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is that a shocking word lol
/r/seduction08/06/26 05:20 PM
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first off ignore 90% of the idiots who have never gone out telling you bullshit, second there is no blanket advice that will get you laid, talk to someone whos actually done what youre asking and get some genuine feedback on your energy and understanding of attraction.
/r/seduction03/05/26 06:10 PM
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you need to go out solo brother and face your fears, there is no way around this.
/r/seduction06/04/26 08:43 PM
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best hobby to get women is talking to women.
/r/seduction06/04/26 08:29 PM
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when have you ACTUALLY been shamed for approaching a women and breakdown everything that happened in the interaction. Im out nearly 7 nights a week and its very uncommon that a man is shamed for approaching, 90% of guys dont even approach at all. Most of this is psyop level social engineering from years ago that has plagued men.
/r/seduction18/03/26 10:08 PM
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fuck yeah, facts.
/r/seduction18/03/26 09:54 PM
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i dont agree with your take, i assume and if im wrong i do not care at all, and if im the only one who laughs i laugh alone. took years to get here, but thats just the truth for me now.
/r/seduction27/02/26 12:13 AM
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exactly, i had that realization reading the power of now, its like i was seeing the world for the first time again
/r/seduction26/02/26 10:42 PM
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i love this man! its so true and these changes can happen literally instantly. the biggest issue is cutting the cord of negativity which fuels most guys, but if they can just step into the present moment with a fresh perspective, EVERYTHING changes.
/r/seduction26/02/26 10:41 PM
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you should go out for at least an hour a night, and do 8-12 sets a night, with proper guidance and game.
/r/seduction26/02/26 08:08 PM
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men have "approach anxiety" we get nervous in the beginning. Women have "buyers anxiety" they are nervous the first time before taking that step. After they know you are safe and good in bed, that will dissipate a bit.
/r/seduction25/02/26 06:38 PM
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i will push back and say you most likely gave up well before the point of where you would have seen results, also most likely doing the wrong things with the wring advice
/r/seduction25/02/26 06:24 PM
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who is "we" and what have you "tried"
/r/seduction20/02/26 12:59 AM
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obviously.... this is what it takes to get the truth out and respond to guys who type more than take real action. even if one if these guys has an epiphany its worth it
/r/seduction19/02/26 06:13 AM
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awesome bro
/r/seduction19/02/26 06:12 AM
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i wont let the truth die
/r/seduction19/02/26 06:11 AM
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most guys live in a dark pit surrounded by the fear of judgement and isolation, i wont do that.
/r/seduction19/02/26 02:50 AM
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yeah its the opposite of "looksmax and be tall" which is the dumbest shit ever
/r/seduction19/02/26 01:58 AM
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its not an outburst, genuinely its a brainwashed take that doesnt affect me, only the people who live with the mindset that if you are ugly you cant find people to have fun/a relationship with. even though yeah he was half joking its just a tras way to view the world.
/r/seduction19/02/26 01:57 AM
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lol 😂 point was he ignored the post my guy, i explained what i meant by "dork" was simply acting like we did when we were 5. saying whatever we want, aiming to have fun, and being free. he obviously just saw "dork" and just started typing his response. idgaf if people dont like it im calling people out.
/r/seduction19/02/26 12:18 AM
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my success was not random, its completely replicable, you just simply did not receive the right information, guidance, and accountability brother.
/r/seduction18/02/26 10:41 PM
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so many women are able to look past looks, how can you not know this? you have completely blinded yourself to reality and checked out mentally. WAKE UP
/r/seduction18/02/26 10:40 PM
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😂
/r/seduction18/02/26 10:13 PM
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on to the fucking next bro... you cant let anyone else determine your mood. thats a fucking loser mentality. ive been brutally rejected plenty of times, it doesnt say anything about me...
/r/seduction18/02/26 10:06 PM
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hey bro go ahead and keep believing its your looks and things outside your control, tell that to them men in wheelchairs, missing limbs, unable to move, that managed to find lovely partners. you are are entrenched in your thinking and you are saying its been 10 years of rejection but i promise you ive veen rejected more than you in the first few years of my journey, its ultimately do you get bitter or better, and i chose to get better.
/r/seduction18/02/26 09:48 PM
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☝️🤓
/r/seduction18/02/26 09:44 PM
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love to hear it brother you went through the journey
/r/seduction18/02/26 08:38 PM
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your experiences are skewed based on your perception, just fucking do some googling brother, you dont see what is real you see what you want to believe. being a "dork" even if you are ugly will get you amazing social results, its that simple, yet you want to believe from your limited perspective that looks are the end all be all, ITS JUST BULLSHIT. its a small minded perspective that feeds scarcity and isoloation and self wallowing. its trash. EVEN IF being ugly makes it a bit harder initially, …
/r/seduction18/02/26 08:30 PM
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abso-fuckinglutely. if you take the action and have someone in your corner you will CRUSH. i have personally seen guys well into their late 50s early 60s pull dimes, and i can literally show you what i helped them with.
/r/seduction18/02/26 08:27 PM
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a dork is someone who is silly, doesnt filter themselves, and is free. that freedom and a willingness to be silly is the highest leverage activity that ANYONE can do to instantly be more attractive and get better social results. im talking from literally a decade of experience and well over 10000 hours of going out to socialize
/r/seduction18/02/26 08:23 PM
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brother i was in a similar place as you, when i was 19 and lonely, i didnt make a change until i had someone who told me the brutal reality. i would have been a complete shut in and would still be depressed. it seems rough in the moment, but when you look back years later these are the types of moments that change your life.
/r/seduction18/02/26 08:17 PM
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because i know where the path of isolation, scarcity mindset, and a lack of action leads, and im willing to trigger people to wake them up.
/r/seduction18/02/26 08:15 PM
