processed so I don't go all over the place on the emotional spectrum all the time. The way I see it, every issue you have that you haven't processed is a weight around your ankles. So generally I don't seem like a very emotional person, but it's also important for me to f…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 02:58 PM
3

I do think that what we experience spills over into other areas of one's life. I even saw somewhere that one's language influences how to perceive things such as colors. I would not deem it impossible for your statement to be true.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 02:33 PM
1

I'm no expert, but that's what it seems like to me.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:31 AM
29

Even more so when you know they wouldn't consider it racism when it's against white people and/or men, because they're the enemy.
/r/MensRights09/11/20 12:11 PM
4

1) This is how we're wired. The whole reason we do hobbies and such is to show other people and gain status. Human interaction is based on exchanging value. A person creates something others like, they might pay for it. That's how it's always been. 2) I'm not sure what you're getting at because you're not being specific, but the first thing TRP did was make me question my whole existing mindset and approach to the world. That included moving away from supplicating behavior. 3) I only feel it goi…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:13 AM
3

Stop being so concerned about what another person does, and be very concerned with what you're doing. You being horny is not her responsibility, it's yours. Every time you ask her for nudes she wants to send them less because you're being needy.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:37 AM
2

This is the attitude you should have in life in general. There are a lot of things you have no direct control over. I've adopted a term called outcome independence as a good way to describe it.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:30 PM
4

Awalt describes potential, not absolute truth.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 02:20 PM
3

If a person's favorite thing is cake, and you put cake in front of them - they're going to grab a bite. You're not her favorite thing, sorry. She's not ready to be in a relationship - with you. She's just uncomfortable about saying it directly. Move on, and learn what you can from the date.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 12:24 PM
7

It's a made up term, to try and associate toxicity with men as if only men are capable of being so.
/r/MensRights30/10/20 09:40 AM
1

You mean prostitutes? I have no problem with them, but I don't wanna be with them.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 10:08 PM
2

shouldn't be so lustful. I can respect that and I'm ok with it What? That makes no sense to me.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 07:47 PM
1

I think it's the type of women you choose to be with...
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:17 AM
0

Don't save, invest.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:24 AM
1

I rate myself as a 5 or 6 on a good day..
/r/askTRP25/10/20 06:52 AM
1

I find that to be true. I remember Falling to a guy a party. We were discussing his relationship for whatever reason. If he was anymore whipped he'd have scars on his back. I was giving my point of view on some things (not trying to convert him or anything). Eventually he closed the conversation because "look dude I know you're right, but it just hurts too much so I'm gonna continue the way I'm going". Those were his actual words.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 07:06 PM
1

Oh misunderstood. My bad.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 06:20 PM
3

That's the same thing... you were in her frame. That's the point. Why are you telling me to shut up? I'm pointing out things that could help you in the future. I'm not trying to belittle you. Isn't that why you're on asktrp in the first place?
/r/askTRP21/10/20 06:15 PM
5

She gave you an order and you complied.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:57 PM
16

The music business is absolutely saturated, so yes - marketing is one of the biggest factors now.
/r/MensRights21/10/20 03:29 PM
2

...and it's gone.
/r/MensRights21/10/20 07:23 AM
1

Didn't concern yourself with time-frames. Self improvement is a life long project. The only thing that matters is you take a small step every day.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 08:48 PM
42

Indeed, and not at all specific to men. Same as the "mansplaining" thing.
/r/MensRights20/10/20 12:07 PM
145

Even though I despise the term Toxic Masculinity, I've always thought it was associated with repressing your emotions and such. Not this.
/r/MensRights20/10/20 10:51 AM
9

Everything had to be his way, and points of view he didn't share were "wrong". If we were a group of friends doing something together, he'd go home if he wanted to do something we didn't want to do. And this was a man in his early 40s. He acted like an insulted teenage girl. When I terminated the friendship, he started trying to get the other friend to not hang out with me (despite him being a childhood friend of mine), and talking about loyalty.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 06:52 AM
3

All you've mentioned are external things. Seems to me you haven't done anything about your inner game.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 09:26 PM
15

I find it to be seriously lacking in my life. I had one, in a group of 3 friends total. We went on a road trip like in the movies and everything. It was a great learning experience for me. Unfortunately one of the 2 other guys was a narcissistic asshole half the time so while he had some good sides that you don't get in many men today, I ended up terminating the friendship. I'm not even sure where to go to get it. Or even how.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 09:25 PM
1

My question is: Can I somehow get her back? One of the biggest lessons in TRP, and philosophy in general, is in my opinion to learn the fact that nothing in life is permanent. Sometimes you will experience something only once in life. This opens you up to be more appreciative of things when they happen, and to let you become more outcome independent. Basically you're trying to achieve blue pill goals with red pill tools. Take it as a learning opportunity and move on.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 12:33 PM
4

This can backfire so hard. If something happens and you're perceived as a creep, word will spread. I'd also count it as shitting where you eat.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 11:51 AM
2

