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| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?I mean if we have to screen somewhere, then going for the smallest form of life minimizes all possible suffering that is caused. It is kind of inevitable tbh. Rather kill a micro embryo than abort male fetuses, that is for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Individuals having agency is obvious, but having fair odds for everyone is something to strive for. Erradicating rape is an impossible utopia, should we stop trying?, i don't think so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Welp it wasn't supposed to be the case, there were many enlisted women in the army too, they were all discharged when the war started because the feminists parties (who protested to get women in there in the first place) where rallying against the conscription of women. This is a real, non meme, JFL moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?I mean it is either make more girls or kill the boys, i will stick with making more babes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?We will have to see how ukraine will be after the war, it was already a hotspot for sex tourism, and a sustained one, never was too full to "stop working". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?You would just pre select for female embryos using IVF, not that invasive really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:15 AM |
| 0 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Then we reach again an impasse, because if women don't like my proposal then we are back at spot one trying to find a dynamic where both genders can expect to succeed, because this failed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Your average guy will be more desirable as a consequence, but still equally accessible to women at large, so her options suddenly stack much better to the competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?AKA just a normal bar, i think the best one can do is throw up a speed dating event. Or create yet another dating app... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?It isn't bad for women long term?, AKA they start growing beards and become masculinized, their voice tone deepens and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?I don't think they would mind either sharing, stay single and hookup, or just staying single, i think sexual frustration is much more manageable for women it seems, like it seems girls go months without sex by choice sometimes, they just don't care enough it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?That is precisely not true at all, of the guys that i know who have hooked up last semester (i am quite the "sexual freedom" guy, i ask people ehat are they up to bluntly), and the only people that actually hooked up are average girls and top tier men, the best looking girls just refuse to hookup or are monogamously dating a top tier guy. Girls in the middle hookup with the top guys, and ugly people both sides refuse to fuck each other, the average guys refuse to hit up ugly girls even for sex. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?I don't get what you are saying. If your goal is to make money, selling snake oil PUA courses is the way, not actually being helpful to the client. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?The thing is, it seems women are much more okay with being left alone than men. So with fewer men around there will be plenty of pussy available, and the women that find the options shitty is much less likely to become an hyper fucked up incel type as it happens to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?And still most women would feel bad because he is not the richest, or tallest, or funniest. If we consider most women's preferences are basically comparative, having less men would make what is available much more enticing, especially if we consider a healthy person, which the average man isn't unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?I don't think this solution could ever be implemented without violating freedom rights of people, but considering covid and the low birthrates, i doubt we wouldn't see some mandatory horny jabs being implemented. And also altering peoples horny levels is very hard to do healthly, like reducing a man's T level to decrease horniness basically destroys his health completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Considering equality of access, i honestly agree with you, i'm all for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?I don't exactly get your point completely. Women don't sleep around that much because it is physically, emotionally, psychologically, socially, and financially dumb and dangerous to do so. If women didn't have to worry about getting drugged and raped/kidnapped, whenever they risked with a new guy, i think they would do it a LOT more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Honestly trying to imagine, i am quite young, maybe i could try doing something about it if i had a plan, and i keep looking for ideas. Often necessity breeds inovation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?I don't think women at ages 40+ are limited to older men for sex only, there are young studs on the making, with a raging libido, in need of experience, and usually they learn fast, i did at least, just point the right direction once and most guys learn how to do it right. 3-4 woman for every man is something like 75-80% women, this is way way too much, imagine a 2 woman for every man AKA 66% women and it becomes much more manageable. You are also assuming exclusivity, and that people would be l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Unfortunately relying on the free market to do something about this is sketchy. Exploiting young, lonely, naive men's suffering is far too profitable of a business model to let go of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Simply put, better options are available, i could 100% compete in being the best guy available in my apartment, but can't really compete at campus. The larger the sample size gets, the harder it becomes to become a top tier guy. And to be honest, i actually keep searching options around that hustle culture kind of redpill idea, because i don't value sex that highly. Sex is a fun thing 2 people do with each other to mutually please each other, connect and have a good time, an excellent de-stresso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Is there any healthy way to do so??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:18 AM |
| 3 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Actually, no, it is kinda insane really. Think about it, being in incel territory is such an abnormality in nature that the main solution nature found to insert these individuals into the enviroment was to place them 6ft below. Being an incel is so unfixable by nature that almost 99% would find a way into an early grave. The moat bizarre being that now that we became a safe, healthy, and stable society, those guys are practically doomed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?I never claimed that, but i still disagree with you here. Most men given the opportunity while secured of risks will totally indulge in it, i don't know a single person who wouldn't (considering male/young/single). And i know basically half of the entire population of my campus by name, before you dismiss this, a lot of studies are done with much lesser sample sizes, so make your own conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?This is basically what his reply is saying, yes. The biggest blackpill there is, is that if you are struggling so hard it probably means you weren't supposed to be here to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?What if no one has it that much better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:07 AM |
| 0 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?That is just objectively false, they have to keep it a well hidden secret or own it and ride the stigma of being considered a hoe by both men and women. It carries a lot of consequence socially and psychologically currently, i just straight up disagree with you here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?If you consider that this man who is sharing women will have: •A lot more experience •Be much closer to the best men available to her than previously •A healthy man usually has enough libido to keep 2/3 girlfriends going regularly •Monogamy is not involved and she can freely bounce around since a man-woman family structure is no longer expected, so fucking a chad casually is not so shunned or bad for you as it is today. I believe it is a much better chance for a good experience than a 30yo pseud… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Considering modern technologies bio parenthood would be self evident, and as long as women took turns to allow an unlucky male to get a woman pregnant so his genes don't die out, i doubt anyone would be against that considering there would be zero competition to fuck since it would be more prevalent than air. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Having more women than men, means that by mere competition the average guy isn't much different than robert pattinson. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?The point is if people aren't in commited relationship women could totally sleep around consequence free, and i am of the team that soap is enough, as long as it's not requiring commitment i don't care about a girls N-count. Like some guys shiver at the thought of his friend already having fucked a girl, but tbh this is mostly culturally implanted, technically there is no reason why men couldn't share a girl around like women share chad. Honestly only something like a skewed gender ratio could c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Is having shitty choices good? For women it is mostly look good or die trying, settle for a guy they don't actually want, or be very easy and stick to just sex. For men it is just get to the top at all costs, have decent shape, be richer than most, attain superior status, which the effectiveness thereof is solely dependent on the competition and a vast majority will always lose here. So options for the individual are available, but most options have terrible ROI, and people end up all settling f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Most gay bars involve men having a good time, and women being absent and the lesbian bar owner going broke. Lesbians really don't go out to search for mates that much to keep the bars going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?This is assuming an individual perspective, the question is aimed purely at a social and macro perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Because it is what society operates on and people conform to. Compliance does not mean agreement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:43 AM |
| 0 | Why are you here?What if you don't click with anyone?, are you forced to pick, as in being single is acceptable? I ask because what happens if all prospects reject you, does your family just keep looking ad eternum? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Don't you think changing the ratios of the genders change this dynamic a lot. As in regulating the amount of players in both teams. Increasing the amount of women through artificial means is much more impactful than any cultural shift. The individual male is worth less than an individual women, so by deflating women's value with overpopulation, we could inflate the male value by making a man a rarer commodity. All we have to do is just make cloning humans legal, which unfortunately is a total cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Because the current market seems like shit, is there ever the possibility of a market where both genders arw happy with? And well my only take is that there are too many men for both genders to be satisfied, a lot of lonely men and inaccessible alpha males. Forcing the gender ratio into 66% women would make your average man much more closely paired to competing men, and in need to service the needs of women for men. Our society would work a lot better with a larger amount of women, since as an i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:25 AM |
| 0 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?So at this point should we declare gender wars?, we must be missing something because else the very design of our species is made to torture us, which is counter intuitive, and not a good thing to aspire to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?That is exactly why a community that raises children communally while acknowledging parenthood seems best as you suggested. The whole community works to raise the kids good, equally, so having resources and wealth wouldn't play a factor in the child outcome, the tricky part is getting the community to offer reproductive chances to the other men contributing to the process too. What i suggest is basically allow a man to coparent a kid if he wishes too as basically a right, at this point no woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Why are you here?As in why, from your post what your community does is basically keep throwing options at the kids until one clicks. Instead of arranging a good deal for the overall family at the expense of the couple. Only a wild guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:15 AM |
| 4 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Monogamy might be the norm but most people are quite miserable in it. Most of the couples i know are depressed, most couples have cheating scandals, have an average duration of 3 years, and don't end up in good terms afterwards. Everyone settling do not seem to be happily doing so. Most men rather have multiple girls if opportunity arises without extra costs (too much headache, financial, infighting, etc.) Straight up monogamy is a christian thing, not even the classics or ancients did it, we mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Why are you here?Do you believe the arranged system is just a superior option to what the free world is operating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Read my edit, if we artificially change that it might just work better for everyone. A lot of male child mortality was common in our past, having more women around of reproductive age than men would likely cause this ratio to break. If people decided to flip that switch around and make women more common again, this could solve a lot of problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?What is your take on paternity turns, which seems much more modern solution since we know very easily who the father is. As in if a woman had a kid with brian and tod already, they take a few measurements to allow david to have a child of his own, then after that the sex is free again. Since we can fairly easily track this nowadays, it is no longer a huge hassle to determine fatherhood. Honestly i have no idea what actually triggers women sexually directly as similarly to how dirty talk, horny b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:52 AM |
| 5 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Or they were barred reproductive rights until X is achieved, which not all did and the ones who didn't where killed/shunned/forced into celibacy. With most actually dying in the process to achieve X objective, be it kill a tiger or make 6 figures. It just became much less deadly and the losers are being forced to deal with it for life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?Dead boys don't cry i guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:34 AM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.That is what friends do to one another, friendship between men and women is quite common. Nowadays women rather have a flatmate than a straight up relationship with someone, all of those things you cited are perfectly normal between roommates or neighbors, none of that implies a relationship or even sexual access, which is what men mostly want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.The point is she doesn't really need to stay in a relationship to have access to his funds, all she needs is about a year or two living together to have access to half his shit, then she will have a lot of money and not need to deal with him. You see your point only shows how utilitarian women are being these days, only if a man provides a lot of bonuses to make up for her not wanting him, she considers him as a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Most TRP kind of agrees with this, at least it is an extensive talking point within the blackpill basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Which honestly made already pretty men dedicate themselves much more to their appearances in order to capitalize on the new market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.The chads are considered WAY more attractive than your average bro, while in the past he was simply more attractive. In the past chad was a few steps ahead of the ahead bro, now he is kilometers ahead. It has to do with some guys being not only prettier but also aware of it and actively work to improve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.There aren't that few chads actually, what changed is the discrepancy between a normal dude and chad. We grew more different with time than more similar. If chad wasn't hated and persecuted for so long, i'd imagine more of us would be closer to chad today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.I think women nowadays actually don't want to be with men long-term, period. Unless he is literally perfect, which is rare af to happen. I honestly have a high suspicion of women "looking for commitment" nowadays, because the only answer to why she would want that is to have it easier in life and ride on your back, this is the only reason most women settle IMHO. Women had no choice in mating, it was either a guy capable of providing or starvation and freezing. Also provision ability and health h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 12:27 AM |
| 2 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.We evolved million of years in a structure of men provide women care for/raise kids/do maintenance. Men required women to breed, women required men to survive. Men are really good at being tough both mentally and physically, it is in our nature to provide and protect. Since women can provide and are safe now, and can have kids on their own, the usefulness of men is reduced drastically. Men aren't adapted to be attractive in other ways, in fact naturally attractive men were shunned and hunted for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Idk what crab bucket you are talking about. I just know that when peope know they can't win/have nothing to lose, they get pretty angry about problems and it usually ends badly. As in people will actively work to implode systems that don't benefit them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?I think the part that triggers me the most is that at least in the path, everyone was equally forced into a single standard relationship model. Now the things men wanted are locked to only the top% of men while the rest are taxed even more for something that isn't even their primary option. I ain't angry that we no longer have forced monogamy and religious zealotry, what i am triggered is that this freedom was only to a select few and now we struggle even harder than before. It's the inequality … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Universities in brazil rarely offer you a place to stay, public college is basically impossible to get into, and they are on strike for half the year so you don't learn shit. So we mostly still all just live at home, and are either older people who already got internships starting their classes to get full employment, or your classic broke college student. And in an enviroment where everyone young is broke and living with parents, it's a chadfest basically, there is little leverage to be had, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?This has nothing to do with actual libido. Man 1 could be a fat fuck who is hungry all the time, While Man 2 is a starving african skeleton who has not seen bread in 2 weeks. Man 1 might be overall hungrier but the starving guy in the moment of analysis is hungrier. But after you make food available to both, the fat man can totally eat a lot more than the skinny guy and still be hungry. Same thing with sex drive, the enough sex between frustration and satisfaction varies according to the point o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 01:14 PM |
| 0 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?It's a self feeding nightmare the libido thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?I've never made out with a woman in the club. in fact the lights, closed and crowded space, and the noise trigger anxiety in me so that's one way you've succeeded with women in a way I could never. but the club isn't the only place to find women to date or sleep with. Oh no i love the club, i honestly find it very easy to make moves at a club since i really don't like talking very much since while i can be funny i an not a joke cracker or anything, it's far too intellectually inclined to be sexu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 11:31 AM |
| 3 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Don't you feel powerful/capable/hot/good when you are able to sexually satisfy someone you like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Doesn't seem mutually exclusive, it's the price you pay to allow you to enjoy her body phisically, not only by just using her as a doll like you suggest, but to actually interact with her and mutually enjoy the experience. Idk i just think women enjoying themselves are hot, and knowing you caused that makes you feel good and powerful/capable, just similarly how she feels hot and powerful when you are thirsting her top to bottom. That is a good experience and women payed the price of pregnancy in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 10:58 AM |
| 6 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?My current situation is something that can't be inherently fixed only by my own actions, because it is part of a bigger, macro problem too. Sure i can do something about it, but i have no full agency of my results, i cold approach daily in my campus, try to get any free tickets to events and just approach approach approach. Not having my own place and logistics is my biggest hurdle right now, since i can't perfectly provide everything to get laid with ease, sometimes i need to try and convince t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 10:56 AM |
| 6 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?I think both genders love the power trip of being able to induce orgasms in another person, and that is kind of impossible by definition with a hooker, else it's a glorified fapping process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?It's my birthday tomorrow, i will be 21, call me a baby, but i am not naive to alot of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Objectification is a strong word. I think that most men just want to feel loved genuinely and that is REALLY rare in a lot of men's lifes, the best closest thing you get from buddies are long hugs and handshakes, from family it's maybe some cuddling while young, after that you basically rely solely on dating to have any kind of intimacy. And when men have a weak period, they don't usually have an emotional support structure and it usually snowballs into full on self esteem issues and depression,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?I mean that is personally offensive, but goddamn spot on. Not even emotional intelligence, but a general sense of intuition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Prone to learn just mean open to experience, like it is the definition of pool boy phenomenon, i saw it like, once in my life, but yeah we know the trope already. And well if a woman says "Can you please fuck me while i do malabarism and spin on a table" (exageration for effect only), a younger guy might just be so happy he gets sex he will happily oblige. While an older man might just look for a younger more malleable woman for the exact same reason, if she is a virgin or not very sexual, you m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Which is stupid as an idea because i am not looking for a relationship, dating a woman in her 30s might be too much weird, having a friends with benefits/fuck buddy thing however is not. And since i personally don't want a relationship, and for now i am making this very clear to women from the first meeting, it makes no sense why any of that matters, like money, status, where you live, what car you drive, etc. And well honestly she can't possibly expect that from a 20s guy anyway, it is implicit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?And people wonder why men turn bitter and distasteful of women as they grow older, being completely ignored until you provide thing or do stuff first, does no good for creating a positive image of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Yeah their biological clocks do start ticking around that age it seems. Honestly, finding where these horny 30yo ladies hang out is incredibly hard as an early 20 guy, i have no idea where these women hang out, and how to properly cold approach them, it's a hard sell really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 08:06 AM |
| 3 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Getting together with women your own age at 30+ feels like a big ass scam, like i don't want to work hard to get the scraps that are left after her years, neither dedicate myself so much for some mere pussy. And dating only for sex is a trap i thankfully escaped, after the sex dimmed a bit i realized i was trapped with a person that didn't light me in any way shape or form and neither i loved her properly. I also noticed how much i actually hate dating, the amount of commitment and responsibilit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?I honestly hardly see that, outside of well, when men start hitting 30/40s and their testosterone drops significantly, then it might just match it. But never it's because of abundance being generated rather about men just not wanting that much sex anymore, and the types available are usually 30/40s women who can't possibly compete with 20yo's. A horny gf is a rare commodity, especially an attractive one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?It's not about fucking like a lord. In the past every joe was basically forced into marriage and could fuck a single women and maybe cheat with a whore if he put a lot of effort. It was basically equally shitty for everyone and enforced by law, but now it's not everyone that is in the shitter, women are totally freed, chad is now also free to exercise his options, but well your average man is still trapped in his responsibilities and duties. Everyone got freed with the more equal and democratic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 07:27 AM |
| 3 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?At this point 90% of all men will never know their libido, because well sex is a rare commodity. But men's "I take sex whenever it appears, from almost whoever, and anytime" is a bit telling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?I guess because it was much, much more normal to be like that too, nowadays you have to hide your tracks really well and live with this secret forever. Also men really like the respect being hot granted you, and being a whoremonger does the opposite. Prostitution nowadays is such a big scam nowadays, you require a few weeks of decent research to find a working girl you like that is not a total scam, i've been robbed more than once, normally the girl is totally different from the adds/not the sam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?I honestly rather be killed by a turbo chad while fighting than be forced to exist in pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?As a guy who gets rejected every 2 days when i do approach, on average, for about 6 months, it's like i already know almost every other girl at my campus by name or remember her, i almost quite literally ran out of girls to cold approach in a discrete manner, (not approaching someone who is friends with a girl i approached before/same group) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Again, the system we have right now is a mess and clearly doesn't work, and i hate myself to be born in one of the worst possible moments in history to be an average horny dude. This is why i think most most men at this point rather find a way to stop their need for women rather than competing because it is just not worth it man... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:53 AM |
| 3 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?This is not what i am describing, imagine if they had sex a few times before, but he only responds sometimes, or makes excuses or ghost, they accuse this guy of low libido, but often these guys don't have high libido too, they are just normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?This i largely agree with you, especially on the kinky part, i have to infact make a conscious effort to find something hot about the little options i have for example, and i think this might be because of what you are saying. We can't do normal stuff with people we actually like, so we kind of have to make things up to compensate for the people we have available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Are you consistently sexually frustrated? because that is the reality of the struggling man. I can't speak for myself while also addressing a problem which pertains all the struggling people, this isn't a me thing, so makes no sense to speak for myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Care explaining, i don't think i understand what that means, besides the obvious meaning of the word itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:44 AM |
| 4 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Paying for prostitutes does not satisfy one libido fully, much in the same way fapping doesn't help much either. Paying a prostitute is basically hiring a person to fap you, which while it might be fun, it is totally not the same thing as the sexual exchange that goes on when two people are mutually trying to satisfy each other. The clients trying to make the prostitutes have a good time are actually the worst, because now she has to fake much better enjoying that, and the best way to make a pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?That makes no sense, that is not what a libido is, like wtf you just typed here, this makes zero sense LOL. One's libido has NOTHING to do with one's success, ugly people with high libido exist, them failing at getting sex doesn't make their libido magically disappear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Even if dating is not concerned here, just finding enough people to fuck is incredibly hard. Most high libido guys also suffer inside relationships too, to the point i honestly can't really go more than 3 months without paying if i didn't get any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 04:15 AM |
| 8 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?I honestly believe most men view relationship as a price to be paid for sexual access. A lot of men low key confess to that with jokes and attitudes, like being a completely different person when the girls aren't around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?This will have basically the same effect, and the health implications are massive and irreversible, women can slowly get off of their birth control whenever they want to. If you cut your balls off, it's a bit harder to reverse however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 04:12 AM |
| 4 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?If you didn't have a libido, what would low attractiveness matter to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Ah ok that makes sense, well i think honestly girls are much like us in the sense that it's more of the image of the person fucking them, than the actual act. Most guys rather fuck a really hot but zero bed skills thot, than a nympho landwhale, same for girls, rather fuck a hot chad with zero libido than your AFC who is 110% horny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Cutting your dick off does not remove your libido, what does remove it is chemical castration basically, AKA stopping your testosterone production. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?Your english is weird what do you mean in the last phrase, care explaining? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?His sexuality is literally the source of his biggest most annoying problem, like some guys can't do much to get laid besides hookers and you know very well it IS NOT THE SAME THING. It is mostly a burden because enjoying their sexuality is such a non-existant occurance that if they could trade their sexuality for peace of mind i bet a lot would. The main problem currently is that reducing libido has very serious health issues like loss of muscle mass and fucking up your hormonal regulation, make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?They complain when the guy is not available/not similarly available, not that he straight up refuses to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 03:37 AM |
| 4 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?That is exactly what they aren't getting, fapping for most of these loser men is a depressive experience. We don't "enjoy" a boner, we try to get rid of it, it's something you can't really explain to women, the orgasm and the whole thing is completely different. Horniness for men is much akin to hunger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 03:35 AM |
| 9 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?I think most of the guys really struggling would want just to not feel shit from lacking sex, as in missing it, and adquiring it is much harder than getting rid of the wish tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 03:11 AM |
| 10 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?In the end, the mysoginistic men actually hates his own balls even more than women themselves, because the balls are his captor stopping him from going full monk mode. If it wasn't so unhealthy to do so most men would 100% get rid of their libido | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 02:52 AM |
| 8 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?They are however the only guys most girls actually consider when they want something, be relationships and sex. Sometimes the guy that is hot is also low libido, and girls complain about it all the time when the topic arises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Is high libido the problem of most people struggling?I think people with lower libidos don't get bothered by struggle as much, if at all. They might never even thought they had an issue to begin with, because they just don't care about/like sex that much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Are non top men with high libido basically screwed?How can i reframe this post to make it neutral, i actually didn't think it was polar, i have my opinion but i don't think i am defending anything here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Being a trophy wife is a good thingWanting to beat things up, is not the same as not having self control. And well men disregard their own safety a lot in these situations, like every single bar argument/fight could turn into a stabbing/shooting scene, that possibility doesn't deter men. Only when guns are pointed straight at you, that you reconsider your actions. Men are also largely retarded when it comes to self preservation, i believe it's by design now that i saw it so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Being a trophy wife is a good thingYou are very, very mistaken that men have no fighting instincts, even a weak ass man in a fit of rage can probably beat your average gym lady to a pulp, and if motivated exert a lot more force than their frail arms indicate. I am only about 50kgs heavy and i can easily lift about 8kgs using a single bicep, thats almost 20% my body weight in a single muscle, and i am incredibly weak and frail. If you think men don't have murder instincts, try shoving his mom around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | most men don't want vanilla sex from their wivesThis is just not true at all, it is fairly obvious that men the same age of women usually are lower value until these women hit the wall. Men are only able to attract either younger, more naive/less experienced women after they get older, or they end up with a girl that usually failed to lock a HVM while young. Both the man and woman are bitter about this, it is just that if a mam finds out she had a more promiscuous past that is an indicator she might be settling, especially considering context… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 03:30 PM |
| 1 | most men don't want vanilla sex from their wivesI think what triggers them is that they only can attract women who are post wall, and likely already experimented and aren't willing anymore. Her not being willing to try is kind of a subconscious indicator that you are a backup option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | most men don't want vanilla sex from their wivesI mean forced is a bad word, but i think that being willing to at least try, or do it to make your partner happy is better than just straight up being sexually frustrated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | most men don't want vanilla sex from their wivesI think it's more like a guy likes being pegged and the wife refuses, because being forced into what you don't like is bad, but getting what you actually like not done is even worse IMO, imagine going without oral sex, if you like it. I think it is humiliating but you aren't totally wrong, i would argue that reaching consensus and being willing to negociate is where the secret lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?There is no enforced monogamy if you are free to choose not to marry or conduct intersexual relationships without legally marrying. As long as a turbochad is allowed to have NSA sex, then monogamy is not enforced, merely incentivized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Excuse me wtf. Explain yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?I mean all you need is a few years of stored cash and THEN you move, the constant trip part is harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?The point where you are missing it is where it pays off. Finding an entitled completely average girl to marry in your 30s is not success. You work hard af, get good shape, money, social skill, etc. And get rewarded the most vanilla chick conceivable. This is no reward, but a consolation prize basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Idk about CoL, but 40k a year in brazik is about 200k reais in brazil, and you can live very confortably only wasting about 3k monthly. Thai economy might be even weaker than here. You guys are quadrillionaires outside of US soil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?They certainly already do in their vacations it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?The money is the real catalyst, but these men are paying for girlfriend experience services at a discount while travelling, and sometimes the mere capacity of paying already attract women. So some girls might be willing to gamble their attention to wealthy men in hopes she might leech a bit of that off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Why the hell should you work double for half the prize? That is not a solution, that is actually the problem itself, doing the work is never the problem, doing so in exchange for pennies is. If you want men to work for free don't be surprised many rather be jobless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?That really don't add to my calcs. Honestly if you can't afford the ticket something is not right. Working on a wealth sufficient to sugar at SEA, while working in a first world country, is not an outlandish goal and most can achieve it with dedication i guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?You can very easily pay a thai girls rent. If you are westerner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Very hard is better than impossible. For some guys that might be much easier to do than ascending his SMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?If you are looking anything long term in that culture that won't cut it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Some people who travel report attraction, maybe some guys travel just to be actually seen as a prize rather than a replaceable thing in the eyes of women. IMO a lot of guys go there pretending these girls aren't golddiggers, just to experience what it's like to be chad for a weekend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?I just made the post wanting to see people's opinion, not necessarily determine a solution. IMO there is not much the average guy can do, he either chad's up or finds a place where he can control the women. I know borders would never be open and in reality countries need to keep their workers at home most of the time and filter desirables to come in. My only conclusion of this whole sub is that only chad and stacy are true winners of the dating game and everyone else will struggle unless enforce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Because if the show didn't involve drama it would suck. The more low key cases are usually about the man trying to structure his life and hers to mantain codependency, trying to basically trap the wife in. This is toxic af, but far too common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Well at this point i agree, your absense wont be felt when you leave if you happen to be invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?You qualify to sugar a thai girl, but arent wealthy enough to do the same in europe for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?They assume you are foreigner, and thus rich, the being white thing is not only skin color, its just saying you "dont belong" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?One girl asks for pennies other asks for grands, like a foreigner girl might not have any notion of how stupidly wealthier you are. Not even 1% of people in brazil make 20k dollars a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Hes not our problem anymore, let the SEA government deal with their homeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Onlyfans and daddy's money, biological or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?At home the average girl would ask much more of him. The girl available at home is likely a 3 or 4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Yeah i can see that happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?It was in a joking manner but i've seen men from 23 to 30 spill similar things out, there are some REALLY desperate dude out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?It's not a good option but some men have no other choice, it's either something along those lines or nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?You are the 1% in thailand by mere fact of having slightly higher salary than the US average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Do you think the stacy population is 1% or just equal to the HVM in any given place? I actually think HVM are much more scarce than stacies, not all of them can land a local HVM, that is where american comes in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?That is objectively true, well some people refuse to give up i guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?If he goes away and never comes back he is one less mouth to feed from taxpayer money at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?It's a living terror getting a visa into america, like the complete opposite. Like this alone helps US men have even more range in their dating prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Yeah i actually agree with this, it however doesn't account for the country actually being culturally conservative and the girls still there being more in the same page as you. I know a bunch of crazy dudes who would likely try to move to islam or something more extreme, to each their own i guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?You might be much richer than the average men in thailand but not in the US, you are much higher value there, your caliber is much larger in that competition pool, thus more likely to win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?You are better matched against her suitors by mere statistics by moving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?I think a lot of guys would take the deals you are proposing, adaptation might be weird, but if they think the reward pays off it's definitely possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?The guy willing to do this doesn't have many other options, this is the best bang for buck he can possibly get, some think this is worth it. I personally couldn't do it for the exact reasons you point out, but some guys genuinely don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?I am not american, but this happens pretty consistently where i live, like foreigners really have a kind of appeal here in brazil. Carnaval doesn't have it's fame for sex tourism in vain, it actually works. People in brazil really have a stray dog/grass is greener concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?At this point any kind of negociated attraction is prostitution, how many men genuinely attract women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:26 PM |
