Everyone is alpha, but very few are alpha with women. You might be alpha at your work with clients. You might be alpha with your education in the classroom. You might be alpha with music or sports. You might be alpha with stamp collecting or playing video games. Alpha means to be comfortable with yourself doing something, knowledgeable about what you are doing, and thus being confident in that environment. Look at your own life and determine what it is you excel at, what it is you know you can do well. What type of a person are you in that environment? One of my buddies is a completely introverted shy engineer, but completely changes character if you bring up the topic of solar panels or World of Warcraft! I've realized that every human being has at least one thing they are good at, something they cherish. Chances are you weren't naturally good at what you excel with now when you were younger. Even Michael Jackson practiced his moves 10 hours a day. In the same way you educated yourself and practiced until you became alpha in a particular scene, you can become alpha in any other scene. So think about what you are good at, the type of person you are when you are doing something you excel at; think about how you got to be excellent with this scene, and how you could become alpha in any other scene that you choose, that is, seduction. TLDR: Everyone is alpha at what he is good at and he can become good at anything, including seduction.