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DebateAdvanced-Ad8490/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:09 PM
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DebateAdvanced-Ad8490/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:21 PM
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DebateAdvanced-Ad8490/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:35 PM
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Question For WomenAdvanced-Ad8490/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:10 AM
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Question For WomenAdvanced-Ad8490/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:21 AM
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DebateAdvanced-Ad8490/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:07 AM
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Question For WomenAdvanced-Ad8490/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:05 PM
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Question For WomenAdvanced-Ad8490/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:17 AM
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Question For WomenAdvanced-Ad8490/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:01 AM
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DiscussionAdvanced-Ad8490/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:49 AM
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Question For WomenAdvanced-Ad8490/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:16 AM
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DebateAdvanced-Ad8490/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:32 PM
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DebateAdvanced-Ad8490/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:35 AM
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Question For MenAdvanced-Ad8490/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:48 PM
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That's stupidly reductive. In my experience women care about everything. 🤦 They want some great overall. That's why im above average successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:39 AM
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I feel your struggles and empathize. Unfortunately men often use women for experience. Be it sex or relationship. That's not going to change anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:44 PM
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Wrong? 👀 What are you talking about? Muscle, fashion, style?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:39 PM
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I agree. For some reason most men are not peacocking 🦚
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:35 PM
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If women should make the first move then men must be better looking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:57 PM
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Agreed that the best game is non-verbal game. Although I've personally used jokes to enhance my game. Of course non of my jokes or yapping would ever help me get her interest from the start. The beginning is pure looks based. Basically the looks gets her interested. The yapping keeps her interested. Then comes the sex and the money etc... Women prefer a complete book with a lot of depth and a great cover.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:36 PM
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Social skills / Emotional Intelligence. Comes down to the fact that men to reason with physical logic rather than emotional logic. Men doesn't understand that humans are emotional beings and would rather think of humans as physical beings. The truth is that we are both. For example if you as a man said something factually correct but hurt the other her emotions the trust and bond is now broken 💔 and she will no longer want to be with you. Why because her emotional being is taking damage from his…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:30 PM
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It's both. And actually everything. I recommend hitting the gym everyday to raise your physical value. And also study emotional intelligence to raise your emotional value. And ofcourse make money to raise your financial value. Trying to be one dimensional and hack or lazy your way into happiness doesn't really work in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:31 AM
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Girl this exactly the same for men. Plenty of women are just settling for their male partner and it kinda sucks. Every relationship has a chaser and settler. Gender has no impact on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:27 AM
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We already have convincing systems called religion that are very good at convincing people to have kids. Not for the sake of love and happiness, but for the sake of god.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:05 AM
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This is kinda happening to me right now but more accurately it's better for me to focus on my routines. Building and improving my fitness & finances & fashion. My woman will come back to me when she wants too or not. It will be very obvious as time passes. Meanwhile I just gotta stop acting needed. My woman is not the center of my world. I am. The truth is that women detest men whom got nothing else todo than to bother, cling and annoy her. And that same truth applies if we switch the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:36 PM
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Approaching can be interpreted in several ways. If the man is approaching by trying to use words and negotiate and maybe word wrestle, (shoot their shots) the woman into a date and relationship. That's just not going to go well 90% of the times. If the man is approaching with more style, grace, joy, comedy and positive energy. Now that's a whole different vibe that's probably going to go quite well 90% of times. Especially if the man can keep this up forever in the relationship. Unfortunately th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:52 PM
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Arguably since men in general take alot longer to reach emotional & social maturity than women do, age gaps are actually more correct in general. Almost every woman thinks most men their age is trash and that's for a valid reason. Women should follow their intuition rather think logically with numbers. Relationships with low emotional value is not worth it. Secondly most women are generally looking for a leader with more experience and security. And women also refuse to take a leadership role in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:04 PM
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No idea. I don't investigate my coworkers. Trying to keep it professional
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:39 PM
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Transmaxxing seems to be a play on the word Looksmaxing but people can't really max out being trans? I think? I did have an obese coworker who described himself as trans. I looked it up and apparently some obese men choose to give up their masculinity altogether and just publicly declare themselves trans. Not become of gender dysphoria but because of despair or surrender? ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ I'm guessing she/he/they/them was an incel. Was a professional coworker though and to me he just looked lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:33 AM
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I'm also wondering the same. Emotionally it feels liberating. Being with people who are open-minded, adventurous and free spirited. But the risk of STDs is real. Fairness is a subjective emotional experience only between two people. I love being part of a interesting and fun community. Especially since I'm not religious and other communities couldn't keep my interest. They seem too normal, fake, boring, bland, too safe. I'm guessing it's all good until you have kids. Then it's all extra problems…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:35 PM
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Interesting, what structures did you build?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:47 PM
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Hey mr I see you identify with ASPD. Please share more about your experience about being real/fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:35 PM
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Nah my brother is just stupid. Psychopaths are actually smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:17 AM
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Yes. He has high levels of NDD for sure. Hence why I've blocked him several times. But we both have some hints of autism and was raised in a childhood with low emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:23 PM
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So my brother has been unemployed for a couple of years now. Or rather he's had a couple temporary jobs and been doing petty crimes like shoplifting and selling booze to minors. Anyways he's been trying to get a job and education, do better etc... But yeah his record and attitude is a just hmm, how to say unattractive / unsociable / not fake enough / unemployable. Now the government has been nice enough to give him a guaranteed employment. Except the other coworkers are also ex-criminals 🙄 proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:29 PM
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Cuz it's three ex-criminals against one ex-criminal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:03 PM
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For my brother this is more about work and family context. He's being "too real" for me and his coworkers. As for his romantic relationships. I sincerely hope he stays eternally single for the rest of his life and has no children. 🙄 fking narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:09 PM
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Everyone are a bit fake in the early stages of dating, that's the norm. Can't possibly guess what this specific woman will settle for so shoot your shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:00 PM
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POS is an insult I can't actually say to someone without hurting their feelings. When it comes to being a "good person" I think there's a whole redpill community dedicated to saying that it's not enough in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:53 PM
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Already happened. Made him worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:48 PM
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You're right most men like to play violent games. Not actually be violent. Most of the time they are just barking loudly. But already at the barking stage they've failed socially. Men should get better at social games and many men (and my brother) seem to dislike the very idea of saying things just to make the other person feel good. Being fake especially at work, works really well. It's called professionalism. Question. Generally speaking what feels the most real for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:44 PM
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Get stronger and try again until you find a woman who'll accept the real you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:28 PM
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Yeah it really does feel like an act. Or maybe it's like I know I am strong, competent, kind, fun all the good things etc and I have to figure out a creative "act", rizz or mini-game for how to show it to women. Being just baseline normal isn't enough for women, you have to be emotionally much more valuable to form an emotional connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:24 PM
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In a romantic relationship eventually yes. But arguably the early start and especially the concept of Hollywood romance itself is super fake. Flowers, fashion, fancy food, restaurants, poetry, trips. But bro has currently zero success in dating. Would you advice him to be fake or be real?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:16 PM
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Yeah especially in early dating context men are going to find alot more success in being fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:08 PM
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Yes you're getting me 👏 and yes my brother got issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:06 PM
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You're basically saying don't be real if your natural real isn't good. Suppress your natural emotions and learn to be better if the real you is awful. Yeah I agree. Learn to be fake. If the fake you is better person than the real you, then be fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:04 PM
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Lots of guys say inappropriate things all the time. That's what they call being real. They don't care how it makes other people feel or how other people may perceive them. They're just being blunt and honest. Especially on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:57 PM
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No I meant reverse is true if a man gets approved and attention from another woman. The entire group of women suddenly is more likely to take interest in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:42 AM
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Bro there's 8 billion people on this planet. 4 billion are women. If you count even 0.001% that'd be 40000 women and you know for sure that the algorithm will push up the most outrageous outlier statements to the top. Let's take the "man vs bear" trend as an example. How many actually believe that and how many are just joining in on the trend to rage-bait men? Could you think critically a bit and do some math?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:45 AM
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Bro you realize you can always find someone complaining about anything. You can't dodge every possible complaint. Women also complain about men not doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:18 AM
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What women really are complaining about are direct approaches. Women prefer indirect approaches because then they don't have to directly turn down man number 20ish for today. Also when a woman spots a man being turned down by another woman the entire group of women will be more likely to turn the same man down 👎 reverse is also true 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:13 PM
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Hobbies, classes, clubs and organizations. Still strangers but not random strangers from "the streets"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:36 PM
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The level of autism is strong in this one 🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:18 AM
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Wrong. You can read her body language without talking to the woman. Also you know for a fact that women share a hive mind. 90% of them are going to act the same. Congratulations you learned something new 👏👏👏 A woman is never going to give you feedback like this so you should feel thankful for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:12 AM
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I'm guessing you're either A) you can't read body language due to autism B) too ugly to ever receive positive body language so you don't even know how that would look like C) addicted to sarcasm or hyperbolism I have good news all three conditions are fixable. Get a dating coach.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:03 AM
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Bro you gotta learn to read the woman's body language before approaching... That's what she actually meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:32 PM
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Give up on courting. It's exhausting. Listen to your feelings and do what feels best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:12 PM
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Yeah like some people said. The word monogamy is kinda synonymous with boring these days. The word marriage is synonymous with being stuck and chained to an iron ball. That being said if you can find some people to live with and share costs you could have an infinitely wealthier life with infinitely many more trips and experiences. I think that's what we really need for a true partner. Rather than just some random slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:31 PM
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It depends entirely on how much game/rizz you have. If you show up with a simple hello it's just too low value in most situations. Your first impression, the way you dress, you carry yourself and the way you speak about yourself and how you speak about life is important. Nobody wants to date or work with negative or ugly people. So start the approach by being positive and beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:35 AM
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Yeah women tend to have fake friends 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:54 PM
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Yeah men are easily tricked into dangerous jobs for the prestige of feeling "extra masculine and manly instead of being like a useless little girl". But then end up becoming disabled or dead. Patriarchy bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:06 PM
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Better you can make the women pay you for dates and smash them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:02 PM
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Well your experience is wrong and narrow minded
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:33 AM
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Yeah 20 year old men are just hunting for sexual experiences. 30 to 40 yo men are done with that and want someone pure. Madonna / Whore paradox
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:20 AM
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Yeah what exactly do you expose yourself outside of the gym? Cuz gymming alone isn't enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:20 AM
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Bruh Women don't care so much about how ugly your face is actually. Women care about the overall picture and lifestyle. If you're athletic, travel, make money, are stable, funny, stoic etc. Your face becomes insignificant to women. Just some way to identify you. And actually reducing body fat percentage significantly increases facial features. Google looksmaxers online. But eh maybe it's a lost effort. You're probably one of those negative hopeless incel blackpillers. Too lazy and too undetermin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:18 AM
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Honestly I've slept with half the party too so I get where he's coming from. Sex is a skill that takes alot of practice to get good at. It's very weird how a long relationship typically becomes very boring sex, even though you're supposed to be giving it all to eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 01:44 AM
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Arguably the sluts have a wider reach and social connection network. They know when and where guys and good times can be found. They have a fun "life should be a party" attitude. As for whom actually would wife them up. These guys are probably also promiscuous cheaters and party people whom are kinda okay with that because they share the same attitude and beliefs. There's alot of cheaters, sluts and promiscuous party people in this world. Isn't it lovely that they can find eachother even for a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:08 PM
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Moderator took 24h ish to approve the post
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:27 PM
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Moderator took 24h to approve the post
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:24 PM
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Best comment! 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:22 PM
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Japan has an intitative to help with matchmaking. It's basically a government supported dating app. I think that's an interesting attempt to support people in a way where corporations isn't trying to profit of public loneliness. Where they can also weed out scammers. Government is also arranging dating events for super serious people only.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:37 PM
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Most will laugh at it and some will love it. Dating is numbers game and has always been like that. You just gotta get harder skin and soul. Get used to getting laughed at. You're supposed to entertain people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:11 PM
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If you really are young and write this well I highly doubt your troubles in dating will be long. Just send a girl a long love poem or something along that style.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:18 AM
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Bro everyone knows ducks rape eachother all the time. It's a common fact that doesn't need explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:28 PM
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I'd argue the only day we all become happy is when AI take over and we all become extinct. Humans are unsatisfiable creatures that is just part of the human condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:24 PM
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We are not in school here. You should learn to speak from personal beliefs rather than just be assigned a perspective. School was just simulation. Your words and the beliefs you project into the world can heal or hurt. These days the algorithm favors toxic and provocative content. Your shit can spread like a virus.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:19 PM
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It's impossible for men to not compare themselves with other men. Same as it is impossible for women to not compare themselves with other women. I would not say this is a redpill thing. It's more or a self-worth and self-esteem thing. Men often feel like they should be able to provide for their woman and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:50 PM
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You forget that women are often outcompeted by men in business. They are often left with no choice but to take an alternative position.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:48 PM
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Other things that matters is how sexy, good looking, fashionable, charismatic, competent, healthy and rich you are. Women aren't one dimensional. If you score high on all other dimensions you'll look like a winner to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:28 AM
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Attractive people are better because they have more social experience and connections. Creating a positive feedback loop. Women value social value and competence very highly. I am a man and I accept this reality. Trying to claim there are other things more worth than being at the peak of the social pyramid is a futile effort that goes against human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:31 PM
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Happiness doesn't come from children. It comes from not being stuck with people who's annoying, abusive, unhealthy, cheap, and poor. Just being single today is awesome, travel anywhere, party anywhere, hang with anyone, fuck anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:50 PM
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I wish guys would wear something better than just a t-shirt and jeans to parties. A dress-shirt atleast got some style.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:18 PM
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You're right that women are moving the goal post because they're looking for the best they can get. Which is market dynamics at play. The same shit happens for literally any product in the market. Women wouldn't buy a nokia phone when you can buy a iphone right? That would be social suicide for them. Yet the nokia was peak 30 years ago. And bro desperation can be fixed easily by just vibing instead of being aggressive. But if you're any one thing of ugly, fat, unfashionable, untrendy, boring and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:14 AM
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Any system that races to the bottom is terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:47 AM
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My man. You sound like your doing almost everything right. How's your fashion style? and fitness 💪? Looks are very important for women after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 07:06 PM
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Even in those stories the main character eventually escapes the limbo. Wouldn't be much of a story to watch otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:17 AM
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Biting is considered charming by most women. It's like a pet cat who shows affection and need for attention. Even when told to stop the cat is often forgiven because it comes from a place of love. Death and suicide threat are never charming. These a negative manipulation tactics typically used by narcissist or anxious attachment people with a fear of abandonment to control the subject. These create negative emotions that eventually forces the subject to leave out of exhastion, fear and panic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:55 PM
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Each and every one of those successful people whom married could've gotten a better match out in the real world. Verified by myself. I've tried both. Have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:51 PM