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right, and im speaking to INCREASE awareness and INCREASE a growth, abundant mindset that will steer whoever comes across my content towards the path of success, NARROW is the path that leads to life. so i get it. point is my aim is to help others find that path towards true social freedom.
/r/seduction18/02/26 08:12 PM
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no dont summarize it, that will devolve the message into cliche bullshit, read it fully and try to let the words land.
/r/seduction18/02/26 07:57 PM
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you didnt even read the fucking post. you just wanted to type type type your response.
/r/seduction18/02/26 07:55 PM
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shut up with this bullshit , get off the internet and go out and talk to 1000 people before you comment this brainwashed bullshit
/r/seduction18/02/26 07:54 PM
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you are missing the underlying reason, and this is a paradigm of scarcity, victimhood, and an external locus of control. i do not accept that bullshit. i understand that 99% of people are unconscious therefore it makes sense you see this, but you are also not looking at the right things. im talking from a perspective of someone who took more action than 99.99% of people. there are literally countless examples of ugly dorks succeeding, yet you can only focus on the failures because it feeds your …
/r/seduction18/02/26 07:49 PM
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there is a whole shit ton if underlying psychology and frame/game to unpack there. also i would challenge the amount of experience you've had, as most likely you have a fraction of the field experience that is required to understand why "ugly" guys dont allow themselves to act charismatically. just look up casanova before you comment this self limiting, socially inept bullshit
/r/seduction18/02/26 07:19 PM
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if it seemed like she was the one at fault for the bad sex.
/r/seduction18/02/26 07:14 PM
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because guys are too afraid to put themselves out there in any meaningful way outside of work/friend groups. they end up friendzoned for months and eventually will get a pity date and marry the chick, she then leaves his ass for a bartender on a girls trip.
/r/seduction18/02/26 07:00 PM
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im not talking about theory. you either decide to go on the journey or not. one involves temporary pain for long term comfort, the other is just a downward spiral that leads to isolation and depression.
/r/seduction09/02/26 11:19 PM
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which is exactly why you have no qualms with walking away at any moment. also you should approach with an interesting topic that would enhance their night. imagine you had a check for 10000$ with their name on it, how would you feel about walking up? you have to cultivate and believe / know that your energy, your conversation will ADD value to them. once you start adopting these thought patterns and behaviors, it becomes increasingly easy to start conversations with anyone.
/r/seduction09/02/26 06:25 PM
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anyone telling you dont get a mentor, without having gotten one themself, is not someone to listen to. i personally got mentorship and it wasvert beneficial to me. im 5'6 and 211 pounds, and average looking. i spent years working on cold approach and it took nearly a year and a half of constant effort to feel like i "got it" so it can take a long time for some of us. do not give up. you must see it as a lifelong journey of improvement and celebrate every little win. keep at it and your future gf…
/r/seduction09/02/26 05:36 PM
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if youre very sexually active, even when using protection, odds are you will end up with HPV and HSV-1. nearly impossible to dodge those both for your whole life. but brother they will not effect your life in a meaningful way unless you spiral and loop and feed negative thoughts about it. just be happy you werent born 300 years ago where the flu was a death sentence and the doctor would bleed you out to fix it ☝️🤓
/r/seduction09/02/26 05:29 PM
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lmao everywhere and anywhere if you know how to get that side of them.
/r/seduction09/02/26 07:52 AM
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exactly, its called "game" literally the whole point is to enjoy life and have fun with it
/r/seduction09/02/26 07:49 AM
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brother we are human. we need connection. unless youre going to be the .01% who pursue enlightenment through total isolation, your relationships are literally the biggest indicator of overall life satisfaction and health.
/r/seduction09/02/26 07:49 AM
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made a choice i would figure it out or die tryinf
/r/seduction09/02/26 07:48 AM
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brother i was late to change my life too, never too late but dont let time keep slipping away
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:38 PM
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youre not alone brother
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:35 PM
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/r/seduction03/02/26 02:30 PM
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i dmed u brotha
/r/seduction02/02/26 06:25 PM
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oh idk man, im jn soflo and i was more than happy with my results, make of that what you want, point being theres ways around every obstacle if you are willing
/r/seduction29/01/26 09:29 PM
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wrong, i used to host triva at a local bar every week, got paid to do it. think outside the box brother.
/r/seduction29/01/26 09:25 PM
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yeah its the only way in todays world, before social media and feminism type shit going on dates was exactly what you wanted to do, show her you are put together, focused, respectful. that shit gets you played today, all that matters is charisma and swag
/r/seduction29/01/26 08:12 PM
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thats a powerful frame, internal locus of control, seek guidance and accountability
/r/seduction29/01/26 07:45 PM
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you can almost always get someone back, but ONLY if you completely forget sbout them, let them make their own choices, and you need to level the fuck up and get back out there
/r/seduction29/01/26 07:38 PM
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you misinterpreted what i meant by having 100% good vibes. that doesnt mean you arent willing to walk away... if i get even the slightest shit thats annoying from a girl shes gone bro. its about being the MOST engaged and the LEAST attached. that means a extremely high willingness to walk brother.
/r/seduction29/01/26 07:36 PM
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the issue is when youre inviting a girl on a formal date, you are getting her logical side, shes literally thinking is this guy going to be the man i want a relationship with? instead, go out like a fucking pimp, rock the night, make 3/5 new connections on insta, and host an event that she can show up to and leave at any time, you will get her emotional, fun and free side and it will be a lot easier for her to let go and "have fun" with you.
/r/seduction29/01/26 07:33 PM
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brother no bullshit i went over a year and a half before i even considered myself somewhat proficient in cold approach, and now im a fucking beast 10 years later
/r/seduction29/01/26 07:30 PM
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dont think about it too much, chalk it up to a fun time and move on to the-next
/r/seduction28/01/26 04:33 PM