| 0 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?The hard part is legal paperwork for most, if money for travel is an issue you have bigger problems than dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Honestly it's not the financial part that its hard, it's the bureaucracy and legal part that is hard. Idk where you are from but i think europeans are the only ones exempt of this fully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Many men would have to do the same being state side, or abroad, its just that abroad your money has much more mileage. It is a shitty option but it is a better option than just being invisible in the US. Men all throuout history relied on this to reproduce, i agree it's pathetic, but at this point for these guys it's either that or genetic extinction. At least if the girl he dates abroad is hotter than him, his sons might stand a better chance in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Don't you consider religion/culture/customs/law being different have any say against this? Like i know WAY TOO many guys who more than once quoted possibly moving to islam, like the place is a hellhole of a religious dictatorship, yet men rather convert and get their "designated wife" than toil for scraps. Don't you believe that this would create like these bubbles of highly populated antifem/authoritarian/conservative countries that men just flock to, and by doing so make them more influent and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Don't you believe the infinite demand would make so that even if a lot of women try, they might never even be able to talk to one ever, so they fall into their senses. Or women rather die on the rat race threadmill to land mr chadwick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Do you think that something like travel aid or cultural exchange programs could help normalize/facilitate this, also do you believe this would help or create problems? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?The one on trailer park and section 8 (not american, idk what this is), is just as close to a better guy as the girl living in a luxury condo, while if you move to SEA you suddenly are among the richest, highest status men in that country. It often is not about the women themselves but making sure you are better than other men around, and by doing that you open up chances with higher demand girls. But honestly not worth getting cucked over IMO, but still an option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?That is a good argument honestly, do you know how most of these couples met?, as in did they met already in mainland or met online/on a trip? I am asking this because as a brazilian guy, getting out of this hellhole is hard, most non european countries don't have worldwide accepted visas. And we can't really afford to make a quick trip to a different culture to see if it's worth moving, so most are left to ask on reddit basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Sure but from your POV, regarding the dating market, do you think the best way forward would be more or less globalization. Stating a bunch of facts and allowing people to make their own conclusion is a very cowardly way to discuss things because you state your opinion without saying anything, thus not having said anything you are immune to any kind of criticism. That's very jordan peterson, you are not under threat of losing your carreer, speak your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Idk how it works in there, but here in brazil prostitution is very widespread and using foreigner money it is very cheap, since competition is fierce quality is decent too. I would however advice going to brothels and spas in person, far too much scams with online service. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Considering most men in places where nutrition isn't plenty and health is not good, AKA third world, will not develop properly, a healthy american with proper feeding and care will most likely outperform most locals just by mere fact he is better nourished. Like indian height is probably much shorter because many don't even eat properly during childhood/care about it either. They would still be shorter but the margin might be much lower, 2nd generation indian people where i live rarely are incre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:00 PM |
| 5 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?The entire world is a big favela if you take anything european as standard. It is the elite bubble incarnate those places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?It's because in a poorer place your money has a lot more leverage and maybe the culture would reward you more for providing for such a girl. Like she might be willing to be an actual useful SAH wife, like so at least cook/clean/wash, whereas in more western cultures you likely won't get that, in fact you might just get scammed and left with nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?So the only ones who stay in SEA do so by option, and their values would more genuinely align with the men that choose to go there. This is not as bad as it sounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 03:51 PM |
| 4 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?I mean by average an western dude who isn't fat is kinda prettier than your average dominican republic guy who might just be pseudo starving. You are just by having a previously salary in dollars much richer, probably healthier, and smarter than competition there. You can compete with bigger fish in that smaller pond and find a higher quality girl this way. And honestly some guys are down to having a wife that he can be a sugar daddy to using his western salary, a bunch of these guys can't do be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Regardless of the thailand being on top, those numbers are horrendously high, if this is to be trusted who in his sane mind would subject himself to an average 40%ish chance to get cucked, this is nuts MY GOD. I wish i was an old fucking boomer toiling a farm right now, we are doomed LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?The question is do you think lessening the burdens people have with travelling, think something like universal/semi-universal passport, actually help the dating scene or bring even more problems. Also which sides benefit and don't, in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Do you believe that lessening travel and moving burdens would actually help or fuck up this bonus. As in SEA will get innundated by white american/european men, and SD's will be so high demand that unless you are a turbo stacy you should forget about it. Thus ruling the options away from even more people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menThe only people who are able to do that are the promiscuous themselves, and nowadays that is just a few men, most guys can't beat girls in promiscuity. Like it generates a lot of negative emotion in someone when your partner is the embodiment of the person who rejected you in the past, it makes you question her motives and never in a good way. Notice that the absolutely most mysoginistic woman hater types are the men who ascended?, like these men see both the good and bad of women and how they c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menYou just basically narrowed his options by about 99%, every girl does that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Thus why it totally doesn't work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Which makes no sense at all besides what is common, like being a man is an unique, different experience than being a woman, woman AREN'T the "other" gender, they are equally important to men reproduction wise, because both require each other to exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 01:44 AM |
| 0 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.You can always pay, directly, it can go for about 200$ an hour with a top model, sure she might not be in love with you but you can taste the flesh at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.I do for the sake of arguing, mercy on the blues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Thus the absurdity of this situation considering standards inflation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Unless you manage to remove chad from the equation, he would be the defector that ruins the strike. At this point he is a worse problem than the women themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Are you just assuming every single struggling men is a sociopath? Still actual advice and a culture that better form men and boys to become attractive and properly socializes young boys, is a start to avoid people becoming creeps later on. Although i don't tend to agree with Jordan Peterson, he did point out a study showing that boys and girls have to be properly socialized by the age of four, and after that it becomes VERY hard to help these people they just become dysfunctional. So maybe focus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Rarely said brotherhood is more than common goals and struggles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.That is the american example, here in brazil the union leaders were bribed and people got threatened in multiple ways, including violence, spilling secrets, aforementioned family instability, making the worker unhireable if the company blacklists him, it is a big rabbit hole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Or neither will fight at all, it is a win win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.At this point why even marry your biggest incentive for it is now gone... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.My only point is that unions did a terrible job protecting the men they should protect, and also failed to protect themselves, nowadays they are just scammers at least in the automobile industry in brazil, pure joke. Whatever history was or their noble ideals from the past, they literally failed, and became corrupt. Sure the biggest male union, the male patriarchy, is basically dead, and whatever support structure for men there was is gone now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.My only guess is just having an anti promiscuous culture basically, like a religious or overly familiar one, sure there would be no casual sex but birthrates will go up and more men will have access to monogamous sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.It derailed off topic, i made a post in the past about this specific issue. It is all too easy to dissipate men's doing any kind of unionizing unless you have a boss keeping the boys in line. Men have very little sense of manhood as a group while women tend to value wins for all woman as their own. When men can get what they want they just leave the group and let the others fend for themselves. I saw this happen in too many ways and times to ignore it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:42 PM |
| 0 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.They are a joke basically, they fail massively at protecting workers when the companies bring the legal team in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:33 PM |
| 0 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.My personal experience seeing men trying to unionize for things it's pathetic at best. My father used to be the head of a department in a factory about 7-8years ago, their primary strategy of dismantling any strikes was simply keeping a list of the phone numbers of wives and girlfriends of the workers and instead of calling the men to threaten firing, they called the wives. The men being not dumb to think their wives will stick around if they go unemployed quickly returned to their job posts, ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.They are just hot, in ways most can't improve or compete, and the more apparent it gets more unfair it gets. Men don't have a ravenous libido helping women overlook a lot of requirements, while men including the chads, sometimes fuck anything looking human and female when they are horny. Women don't want men as much as men want women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Well at least that is a minor victory, change taking longer than the time i will be able to harvest it's fruits is a bit sad tho. Like being a 20yo guy exactly when dating market is at it's worst is basically a curse honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:11 PM |
| 0 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Backstabbing and bickering is more interaction and attention than being completely ignored as a beta guy. At least in school people paid attention to bully you, after you are just ignored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:08 PM |
| 0 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.I mean is this relevant for the discussion at all, here greek life is just called an athletic club, in practice it's the same principle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Nowadays since woman don't require your performance to survive, rewarding your hard work is only optional, nowadays you are much more likely to get scammed than having a loving relationship. You spend effort and money while betabuxxing, but the alpha male, doesn't spend his looks away while dating you, it is free of charge. So you will end up always on a net loss, and most men aren't particularly okay with that, not anymore at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Not good because it wasn't a consensual choice, i would teach her that children are inherently valuable, but these situations aren't ideal to raise the kid afterwards and obviously it isn't a pleasant experience to get graped. If she wants to have a few kids with randoms i honestly won't stop her, just make sure you know which guy the father is and don't lie about what she is doing. Like if she just wants to get pregnant and finds a guy willing to get her pregnant, as long as she has her own fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:51 PM |
| 0 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.The ignorance towards what they complain about and about trying to stop their community from growing ever larger is precisely the problem. Like the average man being undesirable is just not a recipe for social stability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.And likely make the problem worse for everyone else, thus why it isn't effective, at this point you kinda have to kidnap chad to make girls feel something is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Shaming tactics and the like at this point it is so obvious it is pitiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.I think the term sorority refers to a natural bond all women have to protect and be nice to each other at least for appearances and virtue signalling. Like always offering tanpoms even to worst enemies, that kind of thing, and their neutral position to each other being friendly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Well now men can't rely on women to even have non transactional relationships with them, so overall a big loss. The roe/wade thing is not a gendered issue, a lot of men also want abortions as an option, unwanted children are curse on the parent's lifes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.You got my point, men can't possibly protest when they aren't even noticed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Do women have any logical reasoning behind who they fuck?Being the richest man in the world is basically a status figure. Also he is indeed cocky self absorbed. If he wasn't so weirdly shaped and fat, he would be IRL ironman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 11:07 AM |
| 0 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.If you are being required a job and an education, money, house, gym body, top tier charisma, and luck. While some pothead fucked this same girl without any of that in the past, it seems like a big scam, because it is. Being someone's workhorse is not worth 30min of mediocre sex once per month. This is the major complaint here, standards are absurd and climbing, while pay is severely lacking. The juice not worth the squeeze kind of deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Well if you are a woman, being sexless for women is statistically much more manageable than for men. So yes guys having no hope of getting laid means they just don't strive for much more, so yeah it is an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.The actual carrying capacity of planet earth is about 11 billion people sustainably, technology allows us to grow much more than the mere million we had in the 1800s. What is NOT going to survive what you are describing is our societal and financial structures. Like this increase in living standard does not correlate very much with life satisfaction, i believe that after being around middle class for example money is actually a detriment to happiness. A parent wholy dedicated to raising a child … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.I meam that "union" is far more effective in getting what they want politically and culturally, men's directness is just uneffective at fixing many of men's problem's, men don't have any sense of "we, the men". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Letting in migrants is bad because overtime your country will culturally be fagocitated by foreigners, The point is we don't have too many old people, we lack the young to mantain a proper ratio to make our economy grow, simply put we have too few people not too many. The lack of "space" for people can ironically be solved with more people, with more people suddenly there is a huge increase in services, food, infrastructure, housing, education, etc. Thus meaning more jobs and more money to be ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Overpopulation is NOT A PROBLEM AT ALL, it only seems like a problem because on first world countries there is such a massive concentration of both locals and immigrants that it seems like there is overpopulation but there really isn't. Like the whole retirement crisis worldwide is specifically caused by lack of young people, gentrification is a serious problem. And still, the man being interested in having kids will pay for her to be a SAHM, he gets to have a family, she gets to never have to w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 09:08 AM |
| 6 | Do women have any logical reasoning behind who they fuck?Her own money doesn't make a difference because i think the fact that he is literally the richest man in the world, has some fetishizing power to these women, he is like as high as you could possibly go in terms of purely monetary hypergamy, it's like for men being able to fuck the hottest women alive, without directly paying for it. It is more about his allure and power than actual monetary transfer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Well honestly i think having children is basically a duty in many ways, from lineage to having someone pay for your retirement later on, to having a large network of a family that is basically what patriarchy actually is, just a man with a large family which he has some say over when they are together. The MINIMUM a person should do is have kids, it is the easiest most effective way many people will contribute to society as a whole, sure if you are some altruistic millionaire who works on stoppi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.The win here is from the reproductive perspective, if my son is a bum my lineage is doomed, if my daughter is a bum that will hardly impact her ability to have kids. She has the freedom to go to whatever shitty humanities major she wants and spend her whole life rescuing cats from the streets without a single penny in her pocket and being a narcissistic annoying woman, she will still end up able to have kids if she wants to. If a boy is equally useless, he is an evolutionary dead end because onl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:13 AM |
| 3 | Do women have any logical reasoning behind who they fuck?The mere sniff of his money makes them wet, he can put it back on his wallet after the action, if they insist he can give them a coin or two to take home after he had enough of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Because if your goal is to pass on your genes you basically need to keep your daughter phisically active and feed her properly, and she will very likely pass on her genes just fine with a probably AT LEAST hot dude, so you won already. If your son is unable to land a good job, isn't particularly hot, or is incredibly popular charismatic for whatever reason, he very likely won't be able to pass his genes on, if he is able have any kind of sex anyway. So yeah men need a lot more help than women no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.My god that reply is insanely well written, all i can say is that at this point both men and women's goals are actively polar to each other. There is no middle ground if your goal is directly opposite to mine. Only middle ground is when we all lose, and people historically rather mutually nuke each other than to let that happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:43 AM |
| 3 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesI am too poor for an award man/lady being, hope just my "That is what a Chad text would look like" will make it justice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.The solution is very simple to all of those problems, TRP should just try to morph itself together with other large groups and vote accordingly, which means any opposition to the "wokesphere" which is basically align with agro tradcons, incels, right wingers, authoritarians, militarists, religious people, anyone really. The first step is really just to remove power from the opposition, THEN you try to take the opportunity of the vacuum to gain power, EXACTLY what happened in WW2. Soldiers saw an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Do women have any logical reasoning behind who they fuck?I don't know about current state of things, it really doesn't matter, he doesn't need to be loyal he can buy any pussy he wants in more ways than one. Like literally he is the richest man alive, he can betabuxx whoever he wants without wasting the equivalent of a few cents for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:18 AM |
| 4 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.I mean because your average joe is certainly lobbying to get multimillion dollar contract to his buddy billy's company to keep it in the bros, SURE. That is fucked up analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Nothing is ever going to change without active protesting and movements trying to change things. Like feminism worked specifically because they lobbyed their way into politics and sold a lot of nice ideas to women all the time, now they are united with LGBT+ and woke culture because being together makes them stronger, and look there are a bunch of bullshit being changed because of that, like you can't say anything and must be very careful with what you say because getting shot is not your worst … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.I think that men's ability to say "wait that's a dumb idea" is actively hampered by lust, it doesn't happen to women at all. https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a19528870/stupid-decisions-when-horny/ Least serious article i could find but a quick google search can show a lot more, overall men have a much harder time with this, but info about sex differences is only in the actual paper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.You are just describing parent's not lying to their kids and showing them what reality awaits them. Men are horny, it has been proven that horny men are quite literally dumber, so their instincts to fight for pussy can only be fixed by some jurassic park level genetic engineering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Well women leaders does not exactly mean a non patriarchal tyrannical society, in fact most women in power required to be quite totalitarian else customs and just jealous butthurt men would try to take them out. Women had no choice but to enforce their rule with a lot of force, only country that consistently had concurrent female leaders and didn't go broke is england, but yeah all mostly warmongers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.And the only way men can do something about it, is by trying to band together and having a louder voice, this is the woe of a democracy if the enemy party has bigger numbers and a louder voice, there is not much you can do about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.My point is most people at least here don't bother making a distinction, they don't know what they are talking about they just notice it is not a pro woman woke thing and hate on it. Brazilians as a whole aren't known for being well informed or bother being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Frenemies are better or worse than enemies, having actual enemies is better than people just not giving a fuck about you at all. Can't blame people for doing wrong to you when they don't even remember your name, you are invisible. If people hate you, upsetting them could be an actionable goal, but people don't hate you, they just don't know you even exist, there isn't even anything that you can do that will reflect in their lives at all, unless you actively hamper them, which just makes you an a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Humans include men, this is just another example of that, hobbes is certainly not redpill, he is too old for that, i think that what he actually said can barely be applied to TRP. Besides i all know about hobbes is high school classes, i just remembered the phrase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.If the topic is kind of making fun of it, yes, i don't know how it is in american day-to-day life, but really here is just incel jokes, and fear of school shooters, people just gobble it all up into incel and cancel you. It's not really mainstream, at least not here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.You can't control neither, but both were indeed controlled in the past, really the average man is so trash that history says most societies that didn't compel pairing up, failed because when women had a choice they simply didn't. Now that women both can, because of no requirement of back breaking labor to make a living, and they are allowed to make their own money, they really have zero incentives to pair up with subpar mates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Because chad will just ignore your pleas, since they gain nothing from this, in the past those chad types would honestly just get murdered by some random nerd. You can't exactly curb chad's freedom anymore, there is no more inquisition charging chad with premarital fornication. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Unless that comfort is not for everyone and people get enough of not having what they want from life. There are only school shooters in developed countries basically, like i would argue that far less people here are afraid of going to school than american children and teenagers are. Overall the safety and prosperity is a big bubble, economic collapse worldwide is also not very prosperous at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.It is not a question of rights but choice power, sure there are no deliberately restrictions on men, but men have little agency over their own outcomes in social situations AKA, they can't do much to improve their success as a whole, like there are diminishing returns to self improvement, and on top of that there are diminishing returns on many guys self improving. So it just illustrates that women overall don't like men very much so they will likely be single for a long time and sexless for eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Yeah because men who are depressed kill themselves or don't go to a doctor because "therapists are for crazy people", and they would feel their "stoic masculinity" attacked. Seeking help for men actually makes things worse, especially if others around you are aware. And honestly yeah women are miserable, but really they have it easier in many ways and still are miserable, idk what to say but to take their meds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Honestly it would be a future investment, if i contribute to dating being shit, my sons will deal with worse crap, i don't want that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.As in women scheme a lot better than men to get their collective interests materialize. Men are more straightforward about getting things done, this is why armies even modern ones are such a male fantasyland, things are mechanical and work mostly for a specific goal and purpose with a clear set of rules and chain of command in place. While relations and politics are much more muddy and murky, men as an average are much more mechanical, so this is a woman's realm. Honestly men no longer have powe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.At least that is emotional support to feel good, if i could be a bum and everyone still treat me like a king i would be so much happier than constantly trying to improve and still get mostly ignored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:09 AM |
| 15 | Do women have any logical reasoning behind who they fuck?Elon musk may just deliberately flirted with her, because he had many affairs with other high status women already, it seems he is actually making the first moves it seems. Amber heard on that list too from what i hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.I wasn't talking about me personally trying to get laid, i was talking about men being unable to cooperate about any male wide issues, men just don't care about other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:04 AM |
| 3 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Below 30yo the unemployment rate in brazil is fucking massive, more than 50% of all the employed population in brazil works illegally as in they have no contract, they just hustle. From the people i know, they either got their jobs through contacts from within, sometimes family, or they work specifically with IT or social media, literally everyone else is sub employed. So if being violent is related to that, then a larger percentage of people are involved, also violence and crime is big money in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Like most of the older guys i know just made friends organically, i NEVER heard of a frat from the older guys and girls i am friends with. Maybe it just isn't a thing here, i will do a bit more research on topic basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Many men are actually quite proficient at the former with proper training, so i guess most guys were chosen by their combat proficiency in the past, and that being no longer a thing makes them evolutionary dead ends? Like very few men in the past succeeded through peacocking, because they would in fact get discontinued from existence by competition. So very few are geared to the actual market and that is the problem then? A few conclusion can be made from your reply, not wrong at all i actually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Like most of the older guys i know just made friends organically, i NEVER heard of a frat from the older guys and girls i am friends with. Maybe it just isn't a thing here, i will do a bit more research on topic basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Well economy is progressively getting worse since the 2000s, at least in brazil we are on our 5th or 6th economic crisis since i was born, most of my friends are unemployed, single, and basically sexless from what all possible indicators suggest, with a few doing some stupid shit like LTR dating, seeing their GFs like luckily once a month sometimes less, most that are employed are minimum wage, no one has their own car, all live with their parents still, our average age in the group is 23, so no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.I am from brazil, so maybe those kind of frats aren't a thing at all here, but social life is definitely worse from the older guys i know, they socially are much better off than the current generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Nail your coffin is not literal, it just means that if you slip up they might just discard you altogether just because it's less competition. They are as loyal as you are useful basically, there is like 1 friend who isn't family, for about 15 years already, and i am 21, so he is a bro, but he is one, and never anyone else resisted the test of me having a bad phase, so this is just too much bad evidence to ignore. Besides you are exagerating things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.My post hasn't suggested that at all. We aren't even on this topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Welp love that proverb, and while those emasculated men provided great improvements to society, during their lifetime, precisely before doing such extraordinary things they did get shitty treatment. The example i know of is alan turing who killed himself after being charged with the crime of being gay. From google directly: "Turing took his own life in 1954, two years after being outed as gay. Homosexuality was still a crime in Great Britain at the time, and Turing was convicted of “indecency.” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:17 AM |
| 0 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Women get many more offers of relationships both friendly and romantically inclined, like i never got first approached even to make friends, if i don't make the first move, and for a good while, i just get ignored, most dudes report a very similar experience while women don't. Men rely on having lots of cash to be attractive mates much more than women do, like a lot of men specifically try to get richer to become more attractive, or some status seeking thing, like even michael phelps admitted to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.There are only football schools for children teenagers basically, and there is PE in my college too, in many colleges in fact, the "strongest" frat i know off is from a college near my house which basically just get's discounted tickets for the clubs near the college itself. But the frat community as in the actual friendships and the group itself is dead, not the parties, but the parties are usually not of their making, they just go to the party or help organize/promote, the "brotherhood" is dea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:01 AM |
| 0 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Idk what happened in detail, but well it doesn't matter what you vote for if more people vote against it in a democracy. And well people who were against it, beat them in the vote count, democracy at it's finest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.When men do basically the same thing it just devolves into incels and mysoginist pimps basically, and society comdemns them, however then the anti male radfems show up they suddenly are okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Man, i actually can't debate the fatalism, but i don't think extinction is plausible. Women will just pop the condom of a random chad when they feel it's time for kids, and farm some alimony as a bonus. So far liberation through tech is not working, we will see about the future. What i unfortunately see is people just voting conservative, and increasingly radically, so i can see after a few many years that we will turn into taliban diet. Handmaiden's tale seems not a too distant idea, sadly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.How old are you, as a currently in college guy, they are just dead, maybe you went at a different time where what you are saying is relevant. Besides i did make some friends in college already, but it is a big ass effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:50 AM |
| 0 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Technically this is why there is a problem, there are bound to be weak people by comparison, like it doesn't matter who you are in a free market, it matters how you stack against competition. And a winner takes all market is just good for pharmaceutical companies who will sell a lot drugs with the added misery. Sure i will do what i can, but by improving yourself you are indirectly pushing others down, and well that is what is happening, with the speed things are going, expecting men to be roide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.I actually agree with you, but your solution implies that chad goes MGTOW too, because if they don't do. No women, society, culture, or anyone will care that you are missing just as much as they don't care when you are present. Honestly, this is much of a dead end, cursed problem, most of the unattractive guys really won't see change within their lifetimes, and the misery jusy hurts. Thus why there are economies collapsing worldwide and birthrates are at a historical low, like those men are just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.How the hell they can't, like until yesterday you had roe/wade in the US. Many countries make abortion legal. It isn't from lack of trying because i actually see a lot of women protesting in favour of these things. And men can't even complain about that because they can barely get laid, it is a minimum issue for most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.I think that this isn't completely false but male competition is much much worse. At least woman pretend to be helpful, men actually just find a way to nail your coffin if you slip up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:33 AM |
| -1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Man is wolf to man, thomas hobbes already said that. He also wrote Leviathan, advocating that state oppression is the only way to fix this. So far prospects are grim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:31 AM |
| 0 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Fraternities at least where i live where weak even in uni's, they turned into party organizing companies, and covid basically killed them all, they are all about 10% of the size they were pre covid in são paulo brazil. I actually joined college with the intent of joining the fraternity because of exactly what you said, turns out they went broke, and from friends in other uni's they are very small and basically just a party company. The actual friendships are dead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:29 AM |
| 6 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Thus why it will get progressively worse until we get into genghis khan state of things. Like this is the main reason why 90% of men fail, they fail to make a collective effort to change things, and considering the problem even a few defectors would make the whole thing pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.What i said about the last paragraph, is that having a common boss on a job without the same "freedom" as a common job does push soldiers to bond, it is too tough otherwise, without the added pressure the purpose of the bonds breaks. Yet another example of male camarederie being utilitarian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:25 AM |
| 0 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.I will answer by steps because you reply is quite indepth. To answer first paragraph simply, men are far more likely to be both literally isolated or lonely without isolation, as their social circles are both smaller and more shallow than woman's, also that men aren't allowed to be passive socially, you must constantly seek out friends to both make and keep them, at some point you doubt they are your friends at all. Men also rely much more on finances both romantically or socially, like no one w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:23 AM |
| -2 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.If you are referencing the RP community, on the part about being actual friends, most TRP guys are just an enjoy the decline types and reap what they can, even at expense of others, brotherhood is the least good part about trp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Was the depp case more about him being a zillionaire, and having spent a massive amount of effort and money to get his rights, and even after he is having to give up many of his court victories to keep amber from appealing about a lot of things. About custody i am unaware of relevant information, so well good thing for the fathers, small victory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.I think that the majority is a middle ground, like being in shape as in not fat/lightly muscular most guys lean TRP, when you point out standards are more in line with roided types, then most guys point out the absurds and lean MRA. As in most guys are fine with some self improvement. But when you realize that housing prices are quite absurd for most people in college to have their own place, for example, it makes no sense that having a house is a basic requirement, since most guys can't possibl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:43 AM |
| 5 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Again the real question is, did these same men stick together and had similar camaraderie when you guys got out of the corps? It seems a good part of this camarederie is kinda institutionalized, and without the military on top of the group it quickly falls apart. Thus why most militaries can fail dramatically, when the chain of command is broken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Labor unions are an absolute joke on the comraderie part, i have personal-ish experience with the syndicates, so i know how easy they are to break apart and how actually corrupt the whole thing is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:30 AM |
| 4 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.This is a good example why the problem is more about culture and values than actual problem. Men's most common cause of suicide is loneliness, and IMO this is because unless you serve a purpose or provide something you are largely invisible socially while women aren't. Thus why men risk their lives in dangerous jobs, do a bunch of stupid simping shit to get attention, become SD, or become addicted to substances or porn/videogames. The problem isn't financial, it's because male friendships are al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:28 AM |
| -3 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Honestly those frats are pretty much dead at least in the colleges i personally known, which are part of the most relevant in my country. Most frats now basically are just event organizers, they turned into companies trying to turn a profit. Covid is majorly to blame for this too, partying had to be done illegally and undercover so the official frats are all but dead from what they once where. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.I mean the portion of TRP that tries to do something to change our shitty ways, of course some don't do it, but it is part of the problem. Honestly the closest thing TRP has ever gotten to do "societal shifts", was the very beggining of society where laws and customs were specifically made trying to cut down female hypergamy. Not saying the old model fits in the modern world but it did it's job in the past, it just needs some updating no one else came up with yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:19 AM |
| 0 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.I am not aware of american elections, nor of the political climate or the general alignment of the parties, nor what trump did or did not. So this doesn't mean much for me unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:12 AM |
| 10 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.The military are united by their common woes and duty, not by their manhood or the fact that they are men. Women tend to unite just by mere fact of being female, that is what sorority is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Nah i tried many different approaches, not all of them as i still keep trying. But most of them just as covertly offended as in "why are you even trying this" kind of way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.Conversely small towns make game for men worse, like much worse, like women are a minority in lots of rural areas, so bad ratio couples with lack of numbers game. This is hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.You could do nothing but agree with the little bastards, or not. She is your ex after all, there is a reason she is gone. Are the kids still around or she took them with her?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.This is kind of genius really. Honestly hot girls tend to have hot moms, rarely a hot girl inherits much from the male side. Miss the MILF galore in high school man, god i was so dumb LOL. The boys with hot moms however i think suffered the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 01:40 AM |