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I have plenty of success of dating going to bars and clubs. I'm only sour about your awfully unreal claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:17 PM
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Rofl dating apps are so trash. I can't believe that's your honest opinion. Unless you're photogenically beautiful you're guaranteed to be treated like garbage. Meeting people in real life gives men a much better match 100% of the times based on my own personal experience. The people you meet in dating apps have lot's of uncharming issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:13 PM
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We'll if that's how you feel then try an anti-hero or villain stories. Whatever floats your boat. You can draw inspiration from the next movie you choose to watch or a beloved movie you've rewatched many times before. Me I personally I picked a ninja hero story.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:47 AM
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Then change the story into a hero origin story. Like kickass the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:36 AM
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Ideally I'd be the only one allowed to fuck everyone Alternatively I'd like it if love & sex & responsibility was shared more freely with everyone in the community. Now it kinda an inequal and unfair distribution. We're constantly punished with shaming and guilt aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:31 AM
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Don't buy a house. Worst mistake you can do in the current market. Find a great job. Rent the cheapest room you can find. Save mountains of money and invest. Travel the world, rent AirBnBs. Find another even greater job in higher paying location. Repeat. Then retire early.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:17 PM
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Agreed. Game theory makes the imagined reality impossible. OP needs to run some simulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:06 PM
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These days it's kinda taboo for women to ask for money... It's filled shame, whore and golddigger labels... Idk what women you hang with but here in Europe almost no women have asked me for money. Even when I suggested that I could pay her for basic necessities she'd get angry 😡 and say she just wanted empathy and can deal with her problems. The few times I have given pocket change to the girl she loses respect immediately for me ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:18 AM
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OP is using too much logic. People just want to feel special the same goes for men. Otherwise you could date & mate with anyone which gives no reason to be loyal then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:03 PM
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Women think everything is weird and a redflag at first. That's why you have to reframe the whole story as something positive. Like you believe in saving yourself for the one or something like that. If you've had lots of experience that's also treated as a redflag at first. So turn on your gaslighting and reframe the whole story. lol Or you just match with a girl who happen to like it ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:20 PM
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Playing hard to get is just ineffective. Giving out shit test makes sense though. Though shit tests are mad confusing sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:30 PM
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The classical view of masculinity and femininity is starting to becoming outdated. However there is still alot of tradition that still works for people. Our human nature and emotions isn't going to suddenly change at the same velocity as modern culture and technology. Women are becoming more "masculine" in traditional perspective through their financial independence and sexual freedom. Meanwhile men are becoming more "feminine" in traditional perspective allowing to let the woman share or even t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:48 AM
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Philosophically everything is an subjective emotional experience inside our minds. However what these men are saying is about different dimensions of emotional attachment. The language is just confusing when it comes to emotions. 😵‍💫 Some men can have sex with a sex workers and give zero shits about if she lives or dies after. They have zero emotional attachment to the sex worker. What they fulfilled was the emotional need for temporary pleasure (and maybe test of power and options) (Often calle…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:50 PM
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Correct me if I am wrong? but I think that's the message most women gets to hear on repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:34 AM
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Yes and no I'm pointing out the difference between male and female experience of life, you might not understand as a woman but the conditions for men are set high. Men aren't worthy of love for simply existing. Men are told constantly that men must be better. This is a message that repeats from parents, dates, friends, siblings, strangers, lovers, wifes, girlfriends etc... Men has to man up. Do better, be better. My question is do you agree with this message?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:10 PM
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I guess kinda like student loans. Nobody expects to fully repay that. 😅 Dying with loans makes sense and the government can adjust the interest rates however they deem fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:39 PM
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I was thinking we should give loans to parents with children but that might be a stupid idea 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:19 PM
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It's the boomers and demographics problem. We have an higher then ever average life expectancy. Old people has gotta release resources to the young.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:03 PM
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Then check it? Here's your opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:16 AM
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Yup society needs an expendable work force. Only men whom survive that are worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:11 AM
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I just want to see if people agree with the message or not. People want equality and fairness but that's not the reality and message for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:02 AM
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Yes agreed that this is the same kind of message that eventually creates patriarchy. The men at the top are better and feel like they must be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:00 AM
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Men whom refuse to change and improve themselves and whom keep insisting that they are good enough just as they are even though they put zero effort into self-improvement are lost causes. Blaming everything on men is the same as blaming everything on the gays, the jews, the nazis, the liberals or whatever. It's a ridiculous over-simplification of real world problems. What is important that is the desire for improvement and change.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:38 PM
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Game depends largely on context and timing. You try a straight pickup line in a club or when she dressed for a night out it will probably work. You try the same straight pickup line when she just woke up and heading to work. She gonna tell you to piss off and she haven't had coffee yet. So no being straight up isn't always respectful depending on the context and timing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 01:36 AM
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Sounds like alot of bitching to me. You doomer. Just shutup already. You deliberately misunderstood me or you have terrible intuition. Implied I was advocating for rape and spreading sperm. Then you insult me. Fuck you man. Go fuck yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:44 PM
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Then why didn't you say that? Instead of rape and spreading semen? You said that. I'm quoting you. You're not very smart for assuming that so your intuition is way off here. And clearly you're a winner in the dating game so why are you complaining about women's standards? Real men don't bitch about this stuff. They just go do what is needed to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:28 PM
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Rape is weak. I just told you to avoid weakness. I think you're the one that is gross 🤢 you're probably one of those lazy masturbating porn addicted incels. Clearly you're watching alot of rape porn. Also you seem to have no idea of what it takes to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:58 PM
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No? Im claiming incels are lazy masturbating losers. Winners do what it takes to win and avoid weakness and distractions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:50 PM
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No the end result is the feminization of men. We are already seeing it happening. Masculine men will become unnecessary. Feminine men are already far more attractive and idolized then macho men. All physical labor will be handled by machines and lead by intelligent technical personnel. Nature has a tendancy for 51/49 ratio of men and women I don't believe that will change any time soon. Emotional intelligence is already far more valuable than any other trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:47 PM
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Is it women's fault or is it the fault of videogames and porn? Men could spend their time becoming real men but instead choose to masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:41 PM
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Bro being autistic is kinda ugly. Blackpill strategy is to give up and lay flat. OPs strategy is worse. It's like the Shitpill strategy. Shit on everything and everyone else until they become as shitty as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:27 PM
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Bro you are describing a "race to the bottom" mentality. This will only create a black hole of negativity that attracts more bullshit into your life. Great people work with other great people and dodge shitty people. Shitty people have no choice but to work with other shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:23 PM
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Also true and the fact that OP points out that the age range is also true. Further skewing the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:54 PM
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Statistical average makes the average more objectively real. Imagine rolling a dice with six sides and not expecting the dice to have the average value of 3.5 and instead claim that well from my subjective perspective the average value of the dice should atleast 5?! We'll clearly you're going to have alot of people disagreeing with that. And yes agreed it's thrown out of wack by social media for men and women. Spread some awareness for this please because that guy I replied to talk like ugly wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:27 PM
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What? Are you arguing to move the statistical average based on desirability? Also women who believe all women are beautiful should get a reality check too. Average women are ugly. So you should be supporting my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:52 PM
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My point was to reply to men who believe that the average woman is not ugly. The average woman and man is ugly, that's reality. Statistically you would probably not want to marry or date that. And filtering away the undesirables shouldnt be moving the statistical average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:45 PM
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Well if you're asking why many men suck at sex it's because they have a lack of sexual experience or they haven't studied sex. That's why they need more sex to build sex skills. Female anatomy and nature is opposite of male. Most men prefer hard and fast. Most women prefer gentle and slow. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ Mars & Venus thing. Then there's the men who only want to stroke their fragile egos and wants women to worship them. Also there's lots of internal emotional work to be done for men that has b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:37 PM
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Pick better men then? Why have casual sex with someone who's predictably bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:22 PM
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Your comment indicate you have difficulty absorbing alternative perspectives?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:56 PM
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You said not ugly. There's lots of women in dateable age that are ugly. Are they not part of statistics? Real reality is that the average woman is actually ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:28 PM
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Women get orgasms and pleasurable sexual experience with a charming six pack stud who knows exactly what to say and not say. How to move with beauty grace and elegance. How to live now and not later. How you've been dead inside for a long time but not now. Great and sexually fulfilling sex adventure just like in their pornographic novels or Hollywood movies. There's three kinds of people. - Thoose who live in the past. - Thoose who live in the moment. - Thoose who live in the future. All three o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:23 PM
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No you're the one who doesn't understand statistical average. Your beauty standards have been psy-ops hijacked by social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:07 PM
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Bullshit she just hiding her intensions. Woman knows that physical contact is an invitation for more. If it's not mutual she wants plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:16 AM
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There's no debate here. She got rejected by her crush. Obviously it's inappropriate to touch your coworkers like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:59 AM
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No you don't. High iq people become academics and employees. Lot's of rich people are just lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:11 PM
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Have you heard of money? 💰 If you're that super unattractive then you gotta be a winner in money. Which again is years of effort to cultivate a massive amount of money. There's plenty of rich ugly men with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:12 PM
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Imagine that you had a strength level of one million and you beat every other man in every other competition. You'd really think a man like that couldn't attract a woman? Women are attracted to winners. They don't want to mate or date losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:46 PM
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Why do you say that? Men's attractiveness is defined by everything. Women care about absolutely everything. You didn't know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:09 PM
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Bro you think men are born with muscles, style and personality? A true red piller would know that this is all cultivated from decades of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:57 AM
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Sounds perfect 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:44 PM
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I'm a liberal man. That's why I want 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:06 PM
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The reality is you are a strong dominant boss lady whom are unwilling to take leadership in the relationship. Yet the very same thing is asked of masculine men as the default expectation in society. Reality is that equal relationship are statistically super rare. I'd ask you again to make an educated guess. Try adding some statistics in your thinking because reality is while it may be possible to find such a relationship it's just extremely improbable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:04 PM
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This is kinda of my problem. Because I make more than the dates I can find. I'd say for the sake of fairness and to avoid being taken advantage of. I'd expect her to pay an equal percentage of her income atleast.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:50 PM
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No I have said I wanted financially equal relationship to them. They counter argue me with age or income difference. Or that I am the man so the man should pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:48 PM
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You can make your own post for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:47 PM
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I agree with you. And when you're dating you meet all kinds of people. Some say all kinds of things then when bill comes they dodge responsibility like the plague. Blame it on age or income difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:45 PM
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Not me either. This is why I'm asking in this post because it doesn't make sense to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:38 PM
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You claim it's not rare with female bodybuilder. Put a percentage on it, make an educated guess. It's definitely not the norm. Even if you're not competing. I acknowledge your amazing achievements. You probably have a long line of men who are interested in you. Yet you refuse to date beneath yourself and would rather stay single. Meanwhile there's plenty of men who are willing to date beneath themselves and take a leadership role. There's a gender difference here. But you'd ofcourse be fine to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:33 PM
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Some people say "I am much younger than him so he has more savings and should pay more" And also income difference. "He/She earns more so it should be based on percentage of income". "Equity"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:19 PM
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I'm sorry but female bodybuilders are extremely rare. You are part of less than 0.1% of the female population. I wouldn't be surprised if you would be taking the leadership role in the relationship and date a weaker man. You're the rare exception. And you can't seriously believe that all women desire equality? If you do then make a guess. How many percent?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:27 PM
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it's nature & nurture Don't miss an important factor in the equation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:37 PM
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Most women say that but then you breakup because there wasn't enough "chemistry" or "attraction". Or you feel that you could get someone better, more masculine and physically stronger, taller, smarter, more mature. Ofcourse there is always the rare exceptions. Also with submission (poor choice of word). I mean follow or being lead by someone with confidence and trust. In your personal dating history was any of the men you dated weaker (physically / mentally / financially / maturity) than you and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:52 PM
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Well then the real problem is that people don't attend social circles anymore. People just sit home stare at their phone, watch porn and play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:51 PM
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Women say they have a preference for a specific looks in a man. But then they meet an amazing man who looks nothing like they imagined and suddenly all the shallow preferences aren't important anymore. Masculine men are supposed to be "stronger" than their woman and lead them and their future family. Atleast that was the conclusion from another post in this sub. Masculinity is primarily defined by being better than women at "everything physical". Women aren't dumb, they have no reason to submit …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:46 PM
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Heey yo. If ya disagree then explain what your dick and sperm was made for? Or you just writing nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:34 AM
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You know seems people agree with ya on testosterone. But would you say there is no male / female territory or activities then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:32 PM
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I can agree on physical strength as a logical foundation for masculinity. Physical strength is attractive although it is somewhat diminishing in utility in these modern days. We could also argue that people without physical strength is not very masculine. Although alot of people fall into this group and are likely offended by this. Hmm. Even in typical feminine actitivities the mans role is to add strength. For example ballet, cheerleading. If you're the strongest there then you're the most masc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:26 AM
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I could agree that physical strength as in muscles 💪 is the simpest way to define masculinity. As men generally has more testosterone then women and therefor would always have an advantage in building muscles 💪 Follow up question is then how would all other things stand in relationship too that? Activities, careers, hobbies etc ...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:00 PM
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Unfortunately there are many ways to interpret strength. And due to technology we are increasingly heading into a world where strength is not necessary. Also is dancing strength? Is cooking strength? Is hygien strength? Is social skills strength? Is emotional intelligence strength? Is being skilled strength? Is being intelligent strength? Is knowledge strength? Perhaps a better and more modern definition for masculinity would be "skill"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:57 PM
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Would be nice if people could say "Man power!" but nope people say "Are you gay?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:13 PM
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I don't think of people as morons. Everyone including me subscribes to some mental model of reality. Then they feel, react and act based on that. This mental model is debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:55 PM
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Disagree. You may not think like that but very many people do. Idealogies sets goals and direction. If we focus on only the current reality then there is no point in debating. If that's your belief you shouldn't participate in debates. Also many historical events were driven by idealogies. Ideas can change the world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:34 PM
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Maybe like power, security, strength, frame?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:18 PM
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Yes I 100% agree. Men are getting backed into an extremely unattractive corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:06 PM
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Wow that's alot for me. I definitely feel there seems to be some issue with male sexuality? and the definition of masculinity. I'm starting to think we should make all prisons super gay. That includes decorations. Make sure the prisons produce more gay men. And make men fear ending up in gay hell. These low skilled behaviors could more often be said to be unmanly. No real masculine man would do this. And getting sent to gay prison isn't exactly smart. Prison men aren't real men, they're losers. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:59 PM
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Yes I agree with all your points. What seems to work well in manipulation of men is what is considered gay by society and what is not. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:36 PM
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Yes I agree on these points. Hence this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:30 PM
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Brother you're missing out on life. It ain't all about merely surviving and existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:27 PM
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Yes I agree. And getting called gay for doing basic stuff like cooking, dancing, singing is really fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:28 AM
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You seem to have confidence. So what is your definition of masculinity? And does the rest of society share your definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:23 AM
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You have a very good point. Yes I agree if we let capitalism define masculinity then masculinity will be defined based on the stuff we buy and consume in contrast to feminine stuff. But then these trends are just temporary. Can we do better as a society?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:22 AM