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its a zen paradox brother, i went to a butterfly gsrden with my girlfriend a while back and everyone wanted a butterfly to land on them, i did too, but i had to LET GO OF THE NEED and guess what, a butterfly landed on me, once it landed i WANTED IT TO STAY, but forcing it to stay by grabbing it would kill the beautiful butterfly... dont want that, you have to TRUST and let it stay. these are the paradigms you must start thinking in, and it can be tough to break out of your current ones but you n…
/r/seduction28/01/26 04:08 PM
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im from South Florida, used apps in college got minimal success, so been cold approaching nearly a decade and got top 1% amount of results but also had to do it more than 99% of guys too i had a very big learning curve, and im also 5'6 and 208 pounds so im like a little fucking meatball, i recommend commiting the next year to go on a fucking mission to do more than you ever have and push the fuc through, and get someone to hold you accountable (not a fucking ad even though i do this for guys) an…
/r/seduction28/01/26 04:05 PM
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appreciate you brother
/r/seduction28/01/26 04:01 PM
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what are you basing this take off of? im basing my post off of my lived experience of shifting from scarcity to abundance. like are these just hypothetical situations youre making up? why would you feel anger if you know you have 5+ options at anytime? this feels like a weird excuse to slut shame and its exactly what im saying needs to be weeded out of your psyche. personally i think that traditional marriage and the social norms of the past were much better for overall male hapiness, but at som…
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:33 PM
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you are not approaching with the right mindset/material/gameplan brother. if you had those down and committed to doing approaches and structured your process everything would be different. its like saying shooting 3s dont work in basketball, depends on whos shooting. if your percetages are low then lets take a look at your form, its as simple as that. also remember some of us are born like shaq, and some of us like mugsey bouges, both had amazing careers and are celebrated, just to different deg…
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:24 PM
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one is guaranteed... the other is a chance.
/r/seduction27/01/26 08:37 AM
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he created his own living hell. god save his soulf
/r/seduction27/01/26 12:30 AM
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im not going to be the guy who tells you how to live you life, but ill tell you this, most of my best first dates included multiple locations, the included being close together, they included witty banter, a level of teasing and rapport building, and they went best when i did not care what happened. being present and LEADING were the biggest factors.
/r/seduction26/01/26 06:58 PM
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you need to change the first date, where are you taking these girls, what activities and what conversations are you having? whats your tonality andinternal state? theres too many wuestions for a simple text but theres a lot to unpack here clearly
/r/seduction26/01/26 06:45 PM
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if its not an excuse, then it dont need to get f*cked... buddy its right in the title pal.... im not saying if you dont have legs "JUST START WALKIN" im saying if its an EXCUSE, THEN STFU... use your brain man... love you
/r/seduction26/01/26 06:42 PM
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"it just happened" means that she was in a highly emotional state, simply doing what felt right, but now, the day after, when she is in her office chair thinking logically, she cant imagine that she would have ran off into the night with a stranger and ended up skinny dipping at the beach... which happens a lot 😁
/r/seduction26/01/26 06:33 PM
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its that simple.... i choose to just live my life and get the results i want, everything else is spinning your fucking tires getting no where
/r/seduction26/01/26 06:29 PM
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i love it, i was trying to remember the name for that method of rhetoric that was used in masterminds
/r/seduction24/01/26 08:46 PM
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☝️🤓
/r/seduction24/01/26 07:43 PM
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love it brother, you are what we call a natural. GOD SPEED
/r/seduction24/01/26 07:27 PM
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lets agree to disagree. i have an internal locus of control. i take blame for EVERYTHING in my life, no one else. my advice and persoective is NOT FOR EVERYONE.
/r/seduction24/01/26 07:22 PM
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obviously the approaches should be coupled with genuine reflection, an aim to increase your social awareness and intelligence, and a north star that is about ADDING VALUE to the experience of others. i DO NOT think that its ridiculous to approach 1000 women, when the alternative is to be a complete chode loser who "doesnt want to lower his value by approaching a lot of women ☝️🤓" the average guy who is depressed and alone would learn WAY MORE from 1000 approaches than any sort of circle jerk BS …
/r/seduction24/01/26 07:00 PM
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🙌🙌
/r/seduction24/01/26 06:28 PM
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WRONG - mass approaching with social calibration is 100% real. you are simply wrong about this.
/r/seduction24/01/26 06:28 PM
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yeah, for me, when i faced that reality, i knew i had an uphill battle but man i could not just give up and keep myself stuck any longer.
/r/seduction24/01/26 06:25 PM
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we need to trigger these boys to make them men... call out the blatant lack of ACTUALLY DOING WHAT THEY SAY...
/r/seduction24/01/26 06:21 PM
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brother, there are some things that are just true... if you dont leave the house, youre not getting to the party. i agree everyone has their own game, but most guys havent even met enough people to have any idea if their game is working for them or not...
/r/seduction24/01/26 06:19 PM
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yeah man, and you can see by my posts it triggers them, which is exactly what they need if they are going to get tf out the house and make some moves.... i came from the mindset "why THE FUCK would she want to spend ANY AMOUNT OF TIME WITH YOU????" its brutally true and exactly what these guys need to understand... god speed brotha
/r/seduction24/01/26 06:17 PM
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what u mean buddy
/r/seduction24/01/26 04:59 PM
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you have to commit to adopting the behaviors and mindsets of the top 1% of men. emotional intelligence, social intelligence, and literally just behaving how the men who get what you want get. you have to completely remove yourself from group think and the societal hypnosis. you are very young bro but if you commit to the process you will get everything and then some
/r/seduction23/01/26 04:08 PM
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volume and reflection and a mindset of improving and expanding your understanding of human psychology and what women care about.
/r/seduction23/01/26 04:05 PM
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🤣🤣
/r/seduction22/01/26 09:38 PM
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🤣🤣
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:47 PM