| 5 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.As a guy that regularly goes to prostitutes, the main reason is that it deep down is admitting that unless you pay, no one will want to have sex with you. And that really beats down the self esteem of men, including why often the girls themselves working have a very hard job of making the man feel as desired as they can possibly fake it, because otherwise it is, honestly, kind of humiliating. Also you must keep it very well hidden, else your reputation goes down the drain, and while it isn't ill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 12:54 AM |
| 3 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.This only works if the men capable of having all that sex don't do it. If even a small amount of top men wanted casual sex they could probably service most of the women after casual sex anyway. Then you would need to infringe those men's freedom by not allowing them to have the casual sex they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 12:49 AM |
| 4 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.Maybe it includes emotional, social, and psychological dependency, as in a woman can't live without her man, in both a positive and negative way. But as current situation implies, men need woman far more than the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 12:34 AM |
| 5 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.Who in his sane mind would refuse that LOL, especially if said older lady is pleasant to both the eyes, ears, and flesh. Men already fuck cougars for free, making a "living" out of it would be just be perfect LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?The problem just lies in the "open for that" part, whenever i show any kind of flirtatious manner or express any interest sexually, the girls usually either get annoyed or straight up turn hostile. Not good for my self esteem since otherwise people are very friendly whenever i hang out, i am just a chill dude who is quite extroverted, i can't imagine anything other than they seeing me as asexual which is very unfortunate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 09:54 PM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Enh well people saying a lot of no's is normal, technically the definition is friends with benefits or fuck buddies. Again that can't be too much to ask LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 08:34 PM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Men are much more likely to overlook these things. If the income is majorly coming from one partner it is usually the man, it is very rare to see a man being mainly sustained by his wife, although i saw it like once, but the guy was kinda a turbochad anyway. Like a broke women is much more likely to still get opportunity than a broke man, but anyway, this is not a very major issue, but all throughout history man relied on finances to be attractive, when this is no longer feasible or accessible i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 08:22 PM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?They don't, women are not treated equally because their life experience is fundamentally different, treating women equally is a dumb mistake even when you like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?It means a lot more men are "incels" by that analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?But from my dating POV only women are relevant and they are cruel in their own particular way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?50$ a week extra to spend on hookers, not only 50$. Some hooker can cost up to 250$ around here, and well i am not payin that for pussy LOL. I am not american, 50$ is basically a month worth of groceries around here so it is valuable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:32 PM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Basically yes, there is no other source for what these guys want, and it is just not sex but the validation of being worthy to fuck her for free. Besides the brothels would be much much fuller if the validation wasn't an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Enh no, they are both cruel for different reasons, doesn't change they are both cruel in different ways. I just happen to be heterosexual, if i was gay i would likely say the something similar to men, but i won't ask a man out just to see how it goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Well not hating but deep resentment, yeah i sed that a lot, sitting with guys at the bar in college is basically a most blatant example of clear objetification and jokes of "but she is out of your league". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?They just happen to consistently show bad behaviour, they aren't worse for it, neither the men being shitty back are worse too. Everyone is kind of equally shit in this scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?I mean everyone is being shitty, i am allowed to be too right, i am not magically different or worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?That is only important to me personally, most people really don't care why i'm rich, just being rich is enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:21 PM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?It is because for women those personal life aspects play a much MUCH lesser role in their dating prospects. For woman it is basically looks and personality, for men a lot more factors come in their success in the SMP. And paying bills and doing your own thing is just sort of existing, it is basically implicit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Maybe that is the case, idk how a specialized diagnostic would change the treatment overall however... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?I am looking for casual currently, so my initial trigger is very much basically looks. Sometimes the girls are actually cool, but those are usually the ones i keep as friends even though we didn't smash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:09 PM |
| 0 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Like you treat them basically like a spoiled child, you don't mistreat them but they have no skin in the game and playjng on easy mode, sure they might be cool but they are naive, at least on surface they seem. Average women is attractive, a non hot women is one you can't fuck unless really drunk, those are usually either friends or ignored honestly, based on personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 08:36 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?The enjoy the decline reap what you can while its not all rotten yet is the way. I also see an increase in age gap relationships, most young couplea at least 3 years apart, some are 5 6 years. Like the guys already finishing their graduation are eyeing the girls who just got in, AKA about 4 or 5 years in my college. And it really looks like the guys are clearly planning on this, gearing life and style to be most attractive to younger women specifically, like the 25yo guy dressing basically like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 08:31 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?It's not about blame, it is just that the reaction is shitty from my POV and they seem like shitty people, if they are being shitty regardless of the reason it is annoying to me and i don't like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 08:17 AM |
| 0 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Unattractive women are much worse IMO when you talk to them they correctly assume you are likely looking for an easier picking, so when they say no they get creative while scolding you really. While attractive women are just dismissive in general, the ugly ones are intentionally trying to hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:53 AM |
| 0 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Oh it doesn't directly matter but it is scientific already we treat and are nicer to better looking more sexually attractive people. The friends i have that are hotter i subconsciously treat better, women do this too, it is partly halo effect too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:51 AM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Hardworking successful men who end up in BB situations will obviously complain. They literally do all the time here and internet in general. Most adults who are not so happily married talk a lot of shit while drunk at a bar with the bros, "the boss is calling" is basically synonim to goodbye and trouble. This is brazil however supposed "redpill" knowledge is much more widespread around here. Informally i think it is a good contender for second place in manosphere community, with usa first obviou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:49 AM |
| 4 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Simple answer, if i worked much harder to be here than you i basically can't see you as equally capable, determined, interested, or attracted to me. As such i see your much smaller investment almost as an insult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:30 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?So you just grind to buy the overpriced product instead of not incentivizing the inflation? That is a genius economist in the making here my god man. Anyway i am not saying i am not an asshole too, but most people even when not interacting with me directly are assholes, the ones who are not usually are selling something. Maybe all my friends are assholes too and we are an asshole hive complaining about normal people, this is a real possibility. And well, i will only say that if a date is more ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:27 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Okay but the point is the whole path you took here doesn't matter much to the guy who you choose to rail you. Like a person fucking you wouldn't be affected by these struggles at all, how hard you worked to get somewhere is only really a you thing. And really if you worked this hard and someone was just born with all of it for free, it is hard for me to treat these people equally, one is much harder working, other is much genetically superior, they aren't even similar at all. Like a self made mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:20 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?You really didn't get my point at all, my complaint was with people especifically pointing out my behaviour is unacceptable while doing the exact same thing. Like with point 2 and 3, point 2 is actually normal behaviour, people have motives to be with others, however i am framed as a villain everytime i do it, and when i point out others do it too it is me on the bad too because they can have standards (but i supposedly don't) And well my ex was also incredibly toxic af too, like she was jealous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?HAD is a big part in here. However you can get away with shit still, being his son i would say i am a professional at this honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 06:43 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Honestly if i could actually get angry for real with this it would be life changing, my biggest achievents were made basically in purely rage fueled determination, that is how i got into having a gym routine for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 06:42 AM |
| 0 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?I mean that combination of traits making you feel good is more of a you thing than a universal happiness trigger. Being nice is not a happiness recipe for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 06:27 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?People don't succeed at abusing his niceness very often, not anymore at least, but it was precisely because i dragged his ass to therapy and told to his face that if he kept trying to help everyone he would drive us broke in no time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 06:25 AM |
| 0 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?The only thing this is missing is that you are improving specifically to focus on age gap relationships with younger women, like you are aiming to work hard to peak at 25, but your target ground are the 20yo, not the 25yos like you. This is why many MANY men are opting into sugar dating models, because most of the time TRP advice boils down to be a sugar daddy for her younger sister, which while it works its not everyone's cup of tea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 06:23 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Unsurprising honestly, modern equality is pure comedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 06:11 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Again this only works if being nice and all makes you feel good in of itself. Like i don't feel good just because i am nice to people, that is kinda incredibly self-absorbed in a way because the mere act of me standing on moral high ground is not something that triggers any feel good chemicals for me really. I try to be helpful to people who deserve or really need help, like helping a starving homeless doesn't make me feel good because it is right, it feels good because he won't die today and he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 06:10 AM |
| 4 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?No i am neither a millionaire not attractive. It is just a lot of money built on hard work of about 3 consecutive generations, a few successful companies from a few many family members. I am not the kind of rich that buys entire buildings regularly, but the kind that swaps cars every year and owns a big ass house in the best part of town. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 06:01 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Well that is quite possibly the case, from my POV this morality would just be a vector for abuse, and without any reciprocity from anyone i see very little benefit in following such moral code. Personal morality serves no purpose in regulating behaviour since others need to adhere to it too for it to have any effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:58 AM |
| 6 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?I did wrong to her first, but before her many others did me wrong too, at some point it just becomes the default thing. Especially when the wrong thing works very effectively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:55 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Again, i don't like this game it is shitty, most guys who struggle kind of hate the game. Like i would rather just be confortable in the middle and just keep my value well kept, and live my life without dedicating so much time and effort to something that is basically an addiction. This is not about blaming women or not. The main premisse of the thread is that people become shitty because they are regularly treated like shit, it spreads like a virus, much like AIDS you get progressively less res… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:54 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Again, i don't like this game it is shitty, most guys who struggle kind of hate the game. Like i would rather just be confortable in the middle and just keep my value well kept, and live my life without dedicating so much time and effort to something that is basically an addiction. This is not about blaming women or not. The main premisse of the thread is that people become shitty because they are regularly treated like shit, it spreads like a virus, much like AIDS you get progressively less res… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:54 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?I think cruelty in women in general comes from the abundance they have, if a girl is attractive chances are you aren't the first one hitting on her and won't be the last, so the condescending dismissing posture is incredibly offensive. And while i don't think AWALT, AlotWALT, so while i give you an opening to prove you are nice, if you fail i am basically always ready to strike back. It is much like a gun standoff, when both people draw it is all about the order and intensity of the actions that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:49 AM |
| 5 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Such. A. Constructive. Answer. Someone pls award. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:43 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Its brazil, in the most metropolitan parts around here, not in a jungle or the Amazon. My circle is basically full of socialite-ish kids, for a long time at least, i found much better friends when i started studying at night and taking a few trade courses (idk perfect translation), with people from more "humble" backgrounds, i am just a bit of a roughish guy personality wise, so i really don't blend well with the more vapid people i met in my early life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:43 AM |
| 5 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Well i do have a lot of money on my name, that is precisely one reason why i am not very trusting of people. When i met my gf both my parents specifically warned me about her possibly being a golddigger since our economic backgrounds weren't similar at all. In fact this is more of an issue since my money is family money, so it isn't hot at all, i am no fancy ambitious businessman, so golddigging is much scarier since the "kind" of money i have is not the hot kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:39 AM |
| 4 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Enh i actually was never diagnosed with any of that ever, neither psychiatrist nor psychologist reported any of that ever. Again all i ever done was trying to learn by observation, if i am a sociopath, then i grew up inside a sanatorium. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:35 AM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Women aren't lesser beings, they are perfectly capable of being functioning human beings, and well it is basically being "worthy" of free access to sex basically. I don't know how to explain the feeling, but i imagine it is your lizard brain thinking you just reproduced successfully and that makes you feel good. Not because you fucked her, but the act of being chosen means you "beat the competition" for access to those eggs basically. It makes zero logical sense, it is just biology torturing me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:33 AM |
| 5 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?That is precisely the premisse of the post. I pointed out why are people surprised when people who get mistreated so much come to mistreat others themselves? It is pretty clear for a lot A LOT of crimes for example, victims are very likely to reproduce the behaviour, rape survivors becoming rapists, DV victims becoming violent themselves, bullied kids becoming bullies. So actually yes, i do believe it is ok to treat people in the same coin they treat you. Does it cause a snowball effect of every… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:29 AM |
| 6 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Again, after a lot of thinking, therapy, and getting gaslitten, i realized maybe this is actually the case? Like yeah what am i supposed to do if women start charging kisses a million dollars, become a millionaire or just point out the pricing is ridiculous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:25 AM |
| 4 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Have you considered that sometimes i actually don't believe that i am on the wrong? Neither i like the topic or that i am genuinely pissed about it. At some point you realize it is kind of rigged but when you point that out you are blacklisted, then you know you hit something rotten, thus why i only talk about it anonymously on an internet forum, because i noticed some people aren't happy about what i am talking about and that usually means you are probably right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:23 AM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Basically on point not much to add. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?I mean if you are an attractive man for real then it makes sense why you think like that because your personal experience reflects that. If you are attractive you have more positive experiences overall on average, and that makes your outlook on things more positive too. All i can say is that all of what you say makes logical sense and i envy your optimism for real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:16 AM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Well obviously getting people in a shitty state of mind is the first step of manipulation. And it wasn't just me being treated poorly, but seeing manipulative people being treated nicely too, that led to here, like i just tried figuring what worked out and being manipulative and shitty consistently did the job for multiple people. No i don't like that i have to act like that, but it seems that i have little choice if i want to have any say on how my relationships with people go. I haven't figure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:11 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?No women are not children at all, considering that we don't have lions as neighbours anymore they really aren't very dependent on men, they are fully capable of being adults. The problem is just men being poisoned by testosterone so much that they stop thinking they should not simp. Really thirsty simps are problem, not pussy availability. Like with drugs man, the problem is not the dealer, its the methhead, because dealers depend on methheads to exist. But methheads don't depend on the dealers,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:07 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Well honestly after years of therapy and multiple people trying to help NO ONE can say wtf i am doing wrong, like really it is not just "you bad". And it is not just me, women treat most men similarly from what i hear from friends, they just process the same thing differently. Like what is the problem with wanting casual sex with someone who is a good friend? I don't struggle with friendships, but cool people are really rare and i have to sieve through a lot of shitty people to find cool ones, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:01 AM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?No i broke up with her first exactly to avoid being cheated on because i knew it was shaking already, so i jumped boat before it sank basically. Also i only started by leading her on because it never ever worked before based on honesty, so i tried to do it differently AKA be an asshole, and it worked. Eventually i kind of pitied her for real and felt safe to actually try to be a better boyfriend, worst mistake ever, it obviously wasn't built on this basis so trying to reform the basis with the b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:56 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Well i just have a nice presentation policy for myself. I am just a little nice at first, when i am interested, and wait for a response. And putting myself in their shoes just reinforces my perspective, it only makes sense they are acting like i do considering most are like this. Also what they do for others is really not my concern at all, why should how much effort they put into attracting another man have to do with her relationship to me, like it is an irrelevant excuse. It makes no sense to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Welp this is unfortunately correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:39 AM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Sure but some people aren't interested in those as in they dont value it. Introverts with 3 friends are perfectly happy that way, more people would be an active hindrance in his life, if he isnt getting laid he actually is worse off from expanding his circle. It is not a surefire profit thing to have more people involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?The proverb is the following "The kid that is not embraced by the village, will burn it to ground to feel it's warmth" What it means is that it is a community job to embrace new people in, especially the young ones. And in most of human history social life was a gift bestowed by birth, you were inserted into your community passively, you were iniciated in its customs by your elders. Nowadays we leave people to blend in by themselves, and it is a complete disaster. Turns out people are terrible a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:37 AM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?But why are her personal struggles an issue that you should particularly take into account when dating/flirting/fucking her. In fact IMO when you go date someone you are in to have a good time, especially to help forget all of that shit we take in life. Like i don't care about my shitty grades when i am flirting someone nor could i care about hers, in fact it is my job to help her forget about that for a few moments and it is hers to help me forget about this too. Which becomes important for men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:32 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?At this point i just agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:19 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Also about cheating and treating them as bossess, like they are the mom of their kids and not much more at some point. Considering most of the people i see at brothels are boomer types with wedding rings on, yeah i kind of get this "we really just pretend around here" vibe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:18 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Again exactly why i pointed out it is stupid, we agree here. Weird how pointing out women have a very similarly capable brain is required in PPD LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:16 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?That is not the point of the post at all. What i am basically saying is that people imitate others, so why are people surprised men turn out to be shitty people when women are regularly shitty to men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?The only thing being good does to people is attract leeches, it is evident from my parents for example. My dad is a very kind hearted person, and even at almost 60yo, people still keep abusing his niceness all the time for example. Being nice is like waving your wallet around in a dark street at night, you are just asking for it. But still i am also not naturally nice, as in a nice guy, and more of an asshole too, but it is just how i adapted to being, like 90% of people i ever met are transacti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:13 AM |
| 6 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Again the whole point of the post is, never have people been actually respectful or nice to me without ulterior motives ever, so why i am expected to be? Like for real, why should i provide something no one is willing to do for me. Extending a helping hand only got me backstabbed in my entire life, so i just stopped being nice altogether, and suddenly stuff worked for me. Sure it is shitty, but it seems to be how it is supposed to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:02 AM |
| 0 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?No i am precisely that moraless man because most women i ever interacted with also didn't have morals too. Like the whole point of the post is why you should behave respectfully if others don't show respect to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:59 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Not everyone has that option, technically is a crime in most countries, and they can't provide everything casual sex provides, only the physicalities basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:57 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?The merits are not my question. I actually mostly agree with you, however, my point is. Why are you surprised people treated badly in one aspect of their lives emulate the behaviour they suffered. Like why should a guy be a nice man if all women in his life only treated him as an object too. If all the attention you get is when you flash money around, it only makes sense to treat those women as a prostitute basically. If you are a chad and women won't show you to their parents, why would you sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:55 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Why are you surprised if they become shitty people, the point of the post is why people are so surprised by this? Like africans said in the past, surprised the neglected kid came back to burn the village? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:49 AM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Developing a social sphere with the sole intent of getting laid is a bad strategy because if it fails you got nothing you actually want out of it. This is why TRP fails, because men go in with one goal of having a relationship which is a side product with a small chance of happening when interacting with people, with factors influencing it most likely out of reasonable changing possibility. Like when you tell a man he needs to max out his LMS to get a GF, it really doesn't become a good ROI at a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:48 AM |
| -1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?I never meant to do all of that deliberately, i just thought this was normal because i just emulated what my peers were doing and saying, i noticed the "evil" men got more attention so i just tried to be one. I am not looking for sympathy for what happened, like i actually broke up with her not the other way around, i got tired of pretending she actually loved me and wasn't sick in the head too, the only glue that stuck us together was me being horny and not a chad, so breakup would mean dryspel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:42 AM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?How the hell isn't deliberately being a happy loser with the intent to fuck someone the same thing as dedicating one self to being a successful person on a miserable path. Both are acts with a goal in mind, if the objective is to get laid both are literally the same thing. And your reply basically misses the biggest point, women clearly don't treat men as equals, AFBB is a clear situation where they separate people's worth, and men go through all of this "inequality of treatment" but are suppose… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:36 AM |
| 9 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Again why should i respect the rich kid and treat the person as an equal? Also the biggest problem in the post is that women do treat men they don't like either neutrally or badly, at worst exploitatively, so why should men just not do exactly the same thing back? For example in the context of dating, sure women might lie about loving a guy just to marry his rich ass, but why people get mad when the man lies about marrying a woman just to make love AKA fuck her. It is literally the same thing an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:30 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Again why should i be nice for a person who isn't reciprocal on average. Like i absolutely couldn't care less about people who also don't care about me either, and most clearly don't so until proven otherwise you are the average person in my life. Like the female friends i have proved to be nice company to me before they received any special treatment or respect, like if they weren't good people i wouldn't look them in the face. And if most people i've known do not like me why should i assume ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:24 AM |
| 6 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?It makes no sense to have respect for women in specific in context where the fact they are women is irrelevant. Like women at your office job are effectively literally the same as your male coworker and should be treated as such. But in most contexts in the modern world being a woman confers special treatment and attention men could only dream of, like being actually invited and have people want you around. Most guys have to work for the attention and value they have and women often have to filt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:20 AM |
| 0 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?You did right, but still his comment implies that women behave badly just as dogs do. And by the same analogy, what you do with dogs is teach because they are obviously mentally less capable than you, and he compared both, thus implying women are just as mentally dumb as dogs and should be ignored or disciplined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:12 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Again, am i supposed to voluntarily struggle for something otherwise offered more readily? Why pay more for the same thing if it is being sold cheaper? Same analogy why have casual sex with a beta guy if turbochad wants you just as much? Why should i entertain random women for casual sex if i can just get laid immediately with some cash? And well i struggled with some severe depression my whole life because i had shitty relationships with people in general, so yeah that is a struggle. Besides i … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Sure but i am talking about men and women in the context they differ. As in i don't disrespect women at work or at the street, i however don't respect them when dating is the topic, because at this point they are clearly priviledged in so many ways and don't care about my struggles at all, so why should their struggles when they arise concern me. Sure she is fucking chad and complaining he pumped and dumped for example, but she only did it because he is hot, so chad thought exactly the same thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:02 AM |
| -2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?I only came here after a 1 year long breakup process, from a relationship i felt i had the obligation to be in. And well i realized a lot of the "you should date, casual is gross" was just people gaslighting me or telling me i'm not hot or a niceguy. I was never into dating, hated commitment with everything in my life, all my sexual relationships involved an unpleasant price to them. This one relationship i had was mostly me trying to skip as much "dating" things i possibly could, and avoiding a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Sure but at the end i already have wonderful experiences with women, the work required is a price i am not okay with paying for "real women". Like the work of getting a couple hundred extra bucks for the weekend fun at a brothel is far better than providing value and being nice and funny with women i couldn't care much less about for a CHANCE they might put out. I still do a lot of cold approaching and like clubbing, currently going to the gym with a PR, in college still but my parents are quite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 02:40 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Again why is this undignified, and well most of the men i see in these places are clearly top 20%, the broke cant afford the hobby. It is legal where i live otherwise i wouldn't go, i refrained from going for a long time, it is truly a freeing experience honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 02:16 AM |
| -3 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Thus the point is why should you be expected to treat it like such? Why people get surprised when men turn into mysoginistic assholes then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 02:14 AM |
| 8 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Oh no, reality is much worse, if it wasn't for the community i would have to keep my mouth shut in order to not lose friends/go to jail. The best part of all of this is being just able to talk and notice i am not crazy for thinking this is not a good deal/normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?This is not about getting mad, it's more about pretending this is all okay and doesn't bother you at all, and you should just suck it up. And well when dogs bark you just repreend the behaviour properly, like i do own a dog and owned quite a few my whole life, when a dog barks they usually have a reason too, it is not too hard to teach a dog when to bark and when not to. For example i want my dog to bark at strangers in my house, not cars on the street, i can totally teach a dog to behave. Howev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 02:11 AM |
| 0 | How are men supposed to treat women as equals?Again but why should you accept the "price for the whole deal" and be fine with it. Like understanding women are like that and they aren't to blame is one thing, but being okay with playing a fundamentally rigged game with a terrible ROI, as in i bet 90% of the RP self improvement guys just do it because they can't live without sexuality. It's the same thing as being addicted to a drug, and coming to peace with the fact the drug dealers will charge you unpayable prices once you are hooked and ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Why don't some men want to be masculine?IMO it's because being a nice masculine guy (provider/protector) is usually a bad investment, you will be taken advantage a few times until it traumatizes you. Then men either turn into the "toxic masculinity" types, aka badboys or just mysoginists really, or opts to not be "masculine" at all, most of people outside see it as femininity, but its usually just lack of masculinity. Thus why you see those neckbeard otaku types who just don't care about being masculine, wear their anime shirts and ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | For the men deemed "unsuccessful" that are happy.I think the main question is just how do the sexless men cope?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.You know people can change, and do so with an objective, as in changing your personality for some objective is totally normal. And while yes people are usually individuals, if you are playing a numbers game they quickly turn into a hivemind, turns out both men and women are quite standardized if you look less closely. And since PUA's are not going to marry any of their sets, they usually aren't looking close at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.I am from south america myself, how to proceed? LOL. The thing is those guys actually know how women think and know how to leverage what they have and guess much better what is going on in their heads than i and others failing do. And how and what actually turns women on, that is what isn't very clear. For men for example, 90% of men would like a fairly good looking, easygoing, available sexually girl around, and most men just agree that there would be kinks and preferences involved, this is a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.This is not the point, supposedly that person is a professional at interpersonal relationships and seduction, if he can't help then no one ever will. That is assuming he is actually trying to help. I find this process similar to finding a psychologist, sure you might have found the person online, but once you are at his clinic he is no longer just an internet personality. I wouldn't buy an online course but going to a live bootcamp and see that guy in person is very different. The problem lies t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Good luck not getting a rude response or just straigh up ignored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.I'm talking more about pickup and nightgame things, self improvement is evident but really is not a path to getting laid directly, it is good for you only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.The money is a bit irrelevant if it is easily accessible, paying 1000$ for a good course and actual decent answers are well worth the money, and it is usually 200/300 bucks. If it wasn't fake i would 100% pay for it and not complain. What i am talking about are more like physical, IRL, one on one coaches, someone on the interney can't really do much for you indeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Yeah this is good yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.By doctor K you mean Healthy Gamer? Yeah the guy is really really good at this. I just need a good wingman honestly, not only for teaching but also to support me on the downtime between rejections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.This is the deal i find, the friends who are good at this are totally unwilling to share or teach, because you might become competition in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Do you really think most men can get away with bill splitting like that?? Most offers to split bills are a shit test in of itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.The classes aren't the problem, what would have value are the bootcamps, live practices, etc. What i personally would want is just someone to go out with me and point out what the fuck i am doing wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Then how the hell the so called players work, not all of them are supermodel levels of hot, so what takes?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Bluepilled advices always, it's either shaming or just cluelessness. Most of my friends are hetero girls they have no clue how to attract other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Most guys struggling don't want to date, i myself am only targetting casual for now, and i really don't think i am either too ugly, broke, or too boring that i turn girls off, in fact i can't improve because idk what the problem is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.The point is if you never figure out what actually works, you get eventually stuck. This is why most men come to TRP, after a year of going out clubbing, to bars, returning to alcoholic habits, back to college, all the best ideas one could have i got nothing going for me still, so everything i tried so far either got me no results or it's too dangerous to keep trying. At some point i wonder if i am missing something important, as in eventually your head hurts from banging it too much against the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.It's not that what i am complaining about, it's the fact that teachers of such tactics are basically forbidden knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Is there any alternative? No that is the whole point. And admitting defeat on such an essencial task is basically a suicide trigger, so most are incapable of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.It's not about the knowledge it is more about the live, personalized, time, so they will just look at your problem from a more experienced POV and easily point your flaws and blind spots. Stuff that would take months to learn you could just get taught at face value. It's something anyone could do for you honestly, but do you really have an equally redpilled friend to help you see your mistakes IRL? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.That is not my experience at all, ugly girls are absolutely the hardest to game for the least reward. They absolutely won't accept that they are ugly and make you jump through even more hoops to make sure you aren't looking for "low hanging fruit". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Sure but being confident from sucess is miles better than being confident because you are so broken from countless rejections that it doesn't affect you anymore. Also my confidence approaching doesn't help me very much when i really just can't stand any extra talk with said girl, i lost all the pacience for small talk already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.If i didn't i would just enthusiastically follow the same tactics those other men follow. It's not a case of not seeing them as people for those guys, it's more a case of not caring at all. Also you really love Ad Hominem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Honestly for women if you are slim, not completely hideous, and willing to fuck you won't ever be alone. I don't really know any truly lonely women at all, sure they might be alone most of the time, but without a supportive net structure it is very rare. If men don't provide value or have a good family they are often not only alone but literally lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.I usually make those on the fly really, i just go very light on the first approach so i have a group to fallback to when i fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.They know pretty clearly that if they slip up or make any kind of funny jokes on topic or tease me i will bite, as in they are aware that if they want i am DTF, i just am cool with it because there are a lot of girls in that zone so i am used to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:27 AM |