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For me yes Aragorn absolutely dominates the battlefield with his high level of skill. Even with a bow a typical female weapon. (Except all elves perhaps prefer bows). In LOTR the other men, dwarf and etc are depicted as feeling emasculated and awestruck by both his skill and beauty. But I don't know if the rest of society would agree with me? What exactly defines masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:13 AM
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Yes this social construct is poorly defined and we should be able todo better. Come to some kind of agreement in society. And when it comes to being submissive, why would anyone be submissive to someone weaker / less-skilled than them? A title or whatever doesn't automatically come with this privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:04 AM
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I'm one of the men who appreciate women who adopt more masculine traits. I think it's really nice to be able converse about similair topics and activities. Yes men do have an extra enemy and that I believe it fundamentally comes from a poor definition of masculinity. You're touching on a previous comment I had about intrinsic masculine traits from our nature. Perhaps it would be better to define masculinity by our ability to lead, compete and dominate. Instead of "not female stuff" allowing men …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:58 AM
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Perhaps masculinity is best defined by the masculine ability to compete, lead and (dominate if I can say that) Meaning men who don't compete, lead or dominate are not real men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:48 AM
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I feel that moving territory like this is deeply problematic. Eventually men may have zero territory. Or only the worst territory left. Like sewer cleaner? Garbage men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:43 AM
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So you're saying masculinity is defined by the masculine aura you give. Hmm I'm getting what you're saying but can you phrase it more concretely? Is it body language you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:33 AM
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And what exactly is this definition of masculinity coming from? Not being feminine? Or what behavior are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:31 AM
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Urgh the idea that masculinity should be defined by our natural ability for violence, aggression and physical strength sounds extremely toxic 😅 and not at all fitting for a modern society. But yes I'm looking for some kind of virtue based in our nature and evolution. And something our society could promote.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:29 AM
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What's wrong with being cringe? A cringy life is much better than a basic life. Men often worry about being perceived as a female. I'd agree it would be nice if men stopped doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:23 AM
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Hmm. Are you sure about that? 🤔 I'm not. Also what if women started to work as lumberjacks but used new technology instead of raw 💪 muscles. Making lumberjack a female dominated title. Then a man does his regular thing with beefy muscles. Would his title become gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:16 AM
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Who's going to treat her differently? They're just going to use her name like they already do. She still looks like a man and does manly things 😅 people are just going to assume she's a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:28 PM
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What practical reality? Filling out forms as women instead of man? If you win that is five years of extra pension. Which is great especially considering that you as a male is expected to die sooner. Also you could send the remainder of the money to your descendants. The gain is real fucking money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:24 PM
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Funny but we already have words for these men. Dickheads, man sluts, fuck boys, horndogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:57 PM
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Inaccurate. Women are attracted to emotional security and leaders. Arrogant people often radiate these hints but often fail to back this up. Arrogance is often associated with blind and deaf stupidity and failure to cooperate, take feedback and low EQ. Though faith in themselves is a fundamental quality to build value.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:35 PM
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I say all life is just sexually transmitted diseases. Babies are just big STDs. Mother earth is crawling with disgusting STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:44 PM
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I'm sorry but aren't also animals protitutes then? Because they also transact value for sex? Even plants have a sexual exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:39 PM
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So you're suggesting that no one should have sex? And that we shouldn't date? Because prostitution is an immoral act?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:59 PM
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No man. Again you seem to confuse business fashion with party fashion. Sad to see you are part of the problem. The guys with the girls are dressed to party. They're not actually wearing only an ugly tshirt and jeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:18 PM
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Beat women in their own social games and you win
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:24 PM
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This is why men need to work on their beauty. Ugly people must dance like monkeys as proof of what other things they can offer. Beautiful people can just show up. Do nothing and still succeed. You're just describing the dynamic of an ugly person trying to seduce a beautiful person. Beautiful people doesn't need to put in effort. They never had to because everyone else is doing it for them. If you don't like this dynamic then pick and uglier woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:29 PM
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Alot of couples are swingers, especially married people with kids. It gets too sexually boring in a marriage that's the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:25 PM
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The reality is people who doesn't dress up is the ones ending up fucking themselves. Figuratively and literally. People who doesn't care are the worst. It's literally their defense to anything including their own sexlife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:34 AM
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Yes I finally understood that my failed brothers were the real gays. They only hurt my game
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:55 AM
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That sounds pretty cool bro. You got style.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:21 PM
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You're just further proving my point ☝️😔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:37 PM
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Imagine going to a party and thinking the party is not important. Then go away. How would you like it if I went camping with you and said camping is not important? Or reading a book with you and said I don't like reading books
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:58 PM
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Bro your last sentences tell me you got style... You're not the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:57 PM
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I saaaaid at parties. Understand the damn context. If you're going to exaggerate then you can exaggerate the other way too you really think people should people should wear work outfits everywhere they go? Imagine going camping and your are wearing the wrong camping gear and outfit. Imagine reading books without your glasses. Imagine using the wrong tools for the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:54 PM
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Clearly you don't understand the concept of vibe or theme
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:13 PM
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Depends on the party. Find something that fits the theme / music genre of the party.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:37 PM
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Men who put zero effort their default is basically a clone of another zero effort man. There is plenty of lazy men out there. They're not automatically unique because they put zero effort into something. So standout at parties. Not these cloned standard norm outfits.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:36 PM
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Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:30 PM
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Then don't goto parties. Stay at home or goto work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:33 AM
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Why is it that women are considered the beautiful gender in humans? When in other animals men do that? For examples peacocks? Being ugly is alienating men that's why. Everything is about partying! 🥳 and women! The rest is boring slavery stuff ya gotta do to survive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:00 AM
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Then why you even in this subreddit? You identify as a redpill man too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:56 AM
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Those outfits are for working not partying. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:54 AM
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For bands I'd recommend dressing like the band that's playing. For example. If you're listening to Marilyn Manson then dress is goth. If its Metallica then dress metal. You with casual t-shirt and jeans then are ya even a true fan?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:53 AM
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No because women dress better than men. You have to speak from a position of high skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:48 AM
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Don't advice men to be incels. That's not good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:47 AM
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Same I hate it. This fashion style needs to go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:46 AM
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Most people are ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:44 AM
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You don't goto parties do you? Or what kind of places do you go out to?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:43 AM
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Bro ending homeless, poverty and wars is impossible. You could waste a lifetime on that and acheive nothing. Just go party instead. Also if everyone focused on making great parties instead of making great wars. We would have less wars. Actually it's looking very good at the disease part. Looks like we are heading for a future where AI can print a cure on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:04 AM
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Yeah I actually have a couple friends like this. I mean I had. I stopped inviting them to parties because they refused to dress up. Kept wearing the same plain t-shirts and jeans. Hurting my game alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:02 AM
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Taking simplicity too far makes men look like a simpleton. If men are supposed to be highly valuable to women then why are they looking so simple? The t-shirt fashion is signalling the completely wrong signals. Telling the completely wrong story to women. Men have too little vanity, they need more, but still less than women. Men shouldn't exceed women in vanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:48 AM
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I want a society of party people 🥳 at parties. Good people can stay home or goto work. Stay away from parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:32 AM
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I disagree. Everything you have is for getting women. That's what the main purpose of life is from evolution. Your intelligence, your money, your body, your dick, your sperm, your dna is all for the sake of getting with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:28 AM
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A you know what? fuck it. I'm just gonna go and fuck all your women for you. Some men can't be convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:26 AM
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I thought so. Explains your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:22 AM
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Brother you've cleared the fashion test. Now you must clear all other tests. I never said it's all you need. Life is multi-dimensional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:20 AM
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Have you not been reading the other posts in this sub reddit? "Be yourself" has been debunked many times over. It just creates low-effort, lazy, porn and video game addicted incels. Basically "the worst version of yourself". "Be your best self" especially at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:18 AM
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Some girls take it a bit too far. I've seen them wear nothing but a brah or bikini to parties. But hey I'm appreciating 😳 not complaining. But yes you are getting what I mean. The outfit should be more cohesive, planned and intelligent. Even if it's a t-shirt it should match the pants and whatever accessories ya got. Just like the skins in video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:15 AM
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Agreed but still awful. All that formal shit doesn't fit into a party. That t-shirt & jeans works at home but not a party. You probably should wear something better for work like just a shirt & jeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:09 AM
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I feel ya. Guys refuse to put in some more effort into fashion. They probably got called gay too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:07 AM
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Only dressing up wont get you laid if you're already ugly. But it sure makes the whole party a little bit better if you come there looking good with a good mood and something fance on ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:05 AM
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Don't come to party with your political bullshit. You're such a party pooper.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:03 AM
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Im a mid looking guy but I dress well and found a lot of sexual success yes. I don't just dress well, I also do everything thing else well but lets not talk about that now. You're an 8yo kid. You're just projecting your childish insecurities. Fashion isn't even that expensive or hard, everyone can afford that. Going to the gym five days a week like I do now that is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:01 AM
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For parties yes. It's called peacocking 🦚 You think a peacocks feathers are comfortable? and parties only last a few hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:56 AM
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Women already do. I feel sad for men who just doesn't get it. Because they get zero feedback from women and they get called gay by other men when they try. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:53 AM
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Thank you 💕🥺🙏 Love you too 😘🌷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:52 AM
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Agreed this culture of dressing casually is going too far. It's a race to the bottom and it's giving away men's power in attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:51 AM
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Sure I agree you should improve yourself outside of the parties. Don't come to the parties unless you're peak. I mean why come to a techno / rave / pop party and be the naked genuine you? I think people fail to understand the concept of "theme" in "theme parties".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:49 AM
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Uh what you refered to men in third person aswell. Hypocrite? What is the difference? I also referred to women as a third person? You don't believe I am a man then check my account. I've been posting for several years. Also video games is just mental masturation and definitely will not make you more successful with women. Could have spent that time getting ripped or making money. Unless the game teaches you something actually useful IRL it's a useless game just pumping you with dopamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:44 AM
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No. I want men to dress better so the whole party is better and everyone feels better. Including the women and men there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:37 AM
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I'm slaying so much that slaying is losing it's meaning. And no I don't do dinners or dates. I only goto parties. And noticable other men at parties doesn't wear partywear for parties. They wear their everyday clothes. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ Both me and the girls shun these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:37 AM
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Agreed the mens fashion industry needs to change. What is wrong with these clowns 🤡? They're pushing clown costumes to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:15 PM
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You're talking about where men start to wear pink again and women start to wear blue? Would be very interesting if such a cultural shift happened again. I'd say men can cut back on video games and porn. We spend way too much time and energy on these two things that doesn't benefit society at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:49 PM
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Agreed men shouldn't wear hijabs or suits as party wear. Men's party fashion should breathable so the sweat has somewhere togo. Party fashion should not be professional fashion. It doesn't make any sense at all. Are you going to a party? Or are you going to work? Or are you going to your couch for pizza and video games? Men need more specific styles for parties. And preferably it should be closer to womens fashion so we can match.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:46 PM
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Yes men mock other men for dressing up for special occasions. Weird? And even weirder for having such a frail sense of masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:39 PM
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Yeah no I've been an underdressed little robot boy aswell. I feel like I've only been truly able to party and connect with people once I leveled up my fashion (and looks). Women and men would actually randomly come up and give me compliments for my looks. Makes me feel like a real human being. I'd love to see that change in other people aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:38 PM
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You're just so married that you can't see it from the inside. You gotta man up and stand up for yourself or she's gonna lose respect for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:29 PM
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Nah I'm talking parties, not everyday wear or gymwear. Everyone should dress sexy at parties including men. The level difference between male and female fashion is appalling. Why aren't men peacocking because it seems like women are. Ladies show up with silver glitter dresses to a regular club. Meanwhile the guys are wearing t-shirts and jeans. Wtf?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:27 PM
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She wants you to standup for yourself and also properly explain why. It was a shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:20 PM
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Yes the gay stereotype is annoying. Even if you're moderately well dressed people think you're gay. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ Was honestly contemplating if I really should tell anybody haha I'll just make more competition for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:19 PM
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You are not a party person I assume. Or what kind of parties do you go to? Where could a man find a mingle with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:15 PM
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I'd say you still add to the vibe of the party. At least a well dressed man isn't a party pooper. Especially if it's a creative for the theme. Some men come in with dinosaurs costumes. They ain't getting laid but that's great for the vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:13 PM
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Good points. So you think we should open up a mens party section in every clothing store?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:09 PM
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If only I had a time machine, I could've bought Bitcoin early.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:37 PM
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Good point. Yet parties are still filled with awful fashion choices. I suppose these advice doesn't come early enough in life for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:27 PM
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No but I will look it up immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:26 PM
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Bargaining. A good name for a weak strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:24 PM
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I would argue being ugly is treatable with alot of effort, money, fashion and modern technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:30 PM
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No I broke up with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:24 PM
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Kindness is a low value trait. Most people are kind by default. It's a supply and demand problem. If most people are kind then people who value kindness are already paired up. What's left are the people in the market with only kindness to offer but no takers to match. Would you rather be told something much more difficult like be radiant? and be powerful? Living upto such expectations is quite difficult. Also womens advice doesn't really work for men but they may work for women. Women doesn't re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:43 AM
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My ex really loved when I deescalated conflicts with words. Conclusion is that women love men who can handle conflict in a way that works! is mature! and appropriate! and not childish. Basically they want strong leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:46 PM
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It's called slavery. The higher ups want us to keep working. Keep consuming for the sake of the economy. Keep the lights going and the wheels spinning. Keep making babies etc. Recent leaps in technology however exposes the lies (or turns old truths into lies) and at the same time introduces alot of new unprecedented challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:37 PM
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No they are incels cuz they are ugly, lazy and hateful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:03 PM
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Yeah isn't that your ideal romantic? I'm thinking the typical prince rescues princess stories, Aladdin, Super Mario, Snowwhite, Titanic etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:47 PM
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I'd say incels are just hopeless, lazy, low-effort, depressed, losers. They're just saying whatever so to justify being lazy, stupid and giving up. "Victim mentality" Real romantics, put in the effort, they climb mountains, they travel the world, they meet and get to know everyone, they're willing to risk their life for just a smallest chance at love. or die trying. They are heroes. Their stories are heroic and often tragic... But they do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:22 PM
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Playboys would disagree on you what is great culture. Music, dancing, partying, fashion, physical health, fitness, entertainment overall is considered great culture by alot of people. Intellectual culture is considered nerdy, unsexy, boring, unhealthy, arrogant, judgmental, weak, not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:16 PM
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Or idk what movie stars you thinking. But for example Leonardo DiCaprio?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:14 AM
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That's my point. Men refuse to adopt to new conventions. Honestly it's a capitalist psy-ops anyway. Hollywood wants you to buy all the stuff the movie stars uses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:10 AM
