going deep not wide

iceking123 · 2022-09-13T14:11:36+00:00

Ofcourse bro, she needs to be comfortable with you first before you can touch her. That’s why first impression and confidence is important when meeting someone. Woman don’t really care if you have an ugly face to have sex with you. The reason he doesn’t mind waiting is because you always wanna keep your options open, always be a good guy and go out, date people and have fun. The goal isn’t to have sex, it’s to build a connection. If your goal is sex then you can still do this you just need to have the same patience and be ok being rejected a lot.

EducationalMeeting95 · 2022-09-13T14:13:31+00:00

I agree on the point that you need to go deep.

Depth works really well.

That's why talking about her childhood is powerful because it's very deep, personal and emotion to her.

It make your connection more profound.

Now that doesn't mean you don't do light stuff when seducing.

Humor , light touches compliments work too when done the right way.

Think of it this way.

She'll hookup for feeling attraction and likability towards you.

But those qualities won't be enough for her to jump in a relationship. You'll need more than that. Love, understanding, support, respect, connection etc.

So the more levels in her mind you get to, the stronger the connection.

throwaway_68892188 · 2022-09-13T19:25:15+00:00

I told this same exact thing to a group of wings in NYC and they laughed at my ass.

Deep convos work. Emotional convos work. Intelligent convos work.

mabden · 2022-09-14T02:12:36+00:00

When initially spending time with a chick, the best approach is keeping it light and fun with a hint of sexy.

If it progresses, then you can consider "deeper" conversations. Chicks form bonds by sharing.

Allee_x · 2022-09-13T14:18:08+00:00

You have to make a rollercoaster of emotions, an adventure for only the two of you, an experience she'll remember when she talks about you with her friends. But how deep can a conversation be on the 1st, 2nd or 3rd date? You should have fun and enjoy a conversation. Also you should definitely escalate physically AND verbally simultaneously, not only verbally.
In earlier stages of a date (interaction) you shouldn't compliment her a lot. It's better to instead use push-pulls and/or qualifications to show her that you don't know her enough to like her completely. Later on when she's clearly into you, you have to give her "a reason" why you like her and compliments are one way to go.
Almost every girl can have sex on a first date if logistics are good and she's with the right man. Now if you want to wait until the 3rd date with EVERY girl just to have sex, that's a lot of dates. On the other hand, if you really like a girl it's all up to you and her here but for casual hookups there's no reason to wait.

Commercial_Habit_923 · 2022-09-13T18:12:37+00:00

I agree with this. But probably not the best approach if your goal is just to get laid

JayJayforthaRavs · 2022-09-13T23:28:21+00:00

W Dojo member

Strange-Committee-55 · 2022-09-14T16:47:17+00:00

Do you know who koldheartkam is? I watch tykwon as well

2022-09-13T17:52:55+00:00

deep conversation of substance is the way to go to truly connect with a woman.

You don't "seduce" a girl with deep conversations. Having a deep conversation will hardly ever make a woman spread her legs for you....

Woman and men put a facade they usually open up after you have sex with them.

He also doesn't believe in complimenting a woman when it comes to seduction and game.

If the girl likes you, compliments are the spark that light the fire.

Environmental_Cress2 · 2022-09-14T07:52:28+00:00

agree 100%

Optimal_Butterfly_97 · 2022-09-14T11:35:56+00:00

The dojo of Ty is the place to be man, big ups to him

Title	going deep not wide
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Upvotes	25
Comments	20
Date	September 13, 2022 1:56 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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