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| 3 | [deleted by user]Look most woman just want attention and will say anything to get it without backing it up like meeting up with you. Invite her to your place for some drinks and watch a movie. If she comes great she probably wants to fuck or whatnot, if she says no or comes up with an excuse without reschedule then you simply move on. You should be talking to multiple woman and not focused on one. And stop talking about not having sex, it’s an awkward conversation and just not fun to talk about. Just do whatever… | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 03:48 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]she has cooked meals for me and regularly asks me about my day and what I've been up to. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 12:43 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]no yeah I bring woman to my house sometimes and no I dont want to be her friend so I was like here's my offer. But obv she's not feeling it so I'm just gonna continue with my life and wish her the best. Yeah I'm not gonna apologize. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 12:20 PM |
| -4 | [deleted by user]I don’t masturbate but I was horny | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 12:16 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Literally nothing lol just trying to be a good human being | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 12:10 PM |
| -20 | [deleted by user]I don’t want to see her again, all she does is nag me about why am I keeping the house so clean and asking for rides. So yeah I probably won’t be seeing her at all, I just make a joke out of it if she asks whatsup. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 12:04 PM |
| -7 | [deleted by user]I think this is absolutely right like I thought this sub was supposed to be a place for men with balls to say what they think but people here saying say sorry and sincerely apologize and they’re getting upvotes. I’m confused maybe this isn’t the right sub for me. I have no problem getting rejected and if she took it offensively that’s on her. I didn’t act on it, I was just having a playful text cause I couldn’t sleep and see if she wanted to snuggle. Ofcourse I’m not gonna continue to pursue her… | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 12:01 PM |
| -17 | [deleted by user]What would you say? Or how would you apologize. I’m leaning more towards “my bad, I shouldn’t have texted you past 10pm nothing good happens then.” But if we can come up with something better I’m all ears | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 11:24 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Ofcourse she doesn’t see me that way and I won’t pursue her again. The question is how would you neutralize the situation. What would you say? | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 10:56 AM |
| 37 | [deleted by user]How would you joke about it is my question. Ofcourse I wouldn’t pursue her again. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 10:54 AM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]I was thinking my bad I couldn’t sleep last night and needed someone to cuddle to help me sleep | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 10:44 AM |
| 1 | 3 hours. zero approachesApproaching a woman is like a muscle. You gotta start somewhere. Just keep at it and try again next day or so. You got this | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 02:44 AM |
| 5 | Asking for her # versus giving her mine?Then you need to work on your mental health first before you look into dating or even seducing someone if you can’t take the hits. Most of hitting on woman involves getting rejected, if you’re not ok with that then you need to work on yourself and be happy alone by yourself before you can go out and meet woman and start a relationship or even just for sex. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needy, when in fact you are?Have you tried talking to so many multiple woman that it doesn’t matter if they aren’t interested? Because I stopped wanting a relationship and only interested in hookups now and now I’m having more sex with beautiful woman. You wanna just focus on yourself, introduce yourself to woman, text them and setup day to hangout (not date). I usually tell them let’s hangout at my place and they come. Or I feel the vibe and tell them let’s go for a walk by the park with my dog. It’s not hard to tell what… | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 08:28 AM |
| 4 | going deep not wideThat’s for highly attracted woman to you. That’s not always the case with really beautiful woman | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 07:12 AM |
| 20 | going deep not wideOfcourse bro, she needs to be comfortable with you first before you can touch her. That’s why first impression and confidence is important when meeting someone. Woman don’t really care if you have an ugly face to have sex with you. The reason he doesn’t mind waiting is because you always wanna keep your options open, always be a good guy and go out, date people and have fun. The goal isn’t to have sex, it’s to build a connection. If your goal is sex then you can still do this you just need to ha… | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 02:11 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I usually get girls the same size or taller than me. I don’t prefer to but yeah it is what it is. I just treat them like any other woman that is interested. Use the same technique to them like you would with any other girl. Maybe be around more taller girls like join a woman’s basketball fan base near your area or something like that. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 12:34 PM |