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Technically men are told by all the male movie stars. Men just refuse to adopt traits from celebrities because real masculine men aren't supposed to be celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:25 AM
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Best advice would actually be get into health & fitness. Kindness is so basic that anyone can do that. It's lazy and common.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:21 AM
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Anything else is too boring. How about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:59 PM
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How costly exactly? Women have different numbers in mind and money isn't even that important. Some women gives sex because they felt kindness, love, passion and compassion from men. Materialistic things doesn't make people as happy as you think. Also many men doesn't even value sex. They would never pay for just sex. You're thinking is extremely transactional. As if money is the number one priority. Not everyone believes that money is number one. It really depends on your upbringing. Money is ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:33 PM
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There is always going go be a woman who charges less. Then that becomes a market dynamic of supply and demand. That's why sex is free sometimes and sometimes it's costly. You can only control your own body. Women aren't a unified sisterhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:34 PM
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In my experience from dating it doesn't make sense at all to pick a predictable partner. It gets fake & boring after just a year. Sex becomes a chore / routine. I'd rotate partners on the crazy scale while I'm healthy. A robotic life is not a life. It's like watching the same movie on repeat. Life is meant to be fun. YOLO YOYO. When life gets though and my health declines I'd settle for someone stable and predictable. And have kids with that person (maybe if my finances allow). I'm living the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:04 PM
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Agreed the system needs to change. What we consider a family needs to evolve. People are asking for more truth, honesty, science and nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:42 PM
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The idea is drawn from the perspective of evolution and genetic selfishness. It makes sense from the perspective of evolution. Why would a man or woman risk all her eggs in the same basket? We see the same behavior in other animals aswell. Truth and science doesn't exist for animals these are human constructions. What is disturbing the stories of women who support women who lies about paternity. And worse gaslight the husband to stay. The idea that real fatherhood is the man who raises the child…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:30 PM
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Agreed age isn't the biggest problem it's all the unattractive health issues that comes with age that is the problem. Most of which can be fixed by adopting a healthy fitness lifestyle. Just look at the skin quality 🤯 how about y'all stop tanning, sunning, sugar and smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:27 PM
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Sometimes I feel that Chad is a misunderstood stereotype. Sure he fucks around and maybe doesn't treat other people that well. But at his core, his focus is health. Basic health is something that is becoming increasingly rare these days as people are addicted to video games, porn, junk food, drugs, medication and other poisons. Even just having an above average fitness level makes you standout from the crowd. ( I can testify to that )
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:23 PM
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Uh income does change, typically you'd get a raise and climb the corporate ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:44 PM
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Then don't feel sorry for them being unavailable for dating lol. Control your feelings and stick to your beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:32 PM
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Yeah Mr Red Pill man. Why would you wanna date a single mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:47 PM
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Women are sexually attracted to leaders. Fundamental nature. Redpill fact. Stop being yourself and be a leader. Why would a woman start a family with a man who cannot lead the family. I mean it does happen but the woman will regret her mistake when the man fails at making basic decisions about life, and express insecurity and weakness in every social situation. When the man fails to lead the children etc. Introverts can become great leaders too, it just takes practice. Extroverts aren't necessar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:05 PM
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You're just pointing out the obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:51 PM
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Yes that's true. Very few men are running around ruining it for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:38 PM
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Honestly I'm the kind of person who is greeedy and desire everything this universe has to offer. So I would say both and everything. And If I can't have them at the same time then I'd take turns.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:39 AM
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Doesn't matter if they are truly dangerous. They're an annoying inconvenience that is wasting her precious time and energy. Imagine if you had a bunch a creepy sales people asking you to buy their bad untrustworthy product on a daily basis. What makes them creepy is they don't care about context and also are bad at taking a rejection. These guys asks her anywhere anytime with a really bad pickup line. Imagine if you were walking to the store and there's a an ad there that desperately wants a min…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:22 AM
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To clarify I saw my girlfriend constantly getting approached by creepy guys on a daily basis. Making my woman feel unsafe and sometimes harassed. These creepy guys run around and have a spray and pray strategy for dating. And doesn't give a shit about that she has a boyfriend. That's what I saw with my own eyes. Again try dating or just watching a beautiful woman. You'll see on a daily basis that a random man will come and say something creepy. If you don't have the time or charm to follow her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:46 AM
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I could agree with that aswell as many female friends I know. Though at the core feminism was about freedom for women. If you know history women had zero autonomy historically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:35 AM
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I have criticism against feminism myself. And I know many women who also have that. Just don't make your whole identity anti feminist and feminity. And stop denying womens experience of reality. You don't know how it is like to be a woman. They're just give their statement and testimony. Assuming they are liars simpy for being women is a very strange bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:24 AM
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Bro so I see it with my own two eyes its a fantasy? Have you tried getting a pretty girlfriend and watch how men behave around her?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:19 AM
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Yeah talking and missing social cues matter less when you're sexy and fit. Women makes an exception for the sexy. I can personally vouch for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:17 PM
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Don't be yourself. Be your best self. Don't be your worst self. You're worst self is just a lazy, prideless, porn, gaming and drug addicted incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:13 PM
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Correction if you're just ugly period your romantic life will be non existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:11 PM
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As a high functioning autistic man I agree with your post. But also that emotional intelligence was never taught as a subject in school. Topics such as body language, psychology was considered for pick-up artists and frowned upon. I feel like EQ skills finally made me human and not an alien. EQ skills is so valuable to humans that it feels dehumanizing to not have them. My observation and analytical skills finally paid of when I actually tried and put effort into it. But yeah having autism most …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:01 PM
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I just said the few men are ruining it for the rest of the majority. Some of men are making women very uncomfortable and no it doesn't even have to be sexual assault. Just look at the reddit forums. The few women haters here are much more visible, roaming and ruining it for the rest of us. They hate women for simply being born women ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ something they had no choice in. That is the society we currently live in. Would be great if those assholes would stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:19 PM
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I don't understand why you replied to my comment specifically? Are you implying that men can't choose better or that men's choice of partner is irrelevant because X?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:36 PM
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You sound like a retard?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:02 PM
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What? you make no sense at all. You're writing style is as bad OP. You should hate yourself for being nonsensical. Clearly you're a women hater aswell, probably comes from your own self hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:25 PM
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Thoose 0.1% goes around alot, they roam all over the place. 100% of women report being sexually assaulted or personally knowing a friend who was. 100% of all beautiful women gets random creepy message on their accounts from creepy guys and dick picks. If you ask any pretty girl this question you'll see how scary the world is for them. My ex girlfriend was approached by random creepy guys every single day, sometimes even while I was with her. One random guy tried to offer her a disgusting half ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:22 PM
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Being single is fine because in my experience relationships are alot of work and painful. While you are single you are free, free to fuck anyone, free to travel anywhere, free to work anywhere, free to date anyone, free to indulge in any hobby you like, free to be yourself, free to be authentic. Many people are simply happier if they are single because ya can't find a partner that will make you happier than being single. If you're one of those lucky people who can find such a partner then you we…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:13 PM
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Stupid legacy that's only based on your dna. More intelligent strategy would simply be a sperm donor then to maximize dna spread and minimize legal responsibilities. Not as fun as actually fucking but more effective since these women actually want to get pregnant and you have been sold as high quality dna. There is a netflix movie about this aswell https://youtu.be/pp5mWaRCqAc?si=qW8aUJdNiiymK1h0
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:58 PM
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There is no facts or evidence to support your claim. You simply pulled that from your ass. Birthrate is declining because women and men doesn't value having children compared to other luxury things like freedom, independence, individuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:54 PM
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Yeah women don't care about men being good fathers. They just want someone sexy and charming. And arguably men want the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:39 PM
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It is kinda an interesting perspective. It's almost as if society and the law punishes men who chose inequal relationships. Purposely trying to take their money away for the sake of equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:31 PM
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You have strong green flags in the man you chose. Yes truly true men have character and backbone. They are never going to abandon their responsibilities as a father to their children regardless of sex, money or whatever bullshit life throws at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:31 PM
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Your talking about RedPill advice who focus mainly on female hypergamy. Yeah I agree that it's much more emotionally intelligent to focus on shared love and topics of interests between the genders rather than sex & money 🤑 Ofcourse money is important but emotionally love is even more important. The algorithm favors sex & money because these are the two topics that are universally shared and lacking for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:27 PM
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zoned guys are simply too ugly. fact is woman and men are shallow. y'all just wanna date someone pretty, sexy and fit as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:15 PM
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As a man I've found great success in making the woman understand that I'm definitely not a rapist or sexually frustrated woman hater. Turns out woman have alot of fear of men because there's some of those men running around ruining it for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:11 PM
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Well I guess I'm not terminally online in these community then because I'm a functional adult. I'm guessing OP and these communities are not. Having to read between the lines in the first post you write is facepalmingly stupid. OP might aswell say he hates woman and ask all women haters to agree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:08 PM
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This post doesn't stay on topic with the title. Your text doesn't describe privilege, ignorance nor advice from a woman. OP just looks like a woman hater who cant stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:16 PM
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Sad truth is that sex and excitement is a need and people are going to fill this need from somewhere if they aren't getting it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:28 PM
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Short answer is no. Even if people have intrinsic worth. They may still not be worthy of my finite time and energy. Especially if there is competition. (Reality) You could love anyone and everyone equally (Spirituality) The amount of love you have is limited and reserved for that special ideal partner in heart. (Romance)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:17 PM
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This is the problem with any group. Social dynamics dictate that the most extremist members completelty take over, escalate into violence and paint over the core message. We see this in LBQT+? community aswell as feminism and other political groups. The algorithm favors extremism and sensationalism. Group loyality is therefor tricky because you never want to associate with extremists. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:06 PM
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Saying "all" is stupid. Are you saying dancing and music is toxic or what are you saying? You might aswell say everything is toxic including yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:16 PM
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Being selfish is toxic. Atleast if you dedicate your entire being to being selfish. Toxic people are just inconsiderate shit heads who doesn't care about who they are shitting on. Plenty of men and women that are abusive and entitled shitheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:12 PM
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No that's toxic feminism. Similar to toxic masculinity. Femininity is about beauty, kindness, grace, sexiness and all that fluffy feel good stuff that has no practical purpose other than making everyone feel happier. Culture, music, dancing etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:05 PM
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Yes that's female selfish behavior. These boss girls all end up lonely, old and isolated. So called "left over women".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:04 PM
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Why be so black and white? How about trying to strike a balance? ⚖️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:02 PM
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Human beings are now cyborgs. Connected to the internet everyday through their smartphone. The people who thrive, accept and takes advantage of that. People who disconnect are left behind. Lack of updates in culture and memes is considered old and boring like a boomer. Just roll with it. Technology is going to keep accelerating at an astonishing rate. Soon AI will completely take over and become the new human ideal form of existance. Free from physical bodies, pain and limitations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:54 PM
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Yes sex is an emotional need. Our emotional brain desires lots of different things in many different dimensions. This is why we have dedicated neurons for sex, intimacy, social validation, survival, safety, fear of heights etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:13 PM
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Sounds like an incel. Humans are social beings. Masturbating your own selfish ego hurts your spiritual and social being.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:56 PM
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To attract hot men. Ugly men should get lost
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:52 PM
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Stop being fat and lazy. goto the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:51 PM
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Yup so name your favorites! And why!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:23 AM
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Family and lovers have a strong bias towards you. I'm looking more for how to deal with strangers, friends, coworkers or followers, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:38 PM
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Really cool that you can meet people like that in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:33 PM
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Yo chill?! You don't have to be angry or reply either?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:32 PM
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Thanks. You explained very well too! 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:31 PM
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Same! Except fictional characters. My family was only "negative" role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:28 PM
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I really liked Barrack Obama for his charisma! Really exemplary wellspoken for leader. His politics deeply questionable 🧐 Then we have Donald Trump 🤦 his politics seemingly is winning! fuck everyone else! Xd
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:26 PM
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Yes exactly ☝️ or atleast recommend to others I meet
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:22 PM
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No reason other than that I am not interested in that atm ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:21 PM
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Ohh Keanu Reeves is the one for me! for sure! thumbs 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:19 PM
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Id prefer they swipe left moved on and kept their preferences hidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:40 PM
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A simple swipe left is empathic and kind enough. No they don't actually have to meet me or match me. Just don't bluntly write your preference in the profile
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:35 PM
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These openly racists profiles are appalling to me. Reading these makes me sad for humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:32 PM
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It doesn't matter if I meet or even match with these people. People writing their beauty preferences into their "profile text" is hurtful and not just for me, it's hurtful to the soul of the society. Especially when they don't even meet their own beauty standards 😅 They should take their time to be less blunt. What you write into your dating profile outputs negative or positive emotions into the world. People should spread good vibes with their dating profile and not judgmental shallowness. A so…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:55 PM
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Because social rejection hurts alot even if it's indirectly. People are social beings and systematic rejection and shallow standards is a loss for the soul of the society. People are entitled to their preferences but when it's expressed so bluntly it's unkind, harsh and hurtful. It's not a waste of time to be kind to people. Show some empathy in your dating profile and also in this debate. Don't be a hyper efficient machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:44 PM
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No I personally definitely don't want to go back to the age where groups of men would catcall women or shout ugly fatso to women publicly like it's normal. The age where men had to wear suits and ties at work even if it was summer and 35 degrees in the office. The age when people were openly racist against different skin colors. The way we uphold standards should be not blunt because people have feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:30 PM
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Yeah, if you aren't vibing it really doesn't matter if you fit the preferences or not. These profiles are ruining the vibe of dating. Modern dating itself definitely need a vibe improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:18 PM
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The goal was to debate that writing your preferences on your profile is wrong because X. The goal is in the title only. Additional descriptions, examples and continuted conversation only fill the X.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:14 PM
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Every gym in the world promotes themselves by showing healthy and muscular people. What if they instead just wrote "stop being fat" and showed unhealthy people dying of obesity. Would you really want to see advertisement banners like that everywhere? Yes facts are facts but how you present them greatly impacts the vibe and culture of the society we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:11 PM
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Don't write it in your profile no, it makes your profile look incredible ugly/harsh/unkind. You can say it in person instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:07 PM
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I added more delusion and exaggerated the examples yes to amplify my original points. You know already that beauty standards already hurt young women because of modelling industry. Do we really need more of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:58 PM
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Do you honestly want to live in a society who is constantly telling you that you don't fit their beauty standards so bluntly? How would you feel if some called you fat to your face? Or walked around with big signs calling you fat? Because dating profiles are kinda like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:54 PM
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Would you honestly want most profiles you read say. "I prefer blonde girls, with big boobs, small waist, weighing 40kgs, white skin, bimbo, gamer girl." or "I prefer blond men, 190cm, blue eyes, white skin, works in finance" You know for sure most peoples beauty standards are delusional and dreamlike because of social media, photoshop, filters and internet porn. Everyone has to be flexible with their beauty standards because they are unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:48 PM
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These preferences aren't real deal breakers. The woman could easily accept an 180 cm man. And the man could accept a 80kg woman. If they possess other qualities that weigh up for that. These are just flexible beauty standards. A deal breaker would be for example if you already have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:40 PM
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Well I've never heard of it. To me it sounds like two words you stuck together. You're probably old. The norm is to call it game? Or social skills? Or more recently soft skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:19 AM
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Did you invent "social calibration" right now or is that an actual term? Are there books about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:02 AM
1