| 0 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.They don't show nearly the same results, gymcelling is a thing because just hulking up and getting money will not make you more attractive, not by much at least, in fact it puts a huge target in your back for golddiggers and the like to rob you. Dont forget the hulked up now rich guy has zero experience with women, this is why religious men are such easy prey for gold diggers because usually they don't have experience and never seen the "bad side" of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.The problem is not the price, the problem is that the content available for dating is totally fake and doesn't work, this is why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.If i trusted the content 200 dollars is nothing compared to this knowledge, like it is actually very cheap, in fact if i knew the content was trustworthy, i would drop 1000 or 1200 dollars easily on this kind of knowledge. Like if payed about a months salary for knowledge that would bring a lifetime of improved results with women that is just very cheap. The money is not the problem, the content being fake is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Maybe if you can't get male attention so easily, but you REALLY like it for some reason, you might be willing to do a bit more for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.That is basically just fairytales since you are just saying keep trying. Honestly most of my confidence came when i was actually bored i couldn't care less about an individual women, so i pull some very ballsy moves a lot, they often work but having an actual plan and not being "yet again entertaining random bimbo in exchange for nothing" is much better. And well chad types have usually a much lesser rejection rates because they either get approached by the women, or just don't get rejected a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.I think its because they can't recycle customers if they actually help, so they don't so the guys keep paying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:27 AM |
| 0 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Well a nutricionist will provide you with a proper diet, a personal training with proper exercise, worst case a good friend can rub some makeup to balance your face more. What do the socially inept men have to help them?, besides PUA's and said coaches who are usually scammers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:25 AM |
| 3 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.When i say homely i mean they prefer to stay at home and play drinking games rather than meet other people in a public enviroment Most would call it just introversion, and those girls are all already friendzoning me, which i don't mind since they are good friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Unless you treat women badly and devalue them yourself, thus why is TRP is framed as mysoginistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Honestly since i have a few wins, this is the case, its just the "why's" that remain a mistery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:42 AM |
| 7 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Not always, sometimes girls can barely walk, or just got rejected by a hot guy and some men come to salt their wounds while offering "soothing". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.If they never learn they keep trying to learn and you keep selling useless classes to them. It is like selling air bottles, you are making people pay for something worth nothing, AKA useless classes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Most of the girls are homely and don't like going out, and that is about 10 girls from 3 groups already. And yes i know this helps but my friends specifically are just more introverted than me, so thats it. Which after so many tries of invites, options of going out, and different venues, i just invite them over for BBQ when they are up for it. When i go out i usually go out alone, by the time they are up for clubbing i will be dead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Well honestly that would be the difference between a scammer personal trainer and a good one, the good one will put you through pain and suffering but also motivate you to strive on. And with coaches i think that most are just scammers, however the honest work would be welcomed, people are receptive of hard work if it pays off. Sure most hate it and go away, but by that point it is already paid for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:23 AM |
| 7 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Makeout is a small victory at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.I forgot to /s it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.The point is not about improving chances, but creating them. As in how to behave, say, trigger, and influence people, more specifically women, into doing what you want, as in seducing them, there is a way this works but not actually teaching this seems more profitable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.When you pay for math classes you usually get teached math. However when you pay for a socialization/seduction class, rarely you get teached that for real. It would not be a problem if the content worked, but you usually are getting into a stoner's trap. They first provide you with a strong dose then when you are addicted they provide smaller doses for higher prices procedurally. If they actually thaught it honestly it would be fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.From my experience that seems true, honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Those books offer some very generic advice honestly, most people are unaware of what they are doing wrong and require someone else to observe them to point that out. At this point its what therapists usually do, they point out your blind spots, and getting unstuck from patterns is basically impossible by yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.This is not about economical dependance. Its about women wanting male attention having to provide that attention back somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Honestly most of these "tricks" are identifying girls having a bad time or too drunk and capitalizing on that, and well, that is not very good at all IMO. But anyway, by your statement it boils down to rule 1 and 2. And being attractive to women is not an exact science it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.TRP works passively, as in you improve yourself, and then acting upon the opportunity it creates. It however does little on how to actively create those opportunities, most successful guys i know have no clue of any TRP concepts, they just do what works for them somehow and don't question why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.I think that it is mostly women being oblivious to what they want, not the men they are fucking, successful men often are aware of what makes them successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.That is not true at all, from being a frequen club goer i see men pull a lot of different "tricks" all the time, some are useful but they really are never open to disclose their tactics. So its either con men or bang your head against the wall until either the wall breaks or your head does, as in if you don't get it, no one will tell you and you are stuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 11:04 PM |
| 4 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Making platonic female friends at least IME is good, but not for getting laid, really. I like my friends but honestly they are an active hindrance to getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Because the price of a relationship gets inflated by these options which allow women to provide less and earn more from male attention. As in its not about preventing the man from buying, but the woman from selling, it's the same analogy for drug dealing. It is easier to stop the supply than the demand for something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:51 PM |
| 5 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Well that is literally what i pointed out, this is to men basically like absurd food prices, you don't have much choice you either pay or starve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.As in self improvement works and not being innocent. TRP is more useful to not get crippled, cheated, or abused as a guy dating women. After you get in shape, out of your basement, and not broke/unemployed TRP has done its job, if you are still struggling it is bad LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Why Are You On PPD?Honestly, these topics are very pressing to me right now as i am trying to be successfully single and don't conform to mainstream opinions at all. I've suffered a lot of backlash for expressing myself IRL, so i come here to speak honestly and truthfully anonymously, without fearing for my job/college chair/family/friends retaliation. I hate cancel culture man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:11 PM |
| 6 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.I notice the most successful ones are good at seeking vulnerable drunk women, as in she is not fully sane. If you get good at spotting the weaknesses it is easier to crack their armors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.The biggest part of what game is IME is dealing with rejection AKA not tilting. Its about you minimize how much rejections actually hurt you so you can keep approaching more, more effectively. When you talk about escalating and flirting, "building sexual tension", this is what i think is a very well kept secret, because no one in your life, like IRL will teach you this, unless you have an older brother or cousin, or you are paying alot. Most guys suck because they can't see those coaches doing i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:05 PM |
| 17 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.That is a genious idea honestly. As an avid club goer myself, it usually boils much more heavily on status than anything else, as in it tends to be snowbally, the guy who scores first, usually scores more and better women all night. So it boils down to this basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:00 PM |
| 4 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Self improvement works but it is not clear or direct. For example what "men want" for many situations is very obvious, they want a hot easygoing women willing to fuck them, if the goal is casual for example. So a gym membership, being pleasant and agreeable, and some genuine display of attraction works for 90% of women wanting to get laid. Just being hot doesn't get men laid, just being nice does neither, what actually "just works" for men is a mistery. And then the people who know this or prete… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 09:58 PM |
| 18 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Also, you can't be average or boring, being too in the middle is generic and that is bad too. Honestly giving women this much power considering how fickle they are looks like a big oversight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 09:46 PM |
| -1 | Heavy monetization on male's loneliness and "lack of success" is a big issue.Not this exactly, the point is that there is clearly a direct method that works because most hookup tales usually happen like that (or used to), but people either don't know, are unwilling to share, or put a paywall in front of it, and most of the time don't actually teach you anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Self identifying Blue pilled people....are you successful in love...and if so....MAYBE youre blue pilled BECAUSE of that, not despite thatTRP says women do fuck assholes more often so it teaches you how to be one basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Self identifying Blue pilled people....are you successful in love...and if so....MAYBE youre blue pilled BECAUSE of that, not despite thatThe point is, it's cruelly wielding power, TRP focuses on self improvement because it puts you into a position of superiority over the girl, meaning you have dominance. So if you improve yourself suddenly that girl is under pressure of being replaced, and wielding that fear is what TRP calls dread game and it works to keep women in check. I've done it myself in the past, it works but it sucks, you have to actually not care about the girl to be able to pull this off and that is hard. But if what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Self identifying Blue pilled people....are you successful in love...and if so....MAYBE youre blue pilled BECAUSE of that, not despite thatMen really have little options or alternatives as any kind of real, honest advice for men is heavily banned by mainstream. Like no one will just tell men to not value the girl too much and have abundance mentality for example. That works, but it will hurts women's feelings, so no one ever teach this to men, outside of TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Self identifying Blue pilled people....are you successful in love...and if so....MAYBE youre blue pilled BECAUSE of that, not despite thatThere are a lot of blackpillers here too, they are just very undercover because it isn't allowed on the sub. The guys complaining here are likely blackpill too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Self identifying Blue pilled people....are you successful in love...and if so....MAYBE youre blue pilled BECAUSE of that, not despite thatWoman to Woman relationships are completely different from Man to Woman relationships. What i'm saying is that the mere fact you are a woman will change your experience drastically among your own basically. So yeah it won't make any sense to you because what TRP describes doesn't apply to women's experience at all. Unless you are lesbian, even still this is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenHonestly the real repercussion is that you end feeling bad by yourself, the only ones who can be this cruel IMO deep down hates themselves too, as in they need to hate himself so much to do something like rape, that the empathy "I wouldn't do this to myself" isn't there anymore. And not only russia, every pre modern army has weaponized rape in some shape or form, some still do. Look at boko haram for example, they frequently rape little girls as in to damage their genitals so they can't breed, o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Casual sex or short flings are more likely to be fulfilling for guys than relationship sexThat is what happened in my only LTR, i was suspicious af so i treated her like a FWB for 6 months. So i kind of reccomend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 10:47 AM |
| 3 | Casual sex or short flings are more likely to be fulfilling for guys than relationship sexYour reply doesnt even make sense, my point is men like hookups more on average. But we see more relationships because it is what men have access to, not by primary choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenDuring warfare rape is widespread, men on battleships frequently are reported going gay because they are too horny, all navies actually worry about this. It is not about entitlement at all, its about doing whatever i can to get laid, it is not really about right or wrong either. I have a boner and i will do whatever to get rid of it, or do you really think that what drives those redpillers to everyday gym, grind and study like a fucking machine to get rich, waste all their money on expensive fas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Casual sex or short flings are more likely to be fulfilling for guys than relationship sexWhat i am trying to say is that its not about the quality of the sex. My point is that a man must feel very good about being freely chosen for sex, what happens in the bedroom is just a big bonus. Relationship sex feels much closer to duty sex than a mere hookup, hard to have ulterior motives to basically agree to be pumped and dumped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWhat i mean by hoes is just regular women TBH. And well i kind of agree with you that playing into their hypergamy and using it as bait (in your case you are flashing money, some people forge a great image socially, others just gym up), is a very effective strategy. As in you don't need to spend money on them, you just need to show you could, similarly on how you could make her famous by association if you have a reptutation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think when men are fucking they are too focused in just shoving dick in, that they really couldn't care less about if a woman is going at it out of pity or not. Besides, even corpses get hard, as in men really have not much control of being horny and wanting sex all the time. On some personal anecdote it got worse when i lost my virginity, because now i knew what i had to do for the pain of horniness to stop tormenting me, as such my life changed a lot because the focus completely changed from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 01:48 AM |
| 12 | Casual sex or short flings are more likely to be fulfilling for guys than relationship sexThis might be true, but FOR MEN, the relationship sex is usually worse, because he had to prove or provide something, while a casual hookup happens because she simply wants to fuck you, no bargaining. So in the male perspective getting sex for free is a much bigger affirmation of his worth than relationship sex. This however IMO has nothing to do with quality of the sex, only the messaging to his psyche behind it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThink about it from this POV, most voters are women, even so a good amount of men are convinced to vote pro women. So any good politician should always cater to women to win the elections, as such, this will hardly ever pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 12:24 AM |
| 3 | If you aren’t successful in dating, then you’re simply not attractiveStop caring, nothing matters, do whatever you need to do in the name of humour, laugh at cheating women, laugh at single mom, cat ladies, laugh of incels, laugh of landwhales. Honkpill is realizing everything is pathetic and futile to the point of being comical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenLike this would never be a real factor in any city with more than like 5k people here. It is a problem but like it is too small to even be a factor. People here are agressive because they are all fucking broke, work long hours, crime is rampant, and you are very likely to never ever retire, and people are very "backstabby" here, as in no one is a real "stick till death" friend. Like your GF actually could love you but cheating with a rich guy is her only way out of a wage slavery life, and she w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI mean this is brazil, known for being a fuck fest, but not really the case, the guys not getting it here may be more pissed off than average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenIt isn't because the types of dudes i see hooking up at maximum have the looks department. I am young too, the gen Z girls really don't care THAT much about money anymore, status is only in niche situations (they like the local streamer bro, than a hyperfamous kind of man). It is getting much closee to looks only from my observation. And still i need to improve my game, and that is something i just fail to do from just going out more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenNot really, no, the only thing they have in common is rule 1 and 2 basically. And sometimes not even that, some really weird MOFO's getting simped over. One time i remember my friends gossiping about a fat nerdy guy from CS in the campus, i was like what the actual fuck. I seen so many different kind of men hooking up already that i can't really point it out. And you are being dodgy AF, can you just answer the questions asked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWell if it's just get hot i am already trying that, i am about 5kgs heavier and you can see muscles from neutral now, i am going out every weekend and just approaching more, trying to be very aware of social cues and trying to appear more interesting in conversations. So far what it got me was about 10-15 new friends from about 3 different groups. Otherwise i am actually clueless LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenJust rule 1 and 2 basically? And no i don't know, if i actually did know i would be actively trying to fix it, not looking for solutions online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenGoddamnit, first time we agree LOL, but yeah that is basically a good portion of the pool, men looking for sex, and women looking for hubby material. It is such a piece of shit, damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI actually wish i was gay or bi, unfortunately i can't do it, i have like zero attraction to men. And it's not that i don't like girls i have plenty of friends who happen to be women too, but really if i liked men i would have already racked up a body count to put dem tiktok hoes to shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenSure a google search won't lead me directly to the public sites about all the cases recently closed in justice. There is no media about men getting fucked over because no one cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI have two choices now, either start lying about commitment, or figure out what i am doing wrong to get casual. And figuring what i am doing wrong to get casual is really a hard quest since no one is willing to provide insight or help, especially people IRL since internet people don't actually know me so it is hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenBecause sex workers are not into you, and really you need to either be really dumb, or she must be a god-tier actress to make you believe she actually wants you. Not that i already don't go to sex workers, it is perfectly legal where i live the only issue is that it doesn't cut it, because the girl is obviously not into it. Reciprocal sex is very different from prostitutes, because they won't EVER ask you to do anything, besides cum fast and leave, they obviously want you gone ASAP after you pay… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenPhysical intimacy includes proximity, touch, being comfortable with each other, cuddling, hugging, and also sex too. This is all important, like babies literally die if no one touches them, adults suffer from this too although it won't kill you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI won't do research to prove you wrong, like i'm not getting payed for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenLook i am not going to look these up just to win an argument with you. But those cases usually go nowhere, because judges just see how absurd the charge is, but you already hired a lawyer and got a lot of headache. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenAs in i don't ask for what i don't offer. Getting an LTR is not success if i won't be happy within it at all and proceed to also lead a girl on from finding someone willing to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI've seen guys get charged because they put gas in a girls car, or gave her a ride to work, and were charged as financially depending on the guy. This is totally a nuts ambient to date here. Thus why the most successful people dating here live in favelas, you can't really charge a person that lives in a place where even the army struggles to get into. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThe relationship wasn't bad, i just didn't like the relationship dynamics at all, she wanted a BF and i wanted a fuck buddy. The days i wasn't horny i didn't want to keep talking on my phone with her all the damn time, i wasn't really interested in how her day went or why she was upset with her sister. Not that i didn't care about her specifically, i didn't want to be "there for her" 24/7, i actually found a job just because i needed an excuse other than "i dont want to talk with you". In fact i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI dated an very average girl for 4 years already, from 16 to 20, and i regret it deeply. I had zero attraction to her, her life and family was a hellhole, she was very complicated emotionally and from what i hear this is the case of most guys in relationships right now. After i broke up with her i am trying to stop thinking i am some kind of ugly shrek that has to provide something else to be loved, i never wanted to date in the first place thus why i personally hated all the process, didn't lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenIntimacy is a basic human need, it may come from your wife or a hookup, you still want to get sex regardless. It is just that dating nowadays especially where i live is very VERY risky, as in most of my friends who live alone put up cameras in their appartments in case of rape accusations, if you live more than a month with a girl she you are already "common law marriage", we call it stable union here, you have to be careful with date frequency and paying anything for girls because that also can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenHaving more options means you at least get to sieve through them to maybe find a good match, man can barely get enough dates, imagine how he could find a good date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThe activities i do alone aren't very date friendly as in. Whenever i am at home i play games or go out clubbing because i like the chaos and music, but im not a dancer i just like to vibe there. When i am countryside i usually go grab some steel from a car graveyard near my grandfathers farm, and try to make some knives or horseshoes, it is just a fun, physically intensive task, working like clockwork doing my forging is fun AF. Otherwise i just play games at home or call friends over to play p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenYes i assume all women have mileage because they likely have, as in by the time they are 25 of at least 6-7, if they dated it could be less, but that i can't possibly know. And well if men could get such a high mileage they wouldn't complain at all honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI mean most of the times even if the man is lying about what he wants, usually the date itself is fun for women, as in he still payed for your food, picked you up or called an uber for you, acted nice during the date, and overall put in an effort to make you cushy. And men had all the burden to make it happen. The final outcome is shitty for both sides, but the process of getting there is much worse for men". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWell honestly i don't think the date could be fun if you wouldn't go do X thing alone anyway. Like i don't go to movies alone, neither karts or grabbing drinks. If i go out alone i make my main objective stopping being alone ASAP. And if i am having to constantly try to calibrate my game to keep the date interested it becomes a tiresome process, it is only fun when you get an actually interested girl who is also trying as much as you to make it work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThis is on point, but the common stories is that when you enter a commited relationship with a girl the bed dries up, and many men report the women downgrading the "acts" overtime. If all hoes kept being personal hoes inside relationships, then this wouldn't be a topic at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI mean out of that hundred men by mere statistics about only 2% have the jobs you just described. And besides many men get laid without doing that. The biggest hurdles men have is that if you need to be X successful to be sexually attractive, then what difference does this particular women has to any prostitute out there? Think about it, if i had to demonstrate being successful by being charming, spending some cash, being a gentleman as in offer a ride, a coat in the cold, or just overall caring… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWhat makes you classify such men as losers? Not saying they are or aren't but what is the reasoning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI find them easier than ugly girls, because ugly girls basically assume you are just going out with them because they are easy. And they are absolutely right, however they don't like it and put up as many hoops and obstacles as a hot girl would. Thus for this reason i might as well just go for the hot girls since the ugly ones are equally as hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | All markets change, even the SMPI think men's libido at 20 is 3-4 times a day, dropping regularly to once a day/every other day, at around 40-50, a doctor is required to answer really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenAgain, sex and feeling intimate is a basic human need. And no prostitutes don't really do the trick unless she is really good at pretending to really love you, and that says more about the man than the girl. So most men failing at meeting the requirement for being loved and fuckable is just all round fucked up. I don't know if much can be done honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThe problem lies in her refusing to do the same she did with others with you, she is putting you on a different category than previous men. From the other reply the guy was a manwhore too and he pointed out they are still kinky and do weird things together, so zero problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenDangerous and scary are different from being positive EXP. Most dudes experience maybe 1 or 2 good dates a year if they a luck and on the hunt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenNot saying women have it great, but men have it worse that is my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenAnd getting a woman interested in being reciprocal is hard, and men gone on so many boring dates that go nowhere, that they really are tired of repetition and just want to fuck for once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think that what you are looking for is totally what 90% of men aren't. This is what cause problems in the dating scene nowadays. Men want to be treated equally to the chad who fucks girls in the back alley, without much investment. And women want to be treated as girlfriend material and simped for just like the gigastacys are. And the numbers just don't add up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenAs in, go fuck myself for the benefit of random hoes? Come on man, i rather let them starve LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenHonestly this is all true, especially being shitty for everyone. But i believe the cycle always start with a guy suffering and becoming a shitty date, rather than women having a bad EXP. Men 90% of the time want sex, like REALLY want sex, and since being honest about it gets you both ridiculed and called names, on top of failing the objective, this makes men adapt their strategies and by far the most effective one is lying about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWhat i tried to say is that your previous comment reeks of simping and white knighting behaviour. Don't entertain women for free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenBecause these men got to the point where they will have to do something they hate all the time, they don't love their finance job, they hate gym, and at this point likely are mysoginists, but they still are heterosexual men so they just accept that the path is shit, and that their kental health is fucked anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWhich is precisely the case, the only people who prefer to date their own color are black women, other PoC basically all prefer white people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenSo at this point what is the difference of a girlfriend and a hooker besides payment method. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenYes i assume all women have mileage because they likely have, as in by the time they are 25 of at least 6-7, if they dated it could be less, but that i can't possibly know. And well if men could get such a high mileage they wouldn't complain at all honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWhat percentage or dates are horror stories and what percentage are normal dates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenGood luck keeping those FWB around, also you could do both at the same time, you could for example lie in OLD to trick the algorithmyn to give you good matches IRL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenNot true at all, most girls usually jump around the same dicks, even if lots of chicks got this sex, it came from select group of guys because dating is a win more game, guys good at it just rack insane numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThat is precisely why men usually lie and just play around with girls, no girl will ever agree to go with FWB or hookup with an average dude, but she doesn't need to know it is a hookup, basically. Eventually men get tired of playing the game properly and just do whatever works, regardless of morality. Sure you can talk shit but their move is only logical. If women looking for hookups with average men were common i think 90% of the struggling guys would fix themselves by osmosis LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThat is if you actually manage to date that young, as a 21yo guy i have zero LMS, i rely purely on bad game and luck to get a few dates every other month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenLying is just more effective, no point in being honest if you get a grand total of zero matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWhy should i give her what she wants if she is not willing to give me what i want back, and that is just fun casual low commitment relationship, AKA fuck buddy, if i have to give her girlfriend treatment for someone i don't want to be boyfriend to. Like it is really a big time investment reserving 3 weeks of weekend dates to get to know someone and see if she likes you back, if you were in fairly large club you can easily just rack about 20 to 30 approaches, you can go out everyday and just appr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenIf i don't know your age it is complicated to make an opinion, if you are 35+ the game shifts because those men have access to much younger women, if they are looking for a family older women are basically useless, if he is in for fun, he has access to younger, hotter, more easily moldable, and less baggage burdened women. It's not easy for the old guys since if you are broke and ugly you are doomed, but men always have the option to sugar or pseudo-sugar, and they opt for that over dating older… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI am on them because it is free, i take only IRL game seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:50 AM |
| 0 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenJust do online dating in this case, you can keep much of the talking in text and ghost whenever you want from the confort of your own house, and only meet up when you feel confident about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenJust do online dating in this case, you can keep much of the talking in text and ghost whenever you want from the confort of your own house, and only meet up when you feel confident about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWell good luck finding those women, besides my best pulls were girls who said they were looking for something more serious, after a few weeks that i treat them a bit distant or i just ghost. Still i have my preferences too, and with you pointing out this is hard to get, men will try everything to get what they want, thus why the chads are the ones doing much of the pumping and dumping and ghosting, because they too have to be deceitful about it, and the guys who never get action regularly will b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenSummon the architect, lets build this matrix thing once and for all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThe vast majority of common women who just aren't way too obese and are pleasant, have a decent experience dating i guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenPUAs are pickup artists, they have over time adapted NLP and a plethora of psychology tricks to make themselves as attractive as possible and how to behave and present yourself so you have the strongest possible display to either manage to kiss or fuck that girl. It is mostly just an act but some seasoned PUAs are just so deep into their game that it already meshed with their personality for real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think 90% of dates men go end up as the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWell because i honestly like to deal with same coins, as in you aren't getting to any fancy place if you don't split the bill, i don't waste half my salary in calorie powder for nothing, i just want the sex and i offer exactly that in exchange, i only do the dating process to get to know her better (not trans, at least pleasant, not a catfish, what her logistics are) so i decide if i proceed trying to makeout/fuck with her. I am not so cheap to deny women just coffee at starbucks but not taking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenGod this is a minor rant, but i unmatched with about 8 trans people in a row across multiple dating apps. When you dont get matches in a long time, they will show your card up to the ELO matched profiles browsing, which are usually bottom of the barrel, which guess what are the trans girls, so they eat up all my free matches, some don't disclose they are trans until you actually spent a lot of time on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:11 AM |
| 0 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenRape threats is extreme to cite because that is statistically not common, but yeah creeps and awkwardness are symptoms of men being inexperienced, remember we exorcised the image of PUAs a long time ago, so they will unfortunately have to learn on their own, and you are serving as practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenAre you older? Minority women suffer due to virtue of being minorities, not because they are women. And the very term undermines itself, because most women are attractive enough to date, at least her looksmatched average man, all those that you described are minorities. Just as incels and turbochads are minorities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI actually noticed i got better results daygaming wearing my old ring, i did it for LULZ but it just worked, but i can't really use it anymore, too much old energy from something burried years into the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThe thing is most men aren't interested in getting involved that deeply, they just want a dudette who is basically his bar bro but female. When you are actually interested in specifically long term relationships this is all solid advice, but your discourse would totally fall apart if you find out a woman has high N-count, even the kind of relationship matters. If we were sure 99% of women would veto every man like that then i would be all for it honestly. However most women didn't wait that long… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenAnd actually some put that in their bios and it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWell at least you managed to have a good experience out of it, most men i ask about this are miserable on the topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWell i don't disagree with you. The legendary phrase rings in my head "the self esteem booster for women, and self esteem destroyer for men" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:46 AM |
| -1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenDouble dates are a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:41 AM |
| 5 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenHonestly a solid option indeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThis is solid humour, open your mouth, i will shove my upvote in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI don't believe priest were such renowed dentists and ginecologists that they manage to clean years of CC mileage using exorcizing soap. I just hope those priests don't manually brush the girls with their holy "toothbrush" Bro so many cheating scandals in churches, it becomes a comedy show after a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThus why it feels exactly like a job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenYou realize that having an LTR is much harder than all of this, if you take it seriously of course. This is one reason i think many men cheat much more often, because it is easier to get into an LTR while you keep cold approaching and just cheat on her, which puts you into a really strong frame. If you have a girl at home and is hitting on a girl their ego will skyrocket, she will really feel valuable to the point where the "you are so good i am willing to cheat on my GF with you" is a really st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenSure but checking out if a guy is nuts is reasonable, but the problem is like everything else. It is one advantage men have against a million hurdles. Even still, even those who are nuts have a hard time landing dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:10 AM |
| 0 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenHonestly having the option to play both passively and agressively is better than being forced into proactivity. This is the core issue here. Edit: Ad Hominem attempt N°486 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Dating within your social circle is inefficientYou can always go further that rabbit hole. My friends joke that when you are desperate you must take a trip to the valley of the whales LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThe thing is most of these things women require are incredibly complex, like you need to try and make some very specific happen that you are a reliable trustworthy person, or to show you have good emotional intelligence, or that you are a financial anchor to someone, or that you are well respected in your field. Like these things are incredibly complex, and all most men really want is someone to have sex with, cuddle after, kiss good night and eat breakfast together, and then watch a movie toget… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI mean 3-4 times the average man manages to get laid outside of a relationship, so the average single men has sex 3-4 times a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenNo that is not correct, we release oxytocin by being affectionate and touching human skin, and dopamine from the sexual act and from achieving seduction, so merely dating and failing at it rewards you nothing at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think the worst part of being ND in here is that people's friendliness shouldn't be taken seriously, both men and women here are vicious wolves, when men stop you are ND they WILL try to abuse you, like a shark smelling blood in the water, you become a walking magnet for thirsty men looking for an easy lay. And i honestly am quite good at reading body language, being actually the quiet viber at parties you can observe a lot of behaviour. And unfortunately my strongest point with game is just t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenBecause our coin is really shit, we export so much of what we produce locally that we end up paying import fees in local products, anything actually imported is An RTX 3090 costs 1500$ which is basically 1.3 minimum american wages. In brazil it costs 13000R$ which is almost 11 minimum brazilian wages. You earn more money washing plates at disneyland than working as an engineer in brazil, it is just nuts LOL. People rather stay unemployed and receive the unemployment insurance or try to fit into … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI mean this is CMV, but yeah that is exactly my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenIt is because the bodybuilding type of training leads to a body shape that is more widely acceptable as attractive, men like usain bolt are insanely fit, but the body he has is not usually considered hotter than someone like zyzz. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThe thing is sometimes all men want from a date is hot pussy, but you can't just straight up ask for it with any reasonable chance of succeeding at it. So if you want that most guys play the deceit game because just straight up asking if a girl wants to grab some drinks in the motel with you is kind of just dumb. Women don't mention it but they too sometimes only hookup because their eggs are boiling, but no one shames women for fucking the brickhead jock, at least not IRL, if a man even mention… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenKind of on point honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI am not talking about safety here, women are obviously in possible danger with a stranger man, but as long as you keep your guard up it won't be a factor in 99.99% of your dates, with a bit of luck 100% of your dates will be safe, making that argument valid, but statistically irrisory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenYou know that prostitute sex is really not the same thing at all, it is not bad per se, it is much more akin to getting a massage or quiropraxist, rather than a hookup. Because primarily the reality is that you know whatever you do to try to "please her" she will always fake loving it, you rarely will even come close to satisfying a working girl, they grow numb and accostumed to sex so much that nothing will ever truly help in this regard. Also she is not interested at all in being pleasured, sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:58 PM |