They don't care. The only way to win the game is by not playing.
/r/MensRights19/10/20 08:26 AM
1

I'd knowing them and hanging out with them doesn't feel like a net positive, they're not contributing enough to be in your life.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:08 PM
9

Sometimes people have shit to do... taking it personally indicates to me you have some stuff to work on.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:51 PM
3

Yeah the way I see it, it's simply business based on statistics.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 10:00 PM
4

lol the irony
/r/MensRights16/10/20 08:00 PM
1

Guess you got your work cut out for you then :)
/r/TheRedPill15/10/20 05:19 PM
1

Sounds a bit like an updated version of what Reddit used to represent. This would be a great thing.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/20 04:33 PM
1

This already exists. It's called Gab. https://gab.com/
/r/TheRedPill15/10/20 04:26 PM
1

asktrp is for beginners, it stands to reason you'll have ridiculous questions here. What'd you expect?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:25 PM
2

Even if the stats are correct, I'd be wary of sharing anything to do with PragerU. Some of their work is offensive to anyone with common sense, and other work is pretty good.
/r/MensRights14/10/20 06:43 AM
2

If you think it works for you not to lift, it's not necessary. I think the statement of necessity is probably because most men today are blobs.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:05 PM
1

The way I see it cuddling is just her setting up plausible deniability so she can say "it just happened".
/r/TheRedPill11/10/20 08:42 AM
3

"real feminism" is the type of feminism that holds the most influence. Right now it doesn't seem like the type you're referring to is it.
/r/MensRights10/10/20 06:29 AM
7

You're sexist and you don't even realize it. The lack of awareness on display is very sad.
/r/MensRights10/10/20 04:08 AM
50

Please elaborate.
/r/MensRights09/10/20 07:56 PM
3

He's being used as an ATM because he's demonstrated it's ok with his past behavior.
/r/MensRights09/10/20 06:20 AM
1

This would annoy me and cause me to cut her off even without other prospects.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:17 AM
2

danish national broadcasting company asked her for a BJ at a party No, he told her he would ruin her career if she didn't. That's different.
/r/MensRights08/10/20 11:25 AM
3

Today it's nails, tomorrow it's a car.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 04:53 AM
1

If you've been married 17 years, I assume you're not having sex anymore? Not so strange you'd be craving.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 05:02 PM
1

https://blackdragonblog.com/glossary/
/r/askTRP06/10/20 08:51 AM
0

Actually, I met her right after my divorce. Back then I was as beta as you get. For some reason she wanted to try and see if I was relationship material, but I was way too beta. She ended up plating me (without me knowing because I had no life experience). Eventually we agreed it wouldn't work, being intimate in any way. Predictably I was still totally into her. We're both into personal growth and we had such good communication we weren't ready to throw away the friendship, even though my instin…
/r/askTRP03/10/20 07:01 PM
1

My best friend is a girl. Doesn't get more blue pill than that but I don't care. She's like a sister to me, and it works because we expect the same things from each other.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:05 PM
1

It's more important to have your own learning experiences than it is to listen to what people on the internet say. If you can make it work, then it's not a problem.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 06:29 AM
1

Don't do it again...
/r/askTRP29/09/20 09:46 AM
1

We had an agreement that I would tell her who I was going out with Is she your mom? Does she tell you when to come home too? I told her the truth and apologized (rightly) You've dug a hole for yourself and now it's so normal for you that you apologize for trying to crawl out of it. What right does she have to dictate who you spend time with? Why do you let her? Her insecurities are controlling her, and now they're controlling you too. Unless you do something, this will only escalate.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 12:13 PM
2

While I obviously prefer young women, I take it on a case by case basis. I know women who haven't hit the wall at 45 and those who hit it at 20. If she cares about herself and how she looks and such I may be interested. Even if she's in her mid 30s.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 04:26 PM
1

Who cares what we'd do? If you're attracted to a woman, go for it. Gain experience.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 10:47 AM
10

They're essentially saying women only have value if they get it by treading on a man. That makes them still reliant on men - the opposite of what they're trying to signal.
/r/MensRights25/09/20 05:50 PM
1

Barely any men at that age are fit. They're all blobs. It doesn't take much to get you to being competitive.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 05:26 PM
1

How? Forcing people to take leave whether they want it or not isn't progress imho. Both the father and mother should be entitled to a certain amount of leave, and then decide amongst themselves how to spend it.
/r/MensRights25/09/20 05:23 PM
3

Yeah, in my opinion it's the job of the therapist to be objective and support you in your journey, even if your goal is to get 5 chicks a week.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 11:06 AM
2

In the end, no matter if it's therapy or TRP, you have to filter it through your own morality and views anyway, rather than just absorbing everything with the correct label. I'm sure it could help you.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 06:55 AM
15