Yes exactly 💯 you just gotta get good at it and keep playing. Be a better player
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:10 AM
1

Too direct. Feels insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:04 AM
0

I call it a game because social calibration doesn't mean anything. You wouldn't be able to use that to explain anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:02 AM
1

Wow that's a very interesting point you made 👆 didn't realize girls can dress like sluts sheerly to bond and rebel with other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:40 AM
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You mean men are tired of SIMPING? Yes they should be tired of SIMPING there's is too damn many simps in the world. Stop paying for women! They can pay for themselves. If they want a date then go for coffee, a drink or icecream. Everytime you pay the woman feels like a whore and lose respect for you at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:34 AM
1

Well you didn't explain it "as all over" if she's jumping onto the man and rubbing herself on him. Most guy's would get the hint. But rubbing her hand on the arm has most guys confused because that generally never happens to young virgin guys. If you're a virgin man you kinda expect the girl to say at least "hey I like you" and not this weird unexpected things that a man would never do. Would a man ever start rubbing a girl on her arm or doing weird sign language? No that's all totally a female …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:21 AM
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It has nothing todo with age and all about sexiness. Lots of young girls are unattractive. They don't become attractive simply for being young.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:07 AM
1

How about using the word sexiness or healthiness instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:58 AM
1

See women are extremely indirect and men just gotta adapt to that. It immediately becomes a game of seduction and dancing. Push and pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:54 AM
1

Yes right! But how are men supposed to improve without straight up criticism? Xd
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:56 PM
5

Yeah just like any job in society. You're expected to perform and be competent. "Don't be yourself" is a better advice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:21 PM
2

It sounds very passive though you gotta admit that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:31 PM
5

It's not about me. Would you really tell an incels "just be your self?" I hate hearing women say that to incels and other men. It's poorly phrased or blatant lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:30 PM
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Yeah stop being yourself. It ain't working.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:31 PM
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I'd say the phrase itself might aswell be banned. Slight adjustment to the phrase could easily capture whatever context you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:24 PM
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Then say "be the best you"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:22 PM
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Yeah the misunderstanding is that some incels are just miserable, useless and completely unwanted. Their hobby are typical incel hobbies. Just blackholes of violent destruction and negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:20 PM
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Literally saw my ex girlfriend (my GF at the time) say that to some incel guy IRL crying about his life. I'm like WTF! You of all people would say that? You realize you got together with me because I try hard on everything? What is this blatant lie? 🤥
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:15 PM
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How about next time you say that to men you include what the hell you really mean? Because men tend to understand take things literally. Apparently women don't take things literally?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:06 PM
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Would be great if men worked like that 🙄 but yeah in my experience all those support networks are filled with incels who just wanna be themselves and says whatever the fuck they want. Kinda like reddit but worse because atleast here we have mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:49 PM
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Not me I got laid last weekend 🙄 I'm OP
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:47 PM
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Then they should word it like "relax bro" instead. Many men take words very literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:45 PM
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Alot of women love cringe actual. Especially if the vibe is super positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:44 PM
2

Bro he just said he gave up on traditional relationships because it didn't work for him. It's a sign of adaptation to current market conditions. Don't go calling people mentally ill when he's just being rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:24 AM
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Yeah to clarify "SMV isn't everything" it's not the only dimension that has importance unless you're a straight up gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:06 PM
1