| 0 | Should i keep meeting this girl?Some woman just like the attention. They won’t tell you they don’t something serious or not. If the connection isn’t there just move on. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I usually tell them to come through to my house and watch TikTok compilations with me. Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn’t. And I’m cool with that. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]He might be going through something. Not every who smokes weed does it for the enjoyment. Some do it because they mentally want to get away from things in their current life. I used to sell weed and was a huge stoner but now it just doesn’t thrill me because I’m focused on myself. Ask him about his life, learn about what’s going on in his life. Then you can make a decision about asking him out on a date or back to your place. Who knows maybe he’s just shy but you won’t know until you find out mo… | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Damn bro, I hear you. Have you tried reading some books on the subject? That’s really how it started for me and learning what attracts woman and how to better myself mentally. You need to be mentally vulnerable to date and strong enough to take the hits. Because approaching isn’t hard at all. Getting numbers is easy for anyone. It’s about finding a genuine connection. That’s the end goal, it’s on you if you want to put yourself in that situation and ready to take the emotional hits because these… | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Is that why you’re here phishing on r/seduction to make men feel bad about themselves when they’re on their most vulnerable trying to find a connection with a woman? How pathetic can you be to be doing that. You’re not here help anyone with seduction, you’re here to make people feel bad about themselves. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 02:01 AM |
| 0 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.See that’s your problem, you have an issue with men. It’s causing you to make early assumptions of every men and always being careful to the point you think you’re just too good for everyone. It’s not normal, you need to see therapy because this road you’re on is going to lead to loneliness and serious depression. I’ve dealt with depression myself when I best friend died, it took me years to get out of it but even now if I let it get to me I know what steps to take to help me understand it’s ok … | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Not on tinder but yes on every other app because it asks me what my height is | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.You got mental problems Karen, idk what else to tell you. Learn to read and don’t make assumptions or attempt to accuse people. But good luck with whatever you’re trying to figure out. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:54 AM |
| 0 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.That’s exactly the point, you don’t know. You can’t just accuse people of rape dude. Watch what you accuse people of because karma is real and so are consequences for false blaming someone of something so disgusting a human being can do to someone else. Not cool at all | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:27 AM |
| -3 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Dude I got consent from her while she was dry humping me on my bed. She said yes to having sex and took her clothes off. I have 2 sisters and raised by a single mom, I know the stories they tell me and I know when I can’t push a woman to the point it’s force. I stop and make sure she’s comfortable with what I’m doing otherwise I just completely stop because it’s not ok to force a woman or beg her to have sex with you. But believe whatever you want to, all I know is she wants to see me again but … | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Yes when she was dry humping me with clothes on, on my bed, I told her let’s have sex and she said yes and took her clothes off. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.I was screaming fuck you at her, not at myself. There’s nothing I did wrong except have high expectations on a date with a girl that wasn’t all that interested in having a relationship. That’s all that happened. Did I over react, sure but I did privately so I can get it out of my system and restart. I felt much better the next day and had sex so crying did help me. Doesn’t mean it’s supposed to be bad, you’re supposed to let your emotions out and not compress them so I do cry sometimes when I do… | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Whatever helps you feel better about yourself bro. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Am I not allowed to cry? | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.I got you bro ❤️ | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 11:17 PM |
| 0 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.I didn’t do it for a petty “congrats” comment or up votes on Reddit bro so the negative comments doesn’t me one bit. I did it for myself and I just hope it gives other people hope for when they’re on a similar situation as me. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Absolutely bro, I don’t mind at all. What helped me improve my texting game was a major challenge. Even now I’m still learning what works and what doesn’t, you wanna minimize time wasting with woman that aren’t all that interested and go for the woman that call you cute and sexy and things like that. Things that show they’re highly interested in you. Then you can start by asking them something silly or something that’ll help them you’re a really interesting person like “I usually too busy to dat… | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 05:42 PM |
| 5 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Up your photo game. I constantly get matches and I’m brown and 5’4. But I make sure I’m wearing my best outfits and smile on my photos and get feedback from r/tinder | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 05:08 PM |