This narrative is based on the Apex Fallacy. Average men are invisible to them, as opposed to those with power. For that reason, they look at the most powerful men and assume that's how all men have it.
/r/MensRights24/09/20 06:27 PM
1

it's a matter of biology. We have testosterone for a reason. How it's perceived may change depending on time and culture though.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:47 PM
1

Imho nature already tells you what it is. Look up resources on the effects of testosterone and you'll have a lot of the answer.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:45 PM
1

You can lead a horse to water, but not force it to drink. When a person is down in the dumps like that, they can't do anything about it until they're ready. You can't make them ready. You can support her in what choice she's made. If her current choice is to not do anything but still cry about it, you have to look yourself in the mirror and consider whether this is what you want in your life right now. As others have mentioned, the only thing you can do is lead by example, but be careful you don…
/r/askTRP22/09/20 09:02 AM
1

3 months? You were basically a glorified penpal...
/r/askTRP22/09/20 07:23 AM
7

I think it says a lot about the person making such a statement, and not a lot about boys. Men obviously aren't the only ones capable of being sexist.
/r/MensRights21/09/20 05:31 PM
15

"it's just something boys do" stfu.
/r/MensRights21/09/20 01:36 PM
4

No offense but of course it's gonna follow you if you talk about it. What's you expect?
/r/MensRights21/09/20 09:11 AM
7

Stop trying to calculate people's intentions. It's reactionary. You can drive yourself crazy trying to anticipate what everyone's doing. If you wanna make a move you so it. Take action. If she says no, you move on. You gotta be your mental point of origin. Always think "does this align with what I want?" first 'cus if you don't, anything else is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:28 AM
2

For me it's usually board games (board game cafes are a thing here) or something like that. Guess it could be rock climbing or something else too. I don't mind spending an hour or so. In my experience, even if you're into her you can at least have a nice time.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:01 PM
3

Imho... Dinner: I'm not getting myself stuck in front of someone I don't know for hours. I usually go for some light activity where it's socially acceptable to head out if you're not feeling it. Also it gives you something to do besides being forced to talk. Movies: too passive, no getting to know the other person.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 01:48 PM
1

Personally I prefer to have people judge me on what I do, and not what they think I'll do. I've put in a lot of work so I know I'll get better and better because I always try to progress. If there's an issue I think is caused by my autism, I learn from it what I can.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 09:26 AM
21

me all the time. Now she makes an effort not to show me in her stories This tells me she's trying to catch another fish. Even if she's telling you the truth, that she's doing it because you're not posting about her, that's a highly manipulative of communicating her needs. If this is what she's like now, what's she gonna be like 5 years down the road? In any case, redirecting to you seems like a deflection to me, rather than her telling you the problem.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 03:49 PM
2

Stop trying to predict what the correct option is. If you want to do something, you do it.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:54 AM
78

What's the difference between human rights and women's rights? Aren't women humans?
/r/MensRights16/09/20 01:39 PM
13

an atheist wife because I'd want my kids to have a moral guideline. Somebody's been drinking from the Kool-Aid. There was morality before christianity. This religion (of which there are many branches and ideologies) doesn't hold a monopoly on that. Even monkeys have a sense of fairness and justice.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 01:36 PM
5

I guess they just left their villages and towns completely undefended when there was a war on......
/r/askTRP15/09/20 03:21 PM
10

Crabs in a bucket. They dislike it because it reminds them of what they're unable to do.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 01:06 PM
10

Mansplaining is not a word. It's a shaming tactic to make it appear as if women are unable to be condescending cunts. Everyone's equally able to be assholes. That's not gender specific.
/r/MensRights14/09/20 07:36 AM
1

According to what/who?
/r/MensRights14/09/20 07:22 AM
1

If it hadn't been religion, it would've been something else. Those in power will always try to keep that power and expand it. Religion is just a very convenient excuse.
/r/MensRights14/09/20 07:14 AM
5

So far we've been making a huge amount of memes so we've got that going for us which is nice /s Our prime minister really doesn't want this to pass, even though like 80-90% of the population wants it. The way I see it she prefers the wrath of the voters to that of the international jewish community.
/r/MensRights14/09/20 06:29 AM
7

Humans have. Good humans are good christians, bad ones are bad christians. Goes for any religion or ideology. Some people are just assholes.
/r/MensRights13/09/20 09:19 PM
2

As with everything in life: moderation is key. Do it for yourself though.
/r/MensRights13/09/20 05:08 AM
13

That's not how you spell "ex-girlfriend"
/r/askTRP11/09/20 08:56 PM
2

Sounds like she just hadn't figured herself out yet. I find that most people, when they make statements about who they are, you can add "as far as I know". Everyone's like a work in progress so statements like that, to me, reflect where they are in self perception that very instant.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 12:39 PM
82

"Feminism is about everyone" "What about men?" "Shut up and create your own space, why do feel like you always have to be included?"
/r/MensRights11/09/20 12:35 PM
2

Some girls will say men are the only ones with privilege and then not get drafted.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 04:32 PM
5

