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Escalate hard on the first date to fuck. If it fails, try next time.
/r/seduction15/07/13 12:33 AM
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Why are you trying to impress girls.
/r/seduction18/04/13 05:23 PM
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Just comes from experience, you should always maintain abundance.
/r/seduction29/10/12 04:08 PM
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No, this is how you become needy and bitch status.
/r/seduction29/10/12 03:46 PM
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Don't worry about maintaining her. Keep up your abundance by approaching and you should be fine. Just remember, give value, dont suck it from her.
/r/seduction29/10/12 03:46 PM
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Midgets should know when to accept good advice.
/r/seduction29/10/12 03:25 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L68oc3C42Fg
/r/seduction29/10/12 05:07 AM
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Tyler, Jeffy-not tall at all.
/r/seduction29/10/12 01:58 AM
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Lol this is the she saddest shit ever said. They don't have better personalities, trust me o nthis.
/r/seduction29/10/12 01:56 AM
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On top of this, women's perceptions of your "attractiveness" keep changing. The best analogy I have is the way you view yourself differently based on your confidence that day. You might see yourself is gorgeous one day and awkward the next. In the same manner, a girl's view of you changes on your value.
/r/seduction29/10/12 01:54 AM
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This is gonna make a lot of dudes not get laid. The three date rule should be a time limit. If you don't fuck her by third date, adios. Have some standards. But you should be trying to fuck her the day you meet. Play to win.
/r/seduction25/10/12 05:11 AM
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On your first date, you should have tried harder to fuck her. It seems like you were playing it safe, trying to make the interaction work well and set up more dates instead of instantly going for the bang. It happens quite a bit because your afraid of ruining your chances with a hottie, but this actually ruins your chances regardless. Get physical quicker, makeout with her, get her horny and go for the pull. Getting more and more girls helps because you won't feel pressure for this particular gi…
/r/seduction15/10/12 02:21 PM
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I don't get how she is "alpha". You were pretty needy and approval seeking and risk evading in the beginning so she didn't feel that drive to chase you. The only solution: more girls.
/r/seduction15/10/12 04:29 AM
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I used to think this way. And then I found a girl I really liked, fell in love, she loved me too, then pushed her away cause I was too needy. And my problem was very simple, I thought a girl can make you happy. But she can't. The only thing that will make you happy is personal development and becoming a man. A man who is social, high value, exciting and naturally attracts womens. This way you will find lots of girls you like, and then date a girl without any fear.
/r/seduction06/10/12 06:30 AM
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When she says "we can't have sex", it means she wants to have sex but doesn't wanna appear as a slut. So just simply say "no problem", and then keep kissing, fingering, and then take off her pants. Just say "I wanna lick it", lick her (really well) then she will fuck. Other good options, give her a small drink (like a beer or mixed drink). Even if she just has a sip, she can claim she was piss drunk. Put the responsibility on you. She's in your room, she wants to fuck, so put the blame on yourse…
/r/seduction04/10/12 02:14 AM
-4

...the fuck. Why didn't you plow her.
/r/seduction03/10/12 02:51 AM
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No it isn't because it becomes a crutch. Try this exercise. You will approach 10 girls and you will only open with whats on your mind, so if there is nothing, you say hello. After the opener you just keep the convo flowing as long as you can. What you will see is that in the first few approaches you will suck hard. But you will gain a slow momentum and the more push, the more out of our head you get, and b the 6th or 7th approach you will jsut be naturall talking your ass off. This skill will co…
/r/seduction01/10/12 06:53 AM
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You show immediate value by saying a paragraph long excuse on why you aren't an akward chode? Nah I don't think so. Being of value means you assume she will be attracted, relaxed, at ease and don't worry if she reacts badly. When you are chill, she will chill as well. But saying this whole thing is wack. The hello is an opener, it means nothing. You instantly start talking and creating a vibe, you don't even have to wait for a response.
/r/seduction01/10/12 04:37 AM
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...you say all this. Ya I won't criticize because I haven't tested it. But jesus that's a massive effort. Why not just say "Hello". Accomplishes the same thing.
/r/seduction01/10/12 03:53 AM
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Yes why not. She's grinding on you, she wants to feel your dick.
/r/seduction01/10/12 12:31 AM
1