| -6 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI mean i really don't think date rapes are that common for women to experience, not that this isn't serious, but for your average date there is no rape involved. And well i don't see men particularly slacking off and being so unput in dates as you describe, mind you i am not american, but really most guys just look a bit janky because male common fashion is kind of unremarking, most of male fashion rely on your body complimenting the clothes, women have many more tools to look hotter for men tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think the national average for US men is 3-4 times yearly. And that is a sad, sad statistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenHonestly i usually never see this, the most common move that i see is women joining churches to try to dump their mileage, and they pair up with men who are inside the church already which really have a different class of N-count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenYou seem to be the exception then, often this is not the case, especially if you are looking at a looksmatch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:29 PM |
| -1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI mean, at least SK elected an anti-fem president, with significant advantage, with voting coming overwhelmingly from the young korean men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think for a man to bring value to a woman's life is very hard, like actual value that is worth something. Girls have their own money, can get sex and attention with just a few clicks, are mostly safe in their own homes and in the streets of first world countries, and can just hire plumber/mechanic/electrician, or just ask for favour about it. For a guy to add value to anyone's life in fact he has to be exceptional at one or more things, including looks, finances, and his notoriety and status, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenIf you can't bang you can't date, at least coming from the male POV. I know some stories about guys actively trying to avoid women they hooked up with in public, because although he find her hot and all she might not be conventionally as in universally attractive, so he tries to not be seen with her in public thus he won't date her. I don't go to these subs because i have enough stimulation from just trying to buy tickets on instagram, so i basically never went there. Not being social arm candy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThe main point is that for women it is net positive from neutral, and net negative for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThis is just backwards logic, having choice is a lie, the only reason women don't have it or pretend they don't it's because they are just too proud themselves to do an approach, have in mind they have much better time cold approaching since rejection rates are much lower for women. I actually find that one of the best feelings i have is helping female friends who struggle with dating, you just teach them a little bit of proactivity, and they get SO MUCH results that they think i am some kind of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI do like fitness myself, but some people just aren't fond of it for a myriad of reasons, including being sedentary, just lazy, not being fond of the culture, and among others. Citing the inumerous benefits of being fit won't make people like fitness even if makes them practice it, they will do it as a chore, because of the benefits even though they hate the "path". Honestly i sometimes thank myself for being fucking bitter and resentful of this whole situation, when go to the gym or have someth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 10:59 PM |
| 6 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenShit wrong word, not transparent, its attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThe US is a hellhole with obesity, i live in brazil, you actually need to search for fat people, it is much less of a problem. The point is some people actually don't like to squeeze that hard, and it is an increasing majority and that is bound to cause problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenOh i love the hunt because the meat tastes good, i won't be fighting tigers for fun, and i am totally not sharing tiger meat with a woman not providing anything of substance, especially if she got railed by my friend who couldn't kill a mosquito, then if she treats me differently i would rather offer the tiger some woman meat. Sure the grind is good because it is rewarding, in fact it is a rage inducing test of pacience, and well if i get to the finish line and get offered leftovers that anger h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenMakes sense, regular you would guess monthly, weekly, average single bro gets about 3 dates yearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenOh sure but my experience tells me they aren't doing CC riding, at least not extreme. But maybe they aren't hooking up with me but have other guys on rotation that i won't likely ever be aware of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 09:04 PM |
| 7 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenMost men could live perfectly fine with about 3.5 dollars in somewhere not too expensive, if it wasn't unattractive most guys would basically live on gaming, alcohol, cool car, and pussy. The rest is almost always a reflection of him trying to become more transparent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 09:02 PM |
| 6 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI mean as a chadlite i believe you didn't get to be put through many hoops to get what you want, so your EXP is a bit different from the average dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThat is if you actually enjoy the grind, some really don't, i myself am almost hippie like very minimalist and chill, i don't like fixing problems because that means there are problems and i hate problems. Not denying your reply but it is more relative. The point remains that you will have to to it regardless of any enjoyment you derive from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWhat do you mean by succeeding, what metrics you use?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think they hate it because it is obviously a sausage fest, it takes a single good looking weirdo to send dick pics to hundreds of women and ruin their XP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:42 PM |
| 7 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenIt is not a question of enjoyment here, if you don't treat this like war you won't even get to play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think most women that frequent places where you have green light to flirt further tend to be a bit on the basic side, most cool girls i met are my fellow engineering students, they are just built different LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenDo you think what you changed was more behavioural or objective, like getting in shape for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think women of substance aren't after the kind of relationship i'm after, whenever i flirt with more interesting women they literally ask if im proposing to date them, some explanation after and i get rejected. I think most girls of substance actually are aware that carrousel is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI bet most actually aren't although they are trying, i've met far more struggling men than successful men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:34 PM |
| -2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenCan't say if he is a lucky bastard or a madman for going for a girl like her, is he aware of her history? Imagine the tales for the kids: "So peter daddy and mommy history started by her flashing her boobs to me in the middle of the avenue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThe thing is are you alone only romantically, because what usually happens is men chase relationships due to loneliness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenIdk who the user posters are (M or F) but that must be taken into account. And honestly if you end up in pretty girls you are a stacy basically, so it makes it a bit more skewed, but most men would totally bang someone without supermodel looks, they however are much less likely to simp publicly or do free marketing for her, just doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for women"There are crazy people for everything" Someone Based and Redpilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think people are not willing to work harder than their neighbours for the same product, as in since people know have access to a lot of information about each others life, you can realistically see how unequal you are and how people are valued differently. And the boys are just not tolerating women breaking rules for the alpha and making them up for them, so they refuse to put in the work. Where i live the redpillers are mostly hookerpillers, after they work so hard to be desired and see how w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenIt is good when you get lucky because it happens naturally. What you are telling me is how to improve the odds to maximize your chance of getting lucky, what most men opt to however is to realize they have a hard cap on how hot/attractive one is, thus a limit to their chances at passive attraction. And opt instead to take the whole process by its reins and focus on how to actively trigger attraction. It might be shitty and hard but really it is more effective, it just sucks LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI meant that a black women has to be really really pretty to attract me, since it is not my usual preference. My only standard is "if i actually succeeded at seducing her, will i actually enjoy making out with her?" If the answer to this question is yes then i just plow forward, i don't have too many criteria really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:04 PM |
| 8 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think most guys can't afford to be introverted passive and reactive with dating. If you don't shoot first the other hunter takes the kill. Men are competing all the time so you can't afford to be comfy about dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think this has a lot to do with me being very young (21) and most girls in college and at clubs and raves tend to follow the pattern because of the ambient, if i go to a library or anime convention it would be easier to find girls into drawing for example, if you went to a classical music concert you would find a lot of women into poetry for example. But at least IMO ambients are very determinant, and since you don't go to libraries to hit on girls, the girls that want to be hit on are at club… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:00 PM |
| 4 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenAnd well it is good that the info is out there, what i see is that although i rarely did this, i get a friend who is struggling into redpill spaces it helped them tremendously, and it helped me too. Especially for me what it helped is understanding that doing something about your situation to get what you want is possible and you can probably do it, succeed is different but it is possible. I always thought that i could never be said ladies man because i was a nerd so i played the LTR game becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenSince it doesn't completely disagree with me i will let it be. And hot damn i envy this girl, being able to just go, "I have a spinning table with a hole come sit on it" and women just being summoned from the aether to do exactly that, this is nuts LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThat is not the point, its the fact that this very shitty experience is gatekeeping one of the most basic human needs that is reproduction, intimacy, and sex, also avoiding loneliness. So if not do; big psychological instability activates. Very few people can be truly happy without a font of these 3 or at least one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think that in objective terms women have a better deal, if the deal fits you however its relative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:38 PM |
| 9 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenHonestly if you are black you will struggle with literally everything more than whites basically. Don't take it for offense, but being PoC is basically a curse, racism is widespread, and even without racism people have biases that are pro white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenNot only myself, this is obvious. If most girls you meet are usually boring and uninteresting they might has well be hot. Now try to convince men to unionize to reduce female entitlement, good luck. Simps are the worst enemy of them all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenFittest is not always best by darwinian terms, a bunch of average men who are happy and able are better than a single turbochad, every single nation previously that was a matriarchy/ginocentric was conquered, usually by force, by hordes of average unremarking men drilled into capable forces, using cutting, piercing, and gunpowder devices. I don't like pointing that out but if you take the modern military model used in western armies of well drilled professional turbo soldiers filled to the brim … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI honestly can't talk about subjective experiences because that is relative, the objective facts still remain and it sucks for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenFrom that POV yes, i agree with you The difference is that the person putting in the majority of the effort even im these cases are the men, they are the proactors here. Thus even if it can truly be shitty too, your only real effort is tanking the terrible sex, which is horrible by itself, after i went to a decent, higher end escort i found most of the sex i had before was awful too, so there is that too. Not denying it is bad for women too, it just seem more consuming and unrewarding/ungrateful… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | All markets change, even the SMPWell the good men are getting beaten democratically in a few parts of the world, if you think about this, it is good for everyone, for example. Imagine the anti-fems gain majority in SK, it would mean it becomes a beacon to all the men who are "evil" to go and leave you feminists in peace, this way everyone wins. People in SK embrace the anti-fem values, children will eventually be raised like that and BAM you have an actually decent place that isn't a hellhole to live on that is good for you, m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Dating within your social circle is inefficientThus my point stands, it is terrible. If you had met him in a different circunstance it could have been a lot different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenNo dudes keep their knowledge secret and their ideas well hidden because helping other dudes is counterproductive, and being linked to TRP is bad for your image. If you actually drill a man picked from the street randomnly, and ask him about the subject he will very likely spit some redpill, especially if they are younger than 30. Really i noticed the PUA tactics are used by people who never even heard about it, usually self learned or taught by an older male parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenNot embrace just accept it is what it is and just go hunt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWell that is really good bro/sis, keep up the good shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:03 PM |
| 11 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenStill applies the same idea, i find this part of the dating process which inherently sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think those aren't actually trying to date her, in fact these are the ones trying to skip the whole process, which would be enjoyable if a guy didn't went from hi to dick pic, it would be clearly more pleasant with an actual date included. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:01 PM |
| 9 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThe point is this is competition, men will put in the work regardless else they will just fail, there is no other option so even if you hate it it's not excuse to not do what it takes. Now that does not make the work itself better, the work sucks, and the rewards make it worth it, be it a degree or hot women, if you put in the work and no rewards come through it will not only feel like a big scam, but also because you will have done something you hate for free basically. The post is not about no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenAs in if going to the gym isn't a lot of work on a strict diet for at least a year to see results. The point is i can confidently point out that you likely are biased because even if it takes a lot of work to make dating work for men you succeed at it so you think it is fun, because you are tying the proccess to the result but it doesn't mean that if you could skip a good part of it you would deny the offer. Same with women, they get to pick and choose whoever will take her out each week if she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:52 PM |
| -2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenIt is not exactly true, men crave variety a lot more than women do by nature. See how men talk about hair color, they are not saying blondes are pretty and brunette is ugly, they just have a preference, this is also why porn makes heavy use of this, they make sure if there are 2 girls in a scene they have some different features about them, because men crave the variety, "today with blonde, tomorrow brunette, after her comes the redhead". Women's interest in appearance is much more strict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:45 PM |
| 7 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenHonestly this is very well written but the point still remains, the fact that you didn't try to specifically get laid or find a gf and it still worked out, is precisely why you aren't average, the average bro that goes on about his life even if he has public life isn't going to get lucky by pure magic. Thus it is not about what you are doing that sets you apart, it is the fact that it happens to you on occasion without directly spending effort into it. In fact the reasons you get it or not are i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenKind of simplist but accurate, yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | All markets change, even the SMPThe point i am making is that the more we dehumanize both men and women men suffer less consequences comparatively It would suck tor both sides but men win this trade easily. And yes women are obviously people, not that being people is anything commendable either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:28 PM |
| 5 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI mean auto correct fucked that up. What i meant is that it isn't about the value you pay it is more about the gesture. So if you are eating something expensive like caviar or cheap like ice cream, paying is a gesture expected from men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:25 PM |
| 9 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenDo you know that thess "" are used to define something that might not be accurate right, using this sub's jargon to refer to the personality of incredibly simple people who don't have any particularly complex things about them, is valid They aren't all bitches OBVIOUSLY, maybe the term fratty or frat girls could be closer to what is acceptable to say here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:24 PM |
| 6 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI have tons of friends i made this way, it however does not translate directly into romantic success, this is why i have a huge friendzone collection, because sometimes being friends with a girl is worth it, but mostly it isn't. Also TRP in official terms is not popular but the knowledge and basic teachings are known by a lot of men LIKE A LOT. I was talking with my fucking VAN DRIVER the other day and HE reccommended a TRP content creator to me, and the guy is ok looking and married with childr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenAt this point you have limited so much the pool of available people that you are making it actually harder. Finding a person who you vibe with AND wants to fuck you AND is attractive to your tastes, is just mixing in already low chances to a mind boggingly low number. The number being so low that it becomes easier to do the tricky, shit, tiring things i suggested than keep rolling this dice forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:14 PM |
| 5 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWhich is why it is inherently shitty overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:10 PM |
| 7 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenNot only dating apps, the effects they have clearly slipped into IRL dating dynamics, people know it is an option so it affects the market. Women you meet IRL might not have tinder, but they surely have an instagram with few men DMing her, this boosts their self esteem and they start causing inflation in the expectations men must uphold. I think this is much less pronounced in the people currently in their 30s, but the 20yos definitely reflect that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think that it's more about the lenghts and viciousness of astronomical proportions men have that is scary. What i notice is that most girls are not scared about you wanting to fuck her, they are scared about the lenghts you are going to so savagely to get laid. As in men will do stuff like daygaming and looksmaxxing in order to date, work on careers they hate, lie, deceive, cheat, kill, and worse in order to get laid, and a person who manages to do that with his psyche in order is a fucking mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | All markets change, even the SMPSharing is caring? I will speak this very bluntly, if you aren't trying to wife a hoe they are great, they have a lot of experience and can teach you a lot about sex and life. Think about it, being the other girl has always and still is a common role played by prostitutes, which are widely shared, so the gender ratio itself isn't an issue for this really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:01 PM |
| 7 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenAs if most men didn't want the results that come from it, women too want that, it is just that it is comparatively much less effort for women than it is for men. Since besides looking good and being pleasant a woman doesn't require much more to have tons of options, while men are the ones who actually are more fighting to become an option rather than having a lot of choices themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThus at this point if you can't do much to improve why even bother with dating? To answer my own question, be it because of sex drive, loneliness, societal pressure, wanting to start a family, etc., you are kind of forced to try to date, else it won't ever happen. Thus i believe that if you have a goal you should definitely try your best to achieve it, and it requires work which inherently sucks because it is work afterall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | All markets change, even the SMPGiving away priviledges they have, likd being completely burdened with finance for example, you wouldn't have the luxury of a partner who also works to help you out. You would also be completely responsible for legal reasons and making sure you are taking care of your wife who will rightly soak a good chunk of all your resources leaving you with less to do what you actually want. So no art degrees for Johnny, it is either working finance, management, or doctor, low paying careers are unnaccepted… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:45 PM |
| 5 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenMost girls you meet nowadays aren't even fun, and usually most guys don't have the luxury to pick and choose so they go for what is available, which he might not even like, but lack of choice pressures him into going through into shitty experiences. Thus why most men who are in the redpill space have a common goal of having more options, so you can choose better quality partners in all aspects, but even this self improvement is a lot of work, and work is work, if it was good it wouldn't be calle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | All markets change, even the SMPIt means men are usually just too horny for women, and often lonely, that the mere company and intimacy of a woman is valuable by itself, men's mere existence is insufficient for women to love him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | All markets change, even the SMPIf both men and women have little to no rights it ends up being an advantage for men, since it curbs female main dating strategy and kind of forces them to pair up. Sure it isn't ideal but in the SMP men tend to perform better in places where life is incredibly regulated, in places like islam or more conservative rural american communities, the path of both men and women are almost pre determined and men overwhelmingly benefit from it. As in the trade of male priviledges for females priviledges … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWell i am motivated by sole reason that i have no choice, hating your job is no excuse to skip work, but complaining is allowed. If i had the choice to skip the work i would, but until them i keep grinding, even if it sucks, what else will i do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:31 PM |
| 4 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThis makes no sense, i am not trying to coerce anyone, i think that bilateral, consensual sex with both partners invested is awesome, not that i don't already hire hookers, but they are there only to please you, there is no exchange, it isn't dissimilar to paying for a massage, you go in and receive a massage, there is no sharing. But the path you must take until you are comfortable to even suggest this to a woman is very complex and finnicky, especially since most will refuse it, thats ok but i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:29 PM |
| 5 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenDepends on the salary bracket, it is much easier for women to find entry level jobs because many fields for unskilled labour prefer to hire women, cashiers, waiter, receptionist, cleaning, are examples of entry level sectors where they prefer to hire women. When men get the advantage are on high demanding and earning jobs, think C-class jobs, because men have much more to prove and companies know men can become savages in their quests for glory, they prefer to hire men because they are more ambi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:24 PM |
| 5 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenMost men however go through a lot to achieve sad success and the path there feels like work, and no one likes work, even if it is worth it it is still work. Most successful guys i know are quite muscular with healthy fashion that they are constantly calibrating, and i see a lot of them successfully doing things like push pull, and adapting their behaviour heavily around women they are interested, not counting here finances and status which the ones most chaddy of the people i know are frankly ob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWell i'm getting the kind of opposite experience as in, most girls fit the stereotype "basic bitch". They usually do nothing interesting, have zero hobbies, and their lives revolve around social media and gossip. As a person who is very open and likes doing lots of different things and make my life interesting, the fact no women is trying to come close to the content my life has is just sad overall, friends report the same too. Men however still go through with those uninteresting girls merely b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | All markets change, even the SMPBoth actually, i believe that for men, a dating market where no one has much choice is usually a better deal for menkind as a group, simply because it curbs hypergamy hard and allows many more men a chance at having women in his life, as in he might not want or like marriage, but the alternative is nothing in a free enviroment where he won't get laid neither be able to date. So from the male perspective i think that even accepting some things that also hinder our freedom in exchange of also hind… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenConsidering 90% of the girls i approach are just hot people empty of anything interesting besides that, i am screwed to actually try and find a compatible girl, ESPECIALLY since i am not looking for commitment, in my path to find Ms. Perfect i remain sexless and lonely, it is a bad strategy to get what you are after. And if women are the only source of sex and relationships for straight men, then you kind of have to deal with them in your quest after relationships. Really finding a person you tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 04:54 PM |
| 5 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenWell the post was just pointing that out, so you aren't disagreeing with me. Also i don't know your personal life but before a man goes nuts or does stupid shit he usually was nice beforehand. Most guys never get to the point where he can actually just truly relax and do whatever, the girl is hardly an ally in trying to bed/wed her, in fact she is the obstacle you are trying to overcome, in the form of shittesting, opinion, attractiveness, etc. It is more of a point about the pursuer having a ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 04:48 PM |
| 6 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think that when it happens naturally it is fun, but for men this is quite often not the case if you are dead average. Some men don't enjoy being in highly social enviroments, some enjoy just a few bros and cards, and i believe that if you are naturally socially inclined with good social skills and a good previous history, then you are ahead of most men already. TLDR: if it happens naturally/intuitively it can be fun, rarely the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI agree with you, but you are talking about end results. Women however tend to enjoy much more the process of getting to know someone and seeing where it goes, than men do, even if the destination is the very gates of hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 04:37 PM |
| 9 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenIf the point was enjoying the journey i would totally pick a completely different path, because dating involves a lot of very hard and surprisingly complex input from men to succeed at, and some people are just not fond of big challenges, but still do it because it is required. Men aren't really given the luxury of picking the strategy they like the most, they are forced to pick the most effective strategy possible and in gaming terms, basically tryhard sweat his way into success, since dating f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 04:35 PM |
| 1 | All markets change, even the SMPNot fairly easy, but fairly simple, it basically becomes a battle in the voting for politicians who will move these changes and make their parties more powerful so they can move their agenda further. It would be literally the same thing the very feminists did, men basically shrugged their shoulders and allowed women to have it, so they did. If men's wishes gain weight in a democratic manner they could totally get this through, albeit painfully slowly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 04:32 PM |
| 15 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenHaven't you said you would never ever talk to me again? In spite of that, what you say here is true, but you are thinking about the end results, which are kind of shitty for both sides, however the "path to shit" men take is much worse than women. Sure that guy was a bad apple but this usually means you got asked out, he proposed the whole date idea to you, tried his best to make your feelings be good, and likely had sex with him While for men you rarely get a date, when you do the burden to mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThe point is sure you might see results from grinding through the dates and self improving, the point is, using your own analogy. Sure finding nice things is a good reason to sift through an endless amount of dirt, but it doesn't make sieving anymore fun, sure it is rewarding, but unfun, thus it quickly becomes very similar to a job. And when you are short on cash (you aren't getting laid on the regular already), you really need to get that job, thus putting more pressure on you. And while it mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenSome men hate this whole process, sure you might get the results and i believe in that, it is just that the path you take to get there is often shitty. Most men don't like their jobs, work extra hours, sweat at a gym they hate, get social while being an introvert etc., and all of that, sure you see results which make it worth it but it isn't fun. Women however usually get a bunch of treaties and positive experiences in the process of dating, even if the end result turns out bad. The path women t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 04:10 PM |
| 0 | All markets change, even the SMPHere is my take, i believe most forms of pairing in modern history pre-feminism, where a kind of enforced sugaring deal, let me try to explain. Since women couldn't actually work, or provide for themselves properly without a man, they were kind of forced to make the deals with the men available because they had pressure to close a good deal. Now since women have the option of not depending on a man, one side basically lost the need to deal with the other, but the other didn't, as in men still wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 04:06 PM |
| 2 | All markets change, even the SMPYoung men in their 20s are overwhelmingly voting right conservative worldwide, which is obviously the men trying to make their voices heard, and in a few places they achieved some minor victories. I think south korea just electes an very anti-feminist president, which the majority of his voters being young single men. In a place where men get drafted and work one of the worst hours ever in the entire world, and still get rejected and made fun of by women, they would actually try to do something … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Dating within your social circle is inefficientFrom my experience the kind of activities couples and singles do are very different, so they usually split up because the single activities (like clubbing) won't be welcoming to couples, and couples activities, like a BBQ for example, will make the singles feel awkward af. This is the enviroment where people pair up sure, but if you don't pair up it is just a matter of time for you to be kicked out or leave on your own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Dating within your social circle is inefficientAs i said, i think society will tend to balance, i hope i live to see the green fields after this mess we are living, and ain't 60yo yet, if the grass gets greener by that time i would really be pissed off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Dating within your social circle is inefficientI think this will just eventually mean men will just keep dating down, we are already see a trend where young men in their 20s overwhelmingly vote right and against "freedom", if their voices get heard through voting i see society shifting towards a more conservative state again which will benefit men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Would you be still Pro Choice if there was an option to remove the fetus without killing itWell i can't force other people to feel anything, not even compassion, although it is best in every conceivable form to help not only child but any kind of homeless person. Especially because homelessness is a hatchery for much worse issues, such as crime, famine, and health crisis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Would you be still Pro Choice if there was an option to remove the fetus without killing itWell they can have their opinions i guess, but it is shitty nonetheless. State raising the kids is the most ethical and abortion is the most logical answers to this question overall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Would you be still Pro Choice if there was an option to remove the fetus without killing itI met like, 3 people maybe?, mostly religious people, in their opinion the parents should be forced by law to raise the kid on their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Dating within your social circle is inefficientIt might not be very efficient, but it might be effective in that you can get a date by doing this. Most people will tell you to fuck off if you complain that the juice is overpriced. If you aren't rich/ripped/handsome/famous/whatever women desire, they won't want you because a guy with those characteristics wants to fuck her just as much as you, basically they are allowed to have incredibly stupid standards because some guy is willing to buy the juice. Its like complaining that cars are expensi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:25 AM |
| 0 | Would you be still Pro Choice if there was an option to remove the fetus without killing itMost people that are against foster care have these opinions. Most in fact seem to favor it, pro choice is the chorus right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Dating within your social circle is inefficientYou should run everything at the same time, you should have an OLD profile, and cold approach a lot of people, both men and women with the intent of expanding your social circle. I advise basically eating up all the friendzones, because that person might unfriendzone you passively, present you to more friends, and maybe offer insight, even if terrible. The hard part is finding time, as in you need to keep expanding your social circle, keep cold approaching, and pay attention to your OLD platform… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Would you be still Pro Choice if there was an option to remove the fetus without killing itI am in favour of actually paying the taxes for childcare, i am just stating the reason why most people are against adoption or foster care. Overall IMO more people for society is always good, so kudos to that, some people however think that the financial burden on raising children should only be taken by the parents, thus subsidizing childcare is bad, leading to them being anti adoption, sometimes even pro abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:07 AM |
| 6 | Would you be still Pro Choice if there was an option to remove the fetus without killing itThe thing is being pro choice without killing the fetus is just being in favour of facilitating putting the baby up for adoption and having a strong childcare system that would take care of the kid regardless of it being adopted or not. The only problem with this is that the childcare system uses tax payer money, and people aren't fond of basically paying to help raise children that aren't their own. This comes from the same place on why men don't date single mothers, a big reason is not being w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 10:56 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.I agree with everything in this reply. Tribalism is very strong in men, and modern tribes are our friends groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.I think evo psych is more useful for pointing out behaviour rather than explaining why is that the case. As in it accurately says what people do and it is reflected in experience, but maybe evolution has nothing to do with, still is good to know the behaviour regardless. And yes i agree with you, it is unfalsifiable, that is honestly a pretty good argument i can take, so i guess kudos for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.So you're basically a teacher and a journalist nowadays? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.I don't get what you mean, so i don't know what to reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.How the hell a social scientist actually gets paid?, this is off topic but this is an honest question. Never met a social scientist like ever, closest person to this may be the psychologists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Sure enthusiastic sex is better, but sex is still good for men regardless. Also most guys don't think that basically hitting on women until they put out is rape, it only become rape if she deliberately says no, which if she does not most men would say that this wasn't rape at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 02:14 AM |
| 0 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.I think if most men could tone down how horny they are all the time most would. The point is i think that without some heavy drug use you can't get rid of men's libido, it also would be incredibly unhealthy. Being possible is one thing, but it is not likely most men can pull this off, my opinion is that most actually can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.My personal objectives and other guys also not getting what they too want is kind of my concern, like sure i might be trying to be a fuckboy, but if my buddy is suffering to get an LTR than that is totally a valid problem and thus should be adressed seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.That is precisely what i alluded to, sure most men aren't going to kidnap women and force penetrate them, but if he is flirting and she isn't objecting, then most actually don't care. So my point is most guys aren't too concerned with non violent rape basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Well that is just my opinion of being skeptical of those researches, but still you aren't wrong, technically it is a fringe topic in psychology, so it kinda is indeed not well respected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Most of these guys are well aware of their actions, it is more an act driven by lack of better options, than impulse purely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Most prostitutes who are mildly seasoned can earn enough money to major in whatever they want, and quit. In fact from this POV prostitution is a social ascention tool for women willing to do it, not dissimilar how the military is used to generate respectable jobs for men in peace time. Well someone give those women an award BTW, this is such a different and uncommon behaviour it became a historical act for women to support husbands on strike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Most guys really don't care about asking for permission, if he starts flirting and women don't object he will likely stick his dick in her without even thinking about this. And from a third party perspective, they are using women's sexuality and bodies as a product to sell, in this POV, women really aren't too different from any other product out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.The average women is kind of hot in my eyes, maybe because this is brazil and obesity is not an issue here, but still. Like if 80% of women refuse 80% of men this is bound to be a problem. And you forgot that there is also the PUA/NLP type of guys, who basically manipulate women into bed, and for me this seems like the most approachable option currently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.That was the whole point, not only women do this, everyone does this. We agree here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:51 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.By research the latter is confirmed to be the reason, i won't find any papers on this topic but the current consensus is that the latter is the sole reason. As in men work harder in order to get married, they don't start working harder once married, in fact men start working less when they get married, as in less than they used to, they still work hard by the average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:43 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Your typical factory worker is not a child, in fact most range 30-40yo. These men have little choice if they actually want to have a dick that has use besides peeing. And btw you aren't wrong, but this actually happening is just fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.I think while women actively try to protect their "gender", men really don't care, in fact he despises his fellow men as a competitor and enemy in any intersexual topics, as in, they aren't not only not helping their bros, they are in fact actively looking to hinder each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Man are obviously the wolf of man, the main problem IMO is the simping behaviour, which drives the problems further. As in men compete without any thought on the macro consequences of their actions, and that it will bite them in the butt in the future. Also since women are hypergamic, only a few men are required to tip the balance in favour of women, even if 80% of the men decides to go MGTOW women won't really feel this impact because 20% of men are more than enough for reproduction solely, sin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Don't you think that the pressures society put on us have some root on our basic organization as a species, basically saying, it is good for the species to breed overall, biology puts in our sex drive to make this work, society doubles down on it by putting societal pressures on top. For example, evo psych has pointed out that men have much more pronounced peak productivity curve compared to women, as in, the 16-25yo, ish crowd of men are much more prone to try and excel at whatever cost to make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Do you really believe 40yo who barely know how to use whatsapp really think about chad? The terminology may be something new, but men are very VERY aware, since forever, that women don't particularly fancy them. Even still those men are kind of redpilled and don't even know it. The internet memers who post on PPD and complain about chad (me included), have nothing to do with your typical factory/office worker, in fact if you had a job as demanding has these, you wouldn't have time to post on red… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.As in cook/clean/babysit? I would honestly trade that very quickly for my day job LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.The thing is hegemonic masculinity is deeply rooted in biology, as in it is built on top of what we already did eons ago, it was always like that. The difference is that the past was much more violent thus men adapted by not becoming more attractive to women, but by becoming better at violence basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 11:41 PM |