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no bro make the most of what you have man... even if you get better with people youre not attracted to you are still building momentum and bringing the vibe up with everyone, and the when you do go to the city you are already in momentum
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:47 PM
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obviously it was implied you are going to the places where the people you want to meet are at brother
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:32 PM
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lmao you have no clue what my life is like, if you need to assume and rationalize that i dont get what i want go ahead brother more power to ya 🤣
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:30 PM
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approaching a lot of women is only needy if youre a needy little bitch, i do it because i seek connection and fun, i love my life and share my energy freely with everyone. ive cultivated this energy over years.
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:29 PM
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go get rejected 100 times in the next month, then you wont be so clearly on a mental fence questioning everything, and you will be in a state of momentum
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:03 PM
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exactly, and also the mental frameworks guiding the volume and the reflection on experiences, aiming to improve and being honest with oneself
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:00 PM
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appreciate it brother
/r/seduction22/01/26 07:59 PM
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bro im 5'6. when i was 22 i was just starting out, it sucked hard early on, but i powered through because that was the dynamic of the community back then, giving up and being a fucking chode loser was not an option, exactly my issue with the state of the world and young mens outlook. find an older guy who can take you under his wing brother.
/r/seduction22/01/26 07:58 PM
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well said, its a true dilemma
/r/seduction22/01/26 07:57 PM
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i do not agree that this take is "complete nonsense" even if you have a weird chode loser guy that literally scares away every girl he talks to, if he ACTUALLY powers through and mantains high volume its inevitable that he will improve overtime, given, like i said before, he doesnt burnout, give up, and have the mentality of a fucking loser.
/r/seduction22/01/26 07:54 PM
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very well said and nuanced, genuinely appreciate your perspective brother.
/r/seduction22/01/26 07:52 PM
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this is just not true brother. being the guy who talks to everyone is a very attractive trait, as ling as you are congruent, radiating good energy, and do not need anything. obviously if youre a little chode running around being a fucking loser getting rejected by everyone you will fall into a downward spiral, and ofcourse that can happen to anyone especially when you are just starting your journey in social skill development, but once you have enough experience and understanding of human psycho…
/r/seduction22/01/26 07:49 PM
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its literally 1/2 night life venues. you can work on these skills in as little as 30 minutes. thats obviously the outlier and more time invested will lead to greater progress.
/r/seduction22/01/26 07:45 PM
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you completely proved my point brother, approaching and gaming is not normal, its for the man who wants to get what he desires from life. you clearly dont know the statistics and you are living in an echo chamber of your own experiences. im talking about doing what most guys wont to pull themselves out of a pit of depression and apathy. appreciate the input though seriously its the insight and counter perspectives that push conversation and growth and understanding. god speed brotha
/r/seduction22/01/26 07:44 PM
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just look up the best pickup artists bro. how many sets of 3+ people have you run? youre talking about something you havent done. gaming a girl solo is a lot easier when youre used to groups. if you started doing groups you would get even better and expand your horizons. it seems like youre upset about this because you dont know how to work groups or dont want to spend the time to get good at it.
/r/seduction21/01/26 02:28 PM
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right, if youre getting results youre happy with theres no issue. most guys will go out, only talk to girls who are alone, get terrible results, and wonder why its not working, thats the point of the post. i thought that would have been deduced. why would i tell a guy whos loving his results to change anything? the best women ive been with were not alone, they were surrounded by friends and other people who also wanted her attention.
/r/seduction21/01/26 12:44 PM
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aim to go to more lounge like environments, rooftop bars and bistros. if youre in a loud club a cool trick is to raise your octaves a bit, it will make your voice cut through the noise more.
/r/seduction20/01/26 03:25 AM
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the lips of knowledge are sealed to those who do not seek it
/r/seduction13/11/25 12:00 AM
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go meet thousands of people in social environments, shes out there
/r/seduction24/10/25 12:42 AM
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100 is nothing, keep going and update us at 1000
/r/seduction24/10/25 12:39 AM
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a lot of parallels definitely
/r/seduction22/10/25 03:35 AM
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yes sir
/r/seduction22/10/25 03:35 AM
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a set is just meeting a new group of people, typically youll see 2 sets and 3 sets most commonly ( maybe two girls together, or two girls and 1 guy.) so a night of game is using conversational openers and "holding court" on 12 sets at typically 2-4 different venues.
/r/seduction21/10/25 09:02 PM
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right. odds are, if you just go meet 10000 people, you will get everything you want.
/r/seduction21/10/25 08:46 PM
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Learn and practice the fundamentals of good game.
/r/seduction10/09/25 10:23 PM
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Right, complication doesn’t always equate difficulty. It’s not complicated, but it isn’t easy, AT FIRST. After you build the action taking momentum and shift into another world view, it starts to become very easy. To the point you do not have to even use any conscious energy to take massive action.
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:22 PM
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You start building self esteem by doing things that challenge you and push you to grow.
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:19 PM
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Haven’t seen it, literally would completely ignore it.
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:18 PM
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Because the percentage of guys who have ACTUALLY GOOD GAME is so incredibly small, and they often find success on their own. That’s why.
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:30 PM
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A whole bunch check out the thread I have a bunch of examples
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:26 PM
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You can change that in one night.
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:24 PM
2