Then why did you write "Anyways, I didn't number close any of them or even get their names because I didn't want to. I was just there to have fun." Did you read your own post.
/r/seduction01/10/12 12:30 AM
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You didn't get laid, the girls left. You are correct that not giving a fuck gives an attractive vibe, as you are interested in making yourself feel good (hence way the dancing worked), but in order to actually fuck you have to have some interest and then push for the girl.
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:26 PM
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It has to be in the moment what you feel with the girl. If you're horny as fuck, tell er how much you want to cum inside her (and feel her vagina of course).
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:23 PM
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Insanity. You will fail incredibly hard in the field without some form of confidence and of course that can be built by constantly approaching, but you need inner game simply to approach. You need to overcome the fear, you need to have the motivation, so it all boils down to inner game.
/r/seduction26/09/12 02:31 PM
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Lol you sucked shit because you didn't apply anything you learned. The number one thing they teach is that field experience is king, and you did nothing. Try to approach and you will understand why inner game is king.
/r/seduction26/09/12 06:06 AM
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You have to be louder, much louder. And talk directly in their ear.
/r/seduction21/09/12 12:43 AM
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You have zero value. Reread what your wrote. You sound like a pussy. Be a fucking man and own her.
/r/seduction15/09/12 07:31 PM
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Please call it by its proper name: state.
/r/seduction13/09/12 04:38 PM
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Stop doing routines.
/r/seduction13/09/12 12:47 AM
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This is how daygame works, anybody who says otherwise hasn't done enough daygame. Approach, vibe, if she's down go for insta date and try to to pull. But its' mostly about the vibe.
/r/seduction03/09/12 08:17 AM
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Ya I agree with you here bud. The infield videos of Tyler, Julien, and Brad from RSD clawing girls and making out in seconds is much more impressive. And on a beast night I see myself doing the same thing. Cajun's video is great example for Mystery style game, but its slow as fuck and getting a number doesn't mean shit.
/r/seduction10/08/12 07:46 AM
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Dude..who gives a fuck. You fucked a cheerleader! High five your dick. Honestly, if the girl likes you, she doesn't care how hard you were. It's drunken sex, its never good.
/r/seduction09/08/12 06:36 AM
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Go out and get new. If she doesn't text back...move on.
/r/seduction05/08/12 06:40 PM
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Lol. You talked to ten girls. That's the warmup kiddo. Watch the latest vids on rsdfreetour particularly this one http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbfFLt1a8Dk Also stop thinking your looks matter at all. They dont. Girls want a guy who can talk they're asses off and provide a good time. Not just look pretty.
/r/seduction05/08/12 06:31 AM
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The content is irrelevant, jsut saying. I pretyt much only do direct approach and from my experience, its jsut a matter of my state, how relax I am.
/r/seduction02/08/12 05:41 PM
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DO what you want. But the majority of the people on here pass judgement despite never approaching. They dont' understand what it means to go and beast. Some of the closest girls I've met because of this had boyfriends. Once you realize relationships aren't the end all be all, you don't care as much.
/r/seduction29/07/12 07:09 PM
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Pornstars, strippers and prostitutes. I wan turbo club girls that everybody wishes they could fuck but can't. Super tanned, big bust and ass with a tiny waist, doesnt even look at you unles you are hte fucking boss. Does drugs like candy. mmmmmm. Also goth girls.
/r/seduction27/07/12 03:23 PM
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The solution:just stop being a pussy. This stuff become how you naturally act after a while.
/r/seduction24/07/12 04:37 PM
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I suggest you go to the rsdfreetour youtube page and watch Tyler's videos. The game is nothing like you might htink it is. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G1LQs7NbTOs&feature=channel&list=UL
/r/seduction18/07/12 06:57 PM
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Nah, there's nothing quite like the feeling of beasting all day, every day. Basing your confidence on female validation is bad, learning to be a sociable person who can deal with any interaction is good, and becomign good with women does that to you.
/r/seduction18/07/12 06:27 PM
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Same situation here, living in Toronto. Honestly, where there is a will there is a way. I've had to fuck in cars, rooftops, alleyways, a friends place, in the park, handicap washrooms, etc. Girls do not care honestly, they care only if you see it as a detriment. And just cause you wanted an FR: I invited a girl to have a drink with me. She came, we drank a bit, went to my apartment..saw the beautiful view....then fucked her in the stairwell. Simple. You gotta accept that you might be caught.
/r/seduction18/07/12 05:26 AM
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Ya..I can;t get you there. I just don't view a man as being...a man if he can't approach a girl. He's a turd, what is he doing with his life. But I'm an extremist, and it's my mindset at the current time. In my view, we all want crazy sex with crazy hot women, and and a man is deceiving himself if he thinks he's the other things in his life are far more valuable. Confidence is loving yourself, but it should be applied to fucking hos daily.
/r/seduction18/07/12 05:21 AM
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Heh I know what you are talking about, but the people im describing are naturals, they're confidence isn't from validation. As for those of us who have to learn it, I agree that basing your confidence on female validation is bad, but mostly because it's tipsy. One day you can have an incredible night at the club, and another day you can feel awful. Plus women can sense when you basing they're happiness on them, and they get turned off. But core confidence just comes from realizing you are enough…
/r/seduction18/07/12 04:19 AM
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No, the best way to have confidence with girls is to go out and approach all day everyday and have a huge level of abundance. It makes you feel secure knowing you are enough. The guys I know who have the best game have either shit or boring careers, but they have the utmost confidence. A guy with confidence in business, in fitness or some academia is confidence in that field, but that doesn't translate to women.
/r/seduction18/07/12 03:33 AM
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How about you go and beast, then see how you write the FR's. When I write them in state, they're very bullet point, just what happened. Don;t even reflect on them cause I know i was amazing.
/r/seduction06/07/12 08:11 AM
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It's cause mos of seddit is internet chodes who think the yknow shit about pick up because they the game. The vats majority does not know the meanign of everyday beasting ,huge abundance pure man to woman relations. Doing all thatchanges your midnset completely, as opposed to "omg i approached a girl on the bus, FR!!!".
/r/seduction05/07/12 04:35 AM
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Tyler has spoken on this. Sometimes its a way for the girl to not feel like a slut, or like she is cheating.
/r/seduction03/07/12 04:26 AM
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Maybe you're just a naturally creepy guy? Or you just don't feel comfortable voicing your intention. But its just a hell of a lot easier to escalate quickly when she knows you want her.
/r/seduction03/07/12 04:24 AM
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You've never done this have you. You just said to go listen to a guy instead of saying you've done it. Well I have bud, and the shit works. Just gotta realize that you are the one with higher value and they are gonna be happy as shit for you saying it. In the past 2 weeks, I've had two lays from direct daygame approach.
/r/seduction30/06/12 07:17 AM
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Why do you care? Stop fearing rejection. Embrace it, it pumps your state. Just go approach and fuck bitches. End of story.
/r/seduction30/06/12 07:15 AM
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Worrying about whether you are appearing as a creep, is gonna put you own your own head and make you feel like a creep. And whether you like it or not, you can approach in the nicest way possible and the girl is gonna call you a creep for no reason. So you can go the other way and just beast hard. Some girls are gonna think your creepy, but quite a few are gonna like the intensity and wanna bang quickly.
/r/seduction29/06/12 12:11 AM
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We get laid, you don't. Your opinion means nothing if you don't approach. Also what work have you done. Build muscle? Doesn't mean shit when you're a chode.
/r/seduction26/06/12 05:09 AM
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Dude. You are a pussy. A chode. And this is why you fear rejection. You need to change your state of mind to understand that this is a learning process. Your success is when you APPROACH, not if she likes you.
/r/seduction26/06/12 05:07 AM
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Put your arm around her, talk dirty, put your hand on her hips, deep eye contact, slow voice, pull her in, makeout, grind on her, put her hand on your dicl.
/r/seduction26/06/12 12:14 AM
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I do this in every single set. If she pulls away really quickly, you know you gotta plow. If she holds on but only gently and then asks why you're still holding hands, she's surprised by your forwardness. But if she holds on firmly then it's go time and you can transition straight towards more physicality.
/r/seduction19/06/12 09:18 PM
5

She didn't send pic? Prepare for rolls.
/r/seduction18/06/12 07:57 AM
0

Lol. Pussy
/r/seduction18/06/12 07:54 AM
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Lol 50. Start doing 50 a day and you will see a results. Not to mention that this is a process. Nobody starts out by banging perfect 10's week after week. All the stories you hear are from their first success, usually within their social circle, and then 9 times out of 10 they won't bang them cause their still chodely. Or they get too attached. The time is gonna pass anyways, so just keep going.
/r/seduction17/06/12 10:19 PM
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Put your dick inside, otherwise, move on.
/r/seduction17/06/12 09:13 PM
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She was shit testing you with this. You should have either ignored her, given her the "what the fuck is with you?" look, or just simply looked her dead in the eye and said "ya i'm picking up your friend, jealous?" These girls know what you're doing as soon as you approach, regardless of what you say.
/r/seduction17/06/12 09:11 PM
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You sound young. Dont worry, it's just a learning experience. What's more important is just going out and approaching. As for this experience. You were too nice and chodely. Don't ask to kiss. Just kiss. If she doesn't wanna be friends after, so what?
/r/seduction17/06/12 05:06 PM
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I had this problem too and it basically comes from being too nice and not being clear in your intent. You have to project your sexuality. So most of my stories I tell now are sex stories or crazy nights out. While you are vibing you have to get physical quickly, and make it clear you are a slut. You're just a cool guy she can fuck, not be judged and be open with. It shouldn't be "I'm gonna fuck you after two dates", its "I'm gonna fuck you in the washroom after 5 minutes of talking". Don't take …
/r/seduction14/06/12 05:05 PM
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Girls want to have fun. Girls want to get fucked. They want to get fucked by a cool guy (you). You were not being used, she just was into you. After the beach she saw her boyfriend and felt guilty which is why she didn't contact you. That's why you should have told the friend to fuck off, and brought the girl back to your place and fucked her through the wall. Now you know.
/r/seduction14/06/12 05:00 PM
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The point he's making is that you're investing too much. Just be straight up.
/r/seduction13/06/12 07:40 PM
1

People with low confidence don't do this. You jelly bro?
/r/seduction13/06/12 03:41 AM
1

It's really not too hard. Usually it happens when you don't think about it. For instance I'm at a bar with a girl who is all over me and she and her friend do shots. They want me to do a shot. But I'm sober so I refuse, but they buy me a shot anyway. Or this weekend I went out with a girl for her bday. Her and friends were all drinking so they egged me on to drink (I payed for a few) but in total I think they bought me 3-4 shots. And it was her two girlfriends who wanted my dick that were buying…
/r/seduction13/06/12 03:38 AM
1

This still sounds like the same old Mystery Method/Magic Bullets stuff. You'd be surprised how quickly you can escalate and fuck a girl.
/r/seduction10/06/12 08:31 PM
1

lolololol. YE. He's back
/r/seduction07/06/12 03:10 AM
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The main point however is that you must BELIEVE you are these things. Alot of smart, loyal, strong, good looking, sexually amazing people beleive they aren't. The belief is important.
/r/seduction06/06/12 08:06 PM
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I like this guy.
/r/seduction06/06/12 05:38 AM
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You're a man. She's a women. You're both attracted to each other. Don't apologize for wanting to get in that ass. I'm always rubbing a girls vagina/tits even if were in public. They love it and I get a hard on. Pleasure forget the escalation ladder. You touch her how YOU want to touch her. Especially if its your girlfriend...you should be fucking her by now.
/r/seduction03/06/12 12:44 AM
0