| 6 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.What I really like is getting what I’m looking for. There’s a thrill of it. But when I go with the goal of getting in a relationship it always ended up bad. I had 5 different dates in a single weekend and they all went bad. Now that I tried a different approach it worked with a hot girl. She goes to the gym, plays soccer, keeps up her appearance, red hair, cute face and smile. Fucks like an animal. So I’m gonna try this new approach with high interest girls and let you guys know how it goes by n… | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 03:24 PM |
| -2 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.I’m not a troll, I did take things slow but progressed. I didn’t just push myself onto her. She’s the one that locked her legs around me and started humping me with our clothes on when we went to my room. But when we were just watching tv and I kissed her slow when she wanted it slow. And kissed her hard when she pushed her face into mine. It’s a feel thing, you have to read her and how comfortable she is with it. She held my arm while I had it on her breast but didn’t try to push it out. So the… | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 04:47 AM |
| 13 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.True. I need to focus more on myself and be more financially stable. So for now I’m just gonna try the casual sex approach cause I don’t wanna get in a relationship right now. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 04:25 AM |
| -17 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.I get them sometimes, more often than not actually I just never acted on the casual sex approach. I always went with a “relationship” mentality when talking to them and it’s fucked me over a lot. Now the first time I try a casual sex approach it’s worked, the first time I even tried. And she wants to see me again so maybe we’ll see. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 04:23 AM |
| -13 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.I mean I knew what I was doing with the intention to have sex from the start. But you can’t just say “hey let’s have sex” you have to get her to be comfortable with you and make her work to spend time with you. I continued to tell her I’m super busy and that I’m free on the weekends but she can come tonight if it’s before 10pm. And I reached my goal so I don’t think it was just lucky. We both got what we wanted. She told me she never usually does this but we still had great sex because I knew sh… | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 04:21 AM |
| 16 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.or worse, they'll eventually go on a date with a dude they're not interested in | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Why am I so sad/depresssed after so many first dates?Update: I just had the best sex of my life with a hot girl from bumble. Less than a day of writing this post. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Think I fucked it by texting backProbably yeah | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 06:09 AM |
| 0 | Why am I so sad/depresssed after so many first dates?Dude I’m a human, not a robot that can hide emotions. This is me and if they don’t like it than so be it. I’ll find the one that appreciates me for who I am. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Think I fucked it by texting backI texted her the next day after seeing her in person walking her dog but I was in a hurry to go to work so I told her sorry I gotta go. 10-15 later I texted her saying what are you up to today? Never got a text back so I’m not gonna double text her. If I see her I’m just gonna act as if it was just another day, maybe ask her how her day was but nothing else. If she was interested she would’ve responded or made some effort. Till then I’m just gonna treat her like it never happened. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 05:26 AM |
| 4 | Why am I so sad/depresssed after so many first dates?Fuck dude sometimes I forget that but life’s been hard lately financially so going on these dates was my last hope till giving up on dating so I can focus on myself. Thank you for helping me realize it’s not personal. I cried till I’m numb already and realize she was the asshole so I think I’m good now but I’m still gonna take a break till probably 2 months or so. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Why am I so sad/depresssed after so many first dates?What do you mean | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 05:05 AM |
| 4 | Why am I so sad/depresssed after so many first dates?Thank you. For now I’m just gonna cry till I feel numb | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Why am I so sad/depresssed after so many first dates?I can handle like 3 rejections but more than that I start blaming myself. It’s hard bro. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Got another one for you “experts” about the woman’s who bailed on first date even though they seem highly interested while setting up dateWhat book do you recommend? I’ve read 2 so far, feel like I’ve got good knowledge but most of it is how you feel and want to come off to a person. Being yourself and nothing more. Demonstrating your values and self worth to someone that catches your attention. I’m good at getting dates and numbers but I want to get better at conversations and flirting in general. It just takes practice so that’s what I’m doing now by having more conversations with them prior to the first date and after. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Think I fucked it by texting backEverybody is different | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 01:11 PM |
