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To get through this all you have to do is NEVER DO ANYTHING WRONG AND FORGET YOUR FEELINGS....but seriously, we're all human bud. Don't feel bad for having a heart
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/26 01:58 AM
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All the way bro. I think a lot of people here are also fresh in the process, like me, so it's still raw
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/26 04:56 PM
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Nice, what's the flavor profile?
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/26 04:55 PM
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Me too bro. If you're a vet, you can get ozempic for feee
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/26 03:05 AM
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So you get to take the new girl out in the bmw nice dude
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/26 10:28 PM
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This subreddit has taught me a good amount about time and letting it heal things. Sorry you're going through it man, but it does get better, I promise
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/26 04:38 AM
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First off, love you big guy. You knew this would happen eventually. You're just dealing with the shock. Feel it out bro, let the pain wash over you and start your next chapter
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/26 03:55 AM
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Give it time man. That anger you feel will be gone and some woman is going to love you in ways you never imagined. Keep faith friend. Former infantryman as well. Stay strong.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 01:12 AM
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Well honestly, I assumed so when I called and they were in bed together.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 01:09 AM
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Good advice man. Thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 04:55 PM
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5 and I was a father to her 2 as well. So 7. We planned a big family
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 01:42 AM
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Man I really like this dude. My wife as I know her is indeed dead. It's time I started mourning.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 01:23 AM
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I agree. I guess it just felt like my heart broke all over again. It's okay though. The sun will rise tomorrow.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 01:07 AM
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I really didn't think she would do that. I was so embarrassed. Life goes on I guess. I learned the lesson.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 12:59 AM
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Care to share yours bro? Communal suffering is healthy
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 12:56 AM
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Man I really fell for it too. I feel like an idiot. She was literally laughing at me with her new guy...wtf
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 12:43 AM
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Getting a gym membership next week dude
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 12:40 AM
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Absolutely agree bro
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 12:40 AM
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Damn I did now I feel like I caved
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/26 07:07 PM
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It sucks but one thing I learned is that whether your ex finds the love of their life next or is single forever...no longer has anything to do with you. The hardest part is accepting the "maybe" but it's over. Gotta accept it
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/26 10:27 AM
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Wow, you hit the nail on the head dude. She's been dating and hooking up this whole time and I've been single as fuck dealing with the raw emotion. All I am is something to fill the empty space. I'm worth more than that
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 06:40 PM
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Man reading this was very depressing but eye opening, thank you
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 06:20 PM
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Really good advice bro thank you
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 01:44 AM
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Same dude. This sub has been a lifesaver, especially during those late night "my life is over" sessions lol
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 08:03 PM
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Good to know it does get better. I appreciate you man
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 03:17 AM
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I agree. I have a young nephew and watching him get joy of out life gives me joy by proxy. I remember you have to celebrate the small victories because that's all you get
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 03:06 AM
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It's fucked up but I'm at peace with myself. I just want the world to feel what it gave me. That feels so immature to say
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 03:03 AM
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Needed to hear this man. I've been through much of the same. I lived in an underpass for much of the last year. I'm trying to find the beauty that's left in the world man...I truly am. I guess I'm just hurt right now But you're right. I can't give in to it
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:39 AM
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I hear you brother. Maybe I'll find some books on the subject to not end up like those dudes. I really appreciate your input man.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:34 AM
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I'm trying all of it right now. I feel like I'm going to become the next Ted Bundy if I don't get it out
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:24 AM
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It's been a year and honestly it just gets worse and worse. The more I think about it the angrier I get
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:23 AM
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I would choose the dark side in a heartbeat
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:22 AM
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So after dealing with this recently 2 very important things. If a police report is filed and the found you knew and didn't report it. You will be charged as well. They will take your children and hold you liable as much as the abuser for doing nothing. Report it and get with a lawyer or lose your kids and wife. Seriously.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 05:54 PM
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Sometimes you need to detach and allow yourself to just enjoy life man. Don't overthink everything bro
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 06:48 PM
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Crazy how much that little guy rules our lives man
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/26 03:36 PM
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Good advice bro. You're right, I want a past that can never be. We're both different people now
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 12:37 PM
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I'll tell you what bro, I've chased women for almost all 40 years of my life. Whenever your measure of happiness depends on another person, you will always end up miserable. You have to want it for you and nobody else. Just my 2 cents my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 10:20 AM
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Fucking Roger
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 09:38 AM
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I honestly don't think you stop "wondering". I mean you married this woman for a reason. She's not gonna be easy to let go. I think we just find a way to "live with it".
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 04:14 AM
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Monk mode huh? What's that look like day to day?
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 04:12 AM
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Yeah, I'm tired of being embarrassed
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 04:06 AM
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Bro today I killed a stinkbug and I'm keeping the body next to bed to not feel so lonely at night. Trust me, I'm hoping what your saying comes true 🥲
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 04:04 AM
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You're right man. No man is an island.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 03:06 AM
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It was initially about the kids, then it turned into and hour and 1/2 of me expressing how much I love and miss her. In the end she told me "you add nothing positive to my life" and hung up.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 03:05 AM
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Just sit with the pain. As much as that sucks
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/26 08:33 PM
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First step is to breathe bro. You knew this would happen eventually, don't try to numb it, just feel and breathe my friend
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/26 11:40 PM
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Maybe in a year I'll slow down. Life is short, I'll smoke a doobe in your honor
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/26 02:33 PM
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You'll win the fight but lose the war bro. Leave it be
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/26 06:28 AM
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Good on you man
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/26 11:02 PM
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Facts. After my experience I would never recommend it
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/26 06:22 PM
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That's some odd comfort, that it's not just me. I always thought it was a myth that step parenting was a losers bet but here I am
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/26 06:22 PM
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I also weened of my antidepressants with weed. I then bought some high quality headphones so I could do my weekly nervous system reset with white noise or music
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/26 01:59 PM
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Damn dude that's a lot. Remember to drink water I guess
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/26 12:45 PM
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This is the only thing I found helps
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/26 03:37 AM
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What do you game on?
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/26 08:50 PM
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You're probably right
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 12:03 AM
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Hahaha
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 06:38 AM
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I've been heavily considering moving to Cali from the east coast. Seems like more fun
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/26 02:32 AM
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This is very true, I look forward to peace as well
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/26 01:59 AM
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Nice, which city if you don't mind my asking?
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/26 01:58 AM
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The hardest part is the first one, which is leaving
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/26 07:11 AM
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What are housing costs like?
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 01:47 PM
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Why?
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 01:46 PM
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Facts
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 01:28 PM
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That's what I've been doing, just cold turkey, no hooks up, just feeling the pain.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 05:33 PM
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Any prospects on your end my boy?
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 01:34 PM
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Fuck bro, 4 years is a long time.....no a good outlook for me huh
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 11:52 AM
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"No good marriage ends in divorce" much needed quote
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/26 03:12 PM
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