Do not go find a hooker. You won't feel like you earned it. Keep going out and learning the skill until you bang some random.
/r/seduction02/06/12 02:25 AM
1

Do you wanna get laid or be a pussy. Decide. If you're afraid of escalating, then you have to do it. Otherwise it will remain as a sticking point. And try escalating more verbally. Ask them when they're last orgasm was.
/r/seduction01/06/12 10:08 PM
1

Nah, your just a fucking pussy. I've escalated as have my friends very quickly in daygame (washroom pulls, insta dating).
/r/seduction01/06/12 10:05 PM
1

It's ok honey bug. Someday a man will fuck you. Lol god I love your entertainment.
/r/seduction29/05/12 03:39 AM
-1

AHA. Then who the fuck are you to give advice on picking up women? Have you been out in field? Have you banged two girls in the same night? Have you been rejected hundreds of times? No. You are useless.
/r/seduction29/05/12 02:23 AM
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Do not drop your other girls. Do not stop approaching. If this girl really is that hot, then she has a level of abundance which you need to match by getting other. Otherwise you'll just be needy and turn her off (as you said, she already screwed your game up).
/r/seduction28/05/12 04:38 PM
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Nah. You're just a bitch who failed at pickup and then blamed his looks. Ugly chode aha.
/r/seduction28/05/12 04:27 PM
2

Advice on the AA. it's cool to read to all the reasons why it shouldn't affect you. I get ignored sometimes during the day or the girl runs off scared (this shit is actually funny). But the bottom line is that when you see the girl, you must approach. And then right after, approach another. You will feel the momentum to approach. Keep doing this, day after day, and eventually the AA will stop. It becomes manageable. You ignore the limiting beliefs.
/r/seduction28/05/12 04:52 AM
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LOL. No.
/r/seduction28/05/12 01:44 AM
2

Cool. So it means you have garbage personality. Just stop thinking about you're looks as if it means girl owe you their pussy. They don't care if you look like Adonis. Work on your game, go to RSD Nation and read the articles and watch the free videos starting with this. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbfFLt1a8Dk
/r/seduction28/05/12 01:43 AM
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Lol. Ya...she wanted your dick inside her warm wet pussy bro. At least you know now.
/r/seduction27/05/12 03:39 AM
1

Why are you texting her. Gotta get them standards for what you put up with. If a girl doesn't text back for an hour, you don't text back for a day. If she's not down to hang out, fuck her and move on. Don't bother texting again. And no you do not give her another chance. She missed her chance.
/r/seduction27/05/12 03:37 AM
0

The point the OP was trying to make is that girls care what you wear and how you look etc. I disagreed. I didn't disprove my initial point. Read again.
/r/seduction27/05/12 02:32 AM
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My natural buddies would disagree. Also Tyler:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jk6g3XEtsoo&feature=plcp
/r/seduction27/05/12 02:31 AM
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Not really. What it does is give you the confidence when you look in the mirror. It makes you believe that girls will want to fuck you. And so when you go out, you won't have as many limiting beliefs. But if you just think you're the shit regardless of how you look, you'll have the same results. A girl doesn't care about how you look, she cares about how YOU think you look.
/r/seduction26/05/12 07:06 PM
5

What the fuck did this post have to do with attraction. Seriously, you can go out and game without showering, smelling like ass and still pull.
/r/seduction26/05/12 04:35 PM
1

Drop them off. Ask to use the place for a leak. Wallslam>makeout>fuck.
/r/seduction26/05/12 12:01 AM
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I think it's fucking dumb. Why did you make a post on this. Do you think your flask is gonna get you laid?
/r/seduction25/05/12 11:49 PM
0

Why are you drinking when you go out then.
/r/seduction25/05/12 11:48 PM
1

It's a skill dude. Approaching a few women every few days won't get you anywhere. I'm talking about taking MASSIVE action and approaching 10-20 girls per day, slowly increasing your tool set. It may take you months before you find success but you will find it. It will happen. Blaming your looks will not get anywhere because honestly, your look do not matter. Yesterday I was at a club with 4 big alpha looking dudes who got nowhere with girls. Why? They weren't social. You can fix your awkwardness…
/r/seduction25/05/12 11:40 PM
0

You got low confidence dude. Only way to fix it is to face your fears. Go out and approach gorgeous girls, learn rejection and also learn success.
/r/seduction25/05/12 07:20 AM
1

Do not follow Mystery Method. It's an old style of pickup that takes...too much time. Look into RSD with the rsdfreetour youtube page and their homesite.
/r/seduction25/05/12 12:33 AM
-8

You should be pushing hard. She should be afraid to get fucked. She's challenging to see if you really are a beast.
/r/seduction25/05/12 12:30 AM
1

LOLOL. Long distance? Wow you chode. Dump her right now and go out. This is more depressing than funny now.
/r/seduction25/05/12 12:28 AM
1

No. She knows you can't get other girls because you have zero game or self respect.
/r/seduction25/05/12 12:27 AM
6

We need to get this girl to do an AMA "How i keep a cuckold and fuck other people all the time".
/r/seduction25/05/12 12:27 AM
2

AHAHA dude you're being a fucking bitch. She clearly is using you as her little cuckold so she can feel safe and secure knowing there is some chode out there for her emotional needs. meanwhile she is getting rammed all the time by other cock. Meanwhile you have agreed to be in this retarded relationship which clearly started out monogamous. Seriously, you should have dumped her ass the second you found out you cheated, but instead you latched on like a little bitch. Man the fuck up, kick her out…
/r/seduction25/05/12 12:25 AM
2

Trust me, right now you don't wanna see her again because you just fucked. But give it another 5 weeks without sex and you'll be calling her. Just keep her as a fuck buddy. Unless she's really hideous, in which case say you dont want commitment.
/r/seduction24/05/12 05:22 PM
1

LOL, this is aweosme as Tyler is always talking about Bar Rafaeli.
/r/seduction24/05/12 04:59 PM
8

Knees too pointy.
/r/seduction24/05/12 04:49 PM
1

Lol. Trust me bro, get into more situations like this and you will see why its awful. Chicks remember they have boyfriends, they find new ones, they get called sluts by their friends, they regret seeming so easy to you, they get buyers remorse etc. Bang quickly, as NOTHING is a sure deal.
/r/seduction24/05/12 06:34 AM
1

Why are you taking them out for dinner? You're setting yourself up for that dating frame where she thinks you're a nice guy and shouldn't fuck you for weeks. And your wasting money. It's summer time, so take them for a walk in a park, go to the beach, go to a pool. Much cheaper, easier for physical escalation and the question of who pays never pops up. Now if you do find yourself at dinner and its the first date, just grab the bill and say "don't worry, you can get the next one". But..do not act…
/r/seduction23/05/12 05:32 PM
2

That`s fair, but lose the mentality of "holding on to her". You have to accept at any time she could pack up and go, or that you could do the same.
/r/seduction23/05/12 01:39 AM
1

So...did you bang her.
/r/seduction22/05/12 05:33 PM
1

You`re in highschool...why are you worried about this shit.
/r/seduction22/05/12 05:30 PM
8

Well done. But...I don;t advise placing all your happiness on her. No girl is the "one girl" and if you have that frame you're gonna become needy and she's gonna be turned off. A large part of this game is keeping abundance, even if you have a girlfriend. So be wary of that. She will keep getting validation from other dues, while you're oneitis may hurt you.
/r/seduction22/05/12 06:00 AM
2

Friend zone don't exist man. It's all in your head.
/r/seduction20/05/12 09:42 PM
1

No, you need to stop being in the friend zone. What you're telling yourself is just an excuse to avoid rejection. You're afraid of getting physical because you might creep her out. You have to push your boundaries and just accept rejection. You have to lean to enjoy it. When a girl freaks out, just laugh and approach the next girl. You won't get anywhere by accepting the friend zone. Stop looking withing our social circle because evidently it's getting you nowhere. Who gives a fuck if you're kno…
/r/seduction19/05/12 07:00 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MdRMUikKE4E DJ Fuji is asian. He is awesome. You have ZERO excuses. You are only trying to blame your failures on something irrelevant. Take responsibility to make the change. If you can;t crate sexual attraction, it's most likely because you aren't getting physical. This is a sticking point, nothing more. Also I'd like to add, what is the point of giving up? You gain nothing from that. You will just continue to be sad and pathetic and lonely. By doing this though …
/r/seduction19/05/12 06:54 PM
1