I'd argue the best dates are not over food. Rather suggest a different activity that doesn't involve stuffing your faces. Make food a side quest. Order from foodora instead. Or go for something small like desserts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:58 PM
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Nobody here likes to hear about science apparently that's why all the downvotes. This is also why these science facts can't be spread. Humans are biochemical machines and our minds and emotions are deeply connected to our chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:20 PM
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Hmm well still sounds unappealing, there's no way to interact with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:46 AM
2

Because health is important. It's like a long term investment into yourself. If you don't invest now you're going to be broke later.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:25 AM
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Making decisions based on emotions and having zero energy is not quite the same. It's rather just avoiding or fleeing from the situation. Cavemen weren't stuck in monogamous relationships where they had to shoulder the full responsibility of children only. Rather the responsibility of children were shared in the tribe. We for some reason don't ask for that anymore. Also in cavemen day's it would be very common for the pack leader to just get murdered by a younger healthier stud.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:31 PM
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This is a real problem though. If you approach a guy the guy might not really be into you but feel like he should accept anyway because you're available and he's in a rut. Making the whole relationship kinda fake or atleast one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:42 PM
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That's exactly what I'm saying. These men shouldn't have become fathers. They didn't think things through. It was the wrong timing for them. They didn't figure out their own feelings. And now they're stuck in a situation where they can only lose. It really doesn't matter how bad the woman or child has it. When a man's biochemistry doesn't function he cannot magical man up through sheer willpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:11 PM
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Well then it turned out your standards were realistic and not at delusion level. You had your ex as a measuring stick atleast.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:03 PM
2

Honestly I think this is the right way to go in the modern dating market. Having fantasy expectations and standards just neglects the reality that your opportunities simply doesn't meet your standards and expectations. Opportunities must be factored into the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:53 PM
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Anyone who is delusional be it man or woman will and should be criticized. I mean c'mon your fantasy will just never meet reality. Come down to earth. Realize that people are not perfect. All these celebrities are selling you a fake persona. They might aswell be AI generated. Stop simping for them and get a real life and real love instead. Don't waste your life away in fantasy and build something in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:34 PM
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USA voted in Trump for president 🤦‍♂️ America are just stupid. Yeah I greatly question your choice in leadership. Berni Sanders is 83 and looks like he could die from a heart attack any second. At least Trump seems to have vitality. He probably has the best medical care and supplement boosters in the world. And he's not exposed to small children all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:11 PM
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Yep porn, video games, netflix, sugar, candy, smoking, vaping, drugs, too much school, too much work, lack of fitness, lack of social skills. Increase in online scams and fake news too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:41 PM
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A woman is going to be favored over a man with zero energy for sure. Men who have zero energy is definitely unqualified for leadership positions. Men usually solve this by focusing entirely on work and avoiding the home. It's a known fact old men eventually are forced to retire from leadership positions. They simply don't have the energy and vitality to run the ship anymore. You can't trust them to solve any unforseen problems. Age itself could be considered a biochemistry problem. All I'm sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:19 PM
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Women have their own hormonal issues during pregnancy and later in menopause. Women are shown more understanding by society during these phases of life, which they should be, because society needs children. There's alot of competition between men. Men with energy is going to favored strongly over men with no energy. Women often show zero understanding to men who suffer depression and lethargy symptoms during pressure from childcare and work pressure. Men often doesn't understand themselves why t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:39 PM
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No I'm saying a man is a great father when they feel successful and have a legacy to pass to their kids. Generally low testosterone makes you less aggressive towards your children and family. But you also need it for work. So overall men shouldn't have children if they still have to work. Or alternative they distances themselves from their family and focus on the work. Or they take testosterone boosters. Living life with zero energy, depression and lethargy is a terrible way to life akin to zomb…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:24 PM
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There is also a biochemistry reason for why men doesn't want kids around. Men's testosterone and hormones level goes down significantly in the presence of kids. This makes men feel lethargic and depressed. Making it very difficult to maintain relationships and perform at work, at home or even sexually. There are ways to counter act this but it's not a well spread fact. Testosterone levels also goes down with age. Generally men do want legacy. There's always exceptions ofcourse. A successful man …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:56 PM
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Why isn't there a word for female misogyny? I'm pretty sure lots of women have a toxic mindset of how men should be aswell?!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:16 PM
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Damn man good luck. It's definitely a skill issue either way. You're persona is probably a bit to feminine for work. Jobs typically desire a masculine persona in my experience. Basically they don't want you to have a life outside of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:58 PM
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You sound like a really cool tomboy. Did you fit in with other girls or was it easier with the boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:52 PM
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Gosh why can you even be allowed to identify as women hater 🤦‍♂️ Talking to a guy like you is a waste of life. You are undeserving of love. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:50 PM
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Gosh all the women posts such non - toxic answers. Men are so toxic. Haha 😂 I think generally men focuses on solving the negative emotions of life; work, money, wars, figthing, protecting, we are pushed into that. Men are from Mars Women generally focuses on the positive emotions of life; traveling, fashion, parties, love, joy, playfulness, women are taught to not be men. Women are from Venus.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:48 PM
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Haha 😂 I mean reddit and internet is mostly about venting anonymously. Would rather vent online than IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:41 PM
1

In my personal opinion owning a house is a mistake. Seems like the best investment is different index funds. Generally the housing market seems to have slowed down considerably. News also report multiple housing market crashes. I am also about to sell my apartment, because it financial fixated me to the same location. I have more work and dating opportunities if I just accept renting and living with my kind and lovely mom sometimes. I also save and will soon invest tremendous amounts of money. U…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:37 PM
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Cool I love that too but what do you actually do with your freetime? And spend money on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:29 PM
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What's your hobbies? All that practical stuff isn't what I'm looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:27 PM
1

Hmm 🤔 how about an answer other than your kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:26 PM
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Ooo you sound really cool. I like strong and independent. Also like alone time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:25 PM
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Rofl so toxic 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:53 AM
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Good/Bad boys doesn't exists. There's only boring boys and crazy boys. Just like women there's only boring girls and crazy girls. You'd think max crazy is better? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:33 AM
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Can you boil it down to competency then? Generally high competent women have an issue finding their equal because high competency men often prefer someone who's less maintenance and is younger. Which arguably women should mimic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:59 PM
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So you're saying it should be fine to have expectations about class. Tiers are lower-class, middle-class and upper-class. Stick to your class? While I don't entirely disagree but it kinda dehumanize people below your own class. Like they essentially become useless as potential partners and I find that to be very disheartening. And you are also making age a big factor. There's a reason why rich people are lonely. Single income household was normal just 50 years ago. I say bring that back, it made…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:47 PM
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Well this is exactly what I am arguing against. Relationships should be about finding your complement not finding your equal (or superior). You should share the same vision, goals and maybe hobbies and passions. But expecting the financial situation to be similar, I mean it's just money? How about trying to achieve your other life goals instead? Why do both have to be competent with money? There are other area's in life which require other competences. I mean sure I often see power couples solve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:29 PM
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The idea of insisting on a power couple dynamic neglects that at least one parent has to stay home and take care of the kids. If the woman is the breadwinner she should be looking for a man who's great with kids and household chores (and is sexy). Being a stay at home parent shouldn't be reserved for women by societally norms. Just like being homeless should not be reserved for men. It's about changing norms and expectations to be more fair to both men and women. Especially since women these day…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:12 PM
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https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/#:~:text=Almost%2050%20percent%20of%20all,7. A quick fact check looks like you're right. First marriages do succeed most of the time. Second and and third not so much. Who are you talking about? I consider sex to be an emotional experience. My main motivator is to maximize positive experiences and avoid negative experiences. Sex is only good if it feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:53 PM
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Hmm I think you're right. Men gotta change their approach to be the employer instead. Send out the job ads. Take leadership etc... Make it worthwhile for the women to hunt the man. Men's demands and rewards are usually more grounded (unless they are evil) Trying to reach women's demands are just not a fun experience. As you said women often try to extract "maximum value".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:39 PM
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Yes. Would be interesting to ask your boyfriend how "getting to you felt like"? But I suspect you are under selling how much effort he puts into the relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:22 PM
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Oookay ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ you are really salty yoo? Relax and have more fun maybe? Me and her was just having a friendly Q&A
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:18 PM
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It is still a lot of work even if you love it, especially if you have children
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:13 PM
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Historically, significantly more women than men have reproduced. Genetic and anthropological studies suggest that, on average, about 80% of women in human history have passed on their genes, while only 40% of men have done the same. But you shouldn't neglect the work effort from women aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:09 PM
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What human dynamic are you talking about? Most jobs have other human in them aswell. You need to make sure to get along with your coworkers and work as a team. Arguably work relationships are just as easy/hard as your relationship with your spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:04 PM
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No I'm clearly saying you can love your job if you got the right one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:51 PM
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I don't believe women are one dimensional like that. I've heard several women state they get turned on when a man works hard, thinks hard, commands respect, takes control of a situation, shows reliability, shows charm, talks sweet etc. Physical fitness is only one dimension of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:48 PM
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I know several who do yes. Hard to say if it is the most. But there are statistically more divorces now than successful marriages. "Loving you is alot of work" is often said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:41 PM
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If you were a stud who could have a new woman everyday. Women would lose value to you. The emotional value is subjective to your life situation. Sex and children is not the only meaning you can choose for your life. Any purpose you choose is subjective. Many people are incels and they don't get to have sex and have children, do you think they all have no purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:43 PM
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To clarify you mean that if you're already rich you don't need a jobz because the reward has low value. The same could be said about women, if you're already emotionally fulfilled you don't need a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:37 PM
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I always tell people to relax before and when they should. Part of EQ is to predict & manage people's emotional states.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:30 AM
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Alternative rewards, same process, same risks is the claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:26 AM
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Who wouldn't want both? High salery and love the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:23 AM
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I never argued to exclude other things in unhealthy manner. The analogy depicts modern dating as hunting for "another job" on top of your regular job. Jobs are as loyal to you as your woman. Be good to them and they will be good back. Love in a sexual or romantic sense no. You're right about that. It is a one directional sense of love at best. Unhealthy dependency on relationships is one of the main causes of male homelessness. I won't support that. There's plenty of cases where your so called "…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:57 AM
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Alternative rewards doesn't really debate my point. All rewards are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:46 AM
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Ok emotional security might not be what you are getting. Though I question how secure you would feel if she suddenly vanished one day. You're definitely getting emotional experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:43 AM
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If you studied women just like you studied to become a doctor. You'd understand that women are just different kind of job with different requirements. However being a doctor occupies your time and energy so that might not sound reasonable for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:36 AM
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"The halo effect" applies to jobs aswell. Generally jobs prefer to hire people who look good and are competent. They are especially well suited for leadership positions. While getting tattoos and piercings is generally not attractive for jobs, that's because you're not looksmaxxing for work. If you are looksmaxxing for work you will likely get the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:18 AM
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These kind of men are often in leadership positions at their company, seniors, executives, CEOs. Inspiring other employees to keep working and teaching the new generation the business.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:12 AM
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You're right. I've always felt it feels even more like a job the longer the relationship lasts. What are you doing to keep it fun? Often it's the repetition and predictability that kills the fun for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:09 AM
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Sounds lovely. What other standards do you have for a man besides material costs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:03 AM
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Jobs also provides financial security and survival for men while other relationships does not. If you could normalize other relationships giving financial stability to men that would be great. But men without jobs are often considered useless failures who will become homeless. How would you help a man without a house, money and income?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:59 AM
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A resume is not required (by most) women you're right about that. However there is an interview process and social references will help in landing you a better partner. You are right that (usually) nobody double-checks bold claims except the woman herself. You're also expected to dress well during interviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:49 AM
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Some men and jobs can so yes. When it comes to the emotional aspect of jobs, they can provide purpose, meaning, commitment, loyalty, growth, community, legacy, fun and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:43 AM
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It's always fun in the beginning, new jobs can be like that too. Job jumping is fun. Jobs can be fun too depending on where you work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:40 AM
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I would argue that's your personal situation. For other men a relationships with a woman can be just a means to an end. Infact I would argue that is still quite common in the world for these kinds of relationships especially in the old days when making children and family was more important than romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:27 AM
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Hmm 🧐 that sound like a misleading job ad for yourself. I would ask more details about what other demands and requirements are expected. Who pays for things like food, house, clothing? What general standards do you have? Who chased who?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:22 AM
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Relationships can suddenly end because of changing market conditions. The woman might suddenly find better candidates to replace you with and feel like they owe themselves to work with the best. Being great is as you said is important, being good is just not enough for some. Finding a stable and mature woman is just like finding a stable and mature job. Using the "condition great filter" neglects all the not great scenarios. Nothing is truly free. Spending money on the woman is a requirement by …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:13 AM
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Getting rejected is part of the job hunt. Women who doesn't like me are the better more high value jobs. Getting an easy job and easy women is too easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:57 AM
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Haha yes truly we are "downsizing". Just gotta accept the unemployment benefits. Relax and smoke some weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:53 AM
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Having fun is important. Relax. It's the internet. Debates doesn't have to be life and death "shit throwing" contests
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:47 AM
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I would argue that most jobs declines your physical health, exceptions are perhaps fitness jobs. It's not healthy going into a sewer to fix excrements blocking the pipes. It's not healthy sitting in a office chair all day. And I could agree on a health insurance policy for bearing children and any other health risks taken. It would make it a more fair society if health problems and risks were clearly communicated and insured.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:43 AM
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Same argument can be said about a job. When you find your dream job that you love and studied really hard for everything makes sense. It just feels right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:34 AM
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The guy is shooting giant dicks into space and his biggest dream is to impregnate Mars haha 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:07 AM
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Your woman provides security for your emotional being instead which craves emotional experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:05 AM
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Value is subjective. For a man a job can be much more valuable than what any woman can provide. A job can provide a man with respect, community, and a greater purpose and meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:00 AM
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Analogies can be debated in the areas where they are weak. "A woman pursing a man" doesn't negate "A man pursuing a women". Both are alot of work. However the men's perspective have stronger similarities to a job-hunt since there's more rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:56 AM
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Bro you sound like an incel now. Clearly you don't understand that women would marry a man for just the "social status". A man can look like shit and still get women if he is the man who is ontop of the socio-economic pyramid. Women wants security that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:48 PM
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I would argue the correct term is dickhead. There is a historical reason dicks are called dicks and it has with the etymology of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:45 PM
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Their flaw is being average
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:29 PM
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I would argue it's not just social media, it's all media, books, tv, movies, news. Modern men are competing against digital fantasy men. Also women have always desired the top 20% since ancient times, it's hardcoded into their evolution. These days because of condom's they can just go and fuck these top guys over and over again, without getting pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:09 AM
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Your job is risky and you get sunburn damage everyday. Someday you'll get skin cancer. Also you could fall of the roof anyday. Yet you get paid less than people in office jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:28 PM
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If a man leaves these jobs what other jobs are available? Staying home raising the kids? Very few women would accept that. If it were easier to find such women who would support the man, many men would easily take that choice anyday. Working sucks balls but men do it because we are told by our parents, society and women that men who don't have jobs have no relationship value. Only good jobs are in an office where you are protected and safe! White collor middle class jobs pays really well. Blue c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:23 PM
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The amount of physical and shitty work men do is astronomically more than women. Female plumbers almost none Female garbage men almost none Female construction workers few Female soldiers few Men are supposed sacrifice themselves first in the line of duty The truth is that men are the expendable robot slave force that society needs. Men are expected to do all the bullshit work that women refuse todo. Men are conditioned and brainwashed to not feel anything. We're supposed to shutup and just work…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:28 AM
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Right there's so many of them. Hey some of them are my "casual friends" but asking them to put in effort is apparently a big NoNo even among friends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:41 PM
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Your claim is inaccurate. Men and women have different priorities. Because women prioritize resourcefulness, results & success, men work hard to obtain exactly that. The consequence is that men doesn't prioritize that in their partner. Infact they priorities & desire the youth & health that they sacraficed to obtain their results & success. I believe both sexes can agree that success & youth is important. We just want what we don't have. However when a women because successful they often don't d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:38 PM
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Well then you're doing it wrong? But men do often text too much. Seems clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:30 AM
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Add cosmetic surgery ontop then even higher
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:26 AM
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You like the illusion of being effortless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:25 AM
2