DHVs, Negs, Push Pull, Leading the interaction, being non-needy. Planting seeds for future plans. Securing contact information. Maintaining empathetic connection. Escalating and Deescalating. Having a cool fun thing to go to after. Willingness to Lead.
/r/seduction30/08/25 04:50 PM
1

Power through. For me, I committed to the process and would rather die trying than accept mediocrity.
/r/seduction29/08/25 01:28 AM
3

Use the 3 second rule: 3,2,1 GO. Also know your opener.
/r/seduction28/08/25 09:39 PM
2

Lmao ur so funny bro. Most guys dont know what good game actually looks like, so they go up and say, “youre so beautiful can I have your number.” If you actually study good game, remove the bad habits, and actually try, you will succeed. Unless you have a loser mentality then youre fucked
/r/seduction27/08/25 08:05 PM
-6

“PUA clowns” world class communicators who bring joy and fun into others lives, while enriching the experience of everyone around them and sharing their knowledge to better the world. Haha ur such an idiot, but genuinely, I hope you can get some perspective and open your eyes. Much love brother
/r/seduction27/08/25 06:10 AM
2

I’ll give you a simple one that has been around for decades and still works: hey help me settle a debate with my friend, who lies more, men or women?
/r/seduction27/08/25 04:54 AM
2

Simply say your opener. Ready Fire Aim. Get better, feedback loops. Stick to the process
/r/seduction27/08/25 04:51 AM
1

Youre messing up the 12 steps to intimacy bro. Do some research
/r/seduction27/08/25 03:24 AM
1

Im a man, but I will tell you from many conversations with lesbians these few tips. If it feels good for you, doesn’t ALWAYS mean it feels good for her. Use your communication extensively, and most importantly, let go of any preconceived notions in your mind. Enjoy yourself, and enjoy her. Dont be afraid to take charge, and dont be afraid to ask.
/r/seduction27/08/25 03:01 AM
1

Dayummm wouldn’t doubt it!
/r/seduction26/08/25 08:26 PM
1

By going out and talking to everyone
/r/seduction26/08/25 12:28 AM
1

DHVs, comfort building touch, calibration, push pull, showing signs of security.
/r/seduction25/08/25 11:15 PM
2

Yeah they had to go mainstream because society couldn’t handle the truth. But read between the lines
/r/seduction25/08/25 11:14 PM
2

Just do it. Get good
/r/seduction25/08/25 10:50 PM
1

Stick to the process. Celebrate the little wins, get a mentor like myself or someone you resonate with.
/r/seduction25/08/25 08:26 PM
5

Literally just doing it. My heart would be racing, my mind would be telling me to not do it, and DOING IT ANYWAYS.
/r/seduction25/08/25 08:25 PM
1

