Need advice: I got her number, setup a date for this weekend but she doesn’t know if she can make it. So what do I do with her number now. Just ask to hmu when she’s free or what?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-03T13:56:16+00:00

That’s her saying she is not interested. Women often agree to a date because they don’t know how to say no. So they agree initially, and then flake.

Basically, she was only interested in getting attention in the app for an ego boost and nothing more. She won’t have free time for you.

Waste of time. Move on.

2022-08-03T18:52:52+00:00

“No worries - hope you have an awesome weekend.” Then you move on.

Off2damoon · 2022-08-04T04:18:22+00:00

She's unsure about being available this weekend? Or unsure about if she wants to see you this weekend? Big difference. If the answer is unclear - just assume she's attracted to you and that she might not be available. Say something to the effect of "no worries, let's shoot for next week. Are you around Friday". You have to push the interaction until you know it's dead. Don't let the ambiguous, flakey nature of females deter you from your goals. Power through the bullshit and don't make assumptions about what things mean.. Leave the mind reading to the women.

Total_Obligation_371 · 2022-08-04T04:55:49+00:00

That's a flake. Just assume that the date is not happening and plan something else. Do not text her to see if the date is still on, that will make you look needy. She will text you if she can make it. If she texts super last minute and says the date is on, just say you already made plans. Again, just assume the date is not going to happen.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-08-03T14:05:57+00:00

Don't take crap from women like this. Tell her you have canceled the date and she contact you when she's made up her mind. The more you kiss her ass and try to pussy foot around, the less she will respect you and want to fuck you. But even more importantly the less you will respect you.

tocepsijufaz · 2022-08-03T13:25:23+00:00

Talk to a bit more, kindle some connections. I am trying that myself atm.

Blaphrodite · 2022-08-03T22:33:15+00:00

Text and ask her when will be a good time

BIN-BON · 2022-08-04T17:22:21+00:00

People have other shit going on and life happens. Give her one more chance, but then if she flakes again, cut her off. Your time is valuable.

burakbenxd · 2022-08-04T18:44:36+00:00

'No worries. Seems like your schedule is busy. I'll hit you up later.' Then forget about her, and make her chase you...

Superb-End6273 · 2022-08-06T03:43:07+00:00

Tell her that your free Monday, wendnesday, or Thursday and if she doesn't show up again you leave her for da streetzzzz

Galacticamythest · 2022-08-06T22:08:52+00:00

Bro stop it. It's okay. Setup a new date. Whatever's free. Then pounce like a squirrel.

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