| 0 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Basically you are agreeing with me, most men aren't capable of being content and happy without a healthy sex life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 11:38 PM |
| 0 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.I don't know how old you are but most young adults struggle with this. As in what i say men need sex, it is more about the intimacy shared and the act of a woman basically surrendering to you, being chosen. This is a very powerful signal evolutionarily because this usually tricks your brain into saying "thats it i won", and basically gaining peace of mind from it. This is a reason why unpartnered, sexless men tend to be a big more productive, because it is the male brain trying to attract a woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 10:30 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.This is basically what the pills evolved to be. The redpill started trying to bring some analysis to more effective mating strategies for men, it started with the PUAs, if you remember correctly, so the first attempt was trying to look what path actually worked in practice, with time they realized there were a lot of uncontrollable forces like politics and culture, influenced things men couldn't change individually, thus the redpill and things like MGTOW is born. Over time the ones who still did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 10:14 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.The thing is, most of redpill point out to evolutionary psychology and the idea that we aren't humanized by rationality over instincts, more like our reasons serve our inner instincts. What i am trying to say is that when men "dehumanize" women they dehumanize themselves too, to the point of yes she wants her hypergamy fullfilled, and will play her cards accordingly, and men want to be polygamous so they do the best they can to achieve that. Sure we restrain ourselves with logic sometimes, as in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 09:51 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.What i want is a looksmatch or at least attractive to my eyes match, i am not ugly myself, but i am no chad either, you are talking as if the women doesn't have blue eyes and red hair i don't say hi to her LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 08:03 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.If the logic for men not getting the kind of relationship they want with people they feel attracted to, is to pay for it, then almost every single men complaining should at least have the right to pay the pros willing to do that service which many men would be commiting crime around the world. The logic i have is that the following happens in drug dealing, the dealers over time start selling less concentrated, or charge more of the clients they know are already addicted to the point where they c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 08:02 AM |
| 0 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.The pulling the plug when wife is aware happens, precisely why companies noticed it and promptly informed the women directly. Strikes thus didn't ever last more than a month in that company, the threat to the relationships of the workers were enough to deter them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 07:48 AM |
| 0 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.If you get what you want from the strike quick enough it won't matter, it buys valuable time for the workers. As in the company can keep saying no for a week, but it will go broke if no one works for 6 months, so buying time is crucial here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 07:21 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.I think the legal rating was the main reason Blizzard opted to change tracer at the time. The fact that there is a high probability of trafficking in sex work industry never ever stopped clients from showing up, those girls that don't have pimps, are even very likely to get rich because it is VERY profitable, also tax free here, so imagine for yourself. And well the places where it is appropriate to flirt with women are drowned with competition since these are few, so the best of the best men sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 07:19 AM |
| 0 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.More important is the usage of the information of contacts than the actual data itself. Since this happens often, the men who are aware try to avoid giving this data to employers exactly with the intent to avoid this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 07:05 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.I am very aware of the tracer case, but she is still much more played than other characters like zarya (typical feminist muscular colored hair) and mei (fucking child man), similarly widowmaker is a lot more played than her. They didn't change the character at all, they just toned down the exageration, for it to something people fought over to keep, you know some people REALLY liked that. Overwatch is still king in rule34, it is very much still a pinnacle example of "Video Games cater to male fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 06:17 AM |
| 3 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.It is not a conspiracy if it was like that since forever. My main gripe is that you can't have a social life or use the internet without being bombarded with sexual triggers. And well capitalizing on human suffering for profit en masse is kind of fucked up anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 06:08 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.I mean you are basically an exception then, don't men in the military are notorious sex worker clients from all over the world? I am not saying that you will die without sex, you will however be very likely to be unhappy about it, the very tone of your reply with using words as "i'm surviving", mean you aren't happy about the situation at all. Thus why i think it is pretty much impossible for healthy men to be truly happy without any sex whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 06:05 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.The young generation already avoids this kind of deal like the plague, the older men in my life low key teached me to avoid it too. And well, think about it, women aren't as willing to invite the fuck buddy to her house, pick him up in with her car, and also pay for a date sometimes, this never happens, however men do this all the time. To own your own place, have a car, and also pay for weekend dates, requires a decent income at least here in brazil. Now for marriage, any car, any house, any tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 06:02 AM |
| 3 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.I'm curious, what is your current take on drug trafficking, because by that same logic, we just feed the crackheads more crack, let the dealers sell it freely. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:56 AM |
| 3 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.This is exactly what i've been doing currently, but it is both expensive and a different deal from a FWB thing. If i was richer i would honestly keep trying but not care much about results at all because no one could stop me from getting my fix basically. I'm lucky it is legal to hire in brazil, other men in other countries don't have the same luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Because from my current experiences what i want isn't relevant for the market, to the point where i am currently thinking about changing my profiles in OLD and my approaches IRL to seeking LTR, and just ghost or cheat when required, otherwise my chances seem close to zero currently. If no one cares about what i want why should i care about not lying or what others want too? And other men actually like dating, but being in an LTR is in many ways pointing a gun at your feet with a trigger availabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:53 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.I really never heard about it, like really, where is it, genuinely curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:46 AM |
| -1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.I don't get why you are so shocked by this, have you never met any young simp? Men frequently humiliate themselves for pussy, this is like the most common thing ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:45 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.This is where 90% of the sex happens, you are raised with the notion of this being the case, only to realize the only opportunities you can get that as a below average dude is in LTR. Only if you count prostitution i would agree otherwise, which is literally outlawed in like 80% of relevant countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:43 AM |
| 0 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.I think by the logic of this sub, we all know why men really aren't fans of women making their own money, because if she does then she will hardly ever need a man, thus why rich women have a hard time dating, precisely because she can't hold attraction to someone poorer than them and on average people are poorer than the rich. Thus why the more equality we push in the workplace more it negatively impacts the dating market, because women require male money less and less since while they like mone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:41 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.They remarry once they get a job again basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:11 AM |
| 4 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.It doesn't work with women, since most husbands don't care very much besides the actual money if a woman works or not. As in he won't lose attraction to her if she lost her job, in fact most guys would question why they are firing his wife and notifying him in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:10 AM |
| 5 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Men can't just deny sex for very long without the lust and testosterone starts becoming overwhelming and driving the guy crazy slowly. Thus why men do a great deal of bullshit to get laid, they might not be happy but at least they quench the addiction to sex so they can be at least mentally stable. Also there is the status part, since manhood nowadays is basically tied to being sexually desirable, the other traits of being a man are heavily frowned upon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:08 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Financial reasons rank very highly in divorce reasons, if you already have kids this is less of an issue, but if you don't get to see your kids and interact with them they basically don't exist in your life. This is not women's or men's fault, it is the system/society/capitalism/status quo, whatever, using both female and male biology against them to get what they want. As most companies know men have mostly transactional relationships, and men as human beings like relationships, threaten their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:05 AM |
| 3 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.This is precisely what i was pointing out, i think we agree on this, i just think that with men access to women getting harder than ever, i think that this will both grow in quantity and effectiveness, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 04:58 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.And male sexuality being the weakness used to coerce and threaten the men, as in if you don't do X you lose your wife. The syndicate stuck with this approach because it was much more threatening than directly firing someone, or criminally charging the rioters, i bet if the job a man holds had nothing to do with his access to sex, this would not be effective in the slightest. This never happened, but i bet 10 bucks this wouldn't work if a bunch of female workers suddenly went to riot and the comp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 04:57 AM |
| 4 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Men can't really abandon sex, if they have healthy levels of testosterone they will most likely get tortured by horniness and eventually buckle. If men could so easily abandon their sex drives incels would be mostly happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 04:28 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.This is what i don't actually agree too, men are visibly and statistically addicted to sex and pussy, it is very rare for me to know a man who is actually a volcel with options, and most incels are actually unhappy for obvious reasons. Some men can do it, sure, but they are a minority who can actually be happy without sex. Also we have reproductive instincts, getting your genes deleted from the gene pool is not a good thing, especially when if you work to build something, "chad's kids will see i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 04:27 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Men take time to do all of that, it is a lot of effort to job hunt, remarry, seduce another person, that is overall not worth going through again, to the point most actually just rather break their backs than go there. Also if you get your name on a strike list, you are NOT getting another job, especially for the working class of men who usually only have technical education like soldering, there are other jobs available but those are progressively offering less money, especially if a guy had a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 04:23 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.This is spot on, wrote better than i could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 04:08 AM |
| 4 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Women put the pressure on you to go back to work for a simple reason. You could either accept the gruesome work and keep money home, your family/kids, sexual access, half your assets if you are actually married. Or quit your shit job, your wife divorces you, takes kids away/alienate them from you, half your assets, which could mean a house/car/investments, which for most is all they have, so you end up back at your mom's house, sexless, broke, and more often than not lonely, basically back to 16… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 04:07 AM |
| 4 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Most men end up in a family arrangement also because it is the only place where they can be sexual with women, given the option many men would opt not to date/have girlfriends but it is something not for everyone. Deep down most mean also fear divorce because women could just take half your stuff, and if the women is just not ugly af, she won't have a hard time replacing him since men here marry and take care of anything female. I find it actually surprising, how many men are willing to put up w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 04:02 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.They actually do but they don't want to sacrifice their families/wives, which for a bunch of the not so rich, neither hot men, who are your typical welders, factory workers, mechanics etc., is their only source of any intimacy besides getting drunk at bars with friends. Honestly if men would develop a kind of sorority to STOP simping until women fell back to their senses and became more reasonable/started putting out, it would balance itself. But if a few men don't adhere to this they will basic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 03:55 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Not against internet forum users LOL, most men i know that are actually married are in a transactional relationship, as in they are painfully aware of their burden of performance to ever be loved. Thus society knowing this, they use many clever ways to use this weakness of men as in, they are not inherently desirable, not even required anymore, to pressure men to do absurd things in order to be accepted for many things, be it a job, a relationship, sex, fun, etc. It seems capitalism finally real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 03:35 AM |
| 0 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.No they can't take advantage of them directly, they use the fact that they have libidos and relationships, which for most men involve a degree of transactionality, and a man losing his income could very well end his marriage. Men who are on strike don't spend time at home, they usually pretend they are working normally to their wives around here, even if he never goes more than 100meters away from home. So companies casually inform their wives they aren't showing up to work as part of strikes an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 03:29 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.My father used to work for the car companies as chief staff, he frequently dealt with the syndicate, and did exactly what i typed out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 03:00 AM |
| 2 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.Men in power, or women, more precisely powerful people and institutions, also abuse male sexuality, this is not only women's fault, the system itself is part responsible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.The thing is other people, not woman abusing here. although they are involved they aren't the perpetrators in this case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Beaches have terrible logistics, although if you work around it indeed is one of the best places to pickup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:36 AM |
| 0 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Welp i just need to find them, i am not exactly very experienced in cougar hunting, i don't know how to find them really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:34 AM |
| 4 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Currently i am paying, a bit salty financially but a few of them are hot af, so well worth the price. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?About religion yes this is true to be honest. The thing is most guys trying to have fun in their 20s fail miserably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?My dad told me something similar, but it was about alcohol. Basically alcohol is the No1 way ugly people get laid. You might look a lot prettier to a drunk bimbo in the bar than during the day. The landwhales might look like they are mermaids too however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:18 AM |
| 3 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Well there 100% is something men are already doing, and that is defecting to different cultures and customs, like with the global rise of auth right governments being elected and men just going MGTOW, lots of boys not actively contributing, many things already happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:16 AM |
| 0 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?This makes them really really dangerous to pump and dump, they are very likely to try and get pregnant from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:14 AM |
| 0 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Oh yeah 100% understand that, exactly why i am complaining it is shitty, thus why i am trying to understand what actually makes a guy desirable, because i want to be actually desired too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?I think it might be pure coping honestly, they want to believe the women they can attract are hot, so they can think themselves hot too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?The point is if your goal is only getting laid basically the whole self improvement narrative is useless because you don't care about what is in the mirror, that is not something you derive any pleasure from. If one liked working hard and seeing results in the gym, or bank account numbers going up, like really deeply liked that, we wouldn't need to tell them to do that. All of what you said is valid but the active part of the process is left out, as in most guys will just never get so hot that t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?The main problem is IMO making the young men an attractive suitor again, as in basically give them their status and power back, would make them more desirable partners. But this will never happen. And i disagree, more gender financial equality is bad for the dating market overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Exactly my point, what used to be mens main tools for reproductive success are now useless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:03 AM |
| 0 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Well as in the entire viewer base looking for female attention basically, there are few other options within their niche to do that, and with few options competition is insanely fierce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:02 AM |
| 0 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Because well, it is quite the obvious thing. You are paying such a higher price for something which was freely offered that it feels like a scam. As a 20s guy, if i didn't look that young i could totally score, when those post wall women notice i am 21 they just ick out, it is sad because some milfs are indeed hot. But really, it feels very much like a scam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?That really is overboard man, just lift and be outgoing, if you make it obvious you are foreigner, you will likely have good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:57 AM |
| 0 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Giving these girls a chance was NOT a pleasant experience, it was at most neutral and made bearable because i knew they were happy for it but i was really not. My last proper sex was with a hairy, overweight girl, who was also not my type facially at all. At least she was happy in the end but hell the experience was terrible, at least she was clean, and smelling good, but hell never again. This is a trap i fell in more than once, it is not worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Enh so what should i call my quest for it, flirting spree? And well having sex with people you are attracted too doesn't seem like an absurd standard, but honestly from the chorus around here i am already a madman for not wanting to monogamously date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?If i wanted a date i might be struggling too, just less harshly, just because i might be in a better spot than some doesn't mean it is good for everyone else too. And talking about myself, yes that is precisely what i am looking for, easy its forcing it but definitely not hard is a good start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:51 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?I actually don't know how to ride a bike, not properly, i learned only recently after some careful thinking about what i am supposed to do. Yes some trial and error was involved, but with dating you get very little trials and almost always errors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?As in if a meteor falls on my head and i don't deflect it like superman i am a loser for not doing something about it. This is literally one of the most toxic things out there, men are supposed to fix unsolvable problems else be labeled a loser and discarted, like sometimes people can't fix things. Thus why male suicide rates are gigantic, my own hands are more likely to kill me than criminals and car crashes, even war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:46 AM |
| 3 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Yeah nothing justifies violence in this context but not only in dating but men are more likely to deal with problems through violence in any scenario. Hell men are even more likely to punch stuff to try to fix it than women are. And honestly i get your point 100% when people start becoming violent it is impossible to have much simpathy if at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?I mean she is basically one of the very few women present, also the worst comes from the "streamer wannabe" girls, who have a similar narcissist attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?I don't really know about solutions, but i really haven't heard about dating success recently from any person i knew ever since the pandemic, it is all men pump and dumping, guys being dry, people ghosting, and overall mean behaviour, frequent breakups and drama everywhere, very few happy endings. I can't imagine any change that can be made that doesn't hurt individual freedom so i really am wondering if we are just kind of doomed. What i see is just growth of extremism worldwide and people ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:38 AM |
| 3 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Ditto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:33 AM |
| 3 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?I don't have absurd standards for women, like you don't have to be a fitness model to fuck me, you just need to not be very ugly and be pleasant. I personally am trying to look my hottest whenever possible but still struggling, i don't not wanting monogamous commitment to be an outrageous impossible standard to meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:32 AM |
| -1 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Most men have the capacity to become good providers and protectors given proper nurture, it is more of a genetic heritage thing than actual practical situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Yeah that is what will actually end up happening, i think the thai guys are just fucked tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?That very dismissal is what leads them to choose radicalization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Thus why i think the advantages men have can't be fully utilized in the dating market nowadays and leaves the vast majority of guys undergunned to compete, which obviously leads to frustration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:26 AM |
| 4 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?What i am trying to say is that men mostly very very far from what they actually want, as in a gf who is mutually attracted to him for who he is basically, which is very hard for most guys. A lot of guys just end up fishing what ends in their net and call it a day, and try hard to learn to love what they can get. While most women do get to have experiences with the guy she actually wanted to be dating but after he dumps her, she eventually ends up with a match, but not without experiencing with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?As in not allowed to be vocal about it even in their male spaces, like it is something that you should just shut up and take in basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:20 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?As in what actually, most media sources don't actually teach anything relevant and TRP takes a very extremist approach, like the average men in a successful relationship or hookup, isn't rich, ripped, or famous, so it is not a requirement at all to grind this hard for example. PUA is just corrupt af, and bluepill dating is just, obviously awful, so what gives?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Well that is quite agressive but i'm not even american, i don't know anything about the abortion thing that changed because i didn't read further. But indeed a woman here was basically forbidden to give the child she had from a rape to adoption after being denied abortion, like she couldn't abort, and now is also forced to raise the kid on her own, clown world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Do getting people you aren't attracted to at all count?? Because while i did try it a feel times it was totally not worth it, it felt like i was basically doing charity the whole time, at least the girl seemed happy but man i wasn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?What i was trying to say is that men currently in their 30s didn't struggle in their 20s when they were younger as hard as current 20s men are having it. Like for example the 40s bracket had much less problem when they were 20 compared to current scenario. And while i think there are problems with men having basically delayed adolescence, that is way too much things involved to actually type out. But the main one is getting constantly rejected until you have X thing or get Y income, makes men tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:11 AM |
| 5 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Because women have it hard doesn't mean it's easy for men. Still i honestly think literally no one is happy with the current dating landscape, more and more people are getting screwed over, everyone is getting a bad deal really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:06 AM |
| 5 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?From my experience most men i talk and interacted with in my life in these kind of relationships they all suck ball. So from my experience those relationships usually aren't well. So from my POV those relationships don't constitute real success but obviously my POV isn't universal, but it is my opinion and i am entitled to having one. Most men i know are struggling to meet their own standards which vary from non existant to way too high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?So basically when you talk about is basically imagining how the relationship will play out and sharing what you think about it? Like idk how you can go beyond the "wow hot stranger, you live nearby, likes this same kind of venue here, and you're DTF?, our relationship is going to be very fun" Usually i got terrible responses from that approach, as in when i started talking in a what about us manner they turn flight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:01 AM |
| 5 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Honestly it's not that they don't care they just don't know how to help me and it makes them feel uncomfortable themselves and i totally get why. It's like a person complains to you because they lack an arm and a leg and want to know how to fix that, like i can't possibly help this person. I don't blame them, but really i don't think this kind of topic can be helped, only a PUA coach or something would address this properly but who the hell trusts a PUA coach. Family however actually made fun of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?I approach anyone i actually think "this person is worth getting rejected by, and worth a try", as in if i succeed i would be happy. Now i do shoot very high sometimes but one of the times i scored was someone i had zero hopes on actually succeeding so i was happy about that. Honestly i am just starting to check that my tastes are not really matching what i can consistently pull. And what i can consistently pull just trigger disgust reactions in me, so just no. If you want specific info about th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:53 AM |
| 4 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?The majority of men i interacted and had a conversation with who fit that description were not very successful. Like a 30yo balding dude dating a very hot 23yo goth chick i met in a rave, she didn't even hang out with him properly, just did her thing while he strolled behind, when i got wind of their ages it was painfully obvious something was up. Like when i posted previously about my cousin dating a guy 9 years older than her, like i know her pretty well it is painfully obvious its because he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:47 AM |
| 5 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?They are either clueless of how to help or visibly annoyed by the subject so i don't kill the vibe by insisting into something they don't want to talk about. Its like insisting about someone to tell you a secret, its just annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:43 AM |
| 8 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?My friends are either neutral or a little woke crowd leaning, its college you can't avoid that, also a majority of them are women so this is expected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Can you actually point out anything that changed when you started getting yes for an answer more regularly? Game, targets, venue, life, what improved to change your outcomes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:38 AM |
| 6 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?They are not happy, they don't look happy, and sometimes if you are closer obviously say either they are compensating for the lost years of youth or actively paying because it is just more practical. I would personally not wish that upon myself, so yeah the men who aren't up for pseudo sugaring are struggling, as a club rat this is oddly evident in the couples that show up, it is just unsettling to notice really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?My point is for a bunch of guys all approaches lead to the same wall, i will give a personal example. Most of my current friends groups started with friendzoning, and a few still are in my radar, but i honestly toggled it out, everytime i took the approach not direct or with intent and just went the friend route it never worked as in sexually. If i try to go directly i at maximum get a new friend at worse i get beaten up by a jealous guy, like being a direct flirt never got me any yes. Indirect … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Thus you did get the occasional yes to work with, what i am saying is that most guys don't get that yes to start basing their approach with what works for them and refining it since they don't get a starting point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:28 AM |
| 3 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?I am providing the facts and you are providing the reasons for why it happened, we are agreeing here. Bottom line is: being an attractive guy in the past was irrelevant, women didn't get any say so their attraction to you was irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?This is not what i said, they aren't struggling mostly because they either got married or are sugar dating, that for me is no definition of success that is just humiliating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?As a person who is brazilian, i am already struggling in one of the most promiscuous hellholes in planet earth. I don't think a plane ticket can save me LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:23 AM |
| 6 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Because PPD is a heavensent for me because i got scolded many times trying to ask this question IRL. Yeah i post the same thing over and over because i like talking about this and trying to survey my options. But after every night out that i don't hit i get a little sad and end up making another post, it is the only place actually safe for the topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Do you mean this personally or as a class thing as in "struggling lad" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?I think the problem nowadays is that the male activities are SWARMED with scammers and bait. Look at gaming for example, there are very few women in gaming, the ones who are, are the likes of your typical twitch thot, girls or people pretending to be girls trying to get free things, and even the real girls being heavily sought after because of ratios. This leaves men to look for women where they are at, even if they might not particularly be fond of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:19 AM |
| 0 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Not even that, they are trying to demonize you from complaining that you are working for free. Sure the actions of radicals are terrible but hardly surprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:14 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?As in if the vast majority of your flirting endeavours were failures, most guys i see going out get absolutely hammered with rejections until they either stop trying, or just don't show up to the clubs anymore. Like having positive experiences to compare is important when judging what works and what not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:13 AM |
| 6 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?It really depends on the age bracket from my POV. The majority of strugglers are younger than 30, after that there are far less problems. And it is more of a generational thing, i don't think its a just get older thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:10 AM |
| 4 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Aren't those communities growing?? I personally haven't got to that level yet, but a bunch of people seem to be joining the communities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:09 AM |
| 5 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?"Follows every thing one could possibly do to improve his odds". The point is if you don't think you are offering someone a good deal by presenting yourself to them while trying to date, then i guess it is just bad self image. And taking no from someone is one thing, but taking no from every single person is different. Sure i can respect stacy doesn't want me, but literally no woman i have any feelings for reciprocating it, just hits different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:08 AM |
| -1 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?My point was is that men in the past were not chosen by this ability so a good portion of the men alive today are geared towards provide and protect, not to make women happy, generations of genetical reinforcement made the good looking charming men lose out to the strong, more agressive and possibly uglier men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:05 AM |
| 8 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Because it is obviously not only a single guy struggling, an increasing percentage of men are feeling this way too, and it is evidently clear that there is something systemically wrong. And to the second answer is just honestly empathy and trying to help, which people couldn't care less about, i agree with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Then again there is no problem but if the only reward you are after is female attention the ROI is just miserable, especially compared to people who are either good looking or just have learned good game growing up, your deal is just terrible. To the point where that money if invested in prostitutes would literally make you have a very busy sex life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?The path most men take to relationships is the difference, and the treatment too. Like a woman got to "taste" the highest quality dick around town a few times, and after having a lot of baggage, experience, sometimes kids, they end up crossing paths. While the average guy experience is basically grinding all day to get extra money, having almost nothing from OLD, going out a lot sometimes alone, often ending several nights alone, getting constantly friendzoned in his social circle, until one hea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?The thing is did you get at least some sporadic success, as in positive responses, because my experience is that most guys get rejected with every single approach they try, thus the logical conclusion is that nothing works, even if this is false. Mind expanding on your EXP im genuinely curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Then i really wonder why people are surprised when more radical groups form. As the african proverb says. "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel it's warmth" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:52 AM |
| 5 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Men will fight back by basically leaving western countries slowly or incorporating foreigner values and joining those communities. I really fear that when i turn 50 seeing like 3x more thai wives than i see now might just be reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Thus the resentment most men feel is obviously completely warranted, also basis for a very unstable society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:49 AM |
| 3 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?I think everyone trying to date must see themselves as a catch, else you are just selling a fake product to someone else. Sure you might not be a catch but if you don't believe it first no one ever will. And this kind of complaint is problematic when a person does everything right, like when inkwell goes to gym, becomes ripped, get rich, work on fashion style, get all PUA courses, coaches, learns to go out, becomes hypersocial, and gets nice house/job/car to boot, and still fails, even if it mig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Well it seems men have it mostly far worse, since women get a lot more replayability with their dating and casual sex struggles, as in they have a lot more chances to try. And it is a male problem not even getting your foot on the door, sure women struggle too but they get much closer to success a lot more frequently. AKA stacy isn't pumping and dumping joe, she barely says hi to him, while becky is getting railed by chad but he doesn't even know her name, i think becky is a lot close to chad th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Thus why shouldn't men be upset with feeling expendable, it makes no logical sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?To be honest i really think most men are truly ill equipped to make women desire them either sexually or romantically. Evolutionarily speaking since men are larger and stronger on average, women's opinion on many matters were irrelevant since if men decided too they could just ignore it and have their way. So men who were good at making feel good had zero advantage, in fact they might have been hated by the other men who actively culled those down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?As in if his content is actually legit or it is just either clickbaity or trying to sell something to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:20 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Isn't this guy a confirmed scam?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:15 AM |