In my country stuff like that became illegal in the 1960s.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 06:26 AM
1

Before you've defined what equal means to you, any reply will be meaningless.
/r/MensRights08/09/20 01:08 PM
3

For me it was a series of bad decisions made out of ignorance that then landed me in a situation where marriage was the sensible thing to do.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 06:27 AM
3

Glad you had use of it. In my opinion we're humans first, men/women 2nd. That means we all have struggles. I don't wanna take away from women who suffered at the hands of men (I can only imagine what it's like to have your autonomy taken away at someone else's whim), but on the other hand I'm not responsible for when another man acts like this. We, as humans, are very easily persuaded into thinking what we see in the world confirms our ideas about who are horrible people and who aren't. When you…
/r/MensRights04/09/20 03:56 PM
4

First of all I'd like to compliment you. You seem to hold some pretty strong views, but hopefully posted this because you're interested in actual dialog. That's a very good thing. You have a lot of very strong views, and I don't see how they're our responsibility because of how we were born. They're related to how you make sense of the world, and how you do that is your responsibility. The way to combat these assumptions that men are monsters, I would say, is through dialog. And I don't mean jus…
/r/MensRights04/09/20 01:26 PM
0

Maybe they'll get around to that, after they're done putting minorities into "reeducation" camps, implementing insane Big Brother policies and fucking up the environment...
/r/MensRights04/09/20 09:02 AM
2

Your body, your choice.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 12:14 PM
1

It's brutal, but I suspect this is not an uncommon scenario. It's a natural consequence of 2 people having vastly different attraction levels. Still, using it to sell your product is pretty wild.
/r/MensRights03/09/20 10:21 AM
2

For me one of the biggest turnarounds was to realize I had all the responsibility for what goes on in my life. I used to think life was something that happened to lucky people. Fuck that. Make your own luck, and you'll seem lucky to others. It's about having a growth mindset. Finding all the small things you can tweak that will give you something in the long run.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:47 AM
3

other men, but not him This is, perhaps, one of the hardest pills for anyone to swallow. I can see why TRP would sometimes seem thoroughly unappealing. Can't do much about such things though, other than improving yourself and accepting the fact that you can't change human nature.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/20 09:33 AM
2

She must be dating some quality men. Of course it's everyone else's fault 🙄
/r/MensRights31/08/20 05:34 PM
2

Quality assurance.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 04:34 PM
1

They're both life givers. It's basic biology...
/r/MensRights30/08/20 12:39 PM
10

What the fuck. If she's complaining this much now, imagine what would happen later. What an entitled hag.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:41 AM
2

It's a sad state when he doesn't know any better than this.
/r/MensRights24/08/20 08:25 AM
2

Obviously the patriarchy is making sure men get preferential treatment when it comes to job opportunities......
/r/MensRights24/08/20 06:40 AM
3

I think in their minds it's only fair. They consider white people to have been in power (nevermind 80% of white populations have poor or average income) for so long that it should be colored peoples' turns. Instead of working together, they're fighting fire with fire. And they're also forgetting the big picture. There has always been racism. Not just by whites, but by africans against other africans (the rowandan genocide), arabs etc. - it's unfortunately part of being human, not being white.
/r/MensRights22/08/20 09:44 AM
3

Honestly I feel like we have a whole generation of grown up children whose only way of getting anywhere in life is to level the playing field because they don't have the tools necessary to compete, or because realizing competition is natural and a part of life is too hard. Totally agree with you. It washes away all your personal achievements and makes you a drop in the ocean.
/r/MensRights22/08/20 05:56 AM
1

She wants you to need her so badly you'll do anything to keep her. It's a giant ego stroke, nothing more. That's why being outcome independent works so well.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:16 PM
4

I think it's even worse. Communism at least stated it regarded all people equally. Under this type of feminism some groups of people are worth more than others and deserve more rights, due to their skin color.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 01:14 PM
13

They generalize based on your background, and not your actions and abilities. You're reduced to your skin color and nationality, kind of. White men are accountable for what all other white men do and have done, all black people are victims etc. They completely disregard reality and build their own.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 01:12 PM
36

Last I checked mosquitoes are not people.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 01:02 PM
819

when I say I hate all blacks is my boyfriend offended? If the above is a problem, so is the original statement.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 11:13 AM
5

Self analysis first and foremost. The better you know yourself, the better you can improve. Then it's been almost a decade of trying to analyze social stuff, reading about it, talking about it with my friend etc. Approaching it like any other skill to be learned.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:31 PM
3

Thanks. I'm not perfect though. Still have the occasional awkward moment but mostly a couple of times a year. When I was young it was every day. I compare it to saying a dyslexic can learn to spell too, it's just harder because you have to memorize everything.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:25 PM
9

I hate being left behind Wrong mindset. You're leaving control of your happiness in the hands of something you have no direct control over. You should have enough things going on for you that you don't mind. In the grand scheme of life this thing is a tiny blip of insignificance. Your mental point of origin should always be yourself. You're not being left behind, she's missing out on your company.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:14 AM
177