The reason is because most guys don’t actually try. they are weak willed. They are spineless and conditioned to be timid little losers, just how society intended. It’s sad. Most guys don’t have real values, don’t actually resonate with their own success. It’s not because cold approach doesn’t work. It does. Whoever commits to the path of mastery will succeed.
/r/seduction25/08/25 08:24 PM
1

What “values” bro cold approach is about spreading good energy everywhere you, being calibrated to others emotional state, and creating win wins.
/r/seduction25/08/25 06:05 AM
9

I’d say doing cold approach leads to accomplishing goals at a higher rate. That’s just me though. It’s also easier to start. Because it requires nothing. There’s no Barrier to entry. So why not? Like WHATS the point of putting off increasing your skill of meeting new people. Telling people to push it down the road is just dumb to me.
/r/seduction25/08/25 02:38 AM
2

lol what is this shit bro. Get the fuck over it and keep going after it. Much love
/r/seduction24/08/25 10:26 PM
1

Well the fact that you commented means that theres a beacon of hope bro.. dm me if u want
/r/seduction24/08/25 10:22 PM
0

Quite a few??? I’ve been rejected literally over 1,000 times. You DO NOT HAVE ENOUGH DATA OR REFERENCE POINTS.
/r/seduction24/08/25 08:48 PM
1

Jesus bro that is not true. Wake up.
/r/seduction24/08/25 08:43 PM
1

Well my main goal was to get dates. So mostly approaching women I liked. But yeah playing ball with the bros is great
/r/seduction24/08/25 08:41 PM
3

Also my point was that you were making a claim on something that you’ve never done personally, the analogy was secondary. So you pointed out the wrong aspect of my claim. GG
/r/seduction24/08/25 08:39 PM
2

People get vastly different results in the gym. Some Guys will work out for MONTHS and not see very good results, some guys are naturals and progress WAY faster. You just proved my point lmao
/r/seduction24/08/25 08:38 PM
1

Yes!! I love to hear this
/r/seduction24/08/25 07:52 PM
1

Yes!!
/r/seduction24/08/25 07:52 PM
1

Yes!!
/r/seduction24/08/25 07:51 PM
2

I love to hear this bro!!
/r/seduction24/08/25 07:50 PM
2

Im sorry to hear that, but I just simply do not resonate to the idea of ruminating over something for more than say, 30-45 seconds?
/r/seduction24/08/25 07:50 PM
6

Hahahah that’s like saying “I personally have NEVER exercised in my life, and I get all my health benefits from artificial drugs thar make me lose weight. This idea thar EXERCISING can reduce depression needs to stop, it is a ritual of self generated pain that most men shouldn’t go through. This touring of exercise to help health and depressions is innately flawed and needs to stop!” Bro youre such a complete idiot. But still, I wish you nothing but the best 🙏
/r/seduction24/08/25 07:49 PM
5

Yeah for the first year to year and a half it was nothing but pain and misery, with brief moments of fun and that’s all I needed to keep going, I quite literally am still at it today going out regularly and still meeting new people daily. I would have never gave up and died before I accepted the idea of calling it quits
/r/seduction24/08/25 07:47 PM
8

That’s definitely one way of doing it, i like it!
/r/seduction24/08/25 07:43 PM
6

I didn’t realize you typed out what you thought RSD meant my bad, but my guy corrected it for me it’s Real Social Dynamics, but it’s an older company now just look up Owen Cook
/r/seduction24/08/25 07:42 PM
3

Right but don’t give up
/r/seduction24/08/25 03:33 AM
2

If I was going off the first 6 months of me actually trying I would be saying the same thing, the only option for me was to keep going, failure and giving up wasn’t.
/r/seduction24/08/25 03:19 AM
2

2 months bro you should’ve done over 100 approaches since then
/r/seduction24/08/25 03:18 AM
-3

Yeah definitely! I’ve done literally thousands of approaches, and only nearly got into 1 fight but it was defused. The issue is youre going purely off speculation. Most people are really awesome and you will be fine. Go with a friend and you will see! Theres friends to be made 🙏
/r/seduction24/08/25 02:35 AM
3

Exactly! Not worth the risk! Because life is meant to be played safe at every direction because that means you will live forever and nothing bad can happen! Oh wait, youre still going to end up like all of us, just with more regret and missed opportunities. START LIVING BRO!!
/r/seduction24/08/25 02:21 AM
15

This is hillarious 🤣
/r/seduction24/08/25 02:18 AM
-7

Yeah if that’s your mentality for sure, best not do anything that will get you in trouble! Just be a good little boy!
/r/seduction24/08/25 02:16 AM
1

Great mindset bro, how old are you? And when did you start?
/r/seduction24/08/25 02:15 AM
10

I honestly block out all the negative responses like literally part of my subconscious rewiring is to celebrate every little win, and now, I rarely get negative responses. But sometimes theyre just not In the mood mayne I drank A little, so they would be like “no thank you! Buh-bye! Leave!! LEAVE!! “ and I would be like “cuhmoonnn alright alright have a great night ladies!”
/r/seduction24/08/25 12:53 AM
4

