Q4M. Isn't masculinity kinda gay? For example masculine jobs and hobbies have almost no women in them. The result is that you as a "masculine man" has almost zero interaction with women. Women also typically avoid male dominated spaces.

Romance etc is typically formed over shared activities, career, hobby, goals, vison etc. Dancing, Poetry, Art, Music, Fashion etc...

Transactional relationship is typically formed over a trade of how much a man can provide to their beautiful woman. Money, Business, Housing, Work, Children, etc...

On the rarest of occasions a woman would venture into male spaces only to get hitched immediately to the best man.

Most of the time though a man would have to venture into female spaces and try their best there to attract a woman.

I see so many men complaining about our current reality. I just want them to understand that their mindset is kinda gay.