| 4 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?The point exactly being there is not much else to go, you will get ostracized in r/dating_advide, if you aren't employing top tier pro level game, you will get hammered at seddit. Or maybe just incels.is for whining, but actually just discussing about the topic it is very, very complicated to find a community who MAYBE will listen to what you have to say. Also macro level discussion is complicated because the macro can't really be saved, this generation and a few future ones of men are really ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:55 AM |
| 5 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?I don't see any dudes who actually do sports who weren't successful from the start, i think it is a thing people grow into while young, and if you are the guy who didn't equally get it while young you distance yourself. Most gymcels i know still don't get many girls, or they find a gf and settle. An even larger majority starts getting into much heavier lifting AKA they start looking for strenght and just forget women completely, kind of sigma af but still they don't really score. And honestly be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:47 AM |
| 15 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?I don't personally know any successful guys besides ones who have buckled to betabuxxing really hard to some ugly girls. Really i have never seen this PUA transformed guy IRL, it looks like a myth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Which would be even more fucked up because i would be dating someone i would rather not to, say things that aren't true, and end up damaging the person much more and losing my time for it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:36 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?I rather start lying than drop my standards that much, and while they might be a bit high i don't think i can enjoy less than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Honestly it is tempting but the obvious moral implications make it too hard to shake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:18 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?And PUA is nowadays a very VERY corrupt industry so i really can't trust anything said to me because it is likely just trying to sell me classes, which won't solve the problem because that would mean i won't pay for more classes. Honestly my nights out just start with vibing, getting rejected like 10 times in a 5 hour period, and just end up drinking and going home frustrated, or with extra friends i made while flirting which means an extra friendzone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Only models by mark manson | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Which author is the manual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?As in reading again? That book is TRP bible, every guy in here should have read it already. Now about gym, i am trying to buy stims, i can't get anymore results in the gym, likely won't get greek god physique without some chemistry. And well no sources to learn good game from is the point of the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?I did date in the past and i figured out this is not something i liked, im not up to lie about commitment or tell her i love her, just to get in her panties, i tend to love clubbing and it seems to have more girls DTF so there is that. And while i dont want just a fuck buddy, i am honestly looking more for a bar friend kind of thing, like we share a couple hobbies and go to the venues together, but not really looking for someone to invite to family reunions. I don't get it why women hate men jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?As in should unmatching standards that have little measure up with what is being offered not be complained about. It is like people selling big macs for 100$ a piece, sure big macs are good but this is a scam, and well scams usually are called out. And when it involves something a bit more serious like one's sex life, then complaining makes total sense. Also when one person gets to pay much less than the other, people get rightfully upset by it, in this case women putting in much less effort for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?What i was trying to say is that if i don't want to date her or marry, then i really don't care much about what she does for a living or her grandma's cooking skills. I want someone who can go to bars a few times, get tickets to shows, and just fuck casually sometimes, actually just a fun friend who i happen to fuck, so besides her being there in the club, all hot and dolled up, having fun, and just vibing there is not much else to ask. Sure where she studies, lives, does is important but mostly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:38 AM |
| 4 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Which is totally not the same thing as having a fuck buddy or a one night stand. Getting a hooker is more akin to ordering at a restaurant than casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Well i honestly struggle hard with small talk, sometimes you don't have anything in common besides finding her hot and pretty, not much else to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Only thing that usually checks out is that they are nerdy and not good looking. Outside of that there are too many variables. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?So how to proceed then?, just get ripped and do plastics i suppose right?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 03:49 AM |
| 4 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Why people assume unsuccessful guy to be basement dwellers? This is totally not my case, i just have an issue when it becomes a flirting thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?I will try to get my hands on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Enh this is just not true, plenty of couples i know aren't sugar at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?It is hard that people don't know how to give a proper response so they just dont. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Do you travel a lot?? Even small regional distances made a big difference in the ambients and people i see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Made a lot of money recently with crypto before the recent crashes, good market predictions i am in a good spot now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?The things i usually do for myself arent that universally attractive, with exception maybe being gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?It is hard to provide a response to this statement, most people don't know how to help someone get casual sex with hot women, even my lesbian friends struggle to help honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Except when you explicitly tell them, i am way too honest for my own good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?I mean the advice you get IRL from people who know you is also hardly genuine or kind of oblivious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:33 AM |
| 5 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?I think that most of the women close to me are either too old or not very genuine, especially when i am looking for casual or FWB instead of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?It is not sugar dating explicitly but many relationships i know from these kind of older dudes with 23yo girlfriends are pseudo sugar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:30 AM |
| 4 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?I said this in the OP, but also other men don't seem fond of teaching too, in fact no one is, even with money involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Well you are not wrong tbh, but the other people who know it too that aren't women aren't inclined to share it too. It becomes akin to a drug dealership situation, where you never sell someone the best thing you have, so they always keep coming back and spend even more money. And i see why women take part in this too, because if men actually knew what said secret is they would stop betabuxxing so hard for women and this is bad for women overall, it makes perfect sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?The thing is most are, and the ones who are that aren't any of that probably know something they aren't very inclined to share with you in the first place. And the main reason is those guys just get more practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?The main benefits of all of that have nothing to do with women, we could really be in a different sub having the same talk. But if you put in 8 years of work and the only thing you actually care is women, then it might be a bit overkill if you think about it. Sure you will likely enjoy the other benefits it brings, but the people not doing it already or at least trying, even with women out of the question, don't likely care about those other bonuses all that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:23 AM |
| 5 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?I think that the fact you were attractive set up a positive reinforcement cycle, and most guys get a negative one. Thus why if most guys try to just go by experience they have, they are more likely than not getting rejected so many times until they start internalizing that what they are doing is wrong and that might not be the case. Especially because men don't get told what is actually wrong a lot of the time, so they remain clueless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:20 AM |
| 7 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?This is the exact answer LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:17 AM |
| 9 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?This has been proven false for me way too many times. The successful guys are the ones who find girls who play along with their game, as in be receptive, and that just means he is good looking or famous/rich. Game works much better when the girl is actively collaborating with you instead of trying to find a way to get rid of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?I think most guys in the club with young girlfriends just get the ick look from everyone and they seem to resent the young lads doing just fine without all that effort not knowing how. I for example couldn't possibly enjoy paying 100$ for a bigmac that usually costs 1$, its the same with women. I can't enjoy working my ass off for my looksmatch if i know it was cheaper for others, then the pussy even tastes sour. It gets to the point for me that this advice is pointless because the time investme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?What i am more trying to say is that there is no proper content for men to learn how to get the steps going so it just snowballs in of itself. For men it is really hard to get honest insight on how to improve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:11 AM |
| 8 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Yes but this is really just not the real deal. You get attention because you are ripped, known for something, and rich, not because of confidence. And for someone looking for something as simple as just some sex or a very light relationship this is just like telling someone who is drying up in sahara to start a font drilling company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?What age bracket are you talking to, since for the young crowd this is mostly nonsense, only time this is taken into consideration is for sugaring here. Sure not be broke is one thing but big money is only for men looking for a serious relationship with sugars. The 20s guys really can't realistically rely on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Actually most of the women i am friends with are the unexpected good girl who got pumped and dumped by chad. But still it makes is very hard for men to learn since a good bunch just don't get to interact with women, and with OLD the common experience is silence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:02 AM |
| 11 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?Most guys don't learn what to do to stand out, especially when the only thing noticeable is someone physical appearance or finances. Besides fame it really is either a hot or rich dude, very hard to learn how to talk to women if they refuse to talk for example. I am currently struggling with getting flirty for example, as in i can make friends just fine quite easily, but if i try to get flirty they back off quickly, and getting what i am doing wrong is not trivial for me. Really basically for me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | I love clubbing, but i really never get any IOIs even while interacting.Indicator of Interest. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?Well clubs and brazil, book your trips bro. Girls here are kind of greencardsexual so you can shoot your shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | I love clubbing, but i really never get any IOIs even while interacting.Well clubs are just my thing because i like the place but regarding attraction it is no better than any other i've tried and i at least get to drink and vibe. But clubs being 100% blackpill it is true, not much i can do about that. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | I love clubbing, but i really never get any IOIs even while interacting.I usually have an easy time finding a few people to hang out with since i 90% of the time just go out alone. It is very hard to ignore that and just enjoy the music since more often than not these aren't the genres i like, "im a metalhead and a raver, it is just not common to find events where i live", and with the local venues having hypersexualized music and people making out everywhere it is just something you can't shake off. Honestly after a while i just go approach on autopilot because esp… | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | I love clubbing, but i really never get any IOIs even while interacting.Standard openers, basically, just some phrases i got memorized. After the 10th rejection i can't bother to think of personalized ones anymore. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?Yeah the less dangerous part seems to be true. But aren't lesbian relationships the absolutely most violent ones? And when i say bi, i mean that girls really don't mind to kiss their friends for fun or just make out, and i consider that bi behaviour. 99% are not biromantic however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | I love clubbing, but i really never get any IOIs even while interacting.I really couldn't care less about money, i am ultra minimalist and born into small fortune, so i have time. Really getting casual sex is such a monumental task that one time i was so tired of hitting girls with cookie cutters that when i finally scored after 2 minutes i just shoved her off and went to drink, it was so hard i couldn't enjoy it after. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:56 AM |
| 0 | I love clubbing, but i really never get any IOIs even while interacting.Which is basically my issue, the only demographics i appeal to sincerely seem to be black, chubby women, who are totally not my type, not even close actually. So that leaves me hanging a bit, maybe i should just work on improving my looks?, really i don't have an issue with how i look personally but i guess i need to become a better product As a 1.75m white, skinny guy, i don't get why i can't score since this seems to be just normal. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:52 AM |
| 2 | I love clubbing, but i really never get any IOIs even while interacting.That is already what i am doing, whenever i get zero success at the club for a few nights i save on some drinks and just go fuck a hooker if i am so inclined, but i think seeing everyone hooking up doing what i want to do, and being denied when asked to join into it just kills the whole vibe for me. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Are a majority of women Bi?I think this is more because being sexually attracted to other men hardly gave men any real benefits. Like sure you can fuck your bros but they really won't be hunting your deers for you just because you suck his dick, while when women provide sexual favours men generally provide other kinds of favours besides sexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 07:41 AM |
| -2 | I love clubbing, but i really never get any IOIs even while interacting.The point is besides flirting and just enjoying the night i don't know what i'm supposed to do. Some people go very overboard like go full clown, ape mode in clubs which i find funny but really it is just not me. What actually bugs me out is the possibility that i might just be ugly and didn't realize that, but that would be something i don't particularly think about myself AKA i don't find myself ugly/unfuckable, but a large portion of others do. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Are a majority of women Bi?As in the entire town?, i rather not interfere, and its not like this is either new or just initiated by the guys, those young girls are equally "hoes" as in they behave very promiscuosly too, brazil is known for being a place to hookup with minors for a reason, because it is literally true. And here in brazil there are quotas for women in multiple stem fields, and college is highly toxic in the woke sense around here, i literally left one of the best engineering schools in the country during th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?What does racial segregation has to do with a lot of women being Bi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?I cant see what this has anything to do with my case. I am not even american LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Are a majority of women Bi?Her father is already aware as everyone is, i can't do much more from my POV. This is fucking weird tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?Basically for me this reads, lesbian or chadsexual, heteroromantic, since most deadbedrooms have women involved, even women/women relationships have high deadbedrooms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?Really this is more a symptom of few people in her town, it is rural so the pool is pretty slim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?He is a friends brother, her father is aware and shit, it is fucking weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?Well i talked to both of them, even her father approves of the guy, at this point im powerless. I was suspicious but upon closer inspection this is standard in the rural areas of where i live. Girls 18+ just fuck off the town, or are already married with kids, so it is either 70+ widows, coupled girls, or minors, and men just don't fucking care. It was pretty weird interacting with minors in the nightlife, since i live in a very urban area the "minors" are at least 17, with fake IDs, honestly i … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Are a majority of women Bi?They don't even interact with the men anymore it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?Well at least in the gen z bracket women tend to actually to bi for attention, they don't just pretend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?Being identified LGBTQ is different from "i am straight but sometimes kiss my friends when we are drunk" I count having bi behaviour being bi, not what they proclaim to studies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?I see a lot of lesbian couples but they show absolutely zero public signs of affection, exactly because it isn't very acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?I am being serious, at least in the 20s crowd that frequents nightlife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?I as a straight man am actively repulsed by other men, and honestly if this wasn't the case i wouldn't even bother interacting with women because gay men hit on me a lot for some reason. Being skinny young and friendly looking is a turnon to these gay bros it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Are a majority of women Bi?No, they are dating for a very long time, this is a country town. Girls when they turn 18 either latch off a rich dude or get a college dorm to fuck off from here, making the dating pool only minors, and the men couldn't care less. Every woman here is either married, old widow as in 70+, or a minor. And her dad knows the dude and it's ok with it, internet aside this is much more common than you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?Ditto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?This is a standard relationship in the town they live, she is well aware of the difference, everyone is, and well she is getting exactly what she wants, which is someone to take her out of shitsville. And well after you tried hitting on every girl that is single in the local venue, there is not much else to do but watch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:43 AM |
| -2 | Are a majority of women Bi?From the local anecdotes since the town is small this is VERY normal. Most girls gtfo of here when they are allowed to go to college AKA 17yo, since the town is shit, the men however stay because they have a harder time finding good uni because of quotas, and are usually already working in some local farm. What tends to happen is that the pool of single women is overwhelmingly minors, and men of all ages here compete with these, and women over 18 get into relationships quickly because it is more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Are a majority of women Bi?Studies show that women might even have evolved to be bi. The chadsexual thing is real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:36 AM |
| 0 | Are a majority of women Bi?I think men are much more likely to be actively disgusted by other males than women are to other women, this is why women cuddle with each other a lot more than men do. This is why i was asking if women are just naturally bi, or basically just are chadsexual basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 10:59 PM |
| -2 | Are a majority of women Bi?Well most bi girls i know are also 90% lesbian do there is that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Why there are so many Bi or Lesbian girls in nightlife?How was my question not neutral, i am literally just asking if other share this POV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 10:45 PM |
| 0 | Sexless men hated by society will change the political landscape in the next decadeMaybe exactly why incels like islamism, and frequently end up with very similar beliefs and ideas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Sexless men hated by society will change the political landscape in the next decadeI think this is a very good breeding ground for people to end up converting to other cultures, where i live the islamic and jew community grew substantially in the last 10 years, with now a majority of the small shops around são paulo being owned by middle eastern families and people speak more arabic and chinese in the capital than portuguese itself. This makes traditional values and more arranged pairing up to become trendy over time it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?I did leave my girlfriend for similar reasons, women expect a lot for very little reward and guys started resenting their GFs/girls they fuck because of it. I may admit this is very much my case, i flirt on autopilot right now and im very direct because i can't bother to ask the same questions again to the 10th girl in the same night for example. Even still i just saw so many lesbians girls in the same day i started guessing they too are pissed off by dating men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 07:56 PM |
| 7 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?Most of the causes of all of those problems is because most men don't believe they can access sex by just doing their thing so they don't bother. Why move out of home, slave away for promotions, be social in events you might not be fond off, work out a greek god body, if you are very likely to fail anyway??? Those are mostly symptoms of men giving up, not the actual cause they aren't getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual.The thing is, if you aren't the bold guy, some madman will shoot first, and score before you, and women reallt don't care about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual.Seems accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual.Not really i don't get thrown out often, when i did it was because i was really drunk and i tripped over, and for some reason i thought that trying to hold something was a good idea, i fell over a girl and she got mad because she thought it was a play, i just called the bouncer and asked him to toss me out at that point. Now getting into fights its different, jealous boyfriends or men competing for girls frequently get aggressive, and this why i get kicked out the most, because of fighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 12:19 PM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual.I don't actually grope anyone, i give them an escape option always where i allow a no to come out. But indeed this is the hardest things i do, because it is 100% creepy behaviour but it works, and literally nothing else does, so it becomes hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 11:40 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?If you climb the social ladder up someone climbs it down, those men are likely precisely sexless because of that fact, there are better men around, if they improve they pull someone down, since it is a competitive game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 11:08 AM |
| -2 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?This is not the women doing it, it's media, like i can't watch anything on instagram without a girl twerking every few slides, it is hard to keep it cool when sex is everywhere. And from what i see, people indeed pamper women all the damn time, especially if you are hot, like everytime a girl complains people go right to encouraging and "you go girl" attitude, while when men complain the response is exactly like your reply. Always Ad Hominem with these treads, so predictable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 11:03 AM |
| 2 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Thus why i said sex and not dating, because sometimes this is unfortunately the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:56 AM |
| 2 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Honestly i won't be surprised if they pioneer artificial wombs, their population problem is serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?This is totally not true, having sex might not be required for survival but a celibate existence is very unlikely to be a happy one, we naturally crave sex like rabid dogs. Not even sex, but really the intimacy of being lusted and wanted, men rarely get any kind of intimacy, so they rely on it even harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:54 AM |
| 0 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Again, this is honestly pointless with so much social media, all the girls from my social circles, date outside it. Be it from OLD, random chads from college, or BF from HS is the most common ones. Most men that date carry their relationships from HS or they have some form of LMS that is obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:51 AM |
| 0 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Both got to have absolutely no say in what to do with their lives, so no one was priviledged with freedom, not any real freedom. Now women were sexually freed but men will never be because the burden of performance cant really be lifted out of men, at least it had some guaranteed rewards to strive for. Now if you don't have a shot at being the best at something, you shouldn't even try because winner takes all. If all women can freely choose, they will likely always fuck a top percentage of men b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:48 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?I am underweight. I did get thrown out for a myriad of things, but those same things got me a lay and a bunch of kisses so it is what it takes it seems. And the part about no info is common sense for men around here, law is mad girls aren't trustworthy, there is a thug culture so girls like it when you are basically simulating kidnapping which is dangerous af, but if a madman plays into that than it eventually becomes common and it did here. And yes women having the same rights as men makes no s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:42 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?They won't exactly because if everyone does it is pointless. Besides, years of work really do cost you more than suffering in silence, and the male condition is basically eternal suffering, you are supposed to just shut up and suffer a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:36 AM |
| 0 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Honestly for men outside of grinding at work, hedonism, and just hobbies which most people don't have, there isn't much else to do. And really hedonism is 90% sex and drugs, so 45% sex, which is close to half. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:34 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Even still, dropping one alone is a quick path to just addiction and overdose. Drugs are best used to enhance experiences not provide them, this is where the danger lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:31 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?I think that honestly part 5 is the biggest. Men really need a good few years of dedication to be attractive, if you aren't particularly fond of the path you end resenting women and making the whole experience null. Like you won't ever add if you dedicate too much to becoming attractive, you would be trying to collect your reward which brings entitlement to the table which is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:29 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Was it good for you, how do you rate the EXP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:25 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?I am probably the least moral person i know so this would be hypocrisy 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:25 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?I think the fact that you are a virgin helps a lot, for me after i had sex i just got progressively more addicted to it. And honestly it wasn't as bad when i was a virgin, i envy you honestly lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:23 AM |
| 2 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Works personally, but on a macro scale this won't help because of hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:21 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Since when gaming and porn make men happy? Like most gamers are porn addicts and since i do interact with a lot of them, i know they deep down are all fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:20 AM |
| 2 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Not a good idea but that is "precisely" how it was for a very long time. Women did have a few priviledges like not dying, while men got to fuck whoever their status could pay for, it was not equal by any means but it was a fair trade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:19 AM |
| -1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Dude at 30yo people are just decrepit, working their asses off to pay rent, college debt, probably sharing apartment with roommates/mom still. Where i live most people only afford to move out when they get married with double income, and the ones who don't usually build houses near/on top of family. The fantasy of travelling and seeing the world, having time to be fit, leisure, and find "meaning" is just ridiculous. What indeed seems to be the meaning most people have that i know is "if i skip w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:16 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Option 1 makes no sense because hypergamy, if the average guy starts improving then the immutable factors will become determinant. And option 2 is weird because men literally have bare minimum standards like is breathing and can talk, like not even age counts, i see a lot of less successful older dudes with cars go hit on high school girls because they are not aware of the world outside that much, and some money, ability to buy alcohol/drugs and a car is already enough for 15yo high school girls… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:08 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Different ballgame, the sex is not the same at all, it is more like assisted masturbation than actual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:05 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?So basically just become whitepilled. And again this makes no sense if you don't actually believe in anything religiously. Just being moral doesn't make one happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:04 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?"80%" as in the common rethoric, it is actually 30% under 30 in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Kim K. did a billion procedures, it is not a basic harmonization, they went overboard. Like a jaw implant and eye area correction would do miles for most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:00 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Ehn no, i would in this scene treat the women like a prostitute and basically become the abusing demanding sugar daddy, bad ending tbh. Someone actually desiring you is a completely different experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:58 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?The thing is can average ever be attractive?? Because if so, trying to encourage male beauty and actually just throw those boys at the gym from age 12 would fix a lot of the issues. However considering hypergamy this might be pointless because if average becomes ripped it won't factor in, and eventually men would be picked exclusively by stuff we can't change like height, making it all a worthless effort. And what you are describing was the solution of the previous system, AKA families married b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:57 AM |
| 2 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?I think historically the main inventions that made men distinguish themselves from each other were steel, gunpowder, and pikes. Really 99% of human history men didn't try to differentiate themselves from other men, we just killed each other. Notice how it is much easier to drill the average boy to be an efficient soldier, than it is to make him attractive to women. Being hot for men was literally a bad trait evolutionarily, because other men would 100% see you as a threat, and find ways to fuck … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:52 AM |
| 2 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?I think for that they need to age too. Even post wall women, while they won't require a lot from you, you at least need to not be much younger than them, and have lost the boyish look. Otherwise you are right, this is why i think it drops massively in the 30s for the men, because they just become acceptable to the "wall hags" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:43 AM |
| 0 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Are you talking casual or dating, this makes a difference. And while this is true, this is where hypergamy kicks in, being your best is not relevant, how you compare to the options is. So these guys even if they looksmaxx to the brim, they will likely only get sex within a relationship with a woman that obviously didn't put in half the effort, because if the did then at least for casual 99% of men would gladly pump her. To conclude this is clearly possible, but it is a very strong dedication to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:41 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Not if you get a good surgeon and do it PROPERLY AKA don't go to fucking cambodia to get your plastic surgeries, visit a proper doctor and pay the price. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:32 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?The problem is that when you don't value and can't really aspire for anything very bright in the future, there is little left but hedonism. Like im in college, have my shitty job, have a few close friends, a lot not so close, and overall my life is just fine. Only sex is missing and it bothers me, honestly i tried to find a "calling" or something, but i was really after anything rather than actually interested in it. My goal is just getting laid a lot and eating good food and quality alcohol, be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:31 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?I am not sedentary, i am always out of the house, usually drinking, sometimes by myself, but i usually just find a group and stick to it if feeling chatty, if not i just drink and go do my own flirting thing on my own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:24 AM |
| 2 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?I think that having sex cleans your mind for men in such a deep way as in "good job, you won, now relax", it's just visceral and honestly it's likely because "good the first step is done, your genes are safe", as in you took the first step to start a family, and that inherently feels good. And this is literally the foundation of human communities, the family unit, and not being able to form a family is robbing humans of what makes us human in the first place, that is having families, in multiple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:21 AM |
| 6 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Do you have any actual example of SEA??, Because to me it just sounds like just be rich, not just be white, they seem to be after green cards, not foreigner dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:16 AM |
| -1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Like are you supposed to just accept women are systemically engineering the system to turn you into a workhorse for a thing you don't profit of, while abusing your biology to torture you into submission to keep working? Because IMO this is basically what the average boy life is boiling down too, eternal sexual frustration in service of gynocentric pampering, which is stupid and for me unacceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:14 AM |
| 0 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Since you had a boyfriend, and that seems like "ages" ago, then i can guess you are in the older women bracket, "older" as in 30+ which while some don't lose attractiveness at all, a bunch do. If you are horny as a woman, the surefire way to fix this is being very direct, open a tinder profile, and just swipe right on everyone, then you filter the matches you got and just ask them to come to your/his place or motel directly, I BET no guy would ever refuse that. And if you like the sex becoming f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:11 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?What is the point of grinding if it doesn't make you happy, ESPECIALLY when you aren't rewarded anything that makes you happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:06 AM |
| 2 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Does porn make you happy?? And by that time i will likely be so old that my testosterone levels would be worse than babies, and i am very young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:05 AM |
| 0 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Any luck getting the sex without paying?? I honestly consider if saving for plastic instead of paying isn't valid. Since if i get a job i will likely spend about 250$ monthly on just hookers and that would be my whole salary here, with the average quality escort being about 50$, which adds up to fuck once a week + a joker card. In about a full year of saving this, with a little extra you can get a very decent simple surgery, 2 years and i honestly don't think there is a limit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:04 AM |
| 6 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?That is a bad recipe for happiness, i know it too well and would consider myself a master in this business of self distraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:58 AM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual.Lack of people is indeed the problem, also because most jobs are low wage jobs, currency just needs to be valued more, as in the poor get more buying power to improve dignity. And even still, if our economy is to keep working we NEED more people, in fact the more the better, because that means better retirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:57 AM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual.That is because we are not generating problems that people can solve, this is automation and lack of expansion. I really hope i get to see the colonization of mars or mass reforms and urbanization in africa, this would open up so many jobs that we could boom again Every major crisis humanity has recently faced was solved by neo colonialism, and i don't see that changing, we just need to employ these men. Not for SMV reasons this is economy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:54 AM |
| 6 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Doesn't "just go outside" hasn't been debunked a trillion times on this sub??? For every 10 guys who do that 1 succeeds, like just shower and hit the streets is bad advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:51 AM |
| 1 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Women rather stay single/celibate than have sex freely with this man in the 30%. And most of the 10% of women in the range of "untouchable" are likely either deformed or have some severe fat or just plain uglyness problem, also being disabled is unattractive equally in women too. Since you seem like a woman, i will add that as a man who indeed whoremongs sometimes, the experience is nothing alike a woman truly wanting sex. It is very good, like you can try all sorts of things, different places a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:49 AM |
| 3 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?Just supposed to overdose until death, really drugs don't make people happy, they just allow people different states. Having sex on ecstasy must be the best thing ever, dropping ecstasy alone at home during the night might lead to panic attacks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:42 AM |
| 0 | How are the "80%" of sexless men supposed to have happy lives?For me personally that holds little meaning because it doesn't stimulate my senses in any way bar the hooker. Since i don't value the act of merely living that much, and i obviously will NOT strike big to ever become legendary in any activity i pursue, not going to be the next cristiano ronaldo, elon musk, or casanova, it is just a dumb expectation to set since i will 99% fail. Thus i just try to live the best of what hedonism allows me to, but the lack of sex and being attractive is making my q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:40 AM |
| 1 | The REAL reason all my boyfriends have been 6ft plusShe has more genetic value than both of the men, firstly because women, secondly because tall women are more likely to produce tall children which would likely bully and beat the shorter ones since taller usually is stronger, so biologically speaking tall person usually carries more valuable genes and that plays into primal attraction. Socially however both tom cruise and zac efron found other ways to stand out and overpower other men and that is attractive because they somehow got to the finish… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | The REAL reason all my boyfriends have been 6ft plusGenetically this is not the case, it is in the current market however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:18 AM |
| 1 | If men want romantic/sexual success, they have to make a woman feel specialWhat i said is that they are only horny for specific dicks, they are not looking for dicks, they are after specific dick. Men however want as many different kinds of pussy as possible as long as it'a a healthy working one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:17 AM |
| 3 | The REAL reason all my boyfriends have been 6ft plusYou indeed would feel equally socially weirded out with a short BF, it just is logical. After all men and women with the same genes tend to have different heights based on dimorphism. So you having a taller man while being shorter than him is literally looksmatched. You would be below your SMV dating shorter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:04 AM |
| 2 | If men want romantic/sexual success, they have to make a woman feel specialGirls hitting the town for dick are on primal mode, they are after primal attraction AKA hot dude, or chad. 80% of guys it won't really matter they are hitting town for dick since they are not after them, so it is basically a myth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 07:57 AM |