On the contrary. I'm on the autistic spectrum and trp is like a user guide to human nature. My social skills have improved vastly because of it.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:12 PM
26

The thing about being treated equally feeling like sexism, if you're used to privilege comes to mind.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 09:32 PM
3

To some degree, I'd say Lucifer. The whole series is pretty much about him succumbing to betaness. Just like most other stories in the mainstream, it's about how an independent man can only be complete if he gives up who he is to be with "the one". Then there's White Collar, about a criminal who starts working with the FBI. Because he does his own thing, people are constantly on their toes about whether he can be trusted.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 11:46 AM
3

For me one of the big points is that pretty much any movie will show men that the only way to gain meaning in life is to self sacrifice to the point of self-obliteration. Just like the these fish: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J4LPmjQoc_A
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:15 AM
1

...that's not how sexual attraction works.
/r/MensRights13/08/20 09:53 AM
2

The important thing is you learn from it. It's not important to do the exact right thing - it's important to do something that, whatever it is, that'll cause you to learn. "Failing" is the most important thing you can do in life.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 09:53 AM
3

Man, flat earthers are starting to look like smart people in comparison...
/r/MensRights12/08/20 11:02 AM
1

I don't think it's that they support each other. I think it's that the corrupt ones form a powerful network that force the good ones to tow the line because otherwise...
/r/MensRights12/08/20 10:54 AM
111

If a girl showed that behavior, and you then LTR her, you've brought it on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 10:37 AM
5

While also listening to the advice given here so it doesn't repeat with the next girl.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 05:04 PM
5

Hawaii's State Commission on the Status of Women, a government agency that campaigns for gender equality ...
/r/MensRights10/08/20 11:17 AM
1

Game helps create attraction.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 06:29 PM
8

Sounds pretty normal to me. Unless he's revealing your fucked up fetish for lady bugs, I don't see the issue.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 04:03 PM
5

Seems she's not used to being declined on a booty call and got butthurt about it. Just move on and let her be miserable on her own.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 05:57 PM
1

There not mutually exclusive.
/r/MensRights08/08/20 01:37 PM
5

The world wouldn't function anymore if either gender was wiped out. That's kind of the whole idea about the way mother nature made it. We're supposed to work together.
/r/MensRights08/08/20 10:19 AM
53

Yes. If you participate in these games, you've lost and given validity to their antics.
/r/MensRights07/08/20 05:39 PM
5

I guess she skipped sex education in school... or didn't have the opportunity lol
/r/MensRights06/08/20 01:52 PM
16

"Filed to: celebrity penises" what...
/r/MensRights06/08/20 01:35 PM
11

Theoretically they might be able to raise the average for women. On average that would solve their problem, at least the way they see it. They'd have to do less work for the same pay though, which is - a pay gap.
/r/MensRights05/08/20 05:44 PM
19

She's probably not that into you...better look for more signs.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:47 PM
1

You did your best with the tools you had at the time. That fact that you see a problem with your past behavior means you've grown.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 07:43 AM
13

Aka. he's a grower, not a shower.
/r/MensRights03/08/20 12:13 PM
1

The girls I've met who say that, I think it's because they know their SMV isn't up to it instinctively so instead of saying they want one but can't have it, they say they don't want it so it feels like it's their choice.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 08:31 AM
8

Yeah. A woman at work does yoga and stuff. Is hotter than many 20 year olds.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 04:28 PM
1

For some people (all genders) a shitty person is just someone who they can't control or who doesn't want the same thing as them.
/r/MensRights31/07/20 02:55 PM
1

Like in life, you can't truly rely on anyone but yourself. I regard everything I read here as inspiration and do something with if I find it makes sense.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 02:52 PM
1

If she was interested details like giving a time wouldn't have mattered. Her saying that is just her way of saying no and hoping you can read between the lines.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:33 PM
1

Yeah. I don't mind people like that here on asktrp - after all, how else are they going to learn - but I get a little disappointed every time I see it on the main sub.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 01:45 PM
3

Just a 100 years ago most western countries only allowed serving men and/or men with businesses to vote, yet it was still a democracy. This was also similar to how the original form of democracy worked. Imho the mistake isn't letting women vote, but that they're allowed to do it without sacrificing anything for it like men do. Something you get for free isn't valuable or respected.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 12:47 PM
13

Dunno if it's just the ones I notice, but I notice a lot of really low effort posts on the main sub and when you call people out on it they get butthurt like little bitches, even if you do it nicely.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 06:40 AM
2

Reminds me of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6KzCfIYArmQ (specifically ~1:36) I think a lot of women have this fantasy of taming an independent guy. I think it's part of the whole shit testing thing, or as I call it: quality control. They need to keep testing to see if they got themselves a quality man and most men succumb and don't put her in her place if needed.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 12:50 PM
2