Discovered RSD - pickup - massive social action and accountability. YouTube Owen Cook he’s the GOAT. Also look up Mystery Method and Jeffy Himself.
/r/seduction24/08/25 12:51 AM
2

Basically. Just little bitch boy shit.
/r/seduction24/08/25 12:25 AM
37

Yeah average guys is absolutely Fucked. Watch RSD and take massive action or else you will be ruined.
/r/seduction24/08/25 12:24 AM
1

Terrible idea, if it was used as an aid for Real interaction, great idea.
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:35 PM
2

DM
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:32 PM
14

Yeah it’s daunting at first, but if you Stick to it for a prolonged period of Time, your life will get better 100%
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:12 PM
16

Sure, these are for complete beginners. After a while you won’t need them. But here’s one that is beginnner friendly, “hey really quick help me settle a debate with my friend, who lies more men or women?”
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:11 PM
17

Yes.
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:09 PM
16

Hahah i like it
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:09 PM
48

All of the above bro. You approach everyone, comfortable with any outcome, and have a system for all possibilities.
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:05 PM
42

Yeah it starts out really awkward and you will get better, eventually, it’s freedom. Awkward Freedom.
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:05 PM
55

Cope. Cold approach is about sharing good energy with everyone. Take massive action now, because when the attractive girl DOES show up, you will let her walk right past if you’re not in action taking momentum.
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:03 PM
33

In anyway the vibes call for.
/r/seduction23/08/25 10:53 PM
4

No. You will actually be pushed to become an expert communicator if you are NOT attractive. Naturally attractive people are not incentivized or motivated to become masters.
/r/seduction23/08/25 10:44 PM
41

Approaching someone you’ve never met.
/r/seduction23/08/25 10:44 PM
32

Anywhere and everywhere. Best places for volume are of course bars and clubs, beaches and public parks.
/r/seduction23/08/25 10:43 PM
48

Fire 🔥 cold approach literally saved my life, and makes EVERY aspect of dating better. Keeps you sharp for when you’re in a relationship, keeps leads flowing, expands social circle, makes online dates better, literally EVERYTHING.
/r/seduction23/08/25 10:36 PM
1

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
/r/seduction21/08/25 10:22 PM
4

The style of humor, very self deprecating and also performative social education and representation. Sarcasm and meta level awareness of social issues.
/r/seduction19/08/25 08:16 PM
3

Most everyone in here will be giving you completely useless BS advice. Coming from someone who has dated girls who are 20 all the way up to 55+. Im going to tell you this. The core principles will always apply. Strong frame and game wins every time. Be completely centered in your reality. You are not in the same class as anyone else, if someone tried to describe you at “x/10” they would be failing miserably to try to put you into that box. You are 1 of 1. You are funnier, more empathetic, more e…
/r/seduction19/08/25 08:10 PM
3

You will go through phases, at first you will most likely rely on the booze, but after a few rough hangovers, you come to realize that it is more of a hinderance than anything, so you will struggle initially to become social without your training wheels, but, inevitably, it will click and you will be able to go out sober, and find the joy in connecting with others. Once you get there it only gets better.
/r/seduction21/11/24 03:10 AM
0

It gets way easier brother, im 27 and spent a decade learning how to meet women, you get exponentially better with each year that goes by, if you're practicing and improving, and I surpassed most of the guys who peaked in highschool by a mile.
/r/seduction21/11/24 03:05 AM
3

"Day 452 without a response from 'name' food is getting short, morale is at an all time low, not sure if we will make it to the summer." works every time.
/r/seduction21/11/24 03:04 AM
116

Having an optimized, repeatable first date, and getting better at running it smoothly.
/r/seduction21/11/24 03:03 AM
1

You get it bro!
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:18 PM
1

debt
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:17 PM
1

continuously went out to meet new people, even when rejection was common, kept going out.
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:17 PM
1

You're not mysterious and are too available, all your attention is on her therefore she doesn't see you as a challenge, more like a little friend to mess around with, not in a sexual way.
/r/seduction09/07/24 05:58 PM
8

Only thing that truly makes you creepy is not reading social cues
/r/seduction09/07/24 05:57 PM
2

awaken son, you got other opportunities out there, abundance is everywhere.
/r/seduction28/06/24 06:26 PM
1

You bafoon! How could you let that opportunity slip through your fingers!!! Bro, there is always another shot. Keep your head up king.
/r/seduction27/06/24 03:12 PM
0

If what you said here is true, and you're not a 10 like your friend, you're screwed. One of my very close friends is 6'5, jacked, blonde hair blue eyes. He can EASILY get girls, without even trying. Me, I'm 5'6. Average looking. I had to spend YEARS going out approaching literally THOUSANDS of women, it was not easy, AT FIRST. Now, I have no issues, no social anxiety, approach openly, and have an awesome girlfriend and many female friends. Stop complaining, START DOING.
/r/seduction05/06/24 06:21 PM
0

Bro you got an inch on me, and I'm broke, and I have had multiple girlfriends. Learn how to attract women.
/r/seduction05/06/24 06:14 PM
3