Lol. Imagined world of seduction. Girls do horny things, get over it. You just don't have the balls to go beast. Girls respond to dumb things, even the "classy" ones.
/r/seduction19/05/12 05:56 AM
1

Not to mention its probably more like 80% turned off, 20% horny.
/r/seduction19/05/12 05:55 AM
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I just think people get too hung up on "what's the best line for this situation, or this, or this!" The best line is what you feel like saying in the moment. If you want to be nice and you think you can overcome the hurdle and still bang her, then keep gaming. But if you think the interaction is over, have fun.
/r/seduction18/05/12 10:40 PM
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No, it depends on the level of you are currently at. If you're a complete noob, then you are acting nice because you think its the right thing to do. He's not offering any value, he's just ejecting himself kindly. Why? He has to step out of his comfort zone and and do things to push himself. Those things are just ways to amuse yourself. Like if a girl leaves I might say "but wait you're my true love!" or give a wink and pretend to put a phone to my ear "call you later". It's just things to make …
/r/seduction18/05/12 06:20 PM
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Wow..some people hate PUA. Cry more. If you aren't having fun with the interaction, you have lost. Doing those things gets you out of your comfort zone and makes you not give a single fuck about social conditioning. If you liked the girl but she declined, be nice. But express what you feel. It's not about offending the girl, she honestly doesn't matter, its about improving your core.
/r/seduction18/05/12 06:13 PM
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"So, first off, I'm not really versed in most of the true PUA stuff that's here, and, full disclosure, I don't think all of it is really valid." Lol. You think your opinion means shit? You're a noobie, you have little experience, whatever you think doesn't mean jack all. Experience is all that matters. Now for your question, who cares? If the interaction is done, have fun with it. Stand there and look in them in the eyes awkwardly. Pretend to fap slowly. Tell them your dick ain't gonna suck itse…
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:00 PM
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Just do all the non verbal stuff. Eye contact, smiling, winking and then just see who approaches. If he's cool, then well done. If he ain't kick him out.
/r/seduction18/05/12 01:24 AM
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Don't worry too much about the whole alpha thing. Read the basics on abundance and natural game (RSDfreetour) and then just go out and approach. You will feel the alpha come.
/r/seduction17/05/12 11:16 PM
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To be honest...I don't advise approaching guys who are too pussy to approach you. Do you really wanna be talking to some needy loser? No.
/r/seduction17/05/12 11:12 PM
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Don't think about it. She wants you more than you want her, so just go out and pull other girls and she will try to get you back. Non neediness is king.
/r/seduction17/05/12 11:10 PM
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LOL awesome. Shoulda just rolled with it.
/r/seduction17/05/12 07:58 PM
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Why should I care what other people out there think? They are the ones with the insecurities.
/r/seduction17/05/12 05:19 PM
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We just fundamentally disagree then. Look at Mystery, Tyler, Jeffy etc. These were all geeks who now have killer game and yet they still talk to girls about their passions. The difference is that they bring the party and uber confidence so if they speak of assembly programming, the girl doesn't look a the content, but at how they guy is speaking. And you missed my point on the second. If you currently act like a needy chode, then you of course need a huge transformation. But in order to gain tha…
/r/seduction17/05/12 04:39 PM
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Stolen from Tyler. But basically you set your goal for the night to approach 10 girls. As soon as you get the location, instantly talk to the girls in the line and then once you get inside: hit, hit, hit. You have to get over your AA right away. Do not expect the sets to go anywhere, but always plow just for the sake of it. Now if you happen to snag a hot girl before you're 10 approaches are done...that's cool. But usually once you ht 10-15 sets you will be in great state at which point you will…
/r/seduction16/05/12 04:34 PM
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Ya the fact that you saw making out as a success is a plus. But it seems like you need to work on your inner confidence. This girl was talking with you, putting her arms on you, LICKING you, making out etc. She was down to fuck from the get go, yet you thought she was just friendly.
/r/seduction16/05/12 04:28 PM
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This. Girls do not care about what you are saying. It could be totally bullshit and wrong, but what matters is HOW you are sayin it. If you have great knowledge in the are and speak confidently, the girl will see you as having convictions and "alpha". However, do not try to throw out geeky stuff randomly. In all honesty, being a dumbass usually helps more.
/r/seduction16/05/12 04:23 PM
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You can't tell if a girl is gonna be down to makeout. You just do it. There is no waiting for eye contact or seeing if the girl is smiling. Grab and go. Op just needs to fail more. Go out and see where the boundaries are.
/r/seduction16/05/12 08:31 AM
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Disagree completely. You can make out with girl within seconds based purely upon how hard you approached. Mystery placed far too much emphasis on comfort (7 hour rule) when in reality you don't need a whole lot. If you get a girl attracted and sexually charged, crazy shit can happen quickly. It's all about that state your in. If you are having a crazy fun time then she will feel it off you and see you as social. But just being tall and hanging with others doesn't do much. Just have to approach a…
/r/seduction15/05/12 03:13 AM
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Maybe you aren''t having enough fun. I wouldn't do this if it was boring or dull. But the game is fucking hilarious. It leads on adventures. It pushes you to talk to the hottest girls you have ever seen. I spend very little money to go to clubs. Have you ever killed it at a club? Like achieved a ridiculously high state and madeout with randoms like its no big deal. Sex is a part of this game, but the fun is the process.
/r/seduction15/05/12 03:08 AM
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You are not ready to be in a relationship. You have no idea of yourself, what your values are and what you want out of life. And this girl sounds emotionally needy as well. This means at any slight fuckup, you two will both be emotional wrecks crying all the time, being overly dependant. It will not work out. There's a reason why we recomend committing a year to this shit. It's so you can gain an understanding of your manly side and cultivating abundance so girl's can't fuck with your emotions.
/r/seduction14/05/12 09:57 PM
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Not that this isn't a really detailed post, but it still assumes that the Mystery model is correct. When in actuality, it really ain't that complicated. Just approach, vibe, kino within minutes, go for makeout within 10-15, if she's down keep vibing and getting sexual, lead her around club then pull home. The demonstrating higher value stuff is pretty unnecessary. If you are in a good state and abundance mentality, you will act like a boss.
/r/seduction14/05/12 04:32 PM
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It's not because you're short. If you have negative beliefs concerning you're height then you need to work on either stopping those thought loops or calming your mind. And it's simply about practice. How long have you been going out, how many times are you approaching per day, how hard is your approach etc. Consider getting a decent wingman who can see what your sticking point is. If you are a good conversationalist then maybe you need harder escalation. Basically you should be getting into kino…
/r/seduction14/05/12 04:29 PM
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It's a reality check bud. If you were in France you'd want to bang the locals too. Don't pine so hard over one girl.
/r/seduction14/05/12 03:09 AM
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Ditch mysterys book and instead watch the foundations by RSD. Trust me, much more helpful.
/r/seduction14/05/12 03:06 AM
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Lol stop being such a chode. Rita doesn't want your fucking dick so get over it. She was a huge bitch and didn't even want to dance with you. it's good that you ditched her and found another hot girl who you vibed with. You clearly have better chemistry so aim for her hole. You are not irresponsible. You are a man who doesn't take shit.
/r/seduction14/05/12 02:58 AM
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Don't ask a girl to be exclusive. It's so pathetic. Just keep going on dates, fuck her and if she likes you, she will be exclusive. Otherwise, why the fuck would you wanna be exclusive when she's away in France getting railed by the locals?
/r/seduction14/05/12 02:52 AM
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If you are worried about her sticking around, she probably won't stick around. She should be worried whether you will stick around. You are worth it.
/r/seduction14/05/12 02:18 AM
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Nightclub game depends on the club. Some are super loud so you can't hear shit in which case you need to improve your non verbal game. You need to hit state quickly (approach a bunch of chicks) and then just start clawing. Drag them to the dancefloor, facerape and finger them, then take them outside or to a couch to talk. But honestly you can have some of the most legendary nights here if you hit a good state and then every girl wants that party dong. It's a serious amount of fun. As for the "al…
/r/seduction12/05/12 06:46 PM
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Call Center for Insurance. The company introduces a new batch of "talent" every other week which usually includes some hotties. We would convince the managers to sit the hot girls beside us so they would learn the script. Massive social status as everybody in the company loved me and my two natural buddies. Both of them had a reputation as players and one of them basically ran through the call center in the second location (he had to move here because the girls started infighting). You get massi…
/r/seduction12/05/12 04:25 AM
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I'm actually curious as to how you create those deep emotional connections (so the sex can feel great) but at the same time avoid oneitis. I love the feeling of being abundant and overall douchebag, lording up the club and approaching all day. But it seems whenever I get feelings for a girl, that gets hurt. How do you balance the two.
/r/seduction11/05/12 05:11 PM
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I don't think Op has to anything to worry about. No girl is gonna fuck something that pathetic. " i just feel like it would cheapen the experience for me because she probably won't even remember my name or my face in a few years....i'll just be another guy" Seriously OP, man the fuck up. You're a bitch. Grow some balls and APPROACH. The way that you think she views you is chodely. You have to reverse it. She is the girl you will forget about. She is the notch. You are the fucking beast that fuck…
/r/seduction11/05/12 05:03 PM
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When we say "be yourself" we simply me being congruent. If you pretend to be a douchebag or pretend to be a player, a girl can sense that incongruent vibe and be turned off. Instead, just being congruent with what you feel at the time. If you're nervous, tell her you're nervous. if you're confident, be confident. But don't act in a manner that isn't how you feel. This also applies when you are vibing with a girl. You are conveying you're personality. A large part of this game is realizing that y…
/r/seduction11/05/12 07:17 AM
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No offence, but this is fucking chodely. Stop worrying about what us awkard. It is only akward if you feel awkward and then she will feel that. There is a reason why we recommend escalating quickly, so that you don't end up doing 3rd, 4th and 5th dates. As soon as you comfortable and there is a vibe, you should be physically escalating. You could have closed it the last date, but instead you're still worried whether she likes you or not. Stop worrying. As soon as you meet her, makeout. Then sexu…
/r/seduction11/05/12 07:09 AM
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Dancing is not the best way to pick up girls. Granted, you can get the physical contact if you just grab a girl and you grind with her. But from this you have to transition. Grab her hand and take her to a quiet spot or outside to talk. Or you need to increase your vocal projection. That's honestly you're biggest problem. Approach the girls not dancing and yell in their fucking ear. Do 10 approaches very quickly and you should hit state, try to claw a girl and lock in. From there take her to a c…
/r/seduction08/05/12 11:47 PM
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http://www.datingskillsreview.com/images/stories/jreviews/1346_tdowencook14_1286174330.jpg Tyler in the middle http://www.datingskillsreview.com/images/profiles/Jeffy-Jeff-Allen-AKA-JLaix/jeffy-jeff-allen-rsd-with-girl.jpg Jeffy on left http://puacomic.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/neil-strauss-before-after.jpg Neil strauss http://sofiastry.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/cajun.jpg?w=500 Cajun Seriously, this shit is getting old. Looks do not fucking matter. Get it into your head. My natural buddy …
/r/seduction08/05/12 06:26 PM
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No offence, but it doesn't matter what you fucking believe. This shit is true. Tons of PUA's are ugly as fuck and still get more ass than you can believe. As I mentioned, you suck because you have shit confidence. The only way to gain it, is to go out and approach, learn from your experience and get success. You will learn every quickly your looks don't matter. On any given night, I can go out and have a killer time, makeout with a bunch of chicks and pull. All the girls will be saying how cute …
/r/seduction08/05/12 04:38 PM
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Lol there are tons of PUA's who are not attractive in the least. From my head I can think of Cajun, Christof and even Style. Your looks don't mean shit. The reason why you suck ass with women is because you feel so shit about yourself so you have zero confidence. What you need to do is take action. Go out to the club or bar 5-7 times for the next few months. And I'm not even kidding. You need hardcore exposure. And when you get there, your only goal is to do 10 approaches per night. If you get b…