I dunno how the american justice system works but can you sue her for slander? I doubt it'll accomplish much but it'd make an important statement I think.
/r/MensRights28/07/20 01:41 PM
4

Dunno how authentic it is but there was a TV show where they put men on one island, and women on the other. The women cried and argued, the men organized, built shelter and acquired food.
/r/MensRights24/07/20 09:29 PM
64

As long as you keep working on yourself you will have more success later on, than early.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 08:51 AM
1

Common sense for one person is magic for others. We all have very different starting points. Taking things too seriously is normal for things you're new to. I think most people over compensate when they find they've been lacking something. Then they adjust and smooth things out.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 08:40 AM
2

Says a lot about those who made the graphic, and not a lot about men...
/r/MensRights24/07/20 06:25 AM
2

Been talking to? Probably thought you weren't interested romantically or gay. You make it sound like you matched on Tinder and you thought you just sat there IM'ing for weeks. Do you want a girlfriend/hookup or a penpal?
/r/askTRP22/07/20 09:43 PM
4

There are stories floating around the internet of trans people transitioning to male and getting hit in the face with a bucket of cold water because suddenly nobody gave a shit. It's very interesting stuff.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 01:49 PM
27

I also think it's important to demonstrate that you have a plan for how to handle things and that this is just momentary. I think, what turns off women, is hopelessness and lack of power over your own destiny.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 06:57 AM
3

I just think it was a bit different than people expected, and some apparently didn't like Scott Bakula as the captain. I initially had my reservations too, but the show grew on me and I'd say it's Star Trek through and through. It's miles better than Discovery and Picard at least.
/r/MensRights21/07/20 07:04 AM
1

"Unbiased" Katie indeed lol
/r/MensRights20/07/20 01:11 PM
5

If I was criticizing you I would've written "your post sucks, you suck" but I didn't. I stated my point of view - that I didn't understand in what way it contributed. I just think you're jumping to conclusions. There could be a bunch of reasons for her to act like she did. I don't see any analytical work either. It seems like the post is just designed for you to reinforce your view of things.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 10:37 AM
13

You bet your ass if he had relations with women while serving there'd be hell to pay...
/r/MensRights20/07/20 10:33 AM
10

Do yourself a favor and stay away from Discovery and Picard. People were disappointed with Enterprise, but Enterprise was fantastic compared to the new shows. Star Trek has always been complicit in pointing the way for society. I really don't hope those shows are any indication of what reality will become. I fear I know the answer though.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 10:30 AM
7

Or her mother is just a more professional prostitute, and the daughter just wants to make a buck and go on her way. I'm sorry but I don't really understand how this post is supposed to add anything to the sub in any way...
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 10:26 AM
52

This is why teaching critical thinking is so important. The media has so much power because people just go with the headlines.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 07:47 AM
6

But we don't know yet, and speculation like this puts nothing positive into the world.
/r/MensRights14/07/20 12:58 PM
0

Your question is way too subjective. Read it yourself and take what you can use.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:10 AM
1

Oh wow.. women obviously aren't your biggest issues Mr. Tough guy.
/r/MensRights05/07/20 09:33 PM
0

Life isn't absolute. There might be a tendency towards something but using "all" to describe something like this shows very poor judgement on your part. If you can say that, women are also justified in saying things like "men suck".
/r/MensRights05/07/20 03:52 PM
1

Humans aren't machines. You can't just set a number. The reason a high count can be problematic is because of the underlying unresolved issues causing undesirable behavior. Imho only experience and social skills can help you. Don't be afraid to fail. Failing is the most important thing you can do in life.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 03:50 PM
1

Man that's ridiculous. If you look at The Netherlands, the scandinavian countries etc. you'll see free choice = difference in choice. I don't understand why that's a bad thing. Countries that allow their citizens to pursue what interests them should be applauded.
/r/MensRights25/06/20 05:29 PM
3

Are they going to force women to become construction workers whether they want to or not? Are they gonna force men to become nurses whether they want to or not? Maybe in the future the government can dictate what job you should have. Then their precious statistics will look nice in their spreadsheet, meanwhile people are miserable.
/r/MensRights25/06/20 05:03 PM
1

Wow, sensitive much?
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:51 PM
0

Why? You have no control over it. You're just wasting your energy on absolutely nothing.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 01:53 PM
1

Apart from the grammar, I actually applaud the message. "Made our own future" implies discarding their victim mentality, which holds anyone who has it back, and taking life into their own hands - something I encourage everyone to do regardless of their circumstances.
/r/MensRights23/06/20 10:59 PM
10

Give the devil a finger and he'll take the hand. These policies will only lead to taking more and more, using newspeak to excuse it. They (SJWs, extreme lefties etc.) will keep moving the goal post.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 01:33 PM
2

I think intersectionality lies on the extreme left on the spectrum. They've decided that most of the world is oppressive so every thought they have will confirm that.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 08:15 AM
7

