And more especifically to the ones that kind of "beaten it", as in you aren't bothered by it anymore, how you manage this?

I am asking this because recently i've been doing my maths and to the ones that say it is impossible to "level up", this is not true, it is just very expensive and time consuming.

Really you can become very aesthetically attractive if you do a very strict diet, go to the gym everyday, do at least creatine, fix your face with plastic surgery, and just not being way too short, which i am not and idk what to do about that, and follow the plan religiously, you can level up in about 5 years or so, then you can just lie about age to fuck younger.

About finances it's a bit tricky but if you aren't making very good money already or partially/completely living on passive income even the former is inpractical, and IDK how to get rich, i just don't, so it is up to the case.

And game, well then a good book portfolio and maybe a PUA workshop can help if you got the above in check and lacking socially.

Now this is obviously sounding very extreme, but it seems reality, most successful guys i see usually got part or all of those things just handed over to them, be it top genetics or rich parents, rare is the true ascended, and starting from neutral is just herculean.

And personally giving up dating/casual, is very fucking hard, i miss the sex, companionship and warm bed way too much, but the current scenario is just way too extreme in requirements for me to succeed on.

So i ask for the ones who aren't doing any of that and being overall happy, how do you manage?, like what drives you forward?

I know that some answers might just boil down to "go MGTOW", but how exactly are you happy being MGTOW, this is the question.

Teach me your ways bros.