F*CK Your Excuses

LxftHand · 2026-01-26T19:16:23+00:00

OP said this abrasively, its absolutely correct. And if your natural inclination is to downvote or disagree, my suggestion would be to self-assess a bit more critically.

billoverbeck00 · 2026-01-26T18:27:07+00:00

This should be the pinned post. It’s simple ignore all these rules and course selling bullshit. Either you do it or you don’t that simple. Go for it or stand aside and enjoy your failure.

Dandys3107 · 2026-01-27T07:35:22+00:00

Excuses won’t get you anywhere. It’s obvious that you will face many issues due to natural human downsides, but you are also equipped with a mind that can potentially figure out a manageable solution. Ask yourself a question, would you like to be admired or to be pitied? If you can’t make things happen, change your path or change your method, simple as that.

WhusssuName4547 · 2026-01-28T04:26:18+00:00

Some of the realest shit on this sub

rl_lthless · 2026-02-01T15:38:11+00:00

Bro these words are art! Perfectly put so as not to be overwhelming and could feel like an attainable jump off point for anyone to try. And then you show out and bro down and throw some so don’t be “a fucking loser chode!” Lmao. Fucking beautiful. Like I said in my other comment I got dumped today by the girl that even I couldn’t believe I managed to get and in my mind even better she asked me out and it was because of what you mentioned about intentional energy and not being attached to expectations. Just noticed you are a coach by trade. I am about to look into any info you have available here for me to look at- as soon as I can stop reading these haha If you don’t have anything listed on here please DM me or something and let me know where I can find that. Would to chat further about your approach and methods. Cheers bruv.

Imscubbabish · 2026-01-27T00:25:00+00:00

I have an ex friend who at the moment is a 36 year old man who still has his V card. He spends his day masturbuating and playing video games. Crying he is lonely and horny. Yet I tried to introduce him to women and all he does is whine and complain. Always some dumb excuse to avoid girls, in fact I've watched him run away when he realizes I brought a girl to hang out with. Yet I'm the problem, even though he screams how he goes down on his guy friend then goes why I say that. You keep having excuses after excuses and you end up like this guy. Wallowing in self pity. Anyone who reads this. There is no perfect time, dont wait for tomorrow. Say f it and go for it

National_Echidna1834 · 2026-01-26T20:11:35+00:00

I’m trying to avoid sitting at home if I can help it. Went to the mall today and got in one approach with a cute red head (which I’m happy with for now, getting back into the swing of things) she said she had a bf but started to blush hard. I’m trying to adopt the mindset of most girls live a boring day to day life and approaching (even if they reject or give negative response) it still emotionally stimulating to them and can break up the monotony of their daily life. Also I recommend finding a friend who’s on the same journey of self-improvement to hit the mall with once a week and to push each other to approach. That’s my plan moving forward and it should be a lot of fun. It’s honestly really fun approaching at the mall compared to a loud and dark club with drunk people. And remember it’s a you vs you battle. The persons reaction or outcome doesn’t matter. It’s about going to war with that fearful version of yourself over and over again until there is almost no trace of it. Repetition is the mother of all skill.

PresidentofBaddies · 2026-01-27T03:04:05+00:00

Trying doesn't mean your going to win.

WebNew9978 · 2026-01-26T18:40:28+00:00

Are we also going to acknowledge that the things people say aren’t excuses are indeed legit reasons as to why they don’t approach woman?

Title	F*CK Your Excuses
Author	Awkward_Freedom_4551
Upvotes	91
Comments	26
Date	January 26, 2026 6:23 PM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1qno7fq/fck_your_excuses/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/fck-your-excuses.1572005 https://theredarchive.com/post/1572005

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