Last time I heard the "I don't want you to meet my bros, they might assume things" it was because she was sometimes sleeping with one of said bros. If a woman finds you to be of high value she would want to show you off so everyone could see.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 10:28 AM
7

Relevant discussion of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKl88_4gb0E
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 06:46 AM
2

I think you also have to consider what kind of people she has access to. Alpha is relative, so the top male of her circle may not be what we could consider a chad. Social dynamics are group based imho. so everything people do has to be evaluated in the context of the groups they're in. The alpha male of a My Little Pony convention is probably still not a prize :P
/r/askTRP18/06/20 11:24 AM
5

And in the west we're paying willingly for this privilege. They've just marketed it well.
/r/MensRights17/06/20 01:08 PM
2

Seems to me the Nice Guy type of niceness is unattractive in both genders. At least, it is for me.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:09 AM
14

playing the tough guy all the time You're not supposed to be playing anything. You're supposed to shape yourself into a person who's got his shit handled so it becomes authentic.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 06:57 AM
3

Being woke is becoming a cult, like literally. I believe it's what will pave the way to a truly dystopian Big Brother/China-like society.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 11:29 AM
2

Whether it happens often, or at all, is irrelevant. The law needs to punish those who do it regardless.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:01 PM
21

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't force it to drink.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:56 PM
3

That has to be satire...
/r/MensRights13/06/20 11:07 PM
21

...but she looks through your stuff. What else is she gonna do down the road?
/r/askTRP11/06/20 03:57 PM
1

I have a group of nerdy friends who are harmless but also aimless. They have absolutely no interest unless it involves wasting your time in front of a screen (I game too but I do my best to moderate it because it's destructive as hell). My closest friends are ones that are trying to grow as a person, just like me. They say you're the sum of your 5 closest friends. If your closest friends are like you describe, it's time to find something better.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 02:39 PM
5

If you make life decisions based on other people, you will pay dearly. Trust me.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 10:08 PM
3

Most people have so little self awareness they don't even know what consequences their actions have 2 min. after.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 09:57 PM
37

Many people are suffering from what's called the apex fallacy. They attribute the success of the top men in society to all men, willfully blind to anything that contradicts that.
/r/MensRights10/06/20 05:20 PM
1

Yes - it's a biological process to ensure our species procreates.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 08:25 AM
1

Bored at home and looking for validation.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 07:19 AM
3

Your post comes across as you having seen a few posts on TRP and making conclusions based on that. You haven't understood the sub at all.
/r/MensRights09/06/20 11:46 AM
3

I would actually recommend that. Instead of thinking in terms of right/wrong, think in terms of learning. Every experience makes you stronger and helps define you as a person. Success comes as a result of failing multiple times. Failing is one of the most important things you can do in life. I made the mistake of getting married early and buying a house with my ex and her family. Life was miserable for 10 years. Would I go back and change it if I could? No. I would be 5% of the person I am today…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:40 AM
1

Those are good things yeah, but the thing is you're dealing with potential. Imho nature doesn't work in absolutes, but in tendencies. So all women have the potential to go on the carousel, but it doesn't mean they all do it. My recommendation would be to focus on yourself, but be indifferent towards women. Don't discard them. Then, if you meet some, go with the flow and see what happens. Imo the purpose of life should be learning, and to that end I think writing a whole gender off just like that…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:24 AM
0

As I said - nature is nature. I would consider that a poor response. Learn the rules of the game, and then use them. Just knowing puts you ahead of most people. Don't give up.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:19 AM
4

If your view on life is that you're perfect, blaming your gender/skin color is the only thing that makes sense. It's important to blame something you don't have any responsibility for so your world view doesn't get challenged and you don't have to grow as a person.
/r/MensRights09/06/20 07:18 AM
3

Have you considered that maybe different people like different things?
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:16 AM
1

Of course it is. There are so many things in life that are possible to over-indulge in. But don't be afraid of it. It's biology. What happens happens. You can't change it, but you can change how you feel about it. Women don't do what they do because they're evil. It's just nature doing its thing.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:14 AM
3

The grammar Nazi in me can't help but want a comma, or something, in there. Seems a bit confusing as it stands.
/r/MensRights03/06/20 09:52 PM
1

The meaning of the word has been broadened severely, so a lot more situations will fit the description than before.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 09:51 PM
59

Your enemy is yourself. You cannot change the fact that they lift more, but you can change how you choose to see it. Focus on yourself and on improving your own numbers.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:37 PM
12

Imho: 1) Men date down, girls date up 2) Tinder is the buyers' market, so men's value is even lower than in real life. Supply and demand.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:19 PM
2

Tooting my own horn here, I have been an amazing boyfriend. I take her on dates, give her random gifts, love her as well as I can. Judging from all the red flags you've described, you might have been "too good" a boyfriend. Whatever you were doing obviously didn't check her boxes. Seems to me like you've acted more like a loyal dog than a boyfriend. You need to focus on yourself, figure out what you want in life (that isn't her) and move on from there. Read the sidebar. It seems to be you haven'…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:26 AM
1