| -1 | Got another one for you “experts” about the woman’s who bailed on first date even though they seem highly interested while setting up dateI am busy from morning to 5pm but then I have the gym 6-8 and then cook and shower 9-10. By then they’re already sleeping. I’m mostly free on weekends. Idk, I’m gonna try to make the effort though to at least call them even if not for long. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 01:10 PM |
| 6 | Think I fucked it by texting backYou might be right, I think one of the worst things you can do is come off as Untrust worthy. I myself find it irritable. If I have time during the day I’ll send her a text but for now there’s a few woman in-line that want me to call and ask them about their day. Also got the gym, work, cook, and shower. Hope I got time tbh, but if not it’s ok. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 12:27 PM |
| 0 | Think I fucked it by texting backLol you make me feel terrible bro but yeah I’ll do better next time :) | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Think I fucked it by texting backUnfortunately I’ve had a few beautiful woman bail on me on the first date due to lack of communication. I would text them the same day to confirm the date and don’t get a text back. Recently hit them back up and they told me that was the reason. I’ve been told probably by 5 different woman that I lack communication and seem uninterested until we actually meet. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Think I fucked it by texting backThank you :) | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 11:44 AM |
| 5 | Think I fucked it by texting backWhat attitude are you referring to? Sorry if I seem like a jerk or something, don’t mean to at all | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Think I fucked it by texting backThanks mate, Im just overthinking it. I’ll text her tomorrow or Friday | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 11:03 AM |
| 0 | Think I fucked it by texting backI don’t like the fact I text her “I’ll text you tomorrow” like an idiot but I think I can make it work by using a push and pull strategy. Basically I don’t text her till Friday and ask her for a drink on Sunday instead. Idk, I do like the idea of having our dogs hangout while I get to know this girl. Cause I’ve recently been on a few first dates that haven’t gone great and become expensive. Some of them have said I don’t show a lot of communication before the date so they either cancel or the fi… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 10:52 AM |
| 3 | Think I fucked it by texting backI was thinking this too, it’s really not a big deal. I’m just gonna wait till Friday to text her cause I will be busy this week with work and then change the plans with her for a drink on Sunday. If she doesn’t want to it’s fine, if she wants to go then I know she’s interested. If I see her in person I’ll apologize for not texting back and tell her I’ve been busy with work and see she wants to do drinks Sunday. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 10:35 AM |
| -1 | Think I fucked it by texting backiiiight | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 10:14 AM |
| 6 | Think I fucked it by texting backI realize I put her in a pedestal already. Should I just come clean and tell her to hangout for a drink this weekend instead? Worst she can say is no and go on about my day | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Started a conversation with this girl I find attractive and when I flirt or compliment her she lowers the tone of her voice.Ok | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Started a conversation with this girl I find attractive and when I flirt or compliment her she lowers the tone of her voice.Quietly. What can I do from this point? Just stop complimenting her and try to have more physical interaction like hugging and stuff? | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I didn’t me low pitched, she seems to shy away and lower the volume of her voice saying thank you | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Need advice: I got her number, setup a date for this weekend but she doesn’t know if she can make it. So what do I do with her number now. Just ask to hmu when she’s free or what?What? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayDude I have absolutely no problem if I’m stood up or if she cancels. But I’m getting different answers on the comments saying message her in the morning, message her 5 hours before the date, get there 15 minutes late and don’t text her at all. I get people say woman are emotional creatures so I need to create more emotion with her but then I get people saying don’t reach to her at all until the actual date. So I’m a bit confused here with what I should follow as a guideline. I know if she really… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayLmao yeah she was excited about it but she’s a baddie so she has a lot of options on her dm’s and I was pretty busy this week to text her. I’m gonna text her in like 2 hours though and see if she still wants to go | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayWhich app is that please lol | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayLmao | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayHow should I text her without seeming too excited about the date? Should I just be like “Hey, we still on for tonight” it’s at 7pm but now it’s 10:36am | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:36 PM |
| 4 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayThanks man, I’m not looking to hook up anymore. Just want a genuine connection, I just broke up with my ex less than a month ago and it was rough for her so I don’t wanna hurt anybody else emotionally if they’re not ready. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:34 PM |
| 4 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdaySo what would you do | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How did it go my guy? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:34 AM |