/r/seduction08/05/12 04:31 PM
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I'm not necessarily disagreeing with this option. But from my experience, if a girl has a boyfriend then its really best not to wait. Otherwise she will go home, feel guilty about what she did and then flake on you. Tap it before it goes cold.
/r/seduction08/05/12 04:44 AM
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Then why are you still infatuated with her? This game is about getting good with all women, not a particular one. Be thankful she ditched you so you can now go out and game your city. I know it's hard to believe looks don't matter, but thats because were guys and we look for physical attractiveness. But what makes a guy attractive to a girl is his personality, confidence, social status etc. So think of the way that girl went up 3 points because of her personality. For a girl, a guy starts at 0 a…
/r/seduction08/05/12 04:03 AM
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Tyler from RSD discussing why looks don't matter. Honestly, just look at him. That guy pulls more ass than 99% of all guys.
/r/seduction08/05/12 04:00 AM
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And in the meantime make sure you are approaching multiple women per day to build up that abundance. It will help immensely.
/r/seduction07/05/12 12:39 AM
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Well done, but don't buy into what people say about daygame being easier. Girls still have their bitch shields up and can play "confused" since their probably going somewhere. Whereas in a club...they plan on being fucked. Overall, daygame is very similar to nightgame.
/r/seduction06/05/12 11:35 PM
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You were way too outcome dependent dude. Always afraid if you're touching her too much, or how you might appear awkward. Those aren't the characteristics of a high value person. You need to make it clear she's gonna get fucked. That means you should be kissing within 15-20 minutes of vibing. Dance intimately and make her feel dat dick. When you take her back to the dorm, you walk right in. Or you can be sneaky and say you need to use the washroom/i wanna chill for a bit. Then from there...escala…
/r/seduction06/05/12 11:31 PM
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Fang78 layed out how to deal with the chode, but what's really disconcerting is how you couldn't pull the girl back into your world. Before you went to her place, you should have walk and talked, make the night seem like an adventure. Be the man and lead. She was clearly losing attraction from the way you acted so you needed to reassert dominance. And escalate fucking HARD. Women know when your sliding your hands around their pants. Fuck that. As soon as you enter the room, wall slam makeout, te…
/r/seduction06/05/12 11:14 PM
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That's just token resistance. Say "ya we'll save it for later" then continue to unzip. And nothing is a sure thing for later. She could be married. She could flake on you. She could find someone else. That's why we always try to hit it immediately.
/r/seduction06/05/12 07:26 PM
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No it's still a form of oneitis because you're pining over one girl. It sounds rough, but you have to realize that no one girl is worth it. Honestly, if she broke up than it means the shit is done and theirs point trying it. I know you may not be able to believe me right now, but thats cause your in a bad state of mine. I guarantee you this video will help. Its about how to get over a girl by a fucking pimp. So don't worry dude, you will get over her. Go out every night, beast the fuck out of th…
/r/seduction06/05/12 04:01 AM
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No because it removes the pain of the approach. Guys figure, hey I can message a bunch of girls and if they don't respond it doesn't feel bad. Whereas if I go outside, i have to deal with AA and I can get rejected badly. But that's horrible for your game.
/r/seduction05/05/12 11:31 PM
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When you say she called you over..do you mean her house? Dude..she wanted you to bend her over the kitchen counter and fuck her raw.
/r/seduction05/05/12 08:36 PM
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Then be prepared to be needy all over again. Trust me, you need a level of abundance so that you can even find a girl you actually like (instead of the first girl that touches your dick). And you need to not be able to care so much.
/r/seduction05/05/12 08:31 PM
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Here's my impression. You're still just in highschool and it doesn't really matter. Clearly you had deep feelings for her as it may be your first "girlfriend" but guess what, most people get dumped or dump their first partner. This is clearly a learning experience. You were too needy, too outcome dependent and sought too much validation because you wanted her labeled as your "girlfriend". You will forget this as soon as you enter University and are surrounded by tons of fresh new pussy. So focus…
/r/seduction05/05/12 06:01 PM
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What girls say isn't suddenly reality. A girl can say "yes im gonna fuck you silly" and then and then change her mind. They are flakey
/r/seduction05/05/12 05:57 PM
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I disagree with the last point. If you have only ever had one girlfriend and you're needy on her but still fuck her, you still have oneitis. I think Alex from rsd had a long section on his blog about his chode past. You can be not be laid for many months but if your constantly gaming and going out with new girls, you won't be needy.
/r/seduction05/05/12 08:57 AM
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Key to success: do not do online dating. I know Jeffy does it. But jeffy was a beast before online. I think it tends hurts your game as you spend more time online than actually outside where the real game is.
/r/seduction05/05/12 08:54 AM
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Intent+ freedom from outcome= pussy. Jeffy and evil Stiffler do that shit even during daytime going major creep mode. You just have to not give a fuck if she's weirded out by your intensity.
/r/seduction05/05/12 08:34 AM
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Dude...you have a blessing. You are going in with full intent so she can feel that sexuality oozing off of you. She is getting horny herself. Just keep your frame sexual as well, lead her along and pull. Especially if your vibing with her, hold her by the hips and pull her in, make her feel that shit. Or just grab her hand and put it on your boner.
/r/seduction05/05/12 12:47 AM
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You have the right mindset.
/r/seduction04/05/12 11:47 AM
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No. This is horrible advice. The indirect strategies are just a way of not being blown out. They give you fewer quick rejections. But they are horrible if you want to get FUCKED. Go to a girl, approach with clear intent and freedom from outcome. Thats important. Why do you care if a girl rejects you? Say the shit that you think is funny, vibe and close. Indirect routines are so old and incongruent its insane.
/r/seduction04/05/12 11:46 AM
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I like how your downvoted yet have the best advice. These guys are playing to not get rejected, rather than to win. Rejection is good, eat it up. As jeffy says, red light, yellow light, green light. If she kisses back its green, if she says no, or backs up and laughs but STAYS THERE, its yellow light and try later. Red is when she runs the fuck away. And who the fuck waits till the end of a date to kiss. Wow, maybe on the second date you'll feel a boob. Vibe>kino>kiss very quickly, and you shoul…
/r/seduction04/05/12 11:12 AM
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fPUA has to to be the dumbest shit in existence. No women can logically understand why she is being attracted to a man. So silly to think they could teach it too.
/r/seduction03/05/12 01:41 AM
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Well the point is that you never know which girls will respond. I've had girls I've spoken to for an hour and don't reply to texts, while others will reply after a minute of talking. Always get the number.
/r/seduction02/05/12 10:42 PM
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"1-2 new girls a month." "I'm a PUA". LOL. You beast.
/r/seduction02/05/12 10:40 PM
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"Don't say move on; I can get other girls but I want her." Lol that's fucking chodely. Seriously, you've never had a deep conversation yet you want her? That's so needy and wimpish it hurts. She was attracted to you at first and then you became a needy bitch and now she wants you to fuck off. Deal with it. You can either cry and masturbate to the though of her licking you, or you can go out and fuck girls way hotter than her.
/r/seduction02/05/12 04:54 PM
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PK is right. You move on, bang other girls, get your heart broken by some others. Then a a couple months later you call her up and start a convo, convey your personality and the crazy adventures you've done. She internally wants you to not give a fuck about her.
/r/seduction02/05/12 04:52 PM
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Ar you dense. SHE WANTS YOUR COCK. WHY ARE YOU ON REDDIT. GO TO CLASS AND FUCK HER.
/r/seduction02/05/12 04:43 PM
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You just have garbage self esteem. Not even the validation and praise of others can change that. You wanted others to say you look pretty so you went on reddit and they gave you praise, yet you still don't believe it. So its time to change yourself. Watch the blueprint by Tyler, and approach 5 girls per day.
/r/seduction02/05/12 04:42 PM
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I have a natural friend with a similar experience. Banged over 100 hundred girl but admits the emptiness. Sounds like you need some deep inner change so you can forget your ego and enjoy life. Read the power of now by eckhart tolle.
/r/seduction02/05/12 06:40 AM
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Exactly. It was a failure, but everyone here is looking at it like it's advice. I can totally agree that you should walk away if you don't build a connection with a girl. But girls put up the bitch shield in the beginning just to sort through the chodes. And it seems like you almost busted through it, but couldn't. The fact that you wrote this means you felt some emotional investment and maybe even wanted to take these girls home.
/r/seduction01/05/12 12:13 AM
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Wow, some girls are assholes. Interesting! Seriously what was the point of this story. You did not attract them in anyways and did not flip that emotional intensity into escalation. Unless you were acting that way to boost your own state, it was pointless. Being an asshole is fun, and it really aids in not seeking validation, but the aim to attract girls with it. All these stories should have "And then I banged her" at the end, otherwise it has no value.
/r/seduction30/04/12 10:26 PM
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"The primary advice given here is not to give a shit and to not do things to get some sort of reaction or feeling out of another person. If I didn't give a shit, why would I be reading and practicing this stuff? If I don't want something (anything, not just sex/validation/whatever) out of a person, why am I employing techniques to... get something out of them (in most cases on seddit, sex, a number, a kiss, or whatever else)?" When you seek validation from a girl you become needy. You aren't sat…
/r/seduction30/04/12 10:04 PM
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If you are not a PUA, then you don't actually have much infield experience so all your advice is just what you want to think. Not actually true. Some parts may be spot on, but it's just what you'd like to believe.
/r/seduction30/04/12 09:56 PM
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It's horrible advice. He's gonna be so needy because he thinks he found the "right" girl that she's gonna be scared away. Making a big deal out of losing your virginity is ridiculous. It's sex. Attract a girl, stick it in, move on.
/r/seduction30/04/12 09:54 PM
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Your problem is not your hobbies, but rather that you view your hobbies as low value. Look at Vin Diesal. He plays DnD but do you think a chick is going to be turned off by that? No. The girl will only be turned off if you state your hobbies in a weak, validation seeking way. Just be upfront and passionate. "Whats your hobby?" "I slay motherfucking dragons and save the universe while collecting treasure. Then I like to go to the beach and read my books which bring me to the tears. Oh...and I kno…
/r/seduction30/04/12 02:38 AM
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Ignore the haters on the channel dude. This shit is beast.
/r/seduction29/04/12 06:53 PM
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Most of the PUAs have gone through the same deal whereby they start out drinking heavily and maintain a high level of success. But eventually it becomes a crutch and it ruins their long term sustainability in the game. So they cut it off and just go out sober, which eventually they become comfortable with and their game is more coherent. From the top of my head, Jeffy, Julien and Brad Branson went through this.
/r/seduction29/04/12 08:03 AM
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"find a girl you love." Lol. Ya that won't take long at all.
/r/seduction29/04/12 01:35 AM
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I understand this in the pre-texting era. But nobody calls anymore. Girls do not answer their voice mails. As soon as you get a number you simply text it with something simple like "dork -dantaeos" so she knows its you.
/r/seduction25/04/12 03:18 PM
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Sneaky you took this from Style. But seriously are you gonna walk around in a dark ass night club asking drunk girls to write down their phone numbers on a pad? It's a bit contrived and she probably thinks "why does this guy not have a phone?" Be simple and direct. Whip out your phone and say "Hey give me your number, were gonna have fun adventures" and give it to her. Done.
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:02 AM
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Unsure if serious...
/r/seduction25/04/12 02:40 AM
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Not to answer for TenMagnet, but what Tyler means by that is your state of mind when you approach. If you go in halfheartedly, looking for validation and aren't fully concentrated in your approach, then you have lack of intent. You have to be like a bullet, thinking you want to undress and bang the girl on the floor, and fully believe she will be receptive. In other words if you go in for a makeout with 100% belief she will like it, it will usually work. Freedom from outcome is simply outcome in…
/r/seduction25/04/12 02:12 AM
1