Could go higher depending on the face
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:24 AM
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Face shape actually changes with enough physical excercise and diet. Most faces are just fucked because of sugar, a bad diet and plain old obesity. Dont believe me? YouTube it. Acne and scars are also manageable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:21 AM
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What if he shares your values and interests but he clearly puts less effort into them than you do? Won't this be unattractive? Basically you will be the teacher in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:19 AM
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Really? Would you would take a man who's fat, and walks around in sweatpants, untrimmed beard, no hairstyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:09 AM
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I would argue you shouldn't just be yourself. Also think about community. You want to eventually be the leader for a community. Human beings aren't meant to live alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:04 AM
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Well my problem with chemistry and personality. Problem is that men doesn't put effort into their personality and chemistry. Logically everyone has a basic personality, chemistry and men are deeply confused by that phrasing. If they put more effort into their being. Their personality would grow into something bigger. Level up. This phrasing makes it sound like it's not something you can level up. It's just like eh you're born that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:01 AM
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Effort into looks, gym, fitness would make you more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:54 AM
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What do you mean? A man grooming his beard is that feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:45 AM
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Well I meant everything. Not one narrow field?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:44 AM
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"Just be yourself" Unfortunately this advice results in mountains of gaming/porn/hentai addicted incels. I would not advice that to anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:43 AM
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im not talking about cross-dressing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:40 AM
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Top men do the exact thing. Showing off their girls and juggling them as status symbols! Idk what to say other than get better and badder? Stop being a good boy? It's a game and complaining doesn't reward you anything. If you envy these specific types of men and women then become them? Alternativly try to ignore them? I mean not every man and woman does this shit. They are just very much visible on social media and well all digital medias
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:06 PM
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Agreed these mind games are just toxic and manipulative. When shes low and mid interest don't bother. You're just forcing something's she's not interested in. I would focus on raising the emotional quality of every interaction instead. Men are too logical and direct. Women vibe better to emotional interactions. Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Seduction and romance can be combined. For example you could say "hi" logically or you can say "hey beautiful with a flower" emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:19 PM
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You are no one's intellectual superior. You have no emotional intelligence. You are the one who started with personal attacks, stop trying to change facts. ChatGPT has more intelligence than you. Peace 🕊️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:26 AM
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Bro the only way you debate is by using personal attacks. I'm simply using the same cards you are using against you. Go back to kindergarden your emotional development is garbage. You lack emotional intelligence. You dont accept other peoples emotional input. Debates are not about trying emotionally damage the opposition. Win by presenting facts not hurling insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:51 AM
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The problem with your argument is that women almost always have more options. That's why they are always pickier and have a more relativistic attraction. Their options is what forces competition. I argue that women who have very few options (yes they do exists) exhibits "absolute attraction" behavior just like men few options.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:02 AM
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You blackpillers upset me with your narrowmindedness. You tell people what they truly think and feel yet yall are terrible at thinking and feeling and that's why y'all be eternal losers. You don't even know what the word projection mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:01 AM
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Yes everyone is driven by their emotions but men tend to reason more on logical facts and disregard emotional input. For example. Man presents a fact to you, you say that makes you feel wronged. Man insists facts is facts and you can feel whatever you want but man doesn't care about your feelings. Result is damage to relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:09 AM
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Yeah you black pillers are all the same. Hopeless victims of life. No ability to think outside the small mental prison you built for yourself. Your beliefs are strong like solid black metal. There is only pitchblack darkness in your minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:07 PM
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Hmm I believe like admitting that you're a virgin should be a green flag to someone women. Perhaps he should just change how he frames it. For example "Been waiting all life for my soulmate and saving myself"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:58 PM
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Sounds kinda racist? Are you also black? Are all black people the same more or less? Do they not have individual thoughts? Are all humans mostly the same? Do we not have individual thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:50 PM
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Most men would rather be lazy and complain about women than put effort into understanding how women truly work. Women are like a mystery puzzle that needs to be solved illogically. A game that needs to be played. A lock that needs to be picked. Women drop no hints, no feedback, no words, and gives very few chances. Basically most men wants an easier puzzle that makes more sense to them. Women are from Venus and men from Mars The real solution is to study women. Learn from already successful men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:48 PM
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Women will overlook it because the "player" may still be her best option. He's the man who makes her feel alive and happy. Enjoying life until it falls apart. But then again even boring committed relationships falls apart eventually in today's modern world so what does it matter how long the expected relationship is? Aslong as it was enjoyable it was worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:51 AM
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The way you debate is by calling the opposition a liar. Well then everyone can play the liar card. You are also a liar. So sit down and shut the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:42 AM
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Kinda strange of you to tell her what she really thinks. Do you know her personally or do just assume all women are identical?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:39 AM
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Okay tell me what they give you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:33 AM
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Now they have nothing to give me ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ I already got life experience They just feel old and boring to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:25 PM
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Sounds like that's a personal choice you've made. For the sake of individual success and independence perhaps? Atleast that's why I do it. If there were some way you could team up and be successful would you do it? Get a gym / study buddy maybe? I've had several in my life. It's boring to gym alone. Same with studying. When you are in college it's normal to be 100% focused on school. Especially American school costs alot of money. If not I'd advice you to chill & play more with other students ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:26 PM
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The male loneliness epidemic is delusional nonsense. These so called "men" are just kids hooked on videogames, porn, fastfood and netflix. If they spent that time going to gym their loneliness would be solved within a year. I know this because I made this journey myself. There's plenty of available women looking for a six-pack-stud and are willing to pay for his presence. Don't downvote me because I'm not echoing your self-pity black-pill nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:13 PM
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Lol my mom is too old and stupid, I still love her but she only offers me basic survival. There's plenty of older women who are experienced in everything life, work, sex, travel, food, cooking, dancing, love, relationships, luxury, psychology, academia, social connections etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:20 PM
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Sound's great. Would have loved to be with a cougar in my younger years. Just imagine the life experience they could have given me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:53 AM
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No debts. Confidence in financial future. Confidence in lifestyle. Confidence in career. Financial mobility (can travel at least once a year somewhere). Basically you feel richer than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:13 PM
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Very unfair of you to make predictions and speak for someone you don't know? I predict you will be mediocre religious nobody who is to narrowminded to understand the non-religious way of life. I chose to live my life for the present. fuck you, fuck your future and fuck your God.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:00 PM
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Dang there goes my dreams of attracting a wealthy fitness babe XO
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:57 PM
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Thanks for comment. That's a good point regarding probabilities. It's best to not obsess over negative outcomes. However it's also good to have healthy relationship with reality. Strive for a wider range of positive outcomes. Very important aswell to just enjoy the moments and be grateful. Relax and release some stress and just enjoy. Rich people are just people too. We're not hyper efficient robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:54 PM
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Thanks for comment. You sound rich to me. It's very common for a rich man to date down financially, typically in traditional gender roles. What I mean with probabilities is that do you consider statistical probabilities when it comes to finding a good match? A wealthy woman with options tend to have more options and thus higher probabilities to find a match but at the same time higher standards for a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:42 PM
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Ah yes good point about the "wealth friction". It's annoying be with a partner whom almost feel like a charity case. I'm not prepared give up my luxuries because of my partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:54 AM
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Thanks for your comment. You answered the probabilities question in the beginning when you talked about chances of meeting a man with equal privilege. What kind of man did you actually meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:49 AM
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Oh I see should. I should read the auto messages more often
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:42 AM
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The question was for women please don't take space from them. Don't make assumptions and guesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:20 AM
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When you're a rich woman you know it yourself. It's a feeling of strong financial security for the future and no debts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:17 AM
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Woman have a closeness to infants because of nature. Wouldn't really make sense to mess with that since they would become bad mother's then. "The mother child dyad"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:04 AM
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I had a girl who was an amazing cook. It was amazing. But her food ruined my health and routines. So my answer now is only fitness and helping my routines or atleast just let me be so I can focus. Would also be great if she helped with finances but then I feel I would be asking for too much. 😅 Being fun, pleasant and adventurous is super important. Positive energy and attitude. Now I am currently very sexually adventurous party person and would like a girl who can participate in that. I want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:53 AM
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I can answer this one. A fuckboy can lead by showing or inviting the women to have a good time. With a joke, a dream, an experience, a weird story. It's a belief in the temporary and momentary experience of life. YOLO, YOYO. Think of it like a TikTok video.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:42 AM
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Pikachu!!! 😹
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:02 AM
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You're right lol. Women just wanna bang the CEO. Women want access to strong leaders. I've noticed that myself in my dating. The moment I show just some leadership qualities they fawn over me. It's so easy really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:55 AM
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There is no such thing as "true" alpha, beta, sigma. It's just a mental mindset to opportunities. Alphas try every opportunity regardless of value, confident in their success Betas doesn't even try, fearful of failure, already predicting rejection Sigmas try only on high value opportunities. With much more conserved resources available Anyone can switch mental state at any point in their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:24 PM
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Being childish is natural we are all just big children. Coping by hiding and running away is weak and fearful. Very unattractive. Being adult is about being strong and brave. Face reality man. Women has never ever made life easier for men. Easiest life is when you're single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:54 PM
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Would you consider rocking the daddy vibe? IE update your profile to say stuff like only want serious. Stable career man. Drives car etc. Has house etc. Picture in non-casual outfits? Look super composed. Like you are trying really hard and puts alot of effort into every detail. Also say stuff like my girl deserves flowers 🌺? I'm curious 🤔 of the success rate. Honestly I'm a fuckboy but I put mountains of effort into it. XD I think women react to effort mainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:06 PM
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You know what you're rigth. There's lots of times in my daily life where I haven't bother to talk to a man. Meanwhile if a woman suddenly appeared I would always "make sure" to validate their existence Fundamentally a basic man has no social value. They have to put in effort to build themselves up and rise above other men in a competitive way. Fundamentally a basic woman has social value. They don't have to put in any effort at all and people will still want to be with them. Men are Mars and Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:04 AM
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Yeah I don't think I should care about people in the lower end of the bell curve. Statistically there is always someone there. Just gotta make sure that it's not me. That's the unfortunate reality we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:09 AM
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Well actually most guys dress poorly for thr pictures and girls are simply not impressed. Appalled is more of the right word. Try dressing up as a man for pics and you'll be amazed how different the reaction is. Just more evidence that being "yourself as a man is not enough"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:05 PM
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So true. This kind of behavior is a good indicator that they are low-value and unlovely, desperate people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:01 PM
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There are different levels of bad and good. No one is truly all bad and all good. Stop seeing things in black & white. Everything is nuanced. When it comes to dating there is a reason why bad boys are more attractive compared to good boys. Good boys/girls are very predicable. If you have ever dated a good boy/girls you have date them all. They feel the same. They are almost the same person. You're not getting anything special. They're not doing anything special. They can't offer you a special li…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:39 PM
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I see alot of gen-z at dance clubs. Ya know I do ask their age before laying my rizz.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:19 PM