| 6 | Need advice: I got her number, setup a date for this weekend but she doesn’t know if she can make it. So what do I do with her number now. Just ask to hmu when she’s free or what?You’re right. I already moved on and got the phone number with another girl that agreed to link up this weekend. So much easier | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meSame bro, some people here think that’s the main goal of seduction but really it’s not. Having sex is fine, but making love is 100x better. That’s why I try to talk to a lot of woman and see which one I can enjoy my time with and make her happy as much as she makes me happy. That’s the real goal at least for me. A lot of woman don’t mind sleeping with you on first few dates but if the emotion isn’t there I can’t even cum tbh. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 06:06 PM |
| 77 | [deleted by user]My friend is 6'1 and I'm around 5'4. He has blue eyes, blonde hair, dad bod with muscles. I'm your average short latino, black hair and dark eyes, but I make sure I look good and clothes are matching for the occasion. I work out but not much to show it. Anyways, we went clubbing last weekend, a few woman hit on him but they left because he kept calling them his "girlfriends". Then they started dancing to the music while next to me. I noticed them and one of them noticed me and I smiled when we m… | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 10:28 AM |
| 1 | 🚨 My gym crush came up to me, smiled, and giggledThat’s definitely true. I use that for every situation whether I’m in a relationship or approach. It’s helped me a lot with my confidence and how I should react. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 11:51 AM |
| 1 | 🚨 My gym crush came up to me, smiled, and giggledI think it depends on the environment and what you’re looking for. Everyone has different takes on it according to their preference. I’ve done well for what works for me personally but your approach can work better for you because of what you’re after. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 11:35 AM |
| 1 | 🚨 My gym crush came up to me, smiled, and giggledI think avoiding friend zone is important but showing her that she can trust you is more important in the meeting phase. Once she’s comfortable you can flirt all you want. Just from what I understand. If I flirt too early I can come off as desperate for a woman’s attention. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | 🚨 My gym crush came up to me, smiled, and giggledHaha yeah that’s true. That’s why I wanted feedback. I’ll try something more casual and start small. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:31 AM |
| 3 | 🚨 My gym crush came up to me, smiled, and giggledOk I’ll do that. I already knows it’s nothing serious just a new friend at the gym I can bother with “Hey how are you doing” | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:27 AM |
| 1 | 🚨 My gym crush came up to me, smiled, and giggledYeah I’m gonna avoid that word. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:25 AM |
| 1 | 🚨 My gym crush came up to me, smiled, and giggledTry to make eye contact if you 2 are walking across each other, don’t be the first to look away. Try to be in front of her view when working out but don’t make it obvious you’re trying to get her attention. Just find an excuse to talk to her like “hey how you doing” or a simple wave. I go to the gym every week so everyone kinda knows me and they know I just say hello and even dance by myself sometimes. It’s that confidence you gotta exude and show you’re friendly. That’s what I did. I also have … | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:24 AM |
| 1 | 🚨 My gym crush came up to me, smiled, and giggledYeah something like “hey, I like marshmallows too. I didn’t catch your name.” Then ask her what she’s working on today and wish her a good day. That’s it right? Then wait for her to come up to me until I try to increase the length of conversation to ultimately get her number. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | 🚨 My gym crush came up to me, smiled, and giggledLmao no but she probably deserve that type of attention from someone just not me | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:44 AM |
| 4 | 🚨 My gym crush came up to me, smiled, and giggledLol not like that at all, just a gym crush that can lead to failure or something. I’ve had been waiting for a moment to speak to her but she did it herself. Second time this has happened to me actually. She’s always looking so busy so I don’t like to bother woman at the gym unless I know them or notice they’re glancing at me. She never done that before until today so now I have an excuse to bother her 😊 | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:43 AM |
| 3 | 🚨 My gym crush came up to me, smiled, and giggledSo is what I’m going to say just fine for next time I see her? Just say Hello and asking for her name and go on about my day until next time we come across? | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:03 AM |
| 11 | I f***king love rejection.Dude nothing wrong saying hi and telling woman they’re beautiful. It makes their day and makes his day knowing he cheered someone today. What you have against making a woman’s day? Some of the most beautiful woman I’ve ended up with have been from in person interaction. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:56 AM |
| 1 | This shit is tiringNo dude i really don’t. I barely get good matches online. This is why it’s much better to try to talk to women in person, you have a better chance. Have you tried joining a group of your favorite hobby? I’m currently trying to do public speaking so I can meet more people and improve my business. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 02:30 PM |
