| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | Storytelling/DHV stories, how can I make up REAL interesting stories about myself? | AFCAFC | /r/seduction | 21/12/10 07:06 PM | |
| 8 | Please help! 26 year old virgin, approach anxiety. | AFCAFC | /r/seduction | 10/11/10 01:43 AM | |
| 8 | Motivation for pickup? | AFCAFC | /r/seduction | 26/11/10 06:29 PM | |
| 7 | Seddit, tell me about your bad kino experiences! | AFCAFC | /r/seduction | 02/03/11 04:35 PM | |
| 6 | Progress on dance floor but need advice | AFCAFC | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 03:57 PM | |
| 3 | Need a game plan tonight for the club, or scrap the whole idea? | AFCAFC | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 11:13 PM | |
| 2 | Deconstructing social conventions | AFCAFC | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 05:41 PM | |
| 1 | Seddit, your input on my hangups and logistics please | AFCAFC | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 09:43 PM | |
| 1 | So is online dating just shit? | AFCAFC | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 01:39 AM | |
| 0 | Ever done a bootcamp? What was your experience? Thoughts on bootcamps in general. | AFCAFC | /r/seduction | 15/12/10 09:25 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Staying in state during the work week?First off, if you think you can remain in "state" forever you're fooling yourself. This is life, with ups and downs. | /r/seduction | 09/08/11 07:38 PM |
| -3 | What are the fundamental differences between a guy with natural game, a PUA and a guy with no natural gameNatural game - Approaches girls and "wings" it, using his own lines/techniques. PUA - Approaches girls using other peoples lines or strategies. No game - Doesn't approach girls. Basically, just get approaching girls and find what works for YOU. | /r/seduction | 09/08/11 04:12 PM |
| 4 | How should you react when a guy steals the girl you're dancing with, mid-dance?Exactly, the guys telling you to fight are dumb, why get your ass kicked or possibly stabbed over a girl you don't even know yet? I like the below comments of finding another girl to dance with or people to talk to and smile and have a great time. | /r/seduction | 29/03/11 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Can you walk me through an example of a daygame approach?I'll chip as my last good day game approach has led to a few dates. Go direct. Something like "I wanted to say hi because I think you are cute". You are making your intentions known right away and if she hooks, then you just shoot the shit about whatever, you don't need to "open, transition, DHV" etc. If she was receptive to the direct opener it's on. So go direct, then I usually just ask "so what are you up today/mall/whatever" and then naturally follow that conversation thread. After a bit of … | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Why does everyone seem to hate on Mystery so hard?I don't hate on Mystery, he is the godfather of pick-up. If it wasn't for him I doubt any of us would be here right now on this forum. I think people hate on Mystery because his method is outdated and overcomplicated. His highly structured game works well for night game and is good for newbies (like myself) to simply have a game plan to start talking to girls. Past that it is quite contrived. I honestly think it is ok to use this structured game at first, but then transition into your own style … | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 04:00 PM |
| 5 | The Beauty of Hitting Bottom: How I learned cold approach pickupNeeded this article, especially due to my last rent on getting rejected. I'm procrastinating more and more trying any kind of approach, day time, night time, whatever and I know it's because I don't want to get rejected. Here's the thing, I'm a late 20s virgin who has never had a real girlfriend. His rock bottom would be fucking sweet to me right now LULZ | /r/seduction | 10/03/11 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Nice Guys can get girls. Douchebags get more.I was originally going to downvote this, but in reality it's true. I think it comes down to who you want to be... if you're naturally an asshole, great, be a fucking asshole. If you are trying to act like an asshole but aren't, you will feel like a fraud. To illustrate you can become rich by working hard and trying new businesses, or you can do so by stealing. So just because something WORKS, doesn't mean it works for YOU. | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 09:51 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Mixed signals getting incredibly frustrating.If you really like this girl, as stated above, keep her on the hook. Some girls take more time then others, she could be a quality girl who is playing hard to get, or just doesn't put out. But you know how much you like her by now, right? | /r/seduction | 02/03/11 06:54 PM |
| 5 | Everyone is alpha.I understand your point but you are overusing and actually misusing the "alpha" buzzword. For me in this context comfortable or confident works better. For example "Some guys are comfortable with THINGS, but not with WOMEN". Can you translate being comfortable with things to being comfortable with women? Yes. To get good/comfortable/confident with something you need advice and practice. | /r/seduction | 02/03/11 06:51 PM |
| 5 | RANT: Do you have a genuine passion for learning about seduction? If not, LEAVE.I think her post hurt some of the guys here because they took it PERSONALLY. They might have seen themselves doing/have done these things and been in similar situations. They took it as a personal rejection. Honestly, I took it a bit like that. Like "this PUA stuff works and is good, but why can't women transcend beyond that especially if they KNOW about it?". I think this whole thing has just clarified how things are, reality is reality. | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 10:19 PM |
| 1 | State is OverratedThanks, I'll delete this and possibly post a comment on yours. | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 05:38 PM |
| -2 | Dear Nice Guy FriendOP is a demanding shallow biaatc.... You get my drift :) Lessons I took away: 1. Be a man 2. Don't date this girl, and thankfully for this nice dude she is being kind and ending it for him. Yes he has pointers to work on as well all do but he is no doubt not privy to such information. 3. Don't supplicate to the woman, lead her. If it's a 3rd date and she is so knit picky and can't be attracted to his personality, good looks, charm and wit and wants a TOTAL alpha-male then GTFO! | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, your input on my hangups and logistics pleaseBump | /r/seduction | 06/02/11 10:17 AM |
| 3 | 2nd day F-close with some weird LMR: "You know I have a boyfriend, right?"I had a semi-simular situation. I called a girl last night I got the # from the mall. She said she was talking to a friend and would call me back, ok. She calls back says she is tired and will talk to her boyfriend before going to sleep, but "I'll talk to you later", I say "ok I'll give you a buzz later"... um wtf. Ok so right off the bat I assume she is just letting me down but then why #1 Call back #2 say we will talk again. Unless she is spineless. | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 05:28 PM |
| 1 | What. Do. I. Do? =[Yup, I went out all this weekend, and even though I had a bad night on Saturday around people I didn't know, at least I was out learning. Sure I destroyed my social value with a bunch of girls by being too quite... lol oh well. The bootcamp is local, not a big name production. These guys seem pretty solid, they tailor the program to your needs and what you want to learn. I really need that extra push and have someone evaluate my game... well I'm getting it if I really need it or not! | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 05:30 PM |
| 2 | What. Do. I. Do? =[Dude, I think I share a lot of similarities with you, though get this, I'm 27! No GF, I'm fairly attractive and yes my social skills are at that level where I can talk to strangers but not very well, but others around me in say a planned venue with friends of friends I can engage quite well. I think it really does come down to practice, I am trying every time I go out, just the other night I was high fiving strange dudes on the dance floor, got a free drink and grinded with a girl. Nothing crazy… | /r/seduction | 19/12/10 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Need a game plan tonight for the club, or scrap the whole idea?Yeah I feel you on the club vibe, you nailed it. I think I'm syching myself up too much for it, as it is the "standard" place to approach women it seems. | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 11:24 PM |
| 1 | My First Ever ApproachDude you did great. Better then me standing in the club and not having the guts to even say hi to one girl. :) | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 10:54 PM |
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