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You are inaccurate there though. Woman has to be attractive and healthy enough for men to bother putting in the effort of relationship. That's also nature. If you want to be successful you gotta accept nature. Also I wouldn't say I'm a feminist. I just put the purplepillman tag in on whim because I hate toxic men promoting toxic stuff like real men must be able to crush other men and work themselves to death etc... Just robs the emotional value from life. Purplepill is more on the middle ground …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:50 PM
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The concept of a "sexual market" while it is real I believe the problem people have is that it puts the focus on the "sex" and robs the emotional value of dating. The focus should be on the emotional part instead. We are emotional beings and we should call it the "emotional market" and "emotional value" people bring. Why would a person go on a date and have sex, relationship or get married. Because they "feel" like they desire it. People doesn't only want sex. Especially for women sex is fundame…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:21 PM
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You're not ensured or entitled to anything but some of her time and presence. You get the opportunity of a relationship & sex. You get the opportunity to test your game, charisma, analyse and improve self-improve yourself for the next girl and women-kind. The opportunity to learn and understand women. Men and women are not equals in dating. You should look into the nature of birds 🐦 🦚. The male birds put in tremendous effort to build nests and dance a sexy dance for the females. Females take the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:16 PM
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Dating was never good. You fall into the mental trap of "make X great again" Romance is an invention. Relationship used to be about making children. But these days that's not the main goal of life. The main goal is about feeling good together and enjoying life. When that stops it's time for a change. What we value has fundamentally changed don't blame only feminism for that. We also have atheism, social media, internet porn, condoms
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:44 PM
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Agreed monogamy is essentially an unnatural social construct. However I feel that once I've fucked around enough in my youth. In my old age eventually I feel like settling down and leave something behind. YOYO. You're only young once. Why commit so early in life? Especially since life expectancy is 100 years on average these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:19 PM
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There's very little hoarding of women. What's mostly happening is that high quality women chose to remain single because life is better with the occasional hook-ups instead of traumatic relationship. High quality men are also realizing that hookups are both cheaper and more rewarding. The so called "hot" and attractive people just sharing eachother. High quality men also refuse to fuck down. Why would they when they have had better girls. These day and age its just better to be single. Having a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:14 PM
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Everything is a trade-off. Everyone has to compromise. Bringing awareness into what categories your relationships fall into make sense. I would say people and society should categorize their relationships, this would make it more clear on what is expected. However the charm of relationships is to keep things private. People need to much more clear from the beginning what kind of relationships they are looking for. What is political correct vs what actually works! Also society at large should fav…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:55 PM
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My claim is to clarify again. A man spending some time with a man isn't gay especially in a work context. It's "kinda gay" if he spends alot free time with men. Regardless if they are being intimate or having sex. My argument is that physical contact is not needed for gayness to occur. Quality time spent together is enough. Especially if the men in question spends more quality time with men then women. Seems kinda gay to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:59 PM
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No your point is that im using the word gay as an insult. My point is I can't find a better word than "kinda gay" for excessive man to man time. I invite you to find a word for me. If you have other points then please explain your points in detail rather than claiming I missed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:48 PM
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No I don't? Would you rather I call them homosexual does this word has less of a negative association? Or is there another word for excessive man to man time I should use that is not negative and exist in the English language?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:39 PM
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I'm calling men who spend all their free time with other men gay. You're rigth about that. But it's also a more accurate categorization then calling men who gets laid gay. You get me? Basically I'm telling toxic men who call other men gay are infact very gay themselves. So actually they are just projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:25 PM
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Don't get married then you can love freely and go whereever whenever you want. Follow your emotions and follow your wind. Marriage was historically invented to secure a fixed number of partners in a society where only the richest, most healthies and most powerful men gets all the women. (kings & champions). Now that religious beliefs are in decline in western society we see ourselves reverting back to our fundamental nature. Back then when there where lots of "average men" (slaves at the time, l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:14 PM
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I don't see Gay as an insult. I see it should be an accurate categorization of a persons sexual identity or intent. My beef is with the toxic incels who keep yelling "you gay" to every man who do female dominated hobbies and spaces when they themselves spend all their free time with men. Facepalm! I wish they would see it from a logically result driven perspective. If it gets you laid it's not gay, inaccurate categorization. Debate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:53 PM
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Historically women weren't allowed to work. I've personally been reported by female colleagues for making some sexual jokes. Damn workplace humor is soooo dryyyy and PC with women in the workplace. Always gotta watch your tongue. Society is over sexualized because sex-sells. But my job is 180 degree the opposite. Under sexualized in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:46 PM
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I would disagree with you here. If your acting gets you laid then its not gay. All these things sounds like straight stuff to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:40 PM
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Most straight conversation here 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:38 PM
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Okay fine in a job-context for gathering resources. I accept your argument. But how about non-work related context? Especially when you combine these. Men spend ridiculous amount of time working with other men and "playing" games with eachother. If you are single and you spend all day with men doing "masculine" hobbies it sounds very gay to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:36 PM
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Your comment has low-value. Do better! Stop being useless. Write more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:32 PM
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Especially wrestling. Then we have mixed gender wrestling which is straight but even more problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:31 PM
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Would be less gay to focus on impressing women regardless of their preference
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:30 PM
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Good point ☝️ sounds kinda gay to focus on impressing other men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:28 PM
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I would because human nature is like that. We have natural instincts and urgers that triggers when our senses stimulated. Saying that we don't is just straight up lying or denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:42 PM
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Depends on the context. If the man winning the fight is in the rigth and the opponent is just a low-life asshole. Then winning is proof the man can protect her from these low-lifes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:50 AM
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I would not. Why settle for one woman. When you can have plenty. I'd have harems and 100 kids and build my own school for them, hire private teachers and personal trainers. Then if sex becomes boring I would purse grand scientific and artistic projects for my own entertainment. Honestly I'd be Elon Musk but dumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:50 AM
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men's contribution is controlled by law because there is plenty of men who would refuse to pay otherwise. thus causing the misery and death of women and child. if a man could impregnate a women and dodge all responsibility and ghost her he would more often than not. think about it yourself? when you see a sexy woman aren't you thinking about fucking her up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:42 AM
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Damn you make it seem like women shouldn't even bother getting education, school, jobs or hobbies. Your preference is just a pretty face / body.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:59 PM
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Well it's true. I'm atheist myself but that is just factual observation im stating. Prove me wrong bro instead of giving me the side eye. I know several guys that turned muslim because they couldn't get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:43 PM
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It's not just feminism it's also atheism. In Christianity the main purpose was to secure a single mate in a standard core family for life. But people don't believe in that anymore. Also in old Christianity women was considered property. Going back to those times are just regressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:40 PM
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I have the exact same experience and am at the same point in life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:51 PM
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Kings stand on mountains. They don't lie flat. You could also join religion. The historical purpose of religion is to secure mates to slaves. These days society is becoming increasingly atheistic because of science and technology
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:46 PM
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Modern humans are cybernetic organisms integrated with their smartphones and connected to the hive mind called the internet & social media. If you refuse to adapt and evolve the collective will abandon you. Humanity is evolving into artificial intelligence and you cannot stop the progress. You are on reddit you are a part of the hive. Your digital persona is more important these days than your physical form. Or atleast your "real-self" has devalued significantly in relevance to your "digital-sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:43 PM
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Going to events like that with expectations almost always end up in disappointment. Unfortunately as a man you feel blamed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:30 PM
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Health is very attractive for both genders. Aslong you have any kind of daily excercise routine you will be 🌟 shining compared to most people. Especially in modern day capitalist society with mountains of unhealthy companies selling all kinds of products that rob you of your health and money. Tobacco, Vape, Video Games, Alcohol, Drugs. Alot of men are just slaves. Usually people who are deemed attractive are very healthy even in fictional characters. If you don't even have health then it's going…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:16 PM
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Men are picky also. You also forgot to mention which gender is supposed to invest in housing which is the biggest investment anyone can make these days. Since it most often is men who invest in the house they tend to pick a woman who takes care of the house. Women however forget why they were chosen or the man avoided telling her that because of feminism? Did that answer your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:59 PM
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Short answer no. If you start your pickup lines with saying how much you would be a great father to her children and invest deeply. She is going to run away so fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:51 PM
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Yes thank you. Do people not understand that other people have a completely different experience of life? That some few words could solve almost anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:37 PM
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Yes this. You understand me. I'm starting to understand that some people want to be treated like pets or children. If that's truly the case then it's easy to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:23 PM
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You are basically claiming that women are children or have attitude of children and cannot use words. I've never said I have such expectations of children. Using words are how adults communicate that is my expectations. I would not want to raise children with another child. You are just going straight for personal attacks and that seems to be your main way of arguing. Whatever partner you are with are just going to be your verbal punching bag. I feel sorry for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:08 PM
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I call bullshit on not being able to express expectations. Also you should know as human being people have different levels of expectations. Im autistic so I have need for extreme order and organization. But I don't expect others to be as OCD about stuff that I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:36 PM
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Pets are easy. Dogs are a mans best friend. But are women pets? No they should be able to talk and use words to communicate what the problem is and give some kind of hint?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:24 PM
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Yes I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:22 PM
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Right? They follow up with the silent treatment and then you have to guess what they thinking until you give up? 🧐 Learned to stay away from women who make this statement. Definitely a red-flag. Give a hint at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:16 PM
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That it's the man's responsibility to mindread while disregarding women's responsibility to communicate and use words. Personally upsets me because of my autism this statement hits my weakness and devalues my strengths. So maybe this is more an autism thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:35 PM
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He going to lose his virginity soon with that attitude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:23 PM
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Yeah women keep hearing "You're enough" and men keep hearing "You're not enough" I swear my manager at my job told me this just last month. I used to like the idea of evolution but now I'm old and just feel its exhasting. How about we stop evolving and just relax? My post wasn't really about dating but I relate for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:41 PM
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good thing reddit has a voting system. some of those comments are just unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:09 PM
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I've been to Japan several times and you forget that you actually fall in love with Japan. There are amazing things to see everyday that will make you go WOW! WTF? WHY? Getting a girlfriend when your mood is absolutely fenomenal is surprisingly easy. Emotions are contagious after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:05 PM
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In my experience women prefer leaders & authority figures and anyone who is a winner in something. Also anyone who can dance and who is fit. And who knows how to talk to women. I think men believe you need to be rich to get laid but it simply isnt true. You basically need to have confidence, be fun and look good. Men are brainwashed into robotic slavery I feel. We are taught by society to belive we only deserve love from women if we are top dog. In my experience Women often don't think they feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:25 PM
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Well then I'm also slumdog millionaire. I just figured out what women want. And 130 isnt that much. Getting a new girl every weekend isn't hard for me and seems like I'm not that special lol. Maybe I'm top 15% of guys at the club. And wow 70% of guys at clubs are just terrible. Like they didn't even try dressing up. Facepalm 🙈 I keep telling my guy friends to suit up but they refuse. I cant explain to them how bad their style and game is. Was easier to just unfriend them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:14 PM
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This is why men should start life as players and accumulate experience with multiple women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:11 PM
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Luck plays a part in everything. However relying on luck is foolish. To obtain control of the outcome you need to invest yourself in what you can actually control. Which is much better than using luck as an excuse to give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:09 PM
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