| 2 | The REAL reason all my boyfriends have been 6ft plusI will actually agree here, since i am 5'9 and male, i can safely say that while tall women are pretty, i can only fetishize it to make it attractive to me personally. And i would not feel confortable or happy with a GF taller than me, it would make feel indeed insecure, doubt her intentions, vulnerable to other men, and infantilized. And yeah good part of it makes no sense, and i don't hold anything against tall girls, but honestly they are indeed scary, not for sex or attractive wise, but espe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 07:50 AM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual.Passing your genes through a second generation is the most basic goal of all living beings. And no, our economy is crashing because there aren't enough people, i can't even work for retirement anymore since as a 20yo i don't even know if this will ever be an option for me. I wi likely work more, harder, earn less, own less, and have a shittier life than my parents did, if i don't get to at least have lots of sex, drink my ass to sleep, and go out with friends every friday then my life and existe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:57 AM |
| 2 | About club strategies for casual.They came looking for the same as everyone else, fresh meat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:50 AM |
| 2 | About club strategies for casual.Alcohol and bad judgement, not letting her think things through too much and being as presentable as possible, wearing good cologne and obviously being emotionally manipulative as in, drill the weak points into submission basically. Especially good if you get any intel on the girl, like if she is trying to get noticed but no one approached her all night, she is likely needy so appealing to that while demanding the sex in return suggestively is the best. And hope you don't get sued for rape after… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual.What about dealing with urges? And more importantly failing biologically, as in failing to reproduce and have sex basically? Also this for me is no longer an option since i dated for too long so i know what sex is like and basically i find there is little other reason to live but hedonism, which is just unviable without sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:21 AM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual.Being ashamed of your BF in public is just bad. Besides this is more about casual, which doesn't involve public appearances that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 05:30 AM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual./s? Really looking for perspective here.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual.This generally only works with very drunk girls, like it doesn't even get a response from most sober ones, and that is because i am average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual.So for you disabling anti slut behaviour is the main thing? As in making sure they are no slut by sleeping with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 03:46 AM |
| 2 | About club strategies for casual.I am indeed playing a dangerous game but all guys i know who are indeed mildly successful are gambling too. I live in brazil so it is truly dangerous around here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 03:45 AM |
| 3 | About club strategies for casual.PUA content is required for achievieng looksmatch it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual.Nothing faster than rockets on a market cart, just wear a helmet so they dont see your face LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual.So give up? Basically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 12:51 AM |
| 2 | About club strategies for casual.Even if that happens it sometimes works out as if i try through mutual friends or cold approach i get at max friendzoned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 12:44 AM |
| 3 | About club strategies for casual.Chad? Is this you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:56 PM |
| 2 | About club strategies for casual.And since i personally hate all the wining and dining of dating, it is gym and steroids i think, maybe plastic, damn chads LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:51 PM |
| 3 | About club strategies for casual.Online dating is obnoxious for men looking to date, casual is only for turbochads on tinder basically. Really i think OLD is only a supplement men should use and not rely on it in the slightest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:44 PM |
| 4 | About club strategies for casual.Sure enough but not even making out?? From what it seems this is the easiest place to find women DTF, as in alcohol and loud music helps, also dark place etc. So how do you approach for numbers etc?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | About club strategies for casual.Not her having a BF, the boyfriend or other guy confronting you directly, this is the problem for me. Where i live men tend to deal with others by first addressing other men then they care about the girl. So you are more likely to get threatened by the dude than him trying to pull the girl from you. He will try to pull you off the girl instead off pulling the girl to him, usually, this is how i got punched a few times already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:25 PM |
| 0 | About club strategies for casual.Question 2, how do you avoid trouble with other men, especially ones interested or boyfriends. Yeah some guys trust their girlfriends, sometimes mistakenly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:15 PM |
| 0 | About club strategies for casual.What i asked was about what they ended up buying, like sure if all the tall muscular men are getting laid they are the people who must be asked for advice. Even if the advertising is just be hot, it still is true. Your purchase history ends telling the truth in this case. It's like me justifying why i always buy coca cola, and the answer is addiction, although i will justify it in a million ways, emulating coca cola is a good way to sell stuff to me independent on the why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:14 PM |
| 0 | About club strategies for casual.Even still, how do you check for girls you want to make the moves on?, do you look for IOI or you go from your attraction alone and roll the dice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women do not "set up" male friends with other women unless he meets a certain attraction thresholdI think he is reffering to setting you up for someone with the specific purpose of matching with that person. People do introduce you to other people, but in your case you actually got to know the person and court and set it up all yourself, girl merely presented you. What OP is talking about is a direct setup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveWhat the actual fuck LOL, let me re edit this comment. Everyone and their mothers abuses and weaponizes feminism as everything else is weaponized around here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveNo i just gave examples of the common ones people throw around here, this is obviously bad from an individual perspective. Once you start talking one on one with a person big trends are quickly discarded from the view over that person. Like yeah single mother are usually golddiggers after a beta, but maybe after you get to know he she ends up being a nice person who peacefully divorced a guy who is still friends. Sure i might not date her, mostly because of the law, but indeed she might just be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Do men have overall less life satisfaction?, as in they tend to enjoy life less.Depends on definition, i would likely be classified currently volcel since i had a few opportunities to date but i refused since im after casual. I am not a virgin my last relationship lasted 4 years, i just was young and now am not ready to date again but still horny, i pay sometimes if i get ravingly horny but otherwise unsuccessful with hookups. Take your yes or no to your question as you wish from this info basically, feel free to ask more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveThe few who got a good shot at it i DM'd, but indeed just straight up labelling without any conversation is the norm from both men and women. Old women trying to date, alpha widow. Young girl after casual, CC rider. Young girl after serious, hypergamous hoe. Like people really back off to just Ad Hominem the shit out of each other so it just becomes a shitshow where the actual topic of someone's idea is just ignored. Yeah my post is very extreme, but rarely other posts are and the treatment is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Are most women destined to be unhappy thanks to the 80/20 rule?Men reject this affection from other men usually, it is just very uncommon and usually regarded as a gay advance, you need to either know the buddy very well or tread very carefully when going deep with questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveHonestly yeah i think this is sad, but i do hold this view for now which i really can't talk myself out off. Actually women do love, with their bleeding hearts, people especially good at bleeding those dry, it just happens to be the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Are most women destined to be unhappy thanks to the 80/20 rule?Men deal with problem by either directly fixing the issue or by distracting friends from the problem, if they are unable to come up with a practical solution they just try to distract you from the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveI think this is the case american wise, because outside of smartphones nothing, literally nothing actually improved for the poor where i live with increase in GDP, mainly because of brazil's high corruption rate, resources never got to the poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveIt is because the argument and my opinion on this subject is that nothing that will actually happen can be done about the situation so looking for your own interest and watch the fireworks is the best one can possibly do. Like the undesirable men are basically fucked anyway, so they end up doing all kind of crazy shit like some famous incels did, because at that point their lives are pointless, on less crazy extremes they just vote extreme right and join a bunch eco chambers and be weirdos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Are most women destined to be unhappy thanks to the 80/20 rule?I would argue that men have a hard time making new friends with age and the connections between male friends are usually very shallow, so men struggle with loneliness as in true, zero contact or interest from people, a lot more from being single. Overall only a few things to point out but yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveOkay, this needs a bit of a big briefing so here i go If you don't think you are the main character in your life it is nigh impossible to determine a purpose, or inspirational goals, because there is no story arc to draw that from. With that lacking, we take a step back from idealistic, civilized goals and basically draw "inspiration" from instinct. So your life basically becomes about survival, confort, and mating, with 2 of these being almost a permasolve kind of problem (once you become finan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveWhich is why i think LOTR and The hobbit are very iconic, differential tales that did break away this dynamic and bred a big genre where this is not the focus. Also most stories about normal IRL people, AKA non-fantasy tend to have princess rewards, or the guy gets rich, either or basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveThey fit 100% all the likely an incel things you look for in a person bar being fat. Now i wouldn't know if there is an incel handshake, but maybe there is and i'm unaware, check incels.is to see if you find it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveYou are likely growing up in a farm yes, didn't mean you didn't volunteer to any random conflict your liege got ears on. In the past considering europe it was like being aware that there is warfare in a city nearby which is not hard at all, you can totally see a fire from very far away especially the village burning kind of one. And even still men were very likely to rape their neighbours and the dog included, and at least where i live people fucking farm animals is not unheard off in rural area… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveThe thing is The Hobbit is a masterpiece written by one of the greatest writers in modern history. The most common hero's prize is the princess, in many disney movies it's princess, in 007 it's "princess", even something like spiderman it's princess. Sure not all hero's gold is young pussy, but i bet a good portion indeed is. If we take tolkien for example, Aragorn's redemption arc is heavily based on his relationship with Arwen who pushes him to take responsibility of his bloodline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveIf you want to talk about multiple threads i would suggest you DM me, since it makes it terrible for future readers to get where you coming from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveNo this is man's fault, men who get access to alot of sex and attention throughout their life do not value it highly and this correlates with then being attractive, and from an individual perspective he has nothing to gain from it, but by being a jerk and pumping and dumping, and especially in this case being uncaring about birth control just means he is a problem in everyone's else's life. The men who are attractive to women have no personal benefits in making it better for society in general, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveThe issue i have with that is since i don't care about society in general as you seem not to too, is that existence devolves into hedonism as in just trying to entertain yourself 24/7, and for men that includes sex and of course being social because we are social creatures innately and loneliness is a big factor of men suiciding, so to a certain extent we are bound to society by biology which is just the biggest joke of it all. You are basically dependent on a society that doesn't provide what y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveYou literally just reinforced my point here, as there is nothing inherently wrong with what you typed, i don't know if you were doing biology or something in uni, but yeah i am not an expert in human sexual evolution, so give you that. Now to men being serviles it was never the case of men being absolute simps, in fact most serviles were slaves kept in check by whips and blades, so they didn't evolve to be docile they just did so to avoid death, and a lot of slaves did rebel in spite of that. Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveChoosing men willing to do so is hard on women apparently, and even then most of these kids are just born by accident because the guy just dogged raw, she forgot pills, the guy cumming before he could pull out, and many other kinds of accidents, this is why even my girlfriend did pills a year back, i never fucked raw, even if she is my GF, and i trusted her, i didn't trusted her to the point where she would never ever miss a pill day, and i could safely do so. And also the men allowed to casuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveWhat i told is that single mom's teach their kids to be the man she says she wants, but it is rarely actually the case, considering the father of this boy(s) is gone and never stuck around, she won't teach him traits of men who don't stick around but those traits are precisely what made him attractive in the first place. So drug lords either become totally opposite to simps AKA they become the alpha douches, because they figured it out or got stung by a bad woman, which usually means he could be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveOnly if you are either a chad or a very rich dude, again i don't think stacy is a good measurement, like the actual stacy. The problem is that every single women thinks they are stacy today because they gave chad a blowjob or something like that. Some women aren't stacies, but want the same treatment as stacy and that just isn't going to happen at least from me, now other men are inclined to try. To answer directly, up until now, no, i don't. And if you take a look at the reply, stacy wishes the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 08:02 AM |
| 0 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveAre you stupid?, monogamy is literally created by men, we biologically aren't wired up to me monogamous, with women being hypergamous and men polygamous, like this is TRP 101. I know this shit because literally every single person i interact with after a brief explanation to see that this is true, monogamy is the foundation of social stability and was used as the main incentive to get men to be productive for a very VERY long time, this is like the basis of social contract for men is. If you can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveDrug lords are raised usually by a single mom who teaches them to simp, and they 100% are simps, only the very top guys aren't total simps but women know how to deconstruct their tough shells, redpill being INCREDIBLY popular here, like REALLY popular, i would say outside of US and Europe the biggest community, but obviously most RP men stay well shut up to not get into trouble. Women have power here because of pussy card, when a women has trouble with one drug lord she is usually fucking his ri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 07:39 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveI think this model can't really coexist with free dating, since arranging a marriage is done by the family, and free dating is done individually. If your father wants to arrange you a marriage but you want to date another person this becomes basically a mexican soap opera plot, this can never coexist openly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveCrime and violence has never been so rampant where i live since feminism became trendy in the 2010's with the social media craze and the like. If you visit Rio it is the most hypergamous place i've ever seen, women hold all the power since they are allowed access socially to dangerous individuals, most being drug lords and militia leaders, corrupt rich cops included. It is very very complicated to even try to hit on women because sometimes the criminals already picked her that night for X person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 07:21 AM |
| 3 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveAt least where i live this is common, brazil is a wild place, criminals literally live next door since there is a favela between every major city and around them here. It is always dangerous when rich people live close by to dangerous/poor areas, crime rate is sky high and the guy who just robbed you might be the guy you saw at school. Maybe my view is very local but stranger is 100% danger here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveThe point is there wouldn't be that many women in the workforce in the first place had the revolution never happened. What would likely happen is that men indeed would have to work some 16 hours a day, it was like that before, my grandfather did work those hours for 20 years, but those men would eventually get paid A LOT more, enough that they would be able to sustain a household confortably by himself. Give a few more years, granting that these women would be paired up to survive with men, they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveThus exactly why i pointed out simps being the big enablers of the whole thing, someone smart realize that if you deprive men of sex and intimacy enough they will go great lengths to get it, as such it becomes basically a situation similar to how drug dealers hook addicts, they slowly start offering less and changing more, translating to my example. If men absolutely need sexual release, like everyone else, you charge them for it and they likely will pay whatever price you set up, not even money… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveThe feminist movement was a very, very fringe thing in it's infancy and a good portion of the anti feminists at the time were exactly women, so i really doubt people were just incredibly unhappy before feminism thus it happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveI think the point was more to solidify his point and to make it noted that he is not the only one to notice this trend, thus it means many people think like that so it has some weight to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveIf the overall GDP goes up and prices go up with that too, you are at a neutral from and individual perspective. If GDP rises because there is a lot more money in the market, prices rise, but you haven't got richer, you effectively hold a smaller percentage of wealth available so overall you are poorer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveAnd for 99% of men, they can't actually do anything besides being a useful slave in relationships, most adult men i've ever known are totally servants in their relationships, some are fine with that most are not, but they have literally no choice if they want sex and to keep seeing their kids. Nowadays it is not just men, people have a very hard time being useful to one another because literally all one needs nowadays is a job, a roof, and a phone and basically he is completely self sufficient, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveFor about 1000 years or so societal structures allowed men to compete for sex and OTHER MEN, usually fathers were the judge of their worth, NOT women, this includes many rites of passage, doury, courting etc. Even in the poor masses it usually was the father AKA the patriarch that had any say on this, women only got a say if they were cheating and fucking secretly, and that was inherently hard and dangerous so women did that far less than now. Overall men haven't adapted to please women in parti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveThus it only happens through betrayal of trust from exactly one of the male orbiters who is just her friend, this is why hitting on women is just dangerous in crowded places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveI have thought about what would work for both sides for a long (VERY long) time, and i came to the conclusion that the only way it would ever be "fair" is if both parties weren't free. Like with arranged marriages, neither men or women get a choice, this is the only way everyone can compete because they will artificially be paired up and thus no one would be left behind. Otherwise it is either what we have that is male averse. Or some dangerous place like congo where basically men would do whate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveEnd up in LTR yes, not wanting to try casual is a different story completely. Most men want that confidence boost that they made it into casual, that they are desirable. After they ingrain this fact they want to feel they are good for LTRs too. It is mostly a validational and biological thing, being high status literally changes your brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 05:11 AM |
| 1 | How much of y’all want to participate in hookup culture (but just struggle to get any)? Why?They don't need to be turned into wives, they are great, fun, and actually know a thing or two they can teach you since they must have learned something right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveThe thing is i don't hate women, not all women at least, but on this subject in a macro sense i really don't see any other way that this can be improved from the male side. What would be good is if women were willing to play the role most men play as in to actually ask people out and offer stuff to men in order to have sex with them and risk being rejected. The thing is, women are just biologically not as horny as men enough to go through those hoops for sex especially as it isn't required. Now … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 05:04 AM |
| 1 | How much of y’all want to participate in hookup culture (but just struggle to get any)? Why?Actually i do quite enjoy the last part, i do this frequently, go out just get hammer drunk and after the party is over i just go around either alone or with friends just to see what is in the street, one time i took the challenge of walking back home, it was fun af although i almost got mugged a few times LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveNow that i would actually press X to doubt, simply because TRP suffers from "corruption", no one is willing to show the way to the young men because that just means more competition, so most "gurus" end up being dishonest and exploiting those young men all the same. But yeah a lot of it has helped me immensely, this will sound very cliché but TRP made me expand my social circle more and meet people from all corners of life, so, maybe the rewards are all the friends we made along the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveIt is my perception that those rights were given freely to women and men weren't relieved of their obligations and innate struggle to compete for sex and attention because they are the ones born with a testosterone factory. Men will likely never experience what it is to get offered shit for free all the time, people who you don't know being pleasant, being thirsted over by most, and actually hardly ever getting rejected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveWell i actually agree with you, not worth trying to fight for a cause i don't believe worth it. Why shouldn't i do what i am doing, what are the benefits? If you so adamantly believe this is bad, which it seems to be the case, what to i have to win to do otherwise? Right now i just basically make posts whenever those thoughts come up here because i can't talk about this topic besides with a therapist, so i end up frequently here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:48 AM |
| 3 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveNo, women will fight tooth and nail for their wants, and men will fight tooth and nail for their wants. It just happens that men and women seem to be on opposite sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveWell, i think it has a lot to do with being from brazil, LTRs and dating in general is not culturally encouraged, here what seems to happen is that most men try to get that casual dating life, give up on that after failing countless times and just find a girlfriend they end up cheating on. And that is somewhere like 50+ people i know for more than a year, so at least what it seems is that this is normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveWell, most of the people i've met aren't particularly fond of it, especially because it seems the suffering is the core trait of their masculinity. That said there is a fair share that seems to genuinely enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveI've seen men get murdered in clubs for just staring, getting beaten up is a lot more common. Girls are never alone in clubs, with male friends included sometimes. It is also very likely that if staff gets a wind you are hitting on girls and they didn't like it that you will get kicked out. Not denying what you wrote up but that is only a problem when you are by yourself with someone, in public spaces men face more risk trying to approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveIn this topic i've given up trying to stop it, my experience points to nothing other than me being a victim. So what takes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveIt is basically all within PPD, this account i only use to post here. Most of my other subs are usually about the country, stock markets, and game balance. I use a different account exactly because it would be bad to see this stuff in my feed, but it is my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveNeither men actually care about what you tell me are your rights or not, most men are horny and heterosexual and want their problem fixed, most young men are now majoritarily voting aut right and actively against female empowerment. I don't have anything personally against you, it is just that what the situation is boiling down to is that men's interests are actively antagonical with women's, so it seems it never will be a topic where we will ever agree on. By we i mean men and women as a class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveMost men call what you are describing as getting it out of their system, what i seen myself is that it usually last's 3-10 years of partying before men decide to settle, the older guys at the club are exactly after what they missed while young. And the men who don't get it out usually become ravenously and visibly horny older men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveThis is however exactly what i pointed out, i don't disagree with this. The highest concentration of older incels i've ever met were at fighting clubs, there are a ton of hideously ugly dudes who are all ripped, and some scarred visibly, who basically only go there, do their training, don't talk to anyone, doesn't hang out after training, and leaves immediately after class is over. This kind of guy is your typical older incel who isn't a basement dweller, the incels would call them gymcels, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveTaking control requires me sacrificing way too much for a reward i feel its not worth that much. I take control over my grades, my job productivity, the quality of my friendships, maintenance over my possesions, because that responsibility has a guaranteed or highly likely outcome that is worth the effort i put into it. Now dating and casual is not this case because if i become a ripped, rich, knowledgeable of all PUA's magic tricks, words, psychological gaps etc., i am still not guaranteed qual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveFrom my POV it is the only situation where i could reap some benefits, if other's needs being met comes in detriment to my needs i will prioritize mine over theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveAnd as a men myself, i can say being a man is such a shitty experience, that it warps men into shitty people, so shitty in fact that men hate each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:12 AM |
| 0 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveNo the point is if those men didn't follow the classic structure of providing for a woman they were deemed lesser men, i understand that they could at least survive but they too would become pariahs. There are only 3 options in this case, either women get benefits, men get benefits, or everyone lacks them. In the past everyone lacked rights, men basically where forced into conscription to even have any resemblance of rights, and in some forms still have to today, but those conscripts where calle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveWell i think that if i knew being strong and a good fighter with opportunity to join in raids where i could basically get the pick of the litter of the women taken, i 100% would dedicate myself entirely to being the strongest most fierce warrior my genetics would allow me to. Nowadays i don't think being a swollen hunk of a man with skills to cut heads off is very hot or attractive, although it helps to be fit i don't think murderer potential is taken into account anymore. Many of the older ince… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveNo, stacy has something men absolutely need, and that is pussy, men having nothing that women actually need is the precise point made in the OP. And i do have a lot of things, being white, decent beard, low BF, athletic although i am skinny, heir of a small fortune, and overall pleasant to talk too. I offer basically similar things she is offering, basically. I've been complimented in bed too but i really don't believe that hold much ground since i fucked only 3 women before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveWhich is, literally, self evident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveHonestly i agree with this notion but how does this link to the post directly? Sorry for being dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveWhat i meant is that i don't seek commitment, the point is that for what i personally want that is casual, uncommited sex, i most likely will never be able to consistently pay the demanded price. And it seems that this is exactly what most men secretly want but settle for dating since they can't get that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:41 AM |
| 0 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveI think the only solution is that we as a society will dissasemble and slowly return to more patriarchal roots. Thinking about this men had power over other men first, strongest men got to pick whoever he wanted for a wife because not only he could rip every woman there apart, he could probably murder other men who dared say no to that too. Thus the "betas" decided to just team up and break this more powerful guy apart and share the women so every man got at least a bit of pussy. The big guys wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveBecause otherwise it would just become a bloodbath between men trying to take each other's women, it was a deal mostly between the men without taking women's opinion on the matter. And honestly female selection is passive eugenic selection, no wonders the most important traits women choose from are the ones you can't change, like height and skin colour. Thus why men realized that if women were to choose only a few males would be deemed the best specimen and breed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveMy argument is that nothing can be done to make both sides equally happy, so i rather have it my way, this is very simple logic actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveNo i don't have any advantages, i will not put effort into something being readily given for free for the neighbours, it makes no sense. So you are basically right, what i want is to be able to play with the same cards women do, because otherwise it is neither fair or equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveAgain, you can't bargain with someone who doesn't need anything from you, even discussing is pointless. So yes, i'm against women's rights, they make no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveStacy is lazy too, i won't sweat 2 drops for someone who doesn't give a shit about me, those simps have zero self respect. If the person i am going to date is lazy but i am not allowed to be i call this bullshit, why women get to be totally lazy but men don't, without anything in return btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveBecause those liberations and the indoctrination into simphood many men face, are exactly the source of 99% of all male struggles in the dating market, since women have no need for men but men have need for women, it becomes a market where men have to pay and women choose if they want to reciprocate or not, and the answer is usually not. In the past NO ONE had a choice about dating, men basically had no choice but to get into a relationship to have sex, or risk being labeled a whoremonger and os… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveI think the point is i actually am not looking for stability and life goals, i am pretty hedonistic about about life too so i click hard with the people in those enviroments, i don't struggle with friendships, the hard part is deciding if i will pay for sex or go to a party because both are very expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:02 AM |
| 2 | How much of y’all want to participate in hookup culture (but just struggle to get any)? Why?In my opinion if everyone got to play the tinder game people would be very satisfied, however very few men get to play that game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | How much of y’all want to participate in hookup culture (but just struggle to get any)? Why?I prefer what i can get and usually it's not good, i'm trying to stop going after what it's available because i 100% didn't find them hot or mildly attractive, and it most made me myself feel ugly. And those guys 100% are reliving their younger years with these women, they don't seem happy however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:55 AM |
| 4 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveBasically if they charge your heart and a liver for a few moments of fun, you are fine with it because "you have to adapt". Adaptation includes a lot of other things, including rape, moving to poor countries to abuse the locals, prostitution, becoming a criminal, and of course just straight up becoming right wing and voting against rights for immigration. There are a lot of ways to attack the price of something instead of making more money to buy it. At some point just working to pay for it is n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveI am 100% okay with putting simps in labour camps LOL, they are just enablers of female spoilage nowadays. In a more serious tone, yeah simps are 100% the cornerstone of it all, like it is VERY obvious that they are deliberately manufactured from youth, all propaganda teaches men to be simps from a young age, which in turn let's women be liberated and free, AKA they get to do whatever they want, without providing simps anything in return for the pampering, in fact they often get stepped on, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveI am 100% okay with putting simps in labour camps LOL, they are just enablers of female spoilage nowadays. In a more serious tone, yeah simps are 100% the cornerstone of it all, like it is VERY obvious that they are deliberately manufactured from youth, all propaganda teaches men to be simps from a young age, which in turn let's women be liberated and free, AKA they get to do whatever they want, without providing simps anything in return for the pampering, in fact they often get stepped on, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveI learned much of this from people IRL, got here from IRL reccomendation, that said most of my life is basically clubs and raves, college, and house parties, those are things i learned from fellow ravers and friends, so yeah the grass did more "damage" than this sub alone LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:29 AM |
| 0 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveI know it was shitty for women i just am not looking at that angle right now because from what it seems there won't ever be a situation where both sides benefit from a situation equally. Everything in the topic point out that there is almost never mutual benefit in this subject unless there is a need, like sexual craving and survival needs, given optionality one side is certain to be exploited. And being a man, it becomes us vs them, at this point i absolutely would not care, at max would try to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveThat was because you don't count the men who weren't dumb, back in the day it was very common for men to join raiding parties who weren't big battles at all, more like pillage, before the gunpowder revolution, many men would abandon their "tribes" to go take shit from the weak or unprepared and were willing to play the chances of becoming a corpse for that. See viking raids, especially the history about the jomsvikings, they are a good example of that, and back in the day the modern men would be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:13 AM |
| 0 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveFemale rights is an equality issue, however the benefits the average women get's just because many men are horny and want to fuck her, will NEVER be extended to men. The point of past inequality is that it was from the male perspective a fair exchange, you get to work and do shit for society and since women need provision you will be able to trade sexual access for provision in equal footing. Nowadays since women hardly NEED men to provide for themselves, men need something from women and women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:09 AM |
| 0 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveI don't really pay them much attention, i learned that women will always be heavily biased and even if they detach their emotions to type they still won't change. I really get baffled how this chaos didn't happen before, well i know why, because men didn't allow women to be free like they are today, every single previous society with more female rights collapsed quite quickly, it's a man's world out there but the bois forgot that somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveHonestly men are far more accepting of being shot and just facing that kind of shit, than they are to LDARing. I know a few friends who literally got slowly into drug dealing, crime, and other much dangerous behaviour because of women, idk if you are a woman or not, but most guys would rather happily take a bullet to the knee if it meant they would be hot. Also the men who did survive those wartimes were defined as high value so many men sold into the whole cannon fodder thing because they were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:58 AM |
| 1 | How much of y’all want to participate in hookup culture (but just struggle to get any)? Why?Honestly it's because older women realize they have an expiration date and the younger ones don't because the older ones actually expired. They only learn it is bad because they did the same while young otherwise they 100% would be doing the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:52 AM |
| 2 | How much of y’all want to participate in hookup culture (but just struggle to get any)? Why?Most guys at that point that i know who are successful have so many golddiggers after them they just avoid the whole thing altogether. Also i see A LOT of age gap relationships especially in clubs, it is always a 23 something and a 30+ guy, the guy usually looks like a sugar daddy even though he isn't, because it looks weird for everyone and they definitely get the creep looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveExactly, thanks for typing it better than me LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveWasn't this literally the case before feminism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveAt this point it is a moot point because everyone has basically the same rights in most western countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveThe point is not about right infringement, but the feminist liberation took away the main advantage men had over women and that was using resources to date, nowadays having resources doesn't do much to KEEP a partner, since if it only for resources the women can quite craftily take those away from the men, if she wishes to. And men can't really play the casual game the same way women do, only top guys get to compete the same way average women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:16 AM |
| 0 | How much of y’all want to participate in hookup culture (but just struggle to get any)? Why?I believe they were always like that, it is just that social norms heavily repressed that behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:11 AM |
| 5 | How much of y’all want to participate in hookup culture (but just struggle to get any)? Why?The thing is, a good portion of the young both men and women aren't interested in dating at all, women have easier time getting laid, attention, and pretty much everything else by being single, and men can't bother with all the effort required to date nowadays and just chill out and sometimes post to PPD, basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:09 AM |
| -1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveGuys with dead end jobs, not social status or extremely hot are generally not seem as attractive, that is precisely what is stopping me, and many others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveBut men don't get the benefits of being treated like women, only the downsides. Like if i could just be nice, have my dead end job, one weekly hookup from apps, and absolutely no worry about other men becoming agressive if i tried to hit on their friends, or even randoms, i would be all for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveAs a brazilian i know exactly what said poverty looks like, and no, the women in the workforce didn't help at all because inflation adjusted. Now women aren't extra income for people in general, women working is basically a requirement for having a decent economy, prices adjusted for double income families, where women on average spend 70% of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:34 AM |
| 9 | How much of y’all want to participate in hookup culture (but just struggle to get any)? Why?Women never changed, they were just freed from very strict social norms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:29 AM |
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