| 2 | This shit is tiringLooks have little to do with you getting girls. What matters is your confidence, own self value, and show you’re trying to become your best self. I’m not attractive, I’ve simply started taking better care of myself, use facial cleanser, moisturize, etc. Woman love that but I do it for myself so I don’t look like a zombie with dry and crackling skin all day long. Brush your teeth, use lip balm, things you’re supposed to do as an adult. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 02:10 PM |
| 2 | This shit is tiringI used to be like you but then I started thinking on my own improvement and setting a standard. You should prioritize your own self value first like improving on your work, health, diet, etc. Getting woman comes fourth or fifth on my list. Now I get text messages from woman telling me nudes and begging me to hangout. Telling me when we can have sex, etc. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 01:54 PM |
| 2 | My link on vacation is ignoring me nowWhy did you catch feelings on a sneaky link? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Just did my first ever cold approach!Why would she give you her number if… Doesn’t know if she’s attracted to you. Barely knows you, you come off sketchy so you’re on a very thin line that makes the situation awkward depending on her immediate sexual attraction towards you. Not saying it wouldn’t work on a girl that you’re her type of but you’re gonna have to have an extensive time and expect to get rejected 90% of the time. Even if you did get her number, I hope you’re game is on point and you seem interesting enough for her to ge… | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 06:36 AM |
| 8 | Need a texting adviceThanks bro; that was pretty good. Where can I learn how to text better like you? Any books I can read? | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Need a texting advice“okay I’ll bring dessert” is what confused me. Why would she say that if she’s not interested | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Help with asking this girl out🤷🏽♂️ | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Help with asking this girl outI ended up getting her to see me next week 💁🏽♂️ but if you wanna throw negative energy by all means | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Help with asking this girl outSo what would u reply to this message from if you’re me haha | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Help with asking this girl outSo what would you reply | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 08:03 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Don’t go, you’re just gonna end up getting girls that don’t like you pretend to like you for free drinks. Or they’ll just walk away. Unless you’re super attractive which you’re probably not. Then focus on going out doing things you enjoy. Start going to social clubs like playing soccer or going to church. Whatever you may like. This is the best way to find someone that you are interested in. Dating is a numbers game so give yourself value and ask yourself what interest does my ideal partner have… | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 07:25 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Then just ask him if he’s clean, it’s not gonna stop him from having sex with you. I would do it in person though and see how he reacts | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 02:09 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Well from what you said you gave him head the first time you hanged out again so he probably thinks you’re trying to have fun and that’s not bad just don’t over romanticize the relationship. As far you and him know y’all are just having fun with no real expectations. From what it sounds like this is natural to him because woman give it up so easy to him, he knows he can get you whenever he wants, men will put you in a category and if he only see’s you as a friend he can fuck, fucking him raw isn… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 01:58 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I usually ask her if she’s clean before sex but I usually have a condom. I don’t raw sex unless I really know her | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 01:43 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Are all you guys talking about sex? Because men usually have a main goal and show it from the start and will try to get what they want as soon as they meet you. If you trust him and he’s told you he doesn’t have a lot of sex then why not. You’re always taking a chance when you have unprotected sex specially this early of knowing him. You already gave him head so why not just have fun with him. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Any advice on creating more sexual tension? I think that’s what I’m missing | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah I’m trying to overcome that. I think I need to be busier in my life than be texting girls | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]From what I see you’re an older woman that does only fans and has a big ego for absolutely no reason. You’re the type of people that I try to avoid and hate with a passion. Your opinion doesn’t matter to me. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 12:04 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]What? lol who said anything about talking down to them. I don’t talk down to woman but I’m real with myself and my intentions with them and who I decide to have around me. If I’m not attracted to someone or see a future with them then I’m not gonna chase after them. I’m good with talking to woman I just have a problem over romanticizing a relationship and end up chasing them away so I’m looking for a way to stop that. Woman don’t like it when a men is too open and vulnerable to them specially ea… | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 12:02 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Thanks I’ll look into them. I’ve read a Mark Manson so I’m excited | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 11:57 AM |
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