Which places would you say are the best to game in Toronto?
/r/seduction25/04/12 02:08 AM
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Don't listen to the haters. They clearly have never taken a simple psychology course or read up on anything basic. There are many natural and genetic factors for what causes certain human behaviour. In fact, most evidence shows that parental upbringing does little in the way of affecting a child's personality (barring abuse). However, there are definitive ways you can change your own thinking.
/r/seduction24/04/12 09:41 PM
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Go out and get other ass. I know it sounds counter intuitive, but it sounds like you got a major case of oneitis. She's probably sensing that neediness off of you and is pushing you away because by claiming you just want sex. So go game, get that iciness back, and she will most likely respond. And stop buying into her frame. You're falling into her traps by defending yourself. Next time she says "you just want ass", don't be reactive. Just look at her in the eyes cold, as if she should feel sorr…
/r/seduction24/04/12 07:56 PM
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Aha this is Jeffy's story all over again. Get his book "Nine Ball" and it has a whole section of him going out with girlfriend and getting threesomes. Read up.
/r/seduction24/04/12 02:01 AM
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Perhaps because you view her as having high social value, you're treating her in a special manner thats unneeded and being too outcome dependent. Imagine if she was just an HB6. You would just instantly pull her for the make out and if she didnt respond, you still wouldn't give a fuck. You've already been on two big dates. Forget about taking her "out". Just invite her for a walk near your place then invite her up.
/r/seduction23/04/12 09:23 PM
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"There was no room for a kiss." This makes me doubt you're "experienced". You don't need the right time. You just stop her in her tracks and kiss her. You're escalating so slowly she's going to put you in the dating zone and not want to fuck for a looooong time.
/r/seduction23/04/12 08:47 PM
0