Sounds like projection.
/r/MensRights01/06/20 12:12 PM
3

You can if you're a sjw, as long as it's in a sphere you have influence over.
/r/MensRights30/05/20 06:32 AM
2

You gotta put this on unpopularopinion.
/r/MensRights29/05/20 12:09 PM
2

That's still not a good reason to ban anyone. People should be judged on what they say alone.
/r/MensRights29/05/20 08:13 AM
1

Establish some sort of rapport, then do it when it feels right. People aren't robots. You can't do this "if x, then y" type of stuff.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:06 AM
4

My first advice would be to stop looking for external resources to figure out your place in the world. You need to first figure out who you are and what your priorities are. Then you can move on and compare that to external sources. If you skip the first step, you're going to be confused as fuck. There are going to be a million different directions to go and no way to make heads or tails of them. I think that's why 95% of the guys who end up here are confused. They've spent their lives being inf…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:02 AM
29

The first girl has a classic case of "men I'm not interested in are invisible". She seems to think the men she wants to interact with are representative of all men.
/r/MensRights27/05/20 10:27 AM
7

Yes, it is the only thing that keeps teenage relationships from falling apart.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:47 PM
4

I do find it interesting that their stuff seems to get posted everywhere these days. Seems people can't tell the difference between satire and the worst kind of feminism.
/r/MensRights26/05/20 02:29 PM
8

I actually reported that tweet. Unsurprisingly nothing happened.
/r/MensRights24/05/20 08:11 AM
2

It kinda is, but it's all whiney bullshit that panders to women's egoes.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 08:37 AM
1

You can lead a horse to water, but not force it to drink. Even though it's good for it, forcing it will make it kick you. You can try and drop hints, but they will likely o ly mean anything when he's ready. That's how it was for me at least, before TRP.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 08:35 AM
0

Yes. I already thought rock music had been defiled by whiny men singing about "the one". Now that I know about TRP, it seems even worse. Downright self destructive.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 04:17 PM
18

"the patriarchy" is for women who feel powerless, what satan is for the deeply religious. You're not going to have luck when you bring logic into their sphere because it's based on feelings. Those 2 don't mix.
/r/MensRights22/05/20 03:10 PM
29

1) Get earplugs 2) Get him to mentor you
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:06 PM
1

Some people are carriers without symptoms.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 04:22 AM
1

TRP is a life long journey. If you go into it expecting results immediately you haven't learned anything imho. Change takes time and if you put in the work you'll get results but everyone is different and have to work on different things.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 02:54 PM
-1

This question gets asked constantly. You would've found your answer if you just searched. https://lmgtfy.com/?q=site%3Areddit.com%2Fr%2Fasktrp+songs&s=l
/r/askTRP21/05/20 02:28 PM
1

Some people just don't like a thing. You need to figure out if she just doesn't like blowjobs on you, or in general.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 02:15 PM
5

It's like she's never actually met a man, and is just going off of what others have told her about men...
/r/MensRights21/05/20 07:10 AM
1

Yes it is, but it's supposed to be. People here are vastly different from each other. It's not like going on a sub for beekeeping where everyone there loves the same thing. You have to figure out who you want to become and use the available material to sort out what you agree with and what you don't. My goal is to improve as a human being. That means understanding people (which was sorely needed as I have autism), how humans work in general, how society works etc. The more I learn the more I can…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 07:03 AM
1

Damn he must have been smooth
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:59 AM
8

If it's any solace, most comments on the danish sub can be boiled down to "wtf is this bullshit?".
/r/MensRights20/05/20 06:25 AM
11

Facts are irrelevant when you have a political agenda.
/r/MensRights19/05/20 12:34 PM
3

You need to get out of this "what did I do wrong?" mindset. It's toxic, even if it seems innocent. At least for me, I used to think like this because I still had this beta belief that if I did everything correct (like in a video game) pussy and money would be unlocked. Instead, I recommend trying to foster 2 things: outcome independence (you have no control over her, or anyone, ghosting so don't fuss about it) and life happens. There can be a million things going on in her life and you could be …
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:57 AM
6

This book is for personal economy what No More Mr Nice Guy is for personal development.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:33 AM
7

Same here. Feminists and non-feminists I've dated have all absolutely insisted on paying for half of everything. Except for that one eastern European girl, and that didn't go anywhere.
/r/MensRights16/05/20 06:43 AM
7

That is some serious kindergarten logic. How low must your ego be for you to grasp at something like this for "proof" about how great you are?
/r/MensRights15/05/20 06:51 AM
-1

In life you always have 2 choices: complain, or take action. The first gets old really fast. It's what kids do. I'm not saying this to be mean but to help you because whining is a sure way to have nothing in your life change.
/r/MensRights15/05/20 05:26 AM
0

This is what you call a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/MensRights14/05/20 05:00 PM
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