This is when you realize material pursuits, in all forms, are fruitless. They are fleeting, impermanent, and leave you always wanting more. The true success in this life is removing your attachments, freeing yourself from desire, and finding peace and solace in the eternal now. You will leave this plane one day. You will be confronted with your demons, and the darkest truths of your being. Confront them here and now, prepare yourself to take upon the sword and shield. There is a war of good and …
/r/seduction15/05/24 05:24 PM
0

I think OP is talking about mindset for taking action and approaching
/r/seduction23/04/24 04:42 PM
1

The best mindset is the idea that you have a 1 million dollar check with that persons name on it. The idea is simply that, there is NO downside to talking to you, you have NOTHING other than good energy, and you absolutely only GIVE and ADD to their night, there is NO taking energy at ALL.
/r/seduction23/04/24 04:41 PM
2

An attractive personality is a guy who understands what women TRULY think about. Dive into the dark side of the feminine. Research female fantasies, dive into the darkness of the female mind. When she can't manipulate you, she will be attracted. Whether the lack of her being able to manipulate comes from a deep joy, connection to source, and lack of care, or from a deep understanding of female psychology, and basically being inside of her head.
/r/seduction23/04/24 04:38 PM
2

Look into the Harvard happiness study. Don't fall for the societal scam of placing money as the most important thing in your life. Having a happy relationship quite literally is the most important thing in your life. I'm not here to convince you of anything just expressing the reality of what's truly important. Best of luck brother 🤠
/r/seduction20/03/24 09:01 PM
1

Bro you're giving up at 22 lol. A man truly striving to get better every day doesn't hit his prime until he's in his late 40s. Brother you're giving up before the game even started, you have no clue how much easier it gets as you age, as long as you don't give up that is. I didn't start going out seriously until I was about your age now. 5 years later I have an amazing relationship and more memories than I could have ever imagined when I was your age. Don't fucking quit and stop with the self pi…
/r/seduction20/03/24 08:55 PM
0

You just didn't want it bad enough be honest it's not a big deal
/r/seduction20/03/24 08:48 PM
1

You just don't want it bad enough, it's alright most guys aren't cut out for it.
/r/seduction20/03/24 08:45 PM
1

🙏🏻
/r/seduction20/03/24 08:44 PM
1

Helps reduce anxiety, re-frame past experiences, and going out taught me what actually works with women and start dating happily.
/r/seduction19/03/24 12:08 AM
1

START APPROCHING WOMEN AND LEARN WHAT WORKS THROUGH TRIAL AND ERROR ITS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE
/r/seduction18/03/24 11:56 PM
0

Look into microdosing psilocybin and start going out regularly, those two changed my life
/r/seduction18/03/24 11:54 PM
1

Until the pain of staying the same is stronger than the pain of changing, you won't. I'm lucky I had a super terrible experience that forced me to go out and figure it out. Use this as a sign that where you're heading isn't where you want to be. Make change and have someone to hold you accountable brother
/r/seduction18/03/24 11:38 PM
1

I'm 27 live with my mom and have a girlfriend we started dating 11 months ago. It's as much of an issue as you make it. I know that this is temporary, enabling me to pursue my goals in an affordable manner and be close to my family, all are pros. It's all about framing and belief
/r/seduction18/03/24 08:45 PM
14

Brother you are on the path. Don't look back, and don't think about outcomes, continue to get 1% better a day and in 3 -5 years you will be so fucking amazing
/r/seduction18/03/24 07:40 PM
28

START APPROCHING WOMEN AND LEARN WHAT WORKS THROUGH TRIAL AND ERROR ITS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE
/r/seduction18/03/24 07:16 PM
1

I just send you a dm let's chat more
/r/seduction15/03/24 07:24 AM
3

Yes brother and also going out with the intention of hooking up is only lame and creepy if that's what you believe you are. It's actually fun spontaneous and exiting. Whatever you believe will be your reality. I hope you get out there and crush your goals brother 🙏🏻
/r/seduction15/03/24 07:09 AM
3

When I was single and actively looking to hookup, often I was on a fucking mission. Get laid or die trying. You need to be willing to get rejected all the time, a lot. Boldly approach hundreds of people, and genuinely be connected to the reality of it happening. Most of you guys simply don't want it bad enough. You're okay with going home and rubbing one out and staying stuck in the loop. For me especially, being average looking and 5'6, I've probably approached 10000 women in the last decade an…
/r/seduction15/03/24 06:50 AM
1

Yes, understand it is a WIN , it is AWESOME and it is NECESSARY! Also get a coach or mentor !
/r/seduction22/02/24 11:37 PM
1

Get some sildenafil, keep it for emergencies.
/r/seduction22/02/24 06:19 PM
1

You're too attached to outcomes. Be free, and be like water. Whatever happens, you can deal with. Pour water into a vase, it becomes the vase. Into a cup, it becomes the cup. You have a friend show up, they are your friend too. Stop resisting what is.
/r/seduction22/02/24 06:18 PM
2

Set boundaries with your friends. Hard boundaries. Tolerate absolutely 0 AMOGing. If they are fucking up your sets continually, stop going out with them period.
/r/seduction22/02/24 06:16 PM
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