A good way to just outline the boundaries: go for the mouthrape. This way you don't have to wonder.
/r/seduction23/04/12 08:44 PM
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No it does not. Style, Tyler, Jeffy all fairly short.
/r/seduction22/04/12 04:20 PM
1

Goth? Mad props dude. Tell her to wear a corset.
/r/seduction21/04/12 05:37 PM
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Take her for ice cream. No I am not kidding.
/r/seduction20/04/12 09:15 PM
-12

Awww that's romantic. But just keep in mind that the far quicker way is to just to open the door naked and then bend over the couch.
/r/seduction20/04/12 08:59 PM
1

Ya hate to say it, but if her buying temperature was that hot, he should have just invited her over to "help study" and then ploughed her for days.
/r/seduction20/04/12 08:28 PM
2

It's not award because you are so set in your reality that you are awesome and she is missing out, you don't feel that weirdness. It's just bizarre she wouldn't go with you because your awesome, and then you just continue to keep chatting. If you don;t feel awkward, she won't either.
/r/seduction20/04/12 08:26 PM
2

Jeffy talks about this a bit and the guy is basically trying to qualify himself from the get go. Shit aint attractive in the least.
/r/seduction20/04/12 08:23 PM
2

Just make sure you aren't "asking her out" in that old chodely manner. Tell her you're taking her for drinks then flirt like there's no tomorrow.
/r/seduction20/04/12 08:19 PM
3

All I'd say is...be very careful. It's recommend by most instructors to at least devote a year of your life to learning the game, even if you meet an amazing girl. This is because you won't have a level of abundance yet and may become needy on her. Or she just won't be as good as you think but you're just happy to have a gf (and constant sex). I was in the same situation when I first started out. Met a girl after one month of learning game, thought she was amazing. Had oneitis. She turned out to…
/r/seduction20/04/12 01:52 AM
6

Anytime there is a new RSD Free Tour Video, it feels like a surprise birthday gift.
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:01 PM
18

Here's some advice: grow a fucking pair, tell her your gonna go out for drinks, game the fuck out of her as her eyes slowly glaze into marshmallows. Take her face and destroy it with your tongue, then pull back to your place for buttsecks. And if she doesn't want to go for drinks cause your the creepy dude who likes her but has no confidence, fuck it. One down, millions to go.
/r/seduction18/04/12 04:28 AM
0

This is a fantastic video by Tyler on avoiding oneitis and scarcity.
/r/seduction15/04/12 07:00 PM
3

" I might have a fulfilling relationship one day, but I'll never have the crazy, exciting "college" relationship that they do. This is a sad and pathetic self fulfilling prophecy. It's so defeatist it makes me sick. Who says you can't fuck tons of girls and have crazy relationships? Look at Tyler. Look at fat Tyler in 2006. Look at how much pussy he gets. Because you believe you can`t succeed with women, you will have no confidence and won't even approach. I saw some majorly ugly dudes in high s…
/r/seduction15/04/12 06:50 PM
1

You can hear about and see plenty of example of men who speak little words but garner respect trust just through their body language. Usually these guys have a military background or a fucked up past. However I don't see how you can replicate this without looking like some shy pussy. I used to always consider myself an introvert but really I was just afraid to speak up. You have to voice what you're thinking, speak with everybody and be the fun guy that people want to be around. It's a skill and…
/r/seduction10/04/12 12:38 AM
1

Speak for yourself bud, RSD really is changing my life for the better. Just watch some videos from the rsdfreetour youtube channel and you will see how honest they are about game. RSd is more about transformation than the old style of manipulation.
/r/seduction10/04/12 12:21 AM
2

...Simple Pickup. It is pretty much ALL daygame in California. This is Paul Janka doing some daygame in NY. Some more in US Shall I keep going?
/r/seduction10/04/12 12:02 AM
1

Care to link to vids about anxiety?
/r/seduction09/04/12 11:32 PM
1

...No. It really won't. Plenty of guys do day game in New York or other big cities.
/r/seduction09/04/12 11:27 PM
1

To be honest I highly doubt he browses seddit otherwise he would actually understand the techniques. He seems like a troll. And you clearly demonstrated confirmation bias by agreeing with somebody who told you what you want to hear. And i was calling the other guy a chump. But congrats on your spelling abilities...
/r/seduction09/04/12 11:25 PM
1

Except for the fact that literally every aspect of game is critiqued within the community. There is huge debate over indirect vs direct game, mystery method and RSD, questions on NLP, whether you should focus on inner or outer game etc. And sometimes you get keyboard jockies who never go out but still argue. Pretty much anytime someone suggests a technique to use, there is another person who disagrees. The only generalized principles are things like abundance and confidence.
/r/seduction09/04/12 11:23 PM
4

This just confirms my belief that Aaron just talks out his ass and zero fucking clue about game.
/r/seduction09/04/12 08:05 AM
2

What you have to realize is that pickup has evolved over time, it is never stagnant. At first it started with NLP and Ross Jeffries believed that you could implant thoughts into a girl which would attract her (no science has show NLP to be effective). Then you had Mystery Method taught by Mystery which was essentially all "outer game". He taught that there were three stages of seduction (attraction, comfort and seduction) and all his techniques were routines. So you would open a set indirectly (…
/r/seduction09/04/12 06:46 AM
0

Please do not listen this chump. You only view it as accurate because you have confirmation bias. This is not the way that most people in the community view themselves and certainly not the way that the top PUA's view themselves. If you want an accurate perspective, check out this from Tyler. He is really the most honest when it comes to game. As ThrowAwayPUA said, what this dumbass iznou posted sounds ripped off from puahater.com, a site DEVOTED to hating pua!
/r/seduction09/04/12 06:32 AM
1

Holy fuck..why do people even still write about this shit? Hotness gets you freebies.It is mutually exclusive from game./thread
/r/seduction09/04/12 06:20 AM
2

Honestly it just matters if you have a connection with the person. Go on a date and if you talk for hours and and develop feelings of affection, stick with them. If he likes you then he will want to be around you AND have passionate sex. So have sex and see where it goes.
/r/seduction09/04/12 12:17 AM
2

No you can not "in general" notice that. I know just as many guy cheaters as girl cheaters. To take a good hard look you would have to do a study, and so far no study has shown a strong difference between the two sexes.
/r/seduction08/04/12 07:30 PM
2

Ya i have another field report I jsut wrote for today. But Madison is a great place to game. Lots of places to isolate, large enough to get new girls and its extremely relaxed. No fights or idiotic macho guys. You can actually hear the person talk. And its a university bar...so fairly open to new things. Even Jeffy from RSD has been there. On Thursday night, it is the hotspot of Toronto. I've been clubbing in Toronto since last summer (without have success at game) so I have a good understanding…
/r/seduction08/04/12 09:29 AM
1

Ya I can't critique since I'm probably no where near you're level. I just like the natural stuff of RSD like being in state and being physical right away,assuming attraction etc. It's just more fun than routines. Have you ever dabbled in the other stuff.
/r/seduction06/04/12 03:04 AM
1

I was actually going to ask why you guys still follow that method. Not that it won't work, but it just seems so fake and forced.
/r/seduction05/04/12 06:31 PM
1

That means you're doing it right. You're becoming naturally flirty.
/r/seduction05/04/12 06:01 AM
2

That just shows you give up easily. These girls aren't actually bitchy to their friends or boyfriend, and once you win her over or sleep with her, she will be your little girl with bubbly eyes. She isn't insecure, she's just trying to weed out the pussies.
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:47 AM
1

You are describing what an ideal fairy tale version of pickup would look like. This is what women want to be attracted to and what they tell their friends their attracted to. No girl is going to brag to her friend about the one time she got fucked in the bathroom in the club by some guy she knew for 30 minutes. But it still happens. No girl wants to be known as the girl who puts out on the first date either, but it is our goal to overcome this, not be the nice little chode who can't close after …
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:44 AM
-2

Was she not sexy?
/r/seduction04/04/12 07:57 PM
21

She's simply acting like that to find the "alpha male" who not only won't put up with her shit, but also dominates her. Tyler and Manwhore have a couple good talks about this, and she is essentially shit testing you. But if you just acted calm and cool and nonreactive with little facial response, she would understand that you are confident in yourself. By verbally calling her out though, you just created confrontation rather than sexual escalation.
/r/seduction04/04/12 07:45 PM
5

Where did you find blueprint decoded pdf?
/r/seduction02/04/12 04:34 PM
2

That's fair, but after the initial tension she relaxed and started asking him about his helmet. I think it may work for him since he's just comfortable with it.
/r/seduction27/03/12 06:26 AM
2

See: The claw by Tyler.
/r/seduction27/03/12 04:30 AM
1

Feels good bro. Just remember that your success is the approach. If you approach, you have succeeded. This will naturally boost up you state and make you much more comfortable once you go in.
/r/seduction26/03/12 07:41 PM
1

In that case, this should help.
/r/seduction26/03/12 06:56 PM
2

Op should also check out this for getting the essentials down.
/r/seduction25/03/12 07:26 PM
1

Also: Tyler.
/r/seduction24/03/12 09:07 AM
3

Dammit GnomChompsky...I was literally just refreshing the rsd youtube channel to see if they had a new video so I could post it and reap karma.
/r/seduction14/03/12 04:42 AM
1

Or she just doesn't wanna seem like a slut by sleeping so quickly.
/r/seduction06/03/12 02:38 AM
1

"Men's rights slowly evaporate over time. They begin getting paid less for their work. They lose their rights as a parent to their children. Divorce courts begin to favor women in almost all cases. Eventually it gets to the point where women pretty much always get what they want and men... men just get fucked. Oh wait, we're already there..." I lold. But only because it's retarded.
/r/seduction06/03/12 02:36 AM
4

Worth it NSFW
/r/seduction04/03/12 05:57 PM
1

When is the next time you are going to toronto? You need to do some sort of speech or event here.
/r/seduction29/02/12 05:56 AM
1

Then you will want something affordable but shows you have variety. For example today I'm going out with a blonde girl who also goes to university (Toronto). Since it's cold out, were gonna go skating which is both fun, connects her to childhood and is really easy to talk about anything (and it's super cheap to rent skates). Then head to distillery district for coffee and looking at art (the atmosphere is what makes it), and then finally paramount for food. The important thing is to keep moving …
/r/seduction28/02/12 08:05 PM
1

13 What I've noticed is that girls come in waves. I can go a month and a half with nobody new, then suddenly in a week I'll have 2 or 3. Probably due to social momentum. Why do you ask bud.
/r/seduction23/02/12 07:47 PM
1

Honestly from my experience in field you can find all types of people with varying interests. The club is just the meeting place for people to interact. Compatibility is not necessarily based on shared interests, its often just how your personalities and conversation mesh together. You can talk about the most random stuff but still hit it off incredibly well. For the next time you go out, just try to have the best time you can. Bring a couple of friends who like clubs, go drink and dance and tal…
/r/seduction23/02/12 04:47 AM
1

How do you misinterpret sentences so easily. I said developing the best conversion rates. You're just propagating the same nonsense that discourages guys from going out in the field. Game and looks are mutually exclusive. You can have girls approach you based on your looks, but your game pushes them away.
/r/seduction23/02/12 04:43 AM
1

What specifically do you not like about clubs or bars? Are you going out with other people who enjoy them?
/r/seduction22/02/12 05:03 AM
1

Those two videos...showed pretty much nothing. That video where the guys all try to pick up one girl live on air is the silliest shit I've ever seen. As if there's a chance in hell she's gonna be charmed with 5 cameras on her and the whole point is to reject the guys. And in the Mystery video, he actually locks in the girl and gets her engaged and we don't see what happens afterwards. Seems like your just here to spam nonsense honestly.
/r/seduction17/02/12 06:05 AM
1

The whole point of the game is to create a system that allows you the best possible choice of picking up a girl whether its meghan fox or any girl at a club. Its not going to be 100 percent effective due to your own miscalibrations, but its YOUR fault if you fail. I'm defensive because this article promotes the idea that the girl has made her decision from the first time she sees you and that's just not true. Your personality is the real thing she judges. Indirect approach works, maybe you don't…
/r/seduction15/02/12 05:41 PM
1

Already taken Econ, your analogy sucks. The whole article just reduces game to a matter of "she sees, she judges, she either likes me or doesn't, end of game." It's so dumb for obvious reasons. Indirect game is useful getting the girl YOU want. If you want a high success rate for specific girls, then you need to learn it in order to open masterfully. Sure, going in direct on 10 girls and getting 1 lay is good, but it's not necessarily the exact girl you wanted. It's the tenth. Not to mention, as…
/r/seduction11/02/12 08:50 AM
2

"Mystery's success rate is as low as any other guy's if not worse." Ok bud, keep living in your own reality. Mystery has shown time and time again how well he can open up sets, get numbers and get lays. And as the guy before me mentioned, Tyler is all about direct game, so the writer is ignorant at best. Indirect game works for the Love Systems community, even if it didn't work out for the writer.
/r/seduction10/02/12 05:03 PM
3

Ya...that whole indirect game is really going badly for Mystery, Neil, Lovedrop, Savoy etc... Enough with the extremist positions. Indirect game works for some people and direct game works for others and some people can use both. But this article is particularly harmful as it reinforces the idea that looks are extremely important and you're fate is decided as soon as she sees you. "Let me tell you how it really is: Your “opener” is irrelevant. If she finds you unattractive, for whatever reason, …
/r/seduction10/02/12 06:32 AM
7

This is how.
/r/seduction09/02/12 07:56 AM
15

Trying to logically calm your mind and just approach girls won't work usually. Understanding that the fear is irrational doesn't necessarily make it go away. You just have to bust through it, but even the best pick up artists fear the approach. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KjQ-dFocxA0
/r/seduction07/02/12 11:36 PM
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